1 00:00:00,220 --> 00:00:01,920 Hello everyone. Welcome to another episode of 2 00:00:01,930 --> 00:00:03,150 Teaching with Pete. My name is Dylan. 3 00:00:03,160 --> 00:00:06,540 And my name is Hayden and we're gonna do then head bobbing in 4 00:00:06,550 --> 00:00:09,600 the Barber in the Barber in the Bob the whole podcast like this 5 00:00:09,610 --> 00:00:12,610 where we say random words and. Yes, I reckon our audience is 6 00:00:12,620 --> 00:00:14,910 riveted. Ohh, look at that retention drop 7 00:00:14,920 --> 00:00:17,160 off after the 1st 10 seconds. They're all clicked away. 8 00:00:17,240 --> 00:00:18,640 Imagine if this was your first episode. 9 00:00:18,650 --> 00:00:23,100 You clicked on this podcast. Yeah, they're really insightful. 10 00:00:23,110 --> 00:00:27,910 Serious. Take, take education, Saw that, 11 00:00:27,920 --> 00:00:29,500 Tasmanian. Devil, remember that? 12 00:00:29,510 --> 00:00:31,050 Yeah. Lemony Fresh. 13 00:00:31,240 --> 00:00:32,540 They'll remember that was it from. 14 00:00:32,549 --> 00:00:35,410 Come on, if you know that's writing, Please God, I used to 15 00:00:35,420 --> 00:00:37,350 do really impression of tax, but I don't know if I can now. 16 00:00:37,390 --> 00:00:47,900 Go on, right Ohh. You sound like something else, 17 00:00:47,910 --> 00:00:49,780 not ours. Ohh. 18 00:00:49,790 --> 00:00:51,400 I don't know. Anyway, guys, welcome back this 19 00:00:51,410 --> 00:00:53,150 Season 2 Episode 5. Yep. 20 00:00:53,410 --> 00:00:57,110 And how's your weekend? Yeah. 21 00:00:57,120 --> 00:00:58,920 It's good to look at my notes again, though. 22 00:00:59,940 --> 00:01:02,580 Change to Hayden yourself. Hayden how was your week? 23 00:01:02,630 --> 00:01:05,280 Hayden Brain by me, my week was. Good. 24 00:01:05,290 --> 00:01:07,130 I'm like Biden. They're saying that they got 25 00:01:07,140 --> 00:01:09,490 that clip of his notes where it's just they've written for 26 00:01:09,500 --> 00:01:12,460 him exactly what say address audience with a clap. 27 00:01:13,890 --> 00:01:15,500 But he says what he's meant to do. 28 00:01:15,570 --> 00:01:17,060 Yeah he didn't. He got caught up on time, 29 00:01:17,070 --> 00:01:19,880 remember that was a different time, but recently his notes got 30 00:01:19,890 --> 00:01:22,290 like flicked to the camera. They turned them and they and 31 00:01:22,300 --> 00:01:25,660 they just zoomed in picture of all his notes and they were 32 00:01:25,670 --> 00:01:27,100 saying look how controlled he is. 33 00:01:27,150 --> 00:01:29,310 It's such a shame. I feel really bad because 34 00:01:29,320 --> 00:01:32,600 obviously I dislike Trump as an as much as the next guy, right? 35 00:01:32,640 --> 00:01:36,740 But how can the biggest democracy in the world boil down 36 00:01:36,750 --> 00:01:39,320 to Biden versus Trump? Yeah, like what is? 37 00:01:39,330 --> 00:01:42,520 Going on and ohh God, who's the guy who keeps freezing? 38 00:01:42,750 --> 00:01:44,050 Ohh. Mitch McConnell. 39 00:01:44,060 --> 00:01:46,220 Mitch McConnell. Just going on, America. 40 00:01:46,570 --> 00:01:48,320 What's going on, America? Meme, right? 41 00:01:48,330 --> 00:01:49,560 Yeah, and it just keeps cutting them. 42 00:01:49,570 --> 00:01:51,100 It's happened three times. It happened again. 43 00:01:51,110 --> 00:01:55,210 Like yesterday, the day before. Something again, you know, 44 00:01:55,220 --> 00:01:56,810 Anyway, we're getting, we're getting political. 45 00:01:57,110 --> 00:02:00,640 I don't even want to. So it's time you had a headache, 46 00:02:00,650 --> 00:02:05,210 remember? Oh my Here we go. 47 00:02:06,800 --> 00:02:08,660 Sounds so pathetic. What? 48 00:02:08,699 --> 00:02:12,380 What was the dog prognosis? At the end, it was a hemiplegic 49 00:02:12,390 --> 00:02:16,110 migraine. It was a headache 8 away from 50 00:02:16,120 --> 00:02:17,050 ever scared. You. 51 00:02:17,060 --> 00:02:19,610 Yeah, everyone thought a stroke, including me. 52 00:02:21,280 --> 00:02:23,660 I thought I was like, oh, this is what I was stroking. 53 00:02:24,240 --> 00:02:27,190 Ohh, we can't laugh about that. It's funny now. 54 00:02:27,500 --> 00:02:29,610 We're laughing because I didn't. Because it wasn't me. 55 00:02:29,680 --> 00:02:32,150 And I thought I was Ohh actually, after all those tests 56 00:02:32,160 --> 00:02:34,280 and not worry of everyone who ever knew you, I was there 57 00:02:34,290 --> 00:02:37,130 thinking, God, he's gone. But I do get the whole business. 58 00:02:39,670 --> 00:02:40,970 Wow. That's what teaching does to 59 00:02:40,980 --> 00:02:43,370 you, by the way. This is what? 60 00:02:43,380 --> 00:02:43,950 Teaching. Dusty. 61 00:02:44,320 --> 00:02:46,540 I'm joking. God, people listen to this for 62 00:02:46,550 --> 00:02:47,370 the first time. Really. 63 00:02:47,820 --> 00:02:49,600 Yeah, these guys, yeah, they're horrible. 64 00:02:49,610 --> 00:02:51,450 They talk about nothing and they mean to each other. 65 00:02:51,520 --> 00:02:53,370 No, not at all. It was it was scary. 66 00:02:53,380 --> 00:02:57,550 Long story short, I woke up one day, my face was numb, left side 67 00:02:57,560 --> 00:02:59,760 and my left arm was numb and I was like, OK, that's gonna be 68 00:02:59,770 --> 00:03:01,450 telling me. And I was like, that's. 69 00:03:01,460 --> 00:03:04,560 I know what that is. Better go to hospital. 70 00:03:04,570 --> 00:03:06,050 Yeah. And then. 71 00:03:06,100 --> 00:03:08,910 And then I lost my speech. I couldn't speak at all. 72 00:03:08,920 --> 00:03:11,510 I sounded like his Tasmanian Devil impression. 73 00:03:11,520 --> 00:03:14,250 It was, yeah, it was me. Literally. 74 00:03:14,260 --> 00:03:17,120 I sounded like this. Similar. 75 00:03:17,210 --> 00:03:20,080 I couldn't process language. It was mad, but I couldn't hear 76 00:03:20,090 --> 00:03:22,400 in my head. It was all there, yeah, and then 77 00:03:22,510 --> 00:03:23,660 it was. It was good fun. 78 00:03:23,750 --> 00:03:25,850 Crazy, crazy. Anyway, how's your? 79 00:03:25,860 --> 00:03:26,840 Week. Yeah, My week. 80 00:03:27,330 --> 00:03:29,640 This week was good. I want one thing is the joint 81 00:03:29,650 --> 00:03:30,900 story, really. But. 82 00:03:32,350 --> 00:03:36,590 So I went outside on Monday, must have been Monday. 83 00:03:36,760 --> 00:03:39,380 And a bunch of yours came from him. 84 00:03:39,390 --> 00:03:42,110 Obviously he's looking, saying again, just, yeah, I was 85 00:03:42,120 --> 00:03:43,440 actually thinking he's looking at he. 86 00:03:43,450 --> 00:03:45,760 They count to me. And they were in a line actually 87 00:03:45,770 --> 00:03:47,350 at the time. And I was walking past and they 88 00:03:47,360 --> 00:03:50,230 were like looking really excited immediately at me. 89 00:03:50,240 --> 00:03:52,890 I'm thinking, here we go. Like. 90 00:03:54,500 --> 00:03:56,800 I was like, you're right. Ohh is the price. 91 00:03:57,010 --> 00:03:58,320 Is the price. He had your number. 92 00:03:58,330 --> 00:04:00,940 You had you on the sad face. He had you on the sad face. 93 00:04:02,540 --> 00:04:05,340 Ohh did he Ohh that was really hammered out. 94 00:04:05,350 --> 00:04:08,240 And I was like did that Mister ohh he's one. 95 00:04:08,250 --> 00:04:10,390 And then one of them came in and looked, sort of leaned in, was 96 00:04:10,400 --> 00:04:13,620 like and. And we know your name. 97 00:04:13,970 --> 00:04:17,300 You told us your name. You're getting well, giddy. 98 00:04:17,390 --> 00:04:19,040 I was like, daddy, I'm going. What's he told you? 99 00:04:19,050 --> 00:04:22,280 And they were like, alright, Robert, call me Robert. 100 00:04:22,290 --> 00:04:24,460 Another story right now. Yeah, we did that classic thing. 101 00:04:24,470 --> 00:04:25,840 We do cousins and brothers, right. 102 00:04:26,050 --> 00:04:27,640 They said, what's his name? I want Bob. 103 00:04:27,690 --> 00:04:30,520 And they went, now it's not. Yes, Bob, Bob, Bob's name. 104 00:04:30,570 --> 00:04:32,590 No, it's not. And I was like, all right, fine, 105 00:04:32,600 --> 00:04:35,540 he's running Robert. We call him Bob because Bob's a 106 00:04:35,550 --> 00:04:37,900 nickname. And there would be like Robert. 107 00:04:37,910 --> 00:04:39,900 And they were brought up to you saying you're right, but then 108 00:04:39,910 --> 00:04:41,210 you tell them my name, apparently. 109 00:04:41,260 --> 00:04:42,960 Yeah, I did. So I said to them. 110 00:04:43,030 --> 00:04:44,280 I said, well, I bet you don't know his name. 111 00:04:44,290 --> 00:04:46,990 And they're like, yeah, yeah, we do his his name is Dylan. 112 00:04:47,240 --> 00:04:49,280 I was like because I just tell my children, yeah. 113 00:04:50,080 --> 00:04:53,250 And I was like, no, no, no, no. God, he's fooled another class. 114 00:04:53,310 --> 00:04:55,560 No, he's not. He tells that to kids because he 115 00:04:55,570 --> 00:04:57,390 doesn't actually want, you know, in his real name. 116 00:04:57,690 --> 00:05:01,330 They're like, genuinely, like, no, he's done us. 117 00:05:01,640 --> 00:05:02,790 But what? What is it then? 118 00:05:02,800 --> 00:05:03,870 What is it? What is it? 119 00:05:03,940 --> 00:05:07,410 I was like, come here, looking around as if you're there. 120 00:05:07,500 --> 00:05:11,740 His name is Hayden. His name's Hayden and like 121 00:05:11,790 --> 00:05:17,320 Hayden Hayden, he's come over. His actual name is Hayden. 122 00:05:17,730 --> 00:05:19,400 And they were just, yeah, so excited. 123 00:05:19,570 --> 00:05:20,760 God. Did they? 124 00:05:20,770 --> 00:05:22,400 Did they say it to you? Did they come back and say, 125 00:05:22,410 --> 00:05:24,620 yeah, yeah. And I was like, oh, that pesky 126 00:05:24,630 --> 00:05:25,680 Rob. What's he like? 127 00:05:28,530 --> 00:05:32,420 Ohh brilliant. Such a small thing, but it feels 128 00:05:32,430 --> 00:05:33,870 this makes our day so much easier. 129 00:05:33,880 --> 00:05:35,120 Doesn't even that around a little. 130 00:05:35,130 --> 00:05:36,630 It's just funny. And like we always say, the kids 131 00:05:36,640 --> 00:05:37,680 love it. It's just saying as well. 132 00:05:37,690 --> 00:05:39,480 I love those moments. Yeah, it's just nonsense. 133 00:05:39,490 --> 00:05:41,060 It's just funny. They probably went home. 134 00:05:41,130 --> 00:05:43,200 Yeah, because parents are like what you learned. 135 00:05:43,210 --> 00:05:46,080 Well, Mr Prices name is actually Hayden. 136 00:05:46,230 --> 00:05:47,460 Sorry. Yeah, but did you do science 137 00:05:47,470 --> 00:05:48,580 today? Yes, we did. 138 00:05:48,590 --> 00:05:51,440 Family trees and I can now place all the teachers at school 139 00:05:51,450 --> 00:05:54,560 somehow. Love knowing names, don't they? 140 00:05:54,570 --> 00:05:56,560 I don't care. No, I couldn't care less. 141 00:05:56,570 --> 00:05:59,580 It's my name. Yeah, it's like, yeah, I know 142 00:05:59,590 --> 00:06:02,440 your name. Yeah, Only problem is I feel bad 143 00:06:02,450 --> 00:06:05,060 about it is obviously other teachers, people have their own 144 00:06:05,070 --> 00:06:06,440 levels of strictness about names. 145 00:06:06,530 --> 00:06:10,920 And so today a kid walked past me, went Hayden and I was like, 146 00:06:10,930 --> 00:06:14,770 I don't personally care, but I was a bit like, Oh no, as if 147 00:06:14,780 --> 00:06:16,850 that's naughty and that's naughty, is it? 148 00:06:17,670 --> 00:06:19,630 It is naughty. If you set that Preston, is that 149 00:06:19,640 --> 00:06:22,560 just like a lot of bad about because you gotta be consistent. 150 00:06:23,070 --> 00:06:26,810 If someone another teacher name did that, it would just be rude, 151 00:06:26,820 --> 00:06:27,520 wouldn't it? Yeah. 152 00:06:27,530 --> 00:06:30,390 Just because we we can't, we can't decide for everyone. 153 00:06:30,400 --> 00:06:33,220 That's suddenly is not rude. Yeah, but exactly I know, which 154 00:06:33,230 --> 00:06:34,990 is why I did say that we have to teach them. 155 00:06:35,000 --> 00:06:36,850 Yeah, you know, here, Mr Stevens, thank you. 156 00:06:36,860 --> 00:06:39,030 We talked about this before. This is happened before I think 157 00:06:39,040 --> 00:06:41,140 on the podcast I mentioned. I remember in our old school, 158 00:06:41,310 --> 00:06:44,770 lovely teacher but more strictly old school, one of their 159 00:06:44,780 --> 00:06:47,930 teachers said my name in front whilst I was talking to her and 160 00:06:47,940 --> 00:06:49,780 she went. Mad one of the kids did, yeah. 161 00:06:49,790 --> 00:06:52,190 One of the one of the kids said my name and the teacher was 162 00:06:52,200 --> 00:06:54,040 like, how dare you? And this whole time I was there 163 00:06:54,050 --> 00:06:56,240 like I've I've said I've let him. 164 00:06:56,490 --> 00:06:58,980 Yeah, yeah, yeah. I don't feel bad about this. 165 00:06:58,990 --> 00:07:01,540 Sorry, sorry, kid. I had to explain to the kid 166 00:07:01,550 --> 00:07:03,620 after. I was like, This is why it's my 167 00:07:03,630 --> 00:07:04,270 fault. I'm sorry. 168 00:07:04,280 --> 00:07:06,260 And you do have to do the seven detentions. 169 00:07:07,910 --> 00:07:10,290 This is why it's my fault. And therefore I'm still blaming 170 00:07:10,300 --> 00:07:12,400 you. Because remember, when teachers 171 00:07:12,410 --> 00:07:14,630 make a mistake, I was meant. To yeah, it was a. 172 00:07:14,670 --> 00:07:16,940 It was a test. It was a test. 173 00:07:16,950 --> 00:07:18,720 It was a. Test and you failed and you 174 00:07:18,730 --> 00:07:22,700 failed kid, because you said my name another teacher that no. 175 00:07:22,710 --> 00:07:25,820 No. Dear Anyway, other than that one 176 00:07:25,830 --> 00:07:27,800 of a little story, which was quite nice, I thought I'd 177 00:07:27,810 --> 00:07:30,120 mention it. It's a boy in my class. 178 00:07:31,480 --> 00:07:33,220 A nice moment. It was lined up ready at the end 179 00:07:33,230 --> 00:07:38,670 of break and he said my brother is in Mr Price's class and he 180 00:07:38,680 --> 00:07:41,420 was genuinely really, really pleased that both him and his 181 00:07:41,430 --> 00:07:44,370 brother at the same time. We're in Milan, Yours class like 182 00:07:44,380 --> 00:07:48,260 that was like a privilege and he went and I was in Mr Price's 183 00:07:48,270 --> 00:07:50,590 class when I was in year four and it was just nice. 184 00:07:50,600 --> 00:07:53,220 The way he was saying it was. If he was like, that was like a 185 00:07:53,230 --> 00:07:54,630 great, that was a cool thing. Yeah. 186 00:07:55,210 --> 00:07:57,020 So I liked that. That was nice. 187 00:07:57,510 --> 00:07:59,750 Had a fun time. Progress was terrible, but great 188 00:07:59,760 --> 00:08:02,200 time. Everyone's nice. 189 00:08:03,910 --> 00:08:09,190 Learn how to do it. Yeah, I can't wait to clip that 190 00:08:09,200 --> 00:08:12,350 task with no context. I'm gonna post it as a real with 191 00:08:12,360 --> 00:08:14,790 no context whatsoever and just ask what the context was. 192 00:08:16,940 --> 00:08:19,130 Oh, it's you acting out Hayden's migraine this time? 193 00:08:20,570 --> 00:08:22,320 Yeah, that's Hayden asking for help. 194 00:08:23,720 --> 00:08:27,720 Myself. Anyway, you good week? 195 00:08:27,790 --> 00:08:30,030 Yeah, fine, fine. I was in singing assembly, so 196 00:08:30,040 --> 00:08:32,260 and that's the first one I've been in since the whole 197 00:08:32,390 --> 00:08:34,990 cauliflowers fluffy thing, you know that. 198 00:08:35,000 --> 00:08:36,240 You know the name of that song is. 199 00:08:36,690 --> 00:08:40,250 Cauliflowers are fluffy, no? Surely crazy because we were 200 00:08:40,260 --> 00:08:41,340 waiting. We were going through practise 201 00:08:41,350 --> 00:08:43,870 as long assembly ready for harvest festival and like the 202 00:08:43,880 --> 00:08:47,220 next song is called Paintbox And I was like this paint paint box. 203 00:08:47,310 --> 00:08:50,320 Where's the bangers at? And then she went, oh, you might 204 00:08:50,330 --> 00:08:52,300 also know as qualifiers. Fluffy and I was like excuse. 205 00:08:52,310 --> 00:08:53,510 Me. It's actually called pink called 206 00:08:53,520 --> 00:08:55,800 pink box or something like that, what I know. 207 00:08:55,950 --> 00:08:57,850 Can you believe it? I was like, just call it 208 00:08:57,860 --> 00:08:59,610 qualifier. Come on, where it it's like, 209 00:08:59,620 --> 00:09:02,530 yeah, one of those trendy, like, you know those those cool bands 210 00:09:02,540 --> 00:09:04,710 like monkeys. Ohh, yes, of course. 211 00:09:04,720 --> 00:09:06,890 Fluorescent adolescent man. But you don't say that in a 212 00:09:06,900 --> 00:09:08,500 song. Yeah, call it someone. 213 00:09:08,510 --> 00:09:11,600 Called Strawberry Ripe. Why they were called that these 214 00:09:11,610 --> 00:09:12,790 days. Yeah, it's called Water 215 00:09:12,800 --> 00:09:14,040 Minister. That's a real one. 216 00:09:15,360 --> 00:09:16,770 Check. I just made-up. 217 00:09:18,020 --> 00:09:19,470 I'm on the part of Harry Styles, right? 218 00:09:19,480 --> 00:09:23,500 There I have Photoshop to you. I have Photoshop your face on 219 00:09:23,510 --> 00:09:25,110 Harry Styles before. Maybe we can post that on this 220 00:09:25,120 --> 00:09:26,840 can be another real like Bing. There you go. 221 00:09:26,850 --> 00:09:28,550 There I am. Somewhere, maybe one day we'll 222 00:09:28,560 --> 00:09:31,080 do our quiz rounds as a yeah, so good. 223 00:09:31,090 --> 00:09:33,270 We're on Instagram, some kind of quiz rounds and questions. 224 00:09:33,280 --> 00:09:35,650 We've got a Q&A later. We are social media for Q&A. 225 00:09:35,820 --> 00:09:39,330 Some I asked for any question and they did not disappoint 226 00:09:39,340 --> 00:09:41,320 because we've got some questions that are quite cool, might 227 00:09:41,330 --> 00:09:43,370 provoke quite a bit of a chat, some questions. 228 00:09:43,780 --> 00:09:44,710 So we'll do that. Later. 229 00:09:44,720 --> 00:09:46,470 I do like that I'm in the dark of this sort of stuff because it 230 00:09:46,480 --> 00:09:48,260 makes it way more fun for me. Yes, fine. 231 00:09:48,430 --> 00:09:50,150 Just take all that hard work. I have none of the fun 232 00:09:50,260 --> 00:09:53,980 whatsoever, Sue. Anyway, seeing an assembly and I 233 00:09:53,990 --> 00:09:55,990 just had this moment. This is like, maybe, you know, 234 00:09:56,000 --> 00:09:58,440 coming away from serious now because seeing an assembly is 235 00:09:58,450 --> 00:10:02,050 objectively amazing. I I like the the sound of like 236 00:10:02,060 --> 00:10:04,640 300 kids singing. It's just nice. 237 00:10:04,650 --> 00:10:06,980 I don't know anyone who would think that's like, it's lovely 238 00:10:06,990 --> 00:10:08,480 seeing them. I'm like getting into it. 239 00:10:08,550 --> 00:10:10,780 And they had some of the kids in my class were like rocking away 240 00:10:10,790 --> 00:10:12,150 like this because they knew I was in there. 241 00:10:12,160 --> 00:10:14,260 They were looking, they were like, yeah, and they were doing 242 00:10:14,270 --> 00:10:16,760 cauliflowers, fluffy. And I was just like, yeah, go 243 00:10:16,770 --> 00:10:17,960 on. You clearly don't sit with your 244 00:10:17,970 --> 00:10:22,000 sixes like this every year that goes on in a primary school 245 00:10:22,070 --> 00:10:22,670 thing. Assembly. 246 00:10:22,680 --> 00:10:24,700 Less enthusiasm. Yeah, but Mike, they were 247 00:10:24,710 --> 00:10:26,070 rocking life. It's still cool to be in 248 00:10:26,080 --> 00:10:28,710 singing. Sound like yeah, yeah. 249 00:10:28,760 --> 00:10:30,710 And I was just the whole time thinking about you when your 250 00:10:30,720 --> 00:10:32,710 lyrics I'm right. Right. 251 00:10:32,840 --> 00:10:36,670 Anyway, but then I had a moment, I was thinking, we did another 252 00:10:36,680 --> 00:10:38,510 him, and it was just like a classic, more like a classical 253 00:10:38,520 --> 00:10:41,930 him about God. And I just thought, this is 254 00:10:41,940 --> 00:10:45,590 mental, this is mad. Like, objectively mad. 255 00:10:45,720 --> 00:10:48,400 You've got 400 kids in the room making them all. 256 00:10:48,410 --> 00:10:51,210 Seeing God is great. He's got me in his hands. 257 00:10:51,410 --> 00:10:53,520 Does he? Does he know? 258 00:10:54,830 --> 00:10:56,450 Do you believe in it? Yeah, that's fine. 259 00:10:56,460 --> 00:10:58,310 Yeah. But like even Isn't it just a 260 00:10:58,320 --> 00:11:01,010 bit weird that we make kids sing hymns about God? 261 00:11:01,060 --> 00:11:02,560 It's a bit weird. Can you imagine? 262 00:11:02,640 --> 00:11:05,310 I think my point here was I thought, OK, imagine if we 263 00:11:05,320 --> 00:11:08,640 decided to sing a him or a song from a different. 264 00:11:08,650 --> 00:11:09,840 Religion. Yeah. 265 00:11:09,880 --> 00:11:12,400 And it was just like, yeah, we were just seeing this Islamic 266 00:11:12,410 --> 00:11:13,810 him. I don't know if Islam has him. 267 00:11:13,820 --> 00:11:16,030 I don't actually know anything like enough about religion. 268 00:11:16,140 --> 00:11:18,640 But let's just imagine it was like we were reciting something 269 00:11:18,650 --> 00:11:21,620 together from like Islam. I think there would be parents 270 00:11:21,630 --> 00:11:22,980 who would have. Something to say about Yeah, of 271 00:11:22,990 --> 00:11:26,070 course they would and but when it's like even if you're an 272 00:11:26,080 --> 00:11:28,360 atheist but you sing Christian hymns like ohh he is lovely. 273 00:11:28,370 --> 00:11:31,020 It's jolly we're seeing about how God's got me in his hands. 274 00:11:31,030 --> 00:11:33,500 That must be odd, isn't it? And it was one of, like, whose 275 00:11:33,510 --> 00:11:35,600 idea was the Reign? Whose idea was the rainbow? 276 00:11:35,610 --> 00:11:37,290 No ones. It's just how light refracts. 277 00:11:37,300 --> 00:11:39,140 Yeah, like need to get you to sing about God. 278 00:11:39,150 --> 00:11:40,660 Do we? It's like, ohh always think 279 00:11:40,670 --> 00:11:43,420 about God and all these things. And I was just like, ohh like, 280 00:11:43,430 --> 00:11:45,640 it is just lovely on the surface level because I enjoy it. 281 00:11:45,650 --> 00:11:46,840 Yeah. But like, when I actually think 282 00:11:46,850 --> 00:11:49,460 about what we're getting them to sing, I'm like, that's. 283 00:11:49,470 --> 00:11:51,770 Weird, yeah. I mean I've always this is this 284 00:11:51,780 --> 00:11:54,300 is a you've opened a big conversation which I don't think 285 00:11:54,310 --> 00:11:55,590 I want to go into fully right now. 286 00:11:55,680 --> 00:11:57,810 Well but welcome to this episode guys. 287 00:11:57,820 --> 00:12:01,050 It's called religion and. Thinking I think it's a it's a 288 00:12:01,060 --> 00:12:04,140 sensitive conversation that we should have because people are 289 00:12:04,150 --> 00:12:05,540 very opinionated when it comes to begin. 290 00:12:05,550 --> 00:12:08,350 I think, by the way, I've got nothing wrong with anyone who 291 00:12:08,360 --> 00:12:09,210 believes whatever. They. 292 00:12:09,220 --> 00:12:11,550 No, I know, I know. I'm explicitly talking about. 293 00:12:11,560 --> 00:12:14,960 I think it's odd that we sing these religious songs. 294 00:12:14,970 --> 00:12:17,960 Yeah. Has but basically forced. 295 00:12:18,230 --> 00:12:20,400 Yeah. And we just kind of ignore the 296 00:12:20,410 --> 00:12:23,000 fact that it's just saying that God is real and he is looking 297 00:12:23,010 --> 00:12:24,380 after us and he's. True, yeah. 298 00:12:24,390 --> 00:12:27,020 Because I think people have usually got an opinion when it 299 00:12:27,030 --> 00:12:29,950 is, like you said, any other religion being taught in 300 00:12:29,960 --> 00:12:32,980 schools, like, in a way where it's like this is truth, right? 301 00:12:33,810 --> 00:12:35,880 If it's not a Christian religion, I think there are a 302 00:12:35,890 --> 00:12:37,710 lot of people. Usually third of schools are 303 00:12:37,720 --> 00:12:41,130 faith schools in this country. We have Christian schools right 304 00:12:41,140 --> 00:12:43,510 throughout. If one Islamic school popped up, 305 00:12:43,520 --> 00:12:47,200 there'd be huge people moaning. It's like, I'm sorry, you've 306 00:12:47,210 --> 00:12:51,420 been paying 7 foot, 8 foot people. 307 00:12:51,430 --> 00:12:53,690 Really annoying. It's like, Damn you, where's my 308 00:12:53,700 --> 00:12:56,550 tall? School and we listen to them if 309 00:12:56,560 --> 00:12:59,250 it ain't foot blokes voted. Yeah, nothing. 310 00:12:59,290 --> 00:13:01,990 Nothing. When you around every week and 311 00:13:02,080 --> 00:13:04,750 someone we got Caspers delivered, someone dropped off. 312 00:13:04,760 --> 00:13:08,000 Honest, honest to God, this man was like, absolutely Hench. 313 00:13:08,040 --> 00:13:11,260 I came in, I said tell him, God, if he told me that he was going 314 00:13:11,270 --> 00:13:13,120 to take the case for himself, I would have done nothing about 315 00:13:13,130 --> 00:13:14,570 it. Honestly, he was massive. 316 00:13:16,720 --> 00:13:17,900 Yeah, I was going to give it to you anyway. 317 00:13:17,910 --> 00:13:18,950 Yeah, that's fine. Yeah. 318 00:13:18,960 --> 00:13:21,470 Did you want your tip? I've got to tell you what I bet 319 00:13:21,480 --> 00:13:23,860 he was bloody lovely, bloody lovely boat. 320 00:13:23,960 --> 00:13:25,950 You're being horribly stereotypical and you're part of 321 00:13:25,960 --> 00:13:26,350 the. Problem. 322 00:13:26,360 --> 00:13:27,550 No, I was just saying I'm scared. 323 00:13:28,220 --> 00:13:31,390 I was just saying I looked at him and I thought he would ruin 324 00:13:31,400 --> 00:13:34,350 me. Absolutely physically destroy 325 00:13:34,360 --> 00:13:35,840 me. I wouldn't stand a chance. 326 00:13:35,850 --> 00:13:37,890 That's a good way of you getting off this conversation topic. 327 00:13:37,930 --> 00:13:39,860 I know, Yeah, maybe we'll talk about in the future. 328 00:13:39,870 --> 00:13:41,510 I know it just sat really uncomfortable with me because I 329 00:13:41,520 --> 00:13:43,330 don't actually care. I enjoy it. 330 00:13:43,340 --> 00:13:45,550 I like it. I think I care more that people 331 00:13:45,560 --> 00:13:47,170 would have some kind of double standard. 332 00:13:47,240 --> 00:13:49,810 Like if there ohh, it's just a nice song about being grateful 333 00:13:49,820 --> 00:13:52,010 for like fruit and for rainbows and stuff. 334 00:13:52,020 --> 00:13:52,920 Isn't that lovely? Yeah. 335 00:13:52,930 --> 00:13:55,390 So yeah, OK, keep that same energy then if it was anything 336 00:13:55,400 --> 00:13:56,230 else. And I just don't think. 337 00:13:56,240 --> 00:14:00,000 People, I agree if we yeah, I totally agree that it is odd. 338 00:14:00,340 --> 00:14:02,490 I don't really know what my opinion is on it other than 339 00:14:02,500 --> 00:14:04,600 yeah, it's a strange one because we definitely, definitely, 340 00:14:04,610 --> 00:14:07,030 definitely would not view it in the same light if it was 341 00:14:07,040 --> 00:14:09,230 anything other than a Christian country. 342 00:14:10,920 --> 00:14:12,750 Shot. Yeah, over it. 343 00:14:12,760 --> 00:14:16,010 So much like what do you mean? How can a country be Christian? 344 00:14:16,020 --> 00:14:18,090 I know what sorry. Soil. 345 00:14:18,160 --> 00:14:20,250 What? Ohh you are Christian. 346 00:14:20,260 --> 00:14:20,820 OK. Sorry. 347 00:14:20,830 --> 00:14:22,010 Yeah, that one. No problem. 348 00:14:22,140 --> 00:14:23,460 Sorry. Imagine every line we drew in 349 00:14:23,470 --> 00:14:25,230 the land. Yeah, this is this one. 350 00:14:25,500 --> 00:14:26,230 OK, cool. This one. 351 00:14:26,240 --> 00:14:27,910 Christian. Hang on, just gonna go and ask 352 00:14:27,920 --> 00:14:31,420 all of the unborn humans of the future what kind of country they 353 00:14:31,430 --> 00:14:34,270 want to be born into. Christian. 354 00:14:34,280 --> 00:14:35,480 Doesn't matter. Doesn't matter what they want 355 00:14:35,490 --> 00:14:37,240 because they're in the country in the Christian. 356 00:14:37,690 --> 00:14:40,620 Or at least it was Christian when they got converted 1000 357 00:14:40,630 --> 00:14:42,220 years ago. But we don't talk about the 13 358 00:14:42,230 --> 00:14:44,190 billion years before that. No, no, no, no. 359 00:14:44,200 --> 00:14:46,840 My favourite thing ever. We got on religion here, but 360 00:14:46,850 --> 00:14:48,620 just one thing because I just love it. 361 00:14:48,630 --> 00:14:49,680 I don't know what you guys think. 362 00:14:49,730 --> 00:14:53,510 It's just the fact that a king just changed it one day. 363 00:14:53,850 --> 00:14:57,640 I know that judge of England. And then it was like God of this 364 00:14:57,650 --> 00:14:59,780 country. God said that, Did he? 365 00:15:00,840 --> 00:15:02,480 Did he? Yeah, God said. 366 00:15:02,530 --> 00:15:05,200 I'll tell you what he He looked at my wife and he went. 367 00:15:05,210 --> 00:15:08,510 I agree, mate. I think you should be able to 368 00:15:08,520 --> 00:15:10,640 get rid of it. Can you imagine being lucky 369 00:15:10,650 --> 00:15:11,820 enough to be king? Right. 370 00:15:11,870 --> 00:15:13,620 And people just think you're God. 371 00:15:13,950 --> 00:15:17,130 And you're like, yeah. Wait, yeah, one minute, one 372 00:15:17,140 --> 00:15:18,760 minute. He just. 373 00:15:18,950 --> 00:15:19,620 Sorry. One second. 374 00:15:19,630 --> 00:15:22,390 Just check my Bishop. Can I just say something's true? 375 00:15:23,550 --> 00:15:24,600 I can just. Yeah. 376 00:15:24,610 --> 00:15:28,240 Because I'm God Cool. You can divorce your wife and 377 00:15:28,250 --> 00:15:29,500 we'll call it the Church of England. 378 00:15:31,670 --> 00:15:33,180 Literally. OK. 379 00:15:33,190 --> 00:15:35,020 And then we just leave it now. Yeah. 380 00:15:35,030 --> 00:15:37,200 Is that what you, Bishop? The church being the Church of 381 00:15:37,210 --> 00:15:39,410 the thing that we've got a record of a human just inventing 382 00:15:39,420 --> 00:15:40,860 because you wanted the divorce? Yeah. 383 00:15:40,910 --> 00:15:42,900 Yeah. OK. 384 00:15:42,910 --> 00:15:44,400 My Lord. Yeah. 385 00:15:44,440 --> 00:15:47,130 Anyway, sorry to anyone who believes in the Catholic faith. 386 00:15:48,580 --> 00:15:49,790 I'm not even coming. I don't care. 387 00:15:49,800 --> 00:15:51,400 The belief is just funny, isn't it? 388 00:15:51,410 --> 00:15:53,840 Yeah, because if you think about it, what the wife believe? 389 00:15:53,910 --> 00:15:55,580 Well, you, you don't believe anything. 390 00:15:55,590 --> 00:15:57,730 Yeah, not really. Because I don't know. 391 00:15:57,790 --> 00:15:59,070 I don't know. Could be true. 392 00:15:59,210 --> 00:16:00,360 Could be. Probably not. 393 00:16:02,630 --> 00:16:04,840 I don't know. That's my opinion. 394 00:16:05,090 --> 00:16:06,290 That's my opinion. That's why. 395 00:16:06,300 --> 00:16:07,660 That's why I'm saying my. Opinion. 396 00:16:08,110 --> 00:16:09,900 Because I keep trying to move on from the conversation and you 397 00:16:09,910 --> 00:16:12,440 say isn't really enticement. Or is it? 398 00:16:12,730 --> 00:16:16,960 Or is it Garrett Boy? Yeah, I'm dangling that carrot. 399 00:16:16,970 --> 00:16:18,780 Ohh, I've got nothing against it. 400 00:16:18,790 --> 00:16:20,520 I just personally don't believe it. 401 00:16:21,500 --> 00:16:25,150 No, no, that's that's truthful. I know. 402 00:16:25,160 --> 00:16:26,270 I love talking about. It. 403 00:16:26,280 --> 00:16:27,700 Yeah, I know, I know. I think we should do a whole 404 00:16:27,710 --> 00:16:29,580 episode another day, OK? Another time. 405 00:16:29,590 --> 00:16:30,270 You don't need it. Louder. 406 00:16:30,280 --> 00:16:32,240 Yeah. No, we got we got some planned. 407 00:16:32,250 --> 00:16:33,310 No. Should they jiggle? 408 00:16:33,360 --> 00:16:34,790 Yeah. You're still listening. 409 00:16:34,800 --> 00:16:37,130 This is your first step. Is an imaginary group of people, 410 00:16:37,140 --> 00:16:38,310 right? This is your first episode. 411 00:16:38,320 --> 00:16:42,530 And I'm really sorry because this is actually a MI no. 412 00:16:42,620 --> 00:16:44,550 I'll tell you what guys come back after the Jingle because we 413 00:16:44,560 --> 00:16:54,190 talk absolute OK you good job. We saved that with the old 414 00:16:54,200 --> 00:16:58,230 edited yeah. So you should we talk Absolutely 415 00:16:58,240 --> 00:17:00,410 amazing bits. Of yeah, I was gonna say sugar 416 00:17:00,420 --> 00:17:02,490 whole conversation. You'll never know, cause we cut 417 00:17:02,500 --> 00:17:05,980 it. It's probably seen the title. 418 00:17:06,030 --> 00:17:09,300 Yeah, the big announcement wasn't that we've been telling 419 00:17:09,310 --> 00:17:10,760 people that were cousins. That's not the big. 420 00:17:10,770 --> 00:17:13,579 Yeah, big announcement. We didn't even use that story, 421 00:17:13,790 --> 00:17:16,599 did we Not? No, you haven't. 422 00:17:17,890 --> 00:17:24,500 Anyway, obviously the big announcement is Ohh. 423 00:17:25,780 --> 00:17:28,830 Dylan's gonna be an uncle because I'm having a baby. 424 00:17:30,640 --> 00:17:35,150 Just wanted to let you guys all know that next mum ohh I'm gonna 425 00:17:35,160 --> 00:17:37,650 be having a baby. They don't ohh George. 426 00:17:38,340 --> 00:17:40,450 I'm actually like really thrown off it. 427 00:17:42,010 --> 00:17:44,680 Alright Dylan you are mate. He's got annoying. 428 00:17:44,690 --> 00:17:48,490 Yeah you that that is something to that's just not that's not on 429 00:17:48,500 --> 00:17:49,520 that for a second. No. 430 00:17:49,530 --> 00:17:50,880 You are having a baby next month. 431 00:17:50,950 --> 00:17:53,660 Yeah, I'm having a baby. You personally. 432 00:17:53,830 --> 00:17:55,380 Me personally. Myself. 433 00:17:55,770 --> 00:17:59,340 But yes, my lovely, my lovely Lauren is pregnant. 434 00:17:59,440 --> 00:18:02,520 Ask you didn't he didn't know? No, I had no idea. 435 00:18:04,840 --> 00:18:06,550 Close enough. That's weird because mines 9. 436 00:18:06,980 --> 00:18:08,600 Hang on. Sorry. 437 00:18:08,610 --> 00:18:10,960 Have you got big announcement? Whoa, whoa, Yeah. 438 00:18:10,970 --> 00:18:13,250 Anyway, this is a 11. We didn't have to say it. 439 00:18:13,320 --> 00:18:15,470 I'm. I'm on officially now. 440 00:18:15,540 --> 00:18:18,140 I'm on paternity leave. Yeah, so we kept that quiet for 441 00:18:18,150 --> 00:18:21,380 31 weeks, didn't we, Joe? It's mad I worked out. 442 00:18:21,440 --> 00:18:25,050 Come on, it must have been when we started this podcast. 443 00:18:25,440 --> 00:18:27,930 Was pretty much the area of conception. 444 00:18:29,350 --> 00:18:36,030 Ohh, that's a nice one. He must have been, Yeah, I guess 445 00:18:36,040 --> 00:18:37,570 so. I'm just maths. 446 00:18:37,580 --> 00:18:38,200 So not. Yeah. 447 00:18:38,210 --> 00:18:39,120 Not too far to know. Yeah. 448 00:18:39,130 --> 00:18:40,160 We had a couple of breaks, aren't we? 449 00:18:40,170 --> 00:18:42,130 Yeah, I guess so. We're on for 34 episodes. 450 00:18:42,140 --> 00:18:44,610 I think so. But yeah, I mean, yeah, there 451 00:18:44,620 --> 00:18:46,760 you go. I hate saying my own news. 452 00:18:46,770 --> 00:18:50,100 Just sorry, just to clarify, the joke was me jumping on is his 453 00:18:50,110 --> 00:18:52,920 big announcement today. He's having a baby imminently. 454 00:18:52,930 --> 00:18:54,330 No. Because what we've done is we've 455 00:18:54,340 --> 00:18:56,760 been putting it off because we just, like, obviously don't 456 00:18:56,770 --> 00:18:58,400 wanna make I think, do we? Yeah. 457 00:18:58,450 --> 00:19:01,180 But we do now. We do now because it's imminent. 458 00:19:01,890 --> 00:19:04,840 And yeah, I'm on paternity leave. 459 00:19:04,850 --> 00:19:06,670 It's crazy. Even school on Tuesday. 460 00:19:06,880 --> 00:19:10,050 And I was like, ohh, I'm not gonna be back in school for a 461 00:19:10,060 --> 00:19:13,460 whole 2 weeks. Ohh. 462 00:19:13,510 --> 00:19:15,240 Things are gonna be so different when you come back. 463 00:19:15,250 --> 00:19:17,240 Yeah, mad. Like it's gonna be completely 464 00:19:17,250 --> 00:19:19,780 transformative. Two whole weeks with my child. 465 00:19:19,830 --> 00:19:24,690 Yeah, one of the things we talk about is paternity leave and how 466 00:19:24,700 --> 00:19:27,570 mad it is. But in all seriousness, I was 467 00:19:27,580 --> 00:19:29,410 until Tuesday was my last day. Yeah. 468 00:19:29,660 --> 00:19:32,810 And the baby's not here yet, obviously, but it's just my last 469 00:19:32,820 --> 00:19:35,530 day and I kind of finished everything. 470 00:19:35,540 --> 00:19:38,050 Can you imagine just yet? She's in hospital. 471 00:19:40,150 --> 00:19:41,580 What's that? Sorry. 472 00:19:41,590 --> 00:19:42,920 Teaching. Repeat episode 5. 473 00:19:42,930 --> 00:19:46,300 So let's wrap this up. Charlie No. 474 00:19:46,310 --> 00:19:48,940 So I was in school Tuesday kind of got everything I needed to 475 00:19:48,950 --> 00:19:51,160 get done, done. Everything was sorted for the 476 00:19:51,170 --> 00:19:54,720 last couple of weeks and I was just thinking, OK this is weird 477 00:19:54,730 --> 00:19:57,620 because I when I finished my lesson I was like even though 478 00:19:57,630 --> 00:20:00,700 it's only it works out close to a month because of half time and 479 00:20:00,710 --> 00:20:02,100 stuff and our part time schedule. 480 00:20:02,670 --> 00:20:05,250 So it's like it's better than two weeks but it's just two 481 00:20:05,260 --> 00:20:07,020 weeks of school. Like we were sorting out cover. 482 00:20:07,100 --> 00:20:10,020 Yeah. And the way that the covers 483 00:20:10,030 --> 00:20:13,970 happening, it boils down to like 5 sessions and covering like 484 00:20:13,980 --> 00:20:16,060 just the way it worked out because of what we got in school 485 00:20:16,070 --> 00:20:18,140 and I was like. I certainly didn't feel bad. 486 00:20:18,510 --> 00:20:20,310 I was like, ohh, yeah, you'll just go for it. 487 00:20:20,320 --> 00:20:22,430 Yeah. No one had a problem, by the 488 00:20:22,440 --> 00:20:23,630 way. But I was just like, that's not 489 00:20:23,670 --> 00:20:26,920 that's nothing compared to when a woman goes off and it's like, 490 00:20:26,930 --> 00:20:28,680 cool, that's a year we've got to cover the class war. 491 00:20:28,970 --> 00:20:32,220 Anyway, I was finished all my stuff on Tuesday and I was just 492 00:20:32,230 --> 00:20:36,530 thinking, I'm not gonna be back in school doing the thing I've 493 00:20:36,540 --> 00:20:37,860 done for like 7 years. My thing. 494 00:20:37,870 --> 00:20:39,030 That's your thing, isn't it? A teacher. 495 00:20:39,040 --> 00:20:42,260 That's what you do. And I can't imagine doing it 496 00:20:42,270 --> 00:20:45,120 now. I just can't imagine doing it 497 00:20:45,130 --> 00:20:47,060 with the same mindset. Yeah. 498 00:20:47,070 --> 00:20:50,620 Like, it was a really watershed moment for me where I was like, 499 00:20:50,730 --> 00:20:53,180 this is now not going to be my number one thing. 500 00:20:53,250 --> 00:20:54,280 Yeah. Yeah, Like it. 501 00:20:54,290 --> 00:20:56,910 It was so bizarre. Because I've always, no matter 502 00:20:56,920 --> 00:21:01,160 what we say about teaching, I've always put my heart and soul 503 00:21:01,170 --> 00:21:03,040 into the job when I'm in front of the kids. 504 00:21:03,210 --> 00:21:06,000 Because I think no matter what happens with workload and stuff, 505 00:21:06,010 --> 00:21:07,720 I think at the start of my career, I put my heart and soul 506 00:21:07,730 --> 00:21:10,540 into every part of the job. Yeah, planning marking with the. 507 00:21:10,550 --> 00:21:13,220 Kids and the time, no matter what, I didn't care because it 508 00:21:13,230 --> 00:21:16,140 was my thing. Over the years that's been like 509 00:21:16,190 --> 00:21:18,230 chipped away out and I don't, I just don't want to do that 510 00:21:18,240 --> 00:21:19,590 anymore. My planning or anything like. 511 00:21:19,600 --> 00:21:21,730 That really, there's little things come in like ohh, we 512 00:21:21,740 --> 00:21:23,690 bought house. Yeah, yeah, OK. 513 00:21:23,700 --> 00:21:25,770 In a long term relationship now, you know, so you chipping away 514 00:21:25,780 --> 00:21:27,790 at stuff and you're like you have more priorities. 515 00:21:27,800 --> 00:21:31,120 You're not just fresh out of uni where work is your life, You 516 00:21:31,130 --> 00:21:32,850 start developing other stuff like you said. 517 00:21:32,890 --> 00:21:37,510 We had the business for example we bought our first home but and 518 00:21:37,520 --> 00:21:40,430 and now this is another thing obviously that's gonna but it's 519 00:21:40,440 --> 00:21:43,470 on a whole nother level. And I just thought to myself I I 520 00:21:43,480 --> 00:21:46,780 hope I can continue to give my all when I'm stood in front of 521 00:21:46,790 --> 00:21:49,380 the kids because I do love them. Like I I I do want to give them 522 00:21:49,390 --> 00:21:52,550 everything every part of me. But I can't help but think that 523 00:21:52,560 --> 00:21:55,640 this is like a watershed moment and maybe other people who've 524 00:21:55,920 --> 00:21:59,420 had kids and gone through this. It starts to make more sense to 525 00:21:59,430 --> 00:22:02,090 me now like even though it's even though my child isn't here 526 00:22:02,100 --> 00:22:04,750 yet. I just think, Oh my God, I 527 00:22:04,760 --> 00:22:09,330 really, really, really already struggle with the idea of even 528 00:22:09,340 --> 00:22:12,380 wanting to be anywhere other than with your kid. 529 00:22:12,450 --> 00:22:13,420 Yeah. And I I. 530 00:22:13,430 --> 00:22:15,430 It was such a weird moment. That's nice, though. 531 00:22:15,440 --> 00:22:16,900 Yeah, I know. But it was such a weird moment 532 00:22:16,910 --> 00:22:20,990 on Tuesday where I was like, ohh, I have 30 kids every year. 533 00:22:21,000 --> 00:22:22,540 They're my kid. I just feel like my kids will 534 00:22:22,550 --> 00:22:24,350 look after them. Yeah, you know, you want the 535 00:22:24,360 --> 00:22:26,190 best for them. Help them as much as possible. 536 00:22:27,110 --> 00:22:30,650 But now I'm going to have my own kid and it's just like Will 537 00:22:30,660 --> 00:22:32,860 will. I resent spending 8 hours with 538 00:22:32,870 --> 00:22:36,970 them every day when my child's at home and I could be spending 539 00:22:36,980 --> 00:22:38,750 8 hours My child, I really hope not. 540 00:22:38,920 --> 00:22:40,820 But it was such anyway. Such a watershed moment where I 541 00:22:40,830 --> 00:22:44,640 thought, ah, this isn't my priority now, from now on when 542 00:22:44,650 --> 00:22:47,490 I'm in this building, I'll be thinking about getting home. 543 00:22:48,240 --> 00:22:51,770 And whereas now I'm like, I love teaching and I just think, I 544 00:22:51,780 --> 00:22:53,830 hope it's not the final nail in that coffin and I really. 545 00:22:53,840 --> 00:22:55,150 Struggle. I don't think it will be. 546 00:22:55,240 --> 00:22:57,590 I think you'll have a bit of a adjustment period, I reckon. 547 00:22:57,600 --> 00:22:59,750 I'll say you, if I'm not about to go for this amount of time as 548 00:22:59,760 --> 00:23:02,040 well, so I can do the trial for six. 549 00:23:02,050 --> 00:23:02,830 Weeks. Yeah, yeah, yeah. 550 00:23:02,840 --> 00:23:04,700 This is the great thing, by the way, for the running joke with 551 00:23:04,710 --> 00:23:07,310 our pregnancies the whole way that Dylan's been a month ahead. 552 00:23:07,320 --> 00:23:10,000 Yeah, it's been like, cool. I get to watch you do all the 553 00:23:10,010 --> 00:23:11,600 stuff. I'll learn from your any 554 00:23:11,610 --> 00:23:13,740 mistakes you make. I'll practise with your baby. 555 00:23:14,910 --> 00:23:18,410 It's just wrong. Don't do that. 556 00:23:18,570 --> 00:23:19,430 Don't do that. Yeah. 557 00:23:19,480 --> 00:23:22,050 And then learn from that. But no, I think I think you'll, 558 00:23:22,120 --> 00:23:23,170 I think you'll be absolutely fine. 559 00:23:23,180 --> 00:23:25,880 I reckon you'll just but I do think it is still just going to 560 00:23:25,890 --> 00:23:29,490 be another little chip down in terms of you'll want to go home. 561 00:23:29,500 --> 00:23:31,770 We'll never let you said. But I don't think just knowing 562 00:23:31,780 --> 00:23:35,360 you I don't think it will change what you're like in front of the 563 00:23:35,370 --> 00:23:38,470 kids whatsoever. I think you'll be exactly the 564 00:23:38,480 --> 00:23:40,810 same as ever, and you'll just be even more excited to share your 565 00:23:40,820 --> 00:23:42,090 life with them. Yeah, I think so. 566 00:23:42,190 --> 00:23:44,890 Because they'll be like, hey, look, because you've got a baby, 567 00:23:44,940 --> 00:23:48,010 I'm not suddenly gonna change. Because here's the thing, like, 568 00:23:48,120 --> 00:23:51,020 just like cards on the table, that I think the reason I'm a 569 00:23:51,030 --> 00:23:55,060 teacher still is because I I can't possibly think of a 570 00:23:55,070 --> 00:23:59,760 different way to spend my time than entertaining and helping 571 00:23:59,770 --> 00:24:02,700 children in that way that we get to his class teacher. 572 00:24:02,750 --> 00:24:04,140 It comes with all the other stuff. 573 00:24:04,150 --> 00:24:06,810 But like, I can't imagine doing anything other than that because 574 00:24:06,820 --> 00:24:09,620 I just absolutely love it. And I still love it now. 575 00:24:09,630 --> 00:24:13,330 And I'm like, with what we free for five weeks into term. 576 00:24:13,390 --> 00:24:17,580 And like, I know I still am up for it because I feel that bond 577 00:24:17,590 --> 00:24:19,610 with my kids already. Like, I love these kids. 578 00:24:19,700 --> 00:24:22,130 And I told them because I didn't tell them what was happening. 579 00:24:22,140 --> 00:24:24,310 Yeah, because I didn't want to make a fuss. 580 00:24:24,320 --> 00:24:27,120 And I just thought on Tuesday I said to them in the morning and 581 00:24:27,130 --> 00:24:30,230 register was like, oh by the way, this is my last day for. 582 00:24:30,240 --> 00:24:31,540 Two weeks. I just imagine you at the end of 583 00:24:31,550 --> 00:24:33,390 the day as they're leaving. Bye. 584 00:24:33,400 --> 00:24:35,910 See you. Nothing. 585 00:24:35,920 --> 00:24:36,720 See him? No. 586 00:24:36,730 --> 00:24:38,660 I told them early because I knew they'd have questions and I 587 00:24:38,670 --> 00:24:40,480 don't wanna. I don't like just springing 588 00:24:40,490 --> 00:24:42,840 things on them, like you wanna tell them what's going on ahead 589 00:24:42,850 --> 00:24:45,080 of time. But I also wanted to not have it 590 00:24:45,090 --> 00:24:47,160 hanging over 2 weeks, so just thinking I was going, I was 591 00:24:47,170 --> 00:24:49,480 going whilst I was still building that bond with them. 592 00:24:49,590 --> 00:24:53,030 And yes, I told them in the morning and it's just hilarious 593 00:24:53,040 --> 00:24:54,580 watching their responses and stuff. 594 00:24:54,590 --> 00:24:56,610 But again, it's just like it just showed. 595 00:24:56,650 --> 00:25:00,980 I equally I can't wait to be with my child, but I still 596 00:25:00,990 --> 00:25:05,060 already after four weeks. I'm thinking I want two weeks of 597 00:25:05,070 --> 00:25:05,800 my class. I love that. 598 00:25:05,870 --> 00:25:07,190 Want to be with them, still want to help them out. 599 00:25:07,200 --> 00:25:08,040 Yeah. Yeah. 600 00:25:08,080 --> 00:25:10,030 But yeah, I just. I think that was my thing. 601 00:25:10,040 --> 00:25:12,710 And again, anyone out there who's got kids and is a teacher, 602 00:25:12,940 --> 00:25:16,020 it really opened my eyes and I'm going on now because you're 603 00:25:16,030 --> 00:25:18,180 going through the same thing. So I wanna know what you think 604 00:25:18,240 --> 00:25:23,160 is how do you think, where have you gone from the start of your 605 00:25:23,170 --> 00:25:25,030 career? I think we're very similar on 606 00:25:25,040 --> 00:25:28,810 your ideas of like when people would say, oh, I've got kids, 607 00:25:28,820 --> 00:25:31,470 it's not fair. You know, how can I possibly do 608 00:25:31,480 --> 00:25:34,620 this to now where even we don't have children yet. 609 00:25:34,630 --> 00:25:36,470 But I think we've shifted in terms of expectations. 610 00:25:36,550 --> 00:25:38,490 Well, I think, I actually think our opinions were a little bit 611 00:25:38,500 --> 00:25:41,150 different on this. Through our careers, I never 612 00:25:41,160 --> 00:25:43,110 really thought about it as much. It was only you that kind of 613 00:25:43,120 --> 00:25:45,330 made me start thinking of certain things, I guess. 614 00:25:45,340 --> 00:25:49,390 But I certainly know that when we spoke about it years ago, I 615 00:25:49,400 --> 00:25:52,230 can talk about your opinion on anything because your opinion 616 00:25:52,240 --> 00:25:54,430 kind of shaped my opinion. I never really thought about it. 617 00:25:54,470 --> 00:25:57,630 I would preface this with like I think I was wrong. 618 00:25:58,850 --> 00:26:01,040 So I'm sorry, I thought, you know, I don't wanna keep 619 00:26:01,050 --> 00:26:01,910 talking. I want you. 620 00:26:02,490 --> 00:26:04,850 So I never really thought about it, and I've always just kind of 621 00:26:04,860 --> 00:26:08,760 just clarify what we mean. So we're talking about people 622 00:26:08,770 --> 00:26:14,010 who have kids who, you know, might use that as a reason why 623 00:26:14,020 --> 00:26:17,170 stuff hasn't happened, or things can't get done in the same way 624 00:26:17,180 --> 00:26:20,140 we can't do it the same way. Or I know you're all doing this, 625 00:26:20,150 --> 00:26:21,520 but I'm not going to because I've got. 626 00:26:21,530 --> 00:26:23,220 Kids. Easiest analogy is fresh 627 00:26:23,230 --> 00:26:24,660 teachers. We're not early 20s. 628 00:26:24,710 --> 00:26:27,570 No kids like minimal responsibility in life possible. 629 00:26:29,010 --> 00:26:31,220 And we just live and breathe the job because we loved it as well, 630 00:26:31,230 --> 00:26:34,870 more than humanly possible. And and if if we did stuff that 631 00:26:34,880 --> 00:26:37,120 was that was we deemed necessary and good for the job. 632 00:26:37,130 --> 00:26:39,580 If the weekend or afternoon, so evenings or whatever. 633 00:26:39,730 --> 00:26:42,320 And someone else didn't and they had kids and it was like, you 634 00:26:42,330 --> 00:26:44,100 know, I couldn't I couldn't do the planning properly. 635 00:26:44,110 --> 00:26:46,300 This week I've got, you know, my kid out the birthday coming 636 00:26:46,310 --> 00:26:48,220 really late in the morning. You're hoping to do something 637 00:26:48,310 --> 00:26:51,750 and they come in at 8:30 and oh, yeah, so I had to drop my kids 638 00:26:51,760 --> 00:26:53,240 and they were crying out to do this. 639 00:26:53,410 --> 00:26:56,260 I know that the opinion was a little bit like, yeah, it was. 640 00:26:56,730 --> 00:26:59,420 It was your choice to have kids. You need to do the job properly. 641 00:26:59,680 --> 00:27:00,890 Yeah. Which is horrendous. 642 00:27:00,900 --> 00:27:03,700 Like I I never. So again I never went around 643 00:27:03,710 --> 00:27:07,430 saying this but it was my reaction inside to that was yeah 644 00:27:07,480 --> 00:27:09,260 not really relevant. Yeah. 645 00:27:09,270 --> 00:27:11,710 You know, like I was like ohh, you know it's not excuse, you 646 00:27:11,720 --> 00:27:14,910 know, I I got in late again today because my kid was ill or 647 00:27:14,980 --> 00:27:17,490 and I was like I can't get in late though, can I? 648 00:27:17,600 --> 00:27:20,390 Yeah, it's like the smoker thing, isn't it? 649 00:27:20,400 --> 00:27:22,360 Yeah, such a classic analogy, isn't it? 650 00:27:23,020 --> 00:27:25,560 Well, I used to work at Tesco and it was like if you smoke you 651 00:27:25,570 --> 00:27:28,310 get extra breaks which they were allowed to go out for smoke 652 00:27:28,320 --> 00:27:29,980 breaks. Very different. 653 00:27:30,060 --> 00:27:31,360 Raising a child? No, of course. 654 00:27:31,810 --> 00:27:34,400 It was the same feeling of like, well, I don't get that. 655 00:27:34,410 --> 00:27:36,800 Yeah, because I just, I didn't choose not, I didn't choose to 656 00:27:36,810 --> 00:27:39,420 do that thing that you do. So you don't get it either. 657 00:27:39,470 --> 00:27:41,390 Yeah. It's like, well, actually that's 658 00:27:41,400 --> 00:27:43,530 not how life works really is. That's not how society works. 659 00:27:43,540 --> 00:27:45,460 That's like going round to people less fortunate. 660 00:27:45,470 --> 00:27:47,600 I mean, like, well, I don't get those benefits. 661 00:27:47,610 --> 00:27:49,560 So you shouldn't exactly. No. 662 00:27:49,650 --> 00:27:53,160 And I've always been staunch. I know that those things didn't 663 00:27:53,170 --> 00:27:53,540 match. Up. 664 00:27:53,550 --> 00:27:55,410 Explain that because saying against that makes you sound 665 00:27:55,420 --> 00:28:00,260 like no, no, sorry, I've I've always been like always against 666 00:28:00,270 --> 00:28:03,550 when people try to say that for example, benefits, right? 667 00:28:03,620 --> 00:28:05,970 But it's a very common thing and I've had conversations with 668 00:28:05,980 --> 00:28:08,480 people about this where they say a lot of people take advantage 669 00:28:08,490 --> 00:28:11,530 of the benefit system so it's wrong and just stop it. 670 00:28:11,760 --> 00:28:16,090 So my opinion has always been I would rather people get benefits 671 00:28:16,100 --> 00:28:19,150 who need it and some people take the Mick and rinse the system 672 00:28:19,160 --> 00:28:22,870 and we try and stop that than us to say, well some people say the 673 00:28:22,880 --> 00:28:26,600 mix no one gets it. It's always better to make sure 674 00:28:26,610 --> 00:28:28,670 the people who need to get something get it and then try 675 00:28:28,680 --> 00:28:30,930 and amend the rest. Listen, listen, right? 676 00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:33,900 Are we noticing many players weren't in place? 677 00:28:34,720 --> 00:28:37,270 Whilst you weren't doing any plenary we saw that you were sat 678 00:28:37,280 --> 00:28:42,150 down, so all staff you no longer allowed chairs because someone 679 00:28:42,160 --> 00:28:45,010 took advantage of sitting down in class, OK? 680 00:28:46,060 --> 00:28:48,190 Same thing. It's the same thing. 681 00:28:48,200 --> 00:28:49,600 Yeah. And I know I was wrong. 682 00:28:50,320 --> 00:28:53,410 And but I guess my point is, even before, you know, our 683 00:28:53,420 --> 00:28:56,070 children on the horizon, it definitely changed. 684 00:28:56,080 --> 00:28:58,000 It definitely changed. I was more like, yeah, actually, 685 00:28:58,040 --> 00:28:59,930 you know what? Just yeah, you have kids. 686 00:29:00,020 --> 00:29:03,450 You need, you need time to do stuff with your kids, poorly, of 687 00:29:03,460 --> 00:29:04,930 course. You need to take to the doctors. 688 00:29:04,980 --> 00:29:07,510 It's a child. We do need a future generation. 689 00:29:07,520 --> 00:29:08,990 Yeah, exactly. We do need it. 690 00:29:09,770 --> 00:29:11,170 Well, I I chose not to have children. 691 00:29:11,180 --> 00:29:14,210 OK, well, if everyone did that, we would be dead. 692 00:29:14,220 --> 00:29:17,370 And and again, absolutely fine. Yeah, like, I want to make this 693 00:29:17,380 --> 00:29:19,570 really clear. I couldn't care less what you 694 00:29:19,580 --> 00:29:22,260 choose to do, but I think I was wrong to be judgmental. 695 00:29:22,270 --> 00:29:24,260 That's the whole point. In the same way that I think 696 00:29:24,270 --> 00:29:25,880 it's horrible when people are judgmental. 697 00:29:25,920 --> 00:29:28,220 If people who choose not to have kids or people who just can't 698 00:29:28,230 --> 00:29:30,840 have children, I think that's just like, why would you ever 699 00:29:30,850 --> 00:29:32,760 make that a thing to those people that's completely nothing 700 00:29:32,770 --> 00:29:33,320 to do with? You. 701 00:29:33,370 --> 00:29:35,400 Yeah, yeah, yeah. Equally so now that you're in 702 00:29:35,410 --> 00:29:37,360 that position, you feel it more than ever. 703 00:29:37,370 --> 00:29:39,080 But your opinions changed, yeah. Yeah. 704 00:29:39,090 --> 00:29:41,540 And I think it's it's swayed and I'm just, I guess the point I'm 705 00:29:41,550 --> 00:29:43,380 making is. You're a Tory now. 706 00:29:44,330 --> 00:29:46,290 The point is, OK, I'll finish it for you there mate. 707 00:29:46,300 --> 00:29:48,700 The point he's making now is he's got a Tory mindset and 708 00:29:48,710 --> 00:29:51,040 because it now benefits him and he's no longer on the other 709 00:29:51,050 --> 00:29:53,200 side, he actually sees the value in it. 710 00:29:53,810 --> 00:29:57,300 Ohh no we no sorry. We should be giving dads all of 711 00:29:57,310 --> 00:29:59,880 the time and pay. God doesn't. 712 00:29:59,890 --> 00:30:01,580 Never thought of it before. It's just happened. 713 00:30:01,590 --> 00:30:03,420 It's a coincidence. Just come to me now. 714 00:30:03,430 --> 00:30:05,300 Wait, I'm not a student now. Shouldn't. 715 00:30:05,310 --> 00:30:05,840 Be free. Ohh. 716 00:30:05,850 --> 00:30:08,580 No, I'm not paying for that. No, no, no, no, no. 717 00:30:08,630 --> 00:30:10,180 When I was a student, was I campaigning for? 718 00:30:10,190 --> 00:30:11,820 Yeah, yeah. Now I'm not. 719 00:30:11,830 --> 00:30:14,610 And I've got 40 grand debt. No, not everyone else gets 40 720 00:30:14,620 --> 00:30:16,870 grand, 40 grand debt. You get 40 grand. 721 00:30:16,880 --> 00:30:18,700 That Paul. Bloody Tory? 722 00:30:18,710 --> 00:30:24,560 No, the point, the overall point I suppose is I think if you have 723 00:30:24,570 --> 00:30:31,960 children and you're working full time, Um, I I just put off my 724 00:30:31,970 --> 00:30:34,450 hat. I doff my hat that I'm not 725 00:30:34,460 --> 00:30:36,660 wearing because Hayden told me, like a soccer path. 726 00:30:37,170 --> 00:30:39,780 Yeah, you do. I just, I just, I don't 727 00:30:39,790 --> 00:30:41,740 understand it. And yeah, that was my worry. 728 00:30:41,810 --> 00:30:46,300 And what what's your overriding thought of having your child? 729 00:30:46,370 --> 00:30:48,140 What's your first thought when it comes to work? 730 00:30:48,200 --> 00:30:49,940 Like are you worried? Are you are you fine? 731 00:30:49,950 --> 00:30:52,360 Are you excited? Do you think it's going to 732 00:30:52,370 --> 00:30:55,440 change like because obviously we're having all these emotions 733 00:30:55,450 --> 00:30:57,600 about, we're about to have a child like that in itself is 734 00:30:57,610 --> 00:30:59,400 enough, but just in the context of. 735 00:30:59,480 --> 00:31:02,820 Back underneath, even though I think because I know how I react 736 00:31:02,830 --> 00:31:05,990 to stuff and you know how I react to stuff, I think I'll get 737 00:31:06,470 --> 00:31:09,540 you have sex with the kid 100%, but I think I'll get really, 738 00:31:09,550 --> 00:31:12,720 really cross any single day. I'm at school and it's gone past 739 00:31:12,730 --> 00:31:14,590 like 430 and I've still got stuff to do. 740 00:31:14,670 --> 00:31:17,690 I will just get so angry and I don't know, I'll be like, I'll 741 00:31:17,700 --> 00:31:19,280 throw my toys out the pram like I always do. 742 00:31:19,530 --> 00:31:21,240 I have a Paddy. I mean, I'm doing it, not doing 743 00:31:21,250 --> 00:31:22,440 it, then not doing it. And I will. 744 00:31:22,450 --> 00:31:24,390 I think I'll be more like that than ever because I'll be like, 745 00:31:24,400 --> 00:31:27,560 I've actually got like a real purpose to get back to you now. 746 00:31:27,610 --> 00:31:30,000 And doing this admin that I think is meaningless. 747 00:31:30,260 --> 00:31:33,250 Is literally just taking time away from me being with my kid 748 00:31:33,300 --> 00:31:35,580 and I think I'll find it. Really, I think I'll get crossed 749 00:31:35,590 --> 00:31:38,630 and and you the stuff you struggle to justify when you 750 00:31:38,640 --> 00:31:39,770 didn't have something to go home. 751 00:31:39,780 --> 00:31:41,870 And look, I know I already makes me a little bit already annoys. 752 00:31:41,880 --> 00:31:42,390 You. Yeah, yeah. 753 00:31:42,400 --> 00:31:45,400 But at least I'm OK, you know? Again, I wanted to clarify 754 00:31:45,410 --> 00:31:48,570 again, listeners from previous episodes, I talked about how I 755 00:31:48,580 --> 00:31:51,530 was starting this year off only doing work from in school. 756 00:31:51,760 --> 00:31:55,050 And that's one of the reasons was if I can do it for four or 757 00:31:55,060 --> 00:31:58,500 five weeks beforehand and it can become manageable and I can work 758 00:31:58,510 --> 00:32:03,070 it out, then I want to continue saying that I I don't want to do 759 00:32:03,080 --> 00:32:04,920 any work at home. Hmm. 760 00:32:05,140 --> 00:32:07,750 Now for the rest of the year, cause my child will be there. 761 00:32:07,760 --> 00:32:09,120 Yeah, I I can't. I can't. 762 00:32:09,130 --> 00:32:10,190 Do it. The idea of sat there on 763 00:32:10,200 --> 00:32:12,530 Saturday morning rather than going out for like a nice stroll 764 00:32:12,540 --> 00:32:14,650 your baby, or reading and doing something. 765 00:32:14,800 --> 00:32:18,090 No, I've got, I've got that math plan done because the 55 hours I 766 00:32:18,100 --> 00:32:19,330 spent at school. Enough. 767 00:32:19,740 --> 00:32:21,430 No. And here's the thing. 768 00:32:21,520 --> 00:32:23,310 We're part time teachers and we're already having these 769 00:32:23,320 --> 00:32:25,280 thoughts and I can't. I just got to constantly go back 770 00:32:25,290 --> 00:32:27,890 to those teachers who've gone back full time and because of 771 00:32:27,900 --> 00:32:31,490 necessity, because of money. And of course it's the cost of 772 00:32:31,500 --> 00:32:33,790 living. Like there is no winner there. 773 00:32:33,840 --> 00:32:35,350 Yeah. And that's why something needs 774 00:32:35,360 --> 00:32:38,170 to fundamentally change, because you're essentially working to 775 00:32:38,400 --> 00:32:40,490 have your child looked after while you're working. 776 00:32:40,610 --> 00:32:42,630 You know what you can do to save a little bit of money across the 777 00:32:42,640 --> 00:32:44,730 maternity leave ladies out there? 778 00:32:44,800 --> 00:32:47,690 Something we talked about back in one of our teen episodes. 779 00:32:49,250 --> 00:32:51,830 We have the lovely Sophie Bartlett on Brilliant who is 780 00:32:51,840 --> 00:32:54,940 like the biggest advocate ever fought shared parental leave and 781 00:32:54,950 --> 00:32:56,360 we're both using it. We are. 782 00:32:56,530 --> 00:32:59,540 And both the first time both of our schools had used it. 783 00:32:59,550 --> 00:33:01,690 Yep. So it just goes to show and it's 784 00:33:01,700 --> 00:33:03,300 fine. It's of course it's fine. 785 00:33:03,310 --> 00:33:04,980 It's a statutory right. So anyone who doesn't know 786 00:33:04,990 --> 00:33:09,370 shared parental leave, the idea is that in I think it's public 787 00:33:09,380 --> 00:33:11,330 sector jobs. So I think it's a government 788 00:33:11,340 --> 00:33:12,760 scheme, I think. Is a government scheme. 789 00:33:12,770 --> 00:33:16,360 Private businesses can do it, but it's available. 790 00:33:16,920 --> 00:33:19,600 It's available openly for government employees and as 791 00:33:19,680 --> 00:33:21,290 teachers we come under that category. 792 00:33:21,730 --> 00:33:26,560 The idea is that because as we know, parental leave is 793 00:33:26,570 --> 00:33:31,240 terrible, it's two weeks, you can share out the mum's parental 794 00:33:31,250 --> 00:33:32,870 leave. So that's why it's called shared 795 00:33:32,880 --> 00:33:35,030 parental leave. So quite often it might happen 796 00:33:35,040 --> 00:33:38,120 that the mum wants to return to work for a month, maybe get a 797 00:33:38,130 --> 00:33:39,980 foot back in the door, get back on the career ladder. 798 00:33:39,990 --> 00:33:43,400 That is so hard for mums to get back onto a bit early and dad 799 00:33:43,410 --> 00:33:46,250 can take some of her leave so that you can just share it out 800 00:33:46,260 --> 00:33:48,600 basically. But the amazing part of shared 801 00:33:48,610 --> 00:33:51,030 parental that even something people still don't understand or 802 00:33:51,040 --> 00:33:53,790 even schools don't really get it, but it's allowed, so they 803 00:33:53,800 --> 00:33:56,990 have to do it, is that you can use shared parental leave but 804 00:33:57,000 --> 00:33:58,970 not share it with your. Partner, you can just share out 805 00:33:58,980 --> 00:34:01,160 your own maternity leave into blocks. 806 00:34:01,170 --> 00:34:03,050 That's the idea. You're just literally sharing 807 00:34:03,060 --> 00:34:06,290 your one continuous maternity leave into. 808 00:34:06,300 --> 00:34:08,449 No longer continuous, it's just blocks. 809 00:34:08,460 --> 00:34:10,929 So I wonder then, because the point being that you return to 810 00:34:10,940 --> 00:34:13,090 work in those blocks. So I wonder if anyone out there 811 00:34:13,100 --> 00:34:15,679 very clever can work out why that's really, really 812 00:34:15,690 --> 00:34:17,310 beneficial, especially if. You're a teacher. 813 00:34:17,320 --> 00:34:22,699 Would a teacher wanna go back to work in the holidays the half 814 00:34:22,710 --> 00:34:26,330 time? So in the half, pretty good. 815 00:34:26,540 --> 00:34:29,750 Yeah, in the half term. So essentially what you can do 816 00:34:29,760 --> 00:34:32,989 as a teacher is and anyone who is thinking of having a child, 817 00:34:33,000 --> 00:34:35,150 or even if you already have the child, it's not too late. 818 00:34:35,199 --> 00:34:37,570 It's eight weeks before your first block. 819 00:34:37,639 --> 00:34:40,840 The point being, you take the higher pay, so you wait until 820 00:34:40,850 --> 00:34:43,739 you're on statutory maternity. When it drops down, that's the 821 00:34:43,750 --> 00:34:46,580 time to start taking your return to work. 822 00:34:46,620 --> 00:34:49,290 You return to work at the start of the holiday and then you 823 00:34:49,300 --> 00:34:50,670 finish work at the end of the holiday. 824 00:34:50,719 --> 00:34:54,219 Now, by law, schools cannot direct you to do stuff they're 825 00:34:54,230 --> 00:34:55,429 not directing everyone else to do. 826 00:34:55,520 --> 00:34:57,620 Essentially, they can't tell you work during the holiday. 827 00:34:57,630 --> 00:34:59,960 Yeah. So you return to work for the 828 00:34:59,970 --> 00:35:03,700 holiday and get full pay because you are technically back at 829 00:35:03,710 --> 00:35:04,400 work. Yeah. 830 00:35:04,450 --> 00:35:07,880 So in our case, we're getting four weeks full pay. 831 00:35:07,950 --> 00:35:11,240 Yep. And then we'll be returning to. 832 00:35:11,250 --> 00:35:13,400 Work by, we mean our partners. Yeah, yeah, yeah, Sorry. 833 00:35:13,410 --> 00:35:15,890 Our partners will be returning to work in the last. 834 00:35:15,900 --> 00:35:16,990 Week. We're happy with our full two 835 00:35:17,000 --> 00:35:20,860 weeks, 2 weeks is fine. We'll return to work before just 836 00:35:20,870 --> 00:35:23,440 before the summer holidays and obviously get some holidays 837 00:35:23,490 --> 00:35:26,530 fully paid, so essentially won't be returning to work until 838 00:35:26,540 --> 00:35:30,050 September and we'll get a bonus 10 weeks full pay. 839 00:35:30,100 --> 00:35:32,030 Yeah, and if anyone has a problem with that, go and ask to 840 00:35:32,040 --> 00:35:35,420 teach what they do in the years previous in all of their 841 00:35:35,430 --> 00:35:36,950 holidays. They constantly work for free, 842 00:35:36,960 --> 00:35:38,540 so a little bit of payback doesn't do anything. 843 00:35:38,550 --> 00:35:42,120 It's statutory like, do you know what, Joy is brilliant because 844 00:35:42,130 --> 00:35:44,870 the tables flip. It's so cool because for years 845 00:35:44,880 --> 00:35:48,600 and years you're like we just gotta get done, just get 846 00:35:48,610 --> 00:35:50,190 planning done. Ohh, just having a new scheme 847 00:35:50,200 --> 00:35:52,670 which was going to redo how we do maths and English at the same 848 00:35:52,680 --> 00:35:54,450 time and by the way also the afternoon. 849 00:35:54,460 --> 00:35:55,920 Lesson You're gonna have to work on your weekend. 850 00:35:55,930 --> 00:35:58,050 You gotta get it done. The holidays, I'm sorry, it's 851 00:35:58,060 --> 00:36:00,540 just part of the job. It's in the contract, you know, 852 00:36:00,550 --> 00:36:03,380 doing the Workman. You gotta do the Tasmanian work 853 00:36:03,390 --> 00:36:06,280 deep. Well, guess what? 854 00:36:06,290 --> 00:36:07,860 You can turn around and go, well, you know, it's in the 855 00:36:07,870 --> 00:36:09,980 contract. Yeah, and you can return to work 856 00:36:09,990 --> 00:36:11,960 for your holidays. Guys, do it. 857 00:36:11,970 --> 00:36:15,300 It's gonna give us between US2I reckon close to 10 grand 858 00:36:15,650 --> 00:36:17,180 between. So no, I've made that. 859 00:36:17,190 --> 00:36:19,790 Probably not that much, but yeah, you can do it. 860 00:36:19,830 --> 00:36:22,080 Certainly more. It's for those of you that 861 00:36:22,090 --> 00:36:24,020 aren't in the teaching world, maybe don't know what maternity 862 00:36:24,030 --> 00:36:26,740 leave is like in most public in all public sector jobs is better 863 00:36:26,750 --> 00:36:29,740 than teaching. Obviously the one with mostly 864 00:36:29,750 --> 00:36:33,320 dominated by women has the worst maternity maternity leave. 865 00:36:33,330 --> 00:36:35,300 Just normal. Just have a think if you don't 866 00:36:35,310 --> 00:36:36,740 know, how long do you reckon you get. 867 00:36:36,880 --> 00:36:40,330 Full pay in the civil service 6-6 months. 868 00:36:40,390 --> 00:36:42,170 Six months. OK, Two weeks for teachers. 869 00:36:42,180 --> 00:36:45,070 Full pay 100%. Then it drops down to 90% for 870 00:36:45,080 --> 00:36:50,270 four weeks, and then it drops down to 50%. 12 weeks with 871 00:36:50,560 --> 00:36:54,300 statutory pay, Yeah, for 1218 weeks until you're on statutory, 872 00:36:54,310 --> 00:36:57,030 Yeah, but that's that's four months. 873 00:36:59,140 --> 00:37:00,450 That's disgusting. And it's not even. 874 00:37:00,460 --> 00:37:03,070 Four, and I know, and I don't wanna, you know, turn anyone's 875 00:37:03,080 --> 00:37:04,810 nose up. There are people in much worse 876 00:37:04,820 --> 00:37:07,260 positions in all sorts of private jobs and private sectors 877 00:37:07,270 --> 00:37:09,140 where the maternity pay is terrible for America. 878 00:37:09,360 --> 00:37:11,550 Or America, where they don't value You have lessons in 879 00:37:11,560 --> 00:37:12,970 America. Yeah, they're thinking. 880 00:37:12,980 --> 00:37:14,030 What? You moaning? 881 00:37:14,270 --> 00:37:18,500 Yeah, probably, probably. It's just one of those things. 882 00:37:18,510 --> 00:37:21,710 I think it's important that we always say it's not a race to 883 00:37:21,720 --> 00:37:23,740 the bottom constantly a theme for this podcast. 884 00:37:23,750 --> 00:37:26,340 It's not a race to the bottom if you're in a worse position. 885 00:37:26,490 --> 00:37:28,940 Sorry, sorry to hear about that. Please don't use that as ammo to 886 00:37:28,950 --> 00:37:31,460 make us sound wrong. Something in the same way that 887 00:37:31,470 --> 00:37:34,180 we can't sit here and say civil ferments get six months extra 888 00:37:34,190 --> 00:37:35,370 pay. That was just dreadful. 889 00:37:35,380 --> 00:37:36,960 It's yeah, it's just a fact. Well done. 890 00:37:37,010 --> 00:37:39,050 Great, because our friend, our friend was actually talking 891 00:37:39,060 --> 00:37:42,470 about it and that's I was like, that's good. 892 00:37:42,830 --> 00:37:44,920 Look at this thing we're doing to try and get more as well. 893 00:37:44,980 --> 00:37:46,060 Yeah. It's not. 894 00:37:46,730 --> 00:37:48,880 Everyone above me should get less and everyone less than we 895 00:37:48,890 --> 00:37:51,480 should stop moaning. Yeah, yeah, I'm in the right 896 00:37:51,490 --> 00:37:52,640 place. Yeah, yeah. 897 00:37:52,650 --> 00:37:55,060 But anyway, so yeah, go check out that episode with Sophie 898 00:37:55,070 --> 00:37:56,400 Bartlett. It'll be easy to find on the 899 00:37:56,410 --> 00:37:58,780 podcast list. Dylan, where else can they check 900 00:37:58,790 --> 00:37:59,720 us out? Where can they talk to us? 901 00:38:00,450 --> 00:38:02,640 I'd love you because this is where the Q&A is come from. 902 00:38:02,690 --> 00:38:04,220 I'd love you guys to find us on Instagram. 903 00:38:04,230 --> 00:38:09,110 Teach sleep repeat podcast and you can Gmail us Malcolm. 904 00:38:09,160 --> 00:38:11,110 But really Instagram, that's supposed to be. 905 00:38:11,230 --> 00:38:12,520 That is the place to be. Get Instagram. 906 00:38:12,530 --> 00:38:13,980 We share stories. We share memes. 907 00:38:13,990 --> 00:38:16,010 I've started doing some memes. The meme of you. 908 00:38:16,020 --> 00:38:17,350 Yeah. Yeah, yeah. 909 00:38:17,420 --> 00:38:19,290 Go and find it if you listen to this. 910 00:38:19,360 --> 00:38:19,760 Right. OK. 911 00:38:19,770 --> 00:38:21,030 I'm gonna set them a challenge to see. 912 00:38:21,100 --> 00:38:22,310 Right. This might backfire. 913 00:38:22,320 --> 00:38:23,490 We get no one doing. Yeah. 914 00:38:23,500 --> 00:38:25,890 If you're listening to this right now go to Instagram post. 915 00:38:25,900 --> 00:38:27,620 Find the picture of Hayden with his top hat. 916 00:38:27,800 --> 00:38:29,830 And he's doing this for any listeners. 917 00:38:29,840 --> 00:38:33,150 I'm putting my thinking thinking fingers on my chin. 918 00:38:33,820 --> 00:38:37,350 I want you to go to that post and just comment saying wow, 919 00:38:37,440 --> 00:38:38,970 just wow. Just that's it in that. 920 00:38:38,980 --> 00:38:40,820 Context, I reckon. Can I bet take a bet right now? 921 00:38:40,830 --> 00:38:43,640 Yeah, I reckon it two people would do it 22. 922 00:38:43,930 --> 00:38:45,840 So if two people have already done it, please do it. 923 00:38:45,850 --> 00:38:48,860 So Hayden's wrong. Yeah, yeah, just put. 924 00:38:48,910 --> 00:38:51,290 Wow, two people. OK, And if not, don't worry 925 00:38:51,300 --> 00:38:53,690 because the post will be deleted because it doesn't get 926 00:38:53,700 --> 00:38:55,370 interaction. So don't worry about it if you 927 00:38:55,380 --> 00:38:59,220 don't like it. I don't like it anyway. 928 00:38:59,230 --> 00:39:02,360 Before, before we do like Q&A and stuff, can I quickly just 929 00:39:02,370 --> 00:39:05,480 talk about a post I saw online is a really quick conversation. 930 00:39:05,560 --> 00:39:08,400 It's interesting because we were going to do a short episode this 931 00:39:08,410 --> 00:39:10,040 week, guys. We got stuff to sort out. 932 00:39:11,480 --> 00:39:14,140 Yeah, And so I saw this post and there's one quote from it which 933 00:39:14,150 --> 00:39:15,340 we'll get to. I want to just see what you 934 00:39:15,350 --> 00:39:17,920 think it said today. I was called into it, so that's 935 00:39:17,930 --> 00:39:19,620 ruined. That's fine, OK? 936 00:39:19,770 --> 00:39:21,810 Just look at it, OK? They didn't know you ruined it. 937 00:39:21,820 --> 00:39:25,100 Now I couldn't see it. Today I was called into a 938 00:39:25,110 --> 00:39:28,460 meeting after a learning walk where I was told I'm not good at 939 00:39:28,470 --> 00:39:30,280 managing children's behaviour and other things. 940 00:39:30,290 --> 00:39:32,680 I was given A5 targets support plan. 941 00:39:32,850 --> 00:39:35,110 The adviser said that I have no presence in the class and I 942 00:39:35,120 --> 00:39:38,400 should become someone that the children should be almost scared 943 00:39:38,410 --> 00:39:39,640 of. Fire that person and it's a 944 00:39:39,650 --> 00:39:42,810 reception class I hate. What you thinking? 945 00:39:42,860 --> 00:39:45,750 I hate it, you know, when I get passionate about. 946 00:39:45,760 --> 00:39:46,910 The kids? Or do I? 947 00:39:47,440 --> 00:39:50,310 No, because I really do. Because I think we're in such a 948 00:39:50,320 --> 00:39:54,390 privileged position as teachers where we get to impact these 949 00:39:54,400 --> 00:39:57,380 children and be such a safe hub for them. 950 00:39:57,420 --> 00:40:01,170 And I want, I want the children every single day to come into 951 00:40:01,180 --> 00:40:02,230 school and enjoy. Themselves. 952 00:40:02,240 --> 00:40:04,030 You're a natural, aren't you? What do you mean? 953 00:40:04,040 --> 00:40:06,450 Like they're just naturally scared of you in a. 954 00:40:06,460 --> 00:40:10,350 Class. It's a natural well, the awful 955 00:40:10,360 --> 00:40:11,060 thing. Thank you. 956 00:40:12,390 --> 00:40:16,190 No, I am so passionate about children feeling happy and 957 00:40:16,260 --> 00:40:19,950 secure and liked because you don't know what they get home. 958 00:40:19,960 --> 00:40:24,630 No, you don't know. This might be their one thing 959 00:40:24,640 --> 00:40:28,750 they can cling on to and you're that you're that opportunity for 960 00:40:28,760 --> 00:40:31,810 them to get it. And I take that so seriously. 961 00:40:31,920 --> 00:40:35,270 Like I want these kids to be so safe and and I want every single 962 00:40:35,280 --> 00:40:37,910 minute in the classroom to be enjoyable and if they don't like 963 00:40:37,920 --> 00:40:40,720 maths then it's my job to try and make them like maths but 964 00:40:40,730 --> 00:40:42,710 they don't like writing. It's my job to try and make it 965 00:40:42,720 --> 00:40:44,480 enjoyable. They've still got to do it, but 966 00:40:44,490 --> 00:40:46,820 I'm going to do my best to make sure they enjoy being in the 967 00:40:46,830 --> 00:40:48,950 room. The idea of kids being scared of 968 00:40:48,960 --> 00:40:51,860 me makes me feel horrendous. Yeah, if a child was actually 969 00:40:51,870 --> 00:40:55,220 scared of me, I'd consider quitting because I'm not doing 970 00:40:55,230 --> 00:40:56,760 my job properly. You don't need to be scared. 971 00:40:56,770 --> 00:41:01,810 I got some bad news. I'm really sorry to say this 972 00:41:01,820 --> 00:41:04,420 live on the podcast. I think you might have a 973 00:41:04,430 --> 00:41:06,720 resignation. Half my class are terrified. 974 00:41:07,150 --> 00:41:08,300 Because you've been teaching Ohh. 975 00:41:08,310 --> 00:41:09,810 Wait, that's because I've described you as a horrible 976 00:41:09,820 --> 00:41:12,300 logo. And they know they love because 977 00:41:12,310 --> 00:41:15,930 they come up to me, you know, I I just, I wanna be that safe 978 00:41:15,940 --> 00:41:19,190 place that that person. They enjoy being around. 979 00:41:19,480 --> 00:41:23,090 This is just utter rubbish. I bet it was a bloke in a suit. 980 00:41:23,100 --> 00:41:25,910 I wasn't talking about 10 years. Yeah, who's stereotyping now? 981 00:41:25,920 --> 00:41:30,150 Yeah, me. OK, that works. 982 00:41:30,280 --> 00:41:31,220 What about you? Don't worry. 983 00:41:31,230 --> 00:41:32,080 Suit though. Hate it? 984 00:41:34,250 --> 00:41:38,450 I don't know about you teachers listening as well, but I forgot 985 00:41:38,460 --> 00:41:42,310 what to say. You interrupted me twice, and I 986 00:41:42,320 --> 00:41:43,810 forgotten. Oh, there's a moment, 987 00:41:43,820 --> 00:41:45,690 interrupted it when you did a serious thing. 988 00:41:45,820 --> 00:41:47,870 Actually the kids are scared of you. 989 00:41:48,020 --> 00:41:50,130 So very good. But I always go out of my way. 990 00:41:50,340 --> 00:41:52,440 I know you do this, but I always go out of my way. 991 00:41:52,450 --> 00:41:57,200 To yourself now. Always got on my way to tell a 992 00:41:57,210 --> 00:42:00,360 kid that I really like him as a human being, and I always try 993 00:42:00,370 --> 00:42:03,180 and give a specific reason why. I do all I try to do every 994 00:42:03,190 --> 00:42:04,870 single day. Particularly when you see those 995 00:42:04,880 --> 00:42:06,750 children look a little bit insecure, they look like they've 996 00:42:06,760 --> 00:42:07,950 had a fall out with friends or something. 997 00:42:07,960 --> 00:42:09,870 And it could be something as simple as I think you really 998 00:42:09,880 --> 00:42:11,320 conscientious. I think you listen really 999 00:42:11,330 --> 00:42:13,410 nicely. Yeah, I I I think that you're, 1000 00:42:13,420 --> 00:42:16,900 you know, you're such a nice person to be around because you 1001 00:42:16,910 --> 00:42:19,340 don't you don't judge anyone. Yeah, I'm thinking of those 1002 00:42:19,350 --> 00:42:21,460 quiet kids and it's nice. It's such a nice if. 1003 00:42:21,470 --> 00:42:23,380 I'm sure you do it your teachers, but if you haven't 1004 00:42:23,390 --> 00:42:26,910 done in a while, do it tomorrow and or Monday because you listen 1005 00:42:26,920 --> 00:42:29,360 to this on Friday maybe and just look at it. 1006 00:42:29,370 --> 00:42:31,540 Just look at that little smile. It's just so sweet. 1007 00:42:31,610 --> 00:42:33,520 I did it today. It's OK because I actually felt 1008 00:42:33,530 --> 00:42:35,710 bad because they were in trouble because they had, they had 1009 00:42:35,720 --> 00:42:39,120 messed around in class yesterday and I told them if I worked not 1010 00:42:39,130 --> 00:42:41,290 to a certain standard because of this, then they're doing it 1011 00:42:41,300 --> 00:42:42,720 again. It was terrible. 1012 00:42:43,000 --> 00:42:45,880 It was dreadful. And then listen to anything. 1013 00:42:45,890 --> 00:42:47,860 So I called off on it. You can't have empty threats. 1014 00:42:48,210 --> 00:42:50,400 And I was like, cool, hey, go lunchtime, do it all again. 1015 00:42:50,930 --> 00:42:52,860 Off you go. And they sat there sulking, 1016 00:42:52,870 --> 00:42:54,480 really annoying. And in the end I was like, I 1017 00:42:54,490 --> 00:42:56,030 don't actually like being mean. No. 1018 00:42:56,040 --> 00:42:58,170 But they got lion. Yeah, that they learn. 1019 00:42:58,180 --> 00:43:00,460 And then I was like, do you realise like, I think you're 1020 00:43:00,470 --> 00:43:01,940 really cool kid and there was all smiles. 1021 00:43:01,950 --> 00:43:04,470 I I think you're really cool. Like, I really like, you know, 1022 00:43:04,480 --> 00:43:06,170 you've got such a great personality. 1023 00:43:06,240 --> 00:43:09,130 You're really intelligent, which is why I get so cross at you. 1024 00:43:09,400 --> 00:43:11,690 But you got to understand that my in my job, I've got to hold 1025 00:43:11,700 --> 00:43:14,180 you accountable and just doing that little bit. 1026 00:43:14,190 --> 00:43:16,890 And at the end he was like thank you and then ran off sort of 1027 00:43:16,900 --> 00:43:20,130 happy and the next day. That's right. 1028 00:43:20,140 --> 00:43:21,310 Steven likes me. I'll get it. 1029 00:43:21,320 --> 00:43:23,450 Next day, Parent, come up to me. Why are you telling my kids? 1030 00:43:24,780 --> 00:43:26,690 Don't tell, don't tell my kids. That's what the man was today, 1031 00:43:26,700 --> 00:43:27,680 wasn't it? What's that? 1032 00:43:27,690 --> 00:43:29,410 The one. Ohh yeah, yeah, yeah. 1033 00:43:29,420 --> 00:43:32,760 Yeah, yeah, I laughed so much. Yeah, I I I was like, I saw it. 1034 00:43:32,770 --> 00:43:34,530 I was like, this is perfect. The mean frame. 1035 00:43:34,540 --> 00:43:36,030 No. Come on, Comment. 1036 00:43:36,040 --> 00:43:36,850 Wow. Go and read it. 1037 00:43:36,860 --> 00:43:38,440 It's funny. If you laughed, comment while 1038 00:43:38,450 --> 00:43:40,870 paternity leave. First thing he's done paternity 1039 00:43:40,880 --> 00:43:42,430 leave. Yeah. 1040 00:43:44,000 --> 00:43:46,850 At 7 minutes past 9:00 this morning and I was like, there we 1041 00:43:46,860 --> 00:43:49,730 go, sorry, sorry, lunchtime. Ohh was hilarious. 1042 00:43:50,780 --> 00:43:53,540 Anyway, moving on winds me up. Don't be someone the kids are 1043 00:43:53,550 --> 00:43:55,100 scared of. You don't need to do that to get 1044 00:43:55,110 --> 00:43:57,160 results. You can build relationships with 1045 00:43:57,170 --> 00:43:59,070 the children that are positive from the start. 1046 00:43:59,140 --> 00:44:01,360 You get more out of them, you'll enjoy your life more. 1047 00:44:01,370 --> 00:44:03,990 You're not constantly moaning at 7 year olds because you're a 1048 00:44:04,000 --> 00:44:06,060 grown up person. You don't need to be doing that. 1049 00:44:06,120 --> 00:44:07,900 If you feel like you need to be doing that, you obviously quite 1050 00:44:07,910 --> 00:44:09,950 insecure about something. Just get over it. 1051 00:44:10,060 --> 00:44:12,190 Be nice to the kids. They're just kids. 1052 00:44:12,240 --> 00:44:14,940 You can teach them properly. Come on. 1053 00:44:15,310 --> 00:44:17,350 Come on, guys. Let's do it. 1054 00:44:17,610 --> 00:44:21,210 Let's be nice to the kids. The reception They're babies. 1055 00:44:21,440 --> 00:44:23,950 If a teacher this is already already. 1056 00:44:23,960 --> 00:44:25,470 I'm like if a teacher. Marky. 1057 00:44:25,580 --> 00:44:28,790 Marky Mark. You don't know until you back. 1058 00:44:28,800 --> 00:44:31,060 I'm never gonna be the parent. I'm not gonna be the. 1059 00:44:31,070 --> 00:44:33,330 Parent I'm not. My kid came home and told me 1060 00:44:33,340 --> 00:44:35,870 actually that they didn't throw a bogey at so and so. 1061 00:44:36,200 --> 00:44:38,250 Because I saw it with my eyes, actually, and it hit me in the 1062 00:44:38,260 --> 00:44:40,470 face. Yeah, no, he would not do that 1063 00:44:40,480 --> 00:44:42,690 because my kids said. And he doesn't lie. 1064 00:44:43,140 --> 00:44:45,150 He lied when he said that. Those experiences do stick with 1065 00:44:45,160 --> 00:44:50,070 you though. I bogeys when you haven't had it 1066 00:44:50,150 --> 00:44:51,790 many times in my career. I did a couple of years ago. 1067 00:44:51,800 --> 00:44:53,150 Parents. Overwhelmingly positive, by the 1068 00:44:53,160 --> 00:44:54,170 way. Yeah, I still think. 1069 00:44:54,380 --> 00:44:55,990 But a couple of years ago, I did have one. 1070 00:44:56,000 --> 00:44:57,440 What exactly. Like that, the complete 1071 00:44:57,450 --> 00:44:59,500 stereotype. Someone coming up to me and this 1072 00:44:59,510 --> 00:45:04,010 kid, I'd literally heard him swear a couple of times and I 1073 00:45:04,020 --> 00:45:05,600 pulled them aside. Like, no, that's not, you know, 1074 00:45:05,610 --> 00:45:07,080 getting. No, I didn't like you literally 1075 00:45:07,090 --> 00:45:09,570 did because I just, I heard you with my own ears do it. 1076 00:45:09,720 --> 00:45:11,600 And then a bunch of other kids came up to me and said you did 1077 00:45:11,610 --> 00:45:14,670 it again like 10 minutes later. And then yeah parent comes 1078 00:45:14,680 --> 00:45:17,220 storming over this. This dad hmm. 1079 00:45:17,260 --> 00:45:20,260 And just was so rude to me. So rude. 1080 00:45:20,270 --> 00:45:23,370 And then just point blank and said no, my so and so name 1081 00:45:23,380 --> 00:45:25,120 wouldn't ever do that. She doesn't do that. 1082 00:45:25,130 --> 00:45:26,930 She does not swear. She's not a swearer. 1083 00:45:27,140 --> 00:45:29,270 It's like, well she did though. No, no she didn't. 1084 00:45:29,280 --> 00:45:32,340 And then honestly, he just like rudely stormed off and then 1085 00:45:32,350 --> 00:45:33,610 yeah, she wasn't she think trouble. 1086 00:45:33,620 --> 00:45:36,190 I was like, what is going? On I hate that you got to stick 1087 00:45:36,200 --> 00:45:38,750 by it. We're not out to get kids. 1088 00:45:38,860 --> 00:45:43,330 No, just hold them accountable. Sorry, but they did. 1089 00:45:43,340 --> 00:45:45,470 Yeah. If I ever turn into that parent, 1090 00:45:45,480 --> 00:45:48,600 you can give me a whack, right? Honestly, yeah, just give me 1091 00:45:48,610 --> 00:45:50,570 whack. Anyway, should we finish off 1092 00:45:50,580 --> 00:45:52,060 this episode with our Q&A? Yeah, go on. 1093 00:45:52,070 --> 00:45:56,560 All right. Right. 1094 00:45:56,570 --> 00:45:58,090 OK ready for the Q&A? Yes. 1095 00:45:58,100 --> 00:45:59,640 OK. It's there's a brand, we've 1096 00:45:59,650 --> 00:46:02,510 never done this before. I saw Kate languages podcast. 1097 00:46:02,520 --> 00:46:05,770 If anyone follows Kate languages in the education world, really 1098 00:46:05,780 --> 00:46:07,850 cool account. Like cuz I don't know anything 1099 00:46:07,860 --> 00:46:09,570 about languages. I feel really weak when it comes 1100 00:46:09,580 --> 00:46:11,790 to teaching languages and language in general. 1101 00:46:12,020 --> 00:46:13,570 Go and have a listen she's great. 1102 00:46:13,940 --> 00:46:15,510 Hope you get the podcast at some point. 1103 00:46:16,560 --> 00:46:19,050 Would be really cool. And by the way, also, if anyone 1104 00:46:19,120 --> 00:46:21,590 messaged me about coming on the podcast and I've replied saying 1105 00:46:21,600 --> 00:46:24,790 yes, hopefully now you know why these things are crazy. 1106 00:46:24,920 --> 00:46:26,560 You've been? Delaying we we we've 1107 00:46:26,850 --> 00:46:29,800 specifically not had guests on because we just don't know 1108 00:46:29,950 --> 00:46:32,620 what's gonna happen when when we're back into our routine. 1109 00:46:32,630 --> 00:46:34,570 We all got guests and there are some amazing ones coming up. 1110 00:46:34,580 --> 00:46:39,630 So about 18 years we should be. Probably for the season 22 1111 00:46:39,640 --> 00:46:41,980 episode 4 we're gonna get Kate Languages on. 1112 00:46:42,770 --> 00:46:45,240 But yeah she's great going get her follow anyway. 1113 00:46:45,250 --> 00:46:48,140 Q&A Never done this before on our socials Instagram followers. 1114 00:46:48,150 --> 00:46:53,010 We wanna get on board with this. 31 some crazy ones. 1115 00:46:53,290 --> 00:46:55,760 I'm gonna mix them up. OK, question number one. 1116 00:46:55,850 --> 00:46:57,740 I asked for anything. By the way, question number one, 1117 00:46:57,810 --> 00:46:59,560 what is Hayden's hair care routine? 1118 00:46:59,750 --> 00:47:01,320 Laughing emoji? Emoji. 1119 00:47:02,040 --> 00:47:05,210 I don't even. This is from by the way. 1120 00:47:05,500 --> 00:47:07,930 This is from the person who bought you those gifts that, 1121 00:47:07,940 --> 00:47:10,530 yeah, brilliant, you know, I've got about. 1122 00:47:10,570 --> 00:47:12,350 Ah, yeah, yeah, there's Secret Santa. 1123 00:47:12,360 --> 00:47:13,870 And you got a comb and some shampoo. 1124 00:47:15,250 --> 00:47:20,340 Ohh wow alright funny bones. It was funny then, and it's 1125 00:47:20,350 --> 00:47:22,220 funny, yeah. Genuinely though, what is your 1126 00:47:22,230 --> 00:47:24,430 hair care routine? Because I seem to remember in an 1127 00:47:24,440 --> 00:47:27,340 earlier podcast episode you actually shocked me by saying 1128 00:47:27,420 --> 00:47:30,120 you use shampoo and that cut. No, that can't be right because 1129 00:47:30,130 --> 00:47:32,830 that's like that's like someone who has, doesn't have a beard 1130 00:47:32,840 --> 00:47:34,290 using beard oil. Stop, stop. 1131 00:47:34,300 --> 00:47:35,280 Right. If you're looking, if you're 1132 00:47:35,290 --> 00:47:37,230 watching because obviously you talk us through, our customers 1133 00:47:37,240 --> 00:47:39,190 have to watch. Obviously you'll notice the top 1134 00:47:39,200 --> 00:47:41,830 bit, little bit bold sides though. 1135 00:47:41,840 --> 00:47:46,350 Plenty of hair The Monk. Plenty of hair Got monk haircut. 1136 00:47:47,340 --> 00:47:50,420 However right are you shampoo everyday? 1137 00:47:50,430 --> 00:47:51,780 Come on, talk us through step by step. 1138 00:47:51,790 --> 00:47:54,310 What's your hair care routine? OK, jump in, shower. 1139 00:47:54,380 --> 00:47:57,990 First thing I do is shampoo. I always let it shampoo. 1140 00:47:58,000 --> 00:47:59,930 Before you clean your body. Yeah, first thing. 1141 00:47:59,940 --> 00:48:02,430 Top down, Top down. Yeah, no, I just think I clean 1142 00:48:02,440 --> 00:48:04,850 my body and finish repair. There's lots about you, Sharon. 1143 00:48:05,320 --> 00:48:08,600 Where does shower on the world? I've seen it. 1144 00:48:10,610 --> 00:48:12,920 Let's not go there. There's no question about my 1145 00:48:12,930 --> 00:48:14,150 showering, so let's go back to shampoo. 1146 00:48:14,160 --> 00:48:16,750 Listen, shampoo on my head. Greasy head, OK? 1147 00:48:16,760 --> 00:48:18,060 You got greasy hair. I get greasy. 1148 00:48:18,070 --> 00:48:20,490 Scalp shampoo. Makes it feel nice and clean and 1149 00:48:20,500 --> 00:48:21,520 that's it. OK. 1150 00:48:21,560 --> 00:48:24,160 Next one hair dryer as well. Oh yeah, brilliant. 1151 00:48:24,170 --> 00:48:27,800 I do just need to. That was that was one step too 1152 00:48:27,810 --> 00:48:29,700 far. Honestly, you could just whip 1153 00:48:29,710 --> 00:48:31,410 out the window. You get dry and it's nice. 1154 00:48:31,420 --> 00:48:32,270 It's dry immediately. OK. 1155 00:48:32,280 --> 00:48:33,950 Next one. Yeah, best takeaway. 1156 00:48:35,040 --> 00:48:37,440 Um ohh. What? 1157 00:48:37,450 --> 00:48:38,990 You go first. There's only one answer. 1158 00:48:39,160 --> 00:48:40,860 Well, there's two answers. OK, there's one. 1159 00:48:40,870 --> 00:48:41,710 Of course there is. I know. 1160 00:48:41,720 --> 00:48:44,510 There's one, like, there's one like to me, there are tears of 1161 00:48:44,520 --> 00:48:47,110 takeaway. Yeah, Takeaway. 1162 00:48:47,120 --> 00:48:48,800 And then and then takeaway. Takeaway. 1163 00:48:48,810 --> 00:48:51,430 OK, So what both. What's your takeaway? 1164 00:48:51,820 --> 00:48:55,490 As in fast food or fast food? Fast food, They're all rubbish. 1165 00:48:55,500 --> 00:48:58,370 They they're all honest. I think I prefer KFC. 1166 00:48:58,560 --> 00:49:00,050 To all of them, yeah. Really. 1167 00:49:00,060 --> 00:49:01,590 Yeah. It's just like for like a 1168 00:49:01,600 --> 00:49:07,080 greasy, fast, disgusting meal. Just, yeah, Maccas is pretty 1169 00:49:07,090 --> 00:49:07,680 good. Like the chips? 1170 00:49:07,690 --> 00:49:09,020 What's your go to order for McDonald's? 1171 00:49:11,020 --> 00:49:12,830 I've no, I don't have one. Really. 1172 00:49:12,840 --> 00:49:14,740 I don't have one do. You one of them weird people who 1173 00:49:14,750 --> 00:49:17,110 actually get different stuff? Yeah, 'cause I usually do it, 1174 00:49:17,120 --> 00:49:18,270 yeah. Let us know that's gonna be a 1175 00:49:18,280 --> 00:49:19,150 poll this week. Yeah. 1176 00:49:19,160 --> 00:49:20,860 Do you get the same thing every week for take away? 1177 00:49:20,870 --> 00:49:22,700 Because my friends have constantly took the Mick out of 1178 00:49:22,710 --> 00:49:25,550 me for this my whole life that I get one thing and one thing. 1179 00:49:25,560 --> 00:49:28,650 Yeah, it's a solid 8 out of 10. I'm not gonna risk a four out of 1180 00:49:28,660 --> 00:49:30,780 10 for maybe go from an 8 to 9. It's not worth it. 1181 00:49:30,790 --> 00:49:32,880 It's an 8 out of 10 every week After three I think we should 1182 00:49:32,890 --> 00:49:37,650 say like nice because I. Know it's gonna be so poorly 1183 00:49:37,660 --> 00:49:41,570 Coleman's gonna be from 123 Indian. 1184 00:49:41,640 --> 00:49:44,540 Ohh yeah, of an Indian takeaway. What is your Indian order? 1185 00:49:44,550 --> 00:49:46,860 Because this is a thing again, does change? 1186 00:49:47,070 --> 00:49:49,200 Does. Change what's your go to right. 1187 00:49:49,210 --> 00:49:53,300 I always get. I always get some like a chicken 1188 00:49:53,310 --> 00:49:54,740 something and sometimes that. Changes. 1189 00:49:54,750 --> 00:49:57,330 That's narrowed it down. Hang on, because something quite 1190 00:49:57,340 --> 00:49:58,850 spicy like I'm a draught kind of heat, right? 1191 00:49:58,860 --> 00:50:01,500 But I might change what this source actually is by always 1192 00:50:01,510 --> 00:50:07,330 with that get every time and Bombay potatoes every single 1193 00:50:07,340 --> 00:50:09,160 time. And if someone's getting a rice, 1194 00:50:09,170 --> 00:50:12,020 always steal a bit, never want to get a whole one. 1195 00:50:12,100 --> 00:50:13,730 I know, this is Miffy meme, right? 1196 00:50:13,770 --> 00:50:15,360 Yeah, don't touch my rice. Yeah, a little bit. 1197 00:50:15,370 --> 00:50:16,990 Right. You got no cause I ordered one. 1198 00:50:17,000 --> 00:50:19,930 But my my girlfriend taught me a couple of years ago. 1199 00:50:19,940 --> 00:50:21,810 She was she didn't get right and I was like, what's wrong with 1200 00:50:21,820 --> 00:50:22,850 you? Why you not getting rid of your 1201 00:50:22,860 --> 00:50:24,470 Curry? She was like, it's really 1202 00:50:24,480 --> 00:50:26,970 stodgy, feels you have no flavour and I just replace it 1203 00:50:26,980 --> 00:50:28,870 with Bombay potatoes. And I was like, that's so 1204 00:50:28,880 --> 00:50:29,780 stupid. Did it. 1205 00:50:29,790 --> 00:50:32,480 And I was like, this is amazing because I get to the same level 1206 00:50:32,490 --> 00:50:34,390 of thoughtfulness. I haven't eaten any rice and 1207 00:50:34,400 --> 00:50:37,950 it's all been way tastier, so rice is replaced with potatoes. 1208 00:50:37,960 --> 00:50:39,910 That's a good point. Do you reckon you could tell me 1209 00:50:39,920 --> 00:50:43,600 my order for Indian? I reckon I could. 1210 00:50:43,610 --> 00:50:46,060 You can't even remember your name, so this is gonna be good. 1211 00:50:46,070 --> 00:50:48,580 It's gonna be a good test, I reckon Sir Robert can tell you. 1212 00:50:49,670 --> 00:50:52,660 I reckon you get mostly you do Trump sometimes change but 1213 00:50:52,670 --> 00:50:55,790 mostly your chicken. Chicken Madras is your go to 1. 1214 00:50:57,290 --> 00:50:59,550 Would be laughing right now like chicken Madras. 1215 00:50:59,560 --> 00:51:00,740 You do get a rice. Yeah. 1216 00:51:00,750 --> 00:51:02,660 I feel like unless you're convinced they get a different 1217 00:51:02,670 --> 00:51:04,440 rice sometimes you are. You'll just get out, right? 1218 00:51:04,450 --> 00:51:07,080 Yeah, and you usually get a garlic naan. 1219 00:51:07,710 --> 00:51:09,530 It's moved. It was garlic. 1220 00:51:09,540 --> 00:51:12,240 Nan about I got you. Yeah, yeah, yeah. 1221 00:51:12,250 --> 00:51:14,180 It was garlic. And I was like, Nope. 1222 00:51:14,190 --> 00:51:16,220 And then I tried yours and I was like, yeah, now I know. 1223 00:51:16,290 --> 00:51:19,100 Now I know. That's like your staple isn't. 1224 00:51:19,110 --> 00:51:23,740 It got chicken Madras. Paradise Push right on. 1225 00:51:23,750 --> 00:51:25,370 Yeah. And if we're with like a table, 1226 00:51:25,380 --> 00:51:27,740 we might get large or something. Like the balloon? 1227 00:51:27,850 --> 00:51:29,500 Yeah, What we doing? We're getting a Kingfisher. 1228 00:51:31,400 --> 00:51:32,730 We're not gonna have that for a while, are we? 1229 00:51:32,740 --> 00:51:36,390 Yeah, Ohh man. Indian takeaway banging in. 1230 00:51:36,460 --> 00:51:38,900 OK, next one a classroom must have. 1231 00:51:40,140 --> 00:51:42,200 I thought this is like a really good question right straight 1232 00:51:42,210 --> 00:51:44,540 away for me because it's just like my holy thing, my clicker. 1233 00:51:44,890 --> 00:51:47,140 Ohh yeah, I cannot teach without my clicker. 1234 00:51:47,150 --> 00:51:50,340 Explain cause click it to me just sounds like literally, I 1235 00:51:50,350 --> 00:51:53,100 hate being strapped to the board. 1236 00:51:53,290 --> 00:51:56,650 Don't you know, it's like you got quite a lot of slides to go 1237 00:51:56,660 --> 00:51:58,080 through and so you have to be near it. 1238 00:51:58,090 --> 00:51:59,910 And then what ends up happening is you're consciously, 1239 00:51:59,920 --> 00:52:01,730 subconsciously aware. You have to change the light. 1240 00:52:01,740 --> 00:52:03,960 You just stand there like a lemon next to the next to the 1241 00:52:03,970 --> 00:52:04,730 board. I hate it. 1242 00:52:04,740 --> 00:52:06,880 I like moving around and it's a good way to see if they're 1243 00:52:06,890 --> 00:52:08,250 listening because it will move with you. 1244 00:52:08,290 --> 00:52:11,590 So I've bought literally a very, very simple arrow clicker. 1245 00:52:11,600 --> 00:52:12,620 So it just says left and right on. 1246 00:52:12,630 --> 00:52:13,910 It has a laser pointer on it as well. 1247 00:52:13,920 --> 00:52:15,830 If you want to just point something, you're further away. 1248 00:52:15,940 --> 00:52:18,510 It's the best best tool ever, can't live without. 1249 00:52:18,520 --> 00:52:20,990 It and you can get one in affiliate link where we only get 1250 00:52:21,000 --> 00:52:23,330 £5 per purchase. Find it now and the buyer 1251 00:52:24,760 --> 00:52:28,050 branding on the back. That's all right. 1252 00:52:28,060 --> 00:52:29,050 Yeah. No. 1253 00:52:29,060 --> 00:52:30,560 Yeah. Clicker definitely got the 1254 00:52:30,570 --> 00:52:31,050 thing. No. 1255 00:52:31,060 --> 00:52:32,950 I used to have a clicker, but obviously lost it. 1256 00:52:32,960 --> 00:52:34,170 No. You got a thing you can't live 1257 00:52:34,180 --> 00:52:37,310 without. Have you got a clicker? 1258 00:52:38,820 --> 00:52:41,110 My thing would be a sense of humour. 1259 00:52:41,160 --> 00:52:44,010 Ohh yeah yeah, it's get one of them. 1260 00:52:44,060 --> 00:52:47,910 And I'm not even joking because I think it would be serious. 1261 00:52:50,810 --> 00:52:53,560 From a David Brent, Yeah, I'm actually, I think mine's sense 1262 00:52:53,570 --> 00:52:54,430 of humour. Yeah. 1263 00:52:54,470 --> 00:52:57,340 Being likeable. Getting the children to, you 1264 00:52:57,350 --> 00:52:59,250 know engage. Yeah, that's number one. 1265 00:52:59,260 --> 00:53:01,240 I think being a good teacher. Yes, I do. 1266 00:53:01,250 --> 00:53:03,460 It's probably my number one skill number. 1267 00:53:03,470 --> 00:53:06,460 Skill not a party trick, is it? Knowledge not a party trick. 1268 00:53:07,830 --> 00:53:09,690 You know, I don't have a, like a thing. 1269 00:53:09,740 --> 00:53:14,130 I suppose my number one is, is go home at half four if you've 1270 00:53:14,140 --> 00:53:18,920 done a lot. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. 1271 00:53:18,930 --> 00:53:20,130 I don't, actually. I don't think I have one. 1272 00:53:20,140 --> 00:53:22,620 Didn't see anyone have a kid and gone maternity. 1273 00:53:22,630 --> 00:53:23,850 Yeah, could be. That's probably. 1274 00:53:23,860 --> 00:53:26,280 Should I? Yeah, mine is doing that a month 1275 00:53:26,290 --> 00:53:28,770 later. Yeah, when I go back, yeah mate, 1276 00:53:28,780 --> 00:53:31,450 yeah, God, honestly. Between us, we run maths in our 1277 00:53:31,460 --> 00:53:34,420 school and we were just having nightmares about imagining 1278 00:53:34,430 --> 00:53:36,670 Ofsted coming at any point in the next two months when one of 1279 00:53:36,680 --> 00:53:37,840 us is just. I would hate it. 1280 00:53:37,850 --> 00:53:40,680 I genuinely would be behind us. And it wouldn't be your fault. 1281 00:53:40,690 --> 00:53:42,700 No, no. Yeah, but I'd also. 1282 00:53:42,940 --> 00:53:46,230 Annoyingly be annoyed. Yeah, because I don't want like, 1283 00:53:46,280 --> 00:53:48,490 it's our thing anyway. It's not gonna be no. 1284 00:53:49,190 --> 00:53:50,960 This this question I thought a really good question. 1285 00:53:50,970 --> 00:53:53,830 I'm gonna finish on this one. OK, and what were your honest 1286 00:53:53,840 --> 00:54:05,550 first impressions of each other? Hot 10 I don't know. 1287 00:54:05,560 --> 00:54:07,060 I think it was just all positive. 1288 00:54:07,150 --> 00:54:08,740 I I didn't. I definitely didn't have any 1289 00:54:08,750 --> 00:54:10,260 negative impressions of you. That's good. 1290 00:54:10,270 --> 00:54:12,390 So we OK, so because that's going to end there. 1291 00:54:13,920 --> 00:54:16,990 Ohh delete delete delete. No, not at all, I thought. 1292 00:54:17,000 --> 00:54:18,600 You were funny. Let's do it 22. 1293 00:54:18,610 --> 00:54:20,870 Let's do 2, right? OK, First, do you remember your 1294 00:54:20,880 --> 00:54:22,670 first impression when at school? Because we knew at school. 1295 00:54:22,680 --> 00:54:23,980 No, no, I don't remember at. School. 1296 00:54:23,990 --> 00:54:26,530 I only remember my impression of your group of friends and I 1297 00:54:26,540 --> 00:54:29,700 thought they're weird and we still. 1298 00:54:29,710 --> 00:54:33,600 Are no matter where we're going to play Destiny and defeat the 1299 00:54:33,610 --> 00:54:35,280 White witch the wicked side of Mars. 1300 00:54:35,290 --> 00:54:36,900 Well, you yours is more like a cool. 1301 00:54:37,050 --> 00:54:38,540 You were like that cool. Not really. 1302 00:54:38,590 --> 00:54:40,790 No, you. But you weren't like, yeah, 1303 00:54:40,800 --> 00:54:42,840 there's different groups and there's kids. 1304 00:54:43,910 --> 00:54:45,080 Not very. I think we were like The 1305 00:54:45,090 --> 00:54:47,730 Inbetweeners. Yeah, basically like not, you 1306 00:54:47,740 --> 00:54:50,280 know, but fairly normal in terms of like you did quite 1307 00:54:50,290 --> 00:54:55,000 stereotypical wispy blokey boy group things or as I was not 1308 00:54:55,010 --> 00:54:56,980 like that at all really. You were like, you were the 1309 00:54:56,990 --> 00:54:59,200 Minecraft. Yeah, basically Runescape. 1310 00:54:59,210 --> 00:55:01,260 Yeah, exactly. We were just gamers, but. 1311 00:55:01,310 --> 00:55:03,980 All of your mates are really cool and that's the thing about 1312 00:55:03,990 --> 00:55:05,530 clicks. At school, you just grow up and 1313 00:55:05,540 --> 00:55:06,760 we're still friends. That's the nice thing. 1314 00:55:06,770 --> 00:55:08,860 I don't know you're exactly the same, but I think my first 1315 00:55:08,870 --> 00:55:11,420 impression of you at school was. So this is this is when do you 1316 00:55:11,430 --> 00:55:13,910 mean at school or when when we work together? 1317 00:55:14,180 --> 00:55:16,550 Working in schools. Working in school. 1318 00:55:16,560 --> 00:55:17,690 When when we first met cause you. 1319 00:55:17,700 --> 00:55:19,430 I was on my my first year teaching. 1320 00:55:19,440 --> 00:55:20,440 He was on his training. Yeah. 1321 00:55:20,520 --> 00:55:23,330 I'm I think I remember just thinking you're really like 1322 00:55:23,340 --> 00:55:27,030 minded and like easy to hang out with and I remember that being 1323 00:55:27,040 --> 00:55:28,790 oh that's nice. Like I made a friend quite. 1324 00:55:28,800 --> 00:55:30,530 Quickly. That was nice for me coming in 1325 00:55:30,540 --> 00:55:33,390 and again. Made made good friends with a 1326 00:55:33,400 --> 00:55:36,000 lot of female teachers. Not the kind of person to be 1327 00:55:36,010 --> 00:55:38,020 like all these women. Like I thought it was brilliant, 1328 00:55:38,030 --> 00:55:39,630 brilliant professionals. Got with all of them. 1329 00:55:39,720 --> 00:55:42,770 But there is just something about having that companion 1330 00:55:42,780 --> 00:55:44,930 who's male and who's similar age to you. 1331 00:55:44,980 --> 00:55:47,130 Yeah, there was just something about that, yeah. 1332 00:55:47,140 --> 00:55:49,950 Specifically to you because you you're you're you're close group 1333 00:55:49,960 --> 00:55:51,300 of friends is like a bit of a boy group. 1334 00:55:51,310 --> 00:55:53,710 So it is understandable that yeah, it. 1335 00:55:53,720 --> 00:55:55,910 Was nice. Just related more quickly. 1336 00:55:56,360 --> 00:55:59,590 I think still had those good relationships with people, but 1337 00:56:00,280 --> 00:56:05,960 our first kiss was magical. I actually remember the day you 1338 00:56:05,970 --> 00:56:07,190 came in once you shaved your hair off. 1339 00:56:07,200 --> 00:56:10,260 And I'm really, I'm heartbroken. Yeah, I was like, ohh, he's he's 1340 00:56:10,270 --> 00:56:10,970 now. He's not. 1341 00:56:10,980 --> 00:56:12,170 He's not mine. Do you know his heart was 1342 00:56:12,180 --> 00:56:13,630 broken? Who's your girlfriends? 1343 00:56:13,720 --> 00:56:18,450 When I came with my head shaved, she thought it was stupid, like 1344 00:56:18,840 --> 00:56:21,520 we went to the same school. That's down here, yeah. 1345 00:56:21,580 --> 00:56:22,870 And I and I said I was going to do it. 1346 00:56:22,880 --> 00:56:25,560 She was like don't do that. Ohh thanks. 1347 00:56:25,570 --> 00:56:26,400 I've got to. I am. 1348 00:56:26,410 --> 00:56:28,660 I am literally balding. Sorry, don't do that. 1349 00:56:28,670 --> 00:56:31,200 Like, put your head down like you see the island in the middle 1350 00:56:31,210 --> 00:56:32,380 of my She was like, yeah, you look stupid. 1351 00:56:32,390 --> 00:56:33,820 I was like, brilliant. Haven't got a choice. 1352 00:56:34,310 --> 00:56:36,240 Yeah, she's clarified since. I know. 1353 00:56:36,250 --> 00:56:39,220 I like winding up though. It's funny, I like wine dinner. 1354 00:56:39,230 --> 00:56:39,680 Up. Why not? 1355 00:56:39,690 --> 00:56:41,950 But you do look crazy at first. It wasn't. 1356 00:56:41,960 --> 00:56:42,810 Yeah. Did you do it? 1357 00:56:42,820 --> 00:56:44,440 I saw holidays. That's the best time today. 1358 00:56:44,450 --> 00:56:46,390 I don't know. It wasn't, it wasn't the best 1359 00:56:46,400 --> 00:56:49,100 time today because I had a tan on my face. 1360 00:56:49,710 --> 00:56:51,380 OK, you're gonna shave your head out. 1361 00:56:51,390 --> 00:56:53,800 Blokes off women, whoever, shaving their head. 1362 00:56:53,910 --> 00:56:56,920 Do it in the winter when you're Gene is a little bit more like 1363 00:56:56,990 --> 00:56:59,540 the tone of your skin is like ohh, it's gonna be the same. 1364 00:56:59,550 --> 00:57:00,840 Ohh, man. Yeah, yeah. 1365 00:57:00,950 --> 00:57:03,080 OK. My first question of you was 1366 00:57:03,090 --> 00:57:05,740 probably how am I gonna milk this guy? 1367 00:57:05,750 --> 00:57:13,220 Make a business or what? Now my first impression was like 1368 00:57:13,270 --> 00:57:17,720 I was really thankful that. It almost felt immediately like 1369 00:57:17,730 --> 00:57:19,660 I didn't have to. Everyone does this. 1370 00:57:19,670 --> 00:57:21,360 Let's be honest. We all put on a bit of an act. 1371 00:57:21,430 --> 00:57:23,860 Yeah, we all put on a bit of act. 1372 00:57:23,950 --> 00:57:26,090 Like this podcast. You listen to episode one and 1373 00:57:26,100 --> 00:57:28,450 listen to this one, you'll see the act in episode one because 1374 00:57:28,460 --> 00:57:30,580 we were obviously a bit of like putting up a front. 1375 00:57:30,590 --> 00:57:32,360 And your guard comes down after time. 1376 00:57:32,790 --> 00:57:35,410 And the more comfortable we were in a place or the more 1377 00:57:35,420 --> 00:57:37,680 comfortable you are with the people around you, the guard 1378 00:57:37,690 --> 00:57:40,520 comes down. And you know, at that point I 1379 00:57:40,530 --> 00:57:43,320 felt like I I could quickly put my guard down and just be very 1380 00:57:43,330 --> 00:57:48,780 honest and normal and myself. And because there's no way that 1381 00:57:48,790 --> 00:57:51,280 I would be making those sounds, I make one one of my. 1382 00:57:51,290 --> 00:57:54,120 Favourite randomly. I I will just we're gonna wrap 1383 00:57:54,130 --> 00:57:56,000 it up. But one of my favourite things 1384 00:57:56,370 --> 00:58:00,140 of my experience with you in general right over the years is 1385 00:58:00,150 --> 00:58:05,920 when we're together and we are then speaking to a third party 1386 00:58:05,990 --> 00:58:09,700 that's not like one of our close friends and watching Dylan go 1387 00:58:09,710 --> 00:58:11,420 into acting mode because we all do it. 1388 00:58:11,430 --> 00:58:13,430 Like you said, you know we got the electrician around suddenly 1389 00:58:13,440 --> 00:58:17,870 you and your shorts alright bro and like and you start dog and 1390 00:58:17,880 --> 00:58:20,110 trying to trying to fit. In mate I tried to put that 1391 00:58:20,120 --> 00:58:21,710 electrics back in. Yeah I know. 1392 00:58:21,720 --> 00:58:25,090 I noticed the fuse box. Was the fuse box was fusing or 1393 00:58:25,100 --> 00:58:26,950 something like? That pipe, mate, that pipe got 1394 00:58:26,960 --> 00:58:29,440 no electricity running, Yeah, Nothing leaking, Nothing 1395 00:58:29,450 --> 00:58:31,870 leaking. Yeah, we will do it. 1396 00:58:31,880 --> 00:58:36,570 And Dylan is just the best because he's just Oh well. 1397 00:58:37,850 --> 00:58:39,760 Do you mean the best at doing it all? 1398 00:58:39,770 --> 00:58:41,410 No, no. Ironically, ironically, the 1399 00:58:41,420 --> 00:58:42,920 worst at doing it. So. 1400 00:58:42,960 --> 00:58:45,070 So it's the best to watch. Like most people are quite 1401 00:58:45,080 --> 00:58:46,660 seamless. Like you think it's just that 1402 00:58:46,670 --> 00:58:51,860 personality dinners like ohh, well I'm just so you know, I'm 1403 00:58:51,870 --> 00:58:56,340 acting and actually yes I do. I do speak like this all the 1404 00:58:56,350 --> 00:58:58,030 time and it's just so funny because you can see how 1405 00:58:58,040 --> 00:58:59,880 different it is in real life. And then he comes behind the 1406 00:58:59,890 --> 00:59:03,490 scenes and starts going. And then I try to shower. 1407 00:59:04,980 --> 00:59:09,100 Out the window. One day we're gonna tell you why 1408 00:59:09,150 --> 00:59:10,760 the idea of dealing having a shower. 1409 00:59:10,930 --> 00:59:12,610 Is funny. That's gonna be the new glue 1410 00:59:12,620 --> 00:59:15,370 stick thing. Yeah, the shower story is told 1411 00:59:15,380 --> 00:59:18,790 that story. There's no that was just that 1412 00:59:18,800 --> 00:59:21,770 was a hook back in season one. It worked. 1413 00:59:21,780 --> 00:59:22,970 I couldn't believe how it worked. 1414 00:59:22,980 --> 00:59:24,660 People working, they got annoyed. 1415 00:59:24,670 --> 00:59:26,770 What is the glue? We've gone too long. 1416 00:59:26,780 --> 00:59:28,940 We've made this up. Yeah, one day. 1417 00:59:29,230 --> 00:59:31,970 But. Yeah, I struggle. 1418 00:59:31,980 --> 00:59:33,790 I struggle to put on. I feel like I put a mask 1419 00:59:33,800 --> 00:59:35,890 sometimes. You know, people have autism 1420 00:59:35,900 --> 00:59:37,070 talk about masking. Yeah. 1421 00:59:37,080 --> 00:59:39,170 And they laughing. Why laugh? 1422 00:59:39,180 --> 00:59:41,250 Yeah. So I just think of you. 1423 00:59:41,290 --> 00:59:42,820 I know. But there's like traits and 1424 00:59:42,830 --> 00:59:48,330 stuff from like I hate this. I really wanna wrap this up. 1425 00:59:48,340 --> 00:59:51,560 Why talk about this now? But I hate when people just say 1426 00:59:51,570 --> 00:59:54,070 they've got a condition or something and they're not 1427 00:59:54,080 --> 00:59:58,590 diagnosed ADHD ADHD. It's like you might do and this 1428 00:59:58,600 --> 01:00:00,880 is the problem because and This is why I always. 1429 01:00:01,030 --> 01:00:03,780 Just treat people as if they do, because again, it's like the 1430 01:00:03,790 --> 01:00:05,750 benefit thing. Yeah, there'll be some people 1431 01:00:05,760 --> 01:00:08,580 who say they were ADHD and they literally have ADHD. 1432 01:00:08,830 --> 01:00:13,090 There was some people say ADHD and they're just a bit rude but 1433 01:00:13,100 --> 01:00:15,210 you know cause but but then it's their way of just like 1434 01:00:15,220 --> 01:00:17,680 justifying their rude behaviour. But then there's someone else. 1435 01:00:17,690 --> 01:00:22,320 I know people with ADHD who are so lovely, but they have ADHD 1436 01:00:22,790 --> 01:00:25,280 and therefore things present differently. 1437 01:00:25,690 --> 01:00:29,190 And so my blanket thing now is I treat everyone who says that 1438 01:00:29,200 --> 01:00:33,940 they have like they do because the thought of just saying 1439 01:00:33,950 --> 01:00:36,460 someone doesn't who does, yeah, it's horrendous and we need to 1440 01:00:36,470 --> 01:00:39,340 be as inclusive as possible. But then, but then I remember 1441 01:00:39,350 --> 01:00:43,260 myself, I'm like, yeah, I've got I like look at my childhood and 1442 01:00:43,270 --> 01:00:46,300 stuff and I'm a teacher now and I look at children and I'm like, 1443 01:00:46,350 --> 01:00:51,990 ohh, I do have autism. Like I just do. 1444 01:00:52,090 --> 01:00:53,770 You know what you said. I'm not laughing at you having 1445 01:00:53,780 --> 01:00:55,430 autism. I know. 1446 01:00:56,060 --> 01:01:00,700 I'm like, ah, that's me and in so many situations and it's 1447 01:01:00,710 --> 01:01:02,520 crazy. It's crazy realising that you've 1448 01:01:02,530 --> 01:01:06,050 got something like that. And again, the reason why so 1449 01:01:06,060 --> 01:01:08,460 many people are trapped is because it will take four years 1450 01:01:08,470 --> 01:01:10,720 to get a diagnosis. You can't do anything about it 1451 01:01:10,730 --> 01:01:12,660 and it's not going to change. So I don't, I don't care about 1452 01:01:12,670 --> 01:01:15,420 getting one, but I'm like and people around me are told me 1453 01:01:15,430 --> 01:01:17,130 which is convinced me even more like, yeah, I. 1454 01:01:17,140 --> 01:01:19,760 Definitely do, but I think, I guess that goes back. 1455 01:01:19,840 --> 01:01:21,760 I don't want to say any of this, obviously for you is your thing 1456 01:01:21,770 --> 01:01:24,760 to say, but. The that's what's funny about 1457 01:01:24,770 --> 01:01:28,880 watching you mask because yeah cause you try so hard to act a 1458 01:01:28,890 --> 01:01:33,240 certain way and then but I know you a more personal level and 1459 01:01:33,250 --> 01:01:35,960 I'm like ohh, that's nothing. I'll watch you in a social 1460 01:01:35,970 --> 01:01:39,160 situation and be like that is not Dylan he is really just 1461 01:01:39,170 --> 01:01:42,800 putting on an act right now to come and tiring, tiring when you 1462 01:01:42,810 --> 01:01:45,440 stop. It's like in social situations 1463 01:01:45,570 --> 01:01:47,720 it's like people say they're introverted and stuff and they 1464 01:01:47,850 --> 01:01:49,840 all that energy is sapped from being around people. 1465 01:01:49,890 --> 01:01:52,340 I love being around my mates and stuff, and I don't mind being 1466 01:01:52,350 --> 01:01:54,930 around people. If you listen to me, like in 1467 01:01:54,940 --> 01:01:57,230 meetings and stuff, I'm the first one to voice my opinion. 1468 01:01:57,300 --> 01:01:59,530 Yeah, and stuff like that. But it's because in my head I'm 1469 01:01:59,540 --> 01:02:01,880 like, Nah, because we have to say this because this does not 1470 01:02:01,890 --> 01:02:03,930 make sense. Yeah, like, I feel like I've got 1471 01:02:03,940 --> 01:02:06,690 to clarify this. You do get very quick to be 1472 01:02:06,700 --> 01:02:08,490 angry or anything that's not. That's not. 1473 01:02:08,500 --> 01:02:09,210 Yeah. Yeah. 1474 01:02:09,220 --> 01:02:11,740 If I don't understand. So true. 1475 01:02:11,750 --> 01:02:13,200 Yeah. If it's not. 1476 01:02:13,280 --> 01:02:15,680 And but I can switch off for children. 1477 01:02:15,810 --> 01:02:17,260 Yeah. Because I'm like, whatever, it's 1478 01:02:17,270 --> 01:02:18,380 a child. I'm gonna teach you. 1479 01:02:18,390 --> 01:02:20,030 If you don't understand something, I'm gonna teach you. 1480 01:02:20,040 --> 01:02:22,050 It's absolutely fine. Well, it's an adult saying 1481 01:02:22,060 --> 01:02:25,120 something completely illogical, which is like in one breath 1482 01:02:25,130 --> 01:02:27,140 saying that workloads too high. In the second breath saying that 1483 01:02:27,150 --> 01:02:28,460 you need to do all this stuff. Hmm. 1484 01:02:28,500 --> 01:02:30,540 I can't not say anything. I'm like those two. 1485 01:02:30,650 --> 01:02:32,110 Those two sentences don't go together. 1486 01:02:32,120 --> 01:02:32,760 Yeah. Yeah. 1487 01:02:32,770 --> 01:02:35,020 I I need to tell you this. Most people would be like, well, 1488 01:02:35,030 --> 01:02:38,730 I know they don't, but crack on no, no, no, that doesn't make 1489 01:02:38,740 --> 01:02:39,840 sense. Can we. 1490 01:02:39,850 --> 01:02:41,920 Sorry, can we clarify? Do you want us to do that or 1491 01:02:41,930 --> 01:02:42,420 not? Then? 1492 01:02:42,470 --> 01:02:44,180 Because you said we don't have to mark this stuff. 1493 01:02:44,190 --> 01:02:46,090 But now you're saying that it's bad, that there's no marking in 1494 01:02:46,100 --> 01:02:48,820 there. So which of the two things is 1495 01:02:48,830 --> 01:02:50,160 this? Because people won't know what 1496 01:02:50,170 --> 01:02:51,200 to do. And I don't. 1497 01:02:51,210 --> 01:02:53,130 And I'm going to pretend it's for everyone, but really it's 1498 01:02:53,140 --> 01:02:54,980 for me, because I need to know exactly what's going on. 1499 01:02:55,050 --> 01:02:58,420 Do you remember when we did like, an autism test for you? 1500 01:03:00,020 --> 01:03:02,340 I'm laughing because it's me. Yeah, it was like as if we 1501 01:03:02,350 --> 01:03:03,530 didn't know what the result was going to be. 1502 01:03:04,590 --> 01:03:07,780 We both did it wasn't it and IQ test. 1503 01:03:07,830 --> 01:03:11,460 No I could cause I've done an IQ test right ohh and it was loads 1504 01:03:11,470 --> 01:03:16,300 of intelligences and it was like memory vocabulary, sure spatial 1505 01:03:16,340 --> 01:03:20,510 maths, like all these things on like just spider diagrams where 1506 01:03:20,520 --> 01:03:23,260 they go out the more you get and you tend to have strengths and 1507 01:03:23,270 --> 01:03:25,540 weaknesses. Yeah, and again, not blowing my 1508 01:03:25,550 --> 01:03:28,280 own trumpet, but. Smashed it, smashed it. 1509 01:03:28,290 --> 01:03:30,540 Absolutely smashed all the like all the stuff which doesn't 1510 01:03:30,550 --> 01:03:32,640 matter about being human. Like yes, this shape would come 1511 01:03:32,650 --> 01:03:34,820 next and this number would come next and actually that means the 1512 01:03:34,830 --> 01:03:35,980 opposite. And this random knowledge and 1513 01:03:35,990 --> 01:03:37,960 this logic And one of the spider, right? 1514 01:03:37,970 --> 01:03:41,480 I was in the top, I was in the top between 1900% for all of 1515 01:03:41,490 --> 01:03:44,520 them apart from one where I was in the bottom 5%. 1516 01:03:44,890 --> 01:03:46,600 And it was emotional intelligence. 1517 01:03:46,810 --> 01:03:51,280 And it was simply they they showed you two faces of people 1518 01:03:51,370 --> 01:03:55,020 and they said click the sad one, click the angry one, click the. 1519 01:03:55,060 --> 01:03:58,850 And I was in the bottom 5% despite the wheel looked mental. 1520 01:03:58,860 --> 01:04:01,730 It was a full circle. And then one spike in. 1521 01:04:01,780 --> 01:04:04,150 Yeah. And I was like, ohh, OK. 1522 01:04:04,220 --> 01:04:08,150 I can't understand emotion. Just like, I can't believe it. 1523 01:04:08,160 --> 01:04:11,020 Yeah, it was crazy. Yeah, well, one day we should 1524 01:04:11,030 --> 01:04:12,820 dive into it more at some point. I don't want people to think 1525 01:04:12,830 --> 01:04:14,400 we're flippantly just chucking around. 1526 01:04:14,410 --> 01:04:15,970 Diagnosis. No, not at all. 1527 01:04:15,980 --> 01:04:19,460 It's it's through teaching and seeing it and understanding it, 1528 01:04:19,800 --> 01:04:21,420 and I've had conversations with people around. 1529 01:04:21,430 --> 01:04:25,060 Me a lot of people, to be fair. You talk to a lot of people. 1530 01:04:25,070 --> 01:04:27,840 It's not like it's just me confirming something because the 1531 01:04:27,850 --> 01:04:30,340 one thing I would not want to do is just flippantly say it. 1532 01:04:30,590 --> 01:04:33,480 Because again, firstly, it's not an excuse for anything because 1533 01:04:34,240 --> 01:04:37,120 it it's my thing, yeah, I need to live. 1534 01:04:37,130 --> 01:04:39,170 With it, you never use it. You never you barely have 1535 01:04:39,180 --> 01:04:40,590 mentioned we found. Surprised you've mentioned it 1536 01:04:40,600 --> 01:04:41,570 here because I don't think would be. 1537 01:04:41,580 --> 01:04:42,730 You ever talked about? No. 1538 01:04:42,740 --> 01:04:45,290 But again, I just think it's interesting and I think people 1539 01:04:45,300 --> 01:04:49,000 out there who are feeling the same way, you know, just look 1540 01:04:49,010 --> 01:04:51,410 into it and it doesn't have to become a thing. 1541 01:04:51,420 --> 01:04:54,310 You can just have ways of coping with it and being honest and 1542 01:04:54,320 --> 01:04:55,610 frank with your friends about it. 1543 01:04:56,340 --> 01:04:59,030 But it's definitely a thing. And it's played on my mind 1544 01:04:59,040 --> 01:05:04,930 because I then think, if I got a diagnosis, I'm thinking, what 1545 01:05:04,940 --> 01:05:07,670 would change? And really the only thing I 1546 01:05:07,680 --> 01:05:10,130 think would change for me would be people might view me 1547 01:05:10,140 --> 01:05:11,190 differently. Yeah. 1548 01:05:11,200 --> 01:05:13,290 So I'm like, OK, cool. It's not worth it for me then. 1549 01:05:13,480 --> 01:05:15,970 Yeah, like, what's the point? Yeah, really. 1550 01:05:16,260 --> 01:05:19,850 Yeah, and people might think I'm a bit weird or quirky or 1551 01:05:19,860 --> 01:05:22,840 whatever, but that's fine. I'm not. 1552 01:05:22,850 --> 01:05:24,490 I'm not bothered about an official thing. 1553 01:05:24,740 --> 01:05:26,770 So that's why. Because I might be wrong. 1554 01:05:26,980 --> 01:05:31,060 I might have these traits. Classified as a state or 1555 01:05:31,070 --> 01:05:32,350 anything. Yeah, what have you got? 1556 01:05:32,400 --> 01:05:37,440 Yeah, I've got a toy now. Spin it. 1557 01:05:37,450 --> 01:05:39,770 That's weird. Yeah. 1558 01:05:39,780 --> 01:05:42,830 Anyway, I'm going to be a dad. This episode was. 1559 01:05:42,980 --> 01:05:44,730 I'm really sorry. This is the weirdest episode 1560 01:05:44,740 --> 01:05:45,810 ever. I got delayed today. 1561 01:05:45,820 --> 01:05:47,810 We got deep. Yeah, talk about some stuff. 1562 01:05:47,820 --> 01:05:49,560 Yeah. And we probably won't be here 1563 01:05:49,570 --> 01:05:50,690 next week. Probably not. 1564 01:05:50,760 --> 01:05:54,310 He's gonna be a dad next week, literally next week. 1565 01:05:54,320 --> 01:05:57,930 And yeah, thanks for the Q&A, guys. 1566 01:05:57,940 --> 01:05:59,290 Get in touch with you. Got any stories? 1567 01:05:59,300 --> 01:06:01,570 Let us know how it's going on and maybe share this with your 1568 01:06:01,580 --> 01:06:03,390 friends because we might get a chance next week. 1569 01:06:03,400 --> 01:06:04,950 Go back and listen to your favourite one. 1570 01:06:04,960 --> 01:06:07,090 Yeah. And give us some more love in 1571 01:06:07,100 --> 01:06:09,390 the five star reviews and follow us because we love seeing those 1572 01:06:09,400 --> 01:06:10,540 numbers. Go up and one day we'll tell you 1573 01:06:10,550 --> 01:06:12,490 about how Dylan likes to shower. See you later. 1574 01:06:12,500 --> 01:06:15,130 Weird thing to hook them with. Bye.