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Warning, the following program 
is not for the weak-hearted 

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those who are close minded. 
When General, you're scared to 

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learn. 
What's behind closed. 

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Doors here at sapphires are 
play. 

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I want you to pour the wine. 
Grab somebody that you want to 

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hold onto or better yet. 
Get the vibration stimulated 

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through your body. 
Get ready for one, hell of an 

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eargasm in five, four, three, 
two, one, what is up? 

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All you sexy motherfuckers out 
there in radioland it's your 

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girls Sapphire. 
Fire back again, with another 

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special episode. 
And a lot of you have been 

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asking me, like, is this show 
really just back on its regular 

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every Sunday you're dropping an 
episode. 

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Absolutely not. 
I just have a lot of specials 

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that I want to draw up 
occasionally, because I don't 

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want to leave y'all hanging. 
So without further Ado, I want 

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to introduce you to a very, very
special moans, Stir of mine. 

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Yes. 
From the mon app goes by the 

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name Kingdom. 
Let me just say this right now, 

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this man is in Ugh negro as we 
speak. 

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This man has a ninja mask on 
with his headphones as if I've 

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never seen his pretty face. 
But that doesn't mean y'all on 

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the internet have seen his 
pretty face, but you may have 

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seen his videos. 
You might have heard of him on 

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the phone app, your kingdom. 
And of course, your kingdom on 

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Instagram and Twitter. 
Without further Ado Kingdom, 

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welcome to are Flay What's 
Poppin? 

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What's cracking? 
What's shaking, what's going on?

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Miss Sapphire, if you nasty, 
what can I say that here? 

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Oh yes, you can. 
Yes, you can, okay? 

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Yeah, Miss sapphi. 
If you nest, because I'm also a 

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mother fucking nasty. 
My black got his Queen. 

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I love talking to you. 
I'm so honored to be here, like,

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this is dope. 
I've been looking forward to 

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this for a minute without 
further incident, you know, 

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introduced introduction. 
I'm over here, getting star 

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stuck. 
As I'm looking at this beautiful

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black. 
Woman right now. 

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But, um, my name is Kingdom, 
also known as the voice of the. 

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BMW also known as your God, 
kingdom is my official title and

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handle. 
I am a black kingster Pro Dom 

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Kink and devious enemy whose 
years sex-positive podcast 

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holster. 
And again, the CEO of the BMW of

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brand which was speaking about a
little bit later today. 

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My partner go go AKA Saint Sarah
for. 

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Are known as go go. 
Fuck me. 

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We've come together. 
And we've been building this 

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amazing amazing experience for a
lot of different people. 

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And we've been making a lot of 
strides. 

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So there's going to be good to 
be able to talk about all that 

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here on this sapphires ear play.
Oh my goodness. 

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Oh, I should have given you a 
forewarning. 

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This man has a very sexy voice, 
very sexy voice, I mean. 

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So apparently according to 
y'all, I do, you know I'm 

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saying, sometimes I'm like, but 
yeah. 

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I can't, I can't pour it on a 
little bit. 

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I try not to all the time but, 
you know, depending on how you 

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feeling, I might have to feel 
I'm saying, but that's neither 

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here. 
Nor there were here to be kind 

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of like normal for the most 
part, even though I'm Incognito 

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normal. 
What is motherfucking normal? 

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Okay, let me tell you Dom. 
There's nothing normal about 

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sapphires are play, and that's 
why this is why I wanted to 

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bring you on because one, we're 
closing out Black History Month 

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with you and you heard the only 
black guess this month. 

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Shame on me. 
But you know what, you know, it 

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doesn't get much better with me,
you know, that's black 

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representation, you know, so I 
understand, but it's okay, like,

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people understand there's a 
legacy to be made and this is a 

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topic that I've never touched 
upon and finding the right 

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candidate to talk about. 
This took a long time until I 

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met you. 
And I got to know you through 

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the mon app and say, you know, 
you have very outspokenly spoken

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about this life. 
If style because this is what it

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is, but right, you know, it's a 
touchy subject and we're talking

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about be NWO black New World 
Order. 

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Now, when I was doing my 
research because I never do 

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sapphires, are play with awesome
research. 

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Would anger me so much is that 
when I'm looking at topics 

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surrounding black sex, there's 
not a lot of Statistics to be 

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had with black sex. 
When you look at it, there's not

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a soul study that you can find 
on black sexuality, besides 

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talking about the The 
urbanization of sexuality 

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talking about HIV 8. 
You know, all that STDs and STIs

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when we want to talk about BMW. 
Oh how was it? 

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Founded, you know, the 
foregrounds what happened was 

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like, what are the origins? 
That's where it becomes a little

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vague. 
So according to Urban 

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Dictionary, black New World 
Order is a fetish tastic term 

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related to BDSM specifically 
race play. 

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Wearing black Supremacy all over
races, especially white is 

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fetishize. 
It may incorporate other fetish 

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and King plays such as 
cuckolding to see Play Beauty. 

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C Alpha Beta erotic, humiliation
play etc, etc. 

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But then we go on to you the 
website that you and go go. 

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Fuck me, have revamped and 
revised. 

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You guys talked about it being 
an exclusive lifestyle, Society 

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of black fin Dom's cash that 
cast Masters. 

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Uphold the hierarchy of reddish 
face race fetish place. 

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So let's get into that. 
Yep, let's talk about it. 

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So when you originally hear 
about BMW, oh, right, you're 

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usually hearing about the 
fantasies, the thoughts, and the

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imagination that comes from 
non-heterosexual black men more 

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times than not, right? 
And keyword non-heterosexual. 

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Black men. 
So, usually, these are white men

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who have some type of 
interracial fantasy. 

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We know that interracial, just 
so I give you a little bit 

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better, right? 
We know that interracial is one 

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of the most searched porn genres
out there. 

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If you look on any search engine
whether it's a porn search 

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engine, or not interracial is 
going to be one of those High 

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hitting things. 
I think is probably third or if 

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not s to stuff like hot step. 
Sister or stuff like that or 

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even mom and son, right? 
And that's a whole other thing. 

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But originally was being wo 
before we bought the rights to 

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the brand name, right to the 
black New World Order, there 

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were no black people really 
putting out the narrative. 

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So a lot of the stuff that 
you're seeing is not even a 

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representation of that black 
superiority, that's supposed to 

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be the highlight. 
And when go go, originally came 

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to me and she was like, I want 
to By being wo, she didn't even 

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tell me that she wanted to. 
This is literally how that 

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conversation went Dom. 
What's up? 

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Go go. 
I bought being wo. 

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What I bought being wo and I'm 
like so you, you mean you bought

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the black new world? 
Oh yes. 

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I bought the NWO. 
Okay, let's even dived back a 

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little deeper. 
So the fact is going wo, when 

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would you say this term came 
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Because I have always heard 
about But I never really knew 

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about it. 
Other than the fact that I, when

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I did hear about it, especially 
entering now we're talking 2010 

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2012, and I'm starting out in, 
you know, the adult side of 

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entertainment. 
You know, I always heard it as a

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negative connotation with white 
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Black people wanting to 
overpower us in a sense but 

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still at the same time praises 
and I'm like, well fuck that 

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little bit of topping from the 
bottom, right? 

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Yes, you definitely gives that. 
So I think that, you know, 

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that's kind of like when it 
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I in my personal opinion, I feel
like this is always been 

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something that white people have
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And if you look at historical 
references, right? 

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Even cuckolding has a lot of his
racial historic implications 

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based on stuff like Bull Bucking
Bull breaking the how the The 

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Mistress of the house. 
Having her quote, unquote Bulls 

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ravaged her and all this stuff 
even white men being involved 

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with black field slave or hand 
sleeves. 

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Right? 
So there's always been some type

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of taboo about interracial 
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That's one thing that this 
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is always been a fabric of the 
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now more. 
So when we get into a more 

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liberated space, like around 20,
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I feel like the internet really 
kind of had that. 

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Boom Tumblr was a really big 
push for a lot of this. 

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This is where a lot of people 
were creating the captions or 

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the content that a lot of y'all 
are familiar with, right? 

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But again, this wasn't black 
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This is, you know, white dudes 
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Maybe they are non-binary, maybe
they're fluid, maybe they are 

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gay, maybe they're bisexual, 
whatever their orientation is. 

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They're able to express that 
they have this feeling right. 

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And in the Kink in taboo, as 
I've come to find out there 

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really isn't that much of a 
moral standpoint. 

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And that's very subjective to 
depending on who you're talking 

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to their people on the extreme 
of the friends where they don't 

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give a fuck about any type of 
more. 

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But then you have the people who
are, very concerned, very 

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reserved on the friends, and 
they are very much, so upholding

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all morals. 
And even then, I think sometimes

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to the detriment of King can be 
tedious and because now you're 

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stifling just like outside in 
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World. 
So I think the balance has 

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always been like understanding 
as well as acknowledgement of 

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this might be deemed wrong for 
certain people, but under this 

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practice or under this 
consensual practice, which we'll

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get into in a second with 
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Play sir a term that I'm coining
and making sure that I put out 

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there that it's all about being 
able to pick and choose whether 

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or not you want to participate. 
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takes off of that offensive 
undertone or Or, you know, under

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tasting it, cuts it to the point
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something that's a little bit 
more palatable, a little bit 

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more easily digested. 
That way you can now have that 

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within you. 
So to go back to what you were 

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saying as far as where did the 
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I think again, in to answer it 
directly, I think it's always 

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been something that America has 
had, but we've never really had 

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the open opportunity to talk 
about it until the internet came

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around. 
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around, that's when it kind of 
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who's going to add to. 
So one of the major things and 

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not to get too ahead of anything
but one of the major things that

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we decided right at the very 
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change the narrative. 
But what is that narrative going

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to be? 
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black unity and black sexual, 
Freedom are going to be our main

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focal point. 
Because again, we know what the 

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people that are attracted to 
this, right? 

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And again, we're being very 
honest more. 

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So, X, non black people, white 
people more. 

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So not have some type of fetish 
for black skin. 

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We see it in the fetishization 
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Something that you spoke about 
inside 24 horror, which really 

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opened my eyes to just how deep 
the entertainment realm of 

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things go, when it comes to 
this, and this is entertainment,

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right? 
But just like with horror and I 

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think that's one of the reasons 
why that show was so profound on

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Mona by, shout out to all our 
monsters and our Mona. 

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As you know what I'm saying? 
She has the monsters. 

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I have them owners are Partners 
momomo non a great app, that's 

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my boy kill you know he is 
created a great place for people

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like myself and the sapphire be 
able to come and have these 

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conversations and to be able to 
finally do that as black people 

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to be able to express what we 
truly feel without any what's 

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the word I'm looking for without
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judge me if you have to watch 
what Saying, yeah. 

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Thanks like that's such a 
liberating thing. 

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We don't have a lot of places 
like that. 

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So again, BMW oh, when we came 
in contact with it and we came 

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up with this idea of rebranding,
it, it really was making it a 

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safe space for all black people.
You know, whether you are 

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liberal, conservative, extremist
pacifist, whatever, the case may

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be, if you're black right and 
we're championing black 

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superiority, we got to make it 
so that you as a black person 

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whether or not you're 
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you're homosexual, you know, 
androgynous, whatever the case 

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may be, we don't now have to 
have that divided of, I'm black,

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but I'm this, it's, I'm black, 
you're black wear black, we're 

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Superior in this instance and 
that's all that matters. 

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You deserve the respect, you 
deserve the love and admiration 

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that you want, and you shouldn't
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within your own Community as 
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So to fully answer it for us 
being wo is more. 

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So A response to the fence 
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the unspoken discourse that 
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Let's get into that discourse. 
Let's talk about it. 

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I feel that personally you know 
you and I were both gangsters I 

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would say I'm a baby kingster 
because you know I'm not a pain.

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Slow whatsoever, right? 
You know I my threshold is real 

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light but at the same time, you 
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Mon In off. 
Are you know, personally for me 

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when I go to Kink parties with 
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sometimes the white gaze comes 
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So of, I'm on the menu, I'm no 
longer a person. 

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It's oh, there goes that 
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Let me see if I can worship her.
And for me, that's kind of 

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fucking weird because I don't 
respond to that. 

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I don't respond to Two white 
people fetishizing. 

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My skin very well, it makes me 
feel personally. 

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It's a triggering thing race 
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triggering for me because it 
just brings me back to a point 

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where I am no longer a person. 
I am just the color of my skin. 

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I have no other qualities 
characteristics. 

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It's just black black skin 
equals Jezebel. 

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We've heard these terms. 
We heard these terms Mandingo 

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bull even in like you said, with
cuckolding. 

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It's like, I even kind of have 
my own biases until the monad 

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and learning more from these, 
you know, cuckold races and cock

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holds in these various different
relationships and I'm like, holy

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shit. 
This is really like polyamory. 

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So, how with you? 
Yeah and how with you know, BMW.

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Oh, you're trying to reclaim the
the Justices through 

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fetishization because that's 
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It's a disadvantage. 
I feel that personally, it is 

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still a touchy subject because 
it's like how can we as black 

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people as united front? 
Make our folks feel more safe 

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thinking spaces when we go to 
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church and stuff like that 
because right, I hate being one 

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of maybe two if I'm lucky. 
Right, right, I hate that. 

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And so to answer that this and 
again, this is something that we

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like spent extensive amount of 
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like, what's the best way to go 
about this? 

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And to be quite honest, there's 
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because it's such a complex 
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But for me, I think addressing 
self-accountability. 

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And when I say that what I mean 
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black people have to start it 
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else to know. 
So when you do go, and I've 

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definitely felt the exact same 
that you felt going to certain 

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events certain Suarez parties, 
whatever the case may be, and 

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being one of the not, if not, 
the only black man in the room, 

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you do kind of lose a sense of 
your Humanity because you are 

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looked at as a piece of meat, 
not just by the people that you 

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might want to interact with but 
by everybody and that's a very 

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off-putting thing. 
But I'll even say this even more

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which is more startling to me 
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Because we can kind of expect 
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experience of growing up in 
living a black life, but more so

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than not. 
I feel like we faced more 

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scrutiny. 
That we don't want to talk about

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within our own Community. 
Because just, as much as we are 

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fetishized by white people, we 
are also fetishized by our own 

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black people, our own people of 
color but we never want to say 

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it because now we're 
acknowledging that we have a 

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little bit of ownership that has
to Promote this and that's a 

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black man, especially right, 
cause we're talking about that 

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Dynamic. 
This is part in my opinion. 

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This is part of the reason why 
black men and black, women have 

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so much discourse because if we 
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and we keep bringing this 
talking point up, and we're not 

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leading by example, how can we 
then expect people to follow us,

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right? 
Not to maintain. 

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Let's, let's keep it all the way
100 when it comes to and I wish 

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Keaton was on On this, his he 
would jump on it. 

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And immediately my boy key, not 
out to get you. 

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I love that boy. 
But like I truly truly feel. 

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There's also a disconnect when 
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superiority, black superiority, 
and black sexuality. 

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Within our own Community is how 
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and that was another Point 
without, you know, with being 

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black. 
Because we treat them, we treat 

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people like myself as the 
weirdos All right, and now 

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they're they're outcasts is so 
much. 

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So In This Very is very, very so
let the to take it here, right? 

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And because again, we're talking
about race play. 

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We're talking about inclusion, 
we're talking about Unity. 

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Black love is the main focal 
point, so I'll start there. 

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I don't see how we can say that.
We are pro black and that's one 

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of our are calling parts, right?
We're pro. 

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Black, everything anti. 
Nothing anti nobody. 

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We're not out here saying that 
white people are bad that they 

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need to be white. 
Both face of the Earth. 

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That was the white rhetoric, the
right, and the white narrative 

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that was put out all of those 
times on Tumblr, and that's what

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people have associated with the 
BMW. 

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Or with be again, I understand 
it and I'm not even chastising, 

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because if white people are 
going to do it and they're going

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to run with it, let them run 
with it. 

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But if we don't do anything to 
say, hey, this is black 

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superiority and black people 
that aren't or white people that

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aren't even Superior in this 
whole fantasy or whatever you 

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want to call it. 
Lifestyle are running things. 

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That's a little bit 
contradictory, right? 

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That's a little bit hypocritical
so we have to take advantage but

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in doing that right. 
We also have to Now understand 

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the complexity of the black 
experience in sexuality. 

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As you said, you know we do 
treat like our lgbtq brothers 

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and sisters and at one point in 
time I was guilty of this not 

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being able to empathize with 
them and this is why I love 

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keeping I'm glad that you 
brought him up because one of my

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first conversations on Mon was 
with him and just in able to do 

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that like he helped me break 
down all those other 

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reservations and barriers that I
had and also rightfully so 

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because let's be real. 
Sometimes our own people are the

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traumatic people that we need to
heal from It's not even the 

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other folks that we're talking 
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We love talking about them. 
But again, I'm a big personal 

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self-accountability first if I'm
if I'm hurt as a black man as a 

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heterosexual, black man, and I 
feel that I've been hurt by my 

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gay and lgbtq brothers for not 
respecting the fact that I'm 

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being respectful of them, I'm 
always going to lash out. 

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And then we have this 
never-ending cycle of self-hate 

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black on black crime, which 
doesn't necessarily have to 

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equate to violence. 
It's just the way that we talk 

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about each other the way that we
treat each other. 

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So I'm on if I'm on the defense 
all the time because I don't 

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want to go to another 
uncomfortable situation, I'm 

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never going to be able to 
connect and also same thing for 

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you as a black, lgbtq member 
whether a queer, female gay 

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black man, bisexual transsexual.
Whatever the case may be, if 

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you're always operating from a 
place of hurt, which a lot of us

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black people are, we're never 
going to be able to come 

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together Absol. 
One of our biggest things, this 

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is unity of black people and 
then every black person whether 

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you are trans, whether you are 
non non binary, non gender, 

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conforming gender-fluid 
pansexual androgynous, 

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everything under the sun as long
as you are black and black 

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identifying as a person of color
because that's a whole nother 

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conversation which we will get 
into on this interview as well. 

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But you got to be willing to 
acknowledge and respect people 

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that look like you first if you 
want other people to do it. 

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And that's Really, what this 
whole thing is about is being 

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able to make that safe space not
just for black heterosexual 

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couples but for black lesbian 
couples black, lgbtq couples 

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black, Trans couples and 
everything in between because we

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don't have a place to go and 
we're stronger. 

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If we unite and accept everybody
or at least we make the attempt,

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because that's another thing 
too. 

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We realize that we can't accept 
everybody. 

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We realize that, not everybody 
can be saved because they choose

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To not want to be say. 
So in that instance, what are we

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supposed to do? 
Well, as long as we're making 

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the attempt to say, you have a 
place to come, if you choose to 

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be here because one of our 
biggest rules is that all black 

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people are equal but especially 
the black male and the black 

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female, whether that is their 
natural, their natural 

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phenotype. 
If I'm correct. 

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And if I'm not pleased, you 
know, correctly or if that is 

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what they choose to identify as 
right, either way. 

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You're still equal. 
I would say, I would like to 

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say, that's a yes, but we have 
seen it all too often. 

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They were black men, do not 
protect all black women. 

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Just like you've seen in vice 
versa. 

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Black women do not protect all 
black Mane. 

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And again, it brings it back to 
lgbtq+ community. 

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If a brother finds out that a 
woman is trans, she is no longer

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a woman, she is no longer black,
right? 

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She's just there. 
Nothing. 

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That's what they, that's what 
they are. 

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We've seen it all too often in 
the comments. 

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That's why for me, whatever like
shade room or Hollywood unlock, 

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they have stories on the lgbtq+ 
community. 

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I kind of have to like not 
looking comments because the 

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comments are fucking like, you 
want to talk about weird, the 

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comments are fucking beard and 
it just talk about it. 

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It's the same reflection. 
When you talk about being wo, 

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It's like I see you. 
I'm now listening and I'm 

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hearing, I'm reciprocating it, 
I'm receiving it and I would 

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like the BMW OT even just kind 
of make a front on on that type 

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of shit because it shouldn't 
just stop at the race play. 

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It needs to start. 
Definitely, it needs to expand 

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out everything because the 
problem is that's what we are 

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the problems, I'm sorry. 
Yeah, I'm happy to say, we are 

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the problem, right? 
But see that's the first step to

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Eliminating the problem, you 
have to address, it would have 

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to address, you can't beat 
around the bush and more times 

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than not. 
As I said, we like to deflect. 

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We like to put the 
responsibility on other people. 

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In some of it is warranted. 
It is just but it means 

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absolutely nothing if we can't 
take accountability for 

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ourselves that, right? 
So like you said in the 

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comments, when black men are 
attacking and that let's just 

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call it what it is when black 
men are attacking black. 

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People who are not a fab right 
assigned, female at birth. 

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That's an attack on black people
period because you never know, 

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and here's the other thing, 
right? 

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And again, learn this from 
keeping, you never know what 

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another black man who is gay, 
how he feels about your 

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heterosexual activity, and your 
willingness to exploit it in his

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face, right? 
Just like how you don't want him

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talking about what he does in 
his personal. 

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Like, maybe he doesn't want to 
hear about you, doing what you 

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do in your personal life with a 
woman. 

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Actly. 
But if you if you, if you're not

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willing to hear that, you never 
will any bring, it's such a big 

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fact. 
But also, I even say it in 

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general, when people get mad at 
any type of gay imagery. 

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I'm like, well, what makes you 
think as gay people? 

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We want to see the straight 
agenda 24/7 because that shit is

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writing down our throat 24/7. 
But then people will sit here 

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and say what street agenda. 
When there is factual evidence 

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that there has been a straight 
agenda and a lot of that Great 

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agenda is called religion. 
But we don't like talking about 

446
00:25:45,300 --> 00:25:45,700
that. 
Why? 

447
00:25:45,700 --> 00:25:49,700
Because again, here's the 
complexity of black people here 

448
00:25:49,700 --> 00:25:52,800
in America, right? 
And I use black as a unifying 

449
00:25:52,800 --> 00:25:56,600
term because you can use melon 
ated, you can use diaspora, 

450
00:25:56,600 --> 00:26:01,300
whatever the case may be, these 
are all experiences that we can 

451
00:26:01,300 --> 00:26:05,300
tap into simply, because we are 
born with this Mela nation and 

452
00:26:05,300 --> 00:26:07,500
our skin. 
It's a unifying thing. 

453
00:26:07,600 --> 00:26:10,300
If you really think about all 
black people across the world, 

454
00:26:10,300 --> 00:26:13,900
whether they are from Africa, 
the Caribbean, the UK, Asia 

455
00:26:13,900 --> 00:26:17,500
Australia, North America and so 
on and so forth. 

456
00:26:18,800 --> 00:26:23,000
It's the same thing because we 
are all melon ated. 

457
00:26:23,000 --> 00:26:25,600
The world looks at us the same 
way, right? 

458
00:26:25,600 --> 00:26:28,200
And this is the the 
uncomfortable thing about races 

459
00:26:28,200 --> 00:26:30,600
that you have to face the facts.
There are going to be some 

460
00:26:30,600 --> 00:26:33,400
people that will only see you as
a black person. 

461
00:26:33,900 --> 00:26:35,800
They will not see you as a 
person. 

462
00:26:35,900 --> 00:26:38,100
They will see you as a black 
person. 

463
00:26:38,300 --> 00:26:42,000
And then what they associate 
black to being as far as good. 

464
00:26:42,200 --> 00:26:44,500
Because remember, there was a 
huge point in time, within this 

465
00:26:44,500 --> 00:26:48,100
Western Hemisphere where black 
was considered bad, even still 

466
00:26:48,100 --> 00:26:49,200
to this. 
Eight, right? 

467
00:26:49,200 --> 00:26:52,700
The terminology is known, like 
it's not necessarily a good 

468
00:26:52,700 --> 00:26:54,400
thing. 
Why does supposed to be Pure 

469
00:26:54,500 --> 00:26:57,300
White is supposed to be. 
Holy black is supposed to be, 

470
00:26:57,300 --> 00:26:59,800
you know, sacrilegious and 
things of that nature. 

471
00:26:59,800 --> 00:27:03,200
Demonic we desert using those 
comparisons of like, they're one

472
00:27:03,200 --> 00:27:05,200
of the good ones regardless of 
race. 

473
00:27:05,700 --> 00:27:07,800
I mean, the only operating that 
shit. 

474
00:27:08,600 --> 00:27:11,700
Exactly. 
Even just, so even in King City 

475
00:27:11,700 --> 00:27:16,500
face and it keeps going deeper. 
But here's the thing, the more, 

476
00:27:16,500 --> 00:27:19,600
as I said, the more that we're 
not willing to to address where 

477
00:27:19,600 --> 00:27:23,700
some of these things stem from 
now, then makes it harder for us

478
00:27:23,700 --> 00:27:26,500
to move forward. 
We stay in this repetitive cycle

479
00:27:26,500 --> 00:27:29,400
in your, seeing it more and more
and more now on the internet 

480
00:27:29,400 --> 00:27:31,400
because more and more and more 
people are now. 

481
00:27:31,400 --> 00:27:35,600
Speaking about this openly, it's
just never been spoken about. 

482
00:27:35,600 --> 00:27:37,800
So, yeah, it might seem like 
we're having the same 

483
00:27:37,800 --> 00:27:40,400
conversation over and over 
again, but really pay attention 

484
00:27:40,400 --> 00:27:44,000
to who's having conversation. 
Is it the same person talking 

485
00:27:44,000 --> 00:27:46,700
about it all the time? 
Or are they bringing new people 

486
00:27:46,700 --> 00:27:48,900
into the fold? 
And they are just Finally, 

487
00:27:48,900 --> 00:27:51,600
getting their voice to come out.
And this is another thing about 

488
00:27:51,600 --> 00:27:54,400
black people, we stifle our own 
voices. 

489
00:27:56,300 --> 00:27:59,200
We don't like, allowing our 
Black Pete, cuz here's the 

490
00:27:59,208 --> 00:28:01,600
thing, right? 
Going back to male men and women

491
00:28:01,700 --> 00:28:05,200
just to, just to simplify it for
right now, whether or not they 

492
00:28:05,200 --> 00:28:08,900
are trying to have interpersonal
relationships, just gender roles

493
00:28:08,900 --> 00:28:11,700
in general, right? 
It's such a big talking point 

494
00:28:11,700 --> 00:28:15,500
within the black community, but 
for so long, we weren't even 

495
00:28:15,500 --> 00:28:18,200
able to determine our own gender
roles. 

496
00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:20,900
Within our own relationships, 
are within our own households 

497
00:28:21,100 --> 00:28:24,300
for such a long time. 
So, when you refuse to 

498
00:28:24,300 --> 00:28:27,700
acknowledge the historical, 
Context of these things, you're 

499
00:28:27,700 --> 00:28:30,200
always going to have that 
problem but now moving forward 

500
00:28:30,200 --> 00:28:34,300
into a time where we can have 
more open conversations, a lot 

501
00:28:34,300 --> 00:28:37,300
of people just have to get out 
the angst in the frustration 

502
00:28:37,300 --> 00:28:39,600
that they've always kept pint 
in. 

503
00:28:39,800 --> 00:28:43,000
And the internet is a place 
where you can speak freely, 

504
00:28:43,100 --> 00:28:44,800
right? 
But just as you speak freely 

505
00:28:44,800 --> 00:28:49,000
people, freely have the choice 
to either agree with you or 

506
00:28:49,000 --> 00:28:51,500
disagree with you. 
It's not a bad thing. 

507
00:28:51,500 --> 00:28:53,100
If we have a difference of 
opinion. 

508
00:28:53,300 --> 00:28:58,300
But with what BMW, I was trying 
to promote Now is tolerance. 

509
00:28:59,200 --> 00:29:02,300
I don't have to agree with you. 
I don't have to be on the same 

510
00:29:02,300 --> 00:29:05,300
page as you, we're not 
monolithic as black people, we 

511
00:29:05,300 --> 00:29:10,400
have a huge diversity within our
own black community, right? 

512
00:29:10,400 --> 00:29:14,000
But that doesn't mean that I now
need to alienate you because you

513
00:29:14,000 --> 00:29:17,100
have a difference of opinion, 
because you don't necessarily 

514
00:29:17,100 --> 00:29:20,700
like race play for your Myriad 
of reasons. 

515
00:29:20,800 --> 00:29:24,000
I don't now have to shame you or
belittle you or talk down to 

516
00:29:24,000 --> 00:29:25,900
you, right? 
Just the same way that you do. 

517
00:29:26,000 --> 00:29:30,000
Have to do that to me because 
I'm into race foot, but you 

518
00:29:30,700 --> 00:29:33,500
again, it can be so simple but 
we choose not to. 

519
00:29:33,500 --> 00:29:37,200
We make the choice of, I have to
differentiate my black is 

520
00:29:37,200 --> 00:29:40,300
different than your black, even 
with people from the motherland 

521
00:29:40,500 --> 00:29:43,800
and people from the Caribbean. 
And let's say like the UK, they 

522
00:29:43,800 --> 00:29:48,100
don't identify as black, right? 
Because of their own reasons. 

523
00:29:48,100 --> 00:29:51,700
Now, do I take that as a 
ffensive or do I say you know 

524
00:29:51,700 --> 00:29:55,700
what, you have a different set 
of cultural rules that you must 

525
00:29:55,700 --> 00:29:58,400
have. 
To let me find common ground 

526
00:29:58,400 --> 00:30:02,200
with you irregardless. 
Let me tolerate the fact that 

527
00:30:02,200 --> 00:30:05,300
you don't identify as black, but
let me find that common ground 

528
00:30:05,300 --> 00:30:09,000
that way we can unify and coming
together, it can be very simple,

529
00:30:09,000 --> 00:30:10,700
but more times than not, be 
complicated. 

530
00:30:10,700 --> 00:30:16,200
And it's mostly because we we 
feel the need to prove that we 

531
00:30:16,200 --> 00:30:19,200
are black enough. 
You see how you see how like 

532
00:30:19,200 --> 00:30:23,200
oxymoron all this shit is like, 
we believe that certain people 

533
00:30:23,200 --> 00:30:25,600
aren't black enough, but we 
always gotta prove that we're 

534
00:30:25,600 --> 00:30:26,400
black. 
Enough. 

535
00:30:26,400 --> 00:30:29,700
And then when we get highlighted
for the fact that we are black, 

536
00:30:29,700 --> 00:30:32,400
it's uncomfortable because oh 
shit, it's a white person saying

537
00:30:32,400 --> 00:30:33,700
that they love the fact that 
we're black. 

538
00:30:34,300 --> 00:30:36,500
Boom. 
So like for black people, where 

539
00:30:36,500 --> 00:30:38,900
is happiness supposed to be? 
Like, where are you supposed to 

540
00:30:38,900 --> 00:30:41,800
get peace of mind? 
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541
00:30:41,800 --> 00:30:44,100
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542
00:30:44,100 --> 00:30:45,300
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561
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562
00:31:50,800 --> 00:31:53,600
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563
00:31:53,600 --> 00:32:01,700
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564
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565
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566
00:32:09,000 --> 00:32:15,900
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567
00:32:15,908 --> 00:32:18,500
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568
00:32:18,800 --> 00:32:22,700
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569
00:32:22,700 --> 00:32:24,900
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570
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So shout out to Dipsy for that 
but oh my gosh. 

571
00:32:27,700 --> 00:32:31,700
So before we took that break, 
Dom was really just laying out 

572
00:32:31,700 --> 00:32:35,700
there and it is so is so so 
true. 

573
00:32:35,700 --> 00:32:38,200
It is so true. 
When we're trying to find our 

574
00:32:38,200 --> 00:32:41,400
identity in these spaces that it
gets lost in the sauce 

575
00:32:41,400 --> 00:32:46,000
especially amongst our own 
because the game the judgment is

576
00:32:46,000 --> 00:32:48,600
truly real and rain. 
It brings it back. 

577
00:32:48,700 --> 00:32:52,500
Back to, who do we hold 
accountable for these actions. 

578
00:32:52,600 --> 00:32:54,500
Why do you keep letting each 
other? 

579
00:32:54,500 --> 00:32:58,800
Terry Puffs are each other apart
essentially, so that other races

580
00:32:58,800 --> 00:33:01,700
see this? 
And they're like, oh well how 

581
00:33:01,700 --> 00:33:03,500
are we going to take them 
seriously if they can't even 

582
00:33:03,500 --> 00:33:06,700
take them, they can't write, you
know, and even just like, 

583
00:33:06,700 --> 00:33:09,800
bringing it back to, you know, 
sexuality and bringing in the 

584
00:33:09,800 --> 00:33:12,100
BMW. 
Oh, I'm now getting a better 

585
00:33:12,100 --> 00:33:14,200
understanding. 
That, what you are trying to do 

586
00:33:14,200 --> 00:33:18,300
again is to change the narrative
when it comes to race play it 

587
00:33:18,300 --> 00:33:19,800
does. 
It's not going to work for me 

588
00:33:19,800 --> 00:33:22,500
because again, I have my 
Hang-Ups on Embrace play. 

589
00:33:22,600 --> 00:33:27,500
Yeah, the one to the next, but I
do understand that from people 

590
00:33:27,500 --> 00:33:31,200
like yourself, like lady and 
akhanda, anaconda. 

591
00:33:31,400 --> 00:33:35,500
And who else? 
Have we spoken to go, go, go, 

592
00:33:35,500 --> 00:33:38,400
go. 
And oh, my God, your homie. 

593
00:33:38,400 --> 00:33:42,400
That's also a dong You told my 
girl. 

594
00:33:43,100 --> 00:33:46,100
Yes, Pharaoh, Pharaoh Cooks 
Matchmaker. 

595
00:33:46,100 --> 00:33:48,900
Yes talking to you know, to 
talking to folks like y'all. 

596
00:33:48,900 --> 00:33:52,700
It's like I do see the 
empowerment that you're trying 

597
00:33:52,700 --> 00:33:55,600
to make. 
I do see the fact that the white

598
00:33:55,600 --> 00:33:58,500
people in these spaces, lady 
Anaconda is white. 

599
00:33:59,900 --> 00:34:02,500
There were some things recently 
that came up about her where I'm

600
00:34:02,500 --> 00:34:05,100
like, I'm gonna have to get on 
ear play and maybe have to be 

601
00:34:05,100 --> 00:34:09,100
like, girl, I don't know what I 
can get with all this. 

602
00:34:10,000 --> 00:34:15,699
But I understand that she is 
trying to amplify black voices 

603
00:34:15,699 --> 00:34:20,900
in her own space. 
Now, write the whole caring seed

604
00:34:21,000 --> 00:34:25,800
in in all that I think that's a 
little bit too far only because 

605
00:34:25,800 --> 00:34:30,000
it stems from a child cannot 
give consent, who was not born 

606
00:34:30,000 --> 00:34:33,400
right to be exposed to that. 
But I understand that you were 

607
00:34:33,400 --> 00:34:39,500
trying to normalize a culture 
where in a racial relations the 

608
00:34:39,500 --> 00:34:42,800
end up. 
Babies cause fully accepted, 

609
00:34:43,500 --> 00:34:46,100
right? 
But it also brings it back to my

610
00:34:46,100 --> 00:34:49,699
biggest fear is when white 
people enter a space that is 

611
00:34:49,699 --> 00:34:54,000
predominantly black, okay? 
And they say that, they're all 

612
00:34:54,000 --> 00:34:57,100
for us that they're gonna go 
ride the waves with us. 

613
00:34:57,100 --> 00:35:01,000
We've seen this, we've seen this
outside of King spaces with 

614
00:35:01,000 --> 00:35:05,900
George Floyd and you know the 
rest of the BLM movement and I 

615
00:35:05,900 --> 00:35:09,000
say that very lightly because 
let's face it BLM has had its 

616
00:35:09,000 --> 00:35:11,600
own problems. 
Within the organization. 

617
00:35:12,900 --> 00:35:16,800
But when we're talking about, 
you know, racial Injustice when 

618
00:35:16,800 --> 00:35:19,100
it comes to our black brothers 
and sisters and we have white 

619
00:35:19,100 --> 00:35:22,000
people that are like, okay, what
can we do to help? 

620
00:35:22,200 --> 00:35:27,400
What can we do to amplify? 
But y'all only do it for 2.5 S, 

621
00:35:28,600 --> 00:35:30,300
right? 
And then you want to bring it to

622
00:35:30,300 --> 00:35:35,000
the sex aspect but when the sex 
is done, we don't fucking matter

623
00:35:35,000 --> 00:35:38,800
anymore. 
So how does that differentiate 

624
00:35:38,800 --> 00:35:43,500
with the NWO? 
So as you said right there 

625
00:35:43,800 --> 00:35:47,800
there's the uncontrollable 
aspect of people are going to do

626
00:35:47,800 --> 00:35:50,500
whatever, they feel like they 
are going to write. 

627
00:35:50,600 --> 00:35:56,000
And I think what we have figured
out is that There are some 

628
00:35:56,000 --> 00:35:58,800
people that are just here for 
the Kink, right? 

629
00:35:58,800 --> 00:36:02,600
We cannot change their mind, no 
matter what, we bring to let 

630
00:36:02,600 --> 00:36:05,700
them enjoy the Kink, let us 
profit off of that. 

631
00:36:05,800 --> 00:36:09,600
And then, let's allocate what we
have profited from that 

632
00:36:09,600 --> 00:36:12,600
exploitation that they feel that
they're getting on us, right? 

633
00:36:12,700 --> 00:36:17,300
We're using that to now Elevate 
promote and help re-educate the 

634
00:36:17,300 --> 00:36:18,800
people that are willing to 
listen. 

635
00:36:18,800 --> 00:36:21,800
So, as you said, there are some 
white people who are like, hey, 

636
00:36:21,800 --> 00:36:23,400
I want to help I want to 
amplify. 

637
00:36:23,400 --> 00:36:26,800
I want to build I Want to 
support and they mean that they 

638
00:36:26,800 --> 00:36:31,200
want to do it 24/7. 
But eight times out of ten, I 

639
00:36:31,200 --> 00:36:34,300
think what happens is they don't
have a space to go to. 

640
00:36:34,300 --> 00:36:37,600
They don't have people that they
can rely to to go to the tell 

641
00:36:37,600 --> 00:36:40,400
them how to be consistent. 
It's different for us because we

642
00:36:40,400 --> 00:36:43,700
live, it 24/7. 
So we can automatically off the 

643
00:36:43,700 --> 00:36:46,000
top of our heads. 
We can all come up with 10 

644
00:36:46,000 --> 00:36:49,300
different reference points that 
white people need to go, right? 

645
00:36:49,500 --> 00:36:54,000
But I had to think about this 
for myself, I can never put 

646
00:36:54,000 --> 00:36:55,900
myself. 
And white person's shoes. 

647
00:36:56,500 --> 00:36:59,800
I don't live that experience. 
I don't understand what it means

648
00:36:59,800 --> 00:37:02,500
to be white. 
I can speculate but even still. 

649
00:37:02,500 --> 00:37:04,500
I don't I don't have that 
recollection. 

650
00:37:04,500 --> 00:37:08,100
But what I can do now is if it 
were the reverse, right? 

651
00:37:08,100 --> 00:37:11,200
If I want to learn more about 
them, I can hang out with them 

652
00:37:11,200 --> 00:37:14,900
more but I'm not trying to 
impose my thought process and I 

653
00:37:14,900 --> 00:37:18,500
think that's what happens in a 
lot of black spaces, where white

654
00:37:18,500 --> 00:37:22,500
people come in, they want to 
impose their view point and 

655
00:37:22,500 --> 00:37:24,300
which, which again can be 
warranted. 

656
00:37:24,500 --> 00:37:27,600
But when it's a black space, if 
you, and one thing that I've 

657
00:37:27,600 --> 00:37:31,700
been able to do with Black 
Expressions on the mon app, is 

658
00:37:31,700 --> 00:37:35,600
create that dialogue of we're 
going to highlight, only the 

659
00:37:35,600 --> 00:37:40,400
black voices for the first hour,
you can come up and you can add 

660
00:37:40,400 --> 00:37:43,500
to the conversation after you 
sit down and listen to what a 

661
00:37:43,500 --> 00:37:46,400
black person's actually going 
through. 

662
00:37:46,400 --> 00:37:50,400
That could actually feel that 
keyword is listen. 

663
00:37:50,500 --> 00:37:54,000
Okay, the keyword is listening, 
right? 

664
00:37:54,000 --> 00:37:57,800
Because now, Are forced to do 
so, but in doing that, we've 

665
00:37:57,800 --> 00:38:01,700
been able to now open people's 
eyes to so much. 

666
00:38:01,700 --> 00:38:06,000
Like we got people like MC 
mistress, K Scarlet, you know, 

667
00:38:06,000 --> 00:38:08,800
all of our beautiful people on 
the phone app, right? 

668
00:38:08,800 --> 00:38:10,400
And this is the beautiful thing 
about it. 

669
00:38:10,500 --> 00:38:14,100
People are there to listen more 
times than not, they may have 

670
00:38:14,100 --> 00:38:16,700
questions, but that those 
questions are really more. 

671
00:38:16,700 --> 00:38:20,800
So about how do I get more 
directions on where to go on? 

672
00:38:20,800 --> 00:38:23,800
How to ask these questions? 
Or how do I even carry myself? 

673
00:38:23,800 --> 00:38:25,800
How do I become? 
I'm aware and sometimes 

674
00:38:25,800 --> 00:38:28,900
self-awareness is something that
we take for granted that we 

675
00:38:28,900 --> 00:38:32,900
think everybody has 
self-awareness is a gift. 

676
00:38:33,200 --> 00:38:35,900
A lot of people do not have that
gift. 

677
00:38:36,000 --> 00:38:38,500
A lot of people have the 
potential to have it but a lot 

678
00:38:38,500 --> 00:38:40,700
of people don't want to sit down
and work on it because you have 

679
00:38:40,700 --> 00:38:43,600
to be able to empathize and if 
you aren't capable of doing 

680
00:38:43,600 --> 00:38:47,800
that, you can never fully 
understand or even listen, to a 

681
00:38:47,800 --> 00:38:50,500
person that has a different 
experience than you. 

682
00:38:50,800 --> 00:38:53,600
But I think, also, one thing 
that we do with the BMW always, 

683
00:38:53,600 --> 00:38:57,700
we vet people, And we see how 
important some of these aspects 

684
00:38:57,700 --> 00:39:01,400
are like, is this just a sexual 
thing for you or is this more of

685
00:39:01,400 --> 00:39:03,500
a lifestyle come for you? 
And I've come in contact with a 

686
00:39:03,500 --> 00:39:07,300
whole bunch of people but I 
think we all know from our own 

687
00:39:07,300 --> 00:39:09,700
experience. 
If you have, been able to have 

688
00:39:09,900 --> 00:39:12,900
experiences with white people 
outside of your community or 

689
00:39:12,900 --> 00:39:16,000
outside of your immediate 
environment, you, you are able 

690
00:39:16,000 --> 00:39:20,300
to kind of start recognizing 
when someone has a little bit of

691
00:39:20,300 --> 00:39:24,300
that unspoken Truth, for lack of
a better term. 

692
00:39:24,400 --> 00:39:27,100
All right, so they might be 
like, hey, you know, I'm all for

693
00:39:27,100 --> 00:39:27,700
you. 
I'm all for you. 

694
00:39:27,700 --> 00:39:30,800
But when push comes to shove, or
when there's a real serious 

695
00:39:30,800 --> 00:39:32,800
topic, you hear the truth. 
Come out of them. 

696
00:39:33,300 --> 00:39:35,200
You get what I'm saying? 
We hear that even with our own 

697
00:39:35,200 --> 00:39:38,700
black people, right? 
And that's not again, to point 

698
00:39:38,700 --> 00:39:41,500
the finger at anybody 
exclusively, it's just showing 

699
00:39:41,500 --> 00:39:46,300
the comparison that we are more 
similar than we give ourselves 

700
00:39:46,300 --> 00:39:48,900
credit for. 
But also, we have to acknowledge

701
00:39:48,900 --> 00:39:50,800
that. 
There is a difference and why 

702
00:39:50,800 --> 00:39:54,300
there is a difference. 
So going into something like, in

703
00:39:54,300 --> 00:39:58,200
a Racial marriage interracial 
dating an interracial 

704
00:39:58,300 --> 00:40:01,800
childbearing. 
That's a very sensitive subject,

705
00:40:01,800 --> 00:40:04,700
right? 
But I think more so especially 

706
00:40:04,700 --> 00:40:07,000
getting into which you mentioned
with Lady Anaconda. 

707
00:40:08,500 --> 00:40:10,300
We see this a lot with 
celebrities right? 

708
00:40:10,300 --> 00:40:15,400
Celebrities kind of put their 
children on consensually in the 

709
00:40:15,400 --> 00:40:18,400
public eye, right? 
And they do it for a myriad of 

710
00:40:18,400 --> 00:40:21,000
reasons. 
So I'm not going to speak on 

711
00:40:21,100 --> 00:40:25,500
lady anacondas situation per se 
because I I am, I am involved 

712
00:40:25,500 --> 00:40:26,800
with her and I am close with 
her. 

713
00:40:26,900 --> 00:40:30,100
We have spoken on many occasions
and this is no disrespect. 

714
00:40:30,100 --> 00:40:33,400
This is you simple. 
Observation by a door, the woman

715
00:40:33,800 --> 00:40:37,100
it was just more sort of like, 
whoa, okay, right. 

716
00:40:37,100 --> 00:40:39,200
But again, this is a, this is a 
talking point, right? 

717
00:40:39,200 --> 00:40:41,700
And again, just because we're 
talking about it, right? 

718
00:40:41,700 --> 00:40:44,400
Doesn't mean that we're 
belittling it the valuing it or 

719
00:40:44,400 --> 00:40:48,100
even chastise demonizing. 
But, you know, for clarification

720
00:40:48,100 --> 00:40:50,500
for the people that try to 
nitpick him like, oh, no, 

721
00:40:50,500 --> 00:40:52,700
they're talking about this. 
But yeah, you know, you gotta do

722
00:40:52,700 --> 00:40:53,900
that, right? 
I'm like, damn it. 

723
00:40:54,500 --> 00:40:58,100
I'm injury prevention. 
So, everything that I do is to 

724
00:40:58,100 --> 00:41:00,900
make sure like, look, if you try
to sit here and say that I was 

725
00:41:00,900 --> 00:41:03,500
saying this, I definitely gave 
me gonna go ahead. 

726
00:41:04,000 --> 00:41:08,100
But with that being said, I 
think that women like lady 

727
00:41:08,100 --> 00:41:12,200
Anaconda. 
There are very rare type of 

728
00:41:12,200 --> 00:41:18,600
people because they acknowledge 
their part before anything else.

729
00:41:18,600 --> 00:41:20,600
And this is why I admire the 
I've been following her for 

730
00:41:20,600 --> 00:41:23,400
years. 
I've never, once really seen 

731
00:41:23,400 --> 00:41:27,100
her, you know, kind of like shun
responsibility. 

732
00:41:28,200 --> 00:41:33,500
Put the blame on other people. 
I've only seen her promote what 

733
00:41:33,500 --> 00:41:36,200
she believes and she believes in
the BMW. 

734
00:41:36,200 --> 00:41:38,300
Oh, right. 
She believes in Black Supremacy 

735
00:41:39,500 --> 00:41:42,900
and how it relates to her, as 
opposed to. 

736
00:41:42,900 --> 00:41:45,200
This is what it is. 
And this is how it should be 

737
00:41:45,200 --> 00:41:47,000
because I'm saying that it's the
case. 

738
00:41:47,100 --> 00:41:50,700
A lot of people take that 
privilege and and sometimes it 

739
00:41:50,700 --> 00:41:53,800
is White Privilege, right? 
Because you guys have privilege 

740
00:41:53,800 --> 00:41:56,600
at the end of the Let's be real 
when you take that white 

741
00:41:56,600 --> 00:41:59,600
privilege and say I'm going to 
do something just because I can 

742
00:41:59,700 --> 00:42:02,600
that's like the ultimate slap in
the face because we know that 

743
00:42:02,600 --> 00:42:06,200
you can do stuff because you can
exactly the whole point. 

744
00:42:06,200 --> 00:42:08,900
But when you have someone like 
lady Anaconda that singly, I'm 

745
00:42:08,900 --> 00:42:11,600
not doing this because I can't 
I'm doing this because I feel 

746
00:42:11,600 --> 00:42:13,900
like it's right. 
And here are the reasons why I 

747
00:42:13,908 --> 00:42:15,900
feel like this, right? 
And she's able to back it up 

748
00:42:15,900 --> 00:42:18,800
with some type of evidence. 
I can only appreciate that 

749
00:42:18,800 --> 00:42:22,100
because that such a rare thing 
to get from that side 

750
00:42:22,100 --> 00:42:25,100
accountability, right? 
As I said before, For something 

751
00:42:25,100 --> 00:42:27,900
that we harp on that, we 
sometimes have a problem with 

752
00:42:27,900 --> 00:42:31,500
but we demand from everybody 
else so when you finally do get 

753
00:42:31,500 --> 00:42:34,600
it you have a choice. 
Are you going to acknowledge it?

754
00:42:34,600 --> 00:42:37,800
And then build with that build 
understanding, build a bridge 

755
00:42:37,800 --> 00:42:40,600
and then come together? 
Or are you going to just ignore 

756
00:42:40,600 --> 00:42:43,000
it which tends to happen with 
black men? 

757
00:42:43,000 --> 00:42:46,400
When were talking about the 
lgbtq experience trans women 

758
00:42:46,400 --> 00:42:48,500
women in general? 
Right. 

759
00:42:48,500 --> 00:42:50,500
We choose to ignore our part to 
play. 

760
00:42:50,500 --> 00:42:53,200
So again, we're starting to see 
how these parallels. 

761
00:42:53,200 --> 00:42:57,000
Now, start coincide Each other, 
and they start repeating. 

762
00:42:57,300 --> 00:43:00,400
You know what I'm saying? 
So, for me, this is why I like 

763
00:43:00,400 --> 00:43:02,200
again, accountability is a big 
thing night. 

764
00:43:02,200 --> 00:43:05,400
Now, anyone who takes account, 
whether you are black or white. 

765
00:43:05,400 --> 00:43:09,200
Because right now, we're just 
talking about the social aspect 

766
00:43:09,200 --> 00:43:12,900
of interacting with each other 
outside of the king outside of 

767
00:43:12,900 --> 00:43:14,800
the lifestyle. 
Because not everybody is going 

768
00:43:14,800 --> 00:43:17,300
to be a part of the lifestyle. 
Not everybody is built to be a 

769
00:43:17,300 --> 00:43:19,200
part of the lifestyle. 
Let's before any light as it 

770
00:43:19,200 --> 00:43:20,600
comes with a lot of scrutiny. 
Yeah. 

771
00:43:20,600 --> 00:43:22,100
Right. 
In anyone and anything in 

772
00:43:22,100 --> 00:43:25,100
general, but the more that you 
are able Well to sit here and 

773
00:43:25,100 --> 00:43:28,400
say like I acknowledge which you
go through, I acknowledge your 

774
00:43:28,400 --> 00:43:30,700
part. 
I acknowledge your Viewpoint. 

775
00:43:30,800 --> 00:43:34,800
I may not decide may not agree, 
but I acknowledge that opens up 

776
00:43:34,800 --> 00:43:38,200
a whole different level of 
communication that we didn't 

777
00:43:38,200 --> 00:43:41,900
have. 
So even if we didn't make a 

778
00:43:41,900 --> 00:43:44,200
truce here, let for lack of 
better term, right? 

779
00:43:44,200 --> 00:43:47,400
Even if we didn't come to some 
type of consensus of this is 

780
00:43:47,400 --> 00:43:49,900
what's going to be. 
We're making the effort to 

781
00:43:49,900 --> 00:43:53,300
eventually get there, and this 
is what interracial dating. 

782
00:43:53,300 --> 00:43:55,900
This is what people fear. 
About interracial dating for so 

783
00:43:55,900 --> 00:43:58,300
long in this country is that 
eventually people are going to 

784
00:43:58,300 --> 00:44:01,100
be forced to acknowledge that. 
We're really not all that 

785
00:44:01,100 --> 00:44:03,800
different. 
If we choose to be, we really 

786
00:44:03,800 --> 00:44:08,800
can coexist if we choose and 
again when it comes to children,

787
00:44:09,800 --> 00:44:12,400
children are innocent children, 
learn from us. 

788
00:44:12,800 --> 00:44:16,200
So, if you automatically have 
racism in your heart or even if 

789
00:44:16,200 --> 00:44:20,100
you have a sense of supremacist 
ISM in your heart, you're going 

790
00:44:20,100 --> 00:44:22,800
to teach that. 
But if you can teach tolerance, 

791
00:44:22,800 --> 00:44:26,500
first people, Can get along 
whether or not they agree. 

792
00:44:26,500 --> 00:44:28,400
And that to me is the most 
important thing. 

793
00:44:28,700 --> 00:44:31,600
Are we saying that it's wrong 
for people that have extremist 

794
00:44:31,600 --> 00:44:32,500
views? 
No. 

795
00:44:32,500 --> 00:44:35,300
Because there are some black 
people some hotep. 

796
00:44:35,300 --> 00:44:39,900
Stephen, who have a very right. 
Black Israelites have a very 

797
00:44:39,900 --> 00:44:42,600
polarizing opinion on white 
people. 

798
00:44:42,600 --> 00:44:46,200
And if you take the aspect of 
who's talking about it, right? 

799
00:44:46,300 --> 00:44:48,200
I'm going to be here and say 
this because again, we're going 

800
00:44:48,200 --> 00:44:50,500
to keep it real. 
I personally don't see much 

801
00:44:50,500 --> 00:44:53,800
difference between white, Nazis,
white neo-nazis, and black 

802
00:44:53,800 --> 00:44:54,600
Israelite. 
Lights. 

803
00:44:55,800 --> 00:44:58,800
I don't that's a whole different
subject. 

804
00:44:58,800 --> 00:45:02,000
But yeah, yeah. 
And again, yeah, yes. 

805
00:45:02,000 --> 00:45:04,200
But again, I'm just focusing on 
this one point. 

806
00:45:04,300 --> 00:45:07,300
Look, listen to the rhetoric. 
Listen, to the words that are 

807
00:45:07,300 --> 00:45:09,300
being said the intent when you 
behind. 

808
00:45:09,400 --> 00:45:13,300
Yeah, the attention in for a 
quick, you know, refresher for 

809
00:45:13,300 --> 00:45:17,800
folks, the black Israelites 
basically, unlike what Malcolm X

810
00:45:17,800 --> 00:45:23,700
was trying to do, they tried to 
amplify the fact that blacks 

811
00:45:24,300 --> 00:45:27,700
Only mattered and everything 
else and that White's needs to 

812
00:45:27,700 --> 00:45:31,000
kind of be like eradicated. 
Yes, off the face of the Earth. 

813
00:45:31,100 --> 00:45:33,900
It sounds very similar to the 
people that we say, or like the 

814
00:45:33,900 --> 00:45:37,300
whole to me evil the Nazis as 
neo-nazis and what they were 

815
00:45:37,300 --> 00:45:39,600
saying about, everybody else 
that wasn't white. 

816
00:45:40,200 --> 00:45:42,400
But again, it's like, oh, 
because black people are saying 

817
00:45:42,400 --> 00:45:45,600
it were Champion it and I 
understand that, but here's the 

818
00:45:45,600 --> 00:45:47,300
thing, right is right and wrong 
is wrong. 

819
00:45:47,800 --> 00:45:50,200
If we're going to say that the 
white people are wrong for doing

820
00:45:50,200 --> 00:45:53,100
that in the interest of 
fairness, I have to say that is 

821
00:45:53,100 --> 00:45:55,700
wrong with us. 
Black people start doing that. 

822
00:45:55,700 --> 00:46:00,000
Yeah, we said well yeah because 
you're basically saying that 

823
00:46:00,000 --> 00:46:04,500
races cannot Co is this races 
can absolutely co-exist the 

824
00:46:04,500 --> 00:46:09,500
problem of the matter is is the 
fact that we think in society, 

825
00:46:09,800 --> 00:46:14,900
one is better than the next and 
that's when the disconnect Lies.

826
00:46:14,900 --> 00:46:19,200
When Malcolm X was saying that 
he wanted to create a country of

827
00:46:19,200 --> 00:46:24,700
black folks where they can be 
their own, it was sold Not 

828
00:46:24,700 --> 00:46:27,700
because the said it was it was 
because of segregation. 

829
00:46:27,900 --> 00:46:31,400
But it also wasn't saying we're 
gonna wipe out white people, 

830
00:46:31,400 --> 00:46:35,800
it's just more like you took us 
from our native land, okay? 

831
00:46:35,800 --> 00:46:38,900
Right essentially we need to 
establish something, we need to 

832
00:46:38,900 --> 00:46:44,900
have something of our own but of
course the disconnect lies with 

833
00:46:45,100 --> 00:46:48,400
so many different aspects of 
Islam and wipe, right? 

834
00:46:48,400 --> 00:46:53,000
And again another subject what I
do also want to touch upon 

835
00:46:54,600 --> 00:46:57,200
Splash mocha. 
Hmm. 

836
00:46:57,200 --> 00:46:59,800
When you hear about events, 
like, Splash mocha, and for the 

837
00:46:59,800 --> 00:47:03,000
virgin ears of ear, you know, 
the the Virgin earbuds out 

838
00:47:03,000 --> 00:47:05,000
there. 
What the fuck is flashbulb? 

839
00:47:05,000 --> 00:47:07,100
What is a splash? 
Mocha is that it? 

840
00:47:07,100 --> 00:47:09,600
Is that a new coffee job? 
What is this? 

841
00:47:10,100 --> 00:47:12,300
Listen, I might have to go to 
Starbucks and get me some. 

842
00:47:12,300 --> 00:47:13,600
Hey, can you get this last 
monkey? 

843
00:47:13,600 --> 00:47:14,900
You never know what you're 
asking for? 

844
00:47:14,900 --> 00:47:20,300
With that one. 
I'm trying to think when the 

845
00:47:20,300 --> 00:47:22,900
first time I ever heard the 
splash Boca but when I did, I 

846
00:47:22,900 --> 00:47:25,900
was like, oh, it's a Freaknik 
right, right. 

847
00:47:26,500 --> 00:47:29,700
But then when I started 
realizing, what type of Freaknik

848
00:47:29,700 --> 00:47:33,100
then, I was like, wait a second,
how is this not problematic? 

849
00:47:33,600 --> 00:47:36,400
And they nest associated with 
being wo? 

850
00:47:36,400 --> 00:47:41,700
That's where my shit was like. 
Oh, I'm livid because right? 

851
00:47:41,700 --> 00:47:46,000
It came off to me that it's just
basically white people going on 

852
00:47:46,000 --> 00:47:53,300
vacation seeking and degrading 
black dick and black pussy. 

853
00:47:54,100 --> 00:47:58,600
That that's my, that was my 
perspective because the way 

854
00:47:58,800 --> 00:48:02,500
white people were talking about 
/ mocha once, even black people 

855
00:48:02,500 --> 00:48:05,800
talking about it, it was white 
people that were saying, oh yes,

856
00:48:05,800 --> 00:48:08,300
flash mocha, you know, that's 
the one weekend. 

857
00:48:08,400 --> 00:48:11,700
My lady and I we had the free 
pass to go fuck as many black 

858
00:48:11,700 --> 00:48:13,600
people. 
And I'm like, wait, wait, wait, 

859
00:48:13,600 --> 00:48:15,700
wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, 
wait, right. 

860
00:48:15,900 --> 00:48:19,100
Very jarring. 
Yeah for the new people. 

861
00:48:19,100 --> 00:48:21,500
Yeah. 
It sounded very, you know. 

862
00:48:22,800 --> 00:48:26,600
Slave trade in a sense where 
you're just letting black 

863
00:48:26,600 --> 00:48:28,800
people. 
Letting black people get 

864
00:48:28,800 --> 00:48:32,800
degraded in any, which type of 
form just for the sole Act of 

865
00:48:32,800 --> 00:48:35,500
sex. 
And I'm like, how the fuck is 

866
00:48:35,500 --> 00:48:37,800
this entire story? 
Hmm. 

867
00:48:38,500 --> 00:48:40,300
So please know, I definitely get
that. 

868
00:48:40,500 --> 00:48:43,900
So one thing that I think before
we even get started in that we 

869
00:48:43,900 --> 00:48:47,700
have to acknowledge that, no 
matter what you do sexually 

870
00:48:47,900 --> 00:48:51,800
there is some chance that you 
want that you are going to feel 

871
00:48:51,800 --> 00:48:55,200
degraded or or made to feel 
degraded, right? 

872
00:48:55,200 --> 00:48:59,600
Because a lot of people look at 
sex as a very degrading act, 

873
00:49:00,100 --> 00:49:03,900
that's it. 
But I think what happens is an 

874
00:49:03,900 --> 00:49:07,100
especially now in today's day 
and age especially with like 

875
00:49:07,100 --> 00:49:10,500
women's empowerment coming into 
the into the Forefront. 

876
00:49:10,500 --> 00:49:14,900
We're seeing people take pride 
in their sexuality and their 

877
00:49:14,900 --> 00:49:19,500
sexual activity in their sexual 
identity and I think in doing 

878
00:49:19,500 --> 00:49:21,800
that we also have to acknowledge
that there are black people that

879
00:49:21,800 --> 00:49:23,900
are into Things that we're going
to question. 

880
00:49:24,100 --> 00:49:28,200
This is the beauty of Kink and 
BDSM again, alternative 

881
00:49:28,200 --> 00:49:32,300
lifestyles are made or the space
for alternative lifestyle is 

882
00:49:32,300 --> 00:49:34,900
made. 
That is made because it doesn't 

883
00:49:34,900 --> 00:49:38,900
exist within the vanilla world. 
It's not supposed to write. 

884
00:49:38,900 --> 00:49:41,000
So when you come up with 
something, or when you come 

885
00:49:41,000 --> 00:49:44,200
across something like Splash 
motive, the expression might 

886
00:49:44,200 --> 00:49:49,300
come off as degrading, 
dehumanizing belittling very 

887
00:49:49,300 --> 00:49:52,400
fetishized, right? 
But now we also have to from 

888
00:49:52,700 --> 00:49:57,800
From a comprehensive 
perspective, we have to look at 

889
00:49:57,800 --> 00:50:01,600
the consent of the people that 
are being involved, right? 

890
00:50:01,600 --> 00:50:05,700
Because easily white. 
People can say like, oh, I don't

891
00:50:05,700 --> 00:50:08,400
see how any other white people 
can go to the BMW. 

892
00:50:08,400 --> 00:50:11,700
Oh and want to be Servants of 
black people and and all this 

893
00:50:11,700 --> 00:50:13,100
stuff, they could easily say 
that. 

894
00:50:13,100 --> 00:50:15,700
Just like how we can say, I 
don't know how there are some 

895
00:50:15,700 --> 00:50:19,500
black people that want to be 
degraded, humiliated belittled 

896
00:50:19,500 --> 00:50:23,600
for their racial context, right?
Or the Aspect about them. 

897
00:50:24,100 --> 00:50:27,200
And this is again, the main 
thing that BMW, I was teaching 

898
00:50:27,200 --> 00:50:31,200
people, first and foremost, 
tolerance, and acceptance, just 

899
00:50:31,200 --> 00:50:34,700
because a person chooses to be a
part of something doesn't mean 

900
00:50:34,700 --> 00:50:38,900
that, that is the only thing 
that is about them, right? 

901
00:50:38,900 --> 00:50:41,800
That's not the only factor that 
they are about, and I feel like 

902
00:50:41,800 --> 00:50:45,400
we so project that onto 
ourselves a lot, especially with

903
00:50:45,400 --> 00:50:49,300
sexuality right from the female 
perspective as a woman. 

904
00:50:50,200 --> 00:50:53,000
If you choose to just Express 
that, you have a Fantasy of 

905
00:50:53,000 --> 00:50:56,000
having multiple men at once. 
What happens? 

906
00:50:56,400 --> 00:50:58,700
She's a whore. 
She's a slut, she's not the type

907
00:50:58,700 --> 00:51:01,200
of woman that you want to be 
with, but all you're doing is 

908
00:51:01,200 --> 00:51:04,700
expressing your inner feelings, 
that doesn't mean that you're a 

909
00:51:04,707 --> 00:51:08,000
bad person. 
So for me, even and again, we're

910
00:51:08,000 --> 00:51:11,600
very at BMW were very much about
black superiority. 

911
00:51:11,900 --> 00:51:15,100
All black people are considered 
dominant in our order, whether 

912
00:51:15,100 --> 00:51:19,100
you are a black Dom or a black 
submissive, right? 

913
00:51:19,100 --> 00:51:22,800
You are dominant in our order 
because black is supreme Now, 

914
00:51:22,800 --> 00:51:26,600
with that being said, how do you
then create a balance of 

915
00:51:26,600 --> 00:51:30,300
respecting all black people? 
Because as I've said, as black 

916
00:51:30,300 --> 00:51:33,900
straight heterosexual, men, one 
thing that sets black women off,

917
00:51:33,900 --> 00:51:36,700
is the word submission. 
That's a very triggering word, 

918
00:51:36,800 --> 00:51:38,600
right? 
So, how can we even create a 

919
00:51:38,607 --> 00:51:43,100
beat BDSM positive space within 
black people? 

920
00:51:43,100 --> 00:51:46,200
If we have a problem with the 
word submission, you get all I'm

921
00:51:46,200 --> 00:51:48,800
saying. 
So we have to teach tolerance 

922
00:51:48,800 --> 00:51:51,400
first and on top of that, we 
have to teach tolerance for 

923
00:51:51,400 --> 00:51:56,800
people that don't Think like us.
So growth Vader loves going and 

924
00:51:56,800 --> 00:52:00,300
that's cooked Matchmaker AKA 
Pharaoh, AKA Garth Vader the 

925
00:52:02,800 --> 00:52:05,700
names right taken after his 
brother because I also have a 

926
00:52:05,900 --> 00:52:14,100
whole bunch of really come back.
I definitely will be. 

927
00:52:14,100 --> 00:52:17,300
But right, so girth, he, he 
loves going to Splash mocha, 

928
00:52:17,600 --> 00:52:18,900
right? 
He loves being in that 

929
00:52:18,900 --> 00:52:21,000
environment. 
He's the cook Matchmaker. 

930
00:52:21,100 --> 00:52:24,400
He Specializes In cuckold, 
right? 

931
00:52:24,500 --> 00:52:27,800
But that doesn't mean that he's 
any less of a black god-king as 

932
00:52:27,800 --> 00:52:30,500
I referred to us, right? 
Because we're trying to 

933
00:52:30,900 --> 00:52:34,700
acknowledge your divine, right 
of being black in your Royal, 

934
00:52:34,700 --> 00:52:38,100
right of being black right 
doubling down on that same thing

935
00:52:38,100 --> 00:52:42,200
for black goddess, Queens, the 
female and black Omni Unbound, 

936
00:52:42,200 --> 00:52:45,400
rulers for all those who don't 
gender identify as male or 

937
00:52:45,400 --> 00:52:48,900
female again, all inclusion, all
recognition, and all 

938
00:52:48,900 --> 00:52:51,600
celebration. 
If you decide to go to Splash 

939
00:52:51,600 --> 00:52:53,500
mocha, you Side to go to Splash 
mobile. 

940
00:52:53,900 --> 00:52:58,300
Splash milk is not a BMW. 
Oh event I believe it is owned 

941
00:52:58,300 --> 00:53:02,500
and run by a black man so shout 
out to that but again there's 

942
00:53:02,500 --> 00:53:05,900
there are very specific Niche 
things that some people have. 

943
00:53:06,200 --> 00:53:10,900
So the problem for us about 
Splash mocha is okay, cool. 

944
00:53:11,200 --> 00:53:13,400
Black men have a place to go, 
but what about black women? 

945
00:53:13,500 --> 00:53:14,900
Hmm. 
Right. 

946
00:53:15,000 --> 00:53:17,400
What about black women? 
And this is part of the reason 

947
00:53:17,400 --> 00:53:21,200
why being wo so, polarizing 
black people, especially black 

948
00:53:21,200 --> 00:53:26,000
women is because Is rarely ever 
any representation of black 

949
00:53:26,000 --> 00:53:29,700
women in this sexual space. 
So, yeah, the only things that 

950
00:53:29,700 --> 00:53:33,500
really get highlighted or that 
were highlighted in the being wo

951
00:53:33,500 --> 00:53:38,600
work, big BBC, white men, white 
women interracial, and that's 

952
00:53:38,600 --> 00:53:41,000
pretty much it. 
Black women were kind of left 

953
00:53:41,000 --> 00:53:45,100
over to the Wayside and again, 
the resentment builds even more 

954
00:53:45,100 --> 00:53:48,200
because this isn't the first 
time that we've kind of done 

955
00:53:48,200 --> 00:53:51,200
that as a whole as black men, 
right? 

956
00:53:51,300 --> 00:53:53,900
Even when we make the Paris in 
again, going back to those 

957
00:53:53,900 --> 00:53:57,900
gender role conversations or the
value of black women are and, 

958
00:53:57,900 --> 00:54:00,200
and stuff like that. 
And the adverse is also there as

959
00:54:00,200 --> 00:54:02,900
well. 
I think it's divested women or 

960
00:54:02,900 --> 00:54:06,500
women that are diabetic cut next
door, was talking about it, I'll

961
00:54:06,500 --> 00:54:10,000
go look it up, but it's 
basically the adverse effect of 

962
00:54:10,000 --> 00:54:12,700
black women saying like, oh 
yeah, we're not going to 

963
00:54:12,700 --> 00:54:14,900
procreate with you guys. 
You guys should be wiped off the

964
00:54:14,900 --> 00:54:17,100
face of the Earth. 
Y'all ain't King Zhou qing's. 

965
00:54:17,800 --> 00:54:21,300
It's going to happen because 
there's always two sides to the 

966
00:54:21,300 --> 00:54:23,600
coin, right? 
There's always two ways of 

967
00:54:23,600 --> 00:54:27,200
thinking but the more that we 
can acknowledge, like, yeah, 

968
00:54:27,200 --> 00:54:30,700
there's pain there. 
And some people get empowerment 

969
00:54:30,700 --> 00:54:34,000
from being embraced by the 
people that they have Associated

970
00:54:34,000 --> 00:54:39,500
pain with for so long. 
And we can't, we can't disown 

971
00:54:39,500 --> 00:54:42,300
those people, right? 
We can't say that you are 

972
00:54:42,300 --> 00:54:46,400
without being helped, or even 
having a place of belonging. 

973
00:54:46,400 --> 00:54:49,100
It's just, you have to 
understand the time and place 

974
00:54:49,100 --> 00:54:51,900
that true in because it might be
offsetting to people. 

975
00:54:51,900 --> 00:54:54,900
That haven't Addressed that 
trauma yet that haven't been 

976
00:54:54,900 --> 00:54:58,900
able to to even acknowledge that
they have a trauma with it. 

977
00:54:58,900 --> 00:55:01,800
Like you're saying, you have 
traumatic instances with 

978
00:55:01,800 --> 00:55:04,500
anything that has to do with 
race play, right? 

979
00:55:04,500 --> 00:55:08,900
So the only thing that we can do
is acknowledge like, hey, race 

980
00:55:08,900 --> 00:55:11,300
play is not for you, but you 
could still be in a place where 

981
00:55:11,300 --> 00:55:14,300
black people acknowledge the 
fact that you are a black woman 

982
00:55:14,300 --> 00:55:18,100
that loves her sexuality, loves 
who she loves and is who she is.

983
00:55:18,300 --> 00:55:21,100
Now, another thing that we can 
do is we can introduce you to 

984
00:55:21,400 --> 00:55:24,900
race play on a French Spectrum. 
Which, you know, I'm going to 

985
00:55:24,908 --> 00:55:28,900
introduce consensual ethical 
race plate, right? 

986
00:55:29,000 --> 00:55:32,800
For a lot of people race plays, 
only the - it's only the bad 

987
00:55:32,800 --> 00:55:35,100
words, it's only black and 
white. 

988
00:55:35,800 --> 00:55:38,900
I make this comparison all the 
time, a lot of people get get 

989
00:55:38,900 --> 00:55:43,400
praised and celebrated for their
cultural or racial context. 

990
00:55:43,400 --> 00:55:45,900
Right? 
I'll use the Hispanic in Latin 

991
00:55:45,900 --> 00:55:48,300
Community as a prime example, 
right? 

992
00:55:48,300 --> 00:55:51,900
They're very spicy. 
They're very passionate their 

993
00:55:51,900 --> 00:55:54,200
hips. 
Sway and all this other stuff, 

994
00:55:54,300 --> 00:55:55,400
right? 
That's all race. 

995
00:55:55,400 --> 00:55:59,500
Play your eggs. 
Your only highlighting these 

996
00:55:59,500 --> 00:56:03,100
aspects because they're Hispanic
or because they're afro-latino 

997
00:56:03,800 --> 00:56:08,100
their afro-cuban, right? 
So race play can be very 

998
00:56:08,100 --> 00:56:10,000
empowering. 
There are a lot of Hispanic 

999
00:56:10,000 --> 00:56:12,200
people that hear that shit and 
they get. 

1000
00:56:12,200 --> 00:56:17,100
So you see we're in a meeting by
building exactly. 

1001
00:56:17,100 --> 00:56:18,900
Why can't we have the same 
thing? 

1002
00:56:19,000 --> 00:56:24,400
Now what I mean by consensual 
ethical race, play is If you as 

1003
00:56:24,400 --> 00:56:28,400
a black woman are dealing with a
black or a white man. 

1004
00:56:28,400 --> 00:56:30,400
Right? 
And you know, as you said some 

1005
00:56:30,400 --> 00:56:34,400
of them, they just want to 
praise you because these things 

1006
00:56:34,400 --> 00:56:39,200
they they're not used to our 
there, there infatuated with it.

1007
00:56:39,200 --> 00:56:43,300
It may even be a taboo but it's 
not coming from a bad place if 

1008
00:56:43,300 --> 00:56:46,400
we can now teach and redirect 
how we do that. 

1009
00:56:46,400 --> 00:56:48,600
Because again, the same thing 
can be said for me. 

1010
00:56:48,600 --> 00:56:51,600
As a black man praising you for 
being a beautiful black goddess 

1011
00:56:51,600 --> 00:56:53,700
Queen, right? 
Now, you were looking stunning, 

1012
00:56:53,700 --> 00:56:54,700
right? 
You know what I'm saying? 

1013
00:56:54,700 --> 00:56:57,600
Yo, your smile is smiling. 
You know what I'm saying? 

1014
00:56:57,600 --> 00:57:01,800
That we are covering, but you 
get what I'm saying? 

1015
00:57:02,100 --> 00:57:06,100
Yes, you look amazing, right? 
But I can easily be offsetting 

1016
00:57:06,100 --> 00:57:09,400
to you as a black woman by 
highlighting these things. 

1017
00:57:09,600 --> 00:57:13,700
So where do we find the balance?
The balance, is we have to also 

1018
00:57:13,700 --> 00:57:17,700
teach people what boundaries we 
accept and why we don't accept. 

1019
00:57:18,100 --> 00:57:21,300
So, I always try to stress and 
this is not to try to, you know,

1020
00:57:21,300 --> 00:57:25,800
convert you or anything. 
But as a black woman, there's so

1021
00:57:25,800 --> 00:57:28,400
many times where you are not 
acknowledged. 

1022
00:57:28,400 --> 00:57:31,800
You are. 
You are belittled because you 

1023
00:57:31,800 --> 00:57:34,500
are black. 
You are the mean because you are

1024
00:57:34,500 --> 00:57:37,700
black, like, you said earlier, 
like the whole Jezebel, right? 

1025
00:57:38,700 --> 00:57:41,500
With that being said, like we 
want to make sure that you 

1026
00:57:41,500 --> 00:57:44,900
understand that, for the people 
that choose to celebrate for the

1027
00:57:44,900 --> 00:57:49,000
people that choose to empower 
you, right? 

1028
00:57:49,200 --> 00:57:52,100
That's something that you can 
choose to accept. 

1029
00:57:52,600 --> 00:57:56,800
You don't have to put yourself 
through it and also you have the

1030
00:57:56,800 --> 00:57:59,500
right especially within the BMW 
have the right to pick and 

1031
00:57:59,500 --> 00:58:03,300
choose who comes within your 
space who interacts with you, 

1032
00:58:03,400 --> 00:58:07,800
whether they are black or not. 
So instead of just only focusing

1033
00:58:07,800 --> 00:58:11,300
on the negative aspect of race 
play, as you said, you probably 

1034
00:58:11,300 --> 00:58:13,900
will never be able to be 
empowered by it, but I think 

1035
00:58:13,900 --> 00:58:17,500
that there is a possibility not 
just for you instead of only 

1036
00:58:17,500 --> 00:58:20,800
acknowledging the negative 
aspect of that. 

1037
00:58:20,800 --> 00:58:24,300
Let's let's teach you how to So,
be empowered by the things that 

1038
00:58:24,300 --> 00:58:27,400
people have made. 
You feel bad about, especially 

1039
00:58:27,400 --> 00:58:31,700
something like, being a strong 
black woman, like II, 

1040
00:58:32,000 --> 00:58:35,300
personally, I get so 
heartbroken, when I hear black 

1041
00:58:35,300 --> 00:58:38,500
women say, I don't want to be 
referred to as strong because 

1042
00:58:38,500 --> 00:58:42,000
y'all are and it's not something
that's a negative against you. 

1043
00:58:42,000 --> 00:58:46,200
But as black men, if we 
weaponize that word against you 

1044
00:58:46,600 --> 00:58:48,700
it will be you get what I'm 
saying. 

1045
00:58:48,700 --> 00:58:53,200
So, even more, so with raced 
play if we allow Now people to 

1046
00:58:53,200 --> 00:58:56,900
weaponize words against us, it 
will always be harmful. 

1047
00:58:57,000 --> 00:58:59,700
And for the first time, in my 
opinion, when we, when we 

1048
00:58:59,700 --> 00:59:02,900
introduce something like 
consensual as a, a display that 

1049
00:59:02,900 --> 00:59:07,800
is us teaching you about your 
power, your right to say no, 

1050
00:59:08,000 --> 00:59:10,000
you're right to enforce. 
No. 

1051
00:59:10,000 --> 00:59:13,600
And for people to have to 
listen, as opposed to it being 

1052
00:59:13,700 --> 00:59:15,200
something that you can't 
control. 

1053
00:59:15,200 --> 00:59:18,600
And I think for a lot of people 
when it comes to race plate, we 

1054
00:59:18,600 --> 00:59:22,400
associate it only with the 
things that we can't control and

1055
00:59:22,600 --> 00:59:23,900
Light. 
Hmm. 

1056
00:59:23,900 --> 00:59:27,500
And what we're trying to do here
is show you that you can control

1057
00:59:27,500 --> 00:59:31,100
it in real life, you can also 
control it here in this most 

1058
00:59:31,100 --> 00:59:34,100
vulnerable space. 
But you have to learn how to set

1059
00:59:34,100 --> 00:59:38,700
those boundaries for yourself. 
So that's why consensual ethical

1060
00:59:38,700 --> 00:59:41,200
race. 
Play is, what is called cert 

1061
00:59:41,400 --> 00:59:44,100
consensual? 
First off, you have to consent 

1062
00:59:44,100 --> 00:59:46,100
to it. 
If you don't consent to it, it 

1063
00:59:46,100 --> 00:59:49,200
doesn't go down. 
But also the person that you are

1064
00:59:49,200 --> 00:59:51,700
playing with, has to consent to 
it as well. 

1065
00:59:52,900 --> 00:59:57,600
Ethical, you have to, you have 
to discuss it in depth, you have

1066
00:59:57,600 --> 01:00:00,800
to get uncomfortable, you have 
to address it at its core of 

1067
01:00:00,800 --> 01:00:03,400
why, it might be a problem for 
you and why it might be a 

1068
01:00:03,400 --> 01:00:05,100
problem for the person that 
you're dealing with. 

1069
01:00:05,100 --> 01:00:06,400
Because here's another thing 
right? 

1070
01:00:06,400 --> 01:00:08,300
There are black people that are 
in the race play in their white 

1071
01:00:08,300 --> 01:00:11,900
people that aren't but the black
person might impose the race 

1072
01:00:11,900 --> 01:00:13,100
play. 
So does that make now? 

1073
01:00:13,100 --> 01:00:15,000
Make it okay. 
You get on saying. 

1074
01:00:15,000 --> 01:00:18,500
So again, these rules are 
established not just for 

1075
01:00:18,500 --> 01:00:21,700
ourselves but to make sure that 
we don't become the people that 

1076
01:00:21,700 --> 01:00:24,400
we say to me. 
I hate or that have caused us 

1077
01:00:24,400 --> 01:00:26,400
pain. 
And a lot of times when having 

1078
01:00:26,400 --> 01:00:29,500
these conversations if you 
really listen to people, it's 

1079
01:00:29,500 --> 01:00:32,500
not even about anything else. 
Except I want to be able to 

1080
01:00:32,500 --> 01:00:34,800
treat people how they have 
treated me. 

1081
01:00:37,000 --> 01:00:40,700
So this is why I like I am, I am
poor people to be open-minded to

1082
01:00:40,700 --> 01:00:44,000
consensual ethical race play 
because then you realize you 

1083
01:00:44,000 --> 01:00:47,400
don't have to do things the way 
that other people do them. 

1084
01:00:48,200 --> 01:00:51,200
I'm not called anything that I 
don't consent to and I make it 

1085
01:00:51,200 --> 01:00:53,700
very clear. 
What you can you can speak to me

1086
01:00:53,700 --> 01:00:57,800
as and what you can't. 
The name is your god for a 

1087
01:00:57,800 --> 01:01:02,800
reason because my submissives 
referred to me as my God. 

1088
01:01:03,100 --> 01:01:05,600
They are not allowed to refer to
me as anything else. 

1089
01:01:05,700 --> 01:01:08,800
Else. 
If I give them permission to 

1090
01:01:08,800 --> 01:01:12,900
call me black god-king is 
because I gave them permission 

1091
01:01:13,200 --> 01:01:16,900
to do so and if they don't 
follow that we don't interact 

1092
01:01:16,900 --> 01:01:18,200
with each other. 
Hmm. 

1093
01:01:19,600 --> 01:01:21,300
There's nothing else for me to 
say. 

1094
01:01:21,300 --> 01:01:23,900
I don't I'm not concerned with 
anything that you have to say 

1095
01:01:23,900 --> 01:01:27,700
because you're going to say it 
anyway, whether I'm there or 

1096
01:01:27,700 --> 01:01:28,500
not. 
Right. 

1097
01:01:28,500 --> 01:01:30,700
And here's the thing about 
dealing with white people, this 

1098
01:01:30,700 --> 01:01:33,300
is the reality of it, we never 
know what you're going to say, 

1099
01:01:33,900 --> 01:01:36,200
we never know. 
This is a this is a Hear that a 

1100
01:01:36,207 --> 01:01:38,500
lot of black people have with 
getting into interracial 

1101
01:01:38,500 --> 01:01:43,400
relationships, but if I can have
the solidarity and the resolve, 

1102
01:01:43,400 --> 01:01:48,500
the resilience to say that that 
word or those words, that 

1103
01:01:48,500 --> 01:01:52,200
mindset that you have doesn't 
have any effect on me. 

1104
01:01:52,600 --> 01:01:55,100
I now take all the levers that 
they have. 

1105
01:01:55,500 --> 01:01:59,200
All the power that makes whites 
of quote-unquote supreme in this

1106
01:01:59,200 --> 01:02:01,800
country, is because we choose to
let them do. 

1107
01:02:01,800 --> 01:02:03,700
It is a difference. 
If they become physically 

1108
01:02:03,700 --> 01:02:05,300
violent, I want to point that 
out. 

1109
01:02:05,700 --> 01:02:08,200
It's a big difference. 
But if all they're doing is 

1110
01:02:08,200 --> 01:02:11,600
talking, which is one of the 
most powerful things that 

1111
01:02:11,600 --> 01:02:14,400
they've done in this country for
such a long time, is they just 

1112
01:02:14,400 --> 01:02:17,600
spoken about things and they've 
made it affect us in a 

1113
01:02:17,600 --> 01:02:21,100
resounding way. 
But for us to be able to truly 

1114
01:02:21,100 --> 01:02:24,600
take that power back, we have to
go into those uncomfortable 

1115
01:02:24,600 --> 01:02:26,600
Waters. 
We have to go and face those 

1116
01:02:26,600 --> 01:02:30,800
ugly truths about ourselves. 
Why do I find race play? 

1117
01:02:30,800 --> 01:02:34,300
So, triggering as a black man, 
there's many different reasons, 

1118
01:02:34,300 --> 01:02:38,300
but is it It's something that I 
personally gone through which if

1119
01:02:38,300 --> 01:02:41,200
I have that's a different story.
But if I've never personally 

1120
01:02:41,200 --> 01:02:44,700
gone through it, I'm living 
through the trauma of other 

1121
01:02:44,700 --> 01:02:51,800
people and not myself. 
Dom, my goodness, I told you 

1122
01:02:51,800 --> 01:02:53,100
look. 
I'm gonna get, I'm gonna get 

1123
01:02:53,100 --> 01:02:56,200
deep into something. 
No, no, this is something. 

1124
01:02:56,200 --> 01:03:02,100
I my God honestly, thank you, 
thank you, thank you. 

1125
01:03:02,700 --> 01:03:05,400
Oh my goodness. 
I'll leave it. 

1126
01:03:05,400 --> 01:03:07,900
There needs to be a final word 
on that because right there 

1127
01:03:07,900 --> 01:03:12,000
died, I mean, that solidified, 
it all and I let me let me put 

1128
01:03:12,000 --> 01:03:14,100
it into context real quick. 
Yeah, let me put it in the 

1129
01:03:14,107 --> 01:03:17,900
context real quick too close. 
We're not saying that that we 

1130
01:03:17,900 --> 01:03:20,300
shouldn't acknowledge our pain. 
We're not saying that we 

1131
01:03:20,300 --> 01:03:24,000
shouldn't acknowledge our 
struggles, our Journeys, but we 

1132
01:03:24,000 --> 01:03:27,900
shouldn't let them Define us. 
And a lot of times, we let our 

1133
01:03:27,900 --> 01:03:31,700
past Define as we hold on to an 
anchor that we say is boggling 

1134
01:03:31,700 --> 01:03:36,600
is down and we're Drowning 
ourselves with this anchor. 

1135
01:03:36,600 --> 01:03:39,500
We're trying to swim to the top 
but we're holding on to 

1136
01:03:39,500 --> 01:03:43,100
something that is essentially 
weighing us down to kill us to 

1137
01:03:43,100 --> 01:03:48,700
kill our spirit to kill our joy,
our love for ourselves, and so 

1138
01:03:48,700 --> 01:03:52,000
much, so to the point where it 
fucks with our identity. 

1139
01:03:52,000 --> 01:03:58,000
So on such a high level on such 
a high degree that it stops us 

1140
01:03:58,000 --> 01:04:00,300
from finding. 
Love it stops us from finding 

1141
01:04:00,300 --> 01:04:02,400
contentment completion. 
Happiness. 

1142
01:04:02,400 --> 01:04:06,400
Just all the things that When 
beings need and it stops us from

1143
01:04:06,400 --> 01:04:10,300
doing that, within our own 
culture within our own 

1144
01:04:10,300 --> 01:04:12,300
Community, within our own 
people. 

1145
01:04:12,600 --> 01:04:15,800
So, what I'm saying about 
consensual ethical Race by in 

1146
01:04:15,800 --> 01:04:20,100
the be NWO is it's not saying 
that this is for everybody, 

1147
01:04:20,700 --> 01:04:22,600
right? 
But what it is saying that if 

1148
01:04:22,600 --> 01:04:27,600
you would like another Outlet to
maybe discover something about 

1149
01:04:27,600 --> 01:04:32,800
yourself that you've been taught
is such a wrong evil, Bad Thing 

1150
01:04:33,000 --> 01:04:35,800
by your own people. 
Maybe this is a place where now 

1151
01:04:35,800 --> 01:04:40,100
you can just be yourself. 
Let your hair down and breathe 

1152
01:04:40,600 --> 01:04:44,500
and not b, and not be chastised.
Oh, you're breathing too hard. 

1153
01:04:44,500 --> 01:04:46,700
You're breathing too loud. 
You're breathing too 

1154
01:04:46,800 --> 01:04:49,700
passionately. 
Which happens a lot for black 

1155
01:04:49,700 --> 01:04:51,400
people. 
Just speaking about something, 

1156
01:04:51,400 --> 01:04:54,400
we're passionate people even now
some people might be like dams 

1157
01:04:54,400 --> 01:04:57,000
motherfucker, he he's he's 
yelling, he's screaming. 

1158
01:04:57,000 --> 01:05:01,000
No, even with passion passionate
and that's what I looked up 

1159
01:05:01,000 --> 01:05:02,900
crashing. 
I love to bring passionate 

1160
01:05:02,900 --> 01:05:04,100
passion, doesn't have to be 
true. 

1161
01:05:04,300 --> 01:05:05,600
Sighs. 
Hmm, right? 

1162
01:05:05,600 --> 01:05:09,100
That passion? 
Or that concern that worried 

1163
01:05:09,100 --> 01:05:12,300
that you have as a black person 
as a black woman when it comes 

1164
01:05:12,300 --> 01:05:16,500
to race plate, doesn't have to 
now be chastised because I 

1165
01:05:16,500 --> 01:05:20,400
disagree with you if I can make 
you feel more at home when we 

1166
01:05:20,400 --> 01:05:22,100
talk about this shit, like 
you're safe. 

1167
01:05:22,100 --> 01:05:25,600
When you talk about it, you 
might become more open-minded to

1168
01:05:25,600 --> 01:05:27,400
it. 
That doesn't mean that you're 

1169
01:05:27,400 --> 01:05:31,500
going to participate in it, but 
you might be more open-minded to

1170
01:05:31,500 --> 01:05:35,000
it, and then you have a better 
understanding Standing of other 

1171
01:05:35,000 --> 01:05:37,500
people that engage in it. 
And the only thing that you can 

1172
01:05:37,500 --> 01:05:40,600
do at that point because you 
understand them is love them for

1173
01:05:40,600 --> 01:05:44,600
who they are again, black, Unity
black love black 

1174
01:05:44,600 --> 01:05:47,200
self-expression, black sexual 
Liberty. 

1175
01:05:47,800 --> 01:05:51,200
All needs to start from that 
uncomfortable place of. 

1176
01:05:51,500 --> 01:05:54,200
This is why it's uncomfortable 
for us to be us. 

1177
01:05:54,800 --> 01:05:57,400
We never get the opportunity to 
say that we never get the 

1178
01:05:57,400 --> 01:06:00,300
opportunity to say that within 
our own homes within our own 

1179
01:06:00,300 --> 01:06:04,100
communities, within our own 
neighborhoods and within the 

1180
01:06:04,500 --> 01:06:08,300
Experience of this country. 
So if we're not starting that 

1181
01:06:08,300 --> 01:06:11,200
with BMW, oh, I don't know where
else is going to start. 

1182
01:06:11,300 --> 01:06:14,700
And again, you can't get more 
uncomfortable than race. 

1183
01:06:15,500 --> 01:06:18,600
Once we get that out the way, 
everything else is water race 

1184
01:06:18,600 --> 01:06:20,700
and colorism. 
Let me, let me be very clear 

1185
01:06:20,900 --> 01:06:24,400
race and colorism in gender 
gender Society, norms and all 

1186
01:06:24,400 --> 01:06:27,800
that sells, once we get past all
that, we can have such a good 

1187
01:06:27,800 --> 01:06:31,400
time, it's going to be, it's 
going to be smooth. 

1188
01:06:31,400 --> 01:06:34,100
It's going to be smooth Waters 
because everything else. 

1189
01:06:34,200 --> 01:06:36,500
When there was like, oh well, 
you know, we spoke about you 

1190
01:06:36,500 --> 01:06:38,300
liking, you know, foot in your 
ass. 

1191
01:06:39,200 --> 01:06:41,400
I mean, I don't think your 
political views are going to be 

1192
01:06:41,400 --> 01:06:43,100
that bad to me anymore. 
You know what I'm saying? 

1193
01:06:48,500 --> 01:06:52,300
I'm just saying, like, again, 
like we find so many different 

1194
01:06:52,300 --> 01:06:54,500
reasons to say, like, no, no, 
I'm not for this. 

1195
01:06:54,500 --> 01:06:58,000
I'm not for this is like, hey, 
you know, it it really isn't 

1196
01:06:58,000 --> 01:06:59,200
that bad? 
It really. 

1197
01:06:59,200 --> 01:07:00,700
Isn't that bad? 
You know. 

1198
01:07:00,700 --> 01:07:03,600
I just try to bring people 
together then push people apart 

1199
01:07:03,600 --> 01:07:05,000
and that's what we do. 
BMW. 

1200
01:07:05,600 --> 01:07:09,500
Well, again the audience Thanks 
you. 

1201
01:07:10,900 --> 01:07:12,800
I hope so. 
I hope y'all good man. 

1202
01:07:12,800 --> 01:07:14,900
Thank y'all for having me. 
Thank you for having me. 

1203
01:07:14,900 --> 01:07:18,800
Seth, like, Miss Sapphire. 
If you nasty, because as you all

1204
01:07:18,800 --> 01:07:21,200
can see, well actually you can't
really see. 

1205
01:07:21,200 --> 01:07:25,100
I didn't know, they can't see, 
Shake too kinky but I'm also 

1206
01:07:25,100 --> 01:07:27,500
fucking nasty or reason this 
Sapphire. 

1207
01:07:27,900 --> 01:07:30,200
Oh, the way that this woman 
talks to me, just hearing her 

1208
01:07:30,200 --> 01:07:32,100
laugh. 
I'm looking at her smile right 

1209
01:07:32,100 --> 01:07:34,300
now. 
Y'all like damn it, don't. 

1210
01:07:35,500 --> 01:07:37,700
I'm just saying, like I love 
black women. 

1211
01:07:39,300 --> 01:07:42,300
I've had to learn how to like 
curtail this a little bit 

1212
01:07:42,300 --> 01:07:44,900
because I can't go on a little 
strong be like, look, look, lady

1213
01:07:44,900 --> 01:07:47,700
your lips right there. 
You see that smile and a little 

1214
01:07:47,700 --> 01:07:51,100
think, I just want to see that 
face while I'm on top of a 

1215
01:07:51,107 --> 01:07:54,300
mountain that pussy. 
No, I'm saying, but like you 

1216
01:07:54,300 --> 01:07:58,400
perceive that can easily be 
like, I don't even like men. 

1217
01:07:58,500 --> 01:08:01,900
Yes, I don't even like you. 
Like I said you made an 

1218
01:08:01,900 --> 01:08:04,900
exception list a long time ago 
you find. 

1219
01:08:04,900 --> 01:08:09,400
I'm glad you're finally 
exceptionalist, you feel Well, 

1220
01:08:09,400 --> 01:08:11,200
Dom. 
Where could the people get in 

1221
01:08:11,200 --> 01:08:15,300
touch with you are the people 
can get in touch with me on my 

1222
01:08:15,300 --> 01:08:23,300
telegram Channel primarily it's 
called Sir T .me backslash serve

1223
01:08:23,300 --> 01:08:26,700
your God kingdom. 
That is the main epicenter for 

1224
01:08:26,700 --> 01:08:28,600
everything. 
That way you can find my loyal 

1225
01:08:28,600 --> 01:08:32,200
fans, my only fans my excite 
bunny, shout out to them, a 

1226
01:08:32,207 --> 01:08:35,800
black-owned adult content 
creator, platform. 

1227
01:08:35,899 --> 01:08:38,100
Definitely love them out there 
for doing their thing. 

1228
01:08:38,700 --> 01:08:40,100
Shouts everybody. 
That's on there. 

1229
01:08:40,700 --> 01:08:44,100
You can find me on Twitter. 
Everything is your God kingdom, 

1230
01:08:44,399 --> 01:08:47,500
that's for my Twitter, my 
Instagram, my Snapchat. 

1231
01:08:48,399 --> 01:08:51,000
You can also find me on the 
stereo app where I do a lot of 

1232
01:08:51,000 --> 01:08:55,100
my live broadcast conversations,
they're not podcast their 

1233
01:08:55,500 --> 01:08:57,800
podcast conversations and that's
where you can kind of get a 

1234
01:08:57,808 --> 01:09:00,000
little bit more of the vanilla 
side of me. 

1235
01:09:00,000 --> 01:09:03,800
I go by the FNG over there. 
So over there is your god, the f

1236
01:09:03,800 --> 01:09:10,200
and g e f and g e-- and You can 
also find me on the black New 

1237
01:09:10,200 --> 01:09:13,100
World Order.com. 
Our Hub is going to be released 

1238
01:09:13,100 --> 01:09:14,600
pretty soon. 
We're just going through a 

1239
01:09:14,600 --> 01:09:17,800
couple of bug fixes, you know, 
we're making sure that the 

1240
01:09:17,800 --> 01:09:21,700
platform is pristine but that is
going to be the official BMW of 

1241
01:09:21,700 --> 01:09:26,399
platform where you can basically
come onto your own social media 

1242
01:09:26,399 --> 01:09:29,800
platform dedicated to the BMW. 
Oh, and you can meet people, 

1243
01:09:29,800 --> 01:09:32,600
there's a whole bunch of things 
but these are some of the main 

1244
01:09:32,600 --> 01:09:36,000
places that you can find me. 
You can also follow us the BMW 

1245
01:09:36,000 --> 01:09:41,000
at serve BMW. 
Oh, It's serve be nw0. 

1246
01:09:42,399 --> 01:09:45,100
That's our official BMW. 
Oh page. 

1247
01:09:45,100 --> 01:09:51,100
We are focusing on being more. 
So, with that page, just to just

1248
01:09:51,100 --> 01:09:53,600
a place to kind of like, 
highlight black business, black 

1249
01:09:53,600 --> 01:09:57,800
art, black literature, black, 
everything. 

1250
01:09:57,900 --> 01:10:00,400
You know, it's not so much about
the point. 

1251
01:10:00,500 --> 01:10:03,100
We have a porn thing and you'll 
be able to find out. 

1252
01:10:03,100 --> 01:10:04,100
I'm not going to promote that 
here. 

1253
01:10:04,100 --> 01:10:06,800
Because again, the NWO point is 
not the Focus, right? 

1254
01:10:06,800 --> 01:10:11,500
We're more so really focus. 
On giving people a real-life 

1255
01:10:11,800 --> 01:10:16,800
tangible representation of what 
it's like to interact with black

1256
01:10:16,800 --> 01:10:19,700
superiority. 
And also mindful black 

1257
01:10:19,700 --> 01:10:22,800
superiority that understands 
that maybe they have to heal. 

1258
01:10:23,100 --> 01:10:27,000
And in order to heal, they have 
to be willing to be healed, 

1259
01:10:27,000 --> 01:10:28,800
right? 
It's one thing to take medicine.

1260
01:10:29,000 --> 01:10:31,700
You have to, like, except the 
medicine for it to work. 

1261
01:10:31,700 --> 01:10:34,800
Sometimes if you always fight in
the medicine, it's never really 

1262
01:10:34,800 --> 01:10:38,200
going to heal you. 
So again, like we're very much 

1263
01:10:38,200 --> 01:10:43,900
so just A black king BDSM sex 
positive space as well as the 

1264
01:10:43,900 --> 01:10:47,400
Kink and fetish activities that 
a lot of people to come and see 

1265
01:10:47,900 --> 01:10:50,000
perfect. 
And of course, you can find me 

1266
01:10:50,000 --> 01:10:55,700
at Miz radio, Sapphire that's 
MSR ADI OSAP Phi, r e and at 

1267
01:10:55,700 --> 01:10:59,900
sapphires are play on Instagram 
Ms. Radio syfy.com, sapphires 

1268
01:10:59,900 --> 01:11:02,700
your play on all podcast 
streaming platforms. 

1269
01:11:03,100 --> 01:11:08,400
And we will be back, we'll be 
back on, March 5th with monster.

1270
01:11:08,600 --> 01:11:11,500
Fucking yes. 
Mars faith is all about the 

1271
01:11:11,500 --> 01:11:14,800
monster fucking. 
I'm definitely soon though. 

1272
01:11:14,800 --> 01:11:19,900
It's gonna be great. 
Call that a monster, man monster

1273
01:11:19,900 --> 01:11:21,800
eargasm indeed. 
So remember that? 

1274
01:11:21,800 --> 01:11:25,300
Safe sex is the best, hot sex 
till next time. 

1275
01:11:25,500 --> 01:11:27,800
Good. 
Don't have a good night, Miss a 

1276
01:11:27,800 --> 01:11:30,300
fight. 
That was the show. 

1277
01:11:30,300 --> 01:11:31,900
All you sexy motherfuckers out 
there. 

1278
01:11:31,900 --> 01:11:35,100
Remember to follow, Adam is 
Radio Sapphire and sapphires are

1279
01:11:35,100 --> 01:11:37,600
play on Instagram. 
One Samir orgasms of the past 

1280
01:11:37,600 --> 01:11:40,700
and future make Sure to follow 
on Apple podcasts, anchor 

1281
01:11:40,700 --> 01:11:44,300
Spotify, iHeartRadio and all 
streaming platforms. 

1282
01:11:38,500 --> 01:11:41,500
Sure to follow on Apple 
podcasts, anchor Spotify, 

1283
01:11:41,500 --> 01:11:44,300
iHeartRadio and all streaming 
platforms.