1 00:00:05,000 --> 00:00:07,800 Am I just the intro person now? Is that how this is going? 2 00:00:08,100 --> 00:00:10,800 I mean I think that's just natural like you, okay? 3 00:00:10,800 --> 00:00:15,600 So radio host I kind of panic a little bit like what do I say? 4 00:00:17,600 --> 00:00:20,500 Oh my God. Okay, hello and welcome to let 5 00:00:20,500 --> 00:00:24,800 it flow. Welcome back to the podcast, we 6 00:00:24,800 --> 00:00:30,200 are chaotic today, okay? All jokes aside. 7 00:00:30,400 --> 00:00:35,600 We have a very serious topic to cover okay and it is nothing 8 00:00:35,600 --> 00:00:41,700 girl syndrome. I just saw that she is a snack. 9 00:00:42,400 --> 00:00:44,000 Oh my God. Okay, okay. 10 00:00:44,000 --> 00:00:48,200 We are talking about lucky girl syndrome because I'm seeing it 11 00:00:48,200 --> 00:00:51,300 everywhere on Tick-Tock all over Instagram. 12 00:00:51,700 --> 00:00:54,400 All over the social medias and I love it. 13 00:00:54,400 --> 00:00:56,800 I'm really here for it, it's awesome. 14 00:00:57,100 --> 00:01:01,700 It's the best trend to ER pick up like a mindset Trend. 15 00:01:02,100 --> 00:01:05,300 Let's make more of those please. Yeah, please. 16 00:01:05,300 --> 00:01:10,900 But there are some nuances to it and I really wanted us to talk 17 00:01:10,900 --> 00:01:15,600 about it because it has to do with our training and NLP how 18 00:01:15,600 --> 00:01:19,000 the brain works. How energetics works the Law of 19 00:01:19,000 --> 00:01:23,400 Attraction manifestation it has to do with so much other stuff 20 00:01:23,400 --> 00:01:26,000 and I think there's a deeper conversation to be had around 21 00:01:26,000 --> 00:01:28,300 it. So we're going to share a little 22 00:01:28,300 --> 00:01:30,900 bit about what we know. Oh, and I guess what I'm seeing. 23 00:01:30,900 --> 00:01:33,900 So, if I'm assuming, if you're listening to this podcast 24 00:01:33,900 --> 00:01:37,500 episode that you have heard of lucky girl syndrome or seen it 25 00:01:37,600 --> 00:01:40,700 if you haven't though, basically, there's a girl on 26 00:01:40,700 --> 00:01:44,700 Tick Tock that made a video and said that I am so lucky 27 00:01:44,700 --> 00:01:48,000 everything works out for me. I say this all day every day. 28 00:01:48,000 --> 00:01:50,800 I'm so lucky. Everything works out for me and 29 00:01:50,800 --> 00:01:53,200 everything. Does it all works out for me and 30 00:01:53,200 --> 00:01:55,200 manifestations just happened so quickly. 31 00:01:55,500 --> 00:01:58,700 This good shit happens. I get free coffee money, falls 32 00:01:58,700 --> 00:01:59,800 in my lap. Lap like blah, blah blah, 33 00:01:59,800 --> 00:02:03,300 whatever else and has a lot to do with physical things. 34 00:02:03,500 --> 00:02:07,900 We can touch on that in a second but basically it's an 35 00:02:07,900 --> 00:02:12,300 affirmation that she says to herself and everything works out 36 00:02:12,300 --> 00:02:15,500 for her. And so other people have caught 37 00:02:15,500 --> 00:02:18,500 on to this trend and made their own videos of starting to say 38 00:02:18,500 --> 00:02:21,600 this affirmation and things are working out for them and you're 39 00:02:21,600 --> 00:02:23,900 like holy shit is this magic, how is this working? 40 00:02:23,900 --> 00:02:28,500 And kind of kind of not really people are retraining their 41 00:02:28,500 --> 00:02:31,300 brain. With this, you're creating a new 42 00:02:31,500 --> 00:02:34,600 neural pathway, how freaking cool is that. 43 00:02:35,300 --> 00:02:37,200 Let's get sciency with this shit. 44 00:02:39,200 --> 00:02:43,000 So basically long story short this could be the end of the 45 00:02:43,000 --> 00:02:47,100 podcast episode but it's not when you are saying I'm so lucky 46 00:02:47,100 --> 00:02:49,900 everything works out for me and you're used to thinking like 47 00:02:49,900 --> 00:02:52,000 life is shitty God, this is awful. 48 00:02:52,000 --> 00:02:53,700 I hate this. You're in a cloud of negativity 49 00:02:53,700 --> 00:02:57,100 self-doubt, whatever else. And you start saying I'm so 50 00:02:57,100 --> 00:02:58,400 lucky everything works out for me. 51 00:02:58,600 --> 00:03:02,200 That's like dropping a ray of sunshine into your cloudy brain 52 00:03:02,400 --> 00:03:06,100 and your mind is suddenly like wait I haven't ever thought this 53 00:03:06,100 --> 00:03:09,800 before and that's one walk across the path and then you say 54 00:03:09,800 --> 00:03:12,700 it again and it's a second walk across the path and then the 55 00:03:12,700 --> 00:03:16,000 more you say it the deeper that path gets and the pathway is 56 00:03:16,000 --> 00:03:19,600 created in your brain and so your mind starts to think I'm so 57 00:03:19,600 --> 00:03:21,600 lucky. Everything works out for me and 58 00:03:21,600 --> 00:03:23,700 starts to see the world in that way. 59 00:03:24,600 --> 00:03:28,100 So basically your mind is starting to reframe the way that 60 00:03:28,100 --> 00:03:30,400 you see the world. The by saying I'm so lucky, 61 00:03:30,400 --> 00:03:35,600 everything works out for me and that affects how you see the 62 00:03:35,600 --> 00:03:39,900 things that happen to you. So the same thing could happen 63 00:03:39,900 --> 00:03:41,700 to you on two different days. Just think of when you're in a 64 00:03:41,700 --> 00:03:44,200 great mood, one day and somebody cuts you off in traffic. 65 00:03:44,600 --> 00:03:47,100 And then when you're in a shitty mood, one day and somebody cuts 66 00:03:47,100 --> 00:03:49,400 you off in traffic and how you respond to it. 67 00:03:50,100 --> 00:03:55,000 Basically, your mind is seeing the same things for the most 68 00:03:55,000 --> 00:03:57,100 part happened, but they're seeing it in a more positive 69 00:03:57,100 --> 00:03:58,900 light. So that's one thing. 70 00:03:59,000 --> 00:04:02,700 About how this works. And then there's other things 71 00:04:02,700 --> 00:04:05,600 that attribute to why good things start happening. 72 00:04:05,600 --> 00:04:07,800 Then you're like, wait a minute. No, I got a free coffee at 73 00:04:07,800 --> 00:04:11,500 Starbucks, for no reason. And I'm like, yes, yes, you did. 74 00:04:11,700 --> 00:04:14,200 Why did that happen? And that has to do more. 75 00:04:14,200 --> 00:04:16,100 So, with energetics and matching. 76 00:04:16,100 --> 00:04:19,600 The thing that you desire, and we learned about that through 77 00:04:20,000 --> 00:04:22,900 our training and through other group programs. 78 00:04:22,900 --> 00:04:26,900 We've been in held a group program that I hosted has that 79 00:04:26,900 --> 00:04:29,400 in it. So, yeah, also, Through. 80 00:04:29,400 --> 00:04:33,600 I'm been doing a lot of research and reading about yogic 81 00:04:33,600 --> 00:04:37,300 teachings, literally innate. This is an ancient yoga 82 00:04:37,300 --> 00:04:41,500 teachings from thousands of years ago like it's not new, 83 00:04:41,500 --> 00:04:46,500 it's just being used after a long time of being forgotten and 84 00:04:46,500 --> 00:04:49,400 that's super exciting. Taking something thousands and 85 00:04:49,400 --> 00:04:53,600 thousands of years old and now making it trendy in 2023 Trend, 86 00:04:53,600 --> 00:04:57,700 and modern, trendy and daughter and all of this ancient wisdom. 87 00:04:58,100 --> 00:05:00,800 Basically, it's the law of attraction that people are 88 00:05:00,800 --> 00:05:02,600 focusing on. Yeah. 89 00:05:02,800 --> 00:05:05,700 So this is where there's a lot of nuance to it and I wanted us 90 00:05:05,700 --> 00:05:09,800 to talk about it because you can say I'm so lucky everything 91 00:05:09,800 --> 00:05:12,600 works out for me and the Law of Attraction. 92 00:05:12,800 --> 00:05:15,500 Good things come to you, that can happen. 93 00:05:15,500 --> 00:05:18,900 But there's other things that are happening behind the scenes 94 00:05:18,900 --> 00:05:22,200 and there's like, 12 universal laws, you guys, it's not just 95 00:05:22,200 --> 00:05:25,300 the Law of Attraction. There's also the law of action, 96 00:05:25,800 --> 00:05:30,100 there's a lot of, like, matching, The energy of the 97 00:05:30,108 --> 00:05:34,100 thing you're calling in, it's not just saying everything works 98 00:05:34,100 --> 00:05:36,200 out for me and then everything starts working out for you. 99 00:05:36,500 --> 00:05:39,200 Because if you say I'm so lucky everything works out for me and 100 00:05:39,200 --> 00:05:42,200 your body gets like an icky feeling. 101 00:05:42,300 --> 00:05:44,800 That is telling you, you don't believe a word that's coming out 102 00:05:44,800 --> 00:05:47,100 of your mouth. It's all bullshit and it's not 103 00:05:47,100 --> 00:05:49,500 true. You are resisting. 104 00:05:49,500 --> 00:05:52,700 What you're saying which is reinforcing the opposite of what 105 00:05:52,700 --> 00:05:56,200 you want to believe. So that is why affirmations need 106 00:05:56,600 --> 00:06:00,100 to be realistic for you. For example, well, if you are 107 00:06:00,100 --> 00:06:03,100 trying to attract money and you say I'm a millionaire, I am so 108 00:06:03,100 --> 00:06:05,400 wealthy and your body is like, know the fuck you aren't, you 109 00:06:05,400 --> 00:06:09,600 literally have a negative balance and you're here, your 110 00:06:09,600 --> 00:06:14,100 body is like, you're a freaking liar that affirmation might not 111 00:06:14,100 --> 00:06:17,500 be good for you. It might be better to say like 112 00:06:17,500 --> 00:06:21,100 money is coming my way and just repeat something that casual 113 00:06:21,800 --> 00:06:24,000 that it feels true. Like once you know that 114 00:06:24,000 --> 00:06:26,600 something feels true or has the possibility of being true. 115 00:06:27,100 --> 00:06:28,400 That might feel better than saying. 116 00:06:28,400 --> 00:06:31,700 I am a millionaire when you're straight up not in your body's 117 00:06:31,700 --> 00:06:35,300 like, no, you're not. So I'm so lucky. 118 00:06:35,300 --> 00:06:39,500 Everything works out for me. If it feels false in your body, 119 00:06:39,500 --> 00:06:42,200 you're reinforcing the opposite. So that's something to keep in 120 00:06:42,200 --> 00:06:45,300 mind and you can change that. You don't have to say. 121 00:06:45,300 --> 00:06:46,900 I am so lucky. Everything works out for me, you 122 00:06:46,900 --> 00:06:51,000 can make it your own affirmation, like, good things 123 00:06:51,000 --> 00:06:54,100 are always coming my way or like, if that sounds better than 124 00:06:54,100 --> 00:06:56,900 everything, works out for me because maybe it's not 125 00:06:56,900 --> 00:06:59,000 everything, maybe you don't truly believe everything. 126 00:06:59,000 --> 00:07:01,000 So you say good things are coming my way, and that feels 127 00:07:01,000 --> 00:07:04,500 better use that shift it. So what you actually believe. 128 00:07:05,300 --> 00:07:06,600 So you need to believe the thing. 129 00:07:06,700 --> 00:07:10,500 You're saying because that makes you a match to the thing that 130 00:07:10,500 --> 00:07:13,900 you're calling in. So I feel like money is just one 131 00:07:13,900 --> 00:07:17,300 of the most relatable things for people, so focusing on that. 132 00:07:18,300 --> 00:07:23,700 So if you're trying to call in money, so you're you're like, I 133 00:07:23,700 --> 00:07:25,700 am. I'm abundant money, is coming my 134 00:07:25,700 --> 00:07:27,300 way. Everything is working out for 135 00:07:27,300 --> 00:07:32,800 me, but you're operating as if you're poor broke no money and 136 00:07:32,800 --> 00:07:34,900 you're saying I can't. I can't afford that. 137 00:07:34,900 --> 00:07:36,400 Oh, gosh, must be nice to be rich. 138 00:07:36,400 --> 00:07:40,500 Like I can't do that, and you're saying, like, whatever else, 139 00:07:40,500 --> 00:07:44,000 like rich people are assholes, like, whatever you have around 140 00:07:44,000 --> 00:07:47,300 that, that's like that icky more negative thoughts around money 141 00:07:47,500 --> 00:07:49,200 if you're still operating that way. 142 00:07:49,200 --> 00:07:52,000 But you're saying, I'm so lucky everything works out for me. 143 00:07:52,000 --> 00:07:54,600 I'm a millionaire. Abundance, is coming my way, but 144 00:07:54,600 --> 00:07:56,600 then you're going out in the world and saying, rich people 145 00:07:56,600 --> 00:07:59,900 are assholes like everything sucks. 146 00:08:00,000 --> 00:08:02,500 Like things are too expensive, inflation is ridiculous. 147 00:08:02,900 --> 00:08:05,100 Like can you believe the price of eggs? 148 00:08:05,100 --> 00:08:07,600 Blah blah, whatever else, I literally Earlier yesterday. 149 00:08:09,000 --> 00:08:11,800 But if you're going out and saying that you're not matching, 150 00:08:11,800 --> 00:08:15,500 the person that is calling in a million dollars, you're acting 151 00:08:15,500 --> 00:08:17,900 the opposite and you need to think more of, how does that 152 00:08:17,900 --> 00:08:19,900 person behave? The person that has a million 153 00:08:19,900 --> 00:08:21,400 dollars. They're probably, they're 154 00:08:21,400 --> 00:08:24,400 generous their thankful, they believe that it's working out 155 00:08:24,400 --> 00:08:26,300 for them. They understand that their 156 00:08:26,300 --> 00:08:30,100 trading, their money for things that make them happy for things 157 00:08:30,100 --> 00:08:33,200 that nourish their body. They're, they're exchanging 158 00:08:33,200 --> 00:08:35,799 their money for something of other value. 159 00:08:35,799 --> 00:08:37,700 Like, it's our, That's literally what it is. 160 00:08:38,000 --> 00:08:42,600 It has no has no pressure on their worth and who they are. 161 00:08:42,600 --> 00:08:46,900 And so if you're trying to call that in I'm so lucky. 162 00:08:47,000 --> 00:08:50,500 Everything works out for me, but you're behaving as though you're 163 00:08:50,500 --> 00:08:54,400 unlucky, everything sucks. The world is against you, it's 164 00:08:54,400 --> 00:08:56,900 still not going to hit. It's not going to attract track 165 00:08:56,900 --> 00:09:00,300 in your life so you need to match the energy of what you're 166 00:09:00,300 --> 00:09:01,600 calling in. What's up? 167 00:09:01,600 --> 00:09:03,500 Yes. I just have a little tool for 168 00:09:03,500 --> 00:09:07,100 this is where I really love to use during Journaling. 169 00:09:07,100 --> 00:09:09,700 And it's funny I've actually been really feeling the need to 170 00:09:09,700 --> 00:09:13,900 get journaling again because as we evolved, you know, we go 171 00:09:13,900 --> 00:09:16,700 through stuff and we tend to like let for me. 172 00:09:16,700 --> 00:09:20,700 I know I let things go and I feel like okay I'm complete with 173 00:09:20,700 --> 00:09:23,600 this and then oftentimes it comes back around and there's 174 00:09:23,600 --> 00:09:26,800 some of these little things that I feel are coming back around 175 00:09:27,100 --> 00:09:32,400 for me even with money and I don't know how many of you maybe 176 00:09:32,400 --> 00:09:37,200 have heard or read the artists way and she has an Credible 177 00:09:37,200 --> 00:09:39,200 exercise. And I actually just got the book 178 00:09:39,200 --> 00:09:43,200 out because I want to give correct verbiage and stuff. 179 00:09:45,000 --> 00:09:49,000 She literally talks about it with affirmations so she suggest 180 00:09:49,000 --> 00:09:51,500 writing affirmations, but she kind of in a different way, says 181 00:09:51,500 --> 00:09:55,600 the same thing like when you write an affirmation, if you 182 00:09:55,600 --> 00:09:59,000 don't feel it often times, those thoughts can come up through 183 00:09:59,000 --> 00:10:02,500 being like oh this is bullshit. Like, whatever this isn't true, 184 00:10:02,700 --> 00:10:10,900 whatever she calls those blurts. So So she suggests and I've done 185 00:10:10,900 --> 00:10:15,200 this before and it is so helpful because even with knowing 186 00:10:15,300 --> 00:10:17,800 realizing that like oh yeah, I'm saying these affirmations but 187 00:10:17,800 --> 00:10:20,000 I'm not living it. I'm not acting like it's still 188 00:10:20,000 --> 00:10:24,200 hard to understand why or what is coming up in that and these 189 00:10:24,200 --> 00:10:28,500 blurts are so amazing because you right I'm I everything comes 190 00:10:28,500 --> 00:10:32,000 to me, everything works out and then oh but like not everything 191 00:10:32,000 --> 00:10:33,800 works out. Oh but this time it didn't work 192 00:10:33,800 --> 00:10:36,500 out oh this above LA and you also right. 193 00:10:36,700 --> 00:10:41,300 Down those blurts and you work with them and you can trace back 194 00:10:41,300 --> 00:10:47,500 so well by doing this, where those more challenging thought 195 00:10:47,500 --> 00:10:51,600 patterns or beliefs were born and then get to the root of them 196 00:10:52,000 --> 00:10:56,300 and work with them and come back out and start to really truly 197 00:10:56,300 --> 00:11:00,400 believe the affirmations that you are Desiring to use in your 198 00:11:00,400 --> 00:11:02,100 life. I love that. 199 00:11:02,200 --> 00:11:03,800 I love that. She calls them blurts to because 200 00:11:03,800 --> 00:11:06,100 it's totally like that. It's like you say something in 201 00:11:06,100 --> 00:11:08,200 the mind. And the logic Minds like they 202 00:11:08,200 --> 00:11:09,600 did every babe. It's good. 203 00:11:11,300 --> 00:11:13,300 I like that to a lot. I haven't heard that one. 204 00:11:13,300 --> 00:11:14,400 I don't think you told me that one. 205 00:11:14,600 --> 00:11:18,300 Yeah, but that doesn't smell just when I do my journaling 206 00:11:18,300 --> 00:11:22,300 because I've gotten better at free writing, but sometimes I'm 207 00:11:22,300 --> 00:11:24,800 writing really positive. And then it's like - sentence 208 00:11:24,800 --> 00:11:27,000 and then it's a positive positive sentence - sentence. 209 00:11:27,400 --> 00:11:30,600 But I joke that I've always had a coach in my head though. 210 00:11:31,200 --> 00:11:34,000 Just, yes, you have. Yeah, that's just kind of how I 211 00:11:34,000 --> 00:11:36,400 function. So, like an example I just 212 00:11:36,700 --> 00:11:39,300 That's because I think this is a very good place to start. 213 00:11:39,300 --> 00:11:41,800 Honestly, I mean, journaling is something that we all have 214 00:11:41,800 --> 00:11:47,700 access to, you don't have to go to somebody to journal, you 215 00:11:47,700 --> 00:11:50,900 know, do it in your notes app in your phone. 216 00:11:50,900 --> 00:11:57,800 I do that all the time. So there's the one example he by 217 00:11:57,800 --> 00:12:01,300 doing these blurts found out this person, Paul is his name in 218 00:12:01,300 --> 00:12:04,400 the book and that his core negative belief, was that he was 219 00:12:04,400 --> 00:12:07,300 only kidding himself but he could write his Dream was to be 220 00:12:07,300 --> 00:12:12,000 a writer but he was self sabotaging the entire time and 221 00:12:12,100 --> 00:12:16,900 he worked through this and she says to change it into a 222 00:12:16,900 --> 00:12:21,300 positive affirmation. So just like I Paul have real 223 00:12:21,300 --> 00:12:24,000 talent. I Paul trust and enjoy positive 224 00:12:24,000 --> 00:12:27,200 feedback because basically he got feedback that we want, 225 00:12:27,200 --> 00:12:30,400 that's a story. So he's she says goes on to say 226 00:12:30,600 --> 00:12:32,700 although such positive affirmations felt very 227 00:12:32,700 --> 00:12:35,700 uncomfortable at first, they rapidly allowed Paul the freedom 228 00:12:35,700 --> 00:12:38,500 to participate in. First public reading of his work 229 00:12:38,800 --> 00:12:41,600 when he was widely praised, he was able to accept the good 230 00:12:41,600 --> 00:12:44,800 response without discounting it and it was a fear that he had 231 00:12:44,800 --> 00:12:49,900 but it takes time but it's it's all possible. 232 00:12:50,400 --> 00:12:53,300 It does take time and I thought that popped in my head about 233 00:12:53,300 --> 00:12:55,200 this I'm so lucky everything works out for me. 234 00:12:56,000 --> 00:13:00,300 Affirmation is that all of the videos I'm seeing about it 235 00:13:00,800 --> 00:13:03,000 really have to do with physical things. 236 00:13:03,000 --> 00:13:07,700 Like somebody manifested a free cup of coffee or they found $50 237 00:13:07,700 --> 00:13:11,500 on the ground or little things like that, and that's how 238 00:13:11,500 --> 00:13:14,000 manifestation starts. And I've heard that from other 239 00:13:14,000 --> 00:13:16,200 coaches. Other manifestation, experts is 240 00:13:16,700 --> 00:13:19,800 manifesting the small things, and that's fun. 241 00:13:19,800 --> 00:13:23,000 That's like the beginning of it before you start really getting 242 00:13:23,000 --> 00:13:25,200 into bringing the big things to life. 243 00:13:25,500 --> 00:13:29,500 And a lot of the things that maybe aren't physical as well. 244 00:13:29,600 --> 00:13:33,000 Like when you're, when you're manifesting in your matching, 245 00:13:33,000 --> 00:13:36,000 the energy of what you would like to receive, it has a lot to 246 00:13:36,000 --> 00:13:40,800 do with your Oceans more so than anything else. 247 00:13:41,000 --> 00:13:43,000 That's how you match it? When you think of? 248 00:13:43,000 --> 00:13:46,600 Yeah, I want even when you think I want that free Starbucks 249 00:13:46,600 --> 00:13:47,900 Coffee. How's that coffee? 250 00:13:47,900 --> 00:13:50,500 Going to make you feel warm happy? 251 00:13:50,800 --> 00:13:53,100 Calm at peace. I don't know. 252 00:13:53,100 --> 00:13:56,800 Whatever coffee makes you feel. Okay, know that you can feel 253 00:13:56,800 --> 00:13:59,500 those things with or without the coffee because you obviously 254 00:13:59,500 --> 00:14:01,600 know what those feelings feel like, therefore you've 255 00:14:01,600 --> 00:14:04,400 experienced them before and you can feel that way with or 256 00:14:04,408 --> 00:14:06,500 without it. And once you feel it without 257 00:14:06,600 --> 00:14:11,800 doubt it, that's when it comes. So that can be very hard, very 258 00:14:11,800 --> 00:14:13,200 hard. And I love that you mentioned 259 00:14:13,200 --> 00:14:17,600 that too because I was going to say, like, we can also manifest 260 00:14:17,800 --> 00:14:23,000 non-physical things like you can manifest Health in yourself and 261 00:14:23,300 --> 00:14:25,600 love and emotions and all of those things. 262 00:14:25,600 --> 00:14:28,500 Like I remember, I can't remember who it was. 263 00:14:29,900 --> 00:14:34,400 But she was selling her story about how she was trying to 264 00:14:34,400 --> 00:14:37,900 manifest all of these things, kind of like the It Girl stuff, 265 00:14:37,900 --> 00:14:39,700 you know? But realized like ways like I'm 266 00:14:39,700 --> 00:14:42,400 still like super unhealthy. I still don't feel good in 267 00:14:42,400 --> 00:14:45,000 myself, I can. Yeah, I kind of get these things 268 00:14:45,000 --> 00:14:46,700 but it doesn't change the way I feel. 269 00:14:47,000 --> 00:14:50,600 And she started focusing on manifesting health, and joy and 270 00:14:50,600 --> 00:14:54,300 happiness. And then once she worked on 271 00:14:54,300 --> 00:14:58,900 that, all of those other things, came almost naturally. 272 00:15:01,800 --> 00:15:06,600 The more you put in the work on what really matters and focus on 273 00:15:06,600 --> 00:15:11,800 feeling happy regardless or and this is not to say that you want 274 00:15:11,800 --> 00:15:15,100 to be positive all the time or that bad emotions. 275 00:15:15,100 --> 00:15:17,100 Don't happen. It's nothing like that. 276 00:15:17,100 --> 00:15:20,500 It's just becoming more in tune with your emotions and also 277 00:15:20,500 --> 00:15:23,100 being very real with yourself on. 278 00:15:23,500 --> 00:15:27,300 What do you actually want? So you want that new car? 279 00:15:27,600 --> 00:15:30,600 What's the real reason is Is it for your status? 280 00:15:30,600 --> 00:15:34,400 Is it for other people? Or is it because, like, what 281 00:15:34,400 --> 00:15:38,900 what's the reason why the car, why not a house, why not a boat, 282 00:15:39,100 --> 00:15:43,400 why the car be very specific about what that is because then 283 00:15:43,400 --> 00:15:47,600 you can match the feelings of the version of you that already 284 00:15:47,600 --> 00:15:50,200 has the boat. Because if we're going to get 285 00:15:50,200 --> 00:15:53,900 into something that I think is really fun to play with timeline 286 00:15:53,900 --> 00:15:56,800 Theory of Everything, has already happened and everything 287 00:15:56,800 --> 00:15:59,300 is happening at. Once you already have the boat, 288 00:15:59,700 --> 00:16:02,500 You already have the car, you already have a million dollars 289 00:16:03,600 --> 00:16:07,400 and you can imagine that like play make-believe, just wanted 290 00:16:07,400 --> 00:16:09,900 for fuck's sake. We stop playing make-believe at 291 00:16:09,900 --> 00:16:14,300 like age 11 just because somebody tells us to sit in a 292 00:16:14,300 --> 00:16:16,400 desk and do a math problem on the board. 293 00:16:16,700 --> 00:16:20,200 My stick be realistic or you know, what do you want to be 294 00:16:20,200 --> 00:16:22,400 when you grow up? Oh that doesn't make sense. 295 00:16:22,400 --> 00:16:26,400 Or what's that, you know? Like literally play make-believe 296 00:16:26,400 --> 00:16:29,400 like your life depends on it because it literally does if you 297 00:16:29,500 --> 00:16:33,600 Don't Envision what you want. The universe has no idea what 298 00:16:33,600 --> 00:16:35,300 you want because you don't know what you want. 299 00:16:35,300 --> 00:16:39,800 So what the fuck do you want? Like, what do you want? 300 00:16:39,800 --> 00:16:42,200 What do you want? What do you want? 301 00:16:42,300 --> 00:16:48,500 Ryan Gosling love him. Oh man, but that matters so much 302 00:16:48,500 --> 00:16:53,400 because you just say I just want to live a happy successful 303 00:16:53,400 --> 00:16:55,500 wealthy life. Well what does that look like? 304 00:16:55,500 --> 00:16:58,800 Because wealth to me looks like traveling all over the world. 305 00:16:58,800 --> 00:17:02,400 I have Who don't want to travel at all, like they're just not 306 00:17:02,400 --> 00:17:06,700 interested, which I don't understand at all, but like the 307 00:17:06,700 --> 00:17:08,800 things there that all you for your life. 308 00:17:08,800 --> 00:17:10,599 Yeah, that's for them. The things that you value in 309 00:17:10,599 --> 00:17:13,300 your life have completely different, definitions to your 310 00:17:13,300 --> 00:17:15,700 friends, your family, and maybe even your significant other, 311 00:17:15,700 --> 00:17:18,500 which is very important to get clear on what is success to 312 00:17:18,500 --> 00:17:20,599 them. What success to you, what is 313 00:17:20,599 --> 00:17:22,000 peace to them? What is peace to you? 314 00:17:22,000 --> 00:17:24,300 What's happiness, like what brings them Joy, what brings you 315 00:17:24,300 --> 00:17:27,400 Joy and it's just different for absolutely everybody. 316 00:17:28,300 --> 00:17:31,700 It changes. Is it does change chances of go 317 00:17:31,700 --> 00:17:35,000 through phases, hmm, and it's okay. 318 00:17:35,000 --> 00:17:39,000 I feel like a lot of people, myself included, we can get in 319 00:17:39,000 --> 00:17:48,200 these cycles of feeling like stuck and almost sad because We 320 00:17:48,200 --> 00:17:50,700 have this thing and it was serving us so well and it felt 321 00:17:50,700 --> 00:17:52,100 so good. And then all the sudden, it's 322 00:17:52,100 --> 00:17:55,800 like, wait, this isn't what I, this isn't what it was, what 323 00:17:55,800 --> 00:17:58,500 happened. And there's nothing wrong with 324 00:17:58,500 --> 00:18:01,600 that. It's like, Nature's Way to be 325 00:18:01,600 --> 00:18:07,700 like, go go do more. Become more you and live, isn't 326 00:18:07,700 --> 00:18:10,300 it crazy? How one thing that made you so 327 00:18:10,300 --> 00:18:13,600 happy? At one point now makes you so 328 00:18:13,600 --> 00:18:17,500 unhappy. The first thought I have is 329 00:18:17,500 --> 00:18:20,100 thing Of a family that buys a new house or like, it doesn't 330 00:18:20,100 --> 00:18:21,800 newly, married couple. They're so excited about the 331 00:18:21,808 --> 00:18:23,700 house, you know? Like this is great. 332 00:18:23,700 --> 00:18:26,400 We finally have our own place. This is like we're so happy. 333 00:18:26,600 --> 00:18:28,500 You remodel it. You make it yours. 334 00:18:28,900 --> 00:18:33,000 And then down the road, you have like two to four kids later and 335 00:18:33,000 --> 00:18:35,000 then they're like gosh, this house is so small. 336 00:18:35,000 --> 00:18:38,000 It's cramped, I hate it. It's a nuisance like it needs to 337 00:18:38,000 --> 00:18:41,300 be remodeled again. Like I hate like the same 338 00:18:41,300 --> 00:18:43,200 object. The object has done nothing. 339 00:18:43,200 --> 00:18:46,000 The people have changed. Thanks, isn't that just crazy? 340 00:18:46,000 --> 00:18:49,200 Amazing. I think it's so cool and that's 341 00:18:49,200 --> 00:18:50,700 your sign that you're outgrowing. 342 00:18:50,700 --> 00:18:54,600 Here's your space. And also the thing that came to 343 00:18:54,600 --> 00:18:57,600 my mind with, I am so lucky. Everything works out for me. 344 00:18:58,000 --> 00:18:59,800 I was going to touch this earlier and then we got on a 345 00:18:59,808 --> 00:19:04,700 tangent Jacker, a lot. Shocker, imagine that. 346 00:19:05,600 --> 00:19:09,800 But a lot of the videos I'm seeing focus on all of these 347 00:19:09,800 --> 00:19:14,300 good things that are happening, but I think that there is a 348 00:19:14,300 --> 00:19:16,800 deeper side to it. That's very important 349 00:19:17,000 --> 00:19:19,400 understand. Thing, I am so lucky. 350 00:19:19,400 --> 00:19:23,500 Everything works out for me, whether I see it as good or bad 351 00:19:23,800 --> 00:19:27,100 because you might think I'm interviewing for a job next 352 00:19:27,100 --> 00:19:29,200 week. For example, or this might come 353 00:19:29,200 --> 00:19:30,900 out after I already experienced that. 354 00:19:30,900 --> 00:19:33,400 I don't know. But I'm going into this job 355 00:19:33,400 --> 00:19:36,800 interview and if I truly believe I am, so lucky everything works 356 00:19:36,800 --> 00:19:40,600 out for me if I get the job freaking fantastic. 357 00:19:40,600 --> 00:19:42,600 That's the next step for me. We're going to see what happens 358 00:19:42,600 --> 00:19:45,300 if I don't get the job. I am still so lucky, everything 359 00:19:45,300 --> 00:19:48,600 works out for me some horrible. It could have happened to me if 360 00:19:48,600 --> 00:19:50,000 I got that job. Who knows? 361 00:19:50,100 --> 00:19:52,400 It's the Universe part or something or something. 362 00:19:52,400 --> 00:19:54,700 Better is meant for you, but for something better. 363 00:19:54,700 --> 00:19:57,000 Like there's there's so many different sides to it. 364 00:19:57,000 --> 00:19:58,300 But yeah. Or there's something better than 365 00:19:58,300 --> 00:19:59,100 it's like. Okay cool. 366 00:19:59,100 --> 00:20:01,700 What's next? And I think it's that mindset 367 00:20:01,700 --> 00:20:05,200 shift that takes you so much farther than just believing I'm 368 00:20:05,200 --> 00:20:06,600 so lucky. Everything works out for me and 369 00:20:06,600 --> 00:20:08,100 things are just going to be handed to you. 370 00:20:08,100 --> 00:20:11,300 That's not necessarily the case, most of the time. 371 00:20:11,300 --> 00:20:15,100 It's like shifting your mindset from the seemingly negative 372 00:20:15,100 --> 00:20:17,500 things that are not going the way you thought they should. 373 00:20:18,300 --> 00:20:21,200 Going exactly the way the universe knows they should go 374 00:20:21,500 --> 00:20:24,600 and you just accepting that and knowing that it's working out 375 00:20:24,600 --> 00:20:27,000 for you. In some way that you're going to 376 00:20:27,000 --> 00:20:28,800 look back in the future and be like, thank God. 377 00:20:28,800 --> 00:20:30,400 I didn't get that job or thank God. 378 00:20:30,400 --> 00:20:33,400 I did get that job. Who knows? 379 00:20:33,400 --> 00:20:37,500 Like this is literally my only one if this topic that were just 380 00:20:37,500 --> 00:20:41,100 discussing right now is really speaking to somebody. 381 00:20:41,200 --> 00:20:43,600 And, you know, you're really feeling like oh my God, yes, I 382 00:20:43,600 --> 00:20:45,600 feel this, but I don't really understand it. 383 00:20:46,100 --> 00:20:51,000 Go and buy By the surrender experiment by Michael singer. 384 00:20:51,600 --> 00:20:57,200 That is a beautiful example of when we put our personality 385 00:20:57,200 --> 00:20:58,600 which brings back to human design. 386 00:20:58,600 --> 00:21:00,900 What we just talked about in the episode, we just recorded but 387 00:21:01,700 --> 00:21:06,500 when we put a personality aside and let go of our preferences 388 00:21:06,500 --> 00:21:12,600 that are logic, mind gets so over involved in that's when you 389 00:21:12,600 --> 00:21:16,000 trust so much that life is putting giving to you. 390 00:21:16,000 --> 00:21:19,400 Exactly what. Is meant for you to grow and 391 00:21:19,400 --> 00:21:24,200 evolve and become the highest version that you can be on this 392 00:21:24,200 --> 00:21:27,000 Earth. And I just, I love that book. 393 00:21:27,000 --> 00:21:29,600 It's a great, great, great. Great, great example. 394 00:21:30,600 --> 00:21:32,500 Of the power. I need to still need to get that 395 00:21:32,500 --> 00:21:34,000 book. You talk about it all the time. 396 00:21:34,000 --> 00:21:37,500 So I think I need to add it to my Amazon cart right after this. 397 00:21:37,500 --> 00:21:40,100 Yeah, it's only like nine dollars you guys. 398 00:21:40,200 --> 00:21:42,700 It's like no, it'll really and it will be delivered to your 399 00:21:42,700 --> 00:21:44,200 door. Yeah. 400 00:21:44,200 --> 00:21:45,900 And it's a really quick easy. Read. 401 00:21:45,900 --> 00:21:51,100 I read it in like two days. Yeah, it's just incredible how 402 00:21:51,100 --> 00:21:57,100 much we have a vision of our lives and it's all, how do I 403 00:21:57,100 --> 00:21:59,900 want to say this? You don't want to not have a 404 00:21:59,900 --> 00:22:05,300 vision, you can have a vision of what you would like, and the 405 00:22:05,300 --> 00:22:07,700 emotions are more important than the vision. 406 00:22:08,100 --> 00:22:12,500 Like, when I like I am successful, I feel this way. 407 00:22:12,500 --> 00:22:14,700 I get to help these people. This is impact. 408 00:22:14,700 --> 00:22:16,700 I'm having. This is what I'm I'm doing. 409 00:22:16,700 --> 00:22:18,800 I'm interested in these things. Things. 410 00:22:19,200 --> 00:22:23,500 You can have a vision, it's losing the attachment and that's 411 00:22:23,500 --> 00:22:27,100 where the surrender comes in, losing the attachment to that 412 00:22:27,100 --> 00:22:30,300 vision. And that's why I love the thing 413 00:22:30,300 --> 00:22:33,000 I've Loved most about who, I can't remember what training we 414 00:22:33,000 --> 00:22:35,900 did. But anytime I have like a 415 00:22:35,900 --> 00:22:41,000 manifestation, or I'm calling in XYZ or better, because yes, 416 00:22:41,200 --> 00:22:44,200 usually, when you get the blinders on and you're like, my 417 00:22:44,200 --> 00:22:47,600 life needs to look like this in, and I need to do these things. 418 00:22:47,900 --> 00:22:51,800 And Have blinders on like you know, peripheral vision to see 419 00:22:51,800 --> 00:22:53,400 what opportunities are coming your way. 420 00:22:53,400 --> 00:22:56,500 You're so fixated on this thing that you think needs to work out 421 00:22:56,500 --> 00:23:00,500 in this specific way, you're not seeing the other opportunities 422 00:23:00,500 --> 00:23:02,500 coming to you. That's like wait this is a 423 00:23:02,500 --> 00:23:04,900 shortcut and you're like no I'm taking the long road. 424 00:23:05,300 --> 00:23:08,900 I've committed to the Long Road. No shortcuts please no easy 425 00:23:08,900 --> 00:23:13,900 passes like new universes like okay you make your choice, do 426 00:23:13,900 --> 00:23:16,200 it. The hard way that the universe 427 00:23:16,200 --> 00:23:18,500 is sitting back just like, enjoying the show. 428 00:23:18,600 --> 00:23:20,500 Show and they're just like, I tried to help you. 429 00:23:21,600 --> 00:23:25,800 So make it one way or the other. Yeah, exactly. 430 00:23:25,900 --> 00:23:28,200 Like all repair roads. All lead to the same place. 431 00:23:28,900 --> 00:23:33,200 Yeah, that's just my thought on I'm so lucky everything works 432 00:23:33,200 --> 00:23:34,900 out for me. It really does. 433 00:23:36,100 --> 00:23:38,800 And do it. I mean that kills the ego 434 00:23:38,800 --> 00:23:41,900 sometimes if you really believe that everything works out for 435 00:23:41,900 --> 00:23:44,800 you and your egos like you just got fired from your job. 436 00:23:44,800 --> 00:23:48,600 You crashed your car. What do you mean this isn't 437 00:23:48,600 --> 00:23:52,000 working out for me? Like hell no, I'm pissed off. 438 00:23:52,000 --> 00:23:56,600 Like I deserve better but if you believe everything works out for 439 00:23:56,600 --> 00:24:03,000 you, I just think of I had, I had so much fun with this boy in 440 00:24:03,000 --> 00:24:05,800 Nashville thinking about it the other night. 441 00:24:06,000 --> 00:24:08,900 It seemed like we had so much fun and we got along. 442 00:24:08,900 --> 00:24:13,700 So well, and that and we talked like every single day for a 443 00:24:13,708 --> 00:24:17,800 month and a half and then all of a sudden he just like, stopped 444 00:24:17,800 --> 00:24:20,300 talking to me. When I was like, I was little, 445 00:24:20,300 --> 00:24:22,000 but heard about it. I was like, what the hell? 446 00:24:22,100 --> 00:24:25,600 What's your problem, dude? Like, by what he's doing? 447 00:24:25,800 --> 00:24:27,300 Yeah. Like, didn't we have fun? 448 00:24:27,300 --> 00:24:29,400 Did I just make that up? And then I'm like, you know 449 00:24:29,400 --> 00:24:32,500 what, I'm so lucky everything works out for me. 450 00:24:32,500 --> 00:24:35,700 The universe was like, no girl, no, we're good. 451 00:24:35,900 --> 00:24:37,600 Cutting this off and I'm like, fine. 452 00:24:38,400 --> 00:24:42,300 Fine, there's a better person and that's really helped me. 453 00:24:42,300 --> 00:24:46,000 And I need to hold myself back sometimes, talking to friends, 454 00:24:46,500 --> 00:24:50,900 or family, or anybody I read into that, shares their issues 455 00:24:51,100 --> 00:24:53,800 their problems. And the more I get into this, 456 00:24:53,800 --> 00:24:57,100 the more I feel like I'm attracting people that are they 457 00:24:57,100 --> 00:25:01,000 see me as somebody to talk to which is also my human design. 458 00:25:01,500 --> 00:25:07,400 Yeah, 5151 I do my best to have you Open conversation, because 459 00:25:08,300 --> 00:25:10,900 you got to understand, like what you're at, like, your feelings 460 00:25:10,900 --> 00:25:12,700 are valid, your emotions are valid. 461 00:25:13,100 --> 00:25:15,800 Maybe you don't feel lucky, and nothing is working out for you. 462 00:25:16,300 --> 00:25:18,700 That's how you feel and that's totally valid. 463 00:25:19,300 --> 00:25:23,600 But once you get into this stuff, this work these 464 00:25:23,600 --> 00:25:26,800 affirmations, you read these like the you have these tools 465 00:25:26,800 --> 00:25:29,200 and you understand that everything is working out for 466 00:25:29,200 --> 00:25:31,900 you. I try to toss in gentle 467 00:25:31,900 --> 00:25:36,500 perspective shifts where I can't I don't I don't Sit with it. 468 00:25:36,700 --> 00:25:39,900 Yeah, we try to keep it gentle because it's also rude to sit 469 00:25:39,900 --> 00:25:41,800 with a friend and be like, just get the fuck over it. 470 00:25:41,800 --> 00:25:43,400 He wasn't for you. The universe, has a plan. 471 00:25:43,400 --> 00:25:46,100 There's another person down the road, like, that's not nice. 472 00:25:46,100 --> 00:25:50,000 I try not to do that. Although in the gist of it, like 473 00:25:50,000 --> 00:25:52,000 that's the hardest version of it. 474 00:25:53,000 --> 00:25:57,300 Yeah. We just what's so much freaking 475 00:25:57,300 --> 00:26:00,100 pressure on ourselves so much pressure. 476 00:26:00,100 --> 00:26:04,500 And like any chance we get, this is a yogic teaching as well that 477 00:26:04,500 --> 00:26:10,300 the logic the logic. Your brain is always, always 478 00:26:10,300 --> 00:26:12,600 looking for something wrong in the past. 479 00:26:12,600 --> 00:26:15,700 You can see this in yourself, you're having a wonderful day, 480 00:26:16,000 --> 00:26:19,100 and we can notice that there's a voice in our head being like, 481 00:26:19,100 --> 00:26:22,300 Oh, but like what if it starts to rain or like, what if, what 482 00:26:22,300 --> 00:26:24,700 if this, what if this happens? What did that happen tomorrow? 483 00:26:24,700 --> 00:26:27,300 No, I'm having a good day. It's okay. 484 00:26:27,800 --> 00:26:34,000 And this is an example to of like when we allow the pressure 485 00:26:34,000 --> 00:26:39,000 that has been cooking on top of us for so long for entire life 486 00:26:39,000 --> 00:26:46,900 to release itself and kind of hair carefully with care and 487 00:26:46,900 --> 00:26:49,600 tenderness and all that be like Eco. 488 00:26:50,200 --> 00:26:51,900 It's okay. We're going to be okay. 489 00:26:52,000 --> 00:26:56,500 We're here together. Then it's just like, life 490 00:26:56,500 --> 00:27:00,100 becomes so much lighter because it's not meant to be so heavy 491 00:27:00,100 --> 00:27:02,800 all the time. That's where the everything 492 00:27:02,800 --> 00:27:05,600 works out for me. Part comes in because we spend 493 00:27:05,600 --> 00:27:09,500 so much time in our heads thinking about all the ways that 494 00:27:09,500 --> 00:27:15,500 things might go wrong and stress, and have anxiety about 495 00:27:15,500 --> 00:27:17,700 the future. And most of the time, those 496 00:27:17,700 --> 00:27:22,600 things don't happen and you're just experiencing things going 497 00:27:22,600 --> 00:27:25,600 wrong. You're experiencing it and it's 498 00:27:25,600 --> 00:27:27,900 not even happening, you're predicting the future. 499 00:27:27,900 --> 00:27:31,000 And most of the time, things frickin work out. 500 00:27:31,000 --> 00:27:33,700 Most of the time, everything is fine. 501 00:27:34,200 --> 00:27:38,200 Like the more you realize that or you sit in the moment and I 502 00:27:38,200 --> 00:27:41,400 do this every so often. When I'm feeling anxiety, or I'm 503 00:27:41,400 --> 00:27:44,100 feeling my mind spinning, I take deep breaths. 504 00:27:44,100 --> 00:27:47,000 And I'm like, where am I? What am I doing? 505 00:27:47,300 --> 00:27:51,300 Everything is fine right now. Okay, cool, none of this is 506 00:27:51,300 --> 00:27:53,400 happening. It's literally my mind making a 507 00:27:53,600 --> 00:27:58,300 A story and I'm predicting how I would feel if that happens and 508 00:27:58,300 --> 00:28:02,700 feeling it now, even though it might never happen, I think I've 509 00:28:02,700 --> 00:28:06,200 got I think we have all experienced more trauma in our 510 00:28:06,200 --> 00:28:08,900 lives. Just from envisioning things 511 00:28:08,900 --> 00:28:11,100 that never even freaking happen to us. 512 00:28:11,800 --> 00:28:18,300 Oh my God, it starts, right? And I can't remember who was 513 00:28:18,300 --> 00:28:22,600 talking about this. Hell maybe I said it on a past 514 00:28:22,600 --> 00:28:27,100 episode But when you experience a trauma in your real life 515 00:28:27,100 --> 00:28:29,800 you're like no but it actually did happen, Okay? 516 00:28:30,000 --> 00:28:33,400 It happened. It's not the best thing but 517 00:28:33,900 --> 00:28:39,000 you're reliving it in your head. So actually it was in loving. 518 00:28:39,000 --> 00:28:42,000 What is that? Book is insane. 519 00:28:42,000 --> 00:28:44,900 I'm telling you, but she was talking. 520 00:28:44,900 --> 00:28:49,700 This is by Byron Katie and she was talking to a man who 521 00:28:51,800 --> 00:28:53,300 something traumatic happened to him. 522 00:28:53,600 --> 00:28:57,500 And he's like, I don't know, like, that person was so 523 00:28:57,500 --> 00:29:00,300 horrible to me. And she's like that experience. 524 00:29:00,300 --> 00:29:04,800 Yes, was really not great. That was not good, not saying 525 00:29:04,800 --> 00:29:06,300 that you just need to get over it. 526 00:29:06,300 --> 00:29:09,600 Absolutely not feel everything you're feeling but she's like, 527 00:29:10,300 --> 00:29:14,200 who is actually being mean to you in this situation because 528 00:29:14,200 --> 00:29:18,100 that person did it to you once and you're reliving it in your 529 00:29:18,100 --> 00:29:22,000 head for 50 years who's actually being mean. 530 00:29:22,100 --> 00:29:24,000 And he's like, I'm being mean to my Elf. 531 00:29:24,100 --> 00:29:27,400 I'm reliving it and reliving it on purpose, thinking of I should 532 00:29:27,400 --> 00:29:28,700 have said this, I should have done that. 533 00:29:28,700 --> 00:29:30,800 Well, you didn't, and it's not what happened. 534 00:29:31,000 --> 00:29:34,600 And so when you're in your head and just reliving and like being 535 00:29:34,600 --> 00:29:38,400 mean to yourself, like you're traumatizing yourself just 536 00:29:38,400 --> 00:29:41,000 thinking of all the things, whether you're reliving, 537 00:29:41,000 --> 00:29:45,000 something that did happen. Like totally valid experience 538 00:29:45,200 --> 00:29:48,000 should be things happen. I've relived things in my head 539 00:29:48,000 --> 00:29:50,400 and been mean to myself. I also think that that has 540 00:29:50,400 --> 00:29:53,400 altered my story, I'm realizing that and sup break. 541 00:29:53,500 --> 00:29:56,500 Um down some of the things I think about certain people that 542 00:29:56,500 --> 00:30:00,700 I've relived the fu- events I've had with that person has really 543 00:30:00,700 --> 00:30:03,300 changed my perception of them and I could completely cut out 544 00:30:03,300 --> 00:30:07,200 all the good stuff and I'm like whoa whoa, that's like a self 545 00:30:07,200 --> 00:30:09,900 admission but you're also thinking of the future of 546 00:30:09,908 --> 00:30:12,800 imaginary events so why not Envision? 547 00:30:12,800 --> 00:30:14,600 I am so lucky. Everything works out for me and 548 00:30:14,600 --> 00:30:19,400 envisioned the good things like project that happiness and like 549 00:30:19,400 --> 00:30:22,100 relive that happiness, every single day rather than all of 550 00:30:22,100 --> 00:30:26,800 the ways, it might not happen. And that's manifestation you 551 00:30:26,800 --> 00:30:29,500 like men envisioning it, you're refining. 552 00:30:29,500 --> 00:30:32,100 It, you're like, all right. Sweet, that's happening. 553 00:30:32,500 --> 00:30:36,100 How do I get there? Sometimes I giggle to myself how 554 00:30:36,100 --> 00:30:40,000 easy it actually all is it really is like easy, like it is. 555 00:30:41,700 --> 00:30:46,000 All the work that we really kind of have to do is stuff that 556 00:30:46,000 --> 00:30:51,800 we've gained on to, sorry. My dog is right here, hi. 557 00:30:52,200 --> 00:30:56,100 But it's all the things that we've gained through our life to 558 00:30:56,100 --> 00:30:59,700 this point. And we can choose right now in 559 00:30:59,700 --> 00:31:05,900 this present moment. To not gain any more things that 560 00:31:05,900 --> 00:31:07,600 aren't in alignment with who we are. 561 00:31:08,500 --> 00:31:12,100 And then, all we need to do is work through the karma. 562 00:31:12,100 --> 00:31:14,100 We've built up. We don't have to continue to 563 00:31:14,100 --> 00:31:19,300 create Karma. It's like so simple but it's 564 00:31:19,600 --> 00:31:21,500 also difficult, but it's so simple. 565 00:31:22,800 --> 00:31:27,400 And for anyone listening who has a preconceived notion of what 566 00:31:27,400 --> 00:31:31,600 karma is because I did before I read a definition of it, I 567 00:31:31,600 --> 00:31:36,600 thought it was like someone gets what's coming to them or like 568 00:31:36,600 --> 00:31:39,200 someone did something bad, so something bad happens to them 569 00:31:39,600 --> 00:31:45,500 and it's not necessarily that karma is actually The universe 570 00:31:45,500 --> 00:31:49,100 putting obstacles on your path to alert you that you're heading 571 00:31:49,100 --> 00:31:52,900 in the wrong direction and getting you back on to Direction 572 00:31:53,000 --> 00:31:56,500 the right path. So it's not like I don't know, I 573 00:31:56,500 --> 00:31:58,700 said something mean to the lady at the grocery store and then I 574 00:31:58,700 --> 00:32:01,600 get in a car accident. That's not Karma, ran 575 00:32:01,600 --> 00:32:05,300 necessarily like it's more. So like maybe you should have 576 00:32:05,300 --> 00:32:06,900 been nice to the lady at the grocery store, okay? 577 00:32:07,200 --> 00:32:11,700 But like thing after thing keeps happening like applications get 578 00:32:11,700 --> 00:32:13,300 rejected, you get in a car accident. 579 00:32:13,300 --> 00:32:16,000 You slip on ice. Like I don't know and everything 580 00:32:16,000 --> 00:32:18,600 seems to be hitting the fan. That is more of a buildup of 581 00:32:18,600 --> 00:32:21,500 karma that's like, Dude. Like stop for a second. 582 00:32:21,500 --> 00:32:24,000 What are you doing? Yeah, check in with your life. 583 00:32:24,000 --> 00:32:27,800 What were you going? And so if you're saying I'm so 584 00:32:27,800 --> 00:32:30,400 lucky everything works out for me, but bad shit still happening 585 00:32:30,400 --> 00:32:33,000 to you. And everything's working out for 586 00:32:33,000 --> 00:32:35,900 you and it's literally telling you to like, hey, I want to help 587 00:32:35,900 --> 00:32:37,400 you. I want everything to work out 588 00:32:37,400 --> 00:32:40,600 for you, but you need to like, the do it. 589 00:32:40,600 --> 00:32:42,800 Listen, listen to me. Listen to me. 590 00:32:44,300 --> 00:32:54,500 Linda Linda, listen, there's this girl, I follow on Instagram 591 00:32:54,500 --> 00:32:57,000 called. Her name is Sega. 592 00:32:57,900 --> 00:33:00,200 I will take her in the show notes. 593 00:33:00,700 --> 00:33:05,900 Yeah, her name is Sega but it's spelled syg a and she makes 594 00:33:06,700 --> 00:33:10,400 Instagram reels about like, talking to her Spirit guides, or 595 00:33:10,400 --> 00:33:15,900 like her ego communicating with her ancestors or something and 596 00:33:15,900 --> 00:33:21,200 they're so freaking funny and it's always like the one I saw 597 00:33:21,200 --> 00:33:25,300 the other day was her meditating once and she's like, you told me 598 00:33:25,400 --> 00:33:26,500 everything was going to work out. 599 00:33:26,500 --> 00:33:29,000 You promised you promised everything in the Spirit guides 600 00:33:29,000 --> 00:33:32,300 like okay. Well did you cleanse your space? 601 00:33:32,700 --> 00:33:34,500 Did you meditate? Did you Journal? 602 00:33:35,100 --> 00:33:38,000 Did you reflect? And she's like, You told me 603 00:33:38,000 --> 00:33:39,700 everything was just going to work out and they're like, okay 604 00:33:39,700 --> 00:33:42,900 well did you use the tools? And she's like, you told me, 605 00:33:42,900 --> 00:33:44,400 everything was just going to work out. 606 00:33:44,400 --> 00:33:49,500 Well, did you use the tools? Did you would listen, it's not 607 00:33:49,500 --> 00:33:51,500 funny. So funny because like your 608 00:33:51,500 --> 00:33:56,600 little traction lob action requires action. 609 00:33:56,700 --> 00:34:01,700 Like yeah. Oh man, torretta action and 610 00:34:01,700 --> 00:34:06,100 train wreck action action. What Darrell Lea we have to 611 00:34:06,100 --> 00:34:09,500 actually do things. You Can't just say I'm so lucky. 612 00:34:09,500 --> 00:34:12,199 Everything works out for me, I'm a millionaire and then sit on 613 00:34:12,199 --> 00:34:17,500 the couch. Sometimes I wish but wish unless 614 00:34:17,500 --> 00:34:20,100 you're on the couch working, like doing something on your 615 00:34:20,100 --> 00:34:23,600 computer, that is true action toward what you want to do. 616 00:34:23,600 --> 00:34:28,900 And sometimes the best action we can take is to do nothing for a 617 00:34:28,900 --> 00:34:33,800 while and sit in silence and like really feel what is in 618 00:34:33,800 --> 00:34:36,199 alignment for me, like, what do I truly want? 619 00:34:36,199 --> 00:34:39,400 What is the best place for my energy to go? 620 00:34:39,699 --> 00:34:42,500 That's something I'm really learning how to do is to like 621 00:34:42,500 --> 00:34:46,699 really truly take time. To be in my own self in my own 622 00:34:46,699 --> 00:34:53,400 space for myself but that is not all the time, that is a moment. 623 00:34:53,400 --> 00:34:58,100 Maybe maybe a week, maybe a month, maybe a year and then 624 00:34:58,200 --> 00:35:02,800 time comes for action and it's this fluid nice thing that I'm 625 00:35:02,800 --> 00:35:07,100 still learning how to be in fluidity with but I believe it 626 00:35:07,100 --> 00:35:11,500 to be true. I'm learning so much about 627 00:35:11,500 --> 00:35:13,900 receiving. I think I'm in the process. 628 00:35:14,100 --> 00:35:16,800 Of this lesson right now because I've spent so much time in the 629 00:35:16,808 --> 00:35:19,500 past year being a part of programs. 630 00:35:19,500 --> 00:35:24,400 Getting certifications learning reading growing taking action 631 00:35:24,400 --> 00:35:29,500 steps to do things and it's really hard for me to sit back 632 00:35:29,500 --> 00:35:33,300 and just like maybe now is the time for me to just, you know, 633 00:35:33,800 --> 00:35:38,200 see where human design goes or see where coaching goes and not 634 00:35:38,200 --> 00:35:42,200 be learning something like maybe it's becoming an expert in 635 00:35:42,200 --> 00:35:45,000 something and like continuing to practice Actus because I'm so 636 00:35:45,000 --> 00:35:47,400 used to like, gaining new skills. 637 00:35:47,400 --> 00:35:49,900 I think that comes from school and like you level up, you learn 638 00:35:49,900 --> 00:35:53,200 anything, you could take a new class and I'm still kind of in 639 00:35:53,200 --> 00:35:58,200 that Rhythm and like, I'm so lucky, everything works out for 640 00:35:58,207 --> 00:36:00,000 me. That also takes that sitting 641 00:36:00,000 --> 00:36:01,300 back. Like you said, Sometimes the 642 00:36:01,300 --> 00:36:05,200 best action is to do nothing and to take care of yourself and to 643 00:36:05,200 --> 00:36:08,900 just show up in the world and let it come to you. 644 00:36:09,200 --> 00:36:13,300 And Yeah, like you can't take something from the hands of the 645 00:36:13,300 --> 00:36:15,100 universe. The universe is like, gives it 646 00:36:15,100 --> 00:36:17,300 to you, but you have to be willing to accept it. 647 00:36:17,400 --> 00:36:19,900 You have to catch it. Yeah. 648 00:36:21,000 --> 00:36:25,800 So I'm a headphone just fell out of my ear but I just wanted to 649 00:36:25,800 --> 00:36:31,600 say one of my last little Thanks, it's so funny to me that 650 00:36:32,200 --> 00:36:37,600 we say doing nothing. And in reality doing nothing, 651 00:36:37,600 --> 00:36:42,100 truly doing nothing. I don't mean sitting on your bed 652 00:36:42,100 --> 00:36:46,800 watching Netflix or even reading, like truly doing. 653 00:36:46,900 --> 00:36:52,600 Nothing is the most difficult thing without a doubt. 654 00:36:52,600 --> 00:36:56,200 I'm saying it without a doubt for us as humans to do. 655 00:36:57,000 --> 00:37:00,800 And it's also the most invaluable thing we can do 656 00:37:00,800 --> 00:37:05,200 because we are constantly being inundated with so much. 657 00:37:05,200 --> 00:37:10,900 I mean, there's been things that six months ago, I thought were 658 00:37:10,900 --> 00:37:15,500 my fangs and I was wanting to attract them and manifest them 659 00:37:15,500 --> 00:37:19,400 and they weren't actually what I wanted. 660 00:37:19,400 --> 00:37:25,800 But, and in that time, and I've not spent enough of it, that's 661 00:37:25,800 --> 00:37:29,500 been a huge lesson. In for me, in that little bit of 662 00:37:29,500 --> 00:37:34,500 time that I just took a moment, even just five deep breaths, not 663 00:37:34,500 --> 00:37:37,600 looking at anything that listening to anything, not being 664 00:37:37,600 --> 00:37:41,800 anything. It in those five breaths, I have 665 00:37:42,900 --> 00:37:48,700 gained so much Clarity more so than any journaling, any 666 00:37:48,900 --> 00:37:57,900 exercise, any personal growth tool silence is Invaluable. 667 00:37:58,000 --> 00:38:01,100 It's and so. So so powerful. 668 00:38:02,100 --> 00:38:07,300 But we but it's so hard. I know, part of my human design, 669 00:38:08,000 --> 00:38:12,600 specifically, says silence. Like yeah, like the prime 670 00:38:12,600 --> 00:38:15,300 expression of it is, like, learning through silence. 671 00:38:15,300 --> 00:38:20,700 And I'm like, oh, why like, why do I take Sprout once throw, I 672 00:38:20,700 --> 00:38:23,400 throw a little temper tantrum. Why do I have to be designed? 673 00:38:23,400 --> 00:38:27,200 That way? That does happen. 674 00:38:27,400 --> 00:38:31,900 You'd look at your turn, you're like why it's kind of like the 675 00:38:32,400 --> 00:38:36,400 freaking Tick-Tock I saw were It's like the ancestors choosing 676 00:38:36,400 --> 00:38:40,000 the person to do the healing and the person's like I know you're 677 00:38:40,000 --> 00:38:42,800 not looking at me, right? Yeah. 678 00:38:43,200 --> 00:38:47,200 Why am I the one designed like this funny? 679 00:38:47,900 --> 00:38:51,400 Long story short you are so lucky everything works out for 680 00:38:51,400 --> 00:38:53,700 you. We're you are here on this 681 00:38:53,700 --> 00:38:58,300 planet the fact that we even exist is freaking mind. 682 00:38:58,300 --> 00:39:03,600 Blowing crazy you're not to get existential but you don't even 683 00:39:03,600 --> 00:39:07,000 think about it like Would you be here to be unlucky? 684 00:39:07,100 --> 00:39:10,000 Why do we even need this statement to float around? 685 00:39:10,100 --> 00:39:12,900 What's crazy, is that naturally? You know this? 686 00:39:12,900 --> 00:39:15,900 If you talk to a kid, they're not going to say, I don't know. 687 00:39:16,000 --> 00:39:18,400 Life is hard. I don't know if I can even get 688 00:39:18,400 --> 00:39:19,800 this. They're like, no, I'm gonna be a 689 00:39:19,800 --> 00:39:21,900 rocket scientist. I'm going to fly to the moon, 690 00:39:21,900 --> 00:39:25,200 they're like, it's gonna happen. They're so confident in it. 691 00:39:25,200 --> 00:39:28,800 Yeah they are so lucky. Everything works out for them 692 00:39:28,800 --> 00:39:32,300 and they truly believe it and at some point we lose it and now we 693 00:39:32,300 --> 00:39:34,600 need this affirmation which thank God. 694 00:39:34,600 --> 00:39:38,200 It's a Around. I really do like this trend and 695 00:39:38,200 --> 00:39:42,800 I want more of them to happen, but hopefully, through this 696 00:39:42,800 --> 00:39:47,200 podcast, you understand a little bit of how it works for you, why 697 00:39:47,200 --> 00:39:50,200 it might not be working for you. The different things behind it 698 00:39:50,200 --> 00:39:54,300 that have to do with your brain with energy and also just some 699 00:39:54,300 --> 00:39:57,600 notes on life and we're surrendering like that's really 700 00:39:57,600 --> 00:40:00,000 what I'm so lucky. Everything works out for me is 701 00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:03,100 about it's that sitting back everything. 702 00:40:03,100 --> 00:40:05,500 If everything works out you don't have to Us about how it's 703 00:40:05,508 --> 00:40:08,600 going to happen. No, not at all. 704 00:40:09,100 --> 00:40:11,600 That was good. Let's go tangent as a different 705 00:40:11,600 --> 00:40:16,100 topic. Yeah, I like it, man. 706 00:40:16,500 --> 00:40:18,100 We might not record for a little bit. 707 00:40:18,300 --> 00:40:22,300 Oh, and I have my sister's wedding coming up. 708 00:40:22,400 --> 00:40:29,200 Yeah, and the big events moving interviewing for a new job. 709 00:40:29,500 --> 00:40:31,200 There's a lot of change on my end. 710 00:40:31,300 --> 00:40:33,800 So next time, we record might need to do a little ketchup. 711 00:40:34,300 --> 00:40:35,200 Seriously. Lee. 712 00:40:35,600 --> 00:40:39,500 I have some stuff going to which I probably will talk about next 713 00:40:39,500 --> 00:40:41,400 time. It's in the works. 714 00:40:41,800 --> 00:40:44,000 It's in the works. Both of us are in such an 715 00:40:44,000 --> 00:40:46,300 in-between floaty stage. It's like we had don't want to 716 00:40:46,300 --> 00:40:49,200 say too much, like I don't want to say where I'm interviewing. 717 00:40:49,200 --> 00:40:52,900 I don't want to say like what how things are going, but I just 718 00:40:52,900 --> 00:40:55,100 don't know. But I'm so lucky. 719 00:40:55,100 --> 00:40:56,900 Everything works out for me, it's all going to be great. 720 00:40:57,100 --> 00:40:59,700 Yes, I am so lucky. Everything works that repeat 721 00:40:59,700 --> 00:41:01,600 after us. I am so happy. 722 00:41:01,600 --> 00:41:04,800 I am so lucky everything. Everything work. 723 00:41:04,900 --> 00:41:08,300 It's out for me. Heck yeah, cool. 724 00:41:08,400 --> 00:41:10,800 Okay, go get to see you next time.