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Welcome back to. 
Couple goals with Amy and Lucky.

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I was about to say a different 
show. 

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What? 
Were you? 

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Going to say I'm just yeah, I'm 
just so routine and welcome back

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to Bah. 
But I caught myself and you 

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finished my sentence. 
New location for those who are 

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watching on YouTube and. 
Patreons up. 

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We never know where we're going 
to be. 

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We don't even know where we're 
going to be half the time. 

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That's part of the fun, and also
the trouble. 

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Yeah, we're currently in 
Toowoomba visiting Locke's 

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family. 
We're in his family home. 

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Yeah, it's been a lovely couple 
days up here. 

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It is coming in early Christmas 
with your parents. 

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Very green, very green as well. 
You're probably going to have 

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some, we will have some guests 
on this episode, probably some 

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birds, maybe our nephew, who 
knows. 

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There's just going to be what's 
happening, what's been going on 

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the last week we've. 
Last week everything's slowing 

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down. 
It's lovely for a lot of people 

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who aren't me. 
I've been doing a bit of 

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songwriting, actually, because 
we're finally in one spot. 

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And you had three days of 
songwriting. 

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Yeah, which was lots of fun. 
It was for another artist, and I

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love writing for other artists. 
I just find it so freeing 

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because you just lean into what 
they want. 

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And I don't know, there's just 
feel like when it's when you're 

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running for yourself or for 
Shepherd, it's such a specific 

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sound. 
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Whereas when it's for someone 
else, it's you could be a bit 

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more experimental, a bit crazy, 
and it doesn't matter if the 

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idea doesn't land. 
I don't know. 

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It's just, I really find it fun.
I'm screaming. 

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Are you going to do more of it? 
I'd love to any chance I get for

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sure. 
We've actually got a writing 

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session on the 20th with. 
Five days. 

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Yeah, a really big songwriter. 
But that's for Shepherd, Yeah. 

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So that'll be pretty fun as 
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But yeah, no, no real slowing 
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It's been nice up here. 
We haven't done very much. 

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Yeah, we just cut over some. 
We had what we get here. 

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Thursday chilled out, Friday 
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Oh, we went to the shops, which 
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center, we were like, why are we
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Why are we here? 
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wanted to come. 
Here went to Grand Central. 

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It's a massive shopping center, 
yeah, but. 

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I just got a bit bored, like I'm
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So we went in, did I don't 
remember why we went. 

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Maybe we thought we could get an
iPhone and. 

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There's no Apple Store in 
toolbar, so that's like. 

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We don't need to be here. 
That's a trivia question, so. 

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We kind of just walked around, 
we had lunch and and then 

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someone recognized me and we 
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Yeah, you got a few photos and 
ate some sushi and then we left.

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But yeah, there's not not a 
great update in my world either.

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I have just been trying to get 
everything finalized for the 

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run. 
So we've motor homes locked in, 

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all sponsors locked in order for
our clothes are locked in. 

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Now we're just starting to ship 
stuff over to Seattle where the 

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motorhome is so we can not have 
to fly with a lot of stuff. 

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I got a quote yesterday just to 
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Theragun and a few things sent 
over and have a guess how much 

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it was. 
This is like, let's just say 

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it's 2020 kilos, have a guess? 
To ship it? 

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Is that like flying? 
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just said shipping 1000 bucks. 
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It was $700.00. 
I was like, it's 100 bucks a bag

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on flying, so I'd rather just 
take another bag. 

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Yeah, of course, even though 
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a pain in the ass, I'd still 
prefer 600 bucks in my pocket. 

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So that's what we're doing. 
Yeah, but let's do it. 

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Let's move into the next 
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This one's been fun, especially 
on YouTube and I'm sorry, on 

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Instagram with all the little 
snippets, but it's our question 

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segment, getting to know each 
other, get to know us, why we 

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get to know each other. 
And you can take it away because

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yours are the first questions on
my screen as well. 

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Oh. 
OK, what's one thing you think 

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has made us stronger as a couple
over the past year? 

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Sounds very similar to last 
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America has made us stronger. 
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though we have been in our own 
place, I don't know something 

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that has made us stronger. 
Probably starting from scratch 

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somewhere, like really having to
be careful with how we spend 

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money, what choices we make, 
because the consequences are a 

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lot higher. 
What do you reckon? 

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Actually, no. 
Yeah, and then you guys helping 

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with touring as well. 
Yeah, because you're really a 

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part of it and can see exactly 
how hard it is. 

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Yeah, even though we tell you 
about it in the past where you 

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have been on parts of it, you've
never had to like actually be 

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involved. 100%, which is, yeah, 
different, that's for sure. 

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What's one thing you admire 
about how we handle challenges 

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together? 
I really admire the way we don't

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fight or really put each other 
down. 

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Yeah, I'd agree. 
I think other couples, I've 

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noticed, they really sort of 
take jabs at each other. 

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Yeah, it's kind of like in front
of people and you're like, why 

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would you do that? 
That's supposed to be your 

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partner, For fuck's sake. 
What are you doing? 

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Yeah, I think we're a pretty 
good team. 

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Yeah, all. 
Right you go, you hit it. 

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If you had to choose one guilty 
pleasure TV show to binge, what 

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would it be? 
It'd have to be an action mom, 

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because I don't normally get to 
watch those with you, so I can't

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think of the name, but like 
something like Jack Ryan or Jack

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Reacher, sorry, or something 
like that where it's like John 

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Wick. 
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it's ATV show, but something 
like that where it's like heaps 

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of killing and action and you 
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What's that one that Bradley 
recommended? 

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I couldn't watch it. 
I can't remember now, yeah. 

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But yeah, Amy doesn't like the 
action film, so no. 

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They normally go on the back 
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wanting to choose something. 
So I would choose something like

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that. 
If you could only eat one meal 

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for the rest of your life, what 
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Geez, are these the same 
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Week they're like same, same but
different. 

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Obviously everyone knows it's 
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I would say pasta. 
Like what's my favorite pasta? 

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Do you know what I'm going to do
next week? 

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What I'm going to jump on 
Instagram after this and I'm 

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going to message 20 of our 
followers and ask them to ask us

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questions. 
Yeah, we need some more 

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questions. 
Because I've been using ChatGPT 

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and while they're good, a little
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So AI hasn't really. 
But has I don't. 

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Have it all. 
No, I haven't quite taken over 

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the human interaction yet. 
Yet maybe. 

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Not still hope for the man, for 
mankind. 

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OK, Is it my turn? 
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What piece of relationship 
advice would you give your 

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younger self? 
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would give myself. 
I would say don't become 

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dependent on the relationship. 
I became very dependent and 

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because of that I was insecure, 
jealous, wasn't very good, 

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wasn't healthy. 
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don't become dependent on it. 
Enjoy it and make it the best 

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that it can be. 
But also know that you're going 

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to be fine if you don't have it.
Yeah, bit of wisdom there on a 

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Sunday morning. 
Very wise. 

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So for you, if you had to hold, 
this one's a good one. 

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If you had to create a holiday 
tradition just for us, what 

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would it be? 
Holiday tradition. 

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I would love it if we could go 
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of us, and that place was like 
the Maldives. 

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Every year. 
That's not a tradition, is it? 

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That's more of like AI wouldn't 
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I would just say that's a place 
where you keep returning to. 

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But if there was something like.
Yes, traditionally, yeah. 

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OK. 
All right. 

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Well, we'll let you have that 
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No, there's this place in 
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go. 
It's Aurora Island or something 

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like that. 
I followed on Instagram but it 

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looks incredible and I'm dying 
to go there. 

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So let's make it a tradition. 
It's only two hours from 

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Brisbane. 
Maybe we spend like 5 days there

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every year. 
I like it. 

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I very much like it. 
Will you go your term? 

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What is the funniest gift you've
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receive? 
The weirdest 1 I got was from a 

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Secret Santa. 
I ended up with a fire 

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extinguisher and obviously your 
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buying a present for and I ended
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extinguisher. 
I thought that was random act. 

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It's. 
So weird you guys that. 

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Brad Munro, if you're listening,
Brad, Brad Munro did. 

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So that was like kind of funny 
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watching how funny he thought it
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was like, this is weird. 
So a fire extinguisher. 

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What's something you want us to 
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Maybe our time management I feel
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Can you expand? 
I just feel like we're in such a

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hustle mode of our lives. 
We're just trying to obviously 

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starting from scratch, trying to
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I feel like often we'll just go 
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both been working the whole day,
you know what I mean? 

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So what would you then like the 
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Like you wake up and you're in 
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No, seriously, we do have a 
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I love how you bring me a tea in
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We do get a lot of time 
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But maybe we need to say a hard 
7:00 PM cut off from work. 

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That could be something we could
improve on, I think. 

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Yeah, weekends as well. 
No work on the weekend. 

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I sort of do little bits every 
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Yeah, I'm not like. 
And that's what I'm saying. 

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I think there's no one day that 
is just off for you and. 

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I feel yeah, but I I prefer to 
do that than having to work from

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my 6:00 PM till, sorry, 6:00 AM 
till 6:00 PM. 

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You prefer to have little breaks
here and there, yeah. 

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I I much prefer to do like four 
or five hours a day. 

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Yeah, I guess. 
It's not like anything's really 

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happening on the sun or. 
So no, nothing. 

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And I I get bored. 
I'm like, what are we doing? 

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Like sitting on my ass. 
I don't personally, I don't 

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enjoy doing that and I don't for
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don't need to escape from 
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Anything. 
I felt like when I needed a day 

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off or I just couldn't wait for 
the weekend, it's because I 

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hated what I was doing. 
So I needed a break. 

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Whereas like every day I'm doing
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like probably 75% of the time. 
So that's why change it. 

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That's my thoughts. 
That is my. 

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Thoughts. 
It's not a huge issue. 

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No. 
Well, you're doing an expert, 

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Yeah. 
What's your next question? 

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That was all my questions. 
Oh, really? 

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OK, well, I got one more for 
you. 

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OK. 
If you were a character in a ROM

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com, what would be your big 
romantic moment? 

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We had this. 
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must have changed. 
It this is. 

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Probably a good reason why we 
don't ask the question back 

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because maybe it's coming the 
following week. 

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Well, I always thought it was 
really romantic in the movies 

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where they go down to the 
aquarium and it's just the two 

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of them and they like hook up in
front of the aquarium. 

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That sounds like our honeymoon 
without the hooking up, yeah. 

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That's my big romantic moment. 
Perfect, I like that. 

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Well, what's your pet peeve? 
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What's the pet peeve for the 

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week? 
Sorry, not pet peeve. 

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Reddit. 
Reddit, Amy's Reddit stereo. 

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What do we got? 
OK, This one is sort of relevant

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to the current TikTok trend. 
That is, we listen and we don't 

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judge. 
I think it goes like that. 

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Is that is that a trend? 
It's current trend and. 

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And is it as straightforward as?
Yeah, it's like every I've seen 

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it with the family and they're 
like everyone's chance. 

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We listen and we don't judge. 
And then the little girl has a 

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chance to say something she did 
that hasn't confessed to and 

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she's like told her sister that 
she stole the stickers. 

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And the sisters reaction is so 
funny. 

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Like she's angry but she's not 
allowed to be because of the 

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game. 
That's cool. 

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Anyway, this story says we 
listen and we don't judge. 

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Trend prompted my my husband to 
reveal a cruel 2 year long 

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prank. 
Two years, yeah. 

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How can I learn to start 
trusting him again? 

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Oh my. 
God, what's the prank I want to 

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hear? 
It my husband saw a TikTok a 

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TikTok video this week about 
couples saying we listen and we 

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don't judge, then revealing 
something bad or funny they do 

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behind their partner's back. 
He pressured me to participate 

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because he said he had something
very funny to admit, but I had 

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to go first to justify it. 
When it was his turn, he told me

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he removed things from my 
computer to make it very slow 

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and almost unusable. 
Two years ago. 

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That's. 
Not funny. 

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Yeah, how weird that. 
Is in 2022 my computer suddenly 

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started running like garbage and
I could never figure out what 

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was wrong. 
I primarily used it for school 

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and playing online games with my
siblings because I don't live 

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close to them anymore. 
Now I can hardly browse the 

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Internet, let alone play games 
on it. 

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I couldn't afford a new computer
because I am the only one 

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working right now, he told. 
Me. 

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So he's he's a dole bludger as 
well. 

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I guess so. 
He told me it would take him 

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only a minute or two to fix 
whatever he did, but he just 

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never wanted to. 
What? 

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It sounds like a control. 
Issue. 

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Yeah, that sounds very odd. 
When I asked him why he he would

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do that, he said it's because I 
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him and he didn't feel like the 
games. 

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I feel like that I would play 
games a few times a week. 

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My feelings are very hurt right 
now and I'm having a hard time 

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believing anything he says. 
How can I get my mind off this 

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and stop distrusting him? 
I've been married for six years 

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and I'm so stressed about other 
things he may have done to 

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manipulate me. 
How do people generally get over

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betrayals like this? 
That's pretty bad. 

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That's not a prank, right? 
That's like extreme 

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manipulation. 
Yeah, well, because the reason 

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why he did it was because he 
wanted her to spend more time 

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with him. 
So I feel like that's not a 

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prank. 
That's. 

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Like long term control? 
Yeah, that's, that's psychopath,

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that is. 
Knowing that you need it for 

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school, day-to-day life also to 
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And So what if you're talking to
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That's that's very weird. 
What are you guys thinking? 

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I think that it blows my mind 
that these are these are true 

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things happening in the world, 
because that is who in their 

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right mind would do that and go,
that's a that's a nasty little 

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prank without going maybe I'm a 
psychopath. 

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Narcissist. 
Yeah, EW, red flag. 

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Dump him. 
But also, what did he, what did 

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he do to slow it down? 
Yeah, I don't know what computer

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hacks are there because I would 
like to do the opposite, to 

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speed mine up. 
I wonder if we can do that with 

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the. 
Internet. 

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Jeez, yeah, she's going to be 
loving that computer once she 

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takes stuff. 
Though well, in other news, 

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we've got one more week until we
fly back to the United or Mexico

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and then to the United States, 
which is cool. 

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So last week in Australia or not
for you, you got I'm. 

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Coming back. 
Two weeks away and then I won't 

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see you for 70 days. 
But we're still going to keep 

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the podcast up. 
We're going to do it pretty much

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remote, remote live streams, 
which would be fun. 

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I'm going to be excited to catch
up with your progress. 

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And see me once a week. 
Yep. 

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No, it will FaceTime a lot 
obviously, but yeah, should be 

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pretty. 
Fun. 

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Fun and different ways of doing 
it again. 

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And there's some other exciting 
news that you'll announce at 

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some point as well. 
Cool. 

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All right, everybody. 
Thank you guys for tuning in 

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once again. 
Hope you liked our outdoor one. 

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When I listen back, I'll get a 
feel for how many birds or 

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trucks and background noises 
there are. 

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But I feel like it should be 
pretty good. 

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I think it's going to be good. 
Maybe a couple of crickets and 

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cicadas. 
Yeah, lots of those. 

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Yeah, plenty of those anymore. 
Anyone, anyone. 

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Can you sign us off? 
Please sign us. 

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Off anyway.
