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Please remain standing for the 
reading of God's Word. 

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Our Scripture this evening is 
Ephesians chapter 5, and you'll 

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find it printed there if you 
want to follow along in the 

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bulletin as I read it for us. 
Ephesians chapter 5, verses 1 to

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21. 
Let's hear God's Word together. 

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Therefore, Paul says, Be 
imitators of God as beloved 

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children, and walk in love as 
Christ loved us and gave himself

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up for us, a fragrant offering 
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But sexual immorality and all 
impurity or covetousness must 

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not even be named among you, as 
is proper among Saints. 

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Let there be no filthiness, nor 
foolish talk, nor crude joking 

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which are out of place, but 
instead let there be 

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Thanksgiving. 
For you may be sure of this, 

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that everyone who is sexually 
immoral or impure, or who is 

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covetous, that is, an idolater, 
has no inheritance in the 

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Kingdom of Christ and God. 
Let no one deceive you with 

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empty words. 
For because of these things the 

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wrath of God comes upon the sons
of disobedience. 

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Therefore do not become partners
with them. 

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For at one time you were 
darkness, but now you are light 

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in the Lord. 
Walk as children of light, for 

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the fruit of light is found in 
all that is good and right and 

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true, and try to discern what is
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Take no part in the unfruitful 
works of darkness, but instead 

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expose them. 
For it is shameful even to speak

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of the things that they do in 
secret. 

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But when anything is exposed by 
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for anything that becomes 
visible is light. 

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Therefore it says, Awake, O 
sleeper, and arise from the 

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dead, and Christ will shine on 
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Look carefully then, how you 
walk, not as unwise but as wise,

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making the best use of the time,
because the days are evil. 

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Therefore, do not be foolish, 
but understand what the will of 

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the Lord is, and do not get 
drunk with wine, for that is 

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debauchery, but be filled with 
the Spirit, addressing one 

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another in psalms and hymns and 
spiritual songs, singing and 

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making melody to the Lord with 
your heart, giving thanks always

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and for everything to God the 
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Jesus Christ, submitting to one 
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Christ. 
This is the word of the Lord. 

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Thanks be to God. 
Please be seated. 

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This morning in the sermon 
looking at Ephesians chapter 4 

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this morning, I said that a part
of the text was a direct quote 

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from Psalm 4. 
And after the service, dear 

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friends, came up to me 
afterwards was talking to me and

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said, can you just help me find 
that Scripture? 

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I've turned to First Samuel 4 
and Second Samuel 4 and I cannot

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find it. 
And I said, no, it's in Psalm 4.

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So let me try. 
Is it Psalm, Psalm, Psalm 4? 

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So I I realized that as I read 
the text again this evening, 

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verse 19, and needed another 
translation moment for you 

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friends, this evening's sermon 
has a very high bar. 

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I want to tell you what God's 
will is for your life. 

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I want to tell you this evening.
I hope you want to know that. 

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And looking around the room, 
seeing the sheer variety in 

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ages, I know that at least many 
of you will want to know that. 

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Maybe you're even anxious to 
know that. 

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Should I marry him or her? 
What college should I go to? 

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Lord, would you guide me? 
Would you lead me? 

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Show me. 
We pray that often, don't we? 

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All the time. 
They are good prayers to pray. 

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And I have the answer for you 
tonight, here this evening. 

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In fact, you have the answer. 
We've read it together that the 

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big issue is there in verse 17. 
Did you see it? 

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Therefore, do not be foolish, 
but understand what the Lord's 

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will is. 
Friends, you will have 

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fellowship here at PCPC, one 
with the other. 

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You will have fellowship if you 
get this one thing right, if you

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know what God's will is for you.
We're about to see it together 

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that this was my choice of 
passage this evening. 21 verses.

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But I'm afraid when I sat to 
look at it this afternoon and 

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began to think about the 
structure of this thought, I 

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realized that I'm just getting 
older and I want to slow down a 

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lot more now that I'm in my 50s.
I want to take my time. 

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This is 2 big attacks to handle 
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Everything around me, my life is
getting slower and older all the

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time. 
I said to my teenage son Sam, 15

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year old boy, not long ago. 
We run together sometimes on a 

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Saturday morning, a 5 kilometer 
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And he said to me one Saturday 
morning, he said I'm going to, 

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I'm going to run with you this 
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Daddy said, but I'm not feeling 
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So I'm not going to run. 
I'm not going to run fast. 

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I'm just going to run it with 
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And so slowness is the mark of 
my life. 

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You know the famous John Piper 
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God is doing 1000 things. 
My wife says in any one thing 

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she is doing 1000 things while 
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And I think that's about right. 
I, I, what we, we are not going 

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to get through everything in 
this text this evening. 

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I, I want to just give you the 
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I want to show you how these 
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And then I'm going to leave you 
to get a good commentary and to 

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fill in, fill in the details. 
I want to show you three things.

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Number one, I want to show you 
the main command which is at the

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heart of All true fellowship #2 
I want to show you the 

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surprising application which is 
the life of all true fellowship.

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Two things, The main command in 
this text that is the heart of 

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all true fellowship #2 the 
surprising application that is 

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the life of all true fellowship.
And the third thing actually 

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comes in between them. 
We're going to do .1. 

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Then I'm going to give you a 
beautiful illustration, and then

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we're going to do .2. 
So the three things are two 

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points in an illustration 
sandwiched in the middle. 

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Let's look at the first thing, 
the main command, which is at 

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the heart of all true 
fellowship. 

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Friends, what is God's will for 
your life? 

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Do you see the main command in 
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I love how it is laid out in the
bulletin for you. 

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It's even clear it's right in 
the very first verse, the very 

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first sentence. 
The main command in this text, 

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friends, is copy God. 
You see it be imitators of God. 

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Friends, this evening. 
God's will for your life is that

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you imitate him, that that you 
copy him. 

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God is fixing the world by 
making imitators of himself, 

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making little mini versions of 
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God is fixing the world with 
mimics, impersonators, copycats.

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That is the main command in the 
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And then three times we are 
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that command. 
Verse 2, we're told to walk in 

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love. 
Verse 8, we're told to walk in 

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light. 
Verse 15, we're told to walk in 

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wisdom. 
Walk in love, walk in light, 

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walk in wisdom. 
But wouldn't that be beautiful? 

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The the word walk is a metaphor 
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It simply means live in love, 
live in light, live in wisdom, 

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move forward in those things and
you will be copying God and you 

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will be living in God's perfect 
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And you will be in fellowship 
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fellowship with you. 
But who should I marry? 

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What? 
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Ask yourself in in those 
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If I do this, can I copy God and
wear what Christ wears as I do A

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or B or C? 
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them, then friends, knock 
yourself. 

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I do any of them. 
Pick any one of them. 

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That's his will for your life. 
Simply that you imitate him as 

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you do them. 
Wonder if you know this evening.

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There are ways that you can 
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that you can't imitate him. 
God has attributes that he 

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communicates to us which we can 
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God is holy. 
God is loving. 

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God is good. 
God is just. 

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God is merciful, patient, 
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Wise. 
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communicable attributes. 
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You can imitate God in all those
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has attributes that you cannot 
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God is infinite, God is 
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existent, God is eternal, God is
unchanging, He is omniscient, He

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is omnipresent, He is 
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Only God can be those things. 
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attributes. 
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Most of your misery this evening
is in trying to copy the wrong 

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attributes of God. 
Are you exhausted all the time? 

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If so, it's because you are 
trying to be omnipresent, like 

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only God can be. 
Burning yourself out in life, 

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trying to do what only He can 
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people, at all times, in every 
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Friends, this evening, it's 
possible that your anxiety is 

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not because of your upbringing, 
your family, your circumstances.

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It's because of trying to know 
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You are not omniscient. 
He hasn't ever promised to share

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that with you. 
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God in any one of his 
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set ourselves up as God's rival.
And you know what the name for 

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that is? 
It is idolatry. 

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It's what sin is, isn't it? 
Trying to be like God in all the

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wrong ways. 
Adam and Eve, you can be like 

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God. 
Brothers and sisters this 

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evening, true happiness, deep, 
deep contentment, beauty, 

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holiness, joy, godliness, those 
things are finding God's 

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communicable attributes, 
imitating him in all the ways he

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can be copied. 
Verse 1 be imitators of God. 

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It can be done. 
You can copy him, the infinite 

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eternal, ever living, ever 
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children, you can copy him. 
What does Paul say next? 

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Immediately you can copy him in 
what? 

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In love, in love, friends, the 
most supreme, sublime, perfect 

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example of the love of God. 
Look at the text is is not an 

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idea to wrap your head around, 
but it is a person to learn. 

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What does the text say? 
Walk in love as Christ loved us 

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and gave himself up for us, as a
fragrant offering and a 

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sacrifice to God. 
On Saturday morning, I commended

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this little book to everybody 
who began Winter Grace thinking 

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about fellowship. 
It's called, It's by John 

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Calvin. 
The book is called A Little Book

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on the Christian Life. 
Want to want to recommend this 

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to you above. 
And I say this even though 

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Sandra and others are here and 
I've got books here above 

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anything else, please get hold 
of this little book this evening

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and take it home with you. 
Listen to what John Calvin says 

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if you want to know what the 
Christian life is all about. 

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There are two main parts. 
First part, we need a love of 

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righteousness to which we are 
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That love of righteousness has 
to be implanted into us by God 

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poured into us. 
Secondly, we need a model of 

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righteousness to stop us from 
losing our way in pursuit of 

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righteousness. 
And beautifully, Calvin shows 

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how the Lord Jesus Christ is 
that model of righteousness. 

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See, if you put your eyes on 
verse 2. 

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Friends, you know you belong to 
Jesus when you love others by 

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giving yourself up for them like
He did, and when your life 

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smells like a beautiful 
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What did the Lord Jesus say? 
Here I am, I have come to do 

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your will. 
And his self offering of His 

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body as He took on to Himself 
human nature, as the eternal Son

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joined himself to a tiny human 
embryo. 

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And he entered the darkness and 
the smallness and the weakness 

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of a woman's womb and his 
downward humiliation that 

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happened from that point onwards
all through his life, as he 

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first sheds his sacrificial 
blood in his circumcision and 

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then his life of being an 
outcast and an embarrassment to 

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his family and a reject to his 
friends, all the way to the 

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cross. 
And as he dies alone and 

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abandoned and forsaken, what 
does his father say? 

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This is my beloved son with whom
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He, he offers his life up to 
God, his Father on the cross for

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his people. 
And his father says, yes, I am 

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well pleased. 
Yes, this is right, that the 

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head dying for the body, the 
shepherd laying down his life 

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for for the sheep, the 
bridegroom laying down his life 

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for the bride. 
Yes, says the father, the the 

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aroma of that is beautiful. 
That the fragrance of that is 

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pleasing. 
Friend, do you know what God's 

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will is for your life? 
To copy that to? 

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To do what He did? 
To walk in love like that? 

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To love others as Christ has 
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Can I put it really simply like 
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It does not matter where you 
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Are you the kind of person 
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with whom you work with friends?
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It does not matter who you 
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Do you love them? 
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Are they a Christian? 
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Those are the only three things 
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Here's the bigger question. 
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yourself for someone else? 
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Are they right for you when they
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up next to you for the rest of 
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Will they discover that they 
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who gives them, gives themselves
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the best that they have on them 
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That is God's will for your 
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OK, so that is the main command,
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God. 
We've done #1 Now here is the 

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beautiful illustration. 
I call it beautiful because it's

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not mine. 
This comes from CS Lewis in Mere

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Christianity. 
CS Lewis has a wonderful chapter

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called, Let's pretend the little
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famous book, Mere Christianity. 
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says, OK, let's let's just 
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All this talk about putting on 
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of dressing yourself in Christ. 
CS Lewis says, isn't that 

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actually the opposite of what we
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on on the outside? 
Like a robe that I had on this 

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morning and it's off and it's 
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But put, put love on. 
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of me. 
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the outside. 
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CS Lewis says this is serious 
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If that's what it means to be a 
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I thought he changed us from the
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in. 
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somewhere else. 
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Christ is beginning to turn you 
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himself. 
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inject his kind of life and 
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What? 
Why this language of putting 

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something on isn't isn't 
dressing in clothes that aren't 

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our own just pretending? 
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He says, friends, didn't you 
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Let's let's pretend as kids? 
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pretend as children? 
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I hope your kids do this at 
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They, you, you come into the 
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mummies, high heeled shoes, 
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room. 
Your children play mummies and 

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daddies. 
Your children play doctors and 

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nurses. 
They play baseball in A and I've

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tried to contextualize in a 
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my world, it's playing soccer in
a Lionel Messi soccer top his 

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name on their back. 
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through the soccer pitch, 
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And CS Lewis says, you know, do 
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The clothes don't fit yet, but 
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The whole point of let's pretend
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actually is a reality for them 
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One day mum's high heels will be
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That there really is a real 
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wearing and pretend who they 
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That there is a real baseball 
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There is a real soccer team. 
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to a real person and you put 
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belonging to you. 
CS Lewis says yes, but one day 

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they will fit you will grow into
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Listen to this, he says this. 
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real person. 
The Lord Jesus Christ here and 

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now, in this very room where you
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doing things to you. 
The Christian faith is not a 

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question of a good man who died 
2000 years ago. 

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It is a living man, still as 
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much God as he was when He 
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It is really Him coming and 
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He is killing the old natural 
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the kind of self He has. 
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for longer periods. 
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at the end, He will turn you 
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sort of thing. 
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Christ, a being which in its own
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life as God. 
Friends, this evening I want to 

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say to you with all my heart, if
you walk in love and if you walk

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in light and walk in wisdom, 
even if those things do not feel

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like they fit you, they will 
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They will begin to change you. 
Yes, Christ is changing you from

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the outside, from the inside 
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They will also change you from 
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Friends, do not wait to become a
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Sitting here this evening 
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How do I do verse 2 to become a 
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God is not going to ZAP you from
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person. 
Find some person to lay your 

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life down for and you will 
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Sacrifice yourself. 
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Christ in you, beginning to 
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erase the old you, and the life 
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you. 
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I want to finish with this, the 
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The one main command be 
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all true fellowship #2 the 
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the life of all true fellowship.
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OK, David, this evening, look 
what, what does a life of love 

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look like? 
What, what does a life of 

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walking in the light look like? 
What does a life of wisdom look 

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like? 
I would say to you, it is one 

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word, gratitude, Gratitude. 
Friends, the surprising 

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application in this text, which 
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fellowship, is that Paul is 
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the person who is mimicking 
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gratitude. 
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text with me. 
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Here we have Christ loved us, 
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fragrant offering and sacrifice 
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But sexual immorality and all 
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not even be named among you, as 
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Let there be no filthiness nor 
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which are out of place. 
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you put there? 
What would you replace all those

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It's a, it's a really important 
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If I was writing it, if I was 
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verse verse four, I would say 
instead of filthiness, let there

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be purity. 
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there be wise talk. 
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there be wholesome joking. 
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know, friends, why we have a 
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Because we are not thankful. 
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Not a surprise. 
It's not what I would say. 

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It's strange, isn't it? 
But I I thought this was really 

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strange, wrestling with this. 
Why is the life of love a 

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grateful life a thankful life? 
John John Stott says in itself, 

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Thanksgiving is not an obvious 
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So what is going on here? 
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I think this is excellent. 
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covetousness verses 3 and 4. 
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both express self-centered 
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How can I use you for my ends? 
But Thanksgiving is the exact 

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opposite. 
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and so Thanksgiving is the 
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Friends, let me put that 
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into simple English for all of 
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If I cannot say thank you Jesus 
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doing it. 
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four, if I cannot thank God for 
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It has no place in my life. 
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Notice in verse 20. 
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Friends. 
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surprising life of all true 
fellowship. 

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It's a surprising heart of all 
true fellowship. 

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The IT is very hard to use 
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to lust after someone if you 
stop and thank God for that 

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someone. 
It is. 

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It is very hard to steal from 
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that person. 
It is very hard to be angry with

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someone if you stop and thank 
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Isn't that it? 
It is very hard to objectify 

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that woman or to use that woman 
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In my mind if if instead of 
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In my mind, instead of speaking 
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thank God for her. 
A woman, a person who God has 

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put in the world to image him, 
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Friends, this is a way of living
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which says that this world in 
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wonder, a marvel of God's 
goodness, not a mere list of 

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things that I can take and use 
however I like. 

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Do you know the famous quote of 
GK Chesterton? 

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He said you say grace before 
meals. 

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All right, but I say grace 
before the concert and the 

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opera. 
I say grace before the play and 

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the pantomime. 
I say grace before I open a 

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book. 
I say grace before I sketch and 

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paint and swim, before I fence 
and box and walk and play and 

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dance. 
I say grace before I dip my pen 

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in the ink. 
Do you see it in verse three, 

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friends? 
But verse 2, rather walk in love

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as Christ loved us, and look at 
this, gave himself up for us, a 

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fragrant offering and sacrifice 
to God. 

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Christ gave himself up for us, a
fragrant Thanksgiving to God. 

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That's what an offering is. 
He, he loved his heavenly Father

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and he in his prayers, he 
thanked the Father for all that 

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he had given. 
Friends, do you know that this 

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evening that the Lord Jesus has 
thanked God in your place, He 

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has thanked God in your place. 
He didn't just live in your 

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place or die in your place. 
He, he thanked God in your 

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place. 
See, I think in verse 2, we, we 

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look at that phrase, a fragrant 
offering and a sacrifice and we 

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think it's, we think it's one 
phrase saying the same thing, 

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but it's not. 
It's two different things in the

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Old Testament. 
There are guilt offerings for 

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sin. 
There are sacrifices for sin. 

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Things have gone wrong. 
Punishment must be handed out. 

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There must be bloodshed. 
But friends, there are also 

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Thanksgiving offerings, and we 
only have the guilt offerings 

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because we failed, first of all,
in the Thanksgiving offerings. 

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The first Adam in the garden 
failed in thanking God for all 

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that he'd been given. 
Friends, if there had been no 

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sin in Eden, Adam would have had
to bring sacrifices to God. 

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Not for sin, the sacrifice of 
praise, Thanksgiving to God. 

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Adam was to offer to God a 
sacrifice of praise. 

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Lord, this garden that I'm in, 
it is a benediction. 

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What a blessing. 
And you've given it to me, to 

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us. 
Now I will stop what I am doing 

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every hour. 
Lord and bless you for it. 

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Brothers and sisters, the truly 
human life is a grateful life. 

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Here's my all time favorite 
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commentator, wonderful man Derek
Kidner, commenting on Psalm 73. 

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He said this in the Garden of 
Eden. 

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The nerve that the serpent 
touched was to make even 

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paradise seem an insult. 
It's not incredible. 

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What an insight. 
The nerve that the serpent 

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touched was to make even 
paradise seem an insult. 

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This Lord, this is all you're 
giving us? 

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How dare you. 
I want that tree. 

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I want that fruit instead of 
gratitude to God, Adam returned 

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grasping for God, and all was 
lost. 

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All was lost until the last 
Adam, the Son of the Father, one

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day would enter the world and 
say to God, what did he say? 

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Here I am. 
I have come to do your will to 

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offer back to you a life of 
praise and Thanksgiving. 

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Friends, I've been captivated 
today by Sandra's song that we 

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had this morning. 
Christ is the life of the world.

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In Christ we offer all that He 
has offered. 

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How incredibly true. 
We offer all that He has 

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offered. 
He is the perfect offering, 

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brothers and sisters, not just 
his body on the cross, but his 

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life in the world. 
He offered to God to take us 

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back to the garden again. 
And so friends, this evening, be

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like him, be thankful. 
Be thankful. 

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Friends, this passage is saying,
can you thank God for that link 

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as you prepare to click on it? 
If you cannot thank Him for it, 

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do not click on it. 
Can you thank God for that 

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social media app as you scroll 
through? 

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Can you Can you thank him out 
loud for it and in front of 

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others for it? 
If you cannot, don't use it, 

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don't touch it. 
We should not be watching it, 

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sharing it, saying it or 
consuming it. 

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Sinclair Ferguson says ask in 
any action, how can I be 

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thankful for this? 
And you have the first step 

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towards a purer life. 
You ever thought about that? 

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I don't think. 
I don't think I have often. 

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What do we normally think? 
The health, the healthy, 

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wholesome growing Christian is 
doing what attending church, 

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reading the right authors, 
listening to the right songs, 

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growing in godliness and along 
comes the apostle Paul and says,

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I'll tell you what takes 
somebody's spiritual temperature

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like nothing else. 
Gratitude, Thanksgiving 

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Philippians chapter 4 do not be 
anxious about anything but 

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instead do what speak to God 
with Thanksgiving. 

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You know, I want to say this 
evening that if you have a 

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grumpiness problem, if you have 
a mood problem, if you're the 

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kind of Presbyterian that looks 
like you're cheering a wasp if 

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you if you if you sound like you
belong to the frozen chosen, if 

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there is no overflowing 
gratitude, no giving thanks 

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always and for everything. 
If there is none of those 

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things, friends, the problem, 
Paul says, is a lack of love, a 

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lack of walking in light, a lack
of walking in wisdom. 

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Your grumpy heart is not because
you've had a bad day, it's 

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because you are not loving 
others. 

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Your own grateful spirit is 
because you are not living in 

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the light. 
Your Moody words are because 

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you're walking through life 
unwisely. 

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Well, let me leave you with 
this. 

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I want to give you my favorite 
John Stott's story. 

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Many of you will know the name 
of John Stott. 

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He was the minister of All Souls
Langham place in London for over

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30 years worldwide. 
Well known, deeply respected 

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evangelical leader. 
Tremendous gift that God gave to

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us in the church, wasn't he? 
Some of you will know this story

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that many, many years ago he had
a study assistant who was 

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working with him. 
He always had rotating study 

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assistants. 
In one year he had an assistant 

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who was bringing Uncle John cups
of tea to the table. 

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That's what he was known as to 
everybody. 

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Uncle John and the study 
assistant said that every single

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time I brought him a cup of tea,
Uncle John Stop would be working

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at the table. 
I'd set a a cup of tea down. 

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It's very British, isn't it, A 
cup of tea down on the table. 

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Every single time I put the cup 
of tea down, he said, I would 

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hear John Stop, say, I'm not 
worthy, I'm not worthy. 

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Do the next afternoon study 
time, cup of tea, thank you, I'm

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not worthy. 
Thursday, thank you, I'm not 

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worthy. 
And the study assistant says in 

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the end, it just became the most
infuriating thing in the world 

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to hear this man say this. 
One day he simply snapped and 

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said, Uncle John, it's just a 
cup of tea. 

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And John Stott said, ah, yes, 
but it's also just the thin end 

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of the wedge. 
In other words, if I stop being 

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grateful for this, even this, 
this tiny thing, it will not be 

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long before I am no longer 
grateful for this thing, the big

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thing, the greater gifts, the 
bigger gifts. 

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Even this is an undeserved 
blessing. 

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If any of you ever met John 
Stott or heard about him or read

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about him, how many of us would 
ever say that? 

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The thing that you remember 
about him is that he was harsh 

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or domineering or lied? 
No, he was gentle, loving, kind,

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and you know why he was like 
that? 

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The answer is verse 20, because 
in everything and for 

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everything, for everything, he 
gave thanks to God the Father in

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the name of the Lord Jesus 
Christ. 

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Friends, May God bless you and 
keep you. 

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And until that day when we 
become like him in all his 

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perfect radiant glory, until 
that day, may He make you and me

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00:36:42,480 --> 00:36:48,200
and us together like him. 
So may it be in Jesus name, 

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00:36:48,520 --> 00:36:49,960
Amen. 
Let's pray together. 

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Gracious Heavenly Father, the 
riches of Your word are so great

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we will spend forever trying to 
Plumb their depths. 

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00:37:03,200 --> 00:37:06,840
And so I simply ask this evening
that you would take something 

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that has been said in faltering 
words and to refract the light 

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00:37:12,400 --> 00:37:17,200
of Your perfect word through it.
Thank you that you know each and

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every one of us that our lives 
this evening are an open book to

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you. 
And so would you, by your 

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Spirit, we pray. 
Put your finger on each of our 

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00:37:27,520 --> 00:37:31,880
lives. 
Show us the beauty of the Lord 

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Jesus Christ, the true and last 
second man, the true and proper 

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man, the last Adam in whom we 
now live and move and have our 

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being. 
Wonder of wonders make us like 

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Him. 
We pray all our days where we 

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ask it for His precious 
namesake. 

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Amen.
