Ryan team, welcome to the heroic journey you've made, Pete,
Right. I'm going to kick off the week.
Before we kick off the week, I'm going to go into something that
that actually provoked me to do a little a little story on the
weekend about victims. And so fucking day was it.
I think it was like Saturday. I had this, yeah, I think it was
might have been Saturday night. I don't know.
I had a message in my inbox. I get quite a few messages from
random people. And I had a message in my inbox.
And it was a girl actually that I, I knew or know from, from
school days. And she was digging into me and
she, she was digging into me and she's made and she made a shit
load of assumptions as well. And pissed me, pissed me off a
little bit. And I actually did, I wrote, I
wrote a quick story on it. And it was about like, the, the
more that you put yourself out there and the more that you go
against like, I don't know what, what 99% of people that other
people are doing. You're going to get people that
are going to talk shit about you or you're going to get people
that are going to get triggered by it and they're going to
fucking, they're going to come in your inbox.
They're going to put, or they're going to write in your comments
or not even that it might be that you're not, you're not out
on social media, but you're, you're doing, you're doing
things outside of like maybe even your friends and your
family's norm. And you're going to get in,
you're going to get it. You're going to get people that
aren't going to like it and they're going to and they're
going to say shit. And my thing is fuck them.
Literally, it's like when, when this, when this woman messaged
me, I was like, fuck you. This is good that that you're
saying things like this, because I know that it means that I, you
know, I'm putting out the content that I want to put out
because I know that it's, it's ultimately it's not going to
please everyone. And, and the more that I've
started to put myself out of, the more that I get this.
But I, but I probably get like 99 Percent, 90% of the stuff
that I get, I get some really positive stuff that comes in, it
lands in my inbox. But this is the thing guys, it's
like as, as you as men push forward with what you want to
achieve in life, it's going to, it's going to trigger people.
And I'm not, I'm not just talking about if you're out on
social media because it's absolutely not that.
I know historically, even when I've even with my own family,
there's been times where I'm like, I'm going to go and do
this and I just like haven't understood and haven't liked it
and re just like really, really fucking baffled by it.
And my thing isn't like, oh fuck, fuck the family.
I'm going to delete them. But it's like, I'm not.
If I look at some, I'll look at someone and I'll think to
myself, are they in any position that I want to be in or do they
have something that I want? Because if they, if they, if
generally, if they've got something that I admire or like,
you know, I'm not, you know what I can actually learn from that,
then maybe I will, I will take a step back and listen.
Maybe I will evaluate that. But if they really haven't, I
just won't. I, I really, really won't.
So this like this like woman on the weekend.
I replied to her abruptly and then I deleted her.
And I know, I know she responded because I see it coming through.
And I was like delete because I just, I'm like, do you know what
it's it's negative energy. It's fucking low vibration.
I don't, I don't need that. So rather than me just going
back and forward, back and forward with someone who's a
waste of space and in and there's a real, real low
frequency and they're not doing anything good for society.
And ultimately I can see that she was in absolute victim mode.
I'm like, I don't need, I don't, I won't draw myself down to that
level. So I will move myself from the
situation either by walking away or by or by deleting.
And which is what I did. I just deleted that.
And I don't care if she's an old school friend, I don't give a
fuck. It doesn't matter to me because
I know that as I, as I keep, I don't know but what, what it's
like going against the grain, I know that I'm going to get more
of it and, and, and that's OK. And, and I remember when I first
started getting a little bit, not like hate stuff, but like
people come up against me. It did, it did, it got into my
brain. And I remember the first time it
fucking took me a good day to get over it because I wasn't
used to it. And I had that like internal
like people pleasing thing that I wanted to be the guy that
everyone fucking liked. But I think like the day that I
started to realize is that I'm never going to please everyone.
And actually the people that are saying those sorts of things or
that I am trying to please, they don't really matter to me.
And I read Eugene's post this morning in in school, in the 90
day money game. If you're in that challenge than
before, it's a really good fucking challenge because it's
about facing fears. It's about facing a micro fear.
And one of the things that Eugene said earlier was when,
when we're out facing fears, when we're out doing these
things, are we expecting those people to be at our funeral?
And, and it's a really good way to think about it.
It's like, am I expecting these people to be, to be at my
funeral? And like, no, I'm, I'm really,
really not. And, and so I'm going to go out
and consistently push hard and consistently face the fears.
And so like, that's my thing for you guys this week, when, when
we're, when we're planning the week, Let's not hold back.
Let's like like step into a bit of fear this week, whether
that's like the one big fuck you, like you, you, you know,
you've got something that you want to be doing.
It's a it's a fear. It's it's a conversation.
It's putting yourself out there. It's doing something against the
grain and it's one thing. Make that your one thing this
week. Or if it's something micro like
Eugene's put something in the money game this week and it's,
and it's, and it's micro, but it's difficult and it's, you
know, it will take 2 minutes, but it's difficult.
Is there something micro in terms of facing a fear that you
guys can do this week? Because that, because that's
like for, for me this week, I'm going to be doing some, I'm
going to do 5 micro things just to put myself out there a little
bit more than than micro fears. And that's my challenge for all
of you #1 is what is either a, what is the one fear that you
could face this week that you know that you get that done?
It's like it's, it's going to be exponential growth in your life.
Or what's the five micro fears that you could face, right?
That that and that that could be anything guy.
It could be like that could be posting on social media.
It, it could be having five conversations that you weren't
going to have, like little conversations.
It, it, it, it just, it could be just doing something for
yourself that you've been putting off for ages because
you've got a certain fear around it.
Maybe it's stepping foot into the gym.
I don't know what that looks like, but just like 5 things or
one big thing. OK, face the fear.
Fuck others. It's going, it's like literally
it's going to come. Like it will come.
And the more that you push against the grain, the more that
you go against what the society wants you to do or, or your or
your family even wants you to do or your girlfriend or your
friends want you to do, the more that this is, the more the more
comeback you're going to get. So go keep fucking pushing
against it because it's what makes us strong as guys.