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Hi, I'm Amy Shepherd. 
I'm locked and Stewart and 

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although we have different last 
names, we're married. 

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Now, we've been told the secret 
to a successful marriage is 

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communication. 
So we're going to talk it out 

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every week. 
Share our challenges, and pet 

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peeves. 
Then we're setting each other. 

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Some goals, some couple goals, 
couple goals. 

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The podcast is for those who 
might be looking to life their 

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way through challenging 
scenarios that all couples. 

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Go through occasionally. 
We might even get some other 

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couples to join in. 
Yeah, you'd like that. 

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Hit, subscribe and tune in. 
Every week to hear our weekly 

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couple goals. 
Well, this must mean it's 7 p.m.

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on Thursday evening. 
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know whether that was happening 
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let's do this. 
Just to let people tuned in. 

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Let's see if this works. 
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live. 
We're actually playing around 

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with this software for the very 
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as we figure it out and we get 
to know everyone who is 

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listening, I'll let Amy rip into
episode 36. 

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Yeah, episode 36, not the way to
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have to old habits, die hard, 
and so young. 

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Anyway, thank you so much for 
joining us. 

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We are still tote that is people
who have taken time out of your 

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evening to join us for the live 
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of couple goals. 
So we've got some familiar names

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on already commenting which is 
really exciting. 

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Yeah, we're seeing a lot of 
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What about my new beard trim? 
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listening in and couldn't make 
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hair off and it's short. 
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feels great. 
I just woke up in the morning. 

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Brush. 
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Brush that side, ready? 
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I bet you I won cuz I don't even
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I just wake up. 
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sure why not? 
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before. 
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episode. 
Firstly, as Amy said, we're so 

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stoked to have you tuning in 
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I guess a bit of housekeeping 
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to record this episode, and 
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the show for next week, we want 
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Also, you've got the chat 
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where you can connect obviously.
For those who are whatever 

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platform you're listening or 
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So, that's not what do we got 
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Oh yeah, some cool stuff there. 
Just edit that so we can engage 

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with you all them. 
For those of you who actually 

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minutes, we will be sharing 
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You'll see a private chat, which
you'll all be added to. 

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You can click that link. 
So it just says copy. 

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And it might say, if you're on 
your phone, it'll say open your 

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Safari browser, paste it and 
you'll actually be able to come 

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on the screen with us and have a
yarn because this is the part 

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where we get to answer your 
questions and connect 

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personally, rather than just I 
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is still Monitor to Monitor, 
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Yeah, you know, we get to answer
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So, in the meantime, if you do 
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side and we will do our best to 
answer them on the Fly, but 

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what's been happening, Dal, the 
last week what's been going on? 

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Like busy but still in Brisbane,
which has been nice. 

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I've just been doing lots of 
songwriting. 

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And I mean, if you guys are 
members of my patreon, you are 

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privy to, some of my little song
ideas that I drop in there. 

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And I do that because I really 
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I love to share what I've just 
written and I get really excited

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about it. 
But I often, you know, I don't 

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want to put it out to their 
world, I just want to put it out

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to my very close Go sir. 
That goes to my patreon members 

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and its really nice hearing the 
feedback and which ones I 

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really, really love. 
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because I'm not in it really. 
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and I saw you uploaded a song 
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The Ricochet. 
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Yeah, cheeky actually showed a 
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yeah, I get really embarrassed 
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I'm still kind of learning how 
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think about guitar and singing 
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have practice songs over and 
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But for a new song, it's like, 
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And then yeah. 
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But well, you know, that's 
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new idea. 
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position because I'm just 
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So the fact that you can do that
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Yeah. 
It takes like it's like you know

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when you pat your head and rub 
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I Yes, I do actually do it. 
What's been happening in your 

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world lucky? 
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exciting. 
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at the me why But it's, you're 
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Well, lucky I do. 
You guys want to hear the news? 

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I don't know, where can we are 
see their comments again, if you

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guys want to hear the news, post
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some hearts or loves if you're 
watching on YouTube? 

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I'm really, really proud of this
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Why are you proud wife? 
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Yeah, because I am the wife of 
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Everybody already knew that, but
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Athlete, which you already wear 
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Anyway. 
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we getting there in a roundabout
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So some of you may know that 
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couple of weekends ago and he 
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He was just like I'm just gonna 
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I don't think you've been wanted
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three. 
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I did a five kilometer 10 km and
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with my mates if my mates are 
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It's your fault. 
So all the people by all these 

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friends bailed because and they 
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commitments. 
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so well that he managed to get 
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Championships of Spartan Racing 
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They call it and he's going to 
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exciting because he got the 
email. 

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He's been invited and now we're 
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Well, I'm planning a trip. 
Funny, a trip to Europe. 

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I'm, I can't go to that one, but
I make so excited for you and me

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living through. 
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athlete, spillage. 
There's like a uniform, it's not

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until the story. 
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Well, they pass it over to me 
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But yeah, there's a hole opening
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There's a, it's like a mini 
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It's the very first year, so 
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Obstacle course, all the there's
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this cool little sport, called 
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racing championships and it's on
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Belgium. 
I think it's pronounced gang. 

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Is it going to be cold? 
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I hope that it is it going to be
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Nah, I don't know. 
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anyway. 
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training. 
Do you think like it's going to 

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be up in the mountains? 
Did you have to do is an 

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altitude training? 
Where am I possibly going to do 

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some altitude training? 
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facilities that you can do. 
You can do. 

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There is our locker. 
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I don't actually know. 
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then we'll go from there. 
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experience. 
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really love is like as you get 
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that you can get into, you don't
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So I think that's awesome. 
So have you ever qualified for a

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World sport before never? 
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champion and all of that but 
then rugby was always taking me 

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away from other sports and now 
that I don't even know how good 

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you were. 
It's climbing shit. 

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Well it's probably thought I 
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always jump over my clothes and 
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That's where. 
Yeah, getting through our 

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bedroom, just to my side because
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of the bed to get to my side of 
the bed, I have to either climb 

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over Amy's clothes or even 
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And then on the morning, I'm 
going to do the exact same thing

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in the dark, so you can. 
Thank me later. 

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I'm a fair shot. 
Present from Europe. 

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Well, there you go. 
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Now we've got the decision on 
who's coming with me because and

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we can't some it's down to three
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It's down to Bradley those who 
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Brad's my one of my best mates 
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And we got mum, obviously, she's
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you all know who Liam is 
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Two or something? 
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early adopters of the couple 
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So he's there as well. 
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We might put keys in a bowl and 
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Anyway, that's that's what I've 
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I work and training sleep for 
the next 16 weeks. 

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Yeah, exciting. 
But we're going to live boring 

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last for a couple of months, but
then we got some exciting stuff.

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Yeah. 
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Really excited. 
Well, let's let's let's 

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transition into your foot. 
So get this right once again. 

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For those who have been 
listening for a number of weeks,

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we're in a temporary Studio. 
Where Amy's got a tick, tock 

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live straight after this. 
So we're trying to not mess up 

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what they've got situated. 
I've put some notes down here 

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and on a board and for those who
are in Amy's, patron of take a 

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photo photo of it so you can see
what I'm dealing with here. 

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Meanwhile aim is to this is her 
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She's just sitting here like 
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Whiteboard with the notes. 
Realize that's what you doing. 

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Like why are you looking at so 
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So as I'm trying to transition 
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I don't know, all I can see is a
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Sorry. 
These are very talented Hooks 

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and those Hoops actually got 
something to do with tonight's 

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Reddit. 
So we've, we've got a, we've got

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a prompt. 
Now, we just go into, we should 

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we switch it up? 
No, no, you want to save it, but

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I reckon. 
What do you reckon? 

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What do you guys reckon? 
Do you want us to go? 

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What are our options here? 
We can. 

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Comment to enter the notes. 
Read on Reddit section or we can

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go into our main topic of the 
evening. 

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Oh main topic or Amy's? 
Reddit section. 

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Now Amy's Reddit section, 
involves a banana involves this 

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banana okay. 
Involves this lovely looking 

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banana. 
There is a nice shape to that 

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banana. 
And the only way you're going to

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find out what the hell. 
This banana is doing here. 

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And what can be done with this 
banana aside from eating, it is 

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by commenting. 
So Mitch says, to hell with 

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plans, so he wants to hear the 
story. 

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Well, Zach Bernardo says go to 
the Meto. 

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We got a 50-50. 
We need at least one more person

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to hit us up here to give us, 
you know, all enemies come 

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through with the goods. 
So before we go into Amy's 

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Reddit, Kirstie. 
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dropped us a line. 
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Amy's Life Sounds because she 
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under 30 seconds and me. 
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Papua New Guinea. 
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the street and that could go the
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really high crime rate. 
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safe. 
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weekend. 
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the tropics, I think that's 
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any I like to go, you know, to 
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and yeah, that obviously comes 
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You know, being not the safest 
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save for another episode but we 
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Maybe maybe maybe not. 
I cannot relax some pretty 

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serious things happened but we 
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I feel like I haven't LED like a
part of me will always be Impact

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in, PNG Ivan life. 
Yeah, you do love laying down 

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with your feet crossed on my 
board ring. 

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Yeah. 
Cocktails, I do think that's the

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island. 
No. 

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But also like there's some 
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although they've got, you know, 
some social issues and lots of 

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crime once you get out of the 
city, it's just so beautiful. 

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It's Untouched by tourists, the 
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really miss that about it. 
But Thank, you know, it's shaped

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who I am as a person. 
I feel like I feel like I'm 

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fairly down-to-earth. 
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that's because I've seen how a 
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most of the most of the 
population in the world, have it

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really tough. 
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amongst that has realized made 
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cool. 
Well let's let's there's some so

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many buttons on here that are 
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I'm like, how can we Utilizing 
me. 

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But let's let's see what this 
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Reddit, doing a, grab your phone
and get the red it up. 

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Let's see what this does. 
Judy wasn't ready, you're ready?

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Take a read and read it with 
seven. 

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He said, like a late night phone
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Like sorry guys for cutting you 
off there. 

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It was about to get good anyway.
We are back with Amy's, Reddit. 

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So, I came across this late last
night when I was scrolling read 

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it, and it made me laugh. 
I don't know what he felt me, 

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chuckle, but I screenshot it 
right away because I wanted to 

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share it with you guys. 
So very relatable for Lucky. 

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My wife. 
Oh, oh. 

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What's the username mi-28? 
Me, anyway. 

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Yes, but how old I am, but I 
double the age of each other. 

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Yeah. 
Over double My wife refuses to 

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cut her toenails. 
The title is pretty 

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self-explanatory. 
I know it might seem funny at 

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first but I'm legitimately at a 
loss. 

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I wake up every morning with 
painful scratches all over my 

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legs. 
She kicks at night, her toenails

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are so sharp. 
Whenever I asked her to cut 

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them, she just responds. 
I don't like the feeling of my 

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nails being clicked. 
I've even tried cutting them 

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while she's asleep, but she woke
up and we got into a heated 

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argument. 
She says the scratches on my 

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legs must be coming from 
somewhere else, but unless there

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are mice living in our sheets, 
I'm not quite sure where she 

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thinks they're coming from, how 
can I confront her about this? 

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And finally, get my old legs 
back. 

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Oh my fucking god. 
Like how how, how long do you 

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think we're talking right now 
for these Sports? 

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I don't know, but they've got to
be pretty sharp cutting his legs

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in the Well, that would hurt so 
much. 

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Let's can we, can we get your 
feet up here for a second but 

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there's no way those on the. 
Yeah, this might go viral for a 

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foot fetish because people pay 
hundreds of dollars for toes. 

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Down a divorce, hit me says 
divorce, 1900 dial, and Amy. 

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I mean, it's pretty gross. 
I've just had a pedicure today. 

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So you know, this was gonna 
happen. 

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No, but I think so happens that,
you know, I have very nice vote.

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Yes. 
Shortly. 

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But, in order to get to that 
point must mean that they were 

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overgrown at some point and just
how much help what happens with 

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toes know, of course. 
But just how much overgrown we 

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will leave up to everyone's 
imagination. 

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But let's just assume they were 
unlike me. 

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This lady could be. 
Yeah. 

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But if she doesn't like people 
cutting them they must be 

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really. 
What do you guys think in the 

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comments? 
How long is too long? 

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Look, I've got a quick segue and
then we're going to come back to

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why the banana is here. 
But I have been a Savage. 

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Now to a my whole life is only 
been two times that I can ever 

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recall not chewing my nails and 
I've actually grown in back 

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through these beautiful things. 
They're not manicure. 

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They're just self looked after. 
But last year when I was rolling

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the marathon's I think could 
because I was so tired, I didn't

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even think about it. 
And now all of a sudden like 

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what would it have been a month 
ago? 

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I just stopped chewing my nails 
things to worry about. 

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Maybe I've grown up finally, 
filthy habit because you have 

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all, Sorts of literally shit 
under your nails and that's how 

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you get worms but it's just 
wrong. 

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When you chew toy, if you chew 
it, germs in your mouth, what do

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you guys think? 
Do you think that's a good way 

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of looking at it? 
Or not so much, but to sure I'm 

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not too short of, if you're 
putting holes in your own socks,

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as well as your husband's sake, 
you've got a problem. 

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I totally and I have had sharp 
toenails before and scratched 

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you right? 
100%. 

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Oh my goodness! 
That's what you like. 

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Oh sorry. so, I mean I did is 
weird thing which Maybe we've 

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spoken about before maybe we 
haven't I can't remember. 

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But when we're watching like 
Netflix or whatever and 

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sometimes you know we'll put the
laptop between between the two 

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of us. 
So it's not on anyone's area 

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because you know you're worried 
about those those Rays I will 

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put it between us but around it.
You can sort of like kick your 

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foot through like so and Link 
toes like this they're like 

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scissoring toes which is but 
that's what it is, right toes, 

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it's a quite a unique. 
Spear Ian. 

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So if you and your partner 
aren't into that, give it a 

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crack if you want to try 
something new holding hands, but

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some potatoes that is fucking 
weird. 

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I hope none of us have tinea 
otherwise it just like and I 

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hope it's jams. 
Yeah, I hope you guys try and 

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get back to us on that. 
Yeah, the time I didn't share my

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nails was when I was pregnant. 
I have then this is a comment. 

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I like yeah sorry this is let me
post it up. 

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Boom. 
I then covered them with 

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acrylics. 
Yeah. 

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That's always a great way of 
stopping chewing. 

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Your nails. 
I've got Builder gel on so it's 

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like gel, but it's hard. 
It's like a powder and they dip 

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your nail in it and it's great. 
The problem is they grow so long

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and strong that I can't play 
guitar anymore. 

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So I have yeah phylum. 
Yeah, get them short. 

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Yeah, well that's an issue. 
What do we got here? 

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Ella has a question. 
I need some tips on how to stop 

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now biting look. 
I don't have tips. 

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I do now that I stopped chewing,
but yeah, I think I'm having gel

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or Builder or SNS. 
Helps with, Cecily is, it's also

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like an acrylic, but it's, yeah.
It just makes your nails to hard

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to even chew. 
Yeah, okay. 

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Well, there you go. 
So do that makes typing hard to.

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Yeah, I can get SNS and build on
short nails so that's always an 

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option as well. 
All right, well, this 

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conversation is really taking a 
turn for the worst and Nails 

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aren't really my thing anymore. 
So, let's move on. 

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Let's let's spice this up. 
So as your for those who are 

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tuning in as well, let us know 
where you've tuned in from 

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whether you're in Brisbane. 
Or I know we've got some 

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American listeners, we have 
people tuning in from about I 

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think it's 40-something 
countries at the moment. 

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Listening to cover girls, which 
is pretty awesome. 

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Considering we still don't know 
what we're doing here. 

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We're just figuring it out but 
quickly before we go to this 

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banana. 
Why do we even start couple 

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girls? 
For those who haven't listened 

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to perform? 
We got Sunny Coast on the map 

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with Carmen. 
Boom. 

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Why did we start couple goals? 
That's a question terrible. 

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Well Now you got another reason.
We just wanted to do it. 

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Yeah, yeah, we just thought we 
were newly married. 

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We thought we could offer some 
laughs. 

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We wanted to focus. 
That wasn't like to self helpy. 

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We wanted like a bit of 
self-help, but in a fun way. 

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So, and I think relationships 
ever ammonium that a central 

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figure of life, even if it's 
whether it's intimate, like we 

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are, or it's just your mates, 
right? 

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You got to Two same skills. 
Make good relationships. 

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I think it's fun to talk about 
now. 

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People don't like talking about 
sex because it's taboo. 

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We don't talk about it on here, 
either. 

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So apart from this banana, but 
it's taboo. 

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But then also other things in 
relationships and it's just fun 

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to talk about it because we know
we're not the only ones who want

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to rip each other's heads off 
from time to time not that Amy 

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would want to do that to me. 
But not today. 

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It does happen and we can learn 
just as much from you guys as 

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this continues to grow and our 
community continues to grow and 

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we get To do more cool stuff 
like this. 

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And eventually once we sort of 
hit our stride, We're going to 

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do it live. 
We're going to hit some cafes or

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bars goal is to like start 
touring with. 

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Yeah. 
That's how cool would that be? 

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That would be pretty gnarly. 
I'm pretty damn for that. 

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Alright, but let's finish the 
Reddit so I think that was 

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absolutely disgusting to be 
honest. 

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The fact that your partner is 
cutting you because they will 

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not Practice personal hygiene. 
I think that's it. 

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Heidi, I think it is to like, 
grow up a cave. 

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Yeah. 
Like, literally, like, if you're

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not cutting your nails, once 
myself like I can understand. 

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Maybe there's some weird thing 
about someone else cutting your 

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nails but if you you do it or 
file them, I'll figure it out 

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because you're hurting your 
husband and it's not cool. 

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Yeah I think there's compromise 
and we will dive into that into 

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main topic because we got some 
cool stuff around. 

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Now that you've moved my 
schedule around, I don't even 

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know what we're talking about 
relationship. 

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Milestones and Transitions and 
how to not let your relationship

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go. 
Stay like this banana is because

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I've been holding it for bloody 
well, 10 minutes. 

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Well, okay, so when Amy read me 
to read it today I was like 

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that's a great topic because 
we're going to get to do 

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something that we rarely have 
the opportunity to do for 

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people. 
And Amy has his Habit in the 

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last time I saw it. 
I was blown away. 

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We have it's a party trick. 
It's a part of yes, so not 

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habitat. 
Talent where she can peel a 

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banana with her toes and rumors 
are true. 

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Quite rapidly. 
Has anyone seen this before? 

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It has any can any one of the 
you do it? 

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I reckon I could charge a lot on
like a foot fetish.com. 

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Well we're going to put this out
for free, know it, we're putting

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on our patreon. 
I said we're putting it on 

449
00:23:52,600 --> 00:23:55,300
patreon so it's not free, but 
it's from three dollars a month.

450
00:23:56,400 --> 00:23:59,400
So, yes, you can. 
I would love for everyone to see

451
00:23:59,400 --> 00:24:02,800
what I've been trying to. 
We've got two bananas here. 

452
00:24:02,800 --> 00:24:05,500
So why don't we both do it? 
We'll have a competition. 

453
00:24:06,400 --> 00:24:07,700
What do you say? 
I can't do it. 

454
00:24:08,100 --> 00:24:10,400
You can do it. 
This is going to get really 

455
00:24:10,400 --> 00:24:13,900
weird guys and I didn't want to 
have to do this but we're going 

456
00:24:13,900 --> 00:24:17,500
to do it anyway. 
Now normally the trick is to 

457
00:24:17,500 --> 00:24:20,800
peel it from this end. 
How the but I had a banana 

458
00:24:20,800 --> 00:24:24,300
peeling competition with my 
friend and she smoked me. 

459
00:24:24,300 --> 00:24:26,400
I don't banana. 
Just a casual banana peeling. 

460
00:24:26,400 --> 00:24:30,100
Competition, your friend right? 
Oh, what kind of friend groups 

461
00:24:30,100 --> 00:24:31,600
are you hanging out with? 
How are you? 

462
00:24:31,800 --> 00:24:33,700
Film this. 
Well, I'm going to angle the 

463
00:24:33,700 --> 00:24:38,000
camera down. 
But so, the tip is from the tip.

464
00:24:38,300 --> 00:24:40,100
You try from that, and I'll try 
it from this end. 

465
00:24:40,100 --> 00:24:41,700
I'm going with that end. 
Okay. 

466
00:24:41,700 --> 00:24:46,400
Well, let's just see. 
That's going to get me, it's 

467
00:24:46,400 --> 00:24:48,700
gonna get fucking very with hot 
and you gotta go back. 

468
00:24:49,200 --> 00:24:51,400
I can do it now. 
I've talked a big game, I can 

469
00:24:51,400 --> 00:24:53,800
you guys see? 
I can't say I've got a bit 

470
00:24:53,800 --> 00:24:55,000
unlucky. 
Mitch's back him. 

471
00:24:55,000 --> 00:24:58,200
Here I've looked I've 
legitimately never tried this in

472
00:24:58,200 --> 00:24:59,900
my life. 
You can't see it like but I 

473
00:24:59,900 --> 00:25:00,800
ain't a quitter. 
Yeah. 

474
00:25:02,000 --> 00:25:06,700
So here we go. 
I'd say can we start already 

475
00:25:06,700 --> 00:25:08,300
prepared? 
Yeah, I'm going to win it. 

476
00:25:08,300 --> 00:25:12,000
Hey I already feel it in my 
toes, ready? 

477
00:25:12,000 --> 00:25:18,300
Who back in guys, too. 
You have to peel it up, so it 

478
00:25:19,900 --> 00:25:23,900
didn't peel. 
Fuck damn it. 

479
00:25:28,400 --> 00:25:32,100
If you keep watching this, this 
is phenomenal, live footage of 

480
00:25:32,100 --> 00:25:36,500
Anna Banana being peeled at. 
This is also extremely, who's 

481
00:25:36,500 --> 00:25:42,400
hungry lucky, take a bath. 
Ah, those bananas are going 

482
00:25:42,400 --> 00:25:45,000
straight to the bin, what a 
waste, but I thought, you know, 

483
00:25:45,000 --> 00:25:48,100
when you told me I saw her, I 
was like, you can't not get Amy 

484
00:25:48,100 --> 00:25:52,700
peeling, a banana on live stream
for Everyone to watch. 

485
00:25:53,300 --> 00:25:57,400
I sort of went with probably the
Just pull its head off approach 

486
00:25:57,400 --> 00:26:00,500
and it definitely is not edible 
and Amy actually pills it quite 

487
00:26:00,500 --> 00:26:02,800
nicely, so we're basically Apes.
Yeah. 

488
00:26:02,800 --> 00:26:04,800
Well, we were watching 
chimpanzee Empire. 

489
00:26:04,800 --> 00:26:07,600
The other night if anyone's 
watching Empire on Netflix. 

490
00:26:07,900 --> 00:26:10,200
Great watch. 
Great couple. 

491
00:26:10,200 --> 00:26:12,700
They're so human like an Amy 
definitely fits in there. 

492
00:26:13,100 --> 00:26:15,200
So let's move on. 
Let's move on from the Reddit. 

493
00:26:15,200 --> 00:26:17,000
Let's go. 
What do we do? 

494
00:26:17,000 --> 00:26:18,900
Pet peeves or main topic main 
topic? 

495
00:26:18,900 --> 00:26:20,800
It will say, yeah, we'll get 
some serious stuff. 

496
00:26:20,800 --> 00:26:24,300
So what do we got here? 
Comment rolling in love this 

497
00:26:24,300 --> 00:26:25,200
forum. 
Love the pod. 

498
00:26:25,300 --> 00:26:26,600
Cass. 
Listen religiously. 

499
00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:29,700
I always just assumed it was 
called couple goals as a smart 

500
00:26:29,700 --> 00:26:33,000
way to promote the song. 
Well, the song is a really 

501
00:26:33,000 --> 00:26:35,100
clever song where it's like, 
what are the least? 

502
00:26:35,300 --> 00:26:38,500
I've got a couple Gold Cup goes.
Yeah, something like that. 

503
00:26:38,600 --> 00:26:40,800
I can't. 
I have a couple of goals which 

504
00:26:40,800 --> 00:26:44,000
are to be couple goals which 
means whatever you guys want to 

505
00:26:44,008 --> 00:26:45,600
be in a relationship and were 
like hmm. 

506
00:26:46,500 --> 00:26:53,200
That's just our own song. 
You can use your song. 

507
00:26:53,200 --> 00:26:55,800
How cool? 
So Right? 

508
00:26:56,000 --> 00:26:58,500
Well, we had some serious 
Talent. 

509
00:26:58,700 --> 00:27:01,700
You are a talented lady, Amy. 
What can I say? 

510
00:27:01,800 --> 00:27:04,400
People have been saying it 
forever and I'm starting to 

511
00:27:04,400 --> 00:27:08,600
believe it, okay? 
So tonight's Tick-Tock there 

512
00:27:08,600 --> 00:27:10,800
should be to eat them all my 
goodness. 

513
00:27:11,400 --> 00:27:14,800
Oh my God, that's a great idea. 
We were onto something, 

514
00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:16,600
brilliant. 
So for those who are going to 

515
00:27:16,600 --> 00:27:19,400
tune into Amy's, you know what? 
We need another banana because 

516
00:27:19,800 --> 00:27:23,300
you got to peel it on the tick 
tock and then there is another 

517
00:27:23,300 --> 00:27:25,700
banana in the bottle. 
Maybe one of you can Be eating 

518
00:27:25,700 --> 00:27:27,400
these ones. 
First will give it to Georgia 

519
00:27:27,400 --> 00:27:30,600
and then once again, we'll play 
him the video of this, how to be

520
00:27:30,600 --> 00:27:33,200
funny as well. 
We got to stick to a timeline 

521
00:27:33,200 --> 00:27:36,200
because yeah, I know we're on 
track with killing it. 

522
00:27:37,000 --> 00:27:39,400
Okay, so main topic. 
What is it today? 

523
00:27:39,700 --> 00:27:43,000
We've got now, we got a serious 
topic is so obviously 

524
00:27:43,000 --> 00:27:44,700
relationship, milestones and 
transition. 

525
00:27:44,700 --> 00:27:47,500
So part of couple goals is 
obviously to improve your 

526
00:27:47,500 --> 00:27:52,100
relationship and there are these
Do you mind if I take lead here?

527
00:27:55,000 --> 00:27:59,200
So there's a lot of pressure in 
relationships to be at certain 

528
00:27:59,200 --> 00:28:02,500
Milestones as we hit certain 
ages. 

529
00:28:02,500 --> 00:28:06,200
You know, I think for people 
that's by 30, a lot of people 

530
00:28:06,200 --> 00:28:09,200
feel pressure to be married and 
have the house and all of that 

531
00:28:09,200 --> 00:28:11,700
sort of stuff, and that might 
not just be the case for 

532
00:28:11,700 --> 00:28:13,900
everyone. 
So, I think it's important to 

533
00:28:13,908 --> 00:28:17,200
talk about the relationship 
milestones and transitions 

534
00:28:17,200 --> 00:28:19,700
between that. 
And we can discuss some common 

535
00:28:19,700 --> 00:28:21,000
Milestones. 
Obviously, if Us. 

536
00:28:21,700 --> 00:28:23,900
You think about things like 
moving in with your partner? 

537
00:28:24,900 --> 00:28:28,100
The first time you get fairy 
cares we won't talk about that. 

538
00:28:28,100 --> 00:28:29,800
But that's that's a thing, 
right? 

539
00:28:29,800 --> 00:28:34,600
That's a thing that people 
consider marriage having 

540
00:28:34,600 --> 00:28:38,500
children and I got a house 
together, buying a house 

541
00:28:38,500 --> 00:28:40,200
together. 
Yes. 

542
00:28:40,200 --> 00:28:44,500
And wild stuff that you don't 
necessarily get taught how to 

543
00:28:44,500 --> 00:28:46,800
transition into those phases. 
Because obviously, when you go 

544
00:28:46,800 --> 00:28:50,500
from living with your mates, or 
at home with your family today, 

545
00:28:50,600 --> 00:28:52,800
Living with your partner. 
It's a bit different right? 

546
00:28:52,800 --> 00:28:57,500
Because well, you know, it's 
just weird in the beginning. 

547
00:28:57,500 --> 00:29:01,700
You don't have necessarily 
boundaries or maybe even rolls 

548
00:29:01,700 --> 00:29:04,400
around who does what around the 
house and if you grow up in a, 

549
00:29:04,500 --> 00:29:07,700
you know, a household, my mum 
did a lot of the things and my 

550
00:29:07,700 --> 00:29:11,000
dad did a lot of other things. 
So there wasn't much for me to 

551
00:29:11,000 --> 00:29:12,500
do. 
But then when you get dumped 

552
00:29:12,500 --> 00:29:16,600
with all the responsibilities of
a fuck who's doing that and if 

553
00:29:16,600 --> 00:29:21,800
it doesn't get done, you can 
bicker and I think I kind of 

554
00:29:21,800 --> 00:29:24,200
grew up in a household like that
to, you know, like Dad goes to 

555
00:29:24,200 --> 00:29:30,300
work. 
Mum makes a home and Things 

556
00:29:30,300 --> 00:29:34,200
Different these days, you know, 
women are going to work as well.

557
00:29:34,200 --> 00:29:38,900
And I think it's just as 
important for men to take some 

558
00:29:38,900 --> 00:29:41,600
of the leadership in the house 
as well, because we both live in

559
00:29:41,600 --> 00:29:44,400
the house, why shouldn't I? 
I've got to work as well. 

560
00:29:44,400 --> 00:29:47,400
So let's both pitch in and do 
the housework as well. 

561
00:29:47,400 --> 00:29:49,800
Hmm, and I think that comes to 
communication, which we talked 

562
00:29:49,800 --> 00:29:52,600
about Yeah, but that being said,
that means that there's no role 

563
00:29:52,600 --> 00:29:55,300
models to look too because in 
previous generations. 

564
00:29:55,600 --> 00:29:58,600
You know what? 
Women didn't go to work. 

565
00:29:58,700 --> 00:30:03,100
Yeah, it's yeah. 
So could be just there is still 

566
00:30:03,100 --> 00:30:05,700
Role Models but it's not gender 
specific anymore. 

567
00:30:06,100 --> 00:30:09,700
So if you could use a role 
model, for example, I feel like 

568
00:30:09,700 --> 00:30:12,300
I'm pretty good around the house
in like the kitchen item, a dish

569
00:30:12,300 --> 00:30:16,400
Pig excetera, but I can use a 
role model of other people 

570
00:30:16,400 --> 00:30:19,200
who've been dish pigs, for 
example, so more role-specific 

571
00:30:19,200 --> 00:30:21,700
than Gender specific. 
That's what you say. 

572
00:30:21,700 --> 00:30:23,600
That you take little bits from 
HP. 

573
00:30:23,600 --> 00:30:25,000
Yeah. 
Like, you can't. 

574
00:30:25,000 --> 00:30:27,900
Yeah, and it's, you know, I make
it home stress one day and 

575
00:30:27,900 --> 00:30:33,300
you'll, you know, I feel like 
it's very easy to go has to be 

576
00:30:33,300 --> 00:30:35,500
50/50 down the line with 
everything that we do. 

577
00:30:35,500 --> 00:30:38,100
So if I feel like I've been 
given to you, I can get 

578
00:30:38,100 --> 00:30:40,700
resentful or angry. 
That hey, I mean, do something 

579
00:30:40,700 --> 00:30:44,700
nice for me, but sometimes in 
relations, it's 70/30 or 80/20. 

580
00:30:44,900 --> 00:30:46,300
And it's just like this 
continue. 

581
00:30:46,400 --> 00:30:50,000
It's never going to have a job, 
perfect. 

582
00:30:50,100 --> 00:30:54,900
Ali amazing even. 
But yeah you pick up slack where

583
00:30:54,900 --> 00:30:58,300
you have to do that because 
you're ultimately in a 

584
00:30:58,300 --> 00:31:00,400
relationship, you're trying to 
achieve the same things. 

585
00:31:00,800 --> 00:31:04,500
I think we I did get some 
beautiful points here that I 

586
00:31:04,500 --> 00:31:08,000
would love to question any other
conversations coming through? 

587
00:31:08,300 --> 00:31:10,900
We share the load because we 
both work and have three kids. 

588
00:31:10,900 --> 00:31:12,600
It's a lot of work and we're 
tired. 

589
00:31:13,300 --> 00:31:14,700
It's awesome. 
That you guys share the load. 

590
00:31:15,500 --> 00:31:19,200
We don't have kids yet, so we 
Don't know what it's like. 

591
00:31:19,200 --> 00:31:21,500
We got a lot of friends who have
kids and that's how I guess why 

592
00:31:21,500 --> 00:31:24,800
we feel the pressure as well 
because we're doing things how 

593
00:31:24,800 --> 00:31:27,300
we want to do it as opposed to, 
you know, a lot of our friends 

594
00:31:27,300 --> 00:31:30,200
of all got kids and at times, 
you can be gone. 

595
00:31:30,200 --> 00:31:32,600
Fuck we dragging our feet. 
Yeah. 

596
00:31:32,600 --> 00:31:37,500
We messed up. 
Have all those sorts of us? 

597
00:31:37,500 --> 00:31:40,400
I think we all do have those 
thoughts. 

598
00:31:40,400 --> 00:31:43,000
That's for sure. 
I wish because Glenn hates it. 

599
00:31:43,000 --> 00:31:45,800
He cooks better than me. 
Yeah, I'm look, I'm if I'm 

600
00:31:45,800 --> 00:31:48,200
cooking, it's the most simple 
meal. 

601
00:31:48,300 --> 00:31:51,300
You'll ever eat is literally 
proteins carbs fat, that's it. 

602
00:31:51,300 --> 00:31:54,800
And, like, we're talking steak 
Legend MASH, which is fine on 

603
00:31:54,800 --> 00:32:00,400
some days, but often I can do to
spice it up a bit, so I'm happy 

604
00:32:00,400 --> 00:32:03,200
for him to do this pick, but 
yeah, it's not fair to have to 

605
00:32:03,200 --> 00:32:06,400
cook and clean and do the 
washing and change the sheets 

606
00:32:06,400 --> 00:32:09,700
and whatever else. 
Oh yeah, I think that's 

607
00:32:09,700 --> 00:32:13,600
important in a relationship 
hundred percent. 100%. 

608
00:32:13,700 --> 00:32:16,200
We're going to obviously, look 
at like three main key pointers.

609
00:32:16,200 --> 00:32:20,900
What we do is take your time 
with kids, bloody leeches, suck 

610
00:32:20,900 --> 00:32:23,900
the life out of you. 
That's encouraging. 

611
00:32:24,000 --> 00:32:27,600
Well yeah. 
She's all right, well, might 

612
00:32:27,600 --> 00:32:32,100
take an extra step away from you
but some key key things around 

613
00:32:32,100 --> 00:32:35,200
this that we thought was worth 
while to get people thinking 

614
00:32:35,200 --> 00:32:37,300
about in their relationships, 
whether you're in a relationship

615
00:32:37,300 --> 00:32:41,100
or you're not loss of autonomy. 
So there's a sense of obviously 

616
00:32:41,100 --> 00:32:44,700
feeling controlled You know, you
can we control and I would 

617
00:32:44,700 --> 00:32:46,200
consider that a toxic 
relationship. 

618
00:32:46,200 --> 00:32:50,600
So if you're in that situation, 
you know, maybe start 

619
00:32:50,600 --> 00:32:54,400
considering how you can navigate
a way out of that suppress. 

620
00:32:54,400 --> 00:32:58,000
Individuality so the person's 
individual individuality and 

621
00:32:58,000 --> 00:33:01,300
personal growth can be stifled 
not allowed to make your own 

622
00:33:01,300 --> 00:33:02,900
decisions. 
And also dependency. 

623
00:33:03,400 --> 00:33:06,900
I see it a lot where people do 
become dependent on the other 

624
00:33:06,900 --> 00:33:08,700
person. 
So when they're not around, or 

625
00:33:08,700 --> 00:33:10,800
if they would ever leave them, 
they don't have their own 

626
00:33:10,800 --> 00:33:13,700
identity and I guess Path for 
what they're wanting to do. 

627
00:33:13,700 --> 00:33:16,900
So one thing I think we do 
really well as we work really 

628
00:33:16,900 --> 00:33:19,000
well together about, you've got 
your thing and I've got my 

629
00:33:19,000 --> 00:33:21,600
thing. 
So that, even if we ever split 

630
00:33:21,600 --> 00:33:24,400
up, for whatever reason, who 
would be heartbreaking, it's 

631
00:33:24,400 --> 00:33:26,300
sad. 
But you've got your stuff to do.

632
00:33:26,900 --> 00:33:29,800
I've got my stuff to do. 
So, happy confident, we'd have 

633
00:33:29,808 --> 00:33:33,100
those sighing. 
Yeah, dependent upon yourself. 

634
00:33:33,100 --> 00:33:35,100
And yeah, this is a support 
network as well. 

635
00:33:35,600 --> 00:33:37,700
Communication breakdowns, 
obviously potential for 

636
00:33:37,700 --> 00:33:41,200
misunderstandings without proper
communication, will wrap this up

637
00:33:41,200 --> 00:33:45,000
soon. 
Unexpressed, feelings got to do 

638
00:33:45,000 --> 00:33:48,500
that. 
I'm shocked that I tell you, 

639
00:33:49,500 --> 00:33:52,200
lack of emotional connection key
to a strong, emotional 

640
00:33:52,200 --> 00:33:55,500
connection. 
So that's, you know, time date 

641
00:33:55,500 --> 00:33:58,500
nights. 
Going back to the communication 

642
00:33:58,500 --> 00:34:01,500
showing he feeling when you're 
upset, all that sort of stuff, 

643
00:34:01,500 --> 00:34:05,100
which I'm not very good at not. 
A lot of blocks are now I'm 

644
00:34:05,100 --> 00:34:07,100
getting better, but I'm still 
very bad. 

645
00:34:07,400 --> 00:34:11,000
I would say And then the final 
one, is the respect in the 

646
00:34:11,000 --> 00:34:13,000
equality. 
Pace obviously a power imbalance

647
00:34:13,000 --> 00:34:15,300
in their relationship now. 
Things like, who controls the 

648
00:34:15,308 --> 00:34:18,900
finances as you know who's 
expected to do. 

649
00:34:19,400 --> 00:34:21,800
What I think it's important to 
always talk about that and 

650
00:34:21,800 --> 00:34:24,000
understands always be growing 
and think we're still working it

651
00:34:24,000 --> 00:34:24,600
out. 
Yeah. 

652
00:34:24,699 --> 00:34:27,800
Even now like his we have a 
house and we're like oh maybe 

653
00:34:27,800 --> 00:34:30,800
it's better to do this 
financially and so I think 

654
00:34:30,800 --> 00:34:32,900
you're looking at like 
restructuring all our finances 

655
00:34:32,900 --> 00:34:36,500
which is really interesting but 
talking about it and doing it 

656
00:34:36,500 --> 00:34:38,400
together rather than one person 
controlling fine. 

657
00:34:38,600 --> 00:34:41,400
Answers. 
Hmm, 100% 100%. 

658
00:34:41,400 --> 00:34:44,000
I think that's a fantastic 
feeling undervalued and mutual 

659
00:34:44,000 --> 00:34:47,500
respect. 
Like I really don't like when 

660
00:34:47,500 --> 00:34:51,600
people go up or blokes go on my 
wife's just to stay at home. 

661
00:34:51,600 --> 00:34:54,699
I do all the work so she should 
be grateful that I'm bringing 

662
00:34:54,699 --> 00:34:56,900
the money and I'm like well you 
wouldn't be able to bring the 

663
00:34:56,908 --> 00:34:59,900
money and have a nice you know, 
have your family. 

664
00:34:59,900 --> 00:35:02,300
Been looked up the way it is or 
whatever their situation that 

665
00:35:02,300 --> 00:35:05,200
they're complaining about is 
because you think money makes 

666
00:35:05,200 --> 00:35:07,200
you better. 
It's like it's still the same 

667
00:35:07,200 --> 00:35:08,500
household and it's still the 
same. 

668
00:35:09,100 --> 00:35:11,300
Family. 
Yeah because I you taking time 

669
00:35:11,300 --> 00:35:12,500
out of your day to go. 
Coals. 

670
00:35:12,600 --> 00:35:15,800
Yeah, exactly. 
What's like so slow time it's 

671
00:35:15,800 --> 00:35:19,900
one of my pet peeves for what 
people say doesn't matter who 

672
00:35:19,900 --> 00:35:22,800
says it. 
But you you saying your partners

673
00:35:22,800 --> 00:35:26,300
and grateful because you're out 
doing motorcycle, takes two to 

674
00:35:26,300 --> 00:35:27,800
tango and to make a relationship
work. 

675
00:35:27,800 --> 00:35:32,000
So it's very important to 
appreciate that and sometimes 

676
00:35:32,000 --> 00:35:34,400
you maybe feel like you're 
putting in more effort but you 

677
00:35:34,400 --> 00:35:37,700
also know what it's like, hmm, 
the shoes on the other feet. 

678
00:35:38,000 --> 00:35:41,200
That is this Serious part done. 
Does anyone have any questions 

679
00:35:41,200 --> 00:35:46,100
about that your comments? 
Thank God, someone says, hey 

680
00:35:46,200 --> 00:35:49,900
maybe experiment with having a 
kid by getting a dog or a cat 

681
00:35:50,000 --> 00:35:52,600
though. 
I've grown up with heaps of 

682
00:35:52,900 --> 00:35:57,000
animals and doing it. 
Not yeah, dog. 

683
00:36:01,400 --> 00:36:05,700
Yeah. 
Like I would rather just have a 

684
00:36:05,700 --> 00:36:09,000
baby then have a dog because I 
think like you know, had Runs 

685
00:36:09,000 --> 00:36:12,000
with puppies. 
And it's a lot of work like a 

686
00:36:12,000 --> 00:36:16,900
baby like one of the other. 
This is a baby could eventually 

687
00:36:16,900 --> 00:36:17,800
talk to you. 
I don't know. 

688
00:36:19,100 --> 00:36:22,000
Yeah. 
And don't, you know, I've had so

689
00:36:22,000 --> 00:36:25,200
many dogs passed away because I 
don't live that long live 15. 

690
00:36:25,200 --> 00:36:27,100
It's too sad. 
I cannot have. 

691
00:36:27,100 --> 00:36:31,200
Yeah, it's not nice. 
So yes that is I had this happen

692
00:36:31,200 --> 00:36:33,800
in a previous relationship. 
It's been a few years and I 

693
00:36:33,800 --> 00:36:37,700
still sometimes feel like I need
to ask if I could do something 

694
00:36:37,700 --> 00:36:39,200
that I want to do. 
Mmm. 

695
00:36:39,400 --> 00:36:42,200
Yeah, it creates trauma and 
you're in a bad relationship 

696
00:36:42,200 --> 00:36:45,200
like that and Emily. 
I hope you continue to work 

697
00:36:45,200 --> 00:36:48,400
through that because I've seen 
it with friends as well. 

698
00:36:48,400 --> 00:36:50,100
Have gone through a bad 
relationship and they feel weird

699
00:36:50,100 --> 00:36:54,200
when someone treats them well 
like, mmm, yeah, true to my you 

700
00:36:54,200 --> 00:36:57,000
you let me just go overseas by 
myself. 

701
00:36:57,900 --> 00:37:00,500
It's cool. 
Oh, you think that's trip. 

702
00:37:01,200 --> 00:37:04,200
Think I was going to? 
No, no, I don't think you would 

703
00:37:04,200 --> 00:37:06,900
do that, but I might some some 
people would do that, right? 

704
00:37:06,900 --> 00:37:08,300
Some people would be like no, 
you know, that? 

705
00:37:09,300 --> 00:37:16,000
Not, unless I'm coming flavor 
pack your bags and don't forget 

706
00:37:16,000 --> 00:37:21,100
to thank you very much. 
What do we got? 

707
00:37:21,100 --> 00:37:24,000
100% communicate everything. 
Your feelings especially you 

708
00:37:24,000 --> 00:37:25,700
should be able to trust each 
other and support each other 

709
00:37:25,700 --> 00:37:28,200
cool. 
Borrow your nephew or niece. 

710
00:37:28,800 --> 00:37:30,100
Yeah. 
Yeah. 

711
00:37:30,100 --> 00:37:31,600
We've done that. 
We've tested it all. 

712
00:37:31,600 --> 00:37:33,300
Guys. 
Look, we have tested at all. 

713
00:37:33,800 --> 00:37:36,000
That's for sure. 
So we're about to send the link 

714
00:37:36,000 --> 00:37:37,600
for those who are in the private
chat. 

715
00:37:39,200 --> 00:37:42,000
Yeah, so the private chat will 
go out to everyone who is tuning

716
00:37:42,000 --> 00:37:45,700
in Via stream yards, so you 
would have got the link from 

717
00:37:45,700 --> 00:37:48,400
subscribing to the email list 
for doing that the end, right? 

718
00:37:48,400 --> 00:37:50,500
Yeah, I'm about to put that in, 
but we're going to quickly do 

719
00:37:50,500 --> 00:37:52,300
our pet, peeves, and then that's
coming in. 

720
00:37:52,300 --> 00:37:57,300
So Darlin You guys that was 
seamless. 

721
00:37:57,300 --> 00:37:58,600
Finally, I think that's the 
first time. 

722
00:37:58,600 --> 00:38:00,100
You've done it seamlessly, 
really? 

723
00:38:00,100 --> 00:38:02,200
Yeah. 
Oh, you're welcome graduations. 

724
00:38:02,800 --> 00:38:10,600
Lucky hit the, my pet peeve this
week is. 

725
00:38:12,100 --> 00:38:15,300
Okay. 
When you finish a meal right, 

726
00:38:15,300 --> 00:38:18,400
your men to put your knife and 
fork together in the middle of 

727
00:38:18,400 --> 00:38:21,700
the plate and my write comments.
I should bring the comments up 

728
00:38:21,700 --> 00:38:24,100
chattering actually. 
See everyone agreeing with know 

729
00:38:24,600 --> 00:38:27,000
when you're finished. 
Emile, you put your knife and 

730
00:38:27,000 --> 00:38:33,100
fork together. 
That's what I was taught and the

731
00:38:33,100 --> 00:38:39,900
other night I saw. 
Yeah, 200 other night, I saw a 

732
00:38:39,900 --> 00:38:42,100
Lucky's plate. 
There was a bit of chicken. 

733
00:38:42,100 --> 00:38:45,700
That was uneaten know. 
It was, it was poor. 

734
00:38:45,900 --> 00:38:48,300
Okay. 
It was like a nice pork chop and

735
00:38:50,000 --> 00:38:52,900
she's salivating like a 
high-energy like hadn't been, 

736
00:38:52,900 --> 00:38:56,500
like eating the bone, but he 
doesn't like, I, But I was to be

737
00:38:57,600 --> 00:39:01,600
this is my page. 
So lucky doesn't eat anything 

738
00:39:01,600 --> 00:39:03,800
around a bone. 
So I'm, I can keep it up. 

739
00:39:03,800 --> 00:39:06,700
I'm gonna chew the fat. 
True. 

740
00:39:06,700 --> 00:39:08,500
The fuck out of these? 
I have my eye on. 

741
00:39:08,500 --> 00:39:11,500
It was like, is he Finnish? 
I don't think it's finished yet 

742
00:39:11,500 --> 00:39:13,100
because he's knife and fork 
aren't together. 

743
00:39:13,100 --> 00:39:15,500
So I'll just wait for him to 
finish and I was waiting and 

744
00:39:15,500 --> 00:39:18,500
waiting and then someone else 
from the house I think is Liam 

745
00:39:18,500 --> 00:39:21,200
was like, where's Linda? 
Linda was like, are you gonna 

746
00:39:21,200 --> 00:39:22,500
finish that? 
I'll have it. 

747
00:39:22,700 --> 00:39:28,200
Yoink and took it and ate it. 
It sounds like fucker. 

748
00:39:28,500 --> 00:39:32,500
Well if you put your knife and 
fork together I would have known

749
00:39:32,500 --> 00:39:35,000
you a finished. 
I could have finished your meal.

750
00:39:35,300 --> 00:39:38,400
Okay. 
So I hadn't finished our you 

751
00:39:38,400 --> 00:39:43,400
hadn't actually no but leaders 
like can I have that are Cycles 

752
00:39:43,400 --> 00:39:47,000
go on and you seemed pretty 
eager so everyone wanted that 

753
00:39:47,000 --> 00:39:50,400
for yeah everyone was just 
picture The Lion King and you 

754
00:39:50,408 --> 00:39:54,000
knows little hyenas out and just
solve it. 

755
00:39:54,000 --> 00:39:58,100
That was you guys just watching.
Eight and all sigh laughs. 

756
00:39:58,200 --> 00:40:01,400
That's so funny because of his, 
the lady of the house you 

757
00:40:01,400 --> 00:40:01,900
allowed. 
Yeah. 

758
00:40:01,900 --> 00:40:05,100
I was like, Dawn would have been
losses problem? 

759
00:40:05,100 --> 00:40:06,700
Let's be honest. 
That's funny. 

760
00:40:06,900 --> 00:40:09,200
You should have just take. 
Yeah, she would have got it. 

761
00:40:09,400 --> 00:40:11,800
That's for sure. 
I wanted to finish it but that 

762
00:40:11,800 --> 00:40:14,500
brings me to my pet peeve which 
actually ties in really well. 

763
00:40:14,500 --> 00:40:17,000
So, I'm glad you shared that one
because we don't actually know 

764
00:40:17,000 --> 00:40:20,100
each other's pet piece, but, 
yeah, I wasn't finished. 

765
00:40:20,100 --> 00:40:23,300
So that's a pet peeve because 
Amy is doing a gut cleanse at 

766
00:40:23,300 --> 00:40:27,100
the moment, right? 
She's were trying to I'll get 

767
00:40:27,100 --> 00:40:30,300
you help. 
Nah I got reset. 

768
00:40:30,300 --> 00:40:34,100
I don't want to do it which is 
just so annoying but I've been 

769
00:40:34,100 --> 00:40:36,900
having some gut issues and so I 
need to do something. 

770
00:40:36,900 --> 00:40:40,200
So basically I've been taught 
any to cut out, everything 

771
00:40:40,500 --> 00:40:44,100
alcohol, wheat, Dairy, like all 
the good stuff in live and for 

772
00:40:44,100 --> 00:40:46,700
an anti die. 
Queen I'm like exqueeze me 

773
00:40:46,900 --> 00:40:49,700
what's not really a diet when 
you're doing and it's not a fad 

774
00:40:49,700 --> 00:40:51,800
diet it's just like, literally 
something that I raised her. 

775
00:40:51,800 --> 00:40:55,000
I have to do but it is killing 
me guys. 

776
00:40:55,000 --> 00:40:57,300
I've got By the way, use 
hijacking. 

777
00:40:57,300 --> 00:41:01,400
My pepe anyway, she's hiding. 
So I can back back back. 

778
00:41:02,700 --> 00:41:07,500
My my story. 
So you just experienced how 

779
00:41:07,500 --> 00:41:10,700
upsetting it is for Amy. 
It's even more upsetting for me.

780
00:41:10,700 --> 00:41:12,800
I train. 
I'm currently training twice a 

781
00:41:12,800 --> 00:41:16,500
day as you've just heard mean, 
I'm burning a lot of calories 

782
00:41:17,000 --> 00:41:21,800
and Liam and I right, we're not 
small blokes, so we're training,

783
00:41:21,800 --> 00:41:25,200
I'm training twice a day. 
I'm working all day and Amy. 

784
00:41:25,300 --> 00:41:27,700
He's putting these a me, an 
emerald, putting these nails on 

785
00:41:27,700 --> 00:41:30,800
our plates and look awesome 
meals delicious meals. 

786
00:41:31,300 --> 00:41:34,200
There's no carbohydrates. 
Like, here's your zucchini. 

787
00:41:34,200 --> 00:41:37,800
Yeah, it's like a little salad 
and a little bit of meat and I 

788
00:41:37,800 --> 00:41:40,500
home and you don't want to 
complain because, you know, 

789
00:41:40,500 --> 00:41:44,300
obviously, we're not cooking, 
we're cleaning. 

790
00:41:44,700 --> 00:41:46,800
So I'm like, that's fine but 
night too. 

791
00:41:47,000 --> 00:41:48,900
So Tuesday night, I'm laying in 
bed. 

792
00:41:48,900 --> 00:41:50,900
Like this look. 
Is it handling? 

793
00:41:50,900 --> 00:41:53,400
And I'm just like, holy 
goodness. 

794
00:41:53,400 --> 00:41:57,400
I I need to eat. 
I'm starving and I'm never 

795
00:41:57,400 --> 00:42:00,900
starving. 
But like I'm starving here as 

796
00:42:00,900 --> 00:42:02,100
that. 
Fuck me. 

797
00:42:02,400 --> 00:42:05,400
We need carbohydrates in the I'm
not doing this to I'm not doing 

798
00:42:05,400 --> 00:42:06,100
it. 
Got reset. 

799
00:42:06,100 --> 00:42:08,900
Like I am fit as a fiddle, you 
gots? 

800
00:42:08,900 --> 00:42:10,800
Good. 
Feed me. 

801
00:42:11,700 --> 00:42:16,400
So my pet peeve was going back 
to the communication. 

802
00:42:16,700 --> 00:42:20,800
Amy. 
Just assuming that I was going 

803
00:42:20,800 --> 00:42:23,700
to be on the same sort of a lot 
of food there. 

804
00:42:23,700 --> 00:42:28,100
Still food regime is you know, 
carbohydrates are extremely 

805
00:42:28,100 --> 00:42:29,500
important when you're training a
lot. 

806
00:42:29,500 --> 00:42:33,300
So as of last night, I've been 
getting my rice again. 

807
00:42:33,300 --> 00:42:35,700
So that's good. 
But what we're going to do. 

808
00:42:35,700 --> 00:42:39,200
I'm going to hit the private 
chat button. 

809
00:42:39,300 --> 00:42:40,900
Boom, say goodbye to everyone 
else. 

810
00:42:40,900 --> 00:42:43,600
No, no, because they're going to
be able to ask that question. 

811
00:42:44,800 --> 00:42:47,100
Yeah, I think so. 
I actually don't know, but we're

812
00:42:47,100 --> 00:42:51,200
about to feel pretty quickly. 
If other people do it off, I'm 

813
00:42:51,200 --> 00:42:54,900
sorry, but because anyone got a 
chat with us tonight, I don't 

814
00:42:54,900 --> 00:42:56,200
know. 
People. 

815
00:42:56,200 --> 00:42:59,700
Yeah, hundred percent. 
So the link is, did people see 

816
00:42:59,900 --> 00:43:02,100
just put in the comments? 
Can you see the private chat? 

817
00:43:02,100 --> 00:43:04,400
Wherever it may be? 
I might almost login just to 

818
00:43:04,400 --> 00:43:05,400
see. 
Should I do that? 

819
00:43:06,100 --> 00:43:10,600
Ah, We'll just lamb from this if
it doesn't happen but have you 

820
00:43:10,600 --> 00:43:14,100
guys enjoyed it so far? 
We look forward to getting some 

821
00:43:14,100 --> 00:43:16,900
feedback obviously. 
Yeah. 

822
00:43:22,800 --> 00:43:25,100
They can't see the link private 
chat. 

823
00:43:25,200 --> 00:43:26,700
Is it away? 
Yeah, I'm just going to put it 

824
00:43:26,700 --> 00:43:27,200
here. 
Bugger. 

825
00:43:27,800 --> 00:43:30,000
It is. 
That's a just so we don't have 

826
00:43:30,000 --> 00:43:32,300
to muck around with it. 
You guys can see that stream 

827
00:43:32,300 --> 00:43:33,800
yard link? 
Can we see that? 

828
00:43:34,800 --> 00:43:37,200
I hope it works. 
That's just going to copy that 

829
00:43:37,200 --> 00:43:39,100
into your Safari, maybe they 
could just click it now. 

830
00:43:39,107 --> 00:43:41,400
Yeah, cool. 
If you can get that you can jump

831
00:43:41,400 --> 00:43:43,400
on. 
Make sure if you're coming on, 

832
00:43:44,000 --> 00:43:47,300
have a question for us, will be 
short and sharp because Amy does

833
00:43:47,300 --> 00:43:50,500
need to get on a tick, tock live
very soon. 

834
00:43:50,700 --> 00:43:53,500
We did gas bag of Rabbit, we 
did, but it's fun. 

835
00:43:53,500 --> 00:43:56,300
But for those of you don't know,
Shepherd, go live on Tick-Tock 

836
00:43:56,300 --> 00:43:58,300
every Tuesday and Thursday night
at the moment. 

837
00:43:58,300 --> 00:44:00,800
So, yeah. 
Throw your sorry. 

838
00:44:00,800 --> 00:44:03,800
Throw your pet, peeve up. 
Mitchie I can't shampoo and 

839
00:44:03,800 --> 00:44:05,900
conditioner. 
Run out at the center. 

840
00:44:06,400 --> 00:44:09,700
Oh, what is their? 
See what it is? 

841
00:44:11,000 --> 00:44:13,200
That's probably your question to
answer. 

842
00:44:13,700 --> 00:44:15,900
Well, it's just annoying. 
They don't do the ratios 

843
00:44:15,900 --> 00:44:17,800
properly and it's like, why are 
they more? 

844
00:44:18,100 --> 00:44:20,500
Sometimes you go out, right? 
This is another pet peeve. 

845
00:44:20,600 --> 00:44:24,400
You'll go out to a restaurant or
to a club or ah, here we go. 

846
00:44:24,400 --> 00:44:26,100
Let's bring commoner. 
Yeah, keep going. 

847
00:44:27,200 --> 00:44:31,100
Hi, how are you? 
I'm well, how are you? 

848
00:44:31,500 --> 00:44:35,500
Fantastic, nice to meet you. 
This is a bit of a spin out. 

849
00:44:35,500 --> 00:44:39,600
I'm a huge fan. 
Thank you so much. 

850
00:44:40,200 --> 00:44:43,100
Are excited to be chatting to 
our first guest. 

851
00:44:43,200 --> 00:44:45,400
This is cool. 
Where are you tuning in from 

852
00:44:45,400 --> 00:44:47,900
common Sunshine? 
Yeah. 

853
00:44:48,600 --> 00:44:53,600
How good is the sunny Coast? 
It was a bit cold today, we had 

854
00:44:53,600 --> 00:44:56,600
a bit of rain and stuff but 
yeah, I love it up here. 

855
00:44:58,100 --> 00:45:00,700
I'm a massive fan whereabouts. 
You don't have to give it. 

856
00:45:01,000 --> 00:45:02,800
How you doing my daughter? 
Ruby? 

857
00:45:03,100 --> 00:45:10,700
Hi, how are you? 
Living the dream. 

858
00:45:10,800 --> 00:45:13,300
Have you enjoyed the episode so 
far? 

859
00:45:13,700 --> 00:45:16,000
Yeah, that was really cool. 
Yeah. 

860
00:45:16,000 --> 00:45:18,700
I'll definitely tune in. 
Thank you. 

861
00:45:18,700 --> 00:45:20,400
Did you have a question for us 
tonight? 

862
00:45:24,200 --> 00:45:26,700
Not really I just more of a 
comment. 

863
00:45:27,500 --> 00:45:34,300
So I've been following for 
years, but probably more. 

864
00:45:34,300 --> 00:45:39,100
So when I can't think of the 
word, the song that you bought 

865
00:45:39,100 --> 00:45:42,600
out where you were all dancing 
in the like the nude colored 

866
00:45:42,600 --> 00:45:46,500
knickers and stuff, okay. 
Kiss my fat ass. 

867
00:45:46,500 --> 00:45:49,400
That's it. 
That was sort of when I really 

868
00:45:50,300 --> 00:45:53,800
started paying attention and 
that was about the same time 

869
00:45:53,800 --> 00:45:56,300
that That I started doing 
burlesque dancing. 

870
00:45:56,500 --> 00:46:03,400
Oh what is burlesque dancing. 
So there's a troop on the 

871
00:46:03,400 --> 00:46:07,100
Sunshine Coast, it's called 
Burlesque L'Amour and we all 

872
00:46:07,500 --> 00:46:11,500
there's women of every age and 
size and ability. 

873
00:46:11,500 --> 00:46:17,800
I'm not a great dancer but we're
all sort of taken into the fold 

874
00:46:17,800 --> 00:46:21,800
and everyone supports each 
other, and it's all about, you 

875
00:46:21,800 --> 00:46:26,600
know, building confidence and 
all That sort of stuff and yeah,

876
00:46:26,600 --> 00:46:29,600
that film clip in your song and 
stuff like that. 

877
00:46:29,600 --> 00:46:33,100
Just really resonated with me. 
And so he gave me the courage to

878
00:46:33,100 --> 00:46:35,900
join. 
And I've been there for two and 

879
00:46:35,900 --> 00:46:38,600
a half years now, and I 
absolutely love it. 

880
00:46:38,900 --> 00:46:41,400
I love hearing that. 
It's so great. 

881
00:46:41,400 --> 00:46:43,800
And we get on, do shows and 
stuff like that. 

882
00:46:44,100 --> 00:46:46,100
Really awesome. 
Yeah, I've just found it here on

883
00:46:46,500 --> 00:46:49,500
the good old internet. 
So, wow. 

884
00:46:49,500 --> 00:46:52,100
Where do you do your sharing? 
Women's pre-dance, love it. 

885
00:46:52,700 --> 00:46:56,800
Yeah. 
Of we do them at venue 114 on 

886
00:46:56,800 --> 00:46:59,500
the coast generally. 
We have had a we had a stadium 

887
00:46:59,500 --> 00:47:02,200
show at the Sunshine Coast 
Stadium last year. 

888
00:47:02,200 --> 00:47:04,900
That was pretty cool. 
Wow, that's really cool. 

889
00:47:04,900 --> 00:47:07,900
And we've just had a man to join
and she said, I have my kiss, my

890
00:47:07,900 --> 00:47:10,500
phone. 
Hey, let me let me say she's got

891
00:47:10,500 --> 00:47:23,800
the most awesome 
group. 

892
00:47:24,400 --> 00:47:27,400
One of the giveaways. 
Oh that's yeah, I'm a. 

893
00:47:27,400 --> 00:47:29,300
I'm a bit disappointed. 
Amy hasn't given me. 

894
00:47:29,300 --> 00:47:32,300
Some I'll just be you and some 
tighty-whiteys. 

895
00:47:32,300 --> 00:47:38,300
Lucky that's awesome. 
How are you? 

896
00:47:39,200 --> 00:47:42,200
I'm great, how are you good? 
Thanks for jumping. 

897
00:47:43,000 --> 00:47:44,500
I love them. 
They're, they're they're 

898
00:47:44,500 --> 00:47:46,300
awesome. 
My nephew thought they were 

899
00:47:46,300 --> 00:47:49,300
hilarious. 
She, he thought they said, kick 

900
00:47:49,300 --> 00:47:51,600
my fat ass and he tried to kill 
me and I'm pleased. 

901
00:47:54,100 --> 00:47:56,400
Stop kicking me and then he 
goes, oh, it sees key. 

902
00:47:56,400 --> 00:48:06,000
So I'm like you to do that 
either, just stay away as well. 

903
00:48:06,400 --> 00:48:09,300
Zach. 
Hello guys, how are you? 

904
00:48:09,400 --> 00:48:12,200
Good. 
Hello, stop Legend. 

905
00:48:12,300 --> 00:48:15,400
Jack is on basically every live 
that we do. 

906
00:48:15,400 --> 00:48:19,800
He's at every show and we're so 
grateful to have a fan like Zak 

907
00:48:20,200 --> 00:48:23,300
because Zak message me. 
So the other night, the guys 

908
00:48:23,300 --> 00:48:26,500
made me jump in the Look like 
9:00 at night in my tracksuit 

909
00:48:26,500 --> 00:48:30,900
pants, which is ridiculous 
because I lost, well, I don't 

910
00:48:30,900 --> 00:48:32,900
even know why. 
Yeah, the end of The Tick, Tock 

911
00:48:32,900 --> 00:48:37,100
someone's got to jump in the 
pool and freezing, lucky drew, 

912
00:48:37,100 --> 00:48:39,400
the Short Straw. 
I'm normally in bed tonight. 

913
00:48:40,300 --> 00:48:42,500
So for staying up late, to help 
them. 

914
00:48:42,600 --> 00:48:47,600
They threw me in the pool. 
That's a bit unfair, Mitch has 

915
00:48:47,600 --> 00:48:49,500
this friend. 
You keep chatting, Mitch's his 

916
00:48:49,500 --> 00:48:52,500
throne. 
We're reading comments as well. 

917
00:48:52,500 --> 00:48:56,700
So well, Using this whole new 
bit of software that we don't 

918
00:48:56,700 --> 00:48:57,900
know. 
Actually what's going on. 

919
00:48:57,900 --> 00:49:01,000
So we're kind of winging it. 
Very cool. 

920
00:49:02,000 --> 00:49:03,800
It's fine. 
We hope to do this more regular 

921
00:49:03,800 --> 00:49:07,100
just so we can actually connect 
more with you guys because we 

922
00:49:07,100 --> 00:49:10,000
can learn just as much from you 
guys as you guys can from us 

923
00:49:10,200 --> 00:49:15,500
talking shit, really. 
So where did you guys make? 

924
00:49:16,400 --> 00:49:20,400
We met in Brisbane. 
It was a pub called Alfred and 

925
00:49:20,400 --> 00:49:23,500
Constance. 
It's closed down now, but we 

926
00:49:24,300 --> 00:49:27,900
like my friend was seeing his 
friend and she's like, I just 

927
00:49:27,900 --> 00:49:30,000
need a Winger where you come 
out, and I was like, oh, like my

928
00:49:30,000 --> 00:49:32,500
hair's dirty. 
Oh okay. 

929
00:49:32,500 --> 00:49:35,400
So I just kind of like put my 
hair in a bun and put on a dress

930
00:49:35,400 --> 00:49:39,700
and went out and Yeah it turned 
out that I met lucky who is 

931
00:49:39,700 --> 00:49:43,100
wingman and his friend and we 
got along and my friend and his 

932
00:49:43,100 --> 00:49:45,300
friend aren't together anymore 
and we got married. 

933
00:49:45,500 --> 00:49:47,400
Yeah. 
Beautiful. 

934
00:49:47,700 --> 00:49:49,400
So it's so I have a different 
story but that's fine. 

935
00:49:49,400 --> 00:49:51,700
That one will do. 
Yeah, we better wrap this up 

936
00:49:51,700 --> 00:49:55,000
because yeah Tick-Tock Inn. 
But then it thank you all. 

937
00:49:55,000 --> 00:49:57,000
So, so much for jumping on. 
It's been fun. 

938
00:49:57,000 --> 00:49:59,600
I think next time we might even 
just have it set up like this 

939
00:49:59,600 --> 00:50:04,600
from the get-go so we can see 
around smiling faces and and 

940
00:50:04,600 --> 00:50:08,500
that's more interactive and fun.
Yeah, well we can't talk but we 

941
00:50:08,508 --> 00:50:10,600
don't know who are actually 
talking to ya. 

942
00:50:12,000 --> 00:50:15,300
So nice to see your faces and 
everyone or comments as well and

943
00:50:15,300 --> 00:50:18,700
Mitch was thrown out. 
Heaps of comments and Kate & M's

944
00:50:18,700 --> 00:50:21,100
just joined as well. 
So awesome. 

945
00:50:21,100 --> 00:50:22,700
Thank you so much for joining 
us. 

946
00:50:22,700 --> 00:50:24,300
Yeah, you can. 
What's it? 

947
00:50:24,800 --> 00:50:27,000
I think on the website. 
If you subscribe to the email so

948
00:50:27,000 --> 00:50:33,600
they shoot out emails or just on
Instagram, that's where you can 

949
00:50:33,600 --> 00:50:35,400
will put up another date for 
next. 

950
00:50:35,400 --> 00:50:38,000
Month's live one which will be 
fine. 

951
00:50:38,000 --> 00:50:40,200
So if you do have questions or 
anything like that, just go to 

952
00:50:40,200 --> 00:50:45,800
the website and you can drop 
them in that spot and don't 

953
00:50:45,800 --> 00:50:48,700
forget. 
Join out patreon as well with 

954
00:50:48,700 --> 00:50:53,900
with all the latest updates and 
song little song teasers and all

955
00:50:53,900 --> 00:50:55,400
all sorts of stuff in. 
There's a good, lovely 

956
00:50:55,400 --> 00:50:58,200
Community, patrons fun. 
Yeah. 

957
00:50:58,200 --> 00:50:59,100
Thanks. 
I love. 

958
00:50:59,900 --> 00:51:03,000
I love my patreon members, and 
it's just really nice to have 

959
00:51:03,000 --> 00:51:05,100
that, like, one-on-one. 
I don't know, everyone's really 

960
00:51:05,100 --> 00:51:07,300
friendly in that is, it's only a
small group as well. 

961
00:51:07,300 --> 00:51:09,500
So that's nice. 
Awesome. 

962
00:51:09,500 --> 00:51:12,300
Thank you all so much. 
We'll see you soon. 

963
00:51:12,300 --> 00:51:13,600
Hey, thank you for your time.