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Welcome to the heroic man. 
Today we are going to be talking

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about embracing your 
masculinity. 

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You're joining me, he and my Co 
host Yazeen. 

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Yazeen, the floor is yours. 
Take it away. 

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Thank you. 
OK, guys, we are speaking about 

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embracing the masculine. 
And so fundamentally as men, 

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it's obviously maybe not obvious
that we need to embrace our 

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masculine, right? 
And, and So what, what does it 

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even mean? 
Well, well, to be an awakened 

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man or to be a heroic man means 
that that that, that we need to 

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embrace our masculine essence, 
right? 

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And, and to have a masculine 
essence is, is to be a man of 

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purpose to a man that's 
confident, to be a man that's 

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confident, to be a man that's 
driven to me to be a man that 

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lives with deep integrity and, 
and also a sense of humor, 

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right? 
To be someone that's spontaneous

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and sensitive, right? 
I'm going to repeat this. 

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So yes, that can you see this? 
They, they, they do have a 

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masculine essence means that 
there, there are a bunch of 

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virtues that that we should 
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And amongst them, purposeness, 
having a sense of purpose, 

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having a sense of confidence, 
being driven. 

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Then I get up in the morning 
and, and I have a drive to do 

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what needs to be done right, 
deliver the deep sense of 

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integrity, the, the fact that, 
that, that I'm the type of men 

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that does whatever the fuck I 
say I'm going to do right. 

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But also they have a sense of 
humor, right? 

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And and then to be spontaneous 
and to be sensitive, right. 

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And I think the, the, the, this 
last two ones, a lot of us as 

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men, for whatever reason, we've 
lost our, our sense of 

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spontaneity, right? 
We get caught up in our heads 

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and all we have to explain and 
playing and playing, right? 

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But, but we don't take the, the 
moment to actually be 

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spontaneous, right? 
And, and, and then the last one 

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is we, we have to balance the, 
the, the masculine with the, the

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courage, the drive, the 
confidence, right, with also 

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being sensitive, right? 
And, and, and, and, and in a 

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way, this is, this is a way of, 
of the heroic man, right? 

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And, and again, it's, it's a 
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It's also we, we need to have a 
mission, right? 

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Guys, ask yourself, do you have 
a mission, right? 

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Because the masculine essence 
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heroic man, right, is a sense of
mission, right? 

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Aristotle 2000 years ago said I 
was someone Bonham, right? 

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Our greatest purpose is 
literally to have a mission. 

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And for him, our, our greatest 
mission was, were what do you 

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have a greatest strengths and 
greatest service to the world, 

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right? 
What about you guys? 

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Do do you have a sense of 
mission? 

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Do you have a mission? 
Do you have a sense of purpose, 

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Right? 
And, and again, it's, I think 

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it's not an imperative that it, 
that there's a man that we, that

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we know where we want to go, 
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I, I know we talk about all of 
them about what we want, but I 

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think it's equally important to 
know where am I going, right? 

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Do I actually have a direction 
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I'm just going round and round 
and round in circles, right? 

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Do I even know where I am? 
Do whatever they think don't 

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even have a clue about where we 
are, right and where we want to 

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go right? 
Then the question is, you don't 

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even know where you want to go. 
And if you don't even know where

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you are, well, then the question
is, well, how the fuck are we 

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ever going to get there? 
Do you guys see there's too many

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of us, right? 
We literally are lost, right? 

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We don't know where we are. 
We don't know where we go in. 

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And then the question we ask 
ourselves is, well, how am I 

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even going to get there when we 
don't even know where where 

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there is? 
Guys, do you see that? 

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If you don't know one one of 
those things, right, then, then 

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you need to figure the fuck out.
Figure out where you are in your

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life, figure out where you want 
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And again, if you're with me, 
right, it starts with with the 

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this idea. 
Well, you know, if I don't know 

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where I am and if I don't know 
where I want to go, right? 

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Stop making excuses, right? 
Stop blaming your parents, your 

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situation, your, your, your 
relationships, your finances, 

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right? 
Stop making excuses, right? 

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The the the fact is that a 
heroic man doesn't blame family.

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He doesn't blame lack of money, 
he doesn't blame his family 

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responsibility, or he doesn't 
blame anything else for not 

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pursuing his creative endeavors 
or pursuing his mission in life.

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I'm repeat this so you guys, can
you guys see that that the 

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heroic man doesn't blame, he 
doesn't make excuses. 

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He's not blaming his family, 
he's not blaming his life of 

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money. 
He's not blaming his family 

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responsibility. 
He's not blaming anything else, 

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but not pursuing his creative 
endeavors or pursuing his 

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mission in life, right? 
And, and, and the, the, the, the

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man who don't do that right? 
They, they, they simply don't 

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have the courage to step in the 
fuck up right? 

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And, and love their mission. 
And then what about do they do? 

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Do they do well? 
If, if, if I don't have the 

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courage to step in the fuck up 
and love my mission? 

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Well, I make excuses about it. 
Do you see this guys? 

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Honestly, it's so true, right? 
It's again, it's the victim 

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versus greater mindset, right? 
And, and, and this is even more 

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important for for us as men, 
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As as men, we have to, we have 
to be fucking intense. 

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Let's ask yourself, are you 
really intense in your life, 

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right? 
Do you have a masculine energy, 

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right? 
Do you have creative discipline,

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right, guys, seriously, we need 
to stop with the fucking 

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excuses, right? 
And, and make a commitment to 

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create the discipline in, in our
life to consistently show up and

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rocket. 
I'm going to repeat this for 

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you. 
Can you see this that that it 

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starts with as a man, am I 
fucking intense? 

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And we talked about this on 
yesterday's awakening call, 

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right? 
When somebody meets you in the 

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street, do you have that look in
your eyes that says, holy fuck, 

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you know what? 
When someone sees you, they're 

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like, this guy is dangerous, 
right? 

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This guy is intense, right? 
He exceeded that masculine 

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energy, right? 
Do you even have creative 

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discipline? 
Do you have the discipline to do

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what what you say you're going 
to do right, guys, again, if 

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whatever excuses we have, 
whether it's trauma, family 

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responsibility, your lack of 
money, your family, or anything 

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else, right, Stop with excuses, 
right? 

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And, and, and, and, and, and 
make a commitment to create the 

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discipline in, in your life to 
consistently show up and, and, 

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and rocket right? 
And, and again, it is, it is 

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heroic mean, right. 
Yes, I get that. 

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There's a process of, of, of 
unfolding our destiny, right, of

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peeling away the layers to 
unfold to, to, to fulfill or 

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unfollow our destiny, right? 
Yes, I get it that, that, that 

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achieving your destiny is like 
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We have to peel away layers and 
layers and layers. 

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But guys, too many of us, that's
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We so fucking caught up with 
peeling away the layers, right? 

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Then we forget about the now, 
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And, and, and whatever his name 
is, as I told said, there is 

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literally a power in now, like 
we need to pursue our current 

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endeavors, right? 
With vitality and intensity. 

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Guys, ask yourself, whatever you
do, whether you work for someone

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else, work for yourself, whether
you're foot broke, goes 

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copyrighted or whatever. 
Do you get up in the morning, 

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right? 
And you approach your work with 

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vitality. 
Do you approach you with 

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intensity? 
And then, well, if you didn't 

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get to the point we what you're 
doing exhausts you like, then 

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ask my ask yourself, maybe some 
of you say, well, you know what?

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The thing that I'm doing, it 
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But then ask yourself, right, I 
ask myself all of the time, do I

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have any regrets, right, for 
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You know what, sometimes if the 
thing that I'm doing exhausts 

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me, maybe I want to give it up. 
But ask yourself, even if I give

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this up, right, will I have any 
regrets for wanting to give this

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up, right? 
And and then if you feel an 

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increase in energy, right, just 
imagine being done with it, 

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right? 
Sometimes if, if you know that, 

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that it's time to give up 
something that, that we're, 

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we're just thinking about giving
it up, right, gives you an 

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increase in, in your energy, 
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Just just thinking about being 
done with it makes you more 

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energetic guys. 
And then then look back at it, 

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Look, look, looking back at it, 
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Maybe your project, the, the 
work that you're doing, the, the

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business that you're running, 
the company that you're working 

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for, maybe now in, in hindsight,
it, it seems silly, right? 

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Even though it deeply inspired 
you once, right, a while back, 

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right? 
Then, then, then, then, then 

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what we need to do, guys, is to 
give ourselves the freedom to 

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evolve. 
Because honestly, if you're 

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getting up in the morning and 
you don't have intensity, you 

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don't have energy, then you have
to ask yourself, is this thing 

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that I'm doing actually the 
thing I should be doing? 

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Because if it was, if it was 
your life purpose, I, I swear to

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God, you will get up in the 
morning with an intense amount 

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of energy and vitality. 
But but if you're getting up in 

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the morning and you don't have 
the intensity and vitality, then

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ask yourself, right, Do I have 
any regrets for wanting to give 

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this up? 
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Do I feel an increase in, in 
energy just imagining being done

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with it, right? 
And, and looking back at it, at 

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my project, my work, my 
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whatever, right? 
Does it now seem silly, even 

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though it it deeply inspired me 
just a little while back as you 

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see this as as men, right? 
Too often we don't give 

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ourselves the freedom to evolve.
We literally are stuck in one 

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place. 
We don't evolve right. 

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And often when we start 
something right, we need to make

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space only if it allows us to 
make the leap from, from our 

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zone of excellence in our zone 
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Let me repeat this for you guys 
that sometimes when I start 

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something, whatever I'm 
starting, right, I need to make 

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space, right? 
And, and only if, if doing this 

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thing is going to allow me to 
make the leap from my zone of 

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excellence to my zone of genius.
I think too many of us, right, 

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the things that we're doing 
right keep us stuck in our zone 

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of, of, of excellence, right? 
It, it, it doesn't allow us to 

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be in, in I was in, I was in, I 
was own of genius, right? 

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And personally for me, right, 
my, my zone of excellence, the 

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thing that I'm fucking good at, 
right? 

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It's always been beatable 
businesses, right? 

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I can literally I can build a 
business with with my eyes 

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closed, right, any day of the 
week, right in, in in any month 

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of the year, like literally with
with my eyes closed, I can start

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in build A7 Figure 8 figure 
business, right? 

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But showing up on these scores, 
being a psychotherapist, on the 

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other hand, right, investing 
myself in, in, in wisdom, 

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standing human psychology, 
studying standing life, right, 

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standing neuroscience, living 
spiritually, being creative, 

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having a sense of abundance, 
right relationships, all of 

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those things, right? 
They, they, they, they help me 

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and create an extraordinary 
life, right? 

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And, and, and ensuring that at a
level of, of intensity and 

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energy and, and, and skill and, 
and, and, and, and, and 

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aptitude, right? 
All of those things are, are way

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more closely in line to my zone 
of genius than, than, than if I 

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was just running a business, for
example, right. 

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Again, like I said, running a 
business is fucking my zone of 

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excellence, right? 
That's what I'm doing. 

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But my zone of genius is when I 
show up as a fucking 

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psychotherapist or, or as a 
coach, right? 

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When, when, when I'm studying 
psychology, wisdom, philosophy, 

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human behavior, optimal living, 
neuroscience, spirituality, 

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creativity, abundance, the 
psychology of money, whatever, 

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right? 
Those things literally give, 

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give, give me a level of 
intensity and energy, right? 

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Way more than than than I do 
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business or thinking about 
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Do you see this, that, that, 
that, that, that for me, I, I, 

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I've established what is closer 
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zone of genius, right? 
And, and, and, and then what do 

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I do? 
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identified our zone of genius, 
we want to stop doing the things

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that keep us stuck in, in, in, 
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right? 
Do you see that, that, that, 

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that ultimately it takes a 
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step the fuck up, right? 
And, and, and step to a purpose 

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that, that, that, that is meant 
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Guys, ask yourself, right, if 
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of intensity, if you don't have 
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whatever you're doing, right? 
Is it look, is it really putting

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you in your zone of genius, 
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Is it allowing your purpose to 
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And, and, and again, right in, 
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for me personally, when I 
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distinction between operating in
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of excellence, that was a 
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And, and, and especially if, if 
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if I wanted to be a heroic man, 
if I wanted to live with a sense

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of purpose. 
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the question, then, right is, is
what do you need to do to check 

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to what do you need to change in
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Right? 
Is, is there a layer that you 

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need to let go of? 
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Misha said that there's the 
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skin must perish. 
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repeating this for you guys that
you just said the snake that 

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cannot change its skin must 
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right? 
What do we need? 

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What, what part of our skin do 
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Is, is it something that, that 
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Is there a layer that, that we 
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Right. 
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that, that, that, that in order 
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in, in the next phase of our 
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crucifixion again. 
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by Campbell, right? 
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resurrection into the next 
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in into the next level of being 
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He said there first has to be a 
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Do you see this? 
We have to be willing to die to,

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to kill the prior version of 
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greatest version of ourselves. 
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Are you willing to, to, to do 
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Are you willing to die too, 
right, to kill the, the prior 

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version of yourself so, so, so 
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greatest version of yourself 
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yourself contracting, right, or 
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depressed. 
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mean we go through life, right? 
When we feel contracted, we, we 

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feel sluggish, we have no 
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We feel depressed, right? 

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It's, it's because we are 
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Can you guys see this the reason
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the reason for my expression, my
anxiety, my slug issues, my, my,

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my lack of energy is because 
I've allowed myself to contract 

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into myself, right? 
And, and, and, and in any guys, 

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here's your homework for today. 
The, the, the way to address 

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this right? 
We have to be willing to expand.

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We have to be willing to give 
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Ask yourself in, in what way can
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In what way can I give myself 
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personally, right. 
I know that the the only times 

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when I get really, really 
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impatient and and and and and 
and and when I have when I need 

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results I have no control over, 
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come to fruition in the now, 
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And and and then what do I do? 
Well, I drown myself. 

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I, I say to myself, well, let me
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on, on, on, on on creating and, 
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genius, right? 
And and and and and and and 

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having like creative output 
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that, that is intense and full 
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I just have a question before we
end. 

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Yeah, Thanks for saying that 
makes complete sense. 

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It's like the the the more time 
that we are within our unique 

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ability, the more time that we 
are focused in our zone of 

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genius. 
Essentially, the more energy we 

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have and the more energy we 
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our masculinity. 
Absolutely. 

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Yeah. 
Thank you man. 

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Good talk. 
Thank you guys. 

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See you on the next one.