1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,360 Welcome back. Welcome back everyone. 2 00:00:02,520 --> 00:00:05,520 How exciting. This is gonna be probably the 3 00:00:05,520 --> 00:00:07,400 highlight of EVERYONE Listenings week. 4 00:00:07,400 --> 00:00:10,440 Right, definitely is mine. Why is it yours? 5 00:00:11,000 --> 00:00:13,200 Because this is the time we get to chat to each other. 6 00:00:13,680 --> 00:00:18,040 And even though I don't know, I don't know, I'm going with that. 7 00:00:18,320 --> 00:00:20,760 I just I. Give me, give me some love. 8 00:00:21,120 --> 00:00:23,440 Yeah, I mean, even though we're talking to other people where 9 00:00:23,840 --> 00:00:25,520 it's also a chance for us to talk to each other. 10 00:00:25,520 --> 00:00:27,600 Technically, we're not talking to other people, we're just 11 00:00:27,600 --> 00:00:29,240 talking. For other people to listen to. 12 00:00:29,240 --> 00:00:31,200 I had a brain fart because I was like, wait a second. 13 00:00:32,200 --> 00:00:35,680 There's no one even here. It's crazy. 14 00:00:35,680 --> 00:00:38,960 So this is our second attempt. I made a mistake. 15 00:00:39,760 --> 00:00:42,800 I didn't push record on the audio and aim is that what 16 00:00:42,800 --> 00:00:45,640 should we record it again? I was like, Nah, I think I'll be 17 00:00:45,640 --> 00:00:49,480 able to save it. But the new office, the sound is 18 00:00:49,480 --> 00:00:52,520 very tinny without these microphones. 19 00:00:52,520 --> 00:00:54,720 So yeah, I. Mean the audience deserves the 20 00:00:54,720 --> 00:00:57,920 best quality so we. Won't my voice is shocking and 21 00:00:57,920 --> 00:01:00,040 hard enough to listen to, so you throw a bit. 22 00:01:00,040 --> 00:01:01,520 Of thinks that about their own voice, you. 23 00:01:01,520 --> 00:01:03,640 Throw a bit of tin tone on that and here we are. 24 00:01:04,239 --> 00:01:06,640 Tin tone. I actually got to start with 25 00:01:06,640 --> 00:01:08,040 something. I need to bring this up because 26 00:01:08,040 --> 00:01:09,080 I don't I don't know if you saw it. 27 00:01:09,080 --> 00:01:12,600 OK, this is social media, everyone. 28 00:01:12,840 --> 00:01:16,680 This is social media. But I did a post yesterday and 29 00:01:16,680 --> 00:01:20,400 the post was you carry financial pressure but say nothing. 30 00:01:20,400 --> 00:01:23,480 It's silently burying you. And then I just went on to my 31 00:01:23,480 --> 00:01:29,800 experience with that. Yeah, this guy comments had a 32 00:01:29,800 --> 00:01:34,360 lot of great responses. But this one guy, bro, isn't 33 00:01:34,360 --> 00:01:38,760 your wife like a pop star? I'm sure you're were doing fine. 34 00:01:39,280 --> 00:01:42,520 And I said, why do you assume that? 35 00:01:44,200 --> 00:01:45,800 And then someone else, some lady's back. 36 00:01:45,880 --> 00:01:49,440 She's like, bro, you think pop or rock stars don't have 37 00:01:49,440 --> 00:01:52,320 problems? And then he goes with limited 38 00:01:52,320 --> 00:01:55,400 context. It just stuck struck me as 39 00:01:55,640 --> 00:01:57,320 sorry, stuck. He's spelled wrong. 40 00:01:57,320 --> 00:01:58,440 I should have got him on that. Damn it. 41 00:01:59,120 --> 00:02:03,240 It just stuck me as inauthentic. I think this is a big issue for 42 00:02:03,240 --> 00:02:07,160 a lot of guys and I hope you're attempting to profit off it via 43 00:02:07,160 --> 00:02:09,720 like he's definitely it's misspelled. 44 00:02:09,720 --> 00:02:12,040 I'm going to interpret it the way that I think he meant it, 45 00:02:12,040 --> 00:02:15,880 where he said, I hope you're not attempting to profit off it via 46 00:02:16,160 --> 00:02:21,640 feigned shared experience. And here's here's here's what I 47 00:02:21,720 --> 00:02:22,360 said. It's not over. 48 00:02:22,360 --> 00:02:26,840 He said, OK, mate, with limited context, generally the next 49 00:02:26,840 --> 00:02:29,160 thing to do would be to seek more context. 50 00:02:30,520 --> 00:02:32,840 And if you did more of that you'd also find out there's 51 00:02:32,840 --> 00:02:35,440 plenty of information around my financial stuff. 52 00:02:36,720 --> 00:02:39,160 And then I said wishing you all the best. 53 00:02:39,560 --> 00:02:42,800 He said same mate. Wasn't trying to offend, just 54 00:02:42,800 --> 00:02:46,480 seemed like a glaringly obvious question based on how you chose 55 00:02:46,840 --> 00:02:49,600 to message. But I certainly could have been 56 00:02:49,600 --> 00:02:51,480 more tactful in my wedding. My apologies. 57 00:02:54,440 --> 00:02:56,960 Social media. Social media is people. 58 00:02:57,560 --> 00:03:00,400 Speak so much before they think. I've experienced that a lot. 59 00:03:00,600 --> 00:03:04,400 Especially the IVF. Yeah, it's so infuriating. 60 00:03:04,400 --> 00:03:09,960 People have a lot of assumptions and ignorance is rife. 61 00:03:10,160 --> 00:03:13,000 I think people are just looking through their they're either 62 00:03:13,360 --> 00:03:17,480 like, I have no idea why he needed to comment that. 63 00:03:17,600 --> 00:03:20,640 Yeah, like I can understand potentially with IVF for you, 64 00:03:20,640 --> 00:03:24,320 like I want to give my like my experience without looking 65 00:03:24,320 --> 00:03:26,280 through your eyes. But that there's like, well, 66 00:03:28,840 --> 00:03:31,600 it's that was just a shot. I feel like he's in, he's got 67 00:03:31,600 --> 00:03:33,800 something going on in his life. Of course. 68 00:03:34,280 --> 00:03:37,160 Absolutely, but it wasn't like a troll. 69 00:03:37,280 --> 00:03:38,880 No, they weren't. They were like. 70 00:03:39,480 --> 00:03:40,880 They weren't like a faceless. Troll. 71 00:03:40,880 --> 00:03:43,360 No, we, we had, I looked at him, he's got his family on there and 72 00:03:43,360 --> 00:03:45,280 he seems like a decent bloke. Is it? 73 00:03:45,280 --> 00:03:46,400 That's why I messaged back, people. 74 00:03:46,560 --> 00:03:49,600 Just assume because I do music for a living, I'm like a. 75 00:03:49,680 --> 00:03:50,680 Loaded. Loaded. 76 00:03:50,760 --> 00:03:53,200 Famous. I don't know because I'm in the 77 00:03:53,200 --> 00:03:56,920 public eye must mean that I am. Successful and. 78 00:03:57,080 --> 00:04:02,680 Yeah, we, we have had success, but it's like like as a musician 79 00:04:02,680 --> 00:04:04,840 you're always unemployed. Do you know what I mean? 80 00:04:04,840 --> 00:04:05,920 I don't think people understand that. 81 00:04:05,920 --> 00:04:08,520 It's like you're always waiting for the next job and the next 82 00:04:08,520 --> 00:04:11,960 gig and that can be really hard, like in the in between parts 83 00:04:13,640 --> 00:04:16,800 anyway. What do you think of our 84 00:04:16,800 --> 00:04:20,880 appearance on couple goals? On what paper was that? 85 00:04:21,680 --> 00:04:24,760 A career male we were in, we had like a three page spread. 86 00:04:25,280 --> 00:04:27,440 I've always wanted to be the centre page spread after 87 00:04:27,440 --> 00:04:28,920 watching my first meeting. My first. 88 00:04:29,800 --> 00:04:31,200 The. Centrefold Penthouse. 89 00:04:31,200 --> 00:04:32,400 I was like, I could be there one day. 90 00:04:32,400 --> 00:04:37,320 Oh God, no, I'm joking. Yeah, so it was really funny. 91 00:04:37,320 --> 00:04:39,800 We weren't really expecting it to be in the career mail. 92 00:04:39,880 --> 00:04:43,880 We did an interview and a. Photo shoot like photo shoot 93 00:04:43,880 --> 00:04:45,600 over a year ago. Yeah, it was like a little 94 00:04:45,600 --> 00:04:46,680 piece. I thought it was like for an 95 00:04:46,680 --> 00:04:51,400 online piece about and they have a a segment called couple goals. 96 00:04:51,640 --> 00:04:53,920 They robbed our podcast. Where they got that name from, 97 00:04:54,560 --> 00:04:56,640 who knows. But anyway, he said Yep, we'd 98 00:04:56,640 --> 00:04:59,960 love to be on it. And this was over a year ago. 99 00:05:00,160 --> 00:05:04,440 We gave an interview and yeah, it's come out over a year later 100 00:05:04,680 --> 00:05:07,120 and. Completely forgot about it until 101 00:05:07,120 --> 00:05:09,080 I was tagged in it. I was like, what the hell is 102 00:05:09,080 --> 00:05:12,360 this? Which must mean I'm a 103 00:05:12,360 --> 00:05:15,880 millionaire. Which also as a byproduct must 104 00:05:15,880 --> 00:05:19,720 mean I too am. I am too. 105 00:05:20,320 --> 00:05:22,520 And that also means you're not a lot of profit off any of your 106 00:05:22,520 --> 00:05:24,160 experiences, according to that guy. 107 00:05:26,080 --> 00:05:29,160 Here's the interesting thing. I feel like every business 108 00:05:29,160 --> 00:05:32,520 started off the back of a problem in someone's life where 109 00:05:32,520 --> 00:05:34,520 they're like, this is a pain in the ass. 110 00:05:35,080 --> 00:05:37,960 I'm going to solve that problem, and now that I know how to solve 111 00:05:37,960 --> 00:05:39,400 it, I can help other people solve it. 112 00:05:39,920 --> 00:05:41,360 Yeah. Simple. 113 00:05:43,120 --> 00:05:46,440 Fuck. Just wild. 114 00:05:46,480 --> 00:05:48,280 Absolutely wild. What else is happening? 115 00:05:48,280 --> 00:05:50,840 Well. We haven't got your artwork yet. 116 00:05:51,240 --> 00:05:53,280 Still, we actually haven't even got a notification. 117 00:05:53,280 --> 00:05:56,240 Team is very slow maybe. You've been gypped. 118 00:05:56,240 --> 00:05:59,960 Have you been ripped up? Maybe. 119 00:06:00,720 --> 00:06:03,040 I checked the status on that, although Teamu, it does take a 120 00:06:03,040 --> 00:06:07,560 little while and you know what, I wouldn't be surprised if it 121 00:06:07,560 --> 00:06:11,880 arrived and it was like a print. Like the no I did. 122 00:06:12,080 --> 00:06:16,360 I did check sizing, look order confirmed 10 days ago. 123 00:06:16,440 --> 00:06:18,760 Well, it does take a while to. Get it hasn't even been shipped. 124 00:06:19,360 --> 00:06:21,360 Uh oh, let. Me, let me. 125 00:06:21,360 --> 00:06:23,040 Or maybe that was the initial let's view order. 126 00:06:23,520 --> 00:06:29,680 But you're right, it does suck. But now it's asking me for 127 00:06:29,680 --> 00:06:34,360 security verification. My goodness, this is crazy. 128 00:06:34,640 --> 00:06:36,480 Don't give away any information. Lucky. 129 00:06:37,600 --> 00:06:40,520 No, I'm just trying to build the shape, but the shape is not 130 00:06:40,520 --> 00:06:42,160 going to be built. Oh, there we go. 131 00:06:42,160 --> 00:06:42,800 Did it. Oh my God. 132 00:06:44,480 --> 00:06:47,080 But I was going to go somewhere with that, and I cannot remember 133 00:06:47,080 --> 00:06:49,760 now. So with the painting, but now 134 00:06:49,920 --> 00:06:51,760 it's just absolutely, absolutely. 135 00:06:52,720 --> 00:06:55,000 Well, when everyone sees it, they'll play Wow. 136 00:06:56,000 --> 00:06:57,360 Where'd you get? That one, where'd you get that 137 00:06:57,360 --> 00:06:59,640 image from? And it wasn't Timo, It was 138 00:06:59,640 --> 00:07:01,480 legit. We spent lots of money on it. 139 00:07:02,120 --> 00:07:04,960 Well, all of our couple goalers know the truth. 140 00:07:06,880 --> 00:07:09,200 But I was about to say I'm flying out to Europe. 141 00:07:09,760 --> 00:07:14,040 Yeah. On Sunday I booked booked the 142 00:07:14,240 --> 00:07:17,920 car, last night got a Fiat Punto. 143 00:07:18,360 --> 00:07:21,200 I think it's cool when you told me that, Lucky yelled out. 144 00:07:21,200 --> 00:07:23,240 To me, like Penny, come. And look at the car I just 145 00:07:23,240 --> 00:07:25,560 booked. I was like, Oh my God, I bet he 146 00:07:25,560 --> 00:07:27,480 got like a convertible. I thought because I in my head, 147 00:07:27,480 --> 00:07:29,280 I, because you're going to Italy, just had this vision of 148 00:07:29,280 --> 00:07:32,520 you like in a convertible going around the Amalfi Coast. 149 00:07:32,840 --> 00:07:35,160 That's the complete opposite image that I had. 150 00:07:35,160 --> 00:07:36,960 And then when I saw it, I was like, that is the complete 151 00:07:36,960 --> 00:07:39,160 opposite of that. But that is the image I had. 152 00:07:39,480 --> 00:07:43,680 I got a Fiat Panda, not a Punto. I don't even know if there is a 153 00:07:43,680 --> 00:07:45,120 Punto if that's just a word I said. 154 00:07:45,800 --> 00:07:48,800 But it's it's tiny. I envisioned like in my. 155 00:07:48,800 --> 00:07:50,160 Smart Car. Backpack. 156 00:07:50,600 --> 00:07:54,760 Yeah, my backpack on the roof. It's Italian. 157 00:07:54,840 --> 00:07:57,120 Yeah, that'd be fun. It's it from A to B? 158 00:07:57,400 --> 00:07:58,960 I'm jealous. So you're going to our friend's 159 00:07:58,960 --> 00:08:00,800 wedding? Yes, I'm flying over. 160 00:08:01,360 --> 00:08:02,560 It's our time. Yeah. 161 00:08:02,560 --> 00:08:06,560 Flying over, spending three days in France visiting Etienne. 162 00:08:07,360 --> 00:08:12,400 And we'll probably ride motorbikes, eat croissants or 163 00:08:12,400 --> 00:08:15,040 just the food's gonna be good. Probably have a little bit of 164 00:08:15,040 --> 00:08:17,680 champagne. And then we're working on his 165 00:08:17,680 --> 00:08:18,920 house. Are you? 166 00:08:18,960 --> 00:08:19,480 Yeah. Yeah. 167 00:08:19,880 --> 00:08:21,160 Can you? These renovating the. 168 00:08:21,160 --> 00:08:25,240 House that we have, don't have. We're also looking at buying 169 00:08:25,240 --> 00:08:28,720 another house, which is brutal, but I haven't finished my Europe 170 00:08:28,720 --> 00:08:31,120 story, so go back to that. Do that, then I'll fly to 171 00:08:31,160 --> 00:08:34,360 Florence. From Florence I'll pick up my 172 00:08:35,240 --> 00:08:40,000 little Fiat and I'll drive down to the Chianti region, which has 173 00:08:40,039 --> 00:08:41,919 got some of the best red wine. We love Chianti, don't we? 174 00:08:41,919 --> 00:08:43,080 Can. You bring me back a bottle. 175 00:08:43,080 --> 00:08:44,280 Yeah, I'm going to get some for sure. 176 00:08:44,280 --> 00:08:44,920 And a. Champagne. 177 00:08:44,920 --> 00:08:46,960 I'm probably. Going to drink a lot of Chianti. 178 00:08:46,960 --> 00:08:49,160 I love it. So I'll be doing that and then 179 00:08:50,320 --> 00:08:52,320 drive back to Florence and fly back to Australia. 180 00:08:52,320 --> 00:08:54,120 So it's a very short trip, but it'll be fun. 181 00:08:54,360 --> 00:08:56,840 But now that it's close, I'm pretty pumped. 182 00:08:56,960 --> 00:08:59,120 Yeah, it's. Gonna be amazing. 183 00:09:01,040 --> 00:09:04,440 I opted to stay here. Do you regret that decision? 184 00:09:04,720 --> 00:09:08,800 Well, yes and no. Like I wanna come, but also I 185 00:09:08,800 --> 00:09:10,840 just didn't know where we were gonna be at with our IVF 186 00:09:11,640 --> 00:09:14,080 journey. Yeah. 187 00:09:14,080 --> 00:09:20,000 So probably, yeah, I don't know. Could have that was you probably 188 00:09:20,000 --> 00:09:22,760 could have made it happen because in hindsight is 2020, 189 00:09:22,760 --> 00:09:25,320 but you just don't know what's going on. 190 00:09:25,480 --> 00:09:28,400 And also I thought I was going to be on tour in the US. 191 00:09:28,400 --> 00:09:31,680 Yeah. And so that got cancelled and 192 00:09:32,600 --> 00:09:34,920 which meant that when I went and looked at flights, last minute 193 00:09:34,920 --> 00:09:37,800 flights and all that's very expensive. 194 00:09:38,440 --> 00:09:40,000 So, you know, I just came back from Europe. 195 00:09:40,000 --> 00:09:42,920 We just came back from Europe and I'm happy to sort of chill. 196 00:09:42,920 --> 00:09:45,120 I'm going back. I shouldn't just stand. 197 00:09:45,160 --> 00:09:47,320 Over to chill at the moment, I think I just need to. 198 00:09:47,640 --> 00:09:50,280 Zend in. Zen out and get ready for the 199 00:09:50,280 --> 00:09:55,200 next. Round, yeah, I like it, but 200 00:09:55,200 --> 00:09:58,560 housing? Housing, fuck me, I'm sure we're 201 00:09:58,560 --> 00:10:00,760 not the only ones who are in this position. 202 00:10:01,200 --> 00:10:05,280 So we're actually living with my mum, have been since we got back 203 00:10:05,280 --> 00:10:10,440 from the US and it's looking like, just with the IVF and 204 00:10:10,440 --> 00:10:12,280 stuff, it's looking like we're going to be in Brisbane at least 205 00:10:12,280 --> 00:10:16,240 for the foreseeable future. We haven't given up on the US, 206 00:10:16,240 --> 00:10:21,560 but obviously we need healthcare and so we're going to look for, 207 00:10:22,360 --> 00:10:29,000 we're looking for a rental. And it's crazy, like everyone 208 00:10:29,000 --> 00:10:30,760 says it, but until you're actually looking for one 209 00:10:30,760 --> 00:10:35,320 yourself, it's like, you know, if you want something decent, 210 00:10:35,600 --> 00:10:40,960 it's like 800 bucks a week. And when we say decent, what 211 00:10:40,960 --> 00:10:45,440 we're looking for is 3 bedroom. No2 bedroom. 212 00:10:46,120 --> 00:10:49,120 What I, when, when we're looking for decent and what I, what 213 00:10:49,120 --> 00:10:50,720 we're looking for, it's two-bedroom. 214 00:10:51,360 --> 00:10:55,640 Like ideal would be 3, heck ideal is 6 bedrooms but yeah at 215 00:10:55,640 --> 00:10:57,320 least. I still remember when I first 216 00:10:57,320 --> 00:11:01,080 moved out of home so this was 2009, not that long ago. 217 00:11:01,360 --> 00:11:04,400 Maybe it is, but I was paying. So there's we had a three 218 00:11:04,400 --> 00:11:10,600 bedroom house, 4 bedroom house in Toowoomba and between the 219 00:11:10,600 --> 00:11:14,040 three of us, we're paying $70 each rent a week. 220 00:11:14,680 --> 00:11:17,320 And like that was a lot even then. 221 00:11:17,320 --> 00:11:21,480 Because generally when you finish school or you're doing an 222 00:11:21,480 --> 00:11:24,040 apprenticeship or even if you're studying, you're not earning 223 00:11:24,040 --> 00:11:26,760 that much money. Say I think I was earning 800 224 00:11:26,760 --> 00:11:29,800 bucks a week at that point. So that's like 110th of your 225 00:11:29,800 --> 00:11:34,040 income, the equivalent now like 800. 226 00:11:34,120 --> 00:11:37,680 Like let's say for example, even if you're not, if you're sharing 227 00:11:37,680 --> 00:11:39,880 a house and you're doing like 500 bucks, I could still. 228 00:11:40,280 --> 00:11:43,160 It's a lot of money for someone who's not like, especially for 229 00:11:43,200 --> 00:11:44,480 young. People, the wages haven't gone 230 00:11:44,480 --> 00:11:47,720 up like that and it's crazy. So maybe we need some couples to 231 00:11:47,720 --> 00:11:50,320 live with. Now fucked up shared house, 232 00:11:52,000 --> 00:11:53,720 Yeah, I mean, there's always things that you can do. 233 00:11:53,720 --> 00:11:57,200 But even when I was looking at further out, because obviously 234 00:11:57,200 --> 00:12:00,640 we're in pretty in the city, I was looking further out and it's 235 00:12:00,640 --> 00:12:04,320 still the same price for 2/2 bedrooms or two bedrooms no 236 00:12:04,360 --> 00:12:06,840 matter where you are like it may be. 237 00:12:07,280 --> 00:12:09,160 It's a little bit. Cheaper if you go further out, 238 00:12:09,160 --> 00:12:11,040 but. Then you're further out. 239 00:12:11,040 --> 00:12:13,920 Yeah, you're further out and it's not that much cheap. 240 00:12:13,920 --> 00:12:15,160 You may as well live in Toowoomba then. 241 00:12:16,000 --> 00:12:17,920 So you can live. Wherever. 242 00:12:18,360 --> 00:12:21,480 Yeah, I don't know. Anyway, we had a meeting with 243 00:12:21,480 --> 00:12:24,040 our mortgage broker and basically we could buy 244 00:12:24,040 --> 00:12:29,080 something. Something small. 245 00:12:29,120 --> 00:12:33,160 Very small, and probably smaller than what we'd like, but at 246 00:12:33,160 --> 00:12:34,600 least we're not paying. We're just like. 247 00:12:35,080 --> 00:12:36,760 Dead money to rent and we're paying off our. 248 00:12:36,880 --> 00:12:40,000 Own it just doesn't get you what it once would have. 249 00:12:40,000 --> 00:12:41,880 I think that's what. Because I'm the hard. 250 00:12:42,280 --> 00:12:45,200 Part builder by trade here. I am a guru. 251 00:12:45,200 --> 00:12:50,400 But it's just like, yeah, it's just it's skyrocketed and 252 00:12:50,400 --> 00:12:53,040 continued all the all the fucking things that everyone 253 00:12:53,040 --> 00:12:54,880 says, the reasons why people are pissed off. 254 00:12:54,960 --> 00:12:58,240 It's true. We've just realized that it's 255 00:12:58,240 --> 00:13:01,760 essentially. So now it's just you think, OK, 256 00:13:01,800 --> 00:13:05,000 well, if I'm going to commit to something for 25 years to 30 257 00:13:05,000 --> 00:13:08,560 years to pay it off, ideally you'd want to be committing to 258 00:13:08,560 --> 00:13:11,160 something that you like. It's sort of like I feel like. 259 00:13:11,360 --> 00:13:13,960 It's not for 2530 years. It might just be a. 260 00:13:14,360 --> 00:13:17,760 Yeah, but I feel like if it's like a marriage, right, you're 261 00:13:17,760 --> 00:13:19,760 not just going to get in any relationship and be like, oh, 262 00:13:19,840 --> 00:13:22,800 this would be the one for the next bit just because it's 263 00:13:22,800 --> 00:13:24,600 convenient. It's all I can get right now. 264 00:13:25,240 --> 00:13:27,080 You want to hold yourself strong. 265 00:13:27,480 --> 00:13:30,160 Well, you did looking and then you'd tell me. 266 00:13:31,080 --> 00:13:34,760 I've had a look and it's grim. It's grim out there. 267 00:13:35,160 --> 00:13:41,200 So we might have to make some sacrifices and get a little 268 00:13:41,200 --> 00:13:48,600 apartment and then, Yep, when we are making a bit more money, we 269 00:13:48,600 --> 00:13:52,600 can either rent out that apartment or sell it. 270 00:13:52,920 --> 00:13:57,160 Yep. And the other thing on top of 271 00:13:57,160 --> 00:14:02,120 the property thing, Documentary update. 272 00:14:02,120 --> 00:14:04,520 I feel like my brain's so tired right now. 273 00:14:04,520 --> 00:14:09,520 It's been a busy big week. The documentary for those who 274 00:14:09,520 --> 00:14:13,000 are wanting to know about the 58, which I hope some of you 275 00:14:13,000 --> 00:14:14,920 guys want to watch it because it's going to be epic. 276 00:14:15,640 --> 00:14:18,480 Got a meeting tomorrow night with Ben, who is our 277 00:14:18,480 --> 00:14:20,680 videographer. And now we're bringing on 278 00:14:20,680 --> 00:14:25,000 another producer to get it done at a faster time in a faster 279 00:14:25,000 --> 00:14:27,720 time frame because we want to get it pitched and we want to 280 00:14:27,720 --> 00:14:30,520 have it up in six weeks at the latest. 281 00:14:31,280 --> 00:14:33,840 And this new guy reckons he can turn it around in four weeks. 282 00:14:33,840 --> 00:14:38,840 So Ben's going to share with him, I guess, the storyline and 283 00:14:38,840 --> 00:14:43,120 do all the professional chat, and then hopefully he'll get 284 00:14:43,120 --> 00:14:46,160 started next week. And then in a month we'll have a 285 00:14:47,160 --> 00:14:49,880 month to 5-6 weeks, we'll have a documentary ready to ramble. 286 00:14:49,880 --> 00:14:52,560 Yep, I can't wait. Exciting to launch that. 287 00:14:52,560 --> 00:14:53,480 What are you going to do with it? 288 00:14:53,480 --> 00:14:55,160 Are you going to take it to Netflix? 289 00:14:55,400 --> 00:14:59,760 That's the plan. So the good thing about one of 290 00:14:59,760 --> 00:15:03,480 our our sponsors, he's highly invested in it. 291 00:15:03,480 --> 00:15:06,640 He's just like I, I took my sponsors for lunch last week and 292 00:15:06,640 --> 00:15:09,360 he's like, I was sitting there and I just can't believe the 293 00:15:09,360 --> 00:15:14,000 people you have in your corner, like very powerful, kind people 294 00:15:14,000 --> 00:15:19,160 who have invested in you. And if we looked at this 295 00:15:19,160 --> 00:15:22,480 properly, rather than just getting it out and made it into 296 00:15:22,560 --> 00:15:25,040 like made a business plan around it, because the goal is to get 297 00:15:25,040 --> 00:15:26,680 it in front of as many people as possible. 298 00:15:27,200 --> 00:15:30,880 They have a lot of connections with people who can make that 299 00:15:30,880 --> 00:15:34,360 happen. So we're meeting when I get back 300 00:15:34,360 --> 00:15:38,200 from Europe to, well, he's already working on something and 301 00:15:38,200 --> 00:15:40,080 I'll work on something and just be like, this is what we're 302 00:15:40,080 --> 00:15:43,280 going to present to the sponsors already, just because obviously 303 00:15:43,280 --> 00:15:45,960 their logos are all over it. But like, who in their network 304 00:15:45,960 --> 00:15:47,880 can they help us? And we'll start with the biggest 305 00:15:47,880 --> 00:15:50,560 thing, which is he was even saying like if I, you know, gave 306 00:15:50,560 --> 00:15:53,640 you 100 grand, for example, he's not doing that. 307 00:15:53,640 --> 00:15:57,360 But like he's just thinking like think out there for marketing. 308 00:15:57,360 --> 00:16:00,040 Like if we then send you over to Times Square and just put you on 309 00:16:00,040 --> 00:16:03,920 every billboard at once, like what is some of the outrageous 310 00:16:03,920 --> 00:16:05,800 like guerrilla marketing you could do? 311 00:16:05,800 --> 00:16:07,360 And so that's what we got to think of. 312 00:16:07,360 --> 00:16:10,200 So if you guys have ideas, let me know. 313 00:16:10,200 --> 00:16:11,240 Let. Him know. 314 00:16:11,600 --> 00:16:14,480 Probably do something for the Gold Coast Marathon because I'm 315 00:16:14,480 --> 00:16:16,760 doing the half, yeah. When is that? 316 00:16:17,200 --> 00:16:21,360 6th I get back on the 3rd and it's no, it's on the 5th. 317 00:16:21,440 --> 00:16:22,920 I'm gonna be the half's on the 5th. 318 00:16:22,920 --> 00:16:23,560 You're. Gonna be. 319 00:16:23,720 --> 00:16:26,840 Jet lagged screwed. It's part of the fun of it. 320 00:16:27,800 --> 00:16:29,760 Jeez. And then you're, I'm just 321 00:16:29,760 --> 00:16:32,760 thinking like you're gonna drive back. 322 00:16:33,160 --> 00:16:36,680 Do you need a driver? From the Gold Coast. 323 00:16:36,680 --> 00:16:37,560 Yeah. Are you gonna drive with 324 00:16:37,600 --> 00:16:39,320 somebody? Probably stay down there that 325 00:16:39,320 --> 00:16:41,920 night because the marathon's on the next day and I'll help 326 00:16:41,920 --> 00:16:42,720 Maddie. Yeah. 327 00:16:43,320 --> 00:16:46,920 Oh, you'll stay with a friend. Yeah, I will do that. 328 00:16:46,920 --> 00:16:48,440 What else? Give us a Reddit story. 329 00:16:48,640 --> 00:16:50,600 Reddit story. OK Reddit, good one for you. 330 00:16:52,520 --> 00:16:55,120 Do you know what's crazy? And everyone's going to think 331 00:16:55,120 --> 00:16:57,000 this is the most logical thing I've ever said. 332 00:16:58,120 --> 00:17:00,400 When we post an episode, our views go through the roof. 333 00:17:00,400 --> 00:17:04,960 Yeah, that's my statement. No shit. 334 00:17:05,680 --> 00:17:09,200 Yeah, you post content, you give stuff for people to listen to 335 00:17:09,200 --> 00:17:11,920 and they they listen, hit it. What do we got? 336 00:17:13,560 --> 00:17:15,440 All right, I'm gonna. I've got a couple. 337 00:17:15,480 --> 00:17:17,839 Of stories here somebody you, you keep talking. 338 00:17:17,839 --> 00:17:22,640 Now I have to edit that bit. Far out more work for me, but 339 00:17:22,640 --> 00:17:24,640 we're going for as soon as we're done here. 340 00:17:25,319 --> 00:17:26,920 We're going for pasta down at beck. 341 00:17:26,960 --> 00:17:28,359 What time's Beckafina's open? It's. 342 00:17:28,960 --> 00:17:30,480 Probably open now. Cool. 343 00:17:30,480 --> 00:17:32,320 I love nothing more than an early dinner. 344 00:17:32,400 --> 00:17:34,200 I'm so excited as well. It's the pasta. 345 00:17:34,280 --> 00:17:36,880 Pasta in Brisbane. Oh hands down, Beckafino. 346 00:17:36,880 --> 00:17:43,760 Yeah, it's just casual. It's delicious and reliable. 347 00:17:44,600 --> 00:17:49,360 Hard to get into sometimes. OK I found my story all right. 348 00:17:51,400 --> 00:17:56,640 Headline is my boyfriend who's a male 24 years old has a 349 00:17:56,640 --> 00:18:00,360 breakdown whenever I male 23, ask him to get a job or go to 350 00:18:00,360 --> 00:18:03,440 school. Long story short, I started 351 00:18:03,440 --> 00:18:06,320 nursing school in the fall. I've been extremely overwhelmed 352 00:18:06,320 --> 00:18:08,200 and frustrated because I have so much going on. 353 00:18:08,480 --> 00:18:10,800 My relationship is currently adding to my overwhelm. 354 00:18:11,560 --> 00:18:15,040 He's very emotionally needy and doesn't respect my need for 355 00:18:15,040 --> 00:18:18,720 space. He's also 24, doesn't have a job 356 00:18:18,720 --> 00:18:22,720 and refuses to go to college so he's bored and wants me to fill 357 00:18:22,720 --> 00:18:25,400 his empty time. I've told him hey go and get a 358 00:18:25,400 --> 00:18:27,960 job or go to school, do something to enhance your life 359 00:18:27,960 --> 00:18:32,240 and prepare for a future. But whatever I do, whenever I do 360 00:18:32,240 --> 00:18:35,360 that, he has a breakdown, saying how everything and everyone is 361 00:18:35,360 --> 00:18:38,920 out to get him and how he can't go to school because he doesn't 362 00:18:38,920 --> 00:18:41,800 have the time, not the money, the time. 363 00:18:42,560 --> 00:18:44,760 All he has now is an abundance of time. 364 00:18:45,200 --> 00:18:47,280 Back when I was less busy, this didn't bother me. 365 00:18:47,280 --> 00:18:51,880 Oh sorry, my phone's had a conniption. 366 00:18:52,720 --> 00:18:55,840 Back when I was less busy, this didn't bother me. 367 00:18:56,120 --> 00:18:58,520 But now that I'm actually working for a future, it's 368 00:18:58,520 --> 00:19:00,720 getting on my nerves. I can't even have a conversation 369 00:19:00,720 --> 00:19:03,680 about it without sobbing and him without him sobbing and telling 370 00:19:03,680 --> 00:19:05,600 me he isn't good enough etcetera etcetera. 371 00:19:06,040 --> 00:19:08,560 I just want him to do something, I don't care what it is. 372 00:19:08,560 --> 00:19:11,480 Hell, he could even volunteer and I'd be OK with it, but he 373 00:19:11,480 --> 00:19:14,800 needs to do something. I reproach this with compassion, 374 00:19:15,040 --> 00:19:17,960 being more firm, asking why he doesn't want to get job, going 375 00:19:17,960 --> 00:19:19,560 to college and trying to understand. 376 00:19:19,560 --> 00:19:22,320 It always ends up with me comforting him and reassuring 377 00:19:22,320 --> 00:19:25,760 him while he cries, even when I'm tired and I don't have it in 378 00:19:25,760 --> 00:19:27,680 me. What the hell do I do? 379 00:19:29,360 --> 00:19:33,840 What do you think? I think there's a song. 380 00:19:33,920 --> 00:19:38,120 It's in my head. He goes no, I don't want no 381 00:19:38,120 --> 00:19:39,960 scrub. Scrub is a gap king. 382 00:19:39,960 --> 00:19:42,840 Get no love from me. Didn't seem too long. 383 00:19:42,840 --> 00:19:45,120 We'll get banned from the scene. Cut him off. 384 00:19:45,320 --> 00:19:48,200 Cut him off. I don't know, I just. 385 00:19:49,520 --> 00:19:51,960 We're not here to fix people who don't want to fix themself. 386 00:19:52,120 --> 00:19:55,080 Yeah, he seems, I don't know, him being too harsh, but he 387 00:19:55,080 --> 00:19:58,880 seems lazy, needy. He's dragging you down, he's 388 00:19:58,880 --> 00:20:05,480 mooching off you, and you're 23. He's older than you like you 389 00:20:05,480 --> 00:20:07,360 need to be building a life together if you want to go in 390 00:20:07,360 --> 00:20:09,760 that direction. I think as you said the first 391 00:20:09,760 --> 00:20:15,800 time, you need to be able to support people through their 392 00:20:15,800 --> 00:20:17,720 tough times. But if they're not actively 393 00:20:17,720 --> 00:20:21,880 doing anything to improve themself, like eventually you 394 00:20:21,880 --> 00:20:24,280 have to set some boundary there to protect yourself. 395 00:20:24,280 --> 00:20:27,560 Meaning I'm, you know, he's recommended all of these things, 396 00:20:27,560 --> 00:20:29,080 but you're still not doing anything. 397 00:20:29,200 --> 00:20:31,360 Yeah. And that then brings you down. 398 00:20:31,640 --> 00:20:35,200 So it's like, eventually this is the boundary and it's been 399 00:20:35,200 --> 00:20:37,040 crossed. So now, yeah. 400 00:20:37,080 --> 00:20:43,400 Because how are you paying rent? Are you affording to eat food? 401 00:20:43,480 --> 00:20:44,760 I don't get it. Yeah. 402 00:20:45,280 --> 00:20:48,680 What do you guys think on that? Let us know. 403 00:20:48,680 --> 00:20:53,440 I mean, if you're with a partner, I think it's OK to, as 404 00:20:53,440 --> 00:20:55,760 you said, lean on each other. It's OK to support your partner 405 00:20:55,760 --> 00:20:58,520 for a certain period of time or forever if that's an arrangement 406 00:20:58,520 --> 00:21:00,040 you have. But they're not married. 407 00:21:00,040 --> 00:21:01,400 Doesn't seem like he's very happy with. 408 00:21:02,080 --> 00:21:05,080 And it's also like, if you know, I think if that's the 409 00:21:05,080 --> 00:21:07,920 arrangement, there's also still other things happening, like 410 00:21:07,960 --> 00:21:10,160 you're not just sitting on your ass complaining and. 411 00:21:10,640 --> 00:21:13,000 Crying. Pulling on the you know, the 412 00:21:13,320 --> 00:21:15,840 sleeve of a shirt being like please look at me. 413 00:21:16,160 --> 00:21:18,120 Exactly. So you've got to make yourself 414 00:21:18,120 --> 00:21:20,360 valuable. I believe that's my belief. 415 00:21:21,000 --> 00:21:24,840 I understand all circumstances are different, but I think if 416 00:21:24,840 --> 00:21:29,560 you're in a hole, build a build a crew of people, acknowledge 417 00:21:29,600 --> 00:21:33,200 that I need help, get the right people to help you, and then 418 00:21:33,200 --> 00:21:36,360 also just do the things that you need to do to get better. 419 00:21:36,360 --> 00:21:38,680 I think breaking up with him would probably be a wake up call 420 00:21:38,680 --> 00:21:41,640 that he needs because he's going to have to move out and get a 421 00:21:41,640 --> 00:21:44,000 job. That's scary. 422 00:21:44,640 --> 00:21:45,960 Fuck. All right? 423 00:21:46,760 --> 00:21:49,560 Anything else? I think that's all from us, 424 00:21:49,560 --> 00:21:52,280 that's all the updates and the things that we've been dealing 425 00:21:52,280 --> 00:21:57,560 in our relationship and there'll be more to come as the weeks go 426 00:21:57,560 --> 00:22:02,480 on and the problems arise and as we look for a house and fed 427 00:22:02,480 --> 00:22:02,960 anchor. Yeah. 428 00:22:02,960 --> 00:22:06,080 Thank you for listening and don't forget to subscribe like 429 00:22:06,440 --> 00:22:08,200 comment. We love to interact. 430 00:22:08,200 --> 00:22:10,160 If you have any questions for us, please do that. 431 00:22:10,600 --> 00:22:13,480 And in the meantime? Hulu.