1 00:00:18,920 --> 00:00:22,080 Gordon, Gordon, send more house to. 2 00:00:22,680 --> 00:00:33,280 Save the House. Welcome to the House. 3 00:00:33,280 --> 00:00:37,440 Cast everybody. Special edition tonight, looking 4 00:00:37,440 --> 00:00:41,600 forward to having to a chat with two absolute, absolute legends 5 00:00:41,600 --> 00:00:44,320 of the club and Gav's on as well. 6 00:00:45,080 --> 00:00:49,000 So Gav, let's have a little catch your power you when 7 00:00:49,280 --> 00:00:52,840 cricket season finishes. Yeah, yeah, yeah. 8 00:00:52,880 --> 00:00:54,040 Well, good. Thank you, Jess. 9 00:00:55,200 --> 00:00:59,440 Spend my time. Unfortunately we Matthew, but 10 00:00:59,440 --> 00:01:01,680 not yet just going on. We're watching Super Clarence. 11 00:01:02,320 --> 00:01:03,840 Yeah. Do you manage it? 12 00:01:04,319 --> 00:01:07,000 I mean, it's different what's you know, because we don't play 13 00:01:07,000 --> 00:01:08,880 anymore. But I used to get quite 14 00:01:08,880 --> 00:01:11,920 depressed through the end of September and October and then 15 00:01:12,280 --> 00:01:16,240 because of no cricket and not being down the club, but I did. 16 00:01:16,720 --> 00:01:21,760 Were you? Still glad to watch Super 17 00:01:21,760 --> 00:01:25,720 Clarkson, you know, still still still great and what have you 18 00:01:25,760 --> 00:01:27,560 and still going into Sunday socials when I can. 19 00:01:27,560 --> 00:01:30,200 So I still see, you know, everybody from the Cricket Club. 20 00:01:31,080 --> 00:01:33,880 But you know, some is obviously the best time of the year. 21 00:01:33,880 --> 00:01:34,920 I think we'd all agree with that. 22 00:01:35,440 --> 00:01:39,320 But but no, I don't mind a couple of pounds after after 23 00:01:39,320 --> 00:01:44,040 telephone that covert we stand in Paul and Aggers Dave Bridal. 24 00:01:44,480 --> 00:01:48,160 Now that's a good crack. Yeah, yeah, it's it's and it 25 00:01:48,160 --> 00:01:52,040 keeps you, keeps you active, done it and gets you out having 26 00:01:52,040 --> 00:01:54,880 that that socials well. Good end to the season. 27 00:01:54,920 --> 00:02:00,120 I thought Gav the obviously we won it two games to go, I think 28 00:02:00,120 --> 00:02:03,080 it was and then continue with that form. 29 00:02:03,520 --> 00:02:08,600 I mean, we're I'm thinking of another podcast around the 30 00:02:08,600 --> 00:02:14,040 quality of the side and, you know, and the of comparing it 31 00:02:14,040 --> 00:02:16,480 with sides gone by. I know it's difficult to do 32 00:02:16,480 --> 00:02:19,680 that, but can you think of a better side in the Language 33 00:02:19,680 --> 00:02:21,920 League and. No, absolutely not. 34 00:02:22,080 --> 00:02:23,840 In 20 years. What? 35 00:02:23,840 --> 00:02:27,440 Can't speak, can't lie. And you look how you look at the 36 00:02:27,440 --> 00:02:30,480 league table and you look at the the margin of victory. 37 00:02:31,080 --> 00:02:35,560 We've not scraped by even by a couple of bonus points or the 38 00:02:35,560 --> 00:02:38,480 odd win. We've absolutely steamrolled 39 00:02:38,480 --> 00:02:43,600 with the league. And I'm not a big stats person, 40 00:02:43,760 --> 00:02:49,840 but I can't remember one team absolutely dominating, you know, 41 00:02:49,840 --> 00:02:53,880 I mean, it's borderline ridiculous, you know, and you 42 00:02:53,880 --> 00:02:56,120 know, Ben and the Ben and the team you know, should should be 43 00:02:56,120 --> 00:02:59,840 ever surprised, you know, And I know that they are, but no, 44 00:02:59,840 --> 00:03:03,080 absolutely dominated it. You know, you know. 45 00:03:03,680 --> 00:03:06,720 From pretty much halfway through the season and they just, they 46 00:03:06,720 --> 00:03:08,840 just Marvel asked everybody really to a degree. 47 00:03:09,520 --> 00:03:13,440 Yeah, and it was, you know, it was great cricket to watch. 48 00:03:13,440 --> 00:03:16,200 I suppose we we've already started doing this podcast that 49 00:03:16,200 --> 00:03:18,800 we're going to plan to do at a different time, but we'll so 50 00:03:18,800 --> 00:03:22,360 we'll not go on much more. But I really enjoyed how good 51 00:03:22,360 --> 00:03:25,080 the cricket was to watch. You know, going you look back at 52 00:03:25,080 --> 00:03:29,960 Haslington teams in the 90s and before that. 53 00:03:30,800 --> 00:03:32,160 You know the backup teams, you know. 54 00:03:32,360 --> 00:03:34,960 Yeah, yeah, you. Know they regret that, weren't 55 00:03:34,960 --> 00:03:36,840 they? But you know, you look at the 56 00:03:36,840 --> 00:03:40,160 Lower Ice team, there's so many, you know, doesn't matter whether 57 00:03:40,160 --> 00:03:42,120 we're batting a bowl and if we're batting there's, you know, 58 00:03:42,120 --> 00:03:45,600 there's, there's 11 lads. You can, you can have a day. 59 00:03:46,000 --> 00:03:48,280 You know, when we're bowling, you know, the conditions don't 60 00:03:48,280 --> 00:03:50,000 really matter. We've got every base covered. 61 00:03:50,160 --> 00:03:52,600 Yeah, it is. It's it has, it's been a 62 00:03:52,600 --> 00:03:55,120 fantastic season, but let's let's move on. 63 00:03:55,120 --> 00:03:59,600 Gav, we've got, like I said, a special edition this evening. 64 00:04:00,000 --> 00:04:02,080 It's what, you know, it's once again, and I don't make any 65 00:04:02,080 --> 00:04:07,160 apologies for this, that we're trying to promote some charities 66 00:04:07,160 --> 00:04:11,320 and fundraising, which are all relatively local but are are 67 00:04:11,320 --> 00:04:16,519 being carried out by good local people from the Cricket Club. 68 00:04:16,519 --> 00:04:20,120 So we've got Matthew and, and Adele Stansfield on. 69 00:04:21,640 --> 00:04:24,720 We're going to talk through, you know, a bit of fun about the 70 00:04:24,720 --> 00:04:29,280 cricket and then we're going to go on to a particular charity 71 00:04:29,280 --> 00:04:33,560 that's very close to to Matthew and and Adele and just push it 72 00:04:33,560 --> 00:04:35,920 and promote it and talk about it. 73 00:04:36,960 --> 00:04:40,480 So first of all, Matt Stanley, welcome on. 74 00:04:40,480 --> 00:04:42,720 How are you doing? Very good. 75 00:04:42,720 --> 00:04:43,800 Thank you. Good evening, Jess. 76 00:04:43,800 --> 00:04:48,960 Good evening, Gavin. You'll be over the moon after 77 00:04:48,960 --> 00:04:52,640 that season, I bet, Stanley, you've put so much work in and 78 00:04:52,960 --> 00:04:55,680 you and the, you know, the other members of the board and the 79 00:04:55,680 --> 00:04:57,120 committees that are around there. 80 00:04:57,120 --> 00:05:00,960 You you've no complaints over that season, I guess other than 81 00:05:00,960 --> 00:05:05,080 Douglas Lewis. Yeah, no, fantastic. 82 00:05:05,080 --> 00:05:08,720 It, it makes it all worthwhile with this team, what they did, 83 00:05:08,720 --> 00:05:12,560 the second team, some of the cricket from the third and 84 00:05:12,560 --> 00:05:15,400 fourth teams as well, especially that young fourth team, I think 85 00:05:15,400 --> 00:05:18,280 is was exceptional. And then I think if you look 86 00:05:18,280 --> 00:05:21,840 further down on that, lots of the kids teams have have been 87 00:05:21,840 --> 00:05:24,320 very successful and there's some exciting prospects coming 88 00:05:24,320 --> 00:05:26,280 through. And just to pick up, you were 89 00:05:26,280 --> 00:05:28,360 talking then and obviously you're going to do this on 90 00:05:28,360 --> 00:05:31,120 another night, but you said about the way that the team 91 00:05:31,120 --> 00:05:34,880 dominated the other thing. I thought that the team we had 92 00:05:34,880 --> 00:05:38,640 in 2014 with Corbis and Matt Walker and all those in was, was 93 00:05:38,640 --> 00:05:42,760 exceptional. But I'd say that that from a 94 00:05:43,200 --> 00:05:45,480 collective point of view and a league point of view, the there 95 00:05:45,480 --> 00:05:47,440 was a few more gimmes that year in the league. 96 00:05:47,840 --> 00:05:51,640 Weak teams, poor teams. With these two divisions set up 97 00:05:51,640 --> 00:05:53,680 now there are no gimmes in every game. 98 00:05:53,800 --> 00:05:56,320 You've got to be on it or you, you come up short. 99 00:05:57,360 --> 00:05:59,760 It is, it's strong. It's you know, you might look 100 00:05:59,760 --> 00:06:01,800 at, you know, it's a good point that we call this, you know, 101 00:06:01,800 --> 00:06:03,480 what an outstanding cricket tree was. 102 00:06:04,000 --> 00:06:07,200 And that's not the detriment of any of the pros in the league at 103 00:06:07,200 --> 00:06:09,680 the moment. But there were some decent pros 104 00:06:09,680 --> 00:06:11,520 around that time. But the amateurs, I don't think 105 00:06:11,520 --> 00:06:15,280 were as strong then in all the league as they are in the league 106 00:06:15,280 --> 00:06:17,480 at the moment. It is, it's it'd be good to 107 00:06:17,480 --> 00:06:20,080 dissect it. So I will, I think we can do 108 00:06:20,080 --> 00:06:24,240 that over the winter. But I think Stanley, I just want 109 00:06:24,240 --> 00:06:27,720 to to move on to your missus because Adele, you know, I've 110 00:06:27,720 --> 00:06:32,120 known her for donkey. She is obviously coming down the 111 00:06:32,120 --> 00:06:35,840 club with you, the start of the Rugrats with with you Matthew 112 00:06:35,840 --> 00:06:41,040 and Gavin Muss and Charlie and Dutch and Matt Marquess and the 113 00:06:41,040 --> 00:06:44,440 other, you know, the other lads that came through the junior 114 00:06:44,440 --> 00:06:47,160 section. And Adele's been there really 115 00:06:47,160 --> 00:06:51,720 from that period. Always good fun, always a real 116 00:06:52,320 --> 00:06:55,280 strong character, you know, very loving. 117 00:06:55,560 --> 00:06:59,920 And you know, we'll chat and talk and even now walk around 118 00:06:59,920 --> 00:07:03,520 the ground and and I've got catch up with anyone of any age. 119 00:07:03,520 --> 00:07:05,680 So Adele, I really appreciate you coming on. 120 00:07:05,680 --> 00:07:06,960 Thanks very much. How are you doing? 121 00:07:06,960 --> 00:07:08,280 I'm. All right. 122 00:07:08,400 --> 00:07:09,240 Thank you. How are you? 123 00:07:09,800 --> 00:07:10,680 Yeah. Oh, good. 124 00:07:10,680 --> 00:07:13,000 Thanks. Yeah, doing a few bits and bats 125 00:07:13,000 --> 00:07:14,400 with the grandkids and what have you. 126 00:07:14,400 --> 00:07:16,640 But no, it's all, it's all fantastic. 127 00:07:16,640 --> 00:07:19,640 You were, you were down even more this year, I think Adele 128 00:07:19,640 --> 00:07:22,480 was. You were down almost every game 129 00:07:22,480 --> 00:07:24,000 and I'm wondering, I mean the last. 130 00:07:25,480 --> 00:07:28,480 Couple years I've been doing my master's degree so I've had to 131 00:07:28,480 --> 00:07:31,920 spend a bit more time obviously studying, but I finished that 132 00:07:31,920 --> 00:07:35,200 last year so I've had more time to be at the club this year. 133 00:07:35,640 --> 00:07:38,520 Yeah, and it is great. You know, and this is going to 134 00:07:38,520 --> 00:07:41,320 sound really old, but I remember my dad saying it and other 135 00:07:41,720 --> 00:07:45,240 people of the past, the the cricket club's almost like you 136 00:07:45,240 --> 00:07:48,160 can see, you can see the movement of time. 137 00:07:48,480 --> 00:07:51,800 You know, you look at, you know, my kids, you look at your two 138 00:07:51,800 --> 00:07:55,560 girls and you look how people are getting older. 139 00:07:55,840 --> 00:07:58,680 You know, it is a great and it's not just Loris, obviously it's 140 00:07:58,680 --> 00:08:01,080 everywhere. So, you know, it's so good that 141 00:08:01,080 --> 00:08:04,840 you and that Stella corner seems to be growing with all you wags. 142 00:08:04,840 --> 00:08:06,080 I don't know what's going on down there. 143 00:08:06,080 --> 00:08:09,640 You're pushing us out. Well, we do try as best, you 144 00:08:09,640 --> 00:08:12,240 know, but there's more per second corner than Stella. 145 00:08:12,600 --> 00:08:16,600 Yeah, there, I bet you I bet there's some bottles that have 146 00:08:16,600 --> 00:08:19,360 gone through down there. Just a few on a Saturday 147 00:08:19,360 --> 00:08:21,640 afternoon. I know, I bet, I bet. 148 00:08:23,040 --> 00:08:29,160 So it's, I think, you know, it is clearly a serious topic we're 149 00:08:29,160 --> 00:08:31,800 going to talk about. We're going to talk about it as 150 00:08:31,800 --> 00:08:39,840 better we can as to the, the different stages throughout your 151 00:08:39,840 --> 00:08:43,480 lives you've come through and how you came across and managed 152 00:08:43,799 --> 00:08:47,800 through those periods and where you are now with, with 153 00:08:47,800 --> 00:08:50,720 fundraising. So you've got, we've obviously 154 00:08:50,720 --> 00:08:53,400 had a little bit of liaison before we, we got here and I 155 00:08:53,400 --> 00:08:57,000 didn't realise so, so you met Matthew in 97. 156 00:08:57,720 --> 00:09:00,760 You can see from my research. Just tell us about that, What 157 00:09:00,760 --> 00:09:04,120 happened there? Well, we're, we're both at 158 00:09:04,120 --> 00:09:07,600 college and we both had an evening job at George Foster's 159 00:09:08,440 --> 00:09:13,240 up on Farrington Road, just off wasn't there Rd in place And 160 00:09:13,680 --> 00:09:14,560 that's where we met. Oh. 161 00:09:15,400 --> 00:09:18,760 Fantastic. In March and then that went out 162 00:09:18,760 --> 00:09:21,520 with him in July. Yeah, fantastic. 163 00:09:21,840 --> 00:09:24,920 And, and you've always been, you know, coming down the club, the 164 00:09:24,920 --> 00:09:27,280 pair of you, you know, a great couple. 165 00:09:27,600 --> 00:09:31,200 And you know, at that time, I think it's fair to say, Gav, you 166 00:09:31,600 --> 00:09:35,400 and the likes of Charlie and Matt Marquis and we could, I 167 00:09:35,400 --> 00:09:38,880 think there's another 5 or 6 of your Rugrats had a really good 168 00:09:41,000 --> 00:09:44,120 camaraderie between you all, even at that young age, Gav. 169 00:09:44,120 --> 00:09:46,520 I mean, cash yourself back to 97. 170 00:09:47,160 --> 00:09:48,960 You know, you're getting out there boozing. 171 00:09:48,960 --> 00:09:51,080 You had a great life then and got a good time. 172 00:09:51,080 --> 00:09:52,280 It's not that you don't know, but. 173 00:09:53,520 --> 00:09:54,480 Yeah, absolutely. Yeah. 174 00:09:55,520 --> 00:09:57,480 You know, we all knocked around, we all knocked around together 175 00:09:57,480 --> 00:10:00,200 and we all played cricket in every weekend. 176 00:10:00,200 --> 00:10:02,920 We were, you know, up to all good playing silly boogers. 177 00:10:04,240 --> 00:10:06,760 But you know, I remember when Stanley said he had a girl and I 178 00:10:06,760 --> 00:10:08,680 thought it was going to be his carer, something like that. 179 00:10:08,680 --> 00:10:11,800 I. Think I'm out of there now? 180 00:10:12,240 --> 00:10:13,600 Well, yeah, absolutely. Yeah. 181 00:10:14,120 --> 00:10:17,240 In that way you. Know we're all expecting him to 182 00:10:17,400 --> 00:10:20,520 have a carer or something like that, but but no, all joking 183 00:10:20,520 --> 00:10:24,280 aside, it just, you know, we just used to have her out laugh, 184 00:10:24,280 --> 00:10:25,840 didn't we? The summer I love and all that, 185 00:10:26,120 --> 00:10:30,000 when you know, it was just a great crack and everyone were 186 00:10:30,000 --> 00:10:32,720 involved and cricket almost got it where really. 187 00:10:33,560 --> 00:10:36,680 Yeah, and I suppose that's where the central part of it was, you 188 00:10:36,680 --> 00:10:40,720 know, you were all, you know, Burnley football fans, but as 189 00:10:40,720 --> 00:10:43,680 well as that you were playing cricket and practising and 190 00:10:43,680 --> 00:10:47,200 training and everything. So to get down at the weekends 191 00:10:47,200 --> 00:10:49,840 in the summer, you know, it was good sports. 192 00:10:50,360 --> 00:10:54,320 Your memories marked going back to 97 when you first met and 193 00:10:54,320 --> 00:10:58,080 then moving on to getting engaged and getting getting your 194 00:10:58,080 --> 00:11:03,040 first house in 2002. Yeah, and I'll always tell you 195 00:11:03,040 --> 00:11:06,640 that I remember key dates in life around sporting occasions, 196 00:11:07,040 --> 00:11:09,400 but I'm not there. I'll say she'll mention 197 00:11:09,400 --> 00:11:10,560 something. I'll say, Oh yeah, Burnley won 198 00:11:10,560 --> 00:11:15,160 two mil at call out day. After that she finds it a bit 199 00:11:15,480 --> 00:11:18,160 bit bizarre that I remember things based on that. 200 00:11:18,160 --> 00:11:23,320 But yeah, that that summer, obviously it was the Coriolan 201 00:11:23,320 --> 00:11:25,560 years from, from a Cricket Club point of view as well. 202 00:11:26,680 --> 00:11:29,720 But it wasn't just us. There was Charlie and Louise got 203 00:11:29,720 --> 00:11:32,720 together that summer and and we literally spent a full summer 204 00:11:33,240 --> 00:11:38,160 living in each other's pockets. If, if one's set of parents were 205 00:11:38,440 --> 00:11:40,760 on holiday, the others were on that kind of thing. 206 00:11:40,760 --> 00:11:45,080 So we literally surfaced off and, and slept in each other's 207 00:11:45,080 --> 00:11:49,120 houses for, for a full summer. The most of it, Mana Barn on a 208 00:11:49,120 --> 00:11:52,560 Wednesday, Panama's on a Thursday, Panama's on a Friday. 209 00:11:53,760 --> 00:11:57,120 VIP was all you can drink for £7 or something like that. 210 00:11:57,640 --> 00:12:01,040 So yeah, there was a great, great times, great times. 211 00:12:01,800 --> 00:12:05,600 It isn't, you know, like you know, like we know I'm quite a 212 00:12:05,600 --> 00:12:08,720 bit older than you guys, but it was so much fun watching you and 213 00:12:08,720 --> 00:12:12,320 seeing you all develop as people and, and, and in the cricket 214 00:12:12,320 --> 00:12:15,160 world as well. So things move on. 215 00:12:16,280 --> 00:12:20,160 As I said, you get your house, you get engaged in 2002 and then 216 00:12:20,160 --> 00:12:25,160 you get married in Cyprus with some, you know, some friends and 217 00:12:25,160 --> 00:12:30,440 family there in 2568. So over just over 20 years ago. 218 00:12:30,480 --> 00:12:32,960 Congratulations 20 year anniversary. 219 00:12:34,320 --> 00:12:36,320 On the sporting occasions, Jess here. 220 00:12:37,120 --> 00:12:39,880 He is again. We got engaged the day after 221 00:12:39,880 --> 00:12:42,480 David Beckham's penalty winner against Argentina all. 222 00:12:43,040 --> 00:12:44,360 Right. Good, good lad. 223 00:12:44,840 --> 00:12:49,120 So I think, I think I was still buoyed by by that in the 2002 224 00:12:49,120 --> 00:12:51,880 World Cup. So yeah, and then the night 225 00:12:51,880 --> 00:12:56,960 before we got married, it was the Liverpool AC Mohan, great 226 00:12:56,960 --> 00:13:00,880 comeback in Istanbul, you know, the one where there were three 227 00:13:00,880 --> 00:13:04,920 no down and 333. And then did they win on 228 00:13:04,920 --> 00:13:07,320 penalties in the end? That wasn't before we got 229 00:13:07,320 --> 00:13:09,560 married. But yeah, I don't she's wrong. 230 00:13:09,560 --> 00:13:11,920 I don't remember things about great sporting occasions at all. 231 00:13:12,680 --> 00:13:14,320 No, I think what's wrong with that? 232 00:13:15,200 --> 00:13:18,040 It's it's being able to remember stuff like that and link it 233 00:13:18,040 --> 00:13:20,640 together. It's no, it's good on you. 234 00:13:20,640 --> 00:13:21,600 It's good on you. That. 235 00:13:21,600 --> 00:13:25,920 So your first house you bought in 2002, was that the one on 236 00:13:25,960 --> 00:13:28,440 Roselle Road or did you have one before that? 237 00:13:28,440 --> 00:13:31,160 Yeah. Yeah. 238 00:13:31,160 --> 00:13:35,040 So that was obviously opposite my brother's Nicky's house. 239 00:13:35,040 --> 00:13:39,880 So it was almost, we got to, you know, to, to bump into each 240 00:13:39,880 --> 00:13:43,840 other away from cricket as well, whether it were a BBQ Nikki's 241 00:13:43,840 --> 00:13:47,680 or, or bump, you know, meeting up with you or, or, or going to 242 00:13:47,680 --> 00:13:49,480 the pub. So then you know, it's 243 00:13:49,480 --> 00:13:53,920 constantly has all been together as a, you know, as a community 244 00:13:53,920 --> 00:13:57,000 club, as a Cricket Club and, and, and all your friends and 245 00:13:57,000 --> 00:13:59,840 everything. And then you're married in 2005. 246 00:14:00,760 --> 00:14:03,680 Yeah, Nikki's, Nikki's barbecues. 247 00:14:04,040 --> 00:14:06,320 Yeah. Throwing sausages into the old 248 00:14:06,320 --> 00:14:09,240 box on and stuff like that. Yeah, slipping on the deck in. 249 00:14:09,320 --> 00:14:12,160 Yeah, I remember that one burning the rice. 250 00:14:12,440 --> 00:14:15,760 Absolutely chaos. The old thing to me didn't there 251 00:14:15,760 --> 00:14:17,640 go on, Gav. Then gin and tonics was. 252 00:14:17,640 --> 00:14:21,000 I think I can still taste that last gin and tonic I had bloody 253 00:14:21,040 --> 00:14:23,480 strongly. I'll bet you want Yeah. 254 00:14:23,520 --> 00:14:27,240 Cheers, isn't it? I think I was chasing Corby 255 00:14:27,280 --> 00:14:32,240 around where you pretend sword. I can't remember that bit. 256 00:14:33,680 --> 00:14:37,640 Nikki was in charge of cooking and it rather than test it, he 257 00:14:37,720 --> 00:14:39,640 literally he'd sort of bite into it. 258 00:14:39,640 --> 00:14:41,280 No, it's not cooked. And then was it over the wall, 259 00:14:41,280 --> 00:14:45,120 into the whole box or money? Yeah, and wonder why I was sick 260 00:14:45,120 --> 00:14:47,200 the following day. It is funny you say that, Adele, 261 00:14:47,200 --> 00:14:51,200 because we had a lot of the memories of you, you know, you 262 00:14:51,200 --> 00:14:55,160 younger ones, even whether you were 16 or 26, I don't know, 263 00:14:55,160 --> 00:15:00,840 seem to be around barbecues. You know, we had that, Well, 264 00:15:01,000 --> 00:15:03,960 we'll see if I can say one of them, but we had that massive 265 00:15:03,960 --> 00:15:06,680 BBQ down at the club. Ryan was there, Ryan Harrison, 266 00:15:06,680 --> 00:15:09,320 we had that. We got the, it wasn't the fire 267 00:15:09,320 --> 00:15:10,880 brigade. It was somebody who pretended 268 00:15:10,880 --> 00:15:13,560 there was a fire brigade and filled up the swim, the outdoor 269 00:15:13,560 --> 00:15:18,560 swimming pool. And Nikki completely tore his 270 00:15:18,560 --> 00:15:24,080 hamstring sliding down that that slippery slope that dealt 271 00:15:24,080 --> 00:15:27,720 constantly was sliding down with fairy liquid on. 272 00:15:27,720 --> 00:15:29,560 And then there was the other one at Matt's, weren't there? 273 00:15:29,560 --> 00:15:31,440 It, were it? Were mint sauce. 274 00:15:31,480 --> 00:15:33,200 It were Adam's from Adam's kit bag. 275 00:15:33,320 --> 00:15:36,000 Yeah, it was, yeah. Yeah, that's right. 276 00:15:36,000 --> 00:15:37,680 Yeah. And then the other one where the 277 00:15:37,800 --> 00:15:40,640 the sausage kept appear in from different places. 278 00:15:40,640 --> 00:15:43,280 So we were that was that was at Matt's. 279 00:15:43,680 --> 00:15:45,720 But no really good memories and it's good. 280 00:15:45,960 --> 00:15:48,640 I think it's quite you know, the clubs will have this. 281 00:15:48,680 --> 00:15:53,800 I understand that, but I think it's lovely to see and that, you 282 00:15:53,800 --> 00:15:56,320 know, there's still all those people still going down, you 283 00:15:56,320 --> 00:16:01,360 know, 30 years later if your era, you know, long may continue 284 00:16:01,760 --> 00:16:04,080 so you've. We were the club, weren't we? 285 00:16:04,080 --> 00:16:05,840 It's a lot different now, Yeah, yeah. 286 00:16:05,880 --> 00:16:09,320 But that that sort of group of friends and, and everything 287 00:16:09,320 --> 00:16:12,520 literally were the club in one way or another, because it was a 288 00:16:12,520 --> 00:16:15,600 time when we work in the bar and we're doing all those kind of 289 00:16:15,600 --> 00:16:17,520 things. Any social event was was 290 00:16:17,520 --> 00:16:19,320 literally yours, wasn't it? So it's, it's a completely 291 00:16:19,320 --> 00:16:22,080 different animal these days. But yeah. 292 00:16:23,840 --> 00:16:29,200 Basically, yeah, yeah, basically it plays and their families, you 293 00:16:29,200 --> 00:16:32,480 know, their wives and kids, That's that's, you know, that's 294 00:16:32,960 --> 00:16:34,400 fundamental. What it were, weren't it? 295 00:16:34,880 --> 00:16:37,480 Yeah, I'm just, I'm just trying to throw myself back to it. 296 00:16:37,480 --> 00:16:41,200 And when, so why? Why did you lot as a really 297 00:16:41,200 --> 00:16:46,160 young group have to help out to keep the club going? 298 00:16:46,160 --> 00:16:50,960 And but I suppose that was the Lofty's era, which were a really 299 00:16:50,960 --> 00:16:53,320 good side and socially good set of people. 300 00:16:53,320 --> 00:16:54,840 But they really moved on, didn't they? 301 00:16:54,840 --> 00:16:56,640 I suppose. And when you look at that 302 00:16:56,640 --> 00:17:01,640 bigger, the people who wouldn't have been in the 70s, there was 303 00:17:01,640 --> 00:17:04,200 a big gap. You know, there was me, Blaze 304 00:17:04,800 --> 00:17:07,960 and then not many others in that decade after it. 305 00:17:07,960 --> 00:17:12,240 And then you lock him probably a decade and 1/2 after, and I 306 00:17:12,240 --> 00:17:15,760 suppose you were, you're almost like sending kids up chimneys. 307 00:17:16,040 --> 00:17:19,319 You've got, you know, this club's going to go bust unless, 308 00:17:19,880 --> 00:17:22,359 unless you work behind the bar or unless you, you. 309 00:17:24,599 --> 00:17:26,480 Yeah, yeah. Well, yeah. 310 00:17:26,480 --> 00:17:29,960 The tea room. Yeah, Yeah. 311 00:17:30,040 --> 00:17:33,480 It's fascinating when you can look back in it and and where we 312 00:17:33,480 --> 00:17:36,800 are now and where it was for 20 years before that, you know, 313 00:17:36,800 --> 00:17:41,000 really on its backside. So things developed, cricket was 314 00:17:41,000 --> 00:17:43,480 good, we were moving on, progressing. 315 00:17:43,480 --> 00:17:45,960 You know, Rennes was doing a sterling job getting the pros 316 00:17:45,960 --> 00:17:48,200 that we got. The amateurs, you know, we're 317 00:17:48,200 --> 00:17:51,000 probably a couple of players short to really compete in the 318 00:17:51,000 --> 00:17:54,360 top half, but the cricket looks after itself. 319 00:17:54,840 --> 00:18:00,640 So then we move on to, you know, the reason why we want to do 320 00:18:00,640 --> 00:18:06,360 this podcast. In February 20, 2007, Adele, you 321 00:18:06,360 --> 00:18:10,280 found you'd fallen pregnant and you were, you know, two years 322 00:18:10,280 --> 00:18:13,680 after you've got married, everything's really looking 323 00:18:13,680 --> 00:18:16,320 rosy. Are you happy just to talk 324 00:18:16,320 --> 00:18:19,160 through that short period or do you want me to talk you through 325 00:18:19,160 --> 00:18:21,840 it? Yeah, I'm happy to go through 326 00:18:21,840 --> 00:18:22,120 it. Yeah. 327 00:18:22,120 --> 00:18:28,000 So we were felt felt pregnant in February 2007 and it seemed to 328 00:18:28,000 --> 00:18:33,360 be a very steady pregnancy. Yeah, you know, maybe we're 329 00:18:33,360 --> 00:18:36,120 going really well and obviously we've been type 1 diabetic. 330 00:18:36,160 --> 00:18:38,560 There were a chance of having a big baby. 331 00:18:39,600 --> 00:18:42,200 But you know, they're quite, you're quite good at monitors, 332 00:18:42,200 --> 00:18:42,920 weren't there? Really. 333 00:18:44,800 --> 00:18:47,600 We were there quite often, lots of scams and lots of check UPS. 334 00:18:48,920 --> 00:18:55,480 And then there was a period where I kind of started in 335 00:18:55,480 --> 00:18:59,520 labour but it was quite a bit too early. 336 00:18:59,520 --> 00:19:02,680 So they stopped the they stopped the contraction. 337 00:19:02,680 --> 00:19:05,120 So that will add the 10th of September wasn't it, Remember it 338 00:19:05,120 --> 00:19:10,600 being Paul's birthday? So everything were OK, went back 339 00:19:10,600 --> 00:19:12,840 home. Then a few weeks later I went 340 00:19:12,840 --> 00:19:15,520 for another check up and that's unfortunately where they didn't, 341 00:19:15,680 --> 00:19:16,920 they couldn't find his heartbeat. 342 00:19:18,320 --> 00:19:20,280 So obviously that were really tricky time. 343 00:19:21,360 --> 00:19:24,600 They sent us up to hospital just to obviously go and have a 344 00:19:24,600 --> 00:19:27,400 further test. Well me and my mum went up to 345 00:19:27,400 --> 00:19:30,600 the hospital, I drove up to the hospital then Stanley was 346 00:19:30,600 --> 00:19:34,680 working in Manchester at the time so he had to get his get 347 00:19:34,720 --> 00:19:36,520 his way to to the hospital. Charlie. 348 00:19:36,880 --> 00:19:39,280 Came and got me. Yeah, Charlie was involved there 349 00:19:39,280 --> 00:19:41,320 as well. Obviously we told our close 350 00:19:41,320 --> 00:19:46,680 friends and that's where it was confirmed that it, unfortunately 351 00:19:46,840 --> 00:19:50,400 it died. Very traumatic experience. 352 00:19:50,960 --> 00:19:53,200 We didn't really know how to feel. 353 00:19:53,920 --> 00:19:55,640 You still don't know how to feel now really. 354 00:19:55,640 --> 00:19:57,880 It's a bit Norman. It's just the process that 355 00:19:57,880 --> 00:20:02,200 you've got to kind of deal with. But there's no right way or no 356 00:20:02,200 --> 00:20:06,840 wrong way of dealing with it. And then the, the hospital said, 357 00:20:06,840 --> 00:20:09,720 oh, you can go home and come back in a couple of days and I 358 00:20:09,720 --> 00:20:13,360 will, I don't want to go home. I want to have this baby. 359 00:20:13,800 --> 00:20:16,200 And then we'll find out because we didn't know if it were your 360 00:20:16,200 --> 00:20:18,320 girl. We didn't know the sex or 361 00:20:18,320 --> 00:20:19,000 anything. We didn't. 362 00:20:19,240 --> 00:20:20,680 We didn't really have a proper name. 363 00:20:22,560 --> 00:20:27,320 So anyway, after two days of labour Harry was born. 364 00:20:27,320 --> 00:20:32,120 He was a big bruise, he was £9.10 and he was 56 centimetres 365 00:20:32,120 --> 00:20:37,120 long. So he was a big baby and we, 366 00:20:37,440 --> 00:20:41,240 this is when we got the Sands Room, which is about my sponsor, 367 00:20:41,240 --> 00:20:42,760 what I'm doing. I have actually got the T-shirt 368 00:20:42,760 --> 00:20:44,520 on. I have been for everyone today. 369 00:20:46,640 --> 00:20:48,520 I'm. Nearly there. 370 00:20:49,200 --> 00:20:53,280 So the hospital then provided this family room, which was 371 00:20:53,960 --> 00:20:57,760 funded through Sands, and this is where we could just spend a 372 00:20:57,800 --> 00:21:03,200 bit of time together, a bit of time with Harry, just to kind of 373 00:21:03,200 --> 00:21:05,400 process everything really, wasn't it? 374 00:21:05,560 --> 00:21:08,080 Yeah, so it was like a little self-contained flat in the 375 00:21:08,080 --> 00:21:12,120 hospital with everything that you'd need to sort of live your 376 00:21:12,120 --> 00:21:16,200 life normally, kick chain everything, all the sort of 377 00:21:17,720 --> 00:21:21,000 facilities you need day-to-day. It allowed family to come in and 378 00:21:21,000 --> 00:21:23,320 visit us and spend time with us, all that kind of thing. 379 00:21:24,120 --> 00:21:28,320 And we stayed there for a few days until then. 380 00:21:28,320 --> 00:21:31,960 They come in, take the baby away for post mortem and things like 381 00:21:31,960 --> 00:21:36,800 that. We did get a chaplain. 382 00:21:36,800 --> 00:21:38,680 A chaplain came in and blessed him as well. 383 00:21:39,680 --> 00:21:42,400 Not so, not necessarily. We are really religious, but we 384 00:21:42,400 --> 00:21:43,920 do. We always have. 385 00:21:44,440 --> 00:21:46,880 I've been quite religious on all my life studies. 386 00:21:46,880 --> 00:21:51,080 Not really, but we just felt it was a nice right thing to do for 387 00:21:51,080 --> 00:21:53,560 Hammy really. So we got interest and then 388 00:21:53,800 --> 00:21:58,040 that's when they took him to Manchester Hospital to find out 389 00:21:58,040 --> 00:22:01,520 what what had happened. Oh, crack it all. 390 00:22:01,520 --> 00:22:04,760 It's, I mean, that's really brave. 391 00:22:05,360 --> 00:22:10,040 It's so good that you're putting this out there and we'll talk 392 00:22:10,040 --> 00:22:14,440 about the charity in a minute, but this any, this conversation 393 00:22:14,440 --> 00:22:17,080 could help one person, it could help 100 people. 394 00:22:17,640 --> 00:22:20,880 And I think that's the the real reason for his doing things like 395 00:22:20,880 --> 00:22:26,520 this, you know, So Harry, 3737 weeks you've, you know, you've, 396 00:22:26,520 --> 00:22:30,600 you've had that pregnancy. You know, he's obviously it's a 397 00:22:30,600 --> 00:22:34,320 horrendous time for you. How old would you to have been 398 00:22:34,320 --> 00:22:36,680 then? Sorry, I should know this 20. 7. 399 00:22:37,440 --> 00:22:39,960 Yeah, OK. So, so you're both in your, your 400 00:22:39,960 --> 00:22:42,400 mid 20s, your family are all around you. 401 00:22:42,400 --> 00:22:45,120 But I mean, and I know Gavil were the same. 402 00:22:45,560 --> 00:22:47,920 And I'll come to you in a minute, Gav, just to see what 403 00:22:47,920 --> 00:22:50,920 your memories are and what your thoughts are on this. 404 00:22:50,920 --> 00:22:53,120 Because I think it's important we talk about it. 405 00:22:53,560 --> 00:22:57,200 But I can't even start to begin to think what you must have been 406 00:22:57,200 --> 00:23:00,600 feeling and what your mum and dad was and what Maureen was 407 00:23:00,600 --> 00:23:03,720 feeling. You know, and you're, you're 408 00:23:03,720 --> 00:23:06,800 grieving for this, you know, for this little baby. 409 00:23:08,360 --> 00:23:11,200 You've never seen anything like this before or felt anything 410 00:23:11,200 --> 00:23:13,240 like it. And the, I'm guessing your 411 00:23:13,240 --> 00:23:15,400 family don't know what to do with you and you don't know what 412 00:23:15,400 --> 00:23:18,560 to do with your family. Can you, can you remember this 413 00:23:18,560 --> 00:23:21,200 gal when it was happening? Obviously you can remember it 414 00:23:21,200 --> 00:23:23,920 And, and I could, but I, I didn't realise the detail that 415 00:23:23,920 --> 00:23:26,920 that Adele's just gone into what what's your thoughts and 416 00:23:26,920 --> 00:23:29,840 comments around that? Yeah, you know, everyone, 417 00:23:30,880 --> 00:23:36,000 everyone so excited, you know, for for Matthew and Adele and 418 00:23:36,000 --> 00:23:39,680 just so pleased, you know, because, you know, I mean, I 419 00:23:39,680 --> 00:23:41,160 know I'm biassed, but we're all biassed. 420 00:23:41,160 --> 00:23:42,480 But, you know, they meet great mates. 421 00:23:42,480 --> 00:23:45,120 But you know, the great people, you know, and you know, the 422 00:23:45,120 --> 00:23:47,600 great parents to Ruby and Isabel, but they were just so 423 00:23:47,600 --> 00:23:49,800 exciting, so looking forward to it, you know, we knew that 424 00:23:49,800 --> 00:23:52,800 they'd be great parents. So and to see your close friends 425 00:23:52,800 --> 00:23:58,000 sort of go through that and after, you know, you know, you 426 00:23:58,000 --> 00:23:59,800 don't think about yourself, you know, you're thinking of you're 427 00:23:59,800 --> 00:24:03,080 thinking of Matthew and Adele. But it was heartbreaking for 428 00:24:03,080 --> 00:24:09,800 them, you know, but the way that Matthew and Adele sort of 429 00:24:09,800 --> 00:24:13,520 conducted the salary and, you know, with the, you know, both 430 00:24:13,520 --> 00:24:18,320 come from great families, that's important to say, supportive 431 00:24:19,080 --> 00:24:21,080 families. And they have a very close 432 00:24:21,080 --> 00:24:26,400 network of of friends. But the way they sort of got 433 00:24:26,400 --> 00:24:30,480 through that, you know, you've got to have nothing but, you 434 00:24:30,480 --> 00:24:36,240 know, the utmost respect for for them both, you know, it's just 435 00:24:36,240 --> 00:24:37,920 such an incredibly difficult time. 436 00:24:39,400 --> 00:24:42,120 Yeah, honey, you know, we could. Yeah. 437 00:24:42,120 --> 00:24:43,840 I don't mind talking about things like this now. 438 00:24:43,840 --> 00:24:45,320 I used to really struggle with it. 439 00:24:45,840 --> 00:24:48,040 But the way you've been Adele gives you strength. 440 00:24:48,040 --> 00:24:51,480 And, you know, and I know Matthew is there for you. 441 00:24:51,760 --> 00:24:53,800 And then everyone's there for you both and. 442 00:24:54,520 --> 00:24:57,480 And it. And it is like I said, I can't 443 00:24:57,480 --> 00:25:00,200 even begin to think. I've never had anything anywhere 444 00:25:00,200 --> 00:25:03,160 near the tragic, you know, as tragic as that. 445 00:25:03,640 --> 00:25:09,560 And at the time you mentioned about a self-contained flat or 446 00:25:09,600 --> 00:25:13,520 apartment or unit and that it was through the charity Sounds 447 00:25:13,520 --> 00:25:15,160 was it, which was at the hospital. 448 00:25:16,560 --> 00:25:18,120 Yeah, you won't even know it with that. 449 00:25:18,120 --> 00:25:20,520 Just it was literally at the bottom of one of the stairwells 450 00:25:20,520 --> 00:25:23,520 in the near the maternity. Yeah. 451 00:25:24,560 --> 00:25:31,160 Edith Watson and, and we, we got told about it and said, look, 452 00:25:31,160 --> 00:25:32,560 you can, you can go and stay in there. 453 00:25:32,560 --> 00:25:36,280 And we said, yeah, that's fine. Because look, in things like 454 00:25:36,280 --> 00:25:38,600 maternity units, life goes on, doesn't it? 455 00:25:38,600 --> 00:25:40,040 In a way they've got to, they've got to move on. 456 00:25:40,040 --> 00:25:41,840 They've got, they've got people coming in. 457 00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:47,080 So we did that. And I think probably the worst 458 00:25:47,080 --> 00:25:49,960 or the hardest thing to do, I suppose, after something like 459 00:25:49,960 --> 00:25:53,920 that's happened, if you think about when you're having a child 460 00:25:53,920 --> 00:25:57,080 and people who obviously you've had kids, jazz and whatever. 461 00:25:57,080 --> 00:26:00,200 Yeah, everything at home is ready for that when that child 462 00:26:00,200 --> 00:26:03,760 arrives, isn't it? So when you go there and then 463 00:26:03,760 --> 00:26:10,080 you you're going home without it, it's so to to sort of be 464 00:26:10,080 --> 00:26:13,040 given that opportunity to spend that time there with family and 465 00:26:13,040 --> 00:26:14,560 everything before you have to do that. 466 00:26:15,320 --> 00:26:16,840 It's huge for us. Massive. 467 00:26:18,520 --> 00:26:21,880 I bet, I bet, you know, you mentioned another point there 468 00:26:21,880 --> 00:26:24,320 and I suppose that gives a little bit of time for your 469 00:26:24,320 --> 00:26:27,480 family to be around you and for them to get the head round it. 470 00:26:27,480 --> 00:26:30,840 And then how you're going to deal with the, you know, I 471 00:26:30,840 --> 00:26:33,560 always look at short and medium and long term plans. 472 00:26:33,560 --> 00:26:35,840 So the short term plans, yeah, you're right Stana. 473 00:26:36,520 --> 00:26:39,960 You know, to get your house into some sort of order for when you 474 00:26:39,960 --> 00:26:44,280 both have to go back. It's kind of one day at a time, 475 00:26:44,280 --> 00:26:47,320 wasn't it really? I didn't want anything to happen 476 00:26:47,320 --> 00:26:50,440 to his nursery. Just leave everything as it is 477 00:26:50,440 --> 00:26:53,240 and I will deal with that when when we are ready. 478 00:26:53,240 --> 00:26:56,760 We didn't want. But no, some families decide 479 00:26:56,760 --> 00:26:58,600 it's the best thing to take everything away. 480 00:26:59,000 --> 00:27:00,600 I. Didn't want that. 481 00:27:03,160 --> 00:27:05,480 How we wanted to deal deal with it at that time. 482 00:27:06,360 --> 00:27:08,440 Yeah. How you want? 483 00:27:09,000 --> 00:27:12,240 Absolutely, yeah, it's an individual choice and, and how 484 00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:14,640 you feel about it. But to be making your choices 485 00:27:14,640 --> 00:27:17,640 and and again, Adele, you've been very brave there saying one 486 00:27:17,640 --> 00:27:21,080 day at a time. You know, I bet you're 487 00:27:21,080 --> 00:27:24,560 struggling or at the time to to deal with 10 minutes at a time, 488 00:27:24,560 --> 00:27:27,600 you know what is going to happen in the next, you know, short 489 00:27:27,600 --> 00:27:31,160 period of that. So it's sounding like just 490 00:27:31,160 --> 00:27:33,600 because of that room and the charity is there. 491 00:27:33,600 --> 00:27:36,080 And again, Adele, you've helped me out to your big style. 492 00:27:36,080 --> 00:27:41,800 So Sans it was founded in 78 by in 1978 by a small group of 493 00:27:41,800 --> 00:27:45,640 bereaved parents that wanted to bring something together. 494 00:27:47,240 --> 00:27:50,800 You've clearly got a real soft, soft spot for them. 495 00:27:50,800 --> 00:27:54,000 It's 18 years ago. You're still raising money for 496 00:27:54,000 --> 00:27:57,880 that charity. Have you kept in touch with the 497 00:27:57,880 --> 00:28:01,120 charity since then and kept your eye out for fundraising 498 00:28:01,720 --> 00:28:04,520 occasions? I do follow them on like 499 00:28:04,520 --> 00:28:08,040 Facebook and social media and Instagram and things and they're 500 00:28:08,040 --> 00:28:10,000 always, they're always doing fundraisers. 501 00:28:10,360 --> 00:28:14,000 It is baby Awareness Week next probably. 502 00:28:14,000 --> 00:28:18,280 I think it's from the 9th of October till the week after and 503 00:28:18,280 --> 00:28:20,120 it's always the week after Harry's birthday. 504 00:28:20,560 --> 00:28:25,120 But last October or the October before, I did a walk, so I did 505 00:28:25,120 --> 00:28:27,680 another charity thing where I did 100K. 506 00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:30,240 We just walk in that time not running with Louis. 507 00:28:30,560 --> 00:28:33,240 So Louis was fully involved in that as well. 508 00:28:33,760 --> 00:28:35,240 There was the dog by the. Way. 509 00:28:35,240 --> 00:28:37,040 Louis the dog, if those people don't know. 510 00:28:41,200 --> 00:28:44,480 Yeah. But I mean, it's just a great 511 00:28:44,480 --> 00:28:47,880 charity that support families who go through this, you know, 512 00:28:47,960 --> 00:28:52,120 tragic event. But there's a link between the 513 00:28:52,120 --> 00:28:56,000 Sands at the hospital and Christchurch in Nelson. 514 00:28:56,280 --> 00:29:00,400 It's a local church that you can go to for a baby remembrance 515 00:29:00,400 --> 00:29:03,640 every year. And that's where family, you do 516 00:29:03,640 --> 00:29:05,240 see the same families every year. 517 00:29:05,600 --> 00:29:08,760 And every now and again suddenly you do get new parents. 518 00:29:09,120 --> 00:29:12,680 But it's just a time to come together and just, you know, 519 00:29:12,720 --> 00:29:15,360 have a bit of reflection and all that. 520 00:29:15,360 --> 00:29:17,120 You've got support of somebody else. 521 00:29:17,160 --> 00:29:18,720 They know exactly what you've been through. 522 00:29:19,320 --> 00:29:22,360 Yeah. And again, as we've, as we've 523 00:29:22,360 --> 00:29:25,200 said, we've said earlier, you know, the reason for doing this 524 00:29:25,200 --> 00:29:30,880 is just to try and help one person or or 1000 people, Adele, 525 00:29:30,880 --> 00:29:34,280 a way of, you know, sponsoring you or contributing to the 526 00:29:34,280 --> 00:29:36,560 charity. And we will do this again at the 527 00:29:36,560 --> 00:29:41,160 end. Can you give us, is there a 528 00:29:41,160 --> 00:29:42,880 link? Is is there anything that you 529 00:29:42,880 --> 00:29:47,720 could share with people, give them something on here or is or 530 00:29:47,920 --> 00:29:51,160 is it better off if we do that on the the low race website and 531 00:29:51,160 --> 00:29:54,320 the house cast? I don't know, I think I've put 532 00:29:54,360 --> 00:29:56,640 AQR code on there. It's a little bit further down. 533 00:29:56,920 --> 00:29:59,240 OK. I don't know if you can share 534 00:29:59,240 --> 00:30:01,000 that. Yeah, I've got it. 535 00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:07,080 Yeah. And I think I'm about 420 lbs so 536 00:30:07,160 --> 00:30:10,440 far, and I've got one more day, one more run to do. 537 00:30:10,920 --> 00:30:12,880 So tell us what what? Tell us what you've been doing. 538 00:30:12,880 --> 00:30:18,280 What what gave you the idea to do this all these kilometres? 539 00:30:19,000 --> 00:30:21,960 Well, I don't know if you know. Well, I know you know about it. 540 00:30:21,960 --> 00:30:25,040 Jazz and Gav obviously does. In March I ended up being in 541 00:30:25,040 --> 00:30:29,600 hospital with meningitis. I'm in hospital for 22 days and 542 00:30:29,600 --> 00:30:32,040 it really knocked me for six. I weren't in a good place 543 00:30:32,080 --> 00:30:36,440 really, was there. So it popped up in August time 544 00:30:36,440 --> 00:30:41,400 on Facebook, run 50K in September and I thought I need 545 00:30:41,400 --> 00:30:44,200 to get myself fit again. And it's a great, which is 546 00:30:44,200 --> 00:30:47,000 obviously close to my heart. So a bit of a challenge for 547 00:30:47,000 --> 00:30:52,040 myself as well to keep myself to, you know, get fit again and 548 00:30:52,040 --> 00:30:55,280 raise really important money for all the families. 549 00:30:55,720 --> 00:31:01,680 Yeah, and that is 50K over the the month of September. 550 00:31:01,680 --> 00:31:04,040 So tell us how that went at the start. 551 00:31:04,280 --> 00:31:07,160 Difficult with getting the old blisters though. 552 00:31:07,240 --> 00:31:11,640 How have you managed it? The first one, I think, I think 553 00:31:11,640 --> 00:31:13,080 the first one probably the best one. 554 00:31:13,080 --> 00:31:17,200 What I did, I think we're just like, right, just go for it. 555 00:31:17,200 --> 00:31:19,960 And I just I just ran. I think I already did like 3 1/2 556 00:31:19,960 --> 00:31:22,800 K. But to say I've not done any 557 00:31:22,880 --> 00:31:26,400 proper exercise since January. It looked pretty good really. 558 00:31:27,600 --> 00:31:31,160 And I did just under 7K on Saturday. 559 00:31:32,840 --> 00:31:36,000 Obviously when you're running, you're reflecting constantly. 560 00:31:36,400 --> 00:31:39,080 Yeah, yeah. And always, I always found this 561 00:31:39,080 --> 00:31:44,120 time of year difficult anyway. If you to have his birthday on 562 00:31:44,120 --> 00:31:48,160 the day and a few days afterwards and it's just you 563 00:31:48,160 --> 00:31:51,320 know it, it gives you that push to do it. 564 00:31:51,760 --> 00:31:57,680 Yeah, yeah. I've got, I've got 2 kilometres, 565 00:31:57,680 --> 00:32:01,200 I've done a three 3.5 tonight and I've just got 2 to do 566 00:32:01,200 --> 00:32:03,560 tomorrow. So I will probably do a bit 567 00:32:03,560 --> 00:32:09,000 longer just to and then. You've done your 50 kilometres. 568 00:32:09,360 --> 00:32:12,840 I'm assuming you've you've created a finishing pork Danny 569 00:32:12,840 --> 00:32:16,000 and a fit for a Delta run through. 570 00:32:16,440 --> 00:32:19,080 Yeah, yeah, of course. Bottle of champagne it'll. 571 00:32:19,560 --> 00:32:22,320 Be on the back. Street brilliant. 572 00:32:23,320 --> 00:32:25,760 We've done, we've done other things as well. 573 00:32:25,760 --> 00:32:27,600 Obvious Gap was actually involved in one of them. 574 00:32:27,880 --> 00:32:32,280 We did the Loch Ness Challenge, so that was the the sort of 575 00:32:33,320 --> 00:32:38,680 group of my friends that did that, which was basically a 576 00:32:38,680 --> 00:32:41,080 duathlon, so cycling and running. 577 00:32:41,840 --> 00:32:43,800 Gavin absolutely loved doing that. 578 00:32:43,800 --> 00:32:46,760 Didn't you know? Training for it and Garden's 579 00:32:46,760 --> 00:32:47,880 background? Loch Ness. 580 00:32:50,320 --> 00:32:51,520 I think I just finished last week. 581 00:32:52,960 --> 00:32:57,240 That way in 2008, Gav. This is no word of Elijah as 582 00:32:57,240 --> 00:32:59,160 well. So we turn up on the on the 583 00:32:59,160 --> 00:33:05,000 first day to to do it. And there are loads of teams 584 00:33:05,000 --> 00:33:07,080 there, celebrities and things like that. 585 00:33:07,080 --> 00:33:09,760 So you've got Gavin Hastings that will be a player, Nel 586 00:33:09,760 --> 00:33:12,080 Mcandrew. Is she called Nel Mcandrew, the 587 00:33:12,080 --> 00:33:18,920 model from Bolton. And then you add Liz Mccolgan in 588 00:33:18,920 --> 00:33:23,680 a team. And the Brownlee brothers also 589 00:33:23,680 --> 00:33:27,560 formed part of another team. So yeah. 590 00:33:27,960 --> 00:33:31,760 You'll be surprised to know that we didn't win, but we give it 591 00:33:31,760 --> 00:33:33,440 our best shot. We give it our best shot. 592 00:33:33,600 --> 00:33:35,440 But yeah, and, and, and again, we did that. 593 00:33:35,440 --> 00:33:37,240 We did, we did music and things like that. 594 00:33:38,120 --> 00:33:42,200 Now back when we did that, there was a very sort of local aspect 595 00:33:42,200 --> 00:33:45,080 to the the charity that unfortunately, because the way 596 00:33:45,080 --> 00:33:48,760 that these charities evolve all the time doesn't sort of exist 597 00:33:48,760 --> 00:33:52,240 anymore, unfortunately. But when we did that, we 598 00:33:52,400 --> 00:33:55,040 literally, I think we raised about £1000 at the time. 599 00:33:55,240 --> 00:33:59,320 And we did that specifically for helping to refurb that room at 600 00:33:59,320 --> 00:34:02,680 the hospital. So new equipment, new things 601 00:34:02,680 --> 00:34:06,000 like that to go in there. So yeah, so it's and then 602 00:34:06,000 --> 00:34:09,360 obviously Adele's carried it on with various things 603 00:34:10,280 --> 00:34:12,760 subsequently. Yeah, yeah. 604 00:34:12,800 --> 00:34:15,840 Take care runs as well. Adele's done in between time, 605 00:34:15,840 --> 00:34:17,800 so. Yeah, it is. 606 00:34:17,800 --> 00:34:21,120 It's I mean it's outstanding the the work that that you do and 607 00:34:21,440 --> 00:34:23,320 you know, and, and also what Sam's do. 608 00:34:23,320 --> 00:34:27,520 So please people who are listening first and foremost is, 609 00:34:27,520 --> 00:34:30,400 you know, if you're aware of of anyone going through difficult 610 00:34:30,400 --> 00:34:34,360 time like this and that that remind them that Sam's is there. 611 00:34:34,360 --> 00:34:38,719 And I'm, and I'm sure that you know that people listening will, 612 00:34:39,480 --> 00:34:43,080 will recognise or know someone who's been through this. 613 00:34:43,080 --> 00:34:47,040 So let's try and as raise as much as we can through the 614 00:34:47,040 --> 00:34:51,199 podcast and, and help Adele to get there. 615 00:34:51,199 --> 00:34:56,480 See if we get up to to 700 or even 1000 lbs before she 616 00:34:56,480 --> 00:34:58,800 finishes tomorrow on the last two kilometres. 617 00:35:00,440 --> 00:35:03,000 Yes, I can also give you the link for the helpline if there 618 00:35:03,000 --> 00:35:04,480 is anybody who is struggling at the minute. 619 00:35:05,240 --> 00:35:06,560 Oh, brilliant. Yeah. 620 00:35:08,480 --> 00:35:12,480 Yeah, if you can do and also please, you know, vast majority 621 00:35:12,480 --> 00:35:15,120 of people on Facebook have a look at Adele's page. 622 00:35:15,120 --> 00:35:19,080 She does put some material on there which will give you links 623 00:35:19,080 --> 00:35:22,120 and give updates if you look back at the previous call. 624 00:35:22,120 --> 00:35:24,600 So you can get from on there. But we'll put them on the on the 625 00:35:24,600 --> 00:35:28,000 lower house website and on Twitter and everywhere else so 626 00:35:28,000 --> 00:35:34,720 we can so, so moving from there, we go to 2009. 627 00:35:36,560 --> 00:35:41,280 Well, I don't know what when you first found out that you found 628 00:35:41,280 --> 00:35:44,280 out you were pregnant, in fact. Do you know what we're doing? 629 00:35:44,280 --> 00:35:47,720 It's just come to me now, jazz. We're actually at of Sam's 630 00:35:47,720 --> 00:35:51,400 fundraiser, Shasta Shasta with the band You Remember. 631 00:35:51,680 --> 00:35:54,400 Yeah, yeah. And I was actually pregnant with 632 00:35:54,400 --> 00:35:56,720 the girls and I didn't know. I had a great night. 633 00:35:59,880 --> 00:36:02,320 We'd had a few sherbets that night, but I didn't know I was 634 00:36:02,320 --> 00:36:03,840 pregnant. You didn't know you were 635 00:36:03,840 --> 00:36:07,840 pregnant. So and then so you don't know 636 00:36:07,840 --> 00:36:11,200 you're pregnant. Then you find out you're 637 00:36:11,200 --> 00:36:15,440 pregnant and lo and behold, they tell you that it's twins. 638 00:36:15,440 --> 00:36:19,600 I mean, how you know it? We scared. 639 00:36:19,600 --> 00:36:20,840 We. Panicked. 640 00:36:20,840 --> 00:36:22,760 We didn't. We didn't really know how to 641 00:36:22,840 --> 00:36:25,120 react, I laughed. I. 642 00:36:25,600 --> 00:36:29,440 Was just like what, twins? Yeah, a bit a bit overwhelmed. 643 00:36:29,520 --> 00:36:31,400 Really worked with a bit of a shock to system. 644 00:36:31,880 --> 00:36:38,080 I'd I'd clocked it before early because the obviously used to go 645 00:36:38,080 --> 00:36:41,720 into scams the first time. And then this I could see the 646 00:36:41,720 --> 00:36:43,800 screen so that I couldn't see the screen because they started 647 00:36:43,800 --> 00:36:46,520 doing the cheques and everything and I could see that there were 648 00:36:46,520 --> 00:36:50,120 two two things there. So I'm looking thinking about 649 00:36:50,120 --> 00:36:54,600 this more than one there. And then the the lady turned the 650 00:36:54,600 --> 00:36:56,640 screen round and showed us it was twins. 651 00:36:56,640 --> 00:36:59,440 Confirmed pretty much straight away that's the identical twins 652 00:36:59,440 --> 00:37:00,800 as well. So. 653 00:37:01,120 --> 00:37:03,240 There's obviously different types of twins, but identical 654 00:37:03,240 --> 00:37:09,680 means that the, the, the sort of, is it one eggs, the TD 655 00:37:09,680 --> 00:37:11,200 membrane? Yeah, one eggs split in two. 656 00:37:11,200 --> 00:37:13,520 And then they sort of share the same placenta, which is why they 657 00:37:13,840 --> 00:37:16,640 share the same DNA and stuff like that, which is fascinating. 658 00:37:16,640 --> 00:37:20,280 And we found out about that about two days before we went 659 00:37:20,280 --> 00:37:24,080 all over to Portugal, didn't we literally ready, getting ready 660 00:37:24,080 --> 00:37:26,560 to go on already found out that we were sort of that it was 661 00:37:26,560 --> 00:37:27,520 twins. We knew we were pregnant, 662 00:37:27,520 --> 00:37:30,000 obviously, but found out it was twins. 663 00:37:30,360 --> 00:37:37,080 And then the, the consultant who had dealt with Harry's pregnancy 664 00:37:37,080 --> 00:37:41,480 was the same consultant and she sort of gave us a bit of a dose 665 00:37:41,480 --> 00:37:44,320 of reality straight away. So we went into a room and she 666 00:37:44,520 --> 00:37:49,320 essentially said this not not necessarily it's not good news 667 00:37:49,320 --> 00:37:51,960 because obviously it is, but she was this is going to be very 668 00:37:51,960 --> 00:37:53,880 difficult with what's happened previously. 669 00:37:54,880 --> 00:37:56,440 This has just meant things a lot harder. 670 00:37:56,520 --> 00:38:01,200 So that was quite chasing to listen to her say that. 671 00:38:02,280 --> 00:38:06,000 To be fair, what they did do then was say, right, you're 672 00:38:06,000 --> 00:38:07,560 going to be in every couple of weeks. 673 00:38:09,000 --> 00:38:15,400 They more or less agreed a date within weeks as to when the the 674 00:38:15,560 --> 00:38:19,360 twins have been born. So they, they, they've spoken to 675 00:38:19,360 --> 00:38:21,680 different consultants and doctors and things like that and 676 00:38:21,680 --> 00:38:27,680 said that there will be like a sort of viable time will be from 677 00:38:27,680 --> 00:38:29,400 34 weeks I think they said onwards. 678 00:38:30,000 --> 00:38:35,400 So we is that we opted for a section for the girls because 679 00:38:35,520 --> 00:38:38,360 Isabel was the wrong way around. So really. 680 00:38:38,920 --> 00:38:42,360 May have come out, it's just the wrong way around. 681 00:38:42,360 --> 00:38:47,280 Now she'll go mad at that. When you said that Stanley, it 682 00:38:47,280 --> 00:38:50,680 does interest me that when you said the, you know, they sat you 683 00:38:50,680 --> 00:38:53,320 in a room and said whilst this is extremely happy, it is a 684 00:38:53,320 --> 00:38:56,000 difficult period. Was that just because there were 685 00:38:56,000 --> 00:38:59,480 twins or because of what had happened with Harry? 686 00:39:00,040 --> 00:39:06,040 I think I think both because because the role is going to be 687 00:39:06,040 --> 00:39:09,160 more sort of wary second time round for us anyway. 688 00:39:09,160 --> 00:39:11,560 But then when it's when it's twins and the complications that 689 00:39:11,560 --> 00:39:14,040 couldn't come with that because there's all kinds of things with 690 00:39:14,040 --> 00:39:18,520 twins where one would grow and sort of the stuff off off the 691 00:39:18,560 --> 00:39:19,760 other child and things like that. 692 00:39:19,760 --> 00:39:22,360 And there were twins when we were in hospital when our twins 693 00:39:22,360 --> 00:39:23,960 were born that had been through that. 694 00:39:23,960 --> 00:39:26,920 So you had one twin that was like 6 foot two and one that was 695 00:39:26,920 --> 00:39:29,800 about four inch. So it was just like bizarre to 696 00:39:29,800 --> 00:39:36,240 say, but that's all the stuff they warn you about when you 697 00:39:36,320 --> 00:39:38,480 when you start down the sort of twin routes. 698 00:39:40,360 --> 00:39:43,640 Yeah, but they were sort of they were very matter of fact with us 699 00:39:44,480 --> 00:39:48,600 and that and explain this is how it's going to be and this is 700 00:39:48,600 --> 00:39:50,280 what we're going to do. You'll be here every couple of 701 00:39:50,280 --> 00:39:55,360 weeks scans checking the growth and everything went there and 702 00:39:55,400 --> 00:40:01,080 then agreed to date and sort of another strange quirk of the day 703 00:40:01,080 --> 00:40:03,600 that so they gave us a date to say. 704 00:40:04,480 --> 00:40:08,200 Twins that were basically born on the 5th of February, that's 705 00:40:08,200 --> 00:40:12,160 the anniversary of when my dad died when I was a baby as well. 706 00:40:12,160 --> 00:40:16,600 So, so that's sort of like a day that bittersweet in a way. 707 00:40:16,600 --> 00:40:20,520 So you've got the fact that my dad passed away on that date in 708 00:40:20,520 --> 00:40:25,000 1981 and then you've got the twins were born on that date in 709 00:40:25,080 --> 00:40:27,440 2009. So from, so from my mum's point 710 00:40:27,440 --> 00:40:30,520 of view, it sort of gives it. Suppose it's turned a really 711 00:40:31,160 --> 00:40:33,640 Saturday into a very happy day. So yeah. 712 00:40:34,080 --> 00:40:35,920 Oh cracker, that is, I mean what? 713 00:40:36,640 --> 00:40:38,200 So. So let me just get this right 714 00:40:38,200 --> 00:40:42,160 you when your dad passed away, the girls were born on exactly 715 00:40:42,160 --> 00:40:44,920 the the same date. Yeah, same date, yeah. 716 00:40:45,200 --> 00:40:49,800 I didn't know that that's that is, you know, turning, you know, 717 00:40:49,800 --> 00:40:53,840 something, you know, as sad as that was into, you know, you 718 00:40:53,840 --> 00:40:56,400 know, something that could be quite, you know, something for 719 00:40:56,400 --> 00:41:01,920 your mum to to think of when she sees Isabella and Ruby is that 720 00:41:02,080 --> 00:41:04,720 at that time, you know, we've talked about a real difficult 721 00:41:04,720 --> 00:41:09,040 period for you with with Harry. You know that when you find out 722 00:41:09,040 --> 00:41:12,760 you're pregnant, Adele, and then for the next 5-6, seven months 723 00:41:12,760 --> 00:41:16,120 we're constantly worrying and constantly stressed thinking 724 00:41:16,120 --> 00:41:17,320 this is going to happen again to. 725 00:41:19,680 --> 00:41:21,280 Be honest, Jess, you were a bit of a blur. 726 00:41:22,800 --> 00:41:26,520 I think you, you put yourself in this protective bubble, I think. 727 00:41:26,520 --> 00:41:29,360 And I, I never really got out of it after Harry. 728 00:41:30,040 --> 00:41:32,640 And then I was pregnant with girls and obviously were. 729 00:41:33,320 --> 00:41:35,040 It just seemed to fly by really, didn't it? 730 00:41:35,600 --> 00:41:39,480 It seemed to be a really quick pregnancy, like you say. 731 00:41:39,480 --> 00:41:41,680 I went to hospital every every other week, really getting 732 00:41:41,680 --> 00:41:46,600 checked, you know, And yeah, just obviously worry. 733 00:41:46,600 --> 00:41:48,120 Just want to get in here, really. 734 00:41:48,600 --> 00:41:53,120 As soon as they're allowed to be born, let's have them on that 735 00:41:53,120 --> 00:41:55,880 day and that's what we went for. Absolutely, yeah. 736 00:41:56,480 --> 00:42:00,480 Yeah, and it went, it went all smooth when they were born, they 737 00:42:00,480 --> 00:42:03,840 went to special care for, well, Ruby were there for 9 days and 738 00:42:03,840 --> 00:42:05,320 Isabel were there for a couple of days. 739 00:42:06,840 --> 00:42:08,240 So they were tricky when they were born. 740 00:42:08,240 --> 00:42:11,120 We were breastfeeding, having to go down to visit them. 741 00:42:12,160 --> 00:42:15,360 But you know, look at them now. They, they, you know, they 742 00:42:15,800 --> 00:42:17,880 really tall, strong, healthy girls, aren't they? 743 00:42:17,880 --> 00:42:19,960 Yeah, yeah. Well, yeah, we're going to go on 744 00:42:19,960 --> 00:42:22,040 So. So for the listeners, Isabella 745 00:42:22,040 --> 00:42:24,920 and Ruby, you know, 16 years old, they've come. 746 00:42:24,960 --> 00:42:29,000 And it's again, another fantastic example of every time 747 00:42:29,000 --> 00:42:31,000 a summer finishes, we go through a winter. 748 00:42:31,000 --> 00:42:33,600 You go back in the spring, you see your two girls there. 749 00:42:33,600 --> 00:42:36,280 They're they're at most matches walking around, seem to be 750 00:42:36,280 --> 00:42:40,440 getting taller and taller, you know, really lovely, lovely 751 00:42:40,440 --> 00:42:43,880 children and growing up into fantastic adults. 752 00:42:44,960 --> 00:42:49,560 I can see that that Stanley's getting them into a sort of a 753 00:42:50,080 --> 00:42:54,160 special place now with work. When it was the busiest bar ever 754 00:42:54,480 --> 00:42:58,080 and when we won the league. There's 2 girls behind the bar. 755 00:42:58,080 --> 00:43:00,720 We've not done it before and it's Isabella Ruby. 756 00:43:02,000 --> 00:43:04,440 Ruby had actually done a couple of Wednesday nights. 757 00:43:04,760 --> 00:43:07,280 Right. And so she'd been doing a couple 758 00:43:07,280 --> 00:43:10,520 of shifts there, just getting used to the everything, and then 759 00:43:10,560 --> 00:43:13,200 she was really thrown in the deep end on that day because it 760 00:43:13,200 --> 00:43:17,240 was really busy. It was, but who cares? 761 00:43:17,240 --> 00:43:19,760 They did a great job, they helped the club out again, just 762 00:43:19,760 --> 00:43:23,480 like, you know, the last two or three generations of your 763 00:43:23,480 --> 00:43:24,160 family. So. 764 00:43:24,480 --> 00:43:29,880 So Gav, we've got the 2, the obviously twins, these two 765 00:43:29,880 --> 00:43:33,200 little girls, your your, your best mate, your mucker. 766 00:43:33,560 --> 00:43:36,360 You've got to be wanting, you know, you'll be concerned just 767 00:43:36,360 --> 00:43:38,520 like everyone else. All the other Rugrats would have 768 00:43:38,520 --> 00:43:40,800 been. These two girls are born nice 769 00:43:40,800 --> 00:43:44,000 and healthy. I've did a pint get taken to 770 00:43:44,000 --> 00:43:47,640 celebrate the birth of them. Well, that's about one or two, 771 00:43:47,640 --> 00:43:51,000 Jess, You know, just to just to keep up traditions. 772 00:43:51,000 --> 00:43:56,200 You know, it's got to be done. But yeah, everyone was just so 773 00:43:56,200 --> 00:43:57,640 pleased. Yeah. 774 00:43:58,400 --> 00:44:00,600 Great news. And because everyone knew they'd 775 00:44:00,600 --> 00:44:04,440 be great at it, you know, and having gone what they've, you 776 00:44:04,440 --> 00:44:07,440 know, gone through what they've gone through, it was just really 777 00:44:07,440 --> 00:44:11,600 nice, you know, and it were, it were really good news. 778 00:44:11,600 --> 00:44:14,880 And it was nice to see nice people, you know, have something 779 00:44:14,880 --> 00:44:17,280 good happened to them, really, you know? 780 00:44:19,160 --> 00:44:20,960 Yeah. And then it continues with, you 781 00:44:20,960 --> 00:44:23,080 know, with a pair of them. You know, they're growing up 782 00:44:23,080 --> 00:44:29,560 into fantastic human beings. So, you know, if we can, we'll, 783 00:44:29,600 --> 00:44:32,640 I will push everything for the, the Sans charity. 784 00:44:32,840 --> 00:44:35,640 Please, anyone who's listening to this, if it's touched you in 785 00:44:35,640 --> 00:44:39,760 any way or how brave Adele's been and, and Matthew, with all 786 00:44:39,760 --> 00:44:42,280 the support that that's been there for them and their 787 00:44:42,280 --> 00:44:45,520 families, let's try and, you know, whether it's a lower house 788 00:44:45,520 --> 00:44:48,760 push or a house cast push, but try and, you know, push this 789 00:44:48,760 --> 00:44:52,480 Sans charity and, and let's support it the best way that we 790 00:44:52,480 --> 00:44:56,520 can. I'm going to move away from from 791 00:44:56,520 --> 00:44:59,000 this now. And I just want any other 792 00:44:59,000 --> 00:45:02,720 comments, Adele, before I've just read out something that you 793 00:45:02,720 --> 00:45:04,800 sent me. Have you anything else to add? 794 00:45:06,200 --> 00:45:09,600 No, not really no. Just really appreciated if you 795 00:45:09,600 --> 00:45:14,480 could donate every sponsor. If it's just a fibre, you know 796 00:45:14,480 --> 00:45:16,800 it's not. It's not even a part nowadays. 797 00:45:16,800 --> 00:45:20,440 Is it a fibre so that you know every little bit will help all 798 00:45:20,440 --> 00:45:24,080 the grieving parents? So it'd be really appreciated if 799 00:45:24,160 --> 00:45:26,920 you could help us out. Yeah, I think one thing that's 800 00:45:26,920 --> 00:45:31,120 probably right to say, and it's probably long overdue in a way, 801 00:45:31,120 --> 00:45:35,680 but the support that we got from everyone at the time and the 802 00:45:35,720 --> 00:45:37,480 sport from the Cricket Club and things like that. 803 00:45:37,680 --> 00:45:42,200 I sort of vividly remember doing all the the Funeral arrangements 804 00:45:42,200 --> 00:45:48,000 and the guys that all the Sonoran said what basically they 805 00:45:48,000 --> 00:45:50,320 have like a really fancy sort of Ford Focus. 806 00:45:50,320 --> 00:45:52,280 We'll be using that car on the day this kind of thing. 807 00:45:52,480 --> 00:45:54,960 You like that, That's fine. Yeah, that's because that's what 808 00:45:54,960 --> 00:45:59,280 we do with with babies. And then Steven Alderson there 809 00:45:59,280 --> 00:46:01,560 got a feel for there was going to be quite a lot of people 810 00:46:02,560 --> 00:46:05,480 present and, and basically rang on the morning and said, look, 811 00:46:05,480 --> 00:46:07,520 so just so you're not alarmed, we are going to turn up with the 812 00:46:07,520 --> 00:46:11,160 full sort of the full car and everything all set out because 813 00:46:11,360 --> 00:46:13,960 you know, there's going to be quite a lot of people there. 814 00:46:14,080 --> 00:46:18,720 And we turned up at the the Chapel at the top of the 815 00:46:19,760 --> 00:46:23,320 cemetery there and it was absolutely jammers. 816 00:46:23,320 --> 00:46:27,640 So I'd say that support means an awful lot to to wasn't did then, 817 00:46:27,640 --> 00:46:31,440 and still does today. Yeah, yeah, I bet it. 818 00:46:32,320 --> 00:46:35,760 At that time, you know, you two young, you know, young adults, 819 00:46:35,760 --> 00:46:38,720 you, you're in a, you know, you're in a nightmare. 820 00:46:38,720 --> 00:46:43,040 You're in a real thunderstorm. And at the time, you probably 821 00:46:43,040 --> 00:46:45,120 can't appreciate it as much, but it's good. 822 00:46:45,320 --> 00:46:48,240 We can talk about it now and you can remember that and remember 823 00:46:48,240 --> 00:46:50,840 the those sorts of times and the support you can give to other 824 00:46:50,840 --> 00:46:54,680 people. Gav, is there anything from 825 00:46:54,680 --> 00:46:57,840 yourself before I, you know, close it up? 826 00:46:59,320 --> 00:47:03,480 No, just to, just to say to Adele there when you said it's 827 00:47:03,480 --> 00:47:05,840 not even the price of a band, you looked at Matthew. 828 00:47:06,080 --> 00:47:09,160 He won't know because it very rarely goes to the bar. 829 00:47:10,240 --> 00:47:11,840 But no, other than that, just have nothing. 830 00:47:11,880 --> 00:47:13,760 I think it's because he keeps sending me, doesn't he? 831 00:47:17,120 --> 00:47:18,720 And as well, I'm going to dob him in here. 832 00:47:18,720 --> 00:47:22,400 Adele as well. You probably, you probably are 833 00:47:22,400 --> 00:47:26,040 aware, but when, when you weren't pregnant with girls and 834 00:47:26,040 --> 00:47:30,320 we'd all wait for a band, he'd always throw me on the bus. 835 00:47:30,320 --> 00:47:32,880 They'd go right, Adele's on the way. 836 00:47:32,880 --> 00:47:35,200 Now you got bar, now you got bar. 837 00:47:36,120 --> 00:47:38,160 And she won't have a go at you, but she'll go mad at me. 838 00:47:38,280 --> 00:47:40,800 So every time you turned up and we've gone for a pack to pick 839 00:47:40,800 --> 00:47:42,360 him up because you're his taxi driver. 840 00:47:42,600 --> 00:47:43,760 And he'd go, oh, Gav's just been. 841 00:47:43,920 --> 00:47:46,560 Gav's just been. Bar yeah, I've got. 842 00:47:47,320 --> 00:47:48,960 I've got. I've carried that for long 843 00:47:48,960 --> 00:47:52,240 enough standing. The other big beneficiary of 844 00:47:52,680 --> 00:47:56,840 that was Razzers on Atkinson Rd stopping by there for a mixed 845 00:47:56,840 --> 00:47:58,200 kebab on the way through because. 846 00:48:02,800 --> 00:48:05,640 The DAF thing is, Gav, Adele would have known all along what 847 00:48:05,640 --> 00:48:08,000 we're going. Don't worry about that. 848 00:48:08,000 --> 00:48:11,400 She knew what we're going on. So just to finish you up once 849 00:48:11,400 --> 00:48:13,560 again, please help and support what you can. 850 00:48:14,520 --> 00:48:16,840 Harry would have been 18 on Sunday. 851 00:48:18,120 --> 00:48:21,160 Adele's put some, you know, some great words in helping me to 852 00:48:21,160 --> 00:48:25,760 understand what happened and, and, and through sounds and, and 853 00:48:25,760 --> 00:48:30,120 Adele's mentioned that always on the run up to, to Harry's 854 00:48:30,120 --> 00:48:34,560 birthday, they would always have a little bit of a celebration 855 00:48:34,560 --> 00:48:38,640 and a little bit of a toast. And, and Adele's dad would be 856 00:48:38,920 --> 00:48:43,120 front and centre of that, you know, and unfortunately he 857 00:48:43,120 --> 00:48:47,280 passed away last March. So that is a difficult period 858 00:48:47,280 --> 00:48:51,640 now when it's probably bringing back, you know, what, what you 859 00:48:51,640 --> 00:48:54,480 went through with Harry. And you know, your dad was, you 860 00:48:54,480 --> 00:48:56,240 know, relatively young with that. 861 00:48:56,560 --> 00:48:59,680 So you're going to have a family meal just to toast your dad and 862 00:48:59,680 --> 00:49:03,160 Harry as, as you know, as it comes up to his 18th birthday. 863 00:49:04,160 --> 00:49:06,400 So I really mean it to Dale. You've been so brave. 864 00:49:06,400 --> 00:49:09,720 And thanks very much for putting coming out and telling us what 865 00:49:09,720 --> 00:49:11,720 you've told us. And like I said, if it helps one 866 00:49:11,720 --> 00:49:15,080 person, then you know, then it's work to treat. 867 00:49:15,080 --> 00:49:18,320 So thanks very much, Adele. Thanks very much. 868 00:49:18,320 --> 00:49:21,120 Matthew, Gav, I really appreciate you coming on. 869 00:49:21,120 --> 00:49:23,440 I think it's been the best way of doing this. 870 00:49:23,440 --> 00:49:25,920 We've we were chatting about whether Duke should come on, 871 00:49:25,920 --> 00:49:28,960 whether Joe Martin, whether Gary, but they never easy wants 872 00:49:28,960 --> 00:49:31,280 to do like this. But I can assure you, Adele and 873 00:49:31,280 --> 00:49:33,360 Matthew, people will really appreciate it. 874 00:49:33,360 --> 00:49:35,880 They'll really thank you for for doing what you've done. 875 00:49:35,880 --> 00:49:39,520 So thanks very much and. Thank you. 876 00:49:40,520 --> 00:49:44,200 To the to the older listeners, please continue to like and 877 00:49:44,200 --> 00:49:48,280 subscribe to the to the House cast and and support sounds 878 00:49:48,280 --> 00:49:51,080 wherever you can. So thanks very much everyone for 879 00:49:51,080 --> 00:50:14,120 listening. Gordon Gordon, send more house 880 00:50:14,400 --> 00:50:15,200 to save the house.