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Hi, I'm Amy Shepherd. 
I'm locked and Stewart and 

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although we have different last 
names, we're married. 

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Now, we've been told the secret 
to a successful marriage is 

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communication. 
So we're going to talk it out 

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every week. 
Share our challenges, and pet 

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peeves. 
Then we're setting each other. 

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Some goals, some couple goals, 
couple goals. 

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The podcast is for those who 
might be looking to life their 

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way through challenging 
scenarios that all couples. 

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Go through occasionally. 
We might even get some other 

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couples to join in. 
Yeah, you'd like that. 

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Hit, subscribe and tune in. 
Every week to hear our weekly 

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couple goals. 
Episode. 

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Welcome back Ashley. 
Now, I feel like I'm too quiet. 

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Can you talk? 
Hey, that's a little bit quiet 

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now. 
Yeah, there's just a buzzer. 

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So my turn that. 
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All right. 
Well episode 31, we had some 

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technicalities of technical 
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I've got a buzzer set up on the 
phone and it was extremely loud.

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So we turn the volume down and 
then I couldn't hear Amy, so I 

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didn't like that. 
But anyway, we are filming very 

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early this morning. 
So if I lie, if you're watching 

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on patreon and I look like crap.
It's because it's 7 a.m. and I 

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must be lonely person. 
If you've heard some of the 

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other podcast, you must be 
lonely. 

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But would you just do? 
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So, you'll probably notice last 
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cranky mood to start. 
I'm still waking up, I'm 

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defroster, name is defrosting 
and I said best way to defrost 

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is to give me ten squats so she 
gave us 10 squats and how do you

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feel after that? 
I feel tired still and she feels

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tight. 
It's Ella tree, the squats down 

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actually work. 
We've had a wild way. 

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It's been a fun week for us as a
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me individually. 
I feel like it just got busy 

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really quickly like we didn't 
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anything. 
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up. 
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I'm going to get sick which is 
not good because I've got a show

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next week. 
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we fun. 
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Anyway, let's keep on pushing 
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through. 
This will be fun. 

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So this week we were on the last
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we've been on a couple of 
podcasts which was found for us.

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Yeah. 
We've never been on a podcast 

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together as guests being 
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It was actually really different
Dynamic. 

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Wasn't it? 
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How did you find it? 
I liked it. 

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It was actually nice. 
Not having to like think you do 

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have to think but we're like 
direct it. 

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It was nice. 
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Having someone directed and The 
questions rather than us just so

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pantry and bickering. 
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than one thing that became 
apparent was just how much Amy 

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does not like me talking over 
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So I'm going to do my best to 
bite my tongue. 

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I just get so excited, like when
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I forget things very quickly, so
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it's fine to like Fanta, it 
sometimes like I'm on a roll and

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then you just coming off and you
just going to pick you. - it for

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my coffee. 
You can lift that coffee. 

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I had no second second. 
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I don't drink too much of it, 
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really fun. 
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Dawson d show which will come 
out in a few weeks and Amy will 

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share it in the patreon. 
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probably share it on socials and
then we run, rebill rebuild, 

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health and fitness and are two 
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Yeah, the first one with Dawson 
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Was a couple of young guys from 
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Yeah. 
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Really great guys. 
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chat about who we are. 
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relationship stuff. 
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Pretty laid-back. 
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It was fun like it was relaxed. 
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hear. 
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Two other people like and vice 
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Yeah. 
Because normally I don't know it

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feels like a bit wanker ish. 
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about you in some things. 
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normally yeah. 
That too because it's not like 

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you were speaking to me. 
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I was. 
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It'd be kind of weird. 
I don't know. 

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It's maybe not when Trish, why 
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Why don't you say those nice 
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Well, I do say, I think I do say
the nice Things but it's I think

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it's different. 
What like, if I were to stand 

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here and say those nice things 
to you, but it's different. 

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When you can hear your partner, 
describing how they feel about 

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you or how you've Impacted their
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Because it's not like I can say 
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and stuff, but I'm not going to 
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were there. 
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describe the actual context of 
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So when you're explaining it to 
someone else, you've got to give

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it context that I can understand
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So I think, yeah, it's just a 
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I feel when we doing podcast 
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interviewing people. 
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interviewed by people, they're 
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Ways of communicating and even 
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it's different. 
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Yeah, it was really cool and 
then the second podcast was we 

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went on more of a deep dive. 
We went deep, we spoke a lot 

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about body image because the 
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what's the podcast called their 
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So same thing once that goes 
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then eventually we'll share the 
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Yeah. 
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body image. 
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Cuz he is a dietitian and owns a
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fitness which is a gym and 
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So it was great to have a chat 
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Space. 
Ace a professional about body 

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image. 
We nervous about that one. 

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Yeah, of course, I don't want to
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I mean, it's a really touchy 
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it's triggering. 
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canceled. 
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cancel, but Because honestly 
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that's, I think you're, we can 
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quickly. 
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though sometimes it when you do 
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you always going to get varying 
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Yeah, you can never I don't know
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something. 
That all 7 billion people on 

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Earth, just go up top high five.
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It's like yeah there was 
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I shared it in our family chat, 
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this in name is patreon because 
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eye-opening, just around, Ai and
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So a guy called Jonathan haidt. 
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happiness, 10% happier and he's 
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psychologist. 
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more books, has got two more 
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one with the former CEO of 
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a I will make to this is a 
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but a I will soon make social 
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children who proceeds to go on. 
I'll just go back to my sub 

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stack, sorry to was impromptu. 
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they weren't back in the day 
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these social media platforms? 
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love to just be connected at how
cool is it that can be connected

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to people all around the world 
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that they were doing. 
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My or even the guy from Google 
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people wouldn't adapt like 
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connected, we thought hey there 
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where they thought we would all 
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just made the US versus you even
bigger because as people want to

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grow their followings and stuff 
like that. 

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So even though a lot of people 
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marketing themself or what 
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credibility is more important to
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and being more, you know, 
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So people are selfish, it was a 
wild article but the books is 

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got set first second book coming
out his life after Babel which I

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don't know how Bible is adapting
to a world. 

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We can no longer share. 
So obviously, see, we can't, you

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know, Resonate with everyone in 
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Hence, why there's a lot of 
hatred and trolling and stuff on

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the internet because it's like 
your story in the way you see 

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the world. 
Someone who's even watching this

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podcast Mike. 
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That Amy's completely off the 
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take it to heart rather than 
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empathizing and compassionate 
and putting your birth and your 

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fluffy slippers on. 
Can you show though can you get 

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your legs up there and show the 
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from the hit now, you're too 
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hammies that she's got these 
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On that are just unbelievable. 
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And the first book is going to 
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generation, how smart phones and
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health, and block the path to 
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So I've wrote those books down. 
So when they come out, I'm going

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to buy them and read them, but 
I'll share this. 

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Do you want me to share this in 
your Patron? 

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Sure. 
It's fucking wild. 

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And then there's a full essay 
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got that, but we're that. 
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So for the boring, what were we 
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We're talking about rebuild 
health and fitness how we do 

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have deep, oh yeah, being 
canceled being cancelled and how

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you worried about it. 
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big enough to be cancelled, 
like, I could, but it's not as 

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significant as you been 
canceled. 

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Yeah, I mean, I've been canceled
before so it's fine but yeah. 

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It's Touchy subject and I think 
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Well, everyone has different 
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talk around obesity which I 
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Talking about it with a health 
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I'm not a health professional, 
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think we kind of had a similar. 
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say and so you'll have to listen
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don't, it's too early for us to 
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Yeah, it's like okay, this 
slightly humorous. 

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But humorous, we're not actually
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That's probably the funny part 
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moment. 
Well, let's dive into the red 

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apart or should we should we get
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Okay, you go first, right? 
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was like, what some stuff going 
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relationships at the moment. 
Hansford a couple girls. 

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The first thing that popped up 
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Dating Trend. 
That's Rife in Australia exposed

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by a Mmm, ha. 
Oh, come out and I was just 

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like, Daily mail's written is, 
it's got to be legit. 

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It's got to be like a gold 
standard article, so I dove deep

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into it and so you click that. 
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How could you not? 
He took the bait. 

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How can, you know, click on that
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That's just got me going. 
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has exposed to sick, modern, 
dating encounter that she's 

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endured recently. 
Prompting others to agree. 

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It's a huge issue. 
Here's a few quotes that I I 

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took but then we'll go into I'll
paraphrase it. 

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We can talk about it because I 
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and a lot of you maybe all your 
most of the listeners are 

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probably in relationships, but 
if you're not Might be helpful. 

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I have been made to feel so, so 
bad by guys for communicating my

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basic needs and putting personal
boundaries in place, Kim 

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continued. 
So I think that was about, I 

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think the lady who wrote this 
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but was interviewed and she's 
just like upfront about she 

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wants children and that scares 
people away. 

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So I think that's important. 
Yeah. 

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I think that's important because
there's no point being with 

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someone if you want. 
Yeah. 

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You gotta have boundaries 100%. 
And then obviously, they 

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interviewed a lot of Men to see 
if it works on both sides of the

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fence. 
And yes, quote from one man, 

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that's how we identified in this
responsibility lies with both. 

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Social media has ruined at 
expectations is so high. 

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Plenty of good people out there,
okay? 

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And so I didn't insightful 
quote, that was very inside, the

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journalism was through the roof.
I'm always Blown Away with how 

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good it is. 
So what? 

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Anyway, so the purpose was like 
there was some main points that 

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a lot of people were then 
discuss and there were more 

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quite a lot of people were 
discussing. 

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In this interview around being 
ghosted, breadcrumbed was one, 

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which I can't remember, what 
brothers bombed having. 

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Yeah, love poem, twas one and I 
was one more. 

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And then obviously I went diving
down, like, what? 

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All that stuff is all this stuff
existed before dating apps. 

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Anyway, it's just that. 
Now we've we have social media 

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so we like to use Buzz words 
around it. 

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Yeah. 
Thank you getting close to me. 

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Do you know what happens when we
get too close as much as I love 

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it for the podcast when we snap 
this up into real. 

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All's, I can't get, we can't get
our own shots because I angered 

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it up to the wall. 
So you're good and probably 

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face. 
Yes. 

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Sorry, guys, you know, I'm, I'm 
producer. 

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I'm director. 
I'm a host doing it all the 

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Commando, the Commando, I forgot
was saying again because you're 

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moving me around. 
So I just wanted. 

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You were about to be something 
inside for. 

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No. 
But you were saying how you feel

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all of these things have been 
around much before social media.

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Yeah. 
Like you know, love-bombing is 

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when somebody showers you in 
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get you hooked and then they 
kind of like become their true 

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selves and start to ignore your 
ghost. 

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You or that. 
Yeah. 

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Right. 
And but then it leaves you like 

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in love with them and they love 
because they're Narcissists. 

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So, you know that's not a new 
thing. 

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And what's the other one 
breadcrumbs? 

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Yeah, that's when you like, you 
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bit of love and then ghost and 
then come back. 

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Oh sorry. 
I've been away how you were 

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expecting busy people and then 
like go ghost away. 

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So just really trying to get in 
your knickers everyday. 

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Yeah, I just like the you 
leaving breadcrumbs, so they 

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stay in love with you. 
You're not loved by me than 

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ghosting but you're you know, 
what I would call that it just 

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like Hansel and Gretel like 
following them around. 

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If I was to buzz word that I'd 
call it fan tailing like if 

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someone left a I'll travel for 
me, I'd be all over it and tells

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the chocolate, they're 
delicious? 

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Yeah, yeah. 
Well, it's interesting. 

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I what are your thoughts? 
Then around social media. 

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So we were obviously together 
before the tender was around 10 

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years ago. 
Nine years ago but it was like 

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frowned upon. 
Yeah. 

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What are your thoughts about? 
Obviously now you can jump on. 

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It's like It's all about like 
the visuals. 

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I've had to look. 
And it's also so convenient to 

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go. 
I'll see how I throw the line 

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out to this person, but why I'm 
waiting and I'm bored. 

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I'm just going to find another 
couple. 

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Yeah, it didn't, you think 
that's positive or negative? 

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I think it's a great way to meet
people because it's so it can be

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really hard to meet people but I
think people are hiding behind 

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these apps as well. 
It doesn't allow people to grow 

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their communication skills or 
Their social skills, you know, 

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about having to go up to a woman
in the bar. 

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And yeah, I don't know, but it's
also good because people get to 

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connect in this shy people. 
Yeah. 

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Hide behind their phones. 
I don't know. 

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What do you reckon? 
I inferior like the convenience 

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of it because you can, if you 
use it I don't know how to set 

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it up, but I would assume you 
could find one obviously visuals

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are important to some people, it
does cut out. 

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Out the fact like some people 
might have great Charisma or a 

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lot of that sort of stuff that 
you may not get to see if you 

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don't swipe the right way 
because of how they look. 

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Yeah, there's plenty of people 
that like, I've been attracted 

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to who will like not 
conventionally good-looking me, 

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but I have great Charisma. 
You're good-looking as well last

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because you're mad at me. 
Yeah, it's so sad that people 

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are missing out on some great 
connections because of I've seen

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a photo that, you know, just so 
face value, but then, again, 

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there's apps, like hinge, the 
guys are talking box was talking

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about. 
Yeah, and they were saying that 

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hinge is not really about 
photos, but surely have a photo 

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of the, yeah, I still feel 
though. 

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Like, even communication through
text message, like, even I can 

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interpret a text message wrong 
with you. 

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We've been together for so long 
and depending on how you feel, 

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you could interpret a message in
any, which way, even if it's a 

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good morning and if I'm in a 
foul mood, or We had a bond 

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either night but more night 
before. 

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I might not interpret it in a 
way that's beneficial to our 

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relationship. 
So I think like if you're trying

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to tune someone on a text, 
you're still missing a lot of 

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like the communicational cues 
like body language vocals. 

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All of that sort of stuff and I 
also feel That people are 

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looking for The Prince and the 
princess lie straight away. 

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They, if there's a floor there 
like not, that's a red flag 

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straight away. 
Whereas if we look at our 

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relationship as a result, as an 
example, You would have 

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potentially swept the okay way 
on me. 

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Hmm. 
My chat would have been terrible

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because I was a poor 
Communicator. 

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Yeah and then I might have 
shared, you know, I've done this

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with that new adjustment that 
this dude's not where I want him

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to be. 
And I know there's a lot of data

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especially around women 
depending on where you're at. 

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Career-wise, they don't want to 
date a bloke who's not as 

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successful. 
So they're already automatically

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cutting out a pool of blokes 
yeah. 

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And so, for example, if that 
were you, you would have looked 

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at me and gone that no chance. 
So but where I'm going, is that 

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is a cool thing about us is that
we've grown together? 

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Yeah, and you've been patient 
with me in that growth to now, 

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where the point where I am a lot
better than I used to be, and I 

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think people don't patient 
enough. 

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No, but is that such a bad 
thing? 

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Like, whoa. 
Okay, you miss out on something 

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that maybe you find something 
else that does sound. 

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And you don't have to go through
the growing pains. 

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But then, maybe that's like you 
need that. 

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I don't know that experience 
together to be a stronger 

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couple. 
Yeah, I think you can appreciate

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it seeing someone's growth as 
opposed to just looking for this

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perfect person. 
And yeah, and then hardships 

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make the good times better. 
Yeah. 

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And a lot of data supports the 
fact that Women are struggling 

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because I aren't have been. 
There's so much data proving 

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that like women's pool of dating
is so hard to find because they 

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don't want to date, anyone who's
not as successful as them and 

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then also they're not they're 
wanting that perfect thing 

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straight away and the data it 
works both sides but it's a lot 

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stronger around females. 
What about men wanting the woman

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who looks like a fucking 
supermodel? 

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Then it's funny, the data. 
Yeah. 

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Obviously more visually 
appealing but it's like 90, 80. 

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Something percent of blokes are 
just swiping right to try and 

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meet someone even not visually. 
It's so I think it does that. 

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It does that data show up? 
Because then just swipe any hole

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is a goal or a lot of variables,
isn't it? 

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Not any holes that goal? 
I don't know. 

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That's disgusting. 
Well, I go. 

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That from you. 
What toy is for me. 

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So I'm sure I'm not the first 
place. 

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Come on, let's it wasn't in 
context of you. 

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Yeah, let's move forward. 
Let's move forward. 

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Okay, over the, your Reddit 
story anyway, I don't even know.

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That was my thing, so we 
discussed. 

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It's done. 
That's going to bed. 

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My great segue, my Reddit story.
I don't think I need to get my 

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phone for. 
It's a really short headline and

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that is I caught my girlfriend. 
And cheating on me with an AI 

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Bots. 
Hold on. 

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So is the girlfriend cheating on
with the AI Bots? 

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Yeah, look I'm now mind blown. 
I thought when you mentioned it 

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before you're talking about a 
bloke and I was like there's a 

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lot of weird dudes out there who
future is now. 

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People are already having 
relationship issues because of a

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I so she had obviously been like
horny texting with this a I 

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bought. 
And he's seen the chat and he's 

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like I don't know how to feel 
like it. 

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Not a real person but it's like 
she's gone to something else so 

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she would have been in Pleasure 
Town while talking to a 

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computer. 
Yeah, I guess that is the I I'm 

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not I'm not surprised that it's 
a female because, you know, 

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women are always into like, 
erotica, you know, with their, I

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didn't know this. 
I'm actually, I'm actually the 

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shades of great women really get
turned on by reading erotica, 

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whereas men are more visual. 
So yeah fun fact for you. 

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So it doesn't surprise me that 
it's a woman like and this is 

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like next-level erotica where 
she can actually why interact. 

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So I just think this is like a 
woman version of a new age 

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version of porn for women. 
I have so many questions for 

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you. 
Why is it? 

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That women get turned on by 
reading. 

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It's just the way our brains 
worked. 

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So does that work for you? 
I don't know. 

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Maybe I should try it. 
Yeah, I'm gonna go buy it. 

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Say that I've read Fifty Shades 
of Grey or anything like that, 

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I'm going to. 
That's like yeah, I've read that

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data before. 
Well, any gentleman listening 

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and it makes sense because you 
know like Twilight and I like in

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Twilight. 
Did you read it though? 

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Know you watched it. 
Yeah so that's fascinating. 

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Well, Interesting. 
It's weird that I my first 

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thought was that's got to be a 
bloke, like I didn't even listen

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to who you said it was. 
I was just assumption. 

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That's definitely do doing that.
Yeah, I know, dudes, just go 

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straight to point out. 
Whatever it is. 

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What's the other one red tube? 
Yes. 

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Not that, I noticed, Grapevine. 
Yeah, right there. 

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So there you go. 
That's that's fascinating. 

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I am, I've got chat apt open 
over there so we'll test it out 

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with you after If I were him I 
wouldn't be too worried about it

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because I mean he has to ask 
himself, does he watch porn? 

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Yeah, good point. 
And if he does and he can't be 

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mad. 
It's enemy. 

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Wonder if I don't know. 
It's going to open a whole is AI

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is going to get more advanced 
eventually it's so scary. 

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They're going to put AI into 
robots and then put a into what 

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pretty much is our psyche has 
our phone is an extension of us.

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It's just not inside us. 
We can open it up and do that 

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now. 
And then they're going to start 

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putting like in dildos and 
flashlights on it. 

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A well they'll just make it like
a robot that you can Bang. 

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Six robots with that you can 
talk to and knows what you like 

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knows your kinks and really like
to do that. 

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That's creepy. 
That's the Erica. 

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That's crossing a line for those
who are watching the show toes 

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down but for those who are 
listening, I was clinically 

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humping lucky. 
They don't need to description. 

452
00:24:21,300 --> 00:24:26,000
Well I think it's pretty you got
it. 

453
00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:29,900
I could have thought it was like
Vanessa, oh yeah. 

454
00:24:31,100 --> 00:24:35,000
But well, yeah, it's good. 
I think a eyes gonna really 

455
00:24:35,000 --> 00:24:37,500
causing trouble in the 
relationship world. 

456
00:24:39,300 --> 00:24:42,500
And also are called can't find 
women. 

457
00:24:42,800 --> 00:24:44,600
Is that what you're saying? 
Yeah, I reckon there's going to 

458
00:24:44,608 --> 00:24:48,700
be a lot like, for some reason. 
My, my belief is as a lot, 

459
00:24:48,800 --> 00:24:53,200
actually, once again, listen to 
a podcast, a lot of data showing

460
00:24:53,300 --> 00:24:56,100
how lonely a lot of men are and 
they just sort of sit inside. 

461
00:24:56,100 --> 00:24:58,500
And once again data, I'm going 
to quote it because I can't 

462
00:24:58,500 --> 00:25:00,900
remember it. 
But I'll people want to know or 

463
00:25:00,900 --> 00:25:05,700
send them in around how lonely a
lot of men are and they're 

464
00:25:05,700 --> 00:25:08,900
literally just sitting at home. 
Smoking weed playing video. 

465
00:25:09,100 --> 00:25:11,900
Is watching porn, and it's why 
there's a lot of angry men 

466
00:25:11,900 --> 00:25:15,000
because they aren't. 
So, obviously socializing and 

467
00:25:15,000 --> 00:25:19,000
developing those skills, which 
is crazy scary. 

468
00:25:19,500 --> 00:25:23,200
So here would be my advice. 
Don't watch porn. 

469
00:25:23,500 --> 00:25:28,700
What's your wife? 
Two women don't read sexual 

470
00:25:28,700 --> 00:25:31,100
stuff. 
Read your bloke. 

471
00:25:32,300 --> 00:25:34,600
Get your husband to read. 
Fifty Shades of Grey tea. 

472
00:25:34,600 --> 00:25:39,000
Yeah, or just write words on 
your whizzer of kidding. 

473
00:25:39,300 --> 00:25:42,900
That's too far, sorry. 
But it is interesting and maybe 

474
00:25:42,900 --> 00:25:45,900
it is an insight into her Kinks 
or whatever she likes. 

475
00:25:45,900 --> 00:25:48,300
I'm actually yeah maybe run with
that run with it. 

476
00:25:48,300 --> 00:25:51,500
Maybe you guys. 
Can you say hi chat but together

477
00:25:51,900 --> 00:25:55,300
to yeah, maybe you can talk in a
robot. 

478
00:25:55,400 --> 00:25:57,700
Voice. 
Oh my God. 

479
00:25:58,100 --> 00:26:08,500
I'm so horny for you. 
People think we ought to do our 

480
00:26:08,500 --> 00:26:11,600
pet peeves, hot on we've. 
Wait, hey, you got some candy 

481
00:26:11,600 --> 00:26:13,200
left. 
Drink it cold, though. 

482
00:26:13,200 --> 00:26:20,300
Ready Set? 
That's a good Buzz. 

483
00:26:20,300 --> 00:26:23,400
Ah, that was around every week 
because you still haven't well, 

484
00:26:23,800 --> 00:26:29,400
yeah, I got so much on. 
So that brings me to my pet pig.

485
00:26:29,400 --> 00:26:33,200
Rocky has got so much on. 
He's got the perfect schedule 

486
00:26:33,200 --> 00:26:36,900
and he manages to fit everything
in like a Tetris block. 

487
00:26:36,900 --> 00:26:40,700
As we've heard like a Tetris 
block before I like that, but he

488
00:26:40,700 --> 00:26:46,200
hasn't Managed to incorporate. 
I just haven't prioritized it. 

489
00:26:46,500 --> 00:26:50,800
Time to put away his clothes so 
you're going to say put the 

490
00:26:50,800 --> 00:26:52,700
buzzer on. 
You have to wash your clothes 

491
00:26:52,700 --> 00:26:54,700
anymore. 
You get them folded. 

492
00:26:54,800 --> 00:26:58,000
Well, here's can I ra but and 
no, I'm not done yet. 

493
00:26:58,100 --> 00:27:00,700
And they just sit in the basket 
and the pile is growing and 

494
00:27:00,700 --> 00:27:04,900
growing and growing there used 
to be this ghost around home 

495
00:27:04,900 --> 00:27:07,500
that if I'd leave it there long 
enough it just end up in my 

496
00:27:07,500 --> 00:27:09,300
cupboards and I don't know where
it's gone. 

497
00:27:09,600 --> 00:27:11,600
It's gone. 
It must come with the 

498
00:27:11,600 --> 00:27:13,300
lighthouse. 
I've gone to the other side. 

499
00:27:14,000 --> 00:27:17,200
Yeah, well look in my defense, 
actually, there's not really a 

500
00:27:17,208 --> 00:27:18,700
defense but I'll just throw 
something in. 

501
00:27:18,800 --> 00:27:20,700
Throw a ball in the air and see 
if you catch it. 

502
00:27:22,600 --> 00:27:25,700
I was saying I even I said it 
before but all these extra 

503
00:27:25,700 --> 00:27:27,500
things just keep popping up 
advances. 

504
00:27:27,500 --> 00:27:30,400
Like now we're going to the 
coast I'd started at their 

505
00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:33,100
beginning the week which is why 
I was a bit apprehensive about 

506
00:27:33,100 --> 00:27:35,500
going to the coast because that 
was when I was going to get my 

507
00:27:35,500 --> 00:27:39,600
life admin done and now so we're
all going to the coast how good?

508
00:27:39,600 --> 00:27:42,600
I'm like that's good but there's
a lot of things that I was 

509
00:27:42,600 --> 00:27:45,100
planning on doing this weekend 
that now I'm going to get done. 

510
00:27:45,300 --> 00:27:47,600
Oh, you planning on folding, 
your clothes I was going to do 

511
00:27:47,600 --> 00:27:49,300
that is going to clean this 
office out. 

512
00:27:49,300 --> 00:27:52,800
Like it just gives me anxiety. 
Has been thrown and Catch it. 

513
00:27:52,900 --> 00:27:57,000
I missed it actually, because 
conch, I'm just hearing excuses.

514
00:27:57,000 --> 00:28:00,300
All you have to do is put them 
in your pigeon hole. 

515
00:28:00,700 --> 00:28:05,300
I'm a, she can't catch as well. 
All right, I guess what your 

516
00:28:05,300 --> 00:28:10,200
goal is this week today. 
All you do is put your clothes, 

517
00:28:10,500 --> 00:28:16,600
all right? 
Well the cupboard, what's your 

518
00:28:16,600 --> 00:28:17,100
pet? 
Peeve? 

519
00:28:17,200 --> 00:28:23,200
My pet peeve, this week is 
probably countering. the tetris 

520
00:28:23,200 --> 00:28:31,100
block, you'll like A sandbag 
with the time or actually a bag 

521
00:28:31,100 --> 00:28:35,400
of rice with a snip cut off the 
top, and some are just going 

522
00:28:37,800 --> 00:28:40,200
shaking and shits going 
everywhere. 

523
00:28:40,800 --> 00:28:47,700
Like Chaos and for me as we 
spoke about did we speak about 

524
00:28:47,700 --> 00:28:50,300
on the last episode where I was 
like even just trying to get you

525
00:28:50,300 --> 00:28:54,900
locked in for a podcast episode 
or so many other things is like 

526
00:28:55,400 --> 00:28:58,800
any bit of routine to sit down 
and do things as I really really

527
00:28:58,800 --> 00:29:03,300
hard unless it's like let's do 
it right now and so that really 

528
00:29:04,300 --> 00:29:10,100
marks up my Tetris. 
So we maybe you're mucking up my

529
00:29:10,100 --> 00:29:15,700
rice bag. 
Everyone knows discipline equals

530
00:29:15,700 --> 00:29:18,700
Freedom, time management, helps 
you be disciplined. 

531
00:29:19,200 --> 00:29:23,800
And in order you're going to 
don't get, don't coach me, man. 

532
00:29:25,000 --> 00:29:27,700
I'm just helping because I know 
you're a busy girl. 

533
00:29:27,700 --> 00:29:30,400
You got a lot of things going 
on, which means the busier you 

534
00:29:30,400 --> 00:29:33,000
get. 
Imagine if we had kids or stuff 

535
00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:35,400
like that, you got to manage 
your time like a mofo. 

536
00:29:35,900 --> 00:29:38,600
Okay. 
So we need to prioritize the 

537
00:29:38,600 --> 00:29:40,800
things that are important, you 
don't do things on a whim, like 

538
00:29:40,800 --> 00:29:42,900
I'm actually feeling my nails 
today. 

539
00:29:43,200 --> 00:29:45,000
I'm feeling my lashes to the 
size. 

540
00:29:45,200 --> 00:29:47,600
I like doing that. 
Yeah, that's fine. 

541
00:29:47,800 --> 00:29:51,200
I love being. 
I don't want to schedule in my 

542
00:29:51,200 --> 00:29:55,000
nails, like, schedule, it. 
I like being spontaneous. 

543
00:29:55,300 --> 00:29:58,100
There's no but that's fine. 
But schedule some time to be 

544
00:29:58,100 --> 00:30:03,000
spontaneous but it's really hard
for you and your position where 

545
00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:05,300
you've got a team of people 
trying to help you guys and 

546
00:30:05,300 --> 00:30:07,700
you're like, you just fit in 
with us and where Like well 

547
00:30:07,800 --> 00:30:09,300
we've got lives as well you 
know. 

548
00:30:10,000 --> 00:30:12,100
So that would be my thing. 
There's a little bit more 

549
00:30:12,100 --> 00:30:15,200
structure helps. 
Okay you can schedule in 

550
00:30:15,200 --> 00:30:17,600
spontaneity time. 
We've scheduled in our podcast 

551
00:30:17,600 --> 00:30:18,700
time. 
Yep Schedule D. 

552
00:30:18,700 --> 00:30:21,600
Now Tick Tock time. 
Oh we haven't actually spoken 

553
00:30:21,600 --> 00:30:23,700
about it. 
Think about what we're going to 

554
00:30:23,700 --> 00:30:27,000
do a live online podcast? 
Are we? 

555
00:30:27,700 --> 00:30:31,000
I mentioned this to you don't 
play Silly buggers with me. 

556
00:30:31,800 --> 00:30:34,400
Okay so we got how that's going 
to work. 

557
00:30:35,000 --> 00:30:36,900
We're going to create an event. 
It's obviously going to be 

558
00:30:36,900 --> 00:30:37,400
online. 
Line. 

559
00:30:37,400 --> 00:30:39,100
But we're going to have will be 
doing it. 

560
00:30:39,100 --> 00:30:42,000
Like we're doing it right now 
and you guys can be sitting on 

561
00:30:42,000 --> 00:30:44,700
the other other side will 
actually have a computer screen 

562
00:30:44,700 --> 00:30:48,000
so we can look and wave at you 
and stuff, which will be fun 

563
00:30:48,300 --> 00:30:52,000
because what we eventually want 
to do is I do a mini tour, but 

564
00:30:52,000 --> 00:30:55,500
we want to, I guess see how it 
works. 

565
00:30:55,500 --> 00:30:59,100
How it feels, and you do that. 
So, once again, if you're in a 

566
00:30:59,108 --> 00:31:02,500
name is Patron, you'll probably 
get the information first and 

567
00:31:02,500 --> 00:31:04,100
for everyone else. 
You just got to stay tuned to 

568
00:31:04,100 --> 00:31:06,800
our Instagram and stuff to get 
the link to be able to register 

569
00:31:06,800 --> 00:31:08,300
for that. 
We'll give you a month's notice.

570
00:31:08,300 --> 00:31:11,100
So we do want to look to do it 
in like four weeks from this 

571
00:31:11,100 --> 00:31:15,400
episode just so you can all 
clear schedules and put it in 

572
00:31:15,408 --> 00:31:19,200
the diary, all right. 
That's gonna be enough from us 

573
00:31:19,200 --> 00:31:21,900
but next week's episode is going
to be a hoot, you know why? 

574
00:31:22,500 --> 00:31:26,800
Because we're going hiking today
and then next week, Amy and I 

575
00:31:26,808 --> 00:31:30,200
will be in Perth so we're going 
to have people behind the scenes

576
00:31:32,000 --> 00:31:36,600
hiking she does. 
All right hurry