1 00:00:00,360 --> 00:00:03,600 Warning, the following program is not for the weak hearted, 2 00:00:04,320 --> 00:00:07,800 those who are close minded or in general you're scared to learn 3 00:00:07,800 --> 00:00:10,720 what's behind closed doors. Here at Sapphires Airplay. 4 00:00:10,720 --> 00:00:13,840 I want you to pour the wine, grab somebody that you want to 5 00:00:13,840 --> 00:00:17,880 hold on to, or better yet, get the vibration stimulated through 6 00:00:17,880 --> 00:00:19,960 your body. Get ready for one hell of an 7 00:00:19,960 --> 00:00:30,000 orgasm in 54321. What is up all my sexy 8 00:00:30,000 --> 00:00:31,480 motherfuckers out there in Radio Land? 9 00:00:31,480 --> 00:00:34,800 It's your girl Sapphire. And Oh my goodness, I lied to 10 00:00:34,800 --> 00:00:36,200 you guys. I totally lied. 11 00:00:36,200 --> 00:00:40,160 I did say, you know, the Sinners from just Till Dawn episode was 12 00:00:40,160 --> 00:00:42,680 actually going to be the closing ear chasm of the year. 13 00:00:42,680 --> 00:00:45,640 But you know what? I lied, but you guys are going 14 00:00:45,640 --> 00:00:47,840 to be happy and satisfied with my next guest. 15 00:00:48,040 --> 00:00:51,040 Yes, I have a certified urologist. 16 00:00:51,040 --> 00:00:55,160 Fellow Island Girl doctor Sue Lynn Hall is a trailblazer in 17 00:00:55,160 --> 00:00:58,240 the urologist biz, y'all. She is an advocate for holistic 18 00:00:58,240 --> 00:01:01,000 Wellness and author. And today we're going to be 19 00:01:01,000 --> 00:01:04,680 talking about her latest book, which is called How to Get a 20 00:01:05,000 --> 00:01:07,960 Head. Yes, emphasis on the head, 21 00:01:07,960 --> 00:01:10,240 y'all. Doctor Sue Lynn Hall. 22 00:01:10,360 --> 00:01:12,440 Welcome. I got to bring in the rowdy fat 23 00:01:12,440 --> 00:01:14,720 boys to bring you in. Doctor Sue Lynn. 24 00:01:14,760 --> 00:01:16,920 Get ready for it. Probably one of the most 25 00:01:16,920 --> 00:01:19,520 interesting conversations you've ever had. 26 00:01:25,560 --> 00:01:26,560 See. They love you already. 27 00:01:26,560 --> 00:01:30,200 They love you already. I'm glad to be here. 28 00:01:30,480 --> 00:01:32,600 I'm so glad to have you on. Oh my goodness. 29 00:01:32,880 --> 00:01:37,360 So where do we start? I mean, first of all, you are 30 00:01:37,560 --> 00:01:41,800 one of the very few female urologists in the country, 31 00:01:42,080 --> 00:01:43,640 correct? I believe 1 of 50, yes. 32 00:01:44,320 --> 00:01:47,240 So. When I that's when I started, it 33 00:01:47,240 --> 00:01:49,200 was 1 of 50. There are now 1000. 34 00:01:49,360 --> 00:01:52,760 Oh my goodness. Still just 1% of the 10,000 male 35 00:01:52,760 --> 00:01:55,400 urologists. So still a very elite group. 36 00:01:55,800 --> 00:01:59,200 Now Speaking of this such elite group, for those out there, 37 00:01:59,200 --> 00:02:02,360 they're like a urologist. Why do you get the penis doctor 38 00:02:02,360 --> 00:02:05,960 a female peanuts penis doctor? You know, if that talk and about 39 00:02:05,960 --> 00:02:11,240 my penis, I have to say, do you feel that having male clientele 40 00:02:12,280 --> 00:02:15,480 and knowing that they have a female doctor to talk to you, do 41 00:02:15,480 --> 00:02:18,040 you think you make the men a little bit more comfortable in 42 00:02:18,040 --> 00:02:21,440 talking about, you know, their penile health, their issues? 43 00:02:21,480 --> 00:02:24,400 I feel like that's a little bit more comforting that you're 44 00:02:24,400 --> 00:02:28,640 easier on the eyes. To most, yes, it's so funny. 45 00:02:29,080 --> 00:02:38,440 So in my 25 years of board certified urology, I've really 46 00:02:38,880 --> 00:02:42,840 realized that people feel comfortable because they know I 47 00:02:42,840 --> 00:02:47,480 care and they feel comfortable with being able to express their 48 00:02:47,920 --> 00:02:52,840 very intimate questions and desires even to a female. 49 00:02:53,120 --> 00:02:57,320 And I think maybe that makes him even more comfortable that they 50 00:02:57,320 --> 00:03:01,480 have a good listening air. They really want to be heard and 51 00:03:01,480 --> 00:03:06,760 men want to be respected and in my experience over the years, 52 00:03:06,920 --> 00:03:11,440 what I hear from patients is that they also want to be loved 53 00:03:11,440 --> 00:03:16,480 and stimulated and their desires are very important to them. 54 00:03:17,040 --> 00:03:20,440 You know, it's funny and when you're saying this because I'm 55 00:03:20,440 --> 00:03:27,120 like, OK man, wanting to feel loved, desired, but yet, you 56 00:03:27,120 --> 00:03:30,480 know, reading your book and it seems like the men were just 57 00:03:30,480 --> 00:03:33,600 flat out like I need to be pleasured. 58 00:03:33,600 --> 00:03:36,240 I need to be pleased. It seems like you were saying 59 00:03:36,240 --> 00:03:40,000 like the housewife effect. I myself just got married, but 60 00:03:40,000 --> 00:03:46,320 my husband and I, we started as a very open, polyamorous kinky 61 00:03:46,320 --> 00:03:50,000 couple. Never thought marriage was going 62 00:03:50,000 --> 00:03:52,400 to be on the table. In fact, in marriage was like 63 00:03:52,400 --> 00:03:56,240 the last thing off our minds. And then lo and behold, 9 years 64 00:03:56,240 --> 00:04:00,720 later, COVID, we decided, you know what, let's just dive in. 65 00:04:00,840 --> 00:04:03,440 Let's let's get married. But the one thing that has 66 00:04:03,440 --> 00:04:06,400 stayed true, you know, one thing that has stayed true and thank 67 00:04:06,400 --> 00:04:11,360 you is sex. Sex is very like I would say 68 00:04:11,360 --> 00:04:16,120 probably most of our friends who are married or in heavily 69 00:04:16,120 --> 00:04:19,760 monogamous relationships, we have more sex than them. 70 00:04:19,920 --> 00:04:23,080 We, we have come to terms with the fact that we probably have 71 00:04:23,240 --> 00:04:25,520 more sex than the average couple. 72 00:04:25,520 --> 00:04:29,560 So like flipping this this with your your clientele who is 73 00:04:29,560 --> 00:04:32,360 dealing with less sex, less communication. 74 00:04:33,160 --> 00:04:36,040 What would you say is like the biggest thing that the biggest 75 00:04:36,040 --> 00:04:39,440 hurdle that might happen for married folks out that they're 76 00:04:39,640 --> 00:04:43,200 like married sex is not the fun sex anymore. 77 00:04:43,200 --> 00:04:44,960 It's it's more of like a a chore. 78 00:04:44,960 --> 00:04:47,680 I have to do this. Right. 79 00:04:47,680 --> 00:04:53,000 So one of my main titles that I like to express is the wedding 80 00:04:53,000 --> 00:04:56,040 cake is not the last time to give heck. 81 00:04:56,960 --> 00:05:00,520 And so I think that men appreciate that. 82 00:05:00,560 --> 00:05:05,440 They all appreciate that specific line because a lot of 83 00:05:05,440 --> 00:05:08,400 people get very comfortable. They get comfortable with having 84 00:05:08,400 --> 00:05:12,480 children, with business of marriage, work, everything else 85 00:05:13,120 --> 00:05:16,600 rather than being egoless and caring about each other. 86 00:05:16,840 --> 00:05:19,280 The wedding cake people talk about getting married. 87 00:05:19,280 --> 00:05:22,480 They only talk about all the bridesmaids and everybody 88 00:05:22,520 --> 00:05:25,360 involved in the wedding. And they don't talk about what 89 00:05:25,360 --> 00:05:28,560 are your needs going forward? What are we going to do to help 90 00:05:28,560 --> 00:05:32,120 each other continue our happiness that like we when we 91 00:05:32,120 --> 00:05:34,280 first met, you know that excitement. 92 00:05:34,480 --> 00:05:39,400 You know, I've been married 31 years now and that is a very 93 00:05:39,400 --> 00:05:43,480 important part of our relationship in regards to being 94 00:05:43,480 --> 00:05:49,160 caring for each other, but being very loving but also physical 95 00:05:49,400 --> 00:05:51,440 for each other. And that is very important. 96 00:05:51,440 --> 00:05:56,720 And some people deny their spouses that privilege of 97 00:05:57,000 --> 00:05:59,800 enjoying each other. It actually is one of the best 98 00:05:59,800 --> 00:06:04,280 ways to reduce stress. And as I will explain, dopamine, 99 00:06:04,280 --> 00:06:08,400 which is the neurotransmitter that is with pleasure and 100 00:06:08,440 --> 00:06:12,760 oxytocin, the love hormone, very important in reducing cortisol 101 00:06:13,040 --> 00:06:17,120 or stress hormone that is, you know, responsible for immune 102 00:06:17,120 --> 00:06:21,360 dysfunction, heart disease. So actually pleasing and being 103 00:06:21,360 --> 00:06:25,920 pleased is so important to reducing and reducing overall 104 00:06:25,920 --> 00:06:27,640 health. I mean improving overall health 105 00:06:27,880 --> 00:06:32,520 and reducing stress, which we have every day, absolutely. 106 00:06:32,880 --> 00:06:34,720 And I. And sexually is the most 107 00:06:34,720 --> 00:06:38,920 important way to do that. Yes, and I, I love how you know, 108 00:06:38,920 --> 00:06:42,640 in the book I highlighted so much and you tell me guys, I 109 00:06:42,640 --> 00:06:45,440 love to read. So especially when you're giving 110 00:06:45,440 --> 00:06:48,720 me something so tantalizing to read about, one of the favorite 111 00:06:49,040 --> 00:06:52,280 things early on in the book is you keep saying this. 112 00:06:53,120 --> 00:06:56,480 Blowjobs are not a job. Now, ladies and gentlemen, 113 00:06:56,480 --> 00:07:00,200 despite of what we think, I always thought the word blowjob 114 00:07:00,200 --> 00:07:03,960 is just first of all, ugly. So I agree with you And and even 115 00:07:03,960 --> 00:07:09,320 just like give me some head depending upon the reference of 116 00:07:09,320 --> 00:07:12,760 like, you know, like we've had the song Shauna is, you know, 117 00:07:12,760 --> 00:07:15,040 getting some head. And I love that because it was 118 00:07:15,040 --> 00:07:18,120 talking about female and male pleasure at the same time 119 00:07:18,320 --> 00:07:21,720 talking about head. But I I just, I feel like 120 00:07:22,240 --> 00:07:26,680 there's no real sexy way to suck Dick. 121 00:07:27,000 --> 00:07:32,960 Say it so it really is because you are really enjoying 122 00:07:32,960 --> 00:07:34,000 yourself. Right. 123 00:07:34,320 --> 00:07:38,120 Like women don't realize that they can receive pleasure by 124 00:07:38,120 --> 00:07:40,920 giving pleasure. And it's that's why it's not a 125 00:07:40,920 --> 00:07:43,400 job. It's, you know, job for most 126 00:07:43,400 --> 00:07:47,760 people just overbroke really should be just oral bliss. 127 00:07:47,760 --> 00:07:52,160 That's my favorite way to describe that JOB. 128 00:07:54,160 --> 00:07:56,360 I love it. I mean, she's dropping the gems. 129 00:07:56,360 --> 00:07:59,280 They all just like little by little, the gems are coming. 130 00:07:59,800 --> 00:08:01,840 And I love, you know, oral bliss. 131 00:08:01,880 --> 00:08:04,120 You know, actually, when you think about it, yeah, there's 132 00:08:04,120 --> 00:08:05,800 the oral bliss. Here I go, y'all. 133 00:08:06,080 --> 00:08:08,040 I'm about to just, you know, make the doctor feel 134 00:08:08,040 --> 00:08:10,360 uncomfortable. But, you know, there is the 135 00:08:10,360 --> 00:08:13,040 bliss that comes with the oral fixation. 136 00:08:13,040 --> 00:08:18,920 I myself have oral fixation. I love watching people smoke 137 00:08:18,920 --> 00:08:22,160 weed and like the smoke expelling from their mouths. 138 00:08:22,360 --> 00:08:26,840 But also I have the fixation during sex where I love to focus 139 00:08:26,840 --> 00:08:33,320 on their they're just the ohms and the AWS and the the size of 140 00:08:33,320 --> 00:08:35,840 pleasure. And there's something about when 141 00:08:35,840 --> 00:08:38,640 you are going down there, whether it's a man or a woman, 142 00:08:39,400 --> 00:08:42,679 there is a certain bliss that does come from both mouths. 143 00:08:42,760 --> 00:08:45,840 First of all, it's like your mouth is saying the bliss of ah, 144 00:08:46,800 --> 00:08:50,760 but also your mouth is receiving such bliss. 145 00:08:51,440 --> 00:08:53,480 You know the love juices that come afterwards. 146 00:08:53,840 --> 00:08:56,520 I like that so. Giving is actually receiving, 147 00:08:56,520 --> 00:08:58,440 right? So that's one of the main 148 00:08:58,440 --> 00:09:05,840 things, insight and touch, the five senses, touch, taste, you 149 00:09:05,840 --> 00:09:11,360 know, pressure, feeling from on somebody else hearing the the 150 00:09:11,360 --> 00:09:14,840 words or feeling. Those are the key things in 151 00:09:14,840 --> 00:09:18,160 regards to how people really can enjoy each other through the 152 00:09:18,160 --> 00:09:20,120 five senses. And that's one of the chapters 153 00:09:20,120 --> 00:09:21,240 in how to get ahead. Absolutely. 154 00:09:21,920 --> 00:09:24,000 Very important. Very, very. 155 00:09:24,040 --> 00:09:27,160 But also, I wanted to be known for the women out there. 156 00:09:27,160 --> 00:09:32,720 Like we always talk about giving up control, but you turn around 157 00:09:32,720 --> 00:09:36,880 and you say women have such delicious control using their 158 00:09:36,880 --> 00:09:40,160 hands and mouth. No better way. 159 00:09:41,800 --> 00:09:46,120 Delicious control with your hand and mouth and learning or being 160 00:09:46,120 --> 00:09:48,320 comfortable with yourself is the most important part. 161 00:09:48,600 --> 00:09:52,200 I wanted people to learn the anatomy to improve their 162 00:09:52,200 --> 00:09:55,400 intimacy because it's such an important part to increase 163 00:09:55,400 --> 00:09:59,880 confidence and competence in the intimacy department by learning 164 00:10:00,240 --> 00:10:05,200 what is pleasurable to your partner, what parts and actually 165 00:10:05,200 --> 00:10:09,760 a whole chapters on female anatomy and and then also male 166 00:10:09,760 --> 00:10:12,800 anatomy learning where the nerves come where the anatomy 167 00:10:13,080 --> 00:10:18,120 can what's why why is under the head of the penis such a 168 00:10:18,120 --> 00:10:21,360 pleasurable location? Because all the nerves coalesce 169 00:10:21,360 --> 00:10:23,560 there, right on the under surface. 170 00:10:23,840 --> 00:10:28,720 And so their nerves vessels and the most stimulating part there. 171 00:10:29,040 --> 00:10:35,320 But also people to learn that the penis is not all, you see 172 00:10:35,320 --> 00:10:37,680 there's a lot hidden underneath, right? 173 00:10:37,680 --> 00:10:41,320 So there's a lot even behind the scrotum, behind the pubic bone, 174 00:10:41,480 --> 00:10:44,280 just like an iceberg. You see just the tip of the 175 00:10:44,280 --> 00:10:46,760 iceberg, but all of it's going beneath. 176 00:10:47,120 --> 00:10:49,280 So much pleasure is even there as well. 177 00:10:49,880 --> 00:10:54,080 And I love that you use that anatomy of or the example of the 178 00:10:54,080 --> 00:10:59,160 iceberg because first of all, iceberg tip Titanic, but also, 179 00:10:59,160 --> 00:11:01,360 you know, to paint the perfect, perfect picture. 180 00:11:01,360 --> 00:11:04,680 Like you say, it's kind of like the female anatomy with our 181 00:11:04,680 --> 00:11:07,320 clitoris. It's there's so many different 182 00:11:07,320 --> 00:11:12,160 nerve endings, just like you said with the male with a penis, 183 00:11:12,400 --> 00:11:15,880 so many different nerve endings that we seem to ignore even as 184 00:11:15,880 --> 00:11:20,160 women, even who might be men who love giving head themselves. 185 00:11:20,480 --> 00:11:23,320 I feel like there is, you know, we're not just sitting there 186 00:11:23,600 --> 00:11:27,120 during the act of sex and like, oh, let me, let me just pull 187 00:11:27,120 --> 00:11:31,000 back the perennium. Let me, you know, fondle. 188 00:11:31,000 --> 00:11:35,720 But at the same time, I agree, I think that we do need to take it 189 00:11:35,720 --> 00:11:40,480 up a notch in the bedroom and really rediscover each others 190 00:11:40,480 --> 00:11:43,080 bodies. Maybe rediscovering that game of 191 00:11:43,080 --> 00:11:46,400 doctor if you will. I love how you go into thorough 192 00:11:46,600 --> 00:11:50,400 because yesterday I kid you not. Might be a little bit TMI y'all 193 00:11:50,400 --> 00:11:55,600 but you know me, I'm reading this next to my husband and 194 00:11:55,600 --> 00:11:58,840 we're just we you know, we had a little bit of weed, we're 195 00:11:58,840 --> 00:12:02,960 listening to some reggae, enjoying he's sketching our our 196 00:12:02,960 --> 00:12:06,000 Christmas cards and stuff. Yes they're coming in late so 197 00:12:06,040 --> 00:12:09,760 you feel the vibe and I'm reading you talking about the 198 00:12:09,760 --> 00:12:13,240 anatomy and all. I found myself saying multiple 199 00:12:13,240 --> 00:12:19,040 times and telling my husband I want your cock in my mouth now. 200 00:12:20,360 --> 00:12:22,760 Awesome. I'm glad it had that effect. 201 00:12:22,760 --> 00:12:23,960 That's. The that's. 202 00:12:24,200 --> 00:12:28,560 The premise of the book is to help you enjoy even more what 203 00:12:28,560 --> 00:12:30,280 you didn't know you were missing, right? 204 00:12:30,480 --> 00:12:36,200 Yes, and it's funny because I personally never really loved 205 00:12:36,520 --> 00:12:41,280 giving head to men. Like I love eating pussy, I love 206 00:12:41,280 --> 00:12:44,120 as a woman, I love giving the pleasure to women. 207 00:12:44,480 --> 00:12:48,000 But until I met my husband and even my girlfriend's partner, 208 00:12:48,480 --> 00:12:52,320 giving head wasn't really a thing that I really liked to 209 00:12:52,320 --> 00:12:55,120 men. I as I would say to me giving 210 00:12:55,120 --> 00:12:58,600 head, it felt like I was just sucking a balloon and I was 211 00:12:58,600 --> 00:13:02,320 never really enjoying it. And even talking to my husband 212 00:13:02,320 --> 00:13:05,200 and having that good communication as we like to 213 00:13:05,560 --> 00:13:09,560 emphasize in our relationship, it's nice that we can have these 214 00:13:09,560 --> 00:13:13,400 check insurance and talk about not just what's what's wrong in 215 00:13:13,400 --> 00:13:16,000 the relationship, but also talking about what's missing. 216 00:13:16,360 --> 00:13:21,360 And, you know, he did say at one point, I want you to devour my 217 00:13:21,360 --> 00:13:25,960 cock the way you devour pussy. Can you put a little bit more 218 00:13:26,280 --> 00:13:30,320 love, emphasis love into it, you know, passion into it. 219 00:13:30,320 --> 00:13:38,280 I'm like, huh, never in my life have I been told my oral skills 220 00:13:38,280 --> 00:13:40,480 were bad. But it wasn't that my oral 221 00:13:40,480 --> 00:13:42,520 skills were bad. It was just more of like he 222 00:13:42,520 --> 00:13:46,400 wanted more passion. Yes, it's the enjoyment of it, 223 00:13:46,400 --> 00:13:50,120 the, the delight. And, you know, men are very 224 00:13:50,120 --> 00:13:52,040 visual. So they're going to be looking 225 00:13:52,040 --> 00:13:56,400 at your reaction of how enjoyable things are for you. 226 00:13:56,440 --> 00:14:01,400 And if you are, you know, very passionate and you have, you 227 00:14:01,400 --> 00:14:07,120 know, almost compassion for this amazing organ that we sometimes 228 00:14:07,120 --> 00:14:11,320 don't appreciate enough, you know, you want to climb it like 229 00:14:11,360 --> 00:14:15,360 Mount Everest. As I state as well in the book, 230 00:14:16,120 --> 00:14:20,120 you know, it's should be revered in the history section of the 231 00:14:20,120 --> 00:14:22,080 book. It really goes into here. 232 00:14:22,320 --> 00:14:25,720 Egyptians talked about and wrote about this, right? 233 00:14:26,000 --> 00:14:30,960 And then the people from Greece actually wore Grecian robes, so 234 00:14:30,960 --> 00:14:34,960 it was more accessible. And then also from Pompeii, 235 00:14:34,960 --> 00:14:38,600 there's beautiful statues everywhere that exemplify the 236 00:14:38,600 --> 00:14:45,920 beauty of the organs that we have and should be happy. 237 00:14:46,040 --> 00:14:49,480 Yes. Is available for pleasure I 238 00:14:49,480 --> 00:14:53,680 loved and so the science behind it is is also important too. 239 00:14:53,920 --> 00:14:57,120 I really liked the section about Pompeii, especially because I 240 00:14:57,120 --> 00:15:01,440 have been to Pompeii now. Funny thing, I was, I have and 241 00:15:01,440 --> 00:15:06,080 so I was 17 at the time. So of course now I'm reading 242 00:15:06,080 --> 00:15:09,880 this and I'm like, I don't think, I think we, we got that 243 00:15:09,880 --> 00:15:12,520 on the tour. And I'll tell you guys exactly 244 00:15:12,840 --> 00:15:16,480 what we're talking about here. So there's a particular artwork 245 00:15:17,400 --> 00:15:20,320 I might butcher this, the Latin word for brothel, which is 246 00:15:21,040 --> 00:15:24,040 Lupinar. You talked about it being the 247 00:15:24,040 --> 00:15:26,160 wolf den. And in the town there were 248 00:15:26,160 --> 00:15:29,840 exotic painting, erotic paintings of different sexual 249 00:15:29,840 --> 00:15:34,040 acts celebrating fellatio. I'm going back in my head and 250 00:15:34,040 --> 00:15:38,560 I'm like did I see anybody giving head? 251 00:15:39,040 --> 00:15:42,800 Did I see any? How did I miss with my 17 year 252 00:15:42,800 --> 00:15:46,440 old horny brain the same year I lose my virginity on the same 253 00:15:46,440 --> 00:15:49,560 trip? How did I miss the fucking 254 00:15:49,560 --> 00:15:51,920 picture? Literal fucking. 255 00:15:52,920 --> 00:15:56,640 Yeah, the urologist was actually very interested in all the 256 00:15:56,640 --> 00:16:00,600 loveliness that was there and very interested in the fact that 257 00:16:00,600 --> 00:16:05,160 these were accepted norms and really pleasurable experiences. 258 00:16:05,160 --> 00:16:09,120 That they actually advertised it in their in their artwork. 259 00:16:09,400 --> 00:16:12,840 And the cultural aspect of it is amazing. 260 00:16:12,840 --> 00:16:15,440 And that's why it's not so taboo there. 261 00:16:15,440 --> 00:16:18,320 We've made it taboo. There's still 3 states in 262 00:16:18,320 --> 00:16:22,560 America that this is not. This is like a crime, right? 263 00:16:23,000 --> 00:16:27,400 Right. Approved by marriage and, and, 264 00:16:27,400 --> 00:16:29,800 and hidden. Even in that case, there's 265 00:16:29,800 --> 00:16:32,160 issues. So until we get away from the 266 00:16:32,160 --> 00:16:38,480 taboo of it and accept it as a very important part of our 267 00:16:38,480 --> 00:16:42,360 lives, we won't be able to appreciate its beauty. 268 00:16:42,680 --> 00:16:47,840 It's, you know, function. It's able to produce and carry 269 00:16:47,840 --> 00:16:52,880 on different generations. And then it's so important for 270 00:16:52,880 --> 00:16:57,040 men to feel appreciated even in this manner because it's not 271 00:16:57,040 --> 00:17:02,200 about climbing ladders, using a blowjob, as you know, as a way 272 00:17:02,200 --> 00:17:04,319 to get somewhere in life. It's about learning about 273 00:17:04,319 --> 00:17:07,960 connection and unimaginable intimacy that you can get, 274 00:17:08,119 --> 00:17:11,000 learning about the anatomy and learning about the Physiology 275 00:17:11,000 --> 00:17:14,119 that happens with an erection and with relationships. 276 00:17:14,480 --> 00:17:18,480 It's funny how you you use this terminology of getting ahead, 277 00:17:18,480 --> 00:17:22,400 because again, when we use the term getting ahead in the social 278 00:17:22,400 --> 00:17:25,800 climate, climbing the social ladder, it's literally to get 279 00:17:25,800 --> 00:17:30,040 head to get that bigger pay. Now when you talk about it in 280 00:17:30,040 --> 00:17:34,040 the sexual manner, now we have this bigger problem, 281 00:17:34,280 --> 00:17:37,880 unfortunately, you know, with the Me Too's movement, I myself 282 00:17:37,880 --> 00:17:40,160 am becoming an intimacy coordinator. 283 00:17:40,160 --> 00:17:42,880 So I'm looking at sex. Awesome, thank you. 284 00:17:42,880 --> 00:17:46,520 I, I'm starting to look at sex a little bit differently in that 285 00:17:46,520 --> 00:17:48,440 lens. And maybe, you know, for 286 00:17:48,440 --> 00:17:52,120 yourself over the years you've seen sex in a different way in a 287 00:17:52,120 --> 00:17:55,400 different lens. So with your book called How to 288 00:17:55,400 --> 00:17:58,920 Get Ahead and now you have things like the Me Too movement 289 00:17:58,920 --> 00:18:01,720 and all that. How do you find yourself as a 290 00:18:01,720 --> 00:18:07,280 urologist making it more comfortable for women to say go 291 00:18:07,280 --> 00:18:11,200 and give that blowjob? The power is in your body, you 292 00:18:11,200 --> 00:18:15,840 know, despite the fact that we do have men, unfortunately in 293 00:18:15,840 --> 00:18:19,880 society using their penis as that, you know. 294 00:18:20,040 --> 00:18:21,760 In the wrong way. Exactly. 295 00:18:21,760 --> 00:18:24,840 Exactly. The important thing is for 296 00:18:25,240 --> 00:18:29,280 people to have the medical knowledge and the the knowledge 297 00:18:29,280 --> 00:18:35,000 that this is not taboo and not to be utilized for anything else 298 00:18:35,000 --> 00:18:38,120 other than great pleasure between two people that are 299 00:18:38,120 --> 00:18:40,560 connected at a higher level right. 300 00:18:40,760 --> 00:18:45,040 And it's not just to get ahead in jobs and you know, using it 301 00:18:45,200 --> 00:18:47,800 for any kind of professional advancement. 302 00:18:48,000 --> 00:18:53,560 It is really about the fun, the, the, the energy that you create 303 00:18:53,640 --> 00:18:56,720 the, the enjoyment. Some women don't realize they 304 00:18:56,720 --> 00:19:01,120 can probably get more stimulated and more vaginal moisture by 305 00:19:01,760 --> 00:19:06,920 licking and seeing the enjoyment on their partner's face by 306 00:19:07,320 --> 00:19:10,360 sucking in and and the stimulation that they can get 307 00:19:10,360 --> 00:19:15,360 from from giving a blowjob that they don't realize fellatio is 308 00:19:15,360 --> 00:19:19,800 such a good experience for them. They always thought it was for 309 00:19:19,800 --> 00:19:24,800 that partner to accept and enjoy, but it really is almost 310 00:19:24,800 --> 00:19:28,480 more enjoyment for the giver than the receiver sometimes. 311 00:19:28,840 --> 00:19:32,760 I love that and it, it is a kind of ebb and flow like, you know, 312 00:19:32,960 --> 00:19:36,560 talking about giving yourself to someone and sharing such an 313 00:19:36,560 --> 00:19:41,160 intimate moment. There is, you know, parts of 314 00:19:41,520 --> 00:19:45,640 giving head, if you will, where it can be more sensual, a mutual 315 00:19:45,880 --> 00:19:48,200 type of pleasure. It's the, like you said, men 316 00:19:48,480 --> 00:19:53,480 wanting to see the visualization of maybe her hand stroking his, 317 00:19:53,880 --> 00:19:57,640 you know, penis while it's being devoured in her mouth and she's 318 00:19:57,640 --> 00:20:02,560 slowly taking it out and putting it back in or rolling her tongue 319 00:20:02,560 --> 00:20:06,760 around. And they like to see breasts and 320 00:20:06,760 --> 00:20:11,360 butts and and just mobilizing and utilizing your body in a 321 00:20:11,400 --> 00:20:15,240 simulating manner. Wild given head is a turn on to 322 00:20:15,240 --> 00:20:22,280 you as well as him seeing the the movement and the enjoyment. 323 00:20:22,520 --> 00:20:25,600 It shouldn't be a job in regards to you just doing a repetitive 324 00:20:25,600 --> 00:20:30,920 motion, alternating motions, you know, corkscrewing while dipping 325 00:20:30,920 --> 00:20:35,200 in, you know, decadent chocolate and then licking chocolate. 326 00:20:35,200 --> 00:20:39,240 If you love chocolate or champagne, dipping the penis in 327 00:20:39,600 --> 00:20:43,320 your favorite drink and licking it off and enjoying it, that's 328 00:20:43,320 --> 00:20:47,000 such a pleasure to you as well as to him. 329 00:20:47,400 --> 00:20:51,800 Now we got to pause and tell them, doc, when you're doing all 330 00:20:51,800 --> 00:20:55,800 these things of dipping and and, you know, dabbling with the 331 00:20:55,800 --> 00:20:59,760 foods and the drinks, what do we got to do first? 332 00:20:59,800 --> 00:21:02,680 We got to make sure we clean it before we insert. 333 00:21:03,400 --> 00:21:07,480 Very, very important that friendliness. 334 00:21:07,520 --> 00:21:11,560 Every man needs to learn this is paramount before anyone will 335 00:21:11,560 --> 00:21:14,600 even go there. If it doesn't smell great, if it 336 00:21:14,600 --> 00:21:18,400 doesn't taste great, even asparagus, asparagus when you 337 00:21:18,400 --> 00:21:21,880 when somebody drinks or eats asparagus, their Seminole fluid 338 00:21:21,880 --> 00:21:24,040 tastes different. So it's not a good one before, 339 00:21:24,400 --> 00:21:29,480 before fellatio or vaginal it too or vaginal pH changes. 340 00:21:29,640 --> 00:21:32,800 So anyway, just like how your urine smells when you urinate 341 00:21:32,800 --> 00:21:35,840 after eating asparagus, not everybody has that enzyme 342 00:21:36,080 --> 00:21:39,640 asparaginous, but for those who do, those are important things. 343 00:21:39,640 --> 00:21:44,760 But cleanliness Ballsy is a company that has, you know, a 344 00:21:44,760 --> 00:21:47,440 nice product that they have for men. 345 00:21:47,920 --> 00:21:50,080 It's called Ballsy, which I I totally love. 346 00:21:50,160 --> 00:21:57,520 We talk and BLBLLS. Y ballsy ballsy It's a great 347 00:21:57,520 --> 00:22:01,600 product that has charcoal and really makes men smell great. 348 00:22:01,600 --> 00:22:06,160 It's a good option before you know the way you want to give. 349 00:22:06,440 --> 00:22:09,600 I love that. Now going back to the historical 350 00:22:09,600 --> 00:22:13,320 context and again you know, talking about this beautiful act 351 00:22:13,320 --> 00:22:18,600 of of fellatio, I myself have been going back and re watching 352 00:22:18,640 --> 00:22:22,000 or not re watching. I became a later fan of the show 353 00:22:22,000 --> 00:22:27,360 Spartacus that is on stars and so now they have re released a 354 00:22:27,400 --> 00:22:30,480 reboot if you will, House of Asher. 355 00:22:30,480 --> 00:22:34,040 And one thing that is very well known of course, as we were just 356 00:22:34,040 --> 00:22:38,800 briefly talking about it, you know, Greek history with sex, is 357 00:22:39,160 --> 00:22:43,680 how much full frontal nudity Spartacus has and really 358 00:22:43,720 --> 00:22:46,000 celebrating if you will, the cock. 359 00:22:46,320 --> 00:22:51,480 They have a song that keeps going on season after season. 360 00:22:51,480 --> 00:22:54,280 It's like my cock rage is on, my cock rage is on. 361 00:22:55,280 --> 00:22:59,400 I may need to watch this I mean. Obviously. 362 00:22:59,440 --> 00:23:01,160 Yeah, that sounds like a great option. 363 00:23:01,440 --> 00:23:04,600 It's a great show if you you know, if you like the gladiator 364 00:23:04,600 --> 00:23:07,080 battles and the, you know, the graphicness. 365 00:23:07,400 --> 00:23:11,840 But as far as like talking about Grecian culture and talking 366 00:23:11,840 --> 00:23:16,160 about the way they talk about sex and celebrate sex, again, 367 00:23:16,320 --> 00:23:19,200 that's another show where I'm like, yeah, this is true to 368 00:23:19,200 --> 00:23:24,680 character of how much Eroticism is in everyday life. 369 00:23:24,920 --> 00:23:30,080 Sex was not this, you know, trophy thing. 370 00:23:30,080 --> 00:23:33,200 It was just the thing they did, you know, you have parties they 371 00:23:33,400 --> 00:23:38,440 that would turn into orgies, sex openly in the streets and women 372 00:23:38,440 --> 00:23:40,960 getting pleasured in the streets, men getting pleasured 373 00:23:40,960 --> 00:23:43,400 in the streets. And now you're, you know, 374 00:23:43,400 --> 00:23:47,680 talking about with the Pompeii, the depictions of Eroticism in 375 00:23:47,680 --> 00:23:53,400 artwork, Japanese culture. We look at the way I forgot what 376 00:23:53,400 --> 00:23:57,400 they they call the specific act of the sexual art work. 377 00:23:57,400 --> 00:24:01,160 But all those pictures that depicted bellatio and especially 378 00:24:01,160 --> 00:24:05,160 kind of Lingus, all these things being celebrated in different 379 00:24:05,160 --> 00:24:07,560 cultures. And like you said, as Americans, 380 00:24:07,560 --> 00:24:13,080 we don't have that healthy celebratory sex. 381 00:24:13,440 --> 00:24:15,560 We we don't celebrate sex at all. 382 00:24:16,640 --> 00:24:19,440 Yes. So Andy Warhol in 1969 383 00:24:20,080 --> 00:24:25,360 appropriate timing for writing that book, yes, actually wrote, 384 00:24:25,560 --> 00:24:30,920 you know about a pleasure yes, but it was hidden, right. 385 00:24:30,920 --> 00:24:35,000 It was hidden, but it was our first view in America to have it 386 00:24:35,000 --> 00:24:40,600 acceptable on screen. And then it developed after you 387 00:24:40,600 --> 00:24:42,760 know that to even more things, right. 388 00:24:43,920 --> 00:24:49,000 And so that's one of the things that I think that we have to get 389 00:24:49,000 --> 00:24:52,560 used to learning that this is not taboo. 390 00:24:52,840 --> 00:24:56,360 And that's the key thing is learning more education on the, 391 00:24:56,520 --> 00:24:59,600 you know, the slang JOB was probably one of the main 392 00:24:59,600 --> 00:25:03,400 problems, right? Or the ancient cultures or the 393 00:25:03,400 --> 00:25:08,160 social stigma that's been associated with giving head, as 394 00:25:08,160 --> 00:25:10,920 you pointed out, using it for advancement. 395 00:25:11,600 --> 00:25:16,280 But if people realize that that's definitely the taboo part 396 00:25:16,280 --> 00:25:21,120 of it, not the ACT itself being taboo, you know, that I think is 397 00:25:21,280 --> 00:25:25,480 very important to us. Absolutely now, as being, you 398 00:25:25,480 --> 00:25:29,120 know, black girl magic over here, we got to talk about our 399 00:25:29,120 --> 00:25:34,200 own, you know, culture and how our culture actually effects 400 00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:37,680 sex, sex culture in the black community, especially when we 401 00:25:37,680 --> 00:25:42,760 talk about oral, you know, half of the time it's mostly for the 402 00:25:42,760 --> 00:25:46,480 male pleasure. You know, you flipping it to say 403 00:25:46,480 --> 00:25:50,520 that giving head can be pleasurable for both parties. 404 00:25:51,320 --> 00:25:55,840 How often with your clientele do you have, you know, black men 405 00:25:55,840 --> 00:26:00,200 coming in and talking about, you know, their, their penile issues 406 00:26:00,200 --> 00:26:03,800 and talking about, you know, getting their their lady to 407 00:26:03,800 --> 00:26:06,400 please them better. Or, you know, just in general 408 00:26:06,400 --> 00:26:10,560 how we have black men who are scared to talk to any doctor 409 00:26:10,560 --> 00:26:13,400 about, you know, their, the genitalia. 410 00:26:14,240 --> 00:26:16,840 I think that they try to stay away from it. 411 00:26:16,840 --> 00:26:19,600 Worried about prostate cancer, worried about prostate 412 00:26:19,600 --> 00:26:23,120 enlargement in general. And so many times when patients 413 00:26:23,120 --> 00:26:26,720 are sent to me for enlargement of their prostate, I bring up 414 00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:29,760 the sexual part because usually, sometimes they're afraid to. 415 00:26:29,960 --> 00:26:32,200 They really want to. You can sense whether they want 416 00:26:32,200 --> 00:26:34,840 to or not. And once you bring it up, then 417 00:26:34,840 --> 00:26:38,000 they're open to explain what their desires are or what 418 00:26:38,000 --> 00:26:41,200 they're missing. And sometimes they are really 419 00:26:41,200 --> 00:26:45,280 interested, interested in, you know, even for management of 420 00:26:45,280 --> 00:26:48,960 prostate cancer. They'll be worried more about 421 00:26:48,960 --> 00:26:51,720 their erectile function and the cancer itself. 422 00:26:51,720 --> 00:26:54,040 Yeah. And so I'll always explain. 423 00:26:54,040 --> 00:26:55,920 We want to preserve erectile function. 424 00:26:55,920 --> 00:26:57,880 We are the ones that manage that. 425 00:26:57,880 --> 00:27:02,080 You know, we have so many options from Viagra to peanut 426 00:27:02,080 --> 00:27:06,040 pumps to injection therapy. There's so many different 427 00:27:06,040 --> 00:27:10,720 options that being alive and well first and managing prostate 428 00:27:10,720 --> 00:27:14,200 cancer is so much more of the importance. 429 00:27:14,400 --> 00:27:16,480 And then we can deal with the rest as urologists. 430 00:27:16,480 --> 00:27:18,680 And so then they'll be a little bit more comfortable. 431 00:27:18,680 --> 00:27:24,080 But I think that's so many men that have been diagnosing late 432 00:27:24,360 --> 00:27:26,920 for prostate cancer. To her black men, it's because 433 00:27:26,920 --> 00:27:31,880 they're afraid of that problem, the erectile problem, their 434 00:27:31,880 --> 00:27:35,800 ability to not have pleasure in the future, but not 435 00:27:35,800 --> 00:27:38,280 understanding that this is a very important disease that 436 00:27:38,280 --> 00:27:41,480 needs to be managed early. Whole different management if 437 00:27:41,480 --> 00:27:45,640 caught late versus early and then managing their sexual 438 00:27:45,640 --> 00:27:48,480 function is what we are able to help with. 439 00:27:48,880 --> 00:27:52,120 What would you say is the biggest factor or maybe not 440 00:27:52,120 --> 00:27:56,120 biggest factor? What would you say is, are you 441 00:27:56,120 --> 00:28:00,800 seeing a change of how younger clientele are coming in to 442 00:28:00,800 --> 00:28:02,920 check, you know, on their penile health? 443 00:28:02,920 --> 00:28:06,640 Because I've, as someone who's been working in the adult 444 00:28:06,640 --> 00:28:10,200 industry for years and I work behind the scenes, I'm noticing 445 00:28:10,200 --> 00:28:17,400 a lot of penile erectile dysfunction happening more in 446 00:28:17,400 --> 00:28:20,640 the black males in this community in particular. 447 00:28:20,920 --> 00:28:25,840 They're resulting to using more pills and using, you know, the 448 00:28:25,840 --> 00:28:29,640 enlargement devices, but also there's this danger. 449 00:28:29,920 --> 00:28:32,320 So maybe you can shed some light on that too. 450 00:28:32,640 --> 00:28:36,440 Yes, I've been seeing, I've been, you know, urologist now 30 451 00:28:36,440 --> 00:28:40,120 years and there are a lot of patients that were always 452 00:28:40,120 --> 00:28:43,800 diagnosed with erectile dysfunction later age, sixties, 453 00:28:43,800 --> 00:28:46,880 70s. Now we're seeing 2030 year olds 454 00:28:46,880 --> 00:28:49,840 with erectile dysfunction. There's so much stress and 455 00:28:49,840 --> 00:28:54,800 they're so focused on only fans and all the things that they see 456 00:28:54,800 --> 00:28:57,600 on TV, right? And then they when the real 457 00:28:57,600 --> 00:29:00,960 golfer and comes, it's like, Oh, no, that's not what I expected. 458 00:29:00,960 --> 00:29:05,360 And you're not doing what I saw on on the social media. 459 00:29:05,560 --> 00:29:09,600 And so then they're disappointed and they're actually needing 460 00:29:09,880 --> 00:29:14,080 more devices and more supplements and more medications 461 00:29:14,280 --> 00:29:17,080 than ever before. But cortisol, the stress 462 00:29:17,080 --> 00:29:20,240 hormone, is what's creating a lot of these problems for the 463 00:29:20,600 --> 00:29:26,480 men being isolated or not having the confidence to to approach 464 00:29:26,480 --> 00:29:30,120 women sometimes lately because of their insecurities, right. 465 00:29:30,320 --> 00:29:33,680 And so that's where I think a lot of the problems are 466 00:29:33,680 --> 00:29:37,680 occurring. Or they see on on porn what they 467 00:29:37,680 --> 00:29:42,400 don't look like and then they feel funny about that part of it 468 00:29:42,400 --> 00:29:45,560 and then disconnected and think they need help. 469 00:29:45,760 --> 00:29:51,400 But actually it's, it's a sad deal that the younger guys are 470 00:29:51,400 --> 00:29:55,760 needing help now with erections because it should be, you know, 471 00:29:55,760 --> 00:29:58,000 Breeze should blow by and they should get an erection. 472 00:29:58,320 --> 00:30:02,960 And so now it's become a real social problem for young men. 473 00:30:03,040 --> 00:30:06,600 Yes, I've I've definitely been noticing it a lot of you know, 474 00:30:06,880 --> 00:30:09,760 and then counteracting. It's like especially again, 475 00:30:09,760 --> 00:30:13,680 going on to the porn side and hopefully people listening out 476 00:30:13,680 --> 00:30:18,200 there will understand like just because these men in porn have 477 00:30:18,320 --> 00:30:23,200 very huge cocks, OK, even the smallest cocks in in the porn 478 00:30:23,200 --> 00:30:26,040 business have these, you know, these issues. 479 00:30:26,040 --> 00:30:30,840 But the the problem that we're not talking about is the abuse 480 00:30:30,960 --> 00:30:34,960 that these men are doing to their penises and in injecting. 481 00:30:35,160 --> 00:30:40,600 It's the injecting and the the steroid uses even I'm like when 482 00:30:40,600 --> 00:30:44,760 did steroids being injected into the like what what is going on 483 00:30:44,800 --> 00:30:48,080 with that like? Well, now they're doing just 484 00:30:48,080 --> 00:30:51,600 like how women get fillers for their lips, there's now fallow 485 00:30:51,600 --> 00:30:55,040 fill, which is the filling of the penis to make it look bigger 486 00:30:55,320 --> 00:30:58,280 and fuller. And so this is, I know it's, 487 00:30:58,280 --> 00:31:01,960 it's crazy how many things are out there that's available for 488 00:31:01,960 --> 00:31:04,280 enlarging size. But most women don't really care 489 00:31:04,280 --> 00:31:06,640 about size. They really care about function 490 00:31:07,000 --> 00:31:10,400 and interaction and loving connection more than size 491 00:31:10,400 --> 00:31:14,600 actually. And so this fixation with size 492 00:31:14,600 --> 00:31:17,960 may have been what they you've seen and not realize, you know, 493 00:31:17,960 --> 00:31:21,480 average size is 5 to 6 right inches. 494 00:31:21,480 --> 00:31:25,960 So they may not be that small or most of it's underneath like the 495 00:31:25,960 --> 00:31:30,640 iceberg and they they need to be stimulated behind the scrotum 496 00:31:30,840 --> 00:31:35,080 extending towards the anus, which is the taint, which is 497 00:31:35,080 --> 00:31:39,000 very sensitive for a lot of men and, and a lot of play can occur 498 00:31:39,000 --> 00:31:41,720 there and not just what's sticking out too. 499 00:31:41,920 --> 00:31:46,600 Right now for those that are like, I want to get my lady or I 500 00:31:46,600 --> 00:31:49,880 want to get more comfortable with prostate play, I, I like 501 00:31:49,880 --> 00:31:53,800 to, you know, tickle the taint a little bit, but my, my, my 502 00:31:53,800 --> 00:31:57,080 husband particularly does not like his ass penetrated. 503 00:31:57,080 --> 00:31:59,840 So I cannot give him that extra pleasure. 504 00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:04,680 But I do like to, you know, try to rub in between, you know, the 505 00:32:04,680 --> 00:32:07,080 crevices of the balls where the shaft meets. 506 00:32:07,280 --> 00:32:09,400 And I always tell people, you know, do a little come, hit her 507 00:32:09,400 --> 00:32:10,600 just like you would with the clit. 508 00:32:10,960 --> 00:32:13,760 But for the men out there that are like I want my lady to be 509 00:32:13,760 --> 00:32:16,800 more comfortable with backdoor play, or how do I get myself 510 00:32:17,040 --> 00:32:20,720 more comfortable with backdoor play to get that achievement, 511 00:32:21,000 --> 00:32:24,560 what do you suggest? So most, most guys that even 512 00:32:24,560 --> 00:32:27,360 come to see a urologist are afraid just of a rectal exam 513 00:32:27,360 --> 00:32:30,800 with a finger. So a lot of guys are either 514 00:32:30,800 --> 00:32:34,360 uncomfortable because they don't want to feel like, Oh no, that 515 00:32:34,360 --> 00:32:36,040 felt good, so then I'm gay, right? 516 00:32:36,040 --> 00:32:41,120 Or oh, I'm uncomfortable because my doctor put their finger 517 00:32:41,120 --> 00:32:43,600 there, right? So they may be uncomfortable in 518 00:32:43,600 --> 00:32:46,080 doing play, but there's so many nerves. 519 00:32:46,280 --> 00:32:49,080 The nerves that go to the penis go right along the prostate. 520 00:32:49,720 --> 00:32:53,040 And so stimulation of the prostate is oftentimes a very 521 00:32:53,040 --> 00:32:56,440 good feeling for some men. And maybe the reason gay men 522 00:32:56,440 --> 00:33:00,400 like it so much because they are used to that nice penetration of 523 00:33:00,400 --> 00:33:04,160 the area and why some men actually want to do anal 524 00:33:04,160 --> 00:33:07,080 intercourse for women even because the nerves that coalesce 525 00:33:07,080 --> 00:33:12,200 around the anal verge is very stimulating and the the 526 00:33:12,200 --> 00:33:16,200 contractility of the wall of the rectum is so powerful that 527 00:33:16,920 --> 00:33:20,320 people may like that, but they may be afraid to even explore 528 00:33:20,320 --> 00:33:24,800 that Ave. What would you say as your, you 529 00:33:24,800 --> 00:33:26,520 know, talking about your clientele, which I really love 530 00:33:26,520 --> 00:33:29,560 that you get into your book without breaking HIPAA, 531 00:33:29,560 --> 00:33:33,880 obviously, but I do love how you bring your clientele into this, 532 00:33:33,880 --> 00:33:37,680 a lot of your play. I think one of them, I'm trying 533 00:33:37,680 --> 00:33:41,400 to find one in particular because again, I was a person 534 00:33:41,400 --> 00:33:45,920 that was just reading your book, highlighting, highlighting after 535 00:33:45,920 --> 00:33:47,840 highlighting. And I'm just like, Oh my God, 536 00:33:48,600 --> 00:33:52,960 this is perfect. But you know how to get ahead. 537 00:33:53,360 --> 00:33:56,080 And so I love how you said, you know, everyone has the right 538 00:33:56,080 --> 00:33:59,960 fit, which is great. And how you said also women, we 539 00:33:59,960 --> 00:34:03,680 need to stop focusing on the girth and how we need to focus 540 00:34:03,680 --> 00:34:07,240 more on the function. There are size Queens out there. 541 00:34:07,480 --> 00:34:11,760 And I have to say now, in porn, it scares the living shit out of 542 00:34:11,760 --> 00:34:16,639 me whenever I'm seeing women with, you know, getting head and 543 00:34:16,679 --> 00:34:22,639 men wanting to stretch the mouth a little bit wider to the point 544 00:34:22,639 --> 00:34:25,920 where she's like, bleeding. Yeah, accommodating. 545 00:34:25,920 --> 00:34:27,639 That's not good. Yeah, the overly. 546 00:34:27,800 --> 00:34:30,960 Nothing painful. Nothing painful is ever really 547 00:34:30,960 --> 00:34:31,880 good. Yeah. 548 00:34:32,159 --> 00:34:34,159 Learning. You know, learning what? 549 00:34:34,320 --> 00:34:36,320 But you know what? It's best to talk about this 550 00:34:36,320 --> 00:34:42,360 before you start exploring because sometimes somebody you 551 00:34:42,360 --> 00:34:45,159 may be doing something somebody hates all the time and that's 552 00:34:45,159 --> 00:34:48,679 why they've never been really happy in this relationship 553 00:34:48,920 --> 00:34:51,440 because you didn't really explore what they really liked. 554 00:34:51,719 --> 00:34:56,080 Like if somebody likes to be touched softly or, and, and 555 00:34:56,080 --> 00:34:59,600 somebody keeps pressing harder, you may not like that or that 556 00:34:59,600 --> 00:35:03,240 vice versa, somebody likes really firm pressure and you're 557 00:35:03,240 --> 00:35:07,600 being soft. So sharing your likes or 558 00:35:07,600 --> 00:35:11,760 dislikes before the ACT is very important because some people 559 00:35:11,760 --> 00:35:16,720 really may not realize, you know, acts of service may be 560 00:35:16,720 --> 00:35:20,200 their their love language, right? 561 00:35:20,200 --> 00:35:23,800 Or instead of a gift being their love language, they may really 562 00:35:23,960 --> 00:35:27,520 just like spending time together and enjoying the the things that 563 00:35:27,520 --> 00:35:31,120 each other loves. And that's kind of what I wanted 564 00:35:31,120 --> 00:35:34,320 to share in the book, is exploring beyond what you're 565 00:35:34,320 --> 00:35:38,960 used to to enhance your current intimate relationship. 566 00:35:39,280 --> 00:35:41,200 How much more pleasure can you get? 567 00:35:41,400 --> 00:35:45,760 Maybe not ejaculating can send nerves up your spine, like David 568 00:35:45,920 --> 00:35:50,440 Dita says in his like that may be even more pleasure than 569 00:35:50,440 --> 00:35:53,600 actually just coming. I'm glad that you just know. 570 00:35:54,160 --> 00:35:57,240 Just mention the way of the superior man. 571 00:35:57,240 --> 00:36:00,160 Like you said, David, you said data. 572 00:36:00,400 --> 00:36:02,520 Data data. I don't know if I say it right. 573 00:36:02,520 --> 00:36:04,400 I'm the island girl so I say everything wrong. 574 00:36:04,600 --> 00:36:07,680 I don't know, I love your voice, I love the island voice, but I 575 00:36:07,680 --> 00:36:10,600 love how you you just talked about that because I'm always 576 00:36:10,840 --> 00:36:14,560 loving and giving man advice and telling him about delayed 577 00:36:14,800 --> 00:36:16,920 ejaculation. Or, you know, we need to stop 578 00:36:16,920 --> 00:36:21,440 focusing on fucking to come and just fucking for the pleasure 579 00:36:21,680 --> 00:36:24,560 and delaying that pleasure, elongating that pleasure. 580 00:36:25,160 --> 00:36:28,400 So when we're talking to, you know, your clients, like you 581 00:36:28,400 --> 00:36:31,240 have a client that's sitting down with you talking about 582 00:36:31,240 --> 00:36:35,040 their ejaculation problems. Maybe they're saying like, I'm 583 00:36:35,040 --> 00:36:38,760 having a partner always forcing me to want to come and I'm over 584 00:36:38,760 --> 00:36:42,560 here trying to save my my semen, right. 585 00:36:42,880 --> 00:36:44,920 How do you deal with those partners that have that 586 00:36:45,040 --> 00:36:49,120 miscommunication of what they're trying to do of delaying the 587 00:36:49,120 --> 00:36:53,600 orgasm for more pleasure? So I, I start with communication 588 00:36:53,600 --> 00:36:56,320 because if the partner doesn't know that they want them to be 589 00:36:56,320 --> 00:36:59,880 pleasured longer and they just think that they're not sexy 590 00:36:59,880 --> 00:37:02,840 enough to make them come, then they may have that insecurity 591 00:37:02,840 --> 00:37:06,520 that it's not even related to that they're really wanting to 592 00:37:06,520 --> 00:37:10,400 enjoy the pleasure even more. Or if they want to ejaculate so 593 00:37:10,400 --> 00:37:13,560 quickly, but they don't realize there's even more pleasure in 594 00:37:13,560 --> 00:37:16,880 not ejaculating, you know, but there's medications. 595 00:37:16,880 --> 00:37:20,040 If somebody has trouble, you know, with that, you can 596 00:37:20,240 --> 00:37:23,760 increase oxytocin for them. So it's more of the love hormone 597 00:37:23,760 --> 00:37:26,920 that's been secreted so they can last longer. 598 00:37:27,120 --> 00:37:30,920 Or there's medications that we give, but not all needs to be 599 00:37:30,920 --> 00:37:33,240 medication. Sometimes it's knowledge and 600 00:37:33,520 --> 00:37:36,240 natural secretion of oxytocin, right? 601 00:37:36,240 --> 00:37:39,280 And from the brain, which are the reward drugs in our brain 602 00:37:39,440 --> 00:37:44,600 that as well as dopamine, right? So those things I think are good 603 00:37:44,600 --> 00:37:47,800 to learn because some people may not be aware that that's a 604 00:37:47,800 --> 00:37:51,440 component that they're maybe missing or they need help with. 605 00:37:51,840 --> 00:37:55,080 But we can help with those things at Quantum Health and 606 00:37:55,080 --> 00:37:57,680 Wellness Center. I actually see a lot of patients 607 00:37:57,680 --> 00:38:02,800 that talk about their sexual dysfunction and you know, some 608 00:38:02,800 --> 00:38:05,880 people really need testosterone replacement to help them with 609 00:38:06,160 --> 00:38:11,280 fatigue, energy, libido, desire. But some people need to. 610 00:38:11,320 --> 00:38:15,480 They worry that oh, I'm Jacqueline too quickly or not 611 00:38:15,480 --> 00:38:19,000 quickly enough. I find out what the cause is and 612 00:38:19,000 --> 00:38:21,480 try to treat it accordingly. I like that. 613 00:38:21,720 --> 00:38:24,480 Now would you tell people, you know, clients, that maybe we 614 00:38:24,480 --> 00:38:29,520 need to stop shifting the focus of making sex the the end goal 615 00:38:29,520 --> 00:38:33,200 to come and just enjoying sex? Would you say that? 616 00:38:33,200 --> 00:38:37,760 Yes, yes, I definitely think enjoying all of it is more 617 00:38:37,760 --> 00:38:41,640 important than the end goal of ejaculation and just doing sex. 618 00:38:41,640 --> 00:38:46,360 Because foreplay is very important for getting the mind, 619 00:38:46,360 --> 00:38:50,280 body, soul into the physical act. 620 00:38:50,600 --> 00:38:54,880 And that's sometimes not being explored for people's potential 621 00:38:55,160 --> 00:38:58,600 and and their contributions to each other. 622 00:38:58,880 --> 00:39:03,440 Sometimes it's lost if it's just let's do this and get done. 623 00:39:03,440 --> 00:39:06,200 So I got to go back to work. You know, they're sometimes for 624 00:39:06,200 --> 00:39:08,280 cookies. There are times they're that 625 00:39:08,280 --> 00:39:09,360 they're needed. Right. 626 00:39:09,560 --> 00:39:12,800 But sometimes it's more important to explore each other. 627 00:39:12,840 --> 00:39:16,280 I completely agree. You know what's funny, early in 628 00:39:16,280 --> 00:39:22,080 my relationship in talking about my, my marriage, not my 629 00:39:22,200 --> 00:39:25,640 relationship with my girlfriend, but to make it, you know, 630 00:39:25,640 --> 00:39:28,360 specific. But early on we would say we 631 00:39:28,680 --> 00:39:31,640 never believed in the art of a quickie. 632 00:39:32,240 --> 00:39:35,600 We just, it was just like, no, no, no, we can't do a quickie. 633 00:39:35,600 --> 00:39:39,240 But now it's like, OK, we can do cookies where, you know, 634 00:39:39,320 --> 00:39:42,800 sometimes it's a nice tease where you know, he'll tease me 635 00:39:43,000 --> 00:39:46,520 or I'll tease him to not come. And I love that because when we 636 00:39:46,520 --> 00:39:49,320 come back to each other and, you know, finish each other off, 637 00:39:49,320 --> 00:39:53,000 it's the bigger gratification. But sometimes I love the fact, 638 00:39:53,000 --> 00:39:57,160 like you said, end game is not to come, you know, or even how 639 00:39:57,160 --> 00:40:00,320 you say at the end of your book, which is perfect about happy 640 00:40:00,320 --> 00:40:02,840 endings. It's like enjoy that happy 641 00:40:02,840 --> 00:40:05,080 ending. It shouldn't be like the sex is 642 00:40:05,080 --> 00:40:07,520 over. You know, you're just, yes, it's 643 00:40:07,520 --> 00:40:09,440 just a. Continuous ending is the ending, 644 00:40:09,600 --> 00:40:11,840 right? So you may it's the the 645 00:40:11,840 --> 00:40:16,080 spiritual, emotional, mental and physical well-being that's 646 00:40:16,120 --> 00:40:18,000 that's so important to be explored. 647 00:40:18,080 --> 00:40:21,360 Absolutely. Now I want to dive deeper with 648 00:40:21,360 --> 00:40:25,480 you doc. What would you say in 2026 men 649 00:40:25,480 --> 00:40:30,200 need to leave behind about their penises and what do you or how? 650 00:40:31,200 --> 00:40:32,880 Let's not just even leave it to men. 651 00:40:33,120 --> 00:40:37,000 What should penile owners leave in 2025? 652 00:40:37,280 --> 00:40:42,240 Coming into 2026, how are we viewing sex and the penis in 653 00:40:42,240 --> 00:40:44,560 2026? What do they need to leave 654 00:40:44,560 --> 00:40:47,360 behind? I think it needs to be referred 655 00:40:47,440 --> 00:40:52,480 and appreciated rather than utilitarian, right? 656 00:40:52,520 --> 00:40:58,120 And so I think leaving behind the negative vibes and moving 657 00:40:58,120 --> 00:41:03,000 into more infectious positivity, I think is what 2026 should 658 00:41:03,000 --> 00:41:06,360 provide for all of us. And part of that is learning 659 00:41:06,360 --> 00:41:10,600 your partner's desires through, you know, love language and or 660 00:41:10,600 --> 00:41:13,120 senses. Maybe that person likes taste 661 00:41:13,440 --> 00:41:15,920 and you haven't been providing enough taste for them. 662 00:41:15,920 --> 00:41:20,960 Or your partner loves vision and you're not dancing in your sexy 663 00:41:21,240 --> 00:41:26,960 song and, you know, and negligee walking around all hot, right? 664 00:41:26,960 --> 00:41:30,680 Or playing your favorite music for your heirs, you know, 665 00:41:30,920 --> 00:41:34,600 Corinne Bailey Ray or Cardi B, you know, take it, whatever, 666 00:41:34,680 --> 00:41:39,160 whatever drives you, right? And sometimes this the sensual 667 00:41:39,480 --> 00:41:43,400 and the sexual are are not being interplayed well. 668 00:41:43,600 --> 00:41:48,680 And so think about our senses or sight for men are visual, women 669 00:41:48,680 --> 00:41:54,080 are visual also smell scent. Whether you like perfumes or 670 00:41:54,080 --> 00:41:58,680 just clean, whatever it is, hearing music, your favorite 671 00:41:58,680 --> 00:42:01,960 song may turn or bring a good memory and that may turn you on 672 00:42:01,960 --> 00:42:07,240 even and taste and touch. Do you like light pressure? 673 00:42:07,240 --> 00:42:09,760 Do you like firm? You know, those are the things I 674 00:42:09,760 --> 00:42:13,200 want people to learn from each other to improve their intimacy 675 00:42:13,200 --> 00:42:14,880 long term. Absolutely. 676 00:42:15,200 --> 00:42:19,000 And for those that are like, you know what, my penis is fine. 677 00:42:19,200 --> 00:42:21,920 I don't need my penis checked out and they're scared about 678 00:42:21,920 --> 00:42:23,200 getting their penises checked out. 679 00:42:23,400 --> 00:42:26,880 How could we make it a little sexier in the bedroom to, you 680 00:42:27,200 --> 00:42:29,400 know, do these self examinations? 681 00:42:29,560 --> 00:42:33,160 Examination so one of the key things is you know STD's people 682 00:42:33,160 --> 00:42:36,360 forget about that right and so like if you start in a 683 00:42:36,360 --> 00:42:39,600 relationship you it's good to explore and look at the penis 684 00:42:39,840 --> 00:42:43,000 maybe there's a lump on there maybe there's a divot you know 685 00:42:43,000 --> 00:42:47,240 like if you have HPV there may be a sign with a you know wart 686 00:42:47,280 --> 00:42:51,040 appearance or you may have discharge from the tip if it's 687 00:42:51,040 --> 00:42:54,360 yellow or purulent they maybe you have gonorrhea. 688 00:42:54,360 --> 00:42:58,640 So looking at the these processes to make sure you're 689 00:42:58,640 --> 00:43:03,480 having safe and appropriate intercourse with this partner 690 00:43:03,800 --> 00:43:06,280 is, is a good way to start looking right? 691 00:43:06,280 --> 00:43:13,680 So just even looking is very important before you even engulf 692 00:43:14,040 --> 00:43:18,240 or or and you know, enjoy I. Love how she's just being all 693 00:43:18,240 --> 00:43:21,040 prim and proper. Like just gobble it y'all, yeah. 694 00:43:22,880 --> 00:43:26,240 Gobble me, swallow me, sit on top of me. 695 00:43:28,680 --> 00:43:31,360 Bring it out about the thing that dangles in the back of your 696 00:43:31,360 --> 00:43:35,480 throat because that's very important. 697 00:43:35,560 --> 00:43:38,080 It is. You can use salt to make it not 698 00:43:38,080 --> 00:43:40,000 so sensitive so you can take it deeper. 699 00:43:40,320 --> 00:43:42,880 So wait, are you saying take a shot of salt first? 700 00:43:43,000 --> 00:43:45,840 Salt on the back of your throat so you can take more. 701 00:43:46,520 --> 00:43:48,160 Yeah, little tricks. I might. 702 00:43:48,720 --> 00:43:51,360 Have. To I might have to use that. 703 00:43:51,360 --> 00:43:55,160 I just might have to use that in DMU later and say Oh my God I 704 00:43:55,160 --> 00:43:58,280 saw note a whole new world with my mouth the other day. 705 00:44:01,720 --> 00:44:04,200 I love that there's science based tips. 706 00:44:04,600 --> 00:44:07,080 Yes, we need more science based tips. 707 00:44:07,080 --> 00:44:10,240 Please. More science based tips in 2026? 708 00:44:10,480 --> 00:44:12,160 Absolutely. Now. 709 00:44:12,440 --> 00:44:15,960 Also, I'm glad that you mentioned early in relationships 710 00:44:16,000 --> 00:44:18,680 testing. How often? 711 00:44:18,680 --> 00:44:23,160 Because I cannot emphasize this enough to my earbuds. 712 00:44:23,360 --> 00:44:26,640 I don't care if you are in a monogamous relationship. 713 00:44:26,680 --> 00:44:30,720 I don't care that you've been married for X amount of years. 714 00:44:31,440 --> 00:44:37,240 How often, especially for men, should a man get tested? 715 00:44:37,520 --> 00:44:40,760 If you got a penis, how often should you get that penis 716 00:44:40,920 --> 00:44:45,440 checked? So yearly over age 40, because 717 00:44:45,440 --> 00:44:47,280 you should be checking for prostate cancer. 718 00:44:47,280 --> 00:44:50,080 So we need to do rectal exams for for people. 719 00:44:50,080 --> 00:44:53,360 And so then you get examined to make sure you don't have an HPV 720 00:44:53,360 --> 00:44:58,600 that resurfaced from when you were younger or you know, you 721 00:44:58,600 --> 00:45:01,600 don't have some kind of disease process that you didn't even 722 00:45:01,600 --> 00:45:04,120 know existed. And if you're stressed, certain 723 00:45:05,200 --> 00:45:08,960 viral illnesses that weren't around before may pop up, such 724 00:45:08,960 --> 00:45:12,440 as herpes or you know, you may not have known that you had 725 00:45:12,440 --> 00:45:15,320 that. And then it surfaces when you're 726 00:45:15,320 --> 00:45:17,640 stressed. So even though you're in that 727 00:45:17,640 --> 00:45:20,760 monogamous relationship, being evaluated is very important as 728 00:45:20,760 --> 00:45:23,920 well. HIV now that's very important 729 00:45:23,920 --> 00:45:27,640 because it still exists and there are lots of medications to 730 00:45:27,640 --> 00:45:30,280 help HIV patients. So you may not even know 731 00:45:30,280 --> 00:45:32,640 somebody has that. So if you're in a early 732 00:45:32,640 --> 00:45:36,360 relationship, having people evaluated is still very 733 00:45:36,360 --> 00:45:37,720 important. Thank you. 734 00:45:38,160 --> 00:45:41,800 I, I mean absolutely you have to have to get checked. 735 00:45:42,040 --> 00:45:45,480 I cannot express it anymore further, especially going to 736 00:45:45,480 --> 00:45:48,880 2026. And we all know that healthcare 737 00:45:48,880 --> 00:45:54,400 right now is on the Fritz. So if you can, get yourself to a 738 00:45:54,400 --> 00:45:57,920 clinic. And black men have a different 739 00:45:57,920 --> 00:46:01,440 level of prostate cancer risk. I'm sorry to interrupt, but no, 740 00:46:01,480 --> 00:46:03,200 no. Please interrupt please. 741 00:46:03,520 --> 00:46:06,480 Over 40, if you have a family history of prostate cancer, you 742 00:46:06,480 --> 00:46:10,400 need to be checked at 40 and you need to be checked with a blood 743 00:46:10,400 --> 00:46:13,840 test and an exam because that's very important. 744 00:46:13,840 --> 00:46:17,680 There is a lot that are missed and caught late and then the 745 00:46:17,680 --> 00:46:22,080 treatment options are fast difference, but also patients 746 00:46:22,080 --> 00:46:27,480 that are at risk with family history or a brother or uncle, 747 00:46:27,760 --> 00:46:30,320 they're more at risk than the regular population. 748 00:46:30,320 --> 00:46:34,400 And so you don't just check the number of, you know, 4 of PSA, 749 00:46:34,600 --> 00:46:36,640 you need to check velocity. How much did it go up? 750 00:46:36,640 --> 00:46:40,800 Did it go from 1:00 to 2:00? That's too fast of a jump and 751 00:46:40,840 --> 00:46:43,600 could be caught early. So your urologist, if your 752 00:46:43,600 --> 00:46:47,760 primary care doctor misses that, a urologist or us at Quantum 753 00:46:47,760 --> 00:46:50,640 Health and Wellness Center who I educate people about prostate 754 00:46:50,640 --> 00:46:52,640 cancer. I have a lot of people that have 755 00:46:53,440 --> 00:46:56,160 questions or consult, they don't have enough time with their 756 00:46:56,160 --> 00:46:59,040 doctors at the appointment and so I do consults even for like 757 00:46:59,480 --> 00:47:03,040 an hour just talking about prostate cancer risk factors and 758 00:47:03,040 --> 00:47:06,040 what to do to prevent. I'm so glad that you offer that 759 00:47:06,040 --> 00:47:08,880 type of telehealth. I'm assuming correct? 760 00:47:08,880 --> 00:47:09,600 Yes. OK. 761 00:47:09,640 --> 00:47:12,320 Telehealth. I am so glad and we'll be sure. 762 00:47:12,880 --> 00:47:17,080 OK, so I'll make sure that we link your website so that people 763 00:47:17,080 --> 00:47:20,040 can get in touch with me because this is extremely important. 764 00:47:20,280 --> 00:47:23,960 I cannot stress it, especially as you said, you know, amongst 765 00:47:23,960 --> 00:47:29,120 the black community, prostate cancer, just cancer in general. 766 00:47:29,120 --> 00:47:32,720 I mean, folks, we we need colon. Yes. 767 00:47:33,080 --> 00:47:36,800 These are the silent killers of a black folks yearly. 768 00:47:37,120 --> 00:47:39,160 So please, please, please get checked. 769 00:47:39,400 --> 00:47:41,360 Get tested. It's OK. 770 00:47:41,520 --> 00:47:43,640 Get tested. Make it sexy. 771 00:47:43,840 --> 00:47:46,000 Make it a date night. Get tested. 772 00:47:46,120 --> 00:47:47,320 Get tested. Get tested. 773 00:47:47,640 --> 00:47:52,480 Cannot emphasize that in much. Oh, my goodness, Doctor Sue Lin. 774 00:47:52,480 --> 00:47:56,600 Oh, my goodness, Doctor Hall. I feel like I I just need to 775 00:47:56,600 --> 00:48:00,320 keep you in my back pocket. I I'm so glad that we made this 776 00:48:00,320 --> 00:48:02,520 happen. Thank you so, so much. 777 00:48:02,800 --> 00:48:04,360 I need everybody to get this book. 778 00:48:04,360 --> 00:48:07,200 Please get the book How to Get Ahead. 779 00:48:07,480 --> 00:48:09,680 It's on Barnes and Noble. Amazon. 780 00:48:09,680 --> 00:48:14,000 Where else can they get it? Yes, it's it's on ebooks now as 781 00:48:14,000 --> 00:48:16,560 well, so see. There you go, perfect little 782 00:48:16,560 --> 00:48:20,960 Christmas wish, right there in the just in your hand, in the 783 00:48:20,960 --> 00:48:22,880 dial of your hand. Stuffer, right? 784 00:48:23,520 --> 00:48:25,840 Exactly. Literally a great stocking 785 00:48:25,840 --> 00:48:28,440 stuffer. What can where can my people get 786 00:48:28,440 --> 00:48:30,520 in touch with you? Where can the earbuds find you, 787 00:48:30,520 --> 00:48:32,360 stock you? All that fun stuff. 788 00:48:33,400 --> 00:48:35,560 So I'm on Instagram, Facebook, but at 789 00:48:35,560 --> 00:48:43,200 quantumhealthandwellnesscenterorquantumhealthmhk@gmail.com is or or e-mail, but our website 790 00:48:43,200 --> 00:48:47,200 Quantum Health, MHK, Quantum Health and Wellness Center, 791 00:48:47,200 --> 00:48:53,760 sorry in Manhattan, KS as where I see and actually do Zoom even 792 00:48:53,880 --> 00:48:56,240 you can live anywhere these days with Internet, right? 793 00:48:56,280 --> 00:48:58,880 And still see patients in many different states. 794 00:48:59,080 --> 00:49:05,400 I have my license in Florida, Kansas, Arizona so pretty 795 00:49:05,400 --> 00:49:09,280 widespread and can expand my business as I get busier. 796 00:49:09,360 --> 00:49:13,360 I love this and I will definitely be keeping tabs on 797 00:49:13,360 --> 00:49:16,840 you in the future and and maybe bring you back on because like I 798 00:49:16,840 --> 00:49:20,480 said, I feel like we only just got into the surface like we got 799 00:49:20,480 --> 00:49:23,560 deep, but I feel like we can only get so much deeper. 800 00:49:23,840 --> 00:49:28,720 So definitely get how to get ahead out now on all bookstore 801 00:49:28,720 --> 00:49:31,560 platforms. So please check that out and I 802 00:49:31,560 --> 00:49:34,800 will make sure to link you guys to Quantum Health so you can get 803 00:49:34,800 --> 00:49:38,360 in touch with Doctor Sue Lin. Of course, everybody you can get 804 00:49:38,360 --> 00:49:40,560 in touch with me at Miz Radio Sapphire. 805 00:49:40,560 --> 00:49:45,840 That's MSRADIOSAPPHIRE on Instagram, of course, at Miz 806 00:49:46,080 --> 00:49:49,280 Radio sapphire.com. Don't forget still accepting 807 00:49:49,280 --> 00:49:54,480 those votes for best adult podcast for the 2026 AVNS. 808 00:49:54,600 --> 00:49:57,760 So make sure you get those daily votes because you know, we need 809 00:49:57,760 --> 00:50:01,960 to have sapphires here play an AVN official winner. 810 00:50:01,960 --> 00:50:05,920 We need to have this happen. 15 years, 16 years in the making. 811 00:50:05,960 --> 00:50:08,600 Let's make it happen. 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