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If you have your Bibles with 
you, I'd encourage you to turn 

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to Luke's Gospel Chapter 1. 
Luke's Gospel Chapter 1. 

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It's where we'll be this 
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This can be a very happy time of
year, but it can also be a very 

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difficult time of year if you 
experience loss. 

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And when you are around a lot of
people joyfully celebrating, 

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sometimes their joy can make 
your pain harder and worse. 

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So as we enter into this Advent 
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consider joy, when I talked this
morning about how our joy is 

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commingled with grief and loss 
during this time, you notice 

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there's only one pink candle. 
There are three purple candles. 

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An Advent comes during the 
darkest time of the year, when 

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we are thinking the most perhaps
about our sin and the darkness 

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of ignorance, the darkness of 
pain and loss and the people of 

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faith in hope light, a candle as
an act of resistance to push 

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back against all of the even 
satanic darkness that we 

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experience in this in this life.
And certainly this. 

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Haven't many in our 
congregation, our church family,

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and those that we know are 
suffering greatly? 

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And our prayer for them and for 
ourselves is that we may light 

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the joy candle today and even in
the midst of suffering and loss,

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experience the consolation that 
comes from the gospel. 

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Even as we rehearse these 
stories together, we have 

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profound need for the 
consolation that comes through 

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the gospel by the Holy Spirit. 
We need purpose in a time of 

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madness, when we experience 
senseless loss. 

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We need provision for our needs,
some of whom even have physical 

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needs, whether they are cold or 
hungry. 

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We need freedom from oppression.
We need forgiveness of sins. 

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And all of these themes come 
together during Advent, 

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propelled and powered by the 
words of the text, but also by 

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the songs that we sing. 
And I don't know if you've ever 

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noticed this before, but 
particularly in the words of the

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text, there are songs embedded 
in the Nativity stories. 

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We're going to talk about one of
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highlight and focus on Mary, the
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She sings a song. 
The fancy Latin term for her 

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song is the Magnificat comes 
from the Latin version of her 

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song. 
We'll explore the themes of her 

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music as we think also about the
scenes from her life, explore 

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them and wonder what it means 
for us to have joy in the midst 

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of our sorrow and pain. 
So if you're in Luke's Gospel, 

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chapter 1, we'll begin with the 
Annunciation. 

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This is the scene when Gabriel 
the Angel comes to give Mary 

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some amazing news. 
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beginning in verse 26. 
In the sixth month, the Angel 

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Gabriel was sent from God to a 
city of Galilee named Nazareth 

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to a virgin betrothed to a man 
whose name was Joseph of the 

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House of David. 
And the virgin's name was Mary. 

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And he came to her and said, 
greetings, O favor one favored 

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one. 
The Lord is with you. 

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How would you react? 
Somebody shows up, a stranger 

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you don't know, claiming to be 
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You're going to believe him or 
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crazy. 
There's lots of options here, 

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Verse 29 says. 
But she was greatly troubled. 

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She was greatly troubled at this
saying, and tried to discern 

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what sort of greeting this might
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And the Angel said to her, Do 
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have found favour with God, and 
behold, you will conceive in 

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your womb and bear a son, and 
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He will be great and will be 
called the Son of the Most High,

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and the Lord God will give to 
him the throne of his father 

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David, and he will reign over 
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And of his Kingdom there will be
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Sounds like great news, doesn't 
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The Messiah is coming. 
And Mary, you're the one that's 

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been picked by God especially to
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All sounds great until you're 
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perspective. 
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And so she asked the question 
that you all have in your minds.

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Verse 34. 
And Mary said to the Angel, How 

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will this be, since I am a 
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And the And the Angel answered 
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upon you, and the power of the 
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shadow you. 
Therefore the child to be born 

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will be called holy, the Son of 
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And behold, your relative 
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also conceived a son. 
And this is the 6th month with 

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her whom was called barren. 
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with God. 
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There will be no Father. 

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OK, how does she respond? 
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I am the servant of the Lord, 
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your word. 
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Lest we be too quick to think 
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special honor and glory to Mary,
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devastating this is to her 
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Israelite maiden. 
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response. 
Behold, I am the servant of the 

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Lord. 
Let it be to me according to 

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your word. 
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earth as it is in heaven. 
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heart of faith is open to God. 
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open to God. 
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eventually profound glory and 
privilege, but right now what it

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means is having to come back 
home and tell an unbelievably 

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scandalous story to her mother, 
to her father, and to her 

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betrothed, and to their 
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How are they going to believe 
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How will any of them believe me?
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And it's not just the shame of 
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crazy. 
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It's scandalous. 
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fearing Jews, they may pick up 
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And yet she answers, Would it be
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And then you have this, this 
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enter into this shame, this 
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The story continues. 
And we learned that she goes to 

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visit Elizabeth. 
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If you're following along in 
those days, Mary arose and went 

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with haste into the Hill Country
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And she entered the House of 
Zechariah and greeted Elizabeth.

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And when Elizabeth heard the 
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leaped in her womb. 
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the Holy Spirit. 
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cry. 
Blessed are you among women, and

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blessed is the fruit of your 
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And why is this granted to me, 
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should come to me? 
For behold, when the sound of 

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your greeting came to my ears, 
the baby in my loom, my womb, 

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leaped for joy. 
And blessed is she who believed 

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that there would be a 
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to her from the Lord. 
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believes Mary's story or not, 
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telling. 
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been so comforting and 
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faith of her older, wiser cousin
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sign of fertility in their long,
barren infertility, and to be 

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greeted with such warm 
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Holy Spirit, even to the point 
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womb of Elizabeth, her mother, 
to leap for joy. 

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It's tremendous, tremendously 
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of her need. 
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in the story, is when Mary's 
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Now I don't think that we're 
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her singing, but in the telling 
of this, we have poetry, we have

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music. 
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and announcement with a 
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magnify the Lord here and praise
verse 46. 

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And Mary said, my soul magnifies
the Lord, and my spirit 

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rejoices. 
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Rejoices in God my Savior. 
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state of his servant. 
For behold, from now on all 

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generations will call me 
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For he who is mighty has done 
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And holy is his name, and His 
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From generation to generation. 
He has shown, He has shown 

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strength with His arm. 
He has scattered the proud in 

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the thoughts of their hearts. 
He has brought down the mighty 

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from their Thrones and exalted 
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He has filled the hungry with 
good things, and the rich He has

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sent away empty. 
He has helped His servant Israel

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in remembrance of His mercy, as 
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Abraham, and to his offspring 
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And Mary remained with her about
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home. 
The song of faith rejoices in 

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God. 
The song of faith rejoices in 

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God, often in spite of very 
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Song of faith rejoices in God. 
We can look at this song and 

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just notice a few things. 
We don't have time to go into it

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in a lot of detail, but some 
things to notice from the song 

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of Mary 1st, we see that she 
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Her adoration is to the Lord in 
His person before she mentions 

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any of His deeds. 
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is with us that we worship and 
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before we think about what He's 
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If you're giving gifts at 
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your kids love you too and not 
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The mark of faith is to adore 
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My soul magnifies the Lord, and 
my spirit rejoices in God and my

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Savior. 
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if she's going to talk about 
things that He has done 

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specifically for her, He has 
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His grace comes out of who He is
as a person to save her and to 

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raise her up from her humble 
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down even further by the whisper
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He has looked on the humble 
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Behold, from now on, all 
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blessed. 
Me, the one that has scandal 

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painted all over. 
I will be blessed, for he who is

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mighty has done great things for
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So she talks about her personal 
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one that got his picked for this
part of his story that that will

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give her honor in perpetuity 
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But she also zooms out a little 
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Now for all the God fearers, all
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will experience His mercy. 
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And His mercy is for those who 
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generation. 
That has to do with faith and 

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trust, honor and reverence for 
God. 

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He has shown strength with His 
arm. 

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He has scattered the proud and 
the thoughts of their hearts. 

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He has brought down the mighty 
from their Thrones, and exalted 

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those of humble estate. 
He is filled the hungry with 

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good things, and the rich He has
sent away empty. 

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The people of faith will 
experience a great reversal of 

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their fortunes, a great reversal
of their sufferings, if not in 

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this life, then in the next. 
This is amply illustrated by the

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parable of the rich man in 
Lazarus, isn't it? 

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That's possible to have arrogant
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possible to have humble rich 
people, but it generally runs 

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true that the rich have a harder
time trusting God. 

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Mary experiences the oppression 
of living in a state that is 

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controlled by Rome from a poor 
family, from a throw away, no 

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town village like Nazareth. 
And she looks past all this to 

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see a great exaltation, a great 
reversal for the God fears that 

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is generally all people. 
And then she's going to focus 

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and specifically mention how God
is going to keep his promises to

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Israel, most specifically to 
father Abraham. 

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And I love how this goes so well
with our Genesis story as we've 

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been talking about how God is 
making promises to the 

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patriarchs that are coming down 
the generations and that they're

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not just for him and his family,
but for all of those, the 

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nations who will bow the knee 
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And so we have these beautiful 
sentences about God's grace, 

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first to the Jew, then to the 
Gentiles. 

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He has helped his servant Israel
in remembrance of his mercy as 

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he spoke to our fathers, to 
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forever. 
So she situates herself in God's

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story hooks into the Old 
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Another most interesting thing 
about this song is that it has 

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many parallels to Hannah's song 
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Remember Hannah, Hannah who is 
barren, infertile for years, 

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begging God for a child and has 
finally given a son, Samuel, who

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becomes a great prophet. 
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songs side by side and see how 
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integrated, that Mary. 
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his great grace and favor given 
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So she sings this song of faith.
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going to have to continue to 
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though her story is going to go 
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ups and downs. 
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this point in the sermon is to 
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vignettes, some snapshots of her
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downs of her life as she walks 
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of our Lord. 
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about how her own status 
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scandal will live on her the 
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life, but also in the story as a
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You know, for all of the, the 
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heavenly choirs and the the 
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the nativity, Matthew's Gospel 
points out that crazy King Herod

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commits genocide on a bunch of 
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It's right there in the text, 
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commingled with genocide and 
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go on and we see Jesus next in 
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You know, he's born. 
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temple for him to be presented 
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presented at the temple. 
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of an ominous prophecy that this
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be the cause of the rising and 
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And sorry, Mary, but a sword's 
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heart, too. 
I just thought we were here for 

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the circumcision. 
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heart, too? 
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He's going to be the Messiah. 
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rid of Rome and usher in the 
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What? 
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This time, there's a missing 
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celebrating time in Jerusalem. 
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that the closest I've ever been 
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didn't know where my where my 
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The worst, The worst story we 
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about 30 minutes in the Great 
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Just so you know, that's not the
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No idea where he was. 
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Joseph? 
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somewhere. 
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Where is he? 
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Where is he Finally they finally
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obviously finally found Johnny 
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kind of mingled again and 
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But he only young man says to 
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be about my father's business? 
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got to be like, what does that 
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Let's go. 
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We have this wonderful high 
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a wedding in Cana in Galilee. 
John 2, his mom's there and 

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they're out of wine. 
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Won't you do something about 
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Mary's like, well, it's not my 
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But OK. 
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wine probably the world has ever
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What does it mean here? 
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for Mary. 
That's my boy. 

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This is the good wine. 
Use the masala. 

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But then you find other 
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confused about his mission. 
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brothers and sisters didn't 
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division even within the family.
And they they go to him and they

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try to pull him aside to talk to
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Excuse me. 
Jesus, your your mom's here. 

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She wants to talk to you. 
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right, just a second. 
Let's go. 

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He says, my mom, these folks are
my family. 

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This, these are my brothers and 
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That's another head scratcher. 
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this boy now, man, this Messiah,
my Lord, whom I brought into the

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world, What is he doing? 
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lowest of the lows. 
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crucifixion. 
She is there, the most shameful,

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impossible tragedy in the 
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What was that like for her? 
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what kind of devastation, what 
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be like? 
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parents through the suffering of
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a child, you get just a glimpse 
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I am profoundly moved by 
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Now, you may be thinking of the 
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masterpiece, but that's not what
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I'm thinking of his sculpture 
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Not going to show it to you. 
You can look it up later. 

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It's massive sculpture of G, of 
Mary holding her adult son dead 

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in her lap with her head bowed 
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I think that I could just stare 
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into the maternal grief. 
What does it mean for Mary's 

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soul to be pierced? 
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pierced for our transgressions 
and our iniquities, and she bore

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a significant aspect of the 
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raised him. 
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lowest of lows when the sword 
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chapter 1, where she is with the
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She's experienced something of 
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she knows that the glory is yet 
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heartedness to God, even if it 
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What we learn from Mary is not 
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that comes commingled with 
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points us to her son because her
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person, a joyful, sorrowful 
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He's named as a man of sorrows. 
This Advent's been particularly 

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hard on us. 
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just keeps turning in my mind as
I walk day by day with you all 

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through this time as Man of 
Sorrows. 

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What a name for the Son of God 
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Man of Sorrows, What a name for 
the Son of God who came. 

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Do you feel it? 
Do you bear that burden? 

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Do you walk with some of that 
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Man of Sorrows, what a name. 
But then it goes on to say ruin 

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sinners to reclaim Hallelujah. 
What a savior in the hymn sort 

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of opens up with this, this 
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And that's what Evan's like, 
suffering and exile and 

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loneliness and despair. 
The blackness of night. 

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But then the belligerent face 
that lights a candle anyways and

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pushes back the darkness. 
It's the darkest point of the 

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year. 
And yet we put these little tiny

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lights on the trees to remind us
there's hope. 

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There's even joy in that kind of
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Man of Sorrows. 
What a name. 

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And in the Advent Carol that we 
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oh, come, Emmanuel. 
We're in lonely exile. 

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Mourning, mourning. 
The song is a dirge. 

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And then you get to the opening 
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It's just flowers opening. 
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Rejoice. 
Rejoice. 

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Like, well, what if I don't feel
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That's OK. 
I don't feel like it either 

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sometimes. 
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and sometimes what happens is a 
candle is lit and it spreads 

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through the room and you hear 
the faith of somebody else 

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coming through in a moment of 
joy, and it brightens a little 

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bit and you just take one more 
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Nana Sorrows. 
What a name. 

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He's not just a man of sorrows, 
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He is a man of joy. 
Underneath that sorrow is a well

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and infinite well of profound 
joy, the joy of the Holy Trinity

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itself. 
Endless fountain of joy. 

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GK Chesterton and one of my most
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says this. 
There is something that he hid 

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from all men Jesus, something 
that he hid from all men when he

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went up a mountain to pray. 
There was something that he 

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covered constantly by abrupt 
silence or impetuous isolation. 

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There was something that was too
great for God to show us when he

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walked upon our earth, and I 
have sometimes fancied that it 

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was his mirth. 
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Gospels. 
Maybe get the wrong idea about 

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the guy. 
There's no jokes. 

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He's not kicking it with his 
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But there must be underneath 
this man of Sorrows, A profound 

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and important wellspring of joy 
that is infinite, so much 

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greater than all of our pain and
sin and death and madness and 

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despair. 
And indeed, He not only had that

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within himself, He also had that
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For the book of Hebrews tells us
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Therefore, since we are 
surrounded by so great a cloud 

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of witnesses, let us also lay 
aside every weight and sin which

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clings so so closely, and let us
run with endurance the race that

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is set out before us. 
Look closely looking to Jesus, 

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the founder and perfecter of our
faith, Who for the joy that was 

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set before him endured the 
cross, despising the shame, and 

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is seated at the right hand of 
the throne of God. 

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And that's what Mary is singing 
about. 

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She despises the shame and says,
let it may it be unto me. 

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As you have said. 
Christians, we say the same 

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thing when we say not my will 
but yours be done, or we say 

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your will may be done on earth 
as it is in heaven, which brings

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us to our applications. 
And the first thing that I want 

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to talk about is openness to 
God, openness to God. 

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The heart of faith is open to 
God. 

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It's receptive. 
Hands like this instead of hands

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like this. 
Bible has a very powerful verse 

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in Revelation chapter 3 verse 
20, when Jesus is saying, 

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behold, I stand at the door and 
knock, and if anyone opens a 

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door, I will come in to be with 
him and he will eat with me and 

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I with Him. 
This beautiful image of a closed

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offness and an opening that is 
the spiritual story of every 

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converted believer, but also the
ongoing story of a believer's 

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trying to walk with the Lord and
has to keep their ears open and 

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their heart open to God, their 
hands open to God, their feet 

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open and willing to go where He 
has us to go. 

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You know, in these sermons, 
preachers love and we're no 

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exception to talk about our 
favorite Christmas movies. 

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It's a nice and easy way to 
connect with you. 

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What's your favorite Christmas 
movie? 

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One of my favourites, one that 
we watch every year, is called 

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The Nativity Story. 
The Nativity Story is a dramatic

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reenactment of these of these 
stories. 

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And one part of that film that 
just always kind of has me by 

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the throat, especially as a dad 
and a husband, is when Joseph 

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and Mary are entering into 
Bethlehem and Mary is in 

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pressing labour. 
The scary part of Labour and 

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Joseph is trying to do 
everything that he can to help 

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her to the point at one point 
he's he's carrying her, running 

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through the town screaming out 
for help. 

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Won't anybody help me? 
Pounding on doors and everything

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is just shut off to them, 
closed. 

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And you're thinking about the 
idea that they can't get in, 

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that Jesus is on the outside. 
Even when he's in the womb, he 

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can't get in. 
And then later he's standing at 

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the door and he's knocking. 
And we sing about this idea in 

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Christmas when we refer to our 
own hearts. 

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Is there room in our hearts for 
the Lord Jesus? 

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We all think we would open the 
door. 

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Sure, come on in, have your baby
right over there. 

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Sure, come on, Jesus, let's eat 
together. 

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But what if it means shame and 
suffering and hardness and 

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despair sometimes? 
Are we going to shut the door in

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his face or are we going to open
it and say, come inside, your 

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will be done? 
I don't even know what that 

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00:31:20,080 --> 00:31:22,400
means, but it's better than 
leaving you outside. 

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So I don't know what your story 
is. 

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00:31:26,240 --> 00:31:29,120
Maybe you need to open the door 
for the first time and let Jesus

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in and become a Christian. 
You can say, Lord, I open the 

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door, come in. 
I give my life to you, let it be

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00:31:36,640 --> 00:31:39,120
done unto me according to your 
word. 

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But maybe you're closed off in 
other ways right now. 

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There's a relationship and 
you've just got the door 

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00:31:44,360 --> 00:31:47,400
slammed, or the Lord's trying to
get through to you in your 

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devotional life or through a 
persistent friend that's saying 

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00:31:50,560 --> 00:31:52,160
there's a problem, there's a 
problem, there's a problem, and 

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you're just like this. 
So let us, let U.S. 

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Open our hearts to Him, open our
ears to Him, open our hands to 

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Him, that we may experience His 
joy even in the midst of 

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suffering. 
Second move has to go along with

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the musical themes, Sir. 
One of our favorite times of the

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00:32:16,080 --> 00:32:18,400
year, We bring out the good 
songs. 

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We have good songs all year 
long, don't we? 

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00:32:21,680 --> 00:32:24,880
But there's something particular
about the Advent songs and the 

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00:32:24,880 --> 00:32:27,280
Christmas carols. 
And if you notice, and you 

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continue to think about it, how 
often sorrow and joy are 

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00:32:30,840 --> 00:32:34,160
commingled in those songs. 
They're just so deeply honest. 

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They're just loaded with all 
kinds of theological truths 

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about our resources in the 
gospel. 

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As the God of grace has regard 
for you and regard for me, maybe

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you don't feel like singing. 
Maybe singing is hard right now,

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00:32:50,720 --> 00:32:54,200
but one of the ways we can 
continue to keep our openness to

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God is to sing even when it's 
hard. 

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00:32:58,560 --> 00:33:02,000
Because through the rehearsal of
those words, sometimes even 

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00:33:02,000 --> 00:33:07,680
lamenting reward words, we are 
amazed at how often a a candle 

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00:33:07,680 --> 00:33:10,760
is kindled. 
We're given hope for one more 

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00:33:10,760 --> 00:33:13,840
day, light for one more dark 
night. 

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Let us sing and sing together. 
And the third move has to do 

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00:33:21,760 --> 00:33:26,760
with rejoicing. 
And that that could be hard too.

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00:33:26,760 --> 00:33:30,080
You don't want to tell somebody 
who's grieving to just be happy.

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00:33:30,080 --> 00:33:38,200
Now we lit the pink candle. 
That's unhelpful, but it is very

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00:33:38,280 --> 00:33:44,520
telling and helpful when you 
walk with somebody in a way that

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00:33:44,520 --> 00:33:51,400
they understand and experience 
as a cons, A consoling presence.

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00:33:51,880 --> 00:33:57,480
When that person blesses you 
with an embedded joy through 

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00:33:57,480 --> 00:34:00,920
their profound suffering, you'll
be like, oh, that's that's what 

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00:34:00,920 --> 00:34:04,920
that means, to grieve with hope.
That's what that means when the 

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00:34:04,920 --> 00:34:08,639
gospel comes through horrible 
shame and sorrow and suffering 

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00:34:08,639 --> 00:34:12,920
and despair and refuses to be 
snuffed out. 

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00:34:14,400 --> 00:34:17,480
As a pastor, I've gone and 
through hard things with people,

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00:34:17,480 --> 00:34:20,120
and I've been with them through 
very difficult moments. 

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00:34:20,840 --> 00:34:24,159
And you kind of go in full of 
like, fear and trembling and 

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00:34:24,159 --> 00:34:26,080
you're nervous. 
I hope I don't say anything 

498
00:34:26,080 --> 00:34:30,280
wrong and make it worse. 
And so often you go in there and

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00:34:30,280 --> 00:34:34,960
just plan to be with them, 
perhaps have a word of Scripture

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00:34:34,960 --> 00:34:37,520
or a prayer. 
And I'm amazed at how often 

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00:34:37,520 --> 00:34:45,639
these believers turn the tables 
on Pastor Dan and give me a gift

502
00:34:45,639 --> 00:34:50,719
of consolation. 
I went in there intending to say

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00:34:50,719 --> 00:34:53,000
something to you and you blessed
me. 

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00:34:53,000 --> 00:34:56,920
And I will come away from 
another hospital drive or 

505
00:34:56,920 --> 00:35:00,640
Funeral Home thinking, do I have
any faith at all? 

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00:35:00,640 --> 00:35:03,680
Because those people are are 
true believers. 

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00:35:03,680 --> 00:35:07,440
Because look, look at how the 
Lord meets them in their deep 

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00:35:07,440 --> 00:35:11,400
need. 
They are still honestly crying 

509
00:35:11,400 --> 00:35:15,840
and dealing with their grief and
allowing it to go through the 

510
00:35:15,840 --> 00:35:17,920
lament and the cry of the heart,
even the anger. 

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00:35:17,920 --> 00:35:19,840
But yet they still like the 
Psalms. 

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00:35:20,040 --> 00:35:24,600
They turn the corner often and 
say, and yet, Dan, you know, I 

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00:35:24,600 --> 00:35:26,840
just have to tell you. 
There's all these little graces 

514
00:35:26,840 --> 00:35:29,040
that I'm noticing. 
Can I tell you about? 

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00:35:29,520 --> 00:35:34,520
And I'm just like, yes, thank 
you. 

516
00:35:36,600 --> 00:35:41,520
And I don't want to stand up 
here and sort of prescribe that 

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00:35:41,520 --> 00:35:46,360
to y'all as totally normal. 
I think it's a miracle of divine

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00:35:46,360 --> 00:35:50,040
love and it's a testimony that 
it happens often. 

519
00:35:50,600 --> 00:35:53,720
But I don't want to be like the 
jerk friends in the Book of Job 

520
00:35:54,040 --> 00:35:57,000
that press people too hard into 
that space before they're ready.

521
00:35:57,760 --> 00:36:01,520
So there's this right way to 
walk with people in their grief,

522
00:36:01,520 --> 00:36:02,720
and you're going to get it 
wrong. 

523
00:36:03,120 --> 00:36:09,120
I do. 
And yet we can admit and learn 

524
00:36:09,160 --> 00:36:14,360
from Mary and from Jesus and 
from countless Saints that have 

525
00:36:14,360 --> 00:36:18,200
gone before, that we are a 
people of sorrows. 

526
00:36:18,880 --> 00:36:25,080
But underneath our sorrows is a 
an infinite fountain of 

527
00:36:25,080 --> 00:36:29,760
unquenchable joy, and it will 
burst forth like a geyser when 

528
00:36:29,760 --> 00:36:34,560
the Lord Jesus returns and 
finally wipes away all the tears

529
00:36:34,560 --> 00:36:39,840
from our eyes and settles once 
and for all the sin question. 

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00:36:40,120 --> 00:36:47,440
And we live forever with him as 
the light radiating into our 

531
00:36:47,440 --> 00:36:50,040
existence. 
Perfect love. 

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00:36:51,360 --> 00:36:52,760
That's our story, that's our 
song. 

533
00:36:54,360 --> 00:37:00,080
So to conclude, we see in Mary 
that Mary teaches us to receive 

534
00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:05,840
God's grace with faith and joy 
even when it means suffering as 

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00:37:05,840 --> 00:37:08,720
well as glory. 
Will you pray with me? 

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00:37:10,280 --> 00:37:14,800
Father in Heaven, we thank you 
for Holy Scriptures that are 

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00:37:14,800 --> 00:37:19,960
able to make us wise and godly 
by the miracle of redeeming love

538
00:37:20,440 --> 00:37:22,120
in our hearts by the Holy 
Spirit. 

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00:37:23,040 --> 00:37:26,800
We pray, Lord, that it would go 
down deep into our hearts and 

540
00:37:26,800 --> 00:37:33,440
continue to bear much fruit. 
We pray for a joy that's 

541
00:37:33,440 --> 00:37:37,320
underneath it all, especially 
for those in our communion who 

542
00:37:37,320 --> 00:37:39,680
are going through very hard 
time. 

543
00:37:40,000 --> 00:37:42,400
Lift them up, bless them, we 
pray. 

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00:37:42,800 --> 00:37:44,880
It's in Jesus name We pray by 
the Spirit. 

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00:37:45,440 --> 00:37:45,920
Amen.
