1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,920 Welcome back to Couple Goals. We're here again. 2 00:00:03,200 --> 00:00:08,680 Episode 1818 season 218. Jeez, this year has just flown 3 00:00:08,960 --> 00:00:11,520 by. Honestly can't believe that it's 4 00:00:12,240 --> 00:00:14,040 nearly the end of November there's. 5 00:00:14,040 --> 00:00:17,400 Literally six weeks left until Christmas or five, five and a 6 00:00:17,400 --> 00:00:18,960 bit. Let's go between that. 7 00:00:18,960 --> 00:00:21,880 What did you ask Santa for this? Year, you don't want to know, 8 00:00:22,840 --> 00:00:25,640 but I was on the nice list, so it's looking good for me. 9 00:00:25,640 --> 00:00:26,400 What'd you get? What'd? 10 00:00:27,440 --> 00:00:33,440 You ask for, I asked for a Gucci bag. 11 00:00:33,520 --> 00:00:35,360 A Gucci bag. I. 12 00:00:35,760 --> 00:00:39,240 Asked for a Gucci bag of all the things in the world. 13 00:00:39,520 --> 00:00:45,200 Champagne new golden goose shoes. 14 00:00:45,320 --> 00:00:47,240 Do you think I'm on the naughty list or the nice? 15 00:00:47,240 --> 00:00:49,640 You haven't been that nice. Let's just say that. 16 00:00:50,200 --> 00:00:52,040 That's a lot of niceness going out there. 17 00:00:52,720 --> 00:00:54,400 Do you think you've been nice enough for all of that? 18 00:00:54,400 --> 00:00:56,080 You know what I think I'm getting for Christmas? 19 00:00:59,200 --> 00:01:02,040 Sweet FA. Sweet four call. 20 00:01:02,480 --> 00:01:03,440 Now we're not doing presents. We're. 21 00:01:03,480 --> 00:01:04,560 Flying. We'll be on. 22 00:01:04,840 --> 00:01:06,120 We'll be in transit. Oh my. 23 00:01:06,280 --> 00:01:08,600 Gosh, I am. So you'll probably get a nice 24 00:01:09,520 --> 00:01:11,160 aeroplane meal. Yay. 25 00:01:11,400 --> 00:01:13,640 Maybe they'll give you a dessert because it's Christmas. 26 00:01:14,440 --> 00:01:17,520 Who knows? It's taking all of my strength 27 00:01:17,640 --> 00:01:21,760 not to purchase anything at the Black Friday sales. 28 00:01:21,800 --> 00:01:23,560 Like I keep getting these emails. 29 00:01:23,560 --> 00:01:26,120 How long has Black Friday been a thing for? 30 00:01:27,840 --> 00:01:30,760 I think a while, but it's more, it was more an American thing, 31 00:01:30,760 --> 00:01:32,400 but with the rise of social media. 32 00:01:32,440 --> 00:01:37,440 It's yeah, we've adopted it because I've never done one. 33 00:01:37,440 --> 00:01:39,680 And then when it popped up the other day, I was, I'm sure I've 34 00:01:39,680 --> 00:01:43,680 got no, actually someone asked Emma if they could have the 35 00:01:43,680 --> 00:01:46,320 program that she's doing. And I was like, I've got like 36 00:01:46,320 --> 00:01:51,040 heaps of programs from back in the day for running programs, 37 00:01:51,040 --> 00:01:53,240 hybrid program or strength and conditioning, but it's now 38 00:01:53,240 --> 00:01:56,880 called hybrid because it's cool and strength programs. 39 00:01:56,880 --> 00:01:59,000 And I was like, I'm just going to whip together a Black Friday 40 00:01:59,000 --> 00:01:59,360 sale. Awesome. 41 00:01:59,720 --> 00:02:01,880 But then I started thinking, how long has it been around for? 42 00:02:01,880 --> 00:02:03,400 And. I feel like it's just getting 43 00:02:03,400 --> 00:02:05,680 bigger and bigger. Yeah, the some of the discounts 44 00:02:05,680 --> 00:02:08,639 are insane, Yeah. I think they're bigger than the 45 00:02:08,759 --> 00:02:09,680 Boxing Day sales. Now. 46 00:02:09,759 --> 00:02:13,240 Remember Boxing Day sales? Yeah, and but it makes you 47 00:02:13,240 --> 00:02:19,040 realize how much of A charge up businesses put on their 48 00:02:19,040 --> 00:02:20,760 products. I know, but I think also they 49 00:02:20,760 --> 00:02:22,480 have to to survive. Yeah. 50 00:02:22,480 --> 00:02:24,160 Especially if you've got a shop front. 51 00:02:24,200 --> 00:02:26,160 Like how are you going to pay your staff members? 52 00:02:26,160 --> 00:02:31,120 Are you going to pay the wages? I don't know, I feel like some 53 00:02:31,120 --> 00:02:33,200 of the multipliers are pretty, pretty juicy. 54 00:02:33,720 --> 00:02:35,560 That's true too. I mean, we live in. 55 00:02:35,960 --> 00:02:37,800 Yeah. Crazy side. 56 00:02:37,800 --> 00:02:40,120 Inflated economies, but that's all good. 57 00:02:40,880 --> 00:02:43,920 We just went for a walk as well. We were trying to get some 58 00:02:43,920 --> 00:02:45,640 inspiration for today's episode. Look. 59 00:02:45,640 --> 00:02:49,920 It's been a bit of AI, wouldn't say lazy week, but an uneventful 60 00:02:49,920 --> 00:02:52,160 week for us. We've just been sort of laying 61 00:02:52,160 --> 00:02:54,400 low. It was such a rainy day 62 00:02:54,400 --> 00:02:57,080 yesterday, so Emma and I cleaned up our wardrobes. 63 00:02:58,000 --> 00:02:59,560 Stay tuned because we might do a sale. 64 00:03:00,640 --> 00:03:03,880 Black Friday sale. Many clothes, but they're also 65 00:03:03,880 --> 00:03:07,200 good clothes that we just like don't want to throw away. 66 00:03:07,440 --> 00:03:10,040 I mean, we'll definitely donate some, but there's there's some I 67 00:03:10,040 --> 00:03:11,800 feel like could be go to a new home. 68 00:03:11,800 --> 00:03:15,320 And so we're going through the process of sorting all of that. 69 00:03:15,600 --> 00:03:17,760 It's almost too much hassle to sell them though. 70 00:03:17,760 --> 00:03:20,120 That's the problem. That's why it's easier to just 71 00:03:20,120 --> 00:03:22,720 give it away. Yeah, I actually have a bunch of 72 00:03:22,720 --> 00:03:26,480 clothes that I've intended on selling because they're designer 73 00:03:26,480 --> 00:03:27,120 clothes. Yeah. 74 00:03:27,880 --> 00:03:29,840 And then I ended up just giving them away because I was like, I 75 00:03:29,840 --> 00:03:31,640 just can't. Yeah, give them away. 76 00:03:31,880 --> 00:03:32,560 Donate. Donate. 77 00:03:32,560 --> 00:03:34,800 Get them out of our room though. My auntie also has a vintage 78 00:03:34,800 --> 00:03:36,880 shop. Shout out to Sassy Sue's. 79 00:03:36,920 --> 00:03:38,960 It's in Kalgoorlie and so. Maybe you should sell them to 80 00:03:39,000 --> 00:03:40,720 her well. We just give them to her. 81 00:03:40,720 --> 00:03:43,360 She's our auntie, so. Yeah, but if she's profiting, 82 00:03:43,360 --> 00:03:48,560 you should profit enough. Kidding, but questions. 83 00:03:48,560 --> 00:03:50,680 You've, you've got some questions there for us to go 84 00:03:50,680 --> 00:03:51,840 through. Yeah, we thought we'd do a 85 00:03:51,840 --> 00:03:55,120 little quick fire. Quick. 86 00:03:55,120 --> 00:03:56,120 Rapid fire. Rapid fire. 87 00:03:56,920 --> 00:03:58,400 Yeah. Questionnaire. 88 00:03:58,480 --> 00:03:59,960 We are. For those who are watching on 89 00:03:59,960 --> 00:04:04,720 Patreon as well, you'll see that I'm diligently holding a little 90 00:04:04,720 --> 00:04:07,560 microphone. So we say this every week. 91 00:04:08,120 --> 00:04:11,280 Obviously we're all sharing a house together at the moment. 92 00:04:11,280 --> 00:04:14,400 And it's not like our forever house meeting. 93 00:04:14,400 --> 00:04:16,680 We're not we're not going to move things around and set 94 00:04:16,680 --> 00:04:20,200 things up permanently. So we're constantly fighting for 95 00:04:20,200 --> 00:04:22,600 space. And at the moment I'm sitting on 96 00:04:23,000 --> 00:04:25,400 Amy's, probably sitting on George's laptop because he was 97 00:04:25,400 --> 00:04:30,480 making music last night. So rather than continuing, 98 00:04:30,480 --> 00:04:33,320 because one of my biggest pet peeves is setting up the podcast 99 00:04:33,320 --> 00:04:36,640 stuff, it's it's, it's quite frustrating. 100 00:04:36,640 --> 00:04:39,920 So ideal one day to have our own studio like. 101 00:04:39,920 --> 00:04:43,160 We did it in Kangaroo Point. Was well, but like a property. 102 00:04:43,200 --> 00:04:45,600 Set up, there's always like a backdrop and we can just sit. 103 00:04:45,600 --> 00:04:47,960 Just makes it easy. Like flick a switch and off we 104 00:04:48,000 --> 00:04:48,760 go. Yeah. 105 00:04:49,040 --> 00:04:51,960 So I just thought rather than setting that up, we'll use a 106 00:04:51,960 --> 00:04:53,440 lapel mic. We tested it. 107 00:04:53,440 --> 00:04:54,480 It sounded great. It's. 108 00:04:54,600 --> 00:04:57,080 A powerful little guy. It is a powerful and look, we 109 00:04:57,080 --> 00:05:01,080 should probably how it how it how it handles it. 110 00:05:01,080 --> 00:05:03,560 That's right. And we should buy. 111 00:05:03,600 --> 00:05:06,480 I should buy another one, and I probably will at some point, but 112 00:05:06,480 --> 00:05:08,640 for the moment it's picking up both of our voices. 113 00:05:08,720 --> 00:05:12,760 Like Friday sales grab 1 mid one just. 114 00:05:12,760 --> 00:05:15,320 One just throwing money out the door, but no. 115 00:05:15,320 --> 00:05:18,800 So we were on a show also called Couple Goals. 116 00:05:18,800 --> 00:05:22,360 Not going to say that they stole our name, stole our name, but 117 00:05:23,200 --> 00:05:26,440 well, they were established in 2024. 118 00:05:26,440 --> 00:05:31,960 We were established in 2022. So we'll let you guys decide who 119 00:05:31,960 --> 00:05:34,320 was first. Logic wins. 120 00:05:35,400 --> 00:05:38,320 But we thought this week we would ask each other some 121 00:05:38,320 --> 00:05:42,000 questions that will help us get to know each other a little bit 122 00:05:42,000 --> 00:05:45,040 more, but also help you guys get to know us a little bit more. 123 00:05:45,240 --> 00:05:46,920 I'm hoping they're not all serious. 124 00:05:47,880 --> 00:05:49,560 Are they all serious? I haven't read them. 125 00:05:49,600 --> 00:05:51,680 OK, Amy hasn't read them, so there's no prep. 126 00:05:51,680 --> 00:05:54,760 This is straight off the cup. All right, So are. 127 00:05:55,280 --> 00:05:56,320 We going to take. Turns. 128 00:05:56,320 --> 00:05:57,640 Yeah, we're going to go. You go, I go. 129 00:05:57,640 --> 00:06:01,440 OK, All right, let's go. What is a defining moment in 130 00:06:01,440 --> 00:06:05,040 your life that shaped who you are today, and how does it 131 00:06:05,040 --> 00:06:07,480 influence the way you approach our relationship? 132 00:06:07,840 --> 00:06:10,440 Wow. Also, should we turn our caps 133 00:06:10,440 --> 00:06:12,520 backwards so people can see our lovely faces? 134 00:06:13,280 --> 00:06:17,080 Just thought that. So a a defining. 135 00:06:17,080 --> 00:06:21,840 Let me have a look a defining moment. 136 00:06:22,160 --> 00:06:24,680 What's a defining moment in your life that shapes who you are 137 00:06:24,720 --> 00:06:26,840 today, and how does it influence the way you approach our 138 00:06:26,840 --> 00:06:29,440 relationship? A defining moment. 139 00:06:31,040 --> 00:06:33,480 I've got so many defined by so many. 140 00:06:33,800 --> 00:06:37,920 I think starting a business, especially in men's health, 141 00:06:37,920 --> 00:06:43,200 because it came off the back of me needing to sort my shit out. 142 00:06:43,760 --> 00:06:47,640 And as a result of that, now I get to work with other people 143 00:06:47,640 --> 00:06:50,480 going through different things, which constantly reminds me of 144 00:06:50,800 --> 00:06:54,920 what I've got to lose if I don't maintain the standards that I've 145 00:06:55,360 --> 00:06:56,600 built or the habits that I've built. 146 00:06:56,600 --> 00:06:58,880 So I think that's a defining moment, how it's helped me in 147 00:06:58,880 --> 00:07:01,280 the relationship. I see so many people going 148 00:07:01,280 --> 00:07:04,920 through divorces and, or even just relationship breakdown and 149 00:07:04,920 --> 00:07:10,680 how it just destroys them. And so for me, it's made me and 150 00:07:10,680 --> 00:07:15,880 I'm not perfect, but I try to not take you for granted 151 00:07:16,960 --> 00:07:17,560 regularly. Oh. 152 00:07:19,080 --> 00:07:20,240 Thanks. Really. 153 00:07:20,240 --> 00:07:21,720 Peace. OK. 154 00:07:22,720 --> 00:07:25,040 We're not going to ask each other the same questions either. 155 00:07:25,040 --> 00:07:30,040 So what's something you've always wanted me to understand 156 00:07:30,040 --> 00:07:33,160 about you, but you've never been able to put into words? 157 00:07:34,640 --> 00:07:37,480 It's a weird question. That's a deep I feel like you 158 00:07:37,560 --> 00:07:38,600 understand. Me pretty well. 159 00:07:38,840 --> 00:07:43,360 You're quite an emotionally intelligent person. 160 00:07:46,040 --> 00:07:49,840 I don't think you understand my innate desire to have to buy a 161 00:07:49,840 --> 00:07:56,760 piece of clothing every week. Where does that come from? 162 00:07:56,760 --> 00:07:59,400 What do you feel the need to do? That but I do feel the need why 163 00:07:59,440 --> 00:08:01,880 to buy it. What are you trying to validate? 164 00:08:02,160 --> 00:08:05,200 I just what hole are you trying? To I mean ladies, I'm sure you 165 00:08:05,200 --> 00:08:08,840 can all corroborate this with with me. 166 00:08:08,840 --> 00:08:10,480 Does that make sense? Corroborate. 167 00:08:10,520 --> 00:08:14,600 Or would it be corroborate? Anyway, or sympathise with me 168 00:08:14,600 --> 00:08:19,480 because you just get, I think it's just like the marketing you 169 00:08:19,480 --> 00:08:23,920 get targeted so many ads, social media and just to wear something 170 00:08:23,920 --> 00:08:25,880 new is like. The best? 171 00:08:25,880 --> 00:08:28,360 Feeling but you feel like hot and like. 172 00:08:28,560 --> 00:08:31,200 But do you not feel hot if you wear old clothes? 173 00:08:32,200 --> 00:08:35,000 I do, but not as hot, not as it's not a thrill. 174 00:08:35,880 --> 00:08:39,159 I don't know what it is. Interesting. 175 00:08:40,159 --> 00:08:42,280 Oh, it's always just you feel so good when you wear something 176 00:08:42,280 --> 00:08:43,360 new. I don't know what it is. 177 00:08:43,360 --> 00:08:48,880 It's just like a fresh look. You feel in style, you don't 178 00:08:48,880 --> 00:08:51,480 feel tired. It's funny because when hearing 179 00:08:51,480 --> 00:08:54,160 you say that, I like to literally wear my stuff until 180 00:08:54,520 --> 00:08:56,680 it's got holes in it. I was literally saying to Amy 181 00:08:56,680 --> 00:08:58,800 the other day, like most of my pairs of jocks have holes 182 00:08:58,800 --> 00:09:01,760 somewhere in them. And I've got a new, new set of 183 00:09:01,760 --> 00:09:05,480 seven coming, which is exciting. But even like this I can 184 00:09:05,480 --> 00:09:06,880 understand like when you put a new shirt on. 185 00:09:06,880 --> 00:09:10,320 But for me, it's like if I always needed to wear new 186 00:09:10,320 --> 00:09:12,560 clothes at one, I'd spend a lot of money, but I wouldn't get the 187 00:09:12,560 --> 00:09:15,880 use out of what I've purchased. And so therefore I just wear all 188 00:09:15,920 --> 00:09:18,360 the It's a. Good way to be and I'm trying. 189 00:09:18,800 --> 00:09:22,720 Very well. I'm doing well and there's 190 00:09:22,760 --> 00:09:24,560 always something to buy. You know, that's what I had to 191 00:09:24,600 --> 00:09:28,560 tell myself when I want to go buy peace because I'm like, you 192 00:09:28,560 --> 00:09:31,520 know, you get caught up in the the good deals, but I just 193 00:09:31,520 --> 00:09:34,840 think, you know what, come Boxing Day, there's going to be 194 00:09:34,880 --> 00:09:37,600 something else to buy. Well, I can appreciate it like 195 00:09:37,600 --> 00:09:40,200 if it makes you feel good, but there's got to be like a fine 196 00:09:40,200 --> 00:09:45,880 line between needing it and just, you know, treating 197 00:09:45,880 --> 00:09:48,640 yourself every now and then sort of thing. 198 00:09:48,640 --> 00:09:51,920 Because I've I've, well, it's. Just like Mexico, it's like this 199 00:09:52,840 --> 00:09:57,400 innate desire to buy a new wardrobe, like all new pieces to 200 00:09:57,400 --> 00:09:59,600 take. Because I know that's what the 201 00:09:59,600 --> 00:10:01,360 other girls are going to do, that's what they're doing. 202 00:10:01,880 --> 00:10:03,400 But who? So I don't want to be. 203 00:10:03,400 --> 00:10:07,120 The only one in old clothes. Who actually cares? 204 00:10:08,000 --> 00:10:11,080 Do do you notice that the girls will sit around at drinks and go 205 00:10:11,080 --> 00:10:16,400 Oh my God, Amy 2021 No, do do girls do that or. 206 00:10:16,840 --> 00:10:18,560 No, but it's just like, Oh yeah, I've seen that. 207 00:10:18,560 --> 00:10:20,320 It's not exciting. I've never had a. 208 00:10:20,320 --> 00:10:22,200 Do they say new and all the girls compliment on it? 209 00:10:22,480 --> 00:10:25,280 I'm sure that'll compliment you anyway, do they not? 210 00:10:25,760 --> 00:10:27,560 Probably. I'm sure they do. 211 00:10:27,560 --> 00:10:29,680 And I know like everyone who's got a really good friends and 212 00:10:29,680 --> 00:10:30,600 they don't. Care. 213 00:10:30,920 --> 00:10:34,080 And I feel like I compliment you daily, whether you're nude or 214 00:10:34,080 --> 00:10:38,360 you're in your pajamas or you're in your workout gear. 215 00:10:38,360 --> 00:10:40,080 I don't. Know you guys, let me know what 216 00:10:40,080 --> 00:10:43,240 you think about that and also like it's just the society and 217 00:10:43,400 --> 00:10:45,320 that we've been bought. Consumerism. 218 00:10:45,320 --> 00:10:49,120 Consumerism and I am aware of it but I can't help it. 219 00:10:49,480 --> 00:10:53,720 So what are your tips to not buying new things? 220 00:10:53,920 --> 00:10:56,080 Actually I saw a really cool thing on Instagram where these 221 00:10:56,080 --> 00:10:59,520 girls got together and they had a Secret Santa but they bought 222 00:10:59,520 --> 00:11:01,280 each other something that was pre loved. 223 00:11:01,560 --> 00:11:03,200 I like that. So they all went to like op 224 00:11:03,200 --> 00:11:06,480 shops and bought something like cool glasses or that was pretty 225 00:11:06,480 --> 00:11:11,640 cool. Yeah, I think about it a lot. 226 00:11:12,080 --> 00:11:15,320 I just think we've everyone focuses so much on stuff that 227 00:11:15,320 --> 00:11:18,760 doesn't really matter in the grand scheme of it. 228 00:11:18,760 --> 00:11:24,960 Like I've lost two friends this week and I think like knowing 229 00:11:24,960 --> 00:11:27,480 like in a in a week's time, people are going to have moved 230 00:11:27,480 --> 00:11:29,520 on. So like when people stress about 231 00:11:29,520 --> 00:11:35,360 their outfits or their whatever, who gives a shit? 232 00:11:35,720 --> 00:11:39,640 Like for me, it's like, I think people's career matters because 233 00:11:40,000 --> 00:11:43,760 most people are like, for example, for you and Shepherd is 234 00:11:43,760 --> 00:11:46,440 like, your music will live on longer than you guys will. 235 00:11:46,520 --> 00:11:48,640 But it also impacts people's lives. 236 00:11:49,120 --> 00:11:51,240 And I think I would like to think my work does. 237 00:11:51,240 --> 00:11:53,720 So I feel like that is a meaningful commitment. 238 00:11:53,720 --> 00:11:56,920 But then when people stress about what food they're going to 239 00:11:56,920 --> 00:12:02,480 eat or how they look or how they want to be seen, for me it's 240 00:12:02,480 --> 00:12:04,440 like it doesn't really matter. Yeah, it doesn't really matter. 241 00:12:04,440 --> 00:12:05,240 It's not. It's small. 242 00:12:05,240 --> 00:12:08,040 People, people literally have anxiety. 243 00:12:08,040 --> 00:12:09,760 And I feel like a. Depression because of it. 244 00:12:09,840 --> 00:12:13,160 I actually don't care as much as a lot of people do. 245 00:12:14,560 --> 00:12:17,480 Like there would be a lot of people who would probably do 246 00:12:17,480 --> 00:12:20,040 full hair and makeup for an episode like this and I just 247 00:12:20,040 --> 00:12:22,920 don't give a shit because I know that my listeners are here, not 248 00:12:22,920 --> 00:12:25,080 for how I look. And you're already married. 249 00:12:25,520 --> 00:12:28,400 So I do think that I'm well balanced in that sense, but I, 250 00:12:28,600 --> 00:12:31,200 I, I'm just like any other girl. I can't fight the. 251 00:12:31,240 --> 00:12:34,320 Urgent you got the emotions. Yeah, and they know how to, you 252 00:12:34,320 --> 00:12:35,600 know, I feel like it's like a casino. 253 00:12:35,600 --> 00:12:38,200 They know how to tap into your emotions and make you buy and 254 00:12:39,000 --> 00:12:42,560 make you want to buy. There's a great book called The 255 00:12:42,560 --> 00:12:45,120 Psychology of Persuasion. Read it. 256 00:12:45,440 --> 00:12:48,760 Anyone who's interested. Read it and you just read it and 257 00:12:48,760 --> 00:12:50,400 you're like, that's happening to me right now. 258 00:12:50,400 --> 00:12:54,680 What do we got? OK, if you could relive one day 259 00:12:54,680 --> 00:12:58,120 from our time together, which day would it be and why does it 260 00:12:58,120 --> 00:13:01,120 stand out to you? That's a great question. 261 00:13:01,120 --> 00:13:04,440 That's a really good question. I would love to say our wedding 262 00:13:04,440 --> 00:13:10,600 day, like that's obviously the obvious choice and most of those 263 00:13:10,600 --> 00:13:13,320 days around that because it was just like stress free. 264 00:13:14,320 --> 00:13:16,440 I didn't think about work, You weren't thinking about work. 265 00:13:16,440 --> 00:13:18,640 It was just purely all. My loved ones around. 266 00:13:18,640 --> 00:13:21,280 Yeah, I think like you could relive any of those days. 267 00:13:21,280 --> 00:13:28,720 But if I was going to choose something different, I would. 268 00:13:28,760 --> 00:13:33,920 I liked when we went to Europe together, like in 2019 and we 269 00:13:34,000 --> 00:13:36,920 caught up with like Izzy and that's not one day, but I feel 270 00:13:36,920 --> 00:13:40,240 like that was, I think that was one of our first. 271 00:13:40,680 --> 00:13:42,920 Like we'd been on holidays together, but we're always with 272 00:13:42,920 --> 00:13:44,640 people. So that was like our first 273 00:13:45,360 --> 00:13:47,880 holiday where it was just you and I and we got to catch up 274 00:13:47,880 --> 00:13:49,560 with some of your friends, some of my friends. 275 00:13:50,000 --> 00:13:51,480 Like that whole time was just gnarly. 276 00:13:51,640 --> 00:13:55,120 I really like that. And I saw you snowboarding which 277 00:13:56,920 --> 00:13:58,880 which was one for the memory that was one for. 278 00:13:58,880 --> 00:14:00,640 The memory I knocked my old nogget and lucky I'm still 279 00:14:00,640 --> 00:14:01,600 alive. I know. 280 00:14:02,040 --> 00:14:05,200 Yeah, I was. Don't want to hit your head too 281 00:14:05,200 --> 00:14:07,720 hard there. What's a moment in our 282 00:14:07,720 --> 00:14:11,840 relationship where you felt most loved and understood, and what 283 00:14:11,840 --> 00:14:21,840 made it special? Probably just like surviving 284 00:14:21,840 --> 00:14:26,640 those early days when we were Shepherd were touring a lot and 285 00:14:26,640 --> 00:14:29,560 we were going through a long distance relationship and I 286 00:14:29,560 --> 00:14:33,480 thought for sure that we were going to break up because I just 287 00:14:33,480 --> 00:14:37,040 didn't know how I would hold down a relationship with my 288 00:14:37,160 --> 00:14:42,640 crazy schedule. And you understood, and you 289 00:14:42,640 --> 00:14:45,480 stuck around. Wild. 290 00:14:46,960 --> 00:14:49,560 I think, yeah. You can expand on it if you 291 00:14:49,560 --> 00:14:52,080 want. No, I think that's does that 292 00:14:52,160 --> 00:14:54,480 answer the question. Definitely did, for sure. 293 00:14:54,840 --> 00:14:56,160 Well, we'll let the audience decide. 294 00:14:56,160 --> 00:14:56,800 You can, Yeah. And. 295 00:14:56,800 --> 00:15:00,160 I feel like it was amazing how you started a business so you 296 00:15:00,160 --> 00:15:02,640 could join me more. You know what I mean? 297 00:15:02,640 --> 00:15:04,560 I just never felt more understood than that, like 298 00:15:04,560 --> 00:15:08,280 somebody wanted to change their lives and change their whole 299 00:15:08,280 --> 00:15:12,080 career so that you could, yeah, be a part of my life. 300 00:15:12,600 --> 00:15:17,480 Yeah, wild strawberries, you got me #3. 301 00:15:18,360 --> 00:15:21,080 What's a personal goal you're currently working on that you've 302 00:15:21,080 --> 00:15:26,840 never shared with me? Wow you got all the good ones. 303 00:15:30,160 --> 00:15:32,480 Well it's probably always finances like I hate. 304 00:15:36,360 --> 00:15:40,200 I would love to just have money as no issue again. 305 00:15:40,200 --> 00:15:45,680 Like I feel like moving, moving overseas has taken that away 306 00:15:45,680 --> 00:15:49,600 from me in a sense. So I think in like. 307 00:15:49,840 --> 00:15:52,160 Like, we're OK, we still have a roof of our heads, enough to 308 00:15:52,160 --> 00:15:56,800 eat, enough to pay rent, but it's like we used to have excess 309 00:15:56,800 --> 00:16:00,280 cash, you know, just disposable. Yeah, like if if we needed a 310 00:16:00,280 --> 00:16:02,840 weekend away or whatever, we it's like you don't think about 311 00:16:02,840 --> 00:16:05,560 it, whereas now we have to think about it. 312 00:16:05,560 --> 00:16:08,760 And I find really hard is like my role. 313 00:16:08,840 --> 00:16:13,080 I like the idea of it being able to provide and not have you 314 00:16:13,080 --> 00:16:16,160 stress about that, But because we're in a weird position where 315 00:16:16,160 --> 00:16:18,960 it's like, I don't want to work too much here in Australia 316 00:16:18,960 --> 00:16:21,880 because I know we're about to leave again in five weeks. 317 00:16:21,880 --> 00:16:25,240 So it's really hard to sort of set your roots. 318 00:16:25,240 --> 00:16:28,920 And then also, yeah, it's a bit murky. 319 00:16:28,920 --> 00:16:33,160 So there's like uncertainty around that is is probably the 320 00:16:33,160 --> 00:16:37,320 goal that I'm working on solving that I don't necessarily, you 321 00:16:37,320 --> 00:16:39,600 probably already know, but I don't need to talk about a lot. 322 00:16:42,160 --> 00:16:46,680 All right, If you could describe your ideal vision of us 10 years 323 00:16:46,680 --> 00:16:48,360 from now, what does it look like? 324 00:16:49,720 --> 00:16:56,440 Oh, I 10 years from now so. 2034. 325 00:16:56,600 --> 00:16:58,680 I'd like to think we'd probably finally. 326 00:16:58,680 --> 00:17:01,080 We're going to be, we're going to be 43. 327 00:17:02,160 --> 00:17:04,040 Oh, it's so scary. OK, we'll definitely have some 328 00:17:04,040 --> 00:17:08,800 kitties by then, I hope, and then we'll hopefully own. 329 00:17:08,800 --> 00:17:12,079 OK. Ideally own a couple of 330 00:17:12,079 --> 00:17:15,920 properties, like maybe one or two like one on the coast. 331 00:17:16,280 --> 00:17:18,440 We already own one We. Already own one in Toowoomba. 332 00:17:18,440 --> 00:17:23,520 So there's two, let's say 1A base in the US, whether that's a 333 00:17:23,520 --> 00:17:26,319 shared with the part of the siblings. 334 00:17:28,440 --> 00:17:32,240 And I think that'd be awesome if we could still travel around the 335 00:17:32,240 --> 00:17:33,400 world. I don't think we're going to 336 00:17:33,400 --> 00:17:35,760 have a conventional life where, you know, our kids are going to 337 00:17:35,760 --> 00:17:38,000 go to regular school. I feel like they might have to 338 00:17:38,000 --> 00:17:43,200 be home schooled, but hopefully by then we're selling big. 339 00:17:43,600 --> 00:17:46,520 We're playing to big crowds in around the world, not just 340 00:17:46,920 --> 00:17:49,120 Australia. I think we're going to by then 341 00:17:49,120 --> 00:17:53,240 build up our US audience. And so we definitely. 342 00:17:53,240 --> 00:17:54,600 Live. Maybe even European. 343 00:17:55,000 --> 00:17:56,840 Oh yeah, you just announced that you're a Pinto. 344 00:17:56,840 --> 00:17:59,520 We'll hit on that at the end. Yeah, very excited for that. 345 00:17:59,520 --> 00:18:04,200 But yeah, just plug that quickly in case we do forget my turn #4 346 00:18:05,400 --> 00:18:07,160 What's one thing? Hold on, did I ask that? 347 00:18:07,800 --> 00:18:08,840 Yeah, no, I asked that. Sorry. 348 00:18:08,840 --> 00:18:13,280 It's your turn, sorry #4. #4 What's a quirk or habit of mine 349 00:18:13,280 --> 00:18:16,880 that you've grown to love, even if it annoyed you at first, it. 350 00:18:18,200 --> 00:18:21,160 Didn't annoy me but I think I mentioned this on last week's 351 00:18:21,640 --> 00:18:24,320 just when you do your random stupid dances. 352 00:18:24,320 --> 00:18:27,120 You were literally doing one in the mirror before when you put 353 00:18:27,120 --> 00:18:29,920 your tights on a new cap on and you were doing some fucking 354 00:18:30,000 --> 00:18:33,120 weird dance. And it's so funny. 355 00:18:34,000 --> 00:18:38,360 But also you're just like in the beginning I was like, is she all 356 00:18:38,360 --> 00:18:39,840 there? Like oh, we've no kidding. 357 00:18:39,840 --> 00:18:43,640 Sorry to try. And make you laugh. 358 00:18:43,640 --> 00:18:45,480 But there you go. No, she did it before. 359 00:18:45,480 --> 00:18:47,560 I'll try and film some for you guys and we'll put them up 360 00:18:48,040 --> 00:18:49,200 because they're always happening. 361 00:18:50,920 --> 00:18:52,640 Must be my turn. Yeah. 362 00:18:52,640 --> 00:18:55,360 What's one thing you've learned about yourself through being on 363 00:18:55,360 --> 00:18:58,640 this being in this relationship that surprised you? 364 00:19:00,360 --> 00:19:04,080 I think you definitely push me outside the boundaries. 365 00:19:04,800 --> 00:19:08,200 You know, if I'm thinking about doing, for example, thinking 366 00:19:08,840 --> 00:19:12,200 about doing a country song, you will push me to like fully dive 367 00:19:12,200 --> 00:19:17,760 into the country music industry, like podcasts, for example. 368 00:19:17,760 --> 00:19:19,800 It was just like a little idea that we were talking about, but 369 00:19:19,800 --> 00:19:22,720 you actually like put it into action because I think a lot of 370 00:19:22,720 --> 00:19:24,840 times in my life, things can get in the way. 371 00:19:24,840 --> 00:19:27,120 I get very busy. And so to actually implement 372 00:19:27,720 --> 00:19:31,280 actionable steps can be difficult for me sometimes. 373 00:19:31,280 --> 00:19:35,120 So I think that you definitely push me to be better in that 374 00:19:35,120 --> 00:19:37,520 respect. I'll take that. 375 00:19:37,520 --> 00:19:42,440 You guys heard it here. AM I asking you? 376 00:19:42,440 --> 00:19:46,720 Yeah, you're on. If you had to sum up what I 377 00:19:46,720 --> 00:19:49,360 bring to your life in one sentence, what would you say? 378 00:19:50,360 --> 00:19:54,360 Happiness. That's one word, but that's it. 379 00:19:55,360 --> 00:19:57,640 That's so cute. This will be the last question. 380 00:19:57,640 --> 00:19:59,840 We don't need to go to six H. OK, I want to hear your pet 381 00:19:59,840 --> 00:20:03,800 peeve or your Reddit story. If you could go back to the 382 00:20:03,800 --> 00:20:07,760 first year of our relationship, what advice would you give us as 383 00:20:07,760 --> 00:20:09,840 a couple? Now this is cool. 384 00:20:10,320 --> 00:20:12,760 And just for context for anyone who's listening to this for the 385 00:20:12,760 --> 00:20:17,440 first time or doesn't really know, Amy and I, within the 386 00:20:17,440 --> 00:20:19,720 first year Amy was travelling the world. 387 00:20:19,760 --> 00:20:23,360 I was living in a town called Twomba, so we had a lot of 388 00:20:23,360 --> 00:20:24,960 distance. So. 389 00:20:26,000 --> 00:20:29,120 Our or whatever Amy's about to say might be a little bit 390 00:20:29,120 --> 00:20:31,040 different to what you would say to her. 391 00:20:31,480 --> 00:20:31,880 I guess. So. 392 00:20:31,880 --> 00:20:35,120 I don't want to say normal relationship, but like one where 393 00:20:35,120 --> 00:20:36,480 there's not a lot of travel involved. 394 00:20:37,480 --> 00:20:39,120 I don't know. I think it's kind of one of 395 00:20:39,120 --> 00:20:41,480 those situations where you like if you changed anything, we'd 396 00:20:41,480 --> 00:20:44,600 have a different relationship and it might not be a good one. 397 00:20:44,760 --> 00:20:48,720 So I don't know if I would change anything. 398 00:20:48,720 --> 00:20:52,800 I would just say, if I could go back, I'd just say it's all 399 00:20:52,800 --> 00:20:55,680 going to work out. Don't stress the small stuff. 400 00:20:55,680 --> 00:20:57,960 So I think, you know, like every relationship in the beginning, 401 00:20:57,960 --> 00:21:02,120 we definitely had our little fights and moments, but you need 402 00:21:02,120 --> 00:21:04,480 those to like learn about each other and learn boundaries. 403 00:21:04,480 --> 00:21:06,040 Right. Yeah, yeah. 404 00:21:06,040 --> 00:21:10,160 And no one's perfect, all right? Time for the Reddit story. 405 00:21:10,160 --> 00:21:14,000 If you have questions for next week, if you like that, wow, we 406 00:21:14,320 --> 00:21:16,600 have a crack next week, drop us some questions. 407 00:21:17,200 --> 00:21:19,720 I do enjoy doing that. Yeah, it's interesting to think, 408 00:21:19,720 --> 00:21:23,240 but let's go to your Reddit. OK, my Reddit story. 409 00:21:25,560 --> 00:21:27,800 My best friend kissed my husband. 410 00:21:27,840 --> 00:21:30,120 It's destroying me. How do I proceed? 411 00:21:32,360 --> 00:21:35,480 I have been with my husband for six years, married for four 412 00:21:35,480 --> 00:21:39,120 years, and we have two kids. Everything in our relationship 413 00:21:39,120 --> 00:21:42,320 is perfect for us. He's the best husband and father 414 00:21:42,320 --> 00:21:43,800 to our kids that I could have asked for. 415 00:21:43,800 --> 00:21:46,760 I'm absolutely in love with him and his actions and words have 416 00:21:46,760 --> 00:21:48,440 always shown me that he feels the same way. 417 00:21:48,800 --> 00:21:51,480 There's no better feeling than going to sleep in his arms every 418 00:21:51,480 --> 00:21:54,640 night. Last weekend my husband and I 419 00:21:54,640 --> 00:21:56,440 had some friends over and we were having a BBQ. 420 00:21:56,760 --> 00:21:59,160 We were all outside in the backyard, surrounding my 421 00:22:00,080 --> 00:22:02,840 backyard, surrounding my husband who was on the grill. 422 00:22:03,200 --> 00:22:06,120 As the food got closer to being ready to eat, we all started 423 00:22:06,880 --> 00:22:09,320 started sitting at our backyard table. 424 00:22:09,880 --> 00:22:13,400 Once the food was already at the table, my husband went inside to 425 00:22:13,400 --> 00:22:15,760 use the washroom and get another case of beer. 426 00:22:16,360 --> 00:22:19,960 I didn't realize that my best friend had followed him when he 427 00:22:19,960 --> 00:22:22,920 was coming back out. My best friend hid behind the 428 00:22:22,920 --> 00:22:26,800 wall separating our kitchen and living room and surprised him by 429 00:22:26,800 --> 00:22:30,840 pulling him and forcing a kiss. My husband immediately pushed 430 00:22:30,840 --> 00:22:32,200 her back and yelled what the fuck. 431 00:22:32,720 --> 00:22:35,160 She immediately started crying and ran out of the house and 432 00:22:35,160 --> 00:22:36,600 left. My husband came back into the 433 00:22:36,600 --> 00:22:39,800 yard and asked to speak to me privately and immediately told 434 00:22:39,800 --> 00:22:43,240 me what had just happened. I was shocked and told him that 435 00:22:44,360 --> 00:22:46,560 would it be OK that we talked about it after everyone had 436 00:22:46,560 --> 00:22:47,600 left. I managed to put in an 437 00:22:47,600 --> 00:22:49,640 appearance for the next couple of hours, but I was mentally 438 00:22:49,640 --> 00:22:52,360 distraught. After everyone left, my husband 439 00:22:52,360 --> 00:22:54,200 sat me down and told me what happened and showed me the 440 00:22:54,240 --> 00:22:55,960 footage from our living room camera. 441 00:22:55,960 --> 00:22:58,200 It was exactly as my husband had described it. 442 00:22:58,200 --> 00:23:00,520 Wow. My best friend of 10 years, the 443 00:23:00,520 --> 00:23:03,640 person who I treated as my literal sister, forcibly kissed 444 00:23:03,640 --> 00:23:06,560 my husband after the third date with my husband. 445 00:23:06,960 --> 00:23:09,200 After the third date with my husband, she was the one I told 446 00:23:09,200 --> 00:23:11,600 I was going to marry him. She knows how much I love him 447 00:23:11,600 --> 00:23:14,400 and how strong our relationship is, and she still chose to come 448 00:23:14,400 --> 00:23:16,960 into the middle of it. For F's sake. 449 00:23:16,960 --> 00:23:20,960 Our three-year old calls her auntie, my best friend tried 450 00:23:20,960 --> 00:23:23,400 showing up the next day just to talk and my husband had to hold 451 00:23:23,400 --> 00:23:26,680 me back from beating the shit out of her and he kicked her out 452 00:23:26,680 --> 00:23:29,560 and told her not to come back. It's been almost a week now. 453 00:23:29,560 --> 00:23:32,960 I'm nowhere close on moving on. I don't blame my husband, he's 454 00:23:32,960 --> 00:23:36,560 completely innocent in this and if anything he's the victim. 455 00:23:37,440 --> 00:23:40,080 I've been lying down on my husband's chest and just crying 456 00:23:40,080 --> 00:23:42,480 every night. I'm so angry and frustrated I 457 00:23:42,480 --> 00:23:44,400 don't know what to do. My husband has been amazing like 458 00:23:44,400 --> 00:23:45,760 always. He just gets it, understands I'm 459 00:23:45,760 --> 00:23:48,040 feeling but with flowers, blah blah blah blah. 460 00:23:48,960 --> 00:23:53,560 Well, firstly, when she's like, it's almost like he is the 461 00:23:53,560 --> 00:23:55,520 victim. If you flip that around and a 462 00:23:55,520 --> 00:23:58,280 bloke did that to a female. It's. 463 00:23:58,720 --> 00:24:01,160 Would be a very very different. It's like. 464 00:24:01,160 --> 00:24:02,600 A story. Sexual assault it is. 465 00:24:02,640 --> 00:24:04,240 Yeah. So. 466 00:24:04,480 --> 00:24:09,160 But my question is like, was he giving her signals and then she 467 00:24:09,160 --> 00:24:12,120 just decided to act on those signals? 468 00:24:12,240 --> 00:24:14,680 You want to be given some pretty strong signals. 469 00:24:15,040 --> 00:24:19,200 I don't know, like I'm not Privy to that information, but that's 470 00:24:19,200 --> 00:24:21,360 pretty random for someone just to go out of the blue and kiss 471 00:24:21,360 --> 00:24:23,960 someone like that. Yeah, but she might have been 472 00:24:23,960 --> 00:24:26,400 drunk. She might have been building 473 00:24:26,400 --> 00:24:28,960 this story up in her head and. Then she just don't. 474 00:24:29,120 --> 00:24:30,640 Get. That in the road chair, but 475 00:24:30,960 --> 00:24:34,080 anyway. I don't know, like if he had 476 00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:37,000 been flirting with her, it would have been very easy for him to 477 00:24:37,000 --> 00:24:40,680 roll with that. Like very easy. 478 00:24:43,160 --> 00:24:45,720 But knowing there was a camera there, maybe he was like fuck, I 479 00:24:45,720 --> 00:24:49,320 need to go with the story. But you're OK. 480 00:24:49,320 --> 00:24:55,480 So think about it like this. An instant response, if you had 481 00:24:55,480 --> 00:24:57,760 been flirting with someone wouldn't be to push them away. 482 00:24:58,640 --> 00:25:02,080 And if his instant response as shown on camera was to push her 483 00:25:02,080 --> 00:25:05,800 away, I feel like he would have been just as shocked. 484 00:25:06,040 --> 00:25:10,400 Would you hear what the girl, the friend has to say or would 485 00:25:10,400 --> 00:25:13,200 you just cut? Her off for sure. 486 00:25:13,200 --> 00:25:17,600 Well, yeah, I'm for sure if like you'd probably have a few 487 00:25:17,600 --> 00:25:22,000 questions, but it doesn't change the fact that what she did. 488 00:25:23,160 --> 00:25:24,720 Was wrong. Yeah, you wouldn't be. 489 00:25:24,720 --> 00:25:27,080 I wouldn't be maintaining that friendship. 490 00:25:27,400 --> 00:25:30,520 She'd be gone. Either way, she gone. 491 00:25:30,920 --> 00:25:36,440 She gone, she gone Hussey. All right, ladies and gentlemen, 492 00:25:36,480 --> 00:25:38,360 thank you for tuning in again this week. 493 00:25:38,360 --> 00:25:41,280 Remember, head over to our Instagram, ask us a few 494 00:25:41,280 --> 00:25:45,280 questions and share some of the reels and snippets. 495 00:25:45,280 --> 00:25:48,520 It helps the show grow. And what do we got coming up? 496 00:25:48,560 --> 00:25:53,120 We got a interesting week. I've got a very deload week so 497 00:25:53,120 --> 00:25:56,720 I've got 8 weeks until I run around America which is not that 498 00:25:56,720 --> 00:25:58,560 far away getting. Nervous or you excited? 499 00:25:59,480 --> 00:26:02,880 I'm excited like I feel very yesterday I ran 40 kilometers 500 00:26:03,240 --> 00:26:05,240 super comfortably like feel great today. 501 00:26:06,000 --> 00:26:08,600 So I just want to start to get it going now. 502 00:26:08,600 --> 00:26:13,960 It's like 8 weeks is just like got to remain injury free and 503 00:26:15,400 --> 00:26:17,720 record as many podcast episodes before we go, Yeah. 504 00:26:17,960 --> 00:26:18,840 But it feed you something. Huh. 505 00:26:19,040 --> 00:26:22,160 Yeah, let's go get a pizza. All right, thanks everybody. 506 00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:25,520 And if you want to get first access to podcasts, don't forget 507 00:26:25,520 --> 00:26:28,680 to sign up to patreonitspatreon.com/amy 508 00:26:28,680 --> 00:26:30,520 Shepherd Pie. We'd love to see you over there. 509 00:26:30,600 --> 00:26:33,520 And thank you to all of my current Patreon members. 510 00:26:33,520 --> 00:26:35,920 Love you guys. You help us to continue to do 511 00:26:35,920 --> 00:26:37,560 what we do. Exactly. 512 00:26:37,560 --> 00:26:41,680 And one day we are going get a studio, and that day I feel like 513 00:26:41,680 --> 00:26:43,480 we almost have to have a live party. 514 00:26:43,840 --> 00:26:45,640 Yeah, like a virtual live party. That'd be awesome. 515 00:26:46,160 --> 00:26:48,360 We're gonna have to like, that's on the that's on the vision 516 00:26:48,360 --> 00:26:51,560 board. But as always, there is no as 517 00:26:51,720 --> 00:26:53,000 always, hurry.