1 00:00:00,900 --> 00:00:03,100 Well, adults, we understand that people are gonna get partners 2 00:00:03,100 --> 00:00:05,800 and priorities change. Yeah, I think you grow apart as 3 00:00:05,800 --> 00:00:07,800 well. Like, my best mates at school. 4 00:00:08,700 --> 00:00:12,000 I'm not, you know, my best mate from primary school, Stewie. 5 00:00:12,500 --> 00:00:14,400 I see more now than I did during High School. 6 00:00:14,400 --> 00:00:15,900 Like we grew apart. Yeah. 7 00:00:16,000 --> 00:00:17,900 Through high school, we sort of ditched each other. 8 00:00:17,900 --> 00:00:20,500 Hi, I'm Amy Shepherd. I'm locked and Stewart and 9 00:00:20,500 --> 00:00:22,900 although we have different last names, we're married. 10 00:00:23,300 --> 00:00:26,500 Now whooping told the secret to a successful marriage is 11 00:00:26,500 --> 00:00:29,100 communication. So we're going to talk it out 12 00:00:29,100 --> 00:00:31,700 every week. Share our challenges and pet 13 00:00:31,700 --> 00:00:33,500 peeves. Then we're setting each other. 14 00:00:33,500 --> 00:00:37,000 Some goals some couple goals. Couple goals to podcast is for 15 00:00:37,000 --> 00:00:38,900 those who might be looking to life their way through 16 00:00:38,900 --> 00:00:40,600 challenging scenarios that all couples. 17 00:00:40,600 --> 00:00:43,300 Go through occasionally. We might even get some other 18 00:00:43,300 --> 00:00:45,100 couples to join in. Yeah, you'd like that. 19 00:00:46,000 --> 00:00:49,300 Hit, subscribe, and tune in every week to hear our weekly 20 00:00:49,500 --> 00:00:53,900 couple goals. With so 24. 21 00:00:54,100 --> 00:00:57,500 Here it back back again. I actually feel the most 22 00:00:57,500 --> 00:00:59,600 energized. I felt on this podcast for a 23 00:00:59,608 --> 00:01:02,800 very long time. Not naked. 24 00:01:03,700 --> 00:01:06,000 I feel like that nakid. Why you not hit? 25 00:01:06,200 --> 00:01:09,300 Because I'm doing your program and it's killing me. 26 00:01:09,500 --> 00:01:11,100 That's not good advertisement for it. 27 00:01:11,100 --> 00:01:14,500 Is it it's good like I'm feeling really strong. 28 00:01:14,500 --> 00:01:18,000 I'm squatting really the same as you well that hard. 29 00:01:20,800 --> 00:01:24,000 Let's clarify that Very quickly because you're making me sound 30 00:01:24,000 --> 00:01:28,800 like bearest not, it's okay, no. So okay, here's what's 31 00:01:28,800 --> 00:01:30,400 happening. Hey, for women to be just as 32 00:01:30,400 --> 00:01:32,100 strong as men. No, I'm not. 33 00:01:32,800 --> 00:01:34,300 Why do you have to make this about genders? 34 00:01:34,700 --> 00:01:36,100 There's nothing to do with genders. 35 00:01:36,100 --> 00:01:38,700 This was all about, just me and you personal. 36 00:01:39,400 --> 00:01:43,800 So, Today, I had an awesome moment where the lamps smoked me 37 00:01:43,800 --> 00:01:46,400 on the scale, I love training with people who are fitted than 38 00:01:46,400 --> 00:01:50,200 me because you have to work harder but when your fitter or 39 00:01:50,200 --> 00:01:53,600 stronger than someone you can sometimes just Cruise you know 40 00:01:53,600 --> 00:01:55,500 when you're not really trained I like I'm not really training for 41 00:01:55,508 --> 00:01:58,700 anything that moment just going through the motions so I just 42 00:01:58,700 --> 00:02:01,800 got whatever I'm squatting. Yeah that's what I was doing and 43 00:02:01,800 --> 00:02:05,200 then I went over to talk to Amy today and I was looking at the 44 00:02:05,200 --> 00:02:07,900 barbell because we're training at the same time as looking at 45 00:02:07,900 --> 00:02:12,500 the barbell and it was yellow. No at first and Egos nearly 46 00:02:12,700 --> 00:02:14,100 screwed. My body weight is a yellow and a 47 00:02:14,108 --> 00:02:18,400 black, so it's 60 kilos. And then you had a yellow, 48 00:02:18,400 --> 00:02:21,700 yellow black, and I'm sitting there going doing the math 49 00:02:22,700 --> 00:02:26,500 you're doing. 90 kilos squats. Where are they doing? 50 00:02:26,500 --> 00:02:31,100 100 over there? So I realized I had to ramp it 51 00:02:31,100 --> 00:02:32,800 up. What did you wrap it up to? 52 00:02:33,400 --> 00:02:36,300 I kept it 100. Just call me lucky. 53 00:02:36,300 --> 00:02:38,400 It's all I'm saying. I just have a big Squad. 54 00:02:38,500 --> 00:02:40,000 I don't want to boast but I still used. 55 00:02:41,900 --> 00:02:44,200 And I thought I could still do it Paul Squad and I've got a 56 00:02:44,208 --> 00:02:50,300 good squad. Are you competitive with your 57 00:02:50,500 --> 00:02:53,400 spouse? I'm really, I'm not really 58 00:02:53,400 --> 00:02:58,600 competitive person but because I would disagree, really? 59 00:02:58,600 --> 00:03:01,100 Yeah? Why because when we did the dry 60 00:03:01,100 --> 00:03:03,300 try together. Yeah, and when you're on the 61 00:03:03,300 --> 00:03:08,400 rower, you're very competitive. Don't try to shy away from that. 62 00:03:08,500 --> 00:03:12,100 That is, I don't know if I am. Do I know for A fact you are 63 00:03:12,100 --> 00:03:15,400 because you just did it then everyone's probably listening to 64 00:03:15,400 --> 00:03:17,800 this with their jaw on the ground going. 65 00:03:18,500 --> 00:03:20,500 How does she not remember what she just started this 66 00:03:20,500 --> 00:03:24,200 conversation with competition? Yeah, because you're competitive 67 00:03:24,200 --> 00:03:28,500 and you're always, you have to. I look, I'm not here to say I'm 68 00:03:28,500 --> 00:03:31,700 not competitive keep up. I know I'm competitive look when 69 00:03:31,700 --> 00:03:35,900 we were doing our, you're making our workout today, and I was 70 00:03:35,900 --> 00:03:38,800 just like, let's try and keep them all under two minutes to 71 00:03:38,800 --> 00:03:44,300 the two Lads. Liam, I was in at 149, I was 156 72 00:03:44,300 --> 00:03:46,300 155 500. Yeah. 73 00:03:46,700 --> 00:03:51,000 And I was like, nah, my brain just clicked and I was like, 74 00:03:51,000 --> 00:03:53,200 it's race time and I was like, I'm going to catch you down. 75 00:03:53,200 --> 00:03:55,600 Let me catch you. And that was the whole whole 76 00:03:55,600 --> 00:03:57,300 worker. So we would just fucking 77 00:03:57,300 --> 00:04:00,300 hammering it doing it and we got down to 143 PS. 78 00:04:00,500 --> 00:04:01,500 Whoo. What's up? 79 00:04:01,500 --> 00:04:04,000 My father? I've been doing 500s. 80 00:04:04,000 --> 00:04:05,900 I'm I try to get them under two minutes every time. 81 00:04:05,900 --> 00:04:09,400 Yeah like 157. I see when a cop with the boys 82 00:04:09,400 --> 00:04:12,600 there, I'm just saying that I'm right on your tail. 83 00:04:12,700 --> 00:04:15,700 Okay, so all right well I like that. 84 00:04:15,900 --> 00:04:21,600 I love having a stronger say so that's why I'm exhausted because 85 00:04:21,600 --> 00:04:23,400 I've been really pushing myself. Oh well. 86 00:04:23,400 --> 00:04:24,900 That's right. Proud of you it's good. 87 00:04:25,500 --> 00:04:27,500 I like your work ethic in the consistency. 88 00:04:27,500 --> 00:04:34,000 Yeah but also attractive like as I said last week a crazy year of 89 00:04:34,000 --> 00:04:39,700 just like One thing after you released this song is just 90 00:04:39,700 --> 00:04:40,800 Friday. Yeah. 91 00:04:40,800 --> 00:04:43,100 Accepting about that. Yeah, let's talk about it. 92 00:04:43,100 --> 00:04:44,900 Talk about it released a song. Shepherd. 93 00:04:44,900 --> 00:04:47,200 Good time. And it's our first release of 94 00:04:47,200 --> 00:04:51,500 Shepherd in two years. I believe it's like blowing up 95 00:04:51,500 --> 00:04:55,500 on YouTube, isn't it? Yeah, it is actually it shot the 96 00:04:55,500 --> 00:04:59,000 film clip a couple weeks ago in Melbourne, and it's a really fun 97 00:04:59,000 --> 00:05:02,500 summery vibe. It matches the song so perfectly 98 00:05:04,200 --> 00:05:07,500 and our mums in it. She has a little Cameo, which 99 00:05:07,500 --> 00:05:10,400 she, like, dreads, she's so embarrassed about it, but I'm 100 00:05:10,400 --> 00:05:12,500 telling everyone Linda Shepherds in it. 101 00:05:12,500 --> 00:05:16,800 See if you can spot her. Yeah, so that came out and 102 00:05:16,800 --> 00:05:18,200 Friday. It's going really well, it's 103 00:05:18,200 --> 00:05:21,000 been added to a couple of radio stations would be doing TV. 104 00:05:21,000 --> 00:05:24,000 We've been doing shows, I've been doing my Amy Shepherd 105 00:05:24,000 --> 00:05:26,000 stuff, is we've been neglecting your husband. 106 00:05:26,000 --> 00:05:28,900 This is the first, like, when I saw you in the gym today. 107 00:05:28,900 --> 00:05:32,300 I was, I genuinely excited to see you because I haven't seen 108 00:05:32,300 --> 00:05:34,100 if I had to give you a hug in public. 109 00:05:36,300 --> 00:05:38,300 Do you guys do public displays of affection? 110 00:05:38,300 --> 00:05:41,400 Is it cool? Is it called for what do you 111 00:05:41,400 --> 00:05:43,500 think? Like we're not like we are a 112 00:05:43,500 --> 00:05:47,100 little bit but not full on PDA. I'm more affectionate than Amy 113 00:05:47,100 --> 00:05:48,900 she gets like embarrassed by him. 114 00:05:49,400 --> 00:05:53,700 So I try to do it even more. Just give her a kiss in public. 115 00:05:55,500 --> 00:05:57,200 When I either Jim 2000. Come here. 116 00:05:57,200 --> 00:05:58,900 Give me a hug. Come on. 117 00:05:59,000 --> 00:06:03,100 I haven't seen you in five nights and you really like 118 00:06:03,100 --> 00:06:06,100 people like Mackey it on the gym like Roy went matching it with 119 00:06:06,300 --> 00:06:09,700 Again, yeah, that's fine. That's why I still sometimes. 120 00:06:09,700 --> 00:06:11,500 You're a bit standoffish a bit awkward. 121 00:06:12,100 --> 00:06:14,600 I think that's something that's actually that's, that's going to 122 00:06:14,608 --> 00:06:17,300 be my pet peeve. We'll come back to that my 123 00:06:17,300 --> 00:06:18,600 goodness. I have a pet peeve this week. 124 00:06:18,600 --> 00:06:19,400 17. You? 125 00:06:19,500 --> 00:06:21,800 Yeah. I've just established one for my 126 00:06:21,808 --> 00:06:24,000 you've got one about me. I'll find one. 127 00:06:24,000 --> 00:06:27,500 Well, we leave in the VW. Oh yeah, there's a little pet 128 00:06:27,500 --> 00:06:29,400 peeve for you. I just gave you and that's makes 129 00:06:29,400 --> 00:06:31,400 me let lets me off the hook. I threw myself. 130 00:06:31,400 --> 00:06:33,200 I'm doing early pet. Peeve singers around it. 131 00:06:33,300 --> 00:06:36,300 No, no, that's come back. Okay, let's come back. 132 00:06:36,308 --> 00:06:44,700 Back so yes so question that was put on our will send an inbox a 133 00:06:44,700 --> 00:06:50,100 lady her daughter was actually at CMC on the weekend and she 134 00:06:50,100 --> 00:06:53,500 said you guys should do a podcast about this topic. 135 00:06:53,600 --> 00:06:56,100 Have you ever been ditched by your friends? 136 00:06:57,700 --> 00:06:59,000 Well, she ditched by her friends. 137 00:06:59,100 --> 00:07:00,000 I don't know. Easy. 138 00:07:00,200 --> 00:07:04,100 Just do you mean like ditched for just in general? 139 00:07:04,100 --> 00:07:06,400 Like ditched for another for a while. 140 00:07:06,400 --> 00:07:08,000 Let's say both, let's talk to you. 141 00:07:08,000 --> 00:07:13,600 Both have you been ditch my friends not since Primary 142 00:07:13,600 --> 00:07:15,200 School? I've been ditched. 143 00:07:15,200 --> 00:07:18,700 I can remember back in the day, the whole group wouldn't. 144 00:07:18,700 --> 00:07:20,800 Did you buy like some dudes with? 145 00:07:20,800 --> 00:07:23,400 Did you while they're chasing tail? 146 00:07:24,300 --> 00:07:28,300 Yeah, I think that's been that's at like teenager's. 147 00:07:28,600 --> 00:07:32,500 Yeah, definitely had like lost friends because they spent all 148 00:07:32,508 --> 00:07:35,600 their time with their boyfriends and they literally like I have 149 00:07:35,600 --> 00:07:39,600 this one friend to kind of just went really roguelike, all 150 00:07:39,600 --> 00:07:43,600 weird, and I didn't want to hang out and it was just just so 151 00:07:43,600 --> 00:07:47,500 strange and we couldn't do anything without with her. 152 00:07:47,500 --> 00:07:52,000 Unless the boyfriend was invited and then she just kind of 153 00:07:52,000 --> 00:07:56,100 stopped talking to us and like only hung out with him and that 154 00:07:56,100 --> 00:07:57,800 they still together. Yeah, they got married. 155 00:07:58,000 --> 00:07:59,900 But would you say that's worth it? 156 00:07:59,900 --> 00:08:03,200 Then maybe. Yeah, I guess on her part but 157 00:08:03,400 --> 00:08:05,300 literally I don't know if she's going the other friends except 158 00:08:05,300 --> 00:08:08,000 for him. Oh sometimes you win and 159 00:08:08,000 --> 00:08:14,900 sometimes you lose Solaris your own song wrong. 160 00:08:17,300 --> 00:08:21,400 Yeah, well, it's not very nice. When you have a really good 161 00:08:21,400 --> 00:08:26,600 friend, you spent lots of goods, good times with them and then 162 00:08:26,600 --> 00:08:31,100 they meet someone that up they're just like yeah. 163 00:08:31,100 --> 00:08:34,600 Did she do to dogs? What do you think? 164 00:08:34,600 --> 00:08:37,500 What about guys who have did? Yes. 165 00:08:38,299 --> 00:08:40,700 Oh, well adults. We understand that people get 166 00:08:40,700 --> 00:08:43,799 partners and priorities change. Yeah I think you grow apart as 167 00:08:43,799 --> 00:08:45,800 well. Like my best mates at school. 168 00:08:46,600 --> 00:08:50,100 I'm not, you know, my best mate from primary school, Stewie. 169 00:08:50,400 --> 00:08:52,400 I see more now than I did during High School. 170 00:08:52,400 --> 00:08:53,900 Like we grew apart. Yeah. 171 00:08:54,000 --> 00:08:55,800 Through high school, we sort of ditched each other. 172 00:08:56,300 --> 00:09:00,900 And then my best mates from high school, or a hue, for example. 173 00:09:00,900 --> 00:09:03,900 Yeah. I don't see, I don't really even 174 00:09:03,900 --> 00:09:06,700 speak to anymore. Yeah, I definitely would, but we 175 00:09:06,700 --> 00:09:09,700 just don't make the effort. So I think we've great like 176 00:09:09,700 --> 00:09:11,200 wife's gone in different directions. 177 00:09:11,200 --> 00:09:14,900 So I think as we've got older, we've sort of ditched each other 178 00:09:14,900 --> 00:09:17,500 but yeah. But no hard feelings, right? 179 00:09:17,500 --> 00:09:23,500 Yeah, I think now, I just want to hang around people, like I 180 00:09:23,508 --> 00:09:26,500 reckon, we've got the really good group of friends and 181 00:09:27,000 --> 00:09:31,100 there's never any drama like, I always think back to if I still 182 00:09:31,100 --> 00:09:35,700 had people that brought constant drama into my life, I could not 183 00:09:35,700 --> 00:09:38,500 deal with it. Yeah, I just end it over petty 184 00:09:38,500 --> 00:09:42,700 stuff that I still hear going on with some people at the gym or 185 00:09:42,700 --> 00:09:46,000 whatever. And I'm sitting there going, I 186 00:09:46,008 --> 00:09:49,100 don't you surely, there's more important things to think about 187 00:09:49,100 --> 00:09:52,000 in your life at this point. I guess for some people that's 188 00:09:52,000 --> 00:09:56,400 really not. Well, you had it from a me. 189 00:09:57,500 --> 00:09:59,800 Get some all these, get some bloody Hobbies. 190 00:10:01,300 --> 00:10:04,200 We haven't spoken about. Obviously you just spoke about 191 00:10:04,200 --> 00:10:07,400 relation is song. What did I do on the weekend? 192 00:10:08,200 --> 00:10:13,300 I've got to say there's three bands or three artists that I 193 00:10:13,300 --> 00:10:16,500 can genuinely listen to every single song. 194 00:10:17,400 --> 00:10:20,200 Every single song and not need to skip it and it makes me want 195 00:10:20,200 --> 00:10:22,200 to buy the record because you have to sit down and listen to 196 00:10:22,200 --> 00:10:26,600 it. It's, you guys wildin cone Z 197 00:10:27,200 --> 00:10:32,500 even like the killers who I used to just love Johnny Farnham 198 00:10:32,500 --> 00:10:37,500 just, you know, a lot of I can't listen to it and it's a little 199 00:10:37,500 --> 00:10:39,400 plug. Combs is dropping his album on 200 00:10:39,400 --> 00:10:40,900 Friday. You're going away to a hens 201 00:10:40,900 --> 00:10:43,100 party. I'm going to get myself a bottle 202 00:10:43,100 --> 00:10:46,100 of scotch and I'm going to sit by yourself. 203 00:10:46,100 --> 00:10:48,000 Yes. Because I don't want people to 204 00:10:48,000 --> 00:10:49,600 talk to me while I'm listening to that. 205 00:10:50,200 --> 00:10:53,000 Wait for me to get back and we'll do it together the old 206 00:10:53,000 --> 00:10:56,100 listen to it multiple times, you can do it twice, but I'm so 207 00:10:56,100 --> 00:11:00,100 excited to sit down and look. I'm gonna probably have one 208 00:11:00,100 --> 00:11:02,700 scotch to be fair. Yeah, not everything, not a 209 00:11:02,700 --> 00:11:06,200 dead, not imagining it. But I just think sitting there 210 00:11:06,500 --> 00:11:11,200 not being disturbed by single person play or 16 songs 211 00:11:11,200 --> 00:11:16,700 themselves headed by that. But How long is that like an 212 00:11:16,700 --> 00:11:22,600 hour and a bit 30 minutes, forty five pm and it it's a good time. 213 00:11:22,600 --> 00:11:28,500 Yeah, I'll have a good time. But seeing Sam sann the weekend 214 00:11:28,500 --> 00:11:30,800 was incredible lineup. So seems see, is the Country 215 00:11:30,800 --> 00:11:33,400 Music Festival in Brisbane and it's mixed. 216 00:11:33,400 --> 00:11:35,400 It's the biggest one. It's the biggest one in the 217 00:11:35,408 --> 00:11:36,800 southern hemisphere, I'm pretty sure. 218 00:11:36,800 --> 00:11:40,900 Yeah, it's well, this lineup in particular, was insane like all 219 00:11:40,900 --> 00:11:45,900 the biggest countries does Al's Australians, just like they're 220 00:11:45,900 --> 00:11:48,600 all in the one place for the weekend and I was so excited for 221 00:11:48,600 --> 00:11:53,200 it, we got tickets and and then Shepherd, got a gig in 222 00:11:53,200 --> 00:11:56,400 Melbourne. So I had to work and I was just 223 00:11:56,400 --> 00:12:00,300 like, so excited for a weekend work. 224 00:12:00,300 --> 00:12:02,900 It just like let loose and have fun and not have to work and 225 00:12:02,900 --> 00:12:05,100 enjoy the festival rather than being behind the scenes having 226 00:12:05,100 --> 00:12:08,800 to. Yeah, but lucky went, but I 227 00:12:08,800 --> 00:12:11,700 decided I had to fly the shepherd flag and I had to show 228 00:12:11,700 --> 00:12:16,100 face and Network. and, You know, doing that. 229 00:12:16,100 --> 00:12:17,700 Did you do that? I did play. 230 00:12:17,700 --> 00:12:20,500 I've met I fucking bumped into heaps of people. 231 00:12:20,500 --> 00:12:23,200 We know I was good. I told her to tell Josh chewing 232 00:12:23,200 --> 00:12:27,800 the fat with everyone there. I was and look it was Friday, it 233 00:12:27,800 --> 00:12:31,800 was 39 degrees, it was scorching, so I chose Comfort 234 00:12:31,800 --> 00:12:33,800 over fashion. I went in jeans and joggers, 235 00:12:33,800 --> 00:12:37,800 like short jeans and joggers and I looked ridiculous, but Stewie 236 00:12:37,800 --> 00:12:41,600 rolled in and still he was wearing his iron worms are moon, 237 00:12:41,600 --> 00:12:46,700 jae-in's, long shirt. And he made a big mistake. 238 00:12:46,700 --> 00:12:50,100 He was sweating his ass off. Oh no, I was sweating my ass off 239 00:12:50,100 --> 00:12:53,300 and I was pretty cool. They dressed. 240 00:12:53,300 --> 00:12:55,800 Yeah. Anyway, fast forward, there was 241 00:12:55,800 --> 00:12:59,800 a lot of great acts, you know, one guy that I really enjoyed 242 00:12:59,800 --> 00:13:03,000 his music when I saw him live and his personality and how he 243 00:13:03,000 --> 00:13:05,500 spoke to the crowd absolute flogged. 244 00:13:05,500 --> 00:13:10,200 I'm not going to say his name. But then, like Jordan Davies was 245 00:13:10,200 --> 00:13:12,800 phenomenal. Bailey Zimmerman got around him, 246 00:13:12,800 --> 00:13:17,000 hadn't listened to much of his Sam was phenomenal. 247 00:13:17,000 --> 00:13:20,600 Ashley McBride was her voice and cams voice. 248 00:13:20,800 --> 00:13:25,000 And I reckon they're like it, you three would get along well, 249 00:13:27,700 --> 00:13:29,600 how else would we say? But anyway, let's fast-forward 250 00:13:29,600 --> 00:13:31,900 Hardy is like, how do you felt out of? 251 00:13:31,900 --> 00:13:35,300 Like I don't get me wrong. I enjoy Hardy because he's was 252 00:13:35,300 --> 00:13:37,100 country. And now, he's definitely Rock 253 00:13:37,400 --> 00:13:39,900 and he was on before Morgan while in last night, and it was 254 00:13:39,900 --> 00:13:42,900 just like you played to country songs from his old stuff, but a 255 00:13:42,908 --> 00:13:46,700 lot of new stuff from his Is Crown the Mockingbird album, 256 00:13:46,700 --> 00:13:50,800 which is Rock like mainstream Rock and he was screaming like 257 00:13:52,600 --> 00:13:56,700 yeah, it was like people loved it, but it was just not good. 258 00:13:56,700 --> 00:14:01,800 It felt like it was the wrong. Place for it and felt like it 259 00:14:01,800 --> 00:14:03,600 was trying to make what seems see. 260 00:14:03,600 --> 00:14:06,600 And I'm probably an old person saying, I like, it staying 261 00:14:07,300 --> 00:14:09,300 country. It felt like it should be a big 262 00:14:09,300 --> 00:14:11,900 day out or interesting. A different Festival. 263 00:14:11,900 --> 00:14:15,400 Like awesome performance. But anyway, but Morgan wallet. 264 00:14:15,800 --> 00:14:20,000 I have not been excited like that that ever. 265 00:14:20,300 --> 00:14:22,300 How was it? Amazing. 266 00:14:22,400 --> 00:14:32,100 I I had it was just phenomenal. Yeah like he's definitely now a 267 00:14:32,108 --> 00:14:38,000 Magister like he is. Oh yes his you know chop it in, 268 00:14:38,700 --> 00:14:43,000 chop it in stage different stage like just a poor like a 269 00:14:43,000 --> 00:14:48,600 performance and every song like I said You every word I was just 270 00:14:48,600 --> 00:14:51,100 like those people are used to pay out of them, like, how do 271 00:14:51,100 --> 00:14:54,100 you obsess over a band so much? And now, I'm that guy. 272 00:14:54,200 --> 00:14:58,500 Yeah, so I found my band obviously you guys as well, but 273 00:14:58,500 --> 00:14:59,700 you guys were the first we're the best. 274 00:14:59,900 --> 00:15:03,700 Even I was thinking about it. When I met you, I didn't even 275 00:15:03,700 --> 00:15:07,300 know you're a musician. Yeah, so found out pretty 276 00:15:07,300 --> 00:15:09,100 quickly. Yeah, obviously, I found out 277 00:15:09,100 --> 00:15:13,000 pretty quickly but I didn't know that's when I listen to Triple 278 00:15:13,000 --> 00:15:14,500 J. So I hadn't heard your songs 279 00:15:14,500 --> 00:15:17,600 before or anything. It wasn't Like I met you went. 280 00:15:17,600 --> 00:15:19,600 Well, she's a musician. Hmm, right now. 281 00:15:20,400 --> 00:15:23,800 I've slowly like that. So, whereas I walk a while and 282 00:15:23,800 --> 00:15:25,100 I've obviously never met never seen. 283 00:15:25,100 --> 00:15:28,100 So you build up this idea of excitement? 284 00:15:28,200 --> 00:15:30,400 Yeah, I think Combs is going to be the same as well. 285 00:15:30,500 --> 00:15:32,000 Okay, that's enough. Toto. 286 00:15:33,900 --> 00:15:36,600 Did I just talk for 30 minutes? Pretty much. 287 00:15:36,700 --> 00:15:38,500 I'm so sorry. We're talking about couple girls 288 00:15:38,500 --> 00:15:40,800 here. Okay, we've got a new segment 289 00:15:40,800 --> 00:15:42,900 that we're adding into. Are we going to add this in all 290 00:15:42,900 --> 00:15:45,900 the time? Well, Let's see if the people 291 00:15:45,900 --> 00:15:49,200 like the story, okay? So you've heard in previous 292 00:15:49,200 --> 00:15:53,800 podcasts that I am a sucker for Reddit, the app, the form. 293 00:15:54,200 --> 00:15:57,200 And if it's on there, she's read at. 294 00:15:57,200 --> 00:15:59,200 Yeah. And one of the episodes like, 295 00:15:59,200 --> 00:16:02,800 look he asked me, what did you read and read it this week so I 296 00:16:02,800 --> 00:16:07,700 thought it'd be fun to add in a segment called read on Reddit. 297 00:16:08,800 --> 00:16:11,800 What do you do? You want me to get like a horn 298 00:16:11,800 --> 00:16:14,200 button or something else? We weren't relying on you for 299 00:16:14,200 --> 00:16:16,500 buttons. Okay, I'm about to take this 300 00:16:16,500 --> 00:16:20,000 podcast Next Level. Okay, we're getting buns. 301 00:16:20,600 --> 00:16:23,500 So do you want me to read the story that I just came across? 302 00:16:23,600 --> 00:16:25,600 Well, I think relationship advice. 303 00:16:25,800 --> 00:16:29,600 Yeah, hit me up subreddit. Is it going to benefit us has 304 00:16:30,200 --> 00:16:34,400 got a age? Wanting this is not safe for 305 00:16:34,400 --> 00:16:37,300 work. This is not safe for people 306 00:16:37,300 --> 00:16:42,500 under the age of 18. What Listen is discretion. 307 00:16:42,500 --> 00:16:45,300 Advised you heard it here first go. 308 00:16:45,700 --> 00:16:48,800 All right, I'm excited. So the heading is, I found a 309 00:16:48,808 --> 00:16:54,600 video of my girlfriend in bed with three guys, though. 26 year 310 00:16:54,600 --> 00:16:58,000 old male, 24 year old female 3 guys. 311 00:16:59,000 --> 00:17:02,300 So this is the story last night. I was laying in bed and my 312 00:17:02,300 --> 00:17:05,000 girlfriend of one year was taking a shower. 313 00:17:05,300 --> 00:17:08,200 Now for reference, I have never looked at her phone, I respect 314 00:17:08,200 --> 00:17:12,400 her privacy but when I was walking around the bed I saw her 315 00:17:12,400 --> 00:17:16,099 phone was unlocked on the nightstand and the photo app was 316 00:17:16,099 --> 00:17:17,400 open. Okay. 317 00:17:17,400 --> 00:17:20,900 No big deal but as I was glancing at it, what I saw 318 00:17:20,900 --> 00:17:23,599 looked like a porn thumbnail of the top of one of the videos. 319 00:17:23,700 --> 00:17:26,000 Those I honestly thought that's what it was and I was going to 320 00:17:26,000 --> 00:17:28,200 laugh that she was saving porn on her phone. 321 00:17:29,000 --> 00:17:31,700 I decided to look closer and that was a mistake. 322 00:17:32,200 --> 00:17:34,200 I open the video and it was my girlfriend. 323 00:17:34,200 --> 00:17:38,500 Having sex doggy style with one man while giving another man a 324 00:17:38,508 --> 00:17:43,200 blowjob and a third watching from the side, the camera angle 325 00:17:44,400 --> 00:17:46,000 was like the phone was set in the corner of the room. 326 00:17:46,000 --> 00:17:48,000 I did not recognize the room or the men. 327 00:17:48,500 --> 00:17:50,800 She has an old phone, so the video was not good. 328 00:17:50,800 --> 00:17:54,000 And I couldn't see the front of her face but I could 99 Sent 329 00:17:54,000 --> 00:17:57,500 tell that it was her even from far away because of the head 330 00:17:57,500 --> 00:18:00,100 body and very distinct birthmark on her shoulder. 331 00:18:00,800 --> 00:18:04,100 I was completely stunned and I confronted her see a birthmark 332 00:18:04,100 --> 00:18:08,700 but not your face if it's from okay. 333 00:18:08,700 --> 00:18:11,500 Yeah. Wow. 334 00:18:12,000 --> 00:18:16,400 So he confronted her and her response was anger that she 335 00:18:16,400 --> 00:18:20,000 went, he went through her phone. I told her I didn't but it was 336 00:18:20,000 --> 00:18:24,300 open on the nightstand. Rara then, after more Arguing 337 00:18:24,300 --> 00:18:27,200 arguing, she said that an old it was an old video from her 338 00:18:27,200 --> 00:18:29,800 college and that I was being aggressive and that she would 339 00:18:29,800 --> 00:18:32,800 never cheat. I asked if the video why the 340 00:18:32,800 --> 00:18:35,800 video was in recent videos one week ago and she said she was 341 00:18:35,800 --> 00:18:38,000 cleaning out old photos and found that and was going to 342 00:18:38,008 --> 00:18:40,300 delete it. Then she said I was being 343 00:18:40,300 --> 00:18:42,800 paranoid and unreasonable. I finally let it go. 344 00:18:42,800 --> 00:18:44,800 We went to sleep, we haven't talked about it again. 345 00:18:47,400 --> 00:18:50,000 What do you think? Yeah, he just said, I can't get 346 00:18:50,000 --> 00:18:51,300 off my mind. Doesn't feel right. 347 00:18:51,300 --> 00:18:53,900 I couldn't see her face but then there's an edit. 348 00:18:53,900 --> 00:18:56,600 So he's updated everyone. He said, I forgot to mention 349 00:18:56,600 --> 00:18:58,900 that it was hard to tell her the poor quality of the video. 350 00:18:58,900 --> 00:19:01,500 She looked fairly muscular when we started dating. 351 00:19:01,500 --> 00:19:03,900 She was skinnier and has been working out. 352 00:19:03,900 --> 00:19:05,400 Has put on some muscle on my past year. 353 00:19:05,700 --> 00:19:08,100 Now, I'm second-guessing what I saw an uncertain what to do? 354 00:19:11,100 --> 00:19:13,700 Shi-it. That's a hard one. 355 00:19:13,700 --> 00:19:16,700 Oh my goodness. I what do you think? 356 00:19:18,500 --> 00:19:23,400 I think the unfortunate thing with this is, if you believe 357 00:19:24,100 --> 00:19:27,000 it's recent, you're not going to trust her anyway. 358 00:19:27,100 --> 00:19:30,700 I mean, the trust is done regardless of where it is 359 00:19:30,700 --> 00:19:33,700 because there's now no how do you prove that? 360 00:19:33,900 --> 00:19:35,700 Whether it is or it isn't obviously, you know, if you 361 00:19:35,700 --> 00:19:38,700 can't make it out and shoot, there's no definite time. 362 00:19:38,700 --> 00:19:40,100 Yeah. Can you check when it was 363 00:19:40,100 --> 00:19:41,000 recorded? Yeah. 364 00:19:41,000 --> 00:19:43,100 Maybe there's a time stamp. I would want to see the 365 00:19:43,100 --> 00:19:45,900 timestamp. And if but then, can he bring it 366 00:19:45,900 --> 00:19:47,800 up again? Be like, show me the timestamp. 367 00:19:48,300 --> 00:19:51,600 Woody is like, I deleted it but you would have, why didn't you 368 00:19:51,600 --> 00:19:53,800 just delete it? Why is it in her recent? 369 00:19:54,700 --> 00:19:57,000 I don't get that. I don't swear. 370 00:19:57,000 --> 00:20:00,100 I think she's caught out. So you think she did it? 371 00:20:00,100 --> 00:20:02,900 I think she did it. Oh my God, but because once was 372 00:20:02,900 --> 00:20:04,900 so defensive, like, why are you going through my phone? 373 00:20:05,000 --> 00:20:07,400 Like, that's just defense, defense defense. 374 00:20:07,600 --> 00:20:12,600 And then the second thing is, why the hell if you were going 375 00:20:12,600 --> 00:20:15,400 through your old photos to delete it? 376 00:20:15,400 --> 00:20:17,700 Why is it in your recent photos? Yeah. 377 00:20:18,600 --> 00:20:22,600 That's good point. I think, Apple has recent fire, 378 00:20:22,600 --> 00:20:27,000 followed his fire reason files folder for a reason because it's 379 00:20:27,200 --> 00:20:31,700 recent meaning, she didn't just cheat on you with cheat on you 380 00:20:31,700 --> 00:20:35,100 with one bloke. Not even two blokes. 381 00:20:35,400 --> 00:20:40,500 She went three blokes now, is that an overachiever we'll leave 382 00:20:40,500 --> 00:20:43,900 that out to you guys? I don't know, but I personally 383 00:20:43,900 --> 00:20:50,300 calling BS on her. I think she cheated and she How 384 00:20:50,600 --> 00:20:54,800 lucky is that language? Well, how would I say that? 385 00:20:54,800 --> 00:20:58,300 I'm just saying, cheating is bad lying's bad. 386 00:20:58,300 --> 00:21:01,600 She's caught out. And if I were you, I would be 387 00:21:01,600 --> 00:21:03,500 bringing up with, okay. What would you let together for 388 00:21:03,500 --> 00:21:05,000 one year? Like, yeah, that's nothing. 389 00:21:05,000 --> 00:21:07,000 Find someone who's going to treat you? 390 00:21:07,008 --> 00:21:10,900 Well, 100%, yeah, definitely go play in a different ballpark. 391 00:21:11,900 --> 00:21:16,600 If yeah. Anyway, that's what I read on 392 00:21:16,600 --> 00:21:21,200 Reddit this week. Yeah, well that's that's wild. 393 00:21:21,300 --> 00:21:25,100 Yeah, that is wild. Have any of you had to deal with 394 00:21:25,100 --> 00:21:29,900 any situations like cheating? Yeah, whether it was you thought 395 00:21:29,900 --> 00:21:32,200 it was cheating but you weren't sure whether it was or whether 396 00:21:32,200 --> 00:21:34,100 it wasn't like, that's a really dirty. 397 00:21:34,100 --> 00:21:35,600 So I give a real-life story of me. 398 00:21:35,700 --> 00:21:37,500 Yeah, cool. I don't want to hog it because I 399 00:21:37,500 --> 00:21:39,500 know I spoke about while on for a long time. 400 00:21:39,500 --> 00:21:41,100 I was wallowing on. Yeah, I'm worried that you can 401 00:21:41,100 --> 00:21:46,600 cheat on me with Mullen. I remember. 402 00:21:47,700 --> 00:21:52,100 When I cheated on my previous partner, I was really jealous 403 00:21:52,100 --> 00:21:54,900 and insecure that I believe she was cheating on me. 404 00:21:55,600 --> 00:22:00,300 So and all I've since realized no sits in a stock you know, 405 00:22:00,300 --> 00:22:03,600 Dental that but it was like I was projecting the bad shit that 406 00:22:03,600 --> 00:22:05,900 I was hiding on to her and assuming that she was doing the 407 00:22:05,900 --> 00:22:08,200 same things. So I would have to check the 408 00:22:08,200 --> 00:22:10,900 phone and do all this weird shit which is wild. 409 00:22:13,000 --> 00:22:14,600 So maybe there's two sides to the story. 410 00:22:16,100 --> 00:22:20,200 Well, anyway, we all go through, we learn, we learn, we learn, 411 00:22:21,500 --> 00:22:25,100 thank God if you don't learn, you're an idiot. 412 00:22:25,800 --> 00:22:28,400 That's all I have to say. Okay, peas. 413 00:22:28,400 --> 00:22:31,600 Peas, the piece. All right. 414 00:22:31,700 --> 00:22:35,800 So will my pet peeve as previously stated it? 415 00:22:35,800 --> 00:22:37,500 What it was. I didn't even write it down. 416 00:22:37,500 --> 00:22:40,500 What it was and I have definitely forgot public 417 00:22:40,500 --> 00:22:42,300 displays of affection. Yes. 418 00:22:43,400 --> 00:22:45,300 Yes, look, I don't want to Macon in town. 419 00:22:45,300 --> 00:22:48,400 No way. No, no chance. 420 00:22:48,700 --> 00:22:52,900 However, I would love you to look like you're enjoying giving 421 00:22:52,900 --> 00:22:56,300 me a hug or a kiss in public. You know who it does, it does 422 00:22:56,300 --> 00:22:58,300 make me feel like I'm a bit of a burden. 423 00:22:58,300 --> 00:23:02,600 Sometimes you a nice hug in the gym today but I can tell by your 424 00:23:02,600 --> 00:23:05,200 energy I know, but I just feel like a few other spiritual your 425 00:23:05,200 --> 00:23:08,200 the spiritual one, right? So listen, from an energetic 426 00:23:08,200 --> 00:23:11,000 energy point of view and everyone out there knows what 427 00:23:11,000 --> 00:23:13,400 I'm talking about. You can tell when your I wanted 428 00:23:13,400 --> 00:23:15,500 to give you that hug. You can tell when your partner 429 00:23:15,500 --> 00:23:19,900 is to not give you a hug. But you're like, yeah, because 430 00:23:19,900 --> 00:23:22,500 you're wearing a, you know, your work attire. 431 00:23:22,500 --> 00:23:25,100 It's I don't care. I'm all about the love. 432 00:23:25,400 --> 00:23:30,100 All right, so my goal is to be more affectionate, more 433 00:23:30,100 --> 00:23:35,200 affectionate in public, just appreciate me mad because one 434 00:23:35,200 --> 00:23:39,200 day when we ran it old, one of us is going to be dead and if 435 00:23:39,200 --> 00:23:41,800 it's me first, yeah, I told you about to die at the same time in 436 00:23:41,800 --> 00:23:45,600 the same bed. In a perfect world, a, in a 437 00:23:45,608 --> 00:23:49,200 perfect world, but your pet peeve. 438 00:23:49,200 --> 00:23:53,200 So you guys heard that we moved out last week and lucky had 439 00:23:53,200 --> 00:23:57,800 culled, all of his wardrobe like a lot, like five bags garbage 440 00:23:57,800 --> 00:24:00,400 bag. I went to town 5, garbage, bags 441 00:24:00,400 --> 00:24:05,500 of clothes and a not just shit pretty proud of that. 442 00:24:05,700 --> 00:24:10,700 Anyway, he They sat in our bedroom, I packed up the whole 443 00:24:10,700 --> 00:24:14,900 house and they sat in our bedroom for a couple weeks while 444 00:24:14,900 --> 00:24:17,800 I did that and they were the last thing in the unit and I 445 00:24:17,808 --> 00:24:19,900 might lucky, what are you going to do with these clothes? 446 00:24:19,900 --> 00:24:22,400 He said, I'm going to give them to my brother, you lose. 447 00:24:23,200 --> 00:24:26,900 It's a book, just get them out. So he piled them all into my 448 00:24:26,900 --> 00:24:31,500 sister's car and then he said, I'll give them to mom, cause 449 00:24:31,500 --> 00:24:33,300 she's coming to see him. See with me this weekend. 450 00:24:33,300 --> 00:24:37,000 Yes, and she'll take them back to Tomba like okay cool. 451 00:24:37,100 --> 00:24:40,500 I'll deal with him for a little Longer and I texted lucky. 452 00:24:40,500 --> 00:24:44,000 I was in Melbourne. Texan don't forget the clothes I 453 00:24:44,000 --> 00:24:46,400 already had them in the car. Yeah they were in the car. 454 00:24:46,500 --> 00:24:49,000 Look he's like I'm all over it. Don't worry. 455 00:24:49,000 --> 00:24:56,400 I thought about it like cool and then this morning I go to Cole's 456 00:24:56,400 --> 00:25:02,300 in a car and we open the boot and it's filled with garbage 457 00:25:02,300 --> 00:25:04,700 bags. I do feel shitty about that. 458 00:25:05,300 --> 00:25:11,200 Thanks for making me feel So anyway, I got no defense to 459 00:25:11,200 --> 00:25:14,800 that. So this week, your goal is to do 460 00:25:14,800 --> 00:25:17,200 something with those clothes. I don't care where they go but I 461 00:25:17,200 --> 00:25:19,700 never want to see them again noted. 462 00:25:21,200 --> 00:25:23,500 All right well let's wrap it up for episode 24. 463 00:25:23,900 --> 00:25:26,900 All right, we do have twenty three twenty four, twenty four 464 00:25:26,900 --> 00:25:29,600 two, three, four. But we've got to guest booked 465 00:25:29,600 --> 00:25:32,500 in. We've had actually lady reaching 466 00:25:32,500 --> 00:25:36,100 out to get surgeon. Yeah, you know get people on the 467 00:25:36,100 --> 00:25:37,700 show which is cool. We're excited. 468 00:25:37,700 --> 00:25:41,300 And just I was saying that Amy will sound like, should we 469 00:25:42,500 --> 00:25:45,800 really dive into this podcast as second cranking out some guess 470 00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:52,400 we need some gas, mix it up so we have two people lined up but 471 00:25:52,400 --> 00:25:54,600 if you have an interesting story, if you do things with 472 00:25:54,608 --> 00:25:56,600 your partner a little bit differently and you want to tell 473 00:25:56,600 --> 00:26:01,100 you a story, please head to our, we can actually even do an 474 00:26:01,100 --> 00:26:05,400 episode where we call people. Yeah, we can talk about that 475 00:26:05,400 --> 00:26:08,900 later, but yeah, submit on our website and hit two out. 476 00:26:08,900 --> 00:26:13,300 The link in our bio, you can fill out the form and we'll read 477 00:26:13,300 --> 00:26:14,300 your story. That could be there. 478 00:26:14,300 --> 00:26:15,500 A Reddit read by our. Yeah. 479 00:26:15,508 --> 00:26:17,000 We'd love to have you on the podcast if you have an 480 00:26:17,000 --> 00:26:20,100 interesting story, so it sounds good, sounds good. 481 00:26:20,100 --> 00:26:25,000 Don't forget to like subscribe. We're now posting videos in 482 00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:27,200 patreon. Yes, interrupting me. 483 00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:29,200 So, I was just saying you really get the hang of this, then 484 00:26:29,200 --> 00:26:30,500 you're killing it. Keep going. 485 00:26:31,700 --> 00:26:33,800 Yeah, we're posting videos into my patreon page. 486 00:26:33,900 --> 00:26:35,700 Page rather than having to choose that correct. 487 00:26:35,700 --> 00:26:39,400 That's yes, it was just Amy's. Killing her patreon and I'll get 488 00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:41,800 into why. So, I obviously am not part of 489 00:26:41,800 --> 00:26:46,500 it. So we will be posting the link 490 00:26:46,800 --> 00:26:51,700 and it's at a zit open for men and women you're a patriot. 491 00:26:52,100 --> 00:26:55,500 Yeah, absolutely, yeah, awesome. Cool. 492 00:26:55,900 --> 00:26:57,700 Okay, just clarifying questions. I mean. 493 00:26:57,700 --> 00:27:01,800 Yeah, obviously my content is more catered to women but yeah 494 00:27:01,900 --> 00:27:04,800 if you want to ever get me into DTS and Blows can definitely get 495 00:27:04,800 --> 00:27:07,400 benefit and I'll be posting that couple goals. 496 00:27:07,600 --> 00:27:09,100 Yeah, cool. So, awesome. 497 00:27:09,300 --> 00:27:05,300 All right, whoo-hoo. Blows can definitely get benefit 498 00:27:05,400 --> 00:27:07,400 and I'll be posting that couple goals. 499 00:27:07,600 --> 00:27:09,100 Yeah, cool. So, awesome. 500 00:27:09,300 --> 00:27:10,900 All right, whoo-hoo.