1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:02,300 Hey, there are B. I know I normally don't talk 2 00:00:02,300 --> 00:00:05,900 about this but I don't want to hinder your listening experience 3 00:00:05,900 --> 00:00:08,500 such as want to let you know that we were experiencing some 4 00:00:08,500 --> 00:00:12,700 audio issues so don't let that interfere with Towers amazing, 5 00:00:12,800 --> 00:00:16,400 amazing interview with me, I'm talking about DMT sexuality, 6 00:00:16,400 --> 00:00:20,100 redefining your sexuality and so much more enjoy the eargasm 7 00:00:20,600 --> 00:00:24,000 warning, the following program is not for the weak-hearted 8 00:00:24,600 --> 00:00:28,100 those who are close minded when General, you're scared to learn. 9 00:00:28,100 --> 00:00:31,100 What's behind closed doors here. Sapphires are play. 10 00:00:31,100 --> 00:00:34,100 I want you to pour the wine. Grab somebody that you want to 11 00:00:34,100 --> 00:00:37,900 hold onto or better yet. Get the vibration stimulated 12 00:00:37,900 --> 00:00:40,100 through your body. Get ready for one, hell of an 13 00:00:40,100 --> 00:00:46,000 eargasm in five, four, three, two, one. 14 00:00:46,700 --> 00:00:48,400 What is up? I'll use sexy motherfuckers out 15 00:00:48,400 --> 00:00:50,900 there in radioland. It should girls Sapphire with 16 00:00:50,900 --> 00:00:55,100 another your place special, and I am so thrilled to have my 17 00:00:55,100 --> 00:00:59,700 guest of honor today. Her name is Tara Galliano. 18 00:01:00,000 --> 00:01:02,300 And I am so excited because we're talking about something 19 00:01:02,300 --> 00:01:04,900 different here on ear. Play psychedelics, if you will 20 00:01:04,900 --> 00:01:09,700 DMT in orgasms and what do these two have in common? 21 00:01:09,800 --> 00:01:12,500 What is the two? Mutual beautiful relationship 22 00:01:12,500 --> 00:01:15,900 between them so Tara, I am so excited to have you. 23 00:01:15,900 --> 00:01:20,100 You're a license sex therapist. We've worked with women couples 24 00:01:20,100 --> 00:01:24,900 for over two decades, which is crazy to me because I feel like 25 00:01:25,000 --> 00:01:29,800 in the past decade alone, sexuality and just the fluidity 26 00:01:29,900 --> 00:01:33,300 Me and the studies have just been more prominent than ever, 27 00:01:33,300 --> 00:01:36,200 and maybe you can agree or disagree with me on this. 28 00:01:36,400 --> 00:01:40,200 She is also the author of rediscovering my body, which 29 00:01:40,300 --> 00:01:43,600 teaches us to show up for our pleasure something that I truly 30 00:01:43,600 --> 00:01:47,100 believe in as far as, like, sexual healing and getting to 31 00:01:47,100 --> 00:01:50,900 know yourself, through the power of orgasms and just sexuality in 32 00:01:50,900 --> 00:01:53,900 general, if we cannot know ourselves, how can we give 33 00:01:53,900 --> 00:01:56,400 ourselves to others in our partners? 34 00:01:56,600 --> 00:01:58,300 So without further Ado, it's hard. 35 00:01:58,300 --> 00:01:59,800 Thank you so much for joining me on the show. 36 00:02:00,000 --> 00:02:02,000 Today. Yes, thank you so much Sapphire. 37 00:02:02,000 --> 00:02:04,000 It's a pleasure to be here. Yes. 38 00:02:04,000 --> 00:02:06,800 Oh my goodness, so much. So much to discuss. 39 00:02:07,100 --> 00:02:12,100 First of all, rediscovering my body, this book, this journal, 40 00:02:12,100 --> 00:02:16,200 if you will, I love how it is like a self-guidance if you 41 00:02:16,200 --> 00:02:18,500 will. And I'm going to add it into my 42 00:02:18,500 --> 00:02:22,900 own practice because lately, I've been very very open about 43 00:02:22,900 --> 00:02:25,600 mental health and wellness especially during the times of 44 00:02:25,600 --> 00:02:29,500 covid and what brought me back to therapy itself, but I have 45 00:02:29,500 --> 00:02:33,300 been been really taking lessons for my own body and intuitions 46 00:02:33,300 --> 00:02:37,300 and rediscovering, my own body sexually and trying to get more 47 00:02:37,300 --> 00:02:41,100 comfortable in my skin. And I love how your Journal. 48 00:02:41,200 --> 00:02:44,200 This book has really helped women. 49 00:02:44,500 --> 00:02:47,600 It seems like to kind of get in touch with that the questions 50 00:02:47,600 --> 00:02:50,400 that you ask and just I love how it is. 51 00:02:50,400 --> 00:02:54,000 Very in tune, it's something that everybody needs to put to 52 00:02:54,000 --> 00:02:57,100 their practices. What made you, you know, write 53 00:02:57,100 --> 00:02:59,100 this like wit just said, you know, what? 54 00:02:59,300 --> 00:03:02,000 It's time now. Give out some self-help, some 55 00:03:02,000 --> 00:03:04,500 stuff tips on how to reel of yourself. 56 00:03:04,600 --> 00:03:06,600 And again, rediscovering your body. 57 00:03:07,800 --> 00:03:10,800 Yeah, they and thank you. I really appreciate you diving 58 00:03:10,800 --> 00:03:14,100 into that book. And the reason why I wrote that 59 00:03:14,100 --> 00:03:18,800 book is because I was working with women who had cancer and 60 00:03:18,800 --> 00:03:21,600 these women. These amazing courageous 61 00:03:21,600 --> 00:03:25,400 Amazonian women really were coming to terms with their own 62 00:03:25,400 --> 00:03:29,500 mortality and they were struggling with this diagnosis 63 00:03:29,500 --> 00:03:34,900 of cancer and feeling seen and objectified by the medical 64 00:03:34,900 --> 00:03:38,400 community that they were just Experiments. 65 00:03:38,400 --> 00:03:42,300 They weren't feeling like they were in touch with their sexual 66 00:03:42,300 --> 00:03:46,800 selves and so what I did was I began to teach this course 67 00:03:46,800 --> 00:03:51,000 called ReDiscover my body where women could really tap into a 68 00:03:51,000 --> 00:03:55,100 sense of themselves, their body image their intimacy, their 69 00:03:55,100 --> 00:03:59,300 pleasure. And then I decided to write this 70 00:03:59,300 --> 00:04:02,800 book for all women, because every woman that I talked to you 71 00:04:02,800 --> 00:04:05,300 about this class or like, hey, I want some of that. 72 00:04:05,400 --> 00:04:07,400 I want to know more about that. I want to do that. 73 00:04:07,600 --> 00:04:12,100 You and so then it just made sense to create this invitation 74 00:04:12,300 --> 00:04:16,899 and really work on this book to make sure that it was available 75 00:04:16,899 --> 00:04:18,800 to all women. I love that. 76 00:04:18,899 --> 00:04:21,600 And if it's good that you make this point about, you know, 77 00:04:21,600 --> 00:04:26,800 women rediscovery because I feel that as women, you know, whether 78 00:04:26,800 --> 00:04:30,800 we are assigned at Birth as a woman, or we are rediscovering 79 00:04:30,800 --> 00:04:34,400 ourselves later on and saying, my true identity is a woman. 80 00:04:34,700 --> 00:04:39,700 We are so taught that our These are not our own, you know? 81 00:04:40,000 --> 00:04:43,800 And so I love that you are giving women this power to be 82 00:04:43,800 --> 00:04:48,200 like no this is my body. This is a journal for me to kind 83 00:04:48,200 --> 00:04:50,500 of come back reflect on the sex of them. 84 00:04:50,500 --> 00:04:53,300 Having that was one of the chapters that you had, you know, 85 00:04:53,300 --> 00:04:58,400 talking about how do you feel sexually today and what me, you 86 00:04:58,400 --> 00:05:02,100 change later on in telling us if he could deep breath, getting in 87 00:05:02,100 --> 00:05:06,300 touch with ourselves, I think that is just something genuinely 88 00:05:06,800 --> 00:05:11,400 that were Missing in our own sexuality, in our own practices. 89 00:05:11,400 --> 00:05:16,300 So thank you for just giving that space to women to 90 00:05:16,300 --> 00:05:19,200 ReDiscover, its being all rediscovering. 91 00:05:20,300 --> 00:05:24,700 I feel like lately in the past, probably five, almost 10 years. 92 00:05:24,700 --> 00:05:29,000 Now people are now rediscovering their sexual be late beings and 93 00:05:29,000 --> 00:05:34,000 health through holistic health with the help of psychedelics. 94 00:05:34,300 --> 00:05:38,000 Now here's something interesting about myself until recently. 95 00:05:38,000 --> 00:05:40,600 I never really took psychedelics. 96 00:05:40,600 --> 00:05:45,600 You know, I've had my wild whole face and experimented with 97 00:05:45,600 --> 00:05:50,800 cocaine in college and insects with that, and And it's a mess. 98 00:05:50,800 --> 00:05:54,500 I do not course Advocate, you know, sex and cocaine. 99 00:05:54,500 --> 00:05:59,600 And I also never really consent and condone sex when you're 100 00:05:59,600 --> 00:06:03,800 inebriated like. Yes, I like to be high and smoke 101 00:06:03,800 --> 00:06:08,100 a little weed or, you know intake, marijuana products 102 00:06:08,100 --> 00:06:10,300 during sex, but anything harder than that. 103 00:06:10,300 --> 00:06:13,400 I kind of feel like there's a level it consent. 104 00:06:13,400 --> 00:06:17,700 That's just never really met but now I feel like with the new 105 00:06:17,700 --> 00:06:22,000 studies and psychedelics, In particular DMT, I've been 106 00:06:22,000 --> 00:06:24,800 hearing this conversation a lot so when you reached out to me 107 00:06:24,800 --> 00:06:27,300 with your team saying that you wanted to talk about the 108 00:06:27,300 --> 00:06:32,500 connections with DMT and orgasms on like holy shit this is never 109 00:06:32,500 --> 00:06:35,400 been talked about on air play, Let's get into it. 110 00:06:35,600 --> 00:06:42,100 So going into DMT what exactly for the average listener 111 00:06:42,100 --> 00:06:44,900 listening? Right now what exactly is DMT 112 00:06:45,100 --> 00:06:48,200 and what is the connection with orgasms? 113 00:06:50,200 --> 00:06:52,900 Yeah. So DMT is the substance that is 114 00:06:52,900 --> 00:06:55,700 actually released within our own brain. 115 00:06:55,900 --> 00:06:59,800 And so there is endogenous DMT which means that the body makes 116 00:06:59,800 --> 00:07:04,400 it and that DMT, I would say, cultivates experience of 117 00:07:04,400 --> 00:07:08,200 euphoria and that there's this Oneness. 118 00:07:08,800 --> 00:07:14,100 And with that experience, often times, there's a sense of God, 119 00:07:14,100 --> 00:07:17,400 or I would say a spiritual connection and so, then 120 00:07:17,400 --> 00:07:23,000 combining that with Ooh, ality is a really potent experience. 121 00:07:23,300 --> 00:07:29,800 However my yeah, my way that I'm learning this that I'm teaching 122 00:07:29,800 --> 00:07:33,100 this and I just want to give a shout out to my teacher 123 00:07:33,400 --> 00:07:38,000 specifically Jenny Martin who is bringing this to the Forefront 124 00:07:38,000 --> 00:07:42,100 because she is a researcher and a scientist and that that's 125 00:07:42,100 --> 00:07:43,700 really an important access point. 126 00:07:43,700 --> 00:07:46,900 For a lot of people is that there's scientific studies 127 00:07:47,000 --> 00:07:51,600 validating this practice This experience and also that there's 128 00:07:51,600 --> 00:07:56,000 been research in terms of what DMT does to the body, how we 129 00:07:56,000 --> 00:07:58,800 experience it and that it is endogenous. 130 00:07:58,800 --> 00:08:01,400 And because it's in Dodges, it means that we can access it 131 00:08:01,400 --> 00:08:06,500 pretty much at any time at any place as long as we are willing 132 00:08:06,500 --> 00:08:08,300 to. So there really needs to be some 133 00:08:08,600 --> 00:08:13,600 some permission within ourselves and there is an opportunity to 134 00:08:13,600 --> 00:08:18,900 have this psychedelic orgasm without the use of substances. 135 00:08:19,500 --> 00:08:22,600 Eternally without taking a pill without smoking without 136 00:08:22,600 --> 00:08:26,300 ingesting DMT. At all, because it is already 137 00:08:26,300 --> 00:08:31,800 within our body that is amazing. So what is it about the body 138 00:08:31,800 --> 00:08:35,200 that kind of releases this like, is there a certain position? 139 00:08:35,200 --> 00:08:39,100 Because I feel that you know, when we're talking about orgasms 140 00:08:39,100 --> 00:08:45,200 in particular and talking about sexual pleasure, I feel that The 141 00:08:45,200 --> 00:08:48,300 things that are being released. We always hear like it has to be 142 00:08:48,300 --> 00:08:51,400 an uncertain position, you got to be relaxed, you got to let 143 00:08:51,400 --> 00:08:53,500 things go. Just like when they're talking 144 00:08:53,500 --> 00:08:56,700 about sporting for instance, like you gotta lay on your back, 145 00:08:56,700 --> 00:08:58,800 you gotta relax the muscles, let me fight. 146 00:08:58,900 --> 00:09:03,100 No, no, that just makes me more scared so you don't want to 147 00:09:03,100 --> 00:09:05,200 release and have that type of orgasm. 148 00:09:05,500 --> 00:09:08,800 So what is it about? The DMT side that is being 149 00:09:08,800 --> 00:09:11,600 written, you know, released into the body because when I'm, when 150 00:09:11,600 --> 00:09:15,300 I was doing my research about it this week, you know, I was 151 00:09:15,300 --> 00:09:19,000 finding out about you know, the true evidence or the pure Bliss 152 00:09:19,200 --> 00:09:23,300 that comes with this release of DMT and talking about how you 153 00:09:23,300 --> 00:09:27,100 know, of course our cervix being the spongy patch that it is 154 00:09:27,700 --> 00:09:31,100 being 3 to 6 inches away. From the vagina is where the 155 00:09:31,100 --> 00:09:35,400 power of DMT is really released. But what does that say? 156 00:09:35,400 --> 00:09:40,400 For women who may experience cervical pain, when they are 157 00:09:40,400 --> 00:09:44,400 orgasming with cervical orgasms because until recently I didn't 158 00:09:44,400 --> 00:09:48,400 even Know that there was a real difference between a vaginal 159 00:09:48,700 --> 00:09:56,200 orgasm versus a cervical orgasm and I'd say that's probably true 160 00:09:56,200 --> 00:10:02,100 for a lot of us as women is that as we become more Curious and 161 00:10:02,100 --> 00:10:04,500 give ourselves more permission to explore. 162 00:10:05,400 --> 00:10:07,200 I mean, and just coming back to my book. 163 00:10:07,200 --> 00:10:11,800 That's why I wrote the book because I like, I'm I'm 164 00:10:11,800 --> 00:10:14,700 researcher. I'm curious, and I'm a man. 165 00:10:14,800 --> 00:10:18,300 Tentative and I want to know more but I don't want to dictate 166 00:10:18,300 --> 00:10:24,000 to others what is true for them and this opportunity to explore 167 00:10:24,000 --> 00:10:27,300 cervical vaginal orgasms. Yes. 168 00:10:27,400 --> 00:10:31,100 And do I know that to be true? Yes so I can speak about my 169 00:10:31,100 --> 00:10:34,900 experience and point to what it is that I've seen what it is to 170 00:10:34,900 --> 00:10:37,000 have it. What did I what I have 171 00:10:37,000 --> 00:10:42,200 experienced and what I've taught other women but I don't I feel 172 00:10:42,200 --> 00:10:44,500 like it's really important not to dictate like this is the 173 00:10:44,500 --> 00:10:45,000 path. Path. 174 00:10:45,000 --> 00:10:48,900 And this is the way it is because that is the way that sex 175 00:10:48,900 --> 00:10:53,200 has been portrayed for so many thousands of years for so many 176 00:10:53,200 --> 00:10:55,500 of us is that this linear progression, that it's 177 00:10:55,500 --> 00:10:58,900 penile-vaginal intercourse and we just know that that's not 178 00:10:58,900 --> 00:11:01,800 true anymore. Is that there's so many more 179 00:11:01,800 --> 00:11:06,100 vast ways to connect as a human being with another human being, 180 00:11:06,100 --> 00:11:11,100 if you choose but also as ourselves that particularly for 181 00:11:11,100 --> 00:11:16,700 those of us who identify as women that We have this amazing 182 00:11:17,100 --> 00:11:22,600 power within ourselves that actually creates life and it's 183 00:11:22,600 --> 00:11:27,200 not just that we get to create life but we get to create so 184 00:11:27,200 --> 00:11:31,200 much because we're that powerful and that the opportunity to 185 00:11:31,200 --> 00:11:34,900 experience pleasure. It I mean its inherent in the 186 00:11:34,908 --> 00:11:39,200 experience of having a clitoris that means so many people have 187 00:11:39,200 --> 00:11:42,500 said now that there's 8,000 nerve endings and the only 188 00:11:42,500 --> 00:11:46,800 purpose is for pleasure. As I just want to highlight 189 00:11:46,800 --> 00:11:48,900 that. Pleasure is so important to our 190 00:11:48,900 --> 00:11:53,400 well-being and that we often times, see it as Superfluous or 191 00:11:53,400 --> 00:11:56,300 a luxury, and it actually is essential. 192 00:11:56,400 --> 00:12:00,000 And so they've done research with women, who've had cancer 193 00:12:00,300 --> 00:12:04,300 actually, tapping into their life force energy by having 194 00:12:04,300 --> 00:12:08,100 orgasms more regularly and seeing the healing potential 195 00:12:08,100 --> 00:12:11,800 that is inherent within that. And I just think that, that's 196 00:12:11,800 --> 00:12:15,800 really powerful for all of us to know and that 2003 there was a 197 00:12:15,800 --> 00:12:19,400 study done for people who are wanting to lose weight and they 198 00:12:19,400 --> 00:12:22,700 took out a part of their brain so they could lose weight. 199 00:12:22,800 --> 00:12:25,900 But what actually happened as well was it people lost their 200 00:12:25,900 --> 00:12:31,500 sense of pleasure. Wow and with that 20% of those 201 00:12:31,500 --> 00:12:37,100 participants unfortunately became suicidal Because again it 202 00:12:37,100 --> 00:12:39,900 releases that oxytocin. So when you don't have that 203 00:12:39,900 --> 00:12:43,400 oxytocin, oh my goodness. Wow! 204 00:12:44,000 --> 00:12:48,500 Wow. And that we are meant to have 205 00:12:48,500 --> 00:12:52,900 experiences of pleasure on a regular ongoing basis that there 206 00:12:52,900 --> 00:12:56,600 is a innocence and a naturalness to that. 207 00:12:56,900 --> 00:12:59,700 And so when we get into the inner kind of the fine-tuned 208 00:12:59,700 --> 00:13:03,900 cervical or reject orgasm vaginal orgasm, it's like yes 209 00:13:03,900 --> 00:13:07,700 and what the opportunity is. Experience, each of, those are 210 00:13:07,700 --> 00:13:12,300 all of those and release the shame that has been so 211 00:13:12,300 --> 00:13:16,700 oppressive to so many of us on so many levels. 212 00:13:17,100 --> 00:13:22,200 I mean just race class, sex, religion. 213 00:13:22,400 --> 00:13:27,700 I mean, so many ways we have been oppressed and that it lies 214 00:13:27,700 --> 00:13:31,600 within our physiology. There are physical overlays of 215 00:13:31,600 --> 00:13:34,900 Shame within our body that actually need to be released. 216 00:13:35,400 --> 00:13:39,600 Now, Now, on the subject of of race and sexuality, I do feel 217 00:13:39,600 --> 00:13:47,300 that in my experience that more black and Latin X, identifying 218 00:13:47,300 --> 00:13:52,900 women are the ones that are more open to talk about and go into 219 00:13:53,200 --> 00:13:55,600 the rituals of like holistic health when it comes to 220 00:13:55,600 --> 00:13:58,700 sexuality and it seems like my white you know. 221 00:13:58,700 --> 00:14:00,800 Counterparts. No offense. 222 00:14:00,800 --> 00:14:04,000 It's like the it's becoming now a later thing. 223 00:14:04,000 --> 00:14:07,200 Like now they're, they're starting to Car lessons but it's 224 00:14:07,200 --> 00:14:12,600 like we've been saying this for centuries for centuries for 225 00:14:12,600 --> 00:14:16,100 decades and talking about holistic health him in getting 226 00:14:16,100 --> 00:14:20,600 in tune with your chakras and getting in tune with your body. 227 00:14:20,600 --> 00:14:25,600 So again that connection that's being made as far as like the 228 00:14:25,600 --> 00:14:29,700 dialogue of sex and sexuality and owning your sexuality. 229 00:14:29,900 --> 00:14:32,600 How do you talk about that with your practices with other 230 00:14:32,600 --> 00:14:37,400 clients that may feel that same shame or Or, you know, have that 231 00:14:37,400 --> 00:14:40,900 disadvantage that they weren't taught until they came to you. 232 00:14:43,400 --> 00:14:45,700 I mean I think that it's important that it's validated. 233 00:14:45,700 --> 00:14:50,700 I that is a real experience. And that often times what I find 234 00:14:50,700 --> 00:14:54,900 is that women, who are identifying as women of color 235 00:14:55,200 --> 00:14:58,900 are more embodied, there's a sense of being in their body, in 236 00:14:58,900 --> 00:15:02,600 a different way, than I would say, my white sisters. 237 00:15:02,800 --> 00:15:06,700 And I think part of that is because goodness, this, we live 238 00:15:06,700 --> 00:15:10,400 in a Cartesian Society. I think therefore I am and that 239 00:15:10,400 --> 00:15:13,600 there's this validation, that happens that we From the 240 00:15:13,600 --> 00:15:18,000 shoulders up and so if we can think it then it must be and 241 00:15:18,000 --> 00:15:21,500 that is very powerful and not to dismiss that because we all live 242 00:15:21,500 --> 00:15:25,200 in so many different thought-forms, belief systems 243 00:15:25,500 --> 00:15:30,700 and and Concepts and also being in the body. 244 00:15:30,800 --> 00:15:33,800 And the ways that we perceive through the body, is 245 00:15:34,100 --> 00:15:40,300 fundamentally powerful and inherent for us, particularly as 246 00:15:40,400 --> 00:15:42,900 women. And I think that whether we're 247 00:15:43,100 --> 00:15:47,400 Conscious of of it are or not. If we have a lineage that we can 248 00:15:47,400 --> 00:15:53,100 identify and we feel to be true that we are connected to our 249 00:15:53,100 --> 00:15:57,100 ancestors healed and whole that they are actually supporting us. 250 00:15:57,700 --> 00:16:01,600 I'm adopted, I was raised by a family who identifies as white. 251 00:16:01,800 --> 00:16:08,000 I'm not of my people per se but I feel my Colombian ancestry. 252 00:16:08,200 --> 00:16:11,500 Every moment I feel the lineage of my Cooter and that is and 253 00:16:11,500 --> 00:16:16,200 it's not just an imagination. But I feel them that they have 254 00:16:16,300 --> 00:16:21,500 strategically supported me so I can show up here in this land at 255 00:16:21,500 --> 00:16:25,900 this time in a woman's body to talk about sacred sexuality 256 00:16:26,000 --> 00:16:29,900 because that is the truth of their experience and that is a 257 00:16:29,900 --> 00:16:31,400 wisdom that they've shared with me. 258 00:16:31,800 --> 00:16:36,100 And I know I know. And was I raised sex-positive? 259 00:16:36,400 --> 00:16:40,900 No. Wow, yeah, so what at one point 260 00:16:40,900 --> 00:16:43,000 and again, we're I love that we're having this conversation. 261 00:16:43,100 --> 00:16:46,700 Relation and it is bringing it all back to the subject matter 262 00:16:46,700 --> 00:16:51,200 of psychedelics and all that. Because again, we have to tap in 263 00:16:51,300 --> 00:16:55,100 to the beginning, in order to get to where we're at, in our 264 00:16:55,100 --> 00:16:59,300 sexual experience, we do have to tap into our lineage, we have to 265 00:16:59,300 --> 00:17:03,100 tap into the beginnings. So at what point for you did you 266 00:17:03,100 --> 00:17:05,099 say? Okay this is an Awakening moment 267 00:17:05,099 --> 00:17:10,000 that everything that I've been taught I have to unlearn at what 268 00:17:10,000 --> 00:17:11,099 point. Did you say? 269 00:17:12,000 --> 00:17:13,500 I want to explore this. More. 270 00:17:13,500 --> 00:17:17,900 I'm taking my body back and I'm taking my control back and I 271 00:17:17,900 --> 00:17:23,400 want to freely express myself sexually to educate the masses 272 00:17:23,400 --> 00:17:27,900 of what was your Turning Point. I mean, I know, I wish I could 273 00:17:27,900 --> 00:17:32,200 say that it was one moment in time, but like that, everybody 274 00:17:32,200 --> 00:17:35,700 else is kind of not, it's just yes. 275 00:17:35,700 --> 00:17:39,900 Okay, there's a layer of this layers up and I was raised 276 00:17:39,900 --> 00:17:43,700 Catholic and for me, the Catholic religion offered this 277 00:17:43,800 --> 00:17:49,600 immense vast power, which was very intoxicating and also, the 278 00:17:49,600 --> 00:17:53,000 depth of ritual that mesmerised me. 279 00:17:53,100 --> 00:17:55,700 And I have a deep love for Jesus. 280 00:17:55,800 --> 00:17:59,500 And mother Mary and I know that their wisdom may not have been 281 00:17:59,500 --> 00:18:03,000 the truth of what the Catholic Church presents. 282 00:18:03,000 --> 00:18:05,600 Hmm. And and it's um something was 283 00:18:05,600 --> 00:18:09,700 usurped their and yet I have followed it, loved it, until I 284 00:18:09,700 --> 00:18:12,800 was 13 and challenged, a priest of like what is going on here. 285 00:18:12,800 --> 00:18:17,600 We're not talking about sex not same-sex couples like what 286 00:18:17,600 --> 00:18:20,700 happens when a person gets pregnant and, and then they 287 00:18:20,700 --> 00:18:22,000 still want to be a part of the church. 288 00:18:22,000 --> 00:18:24,200 So there were a lot of conversations that my priests 289 00:18:24,200 --> 00:18:28,000 weren't Happy with. And so then I went elsewhere to 290 00:18:28,000 --> 00:18:30,900 seek on my journey and that's the pieces that I've just been 291 00:18:30,900 --> 00:18:34,900 seeking again and again and I've been married one time the first 292 00:18:34,900 --> 00:18:39,400 time for 25 years and my former husband would say that he was a 293 00:18:39,408 --> 00:18:41,600 sex addict and I'm six therapist. 294 00:18:41,800 --> 00:18:46,200 And so recognizing the suppression and the layers of 295 00:18:46,200 --> 00:18:50,700 ignorance that I chose to live in because I didn't know the 296 00:18:50,700 --> 00:18:52,800 truth. And so there was a lot of 297 00:18:52,800 --> 00:18:58,300 accepting of norms and ways of being in the world where 298 00:18:58,300 --> 00:19:02,400 actually didn't support me in terms of heterosexual marriage. 299 00:19:02,400 --> 00:19:06,500 In terms of male-female relations in terms of being a 300 00:19:06,500 --> 00:19:10,100 woman of color and being married to a white man we just on and on 301 00:19:10,100 --> 00:19:13,500 and on and on the layers. And that was really my true 302 00:19:13,500 --> 00:19:18,500 education and then once that marriage was dissolved, that 303 00:19:18,500 --> 00:19:23,000 everything that came to light instantaneously but the pathway 304 00:19:23,000 --> 00:19:27,200 began to open for me and with that open - I released myself 305 00:19:27,200 --> 00:19:31,000 from whatever Val, wow, that I imagine that I needed to be 306 00:19:31,000 --> 00:19:34,400 under which was kind of a spell that I did not need to accept 307 00:19:34,400 --> 00:19:39,100 that anymore because I have sovereignty of my own being. 308 00:19:39,300 --> 00:19:42,200 And in order to be fully responsible for everything that 309 00:19:42,200 --> 00:19:45,500 I create, I need to be responsible for everything I 310 00:19:45,500 --> 00:19:50,600 have created. It's just I'm in awe. 311 00:19:50,700 --> 00:19:54,900 I'm in awe because everything you just said kind of relates to 312 00:19:54,900 --> 00:19:59,400 me in a sense I too was raised Catholic and you know, I've 313 00:19:59,400 --> 00:20:03,300 definitely discussed my own Catholic guilt growing up in 314 00:20:03,400 --> 00:20:06,400 questioning my faith and my belief. 315 00:20:06,400 --> 00:20:10,600 Like now I feel like I take a little bit of spirituality from 316 00:20:10,600 --> 00:20:14,000 each and every religion that I've ever listened and read up 317 00:20:14,000 --> 00:20:17,600 on to and I definitely feel like it has brought me closer and 318 00:20:17,700 --> 00:20:22,100 into a spiritual sense into my own sexuality because the body 319 00:20:22,100 --> 00:20:23,900 is a church, the body is a temple. 320 00:20:24,200 --> 00:20:27,100 So when you're into with all those things that you learned 321 00:20:27,100 --> 00:20:31,100 from Catholicism Buddhism Judaism, it's amazing. 322 00:20:31,100 --> 00:20:34,900 What it can do to your sex life and making it a more. 323 00:20:35,800 --> 00:20:40,500 I don't want to say sacrificial but it is definitely a ritual 324 00:20:40,700 --> 00:20:43,300 sex. Is a ritual moment, it releases 325 00:20:43,300 --> 00:20:46,300 so much with depending upon, you know, how many people are 326 00:20:46,300 --> 00:20:49,800 involved? It's a very, very spiritual 327 00:20:49,800 --> 00:20:53,800 journey and I think you don't even bring it back to the use of 328 00:20:53,800 --> 00:20:57,300 psychedelics in the bedroom. Like I did a poll earlier this 329 00:20:57,300 --> 00:21:01,900 week asking, people have they taken psychedelics, you know, in 330 00:21:01,900 --> 00:21:05,400 the bedroom and it was a draw fifty percent. 331 00:21:05,600 --> 00:21:08,700 You know, it was a 50% drop between people saying, no, I 332 00:21:08,700 --> 00:21:12,200 don't use anything in the bedroom versus those who are 333 00:21:12,200 --> 00:21:15,400 have gone down the rabbit hole. And so, when I was asking people 334 00:21:15,400 --> 00:21:20,900 they said you know, it was more of a Spiritual listing being 335 00:21:21,500 --> 00:21:26,800 closer to their partner, they felt closer using, you know, DMT 336 00:21:26,800 --> 00:21:31,700 shrooming, if you will, and then adding on to their pleasure in 337 00:21:31,700 --> 00:21:34,600 orgasms now, maybe you can debunk. 338 00:21:34,600 --> 00:21:40,500 This, would you say that because the body releases DMT and then 339 00:21:40,500 --> 00:21:45,600 you put synthetic DMT, if you will into your body, does that 340 00:21:45,600 --> 00:21:52,000 necessarily heightened? In or does it kind of, you know, 341 00:21:52,000 --> 00:21:56,600 sir, press in orgasm, or does it just depend upon the body 342 00:21:56,600 --> 00:22:01,500 itself? I would say that I don't have 343 00:22:01,500 --> 00:22:07,900 enough research or experience to say anything other than it 344 00:22:07,900 --> 00:22:11,300 depends on the body itself. What I do know about 345 00:22:11,300 --> 00:22:18,600 psychedelics is that they point the way for what is a truth or 346 00:22:18,600 --> 00:22:22,300 reality is that we absolutely can experience those high levels 347 00:22:22,300 --> 00:22:24,500 of Oneness with God within our being. 348 00:22:24,500 --> 00:22:28,900 And I think DMT is an excellent example, that when we part Take 349 00:22:28,900 --> 00:22:32,800 in these sacraments if you will, that there is an opportunity to 350 00:22:32,800 --> 00:22:36,100 expand beyond our Consciousness or limited everyday mundane 351 00:22:36,100 --> 00:22:41,400 experience. And also what I would say we 352 00:22:41,400 --> 00:22:45,300 have the opportunity to experience that without those as 353 00:22:45,300 --> 00:22:49,000 well. I mean just you know the that 354 00:22:49,000 --> 00:22:54,500 practitioners of Tantra the Buddhist monks that can 355 00:22:54,500 --> 00:22:56,600 levitate. I mean, it just really there are 356 00:22:56,600 --> 00:22:58,500 Transcendent practitioners of all. 357 00:22:58,700 --> 00:23:04,400 All denominations that have experienced this Rapture and 358 00:23:04,400 --> 00:23:10,300 Oneness of Spirit. And the also can happen through 359 00:23:10,300 --> 00:23:14,000 the sexual act with one cell or with another. 360 00:23:14,400 --> 00:23:16,800 And that it is a powerful experience. 361 00:23:17,000 --> 00:23:22,200 And that it is not predicated on, taking are ingesting it 362 00:23:23,100 --> 00:23:27,200 psychedelic, but it is a Way Forward because so many of us 363 00:23:27,200 --> 00:23:34,200 are so Constricted and and again so much in our head that there 364 00:23:34,200 --> 00:23:39,400 is an opportunity there that probably is more needed now than 365 00:23:39,400 --> 00:23:43,400 ever before. Wow, now when people talk about 366 00:23:43,500 --> 00:23:48,500 their experience with a cervical orgasm with the release of DMT, 367 00:23:49,300 --> 00:23:52,900 some women have said that it's been a full body experience of 368 00:23:52,900 --> 00:23:56,000 elation and Bliss. Others have said it is just 369 00:23:56,000 --> 00:24:01,000 deeply relaxing its Ting pulsating that they become one 370 00:24:01,000 --> 00:24:03,500 with their partner. If not themselves. 371 00:24:04,500 --> 00:24:08,500 Spiritually, spiritually, profound again, all these 372 00:24:08,500 --> 00:24:10,600 things. It does sound like it's this 373 00:24:10,900 --> 00:24:15,700 magical drug and then I was also reading that the release of DMT 374 00:24:15,700 --> 00:24:21,200 can help those with PTSD. How does that interact? 375 00:24:21,200 --> 00:24:23,400 Like, how is how is that even possible? 376 00:24:23,600 --> 00:24:27,900 Especially for someone who may have PTSD through sex? 377 00:24:28,300 --> 00:24:32,800 So how does that the natural release DMT in the body? 378 00:24:33,000 --> 00:24:35,700 Help? You know, people overcome PTSD 379 00:24:35,700 --> 00:24:40,300 especially for those who kind of are scared to explore their 380 00:24:40,300 --> 00:24:43,600 bodies. Like what is that connection? 381 00:24:44,700 --> 00:24:46,600 I love that. I think that's those are great 382 00:24:46,600 --> 00:24:51,000 questions and certainly I've not done the research and what I can 383 00:24:51,000 --> 00:24:55,200 begin to sense is that there is this opportunity for 384 00:24:55,400 --> 00:24:58,700 neuroplasticity that can. Happen. 385 00:24:58,700 --> 00:25:02,100 So the million nation of the brain can change when we have 386 00:25:02,100 --> 00:25:07,100 these euphoric experiences and is it right for everybody? 387 00:25:07,500 --> 00:25:11,500 No. And does the person need to feel 388 00:25:11,500 --> 00:25:14,500 into their own sense of agency that this is something that we 389 00:25:14,500 --> 00:25:16,400 might work for them. Yes. 390 00:25:16,400 --> 00:25:19,600 Because if they don't, then it can just be a set up for another 391 00:25:19,600 --> 00:25:22,600 violation of something that absolutely doesn't work for them 392 00:25:22,800 --> 00:25:26,300 again and that is re-traumatizing and that is 393 00:25:26,600 --> 00:25:29,700 antithetical, I would say. Treatments, I don't do what 394 00:25:29,700 --> 00:25:33,300 doesn't feel right, the opportunity is to step into 395 00:25:33,300 --> 00:25:36,800 something that may feel a little bit more expansive, a little bit 396 00:25:36,800 --> 00:25:41,700 more exciting and maybe a little bit more nerve-racking but the 397 00:25:41,700 --> 00:25:46,100 opportunity is to step into that and be okay and know that you're 398 00:25:46,200 --> 00:25:49,000 going to be safe. And these are two elements that 399 00:25:49,000 --> 00:25:53,300 are talked about all the time in psychedelic work is set and 400 00:25:53,300 --> 00:25:56,200 setting and that is the big difference. 401 00:25:56,200 --> 00:25:59,600 And so even referencing Maybe The past where you might have 402 00:25:59,600 --> 00:26:03,400 been engaged with recreational drug use, while you're engaged 403 00:26:03,400 --> 00:26:05,500 with sexual activity. Like, yeah. 404 00:26:05,500 --> 00:26:08,100 And that was fun. And it was more party and that's 405 00:26:08,100 --> 00:26:10,100 fine, right? We've all had those experiences 406 00:26:10,100 --> 00:26:13,100 to some extent or not, and that's fine too. 407 00:26:16,000 --> 00:26:19,600 That is that's a valid reason. Yay I'm glad you put that. 408 00:26:19,600 --> 00:26:24,700 Just look at. And then the opportunity is to 409 00:26:24,700 --> 00:26:30,400 really begin to figure out set and setting and hold the space 410 00:26:30,400 --> 00:26:35,300 because that is the big piece of who is holding the space. 411 00:26:35,400 --> 00:26:39,700 How is it container being said? And it just coming back to the 412 00:26:39,700 --> 00:26:43,700 sense of Catholicism. It's like if you go to a church 413 00:26:43,700 --> 00:26:48,900 in Europe where Of people have prayed for hundreds of years. 414 00:26:49,100 --> 00:26:52,200 It's whatever ideology you subscribe to. 415 00:26:52,400 --> 00:26:56,500 You can feel that I would suggest that most people can 416 00:26:56,500 --> 00:26:59,000 feel. There's a sense of reverence 417 00:26:59,000 --> 00:27:03,100 there, there's a sense of worship there that, and it 418 00:27:03,100 --> 00:27:06,400 doesn't need to necessarily be that church, but it could be a 419 00:27:06,500 --> 00:27:10,800 sacred space and that is because of the container that has been 420 00:27:10,800 --> 00:27:14,600 set there and that we have the opportunity to set that as well 421 00:27:14,600 --> 00:27:17,200 for ourselves. So when we're going into these 422 00:27:17,200 --> 00:27:21,100 sexual experiences and we want to have this heightened level 423 00:27:21,100 --> 00:27:26,100 that we begin to consider the set and the setting and often 424 00:27:26,100 --> 00:27:30,600 times, people aren't considering that and I used to work at the 425 00:27:30,600 --> 00:27:32,400 University of Colorado at Boulder. 426 00:27:32,400 --> 00:27:36,000 And what I would say is that a lot of the people I was working 427 00:27:36,000 --> 00:27:41,500 with were interested in random hookups and that yeah, they 428 00:27:41,500 --> 00:27:44,500 didn't even know the person. They didn't know their last name 429 00:27:44,500 --> 00:27:47,900 they didn't maybe they knew. First name and and again there's 430 00:27:47,900 --> 00:27:52,300 nothing wrong with that. However, there was often times 431 00:27:52,300 --> 00:27:55,600 its expectation that they have a relationship after that. 432 00:27:55,800 --> 00:27:58,000 And I thought that was kind of interesting. 433 00:27:58,200 --> 00:28:01,500 When it really was just a sexual experience is not necessary 434 00:28:01,500 --> 00:28:03,900 relationship material. And then what kind of 435 00:28:03,900 --> 00:28:08,900 conversations did you have around safe sex and consent and 436 00:28:08,900 --> 00:28:11,100 can you be fully conscious and own? 437 00:28:11,100 --> 00:28:15,500 That, that is important because you are a value and and then 438 00:28:15,600 --> 00:28:19,000 have an experience that is sexual or that is pleasurable 439 00:28:19,000 --> 00:28:21,100 for. That is absolutely orgasmic and 440 00:28:21,100 --> 00:28:24,900 divine and, and most of those young people just didn't have 441 00:28:24,900 --> 00:28:28,000 the maturity level and they certainly didn't have the skill, 442 00:28:28,200 --> 00:28:31,800 they didn't have the capacity to have those conversations and now 443 00:28:31,800 --> 00:28:36,800 because the world is changing, we are learning how to claim our 444 00:28:36,800 --> 00:28:39,800 pleasure, and to speak it. Because if we don't have words 445 00:28:39,800 --> 00:28:43,500 for it, then it makes it really difficult to communicate it and 446 00:28:43,500 --> 00:28:45,500 to own it. It's interesting. 447 00:28:45,700 --> 00:28:48,400 You have that observation because again, Harper hook up 448 00:28:48,400 --> 00:28:53,800 culture is specially, has become a Resurgence as well, because, 449 00:28:53,800 --> 00:28:56,400 you know, people are coming out of, you know, quarantine and all 450 00:28:56,400 --> 00:28:58,600 that hookup culture is coming back. 451 00:28:58,600 --> 00:29:01,400 You know, the dating apps are seeing a surge. 452 00:29:01,400 --> 00:29:04,200 There's different conversations that we're seeing now 453 00:29:04,500 --> 00:29:08,700 surrounding sex because now, we're not just asking people, 454 00:29:08,700 --> 00:29:13,500 have you been tested for the common STDs and STIs but now 455 00:29:13,500 --> 00:29:18,000 we're seeing more people having a Open conversations about HIV 456 00:29:18,100 --> 00:29:21,300 more conversations that are talking about Herpes and of 457 00:29:21,308 --> 00:29:24,700 course now even talking about have you been vaccinated? 458 00:29:24,900 --> 00:29:29,000 But it is also very interesting that people will even say 459 00:29:29,700 --> 00:29:33,800 sometimes digging into those types of just very standard 460 00:29:33,800 --> 00:29:37,000 questions is still too evasive or that. 461 00:29:37,000 --> 00:29:41,400 It's still asking for too much, so then when you're having a 462 00:29:41,400 --> 00:29:45,700 deep meaningful connection insects or that person gave You 463 00:29:45,708 --> 00:29:50,500 that deep meaningful orgasm? People are questioning like am I 464 00:29:50,500 --> 00:29:52,100 falling in love with this person? 465 00:29:52,300 --> 00:29:55,100 Or is it just? I'm experiencing a hell of an 466 00:29:55,100 --> 00:29:58,900 orgasm that I've just never been able to achieve with another 467 00:29:58,900 --> 00:30:00,700 partner. Let alone myself. 468 00:30:00,800 --> 00:30:05,900 So it also makes you wonder like, okay, does this DMT is it? 469 00:30:05,900 --> 00:30:09,300 The love drug if you will? I would see not comparison. 470 00:30:09,300 --> 00:30:13,100 And I'm like, huh, this is very interesting and why are we not 471 00:30:13,100 --> 00:30:16,100 talking about it more? Why are there not Not enough 472 00:30:16,100 --> 00:30:21,900 studies surrounding orgasms in general because the more I keep 473 00:30:21,900 --> 00:30:26,500 looking and deeping, you know, going into the death of it in my 474 00:30:26,500 --> 00:30:29,500 research, you know I've only been able to pinpoint maybe 475 00:30:29,500 --> 00:30:33,000 three or four scientists and doctors through their research. 476 00:30:33,000 --> 00:30:35,900 One in particular, I'm going to butcher his last name but we'll 477 00:30:35,900 --> 00:30:37,600 go with it. But dr. 478 00:30:37,600 --> 00:30:43,200 Barry I want to say Thomas Iraq. Had found a soul Pathway to 479 00:30:43,200 --> 00:30:46,900 orgasm within the cervix and he said His subjects could 480 00:30:46,900 --> 00:30:52,400 experience orgasms and pleasure do the vaginosis nerve and that 481 00:30:52,400 --> 00:30:54,900 the discovery proves of the cervix. 482 00:30:54,900 --> 00:30:59,300 It's very own Pathway to orgasm in pleasure, independent of our 483 00:30:59,300 --> 00:31:04,000 other pleasure capabilities, which, to Me Mine fucking blown. 484 00:31:04,100 --> 00:31:07,300 Because again, when we talk about orgasms, we don't talk 485 00:31:07,300 --> 00:31:12,800 about the cervix, the cervix. We only talked about with labor, 486 00:31:13,300 --> 00:31:16,200 labor and delivery, we don't talk about it with with the 487 00:31:16,200 --> 00:31:20,000 pleasure is that So makes you wonder, why are we not having 488 00:31:20,000 --> 00:31:24,300 that conversation about the entire existence of a vagina and 489 00:31:24,300 --> 00:31:29,500 the entire basis of what defines an orgasm to the vagina? 490 00:31:32,000 --> 00:31:35,400 My battle. Yeah, I mean I would speculate 491 00:31:35,400 --> 00:31:38,100 that that comes back to how it is that. 492 00:31:38,100 --> 00:31:41,200 We're framing these conversations around consent and 493 00:31:41,200 --> 00:31:44,700 really how we frame sexual education and if we receive 494 00:31:44,700 --> 00:31:48,000 sexual education, we're getting this information about 495 00:31:48,000 --> 00:31:52,700 reproductive health and don't get pregnant right, abstinence 496 00:31:52,700 --> 00:31:55,700 culture. And then if we get a little bit 497 00:31:55,700 --> 00:31:58,400 more than, it's okay, don't get any STIs. 498 00:31:58,600 --> 00:32:00,200 And then how do you have that conversation? 499 00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:01,500 Use a condom. Hmm. 500 00:32:02,800 --> 00:32:08,400 This information focused on Pleasure is absent from our 501 00:32:08,400 --> 00:32:11,800 conversation so we're not even sure how to speak about. 502 00:32:11,800 --> 00:32:15,900 Well well that really turns me on or I really like when you do 503 00:32:15,900 --> 00:32:20,700 that or more of that please, or what I really like is this or to 504 00:32:20,700 --> 00:32:24,600 get me really office and we don't know how to frame that. 505 00:32:24,600 --> 00:32:28,500 And so it makes sense that really the larger systems that 506 00:32:28,500 --> 00:32:31,400 are in place like the Medicals, the allopathic medicine man. 507 00:32:31,600 --> 00:32:35,000 Well, system are not studying pleasure either, and if they 508 00:32:35,000 --> 00:32:37,700 are, they're not studying it from a female perspective 509 00:32:37,700 --> 00:32:44,600 because we had not been valued, we have not been honored in the 510 00:32:44,600 --> 00:32:48,700 recent centuries as a powerful being that we are. 511 00:32:48,700 --> 00:32:54,800 And so that shift of claiming pleasure is a powerful shift 512 00:32:54,800 --> 00:32:57,700 from the conversations that we have in these dyadic or 513 00:32:57,700 --> 00:33:00,300 experience with triadic experience with another person 514 00:33:00,300 --> 00:33:05,000 to experience pleasure. Not just about consent of, what 515 00:33:05,000 --> 00:33:07,500 are you bringing to the table that I need to be concerned 516 00:33:07,500 --> 00:33:09,200 about? But what are you bringing to the 517 00:33:09,200 --> 00:33:12,400 table that I can actually be pleased about that? 518 00:33:12,400 --> 00:33:14,000 What are you? What are your experiences? 519 00:33:14,000 --> 00:33:16,300 What are your skills? What are your desires? 520 00:33:16,500 --> 00:33:19,000 What can how do we juice this up, right? 521 00:33:19,000 --> 00:33:22,000 Those conversations aren't necessarily happening and it's 522 00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:26,000 not happening in the larger scientific medical community 523 00:33:26,100 --> 00:33:29,700 where they're looking at. And what is this about pleasure 524 00:33:29,700 --> 00:33:32,000 that can actually make us feel Field. 525 00:33:32,000 --> 00:33:36,000 So much better in our world because we probably could 526 00:33:36,000 --> 00:33:39,000 transform the experience of people who are experiencing 527 00:33:39,000 --> 00:33:42,400 PTSD. If there were more pleasure, and 528 00:33:42,400 --> 00:33:48,100 for example and cultures, where the Goddess were was revered. 529 00:33:48,500 --> 00:33:54,200 There were temples and these temples women were trained to 530 00:33:55,100 --> 00:33:58,500 bring forth Sexual Energy through their own vehicle, 531 00:33:58,500 --> 00:34:01,400 through their own body and administer. 532 00:34:01,700 --> 00:34:04,900 You others, but particular to Warriors who were coming back 533 00:34:04,900 --> 00:34:11,300 from war, this healing, love, sexual, erotic love. 534 00:34:11,300 --> 00:34:16,100 And that there was a great pleasure and healing in that 535 00:34:16,100 --> 00:34:18,600 power. And that this woman, this 536 00:34:18,600 --> 00:34:25,000 Priestess, this goddess was trained from a young age to be 537 00:34:25,000 --> 00:34:29,600 able to do that with her sisters and there's temples all over the 538 00:34:29,600 --> 00:34:34,800 world that have been dead. Educated previously to these 539 00:34:34,800 --> 00:34:37,000 women. And and that, that was part of 540 00:34:37,007 --> 00:34:41,500 the cultures passed in, you know, in countries in Africa and 541 00:34:41,500 --> 00:34:45,800 countries in Europe and countries in what is now South 542 00:34:45,800 --> 00:34:53,300 America all over the world? As I'm like thinking about this, 543 00:34:53,600 --> 00:34:59,700 it just makes you wonder again. We are taking all these sex 544 00:34:59,700 --> 00:35:05,500 practices from other cultures that are again, POC base. 545 00:35:06,700 --> 00:35:11,300 I didn't hear any Eastern European. 546 00:35:11,900 --> 00:35:19,300 I didn't hear you know, Angelo Saxon culture in all this and 547 00:35:19,300 --> 00:35:22,700 again it makes you wonder is the war on sex. 548 00:35:23,200 --> 00:35:27,400 Technically the war on people of color is everything that we have 549 00:35:27,400 --> 00:35:32,100 been fighting for especially. Now today there's a women's 550 00:35:32,100 --> 00:35:35,400 march today is Saturday for us. Of course, the earbuds, you guys 551 00:35:35,400 --> 00:35:39,600 are getting this Morrow on Sunday but we are still battling 552 00:35:39,600 --> 00:35:45,600 the war on our vaginas and whether or not an abortion 553 00:35:46,000 --> 00:35:48,700 should be legal. If the things that we are 554 00:35:48,700 --> 00:35:53,500 putting into our body to, you know, enable us to have an 555 00:35:53,500 --> 00:35:55,800 abortion, is that supposed to be illegal? 556 00:35:56,100 --> 00:35:59,600 It makes me wonder. Now when you're saying all this 557 00:35:59,900 --> 00:36:05,100 is the war on sex just because of the fact that because white 558 00:36:05,100 --> 00:36:07,500 men and women do not Discover this. 559 00:36:10,600 --> 00:36:15,000 I don't know. And I also know that this was a 560 00:36:15,000 --> 00:36:20,800 part of Celtic Society as well, with The Druids who were very 561 00:36:20,800 --> 00:36:23,900 peaceful people who were decimated by the Catholics as 562 00:36:23,900 --> 00:36:29,700 well, that there is some history of this lineage of this in the 563 00:36:29,700 --> 00:36:36,500 gnostics of the Catholic church. So when Jesus and Mary, when 564 00:36:36,500 --> 00:36:41,400 Jesus rose again, Is this is a story of which I believe and 565 00:36:41,400 --> 00:36:47,400 then traveled from Middle East to France southern France. 566 00:36:47,500 --> 00:36:52,700 They set up again the temples and she taught Mary Magdalene 567 00:36:52,700 --> 00:36:57,500 taught the sacred sexuality, the hero squamous gamos. 568 00:36:57,700 --> 00:37:03,000 And so, there is that lineage and I would say yes, there are 569 00:37:03,000 --> 00:37:12,200 systems of Oppression at play that Goodness, put us at at each 570 00:37:12,200 --> 00:37:15,800 other's enemy. I mean, I really that's what I 571 00:37:15,800 --> 00:37:19,400 say to you, huge disadvantage. It's a huge disadvantage because 572 00:37:19,400 --> 00:37:22,600 again, it's all connected, the body, the human body is all 573 00:37:22,600 --> 00:37:26,500 connected. So when we are, you know, 574 00:37:26,500 --> 00:37:30,700 limiting the knowledge of our own bodies, it really does a 575 00:37:30,707 --> 00:37:34,500 number on us, so not too late come from a racist point of view 576 00:37:34,500 --> 00:37:37,400 because that is not my intention hjs. 577 00:37:37,500 --> 00:37:40,400 I think that we've been talking about it all comes down to the 578 00:37:40,400 --> 00:37:46,400 fact that there is such a limited, a limited space. 579 00:37:46,400 --> 00:37:52,100 There's such a limited allowance of learning our bodies and that, 580 00:37:52,100 --> 00:37:55,400 you know, people like yourself and like others who have come 581 00:37:55,400 --> 00:37:58,700 before you you know, we are all just trying to reclaim and 582 00:37:58,700 --> 00:38:00,900 ReDiscover. So when we're hearing about 583 00:38:00,900 --> 00:38:03,000 these things that are so limiting to our bodies, and why 584 00:38:03,000 --> 00:38:05,900 can't we learn more about our own pleasure or why are there 585 00:38:05,900 --> 00:38:09,000 such limiting studies to it? It just makes you wonder the 586 00:38:09,000 --> 00:38:12,400 true history of where it all comes down to because again, 587 00:38:12,400 --> 00:38:17,600 it's all connected. And it's a rabbit hole. 588 00:38:17,800 --> 00:38:21,300 Hey, hey say, that's talking about, bringing it all back to 589 00:38:21,300 --> 00:38:23,600 the subject matter. It is one big rabbit hole. 590 00:38:23,600 --> 00:38:27,100 It really is. So in your experience with DMT 591 00:38:27,100 --> 00:38:29,400 and orgasms. And something that you talk 592 00:38:29,400 --> 00:38:33,900 about in your practices, what do you tell your clients as far as? 593 00:38:33,900 --> 00:38:36,600 Like, when they're trying to unlock the the secret, if you 594 00:38:36,600 --> 00:38:41,100 all in your own practice like what made you at one point? 595 00:38:41,100 --> 00:38:44,400 So you know what, I want to discover this more like was it 596 00:38:44,400 --> 00:38:47,700 an Of your own was it just something that you know in your 597 00:38:47,700 --> 00:38:50,700 practice you were learning where did it all come down to? 598 00:38:50,700 --> 00:38:54,600 Because again you in fact you were like let's talk about this 599 00:38:54,600 --> 00:38:57,200 more. Yes. 600 00:38:57,200 --> 00:39:00,800 Well, I mean a few things that I see again and again, as I see 601 00:39:00,800 --> 00:39:06,300 this pervasive shame that lies in the body, particularly of the 602 00:39:06,300 --> 00:39:10,700 women that I'm seeing, and I see a lot of heterosexual couples. 603 00:39:11,100 --> 00:39:15,600 And in these Partnerships, the woman is struggling with some 604 00:39:15,600 --> 00:39:19,100 form of Shame. And because of that, she's also 605 00:39:19,100 --> 00:39:21,400 not exploring her own sense of pleasure. 606 00:39:21,700 --> 00:39:24,600 And when she doesn't know her own pleasure, then she really 607 00:39:24,600 --> 00:39:26,400 can't share pleasure with her paw. 608 00:39:26,600 --> 00:39:29,500 Partner, regardless of who our partners because she doesn't 609 00:39:29,500 --> 00:39:33,600 know it for herself and that there's a vast knowledge that a 610 00:39:33,600 --> 00:39:36,400 woman can unlock when she knows her own pleasure. 611 00:39:37,100 --> 00:39:41,400 And that the opportunity is not only for her to know it and to 612 00:39:41,400 --> 00:39:46,100 own it, but actually begin to lead her partner into that 613 00:39:46,100 --> 00:39:49,800 experience. So when women and men are coming 614 00:39:49,800 --> 00:39:53,000 to me and they want better sex, but they want to be able to 615 00:39:53,000 --> 00:39:56,500 connect sexually. It's often the woman. 616 00:39:56,500 --> 00:40:02,300 Who needs to lead, which is somewhat crazy in our culture. 617 00:40:02,300 --> 00:40:05,800 Because often so oftentimes are seeing the man is more sexual 618 00:40:05,800 --> 00:40:13,100 and that he needs initiate and yeah, and those things pervade 619 00:40:13,100 --> 00:40:16,900 and are pervasive in our thoughts, in our bodies, and our 620 00:40:16,900 --> 00:40:19,400 beings. And so it's really unlearning 621 00:40:19,400 --> 00:40:24,500 The Mis-Education disrupting the myths and really providing some 622 00:40:24,500 --> 00:40:29,000 good education and it begins Jeans, with the woman really 623 00:40:29,100 --> 00:40:33,700 owning her own pleasure, and recognizing that nobody's 624 00:40:33,700 --> 00:40:36,900 responsible for her orgasm, but her hoof. 625 00:40:36,900 --> 00:40:41,800 And then she gets the claim that Gotta Give the Applause on that 626 00:40:41,800 --> 00:40:47,000 one. She can't hear it y'all, but the 627 00:40:47,000 --> 00:40:53,100 Applause of the studio is real. But seriously my God, I tell 628 00:40:53,100 --> 00:40:55,500 people this all the time. It's like you know whether 629 00:40:55,500 --> 00:40:59,700 you're having partners like sir solo sex until you can pinpoint 630 00:40:59,700 --> 00:41:05,000 what you want, you cannot say to your partner, what you want? 631 00:41:05,100 --> 00:41:09,100 You might like what the partner dies, what if you can't 632 00:41:09,100 --> 00:41:11,900 ReDiscover that and reclaim that in the bedroom, in your own 633 00:41:11,900 --> 00:41:17,700 practice is your Your own know that is your partner's orgasm, 634 00:41:17,900 --> 00:41:22,300 that is your partner giving themselves to you a pleasurable 635 00:41:22,300 --> 00:41:25,700 experience, but what do you claim as your own? 636 00:41:26,700 --> 00:41:29,900 So I love that you're able to really tap that in and I'm 637 00:41:29,900 --> 00:41:32,600 really glad that you mentioned that. 638 00:41:32,600 --> 00:41:35,400 Because again when we hear about it I'm sure like you said in 639 00:41:35,400 --> 00:41:38,300 your practices, you have heard your clients time and time 640 00:41:38,300 --> 00:41:43,000 again, say it but my pleasure is not my own that my partner is 641 00:41:43,000 --> 00:41:44,500 the one giving me. The orgasm. 642 00:41:44,500 --> 00:41:48,900 I only like, I only know what my partner likes to give me but I 643 00:41:48,900 --> 00:41:53,800 don't know what I like. So it's good that we are able to 644 00:41:54,200 --> 00:41:59,200 have this practice with you and have, you know, your resources, 645 00:41:59,200 --> 00:42:03,400 your bought your book to really tap in and just Center people to 646 00:42:03,400 --> 00:42:08,900 be like look, Sit down with yourself and what do you like 647 00:42:09,000 --> 00:42:13,100 about your body? What do you like about your 648 00:42:13,100 --> 00:42:15,200 pleasure? What Pleasures? 649 00:42:15,200 --> 00:42:22,300 You I love that. I absolutely just the one 650 00:42:22,300 --> 00:42:24,800 takeaway that I want people to understand from this episode. 651 00:42:24,800 --> 00:42:29,300 It's like your body is your own. It is your body. 652 00:42:29,900 --> 00:42:31,500 Does matter who you're sharing it with. 653 00:42:31,600 --> 00:42:34,200 It is your body. It is your pleasure. 654 00:42:34,400 --> 00:42:39,100 You should be allowed to say how you like things so to unlock 655 00:42:39,100 --> 00:42:41,700 that DMT in your body. You got to start liking 656 00:42:41,700 --> 00:42:43,500 yourself. Am I correct with this? 657 00:42:44,400 --> 00:42:47,900 Yes, absolutely. Yes, I start at the very least 658 00:42:47,900 --> 00:42:51,300 by liking yourself and then maybe even knowing a little bit 659 00:42:51,300 --> 00:42:55,200 more about what brings you pleasure just for yourself. 660 00:42:55,200 --> 00:43:00,900 I mean so many any of us as women have been conditioned that 661 00:43:00,900 --> 00:43:04,300 we need to be sexual for our partners and that we're living 662 00:43:04,300 --> 00:43:06,200 within this performative Paradigm. 663 00:43:06,400 --> 00:43:09,400 And that it's the other person's pleasure that we need to focus 664 00:43:09,400 --> 00:43:11,600 on. And one of my mentors, Tammy 665 00:43:11,600 --> 00:43:13,700 Kent. She talks about hosting a party 666 00:43:13,700 --> 00:43:17,100 for nine-year-olds, and the 9 year old boys are kicking back 667 00:43:17,100 --> 00:43:20,600 and telling jokes and hanging out and the nine-year-old girls 668 00:43:20,800 --> 00:43:24,100 are up with the hostesses and the hosts and saying, what can 669 00:43:24,100 --> 00:43:28,800 we do to be helpful and she's Go play by. 670 00:43:28,800 --> 00:43:33,300 Yeah your kids but we can see where the conditioning begin. 671 00:43:33,300 --> 00:43:38,700 So, yeah, absolutely. Now what would you say about the 672 00:43:38,700 --> 00:43:42,200 Kink lifestyle? Because I feel like when you're 673 00:43:42,200 --> 00:43:44,900 dealing with Kink and a lot of the lifestyle parties that I go 674 00:43:44,900 --> 00:43:49,300 to, it seems like everybody is more in tune with their 675 00:43:49,300 --> 00:43:52,700 pleasure. People are more open to talk 676 00:43:52,700 --> 00:43:56,400 about what they like, what they don't like their yeses and their 677 00:43:56,400 --> 00:43:57,200 nose. Yes. 678 00:43:57,300 --> 00:44:01,900 So how would you say even with the rise of sex parties? 679 00:44:01,900 --> 00:44:06,700 The rise of Kink Lifestyles, it's not no longer. 680 00:44:07,000 --> 00:44:09,800 I mean, yes, it's still taboo, you know, people say swinger 681 00:44:09,800 --> 00:44:14,800 parties and it's like, oh how could you just go into swap 682 00:44:14,800 --> 00:44:17,100 partners and it's not like that all the time. 683 00:44:17,100 --> 00:44:20,400 Y'all like people go to swing parties and they just have fun 684 00:44:20,600 --> 00:44:23,500 people. Use it as a social thing. 685 00:44:23,500 --> 00:44:26,800 I use as a social thing. I'm not always busting wide open 686 00:44:26,800 --> 00:44:30,400 for Everybody at the sex party, you know, it just gives me 687 00:44:30,700 --> 00:44:34,100 pleasure to see my partners in pleasure and vice versa. 688 00:44:34,500 --> 00:44:38,400 But how would you say even like the help of cake lifestyle can 689 00:44:38,400 --> 00:44:40,900 help people? You know, unlock their sexual 690 00:44:40,900 --> 00:44:43,900 pleasure. And in fact, a mock, the 691 00:44:43,900 --> 00:44:47,500 deepening effects of DMT to be released into the body. 692 00:44:49,100 --> 00:44:52,500 But that's a great question. And so, I'm just coming back to 693 00:44:52,500 --> 00:44:57,100 one of my teachers and the, which you reminded me this week 694 00:44:57,200 --> 00:45:00,700 is, you don't need to say yes, or you don't need to accept 695 00:45:00,700 --> 00:45:04,000 everything that's offered and just coming back to that because 696 00:45:04,000 --> 00:45:08,400 that is true and that is a really potent message if we 697 00:45:08,400 --> 00:45:11,100 could hold on to that. So I don't need to accept 698 00:45:11,100 --> 00:45:16,000 everything that's offered and I know that then I can go into 699 00:45:16,000 --> 00:45:19,700 lots of different environments. Lots of It parties. 700 00:45:19,700 --> 00:45:23,700 Lots of different social situations, and just explore and 701 00:45:23,700 --> 00:45:29,500 be curious and playful and kind. And, you know, like just 702 00:45:29,500 --> 00:45:31,800 checking it out because it's a different scene. 703 00:45:31,800 --> 00:45:34,100 Because when we do the same thing over and over again, and 704 00:45:34,100 --> 00:45:36,800 we expect different results, that's the definition of 705 00:45:36,800 --> 00:45:38,500 insanity. And that's what. 706 00:45:38,500 --> 00:45:41,000 Yeah, that's what Einstein said. And it's true. 707 00:45:41,200 --> 00:45:43,000 And I see that from my clients again. 708 00:45:43,000 --> 00:45:46,500 And again, it's like, they're having vanilla heterosexual sex, 709 00:45:46,800 --> 00:45:50,200 and they think that's okay. And it Is until it's not working 710 00:45:50,200 --> 00:45:54,300 for them anymore and then we need novelty is it, that is a 711 00:45:54,300 --> 00:45:58,600 huge drive for endorphins in our life is novelty. 712 00:45:58,800 --> 00:46:01,900 And we need that novelty, whether it's being offered by 713 00:46:01,900 --> 00:46:06,500 our partner or by other people and that whoever we get it, we 714 00:46:06,500 --> 00:46:09,300 need to know that we know, we need to know that there's more 715 00:46:09,600 --> 00:46:14,200 expansion and how we're being in the world, particularly 716 00:46:14,200 --> 00:46:16,000 sexually. And I think because there is 717 00:46:16,300 --> 00:46:19,500 again, a lot of shame, it prevents a lot, a lot of us from 718 00:46:19,500 --> 00:46:23,000 having these experiences. And what we really need to know 719 00:46:23,000 --> 00:46:29,200 is that they're okay they're great, they're fun 1000% and 720 00:46:29,200 --> 00:46:33,200 would you even say toys can be that that extra boost of 721 00:46:33,200 --> 00:46:37,200 enhancement to the DMT or would you say you know, fingers some 722 00:46:37,200 --> 00:46:40,800 women are scared to figure themselves or scared to pull 723 00:46:40,800 --> 00:46:43,200 back the lips of the labia and just look themselves in the 724 00:46:43,207 --> 00:46:45,100 mirror. And be like, right there. 725 00:46:45,500 --> 00:46:47,600 Right there is where I like to be licked. 726 00:46:47,700 --> 00:46:50,700 That's where I like to be. Penetrated and what not. 727 00:46:50,700 --> 00:46:54,700 So would you say even the use of toys could help unlock that next 728 00:46:54,700 --> 00:46:57,400 level to DMT being released into the body? 729 00:46:57,800 --> 00:46:59,900 Or is it more like a mental thing? 730 00:47:01,600 --> 00:47:07,800 Aha those are great questions and so technique isn't as 731 00:47:07,800 --> 00:47:13,900 important as it is, the set and the setting also. 732 00:47:14,200 --> 00:47:16,700 Yeah, hi, yeah. And so that's kind of that 733 00:47:16,700 --> 00:47:21,200 that's a pointer that I'll give you and that it is so much more 734 00:47:21,300 --> 00:47:27,300 about how the woman is showing up for herself and yeah, fingers 735 00:47:27,300 --> 00:47:31,100 are fine and toys are fun but it is so much more. 736 00:47:31,200 --> 00:47:33,900 More about how she showing up for herself. 737 00:47:34,000 --> 00:47:39,700 And also, I would say this invocation of the Goddess within 738 00:47:39,700 --> 00:47:43,500 her. So that she has this experience 739 00:47:43,500 --> 00:47:48,900 that she is all of who she is and so much more, and that's a 740 00:47:48,900 --> 00:47:52,500 powerful spiritual component. And that's a lot for one being 741 00:47:52,500 --> 00:47:55,700 to hold onto. And I think when we ingest DMT, 742 00:47:55,800 --> 00:47:59,900 we often have that experience. And then we forget, we come back 743 00:47:59,900 --> 00:48:03,000 to our mundane reality. And then the opportunity through 744 00:48:03,000 --> 00:48:07,600 that psychedelic cervical, orgasm is to remember that, but 745 00:48:07,600 --> 00:48:10,900 begin to cultivate that on a regular basis. 746 00:48:11,000 --> 00:48:14,600 So it's kind of like meditation and that it's a practice, that's 747 00:48:14,600 --> 00:48:16,900 not one and done. It's like okay I'm coming back 748 00:48:16,900 --> 00:48:18,600 to the cushion because I'm doing this again. 749 00:48:19,000 --> 00:48:21,600 I was just about to ask you because you know, when people 750 00:48:21,600 --> 00:48:25,100 talk about like their first hi, you know whether it be with 751 00:48:25,500 --> 00:48:30,700 weed, shrooms whatnot that they always say your first high is 752 00:48:30,700 --> 00:48:33,800 never going. To be the secondary, the third. 753 00:48:33,800 --> 00:48:37,700 So would you say that a DMT release naturally from the body 754 00:48:37,700 --> 00:48:39,500 is almost like the same way, because that's what I'm getting 755 00:48:39,500 --> 00:48:41,700 from from that last comment where you were saying, you know, 756 00:48:42,000 --> 00:48:44,600 you just have to keep going back on the horse and just keep 757 00:48:44,600 --> 00:48:48,300 trying it over and over again. Yes. 758 00:48:48,300 --> 00:48:52,400 And I mean, and I would say that the more that you come back to 759 00:48:52,400 --> 00:48:56,100 this practice, or to this experience, the more that 760 00:48:56,100 --> 00:48:59,900 unfolds, the more that is revealed. 761 00:49:00,600 --> 00:49:04,400 And I mean, here I am, I like Emma expert in the, I'm an 762 00:49:04,400 --> 00:49:15,100 expert, right? But sex is this wild dangerous 763 00:49:15,300 --> 00:49:20,800 mystery that we as Simple humans, get to an act and step 764 00:49:20,800 --> 00:49:27,300 into and we like to control and imagine that we know how it's 765 00:49:27,300 --> 00:49:30,900 going to go and really follow this linear progression. 766 00:49:31,100 --> 00:49:35,400 Like we like to mechanize it we like to imagine that we can then 767 00:49:35,400 --> 00:49:39,900 have influence or power over it and the opportunity is to really 768 00:49:39,900 --> 00:49:45,400 surrender to really surrender to that mystery surrender to that 769 00:49:45,400 --> 00:49:48,300 deep pleasure. And that when we I actually can 770 00:49:48,300 --> 00:49:52,300 do more of that, that we experience more and do we need 771 00:49:52,300 --> 00:49:54,300 to be safe? Yes, utmost. 772 00:49:54,300 --> 00:49:58,400 And at the Forefront and when we do that first, then we can have 773 00:49:58,400 --> 00:50:00,300 this allowance in this receptivity. 774 00:50:00,300 --> 00:50:04,700 Because that's where the Psychedelic orgasm is, is in 775 00:50:04,700 --> 00:50:09,400 this true surrender. I'm going to end it on that 776 00:50:09,400 --> 00:50:11,900 because I doesn't get better than that. 777 00:50:12,100 --> 00:50:14,500 Oh, my God, Torrid. Thank you. 778 00:50:14,800 --> 00:50:17,600 Thank you. Because again, I want people to 779 00:50:17,600 --> 00:50:21,200 take away from this and I think they're really going to unlock a 780 00:50:21,200 --> 00:50:23,900 certain self of them. It's that awareness. 781 00:50:24,000 --> 00:50:27,100 And I've been saying this time and time again, you know? 782 00:50:27,800 --> 00:50:31,700 And as we were talking off air, if you do not like yourself, if 783 00:50:31,700 --> 00:50:36,800 you cannot give yourself self-gratification self-love, 784 00:50:36,900 --> 00:50:40,400 how are you going to be able to? Hear that in partnered sides. 785 00:50:40,600 --> 00:50:43,300 How are you going to be unlocking your own orgasm? 786 00:50:43,500 --> 00:50:47,500 If you can't even like the body, the vessel that is about to 787 00:50:47,500 --> 00:50:50,600 release that orgasm itself. So thank you. 788 00:50:50,600 --> 00:50:54,500 Thank you for that. Where can my earbuds get in 789 00:50:54,500 --> 00:50:58,500 touch with you? They can check me out on my 790 00:50:58,500 --> 00:51:01,000 website. Rediscovering my body.com? 791 00:51:01,300 --> 00:51:05,100 Or my other website, which is Tara, Galliano.com and are you 792 00:51:05,100 --> 00:51:10,400 taking new clients by chance? I am and I just got licensed in 793 00:51:10,400 --> 00:51:13,100 Arizona. So I see clients in Colorado and 794 00:51:13,100 --> 00:51:16,700 in Arizona, and next month, I will be licensed in California. 795 00:51:16,800 --> 00:51:20,100 So big and I take coaching clients all over the world. 796 00:51:20,100 --> 00:51:23,200 Awesome, awesome. I absolutely love it. 797 00:51:23,200 --> 00:51:26,900 Well, thank you so much for taking time to spend it with us 798 00:51:26,900 --> 00:51:29,400 today. Earbuds, you're in for another 799 00:51:29,400 --> 00:51:32,800 treat because I'm just going to keep giving you abundance of 800 00:51:32,800 --> 00:51:36,200 gifts and great shots. Next week, we will be talking 801 00:51:36,200 --> 00:51:41,100 with the cook Matchmaker them. So yes, from the mon app Target 802 00:51:41,100 --> 00:51:42,700 by the way, you got to get on the phone app. 803 00:51:42,700 --> 00:51:46,200 I think people can really be reached fun, kid. 804 00:51:46,200 --> 00:51:48,600 Really be receptive of what you can offer. 805 00:51:48,800 --> 00:51:52,700 It's a sex positive space where Educators and therapists like 806 00:51:52,700 --> 00:51:56,100 yourself can really just hold their own chats and give people 807 00:51:56,100 --> 00:51:59,400 just throw lessons for free. It's the sex positive community 808 00:51:59,400 --> 00:52:02,000 and I'll have to send you the link to the, I think you'd be 809 00:52:02,000 --> 00:52:04,700 perfect for it. But again, Chuck Matchmaker 810 00:52:04,700 --> 00:52:07,800 coming on next week with us the month of April is just 811 00:52:07,800 --> 00:52:09,700 showering. 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