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With the weight and Just like 
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take and I don't know how people
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hot. 
That hot take is, I think, 

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season 3, episode 4 of and just 
like that one of the best 

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episodes of the series. 
Not of Sex and the City, I 

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don't. 
Yeah, I don't know if that's a 

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hot take or not. 
Why? 

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Why not? 
I mean, there's just a lot that 

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it did right it. 
Really, it really did. 

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It really, really did. 
And one of the things that it 

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did right was Seema's storyline 
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short. 
They feature them, but they 

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didn't go into great detail on 
their storylines and they 

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focused on the three main 
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It felt familiar, right? 
So, and each one of them, I feel

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as though they had a good 
storyline this week. 

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There are two callbacks in this 
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I wonder if other people picked 
up on them. 

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What are they? 
Last week we talked about we 

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talked about the outfit. 
Repeat that shirt that Carrie 

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wore again this week. 
Did you notice the callbacks to 

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the episodes, you know, in the 
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remember when Carrie was like 
having an existential breakdown 

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about Aiden because he wanted to
stay home with a bucket of 

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chicken in bed? 
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Eating a bucket of chicken in 
bed, Sima. 

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That was last week. 
Oh, that was last week. 

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OK, well, whatever. 
I'm glad. 

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I'm still glad I mentioned it 
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Here's the other call back. 
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from Sex in the City is the 
fight right speed speed stick. 

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Deodorant. 
Knock yourself out, put on the 

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deodorant, and this week, what's
What's Aiden say when Carrie 

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smells bad? 
Feel free to borrow my speed 

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stick. 
Right. 

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Oh, I didn't even catch that. 
I like that. 

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That's great. 
Listen, this this was I think 

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the episode that we've been 
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Carrie and Aid, right. 
For sure, because let's get into

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it. 
The episode opens, Carrie is in 

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the guest house at and she hears
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They're painting with the boys 
and there's Wyatt and there's 

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Homer. 
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Carrie, but to absolutely 
nobody's surprise, Wyatt is not,

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and he doesn't hide it. 
And what I, one of the many 

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things they did right with this 
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because not only was he just a 
great actor, but he looked, he 

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looked like that stereotypical 
kid in, in high school, the 

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loner who naps, which is very 
important because what we learn 

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in this episode is Aiden really 
should have been taking those 

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five years off. 
So Carrie goes outside and she 

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sees the boys and she sees Aiden
and they're talking and Wyatt's 

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being very distant. 
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on that and they go in and they 
have breakfast and her luggage 

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still hasn't arrived. 
It's in the the old the other 

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car that was tarred that was 
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Yeah, it's not going to arrive 
right. 

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So she takes the ATV to this 
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store, but sort of this dress 
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Daisy's dress shop. 
Daisy's dress shop and she goes 

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to the store, she gets the 
dresses, she comes back and 

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Aiden asks her to spend time 
with Wyatt. 

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Well, you know, go go fishing 
with them. 

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Aiden, have you met Carrie? 
What are you doing asking her to

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go fishing? 
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Which she does. 
She doesn't, but she also says, 

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isn't this kind of obvious, 
right? 

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What we're doing right, yes. 
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doesn't go the way any of them 
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they that they go play this 
virtual game. 

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And Aiden didn't want him to, 
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Aiden didn't want to do that. 
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He wanted to sort of take the 
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guess to have him more plugged 
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But they do it. 
Carrie begs him. 

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She says this is the first time 
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Listen, just give me a break 
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So they go play this game and 
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you have the the goggles on and 
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reality and they're killing 
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pretending to shoot the zombies.
And then at one point, Wyatt wax

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Carrie in the head with his gun.
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Was it intentional? 
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I think it's sort of left up to 
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But Carrie says, ow, And they 
stop playing. 

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And why it says, you know, I'm 
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for my day. 
You know, those zombies coming 

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from my dad. 
I was just looking out for my 

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dad. 
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It's OK. 
Carrie's rubbing her head. 

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And he says, what does he say? 
You know, that's you know. 

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To the effect of like, don't 
make him feel bad. 

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He says, you know, are you OK? 
That's not like him. 

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He's not a violent kid. 
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she's, you know, kind of still 
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And Aiden says he goes to take 
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And he says, you know, let's not
make him feel bad. 

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Let me get this vest off you. 
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And she's like, now I feel bad 
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And the look on her face really 
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this is a preview of things to 
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think it was intentional, but 
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You don't think it? 
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intentional. 
Excuse me? 

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Carrie sees this for the huge 
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Whereas Aiden, he's coddling 
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that thing that a lot of parents
do when their their kid is going

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through something, whether their
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it is, where the parents are 
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themselves, especially in a 
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feel like, well, if I didn't do 
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wouldn't be like this. 
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was something to do with my 
eyesight. 

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And he said he's like, that's 
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And I was like, dad, I mean, 
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It just is what it is. 
But that's how parents are where

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oh, you've got this thing wrong 
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That's got to be my fault. 
So they internalize it and they 

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feel guilty. 
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feeling a lot of stuff, and one 
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He's in complete denial of the 
situation of what's really going

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on with Wyatt. 
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over. 
They're having a birthday party 

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for Tater Tot, the baby who was 
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Carrie was about to have her 
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turning 21. 
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they're all sitting around that 
table drinking, but at the same 

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time and a little bit later when
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Adderall, because that did get 
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I thought it was weird that they
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because when, when Wyatt jumping
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So everything's great. 
Like, Tate's great, Homer's 

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great. 
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Like there's something up here. 
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bringing the Adderall. 
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they're all sitting around 
talking about something, I don't

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know, they're opening what's his
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But Carrie and Kathy's new 
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They're on the outside. 
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Oh, I love Bob. 
I love. 

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Bob, because he was listen, this
is a fucking mess. 

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But they're on the outside of 
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They're not even sitting in the 
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And Bobby, like, you know, it's 
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you know, after four years, you 
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Meanwhile, he's not even sitting
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them while they open Tates 
gifts. 

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Yeah, I mean, doesn't need to 
say something more like after 

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four years, like I finally kind 
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place. 
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I don't remember what he said 
besides the fact that like, 

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yeah, this is difficult. 
It's a difficult family to, 

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like, get in there, right? 
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Right, as all families are. 
Right. 

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And then, of course, he drops 
the bomb with Carrie that Aiden 

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was opposed to the Adderall. 
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And he was saying to Carrie, you
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why, why Aiden doesn't want it. 
You know, it's, it's ridiculous.

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Carrie realizes shit, like I did
something really stupid, which 

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you did. 
How did you not immediately call

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your boyfriend and say your 
ex-wife just called me and asked

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me to bring Adderall down? 
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It happened so quickly because 
Charlotte took over. 

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But still, she still could have 
worked it into the conversation.

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But she didn't. 
That's. 

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Not our girl, is it? 
No, but. 

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That level of 4th. 
Right, but this is this really 

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demonstrates why someone dating 
someone without kids dating 

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somebody with kids. 
I thought it's like it really 

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was sort of a perfect example of
what happens in those situations

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where someone who doesn't have 
kids is dating somebody with 

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kids and they just don't fully 
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They don't fully understand that
there's sort of protocol and 

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this is how things play out. 
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theory, oh, they're always going
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another story if it just hits 

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different. 
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I like when Aiden snaps at when 
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Adderall and he's like, not now.
Carrie, not now. 

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Not like she's a child. 
Like she's a child. 

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Like she's a child. 
Yeah, I'm really starting to 

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hate. 
Yeah, but that's not gonna have 

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herself. 
We're there she but but to be 

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fair, she was doing the Carrie 
thing of really this is not the 

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time for this conversation and 
she's just going on and on and 

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he's clearly like trying not to 
listen to her and he that's when

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he snaps Carrie, not tonight. 
If that it. 

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I don't, I think if a partner 
ever spoke to me in a way that 

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embarrassed me, I don't know 
that I would recoup from even if

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nobody else was around, if you 
say something to cause me shame,

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I, I, I don't think there's any 
coming back from that. 

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I, I, I couldn't, I couldn't get
over just the whole topic, 

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everything with Wyatt, it was, 
it was such a volatile topic and

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situation. 
So they go back in, they're 

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playing some game that I didn't 
fucking understand until like, 

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the end. 
Oh, it's apples to apples. 

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Oh, okay, whatever. 
So they're playing this game, 

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everybody's having fun. 
Well. 

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Actually, this is relevant 
because this is the reason why 

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it blows up, right? 
And this is, I think, a major 

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clue about why it actually. 
OK. 

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So apples to Apples is a card 
game where you have a deck of 

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cards that, well, it doesn't, it
doesn't even matter. 

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You have a deck of cards, right?
And then someone draws a card 

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that is like a descriptor and 
you have to like match your 

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card. 
So there's like two ways of 

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playing it, right? 
The literal way. 

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Like if someone draws a card, 
this is fruit and you have one 

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that says apple, right? 
And then there's like the fun 

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way, which is how everyone else 
was playing the game right when 

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Carrie said pumpkin spice lattes
are mysterious and everyone 

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everyone was on board, what with
that? 

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Except it pissed Wyatt off 
because he's a literal man. 

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Right. 
He's a literal man child, right.

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So they're playing this game. 
I don't know he what's his name,

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Homer chooses Carrie's thing 
like the the cafe pumpkin spice 

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latte because his clue was 
mysterious. 

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He chooses pumpkin spice latte 
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mine was mystique. 
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name. 
Like what do you why didn't you 

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choose mine? 
And the two brothers are clearly

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they've hit their fill of the 
they're over it. 

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They're way fucking over it, way
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And we've all been in those 
situations where you have my 

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sister Pam, this was my sister 
Pam, where you try to sit down. 

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I'm not going to lie, when this 
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don't I've been thinking about 
this and thinking about what 

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something like clicked in me. 
Not clicked but it set off 

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something in me. 
The scene was, I think, like one

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of the reasons the episode was 
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There's such a relief in terms 
of like, oh God, finally we're 

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seeing character development 
because this also, it didn't 

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remind me of my family exactly. 
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bit of our family in the scene. 
Yeah, it's one of those 

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situations where you get 
together, maybe it's a holiday, 

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whatever it is, and you're 
really trying to have a good 

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time. 
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That one person in the family 
who always start shit, start 

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shit and there goes the good 
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And at least one parent is like 
they can't help. 

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It right, right. 
Yeah. 

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So can't be held accountable, 
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For their actions. 
So why it isn't getting 

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increasingly angry? 
More and more angry and no one 

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ever picks me and Aiden says, 
well, you'll get the next one, 

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bud. 
No, but he should have picked. 

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Why would you promise that, 
Aiden? 

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But no one's ever picked me. 
And he goes, Carrie picked you 

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in the first game. 
Well, none of you did. 

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And he's pointing at his family.
He's like, and he gets up and he

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goes to watch, goes to play 
video games. 

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And Aiden is saying, Wyatt, you 
know, come on, this is family 

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night or whatever. 
Come on, come on. 

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This is Tate's birthday. 
Put the put the game down. 

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Put the game down. 
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the game down. 
Aiden. 

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Wyatt gets up. 
You never pick me. 

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You never pick me. 
What? 

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This isn't a family night. 
They're all, you know, they are 

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here, so it's not family. 
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like, suck it, you're a crybaby.
We're done with this. 

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And Wyatt leaves, and they're 
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talking and Homer says, fuck 
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And then there's this quiet. 
And as they're talking, all of a

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sudden, Wyatt comes back with 
some kind of stick, smashes it 

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into the window. 
I love, love, love a good 

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analogy. 
You know this, this was the 

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breaking point, the breaking 
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The window shatters and breaks, 
the illusion shatters and breaks

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and caring is now saying she's 
in that position that I think a 

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lot of potential step parents 
find themselves in when they're 

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dating somebody where there 
isn't just like every family has

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some kind of tension or trauma 
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But this was this was extreme. 
And to me, because we find out 

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that Aiden that Wyatt had been 
diagnosed with ADHD and he 

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doesn't didn't want Wyatt having
medicine. 

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Aiden didn't want Wyatt having 
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And his wife is saying This is 
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He's got a substance abuse 
problem and you want to give him

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pills? 
Bro, you're all sitting around 

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drinking alcohol in front of 
this kid. 

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What are you talking about? 
What what? 

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What? 
You just want to be right. 

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You just want to be right. 
So this is this is it for 

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Carrie. 
Carrie now realizes. 

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And I think this is the first 
time Carrie has actually shield 

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away or been turned off by 
drama, right? 

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Well, this would do it right? 
This would do it, but she's in 

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that position where there that 
potential step parent role and 

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you have to ask yourself, does 
does my love for this person? 

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Will it make up for what I'm 
going to be taking on?