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Prayer Is there a right way or a
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Way part of prayer is not to 
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just to open our ears and our 
heart to God, and God actually 

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speaks through prayer. 
He speaks through his Word. 

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He speaks through worship. 
He speaks through creation. 

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Prayer is a privilege. 
You and I have access to the 

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throne room of God. 
I feel like the enemy has 

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intimidated, intimidated, 
intimidated and we need to 

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actually find our voice back and
begin to speak the word of God 

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with confidence. 
Are you ready to pray so that 

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you are heard Welcome to today's
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I'm so excited. 
We are going to be talking about

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praying with confidence. 
So many of you said we're not 

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sure how to pray. 
We're not sure if we're allowed 

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to pray this. 
We're not sure if we can 

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actually pray and ask God for 
something boldly. 

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Do we need to be meek with it? 
Do we need to go low on it And 

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Christian, one of the things I 
discovered preparing for this is

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prayer is a privilege. 
It's a privilege. 

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You and I have access to the 
throne room of God. 

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You know, there's a lot of 
people so excited right now 

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about I went into the White 
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or I was in the Senate, but we 
actually go into the throne room

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of the King of the Kings and 
Lord of Lords. 

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That is the place that we 
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So there's many different ones 
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I'm going to list some of them, 
but we're going to highlight two

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specifically. 
Number one, there is the prayer 

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of intercession. 
Intercession means I'm going to 

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stand in the gap for somebody 
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I'm going to be crying out for 
the nation's, I'm going to cry 

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out for my nation. 
I'm going to cry out for the 

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leaders. 
Intercession is when we stand 

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between, we stand between life 
and death, judgment and blessing

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and we cry out for God's mercy 
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Then there's the prayer of 
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Petition is where we say, OK, 
God, this is this is a situation

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here. 
I need your wisdom, I need your 

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provision, I need your insight, 
I need your direction. 

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A prayer petition is we are like
God, please get involved. 

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Please get involved because if 
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we're going to have a problem. 
And I always love, I believe it 

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was Hezekiah that laid out the 
threats of the enemy before the 

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Lord and said, do you hear what 
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God, do you hear what they hear?
I'm I'm not going to answer 

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them. 
I'm going to bring their threats

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to you and I'm going to invite 
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That is the prayer petition, 
prayer of consecration and 

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surrender. 
Now, this is more of a personal 

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prayer, but it can become a 
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Whenever Israel had sinned, 
there would be so many times the

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priest would say, OK, you know 
what, we're all going to gather.

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We're going to put away our 
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we're going to consecrate 
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We're going to seek God. 
It's when we say, you know what,

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we've been living this way. 
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we're going to consecrate 
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That's a consecration prayer. 
It is a separation and it is a 

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prayer of surrender. 
We're like God, we've been going

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our way. 
We surrender to your ways. 

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Then there is the prayer 
protection, which a lot of us 

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have been praying right now. 
God protect us from the crazy 

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viruses, protect us from the 
stuff in the air, protect us 

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from the food. 
Oh my goodness, Christian, I was

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just reading you. 
You probably have read this. 

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I saw this random article just 
today where they're saying girls

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in their 30s are going through 
perimenopause, that they are 

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being thrown into early onset 
menopause and they can't get 

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pregnant because of all the 
ridiculous toxins in the air and

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in the environment. 
I believe that I was with people

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earlier today that were saying I
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pregnant because they're saying 
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I need to do this cleanse, this 
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So prayer needs to be added to 
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Cleanse it. 
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And you know, and I just want to
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I believe, and here's when we 
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there's promises where it says 
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deadly, it will not harm us. 
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there that feels like, hey, 
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I mean, we're going to be 
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We can't buy our houses. 
We, you know, and if we do buy a

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house, then we can't reproduce. 
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provision. 
I believe that whatever that is.

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I mean, they're saying you take 
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card, a plastic every single 
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I'm, I'm on every airplane. 
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I don't know. 
It's do I, am I on a credit card

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level? 
But the truth is we can pray and

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God can actually rightly divide 
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And I just don't want to. 
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our God that heals us. 
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where everything's coming 
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one who protects us. 
And then there is the meditative

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prayer, the prayer of just kind 
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It's that say law in the middle 
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maybe you just need to pause and
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Then there's a prayer of 
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We thank him for who he is 
because of his greatness and his

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goodness. 
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praise and Thanksgiving where we
are like, God, you have been so 

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faithful. 
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need to actually start out that 
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We remember, we remember the 
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And then there's a prayer of 
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This is the one I have to do a 
lot where you're like, God, I'm 

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so sorry. 
I was so snarky in that 

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situation. 
I was so frustrated with that or

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I got just caved to fear. 
That kind of prayer is a prayer 

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of confession, which I believe 
we had a, we had a, we had a 

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little experience with a friend 
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priest said that 100 confessions
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exorcism. 
So confession, just keeping your

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heart clear, does a whole lot of
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darkness. 
And then supplication, that's 

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when we humbly ask God for 
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But what I want to do is I want 
you to know that prayer 

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glorifies God. 
Jesus actually asked us to ask 

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and I think we forget about 
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We're like, oh, I don't want to 
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You know, so like one of the, 
some of the feedback you were 

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getting Christian was like, 
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Because I mean, you were sharing
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That's that's surprising. 
Well, you're setting it up. 

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Well, if there's all these types
of ways to pray and there's all 

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these things, which could be a 
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someone or some people were 
saying, well, how do I know what

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I'm allowed to pray for? 
Like, who am I to say, OK, God, 

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I want this to happen. 
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And so people are even 
wondering, like, what are you 

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allowed to pray? 
Are you allowed to knock and ask

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God for specific things? 
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Like how do you approach prayer?
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Christian. 
Or even even if you're just 

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confused by feeling like you're 
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want. 
OK, so first and foremost, let's

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just do the establishing. 
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if you abide in me, OK, that's 
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He's like, if you're in Christ 
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then abide means it doesn't just
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to endure. 
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his word endures in us, he says,
ask whatever you wish and it 

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will be done for you. 
By this my Father is glorified 

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that you bear much fruit and so 
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So fruit proves disciples is I 
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As the Father has loved me, so I
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Abide in my love. 
So he's like, Hey, I love you, I

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love you, abide in my word. 
But here's the thing, I'm going 

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to always have questions. 
If I don't know what the word of

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God says, I'm going to be like, 
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Can it, you know, is this my 
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You know, the Bible says that, 
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desires of your heart. 
And then people are like, but my

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heart is wicked, my heart's 
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I don't know if I can have the 
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heart's so wicked. 
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to unpack a little bit about 
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First of all, I want you to know
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Father, I believe that you can't
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I I really believe this because 
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Even if you ask for the wrong 
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work it out for your good. 
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verse 3 says you ask and do not 
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to spend it on your own passion.
So, you know, as he comes over 

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to my house and is like, hey, D 
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even though I love him and I 
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the right thing at the wrong 
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And I think a lot of times, you 
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if my grandkids or my children 
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ultimately is not for their good
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going to say no. 
And so, but can you talk the 

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confidence? 
Can you talk on the relationship

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factor there? 
Because I love that my son can 

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come over and knows, hey, I can 
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I trust them to give me good 
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I think some people are scared 
to pray because if you get a no,

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it's almost like, well, God 
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He doesn't have good things for 
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But there is that redirection 
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speaking on of because you love 
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You'll say, no, we're not going 
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I will actually make you full. 
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encourage someone that's like, I
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I've gotten a no before. 

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Would you encourage them on the 
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sometimes. 
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And I've gotten some no on some 
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God, God was like, you are 
looking for the wrong thing in 

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the wrong season. 
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thing is it. 
What I think I want is actually 

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going to hurt me. 
I like, for example, I I can 

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just talk about with me. 
When we moved to Colorado, I had

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moved from Florida, you know, I 
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I was so immersed in mother, 
mother world, you know, and, and

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all my friends were mother 
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So I didn't really have any 
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And I was starting to come out 
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That season, Arden was 4, you 
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one time. 
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And so now I wanted some female 
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And I was like, God, these are 
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And God said no. 
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I, I want these as my friends. 
These are Christian friends. 

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And I was like, wait, no, no, 
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Tell me how to do things. 
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And God was like, right now 
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you in the wrong direction. 
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were evil. 
It was that God was saying I 

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have something in and on your 
life and other prayers you've 

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prayed will actually go 
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If if I answer this one, you 
prayed certain things, you said,

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God, I only want those 
relationships that actually draw

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me higher, that build my 
marriage and and these, and I'm 

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not being hateful, but these 
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and it was always about talking 
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this. 
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like, well, my husband did that.
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you're like, I need to, I need 
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Or maybe maybe I wouldn't, but 
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asleep and I'd be like all men. 
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happy and you're coming home 
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They were people that were 
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I remember I just kept pushing 
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let me just let me just have 
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I'm so tired of being lonely. 
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crisis. 
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I got cut off and I was like, 
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But but one of and again, that 
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That was my poor choices. 
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a lot of young girls out there 
and they're saying I want to get

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married and I've been praying 
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married. 
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time. 
There's people out there that 

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say, you know, I want direction.
These are not evil things. 

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These are not evil things. 
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puts longings in your heart, and
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met in this life, and some of 
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the next life. 
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can put him at the highest space
and if we can say God, I would 

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really like this, But you know 
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myself. 
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that's going to come between you
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I'm going to pull away from it. 
So we have to actually surrender

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even when we're going to God 
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there is there's a guardrail for
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I love this court by George 
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George Mueller said if we don't 
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we don't know it, because 
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John they were dating, we prayed
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husband. 
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great. 
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I mean, like we were so careful 
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witchcraft prayers. 
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somebody's names, but but I 
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regardless. 
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thank you that you give John 
that wife that will love him. 

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Well, that will speak truth to 
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wrap it around, but I think it 
there's a problem when we're so 

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specific that that we get 
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different way. 
Yeah, I think sometimes we go in

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thinking we know the answer or 
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we have to pray in a certain 
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But prayer is such a 
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And you were alluded to this 
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I want to ask about it, but 
don't you feel like part of 

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prayer is not to pray the 
perfect prayer, but just to open

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our ears and our heart to God, 
and God actually speaks through 

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prayer. 
Can we still say that God still?

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Speaks, speaks or else we're all
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So I mean, I know there's people
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trying to make fun of you. 
There's a lot of people that 

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somehow they feel like the day 
the Bible got printed, God was 

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just like, we don't need to hear
from you anymore. 

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I'm going to tell you, God 
speaks. 

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He speaks for other people. 
He speaks through his word, He 

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speaks through worship, He 
speaks through creation, the 

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stars, the the sun, the 
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He is constantly speaking. 
We just have to attune ourselves

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to hear. 
And going back to what I was 

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going to say is kind of my 
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George Mueller wrote the Spirit 
and the word must be combined 

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because there's a lot of parts 
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They're all like the Spirit. 
The Spirit I felt like the 

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Spirit said. 
And then there's other parts are

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like, no, it's only the word. 
It's not the Spirit anymore. 

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It's just the Word. 
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Spirit and the Word and he said,
if I look to the Spirit alone 

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without the Word, I lay myself 
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And I feel like that's kind of 
happened. 

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If the Holy Spirit or the Holy 
Ghost, he wrote, guides us at 

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all, he will do it according to 
the scriptures and never 

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contrary to them. 
So it's in the, it's in the 

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spirit of the Scripture, not the
letter. 

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Because you can't go into 
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who you're supposed to marry or 
find. 

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Do I take this job or do I not 
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But you can pray and for me, 
Christian, I think the first 

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time I discovered any of this is
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which is so hilarious, I know. 
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should. 
I was working in accounting at a

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church office and I thought I am
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Now I am working in a church 
office and I, I was so stressed 

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out because anytime you left the
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you. 
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I was, there was an older lady 
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she would just tear anybody 
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So I was scared I would come 
home every single day stressed 

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out. 
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pray about whether you're 
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not. 
And so I said, all right, you 

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know what? 
I'm going to, I'm going to spend

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some prayer time on Saturday. 
And so I sat down with my King 

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James Bible that had tabs, which
I missed tabs, it had tabs. 

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And I sat there and I said, God,
I need an answer. 

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Do I stay in my job or do I go 
These are the options for you, 

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God. 
And I had no idea how limiting I

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was being in that moment. 
Here I am. 

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I have this audience with the 
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giving him a multiple choice 
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Stay or go. 
Which one stay do I feel stay do

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I feel go, stay, go. 
Well, I was only reading the New

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Testament back then and maybe I 
might do. 

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I did Psalms, Proverbs, little 
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visited Isaiah, but I had never 
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because I'd heard he's the 
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I'm like, stay out of Jeremiah. 
It's not time. 

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It's not time for Jeremiah been 
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heard in my spirit, I heard 
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I thought, Oh, I don't even know
if there's 29. 

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So I so I went to the I was 
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and how? 
Long is he weeping. 

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I know he was sad. 
There was a lot of there was a 

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lot of emotional hostage with 
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But I go to Jeremiah 2911 and it
says if you call upon me, I will

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answer you. 
I'm like, OK, Yeah. 

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And he's like and and he says, I
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Plans of hope to give you a hope
in the future, plan to do good 

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and not to harm. 
And I was like, OK, what's the 

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plan? 
And he just kept showing me the 

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scripture and I realized, wait, 
he has a plan and I have a brain

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and I am in a toxic work 
environment and I am a brand new

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baby Christian. 
I don't need to be in a toxic 

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work environment. 
I don't need to be afraid to 

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leave. 
And God has a plan that's bigger

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than this moment. 
And so I remember instead of 

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making a decision out of fear or
making a decision out of 

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confusion or even being bitter, 
me like y'all are toxic. 

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I came in and I said, you know, 
I just, I'm turning in my 

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resignation. 
I just really feel like God is 

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saying I want you to pursue me 
for the next step, which was 

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really scary because I didn't 
have another job. 

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So you know what I did 
Christian? 

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I sat down with a pen and a 
piece of paper. 

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And I said, God, I need you to 
speak to me. 

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I need you to speak to me. 
God, I don't, I don't know what 

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I my way forward, but you do. 
And I really had such a sense. 

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He was like, I want you to write
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And I wrote out all the things 
I've ever desired to do in my 

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life. 
And that was a very scary thing 

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because most people will find 
that they can, they will try to 

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disqualify themselves. 
They'll be like, oh, you're not 

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smart enough to do that. 
Oh, you have no experience. 

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Oh, you don't have any money. 
Oh, you don't know anybody that 

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did that. 
But I wrote, I want to travel. 

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And of course, as soon as I 
wrote that, I heard the enemy 

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say, who would send you? 
Who would ask you what? 

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Why would you? 
Why would you want to travel? 

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What? 
What good would you be 

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traveling? 
And then I want I want to I want

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to speak life to women. 
You don't even like women. 

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What I mean, like every single 
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decided I would write it and 
then I surrendered it all to 

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God. 
Like I wrote it all out and in 

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it created a pathway. 
And then like I consecrated that

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and say, God, I ask you, you 
said you have a plan. 

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I'm going to, I'm going to lay 
down the desires of my heart. 

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You sort out what's actually you
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And he did that for me, and he 
started opening doors that were 

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astounding. 
That is so powerful too, and I 

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love that. 
Reminds me what you said earlier

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of maybe you're praying for the 
one thing, but we forget in that

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moment when we're praying with 
our full heart, hey, you've also

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prayed these other things. 
And sometimes God's alignment 

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isn't unweaving that if we focus
in so much of I have to have the

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answer right now, it's a yes or 
a no. 

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We can forget that he's already 
doing some other things at work.

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But that brings up a question 
that other people ask of OK, 

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Lisa, that's awesome. 
God heard your prayer. 

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He answered you. 
He's made things come about. 

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But does God hear everyone's 
prayers? 

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Yes, God hears everyone's 
prayers. 

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Does he answer everyone's 
prayers? 

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Not usually the way we think 
he's going to answer and never 

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in the timing. 
I mean, I shouldn't say never, 

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but it feels like it's never in 
the timing. 

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So God hears every prayer. 
But but it's it's interesting. 

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There are things that position 
us that God hears faith, you 

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know, So I mean, we can, we can 
go through a hard season and 

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pray the words of Psalm. 
We can, we can echo David's 

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words, but we need to echo all 
of it because David's like it's 

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so dark. 
Everybody hates me. 

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They're all going to kill me. 
It's so bad. 

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I'm depressed. 
There's nothing but weeping on 

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my bed. 
But then he flips it. 

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He always flips it and says, but
you owe God. 

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So we can pour out our soul to 
God. 

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But then we've got to be able to
flip it back to who is our 

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source and who is our answer. 
And a lot of times people just 

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make themselves the source. 
You know, I was in the dentist 

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office yesterday and I, I rare, 
very rarely listen to 

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contemporary Christian music. 
But I was listening and so much 

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of the focus of contemporary 
Christian music is self. 

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It's me, myself, my needs. 
The enemy's after me. 

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He's shaming me. 
He's hindering me. 

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I'm like, you've got to, you've 
got to turn this back to the one

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who is our answer. 
And and again, God wants to 

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answer everybody, but we do need
to come to him in faith and 

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faith is actually believing that
God #1 is. 

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So he is and that he is a 
rewarder of those who diligently

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seek them, seek him. 
So if we believe that God is, 

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but we don't believe he'll hear 
or listen, which really goes to 

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a factor of goodness. 
If we don't believe that God is 

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good, or we believe that God is 
good for Christian but not for 

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Lisa, or we believe that God is 
good for Christian and Lisa but 

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not for you, then you need to 
adjust how you see God. 

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See, God actually wants you. 
Again, He wants you to ask, but 

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He also wants you to understand 
that He is good. 

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He is not trying to punish you, 
but He will allow circumstances 

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sometimes to take you out so 
that you cry out. 

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You know, one of my favorite, 
not favorite scriptures is in 

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the book of James book of James 
chapter one. 

445
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I'm going to read it out of the 
message paraphrase because it's 

446
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it's actually kind of funny. 
It opens up with in verse 2 

447
00:24:36,440 --> 00:24:40,000
considered a sheer gift. 
Friends, when tests and 

448
00:24:40,000 --> 00:24:44,680
challenges come at you from all 
sides, who thinks that's a gift?

449
00:24:46,680 --> 00:24:48,920
I'm picturing dodgeball like 
you're just trying to stay 

450
00:24:48,920 --> 00:24:51,840
alive. 
All sides, not just one side, 

451
00:24:52,200 --> 00:24:53,200
all sides. 
God's like. 

452
00:24:53,280 --> 00:24:58,040
It's a gift when you are in a 
spiritual ambush. 

453
00:24:58,040 --> 00:25:01,280
I'm like, that doesn't feel like
a gift because he goes on to 

454
00:25:01,280 --> 00:25:05,520
say, you know that under 
pressure your faith life is 

455
00:25:05,520 --> 00:25:09,840
forced into the open and shows 
it's true colors. 

456
00:25:10,040 --> 00:25:14,080
So Christian, when we find 
ourselves in a situation where 

457
00:25:14,080 --> 00:25:20,040
we are surrounded by the enemy, 
what we turn to reveals what we 

458
00:25:20,040 --> 00:25:22,800
trust in. 
And there there are so many 

459
00:25:22,800 --> 00:25:27,080
people that turn to social 
media, turn to food, turn to, 

460
00:25:27,160 --> 00:25:30,320
you know, turn against friends 
or whatever it is, turn to 

461
00:25:30,320 --> 00:25:33,760
criticism when God is saying 
turn to me. 

462
00:25:33,920 --> 00:25:38,760
So God sees ambushes without any
means of escape to be an 

463
00:25:38,760 --> 00:25:41,320
opportunity to show himself 
strong. 

464
00:25:41,760 --> 00:25:44,600
I mean, when we see the children
of Israel, all of a sudden 

465
00:25:44,800 --> 00:25:48,480
they've escaped the Egyptian 
God's like, I'm going to harden 

466
00:25:48,480 --> 00:25:52,720
Pharaoh's heart one more time. 
And they find themselves between

467
00:25:52,720 --> 00:25:58,000
the Egyptian army and the Red 
Sea and God's like, I got this 

468
00:25:58,000 --> 00:26:02,320
one, be still and know I'm God, 
I'm going to do something. 

469
00:26:02,560 --> 00:26:04,920
And so you're in a situation 
where you're like, God, better 

470
00:26:04,920 --> 00:26:07,840
do something. 
Well, I want you just to 

471
00:26:07,840 --> 00:26:10,440
understand this is an 
opportunity for you to actually 

472
00:26:10,440 --> 00:26:14,840
assess your faith life. 
And then it goes on to say, so 

473
00:26:14,840 --> 00:26:17,720
don't try to get out of anything
prematurely. 

474
00:26:18,120 --> 00:26:21,400
Let it do its work so you can 
become mature and well 

475
00:26:21,400 --> 00:26:23,680
developed, not deficient in any 
way. 

476
00:26:23,680 --> 00:26:27,680
So when we're in a situation 
that seems overwhelming, we say,

477
00:26:27,680 --> 00:26:30,600
God, what, what are you doing in
this month? 

478
00:26:30,600 --> 00:26:32,280
Like you just had, you just had 
a baby. 

479
00:26:32,680 --> 00:26:35,520
And I noticed you just posted, 
you just posted some of your 

480
00:26:35,520 --> 00:26:40,920
childbirth pictures. 
And sometimes those babies, 

481
00:26:42,120 --> 00:26:44,640
yeah, sometimes those babies 
don't come out as fast as we'd 

482
00:26:44,640 --> 00:26:49,280
like them to. 
But what we forget is when 

483
00:26:49,320 --> 00:26:53,560
they're going through the 
pressure of birth, God is 

484
00:26:53,560 --> 00:26:55,680
actually clearing out their 
lungs of fluid. 

485
00:26:56,200 --> 00:27:01,280
It's actually waking them up. 
It's actually preparing them for

486
00:27:01,400 --> 00:27:04,600
birth. 
And so there is a preparation 

487
00:27:04,600 --> 00:27:07,800
process where God is like stop 
trying to get out of it 

488
00:27:07,800 --> 00:27:10,720
prematurely. 
Let it do its work. 

489
00:27:11,000 --> 00:27:14,400
God is asking us to mature and, 
and that process between the 

490
00:27:14,400 --> 00:27:18,000
time we pray and the time we see
the answer to prayer is an 

491
00:27:18,000 --> 00:27:21,840
opportunity for maturing. 
And then it says, if you don't 

492
00:27:21,840 --> 00:27:24,320
know what you're doing, half the
time I don't even know where I 

493
00:27:24,320 --> 00:27:28,040
am, let alone what I'm doing is 
this, Pray to the Father. 

494
00:27:28,200 --> 00:27:31,720
He loves to help. 
You'll get his help and won't be

495
00:27:31,720 --> 00:27:33,960
condescended to when you ask for
it. 

496
00:27:34,160 --> 00:27:36,800
So God is like, hey, if you 
don't know what you're doing, 

497
00:27:37,640 --> 00:27:40,680
ask me. 
He wants to be involved in our 

498
00:27:40,680 --> 00:27:42,200
lives. 
If you're like, I got teenagers 

499
00:27:42,200 --> 00:27:47,160
and I don't know what I'm doing,
ask God don't always look to 

500
00:27:47,160 --> 00:27:49,920
people. 
So there's so many people that 

501
00:27:50,200 --> 00:27:54,040
they're not asking God, they're 
asking an expert or an 

502
00:27:54,040 --> 00:27:59,640
influencer or this counselor. 
And those are those are those 

503
00:27:59,640 --> 00:28:02,880
are wise people that might have 
some tools, but God understands 

504
00:28:03,040 --> 00:28:07,840
the specifics of your situation.
We need to have some lean into 

505
00:28:07,840 --> 00:28:10,680
the Holy Spirit moments. 
We need to have some people that

506
00:28:10,680 --> 00:28:13,960
have supernatural insight. 
We need some words of wisdom and

507
00:28:13,960 --> 00:28:18,080
words of knowledge when it comes
to parenting our children or 

508
00:28:18,080 --> 00:28:21,760
loving our husbands or living 
just with other people or 

509
00:28:21,760 --> 00:28:24,040
disappointment. 
And then this is the part that 

510
00:28:24,040 --> 00:28:28,720
you and I love. 
Ask boldly, as boldly see you 

511
00:28:28,720 --> 00:28:33,840
and I have been granted an 
audience that we can come into 

512
00:28:33,840 --> 00:28:39,400
God's throne room confident that
we will find mercy and grace in 

513
00:28:39,400 --> 00:28:43,200
our time of need. 
So we can come there knowing 

514
00:28:43,520 --> 00:28:47,920
that there is provision even if 
we don't see it yet. 

515
00:28:48,680 --> 00:28:51,200
And I think that's the in 
between time that a lot of 

516
00:28:51,200 --> 00:28:54,760
people are in. 
And when you get so acquainted 

517
00:28:56,400 --> 00:29:00,240
with disappointment in the 
season of waiting, too many 

518
00:29:00,240 --> 00:29:02,280
people castaway their 
confidence. 

519
00:29:02,680 --> 00:29:04,640
They just say it isn't happening
yet. 

520
00:29:05,000 --> 00:29:06,520
It's probably not going to 
happen at all. 

521
00:29:07,080 --> 00:29:11,800
And then they they leave behind 
often the very answers to the 

522
00:29:11,800 --> 00:29:14,920
prayers they're longing for. 
And that's when we turn to that 

523
00:29:14,920 --> 00:29:17,480
numbing, as you were saying, 
which I get it. 

524
00:29:17,480 --> 00:29:20,840
No, no discrediting anyone 
that's there because it's so 

525
00:29:21,080 --> 00:29:23,720
available when an answer feels 
so far away. 

526
00:29:24,040 --> 00:29:27,320
But I love the verses that say 
suffer with him and we've been 

527
00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:29,960
crucified with Christ. 
I don't initially love them when

528
00:29:29,960 --> 00:29:32,520
I read them, but I love them 
when I'm in that season because 

529
00:29:32,520 --> 00:29:34,920
I remember, oh, this is doing 
something. 

530
00:29:35,280 --> 00:29:37,320
And you talked about 
intercessory prayer. 

531
00:29:37,760 --> 00:29:40,760
I feel like when you go through 
those seasons, it awakens 

532
00:29:40,760 --> 00:29:42,760
something. 
You can pray those bold prayers.

533
00:29:42,760 --> 00:29:45,640
You can cry out for people 
because you know what it's been 

534
00:29:45,640 --> 00:29:47,160
like? 
You know what it's like for God 

535
00:29:47,160 --> 00:29:51,680
to show up, and it's almost 
great to have the stripping away

536
00:29:51,680 --> 00:29:53,320
of. 
Nothing else can satisfy this 

537
00:29:53,320 --> 00:29:55,040
desire. 
Nothing can heal my broken heart

538
00:29:55,040 --> 00:29:58,040
like God. 
So how did you start interceding

539
00:29:58,360 --> 00:30:01,280
for your family? 
Or maybe let me ask this, what 

540
00:30:01,280 --> 00:30:03,840
in your life shaped the way that
you interceded? 

541
00:30:04,520 --> 00:30:09,800
Yeah, I would say the word of 
God is what shaped my life and 

542
00:30:09,800 --> 00:30:15,080
and seeing seeing God be very 
faithful to watch over his word 

543
00:30:15,080 --> 00:30:18,960
to perform it. 
So not so much intercession as 

544
00:30:18,960 --> 00:30:24,200
it is I thank you Father God, 
that your word says my children 

545
00:30:24,200 --> 00:30:26,680
will be disciples taught of the 
Lord and great will be their 

546
00:30:26,680 --> 00:30:30,680
peace and undisturbed composure,
which right now that needs to be

547
00:30:30,680 --> 00:30:34,040
a promise from the book of 
Isaiah for every single parent 

548
00:30:34,200 --> 00:30:36,640
that's constantly being sent the
messaging. 

549
00:30:36,960 --> 00:30:38,680
Your children are going to be 
anxious, they're going to be 

550
00:30:38,680 --> 00:30:41,640
overcome with anxiety or you're 
going to be anxious. 

551
00:30:41,640 --> 00:30:44,760
You are going to be a slave to 
anxiety and a spirit of fear for

552
00:30:44,760 --> 00:30:46,640
the rest of your life. 
Oh wait. 

553
00:30:46,640 --> 00:30:50,240
God has not given me a spirit of
fear, but of love, power, and a 

554
00:30:50,240 --> 00:30:54,000
sound mind. 
But again, what I'm quoting is 

555
00:30:54,160 --> 00:30:58,720
scripture and it's not, it's not
a Word of Faith thing to quote 

556
00:30:58,720 --> 00:31:03,040
scripture. 
God actually says He wants us to

557
00:31:03,040 --> 00:31:06,440
speak His word. 
He wants us to speak His word to

558
00:31:06,440 --> 00:31:09,000
Him because He says it will not 
return unto Him void. 

559
00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:14,320
So that means I have to say it 
like He releases it and then I 

560
00:31:14,440 --> 00:31:19,400
echo it and my echo of his 
divine will means he's going to 

561
00:31:19,400 --> 00:31:22,400
watch over to perform it, not 
the way I want him to perform it

562
00:31:22,400 --> 00:31:25,560
the way he sees it needs to be 
performed. 

563
00:31:25,560 --> 00:31:28,600
So for my children, I didn't say
and I thank you one will be a 

564
00:31:28,600 --> 00:31:30,840
doctor and I think you one will 
be an attorney. 

565
00:31:31,080 --> 00:31:35,400
And I thank you that the I've 
tried to pray the word of God 

566
00:31:35,400 --> 00:31:39,640
and createspace for them, but 
not specifics. 

567
00:31:40,000 --> 00:31:44,200
And so I feel like right now, 
too many of us, we pray, we pray

568
00:31:44,200 --> 00:31:50,960
small and God's like pray big, 
pray, pray a wide open space and

569
00:31:50,960 --> 00:31:55,000
not so much specifics unless God
has told you to specifically 

570
00:31:55,000 --> 00:31:59,760
pray for a specific area of your
life or your marriage or 

571
00:31:59,760 --> 00:32:03,080
whatever is going on. 
But but I do feel like right now

572
00:32:03,080 --> 00:32:06,480
there needs to be bold prayers. 
I feel like the enemy has 

573
00:32:06,480 --> 00:32:10,640
intimidated, intimidated, 
intimidated, and we need to 

574
00:32:10,640 --> 00:32:14,760
actually find our voice back and
begin to speak the word of God 

575
00:32:14,760 --> 00:32:18,080
with confidence. 
You don't have to question God's

576
00:32:18,080 --> 00:32:20,760
will if you know His word. 
So what's a bold prayer? 

577
00:32:20,760 --> 00:32:22,480
Can you give an example? 
Because I heard you say 

578
00:32:22,480 --> 00:32:23,840
beginning. 
It doesn't mean you're shouting 

579
00:32:23,840 --> 00:32:26,200
from the rooftops. 
No, it's, it's, it's not, it's 

580
00:32:26,200 --> 00:32:29,400
not about, it's not about 
volume, it's about authority. 

581
00:32:29,800 --> 00:32:32,400
So I mean, we'll just go with 
the our Father. 

582
00:32:32,760 --> 00:32:35,920
You know, when it says our 
Father who art in heaven, 

583
00:32:36,400 --> 00:32:40,240
hallowed or holy is your name, 
then it says thy Kingdom come. 

584
00:32:40,280 --> 00:32:43,960
That's pretty bold. 
Thy will be done on earth as it 

585
00:32:43,960 --> 00:32:45,960
is in heaven. 
Then we're like, OK, so we've 

586
00:32:45,960 --> 00:32:52,440
just now established that we 
want God to invade earth with 

587
00:32:52,440 --> 00:32:54,920
heaven. 
And then he says, give us this 

588
00:32:54,960 --> 00:33:00,640
day, Our Daily Bread and forgive
us our debts as we forgive our 

589
00:33:00,640 --> 00:33:03,680
debtors are forgive us our sins 
as we forgive the sins of 

590
00:33:03,680 --> 00:33:05,600
others. 
That right there is another 

591
00:33:05,600 --> 00:33:09,320
like, whoa, whoa, how am I? 
How am I forgiving other people?

592
00:33:09,320 --> 00:33:12,560
Because that's the measure 
that's going to be used with me.

593
00:33:12,800 --> 00:33:14,520
And then, you know, so we've got
this part. 

594
00:33:14,520 --> 00:33:17,880
And then he says, and lead us 
not into temptation, but deliver

595
00:33:17,960 --> 00:33:21,640
us from evil. 
And then some versions go on to 

596
00:33:21,640 --> 00:33:25,200
say, for thine is the Kingdom 
and the power and the glory now 

597
00:33:25,480 --> 00:33:28,560
and forever. 
So we've got this sandwiching of

598
00:33:28,560 --> 00:33:32,800
a holy God with never ending 
dominion. 

599
00:33:33,000 --> 00:33:38,000
And that to me is one of the 
most bold invasion prayers that 

600
00:33:38,000 --> 00:33:41,200
we are saying God, we want a 
divine echo between heaven and 

601
00:33:41,200 --> 00:33:45,360
earth, earth and heaven. 
We want to walk that out in our 

602
00:33:45,360 --> 00:33:46,400
life. 
And and. 

603
00:33:46,400 --> 00:33:49,360
It doesn't have specifics, but 
it certainly creates space. 

604
00:33:50,240 --> 00:33:53,200
I love when you said in one of 
your books, when you pray 

605
00:33:53,200 --> 00:33:56,800
radical prayers, you get 
practical answers and don't pray

606
00:33:56,800 --> 00:33:59,640
for lighter burdens, pray for 
stronger backs. 

607
00:33:59,800 --> 00:34:03,520
And I'm picturing right now 
maybe the single mother that 

608
00:34:03,680 --> 00:34:06,640
says I want to intercede for my 
children, but I don't feel like 

609
00:34:06,640 --> 00:34:09,920
a prayer warrior. 
I actually feel burdened down. 

610
00:34:10,280 --> 00:34:13,719
How would you just start to 
begin to cultivate powerful 

611
00:34:13,719 --> 00:34:17,679
prayers if you're in a season of
you feel broken or you're just 

612
00:34:17,679 --> 00:34:19,400
starting to pray? 
Yes. 

613
00:34:20,239 --> 00:34:22,000
Yes, please answer that one for 
me. 

614
00:34:22,239 --> 00:34:25,080
Well, I mean, I I do want to say
there was seasons in my life 

615
00:34:25,080 --> 00:34:28,840
Christian that the only time I 
prayed really that I would say 

616
00:34:28,840 --> 00:34:32,199
were official. 
I mean, there was a prayer of 

617
00:34:32,199 --> 00:34:35,040
God, just help me get the kids 
to bed, help me get the kids 

618
00:34:35,040 --> 00:34:36,880
down. 
For the only time I prayed 

619
00:34:36,880 --> 00:34:40,199
prayers that were structured and
out loud was when I put my kids 

620
00:34:40,199 --> 00:34:42,560
to bed. 
And when I would lay in the bed 

621
00:34:42,560 --> 00:34:45,080
first thing in the morning, I'd 
be like, oh God, let me be slow 

622
00:34:45,080 --> 00:34:47,000
to speak quick, listen slow to 
wrath. 

623
00:34:47,000 --> 00:34:49,320
God, just help me, help me to be
patient. 

624
00:34:49,320 --> 00:34:52,000
Let patience have. 
It's perfect work in me today 

625
00:34:52,000 --> 00:34:54,400
before I even climbed out of the
bed. 

626
00:34:54,840 --> 00:35:01,240
But there was a season that just
praying over the sweetness of my

627
00:35:01,240 --> 00:35:04,680
children was basically all I 
did. 

628
00:35:05,720 --> 00:35:08,520
But then that season has 
something added to it. 

629
00:35:08,920 --> 00:35:11,600
And what if you don't want to 
get trapped in one season? 

630
00:35:12,120 --> 00:35:14,720
You take the strength of that 
season and you layer it with the

631
00:35:14,720 --> 00:35:16,920
next season. 
And then there started to be a 

632
00:35:16,920 --> 00:35:19,400
husband who traveled who would 
call me and say, I'm in a hotel 

633
00:35:19,400 --> 00:35:21,160
room. 
I'm really feeling discouraged. 

634
00:35:21,160 --> 00:35:24,040
Will you pray for me? 
And and so then I'm like, OK, 

635
00:35:24,040 --> 00:35:26,400
what would that feel like? 
And I'm over the phone and I'm 

636
00:35:26,400 --> 00:35:30,240
saying, all right, you know, I'm
just believing that the Spirit 

637
00:35:30,240 --> 00:35:33,000
of divine courage is going to 
come over you, that that God is 

638
00:35:33,000 --> 00:35:35,200
going to speak through you, that
you're going to go into that 

639
00:35:35,200 --> 00:35:37,040
meeting. 
And even if the enemy makes you 

640
00:35:37,040 --> 00:35:39,920
feel small right now, the Holy 
Spirit's going to show up big. 

641
00:35:40,120 --> 00:35:44,240
And I would begin to pray 
fierce, radical prayers. 

642
00:35:44,440 --> 00:35:46,680
And I didn't pray what I saw in 
the natural. 

643
00:35:46,680 --> 00:35:49,760
I prayed what I saw in my 
spirit. 

644
00:35:49,960 --> 00:35:53,520
And too many people pray 
according to their circumstances

645
00:35:54,320 --> 00:35:58,880
instead of according to God's 
will or their hope. 

646
00:35:59,480 --> 00:36:02,120
You know, I, I think, I feel 
like, and just to the mom, young

647
00:36:02,120 --> 00:36:04,920
mom out there, listen, you 
cannot pray in response to 

648
00:36:04,920 --> 00:36:07,320
culture. 
You know, if you look at all of 

649
00:36:07,320 --> 00:36:10,600
the magazines, all the things 
you're seeing on social media, 

650
00:36:10,880 --> 00:36:12,320
you're like, there's no hope for
my kids. 

651
00:36:12,320 --> 00:36:13,480
There's no hope. 
There's no hope. 

652
00:36:13,520 --> 00:36:16,320
I mean, I'm just I. 
Don't eat anything, go anywhere.

653
00:36:16,800 --> 00:36:18,920
Yeah, exactly. 
There's plastics. 

654
00:36:18,920 --> 00:36:20,040
They're putting stuff in the 
air. 

655
00:36:20,040 --> 00:36:22,960
Whatever is going on, you will 
be overwhelmed. 

656
00:36:23,400 --> 00:36:28,000
Do not allow culture to form 
your prayers. 

657
00:36:28,360 --> 00:36:32,440
Allow scripture to form your 
prayers. 

658
00:36:32,760 --> 00:36:35,760
Again, that's what I had to do 
with my children. 

659
00:36:35,960 --> 00:36:39,040
I didn't have anybody model it 
for me. 

660
00:36:39,240 --> 00:36:42,640
But here's the thing, you can 
actually, there's so many 

661
00:36:42,640 --> 00:36:47,320
opportunities right now to find 
scriptures to pray over your 

662
00:36:47,320 --> 00:36:51,680
children. 
For me Isaiah 54 was such a huge

663
00:36:52,000 --> 00:36:55,040
testimony that my children would
be disciples taught of the Lord 

664
00:36:55,040 --> 00:36:57,760
not to taught of their mom 
taught of the Lord and great 

665
00:36:57,760 --> 00:37:01,520
would be their peace that any 
failure on my part would if they

666
00:37:01,520 --> 00:37:06,000
would find framework in God's 
word that God spirit would make 

667
00:37:06,000 --> 00:37:10,480
up every single gap. 
Do not pray according to the 

668
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cultural fears Lift up your 
voice. 

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Believe believe that God has 
something bigger for your kids. 

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I believe, I believe we're in a 
season of crossing over from the

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oppression of people to the 
promises of God. 

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And whenever you're in that 
transition, you're going to have

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the naysayers that are going to 
say, oh, the giants in the land 

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are too big. 
They're going to overcome our 

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children. 
They're going to consume our 

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families. 
I'm going to tell you right now,

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I believe that fear is a 
horrible counselor. 

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And you can pray radical big 
prayers over yourself, over your

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life, over your marriage, over 
your children, over your 

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finances. 
You know, it's, it's even if 

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that's even a shock to me 
because they're like, oh, people

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aren't getting married because 
you just can't afford anything. 

683
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Listen, God is the God who gives
ideas. 

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He is the one that gives you the
power to create wealth that he 

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can establish his covenant with 
you. 

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So you can be like, I'm not the 
culture is not giving me the 

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power to create wealth. 
God is giving me the power to 

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create wealth so I can establish
his covenant in my life and be 

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generous to the lives of others.
So I want you to pray fierce, 

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wild prayers. 
I want you to stop praying 

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scared prayers. 
I want you to pray the kind of 

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prayers that are so bold that 
when they come out of your 

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mouth, you're like, who said 
that? 

694
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Who said that? 
But you're going to have to get 

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into the word of God and you're 
going to take the word of God 

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and the things that God 
impresses on your spirit. 

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I want you to allow those things
to be alive in you and then come

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out your mouth with boldness and
strength. 

699
00:38:49,840 --> 00:38:51,920
And I'm Christian. 
I want, I want to pray right now

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for these young girls that feel 
like they can't get pregnant. 

701
00:38:57,720 --> 00:39:03,720
So, Father, you said that 
children are your inheritance. 

702
00:39:03,720 --> 00:39:07,560
I don't care what the enemy 
tries to do. 

703
00:39:08,160 --> 00:39:09,800
You are the God of the 
supernatural. 

704
00:39:09,800 --> 00:39:12,280
You make 75 year old woman get 
pregnant. 

705
00:39:12,400 --> 00:39:15,000
Surely you can do this with 25 
year olds. 

706
00:39:15,000 --> 00:39:18,760
God, I thank you that you are 
the one that opens wombs. 

707
00:39:18,760 --> 00:39:20,320
You are the one that closes 
them. 

708
00:39:20,560 --> 00:39:26,600
And so I come against the enemy 
scheme to rob generations of 

709
00:39:26,600 --> 00:39:31,440
legacy, to rob disciples. 
I speak to wombs. 

710
00:39:31,440 --> 00:39:35,680
I speak to the seed and man. 
I speak to the wombs of women 

711
00:39:36,160 --> 00:39:40,120
that they will be fertiles that 
they'll be disciples raised up 

712
00:39:40,360 --> 00:39:43,880
for signs and wonders and 
miracles and that every single 

713
00:39:43,880 --> 00:39:46,920
child that is given to these 
parents. 

714
00:39:47,080 --> 00:39:51,080
They will know that that child 
is a testimony to the 

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faithfulness of God in Jesus 
name, Amen. 

716
00:39:55,040 --> 00:39:56,680
Well, I hope this is encourage 
you. 

717
00:39:56,680 --> 00:40:00,680
We we believe in radical prayer.
We want to hear from you. 

718
00:40:00,920 --> 00:40:05,280
We want you to dive into the 
word of God and I I just hope 

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your faith is stirred right now 
and if you're in a circumstance 

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that feels overwhelming. 
I want you to know you can speak

721
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to that storm and you can use 
the word of God and say peace be

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00:40:16,720 --> 00:40:19,560
still and God, whatever you want
to get through my life through 

723
00:40:19,560 --> 00:40:22,120
this. 
Do it, but I am not going to 

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00:40:22,120 --> 00:40:25,040
allow the devil to have his way 
in my life. 

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00:40:25,520 --> 00:40:27,760
So good and we'd love to hear 
from you if you are someone 

726
00:40:27,760 --> 00:40:30,480
that's praying for something, if
you're affected by that prayer 

727
00:40:30,480 --> 00:40:34,160
and you do become pregnant 
because we hear from Lo USUA 

728
00:40:34,160 --> 00:40:36,760
2416. 
She said thank you for teaching 

729
00:40:36,760 --> 00:40:38,560
the word. 
This is truly not a time to 

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00:40:38,560 --> 00:40:41,560
wring our hands, but to hit our 
knees and contend. 

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So thank you for sharing these 
prayers. 

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We hope that they mobilize you 
and let us know if and how they 

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do. 
So if this podcast has spoken to

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00:40:53,040 --> 00:40:55,080
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