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Ryan team, welcome to the heroic
journey you've made, Pete, 

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Right. 
I'm going to kick off the week. 

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Before we kick off the week, I'm
going to go into something that 

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that actually provoked me to do 
a little a little story on the 

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weekend about victims. 
And so fucking day was it. 

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I think it was like Saturday. 
I had this, yeah, I think it was

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might have been Saturday night. 
I don't know. 

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I had a message in my inbox. 
I get quite a few messages from 

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random people. 
And I had a message in my inbox.

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And it was a girl actually that 
I, I knew or know from, from 

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school days. 
And she was digging into me and 

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she, she was digging into me and
she's made and she made a shit 

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load of assumptions as well. 
And pissed me, pissed me off a 

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little bit. 
And I actually did, I wrote, I 

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wrote a quick story on it. 
And it was about like, the, the 

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more that you put yourself out 
there and the more that you go 

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against like, I don't know what,
what 99% of people that other 

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people are doing. 
You're going to get people that 

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are going to talk shit about you
or you're going to get people 

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that are going to get triggered 
by it and they're going to 

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fucking, they're going to come 
in your inbox. 

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They're going to put, or they're
going to write in your comments 

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or not even that it might be 
that you're not, you're not out 

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on social media, but you're, 
you're doing, you're doing 

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things outside of like maybe 
even your friends and your 

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family's norm. 
And you're going to get in, 

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you're going to get it. 
You're going to get people that 

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aren't going to like it and 
they're going to and they're 

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going to say shit. 
And my thing is fuck them. 

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Literally, it's like when, when 
this, when this woman messaged 

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me, I was like, fuck you. 
This is good that that you're 

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saying things like this, because
I know that it means that I, you

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know, I'm putting out the 
content that I want to put out 

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because I know that it's, it's 
ultimately it's not going to 

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please everyone. 
And, and the more that I've 

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started to put myself out of, 
the more that I get this. 

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But I, but I probably get like 
99 Percent, 90% of the stuff 

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that I get, I get some really 
positive stuff that comes in, it

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lands in my inbox. 
But this is the thing guys, it's

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like as, as you as men push 
forward with what you want to 

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achieve in life, it's going to, 
it's going to trigger people. 

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And I'm not, I'm not just 
talking about if you're out on 

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social media because it's 
absolutely not that. 

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I know historically, even when 
I've even with my own family, 

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there's been times where I'm 
like, I'm going to go and do 

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this and I just like haven't 
understood and haven't liked it 

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and re just like really, really 
fucking baffled by it. 

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And my thing isn't like, oh 
fuck, fuck the family. 

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I'm going to delete them. 
But it's like, I'm not. 

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If I look at some, I'll look at 
someone and I'll think to 

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myself, are they in any position
that I want to be in or do they 

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have something that I want? 
Because if they, if they, if 

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generally, if they've got 
something that I admire or like,

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you know, I'm not, you know what
I can actually learn from that, 

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then maybe I will, I will take a
step back and listen. 

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Maybe I will evaluate that. 
But if they really haven't, I 

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just won't. 
I, I really, really won't. 

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So this like this like woman on 
the weekend. 

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I replied to her abruptly and 
then I deleted her. 

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And I know, I know she responded
because I see it coming through.

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And I was like delete because I 
just, I'm like, do you know what

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it's it's negative energy. 
It's fucking low vibration. 

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I don't, I don't need that. 
So rather than me just going 

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back and forward, back and 
forward with someone who's a 

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waste of space and in and 
there's a real, real low 

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frequency and they're not doing 
anything good for society. 

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And ultimately I can see that 
she was in absolute victim mode.

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I'm like, I don't need, I don't,
I won't draw myself down to that

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level. 
So I will move myself from the 

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situation either by walking away
or by or by deleting. 

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And which is what I did. 
I just deleted that. 

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And I don't care if she's an old
school friend, I don't give a 

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fuck. 
It doesn't matter to me because 

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I know that as I, as I keep, I 
don't know but what, what it's 

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like going against the grain, I 
know that I'm going to get more 

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of it and, and, and that's OK. 
And, and I remember when I first

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started getting a little bit, 
not like hate stuff, but like 

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people come up against me. 
It did, it did, it got into my 

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brain. 
And I remember the first time it

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fucking took me a good day to 
get over it because I wasn't 

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used to it. 
And I had that like internal 

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like people pleasing thing that 
I wanted to be the guy that 

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everyone fucking liked. 
But I think like the day that I 

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started to realize is that I'm 
never going to please everyone. 

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And actually the people that are
saying those sorts of things or 

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that I am trying to please, they
don't really matter to me. 

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And I read Eugene's post this 
morning in in school, in the 90 

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day money game. 
If you're in that challenge than

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before, it's a really good 
fucking challenge because it's 

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about facing fears. 
It's about facing a micro fear. 

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And one of the things that 
Eugene said earlier was when, 

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when we're out facing fears, 
when we're out doing these 

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things, are we expecting those 
people to be at our funeral? 

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And, and it's a really good way 
to think about it. 

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It's like, am I expecting these 
people to be, to be at my 

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funeral? 
And like, no, I'm, I'm really, 

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really not. 
And, and so I'm going to go out 

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and consistently push hard and 
consistently face the fears. 

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And so like, that's my thing for
you guys this week, when, when 

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we're, when we're planning the 
week, Let's not hold back. 

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Let's like like step into a bit 
of fear this week, whether 

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that's like the one big fuck 
you, like you, you, you know, 

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you've got something that you 
want to be doing. 

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It's a it's a fear. 
It's it's a conversation. 

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It's putting yourself out there.
It's doing something against the

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grain and it's one thing. 
Make that your one thing this 

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week. 
Or if it's something micro like 

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Eugene's put something in the 
money game this week and it's, 

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and it's, and it's micro, but 
it's difficult and it's, you 

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know, it will take 2 minutes, 
but it's difficult. 

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Is there something micro in 
terms of facing a fear that you 

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guys can do this week? 
Because that, because that's 

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like for, for me this week, I'm 
going to be doing some, I'm 

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going to do 5 micro things just 
to put myself out there a little

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bit more than than micro fears. 
And that's my challenge for all 

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of you #1 is what is either a, 
what is the one fear that you 

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could face this week that you 
know that you get that done? 

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It's like it's, it's going to be
exponential growth in your life.

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Or what's the five micro fears 
that you could face, right? 

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That that and that that could be
anything guy. 

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It could be like that could be 
posting on social media. 

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It, it could be having five 
conversations that you weren't 

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going to have, like little 
conversations. 

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It, it, it, it just, it could be
just doing something for 

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yourself that you've been 
putting off for ages because 

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you've got a certain fear around
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Maybe it's stepping foot into 
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I don't know what that looks 
like, but just like 5 things or 

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one big thing. 
OK, face the fear. 

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Fuck others. 
It's going, it's like literally 

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it's going to come. 
Like it will come. 

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And the more that you push 
against the grain, the more that

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you go against what the society 
wants you to do or, or your or 

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your family even wants you to do
or your girlfriend or your 

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friends want you to do, the more
that this is, the more the more 

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comeback you're going to get. 
So go keep fucking pushing 

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against it because it's what 
makes us strong as guys.