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Hi, I'm Amy Shepherd. 
I'm lachland Stewart. 

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And although we have different 
last names, we're married. 

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Now we've been told the secret 
to a successful marriage is 

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communication. 
So we're going to talk it out 

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every week. 
Share our challenges, and pet 

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peeves. 
Then we're setting each other. 

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Some goals, some couple goals, 
couple goals. 

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The podcast is for those who 
might be looking to life their 

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way through challenging 
scenarios that all couples. 

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Go through occasionally. 
We might even get some other 

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couples to join in. 
Yeah, you'd like that. 

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Hit, subscribe and tune in. 
Every week to hear our weekly 

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couple goals. 
You take it off. 

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It's our big 21st you guys to 
anyone. 

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It is exciting as the first time
now. 

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I do. 
Remember my 21st birthday. 

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Where was my invite? 
I didn't know you then. 

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Okay, you missed out on a great 
party. 

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It was a Candy Land Theme. 
I was this. 

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We had the stripper. 
No. 

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No, I can't believe my Tardis 
fault. 

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I was around for you, twenty 
fourth and fifth. 

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Oh, So it must have been my 
22nd. 

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I would you have a strip that 
you 23rd? 

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This is young and dumb. 
It was m is 19. 

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So yeah, my 22nd and we just 
like had a party for girls and 

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we just thought it was funny to 
surprise the girls. 

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We like, it's just party only. 
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And it was actually, it was it. 
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What was it? 
20 strongest through the 

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experience so we just had like a
girl spotted me. 

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Like, no, you can't bring your 
Friends girls only so it was 

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like a friends and my friends 
and then it said there's a big 

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surprise for you so don't want 
to miss it. 

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Was it a big surprise? 
Very small surprise really mr. 

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Chow. 
Yeah he was like just gross 

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because he he was just like the 
last River left because we left 

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it to the last minute. 
I just had the idea. 

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I like I see he's available and 
then poor guy please now we know

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that girls love Getting 
strippers, it was just funny, 

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like hilarious and he didn't 
really like show anything. 

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Yeah. 
And he was like I'll show my 

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willy willy for another. 
Like what happened was all the 

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girls? 
Like okay it's time for the 

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surprise. 
Everyone come into the living 

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room. 
Yeah. 

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Like I'm gonna okay. 
Everyone sit down and he was he 

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snuck him in so he was already 
like in one of the rooms in the 

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house in a studio was now a 
studio? 

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Oh my God. 
That put any police outfit. 

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Did you wake up with it? 
So emerton know. 

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And it's, it's like everyone's 
it down and a turns off the 

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lights. 
And I play the music and it's 

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like, what song do you like 
sirens? 

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Because like, oh my God, I knew 
what was happening in still in 

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Italy and then like he comes out
and Emma was like on lights or 

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whatever and then he comes out 
and he's like, dude, in here, 

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little cap gun. 
Let's do a little dance and then

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like ripped off his pants for 
like velcro pants. 

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Into this like, g-string and a 
hat. 

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You know, you like that. 
Would you like a party boy off 

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jackass? 
You have pretty much. 

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No, it was just so funny. 
Like everyone was dying of 

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laughter. 
So I think it was more fun doing

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it younger than like at your 
hands because by then your video

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you did. 
You do it at your hands? 

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No I can't. 
No no I went to Pink Flamingo 

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which is a like a cabaret Club 
on the yeah I'm like okay it 

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seems like acrobats and kind of 
like the Moulin Rouge. 

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Do you see boobies? 
It's a comedy and stuff is 

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really fun. 
Fun, I think in the late night 

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show you do. 
So there's two shows is like the

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earlier one, which is a rude 
comedy, and we're dancing and 

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stuff, and then they, The Late 
Night show is more like Cabaret 

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or which is like topless 
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And anyway, because I was the 
hand, of course they called me 

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up and did like a Magic Mike 
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Yeah. 
And it was, it's just very funny

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like it's not really it's very 
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that's it is sexy but it's not 
like Yeah, it's just a bit of a 

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laugh. 
Anyway so that was my stripper. 

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Experience at age 22. 
And now we go into the. 

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Have you been have you been to a
stripper at since I'm finding 

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out I get to ask you live on air
and find out things that I 

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didn't know. 
They're my two stripper 

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experiences. 
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I've never been a fan of 
strippers. 

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Yeah, I think it's different and
it's a man I do well because 

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it's not like for comedy when 
boys do it. 

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It's like gross. 
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what you're saying, there's some
stuff that I've seen that I 

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think is just hilarious. 
There's a lot that I might this 

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is a revolting but I've never 
seen a stripper for the sake of 

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been like this is sexual I 
sexual oh yeah. 

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I feel it's always just like We 
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party, but then when I watch 
them at a mate's, like, I was, 

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there's like five of us in the 
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So, do I watching but not 
watching because you feel 

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uncomfortable and it's not like 
you know and it just feels 

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really disrespectful to. 
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Well it's it's like that someone
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not once I think we had spoke 
about this last week. 

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Was that man doing, you know 
what I mean? 

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No, I don't like, but it's still
someone. 

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I'm not but then it's someone's 
career and it's like you can 

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Aunt. 
I know there's so many ways to 

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judge it and I think, yeah. 
But for me personally, I'd 

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rather just get you to shake 
your toes around the bedroom. 

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Is an option the echo where the 
castles little pasty other tests

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the tassels right here. 
They actually go pasties really.

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Yeah that's all of a sudden not 
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Pasties tassels is so much more 
attractive than its that 

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pasty-faced is like it's finally
the mechanical ones. 

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Actually, like I said, Bob They 
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at your boobs. 
And we just gave me the for 

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those who are watching on 
YouTube, maybe just gave me 

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daggers. 
When I said, they'll droop, 

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meaning the tassels, not your 
boobs. 

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But that's like laughs that's 
gravity. 

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Y'all can't fight it and your 
balls will droop to the Head. 

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ER, that's right. 
Where jocks one of the boys got 

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the snip today or like last week
and It's nothing. 

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No, he said is not to like the 
size of apples and is like, it's

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supposed to do the cross. 
It's George is I'm supposed to 

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do George, did it is, I'm 
supposed to do the crossword 

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open today, but my nuts just 
heard. 

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I might just wear a super-tight 
jocks? 

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No, no, he didn't hate him. 
Anyway, no, but you can get an 

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infection pretty easily. 
So maybe he should just not 

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trained for a little bit, or 
check the not effective, because

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I'm sure the doctor told him 
every, yeah, he's fast. 

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Been told I think it's a thing. 
Don't you worry about the 

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things? 
You don't need to worry about. 

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That's true. 
Not my balls, your balls. 

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Fuck breakup songs. 
Yes. 

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But actually, let's just 
quickly, I'm going to give a 

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summary because I know every 
week we jump on a talk about all

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the cool shit you've been doing 
well traveling's and you've been

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traveling. 
Let's talk about because I want 

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to get into the present. 
I got you which I've just had a 

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piece of you ruined it. 
You got into the present. 

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So I'm going to present. 
Okay well Long story short, I've

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just come back in Tasmania, and 
I bought this at the airport, 

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and I was like, oh, I'm gonna 
get lucky and really nice. 

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Those old, like the Tasmanian 
gifts and stuff, my, I get lucky

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tonight. 
You come back as a little 

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Tasmanian Devil. 
Certainly not, I'll get lucky 

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and nice block of Tasmanian 
chocolate because they just 

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looked really good. 
And then my, so this one is 

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handmade conviction. 
Ray as manian, chocolates, 

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macadamia. 
Via and salted can we skip to 

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the part where you give it to 
me? 

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It's caramel, milk, chocolate 
and handcrafted in Tasmania. 

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Got to the checkout. 
I was expecting it to be like 

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six bucks. 
Yeah, eight. 

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Maybe eight or even like 15? 
Yeah, it's $21. 

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What did you pay for it? 
On our joint card? 

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Yes. 
Yeah. 

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So that's not a gift then and 
that's why we're sharing it. 

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It's not a gift. 
Whatever, I give you stuff, I 

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pay for it of my own card. 
This is why you can't be the 

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best. 
This is why you don't have joint

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bank accounts ladies and 
gentlemen, because even when you

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think you're getting a gift, 
you're paying for the bloody 

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gift. 
Let me just check to describe 

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the. 
I think there's two things in 

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life is probably more but off 
the top of my head that you 

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don't really need to understand 
the process of how it works or 

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comes to be and you just enjoy 
the outcome. 

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One Transportation. 
Are you car? 

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I don't care how it I can 
operate. 

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I like playing. 
Yeah we're fine. 

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This is long as it gets me from 
A to B safely. 

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The second one is chocolate. 
Okay, how it's made, sometimes 

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it tastes good. 
It's good. 

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That tastes very sugary though. 
It might impact my sleep. 

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It has like little toffee bits. 
Okay, that's better. 

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What do you write that out of 
10, 10 being like, the most 

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amazing thing you could ever put
on your tongue and it's light 

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and one being like putting 
charcoal, it's not doing me, any

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more enjoyment than a block of 
Cadbury? 

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No, I think Cadbury wins. 
Sorry, Tasmania, you represent 

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you you ripped us off. 
I include myself in that breakup

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songs. 
Okay. 

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It's been a Hot Topic with the 
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went for a beer with your 
brother, George did I talk about

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this on the podcast? 
I sweet. 

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No, I do 70 podcast episode. 
I can't remember who I've spoken

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to about what anyway. 
And what did George say? 

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No, I had to, I was like, boys, 
I've learned embarrassing story 

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because we're in the, in 
Jimmy's, in the mall, as it 

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Jimmy's in. 
Whatever. 

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The one in the mall is in Queen 
Street. 

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Yeah. 
And we'll having a point and 

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were a couple of pints in and 
the conversation was just like 

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flowing. 
Mmm, and somehow this song 

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somehow, I obviously came on 
through via the radio. 

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And obviously when you hear a 
song but most songs they are 

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linked to something. 
There's a good story behind it 

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and I piped up and as I boys 
doing here something that I 

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haven't shared with many people 
at all and it was really like 

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left of curveball for the 
conversation but I felt like it 

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was had enough beards to have 
the courage and the song came on

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in the song was JoJo, too little
too late. 

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He quickly singing. 
It's just Anyway, so I was over 

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in the UK. 
I was on a rugby tour and I was 

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15 and day 2 or day. 
Two or three is very early in my

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trip. 
What you do that come out, I 

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don't know. 
Anyway, did I say 2015? 

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Geez, I'm old 2005. 
So, Jesus. 

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X 4's 2005 I am was on the rugby
tour. 2006, so 2006, I was I was

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15 and Yeah, I got dumped. 
I found out my missus at the 

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time was cheating on me. 
Cheated on me and that song came

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on. 
So I had a Nokia phone, you 

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know, the slide up phone is like
a slit up. 

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Yeah, it was that one so you 
could have like five songs on it

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and obviously when I'd gone over
I had to change. 

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Yeah. 
I'd had like that song and a 

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couple more clicks I do. 
Isn't it crazy how quickly? 

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Technology changed? 
Well, maybe you used to get the 

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first iPod or even like a USB 
Like MP3 player, you'd plug it 

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into your computer and you, it 
was 100 megabytes or whatever. 

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You could get four or five songs
on it. 

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And remember, when the iPod the 
first iPod color came out, it 

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was like one gigabyte. 
You could have maybe 100 songs 

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and you were like, oh my God, 
this is gnarly. 

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I've now got all the Blink-182 
and Sum 41. 

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That was a game-changer. 
Yeah, practiced. 

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Now, we've got unlimited, like, 
you don't even need That anymore

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but that was my Breakup Song 
JoJo didn't even write that 

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song. 
What's her name is actually 

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ruthann? 
Google it, let me go. 

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It's not Okay, JoJo didn't write
that song but it came out. 

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I wasn't it. 
I still like that we go there to

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play after that actually in the 
pub. 

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Hmm she's still writing now. 
How do you find when it comes 

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out in 2006? 
So it must have been the year. 

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That's probably why I was 
listening to it. 

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Great. 
You were 16? 

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No, you 5050. 
Yes. 

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I was 16. 
My little heart was vulnerable. 

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I gave it away and it got 
fucking Rippling lasting Joe. 

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Yeah, I literally like in the UK
and we'll being billeted it out.

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So I was me and Hugh or me and 
whoever at random people's 

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places and went up when you know
we'd go to bed after foot or 

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whatever. 
I just lay in my bed at look at 

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a photo and play the JoJo song 
on repeat, my phone's recording.

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Are we going to do that piece 
out? 

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I can do it through here. 
I thought that maybe you'd play 

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a little bit of too, little too 
late, so people who haven't 

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heard it. 
Jonah. 

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Yeah, mess it up. 
Was meant to use this friend. 

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That's right. 
So I've got two phones and this 

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is supposed to be my recording 
fan. 

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What? 
Displayed in the microphone? 

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Yeah, I don't know how much you 
can play before. 

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Spotify says, I'm ripping it 
off. 

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Don't miss is bringing back 
memories. 

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He gonna cry? 
You don't like me. 

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You just like the chase. 
Everyone's a, the UK. 

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And it was a sad time. 
My life anyway, breakup songs. 

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What's yours? 
I hope you got dumped off 

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course. 
Good hasn't been. 

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I feel better. 
Um, yeah, I got dumped by my 

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boyfriend, who's now a gorgeous 
game, man, but my heart broke. 

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I didn't know he was gay. 
He just broke up with me and I 

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was like, but I love you. 
Did you love him? 

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I thought I did. 
It's cute. 

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Okay. 
What song I'm just like looking 

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through 2008 hits of 2006 going 
to be in here. 

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I know like one that was going 
around around that time was like

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how am I supposed to bun? 
The what was that Mio and 

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Jordans pot. 
Yeah joints that was a bang. 

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I was that oh well that was 60 
16 years ago the ground floor 

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and you give it a quick little 
play Forever. 

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That's gonna jot some memory. 
That is a. 

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Is that 16 years ago? 
I don't know what date, but 

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we're so old. 
Yeah. 

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Oh my goodness. 
My cousin. 

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You wanted one, you little whore
bag who's gay? 

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Then uh yeah I thought you were 
just wanting a dickhead fucking 

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hell. 
Well, be careful how you word 

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things so you don't we my There 
was like, why doesn't he love 

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me? 
And now I know you didn't have a

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dick. 
Oh, well anyway, come off that 

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it now. 
But yeah, that was probably one 

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of the saddest songs. 
Yeah, it's good chain. 

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We should actually do a whole 
episode gone through likes songs

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from 2005 and just share a story
around what it meant to us. 

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Yeah. 
That'd be a good idea. 

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It's actually a good little even
like segment. 

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Cool, don't steal that anyone 
treat. 

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You heard it here first, but 
stay tuned. 

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And we do, I know we did promise
our guests but they had to 

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postpone due to work 
commitments, which is fine. 

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And then this week we couldn't 
do it because they Ms away as 

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usual, just left here by myself.
But anyway, we're moving house. 

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So this is probably our second 
last episode in the home, studio

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crazy. 
And we still haven't worked out 

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what we're doing. 
Nash like, we'll probably just 

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rent a ransom. 
We're in limbo. 

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I think we did mention this last
week. 

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Yeah, well, in limbo. 
I'm back in with the mum Mary 

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couple mum, which is great. 
Yes, but we are calling 

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everything. 
It's really hard to kind of get 

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rid of because, when moving 
from, how many bedrooms 45 lat 

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down to one bedroom, which I 
think's really quite. 

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They're not a bedroom apartment 
as in one bedroom in the whole 

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house. 
Yeah. 

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Which is very cool. 
I think we have a lot of stuff 

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that we don't necessarily need. 
Yeah, I know it's hard but we 

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don't need to do this. 
It's hard to. 

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Me because we I feel like I've 
built I felt this how home you 

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know know we've got this like 
Amy built our wedding. 

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No I've it's just like we've 
made a home here I know but 

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stuff like an alpha are chosen 
hand-selected. 

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We're going to do that again. 
Synchronize this house and next 

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house is going to be a home you 
know. 

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This is apartment. 
Yeah I don't believe you can 

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make a home in an apartment. 
I do. 

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We made one. 
Here is very is is like Whoo. 

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Anyway here we are. 
So what's some fun stuff you 

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found? 
While moving the best thing I 

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found. 
This is a cool message to 

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receive this one that's going 
through the drawers like you 

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know, the front. 
We've got drawers at the front 

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where you put your keys on the 
sideboard. 

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It's draws that I was going 
through it. 

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I was like I cannot believe the 
shit that in these drawers. 

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Like literally, yeah, ten years 
ago just old photos old random 

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one of keys at you. 
I've no idea what? 

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It's from receipts from driving.
This bus trip is in 2000. 

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Whatever JoJo CD is. 
Yeah. 

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All sorts of stuff right in the 
back of the cupboard. 

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I found an envelope that's like,
what is this? 

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Because it was like that 
envelope and it's probably mine 

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and it was full of cash, was it?
Mine hard, cold cash, baby. 

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But people don't even use cash 
now it's like well I'm fine to 

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have it. 
No, it's You deposit it into the

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bank accounts in my handbag. 
What would you do? 

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If I said to you? 
Yeah. 

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If I said to you could use it, 
what would you buy? 

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Honestly? 
It probably just go to groceries

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away that but not the price of 
bananas are to. 

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I tell you, I'll give you a bit 
on it for free but the price and

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the price of eggs. 
Yeah, no seriously. 

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It's ridiculous fucking fucked. 
The cost of living. 

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I don't want to be that guy. 
So I'm not going to be but you 

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know where that conversation can
be. 

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Everyone's feeling the squeeze 
right now. 

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It's just like what the hell? 
I can't even go to Wally's 

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without spending a hundred 
bucks. 

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Hmm. 
Even if I just want like three 

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things because you buy 20 dollar
box of chocolate. 

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Well I never expected it to be 
$20 so why didn't you put it 

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back? 
Because I like there's someone 

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behind me and I was at the 
checkout I see it was an 

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embarrassment or you just wanted
to follow through. 

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Yeah I was just like Couldn't it
be like, no, it sucks. 

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Even enjoy this. 
All right, I'll enjoy it. 

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Yeah, so anyway, you know what, 
though? 

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Aldi bit out is always an 
option. 

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It's a great option to spend 
more time at Aldi because the 

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food's great prices better and I
saw that they have, you know, 

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the only thing about healthy 
that's annoying is for us. 

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Anyway, it's a little bit more 
out of the way than woolies. 

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Yeah, but the another annoying 
things, Check out like it's 

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really anxiety-inducing for me. 
The inspired unemployed video 

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where they're just peg in stuff 
and it's pretty much exactly 

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what it's like. 
Yeah, that's hard for me. 

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But that have to almost train 
them to be that fast at the 

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checkout. 
Chef Time is money, time is 

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money, you know, they don't even
play music and LD because I 

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don't want to pay for these. 
So maybe I should be standing up

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against Aldean. 
But cheap produce. 

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Well yeah, music, yeah, music, 
he can get free of Napster all 

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Spotify or Spotify. 
Yeah. 

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Anyways serious. 
Serious topic where we want to 

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keep these short and sharp, 20 
minutes, we're going to go over 

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a little bit but you had a 
serious question that you came 

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across on Reddit. 
This is Amy's. 

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Amy spent her time at night on, 
read it. 

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As we all know. 
I love it because I don't really

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I don't know like what it really
scroll. 

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Tick-tocking Instagram 
constantly. 

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I think you do and I think I've 
spread it because, yeah, for me,

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like Instagram Tick, Tock, 
small, like work-related for me.

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Yeah, looking to maybe something
that inspires me or whatever. 

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But with read it, I will scroll 
for hours and it's really 

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engaging and interesting for me 
because Pete, there's people 

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just like throwing out their 
ideas asking questions, there's 

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interesting Videos videos that 
will blow your mind. 

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Like let me blow your mind. 
What about that chick? 

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Who got eaten by an alligator? 
That was Tick-Tock that was it 

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take to tell anyone else say 
that it was a lady in elderly 

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lady. 
Was it like Miami or summer 

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somewhere? 
I don't know where it was, but 

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it was in America. 
It was a fucking Merica Miami 

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have fun. 
And yeah, an old lady was 

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walking her little dog by the 
river bank and an alligator can 

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go to. 
But, you know, it's obviously 

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stopped before that, but it was 
like, I'm sure you could find it

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on like, live leak or something.
It was the 911 call. 

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Oh, yeah. 
And it's, we don't need to go 

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into that. 
But anyway, there's some wild 

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stuff on that, and Amy finds. 
And I literally Amy sends me so 

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many reels every day, which is 
funny because they're funny, but

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I'm just just like, how did you 
end up here in the internet? 

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What were you doing to get here?
But I love reading because it's 

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more educational and it's not 
just a dumb fuck. 

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What's the most educated thing? 
You've learnt a guy on Reddit? 

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Yeah, well the question I'm 
about to ask, let's do it. 

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Okay. 
All right so how the question I 

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came across and it was on the 
Oscar ask women subreddit. 

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Yeah. 
So a woman asked her fellow 

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women. 
How do you know if a man is 

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emotionally Unintelligent. 
Is that what the question? 

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How do you know when your guy 
let me ask him? 

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How do you know when your guy is
not mentally and emotionally 

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mature? 
Sure. 

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Good question, could you ask 
that back it to the blows? 

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How do you know, when your lady 
is not mentally and emotionally 

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mature? 
You could because there's Savage

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goes out there that I'm just 
like, come on. 

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Well, what was somewhat of a 
something? 

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Women are more in tune with 
their emotions, of course, 

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because you allowed to yeah, 
historically been more. 

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What would you say? 
I'd love to hear. 

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What does that question? 
I'd love to hear what the lady 

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said. 
First Could you do a blind 

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spots? 
I'd say, like mentally and 

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emotionally matured is a, taking
responsibility, all use me as an

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example. 
Because you've been with me, 

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when I haven't been mentally and
emotionally mature, and I'm 

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still not there, but I'm a 
little bit more mentally and 

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emotionally immature. 
So, what, would be some things? 

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It reacts badly to hearing know,
instead of calmly accepting it 

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like an adult guilty. 
What else? 

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Someone said I dated a guy 
briefly, who threw like a 

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toddler tantrum. 
When I turned him down for six, 

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which we had often. 
So it's not like I was 

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withholding. 
You'll see have a look at in the

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same way again, in the 
relationship ended pretty 

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quickly after that. 
Another person said, when he 

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never admits he's wrong, also a 
lack of emotional regulation. 

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So yeah, Tantrums, it's a 
regulation would say, awareness.

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And then people are just kind of
telling the stories which is 

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really interesting. 
What would you say? 

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Someone said, Bachelor syndrome 
what's Bachelor syndrome, maybe 

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that's next week's topic, 
Bachelor syndrome. 

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00:25:04,900 --> 00:25:07,500
Never heard of that. 
Is that the same little, like 

452
00:25:07,500 --> 00:25:11,100
I'm guessing it's when men are 
just so used to being single 

453
00:25:11,300 --> 00:25:14,000
that they don't change their so 
set in their ways. 

454
00:25:15,000 --> 00:25:19,300
You know, and then when they get
a girlfriend it's like they're 

455
00:25:19,300 --> 00:25:23,900
still acting like a little kid. 
Mmm, it's funny how the Dynamics

456
00:25:23,900 --> 00:25:26,900
work though because like yeah, 
this person says like not having

457
00:25:26,900 --> 00:25:31,000
a like having a couch you found 
on the side of the road or card 

458
00:25:31,000 --> 00:25:34,200
table. 
Collapsible chairs for dining 

459
00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:37,600
set guilty guilty. 
That's what I had. 

460
00:25:37,600 --> 00:25:39,800
We would have had at our wedding
if I was in charge. 

461
00:25:42,400 --> 00:25:45,200
Yeah. 
Yeah, I'd agree with all that. 

462
00:25:45,200 --> 00:25:48,700
I think 100%, there's some 
definitely some key points on 

463
00:25:49,800 --> 00:25:52,000
some. 
Someone said he thinks periods a

464
00:25:52,000 --> 00:25:55,600
tick and throws a tantrum if you
send them out up to pick up, 

465
00:25:55,600 --> 00:25:59,500
tampons. 
I come on. 

466
00:26:00,400 --> 00:26:04,900
That is just ridiculous. 
What do you mean like Tyrion 

467
00:26:04,900 --> 00:26:08,500
sent out to get tampons now 
chilly, but there it is. 

468
00:26:08,500 --> 00:26:10,000
Yeah, I know, I don't really 
care. 

469
00:26:11,600 --> 00:26:14,500
I think it's just really like, 
yeah, I think that's it. 

470
00:26:14,800 --> 00:26:18,400
When I told my ex I was on my 
period he would recoil and fake 

471
00:26:18,400 --> 00:26:25,600
gag like yeah. 
Like, what are you gonna do? 

472
00:26:25,800 --> 00:26:29,900
Honestly, what are you gonna do 
anyway? 

473
00:26:29,900 --> 00:26:33,400
Yeah, it's an interesting topic.
Yeah, I would agree with all 

474
00:26:33,400 --> 00:26:33,800
that. 
I'm sure. 

475
00:26:33,800 --> 00:26:37,500
There's so many examples that 
the ladies, listen to this could

476
00:26:37,500 --> 00:26:41,200
share about their Partners. 
I'm sure I'm guilty of all of 

477
00:26:41,200 --> 00:26:42,500
them that you just mentioned 
that. 

478
00:26:42,700 --> 00:26:44,900
I think. 
I think you're more aware 

479
00:26:44,900 --> 00:26:46,600
though. 
I'm definitely aware of being 

480
00:26:46,600 --> 00:26:49,500
aware of it and denying that 
you've done. 

481
00:26:50,200 --> 00:26:52,800
Yeah, I still do. 
I still have Tantrums because 

482
00:26:52,800 --> 00:26:56,100
sometimes is well-liked. 
No matter how everyone has 

483
00:26:56,100 --> 00:26:59,100
moments of weakness, if you like
ice right now. 

484
00:26:59,100 --> 00:27:02,800
We're both very tired. 
And when you've got nothing left

485
00:27:02,800 --> 00:27:05,600
to give, and someone saw 
something doesn't go the way you

486
00:27:05,600 --> 00:27:07,300
want it to go. 
It's upsetting. 

487
00:27:07,400 --> 00:27:10,700
Mmm, and you might have it, you 
know, if it's like the other day

488
00:27:10,700 --> 00:27:14,100
when I was doing that, flipping 
work had spent four hours 

489
00:27:14,100 --> 00:27:17,000
building. 
A course, is the day you left. 

490
00:27:17,000 --> 00:27:20,900
I think or the day before you 
left and all I'd like, I went 

491
00:27:20,900 --> 00:27:23,700
and spent five minutes outside 
just complaining. 

492
00:27:23,800 --> 00:27:25,100
To you. 
And I was a hopefully only gives

493
00:27:25,100 --> 00:27:27,400
me sympathy because I was so 
upset. 

494
00:27:27,400 --> 00:27:28,900
I was pissed off. 
Yeah. 

495
00:27:29,400 --> 00:27:30,900
And then I is that what you 
asked? 

496
00:27:31,000 --> 00:27:33,900
We were looking for? 
Well, no, because I knew I 

497
00:27:33,900 --> 00:27:38,500
should have been a little bitch,
but by default I went out and 

498
00:27:38,600 --> 00:27:40,100
had a little complaint for a 
second. 

499
00:27:40,600 --> 00:27:43,900
And then I was like, fuck, what 
would Brad Brad would tell me to

500
00:27:44,700 --> 00:27:47,000
fucking get on with it? 
It's not going to help me get 

501
00:27:47,000 --> 00:27:49,600
what I want. 
I know but as you just said, 

502
00:27:49,600 --> 00:27:53,500
with emotional intelligence, you
got to Feel the feels you can't 

503
00:27:53,500 --> 00:27:55,300
just deny that you're pissed 
off. 

504
00:27:55,300 --> 00:27:57,100
Yeah it's no. 
No but you're allowed to be 

505
00:27:57,100 --> 00:27:58,400
pissed off at. 
Yeah, I think there's a 

506
00:27:58,408 --> 00:28:00,900
difference between being pissed 
off and looking for sympathy. 

507
00:28:01,200 --> 00:28:04,000
Yeah. 
Like I didn't have to go out and

508
00:28:04,000 --> 00:28:06,600
beasts like upset around you 
about it can vent to me. 

509
00:28:07,000 --> 00:28:09,800
Yeah. 
But I don't think I need to let 

510
00:28:09,800 --> 00:28:12,300
it ruin my interactions with you
because at the end of the day I 

511
00:28:12,300 --> 00:28:14,700
think it's good. 
If you can just you can complain

512
00:28:14,700 --> 00:28:18,400
about you vent and then yeah you
don't let it ruin your day. 

513
00:28:18,400 --> 00:28:22,000
No, I think so that's why you're
emotionally intelligent. 

514
00:28:22,200 --> 00:28:25,600
Yeah, so if you want to get 
emotionally intelligent, call 

515
00:28:25,600 --> 00:28:31,600
1-800 lucky awesome and again. 
Yeah, well yeah. 

516
00:28:31,600 --> 00:28:33,700
Well do that? 
Let's move on from that. 

517
00:28:33,700 --> 00:28:37,000
Let's hit pet peeves because I 
would love to eat this 

518
00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:38,800
chocolate. 
Yes, I really want to eat the 

519
00:28:38,800 --> 00:28:45,000
chocolate yummy that poop. 
That's the same horn as last 

520
00:28:45,000 --> 00:28:47,600
week. 
So my pet peeve happened. 

521
00:28:47,600 --> 00:28:51,900
A moment ago, I went to the 
airport, picked you up and Amy 

522
00:28:51,900 --> 00:28:56,300
oh, Opens the door and just 
stands there, like a deer in the

523
00:28:56,308 --> 00:28:57,500
headlights. 
Just like what? 

524
00:28:58,200 --> 00:29:01,100
No, I said I gave you a kiss. 
Put the bags in the car. 

525
00:29:01,100 --> 00:29:03,700
Yeah. 
Which okay so you made progress 

526
00:29:03,700 --> 00:29:06,600
to getting in the car and you 
stop at the door and you 

527
00:29:06,600 --> 00:29:09,900
continue texting. 
You flip a tax on, might use 

528
00:29:10,200 --> 00:29:12,300
those. 
I've got a million things going 

529
00:29:12,300 --> 00:29:13,800
on. 
I know you tell the story and 

530
00:29:13,800 --> 00:29:19,000
then yes, thank you because You 
open the door and just chop it 

531
00:29:19,000 --> 00:29:22,800
up like you can text in the car.
Your phone's not going to die 

532
00:29:22,800 --> 00:29:25,700
when you get in the car. 
But right now I can't drive off.

533
00:29:25,800 --> 00:29:28,600
We aren't getting closer to 
dinner because you're just 

534
00:29:28,600 --> 00:29:30,500
standing there like a deer in 
the headlights, doing your 

535
00:29:30,500 --> 00:29:34,900
messages and the second thing 
I'm going to tonight the second 

536
00:29:35,500 --> 00:29:38,000
was we haven't seen each other 
for a couple of days. 

537
00:29:38,800 --> 00:29:40,700
You get in the car, you sit your
bum down. 

538
00:29:41,600 --> 00:29:44,000
And you just keep texting. 
I know I am talking to you as 

539
00:29:44,000 --> 00:29:46,900
well, right? 
You make me sound like, I'm just

540
00:29:46,900 --> 00:29:49,200
like, well, pretty much. 
I was like here. 

541
00:29:49,200 --> 00:29:50,900
What are you? 
How was your day and responses? 

542
00:29:50,900 --> 00:29:53,300
Like, three minutes later in a 
man. 

543
00:29:54,300 --> 00:29:57,500
I'm like, mate, I know. 
So I said a new rule, we made a 

544
00:29:57,508 --> 00:30:02,000
new rule, we did the new rule is
that whoever of us has been away

545
00:30:02,200 --> 00:30:05,800
the first five minutes, not 10, 
just five, put our phone down 

546
00:30:05,800 --> 00:30:08,300
and we catch up. 
Yeah, which is fair, and it's 

547
00:30:08,300 --> 00:30:11,000
fair and no more zombie walking 
around the car. 

548
00:30:12,000 --> 00:30:14,300
That's still go my pickle. 
You pack up? 

549
00:30:15,400 --> 00:30:19,400
Carry them in rebuttal. 
I can we want to hear about a we

550
00:30:19,400 --> 00:30:21,200
want to hear from you. 
Let's make this interactive. 

551
00:30:21,200 --> 00:30:25,900
Do you guys want to hear Amy's 
rebuttal know? 

552
00:30:26,400 --> 00:30:28,000
Is that someone who's calling 
in? 

553
00:30:28,800 --> 00:30:31,700
No, we don't want to hear 
excuses that. 

554
00:30:31,700 --> 00:30:35,400
Okay, thank you. 
People want my digital okay? 

555
00:30:35,700 --> 00:30:39,700
Now. 
Oh my goodness. 

556
00:30:39,800 --> 00:30:43,800
Are you saying I'm not busy. 
You know I decide when you land 

557
00:30:43,900 --> 00:30:46,100
that's when you just get 
reception right and then you 

558
00:30:46,100 --> 00:30:49,700
getting your bags off and then 
finally people like Amy I don't 

559
00:30:49,700 --> 00:30:52,700
think I can you do this can you 
do that? 

560
00:30:52,700 --> 00:30:56,000
Can you this interview are you 
free in 15 minutes so it's just 

561
00:30:56,000 --> 00:31:00,000
like what about your husband? 
Yeah am I not worth the frame 15

562
00:31:00,000 --> 00:31:02,300
minutes you are and that's why I
agreed to this. 

563
00:31:02,400 --> 00:31:04,100
Okay. 
Carry On pet peeve. 

564
00:31:04,700 --> 00:31:06,300
Couple goal. 
All right. 

565
00:31:06,500 --> 00:31:11,200
Okay so my pet peeve for the 
week is So what a to do that 

566
00:31:11,200 --> 00:31:16,400
moving, but sort of not because 
we've had this going on what's 

567
00:31:16,400 --> 00:31:21,400
going weeks and weeks and weeks 
and weeks weeks weeks our car, 

568
00:31:21,700 --> 00:31:24,800
but a better, but I think this 
has been my puppies before 

569
00:31:25,200 --> 00:31:31,800
wouldn't have been any way. 
We drive this little Beetle and 

570
00:31:31,800 --> 00:31:37,500
it's broken down in our garage. 
Downstairs in the basement where

571
00:31:37,500 --> 00:31:40,400
it belongs Under 12 feet of 
concrete. 

572
00:31:41,100 --> 00:31:44,000
Yeah, and it's run out of 
battery. 

573
00:31:45,300 --> 00:31:50,300
And it's, you know, the battery 
for a while or yeah. 

574
00:31:51,000 --> 00:31:53,500
Yeah. 
And before you don't need it, we

575
00:31:53,500 --> 00:31:57,000
sell it actually. 
It was oh my gosh. 

576
00:31:57,400 --> 00:31:59,700
Has it really been a year? 
I can't remember. 

577
00:32:01,500 --> 00:32:03,400
Now would have been when we got 
back from Nashville. 

578
00:32:03,900 --> 00:32:13,200
Yeah, that was in July. 
Oh my God, that's so bad. 

579
00:32:13,700 --> 00:32:18,200
This is he I'm going to come on.
Yeah, I blame this on the 

580
00:32:18,200 --> 00:32:20,600
counter for putting those E 
Scooters around because now I 

581
00:32:20,600 --> 00:32:22,800
don't need the car. 
I just use it as a scooter. 

582
00:32:23,600 --> 00:32:26,100
Anyway, we'll all right. 
We'll fix it up this week. 

583
00:32:26,900 --> 00:32:28,600
Sell the car because obviously 
we don't use it. 

584
00:32:28,600 --> 00:32:30,300
No Sono. 
Clearly, we don't. 

585
00:32:31,800 --> 00:32:37,400
So we need to if you want to buy
a beetle 2007, we love it. 

586
00:32:37,400 --> 00:32:41,700
It's so Impractical. 
No, it's a great City Car. 

587
00:32:41,700 --> 00:32:45,700
It hasn't even done a hundred 
thousand K because if it did it 

588
00:32:45,700 --> 00:32:49,600
would blow away all rights. 
So I agree it's a great Car, 

589
00:32:50,200 --> 00:32:54,200
special price for anyone 
listening but we don't use a 

590
00:32:54,700 --> 00:32:55,600
okay. 
Well that's a goal. 

591
00:32:55,600 --> 00:32:57,200
Will get that may be audible 
anyway. 

592
00:32:58,300 --> 00:33:00,200
Thank you. 
It's your I didn't even get to 

593
00:33:00,200 --> 00:33:03,600
say what the goal is. 
Lucky said he was going to call 

594
00:33:03,600 --> 00:33:06,700
racq and he said it to me all 
for a year. 

595
00:33:06,800 --> 00:33:08,600
Well, here's the problem. 
The insurance. 

596
00:33:09,000 --> 00:33:10,700
My name. 
So you need to give me the 

597
00:33:10,700 --> 00:33:13,000
details because I can call up 
and go hi. 

598
00:33:13,000 --> 00:33:15,000
It's Amy Shepherd. 
Now, it's my cup of. 

599
00:33:15,000 --> 00:33:17,100
What's your member? 
What your member number? 

600
00:33:19,200 --> 00:33:21,500
No rebuttals lucky. 
Okay, we'll just might send me 

601
00:33:21,500 --> 00:33:25,700
the details if you don't mind. 
Your couple goals is to fix them

602
00:33:26,000 --> 00:33:28,500
blooming car. 
You could actually order it from

603
00:33:28,500 --> 00:33:35,200
the app right now. 
All right. 

604
00:33:35,900 --> 00:33:38,900
Well, that's another episode of 
couple goals coming at you with 

605
00:33:38,900 --> 00:33:44,100
22 to make any promises. 
Because now I'm just saying we 

606
00:33:44,100 --> 00:33:45,700
won't because they're booked in 
next Thursday. 

607
00:33:46,100 --> 00:33:49,100
So you'll be hearing from us 
again. 

608
00:33:50,500 --> 00:33:53,300
Anyway, thank you for tuning in.
Hurry guys. 

609
00:33:53,300 --> 00:33:53,700
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