1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:02,600 Tell you what? It almost feels a little naughty 2 00:00:02,800 --> 00:00:06,600 being on the couple goals podcast while Amy is over in 3 00:00:06,600 --> 00:00:10,700 Nashville. The challenges she jetted off 4 00:00:11,200 --> 00:00:15,000 left me here to fend for myself. And well I've been doing a great 5 00:00:15,000 --> 00:00:18,300 job. I cooked dinosaur pastor and mix 6 00:00:18,300 --> 00:00:22,200 them with some Carbonara sauce so have managed to live off that 7 00:00:22,200 --> 00:00:26,300 which I'm going well. But we didn't record an intro 8 00:00:26,300 --> 00:00:30,700 for this episode, and I messaged Amy spoke to Amy last night. 9 00:00:30,700 --> 00:00:34,300 She's, like, you got it doll and I was like, do I really? 10 00:00:34,400 --> 00:00:37,200 I don't know. So here, I am making it up as I 11 00:00:37,208 --> 00:00:40,700 go. Firstly, thank you all for your 12 00:00:40,700 --> 00:00:44,400 support in episode 1. It truly went off like a bloody 13 00:00:44,400 --> 00:00:46,300 frog in a sock. It was awesome. 14 00:00:47,000 --> 00:00:50,000 Your support means a lot for us. This is a new and exciting for 15 00:00:50,000 --> 00:00:52,100 us and I hope you get a heap of value out of it. 16 00:00:52,100 --> 00:00:56,600 I know so many of you already. We have left reviews and ratings 17 00:00:56,600 --> 00:01:01,300 on Spotify, on Apple podcasts and it means a lot for us to see 18 00:01:01,300 --> 00:01:03,400 you or getting value from it so far. 19 00:01:03,400 --> 00:01:07,300 And we are just so excited to get more episodes out. 20 00:01:07,600 --> 00:01:10,700 Much like today. We've got a brilliant first 21 00:01:10,700 --> 00:01:14,600 guest couple, that's my brother and sister-in-law and you are 22 00:01:14,600 --> 00:01:18,000 going to love it. It's so funny. 23 00:01:18,200 --> 00:01:21,700 So so funny. And yes we did cracker Jose 24 00:01:21,900 --> 00:01:25,100 during it but hey. Laughs about having a bit of 25 00:01:25,100 --> 00:01:28,600 fun. Another thing I talk about 26 00:01:28,600 --> 00:01:33,000 patreon in this episode, we didn't have a patron at the time 27 00:01:33,000 --> 00:01:35,300 I mentioned I was going to start one. 28 00:01:35,500 --> 00:01:38,300 Since then, I have started one, so I thought I would throw that 29 00:01:38,300 --> 00:01:41,000 out there. In the patron, there's bonus 30 00:01:41,000 --> 00:01:45,800 content, you can watch the whole episodes videos if you are more 31 00:01:45,800 --> 00:01:49,800 of a visual consumer, you know, like me, I prefer to watch 32 00:01:49,800 --> 00:01:52,300 videos on YouTube that I do audio. 33 00:01:53,200 --> 00:01:55,900 That is available for you. You can see the link in our 34 00:01:56,100 --> 00:01:58,800 Instagram or even I think probably on the show notes for 35 00:01:58,800 --> 00:02:01,800 out wherever you're listening. That's all new for me. 36 00:02:01,800 --> 00:02:03,400 So have no idea. Really? 37 00:02:03,900 --> 00:02:09,199 Anyway, let's dive into today's episode with myself, lucky Amy, 38 00:02:09,400 --> 00:02:11,900 who's gallivanting around, Nashville writing, amazing 39 00:02:11,900 --> 00:02:14,600 songs. George who's actually in Sweden, 40 00:02:14,600 --> 00:02:18,400 at the moment writing more amazing songs and Kathleen who's 41 00:02:18,400 --> 00:02:21,100 over the other side of the river from me right now in Brisbane. 42 00:02:21,200 --> 00:02:23,800 Hi, I'm Amy Shepherd. I'm lachland Stewart and 43 00:02:23,800 --> 00:02:26,300 although you have different last names, we're married. 44 00:02:26,700 --> 00:02:29,900 Now we've been told the secret to a successful marriage is 45 00:02:29,900 --> 00:02:32,400 communication. So we're going to talk it out 46 00:02:32,400 --> 00:02:35,100 every week. Share our challenges, and pet 47 00:02:35,100 --> 00:02:36,900 peeves. Then we're setting each other. 48 00:02:36,900 --> 00:02:39,500 Some goals, some couple goals, couple goals. 49 00:02:39,500 --> 00:02:41,800 The podcast is for those who might be looking to life their 50 00:02:41,800 --> 00:02:44,000 way through challenging scenarios that all couples. 51 00:02:44,000 --> 00:02:46,600 Go through occasionally. We might even get some other 52 00:02:46,600 --> 00:02:48,500 couples to join in. Yeah, you'd like that. 53 00:02:49,300 --> 00:02:52,700 Hit, subscribe, and tune in every week to hear our weekly 54 00:02:52,900 --> 00:02:58,500 couple goals. Today is a really special day 55 00:02:58,500 --> 00:03:02,600 because we have our first guest on our podcast which is any 56 00:03:02,600 --> 00:03:06,000 guest, not just any, yes, a very special guests cheering guests, 57 00:03:06,000 --> 00:03:10,600 couldn't think of a better couple to invite on as our first 58 00:03:10,600 --> 00:03:13,600 couple guess. Well, be careful. 59 00:03:13,600 --> 00:03:14,900 You say that? Because a and Liam are going to 60 00:03:14,908 --> 00:03:20,000 be listening and it was You know, both equal we would have 61 00:03:20,000 --> 00:03:23,800 had six of you on here, six of us at once, but I ran out of 62 00:03:23,800 --> 00:03:25,800 that I ran out of and you're leaving tonight. 63 00:03:25,800 --> 00:03:27,700 You're going to Sweden? Yeah, that's right. 64 00:03:27,700 --> 00:03:31,200 I had to get this rushed in at the last minute just to just to 65 00:03:31,200 --> 00:03:32,900 sweeten the deal for you. You are. 66 00:03:33,100 --> 00:03:35,300 There it is. Just actually introduced who it 67 00:03:35,300 --> 00:03:37,900 is. We have got George Shepherd, and 68 00:03:37,900 --> 00:03:42,700 my brother and he's fiance Kathleen. 69 00:03:42,700 --> 00:03:47,700 Sigue yes, into B Shepard. So we've just sat down this 70 00:03:47,700 --> 00:03:50,900 lovely. Friday afternoon and we are 71 00:03:50,900 --> 00:03:55,800 going to cheers to that. Oh yes, make sure you look at 72 00:03:55,800 --> 00:03:57,100 mine in the eyes are. It's seven years. 73 00:03:57,100 --> 00:03:58,500 Bad sex. Oh God. 74 00:03:58,600 --> 00:04:01,800 Huh. Let's just do it again. 75 00:04:01,800 --> 00:04:04,900 Just to make sure is just to make sure and just to out who 76 00:04:04,900 --> 00:04:07,900 poured these I thought is going on. 77 00:04:07,900 --> 00:04:11,000 Well, we figured that, you know, you had the little glass so you 78 00:04:11,000 --> 00:04:13,300 know, the little poor, right, your sucks, man. 79 00:04:13,400 --> 00:04:16,200 Look, he's got just a splash of roses and the rest of us, having 80 00:04:16,200 --> 00:04:18,300 massive goblet live is because you're worried about Out. 81 00:04:18,300 --> 00:04:21,800 How it's gonna go down. Let's hop in bot, we need a rose 82 00:04:21,800 --> 00:04:25,300 a sponsor for your podcast. I think, if anyone's listening, 83 00:04:25,300 --> 00:04:29,600 do you have any suggestions who turns out I'll turn the labels. 84 00:04:29,900 --> 00:04:35,900 We smash that, it our honeymoon. Yeah, between those and the body 85 00:04:35,900 --> 00:04:39,800 armor hangover drink. Oh yeah, 10:00 a.m. every day. 86 00:04:39,800 --> 00:04:42,200 Then we get to the pool and I'm like, I'm not drinking today. 87 00:04:42,200 --> 00:04:45,200 I feel so dirty. Until now this is, I am rolls 88 00:04:45,200 --> 00:04:47,900 around not even 10:00 a.m. as soon as he saw someone walk past 89 00:04:47,900 --> 00:04:49,300 it up. A beer. 90 00:04:49,700 --> 00:04:53,100 I thought it was the best. We look at each other and it's 91 00:04:53,100 --> 00:04:55,700 like, toddle off Synod. And every like, every morning be 92 00:04:55,700 --> 00:04:59,000 like, okay, no drinking today, I would have one day off and then, 93 00:04:59,100 --> 00:05:02,800 you know, 12 o'clock rolls around just like, mmm, it's on. 94 00:05:03,100 --> 00:05:04,700 That's why we are still on holiday. 95 00:05:06,300 --> 00:05:08,800 Can I just put that bottle on the coast? 96 00:05:10,600 --> 00:05:13,000 No, take your lip gloss. Your wife wife Tings. 97 00:05:13,000 --> 00:05:17,800 But speaking of speaking about honeymoons, yeah, you guys get 98 00:05:17,800 --> 00:05:18,500 married. Tune. 99 00:05:18,700 --> 00:05:22,100 Yeah, we are aren't we? Today was a very special day. 100 00:05:22,200 --> 00:05:24,300 I asked Amy to be one of my bridesmaids today. 101 00:05:24,300 --> 00:05:27,200 Jim, I get to be rides. I've never been a bridesmaid 102 00:05:27,200 --> 00:05:34,300 before, always the bride. Got another breath freshener. 103 00:05:34,600 --> 00:05:37,400 Yeah, but we might get married in Vegas again. 104 00:05:37,700 --> 00:05:40,500 Oh yes. Please do that has to happen. 105 00:05:40,600 --> 00:05:43,200 But yeah, it's also a special day. 106 00:05:43,200 --> 00:05:45,300 Yes, because lock is also my Grooms. 107 00:05:45,300 --> 00:05:46,700 Yeah, it's been about a month to we. 108 00:05:46,700 --> 00:05:48,700 Yeah, we're organized. We got On early. 109 00:05:48,700 --> 00:05:50,300 Yeah, that's right. You know I just wait for the 110 00:05:50,300 --> 00:05:52,400 girls did a fluffer that I had a feeling. 111 00:05:52,500 --> 00:05:55,700 I'm very honored to be a groomsman groomsmen. 112 00:05:55,700 --> 00:05:56,800 Yeah. Sweeping off thing. 113 00:05:56,800 --> 00:05:59,300 That's not all. Sorry. 114 00:05:59,300 --> 00:06:02,000 Did I say groomsmen long? Groomsmen. 115 00:06:02,000 --> 00:06:03,400 You have to clean up the damn way. 116 00:06:03,400 --> 00:06:05,400 Pop everything after it's all finished. 117 00:06:06,900 --> 00:06:08,600 Well that's fair. That's it. 118 00:06:08,600 --> 00:06:11,800 Can't always get the countdown is on how you guys feeling about 119 00:06:11,800 --> 00:06:13,600 the wedding. Are you prepared? 120 00:06:14,100 --> 00:06:16,800 Yeah, we're pretty, we're getting that we are taking the 121 00:06:16,800 --> 00:06:19,500 list off, we spoke to Our wedding planner this week and 122 00:06:19,500 --> 00:06:20,900 we've just got to pick a photographer's. 123 00:06:20,900 --> 00:06:24,400 We've got quite a few things. We've got major things to go 124 00:06:24,400 --> 00:06:27,000 through, but we're going to the venue and a couple weeks. 125 00:06:27,000 --> 00:06:28,800 So I think we've got the major stuff down. 126 00:06:28,800 --> 00:06:30,900 Pat, like we've got the venue. We've got the date. 127 00:06:31,000 --> 00:06:34,800 Yeah. Like that's a big part. 128 00:06:34,800 --> 00:06:38,200 You know, compare bridesmaids bridesmaids. 129 00:06:38,200 --> 00:06:39,900 Just those are the things but we've got to do catering. 130 00:06:39,900 --> 00:06:42,200 Now, Cole, and are you actively involved in it? 131 00:06:42,400 --> 00:06:43,400 Yeah. Yeah. 132 00:06:43,400 --> 00:06:46,100 George is probably the best of all involved in it than I am. 133 00:06:47,000 --> 00:06:50,700 I just vault in the paying for Yeah, I just play heads-up on 134 00:06:50,700 --> 00:06:53,300 was IA me, you do things. So if you try, you having a big 135 00:06:53,300 --> 00:06:56,600 wedding or you going to have a small wedding, we are having, I 136 00:06:56,600 --> 00:06:59,400 guess, I'm medium sized wedding while probably medium small to 137 00:06:59,407 --> 00:07:04,300 medium fits into it 50 to 60 people at a mediterranean-style 138 00:07:04,300 --> 00:07:08,700 home in 'non, Dairy and dairy like 15 minutes Inland from 139 00:07:08,700 --> 00:07:11,300 cabarita Beach. Beautiful, just hide this, you 140 00:07:11,300 --> 00:07:14,200 know, this Mediterranean Villa for a week and that's where 141 00:07:14,200 --> 00:07:17,100 we're going to do the ceremony and that'll be on the Thursday 142 00:07:17,100 --> 00:07:20,000 or whatever. And then, From Monday to Monday. 143 00:07:20,100 --> 00:07:23,800 We're just going to be a drop-in Dropout type of. 144 00:07:24,500 --> 00:07:31,100 Yeah, we frat house. How good it'll be like, toilet, 145 00:07:31,100 --> 00:07:35,400 papers strewn over the house. You'll be taped to, it'll be all 146 00:07:35,400 --> 00:07:38,700 Pole or so maybe a dead tiger in the pool or something like that. 147 00:07:41,800 --> 00:07:44,900 Tiger patrolling the pool. Do you haven't holiday with my 148 00:07:44,900 --> 00:07:48,100 family yet for a while because they clean up everything within 149 00:07:48,200 --> 00:07:50,100 Introverts life before everyone goes to bed. 150 00:07:51,100 --> 00:07:54,100 That's the complete opposite. We're going to work really well 151 00:07:54,100 --> 00:07:55,100 together. Forgot about it. 152 00:07:55,100 --> 00:07:56,900 I went on holiday, I was like this is fantastic. 153 00:07:57,100 --> 00:08:00,300 I feel so guilty. Oh no, it's great whiteness. 154 00:08:00,300 --> 00:08:03,100 They are we, but do you have any advice for us? 155 00:08:03,400 --> 00:08:05,500 You know. Yeah, coming into a wedding 156 00:08:05,600 --> 00:08:08,100 fresh fresh newlyweds. Well, I'm glad to hear that 157 00:08:08,100 --> 00:08:10,600 you're having a small wedding. I think that was the best thing 158 00:08:10,600 --> 00:08:13,400 that we did. We had how many people do we 159 00:08:13,400 --> 00:08:16,500 have 54 including us? So we had 40 something. 160 00:08:17,400 --> 00:08:19,600 I thought there was 40, was it? I'm putting that because 161 00:08:19,600 --> 00:08:24,300 remember some people pulled out. Yeah, we had a so yeah, it was 162 00:08:24,300 --> 00:08:28,800 during which was a shame like we couldn't have some really 163 00:08:28,800 --> 00:08:31,800 important people there, but at the end of the day, we got to 164 00:08:31,800 --> 00:08:34,200 speak to everybody. We really made the most of it. 165 00:08:34,200 --> 00:08:37,000 Didn't just really didn't whizzed by like it did, but it 166 00:08:37,200 --> 00:08:38,600 don't know. Phil, I didn't realize how it's 167 00:08:38,600 --> 00:08:40,500 better wedding was going to be okay. 168 00:08:41,400 --> 00:08:44,300 Once again, I was, I would, if I wish I was involved more in the 169 00:08:44,308 --> 00:08:47,400 process now that it's done because I was like, but maybe it 170 00:08:47,400 --> 00:08:54,200 was so good. Uh, do you have a birthday and 171 00:08:54,200 --> 00:08:55,900 someone throws a party? It's always so fun. 172 00:08:55,900 --> 00:08:57,700 But when you throw out for yourself, sometimes you know 173 00:08:57,700 --> 00:09:00,800 what you're in for Magic's lost, and I think I wish I paid more 174 00:09:00,800 --> 00:09:02,800 attention to Amy because Amy was so excited. 175 00:09:02,800 --> 00:09:04,800 Where, as I was, I don't care about flowers. 176 00:09:04,800 --> 00:09:08,000 I don't care about Cutlery, I don't care, I don't care. 177 00:09:08,000 --> 00:09:09,400 Then cut to Lucky on the wedding day. 178 00:09:09,800 --> 00:09:12,500 Yeah. Cutting up the flowers with 179 00:09:12,500 --> 00:09:15,700 amazing Cutlery, and now, but during which wouldn't have 180 00:09:15,700 --> 00:09:19,500 orchids, that's who you use. It as a pun in the wedding 181 00:09:19,500 --> 00:09:24,200 statistic, that was so good. Just for those of you who own 182 00:09:24,200 --> 00:09:26,700 that nobody would know because you still haven't released the 183 00:09:26,700 --> 00:09:29,800 YouTube video. No, but I will in the vows I 184 00:09:29,800 --> 00:09:33,900 said for those of you don't know, locky is a big pun, King 185 00:09:33,900 --> 00:09:36,400 loves these ponds to the point where it's embarrassing. 186 00:09:36,900 --> 00:09:46,000 So punished never no, it's not but on their wedding day, I got 187 00:09:46,000 --> 00:09:48,500 him back and I said, because they're flowers for Working with 188 00:09:48,500 --> 00:09:51,000 orchids. So said, I promise to laugh at 189 00:09:51,100 --> 00:09:53,400 your jokes, even the most awkward ones. 190 00:09:53,400 --> 00:09:57,000 And this is wrote that I was just like. 191 00:09:57,100 --> 00:10:03,700 Yeah, proud of myself. I knew I was gonna want a few in 192 00:10:03,700 --> 00:10:05,700 the day and they are. Well, I thought it was too 193 00:10:05,700 --> 00:10:08,900 serious to drop a pun, but then I was like, all right, that's 194 00:10:08,900 --> 00:10:10,300 the moment. I mean, I know that she was 195 00:10:10,300 --> 00:10:15,600 destined to be with you actually wrote and goes good at it. 196 00:10:15,600 --> 00:10:16,900 I really do. All right, guys. 197 00:10:18,100 --> 00:10:21,100 Yeah, my other piece of advice would, which is what we did was 198 00:10:21,100 --> 00:10:23,000 have a moment to yourselves in the day. 199 00:10:23,300 --> 00:10:26,500 Sorry, she deleted it but it was actually in the middle of our 200 00:10:26,500 --> 00:10:29,600 wedding photography session that we went up. 201 00:10:29,600 --> 00:10:33,200 I had I was really nice. Yeah, we got driven up to this 202 00:10:33,200 --> 00:10:34,400 massive. He'll be saying that. 203 00:10:34,400 --> 00:10:37,100 Amazing photo where Amy looks just floating. 204 00:10:37,200 --> 00:10:39,000 That was awesome. Yeah, on the rock. 205 00:10:39,100 --> 00:10:41,500 Yeah, so we thank abolish a there. 206 00:10:41,600 --> 00:10:43,800 Yeah. Casual whole bottle T cells. 207 00:10:48,200 --> 00:10:50,800 Ourselves and like they photographer left us alone and 208 00:10:50,800 --> 00:10:52,600 we just got to sit on the hill and like we could hear the party 209 00:10:52,600 --> 00:10:54,900 going on below us and the sun was setting. 210 00:10:54,900 --> 00:10:57,400 It was a beautiful moment and I would certainly recommend that 211 00:10:57,400 --> 00:11:01,400 because, you know, everyone's wants your attention and runs 212 00:11:01,400 --> 00:11:04,000 grabbing you to talk and dance and it's just nice to have that 213 00:11:04,000 --> 00:11:06,100 moment to be like, oh my God, like that, just happen. 214 00:11:06,200 --> 00:11:08,300 Yeah, I think what you guys have done well, as well with the 215 00:11:08,300 --> 00:11:11,200 Webster Ville, is you get to spend time with everyone? 216 00:11:11,200 --> 00:11:14,500 Because even though we had such a small wedding, I found it hard 217 00:11:14,500 --> 00:11:17,600 to talk to everyone yet. I give everyone their good 218 00:11:17,600 --> 00:11:20,400 amount of time because obviously by the time we came back, 219 00:11:20,400 --> 00:11:22,500 everyone was absolutely shit-faced. 220 00:11:23,000 --> 00:11:26,100 So it's like you want to get on that level 2 miles and Hogan, if 221 00:11:26,100 --> 00:11:30,200 you listed. So, I was quite a good till the 222 00:11:30,200 --> 00:11:31,100 end. Yeah. 223 00:11:32,100 --> 00:11:35,800 I had a lot of, a lot of catch-up so far because we had 224 00:11:35,800 --> 00:11:38,500 the recovery, the next day and like half the people showed up. 225 00:11:38,600 --> 00:11:40,100 Yeah. All right miles. 226 00:11:40,100 --> 00:11:46,900 If you listening ran up the bar tab, this is slightly more 227 00:11:46,900 --> 00:11:49,800 Fireball and then The boys are walking around at all times. 228 00:11:49,800 --> 00:11:52,500 Little Fireballs, I had had they get more of those. 229 00:11:52,500 --> 00:11:55,500 I said no bottles from La. So the next day, we wanted a 230 00:11:55,900 --> 00:11:58,800 mimosa like hair of the dog and they're like, sorry about Times 231 00:11:58,800 --> 00:12:01,500 Gone by on Champagnes the next day. 232 00:12:01,500 --> 00:12:04,500 I didn't drink the next tough day. 233 00:12:05,100 --> 00:12:06,800 What? I got a question for you? 234 00:12:06,800 --> 00:12:08,800 Yeah, your proposal was a beautiful one. 235 00:12:09,700 --> 00:12:12,000 Thank you lock. I've really enjoyed it. 236 00:12:12,000 --> 00:12:14,600 How did you know it was a? How did you choose that set 237 00:12:14,600 --> 00:12:17,000 this, and how did it happen? And how did you know that was a 238 00:12:17,000 --> 00:12:20,500 moment? Well, I planned it, obviously 239 00:12:21,200 --> 00:12:24,800 months, in advance. I knew that I wanted to take 240 00:12:24,800 --> 00:12:27,400 Kathleen away to a really beautiful spot. 241 00:12:27,400 --> 00:12:31,500 And then ask her because originally my plan was to ask 242 00:12:31,500 --> 00:12:34,100 Kathleen in New York City. We're going to take you up to 243 00:12:34,108 --> 00:12:40,000 the top of the Empire State Building something something. 244 00:12:40,000 --> 00:12:41,400 Yeah. And you know, go on a helicopter 245 00:12:41,400 --> 00:12:43,900 ride around New York City. It was out of insuk, something 246 00:12:43,900 --> 00:12:46,800 like that, it's Kathleen. Kathleen has never been to 247 00:12:46,800 --> 00:12:50,000 America and It's kind of romantic sighs New York a little 248 00:12:50,000 --> 00:12:52,700 bit through movies and TV Gossip. 249 00:12:52,700 --> 00:12:59,100 Girl sections Gossip Girl. Yeah, so that was the plan but 250 00:12:59,100 --> 00:13:03,800 then obviously covid hit. And then you bloody jump, the 251 00:13:03,800 --> 00:13:07,500 gun. You like lucky lucky. 252 00:13:07,500 --> 00:13:11,100 Then propose to Amy. And I was like, oh, okay. 253 00:13:11,100 --> 00:13:14,000 Well, rewind that back a bit work in our favor. 254 00:13:14,000 --> 00:13:17,600 Let them have that moment. Yeah, yeah, no it actually did 255 00:13:17,600 --> 00:13:19,400 work out. Because but you and I had so 256 00:13:19,400 --> 00:13:22,600 much from your wedding and oh God cluding, we're not to be 257 00:13:22,600 --> 00:13:24,100 fast as well. Including where to get the 258 00:13:24,108 --> 00:13:25,600 jewelry done. Thanks Hogan. 259 00:13:26,500 --> 00:13:28,700 But we only play the long game. You took what? 260 00:13:28,700 --> 00:13:33,600 Nine years to get engaged? Yeah. 261 00:13:33,700 --> 00:13:37,000 It just hasn't make sure we went away for hours eight years. 262 00:13:37,400 --> 00:13:39,200 It was we went away for our eighth anniversary and that's 263 00:13:39,200 --> 00:13:41,600 when I asked eight years because it was nine this year and we 264 00:13:41,600 --> 00:13:45,600 went to a really beautiful secluded desert island was 265 00:13:45,600 --> 00:13:47,600 called Wilson Island. It's like 80 kilometers off the 266 00:13:47,600 --> 00:13:50,000 coast of Austin and it's shaped like a love heart and it's 267 00:13:50,000 --> 00:13:55,300 shaped like a love hunt and then we it's just one of those places 268 00:13:55,300 --> 00:13:58,000 where it's all-inclusive. So you just leave your wallet in 269 00:13:58,000 --> 00:13:59,600 your bag. And then everything, that's 270 00:13:59,600 --> 00:14:02,800 there, any time of day or night you can just go and take and 271 00:14:02,800 --> 00:14:04,700 it's all free. I always leave my wallet in my 272 00:14:04,700 --> 00:14:08,200 bag. Anyway, when you take but you 273 00:14:08,200 --> 00:14:14,700 know it was pretty terrible weather. 274 00:14:14,700 --> 00:14:17,800 The whole trip for us, you know, we had like a few spots View. 275 00:14:18,000 --> 00:14:20,000 You know, afternoons of golden rays. 276 00:14:20,000 --> 00:14:22,700 But it was pretty miserable the whole time that we were there. 277 00:14:22,900 --> 00:14:27,400 And the first day, we got to Wilson Island because we'd 278 00:14:27,400 --> 00:14:31,700 started the trip on Heron Island which is it little bit bigger, 279 00:14:31,700 --> 00:14:35,200 bit more Resort, 'you know, bit more touristy and then Wilson 280 00:14:35,200 --> 00:14:38,300 Islands a bit more exclusive secluded so we got to Wilson 281 00:14:38,300 --> 00:14:41,800 Island on that very first day and there was this break in the 282 00:14:41,800 --> 00:14:44,800 clouds and this sun, rays would just kind of coming down onto 283 00:14:44,800 --> 00:14:47,600 the ocean and we would like sitting on this bench on the 284 00:14:47,600 --> 00:14:50,800 beach. No one else around and I was 285 00:14:50,800 --> 00:14:53,000 like this is it this is the moment. 286 00:14:53,600 --> 00:14:57,600 Oh my God couldn't be more perfect you didn't know that it 287 00:14:57,600 --> 00:14:59,700 was going to be that day. I didn't know we've been on 288 00:14:59,700 --> 00:15:01,700 holiday for about five days already. 289 00:15:01,700 --> 00:15:04,100 So you're just waiting for. Yeah, I knew that I wanted to do 290 00:15:04,100 --> 00:15:06,300 it on Wilson Island, but I didn't know when on rules and I 291 00:15:06,308 --> 00:15:09,400 imagine if there was no moment to the end, had to do at the 292 00:15:09,400 --> 00:15:13,500 airport. Yeah, we nervous. 293 00:15:14,600 --> 00:15:17,500 It's packing myself. Yeah, it was terrifying because 294 00:15:17,500 --> 00:15:20,800 I was like Like, oh, Kathleen. Look, the sun's come out. 295 00:15:20,800 --> 00:15:23,400 I'm just gonna go get the GoPro and I ran back to the room 296 00:15:23,800 --> 00:15:27,000 during was in your backpack. And the ring was in my bag. 297 00:15:27,000 --> 00:15:29,900 Yeah. It was in my backpack, which was 298 00:15:30,000 --> 00:15:33,200 the whole terrifying ordeal itself, you know, there was no 299 00:15:33,200 --> 00:15:34,800 locks on the doors apparel Island. 300 00:15:34,800 --> 00:15:37,600 That's not open door policy yeah.he's drone. 301 00:15:38,100 --> 00:15:40,500 Now, the engagement ring that we know the laptop. 302 00:15:40,500 --> 00:15:42,900 IPad phone would have been a nice backpack. 303 00:15:45,300 --> 00:15:47,900 Every day, every day would come back from scuba diving. 304 00:15:48,100 --> 00:15:52,200 Snorkeling and have to try and subtly go through my backpack. 305 00:15:52,200 --> 00:15:54,700 Just can't do still, they're going to go very far. 306 00:15:54,900 --> 00:15:57,300 No, that's true. Yeah, there was a moment when 307 00:15:57,300 --> 00:15:59,700 you're like, hey, let me have a look in your bag for an SD card 308 00:15:59,700 --> 00:16:10,000 and I was like, maybe, like what? 309 00:16:10,000 --> 00:16:11,600 Yeah. What are you hiding? 310 00:16:11,600 --> 00:16:15,000 Look like, Elton. They're all like, Mexican guy 311 00:16:15,000 --> 00:16:22,000 hanging by my ankles. But yeah, sorry I came back with 312 00:16:22,000 --> 00:16:26,000 a ring in my pocket. I sat down I set up my phone at 313 00:16:26,000 --> 00:16:28,800 that point our sauce and then there's a video which you've 314 00:16:28,800 --> 00:16:31,900 seen and then as soon as I hit record, Kathleen is just like 315 00:16:32,500 --> 00:16:33,700 what are you doing? Are you doing? 316 00:16:34,100 --> 00:16:36,100 Why are you recording? And I just had to take this big 317 00:16:36,100 --> 00:16:38,000 deep breath and I'm like, why are you so sweaty? 318 00:16:38,000 --> 00:16:41,400 Why are you recording? Why are you so red Kathleen? 319 00:16:41,400 --> 00:16:44,400 I think, you know what's best? I don't do it again. 320 00:16:48,100 --> 00:16:50,900 With something like this. It was like God continues. 321 00:16:55,100 --> 00:16:57,100 That was lots of sobbing, that was lots of crying. 322 00:16:57,100 --> 00:16:58,900 There's lots of hugging, the Kathleen didn't even look at the 323 00:16:58,900 --> 00:17:00,800 ring before. She said yes, which was that's a 324 00:17:00,800 --> 00:17:03,100 good sign because I haven't had a good look at the ring. 325 00:17:06,500 --> 00:17:08,800 What is this worth? I think I looked at the ring 326 00:17:08,800 --> 00:17:10,200 before you even got down on one knee. 327 00:17:10,400 --> 00:17:13,300 Yeah, I don't even got down on my knee because I did it out the 328 00:17:13,308 --> 00:17:16,700 front of a caravan Park time. He's just like, thank you. 329 00:17:17,599 --> 00:17:20,900 Can you Please go away. Now this is this cubic 330 00:17:20,900 --> 00:17:27,000 zirconium. It's such a beautiful moment, it 331 00:17:27,000 --> 00:17:29,200 was nice being on that island because we didn't have any 332 00:17:29,200 --> 00:17:31,100 reception. So yeah, it happened. 333 00:17:31,100 --> 00:17:34,300 And there was two people there that came and took photos of us 334 00:17:34,300 --> 00:17:35,700 and they congratulated us. And they were beautiful. 335 00:17:35,700 --> 00:17:37,700 They were on their honeymoon. Were good friends with him still 336 00:17:38,200 --> 00:17:42,400 and we got to spend the next four days with no internet. 337 00:17:42,400 --> 00:17:46,200 That's amazing Wi-Fi email, so we just got to laugh it up and 338 00:17:46,200 --> 00:17:49,700 like nobody here because we were Sitting back because we the 339 00:17:49,700 --> 00:17:52,200 whole of you said in Tenerife, knew that I'd made a decision. 340 00:17:52,200 --> 00:17:54,200 I did, huh? Sitting on Facebook message, 341 00:17:54,200 --> 00:17:56,600 swiping down trying to reload. Oh are they here yet? 342 00:17:56,600 --> 00:18:00,200 Are they here that when I met you guys I told them that it was 343 00:18:00,200 --> 00:18:03,200 going to happen on that day. Yeah and then we you know 344 00:18:03,300 --> 00:18:07,100 reception on Heron Island itself was absolutely atrocious and 345 00:18:07,100 --> 00:18:09,300 then Wilson Island it's non-existent you don't even have 346 00:18:09,800 --> 00:18:12,100 nothing. SOS reception it's like nothing. 347 00:18:12,600 --> 00:18:17,300 So we got there and yeah I'd we did the proposal and got engaged 348 00:18:17,300 --> 00:18:19,700 and then we Not tell any, we literally couldn't tell anyone 349 00:18:19,700 --> 00:18:22,700 for four days and everyone's back at home, just being like, 350 00:18:22,800 --> 00:18:26,800 do they make it to Wilson? I like to be when we, when we 351 00:18:26,800 --> 00:18:29,300 got engaged I was like oh I kind of want like a family to pop up 352 00:18:29,300 --> 00:18:31,600 from the bushes behind us. And I was like, no, they're not 353 00:18:31,600 --> 00:18:34,000 here. The Swiss Family Robinson. 354 00:18:34,000 --> 00:18:37,500 The one who lived on the island might have been a horrible film. 355 00:18:37,500 --> 00:18:44,200 Robertson Robertson. I don't know, maybe I let me 356 00:18:44,200 --> 00:18:46,500 just go down from Google. Yeah. 357 00:18:48,100 --> 00:18:51,300 Carry on with the show. Oh gosh. 358 00:18:51,400 --> 00:18:54,200 Hey but let's should we jump into our favorite segments? 359 00:18:54,800 --> 00:18:56,500 Yeah, let's do it. That was strong. 360 00:18:56,500 --> 00:18:59,600 Sorry, what was strong, just gulped and it made it. 361 00:18:59,600 --> 00:19:06,600 So it's been together for nearly 10 years and so there must be 362 00:19:06,600 --> 00:19:10,600 some things about each other. That that really very very sick 363 00:19:10,600 --> 00:19:11,700 of. Okay. 364 00:19:11,700 --> 00:19:13,300 Yeah. Well he finally had the plunger 365 00:19:13,300 --> 00:19:15,000 so where we going? Yeah, the list. 366 00:19:18,100 --> 00:19:20,500 Well, normally it's us just talk about our and gripes it's going 367 00:19:20,500 --> 00:19:24,500 to be a nice change of pace to hear from some other couples and 368 00:19:24,500 --> 00:19:26,100 some of the challenges that they go through. 369 00:19:26,500 --> 00:19:30,900 So we want to know, Swiss Family Robinson, they lived on a 370 00:19:30,900 --> 00:19:32,600 bloody. Oh, I think I do know that. 371 00:19:32,600 --> 00:19:34,600 Let me see. That's the book. 372 00:19:34,600 --> 00:19:38,600 But there is a film just to just to go back to what Cheaper by 373 00:19:38,600 --> 00:19:40,200 the Dozen was made it? Yeah. 374 00:19:40,200 --> 00:19:41,400 It was like it. Yeah. 375 00:19:42,000 --> 00:19:44,000 Oh, okay. It's like a family. 376 00:19:44,000 --> 00:19:46,000 That's living on. Yeah, desert island. 377 00:19:46,100 --> 00:19:47,800 Yeah. So we want to know. 378 00:19:48,000 --> 00:19:52,500 What are your pet peeves about each other and I think Kathleen 379 00:19:52,600 --> 00:19:53,300 you should go. First. 380 00:19:53,900 --> 00:19:55,200 Ladies fast. I was trying out. 381 00:19:55,200 --> 00:19:59,000 What have you done George? You cannot you can know why do 382 00:19:59,000 --> 00:20:02,200 you show defense after? I mean George knows what man is 383 00:20:02,200 --> 00:20:07,000 he, he knows straight away and I feel like we should when you 384 00:20:07,000 --> 00:20:09,500 asked us this question. I was like I feel like I should 385 00:20:09,500 --> 00:20:12,800 guess what George's is for me and I was like, I know exactly 386 00:20:12,800 --> 00:20:15,200 what it smells like this one. I'll copy this one aquavit. 387 00:20:15,200 --> 00:20:16,700 It sounds like fuck. I'm annoying. 388 00:20:19,700 --> 00:20:25,800 Everyone realizes from coming on this podcast, awareness is a 389 00:20:25,808 --> 00:20:35,300 very strong quality of yours. My pet peeve of yours is that no 390 00:20:35,300 --> 00:20:39,200 matter where we are in the world or where we are in town, or city 391 00:20:39,200 --> 00:20:44,100 or bed, or car, or living room or anywhere, George will decide 392 00:20:44,100 --> 00:20:46,400 to pick a fingernail and pick the thing. 393 00:20:46,400 --> 00:20:47,800 It out. Fully off. 394 00:20:48,500 --> 00:20:53,200 And then I felt what I've never noticed and then place it down. 395 00:20:54,500 --> 00:20:56,700 What like the what are you saving that? 396 00:20:57,100 --> 00:21:00,000 I used to bite my nails like Goldmember where he eats his 397 00:21:00,000 --> 00:21:03,700 skin and puts it in the little tray, which puts it in his, it's 398 00:21:03,700 --> 00:21:04,300 not. Okay. 399 00:21:05,800 --> 00:21:09,500 I just find fingernails like, particularly detached from the 400 00:21:09,500 --> 00:21:11,800 body. Yeah, that's it. 401 00:21:16,400 --> 00:21:17,800 Do you have it? I never leave. 402 00:21:17,900 --> 00:21:20,200 At the Eiffel. Leave it there on accident. 403 00:21:20,400 --> 00:21:26,700 Then I'll usually House of Mike. It's because I used to bite my 404 00:21:26,700 --> 00:21:28,800 fingernails really bad. You did look at your phone. 405 00:21:29,400 --> 00:21:31,900 I didn't when I was wrong, the marathon's I didn't and I had 406 00:21:31,900 --> 00:21:34,400 like a good two months after I'm literally in the last two weeks. 407 00:21:34,400 --> 00:21:36,000 I've gone back to chewing them right. 408 00:21:36,000 --> 00:21:41,000 It's when I'm stressed so lucky Nubs no no see minor never liked 409 00:21:41,000 --> 00:21:43,300 no no no. They're usually really thick 410 00:21:43,300 --> 00:21:45,500 pieces of big data which is a maybe their toe. 411 00:21:45,500 --> 00:21:51,100 Now you should have a turn. But yeah, I know that's a 412 00:21:51,108 --> 00:21:53,000 pretty, that's a pretty that's my pet peeve. 413 00:21:53,000 --> 00:21:55,600 I think it's a pet peeve, though, because I used to be in 414 00:21:55,600 --> 00:21:58,700 lectures at Union, you look down and there would be a toenail on 415 00:21:58,700 --> 00:22:01,300 the floor or been you know what university did you go to? 416 00:22:01,300 --> 00:22:04,100 And you look everywhere you look there's like find a total 417 00:22:04,100 --> 00:22:10,200 anxiety things and you say it's that you need to think like if 418 00:22:10,200 --> 00:22:13,400 you're doing like handyman work you don't want long men like 419 00:22:14,000 --> 00:22:17,800 nails because you can catch that I have I've seen George and all 420 00:22:17,900 --> 00:22:20,500 So on the guitar. Hey, George smooth. 421 00:22:20,500 --> 00:22:21,700 My right hand. My right hand. 422 00:22:21,700 --> 00:22:23,300 Is that was another reason? Yeah. 423 00:22:31,900 --> 00:22:32,900 Edit this, right? Yeah. 424 00:22:33,900 --> 00:22:38,800 This is patreon only. Anyway, let me see your pet 425 00:22:38,800 --> 00:22:43,300 peeve. So, I had to like, you know, 426 00:22:43,300 --> 00:22:45,900 collect them all and Whittle them down. 427 00:22:48,000 --> 00:22:52,400 Well in this in a similar vein, once again, no matter where we 428 00:22:52,400 --> 00:22:56,100 are, we can be in the car could be in bed, have to be in the 429 00:22:56,100 --> 00:22:58,500 different cities, a different country Kath. 430 00:22:58,500 --> 00:23:03,700 I look over and Kathleen is just thinking about it. 431 00:23:03,700 --> 00:23:08,000 Pick is and she just sits there like pulling her lips apart and 432 00:23:08,000 --> 00:23:11,700 then like it'll often get to the point where she's drawn blood, 433 00:23:11,900 --> 00:23:14,100 right? And and she still just going and 434 00:23:14,100 --> 00:23:17,800 just like, how do you feel about kissing that and then I like you 435 00:23:17,900 --> 00:23:19,400 No naka. Ni MW lips. 436 00:23:19,500 --> 00:23:21,300 Don't big lips and then two seconds later. 437 00:23:22,000 --> 00:23:24,000 I don't notice I'm doing it and you've picked me up on it 438 00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:25,500 before. Yeah, I haven't done it but 439 00:23:25,500 --> 00:23:26,800 mainly my lips looking really good. 440 00:23:26,900 --> 00:23:28,800 It's been, it's been a minute. Well, I like that confidence 441 00:23:28,800 --> 00:23:31,100 bit, my lips looking really good and that you do that. 442 00:23:31,100 --> 00:23:34,100 When it's when you're stressed or it's and I think what I'm 443 00:23:34,100 --> 00:23:36,900 tuning out like it's just an automatic whenever Kathleen's 444 00:23:36,900 --> 00:23:38,300 board, which is all the time around. 445 00:23:38,300 --> 00:23:43,100 Make sure I never know when I'm stressed. 446 00:23:45,200 --> 00:23:48,900 I understand totally understand. Kind of like that one my like 447 00:23:48,900 --> 00:23:51,300 stressed or nervous, probably more of a nervous thing for me. 448 00:23:51,300 --> 00:23:53,800 What did you think? I thought it was a snazzy. 100 449 00:23:54,700 --> 00:23:58,300 G's what's this one every time every time because it's such a 450 00:23:58,300 --> 00:24:00,900 big event when George sneezes. I just think it's so funny, so 451 00:24:00,900 --> 00:24:03,100 every time when they go, they aim in Georgia under the 452 00:24:03,100 --> 00:24:08,500 sunlight, their life, every morning George has to like 453 00:24:08,500 --> 00:24:11,500 sneeze, but he has to find the sun to make it nice. 454 00:24:11,500 --> 00:24:16,700 It would be driving and he's trying to like get it to that. 455 00:24:16,700 --> 00:24:18,900 I just can't. Scott, I think it's so funny 456 00:24:18,900 --> 00:24:21,500 because I look away and he catches me with, where it stops 457 00:24:21,500 --> 00:24:25,600 is such, a gorgeous morning. Routine is where he wakes up has 458 00:24:25,600 --> 00:24:27,700 his coffee and then put sunscreen on graceful walk to 459 00:24:27,700 --> 00:24:32,000 stare at the sun, back inside. And then he goes to the toilet 460 00:24:32,000 --> 00:24:34,300 and he's yeah. But I read somewhere that that's 461 00:24:34,300 --> 00:24:37,000 actually a genetic thing, right? So our only hope that I have 462 00:24:37,000 --> 00:24:38,900 that too. One in three people have, I just 463 00:24:38,900 --> 00:24:41,100 think it's the funniest thing, but yeah, it's fair. 464 00:24:41,100 --> 00:24:43,700 It's funny because, you know, when you, as soon as your 465 00:24:45,000 --> 00:24:46,800 sneeze, is it a delicate thing, right? 466 00:24:46,800 --> 00:24:49,700 Like, there's something. So quick can just ruin it for 467 00:24:49,700 --> 00:24:53,100 you and it's like, can you talk about a good sneeze? 468 00:24:53,200 --> 00:24:56,300 Oh, it's all one of the best back payment is a good space. 469 00:24:56,700 --> 00:24:58,500 Honestly, it's one of that sort of like that. 470 00:24:58,500 --> 00:25:00,000 It's one of life's greatest Pleasures. 471 00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:01,700 I feel? What would Trump is there 472 00:25:01,700 --> 00:25:04,100 anything that would trumpet? Well, please, what's your 473 00:25:04,100 --> 00:25:10,300 question? Well, it's right. 474 00:25:10,600 --> 00:25:12,200 Yeah. That's one of the funniest 475 00:25:12,200 --> 00:25:14,500 things for me is because you guys are siblings Layman. 476 00:25:14,500 --> 00:25:17,700 Oh yeah, we forget about that. Yeah, in George's, I haha, LOL. 477 00:25:18,600 --> 00:25:20,200 Dinner conversations always ended up. 478 00:25:20,200 --> 00:25:22,300 Don't need to hear in the gutter, in the gutter. 479 00:25:22,500 --> 00:25:26,300 Anyway, so heard your pet peeves because so we got a hedge or 480 00:25:26,300 --> 00:25:28,800 just sneeze story. Well, no, it's just the ending 481 00:25:28,800 --> 00:25:32,400 of following on the Kathleen was saying, is that as soon as I'm 482 00:25:32,400 --> 00:25:35,900 aware that she knows I'm trying to sneeze, I get taken out of 483 00:25:35,900 --> 00:25:40,100 the sneeze. So I'm, they're trying to like 484 00:25:40,100 --> 00:25:42,200 subtly without Kathleen noticing. 485 00:25:42,800 --> 00:25:46,300 Just like, you know, tilt into the Sun or I get myself like 486 00:25:46,900 --> 00:25:49,700 cross that You know, point of no return when you lack of combat 487 00:25:49,700 --> 00:25:53,900 sneeze or two, but it doesn't happen when I know Kathleen's 488 00:25:53,900 --> 00:25:57,100 aware of it. So I'm like riveting. 489 00:25:57,100 --> 00:26:00,500 I'm trying like I'm like tilted this way a little bit and then I 490 00:26:00,500 --> 00:26:04,600 just see Kathleen like look out the other window and that'll 491 00:26:04,600 --> 00:26:09,200 just enough to be like damn stage fright. 492 00:26:09,200 --> 00:26:10,300 That's awesome. Yeah. 493 00:26:10,300 --> 00:26:15,100 Getting a good sneeze out is just you know you you ladies and 494 00:26:15,100 --> 00:26:17,400 she doesn't sound like it's Sneezy around Kathleen. 495 00:26:17,500 --> 00:26:20,100 It's not Catheters are the people and then I don't 496 00:26:20,100 --> 00:26:22,500 understand people that can hold their sneeze in and it's like, 497 00:26:23,300 --> 00:26:24,700 but it normally comes out the other end. 498 00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:27,200 It's oh, I feel like I'm going to explode. 499 00:26:28,800 --> 00:26:33,500 You have to be like and it's like give it everything. 500 00:26:33,500 --> 00:26:36,400 Yeah, because the whole point of the Seas is likely at the what 501 00:26:36,400 --> 00:26:39,000 is the point of sneezing? It's like, clear your sinuses 502 00:26:39,100 --> 00:26:41,800 isn't really it is something like irritating. 503 00:26:41,800 --> 00:26:46,300 It would like fool explosion. Like what are we talking about 504 00:26:46,300 --> 00:26:49,900 again? Ha, ha, well, full explosion of 505 00:26:49,900 --> 00:26:53,700 what to release, what my kind of conversation, like what? 506 00:26:53,700 --> 00:26:58,900 So your couple goals, let's set them for this week mindset. 507 00:26:58,900 --> 00:27:01,800 Georgia, couple goal, well George is going to Sweden 508 00:27:01,800 --> 00:27:04,600 tonight. So I have said for him, his goal 509 00:27:04,600 --> 00:27:08,100 is to try and be active while he's overseas and keep up his 510 00:27:09,000 --> 00:27:13,000 Fitness while as best as he can, while he's not in the gym, it's 511 00:27:13,000 --> 00:27:16,600 a good goal because I know unfortunately George is not a 512 00:27:16,608 --> 00:27:18,900 big lover of the gym. Yeah, but it's good for you, but 513 00:27:18,900 --> 00:27:22,000 you are like, I do, you know? I do like going to the gym but 514 00:27:22,000 --> 00:27:25,100 it's only when you're overseas and your routine. 515 00:27:25,100 --> 00:27:27,400 It's broken. It's just a bit harder to find 516 00:27:27,400 --> 00:27:30,400 the motivation to get that out. We didn't train once when we're 517 00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:32,400 yeah. And I literally trying every 518 00:27:32,400 --> 00:27:33,000 day. Yeah. 519 00:27:33,000 --> 00:27:35,600 And you think we were just drinking piss the holes and you 520 00:27:35,608 --> 00:27:39,000 still train station. So I did like four sessions a 521 00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:41,600 whole time. That's again, we're on holidays, 522 00:27:41,600 --> 00:27:47,500 but when I was writing with you in La I think I went a couple of 523 00:27:47,500 --> 00:27:51,900 times In LA and I just like just tired and like you jet-lagged 524 00:27:51,900 --> 00:27:54,100 and you just because you don't have like a gym that you go to. 525 00:27:54,100 --> 00:27:57,900 It's like some shitty hotel thing that you like make it up 526 00:27:57,900 --> 00:28:00,200 and we've got some dumbbells. Yeah. 527 00:28:00,200 --> 00:28:03,000 It's like what am I like Rusty. Pick it up. 528 00:28:03,000 --> 00:28:06,900 Put it down anyway and stop picking your fingernails 529 00:28:06,900 --> 00:28:10,900 apparently the other one. Yeah well yeah you can't stop me 530 00:28:10,900 --> 00:28:15,300 in Sweden Kenya. I look at the crime of the 531 00:28:15,300 --> 00:28:17,100 scene. It's a scene of a crime. 532 00:28:17,100 --> 00:28:19,000 I drop it. Fingernail with someone where 533 00:28:19,000 --> 00:28:22,000 someone has just been herded. I hope you're not doing a crime 534 00:28:22,000 --> 00:28:23,400 or committee. Yeah. 535 00:28:23,400 --> 00:28:25,000 Well you know what's your goal for me? 536 00:28:25,800 --> 00:28:28,900 My goal for you is to while I'm away. 537 00:28:30,200 --> 00:28:32,900 Have a bit of, you know, let loose have a bit of fun. 538 00:28:32,900 --> 00:28:37,300 Every time I just, you know, Kathleen's very much, she's very 539 00:28:37,300 --> 00:28:39,700 focused. Very determined, you're very, 540 00:28:39,700 --> 00:28:45,700 very talented at your job, but you know, you feel like you need 541 00:28:45,700 --> 00:28:49,900 a little bit more of just the freedom of like being able to go 542 00:28:49,900 --> 00:28:52,200 somewhere on a whim or, you know, everything's got to be 543 00:28:52,200 --> 00:28:56,300 structured and routine of Wayne takes Miami's like she misses 544 00:28:56,300 --> 00:28:58,900 her flight, never comes back. Well yeah, she's going to Miami 545 00:28:58,900 --> 00:29:02,500 for four days. And you know the Gold Coast on 546 00:29:02,500 --> 00:29:05,500 steroids hurricane hurricane right now so you could be free 547 00:29:05,500 --> 00:29:09,600 flying something like that. You guys are very opposite 548 00:29:09,600 --> 00:29:11,300 people. It's amazing. 549 00:29:11,300 --> 00:29:14,700 How Opposites Attract? And yes, yes the whole Union 550 00:29:14,700 --> 00:29:16,400 Yang thing. For sure. 551 00:29:16,400 --> 00:29:18,800 I'd say lucky and I kind of opposite in certain ways as 552 00:29:18,800 --> 00:29:19,700 well. So, yeah. 553 00:29:19,700 --> 00:29:22,500 We're like, would you give me similar advice what you gave 554 00:29:22,500 --> 00:29:24,000 Kathleen? I do like it. 555 00:29:24,000 --> 00:29:27,500 Mmm, that's what I learned. A lot from a me as well as I you 556 00:29:27,500 --> 00:29:30,500 guys obviously siblings. And your Careers are very 557 00:29:30,500 --> 00:29:33,300 similar and Kathleen and I are both in the health industry. 558 00:29:33,300 --> 00:29:37,400 And so when I get advice from either of you, it's like the 559 00:29:37,400 --> 00:29:41,100 flip side of how I live my life and at the beginning like not 560 00:29:41,200 --> 00:29:44,700 change but then you also realize you need this a balance between 561 00:29:44,700 --> 00:29:47,400 sponsoring a spontaneity. Yeah, beautiful. 562 00:29:48,200 --> 00:29:51,700 And and just like doing things up a win but also like structure 563 00:29:51,700 --> 00:29:54,600 is beneficial to a degree and it's just like depending on what 564 00:29:54,600 --> 00:29:55,800 you want to achieve. Yeah. 565 00:29:55,900 --> 00:29:58,400 And in a relationship because I'm probably Hayes. 566 00:29:58,400 --> 00:30:03,000 How rigid? Bridget I am which is yeah which 567 00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:08,700 is its rigid some reason work if for our relationship it works 568 00:30:09,400 --> 00:30:11,400 and I think that's why maybe Opposites Attract because you 569 00:30:11,408 --> 00:30:14,100 keep each other balanced. I mean that's what this episode 570 00:30:14,100 --> 00:30:19,700 can be called balance. No this is we finish each 571 00:30:19,700 --> 00:30:22,800 other's sandwiches images. We finish each other's 572 00:30:22,800 --> 00:30:29,700 sandwiches. Yeah we're definitely opposites. 573 00:30:31,400 --> 00:30:34,300 I'm going to take note on that, but yeah, no I agree with you. 574 00:30:34,300 --> 00:30:37,700 I think the difference is that Kathleen and I have are what 575 00:30:37,700 --> 00:30:41,400 make us so great together and you know, probably took us a 576 00:30:41,400 --> 00:30:43,900 little while to understand that. Yeah. 577 00:30:44,100 --> 00:30:46,600 How do you think you've liked you navigated through it? 578 00:30:46,600 --> 00:30:49,300 Because a lot of couples. Maybe don't they just got. 579 00:30:49,300 --> 00:30:52,000 I can't definitely be irritated. Yeah, that's definitely be 580 00:30:52,000 --> 00:30:54,300 moments where George has been on tour. 581 00:30:54,300 --> 00:30:56,700 And I've been very health focused than and I've gone this 582 00:30:56,700 --> 00:30:59,100 way and he comes back and he's still party mode and still fun. 583 00:30:59,400 --> 00:31:02,400 And it's really To join back into that same direction. 584 00:31:02,900 --> 00:31:05,200 Yeah, I mean it's all about compromise at the end of the day 585 00:31:05,400 --> 00:31:10,300 and the fact that you love each other this is a big part of it. 586 00:31:10,300 --> 00:31:14,000 You know, you want to make the sacrifices so that you can be 587 00:31:14,000 --> 00:31:17,200 there for each other. You know, it's about 588 00:31:17,200 --> 00:31:20,000 understanding one another and realizing that both of you have 589 00:31:20,000 --> 00:31:23,900 the needs that you have. And they might not be the needs 590 00:31:23,900 --> 00:31:28,600 that you want them to have or it's just about letting them go 591 00:31:29,200 --> 00:31:31,100 in the direction. They want to go in and just 592 00:31:31,100 --> 00:31:33,300 follow them there and you know then you can bring them back 593 00:31:33,300 --> 00:31:36,100 this way a little bit into your world and stop holding hands and 594 00:31:36,100 --> 00:31:39,700 being able to cross the barrier of that the chasm of the 595 00:31:40,100 --> 00:31:42,300 differences together. Always being a little bit more 596 00:31:42,300 --> 00:31:44,800 fluid, you're going to be a philosopher one and I can just 597 00:31:44,800 --> 00:31:47,600 feel it. I just need the English actor, 598 00:31:47,600 --> 00:31:48,700 Alan Watts. Yeah. 599 00:31:48,700 --> 00:31:55,100 Which what we don't have is fine when you come back from You 600 00:31:55,100 --> 00:31:58,800 know, time apart. It is almost like people like 601 00:31:58,800 --> 00:32:00,700 you going to be so in you are so excited to. 602 00:32:00,700 --> 00:32:04,300 Yeah, I'm always so excited to see Amy but because I've got my 603 00:32:04,300 --> 00:32:07,400 routine while she's away that when she comes back into it, I'm 604 00:32:07,400 --> 00:32:10,300 almost like, I'm so pumped, but at the same time, I'm like my 605 00:32:10,300 --> 00:32:13,000 routine stay. And you almost have this, like 606 00:32:13,700 --> 00:32:16,600 period might be a three-day window where you sort of 607 00:32:16,700 --> 00:32:19,400 redefine mashing and your lifestyles in. 608 00:32:19,400 --> 00:32:21,900 Do you find that we just bring the fun back into your lives. 609 00:32:22,300 --> 00:32:25,700 Yeah I'm I'm like just It goes to myself. 610 00:32:25,700 --> 00:32:29,100 Well, I think when we've had time apart, we come back the 611 00:32:29,100 --> 00:32:32,300 first like couple of days is always so fun because it's, if 612 00:32:32,300 --> 00:32:34,100 it's a weekend, if it's not a weekend, that's a bit 613 00:32:34,100 --> 00:32:37,300 challenging coming back and talking my routing coming back 614 00:32:37,300 --> 00:32:40,000 in the middle of a work week. I don't see George because I'm 615 00:32:40,000 --> 00:32:42,400 working a lot and then he was up late at night so I got a bit 616 00:32:42,400 --> 00:32:45,900 early but if we come back on a weekend I'm a little bit more 617 00:32:45,900 --> 00:32:47,300 fluid. So it's a lot more relaxed. 618 00:32:47,300 --> 00:32:50,500 Yes, it's a little bit easier but it take definitely takes a 619 00:32:50,500 --> 00:32:52,000 week of getting used to each other. 620 00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:54,500 Being the space again because like things aren't as tidy and 621 00:32:54,900 --> 00:32:59,300 You're used to sleeping in later and just bits and pieces, but I 622 00:32:59,308 --> 00:33:02,800 think the more you communicate it, the longer the week goes on 623 00:33:02,800 --> 00:33:04,000 the more you like. Okay, we're back into the 624 00:33:04,000 --> 00:33:05,400 routine. It just takes him like having a 625 00:33:05,400 --> 00:33:07,500 couple of days at home to meet his own space, to get used to 626 00:33:08,400 --> 00:33:10,900 life is like and Kathleen. We should mention what you do 627 00:33:10,900 --> 00:33:12,300 for a living. I'm a physio. 628 00:33:12,300 --> 00:33:15,900 So I work in the same gym that lucky Works in and I run the 629 00:33:15,900 --> 00:33:18,200 physio clinic in there. That's a cool move. 630 00:33:18,200 --> 00:33:21,700 Better physiotherapy will have three beds next year, so I'm so 631 00:33:21,700 --> 00:33:24,300 excited to sleep logo. Yeah. 632 00:33:24,700 --> 00:33:27,900 That's going to cost you. We did it. 633 00:33:28,000 --> 00:33:28,900 We did it. Make money. 634 00:33:29,700 --> 00:33:31,300 Alright, I'll wait in Boise for the rosie. 635 00:33:31,300 --> 00:33:36,600 So my job is very, my job is very, I'm up early early. 636 00:33:36,600 --> 00:33:39,700 So I start work at 5:00 or 6:00 in the morning and then I finish 637 00:33:39,700 --> 00:33:42,000 it five or six and then I get home. 638 00:33:42,000 --> 00:33:44,600 And I go to bed really quick, like really early and then 639 00:33:44,600 --> 00:33:49,900 George's up till like 3:00 a.m. And then some Talent Kathleen 640 00:33:49,900 --> 00:33:52,200 has this insane ability and I think you're pretty similar 641 00:33:52,200 --> 00:33:54,400 locks. Yeah, you do soon as you close 642 00:33:54,400 --> 00:33:57,300 your I rise in bed. It's literally like 30 seconds 643 00:33:57,400 --> 00:33:58,500 last week. Yeah. 644 00:34:01,400 --> 00:34:04,200 If I'm like right now, I'm falling asleep. 645 00:34:06,900 --> 00:34:09,300 This is a stationary moment. Yeah, yeah. 646 00:34:09,600 --> 00:34:13,699 I mean it's the last time I have guests on the but it's, you 647 00:34:13,699 --> 00:34:18,600 know, I I just sit and lay in bed for hours an hour, I am 648 00:34:18,600 --> 00:34:21,400 jealous of that because there's, you know, I always talk about 649 00:34:21,400 --> 00:34:24,500 like the morning such an awesome time, but I wish I could stay. 650 00:34:24,699 --> 00:34:28,800 Later and, you know, sit on Reddit like because you guys 651 00:34:28,800 --> 00:34:32,699 have so many in Amy tells me so much random information, that's 652 00:34:32,699 --> 00:34:33,900 the whole day after we go to bed. 653 00:34:33,900 --> 00:34:36,800 Yeah and it's I find it so fascinating but I'm also like 654 00:34:36,900 --> 00:34:39,900 how do you have time to? Where does that fit in? 655 00:34:39,900 --> 00:34:43,000 And then when I always saying, if I talk to you I'm just that. 656 00:34:43,000 --> 00:34:46,300 All right well I would love to stay up late and but I just 657 00:34:46,300 --> 00:34:48,000 meant I was even talking to my dad about it. 658 00:34:48,000 --> 00:34:52,600 This morning is what 60 Howard's is 62 still gets up at 4:00 a.m. 659 00:34:52,600 --> 00:34:55,199 because he's like I'm missing the day if I Yeah, this is a 660 00:34:55,207 --> 00:34:57,300 real goddamn. The I got guilt around it. 661 00:34:57,300 --> 00:34:58,500 Yeah, I've got guilt around that. 662 00:34:58,600 --> 00:35:01,600 I get really annoyed if I wake up before 10:00 a.m. 663 00:35:01,900 --> 00:35:04,600 And I'm like, what? If it's at 8:00 I'm just like 664 00:35:04,600 --> 00:35:06,900 what in the what's going to like? 665 00:35:07,100 --> 00:35:09,700 What am I going to do now? I come hang out with me. 666 00:35:09,700 --> 00:35:12,500 There's definitely a sweet spot. I don't think 4 a.m. is. 667 00:35:12,500 --> 00:35:14,300 How do you reckon the fun? You guys will go. 668 00:35:14,300 --> 00:35:16,500 When you first question? Do you want to have children? 669 00:35:16,700 --> 00:35:18,800 Oh yeah. And how do you think I'm going? 670 00:35:18,800 --> 00:35:24,000 Yeah, we want to have children. Oh yeah, he's hot. 671 00:35:24,700 --> 00:35:29,000 I was 60 Bates to 150 wedding's off ring. 672 00:35:30,000 --> 00:35:32,300 I think it's still a few years away, but yeah, it would be nice 673 00:35:32,300 --> 00:35:34,200 to her older. We get the less than number 674 00:35:34,200 --> 00:35:35,300 gets. Do you think? 675 00:35:35,300 --> 00:35:36,700 Do you think? Yeah. 676 00:35:36,800 --> 00:35:40,900 Because it started about ten Godly throwing numbers out, like 677 00:35:40,900 --> 00:35:43,100 seven to ten. Kids said, I wanted a basketball 678 00:35:43,100 --> 00:35:45,800 team. I think the good thing is that, 679 00:35:45,800 --> 00:35:48,600 if practice in that? Yeah, well, you know, it takes a 680 00:35:48,600 --> 00:35:51,400 lot of practice. Yes, Tim children, ten children, 681 00:35:52,000 --> 00:35:53,600 just can't get it right the first time. 682 00:35:54,100 --> 00:35:56,600 No, anyway, Way. But I don't think look at you 683 00:35:56,600 --> 00:35:59,700 such a small frame, he going to pop 10 children out. 684 00:36:00,600 --> 00:36:03,200 Let's get to that one. Yeah, no, no. 685 00:36:03,200 --> 00:36:05,500 I don't want 10. I said, every year it goes on at 686 00:36:05,500 --> 00:36:06,300 8. Then on the dress. 687 00:36:06,400 --> 00:36:10,900 Oh wait, nine years and you could get one and now the 90s 688 00:36:10,900 --> 00:36:12,800 what I'm doing. A ship. 689 00:36:13,700 --> 00:36:14,800 Yeah. Two or three kids. 690 00:36:15,300 --> 00:36:16,300 What was the other question of that? 691 00:36:16,300 --> 00:36:17,500 Do we have want to have kids? Yes. 692 00:36:17,600 --> 00:36:20,200 And how do you think your schedules will? 693 00:36:20,200 --> 00:36:22,300 Check schedules will change when that happens. 694 00:36:22,400 --> 00:36:24,000 I think it's impossible not to change. 695 00:36:24,100 --> 00:36:27,500 Yeah, I mean Mention it to one of your clients and they last 696 00:36:27,500 --> 00:36:29,400 week that you having children. No. 697 00:36:29,400 --> 00:36:31,300 No. That was I mean I've mentioned 698 00:36:31,300 --> 00:36:32,900 something about George being asleep. 699 00:36:33,000 --> 00:36:35,700 I was like I know he won't be up yet and he loved because that's 700 00:36:35,700 --> 00:36:37,100 going to have to change when you have kids. 701 00:36:37,100 --> 00:36:41,200 I said oh well will it because if you I mean you could put your 702 00:36:41,200 --> 00:36:43,300 coat down the middle of the day and have an app which charge 703 00:36:43,300 --> 00:36:45,900 will definitely be joining along with. 704 00:36:45,900 --> 00:36:50,000 But I would you define down dealership sound like Winnie the 705 00:36:50,000 --> 00:36:53,000 Pooh or something. What's eating honey? 706 00:36:53,000 --> 00:36:57,600 And then just going to sleep. Every day, like if during the 707 00:36:57,600 --> 00:36:59,800 day, you're up during the night, you would think that that would 708 00:36:59,800 --> 00:37:01,900 mean that. Yeah, growls, I do still do 709 00:37:01,900 --> 00:37:03,700 productive things. Can we just be clear? 710 00:37:04,200 --> 00:37:09,100 But I know, I think you can have both of the we can have, you 711 00:37:09,100 --> 00:37:12,700 know, a 22 of the 24 hours covered by someone being awake. 712 00:37:12,700 --> 00:37:15,600 That's what I think will work. I'm going to bet that late. 713 00:37:15,600 --> 00:37:18,400 No, well, you're like 10 or 11 like 10 but I'm up at 4:00 so it 714 00:37:18,400 --> 00:37:19,600 is like that. Sweet spot. 715 00:37:19,900 --> 00:37:22,900 Yeah, so that's the sweet spot. I hope it works out well for us 716 00:37:22,900 --> 00:37:25,700 because I mean well, I'll be We're doing it at the same time 717 00:37:25,700 --> 00:37:27,900 so I don't know. I think from what on What are 718 00:37:27,908 --> 00:37:31,900 the same time stories about when we live together? 719 00:37:31,900 --> 00:37:36,700 No, from what I've heard from other couples. 720 00:37:36,700 --> 00:37:39,400 I think that it's like, you just got to survival mode. 721 00:37:39,500 --> 00:37:40,500 Yeah. Over it. 722 00:37:40,500 --> 00:37:42,300 Just to make sure that you make it. 723 00:37:42,300 --> 00:37:45,000 Well lucky we've all got awesome parents. 724 00:37:45,100 --> 00:37:48,200 Yeah, his fuck. You definitely want them around. 725 00:37:48,900 --> 00:37:51,900 I just tasted really selfish individual. 726 00:37:52,300 --> 00:37:55,800 That sounds really bad but I feel like My things are really 727 00:37:55,800 --> 00:37:58,900 important to me as they all are. So I'd say at this think that 728 00:37:59,200 --> 00:38:01,800 it's out of your hands when you tell them all the parents had a 729 00:38:01,800 --> 00:38:04,400 listening to this like you've got a rude awakening coming. 730 00:38:05,300 --> 00:38:07,000 No, I know. But I'm going to keep my head in 731 00:38:07,000 --> 00:38:11,300 the sand until that day, which is why we haven't had kids right 732 00:38:11,300 --> 00:38:12,900 away. Like yeah, you know, we've taken 733 00:38:12,900 --> 00:38:15,900 our time, have you felt any pressure, and you guys might 734 00:38:15,900 --> 00:38:18,300 feel pressure, once you get married to have children 735 00:38:18,900 --> 00:38:20,900 because, you know how it's like, you get married, then you knock 736 00:38:20,900 --> 00:38:25,200 a foal out? I mean, I think there's Children 737 00:38:25,200 --> 00:38:29,000 Stewie's has it and I just can't allow every time he says it. 738 00:38:29,000 --> 00:38:32,300 I think if we were I definitely feel like from where I'm from 739 00:38:32,300 --> 00:38:34,200 Tasmania and you might find the same thing. 740 00:38:34,200 --> 00:38:38,300 But we do want to say that all into one bar is if you are from 741 00:38:38,300 --> 00:38:41,700 Regional places there's more of that pressure just because a lot 742 00:38:41,700 --> 00:38:44,100 of your friends have kids on younger like a lot of my friends 743 00:38:44,100 --> 00:38:46,600 sometimes you've had kids because nothing else to do out 744 00:38:46,600 --> 00:38:49,700 there. I have a guy like you they all 745 00:38:49,700 --> 00:38:53,200 like that's what I do. You get a house and you're out 746 00:38:53,200 --> 00:38:54,300 of the circle. Yeah. 747 00:38:54,300 --> 00:38:56,200 I think. In the city, there's less of 748 00:38:56,200 --> 00:38:58,400 that pressure because a lot of more people have created. 749 00:38:58,800 --> 00:39:00,700 Yeah, yeah. Like a lot of our friends in 750 00:39:00,700 --> 00:39:03,800 have kids till later, I mean, none of our friends really have 751 00:39:03,800 --> 00:39:07,600 kids that the friends that we're waiting me, the friends that we 752 00:39:07,600 --> 00:39:09,300 have to have kids are older than us. 753 00:39:09,400 --> 00:39:12,800 Yeah, it is an interesting point because you think, yeah, in 754 00:39:12,800 --> 00:39:15,500 those, like, Regional communities, you are out of the 755 00:39:15,500 --> 00:39:17,800 loop if you don't have kids and you're like, oh, you kind of do 756 00:39:17,800 --> 00:39:19,600 it? I definitely think we would have 757 00:39:19,600 --> 00:39:21,500 done earlier. We run out of friends to go out 758 00:39:21,500 --> 00:39:24,400 with and have drinks, with only had like four to begin with and 759 00:39:24,400 --> 00:39:28,600 now, Zero you guys. And so yeah you're white, I want 760 00:39:28,600 --> 00:39:31,600 to get invited to the, you know, playgroup parties, baby showers 761 00:39:31,600 --> 00:39:33,400 and maybe. Yeah, exactly. 762 00:39:33,600 --> 00:39:35,700 Did you get do you feel the biological clock? 763 00:39:36,600 --> 00:39:40,300 Well, I had my fertility tests only recently and just because a 764 00:39:40,308 --> 00:39:41,900 client. What are you going to bead of 765 00:39:41,900 --> 00:39:44,700 sweat dripping? Well, I had a client who was 766 00:39:44,700 --> 00:39:48,400 like, you've got three weeks and she was an obstetrician 767 00:39:48,400 --> 00:39:51,800 admittedly. But she was like, I mean, if 768 00:39:51,800 --> 00:39:54,000 you've been in a long-term relationship as you guys have 769 00:39:54,100 --> 00:39:56,500 and there's no No rush. You may as well check because if 770 00:39:56,500 --> 00:39:58,800 there is your fertility is not great. 771 00:39:58,800 --> 00:40:01,300 Maybe that'll Fast Track things like, oh yeah, good point. 772 00:40:01,400 --> 00:40:04,600 It was like $80 to get it done. So I had it just 80 bucks. 773 00:40:04,800 --> 00:40:07,300 Yeah, and and thankfully things are okay. 774 00:40:07,300 --> 00:40:10,600 So we've got time. I mean, I'm sure there's a 775 00:40:10,600 --> 00:40:13,700 window. But yeah, I mean there's I don't 776 00:40:13,700 --> 00:40:15,300 feel like there's a huge rush now for us. 777 00:40:16,000 --> 00:40:17,800 And we've got fun things planned. 778 00:40:18,700 --> 00:40:21,900 We can't even talk about them. Can we what fun things? 779 00:40:21,900 --> 00:40:23,600 Yeah, not yet. Oh yeah. 780 00:40:24,000 --> 00:40:26,700 But you know what? And put it even though I haven't 781 00:40:26,700 --> 00:40:30,200 set up the patreon group yet, we'll talk about it in the page, 782 00:40:30,300 --> 00:40:33,400 over it later, the fun things. But anyway, back to the fun 783 00:40:33,400 --> 00:40:36,700 things. Yeah, we do have a lot of fun, 784 00:40:37,000 --> 00:40:39,400 but yeah, it sounds like we're gonna have kids one day, but 785 00:40:39,400 --> 00:40:42,200 we've got a few years. I personally and like Emma says, 786 00:40:42,300 --> 00:40:47,300 don't fucking ruin my life yet. We're all just waiting on a 787 00:40:47,300 --> 00:40:49,900 approval. Yeah, whatever says lucky. 788 00:40:50,000 --> 00:40:50,900 No one's allowed. Blessed. 789 00:40:50,900 --> 00:40:57,300 Be like fruit, Emma's the yeah. And then I was just like, okay 790 00:40:57,300 --> 00:41:07,800 now and then camera. All right, well, I think that's 791 00:41:07,800 --> 00:41:09,400 all the questions we have for you today. 792 00:41:10,100 --> 00:41:13,900 Thank you so much for being our very first couple goals, gasps. 793 00:41:13,900 --> 00:41:18,100 Thank you so much, welcome. Actually, we do have on just 794 00:41:18,300 --> 00:41:20,500 squeeze a little bit more juice out of you guys right here. 795 00:41:20,500 --> 00:41:22,200 Yes, lucky I will go over there with you now. 796 00:41:22,200 --> 00:41:23,300 Yeah. Thank you. 797 00:41:24,700 --> 00:41:28,000 Would be one bit of a relationship advice, you would 798 00:41:28,000 --> 00:41:29,800 give that's worked well for you guys. 799 00:41:30,600 --> 00:41:34,500 And I think I think I'm touched on it earlier, but it's, it 800 00:41:34,500 --> 00:41:37,600 really is about compromise. You know, a lot of people take 801 00:41:38,000 --> 00:41:41,900 the differences in a relationship as like You know, 802 00:41:42,400 --> 00:41:45,400 I'm being unfair or like, you know, how could you do that to 803 00:41:45,400 --> 00:41:48,300 me? Or it's all about, it's all 804 00:41:48,300 --> 00:41:51,400 about coming to an understanding and, actually, appreciating that 805 00:41:51,400 --> 00:41:54,200 you are different people and that you are going to have ups 806 00:41:54,200 --> 00:41:56,000 and downs, and it's going to be a roller coaster ride. 807 00:41:56,000 --> 00:41:59,800 But, you know, as long as you're on it together, you can weather 808 00:41:59,800 --> 00:42:01,400 any storm, you know, you can get through it. 809 00:42:01,800 --> 00:42:06,200 And I think a lot of people forget that and then become like 810 00:42:06,200 --> 00:42:09,900 adversaries rather than partners, and then that is where 811 00:42:10,000 --> 00:42:12,500 it starts to unravel. And You know, it's like well you 812 00:42:12,508 --> 00:42:14,700 didn't let me go out with my friends and, you know, now I'm 813 00:42:14,700 --> 00:42:16,400 going to hold that against you. So the next time you do 814 00:42:16,400 --> 00:42:18,900 something, I'm going to pull you up on it, and it becomes a bit 815 00:42:18,900 --> 00:42:20,900 of a tit-for-tat. Yeah, pipe situation. 816 00:42:21,400 --> 00:42:23,600 But it's all about understanding and compromise. 817 00:42:23,800 --> 00:42:26,700 Yes, definitely. I would say my advice would be 818 00:42:26,900 --> 00:42:29,900 following on from that is we try to be team players in that way. 819 00:42:29,900 --> 00:42:31,300 Are paying playing for the same team? 820 00:42:31,300 --> 00:42:33,900 Not teams against each other. Yeah. 821 00:42:33,900 --> 00:42:37,200 So we try and communicate so that that's constantly like 822 00:42:37,400 --> 00:42:40,400 we're on the same page with what that goal is rather than it 823 00:42:40,400 --> 00:42:44,400 being even. If one of us does something that 824 00:42:45,100 --> 00:42:54,800 annoys you you're very you really like get cross like you 825 00:42:54,808 --> 00:42:58,700 always can talk and you can't communicate and II think we've 826 00:42:58,700 --> 00:43:00,600 both got good girls because I am is the same. 827 00:43:00,600 --> 00:43:05,800 Like never is on my back about things is just like you do as 828 00:43:05,800 --> 00:43:08,000 you want. Yeah that she's not on my back, 829 00:43:08,000 --> 00:43:09,500 she's on my case but she's not on my back. 830 00:43:12,200 --> 00:43:23,600 Sometimes she gets on my ass but I really like that. 831 00:43:23,600 --> 00:43:26,000 Patronize me of being on the same team. 832 00:43:26,900 --> 00:43:29,200 That's the goal. Tit for Tat. 833 00:43:29,300 --> 00:43:30,400 Tip it up. Yeah. 834 00:43:30,700 --> 00:43:32,700 Cool. This way we cue the song. 835 00:43:33,900 --> 00:43:37,500 Three, two, one. I've heard the time. 836 00:43:42,200 --> 00:43:45,800 Thank you guys for coming on our first podcast. 837 00:43:45,800 --> 00:43:48,100 This is my first podcast. It's very fun. 838 00:43:48,500 --> 00:43:51,600 I was gonna see how I'd hold up next to George on microphone 839 00:43:51,600 --> 00:43:53,500 because George loves a microphone. 840 00:43:54,200 --> 00:43:55,900 I don't know as much as I love you. 841 00:43:57,500 --> 00:43:59,500 Let me in which was good. I had a voice. 842 00:43:59,600 --> 00:44:02,000 I love you. Like I love country music. 843 00:44:03,800 --> 00:44:06,400 Thank you, stole that one. I feel like I do. 844 00:44:06,400 --> 00:44:09,700 We have to credit them now will fade out with. 845 00:44:09,700 --> 00:44:12,100 Yeah, it's a good to know country. 846 00:44:12,100 --> 00:44:14,400 Music is a Hot Topic, Topic in the household. 847 00:44:14,500 --> 00:44:18,000 Is there a trendy right now? Anyway, on that note? 848 00:44:18,100 --> 00:44:21,000 Yeah. Adios amigos. 849 00:44:21,000 --> 00:44:21,800 Cheers. Cheers. 850 00:44:25,300 --> 00:44:28,300 And don't forget to like, subscribe George. 851 00:44:28,300 --> 00:44:29,300 You? Take it away for us. 852 00:44:29,300 --> 00:44:30,400 You're really good at that stuff. 853 00:44:30,500 --> 00:44:32,200 Yeah. Like like And subscribe. 854 00:44:32,200 --> 00:44:37,200 My new. App Forte, quickly, do it at 855 00:44:37,200 --> 00:44:38,100 Christie. Touch on that. 856 00:44:38,100 --> 00:44:39,600 We were here? Yeah, sure. 857 00:44:39,600 --> 00:44:42,000 I mean we started an app. It's for music Discovery. 858 00:44:42,400 --> 00:44:45,900 It's it's kind of like a dating app except instead of romance, 859 00:44:45,900 --> 00:44:49,700 you discovering a new favorite artists, on the App, Store on 860 00:44:49,700 --> 00:44:51,700 the Google Play Store, check it out. 861 00:44:51,800 --> 00:44:53,700 A lot of the big, I'll invoice you for that later. 862 00:44:55,600 --> 00:44:57,000 Thanks guys. Cheers.