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This is Living Waters of Grace, 
the teaching ministry of Clark 

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Wofford, senior pastor of 
Calvary Chapel of Westmoreland, 

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County of Greensburg, PA. 
Now here's Pastor Clark as he 

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continues teaching through God's
Word. 

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We're all so self focused. 
Unfortunately, and we're all so 

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easily offended and the Bible 
tells us that love is not easily

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offended, but we unfortunately 
outside of having the love. 

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Of God working in our life, we 
get offended over the most 

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ridiculous. 
Things don't we? 

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Sometimes people won't talk in a
family for years and they can't 

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even remember at times why they 
don't talk anymore because it's 

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such a stupid thing. 
Well, why didn't you talk to 

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your dad all these years? 
Or your mom or whatever? 

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Picture this. 
You find yourself in a Little 

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Mix up with someone you care 
about. 

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Sometimes, rather than patching 
things up, you let your pride 

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take the wheel and end up 
causing them pain. 

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Your ego can cause some serious 
emotional damage. 

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How often do you find yourself 
choosing to forgive and move on?

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Today, Pastor Clark shares a 
heartfelt message about the 

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importance of embracing humility
in your life. 

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God decided to wipe the slate 
clean for your sins. 

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How about doing the same with 
your loved ones now? 

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Here's Pastor Clark in Acts 
Chapter 15 as he begins his 

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message ministry. 
Leadership fallout. 

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We are in the book of Acts turn 
there in your Bibles Acts 

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chapter 15 and. 
Title The message today. 

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Is ministry leadership fallout? 
So. 

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Let's pray as we open our Bibles
to Acts chapter 15, verses 36 

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through the end of that chapter.
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God, we thank you this morning. 
For your word, we thank you, for

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the body of Christ, we thank you
for a body of believers around 

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the earth today, Lord, and 
churches everywhere that are 

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true to your word, that are more
desperate than ever, Father. 

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For change. 
Not any change in our country, 

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but change in the hearts of the 
human race, Lord. 

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And we know the only thing that 
can change a heart is the word 

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of God as you transform us as 
you convict. 

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Us as you teach. 
Us, Lord, your ways and Lord we 

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come to the acknowledgement and 
conclusion that Lord, we are. 

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All fallen people and we. 
Need a savior? 

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We need someone to deliver us 
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as we look at the text, Father 
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Pray you would teach us about. 
The importance of reconciliation

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and how we're to forgive and how
Lord were to be. 

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First reconciled to. 
You and then Lord. 

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By your spirit of. 
Grace being reconciled to one 

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another. 
And so, Lord, guide us, help us,

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Holy Spirit, teach. 
Us not only to. 

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Understand these things 
intellectually, but experience 

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them in our daily life to live 
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To be doers of the word and not 
hear only bless all those you've

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brought today and may you be 
glorified in everything we do. 

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In Jesus name we pray, Amen. 
So let me read these verses that

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we're going to look at today and
then we'll begin to make some 

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comments. 
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The challenge of life. 
And challenge of ministry that 

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I'm thankful. 
That in the Bible it teaches us 

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about how to deal with conflict 
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Challenges of relationships. 
God doesn't skip over anything 

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that we might. 
Have to deal with as. 

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Human beings he addresses 
everything in the Bible and how 

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we can become more like Christ 
and so they had this finished 

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some wonderful conversation the.
Apostles and the Elders. 

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In the Church of Jerusalem, they
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Judaizers who were pushing the 
need to be. 

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Circumcised to be saved. 
Obviously there's nothing that 

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anybody needs to do to. 
Be saved other than to believe 

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on the Lord Jesus Christ and the
Bible says we shall be saved 

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and. 
So they were going to report to 

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the churches on the second 
missionary journey. 

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Paul and Barnabas were going to 
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they had visited. 
About five years previous at 

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this. 
Point to see how they were 

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doing, but some difficulty 
occurred and so I'll start with 

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verse 36. 
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to Barnabas, Let us now go back 
and visit our brethren in every 

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city where we have preached the 
word of the Lord, and see how 

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they are doing now. 
Barnabas was determined to take 

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with them. 
John called Mark, but Paul. 

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Insisted that they should not 
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Them, the one who had departed 
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Then the contention became so 
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another. 
And so Barnabas took Mark and 

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sailed to Cyprus. 
But Paul chose Silas and 

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departed, being commended by the
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And he went through Syria and 
Cecilia, strengthening the 

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churches. 
A tragic encounter here with 

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two. 
Brothers who loved each other 

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deeply, who served the Lord 
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years. 
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That's the definition, the 
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Word Barnabas and encourager he 
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Paul and now they had this 
disagreement now when you. 

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Read the commentaries about why 
this could have happened or how 

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it happened or what was the 
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People say, well, this is just 
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gospel spread out with more 
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Barnabas going together. 
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And so that's one way that some 
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But I've come to understand 
personally, as a pastor of 26 

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years, that we all. 
Fail. 

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As leaders, we all make 
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Things we say and do that we 
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But that doesn't mean that. 
There isn't a possibility by the

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Spirit of God and the grace of 
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To anyone that we might have 
stumbled or discouraged or was a

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bad witness or testimony. 
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Barnabas and Saul, Paul the 
Apostle are not great 

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testimonies. 
I talked to a lot of pastors. 

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Around the world, friends, 
others who have been in ministry

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for a long time. 
That say this is one of the more

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difficult times in the history 
of the church in the evangelical

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world to be a pastor. 
Than ever before, there's many 

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contentions and disagreements. 
Among believers, whether it's 

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cultural things, moral things, 
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Things this unbelievable 
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There's been more. 
Pastors who have resigned over 

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the last several years. 
Than probably any other time in 

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the history of the modern 
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I visited a church just to go 
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business. 
I went in and it's a very large 

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church. 
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they had over 3000 people coming
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and people getting saved and 
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Now they have less than 2000 
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Congregation as left and no 
longer attends the church or 

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goes to the church. 
Some people have decided that 

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the way they do churches online 
and some people have to do 

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church online because of health 
issues I understand or distance 

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issues, but. 
God has called us to assemble 

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together physically. 
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away from the church or to stay 
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We're to be with one another, to
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to be in the Word together. 
And to learn how to do life 

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together. 
No matter what the conflicts 

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might be, we're working through 
a book together as leaders right

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now in regard to ministry itself
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grace and very divisive times. 
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read the Scriptures, what it is 
that the Holy Spirit wants us to

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understand. 
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these. 
Verses today that when Paul and 

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Barnabas were having an 
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any. 
Input from the. 

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Rest of the council, the other 
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They earlier had gone to 
Jerusalem when there was a 

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disagreement about this issue of
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being forced to be circumcised 
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Saved from the Judaizers and 
their position on what they 

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thought salvation entailed, they
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They met together. 
They discussed there was 

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contentious argument during that
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Out and they gave the council 
that together they were to deal 

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with this issue of legalism in 
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It's interesting when Paul and 
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about John Mark. 
That they didn't say, well, you 

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know, first of all, we should 
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We should get some input from 
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we just are with here in 
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How do we deal with this 
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We've been together all these 
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God's used us. 
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Christ. 
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our pride is in the way. 
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So there was much dispute. 
This wasn't a simple issue here 

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and there was problems between 
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Hearts at this time. 
So you might say, well, who is 

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wrong in this contention? 
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Paul. 
Or was it Barnabas more than the

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other person? 
Or was it both of them together?

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This confrontation became so 
sharp that they actually stopped

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on ministry. 
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And this happens in just about 
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probably ever been in. 
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They're no longer there. 
Or you see the doors shut of 

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churches. 
That used to be very vibrant, 

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but because of contention and 
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Inability to be reconciled. 
The work of God is is thwarted 

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and and destroyed. 
And we know who's behind all 

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that. 
It's the evil one who wants to 

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scatter the sheep. 
Destroy your life as a 

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Christian. 
Destroy the integrity of the 

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body of. 
Christ and close churches down 

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this heated disagreement. 
This difference of opinion was 

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basically a difference of 
opinion. 

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Paul didn't like John Mark for 
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Didn't want to give. 
Him a chance Barnabas was 

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related. 
To John. 

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Mark and he had a heart for him.
He saw the. 

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Potential in him what's 
interesting is in spite of 

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everything that happened in this
section of scripture, eventually

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John Mark. 
Was reconciled to Paul, and Paul

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said later on in one of his 
epistles, Please send John, he's

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needful to me. 
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reconciliation. 
Eventually it tells us in 

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Proverbs 1310. 
Only by pride cometh contention,

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but with the well advised is 
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there's pride. 
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And there's pride also in 
Barnabas life, God tells us in 

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the book of Proverbs chapter 6, 
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These six things the Lord hates.
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unto him, A proud look, a lying 
tongue, hands that shed innocent

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blood, a heart that devises 
wicked imaginations, feet that 

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be swift and running to 
mischief, a false witness that 

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speaketh lies, and he that 
soweth discord among the 

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brethren. 
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between people, in this instance
Paul and Barnabas, leaders of 

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the church. 
I was thinking as I was studying

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this, what scriptures did they 
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To in regard to dealing with 
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well. 
We know that Jesus taught 

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clearly in the Beatitudes. 
How we're to live out our faith 

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and how we're to live in regard 
to conflict that arises in our 

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life. 
The Beatitudes were. 

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Responsible to help. 
Us to understand how to have. 

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A blessed. 
And a happy life, it says, 

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Blessed are the poor in spirit, 
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God. 
Being poor in spirit is to be 

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humble, to acknowledge our own 
shortcomings, and to have 

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humility in the opposition of 
pride, the sin that comes before

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the fall. 
Humility is always rooted. 

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In forgiveness and this desire 
to be at peace, that's the first

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beatitude that Christ. 
Gave this is how he has been 

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toward us. 
Jesus, the lover of my soul. 

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Jesus, I will never let you go. 
You've taken me from the miry 

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clay. 
You lifted me up. 

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And the Lord. 
Wants us to be this way with one

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another and we all fall so short
in actually doing this this 

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morning I'm sure there's not one
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experienced conflict in our 
lives, whether it's in our 

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marriages with our children, our
family, our neighbors, our. 

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Co laborers in the ministry at 
work, it's everywhere and. 

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Unfortunately, I find that 
conflict is never really dealt 

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with in a biblical way. 
Usually it could. 

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Be someone in the church that's 
upset about something, about 

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someone who said. 
Something or did something and 

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they decide they're not going to
go to the church anymore because

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one person maybe didn't say hi 
to them or didn't smile at them.

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Or wasn't pleasant toward them? 
I mean we're all so self focused

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unfortunately. 
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offended. 
The Bible tells us that love is 

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not easily offended, but we 
unfortunately outside of. 

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Having the love of God working 
in our life, we get offended 

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over the most ridiculous. 
Things don't we sometimes. 

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People. 
Won't talk in a family for years

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and they can't even remember at 
times why they don't talk 

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anymore because it's such a 
stupid thing. 

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Well, why didn't you talk to 
your dad all these years or your

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mom or whatever? 
Well, to be honest with you, I 

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can't remember. 
I just knew we fought about 

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something, we were upset and I 
can't even remember what it is 

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anymore. 
Isn't that sad? 

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And so the Lord looks at these 
things and wonders, you know, 

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how can we call ourselves as 
followers and we behave this 

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way. 
Blessed are they that mourn, for

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they shall be comforted. 
Mourning is this morning over my

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own sins, the sins of the world 
and the suffering. 

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That other people go through 
that should break us and make us

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sad. 
And make us prayerful that we 

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want to see situations change 
and reconcile first in our own 

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heart with the Lord, and then in
our hearts with one another, and

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then our hearts in this broken 
world. 

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If we as believers. 
Can't forgive one another in 

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this. 
World, How in the world can we 

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reach lost pagans and people 
that are really out there that 

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are doing everything that would 
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How can we have love in our 
hearts to take the gospel, the 

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people that really need Jesus, 
if we can't live out the gospel 

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with one another as Christians? 
There's a movie coming out in 

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February called The Jesus 
Revolution and it's on the. 

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History of the Calvary Chapel 
movement. 

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Kelsey Grammar. 
The guy that played and cheers, 

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you remember him. 
He plays a part of Chuck Smith 

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of all people and but anyway, 
this is a phenomenal film about 

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this little. 
Church called Calvary Chapel. 

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That was. 
Dying because of religion and 

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self righteousness and. 
All the. 

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Suits and the ties and. 
Everybody thought that because 

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of the way they. 
Looked outwardly, they were 

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acceptable. 
God. 

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Inwardly, hippies started coming
to this church because they were

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in desperate need of a savior. 
They were broken people. 

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Their lives were messed up and 
ruined because of sin. 

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Chuck didn't know how to deal 
with it when they started coming

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in and some of the wealthy 
people in the church said if 

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these. 
Kind of people come to our 

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church. 
The people. 

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That support this church 
financially will no longer be in

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this church. 
Chuck took a deep breath and 

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swallowed. 
And said, I understand, but he 

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didn't know what to do. 
And finally this one young 

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hippie came to him and looked 
him straight in the eye and 

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said, Pastor Chuck, someone has 
to be willing to love people 

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that are not easy to love. 
Someone has to be willing to 

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give them a chance and invite 
them in, in spite of the way 

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they look and the way they dress
and the things they've done. 

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Chuck heard this young man 
started getting choked up, 

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excuse himself, moved away to go
wash his hands at the sink, 

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thinking about what was being 
said to him by. 

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This hippie who had just 
recently. 

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Become saved he then made the 
decision that he. 

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Was going to open the doors to 
whoever wanted to come into the 

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church regardless of the 
outcome. 

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And he told the. 
Congregation that the door 

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swings both ways. 
The door swings inwardly for 

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those who are broken. 
For those who are easily 

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offended, the door swings the 
other way for them to leave and 

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so. 
Some of those people got up and 

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left and never came back. 
But what happened because of 

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this brokenness in this one 
pastor's heart, which I need in 

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my own? 
Life, as we all need, is to be 

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at the point in our lives as 
Christians that we're not 

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letting things get in the way of
what's most important, and 

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that's our relationship to 
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And our. 
Love for one another, Jesus 

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said. 
By this people will know that 

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you're my disciples, not by your
understanding of doctrine, which

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is important, by the teaching in
the Bible, which is also 

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critically important, but he 
said by the love you have for 

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one another. 
By this, people will know 

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you're. 
My disciples, what would 

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Barnabas and Saul say Paul say 
to those who would ask them? 

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Where's Barnabas now, Paul? 
What would they have said? 

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Well, we had an argument. 
And then the. 

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Christians would say, well you 
guys are supposed to be. 

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Leading us on how? 
To be Christians and how to act 

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as Christians. 
And you guys can't? 

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Get along together anymore. 
That's a That's a bad situation,

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isn't it? 
It's not acceptable. 

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The Bible doesn't go into great 
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goes into great detail and how 
Paul taught about dealing with 

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conflict because I'm sure he 
never forgot about this 

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situation that occurred in his 
life. 

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It was a a mark in his ministry,
a bad mark in his ministry. 

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It says blessed are the meek for
they shall inherit the earth. 

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The meek are the humble people, 
obedient and submissive to the 

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will of God. 
Jesus was meek and humble of 

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heart, it tells. 
Us in Matthew 1129. 

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He's learned of me. 
For I am meek and lowly of 

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heart, and you will find rest 
into your soul. 

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The only way that we can become 
like Christ is to become humble 

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and to meet our mistakes and our
wrongdoings. 

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And ask for forgiveness. 
To those we have. 

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Perhaps hurt and offended, 
Blessed are the merciful, for 

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they shall receive mercy. 
And boy, do we need mercy. 

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Lord have mercy on us, the 
publican said. 

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Lord, have mercy upon me, this 
Sinner. 

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He wasn't judging the 
self-righteous person that 

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didn't think he had any 
problems, he was looking at his 

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own need of mercy. 
It tells us in the book of 

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Leviticus, you shall not take 
vengeance or bear a grudge 

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against any of your people, but 
you shall love your neighbors 

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yourself. 
I am the Lord. 

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That's straight from the 
scriptures. 

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That we're to love our 
neighbors. 

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We love ourselves. 
Ephesians 430. 

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One and 32 says And let all 
bitterness and wrath and clamor 

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and evil speaking be put away 
from you. 

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Anybody ever have any problem 
with any of those things? 

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Be kind, tender hearted, 
forgiving one another, even as 

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God for Christ's sake hath 
forgiven you. 

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I mean, who am I to hold a 
grudge or be bitter or 

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unforgiving against anybody for 
what the Lord has done for me 

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and what He's done for you? 
This is the heart of the church.

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Forgiveness. 
We preach forgiveness of sins 

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through the death, burial and 
resurrection and. 

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Shed blood of Jesus Christ. 
But how do we live out this 

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forgiveness? 
It says in the Beatitudes, 

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Blessed are the peacemakers, for
they shall be called children of

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God, a peacemaker, someone who 
can step between two warring 

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parties. 
The peacemaker initiates 

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reconciliation when others have.
Wronged them the. 

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Peacemaker is quick to repent 
when they have wounded others, 

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so we're. 
All to be peacemakers, aren't 

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we? 
Christ is the ultimate 

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peacemaker. 
He stands between US. 

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And God the Father and through. 
What he's done on the. 

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Cross for us. 
He made it possible. 

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For us to not be at. 
War with God anymore? 

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Because of our sin in Jesus own 
words in John 1335. 

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By this all people will know 
that you are my disciples if you

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have loved one for another. 
I struggle at times when people 

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come to our. 
Church for the first. 

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Time I find out like. 
Hey, nice to see. 

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You where you from where you've 
been? 

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I always love it when they say, 
well we. 

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Moved and we used to go to a 
really good. 

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Church in some other state, and 
we're here now, and we want to 

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come here because the Bible's 
taught. 

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I love that. 
But if they're at the door and 

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says, well, let me tell you, we 
were at such and such a church 

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and the pastor did this or I 
don't want to hear any of that 

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because I'm thinking it won't be
too long before they're leaving.

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You're saying that about me, 
right? 

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I mean, none of us are perfect, 
right? 

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And there's always going to be 
something, no matter what church

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you go to, where you find that 
there's going to be some kind of

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issue you got to either deal 
with or. 

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You know not deal. 
With I guess and. 

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So when does the? 
Migration of Christians begin to

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end. 
Probably not until Christ comes 

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and sets up his Kingdom on earth
and he rules and he's the pastor

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and we're sitting at his feet. 
But when would end this 

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migration from one church to the
next church to the next church 

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to the next church? 
How many churches do we have to 

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move to before we realize that 
the problem isn't really the 

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church? 
The problem is my own heart 

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usually and how I deal with 
conflict. 

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Or don't deal with conflict. 
For joining us on this journey 

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through Acts on today's edition 
of Living Waters of Grace, 

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Pastor Clark shares that one of 
the most remarkable things about

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the book of Acts is how it shows
the disciples transformation. 

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The followers of Jesus we meet 
here are very different from the

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often confused and fearful 
disciples in the Gospels. 

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After Jesus's death and 
resurrection, and especially 

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through the power of the Holy 
Spirit, the apostles experienced

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a profound change in their 
hearts and boldness. 

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Their faith became unwavering, 
and they move forward with 

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courage to spread the gospel 
despite opposition and hardship.

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Acts reminds us that the same 
Spirit who empowered them is at 

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work in US today, shaping our 
hearts and giving us strength to

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live boldly for Christ. 
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