1 00:00:00,100 --> 00:00:02,600 Hi, I'm Amy Shepherd. I'm lachland Stewart. 2 00:00:02,600 --> 00:00:05,200 And although we have different last names, we're married. 3 00:00:05,600 --> 00:00:08,800 Now we've been told the secret to a successful marriage is 4 00:00:08,800 --> 00:00:11,300 communication. So we're going to talk it out 5 00:00:11,300 --> 00:00:14,000 every week. Share our challenges, and pet 6 00:00:14,000 --> 00:00:15,800 peeves. Then we're setting each other. 7 00:00:15,800 --> 00:00:18,400 Some goals, some couple goals, couple goals. 8 00:00:18,400 --> 00:00:20,700 The podcast is for those who might be looking to life their 9 00:00:20,700 --> 00:00:22,900 way through challenging scenarios that all couples. 10 00:00:22,900 --> 00:00:25,500 Go through occasionally. We might even get some other 11 00:00:25,500 --> 00:00:27,400 couples to join in. Yeah, you'd like that. 12 00:00:28,200 --> 00:00:31,600 Hit, subscribe and tune in. Every week to hear our weekly 13 00:00:31,800 --> 00:00:39,000 couple goals. Welcome to couple goals episode 14 00:00:39,000 --> 00:00:41,500 19 were about to crank the be 120. 15 00:00:43,300 --> 00:00:46,500 Now, we're still standing. I feel like I was about to say. 16 00:00:46,500 --> 00:00:50,500 Do you remember your 20th? And I feel like I also said that 17 00:00:50,500 --> 00:00:55,300 last episode 20, no reps did say that last time I would just, I 18 00:00:55,308 --> 00:00:59,300 said it was a non-event. Yeah, I literally felt like Déjà 19 00:00:59,300 --> 00:01:01,400 Vu as I was about to say, it's so weird. 20 00:01:01,900 --> 00:01:03,800 No, I'm pretty sure this is episode, 19. 21 00:01:04,300 --> 00:01:09,900 Something that I'm listening till don't remember Emma's 21st, 22 00:01:10,000 --> 00:01:12,100 I do too. What was the day before? 23 00:01:12,100 --> 00:01:15,200 We went to the battery station plan, Ellen Degeneres Show, 24 00:01:15,200 --> 00:01:16,600 which was the day before. Yeah. 25 00:01:16,700 --> 00:01:17,900 Yeah. The next day, we flew out and 26 00:01:17,900 --> 00:01:21,000 Emma was like Super hungover. I could imagine. 27 00:01:21,700 --> 00:01:24,900 Wow. Anyway, the only nine years ago. 28 00:01:24,900 --> 00:01:29,600 Yeah, Fair Dinkum. So scary time is flying by, as 29 00:01:29,600 --> 00:01:31,600 you know, how are you feeling after the weekend? 30 00:01:31,600 --> 00:01:35,400 That was pretty good. Like, I think that I was 31 00:01:35,400 --> 00:01:40,500 sensible with my drinking. I, although my first champagne 32 00:01:40,500 --> 00:01:43,700 was at like, 7:30 because yeah, got a hair and makeup done and 33 00:01:43,700 --> 00:01:47,200 the hairdresser that you are performing a, I was like, wow, 34 00:01:47,200 --> 00:01:48,400 you are up early? Yeah. 35 00:01:48,500 --> 00:01:50,900 Yeah, so then you're like no she got up an hour earlier than 36 00:01:50,900 --> 00:01:54,100 this. Yeah, I got up at like 5:00 last 37 00:01:54,100 --> 00:01:57,200 place for like the girls weren't even get up that early fast and 38 00:01:57,200 --> 00:01:59,800 they're doing it ahead for lunch. 39 00:02:00,500 --> 00:02:03,700 It's wild, it's pretty funny. So for those who haven't 40 00:02:03,700 --> 00:02:07,400 listened to last week, you had Kathleen's who's our 41 00:02:07,400 --> 00:02:11,300 sister-in-laws hens party. Yeah, she is marrying my brother 42 00:02:11,500 --> 00:02:14,000 and April and and we had George's. 43 00:02:14,300 --> 00:02:16,300 Stag do. Yeah stand. 44 00:02:16,300 --> 00:02:18,900 It was hilarious. The polar It. 45 00:02:19,000 --> 00:02:21,300 Yep, the difference is, oh my goodness. 46 00:02:22,000 --> 00:02:25,000 Would you guys get up to not a great deal? 47 00:02:25,000 --> 00:02:28,300 We went up to cans which was fun, you know, as soon as we got 48 00:02:28,300 --> 00:02:30,400 to the airport, we are went into the lounge. 49 00:02:30,800 --> 00:02:33,700 Got ourselves a few stubbies, will George only just woken up. 50 00:02:33,700 --> 00:02:36,600 So, George had a coffee first and then then it's time. 51 00:02:36,600 --> 00:02:38,400 Was it like midday, what time did you get there? 52 00:02:38,400 --> 00:02:40,300 I think. Yeah, maybe just 11:30. 53 00:02:40,300 --> 00:02:45,400 Yeah, I think George has normally gets up at 10 or 11 so 54 00:02:45,400 --> 00:02:50,100 rolled on in and that was it. We did one activity for the 55 00:02:50,100 --> 00:02:52,900 weekend. We went canyoning. 56 00:02:53,200 --> 00:02:54,200 I think. What is this? 57 00:02:54,500 --> 00:02:57,200 Yeah. So it's like white water rafting 58 00:02:57,200 --> 00:02:59,100 without the rough. So you go down all the Rapids 59 00:02:59,100 --> 00:03:03,000 but then you also I got to like abseil in some parts and then 60 00:03:03,000 --> 00:03:04,600 climb rocks and swim in the lake. 61 00:03:04,600 --> 00:03:07,200 So it's pretty fun. It's pretty wild, it's fun. 62 00:03:07,200 --> 00:03:10,700 When you get put in those Rapids yeah that was one. 63 00:03:10,700 --> 00:03:16,000 They call the washing machine and A lot of the other ones are 64 00:03:16,000 --> 00:03:18,000 pretty extreme. Like, we went down a whole rock, 65 00:03:18,000 --> 00:03:20,400 slide backwards in the, like, what could go wrong? 66 00:03:20,400 --> 00:03:22,800 He literally hold, like, I think George is holding me by the 67 00:03:22,800 --> 00:03:24,600 ankles. I was like the test dummy. 68 00:03:24,800 --> 00:03:26,900 What? It's like, tuck your chin to 69 00:03:26,900 --> 00:03:29,300 your chest, and you just don't even know where you're going. 70 00:03:29,300 --> 00:03:31,100 But, you know, it's going to be, I don't know. 71 00:03:31,700 --> 00:03:36,100 And I you just go like my back's sore as old bugger, exact down. 72 00:03:36,100 --> 00:03:38,500 And just had verse in the water, boys. 73 00:03:38,900 --> 00:03:42,600 And then there's one that was like, gushing water, and when I, 74 00:03:42,800 --> 00:03:45,900 that does not looks gnarly and I Like joking with him. 75 00:03:45,900 --> 00:03:47,200 As I had, we should go down there. 76 00:03:47,200 --> 00:03:51,200 Is that we are oh my God knows that we're not because it's 77 00:03:51,200 --> 00:03:55,200 literally like a waterfall into a big boulder because of the 78 00:03:55,200 --> 00:03:58,700 water is moving so fast. It's spit you out the side and 79 00:03:58,700 --> 00:04:02,300 you get sucked under. But yeah, that's so you don't 80 00:04:02,300 --> 00:04:05,200 realize how strong the water is until that happens. 81 00:04:05,800 --> 00:04:08,400 But what if it had been like heavy, rainfall or something, 82 00:04:08,400 --> 00:04:10,200 what had been heavy. Rainfall, that's why we weren't 83 00:04:10,200 --> 00:04:12,900 allowed to do our bodyboarding think on anyway. 84 00:04:12,900 --> 00:04:15,200 So that was the most extreme we got up to you, but We pretty 85 00:04:15,200 --> 00:04:18,500 much just hung out and drank beers at a lot of McDonald's 86 00:04:18,500 --> 00:04:22,200 which I recommend consumed close to 60 nuggets for the weekend. 87 00:04:22,200 --> 00:04:24,600 What? Yeah I was 16 I had to have a 88 00:04:24,608 --> 00:04:28,800 six-pack I don't now how to 1600 get packed. 89 00:04:28,800 --> 00:04:32,600 Oh my God like everyday got McDonald's or like every yeah. 90 00:04:34,000 --> 00:04:38,300 Oh my God, I'm not proud of it. Why don't you guys go up? 91 00:04:38,300 --> 00:04:41,200 I can't, we did. We went out for lunch but then 92 00:04:41,200 --> 00:04:45,800 we got drunk at lunch and so the first morning let because I am, 93 00:04:45,800 --> 00:04:49,500 and I got up early every day, with only ones had breakfast, we 94 00:04:49,500 --> 00:04:52,400 went to breakfast and on the front page of the cans paper cry 95 00:04:52,400 --> 00:04:54,700 and capital of Australia is can't. 96 00:04:54,700 --> 00:04:56,800 Yeah. And there's probably like one of 97 00:04:56,800 --> 00:05:00,400 the chicks that was on the But can't get a canyoning to her, 98 00:05:00,400 --> 00:05:02,700 she's a nurse and she just said, the amount of stabbings at the 99 00:05:02,700 --> 00:05:05,200 moment is insane in can. Yeah. 100 00:05:06,000 --> 00:05:09,300 So we just thought it'd be best that we avoid the stabbings. 101 00:05:09,700 --> 00:05:13,000 Geez. Yeah, okay. 102 00:05:13,000 --> 00:05:15,200 That was our so that was riddle doesn't right. 103 00:05:15,200 --> 00:05:18,600 Many people want to come to a desert and then we're watching 104 00:05:18,600 --> 00:05:21,900 social media, senior girls all glammed up and custom made 105 00:05:21,900 --> 00:05:27,900 cookies and champagne body had basically girly-girl day. 106 00:05:28,100 --> 00:05:30,400 We got ready. Got a hand makeup done. 107 00:05:32,100 --> 00:05:39,300 Because again, and then we had some Had a glass of champagne 108 00:05:39,700 --> 00:05:45,700 and then went to lunch at Baja which is a incredible, Mexican 109 00:05:46,000 --> 00:05:49,000 restaurant in Brisbane. It is so delicious and we just 110 00:05:49,000 --> 00:05:51,100 had like I said, do you like it more than La Patrona? 111 00:05:51,700 --> 00:05:55,300 They're different. I like them, both I'd say La 112 00:05:55,300 --> 00:05:58,500 Patrona is more. Antic Mexican. 113 00:05:58,500 --> 00:06:02,300 Yeah, I really love. Love and Baja's more like 114 00:06:02,300 --> 00:06:04,000 Tex-Mex. Yeah. 115 00:06:04,000 --> 00:06:08,400 Okay. Anyway, yeah, we just had a 116 00:06:08,400 --> 00:06:13,700 great time chatting and drinking and but yeah, I was kind of 117 00:06:13,700 --> 00:06:15,800 sensible. I switched to vodka sodas. 118 00:06:15,800 --> 00:06:18,800 I had like one champagne one cocktail and then I switched. 119 00:06:18,800 --> 00:06:23,500 Yeah two vodkas which is so boring but just kind of like 120 00:06:23,500 --> 00:06:26,600 because you don't down them as fast and you're like oh this is 121 00:06:26,600 --> 00:06:29,100 heaven. Alicia, so you to get about it. 122 00:06:29,100 --> 00:06:30,700 It's a good thing, you don't down them as for. 123 00:06:30,700 --> 00:06:34,300 Yeah, well that's why I did it and thank God because I woke up 124 00:06:34,300 --> 00:06:36,200 with that a hangover. That's good. 125 00:06:36,500 --> 00:06:37,900 Did you have one of those body armors? 126 00:06:38,700 --> 00:06:40,600 Yeah. I went searching everywhere for 127 00:06:40,600 --> 00:06:42,800 them. So these body armor drinks saved 128 00:06:42,800 --> 00:06:44,800 us in our wedding and they, what's in them? 129 00:06:44,800 --> 00:06:46,300 I don't know. I just said, hey purpose of 130 00:06:46,300 --> 00:06:49,700 vitamin? Yes, it's like eating its 131 00:06:49,700 --> 00:06:51,500 disgusting. It's not the nicest flavor. 132 00:06:51,600 --> 00:06:53,100 No. It's because it's worth. 133 00:06:53,900 --> 00:06:57,000 How have you ever seen a fat before without were too? 134 00:06:57,400 --> 00:06:58,900 It a fight. That's what you would assume. 135 00:06:58,900 --> 00:07:03,700 Why it has an eggy sewerage taste. 136 00:07:03,700 --> 00:07:04,600 I don't know. Farts. 137 00:07:04,600 --> 00:07:09,000 You're eating cheese Louise. Yours middle of the night. 138 00:07:12,400 --> 00:07:14,600 Anyway, I didn't have one at night I want before I started 139 00:07:14,600 --> 00:07:17,900 drinking and then, yeah, I feel pretty good. 140 00:07:17,900 --> 00:07:21,200 We went to after lunch. We just went to a rooftop bar 141 00:07:21,800 --> 00:07:28,100 and then we found this Like disco place in the valley. 142 00:07:28,400 --> 00:07:30,900 I don't go out in the valley, so I don't really know about 143 00:07:31,200 --> 00:07:33,500 accordion Superfly. Yes. 144 00:07:34,200 --> 00:07:37,200 So, we got that early and we were like, we had the whole 145 00:07:37,200 --> 00:07:38,900 dance floor to ourselves, which is great. 146 00:07:39,000 --> 00:07:43,200 And yeah, we like boogieing away. 147 00:07:43,400 --> 00:07:46,200 We're giving away all chokes. You did a split. 148 00:07:46,200 --> 00:07:49,700 I did the splits because the flow is really greased up for 149 00:07:49,700 --> 00:07:52,800 some reason. I just and somehow I did the 150 00:07:52,808 --> 00:07:56,700 splits. Did he directly tore something? 151 00:07:57,100 --> 00:08:01,100 No, didn't hurt. I'm so it did help. 152 00:08:01,100 --> 00:08:04,400 The flow is slippery. I don't get how that it helps 153 00:08:04,400 --> 00:08:07,300 because your muscles still only have the same range at that have 154 00:08:07,300 --> 00:08:10,700 on a non-slip surface unless you tore. 155 00:08:10,700 --> 00:08:14,400 Something that's fine. It's probably the Vodka police 156 00:08:14,400 --> 00:08:16,000 admit it. Oh my God. 157 00:08:18,300 --> 00:08:23,000 And then five other Brides came in five. 158 00:08:23,000 --> 00:08:25,800 Yeah and it was all just like hens parties in this one place 159 00:08:25,800 --> 00:08:28,100 and then a couple of like creeper you dudes, really? 160 00:08:28,100 --> 00:08:30,500 Yeah. Here we just Like so frequently 161 00:08:30,500 --> 00:08:32,700 and they knew where to go. I know we don't like by 162 00:08:32,700 --> 00:08:35,000 themselves. All those are them and they were 163 00:08:35,008 --> 00:08:38,900 just like yeah, they knew where to go but that's so funny. 164 00:08:39,200 --> 00:08:45,300 But did anyone hit on you? Oh, sadly. 165 00:08:45,700 --> 00:08:50,600 That's, I mean, that brings us up to our topic of discussion. 166 00:08:50,600 --> 00:08:55,800 Someone asked us on Instagram. Hmm, they said, why don't we do 167 00:08:56,200 --> 00:09:00,400 do a episode episode on roach eating? 168 00:09:02,000 --> 00:09:03,800 I've never had. Yeah. 169 00:09:03,800 --> 00:09:06,400 You don't you tell you, I've heard of it before but I've 170 00:09:06,400 --> 00:09:08,200 known as micro G. What was it called? 171 00:09:08,500 --> 00:09:12,100 Emotional cheating is what the how I've known about it. 172 00:09:13,900 --> 00:09:15,100 Should I read? Never heard of it? 173 00:09:15,100 --> 00:09:16,600 Should I be able to Google says it is. 174 00:09:16,600 --> 00:09:21,100 Yeah, I've just done the quick. Micro cheating Google and it 175 00:09:21,100 --> 00:09:23,700 says micro cheating. Is the term used to describe 176 00:09:23,700 --> 00:09:26,700 behaviors that aren't traditionally considered true 177 00:09:27,100 --> 00:09:31,500 infidelity but that have some features of infidelity like 178 00:09:31,500 --> 00:09:35,100 dishonesty dishonesty and secrecy. 179 00:09:35,400 --> 00:09:39,100 While in a committed relationship would you like to 180 00:09:39,100 --> 00:09:41,900 see some examples and maybe even some signs? 181 00:09:42,300 --> 00:09:44,500 Yeah, I've got some in front of me here till you've got what do 182 00:09:44,500 --> 00:09:50,000 you got secretly messaging someone but like In a naughty 183 00:09:50,000 --> 00:09:52,500 way, obviously. No. 184 00:09:52,700 --> 00:09:55,200 Well yeah, it depends. What your intentions are? 185 00:09:55,208 --> 00:09:56,400 Yeah. Well with Intel. 186 00:09:56,400 --> 00:09:58,500 Why would you be secretly messaging someone not in a 187 00:09:58,508 --> 00:10:00,700 naughty way? It's not secret. 188 00:10:01,600 --> 00:10:04,300 Yeah, right. Well, it's not like I don't come 189 00:10:04,300 --> 00:10:08,000 home every day and say, this is everyone who I have messaged. 190 00:10:08,100 --> 00:10:10,400 No, yeah, that's not a secret. You know what I mean? 191 00:10:10,400 --> 00:10:12,600 It's like, would you be happy for the purse? 192 00:10:12,600 --> 00:10:14,600 Your partner to look at the conversation. 193 00:10:14,700 --> 00:10:15,400 Oh yeah. Gotcha. 194 00:10:15,400 --> 00:10:17,500 Gotcha, cool. Hit me with another one. 195 00:10:19,000 --> 00:10:20,900 Meeting someone without your partner knowing. 196 00:10:21,200 --> 00:10:23,400 Oh yeah. And obviously, same thing back 197 00:10:23,400 --> 00:10:26,600 to the intent, the intent, and whether it's like, obviously, I 198 00:10:26,608 --> 00:10:28,400 don't, you make, like, 100 people a day. 199 00:10:28,800 --> 00:10:33,000 I don't need to know everything, but if you were to, like meet a 200 00:10:33,000 --> 00:10:36,700 girl, but just as a friend quotation marks, you would want 201 00:10:36,700 --> 00:10:37,900 to hear about it. Yeah. 202 00:10:37,900 --> 00:10:41,800 And if you met a bloke, well, I would want to hear about exactly 203 00:10:41,800 --> 00:10:43,800 why I didn't tell you, that's micro cheating, right? 204 00:10:43,800 --> 00:10:48,300 Yeah. Is it each other examples of it, 205 00:10:48,300 --> 00:10:50,700 what? Well, yeah, it's a fine line 206 00:10:50,700 --> 00:10:52,400 which is what makes it so So interesting. 207 00:10:52,400 --> 00:10:54,700 It's like, oh, did I just micro cheat? 208 00:10:55,800 --> 00:10:58,100 And yeah, because some of these are a bit silly. 209 00:10:58,500 --> 00:11:00,100 Yeah. But what's the silly one that 210 00:11:00,100 --> 00:11:02,300 you've got? Well, I've got what is micro 211 00:11:02,300 --> 00:11:05,400 cheating micro cheating? Versus cheating micro cheating, 212 00:11:05,400 --> 00:11:07,900 versus emotional cheating example, here we go. 213 00:11:09,200 --> 00:11:12,300 Yeah, messaging or texting someone in a flirtatious way. 214 00:11:12,900 --> 00:11:15,200 You don't even send me a flirtatious message anymore. 215 00:11:15,200 --> 00:11:19,700 So I would be pissed. I just long for the day where I 216 00:11:19,708 --> 00:11:23,400 get a flirty message from you. I always liked it today the day, 217 00:11:23,400 --> 00:11:26,300 then that it doesn't, maybe tomorrow. 218 00:11:26,700 --> 00:11:28,200 Well, this point, what about this one? 219 00:11:29,300 --> 00:11:33,800 This Always liking and commenting on someone's photo. 220 00:11:33,900 --> 00:11:37,600 Yeah that's was going to be mine liking or posting a provocative 221 00:11:37,600 --> 00:11:39,800 comment on someone's Instagram provocateurs. 222 00:11:39,800 --> 00:11:42,400 Different always commenting and liking a person's picture. 223 00:11:42,600 --> 00:11:45,200 Yeah. Because again it comes down to 224 00:11:45,200 --> 00:11:47,300 Content, doesn't it? Yeah. 225 00:11:47,400 --> 00:11:50,500 Like it's like Bradley your friend Bradley I lo if I 226 00:11:50,500 --> 00:11:53,000 supposed by him. I like and comment what I mean. 227 00:11:54,400 --> 00:11:56,700 But obviously. That's not bad to be hidden. 228 00:11:57,000 --> 00:11:57,700 Yeah. Mmm. 229 00:11:58,100 --> 00:12:00,500 No. But it's like he's adding value. 230 00:12:02,200 --> 00:12:04,200 Lying about your relationship status online. 231 00:12:04,200 --> 00:12:09,000 That's a big one. Hmm, giving you a phone at all. 232 00:12:09,000 --> 00:12:11,400 This is installing some, when you're single and you aren't 233 00:12:11,500 --> 00:12:13,300 sending someone photos of yourself. 234 00:12:15,200 --> 00:12:18,900 What about this one? Talking about your sex, life, 235 00:12:19,200 --> 00:12:23,300 AKA sexting or sending nude pics to someone else. 236 00:12:23,300 --> 00:12:25,600 That's definitely Michael. Yeah, I think that's macro 237 00:12:25,600 --> 00:12:27,600 cheating. That is big cheat. 238 00:12:29,700 --> 00:12:32,000 It's funny because some people don't consider these things to 239 00:12:32,000 --> 00:12:34,000 be cheating because it's not physical. 240 00:12:34,800 --> 00:12:39,100 Yeah, but I think it's the emotional part is pretty much 241 00:12:39,100 --> 00:12:42,900 what's worse about eating, some people, would ya, Aaron like 242 00:12:42,900 --> 00:12:45,600 open relationships and stuff. Probably coming from a 243 00:12:45,600 --> 00:12:49,300 monogamous. Yes, point of view definitely we 244 00:12:49,300 --> 00:12:53,900 don't swing a damn days so if you're into that that's awesome. 245 00:12:54,100 --> 00:12:57,300 But yeah, when you think about it, the one of the most hurtful 246 00:12:57,600 --> 00:13:04,200 things about physical, Affair is Hawaii, the lying, the deceits, 247 00:13:04,300 --> 00:13:08,900 the emotional, yeah, part of it. And so this I would be pretty be 248 00:13:08,900 --> 00:13:10,700 pissed if you went bam, someone else's. 249 00:13:10,700 --> 00:13:13,100 Well, I would be very angry. Yeah, I mean, the physical 250 00:13:13,100 --> 00:13:17,400 obviously hurts as Well, but I reckon all of it would be a 251 00:13:17,700 --> 00:13:19,400 collection of go fuck yourself. Yes. 252 00:13:19,400 --> 00:13:21,900 And none of this, I would consider micro cheating 253 00:13:21,900 --> 00:13:25,400 cheating. Yes, what do you? 254 00:13:25,500 --> 00:13:28,300 What do you reckon about this? One joining your boss for happy 255 00:13:28,300 --> 00:13:30,400 hour. Behind your partner's back. 256 00:13:31,500 --> 00:13:33,100 It 10. That's very specific. 257 00:13:33,100 --> 00:13:35,600 Yeah. That's very very specific again 258 00:13:35,600 --> 00:13:37,700 intent. It's like well, why are you 259 00:13:37,708 --> 00:13:39,400 doing that? Behind your partner's back? 260 00:13:39,400 --> 00:13:45,200 Yeah, your boss. I don't think going to drink if 261 00:13:45,200 --> 00:13:47,200 you feel. You might be micro cheating on 262 00:13:47,200 --> 00:13:51,900 your significant other consider self reflecting and examining 263 00:13:52,200 --> 00:13:55,500 the intentions behind your actions, only you know how you 264 00:13:55,500 --> 00:13:58,900 feel and what your motives are but it's crucial that you take a 265 00:13:58,900 --> 00:14:03,400 good hard look at yourself and be About whether your act or 266 00:14:03,400 --> 00:14:05,100 whether you acted inappropriately. 267 00:14:05,700 --> 00:14:09,600 Ultimately what matters, the most of the things that directly 268 00:14:09,600 --> 00:14:13,400 impacting you your partner, and your relationship signs that you 269 00:14:13,400 --> 00:14:17,600 may be micro cheating. Include one, you're obsessed 270 00:14:17,600 --> 00:14:21,200 with being online on your phone, social media for the purposes of 271 00:14:21,200 --> 00:14:23,700 giving and receiving attention from people. 272 00:14:23,700 --> 00:14:28,900 You find attractive You present yourself a single online or in 273 00:14:28,900 --> 00:14:31,200 real life. Do you have you posted a photo 274 00:14:31,200 --> 00:14:34,300 about me really recently, probably, if I went on your 275 00:14:34,300 --> 00:14:38,500 Instagram would I see, Amy Shepherd, but I send me on your 276 00:14:38,500 --> 00:14:43,100 profile, let me see. It's been a while, actually, 277 00:14:43,100 --> 00:14:45,000 looking. Oh, my flipping God. 278 00:14:46,200 --> 00:14:48,100 See my point. Hmm. 279 00:14:48,900 --> 00:14:51,200 How how old are you scrolling for? 280 00:14:51,200 --> 00:14:57,400 No, it's not that far. It's this one here. 82 January. 281 00:14:58,400 --> 00:15:00,000 So it's been a. Did I cheat on you? 282 00:15:00,000 --> 00:15:00,600 No. No. 283 00:15:00,900 --> 00:15:03,800 Did you tell me? Here's one from Tamworth. 22nd 284 00:15:03,800 --> 00:15:05,100 of January. Yeah. 285 00:15:05,100 --> 00:15:06,900 But I post about you regularly as well. 286 00:15:06,900 --> 00:15:09,300 So I think, I don't think you're always on mr. 287 00:15:09,300 --> 00:15:11,500 I don't think it's a secret. Lucky that go ahead. 288 00:15:11,700 --> 00:15:13,800 I think you're hiding me from the world. 289 00:15:16,200 --> 00:15:18,000 Yeah, you have been in my stories though. 290 00:15:18,000 --> 00:15:21,100 Let's be real. And in my highlights I've got 291 00:15:21,300 --> 00:15:23,100 wedding day. Yeah. 292 00:15:23,100 --> 00:15:25,400 But that could be an old wedding I can ex wedding. 293 00:15:26,000 --> 00:15:27,900 You know. Oh yeah. 294 00:15:28,500 --> 00:15:29,900 So I just went for a run as well. 295 00:15:30,700 --> 00:15:34,700 Is there anything you wanted to add to Actually, I think we're 296 00:15:34,700 --> 00:15:38,200 on this, right? Yeah, I just couldn't be fact 297 00:15:38,200 --> 00:15:41,700 even when we're in cans, like that the main reason I apply 298 00:15:41,700 --> 00:15:46,000 even even when we're in Cannes, I'm like one thing I enjoy about 299 00:15:46,000 --> 00:15:47,500 you and I say the limb and George's. 300 00:15:47,500 --> 00:15:49,800 I thought one thing we'd enjoy about you and Emma as you're not 301 00:15:49,800 --> 00:15:54,300 caught up in all that gossip drama bitchy high school stuff. 302 00:15:54,900 --> 00:15:58,900 So for me, I was like I couldn't even be bothered to go into the 303 00:15:58,900 --> 00:16:02,300 pub just for the fact that, you know, someone might come up to 304 00:16:02,300 --> 00:16:03,800 even when you're sitting at a table with blows. 305 00:16:03,800 --> 00:16:06,600 I'm like, I just don't even want to have that conversation to say 306 00:16:06,600 --> 00:16:10,700 to someone and people think, maybe think that's weird but 307 00:16:10,700 --> 00:16:17,200 it's got a photo with George. Well, that's different. 308 00:16:17,200 --> 00:16:19,400 But that was that was when we didn't really go out. 309 00:16:19,400 --> 00:16:21,800 We went for that lunch. Anyone said that? 310 00:16:21,800 --> 00:16:24,200 Like, I don't consider you cheated on, no. 311 00:16:24,200 --> 00:16:27,200 Well, I don't and I'm not a, I'm not a bad person. 312 00:16:27,400 --> 00:16:30,400 Like, fuck off. But it's like the other week 313 00:16:30,400 --> 00:16:32,600 when someone put their number in your. 314 00:16:33,200 --> 00:16:38,000 Yeah, and I appreciate that you told me and because if you had a 315 00:16:38,008 --> 00:16:42,000 black text to her Madden that I know people do. 316 00:16:42,700 --> 00:16:43,400 Yeah. I don't know. 317 00:16:43,700 --> 00:16:45,700 These are my comfy. I'm too busy. 318 00:16:45,700 --> 00:16:48,600 Trying to get you to flirt with me, let alone trying for strike 319 00:16:48,600 --> 00:16:53,200 up a new flame. Yeah, but, I mean, what about if 320 00:16:55,400 --> 00:16:57,200 you know, in some people like, take it the wrong way. 321 00:16:57,300 --> 00:16:59,600 Way, like your friendly to someone, and they think that 322 00:16:59,600 --> 00:17:01,600 you're flirting with them. Yeah, I have you had that 323 00:17:01,600 --> 00:17:07,099 happen. I need to be a specific time, 324 00:17:07,099 --> 00:17:10,500 but I'm definitely, but more aware of it than I used to. 325 00:17:10,700 --> 00:17:14,400 And then, the more calm I always try and drop in, like, oh, my 326 00:17:14,400 --> 00:17:17,500 husband is so much more than that because that kind of sets 327 00:17:17,500 --> 00:17:20,700 the tone and the batteries. Because I've noticed, if I don't 328 00:17:20,700 --> 00:17:24,300 say that and I'm in a good conversation with a male, 329 00:17:24,400 --> 00:17:26,800 sometimes they might like wow this girl is really nice. 330 00:17:27,599 --> 00:17:29,800 Secretive and hot. Ha ha. 331 00:17:30,200 --> 00:17:33,000 No, just kidding. But yeah, I think it's kind of, 332 00:17:33,900 --> 00:17:35,600 I don't know. I just tried to throw that in 333 00:17:35,600 --> 00:17:37,500 there. Just to strategic. 334 00:17:37,500 --> 00:17:42,000 Yeah, or just post more about me on Instagram, do you post? 335 00:17:42,000 --> 00:17:48,000 It would be nice actually. It's only creeps flipping Crepes 336 00:17:49,500 --> 00:17:53,800 anyway, I was, I was feeling it today from the Bucks party. 337 00:17:54,000 --> 00:17:57,900 I went for a run. Yeah, and I Post it. 338 00:17:58,000 --> 00:18:03,800 I said I says to everyone I says after a weekend of beers clink, 339 00:18:03,800 --> 00:18:07,000 clink the avoid exercise or do you rip into it? 340 00:18:07,700 --> 00:18:09,900 What do you do? I just try and stick to my 341 00:18:09,900 --> 00:18:12,800 routine. So you rip in my ribbon if I can 342 00:18:12,800 --> 00:18:15,500 Earth but I don't like if I'm feeling really shit, I'm not 343 00:18:15,500 --> 00:18:21,700 gonna like pound yourself myself, but that's your job. 344 00:18:22,200 --> 00:18:29,300 Oh no, I don't know. I felt like I like Sunday. 345 00:18:29,300 --> 00:18:31,600 I had off and normally it's going to be hungover it to 346 00:18:31,600 --> 00:18:35,100 Sunday, so I'm very stoked that so far. 32 people on my 347 00:18:35,100 --> 00:18:40,600 Instagram last 46 minutes have said, hey I rip in and not one 348 00:18:40,600 --> 00:18:44,800 person has said I avoid it. I've got some very fit 349 00:18:44,800 --> 00:18:47,500 followers, ladies and gentlemen, go very fitful. 350 00:18:47,500 --> 00:18:49,000 You always feel better after work out. 351 00:18:49,000 --> 00:18:52,200 If you don't like totally smash self, we can get those 352 00:18:52,200 --> 00:18:54,100 endorphins pumping and it just gets you back on track. 353 00:18:54,200 --> 00:18:57,500 Yeah and because if I have Monday's off like it just Sets 354 00:18:57,500 --> 00:19:02,400 up your week, badly, and mmm, I just like to even if I just get 355 00:19:02,400 --> 00:19:05,200 to the gym and sit on the bike, I'm feeling really bad. 356 00:19:05,200 --> 00:19:08,500 At least I can say that I went to the gym and I think that 357 00:19:08,500 --> 00:19:10,600 it's, yeah, it's just the whole routine thing that makes the 358 00:19:10,600 --> 00:19:12,800 difference. Yeah, you just kind of get a gym 359 00:19:15,300 --> 00:19:17,000 or just go for a walk. Didn't steal anything. 360 00:19:19,300 --> 00:19:20,200 Yeah. Nice. 361 00:19:20,200 --> 00:19:22,500 That was a lovely conversation short and sharp. 362 00:19:23,000 --> 00:19:25,000 All right. Well should we do Pepe's? 363 00:19:25,000 --> 00:19:29,300 We should I feel like I've had this one before, but I'm going 364 00:19:29,300 --> 00:19:31,000 to say it again. Just did it. 365 00:19:31,000 --> 00:19:35,200 Did why is it that every time I clean the house, and it takes 366 00:19:35,700 --> 00:19:37,500 bloody long time to clean this house. 367 00:19:37,500 --> 00:19:39,800 I do recall. When I spoke to you on Sunday, 368 00:19:39,800 --> 00:19:42,500 you did get it cleaner in Sunday. 369 00:19:43,300 --> 00:19:44,000 Okay. Karen. 370 00:19:44,600 --> 00:19:49,300 But because I was just totally overwhelmed and slammed But 371 00:19:49,500 --> 00:19:52,400 normally we don't have a cleaner and I am the cleaner scrubbing, 372 00:19:52,400 --> 00:19:55,000 the toilets yeah, wiping everything down. 373 00:19:55,000 --> 00:19:58,700 And without a without fail, every time I clean the bathroom 374 00:19:58,700 --> 00:20:03,900 you come along and shave your electric razor. 375 00:20:04,400 --> 00:20:10,700 And take a shit, Astro shag shit shower, shave get he's and then 376 00:20:10,700 --> 00:20:14,100 you leave your beard hairs all in the sink. 377 00:20:15,000 --> 00:20:18,500 Even if you are, can we clarify? Are you saying I leave skitty's 378 00:20:18,500 --> 00:20:21,000 end? And shavings in the, in the 379 00:20:21,000 --> 00:20:24,700 bathroom sink, it he's in the toilet and never do that. 380 00:20:24,800 --> 00:20:29,300 And then shaving clippings in the sink. 381 00:20:29,300 --> 00:20:32,400 And even if you wash them down, there's always tiny ones in the 382 00:20:32,400 --> 00:20:34,600 little nooks and crannies are. Do you get around that? 383 00:20:34,900 --> 00:20:39,600 I don't have to get a cloth. Yeah, get the cleaning stuff out 384 00:20:39,700 --> 00:20:46,300 and wipe it down again properly. Alright, that's my pet peeve. 385 00:20:46,300 --> 00:20:49,700 And that's my goal for you. My dear, what's yours? 386 00:20:50,500 --> 00:20:52,700 I forgot my pet peeve, now because I'm already pissed off 387 00:20:52,700 --> 00:20:58,400 from that. I did actually forget it. 388 00:20:58,800 --> 00:21:01,300 What was it? My brain is not firing on all 389 00:21:01,300 --> 00:21:05,200 cylinders. Actually that yes, thank you for 390 00:21:05,200 --> 00:21:09,200 reminding me last night every night. 391 00:21:09,900 --> 00:21:14,900 If we go to bed well regardless of what time and I've definitely 392 00:21:14,900 --> 00:21:16,600 said this but it still has not improved. 393 00:21:16,600 --> 00:21:19,300 It's actually probably gotten worse last night. 394 00:21:19,300 --> 00:21:24,800 I got into bed at 8:45 and I don't think you got in till 395 00:21:24,800 --> 00:21:30,600 9:30. You took so bloody long to get 396 00:21:30,600 --> 00:21:35,100 your face done. Like, I cannot many steps 397 00:21:35,100 --> 00:21:40,100 comprehend. What the fuck you were doing in 398 00:21:40,100 --> 00:21:41,300 that? That long ladies. 399 00:21:41,300 --> 00:21:45,900 Back me up on this one, 45 minutes essential that you using 400 00:21:45,900 --> 00:21:48,700 a retinol. You got all that cleansing that 401 00:21:48,700 --> 00:21:51,800 you're exfoliating that. You're using vitamin C 402 00:21:51,800 --> 00:21:54,300 hydroponic. A dinner, what it does it leads 403 00:21:54,300 --> 00:21:59,600 to micro cheating Why? Because the better, you look, 404 00:21:59,600 --> 00:22:03,700 the more you hit on people. I don't know who your flat 405 00:22:04,400 --> 00:22:06,500 bathroom, but actually, I'm kind of regretting my skincare 406 00:22:06,500 --> 00:22:10,900 routine last night because I had a fake tan and it's all like my 407 00:22:10,900 --> 00:22:12,700 face is all peeling my neck. Yeah. 408 00:22:12,700 --> 00:22:18,200 I was wondering what was going on there hashtags and as take 409 00:22:18,200 --> 00:22:19,600 Faith, 10 left. Mmm. 410 00:22:20,400 --> 00:22:22,100 Well, tomorrow's Valentine's Day. 411 00:22:22,400 --> 00:22:24,900 Yes, it is. Happy Valentine's Day, sometimes 412 00:22:24,900 --> 00:22:29,000 day, every one day. I don't know the boys version of 413 00:22:29,000 --> 00:22:34,200 that is, but why Fred love far and wide but don't micro cheat 414 00:22:35,700 --> 00:22:37,400 reckon. I'll get a flirtatious message 415 00:22:37,400 --> 00:22:39,600 tomorrow everyone if you're lucky right? 416 00:22:40,800 --> 00:22:43,500 What if not next week? It's a week after my birthday. 417 00:22:44,600 --> 00:22:47,700 Shirley well we've got a lovely dinner planned. 418 00:22:47,700 --> 00:22:53,200 We where we going again? We're going somewhere. 419 00:22:53,700 --> 00:22:57,000 Yeah, I kind of remember and we are having a lovely seafood 420 00:22:57,000 --> 00:23:01,700 dinner just going to be nice. And we've got a voucher to use, 421 00:23:01,700 --> 00:23:06,600 which is great. So when does this episode come 422 00:23:06,600 --> 00:23:10,200 out tomorrow? No, as in like for those who are 423 00:23:10,208 --> 00:23:11,500 listening. It's already out. 424 00:23:11,700 --> 00:23:13,200 Obviously. Happy Valentine's Day. 425 00:23:13,300 --> 00:23:16,000 Happy Val's. Yeah. 426 00:23:16,100 --> 00:23:19,600 Remember you don't have to have a partner to spread the love and 427 00:23:19,600 --> 00:23:20,100 joy. Oi. 428 00:23:20,100 --> 00:23:22,400 So, but if you're spreading the love and joy to someone who does 429 00:23:22,400 --> 00:23:24,500 have a partner, they do micro cheeks. 430 00:23:24,900 --> 00:23:26,800 We've learned a lot today. Yeah, busted. 431 00:23:27,600 --> 00:23:30,900 All right, you know what to do? Like, share subscribe. 432 00:23:31,600 --> 00:23:33,200 We've actually had to guess on next week. 433 00:23:33,800 --> 00:23:36,000 I'm really excited so much, it's gonna be interested. 434 00:23:36,000 --> 00:23:38,400 You're going to be a deep conversation or will it be like? 435 00:23:38,900 --> 00:23:41,200 I think you'll be very educational one. 436 00:23:41,200 --> 00:23:44,900 Mmm. Yeah, I'm really excited for us 437 00:23:44,900 --> 00:23:47,400 to be good, but that'll be cool. Depending on how much they want 438 00:23:47,400 --> 00:23:50,200 to delve into. I'm good at getting information 439 00:23:50,200 --> 00:23:51,800 out of people. Okay, they call me the 440 00:23:51,800 --> 00:23:55,900 extractor. Alright. 441 00:23:55,900 --> 00:23:58,500 Alright who everybody who to the roux. 442 00:23:43,000 --> 00:23:46,300 Yeah, I'm really excited for us to be good, but that'll be cool. 443 00:23:46,500 --> 00:23:48,700 Depending on how much they want to delve into. 444 00:23:48,700 --> 00:23:50,800 I'm good at getting information out of people. 445 00:23:50,900 --> 00:23:52,700 Okay, they call me the extractor. 446 00:23:55,300 --> 00:23:57,800 Alright. Alright who everybody who to the 447 00:23:57,800 --> 00:23:58,500 roux.