Welcome back to another episode of the Let It Flow podcast.
Wait, I am so excited for this episode.
I believe this is our 10th episode.
Actually use it freely and already.
I know. And we are sharing 10 believes
that. We are accepting as our own at
this moment that are changing our reality and allowing us to
show up The world in the best way that we can and they've been
helpful to us over the past year year-and-a-half and now, some of
these I've had longer than others, but that's the cool
thing about beliefs and values. And all of them, they can
change, they can change and your relationship, your relationship
with them changes. There's a couple in here that
I've had for quite a few years, but as I evolve and grow as a
person I learned more about myself.
It's amazing to see how different my relationship with
these beliefs are like how I read into them or how I view the
world through them. Let's kick it off right away
partly I would love for you to go first.
Okay well I think I just want to start.
We've talked about it on here before.
This is almost like the backbone of some of my beliefs that have
shifted my mindset about who I am as a person.
What I'm here to do an Express and that Is there is no such
thing as failure. Only feedback which we first
heard. It said this way.
I think I can say we because we both studied new linguistic
programming and that's a presupposition resolves isshin.
Yes, please deposition of an RPG is there's no such thing as
failure, only fit feedback and to, I guess, describe this a bit
more is yes, we can. Quote fail things we can try and
find out. Oops that doesn't work like that
for me or oh that was maybe not the best thing for me.
But what that really is is feedback to teach you more about
yourself and the world and then again you gain so much from
those things. No, I absolutely agree with that
one and it's helped me push through and try so many new
things that I might have talked myself out of before because
once you stop By identifying with failure and see it as
learning and feedback that relationship, just changes so
much between what you do and who you are because you choose to
identify with it. So, the biggest reason people
don't try things for fear of failure is because that they
feel, they are a failure when things don't work, when in
reality, you just try things and you decide whether it's a
failure or not. And that's also something to
realize that there's some things that I've done That I've met be
considered a failure like design school.
There's so many projects that I absolutely hated, but then other
classmates would complement it and be like, I loved what you
did in this project, but I saw it as a failure.
So, Phil use also subjective. It's so subjective.
And I also think that any person listening to, this could look
back on their life and see times where they failed.
But if you take a moment, to change your perspective on it,
and really look inside the experience, It's probably we can
all find that we learned and evolved the most through those
things and reminding myself that all the time.
I mean I am a person who tries so may we both are we're both
like kind of the dryers, the researchers kind of that we got
that energy going on and I love trying things and at that same
time everything I try. It's like we put an ultimatum on
on our life or on our experiences.
Like if this doesn't go Exactly how I plan it.
Then I failed. And it's just so goofy, because
how do we learn but not through trying, and seeing what happens.
I'm moving on to number 2 because each one of these could
be an hour-long. Exactly.
So, number two, everything is as it should be.
I repeat this all the time to myself.
Anytime, I wish things were different, or I find myself
thinking that I should have done things differently.
Currently reflecting on the past or thinking about the future and
feeling that anxiety. Creep in, I take a minute and
reflect on this phrase because I truly believe that life is
unfolding as it's supposed to and everything is in perfect
timing. That one is really close to me
and the one that I say, the most often, it brings me the most
peace. It's so powerful.
And it's a really beautiful Mantra, kind of to remind
yourself to be in the present moment.
As well. I remember reading I think it
was the artist way and she said, this line about when she was
going through this big transform, a transformative
process in her life. The one thing that kept her
going was being in the present moment because in the present
moment at any moment, everything's okay, because
you're just here and it's the mind that gets all up in there
and starts to worry and freak out, then we're like, I'm not,
okay? But like you're here, it's okay.
Yeah. Yeah, that kind of runs into
there's a few of these that go together in my mind, the
everything is, as it should be. And then you said The Power of
Now, like, literally the book. If you haven't read this book,
you need to go by the power of now.
It is incredible and I would recommend it to every human
being on the planet. But I also wrote down be present
as another one. And that really goes into
everything is as it should be. And just accepting.
What is this is like a whole bundle of Things that all Loop
together in my mind that I wrote down separately but I think they
can all be referenced here. But everything is as it should
be. And if your present and accept
what is, there's nothing to be wanted.
And anytime I'm feeling that anxiety, creep up, I bring
myself back to the present. Personally, by really
identifying what is happening? Like I am speaking into a
microphone to Carly recording a podcast sitting in a chair.
Chair in my bedroom. Every thing is fine.
I am safe. I am.
Okay. And that's how I bring myself
back. Yeah, and just connecting with
like, what your physical body is doing.
Is such a simple tool that we all have at every moment because
we are all inside this body, okay?
That section was kind of like, two, three, four, five, six,
seven, but Carly. What is number three for you?
Okay, number three, oh, I have so many too.
But I think I want to go with is kind of a cliche thing that we
hear around everywhere. But I want to like, add to it a
little bit that energy speaks so much louder than words.
I don't know if this is like a belief or just like a way of
being, I don't know, but I feel like the a lot of people speak
about this in terms of interaction interactions with
people. And you know, you can read that.
I'm sure we can all remember time.
I swear we've had a wonderful conversation with somebody.
It was really sweet really good but then we can walk away just
feeling kind of like, mmm, my energy doesn't really Vibe with
that person's energy, so that's an example.
But I also want to talk about this in terms of like
manifestation and just like creating your life and energy
and in which you are doing these things speaks way, more loudly
than any words, you're saying, or any journals things.
You're writing and that kind of goes in line with just like
learning more about yourself and being just like, so, totally and
completely honest with where you're at.
Because the biggest thing I hear with manifestation is, well, I'm
saying this, I'm doing all the things I'm doing it, doing doing
doing it but either it's not coming or the wrong thing.
Comes, the wrong thing comes to me and it's just an example of
how Maybe that's not really for you.
You know. Maybe you're not ready for it or
the exact perfect thing came to you.
To allow you to grow and evolve even further.
So in an LP, we learned that your body protects itself and
your nervous system may or may not be able to handle that
manifestation. For example, if you are used to
having ten dollars in your bank account, let's make it really
extreme. Ten dollars in your bank
account. Count in your manifesting the
million. If you were to get that money
handed to you, you would have no clue how to handle it.
You wouldn't know what to do with it.
Your body would freak out, your nervous system would go into
shock, and that's for any type of manifestation.
If it's out of the level that you really believe that you can
have and you get it, that's why so many people win the lottery
and completely blow all the money, because it's everything
they wished for. And then they don't believe that
they deserve it or can have And then poof it's gone.
Yo okay, number four, I think this is really important and I
am more recently accepting this and it's something that I knew
to be true but not something that I ever put into words.
And I actually heard Samantha daily, say, it on a real the
other day. And I was like, yes.
I know this to be true, but I really need to start embodying
it. And number four is the action
you resist. The most is the one that will
Propel you to your next level and I freaking a man.
And this one means a lot to me and kind of ties into that never
failure always feedback because when you're afraid of failing or
you're afraid of something that's in the future, like that
may or may not happen in like, we resist it so much and usually
that thing, you're scared of the most, is the step you need to
take. And so I've been experimenting
with letting that lead me for Deciding where to live that has
been something the past entire year and a half of travel.
I've been thinking, where do I want to live?
And when it comes down to it, I can choose anywhere.
It doesn't really matter because what matters is who I am in the
place, it doesn't matter the place.
And my fear around that was feeling stuck in feeling like
I'm being held back by whatever place I choose.
I was projecting that potential future onto any place.
I looked Stat and so no. Place was good for me.
And that made me really scared to move and so I would say that
I've probably been resisting. I've been actually, okay,
dropping the probably I have been resisting choosing a place
and moving for, at least the past six months before that
everything was serving me. I was really happy in the place
that I was at. I've been at home, thankful for
the support of my family while I work on my business and figure
out what I want to do. But I could have left earlier,
and I felt that big resistance to making that decision.
And when I saw that real like, thank you, Sam for sharing that,
because that day, I went and found an apartment and
spontaneously decided that I'm moving back to Minneapolis,
which is exciting. I haven't said that anywhere
publicly yet my friends and family are starting to know and
we're all like, oh my gosh, I didn't know and I was like, I
didn't know either. ER because I've been resisting
it for so long but I just know that this next chapter is going
to be great because I am resist. I was resisting it with all of
my might and so that's where I know that the next phase is at
and so letting that resistance lead you is so powerful.
I'm completely completely agree. Which this also if we can move
on to the next one. Yes.
Have one to go with this number five.
Number five, this has been Something that I am still
reminding myself of every single moment of every single day, but
that nobody especially, not me is ever stuck in a decision
forever. and I the amount of things that I have, Not even not
done. Just like stayed on the fence
you know and never made any decision.
It's been because of this because I for some reason I
think the way we're taught growing up to is like you have
this path and you keep going on it and then you just, you know,
you're on it for life. I was another thing I wrote
down, as much as I wish sometimes sometimes that that
could be me and I could be fulfilled by that.
I'm not but it's so Oh interesting because that has
stopped me from moving forward, in many ways just as fear of
making a choice in being stuck in it forever.
And this also, okay with the continent that contradiction of
like wishing I could have that wishing that could make me
fulfilled and be that kind of simple.
Obviously everyone has their own challenges in their own unique
ways, but that ship that one realization, that I there was a
part of me that desired that and a part of me that was like, oh
no, I don't want to be stuck in any choice ever that showed me
so much about My inner contradictions as a human and we
all have them. Some people, I think have them
more than others. In fact, in my human design one
of the biggest themes for my challenge is conflict.
So like inner conflict out of comp dealing with conflict, but
that has kind of brought me to the biggest lesson that the
inner contradictions in ourselves are the fight against
our own knowing in are being like our natural just Just, we
are who we are and we're here to do US versus conditioning and
what we're taught in society. I have started to really look
into where I feel conflict in me and it's like, I know what's
right for me. But the contradiction of that,
that I'm feeling is literally all of those outside, voices,
and conditioning, and society, and all the things that aren't
me fighting against it and that has been a humongous
realization, and I'm still working through so many Many
things and we'll be working through these things throughout
our whole life on different levels.
But that's been a really interesting thing.
Number six, that goes with some of what you said in there.
I said you are not your emotions or your thoughts and ever since
I learned to see them as separate I have become a much
more calm level-headed person to be around and Carly's laughing.
She's known me for so long she's seen everything.
Oh yes, I practice this every single day just acknowledging.
What I'm feeling and separating myself from it.
I give the example of inside out, if you've seen that Disney
movie, where every emotion is a different character inside of
the person's head, it's literally like that.
And when you can start living that way and see them as
individual friends, like your anger is your friend, your jaw.
See as your friend happiness, joy and peace.
Are your friends, and we see those as friends, but being able
to see the more negative emotions as friends and take
their messages rather than letting it affect your entire
body. And nervous system has helped me
so much. I used to be so socially anxious
and I don't think most people would know that about me because
I've always been the extroverted Party friend throughout school.
And I always just had this future anxiety of what could
possibly happen, and I was afraid of something.
I just never questioned it. And so I let my body get tensed
up and I would feel nauseous and I would overthink, and I would
spiral, I wouldn't sleep well, and now I'm able to almost have
a direct conversation with the emotion or with the thought
because usually they're tied together.
You like you're thinking about something that's bringing up
this emotion and yada yada. They're, they're tied together.
and I'm able to think through it with a More Level head and be
like, is this true? Where am I making assumptions?
Am I like what am I spiraling about?
And just be able to take a more objective stance at it and
release the emotion. And in 2023, I think I wrote one
of my words down as peace and I just want my body to be as
peaceful as possible because that's also better for my health
overall. Yeah, this.
So you are not your emotions or thoughts.
That's what that one was and they are wonderful, wonderful
tools. Yes, yes.
It reminds me not to get on to this tangent but I just finished
the surrender experiment by Michael Singer.
I believe a few weeks ago and Haze point of Awakening.
Which I also loved reading about that because I think fool, this
could be a whole another thing. But I think a lot of the people
we here, About and see and coaches talking about their
Journey, their Awakening journey and where they gained all of
their wisdom from has been through these like horrible like
difficult challenging, sometimes like near-death experiences
experiences where they've had to completely disintegrate their
whole lives and start over which there's so much value in that
not saying that, but I have had down about my own wisdom.
That's come through me because I have been so fortunate.
It to have, we know relatively simple life, if I'm being
honest. And I've been so fortunate with
other things in my life and and so but sometimes we can get in
our head about, like, why I haven't had something horrible
happened to me. So like what do I have to give?
Which is a ridiculous thought, but he is Awakening experience,
he was literally sitting on the couch was watching a commercial
and all of a sudden he just noticed, whoa, there's a voice
in my head, that's commenting about my preferences about this
commercial. Like, whoa.
What? What is that?
I'm actually aware of this voice.
This is what is separate from me and that was his Awakening and
it brought him on this whole path of being like how the hell
do I shut this voice up? Which then changed also his
perspective on that. But that was just it made me
think of that because it's an example of how like you can
literally observe your thoughts separate from you and that's
freaking incredible. Okay, so number seven is kind of
also a branch off of that one. And it's pretty intense, not
gonna lie, but it since it's changed the way I think of a lot
of things and it's in so many yogic teachings and mindset and
everything, you probably heard it before, but the fact that
suffering is a choice pain is not pain, is something we go
through and it's not fun at all. But Suffering aspect in this
sense is when you when we as humans get stuck in the story of
what we experience as pain and we relive it and relive it and
we don't, we don't do the work if you will to really heal from
it, that is suffering. And I have realized so many
times like even little things sometimes where I'm just like
going on and on in my head and I'm spiraling and I'm like this
is a type of suffering. Like I am causing myself to
suffer by allowing my my logical brain to not shut up about it
and to keep just going and going and going.
And it's really powerful to realize a huge amount of
responsibility that you have to be really willing to take.
Yeah it is a lot of responsibility to take and our
egos, don't like that because the ego likes to be the victim
and in Reading loving what Is I will continue to bring up this
book by Byron Katie and yet I am obsessed with it and she talks
about this in her four questions that you asked.
So a little bit about this book and how she goes about things,
it's judge your neighbor. Like the most horrible thoughts,
you have about another person, write it down, ask her for
questions, and then turn it around.
And a lot of the people she talked to You had these horrible
events happen to them, some of them physically horrible, some
of them emotionally abusive, some of them, like just
childhood trauma, some of them marriage disputes, like all
across the board and a lot of the conversations got down to
when you turn it around. And this is not victim-blaming,
this is turning it around to set yourself free.
So, like Carly said, The more you play this event over in your
head, you are abusing your Yourself, you are hurting
yourself over and over the event only happened once.
So in a way that event was kind to you it taught you something
and you're being hurtful to yourself by playing this over
and over and allowing that suffering to continue.
And once you can see the lesson in what happened, rather than
playing it again, just to experience being the victim and
experience that pain again. And again, and again, that
allows you a whole new level of freedom.
Okay. Number 8, the world is what you
believe it to be. Oh yeah, this one is it just has
to do with everything. Like I just think of the news
and how much - news there is because negativity cells and
hate cells and fear cells. And so we're constantly
surrounded by clickbait things that are negative and so
therefore people believe the world too.
B- they believe the world to be so dangerous and you have to be
on guard all the time and I just don't choose to see the world
that way, the world is what it is and you're giving yourself
your own suffering by believing it should be anything other than
what it is. And I choose to believe that
most people are kind. And in my experience, most
people are kind if I believe that there is an ax-wielding
murderer around every corner I am going to feel stressed out.
I would not travel the way I did.
I have family and friends that watched like Dateline and they
watch murder shows and I just don't consume that content
because I just I know that the world is what I believe it to be
and it's going to be a reflection of the things that I
consume in believe inside my head.
And so, if I choose to see danger, there will be danger, I
will Attract it. That's manifestation that it's
fine. And it's really and Everything
spirals from there. Yeah, I basically wrote that to
as like, our perspective is everything.
So right along with that and I just had a thought, come to me,
we kind of talked about this, the Bia in our last episode
about how you know we all know this by now I hope and if you
don't here's news for you Instagram and social media, it's
a highlight reel even even people like, you know, there's
been more people that are really working to be more authentic and
showing kind of the whole range of life.
But mostly it's the good stuff or even like, tailored bad stuff
because or I was going to say, it can be a low light real.
That's literally literally what the news is.
That's literally what exactly all of that is.
Like, we either have social media that we actually have
command over as users of social media, and that's tends to be
more positive in the sense. That like, you know, people
usually are trying to spread good messages, maybe not.
Commenters. But let me know posting that
also depends on how you use social media and if you are
interacting with that - clickbait you're going to get
more of it. That's actually a good like
experiment. Go on your socials and do a skim
right now how much of it makes me feel good and how much of it
makes you feel like absolute shit?
Yeah, block unfollow mute those people, and fill your feed with
lemon inspire you that we have fill it with love, fill it with
people that prove to you that the world has kindness in it and
I trust you your Will change, especially if you're spending so
much time on it. Absolutely.
But I guess like the point in, it depends to like, because
there might be some people listening that have a lot of
negative stuff come up in their feed.
I've take their mind as you have to, I actually been wanting to
redo it again, but so I have a lot of positivity, my feet,
which is amazing. But then, it's like an example
of the Polar polarity of our life right now, because we can
tailor that to be positive. And then anytime we get on the
media, It's the exact opposite. So it's like, okay, wait, what?
What's going on here, what's real?
It. What's real is, what's outside
your window and I you interact with the world.
I find myself doing that every once in awhile on purpose, if
I'm scrolling on social media and I'm feeling like, I need to
keep up with other people. If I'm on that positivity streak
and I'm just not feeling great or if I'm seeing the news
articles, and there's a lot of sadness and heaviness around.
I take a minute to stop and physically look outside my
window. And right now, I'm looking at a
pasture where I Can See For Miles and absolutely nothing.
And I just physically, remind myself that what is happening
on. These screens is not happening
to me. It's not happening in my world
and I choose to bring it into my world or not.
Yeah, well that's a beautiful tool to actually like in a
positive way really help people because if you can understand
that like I am safe and I am secure and I am happy, you know.
We can give so much better help to others that are in situations
that are not good. Because if it's like, If we're
full of anxiety about life. And we go to try to help people
who were like, truly living in, like a not good situation.
Yes, you help in your actions. But like we said, before, energy
speak so much louder than words and actions, so it can just be
more, even more powerful for us to go and help people who are in
situations, that are not ideal with this.
Knowing that like, I am safe. I am whole, I Loved and be able
to share that energy with people.
Then that is so powerful. Yeah, and there's a little
subtopic to this one that I want to toss in there.
So we're still on the world is what you believe it to be.
But a little subtext there, what you consume matters.
So because we talked about social media a little bit there
and I've just noticed that so much cutting out, certain things
that I used to watch certain TV shows that I don't watch anymore
because Is your mind your subconscious mind does not know
what is real life and what is television, it doesn't make that
distinction. An example of that would be if
you've ever seen a horror movie and you feel scared like
somebody's getting chased and you feel like you're getting
chased and you feel that panic and that stress, your body is
creating those that reaction inside of you as if it's
happening to you. And it holds onto that and then
say, you have a nightmare about it later and you get stressed
out in your sleep, like whatever you can.
Woman really does affect you in that way.
And so that's just a scientific side note for anybody that is
unaware of that, that your body reacts as if all of these things
are happening to you. So if you are consuming that
much negativity or watching the news, I'm not going to bring up
any articles but just seeing the headlines any on any given day
and you're absorbing that I always am blown away giving.
I have watched some of these movies and I'm like, damn that
was a good movie but But the fact that we get so off on
watching war movies, blows my mind like, we want horse to end,
don't we? We want, we don't want people to
die like that, right? Like why are we paying the big
bucks to watch films? That are literally reproductions
of war or like new created stories of War?
I don't know. That's really side note, but
like that. But what was my mind and what we
give attention to blows? Zup.
And we create me just see the past two years, like the more
media attention, everything got the worst, everything got when
we're not even going to get into that.
But it's proof that where attention goes, energy flows.
I mean, sorry, this one section has probably five different
thoughts and beliefs in it. So take what you will episode on
this? Yeah.
Okay, let's move on. Number 9.
I have one as a complete different perfect.
Let's put it in our, we're both getting very passionate.
They're like, oh my God, this is so funny to me because this is
something I was really sharing. When I was full-on like I'm
going to become a coach and it's still a message that's near and
dear to my heart but it and it's been coaching me.
Lately the past few months, but that is that I'm going to see
my. But I mean, all of you are my
creative ideas that come are not random.
Like, they come to me for a reason and all of your ideas and
what you're drawn to your passions, your interest.
They're not random and I really truly believe that especially
with the state of the world. Like we we are so lucky to be
alive in the world today. I mean, there's a lot of A lot
of shitty stuff going on, I'll give you that, but there's also
a lot of incredible things happening that you can choose to
focus on more enough, not totally ignore the bad because
like that's not how we do things.
We want to focus acknowledge and then work through.
But when we have creative ideas, it's the universe.
Like, I truly believe that the Universe being like go Express,
create your ideas are here because you and you alone can
Ask them and create them like you and we're all here and we're
all designed to do exactly what were meant to do.
I have that written down. Yeah, another way you did.
I said your bundle of interests and experiences is 100% unique
to you and help you fulfill your purpose.
And yes, that's not saying that you have one particular purpose.
I'll say this over and over to that.
If we've learned anything through human design, it's that
You do have a purpose on this Earth but it can manifest in
many different ways. For example, if you are here to
teach and guide that can look like many different types of
jobs, you can teach and guide in many different ways on different
platforms and yeah. So there's not just one thing
that you're searching for, and something that's caught like
helped me gain, and it's currently coffee me, gain more,
peace of mind and just like, okay, I trust where I'm going is
even before that. That we can say, all of our
purpose is the same in the sense that we are all here to express
ourselves outwardly. That is the purpose.
So when we feel ourselves holding back or like, being
scared to do something, out of fear of judgment, or fear of
failure, or even fear of success, because I realized a
lot of my fear is actually fear of success because and I'm like,
oh shit curly you have to like take responsibility for your own
life. All we have to do is follow what
is within us and that sounds so cheesy and cliche but it's true.
This kind of goes in with what you said, I'm like, sneaking all
these in here. Cuz I can't not share on say now
I know, but it's been like ten AKA 30 mustn't, take it 10 plus
20 more, the world is your playground.
This is something that has changed my perspective on life
entirely, and traveling alone, and going to national parks and
going on a hike and literally using the Earth as a player.
Do something fun, something to explore, see what's around the
corner. And when you're on that life
mission, to authentically, express yourself as we are all
here to do our purpose and mission is to just experience
life on this planet. And I am challenging myself to
figure out how many different ways I can do that.
How many different things can I do?
What can I experience? And how can I share that with
people? And I love hearing other
people's stories too, but the world is Literally your
playground and the world is your oyster.
The world is your oyster, but do you remember being little?
And just thinking of all when I'm an adult and I don't have to
ask my parents for permission, I'm gonna go do XYZ and being so
excited about it. And then now we're what sitting
in a house on a couch watching Netflix, letting other people
live, the cool stories and that makes me physically heavy to
even think about like we are Sitting there waiting for
permission that we're not even asking though, I like form
ourselves. It's so it's so weird.
Yeah, from ourselves from society, from our family, from
our friends, which is so ironic, because when we were younger,
the last thing we want is permission, we want to just go
do whatever the hell we want to, no matter if we get in trouble
or not and we just don't care. And then talking about my sister
and she was so funny as a little kid because she would ask.
And then if the answer was No, she would do herself, she would
do it anyway I need some more of that energy in my life.
Yeah. So thinking with the mind of a
seven-year-old can be helpful sometimes and especially have
the knowledge of an adult because she got herself sent
herself into some Tricky situations.
I guess this is helpful for me when I'm facing a choice and my
mind is getting all up in the details just to pull it back to
does this sound fun? Yeah, well I enjoy this
experience. Yes or no.
And going with it that was a tangent on that one.
Yeah, it's a good one now. Carly's gonna share.
Number 10. Okay, I think this will be a
good one to kind of Tidy up and close the conversation.
But this is something that's really spoke to me the last.
And then within the last 6 months now, probably is the time
to go. It Alone is done.
Like, I think for me, I can say I grew up And I picturing myself
doing being like a badass bitch doing all the things being on my
own doing my own thing and it's not that I can't do my own
thing. I want to do my own thing but I
realized like I don't also want to do it alone like it's time
for us to all just come together and create these beautiful
things that are all pieces of each other's expression.
It's like all pieces of the puzzle and yeah just like we
are. Aren't meant to do it alone.
When you start diving into, I want to say this work but the
work is yourself. When you start expressing
yourself and living more true to you.
That impacts everyone around you and draws the community that is
meant for you, that that will work.
Best with you living out your authentic purpose.
It just impacts everyone, it impacts the whole environment.
It's like the this solo work has to do with your own self study
but like that is not even All the work because of what you
just said. I'm just going to kind of say in
a different way. It's like our willingness to
study ourselves and then Express Our Truth within us outwardly.
Gives permission for all the people around you to do the
same. And I think that is one of the
biggest gifts, we can give Humanity, which is a gift that
you give yourself first, and then that just naturally
expresses itself outward. And I think that's, Beautiful.
Mhm. And something to look out for
that I've experienced. And then I've also through
following other coaches and other people sharing their
Journeys. I've seen that it's kind of a
phase that you go through when you start diving into this and
realizing your own potential and how great life can be that you
want everyone else to feel it to you.
And you can feel weird, like you're like you're separate
suddenly from your family or your friends.
Are you suddenly can't relate on the same things or you're not
commiserating like you used to and you want everyone else to
just feel what you feel, but the more you work on yourself and
keep to yourself and just show up in that way, the more
impactful it will be on them instead of forcing, or trying to
explain what you're doing, and how great it is, and why they
should do it too. Because I all happens in their
own time and they will come ask you, it does, because it's like
they see a change and that's So much more powerful than being
told change. I mean, have you ever been told
to do something? My instant, my initial instant
reaction is like, okay no. But yeah I think another words
to say what you just said to you is like I think this is a huge
conversation. I've had with many people but we
can when were exposed to something so beautiful the truth
of ourselves and you know that different perspective on the
world and all that stuff are like any training that shows you
like I've even been careful about human design because I
freaking love it but I realize I can overwhelm somebody so
quickly. That's kind of like spiritual
activism. Is super prevalent right now or
like the preaching is or the like, yeah, I want to tell
everybody about it and I've caught myself doing it so many
times as I'm sure you have to Alexis, but it really is.
Does the opposite it complete complete opposite of what we
want? What we are in tension is, you
know? And that's just something.
Yeah, I like that. You said that because definitely
something too. Watch out for mhm.
And if you've listened to this whole episode and heard the
beliefs that we've shared, this does not mean that you have to
take them, you get to decide what works for you.
If you heard something we said and your body is buzzing with
that. Hell yes.
Like I understand this, this resonates with me that feeling.
By all means take it. If we said something in your,
you feel that contraction in your body and you're like, I
don't know. No, like really doesn't work for
me. Go leave it, let it go, let it
flow, throw it out the window. It might come back, you never
know. Where am I now?
What am I not your mind and you just need to do you?
Yeah. But with anything in life, if it
Vibes with you, take it, if it doesn't, leave it, it literally
means nothing unless you make it mean something sure.
No pressure. And if we're going to spiral, I
also said you can't. Up.
There's no such thing as coincidence.
Nothing is personal. You can do hard things and your
voice matters and you're wet. Your voice matters.
Oh, I heard something. Hey, I thought you said your
boyfriend matters, like subconscious.
Are you trying to tell me something?
What do you mean? Why have I been ignoring you?
I think I speak for both of us. When I say that human design has
had a huge impact. We didn't bring up any beliefs
or shifts in this about human design.
And because not everybody has accessed that yet, but you sure
can. If you DM us, yeah, we would
love to teach you about it. But I think I speak for both of
us. When I say that learning to
follow our human design strategy and authority and understanding
the questions to ask are open centers and our chart have been
so helpful, understanding the easiest and most fluid way for
you to move through your life, with your Strategy and Authority
is game-changing. Hmm I feel so much more relaxed
just knowing that I have a method for operating in life and
every single decision I'm like I know what I'm going to do.
I'm still figuring it out well also for me I am in the middle
of decision right now that I'm like oh this is a good test 3
test maybe we'll talk about it on the next episode.
We will because you have to decide.
Hmm. So everyone tune in for the next
solo episode that we have in a couple weeks because their
hangers Cliffhangers. Yeah, let's start leaving
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Closing ending. Okay, thanks.