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You're very welcome to today's 
Triumph Church podcast. 

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We pray that you enjoy the 
message. 

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So this morning we're going to 
be talking about love. 

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And Pastor Bradley spoke him 
about spiritual gifts last week 

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in First Corinthians and he 
mentioned briefly that the 

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spiritual gift chapters would be
like First Corinthians 12 and 

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1st Corinthians 14. 
And God put right in the middle 

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of there First Corinthians 13, 
which we like to kind of call 

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the love chapter. 
So let's go ahead and read First

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Corinthians 13 one through 
three. 

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If I could speak with all the 
languages of earth and of 

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angels, but I didn't love 
others, I would only be a noisy 

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gong or a clanging cymbal. 
If I had the gift of prophecy 

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and I understood all of God's 
secret plans and possessed all 

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knowledge, and if I had such 
faith that I could move 

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mountains, but I did not love 
others, I would be nothing. 

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If I gave everything I had to 
the poor and even sacrificed my 

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body, I could boast about it, 
but if I didn't love others, I 

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would have gained nothing. 
Love has so many definitions, 

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and like other aspects of the 
English language, the word love 

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is complicated. 
I think in a general sense, we 

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throw out that term and we 
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But a lot of other languages 
have several different words for

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love. 
So this morning I'm going to go 

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through a few different things. 
First, we're going to talk about

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the different kinds of love. 
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about the greatest commandment, 
and then we're going to talk 

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about what it means to walk in 
love. 

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There were four primary Greek 
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written that you'll find. 
So I'm just going to go over a 

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couple of those. 
The first one was Eros. 

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It's a Greek term for sexual 
love, and it's where we get the 

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word erotic. 
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to, you know, satisfying your 
impulses, your cravings. 

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It also shares the root word 
with areo, which means to beg, 

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ask or demand. 
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form of love and it is only 
thinks about it what it's itself

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and only thinks about fulfilling
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This is not the type of love 
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aspire to. 
There is a better way then we 

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have stare go and this word 
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love that exists between parents
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It also is can be translated 
devotion and like a God, like a 

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dog's love for his owner or like
as if you might love your 

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country. 
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Testament I found in Second 
Timothy 33 where the apostle 

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Paul says people in the last 
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affection. 
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And it's used to describe 
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devoted to each other and like 
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Phileo is the third Greek word 
for love, which describes 

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affection between boyfriend and 
girlfriend, could even be 

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husband and wife. 
It could be between two best 

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friends. 
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basically you realize you're 
compatible, you're well matched.

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It is a higher form of love than
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not as high as agape because 
phileo love is based on mutual 

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satisfaction, and if somebody 
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that love can be lost. 
Then we have agape, the fourth 

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word for love, used in the 1st 
century Greek language, and it 

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is used to describe the love of 
God, which is the highest level 

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of love known. 
There is no love higher or finer

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or more excellent than the agape
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And there's a lot of words to 
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Also found as I was researching 
that that's it was very hard for

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translators to translate in so 
many different areas because it 

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has so many different meanings 
kind of tied to it. 

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So agape love occurs when an 
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understands, or appreciates the 
value of an object or person, 

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causing the viewer to behold 
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esteem, awe and admiration, 
wonder and sincere appreciation.

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Such a great respect is awakened
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the object or person it's 
beholding that it's compelled to

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love it. 
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person or object is so strong 
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The greatest display of agape in
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the words of Jesus recorded in 
John 316 for God so loved the 

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world that he gave his only 
begotten son that whoever 

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believes in him would not perish
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This is the love that God had 
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Pastor Bradley often talks about
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It's his favorite verse where it
says God so rich in his mercy 

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and because because of in an 
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intense love for us and it goes 
on to describe that Jesus came 

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and died for us. 
He had to satisfy this a massive

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intense love for you and I and 
you know, we are our own worst 

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critics and we can even look 
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really God, what do you see 
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He sees something so amazing and
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Well, he sees himself because 
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God. 
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captive by sin and Satan, the 
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so deeply that he had to do 
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So the agape love, it knows no 
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In Ephesians 318 it says, may 
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understand, as all God's people 
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long, how high, and how deep his
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This is very hard for us to 
comprehend sometimes, but we'll 

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keep going and hopefully we'll 
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it. 
So, but the God kind of love it,

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it brings one to action. 
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you can feel it and that's good,
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that. 
It's more than that and and 

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loving people and loving 
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It's a decision that we make. 
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with the self seeking love. 
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limited to your family or 
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And then Phileo is based on 
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satisfaction, which can be 
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But Agape is a love that has no 
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It's not looking for what it can
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it can give. 
It's in awe of the one who is 

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loved. 
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You're so that feeling of love, 
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love on someone else. 
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and God loved mankind without 
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When you love with such a pure 
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return. 
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let down by the response of the 
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hard for us to say that we can 
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Agape is that highest level of 
love, so the greatest 

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commandment that Jesus gave us. 
Now let's talk about the 

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covenant for a minute. 
And I've had some people ask me 

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about the nation of Israel 
recently and about the Jewish 

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people and about what's the 
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And as we as Christians, how are
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nation of Israel and how we're 
supposed to feel about Jewish 

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people? 
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anything political here, but I 
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bit of the history there. 
So, you know, we have Adam and 

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Eve and then they send and 
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Basically, there's just a 
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God cannot be where sin is. 
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that relationship. 
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we see with Cain and Abel, 
they're both sacrificing, one 

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out of what he feels like his 
duty, one out of love in his 

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heart for God. 
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Abel. 
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humanity. 
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where he has one family left 
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because it's gotten so bad. 
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we have Abraham. 
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listening. 
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listens, someone he can talk to,
someone he can connect with, and

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he's connecting with Abraham. 
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let's move. 
Let's get you out of this place 

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around your other family, around
your what you know is 

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comfortable. 
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And so he follows him and he 
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God desires a relationship with 
us, so Abraham, and then we have

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Isaac, and then we have Jacob 
and then we have his sons, which

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then turned into the nation of 
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And throughout the Bible you can
see where people were grafted in

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that weren't of that nation. 
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people could become part of the 
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But what set them apart was they
got divine instructions from God

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and they followed them. 
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They believed in him. 
What's kind of cool is the story

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of Rahab when they went, you 
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and she said, we heard about 
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But she said, I didn't just hear
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And that's why she was saved in 
her whole family, because she 

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believed in God. 
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can be grafted in just like Ruth
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the in the Bible. 
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Moses, Moses got the 10 
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right? 
And it's funny us as human 

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beings, because there's this 
side of us that wants to be told

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what to do. 
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us. 
Don't tell me what to do, right?

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But then there's this times when
you're just like, will somebody 

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just tell me how this works? 
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exactly what I need to do from A
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It's like raising children, 
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It's like, where's the manual? 
Just tell me how I'm supposed to

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do it. 
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before what Jesus did, we 
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the inside of us. 
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upon people and speak through 
people that were set apart to 

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hear from him like the prophets.
And so we got the 10 

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commandments, kind of basic, 
some things that probably are, 

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you know, your heart, it's going
to condemn you about don't kill,

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don't steal, honor your father 
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somebody else has. 
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instructions. 
Then there's a lot more to the 

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law, and it's something I told 
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It's like the law. 
It's like me telling you to look

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both ways when you cross the 
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You would think that my child 
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like, mom's making me look both 
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This is so stupid. 
I just want to walk across the 

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street if I want to, right? 
Well, I'm telling my kids to 

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look both ways before they cross
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And all these things in the law 
were further protection, you 

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know, in the dark ages when 
people are eating on pewter and 

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dying, not the Jews because they
had the law and the law said 

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don't eat on mixed metals. 
They had the law that saved them

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from things before science even 
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It's amazing. 
God's word is amazing. 

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And everything he's does is for 
us and for you and I to bring us

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closer to Him to help us through
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So I'm getting a little off 
track here, but we have those 

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commandments and it doesn't mean
you do away with all the things 

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like even in America, because 
maybe there's a higher 

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population of Jewish people, but
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section. 
So all the food's prepared. 

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The way the Israelites would 
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want it prepared. 
So anyway, you go in to Matthew 

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2236 through 40 and they said, 
teacher, what is the most 

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important commandment in the law
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And Jesus replied, love the Lord
your God with all your heart, 

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all your soul, and all your 
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This is the first and greatest 
commandment and the second is 

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equally important, that we're to
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The entire law and all the 
demands of the prophets hang on 

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these two commandments. 
John 1334 through 35 says so now

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I'm giving you a new covenant. 
Love each other just as I have 

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loved you. 
You should love each other, and 

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your love for one another will 
prove that you're my disciples. 

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If there was an investigator 
around here, would they find 

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love between us? 
Could could they prove our love 

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for one another? 
Would they know us by our love 

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for one another? 
So Jesus fulfilled the law. 

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And what's really remarkable is 
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on the inside of us. 
He changes us from the inside 

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out. 
So the children of Israel had to

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be led by the fire by night and 
by the cloud by day. 

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But we can be led by the Holy 
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So we have this law of love. 
They didn't have what we have, 

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so they leaned a little heavier 
on the exact things. 

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Don't kill. 
OK, Wait, got to remember that 

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one, You know, Don't want what 
my neighbor has. 

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OK, I'm happy with what I have, 
you know, And it's not like 

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those aren't good things to look
at, But if we're loving, then 

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those things are fulfilled. 
So now in well, and Romans 13 

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kind of says the same thing. 
I mean, there's so many 

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scriptures about love where he 
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He talks about the 10 
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He says you must not commit 
adultery. 

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You must not murder, you must 
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These and other such 
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the one love your neighbor as 
yourself. 

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Love does no wrong to others. 
Love fulfills the requirements 

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of God's law. 
And Ezekiel and Jeremiah wrote 

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about the new covenant. 
They wrote about it yesterday. 

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If you have the Bible app, it 
was the verse of the day. 

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And Ezekiel 3626 says I will 
give you a new heart and I will 

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put a new spirit in you. 
I will take out your Stony, 

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stubborn heart and give you a 
tender, responsive heart. 

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Hebrews 8 talks about doing away
with the old covenant and 

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bringing in this new covenant 
through Jesus. 

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So loving our neighbor as our 
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Is that even possible? 
Can we do it? 

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But it's just like what Ezekiel 
says, we can because we have 

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been born again in God's spirit.
Basically that born again is our

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spirit is reborn with the life 
of God on the inside of us. 

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So as believers, we are called 
to walk in agape love. 

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When you walk in the Spirit, you
will not gratify the selfish 

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cravings of your flesh. 
And Galatians 516 says walk in 

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the spirit and you won't fulfill
the lust of the flesh. 

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Now I chose the new King James 
Version. 

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You can put up Galatians 516 and
then we're going to do Ephesians

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2. 
I don't know if you can see 

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those. 
And in the new King James 

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Version, it uses the word walk 
and they translate it a little 

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differently in different 
translations because it's the 

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word walk in maybe isn't 
something that we kind of a term

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we use. 
I'm going to go into the 

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definition of walk. 
That Greek word is called Perry,

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pateo. 
It's 2 words Perry and pateo. 

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So Perry means to go around or 
encircling and then pateo means 

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to walk. 
So it's not just simply walking,

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but it's walking the same route 
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So it's a habit. 
So we're supposed to walk in the

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Spirit. 
We're supposed to habitually 

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walk in love. 
So Galatians 516 says walk in 

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the spirit, you won't fulfill 
the lust of the flesh. 

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And Ephesians 52 says that if we
walk in love as Christ has also 

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loved us and given himself for 
us an offering and a sacrifice 

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to God for a sweet smelling 
aroma. 

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So this is not something we do 
occasionally, just every now and

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then, just when I wake up on the
right side of the bed. 

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It's supposed to be something 
that we habitually do Rick 

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Renner is somebody that I follow
and study after and he is making

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his own version of of the Bible,
his own translation, and he 

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likes to dive into and then he 
studies also cultural aspects 

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around the words and things like
that. 

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So his version of Galatians 516 
is really cool and I thought I 

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would read it to you. 
It says make the path of the 

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spirit, the place where you 
habitually live and walk. 

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Become so comfortable in the 
spiritual path that you learn to

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leisurely and peacefully stroll 
along in that realm. 

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So agape love is love with no 
strings attached. 

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It's not looking for what it can
get when we're walking in the 

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spirit. 
Galatians 522 through 23 says 

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the Holy Spirit produces the 
this kind of fruit in our lives.

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So when we're walking and the 
first fruit is what love, 

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Lovejoy, peace, patience, 
kindness, goodness, gentleness, 

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self-control. 
So when we love with a pure 

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love, the agape love, we don't 
expect anything in return. 

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It's impossible to feel hurt or 
let down by people if we're 

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walking in love. 1 John 314 says
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If we love our brothers and 
sisters who are believers, it 

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proves that we have passed from 
death to life. 

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But a person who has no love is 
still dead. 

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And verse 16 says we know what 
real love is because Jesus gave 

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up his life for us, so we ought 
to give up our lives for our 

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brothers and sisters. 
Galatians 220 says My old self 

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has been crucified with Christ, 
so it's no longer I who live, 

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but Christ who lives in me. 
So I live in this earthly body 

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trusting in the Son of God who 
loved me and gave himself for 

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me. 
Romans 611 says so you should 

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also consider yourselves to be 
dead to the power of sin and 

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alive through Christ Jesus. 
So my dad is a funny guy, but 

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and he, he explained this to me 
and we talked, we would talk 

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about this and if I ever was so 
upset about something that 

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somebody did or said to me, he 
would say, well, just not dead 

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enough yet. 
Thanks Dad, appreciate that. 

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But he was right. 
The Lord brings that to 

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remembrance from time to time 
because let's face it, you know 

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that saying. 
I'm sure you guys might have 

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heard the saying before, sticks 
and stones can break my bones, 

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but words can never hurt me. 
Anybody know that phrase? 

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Well, obviously it's not true 
because words can hurt and 

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things can really, really hurt 
us. 

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But if you're walking in the 
Spirit, if you're walking in 

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love, if you've truly been 
crucified with Christ, well, 

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it's no longer I who live, but 
Christ who lives in me. 

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What can you do to me? 
What can you do? 

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And I can choose to love. 
I can choose to walk in love. 

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Now this takes crucifying the 
flesh. 

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This does take you doing 
something. 

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And this does take you putting 
your flesh under, because your 

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flesh is going to want to 
retaliate. 

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Your flesh is going to want to 
react. 

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Your flesh is going to want to 
feel something and act on those 

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feelings, but they aren't. 
It's not the way that God wants 

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you to act. 
The apostle John explains the 

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role of agape in our life. 1 
John 318 in the amplified says, 

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little children, believers or 
dear ones, let us not love 

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merely in theory, with word or 
tongue, giving up lip service to

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compassion, but in action, in 
truth, in practice, in 

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sincerity, because practical 
acts of love are more than 

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words. 
Love does something through 

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God's grace and through His 
ability in our life. 

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We can love the way He's asked 
us to love. 

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Now let's read First Corinthians
13 verses 4 through 7. 

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And then I just kind of tapped 
in 8A, the first part of eight, 

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because this would be something 
that would be great. 

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I challenge you to read every 
single day. 

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How about we make that a 
challenge? 

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We read First Corinthians 13 
verses 4 through 7 every single 

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day this week. 
See how maybe it helps you 

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change your love walk. 
Love endures long and is patient

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and kind. 
Actually, you know what? 

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Why don't you repeat after me? 
Let's do that, OK? 

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Ready. 
Love endures. 

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Oh, this is a different version.
Oh, they don't have amplified 

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classic. 
Amplified Classic's so much 

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better. 
OK, just repeat after me. 

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Love endures long and is patient
and kind. 

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Love is never envious, never 
boils over with jealousy. 

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Even though my daughter's on a 
cruise right now and I really 

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wish I could be there. 
Not jealous, OK. 

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It's not boastful or 
vainglorious, Does not display 

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itself haughtily. 
It's not conceited, arrogant or 

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inflated with pride. 
It's not rude, unmannerly. 

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It does not act unbecomingly. 
Love, God's love in US, does not

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insist on its own rights or its 
own way. 

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It's not self seeking. 
It's not touchy or fretful or 

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resentful. 
It takes no account of the evil 

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done to it, and it pays no 
attention to a suffered wrong. 

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It does not rejoice at injustice
or unrighteousness, but it 

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rejoices when right and truth 
prevail. 

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Amen. 
Love, hold on. 

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We're not done yet. 
Love bears up under anything and

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everything that comes. 
It's ready to believe the best 

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in every person. 
Its hopes are fadeless under all

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circumstances. 
OK, we're almost done. 

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You can do this. 
It endures everything without 

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weakening. 
Love never fails, never fades 

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out, becomes obsolete, or comes 
to an end. 

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Now what if we read that every 
day this week? 

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It's going to help, right? 
It's going to help because we 

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all live in this flesh and we 
all have a mind that needs to be

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renewed and we need to remember 
that God's love has been shed 

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abroad in our hearts. 
You can do it. 

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You have the ability to do it 
now. 

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Ephesians 432 says be kind and 
tenderhearted, forgiving one 

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another even as God Forgives. 
So really I just thought I would

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tack this in there because 
forgiveness and love kind of go 

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hand in hand. 
And how can we forgive as God 

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Forgives? 
How does God forgive? 

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Well, actually the word of God 
tells us, God said, I, I blot 

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out your transgressions and I 
will not remember your sin. 

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That's how we forgive. 
Just like in First Corinthians 

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16, it says takes no record of a
suffered wrong. 

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So we're not supposed to remind 
our spouse of what they did last

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week that really bugged us. 
We're supposed to forgive them. 

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I remember having this lady come
to me and it was about her 

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mother-in-law and she, she 
reiterated the story over and 

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over again. 
And she's like, I just don't 

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know if I can forgive her. 
And I said you can and I'm going

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to challenge you in this because
I could just, I just knew by the

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Holy Spirit, I said, you need to
not tell that story again. 

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You don't want to tell the 
stories of people. 

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Love covers a multitude of sin. 
Love covers because the grace 

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and mercy of God is enough to 
reach that person and cleanse 

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them from all unrighteousness 
too. 

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And you can't go on a go on 
around telling what somebody 

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else did to you. 
If you've truly forgiven them. 

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You have to stop talking about 
it. 

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You have to stop talking about 
it. 

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And so obviously the enemy is 
going to bring things to your 

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remembrance and you will 
remember. 

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But you just have to say, no 
devil I dealt with that. 

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I forgave them of that. 
You can take those thoughts 

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captive. 
Mark 1125. 

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Pastor Brad brought this up last
week. 

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You know, Mark 1123, if you say 
to this mountain be removed and 

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be cast into the sea and not 
doubt, you'll have what you say.

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But what does the next verse say
when you stand praying? 

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Forgive, forgive. 
And a lot of reasons why our 

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prayers aren't getting answered 
might be because we're not 

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walking in love. 
Might be because we're harboring

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unforgiveness. 
And it's like the thing that 

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clogs up the pipe or the drain, 
that connection between you and 

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God, that unforgiveness turns to
bitterness and it just stops the

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flow of the Spirit in your life.
1 John 314 to 15 says we know 

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that we've passed out of death 
into life because we love the 

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brothers and sisters. 
He who does not love remains in 

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spiritual death. 
And everyone who hates works 

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against his brother in Christ 
and is at heart a murderer by 

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God's standards. 
And you know that no murderer 

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has eternal life abiding in him.
And I just want to challenge you

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today. 
Really, the word hate should not

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be in our vocabulary and I've 
heard even other Christians, oh,

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I hate this or I hate them or I 
hate that. 

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And it's like, no, hold on. 
We can hate the enemy, we can 

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hate Satan, we hate the devil, 
but we have to be careful how we

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talk about God's creation. 
Now, this does not mean 

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accepting and being a doormat 
for people to walk all over. 

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You understand Well, I it is it 
is a challenge and how we and 

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how maybe how we understand how 
to love people. 

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But we shouldn't use I don't 
think we should use the word 

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hate. 
We do have to crucify the flesh 

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and the Bible says that our 
faith works by love. 

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So one Peter 3 verses 8 through 
9 says finally all of you should

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be of one mind, sympathize with 
each other, love one another as 

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brothers and sisters, be tender 
hearted, keep a humble attitude.

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Don't repay evil for evil. 
Don't retaliate with insults 

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when people insult you. 
Instead pay them back with a 

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blessing. 
That's what God has called you 

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to do. 
I got somebody a gift basket 

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00:32:39,840 --> 00:32:44,240
once. 
They treated us horribly. 

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00:32:46,160 --> 00:32:51,040
It was terrible and it was kind 
of a parting of ways situation. 

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I just got them big old gift 
basket, filled it with tons of 

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stuff. 
I said, I'm just this is my way.

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I'm going to love you and gave 
it to him. 

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And so, you know, whatever you 
feel like maybe you need to do, 

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but do good. 
You know, he says love your 

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enemies and do good to those who
hate you. 

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But Jesus remarked on how he 
could forgive those who 

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persecuted him when he was on 
the cross. 

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Remember, he said, forgive them,
Lord, because they don't know 

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what they're doing. 
And a lot of times people just 

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don't know what they're doing. 
I don't. 

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I mean, OK, maybe in some cases,
but people don't go around 

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trying to be horrible and 
hurtful and mean. 

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And a lot of times we know that 
hurting people hurt people. 

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And so we know we don't wrestle 
with flesh and blood. 

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Just like that situation that I 
was in, it was not a flesh and 

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blood situation and I could tell
it was a spiritual situation. 

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And that's how you deal with 
situations in the Spirit. 

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You know, we are all created by 
God with a purpose and a 

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destiny. 
And we have to surrender our 

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00:34:05,680 --> 00:34:09,760
lives. 
We have to crucify our flesh. 

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Believing in God is not just, 
it's not enough. 

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The demons believe. 
The Bible says the demons 

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believe and they tremble. 
But what sets us apart because 

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we put ourselves under the 
Lordship of Jesus Christ because

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we serve him, because we say not
my will, but your will be done 

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in my life, Lord, not what I 
want to do, but what do you want

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me to do? 
That's the earmark of a true 

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Christian. 
So I want to try to tackle, you 

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know, loving people who maybe 
aren't lovable. 

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We aren't supposed to have close
fellowship with people that are 

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in darkness. 
And John Adams said facts are 

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stubborn things, but the truth 
cuts to the heart of the matter.

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And the truth is that if you 
serve the Lord your God, if you 

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love him with all your heart, 
like he said, and you love 

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others, then you're in the 
Kingdom of light. 

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You're in God's Kingdom. 
But if you don't, there's only 

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two kingdoms. 
I'm not trying to be mean or 

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something, but there's the 
Kingdom of light and there's the

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Kingdom of darkness, and there 
are those who don't believe. 

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There are those who are not, are
walking in darkness. 

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And so we are not supposed to be
yoked with unbelievers. 

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There's a second Corinthians 614
says don't be unequally bound 

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together with unbelievers. 
Don't make mismatched alliances 

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00:35:43,320 --> 00:35:46,400
with them inconsistent with your
faith. 

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For what partnership can 
righteousness have with 

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lawlessness or what fellowship 
can light have with darkness? 

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So it's kind of like I explained
to my children, like a bull's 

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eye. 
And you have at the center your 

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00:36:01,320 --> 00:36:06,480
core beliefs, your, you believe 
in God, your values and all of 

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those things. 
The people that you let in your 

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00:36:09,120 --> 00:36:12,000
inner circle, the people that 
you do life with every day that 

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00:36:12,000 --> 00:36:16,040
you open up your heart to, those
people should have your same 

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00:36:16,040 --> 00:36:19,040
core beliefs. 
They should be, you should be 

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00:36:19,040 --> 00:36:22,920
united in that there's going to 
be people on the outside of that

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00:36:22,920 --> 00:36:26,040
ring that you can hang out with 
that you, it's not like we're 

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00:36:26,160 --> 00:36:28,600
asking you to be in a bubble and
you don't have anything to do 

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with the world. 
Of course not. 

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We're supposed to be a light to 
the world, but we're supposed to

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be the influencers, not them be 
the influenced, right? 

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And so when we are yoked 
together, like just imagine 

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00:36:42,920 --> 00:36:45,840
you're going to do a business 
venture, you're going to go into

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00:36:45,840 --> 00:36:49,480
business with somebody. 
Well, a lot of Christians have 

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00:36:49,480 --> 00:36:52,360
found themselves in a lot of 
trouble because they went into 

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00:36:52,360 --> 00:36:54,600
business with someone who wasn't
a believer. 

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Relationships. 
This is a big one. 

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And a lot, there's a lot of 
Christians who are like, well, 

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00:37:02,080 --> 00:37:04,840
you know, they are, they're OK 
with me going to church. 

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00:37:05,880 --> 00:37:09,640
Well, yeah, but the Bible says 
we're not supposed to yoke 

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ourselves together with 
unbelievers. 

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And there's a, there's a, 
there's a definite reason for 

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00:37:14,760 --> 00:37:19,040
that. 
However, a lot of times too, 

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00:37:19,440 --> 00:37:23,720
people have a hard time loving 
people who aren't like them. 

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And what does that look like? 
You know, the church for a long 

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00:37:27,520 --> 00:37:32,920
time had a hard time with the 
unwed mother, let's just say. 

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And well, I mean, we can go back
to the scarlet letter, right? 

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Or whatever. 
And and then if I feel like the 

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00:37:43,720 --> 00:37:46,920
church kind of got more 
comfortable with that and 

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00:37:46,920 --> 00:37:49,200
learned how to love people 
through that. 

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00:37:49,760 --> 00:37:54,680
And now, you know, there's, you 
know, we have the LGBTQ movement

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00:37:54,680 --> 00:37:59,920
and different things. 
I mean, I will just say sin, a 

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00:37:59,920 --> 00:38:05,920
sin, some sins have different 
consequences than others. 

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So we shouldn't stand over there
like Jesus said and point out 

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the speck in somebody else's 
eye. 

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00:38:12,640 --> 00:38:17,280
Well, we have a giant plank in 
our own, but sexual sin does 

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00:38:17,280 --> 00:38:22,600
have more repercussions to it. 
I mean, it's soul ties. 

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00:38:22,760 --> 00:38:27,400
It's Jesus says you become one 
with that person. 

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You might want to be careful who
you become one with. 

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00:38:31,600 --> 00:38:35,120
And look, you know, we've all 
made mistakes and we've all been

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00:38:35,120 --> 00:38:37,160
there. 
God can heal you of those soul 

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00:38:37,160 --> 00:38:39,240
ties. 
God can heal you of those things

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00:38:39,920 --> 00:38:43,040
and cleanse you and make you 
brand new as if it never 

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happened. 
So there's no condemnation for 

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00:38:46,440 --> 00:38:50,400
any of that. 
But consider how you walk with 

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00:38:50,400 --> 00:38:52,280
the Lord. 
Consider how you move forward. 

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00:38:53,160 --> 00:38:57,400
But loving people who aren't 
share. 

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00:38:57,400 --> 00:38:59,920
Don't share our core values. 
Don't share our heart. 

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Don't maybe believe like we do. 
You still love them. 

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00:39:04,680 --> 00:39:06,960
The fruit of the Spirit still 
applies. 

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00:39:07,200 --> 00:39:13,160
Lovejoy, peace, patience, 
kindness, gentleness, 

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00:39:13,520 --> 00:39:17,360
self-control. 
And they shall know us by our 

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00:39:17,360 --> 00:39:22,080
love. 
They shall know us by our love. 

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00:39:22,520 --> 00:39:27,240
I remember hearing a story about
a man, a young gay man and he 

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00:39:27,240 --> 00:39:29,760
grew up, it doesn't really 
matter, but he grew up without a

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00:39:29,760 --> 00:39:33,200
father. 
He, he was in and out of same 

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00:39:33,200 --> 00:39:36,640
sex relationships. 
But there was this one couple in

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00:39:36,640 --> 00:39:39,880
his building, his apartment 
building, and they just were 

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00:39:39,880 --> 00:39:42,880
always nice to him. 
And he was really, really sick. 

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00:39:43,680 --> 00:39:46,760
And they came and checked on him
and he was in bed and he didn't 

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00:39:46,760 --> 00:39:48,880
have anybody around. 
And they, they came and they 

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00:39:48,880 --> 00:39:51,200
brought him meals and they 
nursed him back to health. 

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And they were Christians and 
they prayed for him and they 

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00:39:55,240 --> 00:39:58,120
prayed for him and they brought 
him to church. 

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He gave his heart to Jesus and 
got married. 

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00:40:03,000 --> 00:40:05,120
And that's just the real quick 
version of it. 

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But do you see how we can love 
people? 

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That doesn't mean we're putting 
our stamp of approval on 

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00:40:11,440 --> 00:40:16,920
everything that they do. 
But we can love people and, and 

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00:40:16,920 --> 00:40:19,880
show them the love of God 
because the love of God leads us

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00:40:19,880 --> 00:40:24,080
to repentance, doesn't it? 
So I just thought I would, I 

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00:40:24,080 --> 00:40:28,360
would throw that in there. 
You know, redemption is a 

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00:40:28,360 --> 00:40:33,600
beautiful thing. 
It's so wonderful to to see that

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00:40:33,600 --> 00:40:37,320
we all have that in our own 
lives and to see it and see 

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00:40:37,320 --> 00:40:42,240
people the way God sees them. 
You know when I first started 

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00:40:42,240 --> 00:40:48,120
off that description of love? 
When you see and recognize and 

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00:40:48,120 --> 00:40:54,440
understand and appreciate the 
value of a person beholding that

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00:40:54,440 --> 00:40:58,280
person with great esteem, awe, 
admiration, wonder, and sincere 

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00:40:58,280 --> 00:41:04,240
appreciation, such great respect
is awakened in the heart of the 

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00:41:04,240 --> 00:41:07,120
observer for that person that 
they're beholding, that they're 

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00:41:07,120 --> 00:41:12,720
compelled to love it. 
And though it may be a challenge

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00:41:12,720 --> 00:41:17,920
to see people that way all the 
time, especially when confronted

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00:41:17,920 --> 00:41:23,720
with ugliness or different 
behavior, and it's a challenge 

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00:41:23,720 --> 00:41:27,800
for us, isn't it, To see people 
the way God sees them? 

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Because every single life was 
created by Him. 

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00:41:31,320 --> 00:41:34,000
Every single life has a purpose 
and a destiny. 

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00:41:35,480 --> 00:41:41,200
Every single person deserves 
that love and has been given 

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00:41:41,200 --> 00:41:47,360
that love by God, regardless of 
whether they choose to respond 

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00:41:47,360 --> 00:41:50,120
to it or not. 
So let's pray. 

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00:41:55,800 --> 00:41:58,400
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00:41:58,640 --> 00:42:03,240
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