Right now in the United States, we're going through a government
shutdown. And so it's affecting a lot of
people and a lot of our personal finances because if we don't
have an emergency fund set up, if we're not prepared for things
like this, then that's when we can make impulsive decisions and
we can go. For.
Payday loans and we can start getting, you know, Helocs on our
home, equity lines of credit on our home and doing all of these,
taking out loans on our retirement and things like that.
And that can really start to snowball on the opposite
direction. And that's kind of what happened
for my family and I when we got into financial trouble and our
paychecks weren't guaranteed. The whole point is there was
some stuff we could control and then there was other stuff that
we couldn't control and so. Right.
You asked. And I'm answering.
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All right, we'll talk soon. Right now, I know there's a lot
that we can't control, but the things that we can, and I want
to talk a little bit more about that today, are the things that
we can control. And that's how we spend our
money now. And so if you're in this
situation right now where you don't know if your next paycheck
is coming, and I know that's a very close thing in our
household as well, is, is how do you create a shut down or
survival mode budget? So we talked about survival mode
budget is like the bare bones stuff.
And we talked about the IP taking that budgeting master
class. We talked about that in there.
And then we add on all the other things afterwards, like
including our our debt elimination or debt snowball.
And I did get some questions about that today.
So I'm going to cover that a little bit more.
But we want to focus in on the things that are most important
to keep a roof over our head. Excuse.
Me a roof. Over our head.
Food in our belly and transportation to and from work.
So if you are maybe you're a government employee or you know,
someone that's a government employee and they're furloughed
right now, then they don't have to go to work and they're still
not getting paid. But then there are some people
that are not getting paid and then still have to go to work.
And so if that's you and that transportation spot, you want to
make sure that those things that transportation to and from work
is paid for. So if you have car payments,
making sure that car payment is paid and you know, you have gas
that you can get to and from work.
So cut down on some of those extra extra trips if you can, so
that you can conserve your money as best as possible.
And then like I said, the roof over your head and food in your
belly. So the tip that I give every
single time we jump on a call is supercook.com or using ChatGPT
to create recipes based on the food that you have on hand right
now, because our families cannot skip meals.
And a lot of, sorry, the TV just came on randomly.
A lot of budgeting will tell you, you know, a lot of other
budget gurus will tell you that take care of, you know, pay
yourself first, do all of these things first.
And then whatever's leftover is for gas and gas and food.
And where you can get into a little bit of trouble with your
budget is if you plan all of your expenses and then you leave
that transportation, so many gas and food last.
And that is we're going to flip that upside down.
And so for your survival mode budget, you want to make sure
that you're mortgages paid, your utilities are paid.
I would also include in there making sure that your health is
covered. And so whether that's if you
have to pay your health premiums or if you have co-pays, don't
skip doctor visits right now if you can, if you can help it, If
there's some things that can be, you know, put off a little bit,
that's that's totally up to you. But I would say do not.
That's part of the essentials is making sure that your health is
is managed and that you can keep a roof over your head because
that's super important to so that you can be your best as a
parent for your family. So a quick check in as we I like
to do accountability check INS is just seeing how you feel like
your spending is lining up with the plan that you had for the
month. Okay, So if you are in a
situation right now where your paycheck is uncertain and this
could be a spot where we go pivot, pause, hold on, we got to
make a new plan. And that's where I say month to
month, your budget is going to look different because things
happen, your priorities change. And so if you know, things were
a little bit different last month and then all of a sudden
we had this government shutdown and it's affecting your
finances, then your your priorities are going to shift.
It's going to be less about the, if you're doing your debt
snowball and you're working on that and it's pausing that.
So one of the questions that came from one of our alliance
members is they're getting ready to pay off their car and has
paused that because they're affected by the government
shutdown. And the question was the car
payment is paid through December.
Does she continue to pay that every single month or hold on or
wait until the shutdown's over to continue those payments?
So my answer to this question is, since you're already paid
through December is you've, you've already, you've already
taken care of October's already paid November.
That is absolutely great. So I would say whatever you're,
you are planning on paying on additional payments, hold on to
that for now because that you might have to use for food or
transportation or you might have to use for your mortgage if your
paycheck is going to be short or non existent for the next few
weeks or months. So pause on that and then we
will re evaluate when that time, when that time comes, when you
get closer to December and you realize, OK, like that maybe we
don't know, the shutdown's over and things are back to quote UN
quote. Normal or.
Maybe it's continuing on and you need to adapt and change.
From there but. For right now, hold on to any
extra funds that you have. So making sure that those those
priorities are paid and then anything that's left over.
And that's why that budget is so vitally important, especially in
scenarios like this is whatever is leftover, you're going to
hold on to that and save that. You could create a separate
emergency fund or you could just add that to what you already
have that X that $1000 that you have set aside.
So if you are in that financial crisis mode right now, then
maybe buying some new clothes unless it's absolutely necessary
is a, you know, as a pause. I know for us, there's a big
just between friends sale coming up and I have a bunch of items
that I'm going to be selling there.
And so that money will be able to that'll be a wash.
So whatever I sell, I can spend. And so that's not going to come
out of my clothing fund for my daughter.
Get her, you know, replace some of her shoes that she's that
she's worn out, that kind of stuff.
So this is the, this is the time of year, not only because it's
October and coming into the holiday season, but also because
we're kind of in a crazy season financially with, with our
economy and the way things are. We need to kind of be more
conservative with our spending. And so if that's where, if
that's where you are, this is a great spot to kind of tweak and
work with your budget and see what things need to, what things
need to be reduced and what things can be paused for a
little while until you can get your financial footing again and
know that your paycheck is going to be coming in.
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All right. Let's get back to the.
Show this is a different question that was submitted by
another alliance number it credit scores and the financial
crisis right now. So this is this is a tough one
because it depends on what your priorities are.
What I teach and what I live is my credit score is my credit
score is just some number that the credit reporting agencies
and lending institutions use to determine my worthiness to pay
back alone. My goal is to never have to use
credit ever again. And so I don't care what my
credit score is. I don't actually even know what
my credit score is. And I want to remind you also,
your credit score doesn't define who you are.
It's just a number that says this person is worthy enough to
take a risk on for them to pay back the money that you're going
to lend them. And so it is just a, it's a
number. That's all it means.
So if this is a scenario that you find yourself in with the
financial crisis and you're having a hard time making those
debt payments, communicate with your creditors first and let
them know, hey, I'm affected by the government shutdown,
furloughs, that kind of stuff. My, my income is unstable right
now. Let them know ahead of time and
then take care of those survival mode budget items 1st and you'll
notice on that, on that every dollar budget, that is the very
last thing. And that's where it should be
because those other things are more important.
That is kind of those things that, you know, we need to
address it. But there are things that are
happening in the past and we need to address the present and
be prepared for the future. And so when you're in crisis
mode, we want to make sure that those basic needs are met and
then everything else will take a backseat to that.
So yes, if you are unable to make your credit payments right
now and your credit score takes the takes the tank, which is
what happened to to us, so be it.
And I know that that's a really can be a really hard pill to
swallow sometimes because we are taught that our credit score is
like this number that we need to achieve.
And once we get there, then it it's, you know, it's a sign of
success. And I want to challenge that
thought and that belief because for my family and I, we're much
more successful because we have not used credit to fund
day-to-day life and we enjoy it so much more because we don't
have that added stress. But if you do find yourself in
that situation, talk to your creditors and let them know that
your income is unstable right now, and then work on a plan
with them now. That's why that budget is so
vitally important, because you'll know what you can commit
to and what you can't commit to when it comes.
To repayment. So if you know you're only going
to have. You know, $100.
Left after your utility, you know, food, utilities, mortgage,
medicines, those types of things are taken care of, then I
wouldn't commit to any kind of repayment plan yet.
Then you know, and make sure you take notes of those
conversations so that when, when you revisit it, because we do
find ourselves sometimes, especially when we're stressed
out and finances are a big part of that, that we can forget some
of the conversation. So take some good notes so that
when you go back to revisit it, when you're in a more
financially stable spot and you're able to commit to that
repayment, then you have the notes to to back that up.
So how about, OK, emergency savings versus investing versus
paying off your debt? Which should you do first?
What should you do first? Now, this is a great one because
a lot of all of these things are very important.
They're all part of your big financial plan.
And I would say the thing that is important right now is 1, is
your income uncertain? And I'm going to keep talking
about that because it's affecting a lot of people,
especially a lot of the conversations I've been having
with different people. Savings is absolutely the spot.
If you have anything leftover, put it in savings.
If you do not have $1000 emergency fund, put it there.
Now, if you're one of the people that is not affected by by this
right now, by the shutdown or the furloughs or anything like
that, then you can, if you already have your $1000
emergency fund set up, you can move into that, that debt payoff
that debt snowball scenario and works and work through that.
Investing is going to come after all of this because once you
have that eliminated, you're going to have so much more left
to invest. The caveat there is, and we
talked about this, I believe it was on last month's office
hours, is if you have a employer match of any kind, if your
employer matches any kind of retirement investments, then you
need to whatever. If it's 3%, then you give 3%
towards that as that is free money that they're giving you.
If you don't take it, then you're leaving money on the
tables. If it's three percent, 10
percent, 5%, whatever it looks like, match that and then
whatever is leftover that you normally would have put towards
investing is making sure that emergency funds there and then
your debts are getting paid off. Now the reason why that is the
order the having that emergency fund is going to keep you from
using that credit card on a regular basis.
And also I have found for myself and many of my clients is when
you have that $1000 emergency fund, your emergencies look a
little bit different than they did when you had the credit
card. And I'll give you an example.
We had a flat tire this week and could have been super
frustrating but we took it to the tire shop and they fixed it
for. Free.
So sometimes when those things happen like that, it's not about
necessarily having to buy a new tire.
It is like, OK, let's pause and let's think instead of kind of
just jumping to worst case scenario.
We don't have, we didn't have to get all new tires.
The thing is when we when we can, when we can pause and
respond to things instead of react to them, then we're going
to be able to make more conscious decisions that line up
with our plans and our goals. And so yes, was this the flat
tire, frustrating? Absolutely.
But we had things in place so that if we needed to replace
that tire, we had an emergency fund to set aside for that type
of stuff. Thankfully, we didn't have to.
And so when you have that, you'll really be able to decide
is this a real, true, in fact emergency or is this something
that can wait? And so I do want to address too,
if you are in a spot right now where you have to dip into that
emergency fund, do it because that's what it's there for, but
do your very best to get it refilled as fast as possible.
And that's where this budget comes in.
And it's such a tool to help you organize your money, but also
make sure all of the things that are covered that need to be,
need to be covered in the scenario.
So emergency $1000 emergency fund, then your debt pay off and
then investing. Unless of course your employer
is giving you any kind of retirement match then invest
that. Amount and nothing.
More and nothing less. I'm excited about what is coming
with the Alliance. There's some some great
workshops I'm going to be putting together like this,
preparing your money for the holidays and reorganizing things
so it's a lot more user friendly.
But you can find what you want when you need to and get you the
questions answered that you want answered.
So that's what office hours is about is this opportunity to
just come together and ask the questions.
And if you, I know that the times aren't always perfect for
everyone. And so if that is the case,
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questions ahead of time that you want to submit, you can send
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