1 00:00:02,360 --> 00:00:06,640 Hello and welcome back to another episode of Let It Flow. 2 00:00:07,080 --> 00:00:10,640 I am so happy to be back on the mic because quite honestly, you 3 00:00:10,640 --> 00:00:13,560 guys, I think it's been about a month since I've actually 4 00:00:13,720 --> 00:00:17,920 recorded because I skipped last week for reasons that we will 5 00:00:18,160 --> 00:00:21,400 dive into in this episode and the couple before that I had 6 00:00:21,400 --> 00:00:23,240 prepped. So it's been a long time since 7 00:00:23,240 --> 00:00:26,200 I've just yapped with you. And for those of you that are 8 00:00:26,200 --> 00:00:29,120 new here and don't know who I am, my name is Alexis. 9 00:00:29,120 --> 00:00:33,000 I am a podcaster, content creator, human design reader, 10 00:00:33,240 --> 00:00:37,600 and yeah, 28 year old girly living in Minneapolis figuring 11 00:00:37,600 --> 00:00:41,360 out life as we go. So I'm here to just share my 12 00:00:41,360 --> 00:00:45,320 learnings around mindset, personal growth, self discovery 13 00:00:45,680 --> 00:00:48,960 and everything in between. I'm into all sorts of different 14 00:00:49,040 --> 00:00:50,800 topics. So I love that this is a 15 00:00:50,800 --> 00:00:54,200 platform that I can just converge all of them and bring 16 00:00:54,200 --> 00:00:58,400 on people that inspire me and have expertise in different 17 00:00:58,400 --> 00:01:02,480 areas because OK, you guys, I'm a Taurus sun, Libra moon, 18 00:01:02,480 --> 00:01:05,560 Aquarius rising Taurus. I'm like, I love beauty, I love 19 00:01:05,560 --> 00:01:07,360 fashion. I went to school for fashion. 20 00:01:07,760 --> 00:01:11,120 I I love all of that and I love mindset spirituality, but I also 21 00:01:11,160 --> 00:01:13,200 have an Aquarius rising. So I'm into kind of the goofy 22 00:01:13,200 --> 00:01:17,400 things and I love tech. I love AII love like anything 23 00:01:17,400 --> 00:01:20,360 that's a little bit out there. So it's just a mix of all sorts 24 00:01:20,360 --> 00:01:22,400 of different things. And so this platform brings me 25 00:01:22,400 --> 00:01:25,320 so much joy that I get to just do whatever the heck I want over 26 00:01:25,320 --> 00:01:27,920 here. And you're all along for the 27 00:01:27,920 --> 00:01:31,480 ride and you seem to love it. So I appreciate you so much for 28 00:01:31,480 --> 00:01:33,800 being here. And this episode is really 29 00:01:33,800 --> 00:01:36,040 special to me. I've been looking forward to 30 00:01:36,040 --> 00:01:39,760 recording this for days now, but I've been waiting for the 31 00:01:39,760 --> 00:01:43,520 emotions and energy to settle a little bit because there's been 32 00:01:43,720 --> 00:01:47,600 a lot of change. I don't know if your life and 33 00:01:47,600 --> 00:01:51,320 emotions have been like rocked lately. 34 00:01:51,320 --> 00:01:55,760 I don't know what's going on in the astrology world that's 35 00:01:55,760 --> 00:01:57,320 happening. Or maybe it's just, you know, 36 00:01:57,320 --> 00:02:01,240 Earth getting the best of us, that there's just been so much 37 00:02:01,400 --> 00:02:05,440 going on and just a lot of energy moving through. 38 00:02:06,320 --> 00:02:09,199 So if you've been feeling it, I've been feeling it, I'm going 39 00:02:09,199 --> 00:02:13,760 through it with you and we will survive this episode. 40 00:02:13,760 --> 00:02:19,200 Today I wanted to focus on your passion is your talent. 41 00:02:19,600 --> 00:02:22,560 And this actually came inspiration from Anna Sattar. 42 00:02:22,560 --> 00:02:24,200 She's my favorite content creator. 43 00:02:24,200 --> 00:02:26,400 If you don't know who she is, I feel like you have to live under 44 00:02:26,400 --> 00:02:27,920 a rock because I feel like she's everywhere. 45 00:02:27,920 --> 00:02:29,520 But also our algorithms are different. 46 00:02:29,520 --> 00:02:35,520 But if you are a mid to late 20s girly and like happy content, I 47 00:02:35,520 --> 00:02:37,400 feel like she's just the star of the show. 48 00:02:37,840 --> 00:02:40,440 I love every single video she puts out. 49 00:02:40,680 --> 00:02:43,960 And this one was kind of a longer one, just her talking to 50 00:02:43,960 --> 00:02:45,320 the camera. And she doesn't do it very 51 00:02:45,320 --> 00:02:48,160 often, but I know anytime she does, it's something good. 52 00:02:48,680 --> 00:02:51,960 And she was just talking about your passion is your talent. 53 00:02:52,040 --> 00:02:56,200 And so many people say, and maybe you're guilty of this. 54 00:02:56,200 --> 00:02:58,720 I know I've been guilty of this of Oh yeah. 55 00:02:58,720 --> 00:03:00,960 Like I enjoy that, but I'm not good at it. 56 00:03:01,040 --> 00:03:02,840 Like, like there's so many people. 57 00:03:02,840 --> 00:03:05,040 I feel like when it comes to artistic things in particular, 58 00:03:05,480 --> 00:03:08,000 people will say, oh, I love painting, but like I suck at it. 59 00:03:08,000 --> 00:03:10,560 Or I took a pottery class and it was so much fun, but like, I'm 60 00:03:10,560 --> 00:03:13,200 so bad at it. Like no one cares if you're bad 61 00:03:13,200 --> 00:03:14,400 at it. Also, that's subjective, 62 00:03:14,400 --> 00:03:18,240 especially in art. But I think that our passions 63 00:03:18,240 --> 00:03:22,920 are downplayed a lot in society because we're told that we need 64 00:03:22,920 --> 00:03:24,320 to have a degree. We need to have that piece of 65 00:03:24,320 --> 00:03:26,200 paper. We need to have someone else's 66 00:03:26,200 --> 00:03:30,200 stamp of approval on what we're good at and what we're qualified 67 00:03:30,200 --> 00:03:31,720 to do and what we're not qualified to do. 68 00:03:32,480 --> 00:03:36,360 And she just talked about and gave a story from her life of 69 00:03:36,600 --> 00:03:40,280 she went to school for engineering and then went to 70 00:03:40,600 --> 00:03:44,160 school for her masters in film, which just didn't make any 71 00:03:44,160 --> 00:03:47,800 logical sense on paper. But now for what she's doing, it 72 00:03:47,800 --> 00:03:50,720 all led to the right place. But she was kind of talking 73 00:03:50,720 --> 00:03:54,880 about that like going through high school and she was praised 74 00:03:54,880 --> 00:03:56,720 for being good at science and math. 75 00:03:56,720 --> 00:03:59,040 And so she was like, OK, sure, I'll do engineering. 76 00:03:59,040 --> 00:04:01,400 But it like wasn't where her passion was. 77 00:04:01,400 --> 00:04:03,000 It was just what she was good at. 78 00:04:03,480 --> 00:04:06,720 And then she got through that and felt like something was 79 00:04:06,720 --> 00:04:08,040 missing. So then she decided to go into 80 00:04:08,040 --> 00:04:09,560 film. And she had a professor that 81 00:04:10,200 --> 00:04:14,600 complimented her writing when in high school, her English 82 00:04:14,600 --> 00:04:17,480 literature teachers were like, Oh my gosh, you're, you kind of 83 00:04:17,480 --> 00:04:20,040 suck at this. She got to her master's program 84 00:04:20,040 --> 00:04:22,880 and she had one professor that believed in her and said that 85 00:04:22,880 --> 00:04:25,400 she was good at that. And it just really hit home 86 00:04:25,400 --> 00:04:27,080 because that was where her passion lied. 87 00:04:27,720 --> 00:04:30,040 But everybody in the past had said that she wasn't really good 88 00:04:30,040 --> 00:04:31,920 at it. So she kind of discounted it and 89 00:04:31,920 --> 00:04:35,920 was like, oh, I guess I won't write films or anything. 90 00:04:35,920 --> 00:04:37,960 And I know that now she's passionate about that and she's 91 00:04:37,960 --> 00:04:41,040 kind of showing her journey of doing it. 92 00:04:41,320 --> 00:04:44,960 And it's so fun to watch because she is learning as she goes. 93 00:04:45,400 --> 00:04:48,640 And I think more of us need to lean into that and do that. 94 00:04:49,200 --> 00:04:53,640 Because your passion can totally lead you to where you need to 95 00:04:53,640 --> 00:04:55,840 be. And you don't need anyone else's 96 00:04:55,840 --> 00:04:58,680 stamp of approval on it, as long as you have the passion behind 97 00:04:58,680 --> 00:05:02,400 it to keep going and just always push through. 98 00:05:04,160 --> 00:05:10,200 This really hit home for me because in the last week I have 99 00:05:10,320 --> 00:05:13,320 gotten a job offer, a full time job offer. 100 00:05:13,440 --> 00:05:15,120 They weren't even hiring for full time. 101 00:05:15,120 --> 00:05:20,360 I interviewed kind of on a whim and I got in my head a little 102 00:05:20,360 --> 00:05:23,800 bit about I don't have a degree for this. 103 00:05:23,880 --> 00:05:28,920 I don't have any proof that I would be good at this, even 104 00:05:28,920 --> 00:05:32,240 though that's so not true. I do have proof, it's just not 105 00:05:32,240 --> 00:05:34,960 the proof that my mind is telling me I need to have, if 106 00:05:34,960 --> 00:05:39,280 that makes sense. So for context, the position is 107 00:05:39,320 --> 00:05:44,120 basically marketing coordinator, Marketing director for a 108 00:05:44,160 --> 00:05:47,160 startup. And I, I read the job 109 00:05:47,160 --> 00:05:50,560 description and was like, Oh my God, was this literally written 110 00:05:50,560 --> 00:05:54,320 for me? Because it's every part of the 111 00:05:54,320 --> 00:05:57,840 creation process that I enjoy. And I'm passionate about the 112 00:05:57,840 --> 00:05:59,920 company and what they stand for and what they're teaching and 113 00:05:59,920 --> 00:06:03,080 doing. And I was so lit up by it. 114 00:06:03,360 --> 00:06:08,680 And OK, I feel like I need to, I need to rewind a little bit to 115 00:06:08,720 --> 00:06:14,320 how this even came about, but I just decided, you know what? 116 00:06:14,320 --> 00:06:18,800 I've hit two years at my current position at Lifetime at the gym, 117 00:06:19,120 --> 00:06:22,800 and I just can't do it anymore. I need a change. 118 00:06:22,800 --> 00:06:25,360 I need a new chapter. I need something that is going 119 00:06:25,360 --> 00:06:27,880 to put me in the direction of the life I want to create. 120 00:06:27,880 --> 00:06:31,240 And I just told my manager, you know what? 121 00:06:31,240 --> 00:06:33,720 I'm cutting back my hours. It didn't make sense. 122 00:06:33,760 --> 00:06:37,800 I freaked out about it because I was like, logically this doesn't 123 00:06:37,800 --> 00:06:40,000 make sense. Do I have the money to spare to 124 00:06:40,000 --> 00:06:43,960 cut back hours? I'm like, logically, no, like, I 125 00:06:43,960 --> 00:06:45,600 don't know. I also feel like a lot of times 126 00:06:45,600 --> 00:06:48,400 our minds will never. I feel like it's a human trait 127 00:06:48,400 --> 00:06:50,840 to think that you never have enough money. 128 00:06:50,840 --> 00:06:53,080 Like financially, I don't know. So there's that. 129 00:06:53,600 --> 00:06:56,760 But I was like, you know what? I need to cut back hours because 130 00:06:56,760 --> 00:06:59,320 nothing is going to come in if I don't have the space on my plate 131 00:06:59,320 --> 00:07:02,880 to let anything else in. So I made that decision before I 132 00:07:02,880 --> 00:07:04,840 had the opportunity, which is really scary. 133 00:07:04,840 --> 00:07:08,320 And that's another way that you can leap before you're ready is 134 00:07:08,360 --> 00:07:10,640 just making the space for something else to come in. 135 00:07:11,200 --> 00:07:14,320 And the minute I did that, then all of a sudden I went to this 136 00:07:14,360 --> 00:07:19,200 crystal store opening with my roommate and some other people 137 00:07:19,200 --> 00:07:22,640 that I knew, which happened to end up being now the person that 138 00:07:22,640 --> 00:07:26,520 offered me the job. And I just opened myself up and 139 00:07:26,520 --> 00:07:29,320 said, hey, I am making space in my calendar this summer. 140 00:07:29,560 --> 00:07:33,440 If you have any projects that you think my talents would be 141 00:07:33,440 --> 00:07:35,760 useful for, just throw me on them. 142 00:07:35,920 --> 00:07:37,560 Throw it my way. I'm open. 143 00:07:38,000 --> 00:07:40,680 Wasn't asking for money, wasn't asking for a job. 144 00:07:40,680 --> 00:07:43,000 I was just like, I need an outlet. 145 00:07:43,000 --> 00:07:47,720 I need something new to pivot. And she just said, hey, I think 146 00:07:47,720 --> 00:07:53,240 my marketing girl is hiring an assistant or another position. 147 00:07:53,360 --> 00:07:56,480 I'll send something your way. And she sent it to me. 148 00:07:56,480 --> 00:07:57,920 I read the description was like home. 149 00:07:58,040 --> 00:08:01,920 What like did they did she go home and like secretly write 150 00:08:01,920 --> 00:08:05,240 this about me for me? I'm so confused because it was 151 00:08:05,240 --> 00:08:08,880 just very, very aligned with a mix of things that I know how to 152 00:08:08,880 --> 00:08:12,080 do and a perfect mix of things that I don't know how to do and 153 00:08:12,080 --> 00:08:13,520 that I can learn. And I think that's really 154 00:08:13,520 --> 00:08:17,800 important in looking for a position that you can step into 155 00:08:17,800 --> 00:08:21,320 confidently, but also grow into and expand yourself. 156 00:08:21,920 --> 00:08:26,520 So credentials are great, but your passion behind something 157 00:08:26,520 --> 00:08:32,039 and your obsession and dedication to stepping down a 158 00:08:32,039 --> 00:08:37,360 path even though you might not have everything together is so 159 00:08:37,360 --> 00:08:40,400 much more important and can create like such better results 160 00:08:40,400 --> 00:08:42,240 because you actually have that passion behind it. 161 00:08:42,400 --> 00:08:44,480 Just because there's not a degree doesn't mean that you 162 00:08:44,480 --> 00:08:47,040 don't know how to do it. Just think of how many things 163 00:08:47,040 --> 00:08:49,920 you've consumed over the years, whether that's books or podcasts 164 00:08:49,920 --> 00:08:53,600 and hobby is just things that you find interesting that have 165 00:08:53,640 --> 00:08:55,760 maybe nothing to do with the job that you're doing. 166 00:08:56,200 --> 00:08:57,560 And you're looking for a life pivot. 167 00:08:57,560 --> 00:08:59,800 But you're like, Oh no, like that's not what I'm qualified to 168 00:08:59,800 --> 00:09:03,600 do. I think fucked up for, sorry for 169 00:09:03,600 --> 00:09:08,640 language, but you have put so much energy into learning how to 170 00:09:08,640 --> 00:09:13,080 do this one thing or consuming content around this thing that 171 00:09:13,080 --> 00:09:14,680 really lights you up and inspires you. 172 00:09:14,680 --> 00:09:18,360 And we cannot discount our passions and our obsessions. 173 00:09:18,760 --> 00:09:21,960 You have an honorary degree in the thing that you're obsessed 174 00:09:21,960 --> 00:09:22,760 with. OK. 175 00:09:23,440 --> 00:09:27,640 I do not have a degree in social media, in marketing, in 176 00:09:27,640 --> 00:09:29,520 management, in sales. I don't know. 177 00:09:29,800 --> 00:09:34,240 I don't know anything from structured education about any 178 00:09:34,240 --> 00:09:37,680 of those things. I've just put myself in a 179 00:09:37,680 --> 00:09:41,800 position for the last two years to be selling a luxury gym 180 00:09:41,800 --> 00:09:43,560 membership. I've gotten really good at it. 181 00:09:44,080 --> 00:09:46,480 That has taught me speaking skills, it's taught me people 182 00:09:46,480 --> 00:09:48,880 skills, it's taught me sales skills that I did not learn from 183 00:09:48,880 --> 00:09:52,040 an institution. I've also just been obsessed 184 00:09:52,040 --> 00:09:54,760 with social media. I've followed content creators, 185 00:09:54,760 --> 00:09:57,800 content managers. I interned for social media 186 00:09:57,800 --> 00:10:00,440 manager for a little bit. I helped somebody with their 187 00:10:00,440 --> 00:10:02,560 content even though I had no idea what I was doing. 188 00:10:02,560 --> 00:10:05,200 I've all self-taught on all of those things, but it's an 189 00:10:05,200 --> 00:10:09,360 obsession and I have more practice and expertise in that 190 00:10:09,360 --> 00:10:12,840 than I probably would have if I even went for a degree in in 191 00:10:12,840 --> 00:10:16,400 something like that. So even though you don't have 192 00:10:16,400 --> 00:10:18,880 the piece of paper that you can wave and say, hey, I showed up 193 00:10:18,880 --> 00:10:22,440 at this desk or in this auditorium for four years 194 00:10:22,440 --> 00:10:27,200 straight, your practice and your obsession means so much more 195 00:10:27,200 --> 00:10:29,280 than that. I just want to get that across. 196 00:10:30,680 --> 00:10:34,640 I love drawing the line between everything that I've gone 197 00:10:34,640 --> 00:10:37,200 through and where it's led me. And I'm sure that you can do the 198 00:10:37,200 --> 00:10:39,720 same thing with your life of where you're currently at and 199 00:10:39,720 --> 00:10:42,600 all the things that led you there and all the things and 200 00:10:42,600 --> 00:10:45,240 detours that you you thought you were taking. 201 00:10:45,240 --> 00:10:47,680 But the detour was actually the thing you needed to do to get 202 00:10:47,680 --> 00:10:51,120 you to XYZI. Love connecting the dots. 203 00:10:51,640 --> 00:10:57,400 And I for the last few years have felt so confused and have 204 00:10:57,760 --> 00:11:00,840 had conversations with the universe, with God, angels. 205 00:11:00,840 --> 00:11:04,320 I'm just like, why am I learning all these things that seem to 206 00:11:04,320 --> 00:11:10,760 have no relation to anything like why did I go to school for 207 00:11:10,760 --> 00:11:13,200 fashion if I wasn't going to end up going into the fashion 208 00:11:13,200 --> 00:11:15,520 industry? Why am I interested in human 209 00:11:15,520 --> 00:11:17,560 design? Why do I love mindset? 210 00:11:17,720 --> 00:11:21,880 Why do I like sales now? Why do I like? 211 00:11:22,120 --> 00:11:28,320 Why do I feel like my path is so curvy topsy turvy and looking 212 00:11:28,320 --> 00:11:31,200 around me, it seems like other people just kind of know what 213 00:11:31,200 --> 00:11:34,000 they want to do, which is so not true That's that's false fake 214 00:11:34,000 --> 00:11:36,120 news. If you feel like everybody else 215 00:11:36,120 --> 00:11:39,320 knows what they want because everyone is on that topsy turvy 216 00:11:39,320 --> 00:11:40,840 path, whether you can see it or not. 217 00:11:41,560 --> 00:11:47,600 I just didn't understand why all of these seemingly random things 218 00:11:47,600 --> 00:11:49,960 were coming together. I was like, how does human 219 00:11:49,960 --> 00:11:53,120 design reader go with social media management, go with sales, 220 00:11:53,120 --> 00:11:56,160 go with AI, go with I just don't get it. 221 00:11:56,600 --> 00:12:03,120 And now in this role, you guys, I'm shook to my core by how 222 00:12:03,240 --> 00:12:06,520 aligned this position is. And I'm just so excited to see 223 00:12:06,520 --> 00:12:09,080 where it leads. And I'm sure give me 10 years 224 00:12:09,080 --> 00:12:11,280 from now, I'm going to look back to this moment when I said yes 225 00:12:11,280 --> 00:12:16,640 to this thing that seems crazy and it's going to lead me down. 226 00:12:16,800 --> 00:12:19,000 Like it all leads you exactly where you need to be. 227 00:12:19,000 --> 00:12:23,560 But basically this position is all about kind of getting my 228 00:12:23,560 --> 00:12:27,360 eyes on their social media content plan. 229 00:12:27,360 --> 00:12:29,800 It's about helping them get active on LinkedIn. 230 00:12:29,800 --> 00:12:33,920 It's about using one piece of content and maximizing it into 231 00:12:33,920 --> 00:12:38,840 multiples so that we can get the creator founder visible on 232 00:12:38,960 --> 00:12:41,160 socials. I'm like easy done. 233 00:12:41,200 --> 00:12:44,080 I know how to do that. And it's also an AI company. 234 00:12:44,080 --> 00:12:46,760 So we are leveraging AI to do that. 235 00:12:47,120 --> 00:12:51,600 And we have a an AI version of her that will create the content 236 00:12:51,840 --> 00:12:56,160 so I don't have to kill myself over writing out these captions 237 00:12:56,160 --> 00:12:59,400 for somebody and putting my energetic self into their voice. 238 00:12:59,400 --> 00:13:03,560 That is what drains me. I would prefer to just critique 239 00:13:03,560 --> 00:13:07,080 and get the post out, and that's essentially what I need to do. 240 00:13:07,520 --> 00:13:10,280 We also have e-mail lists and funnels and sequences and things 241 00:13:10,280 --> 00:13:12,880 to work on, which I've all learned through. 242 00:13:13,600 --> 00:13:15,800 I can't even tell you guys I should go back and count how 243 00:13:15,800 --> 00:13:17,680 many different coaching programs I've been a part of. 244 00:13:19,400 --> 00:13:22,720 But I've conceptually learned a lot about all of this, the 245 00:13:22,720 --> 00:13:24,000 marketing, the funnels and everything. 246 00:13:24,000 --> 00:13:27,160 But I've never actually gotten to implement it because my 247 00:13:27,160 --> 00:13:29,880 business hasn't been at a point where I wanted to do all of that 248 00:13:29,880 --> 00:13:32,480 yet. But I'm so excited to see it on 249 00:13:32,480 --> 00:13:35,480 the back end and help this company thrive and see what 250 00:13:35,480 --> 00:13:38,040 level we can take it to. Because she is going for the 251 00:13:38,040 --> 00:13:41,280 moon and I'm so excited to be on the team beside them. 252 00:13:42,160 --> 00:13:47,480 And I am definitely somebody that has discounted my skills. 253 00:13:47,480 --> 00:13:51,400 Any friends listening are probably like, yes, you're yes, 254 00:13:51,600 --> 00:13:53,480 my friends come at me. They're like, you know, so much 255 00:13:53,480 --> 00:13:58,280 more than you think you do. And in my acceptance call this 256 00:13:58,280 --> 00:14:04,760 week, it was so validating to have my new boss basically talk 257 00:14:04,760 --> 00:14:08,360 to me about I I just asked what's on your plate that is 258 00:14:08,360 --> 00:14:10,640 stressing you out right now? Like what's the next step? 259 00:14:10,640 --> 00:14:13,760 What vision do you see that you think that I could help with? 260 00:14:13,840 --> 00:14:17,600 And she's like, well, I want to get your eyes on XYZ and da da, 261 00:14:17,600 --> 00:14:21,680 da, da and have her having her say we want your expertise on 262 00:14:21,680 --> 00:14:26,040 this and it and just validating that my expertise is something 263 00:14:26,040 --> 00:14:28,520 that I have just been obsessed with. 264 00:14:29,000 --> 00:14:32,280 It has not been a structured training. 265 00:14:32,280 --> 00:14:37,200 It has not been a certificate. It has not been anything quote 266 00:14:37,200 --> 00:14:40,720 official, but it is so damn official. 267 00:14:40,720 --> 00:14:47,000 It is official inside me, inside how I see things, in how I put 268 00:14:47,000 --> 00:14:50,920 my judgment on a structure, on a system, on how I organize 269 00:14:50,920 --> 00:14:55,840 things, on how I design things. It has been a gradual, gradual 270 00:14:55,960 --> 00:15:00,360 practice every day of even consuming like one piece of 271 00:15:00,360 --> 00:15:03,400 content, learning from people that inspire me and I have 272 00:15:03,400 --> 00:15:08,560 pieced together the skills that I need that make me so uniquely 273 00:15:08,560 --> 00:15:12,440 perfect for this role and even cooler. 274 00:15:12,640 --> 00:15:16,960 So we got the social media, we got marketing, we got, I mean, 275 00:15:17,360 --> 00:15:18,760 they're they're selling something. 276 00:15:18,760 --> 00:15:21,160 So there's some sales in there with how we need to structure 277 00:15:21,160 --> 00:15:24,600 the content and the launches and it's AI based. 278 00:15:24,600 --> 00:15:29,240 And she is also very passionate about spirituality. 279 00:15:30,120 --> 00:15:35,560 So the woo woo part of me is so obsessed and every person on the 280 00:15:35,560 --> 00:15:40,040 team has had a human design reading and they're obsessed 281 00:15:40,040 --> 00:15:43,040 with personality tests and all sorts of other things. 282 00:15:43,360 --> 00:15:47,240 It's all about just making you the best, most optimized version 283 00:15:47,240 --> 00:15:50,320 of yourself that you can be. That's like her ideal goal. 284 00:15:50,320 --> 00:15:53,400 And so she wants to make people better while while using tech. 285 00:15:53,840 --> 00:15:56,920 The whole thing, I'm just, I feel like I'm making this up. 286 00:15:58,000 --> 00:16:03,440 I feel like I'm describing some fake job that doesn't exist, but 287 00:16:03,440 --> 00:16:09,240 I get to do it now. But I'm so freaking pumped and 288 00:16:09,240 --> 00:16:11,760 just to see where it goes and like maybe this last three 289 00:16:11,760 --> 00:16:15,240 months, maybe it lasts 3 years, maybe 3 decades, maybe this is 290 00:16:15,240 --> 00:16:16,720 like a long term thing, who knows. 291 00:16:16,720 --> 00:16:20,040 Like I have no idea where this is leading and you can't know. 292 00:16:21,000 --> 00:16:24,080 So it's just about taking the leap and trusting that this is 293 00:16:24,080 --> 00:16:26,680 going to connect me with the right people with the right 294 00:16:26,680 --> 00:16:30,680 opportunities, and the path will start to reveal itself. 295 00:16:31,680 --> 00:16:35,160 All of this is to say that your natural curiosity can lead to so 296 00:16:35,160 --> 00:16:39,040 many opportunities if you just open yourself up and talk about 297 00:16:39,040 --> 00:16:42,920 it. Don't discount your interests 298 00:16:42,920 --> 00:16:45,120 and think that other people don't want to hear about them. 299 00:16:45,240 --> 00:16:48,440 What if you just assumed that everyone wanted to hear what 300 00:16:48,440 --> 00:16:51,800 you're passionate about? That would change so many 301 00:16:51,800 --> 00:16:54,600 conversations. You would get deeper faster. 302 00:16:54,600 --> 00:16:59,080 Like just ask people, have you ever heard of XYZ or what are 303 00:16:59,080 --> 00:17:02,120 your thoughts on this thing? Like maybe it's somebody that 304 00:17:02,120 --> 00:17:06,240 you would never think ever, ever would be interested in the thing 305 00:17:06,240 --> 00:17:08,440 that you're bringing up. You would be so surprised. 306 00:17:08,440 --> 00:17:09,960 They're like, Oh my gosh, you're into that too. 307 00:17:11,079 --> 00:17:14,480 Yes, that opens the door. That's so exciting. 308 00:17:14,760 --> 00:17:17,400 So notice what lights you up and that's usually your greatest 309 00:17:17,400 --> 00:17:19,760 asset. And then share your obsessions. 310 00:17:19,760 --> 00:17:22,839 Don't be afraid to say it to people when I bring up human 311 00:17:22,839 --> 00:17:24,920 design. Some people I just kind of 312 00:17:25,079 --> 00:17:27,640 playoff their energy. If somebody else brings it up, 313 00:17:27,640 --> 00:17:30,160 they're like, I hear you're a human design reader, like what's 314 00:17:30,160 --> 00:17:31,560 that all about? And they're genuinely 315 00:17:31,560 --> 00:17:33,240 interested. I'll go deep into it. 316 00:17:33,240 --> 00:17:34,600 We could talk about it for 30 minutes. 317 00:17:35,160 --> 00:17:39,200 If somebody is like, what? And their energy is clearly 318 00:17:39,200 --> 00:17:41,800 detached, I'm not going to try to force it on them. 319 00:17:42,040 --> 00:17:45,160 That's fine. But what's important is that 320 00:17:45,160 --> 00:17:48,800 I've finally grown the confidence to talk about it and 321 00:17:48,800 --> 00:17:50,760 be like, yeah, this is me. This is a part of me and this is 322 00:17:50,760 --> 00:17:53,160 something I'm interested in. You can like it or you don't 323 00:17:53,160 --> 00:17:56,120 have to, but I'm not forcing you to talk to me about it. 324 00:17:56,400 --> 00:17:59,440 But the people that I do share it with, I've made so many 325 00:17:59,440 --> 00:18:01,440 connections through it where people are like, Oh my gosh, 326 00:18:01,440 --> 00:18:04,400 I've seen this on TikTok and I'm so curious, what can you tell 327 00:18:04,400 --> 00:18:05,080 me? What am I? 328 00:18:05,600 --> 00:18:08,120 And it just sparks conversations. 329 00:18:08,120 --> 00:18:10,680 And then that gives you the opportunity to ask for the door 330 00:18:10,680 --> 00:18:13,240 to open. Don't be afraid to ask for what 331 00:18:13,240 --> 00:18:16,320 you want. I think that's a huge lesson 332 00:18:16,320 --> 00:18:20,120 that so many of us need to learn, that you can ask for 333 00:18:20,120 --> 00:18:22,080 opportunities. You don't have to sit there and 334 00:18:22,080 --> 00:18:23,800 be like, why is this happening to me? 335 00:18:23,800 --> 00:18:26,640 When are things going to change? You have permission to take 336 00:18:26,640 --> 00:18:30,840 action on that too. And if you don't, you could sit 337 00:18:30,840 --> 00:18:32,960 there forever. You can stay exactly where 338 00:18:32,960 --> 00:18:34,560 you're at. Your subconscious knows that you 339 00:18:34,560 --> 00:18:37,240 are fed, you are getting some source of income. 340 00:18:37,480 --> 00:18:39,520 You are relatively safe because you're alive. 341 00:18:39,840 --> 00:18:43,360 Your mind will keep you exactly where you are unless you decide, 342 00:18:43,600 --> 00:18:47,880 hey, this is not for me anymore. And something that has really 343 00:18:47,880 --> 00:18:51,120 helped me in these situations because right now, I'm not going 344 00:18:51,120 --> 00:18:53,000 to lie, I had a little freak out the other day. 345 00:18:53,840 --> 00:18:56,080 I was on a run and I got lost. So part of it was because I got 346 00:18:56,080 --> 00:18:58,160 lost. Part of it was because I was in 347 00:18:58,160 --> 00:19:00,880 my head thinking, Oh my gosh, what am I doing? 348 00:19:00,920 --> 00:19:05,080 I'm accepting a position that I don't know if I'm qualified for 349 00:19:05,240 --> 00:19:06,960 and this is going to change things. 350 00:19:06,960 --> 00:19:08,160 And I don't know where I'm going. 351 00:19:08,160 --> 00:19:10,120 Like, I don't know what the security is going to look like, 352 00:19:10,120 --> 00:19:12,920 blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. My mind was going crazy. 353 00:19:13,680 --> 00:19:17,080 But what if we pivoted? And instead of saying this 354 00:19:17,080 --> 00:19:21,200 decision to take this new position is risky, how risky is 355 00:19:21,200 --> 00:19:23,160 it for you to stay exactly where you are? 356 00:19:24,120 --> 00:19:28,400 If you were exactly where you are a year from now, how would 357 00:19:28,400 --> 00:19:32,760 that make you feel? That one question can give you 358 00:19:32,800 --> 00:19:34,920 all the answers you need. I know you just felt something. 359 00:19:35,080 --> 00:19:37,960 Either you felt ecstatic, like, yes, I would love to be exactly 360 00:19:37,960 --> 00:19:39,280 where I am. This is great. 361 00:19:39,280 --> 00:19:41,200 Like we're going to keep growing or thriving. 362 00:19:41,560 --> 00:19:46,880 Or maybe like me, you're in a spot where the idea of being 363 00:19:46,880 --> 00:19:51,600 exactly where you are a year from now fires you up and you're 364 00:19:51,600 --> 00:19:53,680 like, no, I'm not doing this anymore. 365 00:19:53,680 --> 00:19:57,040 I can't do this anymore. It is bad for me. 366 00:19:57,040 --> 00:20:00,680 It is unhealthy for me. It is not helping me. 367 00:20:00,680 --> 00:20:03,880 It is not helping me thrive to stay exactly where I am for 368 00:20:03,880 --> 00:20:07,520 another year. And you're not going to do it. 369 00:20:07,760 --> 00:20:10,600 And once you realize that, it shifts something in your mind 370 00:20:10,600 --> 00:20:13,400 where your mind is saying staying exactly where you are is 371 00:20:13,400 --> 00:20:19,360 safe to in what ways is staying exactly where you are unsafe? 372 00:20:20,000 --> 00:20:25,080 How is it holding you back? How is it blocking you and 373 00:20:25,200 --> 00:20:28,240 getting really clear on both sides of the coin? 374 00:20:28,280 --> 00:20:32,800 And just considering that can unlock an entire part of your 375 00:20:32,800 --> 00:20:34,760 brain that you didn't even know existed, where it's like, Oh my 376 00:20:34,760 --> 00:20:37,240 gosh, I was, I've been blind this whole time. 377 00:20:37,240 --> 00:20:41,080 Why have I not considered this? It's funny how society makes you 378 00:20:41,080 --> 00:20:44,000 feel like sticking with the status quo is safe. 379 00:20:44,000 --> 00:20:48,320 And I think that if there's one thing that 2020 taught us is 380 00:20:48,320 --> 00:20:52,080 that everything has some level of risk to it. 381 00:20:52,240 --> 00:20:55,280 The people that thought they were so secure in their 382 00:20:55,480 --> 00:20:59,120 corporate jobs that were giving them that financial security and 383 00:20:59,120 --> 00:21:02,360 all of that, that just suddenly lost it because there were no 384 00:21:02,360 --> 00:21:05,520 jobs to be had. Everything involves risk. 385 00:21:05,520 --> 00:21:08,520 So people that say one thing is safer than the other, you need 386 00:21:08,520 --> 00:21:11,000 to just pause for a second and say what is safest for me? 387 00:21:11,000 --> 00:21:13,880 What is right for me? How much risk do you want to 388 00:21:13,880 --> 00:21:17,160 take? What feels aligned and not not 389 00:21:17,160 --> 00:21:20,480 pay attention to anybody else? Take their opinions with a grain 390 00:21:20,480 --> 00:21:22,120 of salt and people that you trust. 391 00:21:22,120 --> 00:21:25,960 But honestly, you need to know who are your board of directors? 392 00:21:25,960 --> 00:21:28,560 Who in your life are you inspired by that are going to 393 00:21:28,560 --> 00:21:32,160 support you and you know, cut the shit and just give it to you 394 00:21:32,160 --> 00:21:35,280 straight. Who are you going to for advice 395 00:21:35,320 --> 00:21:37,400 and whose advice do you not care about? 396 00:21:37,400 --> 00:21:39,800 Like, why are we taking advice from people that are not living 397 00:21:39,800 --> 00:21:42,200 lives that we want to live? Why are we taking advice from 398 00:21:42,200 --> 00:21:44,680 people that are not qualified in the field that we're going into? 399 00:21:44,880 --> 00:21:48,080 Why are we asking for advice from people who we already know 400 00:21:48,080 --> 00:21:51,400 what they're going to say? Don't go to those people that 401 00:21:51,400 --> 00:21:53,160 are not thinking big like you are. 402 00:21:53,160 --> 00:21:55,760 Don't go to those people that you know are going to shit on 403 00:21:55,760 --> 00:21:58,480 your idea and you know how it's going to go. 404 00:21:58,480 --> 00:22:01,760 Like stop going to them. Come up with the people that you 405 00:22:01,760 --> 00:22:05,560 know you go to for developing your life, the people that 406 00:22:05,560 --> 00:22:07,920 stretch you, the people that are living the life that you want to 407 00:22:07,920 --> 00:22:10,360 live. Make that board of directors and 408 00:22:10,360 --> 00:22:14,440 go to them. Don't let society's traditional 409 00:22:14,440 --> 00:22:17,960 path hold you back from embracing your true strengths, 410 00:22:18,040 --> 00:22:20,680 even if it doesn't seem like your strengths go together, that 411 00:22:20,680 --> 00:22:23,360 it just doesn't seem to make sense because they don't all 412 00:22:23,360 --> 00:22:27,840 line up on paper and make a perfect description of where you 413 00:22:27,840 --> 00:22:31,200 should go and who you should be. It is so uniquely you and you 414 00:22:31,200 --> 00:22:34,320 are so uniquely qualified for exactly what you're here to do. 415 00:22:34,720 --> 00:22:38,880 It is very difficult, I will admit, to see that when you are 416 00:22:39,120 --> 00:22:41,880 living it, when you are the person in the vessel. 417 00:22:41,880 --> 00:22:45,360 That is all of these things. It's so hard to see, but I know 418 00:22:45,360 --> 00:22:48,280 that you can resonate with you. Look at your friend and you're 419 00:22:48,280 --> 00:22:50,040 like, obviously that makes so much sense. 420 00:22:50,040 --> 00:22:51,480 Or maybe your friends look at you. 421 00:22:51,720 --> 00:22:54,880 I know mine look at me and they think obviously, duh, like that. 422 00:22:54,880 --> 00:22:56,280 That's exactly what you're supposed to do. 423 00:22:56,440 --> 00:22:59,680 Like we can see all the skills you have and it's so obvious to 424 00:22:59,680 --> 00:23:04,800 see the skills and other people and and their passions and how 425 00:23:04,800 --> 00:23:07,880 it perfectly lines up for them. But it's really hard to see in 426 00:23:07,880 --> 00:23:09,440 yourself. And that is why who you surround 427 00:23:09,440 --> 00:23:12,320 yourself with is so freaking important. 428 00:23:12,720 --> 00:23:16,880 And having those people that call you out and say this is 429 00:23:17,280 --> 00:23:19,600 this is not the best that you can do. 430 00:23:20,320 --> 00:23:22,320 I have a little side comment story. 431 00:23:22,560 --> 00:23:27,280 Love my roommate so much. She called me out the other day 432 00:23:27,320 --> 00:23:31,320 and I was manifesting something just kind of writing down the 433 00:23:31,320 --> 00:23:34,920 dream vision and I was writing down some monetary goals. 434 00:23:34,960 --> 00:23:38,800 And I told her I read it to her as we do. 435 00:23:39,320 --> 00:23:44,400 And she's like, Alexis, that should be your basement. 436 00:23:44,720 --> 00:23:48,560 What are you even talking about? And like what I wrote, I was 437 00:23:48,560 --> 00:23:50,320 like, oh, yeah, like that's kind of expansive. 438 00:23:50,320 --> 00:23:54,360 She goes, no, absolutely not. She's like, make that so much 439 00:23:54,360 --> 00:23:56,720 bigger. That is your basement. 440 00:23:56,720 --> 00:23:59,880 And I was like, oh, my God, you're, you're so right. 441 00:23:59,880 --> 00:24:03,360 I was called out. I was playing safe in my vision 442 00:24:03,560 --> 00:24:07,160 because your subconscious loves to just keep you in that one 443 00:24:07,160 --> 00:24:09,000 spot that knows that you're safe. 444 00:24:09,960 --> 00:24:13,520 OK so I got that job offer last week and This is why I skipped 445 00:24:13,520 --> 00:24:17,000 posting an episode last week. I was supposed to record 1 and I 446 00:24:17,040 --> 00:24:23,440 was absolutely emotionally wrecked because on the same day 447 00:24:23,880 --> 00:24:29,320 I got the job offer, but then also was talking to the guy that 448 00:24:29,320 --> 00:24:32,960 I've been talking to and we decided to kind of cut things, 449 00:24:33,320 --> 00:24:39,240 which was conflicting because I was in a text chain feeling so 450 00:24:39,240 --> 00:24:42,120 sad. And then in an e-mail chain 451 00:24:42,280 --> 00:24:44,800 being like, yeah, I can't wait to start so exciting. 452 00:24:45,480 --> 00:24:49,240 And I can't even tell you how weird and conflicting that was 453 00:24:49,240 --> 00:24:52,120 of I couldn't tell if I was crying because I was happy, 454 00:24:52,120 --> 00:24:53,720 because I was sad. It was both. 455 00:24:53,720 --> 00:24:57,840 It was waves of both. And I just didn't even know what 456 00:24:57,840 --> 00:24:59,560 to do with myself. I was a complete mess. 457 00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:03,880 And so this is where I'm saying if you've been feeling crazy 458 00:25:03,880 --> 00:25:07,320 lately or you've had a lot of different things going on, you 459 00:25:07,320 --> 00:25:10,360 are totally not alone. And I don't think we talked 460 00:25:10,360 --> 00:25:14,880 about holding dual emotions very much. 461 00:25:14,880 --> 00:25:17,400 I feel like we say, oh, we're having like a good day or a bad 462 00:25:17,400 --> 00:25:22,280 day, but I don't even have the words for how to describe the 463 00:25:22,320 --> 00:25:25,880 complexity of being excited and sad all at once. 464 00:25:26,680 --> 00:25:30,960 It's just weird for the entire nervous system because you're 465 00:25:30,960 --> 00:25:35,600 celebrating on one end that like something I've been manifesting 466 00:25:35,600 --> 00:25:41,040 forever is dropping in. And then at the same time, I 467 00:25:41,040 --> 00:25:42,880 think there's also something to be said of stepping into the 468 00:25:42,880 --> 00:25:46,960 power of, hey, this is an isn't what I want or will accept in a 469 00:25:46,960 --> 00:25:51,560 relationship and stepping into a new version. 470 00:25:51,560 --> 00:25:55,280 I feel like I was stepping into the version of myself that I 471 00:25:55,600 --> 00:25:58,520 know myself to be. And then I'm moving toward and 472 00:25:58,520 --> 00:26:02,240 stepping into in two different areas of my life at the same 473 00:26:02,240 --> 00:26:06,640 time. And it was a lot to be 474 00:26:06,640 --> 00:26:10,440 completely honest and being able to sit there and hold space for 475 00:26:10,440 --> 00:26:15,840 both emotions was I, I don't even know, like I was going to 476 00:26:15,840 --> 00:26:18,560 say aggressive. It was like aggressive on the 477 00:26:18,560 --> 00:26:19,640 nervous system. I'm not going to lie. 478 00:26:19,640 --> 00:26:24,520 I got home and I just felt so almost numb because I would go 479 00:26:24,520 --> 00:26:26,480 through waves of happy, sad, happy, sad. 480 00:26:26,520 --> 00:26:31,720 And just knowing that it's OK to be sad when something good has 481 00:26:31,720 --> 00:26:35,760 happened and, and happy when something bad is happening and 482 00:26:35,960 --> 00:26:38,880 just let it be and not try to explain yourself if that's 483 00:26:38,880 --> 00:26:42,440 happening. And on the job side of things, I 484 00:26:42,440 --> 00:26:45,080 love where I work right now. I love my Co workers. 485 00:26:45,080 --> 00:26:46,880 I love the life I've built for myself. 486 00:26:47,360 --> 00:26:51,480 And at the same time, I know that there's a new chapter 487 00:26:51,480 --> 00:26:56,000 starting for me that needs to happen to keep moving toward my 488 00:26:56,000 --> 00:26:58,840 highest potential. And that is OK. 489 00:26:58,840 --> 00:27:01,640 And I think I've talked about it a million times on this podcast, 490 00:27:01,640 --> 00:27:05,280 but it's such a blessing to leave something when it's so 491 00:27:05,280 --> 00:27:07,760 good. I think it's easier to leave 492 00:27:07,760 --> 00:27:10,400 when something's bad, obviously, because you have reasons to 493 00:27:10,400 --> 00:27:11,640 leave. You're like, I'm not doing this 494 00:27:11,640 --> 00:27:13,680 anymore. And you can be kind of that 495 00:27:13,680 --> 00:27:15,560 angry, slam the door type of leaving. 496 00:27:15,840 --> 00:27:20,080 But it is so difficult to leave something when your heart is 497 00:27:20,080 --> 00:27:25,400 still there and know that it is still for the best. 498 00:27:25,400 --> 00:27:27,440 It's kind of that bittersweet transition. 499 00:27:27,800 --> 00:27:31,000 And knowing when it's time to do that is really hard because 500 00:27:31,000 --> 00:27:33,080 we're not taught that. We're not taught when to leave a 501 00:27:33,080 --> 00:27:35,120 good thing. We're taught when to leave a bad 502 00:27:35,120 --> 00:27:38,720 thing all the time. I mean, we're told that all the 503 00:27:38,720 --> 00:27:42,160 time on social media, in person. Just like if it doesn't serve 504 00:27:42,160 --> 00:27:44,560 you, let it go. But what if it has been serving 505 00:27:44,560 --> 00:27:46,680 you and you're just calling in something new? 506 00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:49,760 That is a completely different experience. 507 00:27:50,320 --> 00:27:55,960 So just know that we're in it together and it is completely OK 508 00:27:55,960 --> 00:27:59,120 to make peace with. Hey, I am so happy and blessed 509 00:27:59,120 --> 00:28:02,160 and grateful for where I've been, what's happened for me, 510 00:28:02,960 --> 00:28:06,560 But at the same time, I'm calling in the next level, the 511 00:28:06,560 --> 00:28:08,880 next chapter. I'm calling in more because you 512 00:28:08,880 --> 00:28:10,920 do deserve more. Even though you have so much 513 00:28:10,920 --> 00:28:14,120 right now, you do deserve more always. 514 00:28:14,120 --> 00:28:15,280 You have permission to ask for more. 515 00:28:15,280 --> 00:28:17,280 You have permission to call in more, manifest more. 516 00:28:17,680 --> 00:28:20,520 You do not have to limit yourself because things are good 517 00:28:20,520 --> 00:28:23,920 enough for you. OK, you can always expand. 518 00:28:23,960 --> 00:28:28,000 You have permission to do that. Few final questions surrounding 519 00:28:28,000 --> 00:28:33,000 your passion and talents. What do you constantly think 520 00:28:33,000 --> 00:28:36,200 about or obsess over? And it doesn't have to make 521 00:28:36,200 --> 00:28:37,520 sense. It doesn't have to be something 522 00:28:37,520 --> 00:28:40,640 that is school related. Like I feel like we always 523 00:28:40,640 --> 00:28:44,520 think, OK in the realm of science, math, history, English 524 00:28:44,520 --> 00:28:47,720 literature. No, it can literally be like you 525 00:28:47,720 --> 00:28:49,800 obsessed over. I don't even know why. 526 00:28:49,800 --> 00:28:51,400 I'm just coming up. I have a friend who's obsessed 527 00:28:51,400 --> 00:28:53,720 with Pokémon cards. I don't know, he's obsessed with 528 00:28:53,720 --> 00:28:55,320 Pokémon. I don't know, that's his 529 00:28:55,320 --> 00:28:58,200 obsession. I'm obsessed with AI and social 530 00:28:58,200 --> 00:29:01,520 media and some people are obsessed with makeup and you can 531 00:29:01,520 --> 00:29:03,720 be obsessed with anything. What is the thing that you could 532 00:29:03,720 --> 00:29:07,600 watch content on day and night? Maybe it's a certain genre of 533 00:29:07,600 --> 00:29:09,880 music, maybe it's playing an instrument, maybe it's art, 534 00:29:09,880 --> 00:29:12,880 maybe it's cars, maybe it's, I don't even know. 535 00:29:12,880 --> 00:29:16,000 It could be literally anything. But what do you constantly think 536 00:29:16,000 --> 00:29:19,360 about or obsess over? And I want you to reflect on how 537 00:29:19,360 --> 00:29:21,280 long have you had that obsession? 538 00:29:21,400 --> 00:29:24,000 Because I bet you've learned a ton about it. 539 00:29:24,240 --> 00:29:27,600 And I bet you people come to you for advice on it and ask you 540 00:29:27,600 --> 00:29:32,080 questions and you are so much more qualified to do something 541 00:29:32,080 --> 00:29:33,320 with that then you think you are. 542 00:29:34,760 --> 00:29:39,080 Question #2 if you trusted yourself fully, what leap would 543 00:29:39,080 --> 00:29:42,720 you take? Disregard everything else. 544 00:29:43,280 --> 00:29:45,440 What leap would you take if you just knew it was going to work 545 00:29:45,440 --> 00:29:48,440 out? If you knew that you were going 546 00:29:48,600 --> 00:29:52,920 to make this decision and the right people, places, and things 547 00:29:52,920 --> 00:29:55,600 would come into your life because of it, what would you do 548 00:29:55,600 --> 00:29:58,800 right now? How are you letting external 549 00:29:58,800 --> 00:30:02,360 voices influence decisions you know are right for you? 550 00:30:03,960 --> 00:30:07,800 How are you letting external voices influence your decisions 551 00:30:07,880 --> 00:30:10,120 even when you know that the decision is right for you? 552 00:30:10,440 --> 00:30:12,760 Are you going to those people that you know don't serve you? 553 00:30:13,240 --> 00:30:16,160 Are you going to those people that aren't going to understand 554 00:30:16,560 --> 00:30:18,680 what you want out of life? Because that is not the level 555 00:30:18,680 --> 00:30:21,200 that they're living at. Be honest with yourself. 556 00:30:22,000 --> 00:30:25,040 Be honest with yourself. Be so for real with yourself. 557 00:30:26,440 --> 00:30:30,320 The last thing I want to leave you with is that you are your 558 00:30:30,320 --> 00:30:32,760 own compass. Your passions are your compass. 559 00:30:33,000 --> 00:30:34,320 You're more talented than you think. 560 00:30:34,320 --> 00:30:38,120 Your obsession is your internal GPS. 561 00:30:38,920 --> 00:30:42,520 Don't discount the little pings that you get day-to-day to 562 00:30:42,680 --> 00:30:45,840 Google something, to watch the YouTube video, to go to the 563 00:30:45,840 --> 00:30:49,600 place to talk to that person. Those are the little whispers 564 00:30:49,640 --> 00:30:51,880 from the universe, from God leading you exactly where you 565 00:30:51,880 --> 00:30:55,080 need to be. And all of the feelings and the 566 00:30:55,080 --> 00:30:59,080 uncertainty and complexity that you feel when you think you're 567 00:30:59,080 --> 00:31:01,280 going to make this decision and make a change means that you're 568 00:31:01,280 --> 00:31:04,360 on the edge of something so expansive that is going to take 569 00:31:04,360 --> 00:31:09,360 you to the next level. I promise you that, and you are 570 00:31:09,440 --> 00:31:11,760 so brave. I want to leave you with that. 571 00:31:11,760 --> 00:31:15,880 You're so brave for staying in the job that you know provides 572 00:31:15,880 --> 00:31:17,160 security for you and your family. 573 00:31:17,160 --> 00:31:18,800 You're so brave for staying there. 574 00:31:18,800 --> 00:31:21,120 You're so brave for doing your passion on the side. 575 00:31:21,440 --> 00:31:24,280 You're so brave for pursuing your passion full time. 576 00:31:24,360 --> 00:31:27,520 You're so brave for taking the lesson, for learning the skill, 577 00:31:27,920 --> 00:31:31,480 for practicing. You are so brave in everything 578 00:31:31,480 --> 00:31:35,720 that you do, and you are so capable of changing things if 579 00:31:35,720 --> 00:31:38,640 they need to be changed. You're also so capable of 580 00:31:38,640 --> 00:31:40,040 pushing through. If you know that you need to 581 00:31:40,040 --> 00:31:42,440 stay exactly where you are right now, that is OK too. 582 00:31:42,440 --> 00:31:43,680 I want to give you that permission. 583 00:31:44,000 --> 00:31:47,080 I know that I talk a lot about making change and moving forward 584 00:31:47,080 --> 00:31:50,760 and manifesting something new. But at the same time, one of my 585 00:31:50,760 --> 00:31:56,280 mantras this year is allowing stability to expand me, which 586 00:31:56,280 --> 00:32:00,480 has been such a lesson. And it's been so true to just 587 00:32:00,480 --> 00:32:03,200 let myself be here and not think about leaving, not think about 588 00:32:03,200 --> 00:32:06,120 moving, not think about, you know, who, where can I escape to 589 00:32:06,120 --> 00:32:08,840 And just see how deeply can I nourish the friendships that I 590 00:32:08,840 --> 00:32:10,960 have here and the network that I have here. 591 00:32:10,960 --> 00:32:14,440 And look what happened. Look what happened. 592 00:32:14,440 --> 00:32:18,800 I am so freaking grateful. So stability is also very 593 00:32:18,800 --> 00:32:22,440 expansive. This feels so good. 594 00:32:22,440 --> 00:32:25,560 I loved a good chat. There is a lot to catch up on 595 00:32:25,560 --> 00:32:27,840 and I know I'll have more details soon and share more 596 00:32:27,840 --> 00:32:30,880 soon. There's just T's that need to be 597 00:32:30,880 --> 00:32:33,520 crossed and i's that need to be dotted on the other side of 598 00:32:33,520 --> 00:32:34,960 things. But I'm excited to get into this 599 00:32:34,960 --> 00:32:39,040 role, see what I can do, and I just am excited to challenge 600 00:32:39,040 --> 00:32:41,880 myself in a new way. So you'll be the first to hear 601 00:32:42,240 --> 00:32:46,160 how that all goes. But with that, I will end this 602 00:32:46,160 --> 00:32:47,560 episode. And I just wanted to throw it 603 00:32:47,560 --> 00:32:50,240 out there that my human design readings are discounted at the 604 00:32:50,240 --> 00:32:52,560 moment because I've been talking to a lot of you, a lot of 605 00:32:52,560 --> 00:32:56,160 friends, a lot of family acquaintances that want a human 606 00:32:56,160 --> 00:32:59,880 design reading because I'm going through a transition. 607 00:33:00,080 --> 00:33:01,840 A lot of you are going through transitions. 608 00:33:01,920 --> 00:33:04,440 There's been a lot of energy around relationships and around 609 00:33:04,440 --> 00:33:08,280 career and just pivotal moments. I don't know what it is about 610 00:33:08,280 --> 00:33:12,040 this summer astrology. Ashley will know a ton more. 611 00:33:12,040 --> 00:33:15,160 Also, if you haven't popped into the astrology episodes that we 612 00:33:15,160 --> 00:33:18,960 do each season, please do. Ashley lays out the Astro 613 00:33:18,960 --> 00:33:21,680 forecast every season for us so we know exactly how to move 614 00:33:21,680 --> 00:33:23,440 forward. We have some prompts in there. 615 00:33:23,640 --> 00:33:26,600 Celebrity archetypes also just like kind of helps you learn 616 00:33:26,640 --> 00:33:29,840 more about astrology if you're interested in it, but there's 617 00:33:29,840 --> 00:33:31,240 just a lot of energy going on right now. 618 00:33:31,240 --> 00:33:33,880 So if you want a human design reading to understand how your 619 00:33:33,880 --> 00:33:36,800 energy works, how your intuition works, and where your 620 00:33:36,800 --> 00:33:40,640 opportunities are going to come from and be magnetized to you, I 621 00:33:40,640 --> 00:33:42,520 would love to give you a reading. 622 00:33:42,520 --> 00:33:44,960 They're an hour long. We talk about whatever it is 623 00:33:44,960 --> 00:33:47,160 that you want to talk about. I give you kind of high level 624 00:33:47,160 --> 00:33:49,680 overview of definitions of things and like what your chart 625 00:33:49,680 --> 00:33:52,120 is made-up of. But then also, I love talking to 626 00:33:52,120 --> 00:33:55,320 people in the readings about what's going on in your life and 627 00:33:55,320 --> 00:33:58,320 how can human design actually help you move through that thing 628 00:33:58,800 --> 00:34:01,840 so customized to you. That link will be in the show 629 00:34:01,840 --> 00:34:03,160 notes. Of course, you can always find 630 00:34:03,160 --> 00:34:06,160 me over on Instagram to Destination X Alexis. 631 00:34:06,800 --> 00:34:10,480 But I will see you in the next episode. 632 00:34:10,480 --> 00:34:12,000 I have a lot of fun guests coming up. 633 00:34:12,000 --> 00:34:14,719 There's a lot of recordings going on this week and I'm so 634 00:34:14,719 --> 00:34:16,199 excited for you to hear from them. 635 00:34:16,400 --> 00:34:18,400 But I hope you have the best week ever. 636 00:34:18,760 --> 00:34:21,199 Summer is finally here. Go lay in the sun for me. 637 00:34:21,639 --> 00:34:26,400 Love you so much. Bye as always, I just want to 638 00:34:26,400 --> 00:34:29,800 say a huge thank you for being here and being a part of the 639 00:34:29,800 --> 00:34:32,480 Letiflo community. If you feel called to leave a 640 00:34:32,480 --> 00:34:35,040 rating or review, I would love to hear your thoughts. 641 00:34:35,040 --> 00:34:37,840 I read every note. Come hang out with me on 642 00:34:37,840 --> 00:34:39,400 socials. You can find me over on 643 00:34:39,400 --> 00:34:42,120 Instagram at Destination X Alexis. 644 00:34:42,239 --> 00:34:45,080 I will link all current offers in the show notes below, 645 00:34:45,080 --> 00:34:48,960 including the booking link to book your human design reading 646 00:34:48,960 --> 00:34:50,920 with me. And with that I will catch you 647 00:34:50,920 --> 00:34:52,960 in the next one. Bye.