1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:03,520 I found something really fucked up in my husband's phone. 2 00:00:03,920 --> 00:00:05,360 What should be the course of action? 3 00:00:05,360 --> 00:00:08,800 What ages are we? She's 22, female, young to be 4 00:00:08,800 --> 00:00:10,240 married. And he's. 5 00:00:10,320 --> 00:00:12,120 Yeah. Hi, I'm Amy Shepherd. 6 00:00:12,320 --> 00:00:14,280 I'm Lochlin Stuart. And although we have different 7 00:00:14,280 --> 00:00:16,600 last names. We're married now. 8 00:00:16,680 --> 00:00:19,520 We've been told the secret to a successful marriage is 9 00:00:19,520 --> 00:00:22,000 communication. So we're going to talk it out 10 00:00:22,080 --> 00:00:25,880 every week, share our challenges and pet peeves, Then we're 11 00:00:25,880 --> 00:00:29,160 setting each other some goals. Some couple goals, Couple goals. 12 00:00:29,160 --> 00:00:31,480 The podcast is for those who might be looking to laugh their 13 00:00:31,480 --> 00:00:33,840 way through challenging scenarios that all couples go 14 00:00:33,840 --> 00:00:35,960 through. Occasionally, we might even get 15 00:00:35,960 --> 00:00:38,320 some other couples to join in. Yeah, you'd like that, wouldn't. 16 00:00:38,920 --> 00:00:42,280 You hit Subscribe and TuneIn every week to hear our weekly 17 00:00:42,520 --> 00:00:48,200 couple goals. Welcome back. 18 00:00:48,400 --> 00:00:51,400 Welcome back Episode 20 of Season 2. 19 00:00:51,400 --> 00:00:54,280 Of course, I think it's episode 70 overall. 20 00:00:54,320 --> 00:00:56,240 Wow. It's a couple episode, a bit of 21 00:00:56,240 --> 00:00:56,760 chinwag. How long? 22 00:00:56,760 --> 00:00:59,240 Have you been doing this like? Since 2022. 23 00:00:59,480 --> 00:01:02,960 So yeah, two years. Two years of couple goals made 24 00:01:03,040 --> 00:01:06,440 this bar. It's pretty impressive, very 25 00:01:06,440 --> 00:01:08,200 impressive. What's been going on in your 26 00:01:08,200 --> 00:01:11,200 life the last seven days since our last episode? 27 00:01:11,200 --> 00:01:14,360 Oh, it's been. Busy lots of Christmas events 28 00:01:14,360 --> 00:01:17,120 and birthday parties. Two close friends birthday 29 00:01:17,240 --> 00:01:19,880 parties. This weekend alone we had our 30 00:01:19,880 --> 00:01:21,880 gym Christmas party. Last night. 31 00:01:21,880 --> 00:01:25,120 Last night. We sort of, we sort of went for 32 00:01:25,120 --> 00:01:28,040 an hour, said good day and then got out of there. 33 00:01:28,120 --> 00:01:30,120 Yeah. Only reason being is we're both 34 00:01:30,120 --> 00:01:34,080 not drinking. And I find it very hard to talk 35 00:01:34,080 --> 00:01:37,040 to people when the music's Duff duffing, like my voice is really 36 00:01:37,040 --> 00:01:39,160 strained. Yeah, that's why I really 37 00:01:39,160 --> 00:01:43,000 struggle at shows to interact with people before the show. 38 00:01:43,320 --> 00:01:47,720 I get really sort of annoyed if I have too many people in the 39 00:01:47,720 --> 00:01:51,440 green room because I want to talk to them or they want to 40 00:01:51,440 --> 00:01:53,600 talk to me. And it's it actually wears out 41 00:01:53,600 --> 00:01:58,000 my voice before the show. And also if you go anywhere 42 00:01:58,000 --> 00:02:00,240 after, like if there's an after party, it's always like quite 43 00:02:00,240 --> 00:02:02,920 taxing on the vocal cords. You don't really notice, but 44 00:02:04,320 --> 00:02:06,640 yeah, until you're in a loud environment like that, talking 45 00:02:06,640 --> 00:02:08,280 to so many people and you come back and you're like. 46 00:02:08,479 --> 00:02:11,320 Your voice, it feels like you've chuffed down a pack of Winnie 47 00:02:11,320 --> 00:02:12,000 gold. Yeah, it's. 48 00:02:12,000 --> 00:02:14,280 Just been like, it's harder on The Voice than singing. 49 00:02:14,400 --> 00:02:16,280 Yeah, he is. Last night I was like, Oh my 50 00:02:16,320 --> 00:02:19,120 goodness, this is hurting. So we got out of there because 51 00:02:19,120 --> 00:02:20,800 we knew we had this episode today. 52 00:02:20,800 --> 00:02:23,880 That's exactly why we left. We were saving our voices for 53 00:02:23,880 --> 00:02:24,840 this Sunday. Morning. 54 00:02:24,840 --> 00:02:26,080 Here we are. Here we are. 55 00:02:26,840 --> 00:02:28,360 Sprite. How about breaking an egg with? 56 00:02:28,560 --> 00:02:31,080 Only you cooked me bacon and eggs I dish picked. 57 00:02:31,280 --> 00:02:33,640 After last week's episode talking about how that husband 58 00:02:33,760 --> 00:02:35,080 expects the bacon and. Egg. 59 00:02:35,080 --> 00:02:39,960 Well, I ran Amy a tea upstairs in bed and she's and she's like 60 00:02:40,520 --> 00:02:43,400 is there any any breakfast happening? 61 00:02:43,400 --> 00:02:45,760 And I was like, It doesn't appear there's any signs of 62 00:02:45,760 --> 00:02:48,040 breakfast happening, however. So. 63 00:02:48,080 --> 00:02:49,880 You might be I. Took initiative. 64 00:02:50,160 --> 00:02:52,760 Yeah, that's exactly right. So a little bit of inception 65 00:02:52,760 --> 00:02:54,120 there. I played my cards and. 66 00:02:54,200 --> 00:02:56,200 I felt like pancakes so bad this morning. 67 00:02:56,200 --> 00:02:58,560 Would have been nice. I was contemplating making it 68 00:02:58,560 --> 00:03:00,240 and I was like, you know what, let's have the bacon and eggs 69 00:03:00,240 --> 00:03:03,960 and see how we feel. Rather than well done, well done 70 00:03:03,960 --> 00:03:05,000 I. Think it was a good call 'cause 71 00:03:05,400 --> 00:03:08,600 now we're satiated. Satiated for a little bit 72 00:03:08,640 --> 00:03:09,640 longer. I hate that word. 73 00:03:10,160 --> 00:03:11,360 I'm so says yeah, I don't. Know why? 74 00:03:11,360 --> 00:03:12,760 I've heard it too many times on Instagram. 75 00:03:12,760 --> 00:03:15,360 Like Instagram? You're just full for fucks sake. 76 00:03:15,360 --> 00:03:16,400 That's. Appreciated. 77 00:03:16,480 --> 00:03:17,680 You're satisfied. Okay, it's fine. 78 00:03:17,720 --> 00:03:18,800 I get it. You're full. 79 00:03:20,600 --> 00:03:25,240 You've sufficiently eaten. Well, I'm gonna ask myself, what 80 00:03:25,240 --> 00:03:28,760 did I have on this weekend? This week I had two 81 00:03:28,760 --> 00:03:32,760 presentations. It was November's Men NN's Men's 82 00:03:32,760 --> 00:03:35,160 Health Month, aligned with November, so I had a 83 00:03:35,160 --> 00:03:38,080 presentation for Tribeca Investments, which was awesome. 84 00:03:38,640 --> 00:03:42,440 We had the private room at the Stanley Hideout for that one. 85 00:03:42,440 --> 00:03:45,880 That was awesome fun. Killed the presentation. 86 00:03:45,880 --> 00:03:49,840 And then the next day was one for the Collective, which is the 87 00:03:49,840 --> 00:03:52,360 Ray White Group for their Movember lunch, and that was 88 00:03:52,360 --> 00:03:54,800 also awesome. I got that was at the Gabba at 89 00:03:54,800 --> 00:03:57,360 the Cricketers Club. I've never been in there, but 90 00:03:57,360 --> 00:03:58,720 that was great fun. Cool, Yeah. 91 00:03:58,840 --> 00:04:02,520 And what else have? Been there for a wedding I 92 00:04:02,560 --> 00:04:04,080 think. There you go. 93 00:04:04,080 --> 00:04:05,280 That was not. The camera's different. 94 00:04:05,280 --> 00:04:07,160 Cricket Cricketers Club. Amy Shepherd. 95 00:04:07,160 --> 00:04:10,800 Yeah, he wouldn't have ever picked that one, not at all. 96 00:04:11,000 --> 00:04:13,520 But do you? Remember the cricket had me as 97 00:04:13,520 --> 00:04:16,680 their like influencer. That was the one because Amy and 98 00:04:16,680 --> 00:04:20,680 Emma used to get, well still do get asked to go to a lot of 99 00:04:20,680 --> 00:04:24,840 events and they had been asked to the cricket a number of times 100 00:04:24,840 --> 00:04:27,040 and declined and didn't. What was it, the big bash or 101 00:04:27,040 --> 00:04:28,120 something? Yeah, the big bat. 102 00:04:28,120 --> 00:04:30,480 No, it's a one day. One day it was good. 103 00:04:30,800 --> 00:04:32,840 And so we went to that, which is amazing. 104 00:04:32,840 --> 00:04:34,840 I've ate that opportunity. Up. 105 00:04:34,840 --> 00:04:38,240 Yeah, I was going to say no because I don't watch cricket 106 00:04:38,480 --> 00:04:41,360 and don't particularly like it and Lucky was like, please, I'm 107 00:04:41,360 --> 00:04:43,520 going to go. Do it for me if you really love 108 00:04:43,520 --> 00:04:44,960 me. I got to take Lucky as my guest, 109 00:04:44,960 --> 00:04:49,160 but I felt, I mean, everyone knew that I we didn't know. 110 00:04:49,160 --> 00:04:50,320 What was going on? We made friends though, with 111 00:04:50,320 --> 00:04:51,640 those blokes next to us, remember? 112 00:04:51,640 --> 00:04:53,480 We did. So that was always. 113 00:04:53,480 --> 00:04:55,640 It was actually fun just to be in the atmosphere and. 114 00:04:55,840 --> 00:04:59,240 It's so much fun if you don't. If you've never been to a live 115 00:04:59,240 --> 00:05:01,200 sporting event, highly recommend it. 116 00:05:01,200 --> 00:05:03,880 Cricket's a great one because you definitely get your money's 117 00:05:03,880 --> 00:05:05,480 worth. You're there for at least a day, 118 00:05:05,920 --> 00:05:08,520 so it's good fun. As opposed to other sports? 119 00:05:08,520 --> 00:05:11,440 Well, well, that's not really. Happening I prefer like the 120 00:05:11,440 --> 00:05:14,360 basketball. Yeah, basketball's good hockey. 121 00:05:14,480 --> 00:05:15,680 Hockey's quick. Good. 122 00:05:16,760 --> 00:05:18,240 That's about as much sport as I can handle it. 123 00:05:18,240 --> 00:05:20,240 If not, go. No, there you go. 124 00:05:20,400 --> 00:05:21,600 Anyway. And that's about. 125 00:05:22,280 --> 00:05:23,800 I can't remember nothing really. Yeah. 126 00:05:23,800 --> 00:05:25,080 How did? Your talks go. 127 00:05:25,480 --> 00:05:29,480 Awesome. So we the talks were obviously 128 00:05:29,480 --> 00:05:31,560 for men's health in November, which we're talking about 129 00:05:31,560 --> 00:05:34,720 prostate cancer, testicular cancer and then mental health, 130 00:05:34,720 --> 00:05:38,400 suicide prevention. And I tie that into my story and 131 00:05:38,680 --> 00:05:42,120 the 58 marathons coming out, which is 52 days away today 132 00:05:42,120 --> 00:05:44,760 until we kick off. Oh, that deserves a post. 133 00:05:44,760 --> 00:05:47,600 That does deserve a post. I'm just waiting on my video guy 134 00:05:47,600 --> 00:05:49,920 to send send it through two days. 135 00:05:49,920 --> 00:05:52,000 Hit him up. But it's not too far away. 136 00:05:52,000 --> 00:05:56,040 So that's awesome. And it was actually eye opening 137 00:05:56,040 --> 00:05:57,800 for me. And this was a good lesson. 138 00:05:58,360 --> 00:06:00,840 And one of my mentors, Benny, came along to one of the 139 00:06:00,840 --> 00:06:03,200 presentations that made awesome killed it. 140 00:06:03,320 --> 00:06:04,760 But he's like, I think you don't. 141 00:06:05,000 --> 00:06:10,280 I think you underestimate how or inspiring it is to the average 142 00:06:10,280 --> 00:06:11,720 person in regards to what you're doing. 143 00:06:11,720 --> 00:06:15,360 And he's I understand you're, you have to be in the headspace 144 00:06:15,360 --> 00:06:18,000 room where it doesn't seem like a big deal in order to get it 145 00:06:18,000 --> 00:06:20,280 done. But for most people, there's so 146 00:06:20,280 --> 00:06:23,920 many questions and you could probably go into a little bit 147 00:06:23,920 --> 00:06:26,720 more detail around that. So that was cool. 148 00:06:27,320 --> 00:06:30,280 Cool. And hopefully if it all comes 149 00:06:30,280 --> 00:06:33,800 off, we should raise around $100,000, which was my 150 00:06:33,800 --> 00:06:36,280 fundraising goal initially for the whole run. 151 00:06:36,280 --> 00:06:40,400 So if we if we get that in this Thursday, we're going to move 152 00:06:40,400 --> 00:06:43,280 the goal to $1,000,000, which scares me. 153 00:06:43,280 --> 00:06:47,560 I find it more intimidating. Yeah, putting it out there that 154 00:06:47,560 --> 00:06:50,240 you're going to raise X amount of funds because at least with 155 00:06:50,240 --> 00:06:52,280 the run, I'm in control of it. I know I can do it. 156 00:06:52,400 --> 00:06:54,440 Yeah, but I think people want to be involved. 157 00:06:54,440 --> 00:06:56,800 They want to help you. They want to donate to a good 158 00:06:56,800 --> 00:06:59,640 cause. Lots of people have been in 159 00:06:59,880 --> 00:07:05,320 everyone, if not directly, second hand, direct, affected by 160 00:07:05,320 --> 00:07:08,320 men's mental health issues or men's health issues. 161 00:07:08,640 --> 00:07:10,720 So people want to be involved. They want to help, they want to 162 00:07:10,720 --> 00:07:12,720 see change. Yeah, and it's inspiring. 163 00:07:12,720 --> 00:07:16,120 So I think there's no reason why you couldn't get to that goal. 164 00:07:16,600 --> 00:07:19,960 I know, but for me, and I think this is a lesson for life, is 165 00:07:21,160 --> 00:07:23,200 there's moments where you feel like an imposter, there's 166 00:07:23,200 --> 00:07:24,360 moments where you doubt yourself. 167 00:07:24,360 --> 00:07:27,040 And for me, it's not so much physically, but it's more so 168 00:07:27,040 --> 00:07:30,160 putting your putting yourself out there to say I'm going to 169 00:07:30,160 --> 00:07:33,160 raise this much money because to me it's like very scary. 170 00:07:33,200 --> 00:07:35,360 And what if I fail? And that's what that's for me, 171 00:07:35,360 --> 00:07:38,120 while my 100,000 feels safe, I think I can get that. 172 00:07:38,120 --> 00:07:41,240 But $1,000,000 on my that's pretty scary. 173 00:07:41,240 --> 00:07:44,960 And what if I fail? So we'll just play that by ear. 174 00:07:45,760 --> 00:07:47,080 But that's a lesson that I've got to but. 175 00:07:47,520 --> 00:07:53,080 Even if you get close to yeah. Of course, yeah, that's just a 176 00:07:53,080 --> 00:07:57,560 hurdle I've got a leap over. So that was great fun and 177 00:07:57,560 --> 00:07:59,680 hopefully more talks will come in once it's done. 178 00:07:59,680 --> 00:08:01,120 I don't think you'll be doing too many more. 179 00:08:01,120 --> 00:08:05,680 I think I've got one more, so we'll see how that comes along. 180 00:08:05,920 --> 00:08:09,760 Ideally, no more until after it's done because now I'm just 181 00:08:09,760 --> 00:08:11,920 getting to the point in where I have to say no to a lot of 182 00:08:11,920 --> 00:08:14,400 things, like last night. Probably would have liked to 183 00:08:14,400 --> 00:08:18,640 have stayed a little bit longer. However, I need to protect my 184 00:08:18,640 --> 00:08:22,960 energy because every day now that I, I guess don't recover 185 00:08:22,960 --> 00:08:26,320 well or don't eat enough is going to impact me on the run, 186 00:08:27,120 --> 00:08:31,600 which it's very like, I don't think people understand that 187 00:08:31,600 --> 00:08:34,320 well, in my head, I don't think people understand that that Now 188 00:08:34,840 --> 00:08:39,360 I may be becoming across very selfish, which I am for this, 189 00:08:39,360 --> 00:08:43,080 but I also understand that if I don't prep as well as I can, 190 00:08:43,080 --> 00:08:45,000 it's going to bite me in the ass somewhere along the way. 191 00:08:45,120 --> 00:08:48,040 And I've got people who've invested thousands of dollars in 192 00:08:48,040 --> 00:08:52,480 it for me to succeed. So I can't take that lightly. 193 00:08:54,160 --> 00:08:57,840 Anyway, enough about me. Let's let's go to segment #2 get 194 00:08:57,840 --> 00:09:00,480 to know us as we get to know each other. 195 00:09:00,480 --> 00:09:03,120 We've got our six questions coming back. 196 00:09:03,600 --> 00:09:05,760 Amy, would you like to go first or shall I go first? 197 00:09:05,800 --> 00:09:07,280 Oh. You go first one. 198 00:09:07,280 --> 00:09:09,400 I'll go first, OK? I love it when I get to go 199 00:09:09,400 --> 00:09:10,440 first. This is perfect. 200 00:09:10,680 --> 00:09:13,120 So we'll start with a serious one. 201 00:09:13,120 --> 00:09:16,320 OK? What's the most valuable lesson 202 00:09:16,320 --> 00:09:19,360 you've learned from a past argument that we have had? 203 00:09:20,960 --> 00:09:30,040 Oh, past argument probably that we it's OK to have different 204 00:09:30,040 --> 00:09:36,400 values and things or different ways of doing things, as long as 205 00:09:36,400 --> 00:09:39,840 we can understand that. It's almost like the love 206 00:09:39,840 --> 00:09:43,160 languages thing where it's like you might value waking up early 207 00:09:43,160 --> 00:09:46,280 so you can have some quiet time. And I might value sleeping in 208 00:09:46,280 --> 00:09:49,440 because I value a little bit of extra sleep in the morning. 209 00:09:49,440 --> 00:09:52,240 Makes me feel good. Well, you get your quiet time at 210 00:09:52,240 --> 00:09:54,280 night. Yes, and I get mine in the 211 00:09:54,280 --> 00:09:55,240 morning. Yeah. 212 00:09:55,240 --> 00:09:59,240 And I think that does take some getting used to in any 213 00:09:59,240 --> 00:10:01,480 relationship. And just because somebody 214 00:10:01,480 --> 00:10:03,720 doesn't do the same things the same way as you doesn't mean 215 00:10:03,720 --> 00:10:09,240 they're not like growing with you or on the same path as you. 216 00:10:09,600 --> 00:10:11,480 How do you feel about me getting up early? 217 00:10:12,440 --> 00:10:15,280 I don't mind, I just don't like it when your alarm wakes me up 218 00:10:15,280 --> 00:10:17,360 because I struggle to get back to sleep and I feel like I've 219 00:10:17,360 --> 00:10:20,520 had broken sleep so I don't mind. 220 00:10:20,520 --> 00:10:22,400 I like that you get up early and you're productive. 221 00:10:24,120 --> 00:10:25,800 I'm the slob of the group, I guess. 222 00:10:26,320 --> 00:10:30,600 The couple slob. I'm in bed by 8 o'clock 8:30 at 223 00:10:30,600 --> 00:10:31,600 the latest. Yeah. 224 00:10:32,160 --> 00:10:33,840 All right, hit me up. What do you got for me? 225 00:10:36,480 --> 00:10:39,240 How do you think we've grown as a couple over the past year? 226 00:10:40,920 --> 00:10:43,240 In a lot of ways we obviously moved overseas. 227 00:10:44,200 --> 00:10:47,680 I think we've become, not that we weren't dependent on each 228 00:10:47,680 --> 00:10:50,040 other, but I think we can fight in each other a lot more. 229 00:10:50,800 --> 00:10:52,200 I think like we turn to each other. 230 00:10:53,160 --> 00:10:54,680 Yeah. I think that's probably the 231 00:10:54,680 --> 00:10:58,040 biggest thing that I've noticed is as much as we've got great 232 00:10:58,040 --> 00:11:01,280 support around each other, we probably go to each other first 233 00:11:01,280 --> 00:11:04,560 more often than we did. I don't know but. 234 00:11:04,760 --> 00:11:07,000 Yeah, I think I should. Yeah. 235 00:11:07,000 --> 00:11:08,600 I feel like we're getting closer and closer. 236 00:11:08,920 --> 00:11:11,520 I know it was possible, but. It's it's happening. 237 00:11:11,520 --> 00:11:13,280 I'm I'm witnessing it first hand. 238 00:11:14,200 --> 00:11:15,080 All right, this will be a good one. 239 00:11:15,080 --> 00:11:17,920 This will be an absolute Delta. Ladies and gentlemen, if you 240 00:11:17,920 --> 00:11:21,440 could swap lives with one celebrity for a day didn't, who 241 00:11:21,440 --> 00:11:24,280 would it be this week and why No did we? 242 00:11:24,600 --> 00:11:26,320 Yeah, we had this question last week. 243 00:11:28,400 --> 00:11:31,800 Let me just scroll up. Well, all right, let's skip that 244 00:11:31,800 --> 00:11:33,520 one and we'll come back. I don't remember that one. 245 00:11:33,520 --> 00:11:37,800 Who'd you choose anyway? I chose like I wanted to be a 246 00:11:37,800 --> 00:11:42,120 male celebrity because I wanted to experience what it was like 247 00:11:42,120 --> 00:11:46,400 to be a male so. Well, there you go. 248 00:11:46,400 --> 00:11:50,960 Anyway, I think I chose someone like some rich male. 249 00:11:51,240 --> 00:11:54,800 Like Elon Musk, Brad Pitt, maybe Brad Pitt. 250 00:11:55,720 --> 00:11:57,960 OK, well. Imagine being like Donald Trump 251 00:11:57,960 --> 00:12:00,440 and changing things that you wanted to change. 252 00:12:00,640 --> 00:12:02,320 Oh, because you're president, you know. 253 00:12:02,320 --> 00:12:04,120 All right, well, let's ask you another one. 254 00:12:04,520 --> 00:12:09,640 Would you rather fight fight 10 duck sized horses or one horse 255 00:12:09,680 --> 00:12:14,480 sized duck? Oh my goodness, probably 10 duck 256 00:12:14,480 --> 00:12:17,440 sized horses. What about you? 257 00:12:17,840 --> 00:12:20,440 That's a big ass duck. Imagine a big horse sized duck. 258 00:12:20,560 --> 00:12:22,480 Holy. Quack, that would be scary. 259 00:12:22,960 --> 00:12:25,960 I'd be going after the the definitely the duck sized 260 00:12:25,960 --> 00:12:27,840 horses. It'd be kind of funny to watch 261 00:12:27,840 --> 00:12:28,800 too. It'd be so cute. 262 00:12:28,800 --> 00:12:31,960 Like, would you put like Woody Woody and Bloody Buzz on the 263 00:12:31,960 --> 00:12:33,600 back of them and let them charge at you? 264 00:12:33,600 --> 00:12:35,000 Yeah. That's hilarious. 265 00:12:35,000 --> 00:12:36,440 That's a weird one, but that's a good one. 266 00:12:37,120 --> 00:12:41,720 OK, if you were a character in a ROM com, what would your big 267 00:12:41,720 --> 00:12:47,520 romantic gesture look like? I'm probably going to say I 268 00:12:47,520 --> 00:12:49,160 really love the scene from The Notebook. 269 00:12:50,160 --> 00:12:51,960 The rain. Yeah, the rain there and the 270 00:12:51,960 --> 00:12:54,640 clocks and it's just raining. Not the one where they go to the 271 00:12:54,640 --> 00:12:56,840 well, they do go to the house, but I like that. 272 00:12:57,040 --> 00:13:01,080 What do you want? I think that's nice, but if I 273 00:13:01,080 --> 00:13:08,120 had a more romantic gesture, I think I would love to just and I 274 00:13:08,120 --> 00:13:10,840 probably will do this one day. Ladies and gentlemen, spoiler 275 00:13:10,840 --> 00:13:15,280 alert, have your passport already and just book us like a 276 00:13:15,280 --> 00:13:18,680 first class flight to somewhere. I'm not going to say where. 277 00:13:18,960 --> 00:13:20,400 Yes. And you just I'll just put all 278 00:13:20,400 --> 00:13:21,800 right, we're going for breakfast. 279 00:13:22,840 --> 00:13:25,080 I've already packed your bags. Probably not with the clothes 280 00:13:25,080 --> 00:13:28,800 you want, but it doesn't matter. And we end up at the airport and 281 00:13:28,800 --> 00:13:30,800 boom, that would be we're going somewhere. 282 00:13:30,800 --> 00:13:33,080 Incredible. And it would probably just make 283 00:13:33,080 --> 00:13:35,440 it even more romantic if it was raining along the way, but the 284 00:13:35,440 --> 00:13:37,840 rain stopped so we didn't have turbulence on the way out. 285 00:13:37,840 --> 00:13:39,400 Yes, that's right. That's what I think. 286 00:13:39,520 --> 00:13:41,120 That would be my romantic gesture. 287 00:13:41,120 --> 00:13:45,440 OK, what's one thing I do for you that makes you feel the most 288 00:13:45,440 --> 00:13:47,720 loved? This is going to be a good 289 00:13:47,720 --> 00:13:52,440 answer. I think it's just like all the 290 00:13:52,440 --> 00:13:54,520 little things, you know, It's like the bringing the tea in the 291 00:13:54,520 --> 00:13:57,360 morning. It's always, you know, you just 292 00:13:57,360 --> 00:14:00,720 text me that you love me or I don't know, I just feel like you 293 00:14:00,720 --> 00:14:06,040 really genuinely care about me. I just see some other partners 294 00:14:06,040 --> 00:14:08,440 and they don't seem to care that much. 295 00:14:08,440 --> 00:14:10,360 You know, they might take their partners for granted, and I 296 00:14:10,360 --> 00:14:12,600 never feel that I've been taken for granted. 297 00:14:13,160 --> 00:14:14,800 Well, there you go, ladies and gentlemen. 298 00:14:15,360 --> 00:14:17,240 Tea in the morning, A random love. 299 00:14:17,240 --> 00:14:21,000 Your message goes a long way. Oh, you're 10. 300 00:14:21,000 --> 00:14:21,800 You're 10. It's me. 301 00:14:22,280 --> 00:14:27,720 OK, what's your dream pet that you would never actually get? 302 00:14:29,520 --> 00:14:34,560 See I'm torn here because I feel like a dog obviously but I'm 303 00:14:34,560 --> 00:14:37,840 also with how our life is. I don't think I would ever own a 304 00:14:37,840 --> 00:14:40,160 pet because you become so close to them. 305 00:14:40,160 --> 00:14:42,240 It's the responsibility. You should treat it like a 306 00:14:42,400 --> 00:14:44,240 person. You don't just walk out on it. 307 00:14:44,240 --> 00:14:45,360 I. Don't know but if you could have 308 00:14:45,360 --> 00:14:47,840 any random pet. Honey Badger. 309 00:14:48,680 --> 00:14:50,440 Honey Badgers are so fascinating. 310 00:14:50,440 --> 00:14:53,760 Like if you Google honey badger and it doesn't come up with the 311 00:14:53,760 --> 00:14:56,800 football player, you'll see a honey badger like can get bitten 312 00:14:56,800 --> 00:15:00,400 by a snake and pretend to die and then it'll come back alive. 313 00:15:00,400 --> 00:15:01,720 Like I think that's. Weasel. 314 00:15:01,960 --> 00:15:02,760 They're so cute. Yeah. 315 00:15:03,480 --> 00:15:04,680 That would be wild. Box. 316 00:15:04,680 --> 00:15:07,280 Some people have boxes. Check out honey Badgers and tell 317 00:15:07,280 --> 00:15:09,800 me they're not one of the greatest animals on the planet. 318 00:15:09,800 --> 00:15:12,120 You know what I'd love? I know it's not my question. 319 00:15:12,160 --> 00:15:15,400 It's not her question. I would love an aquarium. 320 00:15:16,160 --> 00:15:17,520 I didn't. Have That's not an animal, 321 00:15:17,520 --> 00:15:19,680 that's a whole. Thing animals in there, like an 322 00:15:19,680 --> 00:15:22,400 octopus. OK, I would love a whole game 323 00:15:22,400 --> 00:15:25,680 farm in South Africa where I get to see my rhinos, snakes, 324 00:15:25,680 --> 00:15:28,040 zebras. Game farm, Is that where you 325 00:15:28,040 --> 00:15:29,920 shoot them? Well, I wouldn't shoot them, but 326 00:15:29,920 --> 00:15:31,440 I would just have that sanctuary. 327 00:15:31,600 --> 00:15:34,560 Sanctuary, an Oasis, you may call it. 328 00:15:35,640 --> 00:15:38,240 What's something you think couples should talk about more 329 00:15:38,240 --> 00:15:40,360 but rarely do? This is these are the hard 330 00:15:40,360 --> 00:15:42,160 hitting questions, ladies and gentlemen. 331 00:15:43,800 --> 00:15:54,240 I think just. Maybe the mundane things because 332 00:15:54,240 --> 00:15:57,480 sometimes you don't realize how much they actually add up. 333 00:15:58,120 --> 00:15:59,960 You know, you're like, oh, this shit thing happened to me, but 334 00:15:59,960 --> 00:16:02,600 I'm not going to talk about it because I don't think it's 335 00:16:02,600 --> 00:16:05,280 important. And then like I noticed with 336 00:16:05,280 --> 00:16:07,000 you, like you mentioned something that happened to a 337 00:16:07,000 --> 00:16:09,440 friend when we're in conversation, I'm like, you 338 00:16:09,440 --> 00:16:12,080 didn't tell me that, and it's probably because you thought 339 00:16:12,080 --> 00:16:15,000 that I wouldn't care or that it wasn't that interesting. 340 00:16:15,560 --> 00:16:18,520 Yeah, I don't or. Yeah, or you just forget or 341 00:16:18,520 --> 00:16:21,720 whatever, but yeah. I don't think I go from one 342 00:16:21,720 --> 00:16:22,840 conversation. You're OK? 343 00:16:23,280 --> 00:16:24,640 These are all the key points from that one. 344 00:16:24,640 --> 00:16:27,000 I have to relay them. Yeah, my brain doesn't work like 345 00:16:27,000 --> 00:16:29,000 that. I think females work more like 346 00:16:29,000 --> 00:16:29,480 that. Yeah. 347 00:16:29,480 --> 00:16:32,640 And I think then often just skip over details or, you know, they 348 00:16:32,680 --> 00:16:34,240 don't really talk about their feelings much. 349 00:16:34,240 --> 00:16:35,520 And they're just like, oh, she'll be right. 350 00:16:35,520 --> 00:16:38,440 Whereas if you if you hear the girls, that'll tell you every 351 00:16:38,440 --> 00:16:42,240 key dot, point and more from the previous conversation. 352 00:16:42,640 --> 00:16:45,880 I sit there a lot of the time being like, is any of that kind 353 00:16:45,880 --> 00:16:49,840 of influence or impact my life? No check out then like 354 00:16:49,840 --> 00:16:51,680 daydreaming about pizza or something. 355 00:16:52,920 --> 00:16:55,320 Anything else? Your turn. 356 00:16:56,080 --> 00:17:00,160 Oh, what's something that you've learned about me recently that 357 00:17:00,160 --> 00:17:05,400 surprised you? Oh, I think I knew this, but I 358 00:17:05,400 --> 00:17:09,079 very much think you've grabbed it by the balls now. 359 00:17:09,079 --> 00:17:12,880 It's like you're very independent and also strong 360 00:17:12,880 --> 00:17:17,079 minded. I've have watched it in so many 361 00:17:17,079 --> 00:17:19,480 ways. I think like of the family, 362 00:17:19,480 --> 00:17:22,839 you're like the one everyone leans on, really. 363 00:17:22,880 --> 00:17:25,200 Yeah, I think so for sure. Interesting. 364 00:17:25,520 --> 00:17:28,200 You just get shit done. No fucking around, no whinging, 365 00:17:28,200 --> 00:17:31,760 just get it done. Yeah, got to get it done to move 366 00:17:31,760 --> 00:17:32,760 forward. Exactly. 367 00:17:33,400 --> 00:17:36,400 I like that. OK, your turn. 368 00:17:38,640 --> 00:17:40,640 I know you're going to really love this question. 369 00:17:41,400 --> 00:17:44,400 If you could only eat one dessert forever, what would it 370 00:17:44,400 --> 00:17:46,320 be? You know this answer? 371 00:17:46,320 --> 00:17:48,360 I think everyone who's listening probably knows this answer. 372 00:17:48,360 --> 00:17:52,880 For me, it's ice cream. Spoiler alert, I don't really 373 00:17:52,880 --> 00:17:56,880 discriminate. Except I don't love nuts in ice. 374 00:17:56,880 --> 00:17:58,280 Cream I don't really discriminate. 375 00:17:58,320 --> 00:17:59,360 I. Don't like peanuts and ice 376 00:17:59,360 --> 00:18:00,400 cream? Mcadamia is fine. 377 00:18:00,600 --> 00:18:01,840 Taking nuts out to the ice cream. 378 00:18:02,360 --> 00:18:04,960 Oh, like nuts. Like picnic bar. 379 00:18:05,800 --> 00:18:09,320 Anyway, with ice cream. I don't really discriminate. 10 380 00:18:09,320 --> 00:18:12,560 minutes later, rant over. When it comes to ice cream, 381 00:18:13,000 --> 00:18:16,400 there's just no better ice cream than the plain old chocolate. 382 00:18:16,400 --> 00:18:20,280 Ice cream, that's. The top tier dessert. 383 00:18:20,320 --> 00:18:21,680 I like it. I like it. 384 00:18:22,360 --> 00:18:24,320 Well, there you go, ladies and gentlemen. 385 00:18:24,320 --> 00:18:25,560 Is there any more? Are we done there? 386 00:18:25,920 --> 00:18:27,400 I've got one more. Oh, OK. 387 00:18:27,400 --> 00:18:31,080 If we had to start a band, a couples band, what would You and 388 00:18:31,080 --> 00:18:34,560 I, You and I, what would we name it, what would we name it, and 389 00:18:34,560 --> 00:18:38,280 what instrument would you play? Wow, now is this like based off 390 00:18:38,280 --> 00:18:41,040 of where I'm currently at or would this be like if I could 391 00:18:41,040 --> 00:18:42,200 just pull a rabbit out of the tap? 392 00:18:42,280 --> 00:18:43,880 Pull a rabbit out. OK, OK. 393 00:18:46,360 --> 00:18:48,480 I've got a good. Name locking in the Stooges, 394 00:18:48,680 --> 00:18:52,640 locking in the Stooge. And I would play the guitar, 395 00:18:53,400 --> 00:18:55,880 because the guitar. Who's the Stooges? 396 00:18:56,000 --> 00:18:57,440 Oh, it's a couples band, isn't it? 397 00:19:00,000 --> 00:19:02,400 What would your name be for it? Stupard. 398 00:19:02,960 --> 00:19:04,760 Stupard. Stuart and Sherburn, yeah. 399 00:19:04,760 --> 00:19:08,120 I like that stupard. That sounds like a good name 400 00:19:08,120 --> 00:19:09,800 and. And I might play the drums just 401 00:19:09,800 --> 00:19:12,480 for something. Different bang and crash and 402 00:19:12,480 --> 00:19:14,480 make some noise, but don't but don't. 403 00:19:14,960 --> 00:19:17,480 All right, Well, that's us getting to know each other. 404 00:19:17,480 --> 00:19:18,760 Hopefully you learned something about us. 405 00:19:18,760 --> 00:19:20,680 I learned something about you, which is great. 406 00:19:21,400 --> 00:19:24,800 Now let's go to the next segment where we will be talking about 407 00:19:24,800 --> 00:19:27,800 Amy's Reddit story. Let's do it. 408 00:19:28,400 --> 00:19:35,360 OK no sorry I gotta find the OK sorry I was on the wrong page. 409 00:19:35,360 --> 00:19:36,200 Pregnant. Pause. 410 00:19:37,440 --> 00:19:41,160 Go. I found something really fucked 411 00:19:41,160 --> 00:19:43,840 up in my husband's phone. What should be the course of 412 00:19:43,840 --> 00:19:45,200 action? What ages are we? 413 00:19:45,640 --> 00:19:49,120 She's 22, female, young to be married, and he's. 414 00:19:49,240 --> 00:19:52,680 Yeah. Oh yeah, it's only been a few 415 00:19:52,680 --> 00:19:55,800 months. A few months we got married. 416 00:19:55,800 --> 00:19:57,280 It's only been a few months. We got married. 417 00:19:57,280 --> 00:19:59,760 This doesn't really make sense, but OK, they've been married for 418 00:19:59,760 --> 00:20:02,000 a few months. We were dating for two years 419 00:20:02,000 --> 00:20:04,600 before I was decluttering his gallery and this is something he 420 00:20:04,600 --> 00:20:07,120 knows I do from time to time because his gallery is full of 421 00:20:07,120 --> 00:20:10,600 useless pictures he doesn't need anymore, so I do it to save 422 00:20:10,600 --> 00:20:12,720 space. We both have full access to each 423 00:20:12,720 --> 00:20:14,760 other's phones. Today I deleted. 424 00:20:14,760 --> 00:20:16,440 Something. How do you know what's useful or 425 00:20:16,440 --> 00:20:17,800 useless in someone's phone though? 426 00:20:18,600 --> 00:20:22,640 I don't know, like duplicates screenshots of a holiday you 427 00:20:22,640 --> 00:20:23,840 took three months ago. Yeah. 428 00:20:23,920 --> 00:20:26,360 But that could be, there could have been like a key bit of 429 00:20:26,360 --> 00:20:28,440 information on there or you don't know. 430 00:20:29,280 --> 00:20:30,880 Anyway, that's apparently what they do as. 431 00:20:30,920 --> 00:20:34,240 Well, that's stupid. Today I deleted something I 432 00:20:34,240 --> 00:20:37,440 didn't mean to, so I went to the trash folder to retrieve. 433 00:20:37,440 --> 00:20:40,280 Oh my goodness, what do you guys think was in the trash folder? 434 00:20:40,280 --> 00:20:41,400 What do you think was in the trash? 435 00:20:41,400 --> 00:20:42,280 Folder I know I've. Read this. 436 00:20:42,280 --> 00:20:46,720 OK, well, I don't know. I'm so shaken and I don't know 437 00:20:46,720 --> 00:20:48,800 how to write this. My fingers are trembling. 438 00:20:49,520 --> 00:20:53,280 There were two nudes of my friends that were AI generated. 439 00:20:54,120 --> 00:20:56,520 Can you do that? I guess so. 440 00:20:57,200 --> 00:20:58,560 Don't even think about it. Lucky. 441 00:20:59,600 --> 00:21:03,280 No, I wasn't thinking about it. I was just like, wow. 442 00:21:03,360 --> 00:21:06,160 I know. That's so like catchy PT Or what 443 00:21:06,160 --> 00:21:07,320 app did he use? Isn't that? 444 00:21:07,520 --> 00:21:09,120 I guess it's not illegal yet, but it. 445 00:21:09,120 --> 00:21:11,040 Will be illegal. That will definitely be illegal. 446 00:21:11,040 --> 00:21:14,480 Sex crime or like a, you know, it's like revenge porn. 447 00:21:15,160 --> 00:21:16,320 It's. It's in that category. 448 00:21:16,480 --> 00:21:19,160 It's not ideal. Meaning he probably uploaded 449 00:21:19,160 --> 00:21:21,480 their photo in some website that undresses you. 450 00:21:22,440 --> 00:21:25,240 Why is that even a website? Why is that even a website that 451 00:21:25,240 --> 00:21:27,000 does that? My blood went cold, I was 452 00:21:27,240 --> 00:21:29,880 stuttering, I couldn't breathe like my heart was palpitating. 453 00:21:30,240 --> 00:21:33,320 I really really love him and saw no love. 454 00:21:33,320 --> 00:21:34,240 Loved. Him. 455 00:21:34,240 --> 00:21:36,640 So is the love gone? I don't know what to do. 456 00:21:38,360 --> 00:21:41,440 It's TLDR therefore. I don't know. 457 00:21:41,720 --> 00:21:45,400 Too little Dick round today. Better. 458 00:21:45,720 --> 00:21:47,920 Timeline direct? I don't know. 459 00:21:48,720 --> 00:21:51,800 I confronted him. The audacity he had you guys. 460 00:21:52,440 --> 00:21:55,280 Firstly, to those of you saying we have no boundaries, yes with 461 00:21:55,280 --> 00:21:57,360 clingy, no. He's never once said it was a 462 00:21:57,360 --> 00:21:58,720 problem with me going through his phone. 463 00:21:58,720 --> 00:22:00,480 This is normal for us. It wasn't. 464 00:22:00,520 --> 00:22:03,960 I wasn't even decluttering because I was suspicious and 465 00:22:03,960 --> 00:22:06,080 wanted to find something. He seriously has lots of useless 466 00:22:06,080 --> 00:22:09,160 shit. Secondly, he was perfectly 467 00:22:09,160 --> 00:22:12,680 saintly before this. Literally no one could have 468 00:22:12,680 --> 00:22:18,160 guessed he'd do this anyway. He tried very hard to explain 469 00:22:18,160 --> 00:22:20,760 that this doesn't count as cheating, even though he said 470 00:22:20,760 --> 00:22:23,800 that if if I did it he wouldn't have forgiven me. 471 00:22:25,920 --> 00:22:28,120 Even though he's been such a loudmouth about how cheating is 472 00:22:28,120 --> 00:22:31,160 the worst, trust is all that's important, cheetahs deserve the 473 00:22:31,160 --> 00:22:34,520 worst, blah blah blah. He revealed to me that he has 474 00:22:34,680 --> 00:22:37,240 had a porn addiction this whole time and he watches porn 475 00:22:37,240 --> 00:22:41,200 specifically when we had a fight and he's mad at me so he does it 476 00:22:42,000 --> 00:22:44,040 to private. He just pulls himself together 477 00:22:44,840 --> 00:22:48,600 was in general. Literally he said it's my fault. 478 00:22:48,600 --> 00:22:51,760 Classic for making him mad and fighting with him. 479 00:22:51,840 --> 00:22:54,960 He also assumed that I fantasize about other guys too, which FYI 480 00:22:54,960 --> 00:22:58,240 absolutely do not and never have. 481 00:22:58,240 --> 00:23:00,680 Since we were together. He's all I cared about and 482 00:23:00,680 --> 00:23:02,480 wanted. He told me he regrets marrying 483 00:23:02,480 --> 00:23:04,720 me and wonders what it would have been like marrying my 484 00:23:04,720 --> 00:23:08,080 friends. Oh the whole my whole entire 485 00:23:08,080 --> 00:23:10,680 life is built around this man. I never thought that something 486 00:23:10,680 --> 00:23:15,480 like this could happen to me, but here we are anyway, blah 487 00:23:15,480 --> 00:23:18,760 blah blah blah. That is rude. 488 00:23:18,800 --> 00:23:20,960 Or, well, that's a. Lot of time back. 489 00:23:20,960 --> 00:23:22,640 Then I think the writing is. I feel like that. 490 00:23:23,000 --> 00:23:25,320 That update really like unravelled quickly. 491 00:23:26,680 --> 00:23:28,600 Yeah, I think you got. Married. 492 00:23:28,600 --> 00:23:31,440 They assume they're done right. Well, how can you come back from 493 00:23:31,440 --> 00:23:33,000 someone saying they wish that they. 494 00:23:33,080 --> 00:23:35,560 Were never married you yeah, that's you're done. 495 00:23:36,560 --> 00:23:38,280 Yeah, you would. Well, I think it's a blessing 496 00:23:38,280 --> 00:23:40,120 that you found those photos sooner rather than later. 497 00:23:40,120 --> 00:23:43,280 You're in the 22. Get out there. 22 is very young 498 00:23:43,280 --> 00:23:45,000 to be married, don't you? I do, yeah. 499 00:23:45,040 --> 00:23:46,160 I think you. Especially. 500 00:23:46,320 --> 00:23:48,880 Test the waters kissing frogs. Don't marry them all. 501 00:23:49,000 --> 00:23:53,480 Kissing toads, Yeah, and frogs. Frogs, and they tend to. 502 00:23:53,600 --> 00:23:55,120 Beetles, whatever you're into kissing. 503 00:23:56,200 --> 00:23:57,600 Yeah, I think. Yeah. 504 00:23:57,600 --> 00:24:01,480 I think women mature a lot earlier than men do as well. 505 00:24:01,480 --> 00:24:03,640 It's true. I think so. 506 00:24:03,640 --> 00:24:07,320 I think for men even a little bit later, but women, yeah, once 507 00:24:07,320 --> 00:24:08,800 in, it's their own. Some people. 508 00:24:08,800 --> 00:24:10,280 I'm just speaking from my experience. 509 00:24:10,280 --> 00:24:12,560 I definitely didn't know my ass from my elbow till I was about 510 00:24:12,560 --> 00:24:15,880 28, so I had a lot of learning to do. 511 00:24:16,560 --> 00:24:18,720 What about you? When did you when did you learn 512 00:24:18,720 --> 00:24:20,040 the difference between your ass and elbow? 513 00:24:21,120 --> 00:24:25,960 Probably like I mean from a young age. 514 00:24:25,960 --> 00:24:29,040 I think women are really good. I just I look at even like. 515 00:24:31,240 --> 00:24:34,480 I'm going to say 21. Yeah, I just think like, boys 516 00:24:35,400 --> 00:24:37,520 don't. I'm thinking like, yeah, we're 517 00:24:37,520 --> 00:24:41,760 just still eating dirt, like playing around with bugs and 518 00:24:41,760 --> 00:24:44,560 stuff. Whereas women and even like 519 00:24:44,560 --> 00:24:46,920 young girls seem to go into this more nurturing and caring role 520 00:24:46,920 --> 00:24:50,920 from a young, younger age. Yeah, it's biology. 521 00:24:50,960 --> 00:24:54,240 And yeah, so and I think because of that, you become more self 522 00:24:54,240 --> 00:24:56,400 aware, you're more in tune with your body, you listen more in 523 00:24:56,400 --> 00:24:58,880 conversation, so you connect in the dots. 524 00:24:58,880 --> 00:25:03,480 Whereas blokes are just a footy, you're here, it sucks. 525 00:25:03,480 --> 00:25:05,760 I'm just generalizing here for anyone who's getting laughed 526 00:25:05,840 --> 00:25:07,640 out. So yeah, if you're getting 527 00:25:07,640 --> 00:25:09,920 married, like I think definitely. 528 00:25:10,120 --> 00:25:15,120 I'm just personally, I it worked out exactly how it's supposed to 529 00:25:15,120 --> 00:25:17,840 work out for us because I needed to work a few things out. 530 00:25:18,440 --> 00:25:21,040 I needed to understand myself more, and then I needed to find 531 00:25:21,040 --> 00:25:22,760 you. But I found you at 23. 532 00:25:22,840 --> 00:25:25,880 Yeah, so we didn't. We were young, but we we had the 533 00:25:25,880 --> 00:25:28,680 longest dating. I was getting ridiculed a 534 00:25:28,680 --> 00:25:29,920 little. Bit sooner, but. 535 00:25:30,080 --> 00:25:33,040 I don't I was, you know, seven years before engagement was 536 00:25:33,040 --> 00:25:35,440 good. Oh my gosh, the seven-year rule 537 00:25:35,440 --> 00:25:38,080 29. It was, Yeah, a one year. 538 00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:40,680 Anyway, your 30th birthday it. Happens, yeah. 539 00:25:41,120 --> 00:25:43,480 Well, ladies and gentlemen, thank you for tuning in for 540 00:25:43,480 --> 00:25:45,520 episode 20. Remember, if you're enjoying 541 00:25:45,520 --> 00:25:48,640 these, you can find more over at Amy's Patreon, which is. 542 00:25:49,520 --> 00:25:52,720 Amy shepherd pie So patreon.com/amy Shepherd pie. 543 00:25:52,920 --> 00:25:57,880 And if you haven't subscribed to Spotify, Apple Podcasts or 544 00:25:57,880 --> 00:26:00,080 YouTube, make sure you do that as well. 545 00:26:00,480 --> 00:26:04,080 Our Spotify, because I'm all in the data at the moment, it's 546 00:26:04,080 --> 00:26:06,280 growing very quickly and we're getting a lot more subscribers, 547 00:26:06,280 --> 00:26:10,000 which I'm loving to see. So we've got listeners all over 548 00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:12,840 the world, which is great. So maybe one day, if we keep 549 00:26:12,920 --> 00:26:16,360 growing the numbers, we'll go on tour and we won't be sitting on 550 00:26:16,360 --> 00:26:18,480 this desk. We'll get ouches. 551 00:26:19,120 --> 00:26:20,160 Oh yeah. That'll be for ah. 552 00:26:20,200 --> 00:26:21,760 Stop it. I'm excited. 553 00:26:21,760 --> 00:26:23,200 We'll get it right. Yeah. 554 00:26:23,480 --> 00:26:25,880 Alright, ladies and gentlemen, who wrote.