1
00:00:02,700 --> 00:00:04,300
Got it. 
Hello. 

2
00:00:04,300 --> 00:00:09,400
Hello, hello. 
It's been so long since Carly 

3
00:00:09,400 --> 00:00:11,700
and I have recorded together. 
We were just looking at the 

4
00:00:11,700 --> 00:00:15,100
calendar and almost some 9th 
10th. 

5
00:00:15,100 --> 00:00:17,100
Yeah, almost a month. 
Since we've sat down and 

6
00:00:17,100 --> 00:00:19,100
recorded together, that's so 
crazy. 

7
00:00:19,600 --> 00:00:22,000
We don't normally leave that 
much time in between. 

8
00:00:22,600 --> 00:00:24,600
I'm like, what were we? 
What was going? 

9
00:00:24,600 --> 00:00:29,600
I don't even know, I don't even 
know what have time actual. 

10
00:00:29,600 --> 00:00:32,600
I mean I say that but then I 
look and I'm like okay Okay, 

11
00:00:32,700 --> 00:00:35,000
within that month, my sister got
married. 

12
00:00:35,000 --> 00:00:37,600
I went to Daytona Beach. 
I packed up my entire life, I 

13
00:00:37,600 --> 00:00:41,300
moved to Minneapolis. 
So a lot has happened and that's

14
00:00:41,300 --> 00:00:45,100
why it's been a while. 
Yeah, you were busy, I was busy 

15
00:00:45,100 --> 00:00:47,700
but you're busy too. 
Yeah, I was busy. 

16
00:00:47,700 --> 00:00:49,100
I was just telling you the other
day. 

17
00:00:49,200 --> 00:00:52,900
I don't know if I think this is 
a common thing, people feel, but

18
00:00:53,100 --> 00:00:56,100
the days have been passing. 
And I know I've been busy but it

19
00:00:56,100 --> 00:00:58,800
hasn't been things that are 
really fulfilling me. 

20
00:00:58,800 --> 00:01:02,300
It's been like busy busy things 
and it's very fresh. 

21
00:01:02,400 --> 00:01:06,900
Strating to be like, I know I 
did a lot today, but it doesn't 

22
00:01:06,900 --> 00:01:09,300
feel like I did a lot today 
because it wasn't really the 

23
00:01:09,300 --> 00:01:13,800
stuff I would prefer to be 
doing, but we're getting there 

24
00:01:13,800 --> 00:01:15,300
now. 
Yeah. 

25
00:01:15,800 --> 00:01:19,700
And your birthday soon? 
Yeah, it's in 10 days. 

26
00:01:20,600 --> 00:01:24,700
I'm gonna be 26. 
How exciting? 

27
00:01:25,300 --> 00:01:27,700
I'm very excited with us, was so
strange. 

28
00:01:27,700 --> 00:01:32,700
I feel still like I'm 22. 
Sometimes same. 

29
00:01:32,800 --> 00:01:37,000
I feel that all the time. 
I'm I think you, you and I 

30
00:01:37,008 --> 00:01:40,300
relate but age doesn't feel like
a thing. 

31
00:01:40,700 --> 00:01:44,700
I feel like I can relate to 
human beings as humans. 

32
00:01:44,700 --> 00:01:46,200
It doesn't matter what age they 
are. 

33
00:01:46,600 --> 00:01:49,600
I could talk to a nine-year-old,
a ninety-year-old, 20 year old 

34
00:01:49,600 --> 00:01:52,400
40 year old and it doesn't 
matter like I can get along with

35
00:01:52,400 --> 00:01:56,300
anybody. 
And I agree, I can also not 

36
00:01:56,300 --> 00:01:59,900
guess ages at all. 
My worst nightmare is when I'm 

37
00:02:00,400 --> 00:02:02,400
hanging out with people only, 
like, guess guess how old I am 

38
00:02:02,400 --> 00:02:05,400
more like, guess how old they 
are and I'm like, I literally 

39
00:02:05,400 --> 00:02:09,100
can't abort Mission. 
Like I have no clue. 

40
00:02:09,199 --> 00:02:11,600
I'm gonna fail. 
Yeah, it's interesting. 

41
00:02:11,600 --> 00:02:14,800
We have a friend here and she's 
around my mom's age. 

42
00:02:14,800 --> 00:02:18,800
Actually I love hanging out with
her, but I know she sometimes 

43
00:02:18,800 --> 00:02:21,500
feels, she said this to my mom a
couple times, like we need to 

44
00:02:21,700 --> 00:02:24,200
help Carly find. 
Her own age or like people 

45
00:02:24,200 --> 00:02:29,500
around her her time of life. 
And I'm like, I mean, if that 

46
00:02:29,500 --> 00:02:33,000
happens naturally, yes, but I 
don't feel like I need to find 

47
00:02:33,000 --> 00:02:35,700
those people to be happy often 
times. 

48
00:02:35,700 --> 00:02:38,700
I connect way more actually my 
whole life. 

49
00:02:38,700 --> 00:02:40,800
I've been like this. 
I connect more with people who 

50
00:02:40,800 --> 00:02:44,200
are usually older than me. 
I do, it's like something. 

51
00:02:44,700 --> 00:02:48,700
There's just sometimes it's not 
for everybody not this is not a 

52
00:02:48,700 --> 00:02:52,500
blanket statement, but there's a
depth that comes with having 

53
00:02:52,500 --> 00:02:55,300
more. 
We're years on this Earth. 

54
00:02:55,300 --> 00:03:00,300
I think that's really funny 
because I can feel that way on 

55
00:03:00,300 --> 00:03:03,800
some level like being in Italy 
and hanging out with you and 

56
00:03:03,800 --> 00:03:05,800
your mom. 
And like we hung out with a lot 

57
00:03:05,800 --> 00:03:08,500
of people older because fras 
older as well. 

58
00:03:08,500 --> 00:03:12,800
And so every the whole Community
around you is older, but I also 

59
00:03:13,100 --> 00:03:16,100
really relate to younger. 
You know, that about me. 

60
00:03:16,300 --> 00:03:20,400
I'm like I relate to younger 
people and even some of the 

61
00:03:20,400 --> 00:03:22,900
friends I've made on social 
media and coaching I will 

62
00:03:23,600 --> 00:03:27,900
Consider them friends and I 
found out one of them was 21 and

63
00:03:27,900 --> 00:03:30,600
I'm like, you're 21. 
I thought you were like 25 at 

64
00:03:30,600 --> 00:03:33,300
least just because of what 
they're interested in and they 

65
00:03:33,300 --> 00:03:35,500
feel so much older. 
And the way someone carries 

66
00:03:35,500 --> 00:03:39,800
himself themselves, really 
matters a lot and I've always 

67
00:03:39,800 --> 00:03:44,500
been described as an old soul I 
guess or oh, you're so you're so

68
00:03:44,500 --> 00:03:46,200
grown-up. 
You're such an adult like those 

69
00:03:46,200 --> 00:03:50,500
were things thrown at me which 
has its own mini with small T 

70
00:03:50,500 --> 00:03:53,300
traumas to it. 
But yeah, I've always Always 

71
00:03:53,300 --> 00:03:55,900
been that person I guess so I 
don't know. 

72
00:03:56,400 --> 00:04:03,000
Age is just irrelevant ages, but
a number I've always been so 

73
00:04:03,000 --> 00:04:06,400
excited for the late 20s though.
I don't know why. 

74
00:04:07,000 --> 00:04:11,200
I just remember laying in my bed
in like early high school or 

75
00:04:11,200 --> 00:04:16,200
late Middle School age. 
And I was like, 27, I don't know

76
00:04:16,200 --> 00:04:21,100
why, but like 26. 27, 28, 29, 
like that version of me, she's 

77
00:04:21,100 --> 00:04:24,000
doing something. 
Yeah, we were just talking about

78
00:04:24,000 --> 00:04:26,800
this because I was saying how 
I'm going to be 26 and like 

79
00:04:26,800 --> 00:04:30,700
that. 
Feels like a big thing to me. 

80
00:04:30,900 --> 00:04:34,500
Like not really right now but I 
remember growing up. 

81
00:04:34,500 --> 00:04:37,100
Same thing I'm like oh what am I
going to be doing? 

82
00:04:37,100 --> 00:04:39,900
When I'm 26 years old like 
what's this? 

83
00:04:39,900 --> 00:04:42,200
Look, like I still don't know 
what I think. 

84
00:04:44,700 --> 00:04:49,300
Life is a great mystery and I'm 
just learning how to ride 

85
00:04:49,300 --> 00:04:54,500
joyfully along. 
I think it's a crazy moment when

86
00:04:54,500 --> 00:04:56,900
you realize that nobody knows 
what they're doing. 

87
00:04:57,500 --> 00:05:01,300
I remember reaching that point 
where all of a sudden you see 

88
00:05:01,300 --> 00:05:04,200
your parents as real people, 
that actually don't have all the

89
00:05:04,207 --> 00:05:07,900
answers and you're like, what 
what like you're supposed to 

90
00:05:07,900 --> 00:05:10,900
know everything and then you 
realize that they actually are 

91
00:05:10,900 --> 00:05:13,700
just guessing and everybody is 
guessing and nobody knows what 

92
00:05:13,700 --> 00:05:17,200
they're doing and then 
everyone's just comparing 

93
00:05:17,200 --> 00:05:19,800
themselves to other people who 
they think know what they're 

94
00:05:19,800 --> 00:05:21,100
doing. 
But they also don't know. 

95
00:05:21,700 --> 00:05:24,700
What they're doing. 
So it's like we're all creating 

96
00:05:24,800 --> 00:05:29,900
this lie that other people know,
but really no one knows and we 

97
00:05:29,900 --> 00:05:32,900
stress ourselves out way more 
than we need to. 

98
00:05:32,900 --> 00:05:38,700
It's so stupid and no one knows 
what's best for you, except for 

99
00:05:38,700 --> 00:05:42,100
yourself which leads so well 
into what we're talking about 

100
00:05:42,100 --> 00:05:45,500
today, partly. 
And I wanted to do an episode on

101
00:05:45,500 --> 00:05:49,700
our Journeys with human design 
and how we found it and how it's

102
00:05:49,700 --> 00:05:54,700
affected Our Lives between And 
now because it's been almost a 

103
00:05:54,700 --> 00:05:57,700
year actually we found a Dandy 
year. 

104
00:05:57,800 --> 00:06:02,600
It feels like lifetimes I can't 
believe it's only been a year. 

105
00:06:02,800 --> 00:06:04,600
I'm kind of impressed. 
Like wow it's been a year but 

106
00:06:04,600 --> 00:06:08,900
also it's only been a year. 
I'm so surprised because it's 

107
00:06:08,900 --> 00:06:11,800
had a huge impact on both of us 
and it. 

108
00:06:11,800 --> 00:06:17,800
Hey like I've shed like 325 
Carly's since then. 

109
00:06:19,100 --> 00:06:23,200
Yeah, crazy. 
And he Design helps you connect 

110
00:06:23,200 --> 00:06:27,200
with your own intuition and 
really proves and shows you that

111
00:06:27,300 --> 00:06:30,100
you are the only person that 
knows your path in the best 

112
00:06:30,100 --> 00:06:31,800
decision for you. 
So all that comparing of 

113
00:06:31,800 --> 00:06:34,200
everybody else, nobody knows 
what they're doing. 

114
00:06:34,400 --> 00:06:37,400
Everyone's pretending to know 
what they're doing, but nobody 

115
00:06:37,400 --> 00:06:39,500
knows what's best for you. 
Except for yourself and human 

116
00:06:39,500 --> 00:06:42,000
design. 
Helps you really stay on that 

117
00:06:42,000 --> 00:06:45,400
path. 
So without further Ado, let's 

118
00:06:45,400 --> 00:06:52,800
get into it. 
Hello and welcome to the let it 

119
00:06:52,800 --> 00:06:56,200
flow podcast hosted by your 
spiritual besties Alexis and 

120
00:06:56,200 --> 00:06:59,800
Carly, we're just two humans 
figuring things out. 

121
00:06:59,800 --> 00:07:02,800
And we're here to share this 
community with you as an outlet 

122
00:07:02,800 --> 00:07:07,300
for self-discovery and spiritual
growth, this podcast is designed

123
00:07:07,300 --> 00:07:09,100
to open your mind with 
conversations. 

124
00:07:09,100 --> 00:07:12,200
That encourage you to ask bigger
questions about mindset, 

125
00:07:12,200 --> 00:07:15,400
spirituality personal growth and
everything in between. 

126
00:07:15,900 --> 00:07:18,900
We're passionate about gaining 
different perspectives on what 

127
00:07:18,900 --> 00:07:22,700
the universe has to offer. 
And the One thing we found to be

128
00:07:22,700 --> 00:07:26,300
100% true, is that life is meant
to flow? 

129
00:07:27,000 --> 00:07:29,100
We're not here to tell you how 
to live your life. 

130
00:07:29,100 --> 00:07:31,500
But to provide you with the 
tools and knowledge, you need to

131
00:07:31,500 --> 00:07:33,700
create an experience that feels 
uniquely. 

132
00:07:33,700 --> 00:07:38,700
You tune in every week to awaken
your potential, and deepen, your

133
00:07:38,700 --> 00:07:41,000
Evolution. 
Whether you're all in on your 

134
00:07:41,000 --> 00:07:44,500
personal growth Journey or just 
starting out, let's flow 

135
00:07:44,500 --> 00:07:58,500
together. it was a warm Sunday 
afternoon in Rome Once Upon a 

136
00:07:58,500 --> 00:08:04,600
Time in room, we were all 
squished into our, 25 M2 

137
00:08:04,600 --> 00:08:13,000
apartment and we discovered 
human design but was such a okay

138
00:08:14,000 --> 00:08:16,100
Okay. 
So for anybody who is unfamiliar

139
00:08:16,100 --> 00:08:18,900
with human design, you may have 
questions. 

140
00:08:18,900 --> 00:08:20,600
Like what is it, and why should 
you care? 

141
00:08:21,100 --> 00:08:23,900
And I have the same questions. 
Carly probably had the same 

142
00:08:23,900 --> 00:08:28,600
questions too. 
Yeah, we found him a design. 

143
00:08:28,700 --> 00:08:30,100
Well, I can only speak for 
myself. 

144
00:08:30,100 --> 00:08:33,100
I found him a design through a 
girl that I followed on 

145
00:08:33,100 --> 00:08:36,400
Instagram who posted her type. 
Kind of like, people post their 

146
00:08:36,400 --> 00:08:42,799
Enneagram type or their 
astrology Zodiac and me being a 

147
00:08:42,799 --> 00:08:45,700
self-discovery. 
Here I was like anything that I 

148
00:08:45,700 --> 00:08:49,000
can put my information into that
will spit out an archetype at me

149
00:08:49,000 --> 00:08:51,700
that I can learn about. 
By all means, let's do it. 

150
00:08:51,700 --> 00:08:54,900
So that's how I found it. 
She posted on her Instagram 

151
00:08:54,900 --> 00:08:59,400
story, I Googled it. 
I found the body Graaff 

152
00:08:59,400 --> 00:09:03,700
generator and I got my chart and
it was really freaking confusing

153
00:09:03,700 --> 00:09:07,000
and I had no idea what to look 
at because it's a whole bunch of

154
00:09:07,000 --> 00:09:12,100
shapes and numbers and lines and
astrology signs and I was like, 

155
00:09:12,100 --> 00:09:16,800
okay, this makes no sense. 
And it's really deep and complex

156
00:09:16,800 --> 00:09:19,400
when you get into it and have no
idea what to look at. 

157
00:09:20,000 --> 00:09:24,900
So I kind of shrugged it off. 
I mean, we all looked it up as 

158
00:09:25,100 --> 00:09:27,700
Carly said, we were in your 
apartment in Rome. 

159
00:09:27,700 --> 00:09:32,500
Yeah, last year and my God, 
yeah, well, it was funny because

160
00:09:32,500 --> 00:09:37,200
I had heard the term human 
design, being thrown around for 

161
00:09:37,200 --> 00:09:40,200
quite a few years. 
I remember I was thinking about 

162
00:09:40,200 --> 00:09:43,200
this the other day. 
I remember hearing someone say, 

163
00:09:43,800 --> 00:09:45,600
Design. 
I swear in high school. 

164
00:09:45,600 --> 00:09:48,600
Actually, I didn't think much of
it though. 

165
00:09:48,600 --> 00:09:52,800
And back then, the big thing was
the 16 personalities. 

166
00:09:53,400 --> 00:09:56,100
I think about time that I had to
take that in high school. 

167
00:09:56,500 --> 00:10:00,400
Yep. 
And then since then I've heard, 

168
00:10:00,400 --> 00:10:04,200
I'd heard it a couple times more
and I figured it was like 

169
00:10:04,200 --> 00:10:06,300
something with like biology or 
something. 

170
00:10:06,300 --> 00:10:11,100
Like literally human did the 
design of humans something and 

171
00:10:11,400 --> 00:10:14,700
then yeah, we looked it up and I
was Like whoa. 

172
00:10:14,900 --> 00:10:22,600
This is something intriguing. 
Yeah and it actually when you 

173
00:10:22,600 --> 00:10:25,200
said you thought it was 
something with Biology, it 

174
00:10:25,200 --> 00:10:29,100
actually does combine. 
A lot of C us from genetics to 

175
00:10:29,100 --> 00:10:32,000
quantum physics to astrology 
each in Kabbalah. 

176
00:10:32,000 --> 00:10:34,000
We're not going to get into the 
details, I will be a different 

177
00:10:34,000 --> 00:10:38,100
episode, we're going to focus 
more on our stories here and how

178
00:10:38,100 --> 00:10:40,800
its impacted us and why we're so
passionate about it. 

179
00:10:41,100 --> 00:10:45,500
Because there's definitely a 
leap that Take from something, 

180
00:10:45,500 --> 00:10:48,400
just being cool to learn about 
to being like, no, this is 

181
00:10:48,400 --> 00:10:50,800
impacting my life in a 
significant way and I want to 

182
00:10:50,800 --> 00:10:53,600
teach others about it and I want
to share about it. 

183
00:10:54,500 --> 00:10:57,600
That is what this has done, 
because I have learned a ton 

184
00:10:57,600 --> 00:11:00,400
about 16 personalities. 
I've done that test multiple 

185
00:11:00,400 --> 00:11:03,100
times. 
I am, the protagonist are we 

186
00:11:03,100 --> 00:11:07,300
surprised? 
And I've taken the Enneagram, 

187
00:11:07,300 --> 00:11:08,800
which has changed a little bit 
in the past. 

188
00:11:08,800 --> 00:11:12,300
Couple years for me, I can't 
remember if I'm a 3 or sudden 

189
00:11:12,800 --> 00:11:14,700
whichever one is the The 
Adventurous one. 

190
00:11:14,700 --> 00:11:18,800
I think it's a seven, I can't 
remember but there's just so 

191
00:11:18,800 --> 00:11:20,200
many. 
So many different things you can

192
00:11:20,200 --> 00:11:22,400
take and those tests are also 
fun. 

193
00:11:22,500 --> 00:11:25,200
Definitely take them learn about
yourself as much as you can in 

194
00:11:25,200 --> 00:11:27,000
any way that you can, I'm all 
for it. 

195
00:11:27,600 --> 00:11:30,900
But what was so crazy about 
human design, is that it goes so

196
00:11:30,900 --> 00:11:34,200
much deeper than just giving you
an archetype of your, an 

197
00:11:34,200 --> 00:11:37,600
Enneagram 7 and it means this 
and it's like a few paragraphs 

198
00:11:38,100 --> 00:11:40,400
and that's what you have. 
I know, Enneagram does go 

199
00:11:40,400 --> 00:11:42,500
deeper, there's other Enneagram 
readers out there. 

200
00:11:42,500 --> 00:11:45,600
I've discovered And you can 
always go deeper on anything but

201
00:11:45,600 --> 00:11:48,000
when you just look it up at face
value, there's a couple 

202
00:11:48,000 --> 00:11:50,800
paragraphs about your 16 
personalities, your Myers-Briggs

203
00:11:51,200 --> 00:11:55,500
and that's that it doesn't 
really give you any steps of how

204
00:11:55,500 --> 00:11:58,600
to deal with the good how to 
like use the good parts. 

205
00:11:58,600 --> 00:12:02,400
How to deal with the not so 
great qualities, how to use it, 

206
00:12:02,400 --> 00:12:07,600
to better your life and human 
design is pretty clear on that. 

207
00:12:07,600 --> 00:12:11,100
It gives you fell practical 
steps it is. 

208
00:12:11,400 --> 00:12:15,000
I think we've probably talked 
briefly about some of these 

209
00:12:15,000 --> 00:12:16,700
things and some of our past 
episodes. 

210
00:12:16,700 --> 00:12:20,500
But I just want to save this to 
what I really loved about it. 

211
00:12:20,500 --> 00:12:25,300
I've been intrigued in kind of 
followed astrology for many 

212
00:12:25,300 --> 00:12:28,200
years now. 
I've never really gotten super 

213
00:12:28,200 --> 00:12:31,100
deep into it, like I couldn't 
even tell you the order of the 

214
00:12:31,100 --> 00:12:35,100
zodiacs, but I know a lot about 
astrology about, like, random 

215
00:12:35,100 --> 00:12:37,300
aspects. 
And one thing I've always 

216
00:12:37,300 --> 00:12:40,400
struggled with with astrology, 
is, yes. 

217
00:12:40,900 --> 00:12:43,500
Like you just said, you can 
always get deeper with it. 

218
00:12:43,600 --> 00:12:51,700
It, however, I'm strategy 
remains very Like something you 

219
00:12:51,700 --> 00:12:56,500
have to sit with and meditate on
and you kind of it's not very 

220
00:12:56,500 --> 00:13:02,100
clear and actionable with the 
things to do with it. 

221
00:13:02,500 --> 00:13:04,200
I guess. 
And some people might be like, 

222
00:13:04,200 --> 00:13:07,300
oh well I've had a solid reading
so now I've dug into it and I 

223
00:13:07,308 --> 00:13:09,500
found it to be very actionable. 
So that's great. 

224
00:13:09,500 --> 00:13:12,300
I mean this is just been my 
experience with it but human 

225
00:13:12,300 --> 00:13:14,600
design instantly. 
It's because it's partly 

226
00:13:14,600 --> 00:13:17,300
astrology and so many other 
things like Alexis just 

227
00:13:17,300 --> 00:13:22,000
mentioned, but you go and you 
start reading it. and it just, I

228
00:13:22,000 --> 00:13:23,300
know we both talked about it 
this way. 

229
00:13:23,300 --> 00:13:29,500
It just an unlocks things, and 
it's makes everything about who 

230
00:13:29,500 --> 00:13:34,600
you are, your struggles, your, 
your, your challenges, but also 

231
00:13:34,600 --> 00:13:39,300
your gifts and your strengths. 
Just it makes everything normal 

232
00:13:39,300 --> 00:13:42,000
and okay, because you are 
designed to do exactly these 

233
00:13:42,000 --> 00:13:45,700
things. 
So it just gives this it's like 

234
00:13:45,700 --> 00:13:52,700
a guidebook kind of to work 
through and live how you're here

235
00:13:52,700 --> 00:13:58,300
to live, basically I like to say
that you can play a game without

236
00:13:58,300 --> 00:14:02,100
the instructions, and just 
figure it out along the way, or 

237
00:14:02,200 --> 00:14:06,300
you can get a leg up in a step 
ahead and actually read the 

238
00:14:06,308 --> 00:14:09,400
guidebook and that's what human 
design is for your life. 

239
00:14:09,500 --> 00:14:11,800
You can stumble along and figure
out life. 

240
00:14:11,800 --> 00:14:15,300
Obviously human design is a very
Niche topic and not many people 

241
00:14:15,300 --> 00:14:17,400
are familiar with it and that's 
fine. 

242
00:14:17,400 --> 00:14:20,800
Your life is going to go great. 
It's going to unfold exactly as 

243
00:14:20,808 --> 00:14:24,100
its supposed to. 
You don't need human design, but

244
00:14:24,100 --> 00:14:27,600
is it helpful? 
Full 100%, will it maybe cut 

245
00:14:27,700 --> 00:14:32,500
some of the challenges and self 
negative self-talk and the 

246
00:14:32,500 --> 00:14:36,400
questioning in like half. 
Absolutely. 

247
00:14:36,400 --> 00:14:41,400
I do believe that but I love to 
our trainer actually because 

248
00:14:41,400 --> 00:14:43,300
Alexis Alexis is done with her 
training. 

249
00:14:43,300 --> 00:14:48,000
I'm still like we three but 
we're working there but she I 

250
00:14:48,000 --> 00:14:53,300
think in that said that by the 
time you know, you would get to 

251
00:14:53,300 --> 00:14:58,200
adulthood in like into I older 
years, it's naturally all taken 

252
00:14:58,200 --> 00:15:01,200
place. 
Like we are naturally going to 

253
00:15:02,300 --> 00:15:06,400
be living by your design by the 
end of your life because that's 

254
00:15:06,400 --> 00:15:10,800
what we're here to do. 
Life is meant to get us to live 

255
00:15:10,800 --> 00:15:13,800
by our design. 
It's just when you have the 

256
00:15:13,800 --> 00:15:18,300
knowledge and the materials and 
the tools you can get to that 

257
00:15:18,300 --> 00:15:23,500
point quicker and that's nice 
because, you know, we don't have

258
00:15:23,500 --> 00:15:25,100
forever on this. 
Swirled. 

259
00:15:25,100 --> 00:15:26,300
And that's what makes it 
special. 

260
00:15:26,300 --> 00:15:29,700
And you want to take the most 
advantage of it. 

261
00:15:30,600 --> 00:15:31,700
Yeah. 
In the beginning of this 

262
00:15:31,700 --> 00:15:34,400
episode, we're talking about how
everybody is comparing 

263
00:15:34,400 --> 00:15:37,400
themselves to each other and 
thinks that someone else has it 

264
00:15:37,400 --> 00:15:41,000
figured out, but they are living
their design, and you need to 

265
00:15:41,000 --> 00:15:44,900
live yours and talking about 
that Enneagram and 16 

266
00:15:44,900 --> 00:15:47,900
personalities. 
There's a limited amount of 

267
00:15:47,900 --> 00:15:52,900
buckets and inhuman design. 
Know chart is the same and it's 

268
00:15:52,900 --> 00:15:57,500
absolutely incredible. 
How specific it is when you get 

269
00:15:57,500 --> 00:16:01,000
down to the nitty-gritty details
and you see your channels, which

270
00:16:01,000 --> 00:16:04,800
are your gifts, I like to call 
them and what gates are 

271
00:16:04,800 --> 00:16:09,200
activated for you, what centers 
are activated and open for you 

272
00:16:09,500 --> 00:16:13,800
and it's so freaking crazy to 
see how your chart interacts 

273
00:16:13,800 --> 00:16:16,000
with other people's and like why
Carly? 

274
00:16:16,000 --> 00:16:18,200
And I are best friends. 
It makes so much sense. 

275
00:16:18,700 --> 00:16:22,500
Why argue with maybe a certain 
family member about something? 

276
00:16:22,500 --> 00:16:26,100
It makes sense you can see it 
Where they have something really

277
00:16:26,100 --> 00:16:28,800
solid and they understand this 
and you might have it open. 

278
00:16:29,100 --> 00:16:33,000
You can see that in your charts 
and it's so crazy to me. 

279
00:16:33,000 --> 00:16:36,100
Like, I just am blown away every
single time I see a chart. 

280
00:16:36,200 --> 00:16:38,700
Yeah, it's amazing. 
And one thing with that, with 

281
00:16:38,900 --> 00:16:44,000
learning why you may have a 
certain relationship with 

282
00:16:44,000 --> 00:16:47,500
certain people and maybe you get
along well, or you really don't 

283
00:16:47,500 --> 00:16:49,800
get along well. 
Like she just said, it makes 

284
00:16:49,800 --> 00:16:51,700
sense. 
And then what also is beautiful 

285
00:16:51,700 --> 00:16:54,000
is like it gives you, it's given
us. 

286
00:16:54,000 --> 00:16:57,600
I think we can. 
Say this more patience and 

287
00:16:57,600 --> 00:17:02,300
understanding with people who 
sometimes you just want to like 

288
00:17:03,000 --> 00:17:11,500
why are you the way you are 
okay, like they're here to deal 

289
00:17:11,500 --> 00:17:16,099
with this stuff and to be like 
this in these ways, and I'm here

290
00:17:16,099 --> 00:17:19,800
to be like this, so what can we 
learn from each other and maybe 

291
00:17:19,800 --> 00:17:22,400
it's one-sided for a while, you 
know, maybe I'm I'm aware of 

292
00:17:22,400 --> 00:17:26,400
this so I'm like okay, wow. 
Like I I have the responsibility

293
00:17:26,400 --> 00:17:31,700
to, you know, take what I can 
from this relationship, but 

294
00:17:31,900 --> 00:17:37,700
yeah, with Carly and I are 
charts are very, very different,

295
00:17:37,800 --> 00:17:42,100
very in the best ways. 
It's it's funny when people pull

296
00:17:42,100 --> 00:17:44,100
up the charts, I've had friends,
look up their charts and they 

297
00:17:44,100 --> 00:17:46,600
look at it and they immediately 
think there's something wrong 

298
00:17:46,600 --> 00:17:48,900
with it, isn't it? 
So funny how we always pick out 

299
00:17:48,900 --> 00:17:51,200
the bad details even when you 
have no idea what the chart 

300
00:17:51,200 --> 00:17:57,300
means, you look like I looked at
my chart and I have, I think six

301
00:17:57,300 --> 00:18:00,700
open centers, like six of the 
squares if you're looking at 

302
00:18:00,700 --> 00:18:05,100
your chart right now, six of my 
shapes are white and three of 

303
00:18:05,100 --> 00:18:08,000
them are colored in, and I 
immediately thought I have 

304
00:18:08,000 --> 00:18:10,000
missing pieces. 
Something's wrong with me. 

305
00:18:10,100 --> 00:18:12,400
I don't have enough filled. 
And why aren't mine colored? 

306
00:18:12,600 --> 00:18:15,500
And I had no idea what the chart
meant, and I immediately thought

307
00:18:15,500 --> 00:18:18,500
there's something wrong. 
But no chart is wrong, there's 

308
00:18:18,500 --> 00:18:21,000
nothing wrong, there's people 
that have all of the shapes 

309
00:18:21,000 --> 00:18:23,900
white, there's people that have 
all of them filled in theirs, 

310
00:18:25,400 --> 00:18:28,400
Unlimited variations charts. 
It's you. 

311
00:18:28,800 --> 00:18:31,500
It is you. 
And the more I learn about it, I

312
00:18:31,500 --> 00:18:34,700
have been brought to tears 
learning about my chart and 

313
00:18:34,700 --> 00:18:37,200
reading digging into it. 
There's been Parts where I've 

314
00:18:37,200 --> 00:18:41,100
set down my manual, my book, 
whatever I'm learning from and 

315
00:18:41,100 --> 00:18:43,700
just out there for a second like
holy shit. 

316
00:18:43,700 --> 00:18:48,600
Like how is this actually 
referencing specific events from

317
00:18:48,600 --> 00:18:54,400
my life and it's not like how I 
feel with astrology sometimes. 

318
00:18:54,600 --> 00:18:58,000
You can just read into it as if 
there's millions of people 

319
00:18:58,000 --> 00:19:00,200
across the world that are 
getting the same message from 

320
00:19:00,200 --> 00:19:02,400
the pattern or co-star or 
whatever. 

321
00:19:02,400 --> 00:19:05,100
You're getting astrology from, 
they're getting the same message

322
00:19:05,100 --> 00:19:06,900
and you just read what you want 
into it. 

323
00:19:07,400 --> 00:19:08,600
Yes. 
There's always some of that 

324
00:19:08,600 --> 00:19:12,600
because you see what you see, 
but I see how that's relevant to

325
00:19:12,600 --> 00:19:17,600
you wherever you are exactly. 
But there's been certain things 

326
00:19:17,600 --> 00:19:24,800
where there's no interpretation.
They're so specific that I'm I'm

327
00:19:24,800 --> 00:19:29,900
Blown Away. 
Yeah, it's pretty incredible. 

328
00:19:29,900 --> 00:19:33,600
So I guess this is kind of 
naturally starting off to like 

329
00:19:33,600 --> 00:19:36,100
how it's affected us in a 
positive way. 

330
00:19:36,100 --> 00:19:40,200
And now if we want to get into 
that now, yeah, well I was going

331
00:19:40,200 --> 00:19:42,600
to mention with our charts being
so different. 

332
00:19:42,900 --> 00:19:47,400
Human design is all about really
deepening that understanding of 

333
00:19:47,400 --> 00:19:49,800
how everyone is. 
So unique because there's just 

334
00:19:49,800 --> 00:19:53,400
so much hate and conflict in the
world because everyone's trying 

335
00:19:53,400 --> 00:19:55,600
to force everyone to be a 
certain way. 

336
00:19:55,700 --> 00:20:00,200
Way, for whatever reason and 
human design shows your 

337
00:20:00,200 --> 00:20:03,300
differences so that you can 
understand and work better 

338
00:20:03,300 --> 00:20:05,700
together and so Carly. 
And I having different charts 

339
00:20:05,700 --> 00:20:08,700
just on this podcast. 
I'm a generator and she is a 

340
00:20:08,708 --> 00:20:11,100
manifest. 
ER, those are two very, very 

341
00:20:11,100 --> 00:20:17,200
different energy type very and 
the way that we interact since 

342
00:20:17,200 --> 00:20:20,900
learning about that, I think 
it's just gotten better and 

343
00:20:20,900 --> 00:20:22,600
better. 
I think we got a long while 

344
00:20:22,600 --> 00:20:26,600
before, but I don't know that 
this Would have kept going 

345
00:20:26,600 --> 00:20:28,700
without this knowledge. 
I think we both would have 

346
00:20:28,700 --> 00:20:31,500
gotten frustrated and probably 
called it quits. 

347
00:20:32,200 --> 00:20:36,400
I and I'm going to speak for 
myself but this is this is 

348
00:20:36,400 --> 00:20:40,700
something I've learned through 
my human design journey and this

349
00:20:40,700 --> 00:20:44,500
is a great example of it. 
I probably would have got 

350
00:20:44,500 --> 00:20:50,700
frustrated, not at you, but at 
myself trying to play the role 

351
00:20:50,700 --> 00:20:54,500
that I thought that you wanted 
me to in terms of, you know, 

352
00:20:54,500 --> 00:21:00,800
like Full disclosure, I have 
been very hands-off the podcast 

353
00:21:00,800 --> 00:21:05,800
recently and like Alexis is 
basically doing everything to be

354
00:21:05,800 --> 00:21:07,700
honest. 
Thank you so much. 

355
00:21:07,800 --> 00:21:13,800
We're gonna we're gonna now, but
I just other things in my life 

356
00:21:13,800 --> 00:21:18,900
have been taking my time and my 
energy and so we've been just 

357
00:21:18,900 --> 00:21:23,100
playing these roles right now, 
but I know if I didn't know this

358
00:21:23,100 --> 00:21:26,700
about myself, if I didn't know 
this about you, I would have 

359
00:21:26,700 --> 00:21:29,200
been so stressed because I've 
been like, oh my God, I need to 

360
00:21:29,200 --> 00:21:30,700
be doing more. 
I need to be doing more, I need 

361
00:21:30,700 --> 00:21:34,800
to be, I need to be being a 
generator, basically, and 

362
00:21:34,800 --> 00:21:37,800
putting so much time to this and
doing so much of this and that 

363
00:21:38,100 --> 00:21:41,300
and there's a time and place for
some of those things. 

364
00:21:41,300 --> 00:21:45,800
Absolutely, even with my energy 
as a Manifesto which are energy.

365
00:21:46,100 --> 00:21:48,200
If you are a Manifesto, maybe 
you can relate to this. 

366
00:21:48,200 --> 00:21:51,400
It comes very much in flows. 
Like there might be times where 

367
00:21:51,400 --> 00:21:55,100
you really feel like You're 
connecting a little bit with 

368
00:21:55,100 --> 00:21:59,000
more of that kind of classic 
generator energy but not as a 

369
00:21:59,008 --> 00:22:01,200
generator more. 
As like this ideas coming, and 

370
00:22:01,200 --> 00:22:06,600
you're really feeling like that 
flow going into this one 

371
00:22:06,800 --> 00:22:09,100
expression and then all your 
energy goes there. 

372
00:22:09,100 --> 00:22:12,200
But then there's a time when, 
even if that idea still is 

373
00:22:12,200 --> 00:22:14,800
exciting. 
You meaning to take a step back 

374
00:22:14,800 --> 00:22:19,300
and take a break, and I feel 
like I got off topic there a 

375
00:22:19,308 --> 00:22:21,700
little bit. 
But no, you're on topic because 

376
00:22:21,700 --> 00:22:26,800
I would have Felt the same way I
would have been trying to be a 

377
00:22:26,800 --> 00:22:29,500
manifest. 
ER, and that's something that I 

378
00:22:29,800 --> 00:22:33,100
looking back at design school. 
I was trying to do that because 

379
00:22:33,500 --> 00:22:35,900
I honestly wonder how many 
people in our class were 

380
00:22:35,900 --> 00:22:38,000
manifest errs and how many 
designers are actually 

381
00:22:38,000 --> 00:22:40,000
manifestos or manifesting 
generators. 

382
00:22:40,300 --> 00:22:44,100
So interesting because there 
were a lot of our classmates who

383
00:22:44,100 --> 00:22:48,300
could pull ideas, like you have 
a vision in your head and then 

384
00:22:48,300 --> 00:22:50,700
be able to draw this thing that 
doesn't exist. 

385
00:22:50,700 --> 00:22:56,800
I've never had that skill and I 
It felt like I was not creative 

386
00:22:56,800 --> 00:23:01,500
enough to be in design because I
couldn't create something that 

387
00:23:01,500 --> 00:23:05,100
doesn't exist. 
I was really good at taking 

388
00:23:05,900 --> 00:23:08,400
active where, for example, 
that's what I designed I could 

389
00:23:08,400 --> 00:23:11,100
look at a piece of activewear 
and redesign it and make it 

390
00:23:11,100 --> 00:23:15,900
better which is completely my 
channel of judgment and my 

391
00:23:15,900 --> 00:23:20,900
channel of mutation, it's in my 
chart that I can do that and I'm

392
00:23:21,100 --> 00:23:23,100
skilled at seeing where systems 
can be made better. 

393
00:23:23,300 --> 00:23:27,200
And things can be improved, but 
I kept feeling like I needed to 

394
00:23:27,200 --> 00:23:30,000
be a manifest, ER, and same with
creating an even this podcast. 

395
00:23:30,000 --> 00:23:34,500
Feeling like I need to create 
better content or come up with 

396
00:23:34,500 --> 00:23:36,200
ideas that haven't been done 
before. 

397
00:23:36,200 --> 00:23:39,400
That's not my design. 
That's Carly's design to come up

398
00:23:39,400 --> 00:23:43,300
with these ideas and so I kind 
of release that pressure on 

399
00:23:43,300 --> 00:23:46,900
myself to Carly and she'll come 
up with these ideas and I'm 

400
00:23:46,900 --> 00:23:49,800
like, sweet cool. 
That is your job, but you are 

401
00:23:49,800 --> 00:23:51,800
the manifested. 
I'm the generator. 

402
00:23:51,800 --> 00:23:53,100
That makes sure the post gets 
up. 

403
00:23:53,300 --> 00:23:55,600
I'm the one that makes sure. 
The podcast gets edited. 

404
00:23:55,900 --> 00:23:58,000
Yay! 
I have that generator energy to 

405
00:23:58,000 --> 00:24:02,100
really commit to getting those 
tasks done and you can come up 

406
00:24:02,100 --> 00:24:04,500
with all the big ideas and we 
can collaborate on them. 

407
00:24:04,500 --> 00:24:06,700
And so our partnership works 
really well together in that 

408
00:24:06,700 --> 00:24:10,300
way, which is just so crazy. 
Because even as you were saying 

409
00:24:10,300 --> 00:24:14,300
explaining how you use your 
generator energy in this way, I 

410
00:24:14,300 --> 00:24:18,500
feel that looks like natural 
being like almost almost this is

411
00:24:18,500 --> 00:24:20,700
a theme throughout my entire 
life. 

412
00:24:20,700 --> 00:24:22,900
I can look back like feeling 
guilty. 

413
00:24:23,300 --> 00:24:28,100
Almost that I'm not doing more 
but I'm like I'm doing exactly 

414
00:24:28,500 --> 00:24:32,400
what I'm supposed to be doing. 
It's just this is where a lot of

415
00:24:34,000 --> 00:24:36,200
Conditioning can come in for 
basically. 

416
00:24:36,500 --> 00:24:39,900
Anyone who's not a generator, 
can feel this because, I mean, 

417
00:24:40,100 --> 00:24:41,700
sorry. 
Everybody can have Kev. 

418
00:24:42,200 --> 00:24:48,400
No respect. 
Wait, everyone has conditioning.

419
00:24:49,200 --> 00:24:52,800
However, for a lot of people who
are not generators, a lot of our

420
00:24:52,800 --> 00:24:58,000
conditioning is basically that 
we are, have been told to be or 

421
00:24:58,000 --> 00:25:01,500
trying to be a generator our 
entire life because the main 

422
00:25:01,500 --> 00:25:06,200
majority of the world, Society 
is generator, like, everything 

423
00:25:06,200 --> 00:25:11,500
is 70% of the population is 
generator or manifesting 

424
00:25:11,500 --> 00:25:14,600
generator. 
So, you see that in a corporate 

425
00:25:14,600 --> 00:25:17,100
structure, that's why our 
society functions the way it 

426
00:25:17,100 --> 00:25:20,800
does with getting people to work
as cogs in a machine to complete

427
00:25:20,800 --> 00:25:24,800
a task, like, stay on task work 
this many hours, go, go go. 

428
00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:29,700
That's very generator energy, 
but there is 30 percent of the 

429
00:25:29,708 --> 00:25:32,600
population that is not meant to 
work that way and they're trying

430
00:25:32,600 --> 00:25:34,200
so hard. 
To be that way. 

431
00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:36,400
Yes. 
Also I want to say to, I feel 

432
00:25:36,400 --> 00:25:39,200
like a lot of that to. 
Yes, it's generator energy. 

433
00:25:39,200 --> 00:25:41,300
But it's generator energy. 
Not in. 

434
00:25:41,300 --> 00:25:48,000
It's like, Best forest for me. 
Yeah, because majority of those 

435
00:25:48,000 --> 00:25:51,500
people are probably miserable if
I'm able to make that 

436
00:25:51,500 --> 00:25:53,900
generalization. 
And the whole point of human 

437
00:25:53,900 --> 00:25:55,900
design is to live by your 
design. 

438
00:25:55,900 --> 00:26:02,100
So you can live the most joyous,
free, Freedom filled, happy life

439
00:26:02,300 --> 00:26:04,900
that you are literally here 
designed to live. 

440
00:26:04,900 --> 00:26:08,100
So, just wanted to say that. 
Yes. 

441
00:26:08,100 --> 00:26:12,500
And this doesn't mean that the 
other types cannot accomplish 

442
00:26:12,500 --> 00:26:13,300
things. 
There's so much. 

443
00:26:13,300 --> 00:26:14,900
We can get into. 
We're trying to keep this 

444
00:26:14,900 --> 00:26:19,900
focused because we go on rabbit 
rabbit holes so easily, but I 

445
00:26:19,900 --> 00:26:22,300
will do more episodes in the 
future on more details on that. 

446
00:26:22,300 --> 00:26:26,900
But human design. 
Helps you stay aligned with what

447
00:26:26,900 --> 00:26:29,800
is meant for you and how your 
life is meant to play out what 

448
00:26:29,800 --> 00:26:32,500
you're here to do. 
Because we're all spending so 

449
00:26:32,500 --> 00:26:33,900
much time. 
Trying to be something that 

450
00:26:33,908 --> 00:26:37,600
we're not and humid design, 
helps you unlearn all of that 

451
00:26:37,600 --> 00:26:39,600
stuff and relearn who you really
are. 

452
00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:44,500
And when you look at your chart 
when you Go to body graph 

453
00:26:44,500 --> 00:26:47,700
chart.com, completely free. 
It's just the one that I use, 

454
00:26:47,700 --> 00:26:50,900
I'm plugging it because go look 
up your chart, it makes more 

455
00:26:50,900 --> 00:26:54,700
sense to be looking at it go. 
Now pause the episode, go look 

456
00:26:54,700 --> 00:26:58,300
up your chart but when you look 
it up, there's going to be also,

457
00:26:58,300 --> 00:27:02,500
descriptions underneath it where
it says, theme, not self theme, 

458
00:27:02,900 --> 00:27:08,100
all sorts of other stuff energy 
type profile and your themes, 

459
00:27:08,100 --> 00:27:11,100
help you. 
Understand when you're in 

460
00:27:11,100 --> 00:27:14,400
alignment and not in alignment 
and alignment for anybody who 

461
00:27:14,400 --> 00:27:17,100
doesn't know, just means like on
the right path, not the right 

462
00:27:17,100 --> 00:27:19,000
path. 
What's for you or not for you? 

463
00:27:19,100 --> 00:27:21,500
What feels good feels good, 
doesn't feel good. 

464
00:27:21,500 --> 00:27:26,200
So for example, me as a 
generator I have a self theme of

465
00:27:26,200 --> 00:27:29,300
satisfaction and a not self 
theme of frustration. 

466
00:27:29,700 --> 00:27:32,600
So whenever I'm feeling 
frustration Bubble Up and I'm 

467
00:27:32,600 --> 00:27:38,800
just it feels like just so icky 
and you might understand what 

468
00:27:38,800 --> 00:27:42,500
I'm talking about is just 
Internal like, gut clenching 

469
00:27:42,500 --> 00:27:45,800
frustration on something. 
That's when I take a moment to 

470
00:27:45,800 --> 00:27:50,200
step back and see, where am I 
resisting something? 

471
00:27:50,200 --> 00:27:54,200
Where am I doing things that 
actually don't serve me or, you 

472
00:27:54,200 --> 00:27:58,200
know, sacrificing my power in 
any way and just pause for a 

473
00:27:58,200 --> 00:28:02,200
second because I meant to feel 
satisfied throughout my whole 

474
00:28:02,200 --> 00:28:06,100
life and when I feel frustration
it's like hitting a bumper on 

475
00:28:06,100 --> 00:28:08,600
the bowling lane and it's like, 
frustration boot come back to 

476
00:28:08,600 --> 00:28:09,800
satisfaction. 
How can we? 

477
00:28:09,900 --> 00:28:12,500
We how can we come back to the 
middle and be aligned at 

478
00:28:12,500 --> 00:28:14,800
satisfaction and Carly has 
different themes. 

479
00:28:14,800 --> 00:28:19,000
I'll let you talk about those. 
Yeah so myself beam is peace. 

480
00:28:19,400 --> 00:28:23,700
So when I'm feeling most at 
peace, that's pointing me in the

481
00:28:23,700 --> 00:28:28,400
right direction if you will and 
then my not self theme is anger 

482
00:28:28,700 --> 00:28:32,000
which when I saw that it really 
confuses me because I'm like, 

483
00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:37,300
I'm not an angry person and I 
had a reading last year actually

484
00:28:37,300 --> 00:28:39,700
and she explained she even said 
it, she's like nope. 

485
00:28:39,900 --> 00:28:42,000
You're not an angry person. 
I was like, no, not at all. 

486
00:28:42,000 --> 00:28:46,700
And she's like, so it's not 
exactly a man like, anger that 

487
00:28:46,700 --> 00:28:52,800
we think of, as anger that comes
out for manifestos, but she 

488
00:28:52,800 --> 00:28:56,900
explained it to me like this, 
and I completely really know. 

489
00:28:57,200 --> 00:29:00,100
Like, if you're kind of in your 
flow, are you doing something? 

490
00:29:00,100 --> 00:29:02,600
If I'm in my flown, I'm doing 
something and something 

491
00:29:02,600 --> 00:29:07,100
distracts me, or like like it's,
it's like an energy tries to 

492
00:29:07,100 --> 00:29:09,700
poke into my bubble. 
And I just like, have this 

493
00:29:09,800 --> 00:29:18,100
Instant flash of like no no no 
and just when I feel like it's 

494
00:29:18,100 --> 00:29:21,600
similar to frustration but it's 
more of like a hot like quick 

495
00:29:21,600 --> 00:29:28,700
like oh thing like that and and 
even just knowing your self and 

496
00:29:28,700 --> 00:29:35,200
not self, theme can be enough. 
For many people, I mean just to 

497
00:29:35,200 --> 00:29:39,600
be aware of those and start to 
navigate your life based on 

498
00:29:39,800 --> 00:29:44,000
yourself and not self theme is 
incredible. 

499
00:29:44,800 --> 00:29:48,800
Incredible, the most important 
parts of your chart. 

500
00:29:48,800 --> 00:29:51,400
If you're looking it up right 
now and you're not ready for a 

501
00:29:51,400 --> 00:29:55,300
reading and you just want to 
dive in your self, look at your 

502
00:29:55,300 --> 00:29:57,600
energy type. 
So for me, that's generator. 

503
00:29:58,400 --> 00:30:01,700
Your self and non-self theme. 
So satisfaction in frustration 

504
00:30:01,700 --> 00:30:07,600
for me your Authority, which is 
your how your intuition works. 

505
00:30:07,800 --> 00:30:12,600
And it will say, one of seven 
options, there's seven different

506
00:30:12,600 --> 00:30:15,500
ways, your intuition can work. 
And most of the time you'll hear

507
00:30:15,500 --> 00:30:19,000
people say follow your gut, 
follow your heart and those are 

508
00:30:19,000 --> 00:30:24,400
just the, they're all set and, 
you know, meant to be good but 

509
00:30:24,400 --> 00:30:27,800
not everybody is meant to follow
that Carly has an emotional 

510
00:30:27,900 --> 00:30:29,900
Authority. 
Which means she's meant to wait 

511
00:30:29,900 --> 00:30:34,700
and make decisions over time and
not follow her gut instinct. 

512
00:30:34,800 --> 00:30:37,400
Yes, pay attention. 
Maybe pay attention to, like, 

513
00:30:37,400 --> 00:30:40,100
what it feels in the moment but 
then let it rest for a little 

514
00:30:40,100 --> 00:30:44,500
bit before you make a decision. 
Whereas I have a gut instinct. 

515
00:30:44,500 --> 00:30:47,700
We're in the moment. 
Someone could say, let's go to 

516
00:30:47,700 --> 00:30:49,400
this concert and I'll be like, 
hell yeah. 

517
00:30:49,400 --> 00:30:51,800
Book a ticket. 
Like let's get the ticket or 

518
00:30:52,400 --> 00:30:56,100
when Carly you called me and 
said, tickets to Italy or $600. 

519
00:30:56,100 --> 00:31:00,100
I booked it like, right away. 
I said hell yes and that is my 

520
00:31:00,100 --> 00:31:02,000
gut instinct. 
That's how my intuition works. 

521
00:31:02,300 --> 00:31:05,900
I know what's good for me and I 
do it in the moment and not 

522
00:31:05,900 --> 00:31:09,000
everyone is meant to function 
that way and there's again, 

523
00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:11,800
there's seven different options.
So it'll say, one of seven, 

524
00:31:11,900 --> 00:31:15,500
Google, whatever your Authority 
is, and read about how it works,

525
00:31:15,900 --> 00:31:20,100
or DM one of us, that's your 
happy happy to help and decode 

526
00:31:20,100 --> 00:31:25,900
this whole thing and then the, 
it's not necessary to dig into 

527
00:31:25,900 --> 00:31:28,200
right away. 
But your profile is, Really cool

528
00:31:28,200 --> 00:31:31,100
to look at. 
And that is the most like 

529
00:31:31,600 --> 00:31:35,300
Myers-Briggs personality test. 
Sorry. 

530
00:31:35,500 --> 00:31:40,400
And he just delivered me pizza. 
Oh, I wish I had a little 

531
00:31:40,400 --> 00:31:42,400
Italian boyfriend to deliver me 
pizza. 

532
00:31:45,500 --> 00:31:48,000
I'm just gonna meet myself and 
take a quick bite. 

533
00:31:48,000 --> 00:31:52,000
Hold on. 
So, there's a lot of things you 

534
00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:54,700
can dive into with human design 
and when you look up your chart,

535
00:31:54,700 --> 00:31:57,000
there's going to be a ton of 
other stuff written under there.

536
00:31:57,300 --> 00:32:01,100
Do not Get overwhelmed, it's 
very easy to go down rabbit, 

537
00:32:01,100 --> 00:32:04,300
holes, and look up, what 
environment should I be in? 

538
00:32:04,300 --> 00:32:07,800
Or how do i digest things? 
And that's really confusing. 

539
00:32:07,800 --> 00:32:11,000
Because it'll say, that you, 
your invest environment is a 

540
00:32:11,000 --> 00:32:14,200
kitchen and you're like, do I 
need to live in a kitchen? 

541
00:32:14,400 --> 00:32:19,000
Do I need to live on a mountain?
Do I need to live in a cave and 

542
00:32:19,000 --> 00:32:22,000
that's not what I mean. 
Engine whines kitchen. 

543
00:32:22,100 --> 00:32:25,700
Really? 
Yeah, I love that in, but it's 

544
00:32:26,000 --> 00:32:27,700
attracts attract, and makes 
sense. 

545
00:32:27,800 --> 00:32:30,000
Yes, but I'm not getting into 
that now. 

546
00:32:30,600 --> 00:32:32,200
I know we're going to keep 
saying, but no, we're going to 

547
00:32:32,200 --> 00:32:33,300
really back. 
We're not going to talk about 

548
00:32:33,300 --> 00:32:37,300
that right now. but there's a 
ton of different things that are

549
00:32:37,300 --> 00:32:41,800
really helpful and in the past 
year, I've started to 

550
00:32:41,800 --> 00:32:45,400
experiment, kind of naturally, I
didn't look up. 

551
00:32:45,400 --> 00:32:48,800
Human design and say I'm going 
to join in on this experiment. 

552
00:32:48,800 --> 00:32:50,800
Sign me up. 
I'm going to start living this 

553
00:32:50,800 --> 00:32:53,000
way. 
It's just naturally unfolded 

554
00:32:53,000 --> 00:32:55,600
because once you have this 
knowledge, you can't really 

555
00:32:55,600 --> 00:32:59,300
forget it and you start to see 
it unfold in your life. 

556
00:32:59,600 --> 00:33:02,600
And like I said, earlier it 
really, for me, at least it 

557
00:33:02,600 --> 00:33:06,300
really felt like something 
within me was unlocking. 

558
00:33:06,500 --> 00:33:10,600
Like, it was like that 
permission, not that we need it.

559
00:33:10,800 --> 00:33:13,500
Sometimes it feels nice, it's 
more like validation that, like 

560
00:33:13,500 --> 00:33:18,600
these things, I've I'm feeling 
and I felt since I was a child 

561
00:33:19,300 --> 00:33:25,500
or completely normal and they're
exactly me like it's not that I 

562
00:33:25,508 --> 00:33:29,300
was beating. 
It's not that I was doing 

563
00:33:29,300 --> 00:33:33,400
something wrong by never 
finishing a project, you know? 

564
00:33:33,800 --> 00:33:37,700
It's just like, I know I'm 
learning how to find the people 

565
00:33:37,700 --> 00:33:43,000
around me to help me finish 
something. and, In. 

566
00:33:43,000 --> 00:33:45,000
Like, the way that I was doing 
things, my whole life, it was 

567
00:33:45,000 --> 00:33:47,200
actually like my natural flow of
energy. 

568
00:33:47,300 --> 00:33:51,800
I just was wasn't in a 
supportive environment in that 

569
00:33:51,800 --> 00:33:57,800
way, because everyone basically 
is living as a generator. 

570
00:33:57,800 --> 00:34:02,600
Right now even if they're not 
actually so fascinating. 

571
00:34:03,400 --> 00:34:07,500
My chart has confirmed so much 
stuff from the past few years 

572
00:34:07,500 --> 00:34:11,100
for for me of traveling and 
figuring out what I want to do 

573
00:34:11,100 --> 00:34:14,900
where I want to go. 
I have an open identity Center 

574
00:34:16,100 --> 00:34:20,199
and that just means that I can 
be conditioned. 

575
00:34:20,199 --> 00:34:24,600
They're more easily and have 
more questions and feel more 

576
00:34:24,600 --> 00:34:30,100
searching for that because it is
undefined and the questions for 

577
00:34:30,100 --> 00:34:32,900
that Center are, am I looking 
for direction and love? 

578
00:34:33,400 --> 00:34:36,800
And my hand asking yourself 
questions, like, where can I 

579
00:34:36,808 --> 00:34:39,100
find direction in love? 
We're like, should I live here? 

580
00:34:39,100 --> 00:34:40,699
Should I go there? 
Well, I find it here. 

581
00:34:40,699 --> 00:34:43,000
Will that person give it to me 
and all this These questions 

582
00:34:43,000 --> 00:34:49,400
circulating in your head and I 
was like, oh my God, this entire

583
00:34:49,400 --> 00:34:52,800
Journey for me, has been 
learning about, who am I? 

584
00:34:52,800 --> 00:34:56,800
Because I spent so much time in 
school really trying to fit that

585
00:34:56,800 --> 00:35:01,000
mold of you do something right. 
You get praise, you do something

586
00:35:01,000 --> 00:35:03,800
right, you get praise. 
And I was really in that cycle 

587
00:35:03,800 --> 00:35:08,000
overachieving and unlearning 
that, before I even knew about 

588
00:35:08,000 --> 00:35:12,400
human design, I kind of had this
thought of this isn't me. 

589
00:35:12,400 --> 00:35:15,300
I I have such a part of me that 
just wants to drop everything 

590
00:35:15,600 --> 00:35:18,800
and travel and have no 
expectations but then there's a 

591
00:35:18,800 --> 00:35:21,900
part of me that held onto the 
expectations and so all of that 

592
00:35:21,900 --> 00:35:26,500
is really shown in my chart of 
where I was conditioned and what

593
00:35:26,500 --> 00:35:29,600
skills and talents I have 
naturally and it just lines up 

594
00:35:30,100 --> 00:35:33,000
exactly. 
It's incredible. 

595
00:35:33,500 --> 00:35:35,900
Yeah. 
Well it's interesting too 

596
00:35:35,900 --> 00:35:43,200
because I think of our friend 
Who is also a Manifesto and what

597
00:35:43,200 --> 00:35:44,900
you tell me when you're talking 
to her about? 

598
00:35:44,900 --> 00:35:47,000
She was like, I don't want to be
here for him manifest. 

599
00:35:47,000 --> 00:35:48,900
I just want to be a generator. 
I've been trying to be a 

600
00:35:48,908 --> 00:35:51,500
generator my entire life. 
I don't get this Manifesto 

601
00:35:51,500 --> 00:35:52,900
shaped. 
Like I don't want to do it and 

602
00:35:53,500 --> 00:35:56,800
and that made me laugh. 
And I related to it though 

603
00:35:56,800 --> 00:36:03,300
because like for me, It's kind 
of like human design in your 

604
00:36:03,300 --> 00:36:06,300
chart. 
It puts you up and really shows 

605
00:36:06,300 --> 00:36:09,000
you who you are and who you're 
not. 

606
00:36:09,400 --> 00:36:13,100
And when we're taught that we 
are meant to be one way. 

607
00:36:13,100 --> 00:36:17,200
Like it's been really hard, even
even just the last, like, couple

608
00:36:17,200 --> 00:36:19,000
months. 
I've gone through phases where 

609
00:36:19,000 --> 00:36:24,600
I'm like, gosh, I just sometimes
it would be really nice to be 

610
00:36:24,600 --> 00:36:28,700
able to be more like a generator
and have that energy to junk. 

611
00:36:28,700 --> 00:36:30,500
Just go, go go, dude. 
To do. 

612
00:36:30,800 --> 00:36:33,200
And then I'm finally getting out
of that cycle of those of like 

613
00:36:33,200 --> 00:36:36,400
there's literally no point in 
doing that because I'm not and 

614
00:36:37,000 --> 00:36:44,200
that's something that can be. 
I don't want to say a 

615
00:36:44,500 --> 00:36:46,900
challenging aspect of human 
design because it's something 

616
00:36:46,900 --> 00:36:50,000
we're meant to go through, but 
just some more difficult aspect.

617
00:36:50,000 --> 00:36:52,200
Be in why it's really it is 
helpful. 

618
00:36:52,200 --> 00:36:58,600
Sometimes to have a reader, 
whoever it may be, because They 

619
00:36:58,600 --> 00:37:00,600
can help. 
We can help. 

620
00:37:00,600 --> 00:37:04,000
They can help guide you through 
that process of like accepting 

621
00:37:04,000 --> 00:37:09,500
the fact that like, I'm not 
that, but I am me and I am here 

622
00:37:09,500 --> 00:37:13,400
to do exactly what I am designed
to do. 

623
00:37:14,000 --> 00:37:16,100
And that's it. 
It's so simple. 

624
00:37:17,700 --> 00:37:19,800
It is so simple. 
When I get, when you get down to

625
00:37:19,800 --> 00:37:23,000
it, we're all just meant to be 
ourselves, but we're so bad at 

626
00:37:23,000 --> 00:37:29,300
it so bad at it because from 
day, Zero, You have to say, 

627
00:37:30,700 --> 00:37:34,300
well, you think about when 
parents have little kids running

628
00:37:34,300 --> 00:37:38,900
around and they're just trying 
things and they throw a football

629
00:37:38,900 --> 00:37:43,400
once and the dad's like they're 
going to be a football star and 

630
00:37:43,400 --> 00:37:46,600
it's like Diehard protection 
like projection projection. 

631
00:37:46,700 --> 00:37:48,300
They're going to do that. 
They're going to do all the 

632
00:37:48,300 --> 00:37:52,100
things that I never did. 
That's just a you know, you see 

633
00:37:52,100 --> 00:37:54,000
that in movies all the time and 
I feel like that's just a 

634
00:37:54,000 --> 00:37:56,800
stereotype. 
But it does happen though when 

635
00:37:56,800 --> 00:37:59,300
parents are like my kids, To go 
to an ivy league and they're 

636
00:37:59,300 --> 00:38:03,500
like seven years old and then 
that is just projected. 

637
00:38:03,500 --> 00:38:07,700
I think this is a big one too 
and not exactly my experience, 

638
00:38:07,700 --> 00:38:12,000
but I know that it is for many 
people like until you get to 

639
00:38:12,000 --> 00:38:17,900
grade school you're allowed and 
able to be this like free 

640
00:38:17,900 --> 00:38:22,800
beautiful being who just like 
gets dirty and like experiments 

641
00:38:22,800 --> 00:38:26,200
with like crafts and just does 
all this stuff dresses. 

642
00:38:26,200 --> 00:38:31,500
Funny like whatever and and then
the in instant moment that you 

643
00:38:31,500 --> 00:38:36,500
get put into school, it's like, 
oh now you have to act this way 

644
00:38:36,500 --> 00:38:39,500
and dress this way and be this 
type of person and do this 

645
00:38:39,500 --> 00:38:45,600
correct and this you can't do 
it's like all of a sudden box I 

646
00:38:45,600 --> 00:38:50,300
saw an Instagram real yesterday 
from this family that does van 

647
00:38:50,300 --> 00:38:56,400
life this couple with two kids I
think and she voiced it over 

648
00:38:56,400 --> 00:39:00,400
with her thoughts on so ID and 
how we're designed for 

649
00:39:00,400 --> 00:39:04,900
disconnect. 
And she pointed out even just 

650
00:39:04,900 --> 00:39:08,200
before children, you get 
married, you have separate jobs 

651
00:39:08,200 --> 00:39:09,400
and you were just talking about 
this. 

652
00:39:09,800 --> 00:39:13,500
Francesca has been up the office
a lot and so disconnect 

653
00:39:13,900 --> 00:39:17,100
disconnect, the parents have 
different jobs, disconnect and 

654
00:39:17,100 --> 00:39:20,600
then she said, you have a baby 
but you have to go to work and 

655
00:39:20,600 --> 00:39:22,500
you send them to daycare 
disconnect. 

656
00:39:22,600 --> 00:39:24,300
Yeah. 
You they grow up, you send them 

657
00:39:24,300 --> 00:39:26,600
to school where they're forced 
to do something else and they're

658
00:39:26,600 --> 00:39:28,500
away from the parents disc. 
Connect. 

659
00:39:28,700 --> 00:39:33,000
And then you get forced to do 
something, you don't want to do 

660
00:39:33,000 --> 00:39:35,300
in, like, do a job that you 
don't want to do and that's 

661
00:39:35,300 --> 00:39:36,800
disconnected. 
And it's constantly 

662
00:39:36,800 --> 00:39:40,200
disconnecting from self from 
yourself, but also from each 

663
00:39:40,200 --> 00:39:41,900
other, the way our society 
functions. 

664
00:39:42,400 --> 00:39:44,600
And so that's what brings on all
of the conflict. 

665
00:39:44,600 --> 00:39:47,600
And so, we were really shitty at
being ourselves. 

666
00:39:47,900 --> 00:39:52,000
But then there's certain people 
that think they are want 

667
00:39:52,000 --> 00:39:56,600
everybody to be like them. 
So, then there's no conflict and

668
00:39:57,100 --> 00:39:59,600
nobody. 
I like that sense of 

669
00:39:59,600 --> 00:40:04,100
understanding has been lost and 
just allowing people to be 

670
00:40:04,100 --> 00:40:07,500
themselves and accepting that 
everybody is different and you 

671
00:40:07,500 --> 00:40:09,400
might not like them cool. 
You don't have to like 

672
00:40:09,400 --> 00:40:11,800
everybody. 
They're not here for you and 

673
00:40:11,800 --> 00:40:15,100
human designed us really allows 
you to see people more clearly 

674
00:40:15,100 --> 00:40:18,400
and have a lot more compassion 
for people. 

675
00:40:18,400 --> 00:40:23,400
Like, I see my family so much 
more deeply and with much more 

676
00:40:23,400 --> 00:40:24,800
understanding the things they 
do. 

677
00:40:24,800 --> 00:40:27,700
Don't frustrate me as much as 
they used to, I know. 

678
00:40:27,900 --> 00:40:32,100
I understand where their habits 
came from and even some of the 

679
00:40:32,100 --> 00:40:33,900
things that they don't 
understand about themselves. 

680
00:40:33,900 --> 00:40:37,300
I've seen in their chart and I 
know it to be so true, for 

681
00:40:37,300 --> 00:40:40,200
myself, for you, for many 
friends that I've talked through

682
00:40:40,200 --> 00:40:42,100
it, that I just kind of accept 
it. 

683
00:40:42,100 --> 00:40:45,300
That it is true. 
And I haven't read their charts 

684
00:40:45,300 --> 00:40:46,200
to them. 
Yeah. 

685
00:40:46,400 --> 00:40:50,600
Directly because I don't try to 
force this on anybody, but I've 

686
00:40:50,600 --> 00:40:53,900
seen things in there that just 
help me understand them. 

687
00:40:55,100 --> 00:40:58,800
And I want to say to because I 
feel like Like a lot of times 

688
00:40:58,800 --> 00:41:04,600
this talk about society and how 
its kind of in so many words 

689
00:41:04,600 --> 00:41:08,200
like fucked us all off. 
Basically I feel like we can get

690
00:41:08,200 --> 00:41:18,400
very upset about it and kind of 
Westward activist act we can get

691
00:41:19,900 --> 00:41:23,300
Up in arms. 
Yes, we can get up in arms, over

692
00:41:23,300 --> 00:41:25,900
this thing and get really upset 
about who's Dent. 

693
00:41:25,900 --> 00:41:27,300
Like whose fault, is this? 
What? 

694
00:41:27,300 --> 00:41:28,800
How did this happen? 
How did the love of Allah? 

695
00:41:29,500 --> 00:41:34,700
And the funny thing is, if you 
read, actually the human design 

696
00:41:34,700 --> 00:41:37,200
book, they talk about this a 
little bit and then I have 

697
00:41:37,200 --> 00:41:39,800
actually been awesome looking 
into more deeply. 

698
00:41:39,800 --> 00:41:44,900
The gene Keys, which is kind of 
a tail off of human design spear

699
00:41:44,900 --> 00:41:46,500
connected. 
Not going to get into that, but 

700
00:41:46,500 --> 00:41:52,500
he talks about this even more. 
Is all of this happened for a 

701
00:41:52,500 --> 00:41:55,500
reason and we're coming back 
into this. 

702
00:41:55,500 --> 00:41:59,100
And we were it's part of our 
Evolution and how we grow and 

703
00:41:59,100 --> 00:42:01,800
learn and get even better as 
humanity. 

704
00:42:02,200 --> 00:42:10,300
And I just have, I've never been
a person who's Super Active. 

705
00:42:10,300 --> 00:42:13,500
How do you call that? 
What's the word adjective? 

706
00:42:14,200 --> 00:42:17,200
I don't know, I don't know but I
think people understand what 

707
00:42:17,200 --> 00:42:21,000
you're talking about. 
I'm like been an activist that. 

708
00:42:21,000 --> 00:42:25,800
Okay, but I get like obviously 
like anyone get upset about 

709
00:42:25,800 --> 00:42:29,000
topics but I had really been 
working on letting a lot of that

710
00:42:29,000 --> 00:42:36,900
go because Our energy is very 
precious and anytime we are 

711
00:42:36,900 --> 00:42:39,400
focusing on anything that we are
unhappy about. 

712
00:42:39,400 --> 00:42:44,600
We are giving that thing energy 
that is literal science. 

713
00:42:46,300 --> 00:42:52,000
So I say this as well because I 
want to say when you go through 

714
00:42:52,000 --> 00:42:56,300
your human design and get deeper
with it, whether that be on your

715
00:42:56,300 --> 00:42:59,300
own or with a reader. 
If you have a good reader then 

716
00:42:59,300 --> 00:43:00,200
they're going to work through 
this. 

717
00:43:00,300 --> 00:43:04,800
This in the same way I'm telling
you but your conditioning 

718
00:43:05,700 --> 00:43:10,400
there's no point in being upset 
about it at all, actually the 

719
00:43:10,400 --> 00:43:12,700
opposite. 
Because so many of our gifts 

720
00:43:12,700 --> 00:43:16,400
come through those things that 
we have had a lot of challenge 

721
00:43:16,400 --> 00:43:19,800
with that, we have been 
conditioned and they're really 

722
00:43:20,800 --> 00:43:23,700
as shitty and difficult as 
sometimes they can be. 

723
00:43:23,700 --> 00:43:26,100
In the events have been in 
people's lives. 

724
00:43:26,300 --> 00:43:29,900
They are our gifts. 
They are gems. 

725
00:43:29,900 --> 00:43:35,200
And To be able to use whatever 
tool you have, whether that be 

726
00:43:35,200 --> 00:43:42,300
human design, or astrology, or a
therapist, or whatever to really

727
00:43:42,300 --> 00:43:46,400
mind the gem and learn from it. 
And then start to live by your 

728
00:43:46,400 --> 00:43:50,300
design is the biggest Gift 
Anyone can give themselves 

729
00:43:50,300 --> 00:43:57,500
because we're not here to be 
pissed about the hand that has 

730
00:43:57,500 --> 00:44:00,200
been dealt to us in life. 
We're here. 

731
00:44:00,300 --> 00:44:04,300
To like learn from it and make 
it as beautiful as we can. 

732
00:44:04,800 --> 00:44:07,700
So, yeah. 
But the open centers. 

733
00:44:07,700 --> 00:44:11,600
I mentioned earlier, discovering
that I had an open identity 

734
00:44:11,600 --> 00:44:13,500
Center. 
I have an open, willpower 

735
00:44:13,500 --> 00:44:17,800
Center, open emotional, open 
throat, open head, open on 

736
00:44:17,800 --> 00:44:22,400
Jenna. 
I have so much open and I have 

737
00:44:22,400 --> 00:44:26,800
learned the most lessons in 
those areas, and for the longest

738
00:44:26,800 --> 00:44:30,200
time, I was living according to 
what I thought other people. 

739
00:44:30,400 --> 00:44:34,600
To me to do that is the not self
theme of identity. 

740
00:44:35,000 --> 00:44:38,600
I was trying to overachieve to 
prove my worth. 

741
00:44:38,600 --> 00:44:42,900
That is the open heart. 
I was taking on other people's 

742
00:44:42,900 --> 00:44:47,400
ideas and always questioning my 
own overthinking open head open 

743
00:44:47,400 --> 00:44:52,200
on tuna looking for answers. 
I was doing all of the not self 

744
00:44:52,400 --> 00:44:57,000
themes, not self, meaning, not 
living in alignment, like, kind 

745
00:44:57,000 --> 00:45:00,200
of the Shadow side of having it 
open, if that makes sense. 

746
00:45:00,300 --> 00:45:05,100
I was doing a lot of that for so
long and I started to unravel 

747
00:45:05,100 --> 00:45:07,600
and recognize that a little bit.
When I quit my job decided to 

748
00:45:07,600 --> 00:45:09,500
travel, this was before I 
discovered human design. 

749
00:45:09,500 --> 00:45:12,700
But then once I saw my chart and
I read all about that and I saw 

750
00:45:12,700 --> 00:45:18,300
it on paper, I was able to sit 
back and really journal and like

751
00:45:18,300 --> 00:45:22,700
break it down and realize that 
it wasn't wrong. 

752
00:45:22,700 --> 00:45:25,200
It wasn't like oh shoot I've 
been playing the game wrong, my 

753
00:45:25,200 --> 00:45:28,800
whole life that's not the case. 
Like I had to go through those 

754
00:45:28,800 --> 00:45:32,400
things in order to Get myself 
here to have this podcast today 

755
00:45:32,400 --> 00:45:34,700
to be able to learn how to speak
my voice. 

756
00:45:34,700 --> 00:45:38,600
Speak my truth, to learn to show
myself freely on social media, 

757
00:45:38,600 --> 00:45:42,500
to learn to encourage people, 
and in have my message because 

758
00:45:42,700 --> 00:45:45,000
you're open centers. 
Allow you to learn the most, and

759
00:45:45,000 --> 00:45:47,200
therefore, teach the most from 
those lessons. 

760
00:45:47,200 --> 00:45:51,600
You've learned. 
So, I am so thankful for how my 

761
00:45:51,600 --> 00:45:53,700
chart is laid out. 
I'm I love it. 

762
00:45:53,700 --> 00:45:55,400
I find beauty in it every single
time. 

763
00:45:55,400 --> 00:45:57,900
I look at it, that I've learned 
so many lessons in those 

764
00:45:57,900 --> 00:46:01,800
centers. 
That now I can Teach and help 

765
00:46:01,800 --> 00:46:05,600
guide finding your own purpose, 
your own way like don't live 

766
00:46:05,600 --> 00:46:06,800
according to other people's 
shit. 

767
00:46:06,800 --> 00:46:08,700
I've done it. 
You don't have to. 

768
00:46:08,700 --> 00:46:12,000
And so now I have that message 
because I have learned it and 

769
00:46:12,000 --> 00:46:15,400
I'm able to embody it now. 
So that's the beauty of learning

770
00:46:15,400 --> 00:46:17,900
where your conditioning is 
understanding, where you're at 

771
00:46:18,000 --> 00:46:22,300
and then deconditioning and 
that's the lifelong journey. 

772
00:46:22,300 --> 00:46:25,200
Of human design is 
deconditioning to come back to 

773
00:46:25,200 --> 00:46:28,000
who you really are. 
Yeah, because an example of 

774
00:46:28,000 --> 00:46:30,800
this, that I'm going to ask you.
Right now. 

775
00:46:31,300 --> 00:46:34,400
For sure. 
I think I can say, you still 

776
00:46:34,400 --> 00:46:37,600
feel those not sub-themes pop up
and you every day, right? 

777
00:46:37,600 --> 00:46:41,700
Well, yes, yes, yeah. 
So it's a lifelong process which

778
00:46:41,700 --> 00:46:46,600
I know for some people that can 
be really disheartening but it 

779
00:46:46,600 --> 00:46:50,300
becomes. 
I don't have it, it becomes a 

780
00:46:50,300 --> 00:46:54,600
habit habit and it becomes this,
like I'm experiencing it like 

781
00:46:54,600 --> 00:47:00,500
this utter fascination with this
being that is Carly like I don't

782
00:47:00,500 --> 00:47:06,600
know, it almost like gives you a
step away from being all 

783
00:47:06,600 --> 00:47:13,200
completely wrapped up in in this
Me, you know, and I can be like,

784
00:47:13,200 --> 00:47:15,800
oh, oh this is so I'm feeling 
this. 

785
00:47:15,800 --> 00:47:19,200
Like, for me, one of the big 
themes is I have an open Root 

786
00:47:19,200 --> 00:47:22,600
Center, so I can feel really 
pressured to find stability. 

787
00:47:23,100 --> 00:47:27,500
And that can really cause me a 
lot of challenges, because a lot

788
00:47:27,500 --> 00:47:31,200
of those classic ways of finding
stability are not in alignment 

789
00:47:31,200 --> 00:47:36,700
with my energy as a Manifesto. 
And so, when I find this like 

790
00:47:36,700 --> 00:47:41,200
even I felt this come up with my
partner, he is on This journey 

791
00:47:41,200 --> 00:47:43,700
was starting a new business and 
it's beautiful and I'm so 

792
00:47:43,700 --> 00:47:46,800
excited for him. 
But I can feel this almost like,

793
00:47:47,600 --> 00:47:49,000
well shit. 
What am I doing? 

794
00:47:49,300 --> 00:47:50,400
Like, what am I doing with 
myself? 

795
00:47:50,400 --> 00:47:55,300
I'm just sitting here which is 
not freaking true but then I 

796
00:47:55,300 --> 00:48:00,800
catch it and I'm like whoa. 
Okay that's interesting. 

797
00:48:00,900 --> 00:48:03,500
Where is this coming from? 
How can I work with this? 

798
00:48:03,500 --> 00:48:08,500
And it becomes this like almost 
like play that you're just 

799
00:48:08,500 --> 00:48:10,200
watching and you're able to be 
like, whoa. 

800
00:48:10,300 --> 00:48:12,600
Ooh. 
Oh, that didn't feel good in me.

801
00:48:12,600 --> 00:48:14,300
Like, what was that? 
That was interesting. 

802
00:48:14,300 --> 00:48:16,900
Let's dive into that. 
Like, where did that come from? 

803
00:48:18,200 --> 00:48:21,600
Exactly, it's a tool. 
I want to be really clear with 

804
00:48:21,800 --> 00:48:25,600
you listening. 
It's a tool just like any other 

805
00:48:25,600 --> 00:48:29,200
personality tests in astrology. 
Anything you're working with is 

806
00:48:29,200 --> 00:48:32,400
a tool for you. 
Take what resonates leave, what 

807
00:48:32,400 --> 00:48:36,900
doesn't always in your entire 
life just live by that. 

808
00:48:37,000 --> 00:48:40,800
Take what resonates leave. 
What doesn't because The design 

809
00:48:40,800 --> 00:48:44,700
does not show up to tell you 
this is who you are and this is 

810
00:48:44,700 --> 00:48:50,000
your box, it is removing boxes. 
It it gives you ultimate 

811
00:48:50,000 --> 00:48:51,700
opportunity and freedom to be 
yourself. 

812
00:48:51,700 --> 00:48:56,600
It takes away anything that 
you've believed yourself to be 

813
00:48:56,800 --> 00:48:59,500
in that in that box that you've 
created for yourself. 

814
00:48:59,500 --> 00:49:04,400
And gives you a new perspective 
on may be who you want to be or 

815
00:49:04,400 --> 00:49:07,600
who you're not even admitting to
yourself that you desire to be 

816
00:49:08,100 --> 00:49:09,500
the things that you want to 
achieve that. 

817
00:49:09,500 --> 00:49:12,700
You might not even Know about 
until I unlocks like Harley said

818
00:49:12,900 --> 00:49:14,800
unlocked, these thoughts and 
ideas. 

819
00:49:15,100 --> 00:49:18,200
And there's another website. 
I'm going to link in the show 

820
00:49:18,200 --> 00:49:23,900
notes that has to do with the 
gene keys and it gives you a 

821
00:49:24,000 --> 00:49:26,800
single paragraph descriptions of
each part of your Incarnation 

822
00:49:26,800 --> 00:49:31,300
cross which is your life purpose
and it is not actionable for 

823
00:49:31,300 --> 00:49:35,000
anybody coming in here searching
for a quick fix answer to their 

824
00:49:35,000 --> 00:49:37,600
life. 
Your life purpose, your 

825
00:49:37,600 --> 00:49:39,300
Incarnation cross is not 
actionable. 

826
00:49:39,300 --> 00:49:41,500
It's something that 
unfortunately, It's naturally as

827
00:49:41,500 --> 00:49:43,300
you live according to your 
design. 

828
00:49:43,300 --> 00:49:47,900
So as you follow satisfaction, 
as you follow piece, it 

829
00:49:47,900 --> 00:49:51,200
naturally unfolds. 
But if you look yours up in the 

830
00:49:51,200 --> 00:49:57,300
gene Keys link, I think that you
might just freaked out like I 

831
00:49:57,300 --> 00:50:00,700
did. 
I every time I reread that I 

832
00:50:00,700 --> 00:50:04,100
cry. 
Like every read it recently and 

833
00:50:04,100 --> 00:50:07,300
it's unfolded even more when I 
first read it in April of last 

834
00:50:07,300 --> 00:50:09,400
year. 
Some of it I was like, I was 

835
00:50:09,400 --> 00:50:11,900
like, whoa. 
Okay, this is crazy. 

836
00:50:11,900 --> 00:50:14,300
I really resonated with some of 
it and then I really started 

837
00:50:14,300 --> 00:50:17,000
experimenting with human design 
and I think I read it again in 

838
00:50:17,000 --> 00:50:19,700
the fall and I kind of, I got 
something different. 

839
00:50:19,700 --> 00:50:22,200
Every time I read it, I see 
something different and then I 

840
00:50:22,200 --> 00:50:25,800
just reread it last month and I 
was like holy shit. 

841
00:50:25,800 --> 00:50:29,200
Like it's really and I'm only 
25. 

842
00:50:29,600 --> 00:50:30,900
Yeah. 
What's it going to look like 

843
00:50:30,900 --> 00:50:36,500
when it unfolds when I'm 40 or 
50 or older like it's 

844
00:50:36,800 --> 00:50:40,000
incredible. 
It tells you about your life's 

845
00:50:40,300 --> 00:50:41,100
Work. 
What is it? 

846
00:50:41,100 --> 00:50:44,100
Life's work. 
Your life is your mission 

847
00:50:44,100 --> 00:50:50,100
purpose, your challenge. 
And your Evolution know your 

848
00:50:50,100 --> 00:50:52,200
Radiance of alert radios and 
evolution. 

849
00:50:52,300 --> 00:50:57,200
Yes, it's highly worth reading. 
If you are going to sit and 

850
00:50:57,200 --> 00:51:01,900
scroll on Tick-Tock today, I 
encourage you to use a quick 

851
00:51:01,900 --> 00:51:06,000
five minutes to look this up and
sacrifice to tick. 

852
00:51:06,000 --> 00:51:09,200
Tock, tick, tock time, don't 
expect anything of it. 

853
00:51:09,200 --> 00:51:12,200
Because also the first time I 
read it, like Alexis said, I was

854
00:51:12,200 --> 00:51:15,600
like, oh this definitely speaks 
to me about like okay, you know,

855
00:51:15,900 --> 00:51:21,600
but do take a moment to Sit with
it as well because I know the 

856
00:51:21,600 --> 00:51:25,100
more I've sat with it, the more.
It's so I've learned more about 

857
00:51:25,100 --> 00:51:28,300
Gene keys and that those for 
that, it gives you, that's your 

858
00:51:28,300 --> 00:51:30,500
activation sequence. 
So Richard, read the guy who 

859
00:51:30,500 --> 00:51:35,400
created Gene Keys, who channeled
Gene Keys through kind of 

860
00:51:35,400 --> 00:51:38,800
working with human design. 
Actually, he talks about how you

861
00:51:38,800 --> 00:51:41,700
can just focus on your 
activation sequence and learn 

862
00:51:41,700 --> 00:51:44,500
about that, and that is more 
than enough. 

863
00:51:45,700 --> 00:51:50,900
But it's, yeah, it's like You to
your Highest Potential on this 

864
00:51:50,900 --> 00:51:52,700
Earth. 
But it's not, like Alexis said, 

865
00:51:52,700 --> 00:51:56,900
it's not obviously actionable 
like my my purpose, I don't 

866
00:51:56,900 --> 00:51:58,400
remember the gene key number. 
Exactly. 

867
00:51:58,400 --> 00:52:01,300
But it it's mainly about 
authenticity. 

868
00:52:01,600 --> 00:52:04,700
So it literally says in there, 
it's not about what you do but 

869
00:52:04,700 --> 00:52:08,500
it's how you do it and you have 
to do everything authentically, 

870
00:52:08,500 --> 00:52:12,100
you, no matter what that looks 
like for it to feel fulfilling 

871
00:52:12,100 --> 00:52:15,300
to you. 
So it doesn't give you something

872
00:52:15,300 --> 00:52:17,300
that mean is that? 
It doesn't give you like go out.

873
00:52:18,300 --> 00:52:24,500
Be a Tarot reader you but you 
you know you the core of you 

874
00:52:24,500 --> 00:52:28,000
knows what that means and if 
you're anything like this can. 

875
00:52:28,300 --> 00:52:31,500
Yeah, if you're really 
disconnected with who you're 

876
00:52:31,600 --> 00:52:35,700
meant to be and highly 
conditioned, or you're unhappy 

877
00:52:35,700 --> 00:52:38,500
in your life, clearly doing 
things that you don't enjoy, 

878
00:52:38,500 --> 00:52:42,400
that are not for you and your 
your distance from your true 

879
00:52:42,400 --> 00:52:45,500
self is far. 
It might not Vibe with you until

880
00:52:45,500 --> 00:52:48,900
you start taking those steps of 
like I To change something in my

881
00:52:48,900 --> 00:52:50,300
life. 
Like that's how I felt. 

882
00:52:50,500 --> 00:52:53,200
I just was at the spot of I need
to make a fucking change. 

883
00:52:53,200 --> 00:52:56,200
Okay, I need to quit my job. 
I need to go see something new. 

884
00:52:56,200 --> 00:52:59,100
I need to figure out where I 
want to be that momentum. 

885
00:52:59,100 --> 00:53:03,200
Yeah, has brought me closer and 
closer and closer to where I 

886
00:53:03,200 --> 00:53:07,600
feel like I can say that I'm on 
the right path and I fully truly

887
00:53:07,600 --> 00:53:10,900
know and trust that whatever 
opportunities are meant to come 

888
00:53:10,900 --> 00:53:14,400
to me, are coming through this. 
I made the decision to move 

889
00:53:14,600 --> 00:53:17,600
following my gut instinct 
because I felt satisfied. 

890
00:53:17,800 --> 00:53:20,600
And in this building with the 
roommate that I met. 

891
00:53:20,600 --> 00:53:23,900
And I really paid attention to 
my human design and making this 

892
00:53:23,900 --> 00:53:26,400
decision. 
Same with applying for the job 

893
00:53:26,500 --> 00:53:31,200
that that I did because having 
so many undefined centers in my 

894
00:53:31,200 --> 00:53:33,400
chart. 
The, the white ones for anybody 

895
00:53:33,400 --> 00:53:36,100
looking at their chart. 
If you have a lot of those, 

896
00:53:36,100 --> 00:53:38,400
you're really affected by your 
environment and the people 

897
00:53:38,400 --> 00:53:40,300
around you. 
Because like we said, if they're

898
00:53:40,300 --> 00:53:42,900
open, you're open to influence 
by other people. 

899
00:53:43,200 --> 00:53:46,600
And so, I took a tour of the 
place before I even applied, 

900
00:53:46,700 --> 00:53:49,400
because I knew that the It was 
going to impact me a lot and 

901
00:53:49,400 --> 00:53:52,300
that's really important to me. 
So I use my human design in that

902
00:53:52,300 --> 00:53:56,000
way and by going and doing that 
and being myself the at the end 

903
00:53:56,000 --> 00:54:00,500
of my tour, the guy handed me 
the managers card to apply and I

904
00:54:00,600 --> 00:54:01,900
took it. 
I said, hell yes. 

905
00:54:01,900 --> 00:54:04,500
With my gut instinct, I'm going 
to apply this is perfect. 

906
00:54:04,500 --> 00:54:06,700
I love the place, I love the 
people. 

907
00:54:06,800 --> 00:54:09,600
I got offered the opportunity 
and I responded. 

908
00:54:09,600 --> 00:54:12,200
That's my strategy and I 
responded. 

909
00:54:12,200 --> 00:54:15,200
I took the card I applied and I 
got a response back from her. 

910
00:54:15,200 --> 00:54:18,600
So like that is my, that's an 
example of Of the natural flow 

911
00:54:18,600 --> 00:54:23,100
of my design and how I made this
decision and how I got here and 

912
00:54:23,100 --> 00:54:25,300
Carly's laughing because hers 
does not work that way. 

913
00:54:25,400 --> 00:54:30,300
I did not know. 
I think I've also talked about 

914
00:54:30,300 --> 00:54:34,900
that on this podcast, a couple 
of times, but I definitely have 

915
00:54:34,900 --> 00:54:40,400
learnt that My emotional 
Authority, doesn't it? 

916
00:54:40,408 --> 00:54:43,000
Yeah, it does not work like that
and how I am. 

917
00:54:44,300 --> 00:54:49,100
A very easily excitable person. 
And I can easily be like, hell, 

918
00:54:49,100 --> 00:54:51,000
yes. 
And then get on the bandwagon 

919
00:54:51,000 --> 00:54:55,000
and get like a couple miles down
the road, and be like, oh shit, 

920
00:54:55,000 --> 00:54:58,900
what have I done? 
So, for an emotional Authority. 

921
00:55:00,200 --> 00:55:03,800
It's not with, like, every 
decision you need to do this 

922
00:55:03,800 --> 00:55:06,800
with this, a lot of the bigger 
decisions, the meaningful 

923
00:55:06,800 --> 00:55:09,800
decisions. 
Not like, what lunch my going to

924
00:55:09,800 --> 00:55:12,000
have today and then you have to 
wait a whole two weeks just to 

925
00:55:12,000 --> 00:55:17,000
decide on your lunch, know? 
But when this is a decision, is 

926
00:55:17,000 --> 00:55:23,900
presented to yourself. 
Often times it's either in the 

927
00:55:23,900 --> 00:55:26,100
higher, the low of our emotional
cycle. 

928
00:55:26,100 --> 00:55:30,000
So emotional authorities, we 
have like, oh we're feeling 

929
00:55:30,000 --> 00:55:32,700
really good and we're feeling 
happy and like, light and stuff.

930
00:55:32,700 --> 00:55:35,500
And then we have a natural just 
kind of like, lower-energy, not 

931
00:55:35,500 --> 00:55:39,100
like low low, but I can feel it 
with myself. 

932
00:55:39,100 --> 00:55:42,000
It's just like, I'm a little bit
more quiet and just not as 

933
00:55:42,100 --> 00:55:45,600
social, and a little bit low. 
Our energy and then it comes 

934
00:55:45,600 --> 00:55:49,600
back up. 
And so oftentimes these 

935
00:55:49,600 --> 00:55:54,700
decisions present them to me in 
my high higher state. 

936
00:55:54,700 --> 00:55:56,900
And so I'm like easily like yes,
yes, yes. 

937
00:55:57,000 --> 00:55:58,700
And then I'm like, okay, hold 
on. 

938
00:55:58,700 --> 00:56:01,900
Now I'm really, I gotta wait, I 
gotta go back through the 

939
00:56:01,900 --> 00:56:05,100
neutral and then down below and 
then come back to neutral. 

940
00:56:05,100 --> 00:56:08,500
And then, how did I feel 
throughout this entire cycle? 

941
00:56:09,700 --> 00:56:13,100
And in, that is going to be my 
decision. 

942
00:56:13,500 --> 00:56:16,300
And I want to say this because I
find this really interesting, 

943
00:56:17,100 --> 00:56:22,300
even if my, like kind of gut 
feeling in the moment, would 

944
00:56:22,300 --> 00:56:25,600
actually be the end decision 
that I would have after waiting 

945
00:56:25,600 --> 00:56:29,800
for my whole cycle, if I say yes
or also know to something right 

946
00:56:29,800 --> 00:56:35,000
away And it's my decision. 
I can still go through my cycle 

947
00:56:35,000 --> 00:56:38,900
and then go on through that 
decision and be like, oh, shoot,

948
00:56:38,900 --> 00:56:40,900
is that correct? 
Was that good for me? 

949
00:56:40,900 --> 00:56:43,600
Even if it was? 
So I don't know. 

950
00:56:43,600 --> 00:56:47,900
That's something I'm learning 
about myself well as we're 

951
00:56:47,900 --> 00:56:51,100
winding down. 
I feel like we should maybe 

952
00:56:51,100 --> 00:56:57,600
share, what is your biggest 
lesson with human design that 

953
00:56:57,600 --> 00:57:01,200
has stuck with you? 
that when I just shared that has

954
00:57:01,200 --> 00:57:09,100
been a big one, but I think the 
biggest one is learning more 

955
00:57:09,100 --> 00:57:15,400
about how my energy functions as
a Manifesto and how important it

956
00:57:15,400 --> 00:57:22,000
is for me when I get that, like,
Goosebump feeling of an idea 

957
00:57:22,000 --> 00:57:27,200
coming through and I am feeling 
it and it's like, yes, I am 

958
00:57:27,200 --> 00:57:31,900
still learning how to do this 
but I Need to literally drop 

959
00:57:31,900 --> 00:57:35,800
everything and go with it. 
Because that is what I'm here to

960
00:57:35,800 --> 00:57:37,500
do. 
I'm here to initiate things. 

961
00:57:37,500 --> 00:57:42,800
I'm here to act upon the ideas 
that are moving within me and 

962
00:57:42,800 --> 00:57:45,400
wanting Desiring to be 
expressed. 

963
00:57:45,600 --> 00:57:48,200
And that's been a big thing is, 
I haven't always trusted that 

964
00:57:48,200 --> 00:57:51,600
because a lot of times in the 
past when I've done that, I've 

965
00:57:51,600 --> 00:57:54,200
kind of gotten lost in the, in 
the middle part, you know, 

966
00:57:54,200 --> 00:57:56,500
because I'm great and 
manifestos, I really great at 

967
00:57:56,500 --> 00:57:59,400
starting things, we're not the 
best. 

968
00:57:59,500 --> 00:58:03,800
Start finishing them, and that's
where the generators, and the 

969
00:58:03,800 --> 00:58:05,700
projectors in the reflectors 
come in. 

970
00:58:05,800 --> 00:58:09,000
And that's what creates this 
beautiful community of, like, 

971
00:58:09,000 --> 00:58:12,900
we're all functioning to create 
this beautiful dream that is 

972
00:58:12,900 --> 00:58:15,500
life. 
So, yeah. 

973
00:58:15,500 --> 00:58:18,900
And I'm still very much working 
with all of this and 

974
00:58:18,900 --> 00:58:24,100
experimenting with it and, and 
learning the kind of more 

975
00:58:24,400 --> 00:58:27,700
details of how it works within 
my own physical system, what it 

976
00:58:27,700 --> 00:58:32,700
feels like and that but That's 
been a big beautiful and 

977
00:58:34,500 --> 00:58:39,200
sometimes challenging lesson, 
but a really good one, I love 

978
00:58:39,200 --> 00:58:42,800
it, I love it. 
I think the thing that has 

979
00:58:42,800 --> 00:58:49,000
really stuck with me is that 
you, you are you, and you are 

980
00:58:49,000 --> 00:58:53,500
meant to be doing, whatever it 
is that you're you're doing and 

981
00:58:53,600 --> 00:58:59,200
the trust that I have in life. 
And in the universe in God, 

982
00:58:59,200 --> 00:59:02,700
what? 
You believe in Source energy is 

983
00:59:02,700 --> 00:59:05,600
so much stronger than it ever 
has been. 

984
00:59:05,700 --> 00:59:09,600
And for anyone that knows me, 
well, I was I went to church 

985
00:59:09,600 --> 00:59:12,700
school for 10 years. 
I was very immersed in religion 

986
00:59:14,100 --> 00:59:16,600
and this is just so different 
than that. 

987
00:59:16,600 --> 00:59:21,700
It gives. 
It's like a give-and-take 

988
00:59:22,100 --> 00:59:26,200
co-creation of a relationship 
between you and the universe and

989
00:59:26,200 --> 00:59:29,000
the world and it's not you 
putting that power outside of 

990
00:59:29,000 --> 00:59:30,800
yourself. 
Self it seeing yourself. 

991
00:59:30,800 --> 00:59:36,000
So, clearly and then being able 
to work with almost it. 

992
00:59:36,900 --> 00:59:42,400
Mike, you me, everybody. 
You are the universe the 

993
00:59:42,400 --> 00:59:45,900
universe is within you. 
So out, this one thing I love 

994
00:59:45,900 --> 00:59:48,000
about him going to just 
piggyback off that really quick,

995
00:59:48,000 --> 00:59:53,400
it's like I think in a lot of 
them were dogmatic religions. 

996
00:59:53,400 --> 00:59:57,300
There's like, you have this 
go-between between you and God, 

997
00:59:57,300 --> 01:00:00,400
are you and the maker? 
The Universe, whatever. 

998
01:00:00,400 --> 01:00:04,500
And and in reality, I mean, this
is something really exciting. 

999
01:00:04,500 --> 01:00:09,000
Also, that science is proving 
like we are all literally one. 

1000
01:00:09,100 --> 01:00:14,900
Like we are the universe and 
human design is I I like to say 

1001
01:00:14,900 --> 01:00:19,800
to that, it's like you finding 
your own unique language where 

1002
01:00:19,800 --> 01:00:22,600
you're communicating with the 
universe, but also yourself, and

1003
01:00:22,600 --> 01:00:27,100
it's just this beautiful back 
and forth and Donald's. 

1004
01:00:27,100 --> 01:00:29,500
So I forgetting magical. 
It's really cool. 

1005
01:00:30,300 --> 01:00:34,000
Yeah, it's allowed me to trust 
that everything is working out. 

1006
01:00:34,000 --> 01:00:37,700
Exactly as its supposed to. 
I used to be stressed and 

1007
01:00:37,700 --> 01:00:43,000
anxious and very, very future 
thinking very predictive trying 

1008
01:00:43,000 --> 01:00:46,100
to think of exactly what 
somebody could say at this 

1009
01:00:46,100 --> 01:00:49,100
party, to me who I'm going to 
run into, or what I'm going to 

1010
01:00:49,100 --> 01:00:51,100
do. 
When I graduate step by step 

1011
01:00:51,100 --> 01:00:53,500
what I need and most of the 
time, those things don't even 

1012
01:00:53,500 --> 01:00:58,600
happen, it's just Stressing 
yourself out for no reason, but 

1013
01:00:58,700 --> 01:01:02,000
being able to respond in the 
moment with my gut instinct 

1014
01:01:02,000 --> 01:01:05,900
follow satisfaction and just 
know that whatever is happening 

1015
01:01:05,900 --> 01:01:09,000
is happening. 
It gives you so much freedom and

1016
01:01:09,000 --> 01:01:13,000
brain space. 
Oh my God, the amount of brain 

1017
01:01:13,000 --> 01:01:16,000
space that I can. 
I can spend my time doing other 

1018
01:01:16,000 --> 01:01:19,400
things, and learning things and 
not being stressed out. 

1019
01:01:19,500 --> 01:01:23,900
My body is so much more relaxed.
I feel healthier, I look 

1020
01:01:23,900 --> 01:01:28,400
healthier. 
I It's just completely changed. 

1021
01:01:28,400 --> 01:01:32,100
How I function. 
Mentally, I might seem the same 

1022
01:01:32,200 --> 01:01:34,800
to friends and family, maybe 
maybe I seem completely 

1023
01:01:34,800 --> 01:01:36,600
different, I don't know. 
But for the most part, I don't 

1024
01:01:36,600 --> 01:01:40,500
really look different, but I 
definitely act and feel 

1025
01:01:40,500 --> 01:01:45,100
different on the inside and how 
I function in my life. 

1026
01:01:45,100 --> 01:01:49,200
So it's really affected my 
mental health, and the best of 

1027
01:01:49,200 --> 01:01:53,500
ways. 
I think my motto has become 

1028
01:01:53,900 --> 01:01:56,300
through human design and also 
through the other Studies I'm 

1029
01:01:56,300 --> 01:01:58,800
doing as well. 
It's like just stop thinking. 

1030
01:01:59,400 --> 01:02:08,000
Stop thinking it does no good, 
no good anytime anytime I get 

1031
01:02:08,000 --> 01:02:11,200
into this pattern of like oh my 
God I'm like really thinking a 

1032
01:02:11,207 --> 01:02:14,000
lot about this and trying to 
figure out and instantly go to 

1033
01:02:14,000 --> 01:02:16,700
anything else. 
Anything else for me it's been 

1034
01:02:16,700 --> 01:02:21,500
Mantra but you could do just 
deep breathing or starting to 

1035
01:02:21,500 --> 01:02:25,400
read about human has anything 
you can do to stop. 

1036
01:02:27,900 --> 01:02:30,900
It's just the whole it's a deep 
dark hole. 

1037
01:02:31,500 --> 01:02:34,900
Yeah and I can go on forever 
just like this podcast episode 

1038
01:02:34,900 --> 01:02:36,200
if we don't stop talking right 
now. 

1039
01:02:36,400 --> 01:02:40,300
Yes. 
Okay, so I hope you enjoyed this

1040
01:02:40,400 --> 01:02:44,300
and got a little bit of an 
insight into how we found human 

1041
01:02:44,300 --> 01:02:47,400
design, how it's affected us and
our lives and why we're so 

1042
01:02:47,400 --> 01:02:51,400
passionate about sharing it with
everyone because it really does 

1043
01:02:51,800 --> 01:02:54,400
affect you as a person. 
But also your relationships, how

1044
01:02:54,400 --> 01:02:58,300
you view the world, And it's 
meant to be an empowering tool 

1045
01:02:58,300 --> 01:02:59,900
and we're here to use it and 
that way. 

1046
01:03:00,700 --> 01:03:03,900
So if you're curious about your 
design, go to body graft 

1047
01:03:03,900 --> 01:03:09,400
heart.com to look up. 
Your chart or Gene keys.com to 

1048
01:03:09,400 --> 01:03:13,500
look up your Incarnation, cross 
Gene, key description, I will 

1049
01:03:13,500 --> 01:03:14,800
link both of those in the show 
notes. 

1050
01:03:15,100 --> 01:03:19,400
They're both free, just read 
about yourself, Google, 

1051
01:03:19,400 --> 01:03:21,100
whatever, find whatever 
information. 

1052
01:03:21,100 --> 01:03:24,200
There's a lot of information out
there, it can be kind of hard to

1053
01:03:24,200 --> 01:03:28,400
interpret and that is A reader 
can be helpful or voice note us 

1054
01:03:28,400 --> 01:03:33,100
on Instagram or message us, 
whatever or even book a reading,

1055
01:03:33,100 --> 01:03:36,300
if you feel called to I would 
love to look at your design and 

1056
01:03:36,300 --> 01:03:40,600
dig into it, so it Carly but we 
will have more episodes coming 

1057
01:03:40,600 --> 01:03:44,100
up talk like digging into all of
the types because obviously 

1058
01:03:44,300 --> 01:03:45,800
Carly's a manifest her I'm a 
generator. 

1059
01:03:45,800 --> 01:03:48,700
There's also manifesting 
generator reflector projector, 

1060
01:03:48,900 --> 01:03:50,200
we don't want to leave any of 
you out. 

1061
01:03:50,200 --> 01:03:53,700
We love you now. 
So we will do more episodes 

1062
01:03:53,700 --> 01:03:57,500
digging in to specific Aspects 
of human design because there 

1063
01:03:57,500 --> 01:04:01,600
are so many different things you
can dig into and so many details

1064
01:04:02,300 --> 01:04:04,000
and we're excited to share that 
with you. 

1065
01:04:04,000 --> 01:04:06,500
So if you have any specific 
questions, please don't hesitate

1066
01:04:06,500 --> 01:04:10,000
to reach out and EMS. 
And if you love this episode, 

1067
01:04:10,000 --> 01:04:12,800
please give us a rating and 
review share with a friend. 

1068
01:04:12,800 --> 01:04:16,400
If you want to geek out on human
design with them what boots and 

1069
01:04:16,400 --> 01:04:19,300
to show our appreciation. 
For you leaving us a review 

1070
01:04:19,300 --> 01:04:23,100
Carly and I thought it would be 
so much fun to give away free 

1071
01:04:23,100 --> 01:04:26,900
mini readings, and all you have 
to do Is leave a review 

1072
01:04:26,900 --> 01:04:31,300
screenshot it and DM it to 
either Carly or me. 

1073
01:04:31,500 --> 01:04:35,300
Whoever you want to receive your
mini reading from and get your 

1074
01:04:35,300 --> 01:04:38,500
body graph on the website and 
be, well, voice note, you back 

1075
01:04:38,500 --> 01:04:41,700
and forth in the DMS. 
Obviously, this is going to be 

1076
01:04:41,700 --> 01:04:44,600
more of a basic reading to help 
you get to know your energy type

1077
01:04:44,600 --> 01:04:47,700
in your profile and answer a few
of your questions. 

1078
01:04:47,900 --> 01:04:51,100
If you would like a deeper 
reading more comprehensive, get 

1079
01:04:51,100 --> 01:04:54,200
to know all the details or to 
ask certain questions about your

1080
01:04:54,200 --> 01:04:57,900
life and really Analyze, those 
from the perspective of your 

1081
01:04:57,900 --> 01:05:01,200
human design chart and maybe the
steps you can take in your life,

1082
01:05:01,200 --> 01:05:04,900
that is something we can cover 
in a full reading. 

1083
01:05:04,900 --> 01:05:10,300
So my booking link will be in 
the show notes and Carly does 

1084
01:05:10,300 --> 01:05:12,900
readings upon request. 
So please reach out and DM her 

1085
01:05:12,900 --> 01:05:16,000
as well with that. 
Thanks again, so much for 

1086
01:05:16,000 --> 01:05:19,300
hanging out with us and we will 
see you in the next one. 

1087
01:05:19,900 --> 01:05:21,700
Bye bye.