1 00:00:15,080 --> 00:00:17,880 All right, now we're going to get into the recap for And Just 2 00:00:17,880 --> 00:00:21,600 Like That season 3 episode 1. Here's what I'm going to say. 3 00:00:22,560 --> 00:00:27,680 OK, I enjoyed this episode and I think, and I was glad to see a 4 00:00:27,680 --> 00:00:32,759 couple of reviews that that sort of confirmed what I was 5 00:00:32,920 --> 00:00:33,960 thinking. You know what? 6 00:00:33,960 --> 00:00:36,600 I didn't hate it either. I really did not want to watch 7 00:00:36,600 --> 00:00:37,880 it. I was not looking forward to it 8 00:00:37,880 --> 00:00:42,800 at all and it was fine it. Felt more like the old Sex in 9 00:00:42,800 --> 00:00:45,320 the City to me. And I think a lot of that had to 10 00:00:45,320 --> 00:00:47,880 do with the fact that they cut down on the characters because 11 00:00:47,880 --> 00:00:50,000 they were thinning out the stories, right? 12 00:00:50,320 --> 00:00:52,040 And they had characters that we just didn't care. 13 00:00:52,040 --> 00:00:54,200 We didn't care about Jay and Nya. 14 00:00:54,200 --> 00:00:57,680 Well, I so wish they had developed that character more. 15 00:00:57,720 --> 00:01:00,440 Yeah, I thought she was so interesting. 16 00:01:00,600 --> 00:01:03,920 She was. And unfortunately, but also too, 17 00:01:03,920 --> 00:01:07,800 we had two, really we had two black women who were like 18 00:01:07,800 --> 00:01:10,800 powerful and very smart and successful. 19 00:01:11,000 --> 00:01:12,840 They should have done a spin off honestly. 20 00:01:12,840 --> 00:01:14,760 Right. And I feel like they kind of 21 00:01:14,760 --> 00:01:17,360 cancel each other out and then. In the writers room, that 22 00:01:17,360 --> 00:01:18,760 appears to be what happened. Yes. 23 00:01:18,840 --> 00:01:21,760 And so when they when, when Naya, when they cut the 24 00:01:21,760 --> 00:01:24,280 character of Naya, we have more focus on Lisa. 25 00:01:24,280 --> 00:01:27,640 I'm just going to say this, Lisa, to me, Lisa's my favorite 26 00:01:27,640 --> 00:01:29,160 character. OK, I have a question. 27 00:01:29,160 --> 00:01:31,720 Yes. Who? 28 00:01:31,720 --> 00:01:34,720 Wasn't somebody pregnant at the end of last season or was there 29 00:01:34,720 --> 00:01:36,480 a miscarriage? It was Lisa and she had a 30 00:01:36,480 --> 00:01:38,640 miscarriage. She had a miscarriage, yes. 31 00:01:38,680 --> 00:01:41,800 I was very confused when the show opened because I was like, 32 00:01:41,800 --> 00:01:43,400 I could have sworn Lisa was pregnant. 33 00:01:43,400 --> 00:01:45,160 I didn't remember the miscarriage but. 34 00:01:45,320 --> 00:01:47,560 Yeah, she miscarried. I mean, that makes sense. 35 00:01:47,560 --> 00:01:49,520 How are you going to have a pregnancy storyline? 36 00:01:49,960 --> 00:01:52,760 It's going to show about women who were like, menopausal. 37 00:01:52,760 --> 00:01:56,200 So I loved her storyline. But let's start with Carrie and 38 00:01:56,200 --> 00:01:59,720 this palatial glacial apartment that she lives in. 39 00:01:59,720 --> 00:02:02,160 It's how many 4 bedrooms? All these different. 40 00:02:02,440 --> 00:02:05,680 Oh my God. Opening with the alarm system, 41 00:02:05,720 --> 00:02:08,199 I'm calling it now. It's foreshadowing she's going 42 00:02:08,199 --> 00:02:10,160 to get robbed and I am here for it. 43 00:02:10,280 --> 00:02:13,360 OK, something's going to happen. I cannot wait for the burglary 44 00:02:13,360 --> 00:02:17,800 episode. But but I felt that the alarm 45 00:02:17,920 --> 00:02:21,120 was a metaphor, right? Calls coming from inside the 46 00:02:21,160 --> 00:02:24,960 house. I felt that the alarm, the 47 00:02:24,960 --> 00:02:28,680 sensors were a metaphor of what's going on internally. 48 00:02:28,680 --> 00:02:30,480 That's. Like the way the alarm keeps 49 00:02:30,480 --> 00:02:32,160 going off and she's like, no, it's not. 50 00:02:32,480 --> 00:02:35,000 Right. But more like, and I think it 51 00:02:35,040 --> 00:02:38,520 was most obvious with Miranda, you know, Miranda's whole. 52 00:02:38,520 --> 00:02:40,720 And we'll get to that, that story because I actually really 53 00:02:40,720 --> 00:02:42,520 liked that. Loved that story. 54 00:02:42,600 --> 00:02:45,280 I loved it. I loved it and but we'll get to 55 00:02:45,280 --> 00:02:47,200 it. There's something about the 56 00:02:47,240 --> 00:02:50,880 alarm that I feel as though they were, they were, you know how I 57 00:02:50,880 --> 00:02:53,960 love that Thruway I'm trying to find and I could not find the 58 00:02:53,960 --> 00:02:56,400 theme for this episode. And I felt like the alarm 59 00:02:56,400 --> 00:03:00,680 represented Carrie's attitude towards this relationship with 60 00:03:00,800 --> 00:03:04,120 Aiden, where the alarm's going off and going on and she's 61 00:03:04,120 --> 00:03:07,520 saying, no, it's not the door isn't open, but it's wrong. 62 00:03:07,520 --> 00:03:10,920 Nothing's wrong, but there is something wrong with the alarm 63 00:03:10,920 --> 00:03:13,880 is sounding and she's ignoring it, right? 64 00:03:14,440 --> 00:03:16,400 The alarm is sounding in the form of Anthony and she's 65 00:03:16,400 --> 00:03:19,400 getting mad at it. Right, Anthony. 66 00:03:19,480 --> 00:03:21,840 See, this is what I mean. I feel like they've really, 67 00:03:22,000 --> 00:03:23,720 really developed these characters. 68 00:03:23,720 --> 00:03:25,440 They have a. They have a better handle on 69 00:03:25,440 --> 00:03:26,960 them because they're not writing for as many. 70 00:03:27,400 --> 00:03:31,400 Right, that's like that's all I needed. 71 00:03:31,480 --> 00:03:34,440 Christ, she's she. They're not talking, They're 72 00:03:34,440 --> 00:03:36,080 writing postcards. Her and Aiden are writing 73 00:03:36,080 --> 00:03:37,560 postcards to each other. Not even. 74 00:03:38,000 --> 00:03:39,720 Not even. Not even with words on them. 75 00:03:39,960 --> 00:03:42,080 I mean, it's the stupidest thing. 76 00:03:42,080 --> 00:03:45,280 And so she goes out. When they're at the bar and 77 00:03:45,280 --> 00:03:48,800 Carrie's like, Aiden said he needed no communication. 78 00:03:48,920 --> 00:03:50,040 What? Right. 79 00:03:50,120 --> 00:03:51,000 What? What? 80 00:03:51,120 --> 00:03:53,600 Listen and I said this in my recap video on TikTok. 81 00:03:53,640 --> 00:03:58,560 I truly believe that Carrie is accepting this arrangement 82 00:03:58,760 --> 00:04:02,120 because Carrie is still punishing herself for cheating 83 00:04:02,120 --> 00:04:06,600 on Aiden still and I think he's still punishing her for choosing 84 00:04:06,600 --> 00:04:08,840 Big over him their. Relationship, definitely. 85 00:04:08,840 --> 00:04:11,040 He made her buy that whole apartment, right? 86 00:04:11,240 --> 00:04:12,920 Could you imagine? An infant. 87 00:04:13,920 --> 00:04:17,079 Because he wouldn't go into her apartment, he still refused to 88 00:04:17,079 --> 00:04:20,600 do it, but that really should have told her he's not over it. 89 00:04:20,680 --> 00:04:24,240 He's literally an infant. He's not over it, Carrie. 90 00:04:24,240 --> 00:04:26,080 He won't even go into your apartment. 91 00:04:26,240 --> 00:04:27,840 He won't even go into your apartment. 92 00:04:28,000 --> 00:04:30,240 I don't know what I mean. Obviously Kerry is not a real 93 00:04:30,240 --> 00:04:33,560 person, but like, what is? What is Kerry thinking trying to 94 00:04:33,560 --> 00:04:36,720 date somebody with kids, period? That's the other thing too. 95 00:04:36,960 --> 00:04:39,880 That's the other thing too. You can't do that right? 96 00:04:39,880 --> 00:04:43,640 You are not OK with being the second. 97 00:04:44,000 --> 00:04:45,920 You're not OK with it, Carrie. You're just not. 98 00:04:45,960 --> 00:04:48,680 You couldn't even stand. Even when you were first in 99 00:04:48,680 --> 00:04:50,120 Big's life, you were still neurotic, right? 100 00:04:50,520 --> 00:04:51,560 Right. I mean, she was obsessed with 101 00:04:51,560 --> 00:04:53,760 his ex-wife. She was obsessed with Natasha. 102 00:04:53,880 --> 00:04:55,400 Right. Yeah, no, right. 103 00:04:55,560 --> 00:04:57,080 She's not. The Carrie Brash is not going to 104 00:04:57,080 --> 00:04:59,000 tolerate children of any age. Correct. 105 00:04:59,120 --> 00:05:01,040 Although she is good with Lily and she's. 106 00:05:01,040 --> 00:05:02,920 Very good with Lily, I love their relationship. 107 00:05:02,920 --> 00:05:04,240 What's Charlotte's on our kids name? 108 00:05:04,240 --> 00:05:05,680 I can't remember Rock. Thank you. 109 00:05:05,880 --> 00:05:08,720 Yeah, Rock. And so she goes out and she's 110 00:05:08,720 --> 00:05:11,760 telling Charlotte and Miranda, and Charlotte's like, oh, a 111 00:05:11,760 --> 00:05:15,160 postcard that's so great. And Miranda is thinking you're 112 00:05:15,160 --> 00:05:16,920 being that excited over a postcard. 113 00:05:16,920 --> 00:05:21,040 But at one point, Miranda says to Carrie, listen, if you're if 114 00:05:21,040 --> 00:05:23,040 you're happy with it, where's what? 115 00:05:23,160 --> 00:05:24,720 Who? That was huge for Miranda. 116 00:05:24,760 --> 00:05:26,400 Who? Was that was huge for Miranda. 117 00:05:26,400 --> 00:05:28,760 But we don't want to see that. I don't want to see that. 118 00:05:29,040 --> 00:05:31,320 Well, someones got to be the voice of reason, right? 119 00:05:31,560 --> 00:05:34,560 It's not gonna be Sema except for herself, right? 120 00:05:34,680 --> 00:05:36,040 Which is refreshing. Right. 121 00:05:36,160 --> 00:05:39,040 And I love the way they juxtapose those two characters. 122 00:05:39,160 --> 00:05:40,080 Yeah, right. Yeah. 123 00:05:40,160 --> 00:05:44,680 So they go to a lesbian bar with Miranda, and Miranda is still 124 00:05:44,680 --> 00:05:47,200 very awkward. Like, she's still that awkward 125 00:05:47,360 --> 00:05:50,960 person, right? And she so she's still very 126 00:05:50,960 --> 00:05:53,640 awkward, right? And she's at this bar and 127 00:05:53,760 --> 00:05:56,240 they're trying to encourage her and they're being sort of her 128 00:05:56,240 --> 00:05:58,160 wing women. And then someone waves at her 129 00:05:58,160 --> 00:06:00,560 and it turns out to be Brady's old girlfriend and she just 130 00:06:00,560 --> 00:06:02,520 starts trauma dumping. Brady's old babysitter. 131 00:06:02,880 --> 00:06:05,160 Thank you, Brady. Brady's old babysitter. 132 00:06:05,280 --> 00:06:07,280 And she just starts trauma dumping, right. 133 00:06:07,560 --> 00:06:09,920 And it's sort of exposition. She has to let everybody know. 134 00:06:09,920 --> 00:06:11,080 Yeah, we sold the Brown house. Yeah. 135 00:06:11,080 --> 00:06:13,280 We're divorced. So this is what's going on since 136 00:06:13,280 --> 00:06:16,880 two years ago. And it's just so, it's so cringy 137 00:06:16,920 --> 00:06:19,360 because not only does she talk about we sold it and the 138 00:06:19,360 --> 00:06:21,400 divorce, but also I'm in the program. 139 00:06:21,520 --> 00:06:23,760 She's just going and going and going and going. 140 00:06:23,840 --> 00:06:26,520 Yeah. And you're cringing for her and 141 00:06:26,520 --> 00:06:27,920 I. We're just seeing. 142 00:06:28,000 --> 00:06:30,560 She's always, but she's always been like that, right? 143 00:06:30,560 --> 00:06:33,360 Like she's always needed somebody to tell her she was 144 00:06:33,360 --> 00:06:35,440 attractive. She's always needed somebody to 145 00:06:35,440 --> 00:06:36,240 want her. Yeah. 146 00:06:36,240 --> 00:06:39,600 That whole scene struck me as very much in character for her. 147 00:06:40,480 --> 00:06:43,160 Yes, I would agree. So then it's the end of the 148 00:06:43,160 --> 00:06:45,920 night and she's just hanging out at this bar. 149 00:06:45,920 --> 00:06:47,680 And again, I'm thinking, girl just go home. 150 00:06:47,880 --> 00:06:49,800 Yeah. And she sees this woman. 151 00:06:49,800 --> 00:06:54,000 And this woman is in jeans in a in a button down shirt that's 152 00:06:54,000 --> 00:06:56,000 untucked. It's Rosie O'Donnell. 153 00:06:56,200 --> 00:06:59,200 It's Rosie O'Donnell and you can tell right away this woman 154 00:06:59,200 --> 00:07:01,920 doesn't live here. At least I could tell that as 155 00:07:01,920 --> 00:07:03,280 someone who lives there, lives here. 156 00:07:03,280 --> 00:07:06,960 And she and Miranda talk for maybe 2 minutes and she says I 157 00:07:06,960 --> 00:07:08,800 have a hotel room and Miranda's like cool. 158 00:07:09,040 --> 00:07:12,880 And they leave and that to me was shocking, but I'm a straight 159 00:07:12,880 --> 00:07:15,160 woman. I don't know that that's like, 160 00:07:16,600 --> 00:07:18,400 is it different? I, I would assume that it's 161 00:07:18,400 --> 00:07:20,560 different because you don't have that fear of danger. 162 00:07:20,560 --> 00:07:21,640 It was. Different for them. 163 00:07:22,040 --> 00:07:24,760 It was different for them. So they go back to the hotel 164 00:07:24,760 --> 00:07:25,720 room. They have sex. 165 00:07:25,880 --> 00:07:29,120 They wake up the next morning and this woman, Rosie O'Donnell, 166 00:07:29,120 --> 00:07:32,440 her character named Mary. Mary says, you know, that was 167 00:07:32,440 --> 00:07:35,640 her first time and Miranda's ever. 168 00:07:35,960 --> 00:07:39,000 Yeah, you were a virgin. And she's like, yes. 169 00:07:39,080 --> 00:07:42,960 And on top of that, she's a nun. And so Miranda is talking to 170 00:07:42,960 --> 00:07:44,680 Carrie about it. And that's when they're talking 171 00:07:44,680 --> 00:07:46,560 about the sensors. She's saying, you know, like, 172 00:07:46,560 --> 00:07:48,760 how could I have been so off? Well, I don't know. 173 00:07:48,760 --> 00:07:50,640 Because you talked to her from maybe 18 seconds. 174 00:07:50,640 --> 00:07:54,920 That's that's probably how. And she's telling Carrie that 175 00:07:55,720 --> 00:07:59,080 Mary's texting her and asking her to meet her at Tavern on the 176 00:07:59,080 --> 00:08:02,600 Green for dinner. And Carrie, Oh my God, Tavern on 177 00:08:02,600 --> 00:08:05,960 the Green and Maria. Is very touristy. 178 00:08:06,280 --> 00:08:09,600 Right, she doesn't know that she's she's Carrie's just being 179 00:08:09,600 --> 00:08:13,400 an elitist bitch. PS The money you have, you only 180 00:08:13,400 --> 00:08:15,600 have because of your dead husband. 181 00:08:15,840 --> 00:08:18,400 Let's remember that you're only living in that place because 182 00:08:18,400 --> 00:08:21,200 your husband kicked it after riding the peloton. 183 00:08:21,960 --> 00:08:23,440 You wouldn't. Be living the peloton. 184 00:08:24,200 --> 00:08:26,200 She got rid of it. She got rid of it. 185 00:08:26,360 --> 00:08:29,960 So she's just being such an elitist bitch. 186 00:08:30,120 --> 00:08:32,120 Well, she's always been that way about New York. 187 00:08:32,320 --> 00:08:33,919 Yeah, she has. She has. 188 00:08:33,919 --> 00:08:38,000 And so she's, I think talking a little bit more about Aiden and, 189 00:08:38,120 --> 00:08:40,240 you know, telling them that she's happy with it. 190 00:08:40,240 --> 00:08:43,400 Now, part of me thinks she's she's she's comfortable with 191 00:08:43,400 --> 00:08:46,600 this on some level because she's just such an avoidant and. 192 00:08:46,760 --> 00:08:49,320 She doesn't actually want to be in a relationship anyway, right? 193 00:08:49,320 --> 00:08:50,960 Like. Kind of perfect, right? 194 00:08:51,040 --> 00:08:52,280 Exactly. She is. 195 00:08:52,600 --> 00:08:54,520 Right. It's emotionally safe for her, 196 00:08:55,080 --> 00:08:56,440 right? And he's unavailable. 197 00:08:56,440 --> 00:08:58,640 And we all know how she feels about unavailable men. 198 00:08:58,640 --> 00:09:02,360 Can I say how weird I thought it was that she and Aiden were 199 00:09:02,360 --> 00:09:04,520 exchanging I love yous this early? 200 00:09:04,560 --> 00:09:10,120 Why they were engaged? Yeah, but I don't know, it just 201 00:09:10,120 --> 00:09:12,400 struck me as odd. I don't think it's early though, 202 00:09:12,400 --> 00:09:15,000 I think it's several months after they they started dating. 203 00:09:15,080 --> 00:09:16,680 Maybe it is. They didn't really give us a 204 00:09:16,680 --> 00:09:17,760 sense of it. Right. 205 00:09:17,840 --> 00:09:21,480 I think this is a few months in like probably, I don't know, six 206 00:09:21,480 --> 00:09:22,800 months or so. I don't, I don't know. 207 00:09:22,800 --> 00:09:25,800 Something about it rubbed me the wrong way, and maybe that's just 208 00:09:25,800 --> 00:09:27,600 me. You know what it is? 209 00:09:27,680 --> 00:09:30,640 Responding to Aiden's behavior. Right. 210 00:09:30,640 --> 00:09:32,960 But also, they're just a racing big. 211 00:09:33,040 --> 00:09:36,840 Well, yeah, I feel like for someone who was so upset when 212 00:09:36,840 --> 00:09:40,160 Seema accidentally knocked over a picture frame and the glass 213 00:09:40,160 --> 00:09:43,200 broke, suddenly she's like, I love you, Ada. 214 00:09:43,640 --> 00:09:46,200 Right. To me, it'd be she. 215 00:09:46,240 --> 00:09:47,640 It's there. I think they're definitely a 216 00:09:47,640 --> 00:09:53,000 racing big, probably because of, Chris notes, personal problems 217 00:09:53,000 --> 00:09:57,400 with with the accusations of sexual misconduct and sexual 218 00:09:57,520 --> 00:09:59,720 sexual assault, alleged sexual assaults, I'll say. 219 00:10:00,280 --> 00:10:03,880 But they're, they're just erasing him as though she didn't 220 00:10:03,880 --> 00:10:07,200 spend 20 years. Right, chasing him down. 221 00:10:07,320 --> 00:10:09,520 Right. Yeah, My friend's been with her 222 00:10:09,520 --> 00:10:12,280 for 10 years, and then she's finally getting married. 223 00:10:12,280 --> 00:10:15,320 And that's Charlotte. And I think anybody watching 224 00:10:15,320 --> 00:10:18,360 that, even then, we were like, girl, 10 years. 225 00:10:18,400 --> 00:10:19,480 Because that's how I would have been. 226 00:10:19,480 --> 00:10:21,880 I think we all would have been. On a date for 10 years, that's 227 00:10:21,880 --> 00:10:23,280 none of my business. Right. 228 00:10:23,320 --> 00:10:26,440 Listen, I think we'd all be kind of looking away, covering our 229 00:10:26,440 --> 00:10:27,880 eyes like all. Right. 230 00:10:28,480 --> 00:10:31,840 Congrats for you. And so that's what I think is 231 00:10:32,200 --> 00:10:35,440 there's a lot of things bothering us about Aiden, but 232 00:10:35,440 --> 00:10:37,840 that is what I. Mean we're to begin with the 233 00:10:37,840 --> 00:10:39,840 things bothering me about Aiden Bam. 234 00:10:40,040 --> 00:10:43,200 Listen, so they haven't spoken on the phone at all. 235 00:10:43,200 --> 00:10:45,360 They're changing fucking text messages. 236 00:10:45,360 --> 00:10:48,280 He calls her after he's had a few beers and he's sitting 237 00:10:48,280 --> 00:10:50,720 outside in his truck. Yeah, and let's be clear, 238 00:10:50,720 --> 00:10:52,560 because he starts the conversation. 239 00:10:52,640 --> 00:10:55,760 I ache for you. It's so it's so gross. 240 00:10:55,800 --> 00:10:59,760 I hate the scene so much. It gave us all the ick, right? 241 00:10:59,800 --> 00:11:02,680 It gave us all the ick. But what pissed me off about it 242 00:11:02,680 --> 00:11:06,120 is you haven't spoken to her on the phone until you wanted to 243 00:11:06,120 --> 00:11:08,800 jerk off in a truck. That's correct, right? 244 00:11:08,960 --> 00:11:12,240 That's what he was doing. He couldn't be bothered to call 245 00:11:12,240 --> 00:11:15,600 you because until he was horny. He needed no communication. 246 00:11:15,800 --> 00:11:17,920 Right, right. He needed it. 247 00:11:19,680 --> 00:11:22,040 What do you mean? Like dude, are you attached to 248 00:11:22,040 --> 00:11:24,120 this? This kid, this kid has to have a 249 00:11:24,120 --> 00:11:28,200 life of his own, right? I'm very, very confused by what 250 00:11:28,240 --> 00:11:32,440 they think they're doing there with that excuse of a storyline. 251 00:11:32,560 --> 00:11:35,520 It really, it's just stupid. It really is dumb. 252 00:11:35,560 --> 00:11:38,960 But I also think, and I don't understand this, they keep 253 00:11:39,120 --> 00:11:39,720 trying to. Kids. 254 00:11:39,760 --> 00:11:41,400 Mother. Where's Aiden's mother? 255 00:11:41,400 --> 00:11:44,360 No, the kids mother. Well she was in the last season 256 00:11:44,960 --> 00:11:46,920 right? But I think she has to travel a 257 00:11:46,920 --> 00:11:50,280 lot for her job so they live with him and so he tries to have 258 00:11:50,280 --> 00:11:52,840 phone sex with her and she fakes it. 259 00:11:53,240 --> 00:11:54,920 Whatever. Which is totally what she would 260 00:11:54,920 --> 00:11:57,040 do. Right, right, because she's 261 00:11:57,240 --> 00:12:00,200 she's not sexual at all. And this is what I thought was 262 00:12:00,200 --> 00:12:03,040 really interesting. She's out with Charlotte and 263 00:12:03,040 --> 00:12:06,760 Miranda and she tells her, tells them that they've she faked it. 264 00:12:06,800 --> 00:12:09,280 And she says, and Miranda says, you know, I've faked it. 265 00:12:09,280 --> 00:12:12,440 She goes, no, you know, our sex life is the most honest. 266 00:12:12,640 --> 00:12:15,040 Our sex is the most honest part of our relationship. 267 00:12:15,120 --> 00:12:17,600 Yeah, that was wow, that wasn't it. 268 00:12:17,600 --> 00:12:19,280 Bomb. That was a bomb. 269 00:12:19,480 --> 00:12:23,000 Because what she's saying is the only time we're not lying to 270 00:12:23,000 --> 00:12:25,560 each other and ourselves is when we're in bed, right? 271 00:12:25,880 --> 00:12:27,400 Right. That that is what she's saying. 272 00:12:27,840 --> 00:12:30,440 Yeah, no, I don't. I mean, we flagged it. 273 00:12:30,480 --> 00:12:33,200 Obviously the audience flagged it, I think, Charlotte said. 274 00:12:33,200 --> 00:12:35,520 Awe again. Right, Charlotte. 275 00:12:35,800 --> 00:12:36,440 Right. Oh gosh. 276 00:12:37,040 --> 00:12:39,360 Charlotte they boy, they just gave Charlotte and Harry nothing 277 00:12:39,360 --> 00:12:41,480 this episode. Yeah, they really did. 278 00:12:41,600 --> 00:12:44,600 Except why is Lily pursuing a 20 year old dude? 279 00:12:44,680 --> 00:12:47,800 I don't know how old is Lily. She's still in high school. 280 00:12:47,800 --> 00:12:50,120 Didn't we see her in a uniform in this episode? 281 00:12:50,320 --> 00:12:52,480 Yes. Why is she pursuing A20? 282 00:12:52,480 --> 00:12:53,600 We don't. Know if. 283 00:12:53,800 --> 00:12:55,400 He's 20. Do we know that he's 20? 284 00:12:55,440 --> 00:12:58,560 I I would have to go back and watch it, but I thought Rock 285 00:12:58,560 --> 00:13:01,080 said he was 20. Well, I think she's 17. 286 00:13:01,080 --> 00:13:03,080 Yeah, yeah. No, OK. 287 00:13:03,560 --> 00:13:06,400 Yeah, 20 and 17, I don't. Know I don't care for it. 288 00:13:07,000 --> 00:13:10,840 I'm kind of OK with it, 2017. Three years is obviously not a 289 00:13:10,840 --> 00:13:15,600 large age gap, but having a whole job versus being in high 290 00:13:15,600 --> 00:13:18,160 school, that's a huge age gap. I don't care for it. 291 00:13:18,280 --> 00:13:20,240 Well, no, we don't know that he has a whole, I mean. 292 00:13:20,400 --> 00:13:23,000 He's a ballerina. Dude, he still has to go to 293 00:13:23,000 --> 00:13:25,000 school. Not if he's 20. 294 00:13:25,080 --> 00:13:27,680 Well, OK, Well, we don't know. Like we're judging. 295 00:13:27,960 --> 00:13:30,080 We listen, but we don't judge. Sarah, he's 20. 296 00:13:30,440 --> 00:13:32,160 All right. Well, we'll figure that out. 297 00:13:32,240 --> 00:13:35,760 OK. So she meets up with Carrie, 298 00:13:35,760 --> 00:13:38,440 meets up with Anthony and Giuseppe. 299 00:13:38,440 --> 00:13:40,640 Is that his name? And Anthony says what? 300 00:13:40,640 --> 00:13:43,840 So where's your lumberjack? Oh, he's he's he's out of town. 301 00:13:43,840 --> 00:13:45,200 Oh, for how long? Oh, I don't know. 302 00:13:45,320 --> 00:13:47,320 And Anthony's like what? Of course. 303 00:13:47,360 --> 00:13:50,320 Anthony having been abandoned by his husband. 304 00:13:50,440 --> 00:13:52,200 Yeah. He's immediately going to be 305 00:13:52,200 --> 00:13:53,800 like, what? What do you mean? 306 00:13:53,800 --> 00:13:55,120 You don't know when he's coming in? 307 00:13:55,120 --> 00:13:58,640 And he just. He's now the new Miranda, right? 308 00:13:58,640 --> 00:14:02,120 Where he he says to to Carrie, listen, I mean, you need to 309 00:14:02,120 --> 00:14:05,240 figure out what is he doing? What do you mean he has to tell 310 00:14:05,240 --> 00:14:07,280 you? What did he say something about? 311 00:14:07,440 --> 00:14:09,120 You know I. Forget, but it was very 312 00:14:09,120 --> 00:14:11,040 reasonable. It was very reasonable, and it 313 00:14:11,040 --> 00:14:14,960 was essentially like, why are you letting this guy dictate how 314 00:14:14,960 --> 00:14:16,360 this relationship is going, right? 315 00:14:16,520 --> 00:14:22,120 And Carrie got mad and not like angry angry, but she got pissy, 316 00:14:22,720 --> 00:14:24,520 whatever. And Giuseppe's like, do you, you 317 00:14:24,520 --> 00:14:27,320 know, maybe don't be yourself So, so more often. 318 00:14:27,480 --> 00:14:30,440 Right Giuseppe's personality is he has a penis. 319 00:14:30,560 --> 00:14:34,800 I listen, but you have to put someone like Giuseppe with a 320 00:14:34,800 --> 00:14:36,440 character like. Anthony, you do. 321 00:14:36,760 --> 00:14:40,160 Because Anthony's so kind of abrasive, right, and in your 322 00:14:40,160 --> 00:14:43,720 face and Giuseppe softens him and brings him like grounds him. 323 00:14:43,720 --> 00:14:45,400 I think. So I like the pairing. 324 00:14:45,480 --> 00:14:46,560 I like the. Pairing too. 325 00:14:46,560 --> 00:14:48,920 They're just talk about giving them nothing to work with. 326 00:14:49,120 --> 00:14:51,680 Right, Well, they will be in future episodes, but we'll get 327 00:14:51,680 --> 00:14:53,200 to that because that's a disaster. 328 00:14:53,200 --> 00:14:56,560 So what happens? So she ends up calling. 329 00:14:57,280 --> 00:15:01,480 Aidan and. And confessing and then trying 330 00:15:01,480 --> 00:15:02,800 to have phone sex with him again. 331 00:15:02,840 --> 00:15:06,000 And turns out Wyatt is sleeping in the bed with what's his name? 332 00:15:06,160 --> 00:15:06,720 Aiden. Aiden. 333 00:15:06,960 --> 00:15:10,000 Yeah, again, what are what is the storyline? 334 00:15:10,000 --> 00:15:12,120 What's going on this? Is normal behavior. 335 00:15:12,240 --> 00:15:14,600 Right, because she's saying, you know, he needs me. 336 00:15:14,640 --> 00:15:17,800 What do you mean? OK, so he he did something 337 00:15:17,800 --> 00:15:20,520 reckless. He drank because he's struggling 338 00:15:20,520 --> 00:15:22,520 with you guy, you know, with the with the split. 339 00:15:22,560 --> 00:15:25,600 OK, but why are you acting like he's? 340 00:15:25,840 --> 00:15:28,120 Why are you in bed with him? Like why are you acting like 341 00:15:28,120 --> 00:15:30,120 he's Laura from The Glass Menagerie? 342 00:15:30,360 --> 00:15:33,320 Is that a proper reference? Like she's like, he's so 343 00:15:33,440 --> 00:15:36,400 fragile. I mean it's close, but I don't 344 00:15:36,440 --> 00:15:41,080 have a comparable example for like the weirdness of what it's 345 00:15:41,080 --> 00:15:42,040 just. Weird. 346 00:15:42,040 --> 00:15:45,680 What's going on here, right. What are you saying that is he 347 00:15:45,680 --> 00:15:47,200 in rehab? What's going on? 348 00:15:47,320 --> 00:15:49,720 OK, so he had a bad week. That's I don't. 349 00:15:49,720 --> 00:15:51,680 What do you mean you have to take five years off? 350 00:15:51,680 --> 00:15:53,280 I'm telling you. I'm telling you. 351 00:15:53,280 --> 00:15:55,280 Fucking weird. He's just trying to torture her 352 00:15:55,520 --> 00:15:56,720 and they're torturing each other. 353 00:15:56,720 --> 00:15:58,760 Why are you keep trying to get back together? 354 00:15:58,920 --> 00:16:01,840 You're fundamentally incompatible, and I do, I think. 355 00:16:01,840 --> 00:16:03,760 Especially now he has kids. Right. 356 00:16:03,760 --> 00:16:07,000 Complete two different, totally different life's lifestyles. 357 00:16:07,240 --> 00:16:10,600 So she's really frustrated and she goes and she goes to the 358 00:16:10,600 --> 00:16:13,800 laptop and she writes because she's a going to, I guess, write 359 00:16:13,800 --> 00:16:15,600 a fiction novel. In the first line she writes is. 360 00:16:15,760 --> 00:16:19,080 And the woman wondered, what did she get herself into? 361 00:16:19,280 --> 00:16:22,840 Yeah, OK, you didn't. You didn't get yourself into 362 00:16:22,840 --> 00:16:25,880 anything. You chose this and you could get 363 00:16:25,880 --> 00:16:29,080 yourself out just as quickly, which is what you should be 364 00:16:29,080 --> 00:16:31,160 doing, yeah. How much more fun would this 365 00:16:31,160 --> 00:16:34,480 season be if she was just like embracing her cougar? 366 00:16:34,640 --> 00:16:36,920 Right. Her inner cougar right and just 367 00:16:36,920 --> 00:16:40,080 like dating fun, like kind of dumb younger guys. 368 00:16:40,160 --> 00:16:42,840 Right, Do something, please, please. 369 00:16:42,840 --> 00:16:47,080 So Miranda and Mary keeps trying to get together with Miranda 370 00:16:47,080 --> 00:16:48,840 again and Miranda finally has to I'm so. 371 00:16:49,160 --> 00:16:53,040 Glad we came back to this. I, I just, I want, I, I don't 372 00:16:53,040 --> 00:16:56,560 think we will, but I want to see more of Mary because I did move 373 00:16:56,560 --> 00:16:58,600 them together. I did too. 374 00:16:58,760 --> 00:17:00,720 I did too. And this. 375 00:17:00,720 --> 00:17:04,319 Whole thing about like, oh, she's a tourist, OK, embrace. 376 00:17:04,400 --> 00:17:06,000 We were all tour. You bitch. 377 00:17:06,480 --> 00:17:08,240 Right. We were all tourists once. 378 00:17:08,319 --> 00:17:10,040 Because remember, what's her face? 379 00:17:10,040 --> 00:17:11,760 Miranda came from Pennsylvania. She didn't live here. 380 00:17:11,880 --> 00:17:14,079 And Carrie, I think, lived. You lived in Westchester? 381 00:17:14,160 --> 00:17:17,480 Just embrace your sense of wonder and whimsy and like, 382 00:17:17,480 --> 00:17:20,800 enjoy this. Like Miranda should fucking love 383 00:17:20,800 --> 00:17:23,400 a tourist because she would get to be the expert. 384 00:17:23,520 --> 00:17:25,760 Right, right. And we all know she needs to be 385 00:17:25,760 --> 00:17:26,560 the mommy. She needs she. 386 00:17:26,560 --> 00:17:28,560 Needs to be in control. She needs to be the expert. 387 00:17:28,560 --> 00:17:30,760 She needs to know the most. Well, there you go. 388 00:17:31,000 --> 00:17:35,120 Exactly what I loved also too, I love that she was a virgin. 389 00:17:35,360 --> 00:17:39,600 I loved that because I think we don't talk enough about 390 00:17:39,600 --> 00:17:42,680 virginity and I don't. I think there's this stigma with 391 00:17:42,680 --> 00:17:46,600 virginity when really women nowadays are being way more 392 00:17:46,600 --> 00:17:48,280 careful. Virginity has become. 393 00:17:48,360 --> 00:17:52,520 That she was a nun and that she is also a lesbian, right? 394 00:17:52,720 --> 00:17:55,720 And she has no intention, apparently, of not being a nun. 395 00:17:55,880 --> 00:17:58,040 Talking about a complex character, right? 396 00:17:58,080 --> 00:18:00,160 Who pulled this off in the writing room? 397 00:18:00,160 --> 00:18:02,680 Right. Who did this of? 398 00:18:02,680 --> 00:18:04,760 Course, I'm going to, I'm going to find this character in 399 00:18:04,760 --> 00:18:06,680 tearing because my aunt was a nun, right? 400 00:18:06,840 --> 00:18:08,840 And I've, it's never really occurred to me. 401 00:18:08,840 --> 00:18:10,800 I know my uncle was a priest and I know he was gay. 402 00:18:10,800 --> 00:18:12,800 And I always wonder, I wonder if she was gay. 403 00:18:12,880 --> 00:18:17,240 But OK, so she was just so endearing. 404 00:18:17,360 --> 00:18:20,200 She wasn't cynical, she wasn't jaded. 405 00:18:20,200 --> 00:18:23,360 And she says, you know. So sincere, she. 406 00:18:23,360 --> 00:18:26,880 Was sincere and it was and I think Miranda saw so much of 407 00:18:26,880 --> 00:18:31,280 herself in Mary in that, oh, she's just figuring it out or 408 00:18:31,280 --> 00:18:34,960 she's just starting to explore it later in life the way I did. 409 00:18:34,960 --> 00:18:39,160 And I think that's why she was so empathetic to Mary, unlike 410 00:18:39,160 --> 00:18:43,600 Carrie, who's a bitch. And when she asked Miranda to 411 00:18:43,600 --> 00:18:47,440 come back to the room and Miranda says no, she just so 412 00:18:47,440 --> 00:18:49,720 took it. But I love that Miranda thought. 413 00:18:49,720 --> 00:18:52,720 You know, I just, you know, I just don't think that like, this 414 00:18:52,720 --> 00:18:54,280 is going to work out or whatever. 415 00:18:54,360 --> 00:18:58,320 And totally what? And she says, Miranda, I have no 416 00:18:58,320 --> 00:18:59,880 intention of leaving God. Right? 417 00:19:00,200 --> 00:19:01,120 We're married. We're married. 418 00:19:01,440 --> 00:19:03,240 Right? Because Miranda's thinking that 419 00:19:03,240 --> 00:19:05,320 this woman is just so smitten with her. 420 00:19:05,360 --> 00:19:08,560 Yeah. And she might be, but she has. 421 00:19:08,600 --> 00:19:11,560 This is it's not in the forefront, right? 422 00:19:11,560 --> 00:19:12,920 It's not in the forefront of her mind. 423 00:19:13,000 --> 00:19:15,440 Yeah, I do. I like that kind of complexity. 424 00:19:15,560 --> 00:19:17,840 I love it. I really do hope they bring her 425 00:19:17,840 --> 00:19:19,400 back. Great casting too. 426 00:19:19,520 --> 00:19:22,400 I never thought I'd be so excited to see Rosie O'Donnell. 427 00:19:22,560 --> 00:19:23,720 Right. She was perfect. 428 00:19:23,880 --> 00:19:25,880 She was perfect. She played it perfect. 429 00:19:26,080 --> 00:19:29,080 Absolutely perfect, absolutely perfect. 430 00:19:29,120 --> 00:19:32,920 Now I want to talk about Lisa and her OK, she looks great, 431 00:19:33,560 --> 00:19:35,680 phenomenal great. I'm just happy. 432 00:19:35,680 --> 00:19:37,680 I'm just happy to see her. I love the character bring her 433 00:19:37,680 --> 00:19:41,520 back bring hashtag, bring Mary back bring Mary back and not 434 00:19:41,520 --> 00:19:44,360 bring burger back. We're good, so let. 435 00:19:44,760 --> 00:19:47,040 But also, are we never going to see Steve again? 436 00:19:47,280 --> 00:19:50,440 No, they they show him in in the preview for the season. 437 00:19:50,440 --> 00:19:51,120 So I think. OK. 438 00:19:51,200 --> 00:19:52,520 I didn't see the preview for the season. 439 00:19:52,520 --> 00:19:54,880 Are we going to see Brady again? Because I really hope. 440 00:19:54,960 --> 00:19:58,320 Not he's in the preview. I want to talk about Lisa and 441 00:19:58,320 --> 00:20:01,640 her husband because that this just pissed me off. 442 00:20:01,800 --> 00:20:04,960 So she's a documentarian. She's pitching this series to 443 00:20:04,960 --> 00:20:09,640 PBS about unsung black heroes, or she calls them Shiros, and 444 00:20:09,680 --> 00:20:12,640 she's preparing for this. Right. 445 00:20:12,640 --> 00:20:15,520 She's preparing for this now. He's running for Comptroller of 446 00:20:15,520 --> 00:20:18,800 the city and. I'm so glad you mentioned that 447 00:20:18,800 --> 00:20:21,960 because is he going to run into Bill, the guy that wanted to be 448 00:20:21,960 --> 00:20:23,320 peed on? Oh, I don't know. 449 00:20:24,240 --> 00:20:26,000 Bring. Him back, Bring him back. 450 00:20:26,200 --> 00:20:28,440 Bring him back. That we're going full circle. 451 00:20:28,480 --> 00:20:30,880 We're going full circle. I want to see John Slattery in 452 00:20:30,880 --> 00:20:32,640 any case. Oh, I didn't even think of that. 453 00:20:33,800 --> 00:20:36,840 In any case, he is his campaign manager. 454 00:20:36,840 --> 00:20:39,080 Is throwing some kind of Bennett, some kind of party? 455 00:20:39,080 --> 00:20:42,200 Whatever, Chauncey and. Chauncey is my new fave. 456 00:20:42,360 --> 00:20:45,280 Right. And she's expected to help out 457 00:20:45,280 --> 00:20:47,760 with this right to make. Her husband appear cool. 458 00:20:47,960 --> 00:20:50,920 Right, right. She's at this pitch meeting and 459 00:20:50,920 --> 00:20:54,560 does this son of a bitch, the husband not call her and she's 460 00:20:54,560 --> 00:20:56,560 like, oh, it must be emergency. Excuse me. 461 00:20:56,560 --> 00:20:58,560 It goes out in the hallway. What are you doing? 462 00:20:58,560 --> 00:21:00,000 Why are you calling me? I'm still this meeting. 463 00:21:00,120 --> 00:21:01,480 Oh, I thought that would have been over by now. 464 00:21:01,480 --> 00:21:06,320 So clear that he as much as we see how supportive he is, he's 465 00:21:06,320 --> 00:21:08,680 still he's not taking it seriously. 466 00:21:08,800 --> 00:21:12,720 And with this thing with Comptroller, it's you can see 467 00:21:12,720 --> 00:21:16,200 that they're expecting her to put her stuff on the back burner 468 00:21:16,440 --> 00:21:19,800 for him and she's like, fuck no, this is my thing. 469 00:21:19,920 --> 00:21:22,640 I am not doing that. This is my top priority and 470 00:21:22,640 --> 00:21:24,840 she's not apologizing for it. And I love it. 471 00:21:25,040 --> 00:21:26,920 I love it. I love that she's a total bitch 472 00:21:26,920 --> 00:21:29,760 to Chauncey until she finds out that he used to work at the 473 00:21:29,760 --> 00:21:32,560 White House because they want her to include Michelle Obama in 474 00:21:32,560 --> 00:21:35,640 her series. And I just, I was so irritated 475 00:21:35,680 --> 00:21:37,680 at the husband because I do love this husband. 476 00:21:37,680 --> 00:21:40,840 But at the same time, it just felt like, you, dude, you're not 477 00:21:40,840 --> 00:21:43,080 taking what she does seriously. You almost, you're almost 478 00:21:43,080 --> 00:21:45,040 treating it like it's frivolous. Oh, I thought that would have 479 00:21:45,040 --> 00:21:47,720 been over by now. Yeah, I mean, they're, they're 480 00:21:47,960 --> 00:21:52,440 pairing really for me, just like highlights, like no matter what 481 00:21:52,440 --> 00:21:53,800 you're, you're still somebody's wife. 482 00:21:54,200 --> 00:21:56,000 Right, right. There's these two. 483 00:21:56,000 --> 00:21:57,560 Incredibly. No matter what you achieve. 484 00:21:58,360 --> 00:21:59,760 There's don't. Talk about his wife. 485 00:22:00,000 --> 00:22:04,120 Accomplished people and their kitchen is to die for. 486 00:22:04,400 --> 00:22:07,240 Oh, my God, Their whole place is to die for. 487 00:22:07,320 --> 00:22:08,200 Yeah. Beautiful. 488 00:22:08,480 --> 00:22:12,000 They're two extremely successful professionals. 489 00:22:12,080 --> 00:22:14,760 But you know, there she is. And she and the other Epic. 490 00:22:14,760 --> 00:22:16,800 And that was it last season. She's getting ready for what's 491 00:22:16,800 --> 00:22:18,920 supposed to be the Met Ball. And she's trying to get ready. 492 00:22:18,920 --> 00:22:22,920 And he wants to give her head right And she's, I think a chair 493 00:22:22,920 --> 00:22:26,680 for this or she's some sort of position in the on this for this 494 00:22:26,680 --> 00:22:28,200 event. And she's trying to get ready. 495 00:22:28,200 --> 00:22:30,480 And he's like a Mama, Mama, Mama, Mama. 496 00:22:30,720 --> 00:22:32,960 And she just finally was like, fine, fine, go ahead. 497 00:22:33,080 --> 00:22:37,520 Like really we're we just see how these men, they're just such 498 00:22:37,520 --> 00:22:41,040 infants in a way, right? He's just such A and I love 499 00:22:41,040 --> 00:22:43,880 Christopher Jackson and I love that they had him saying I could 500 00:22:43,880 --> 00:22:46,280 listen to him saying I could just watch him. 501 00:22:46,280 --> 00:22:48,000 I just think he's so handsome and I. 502 00:22:48,160 --> 00:22:51,240 Harry loved it too. Harry God, right? 503 00:22:51,360 --> 00:22:54,840 Like the white guy, it's the white guy because Lisa and 504 00:22:54,840 --> 00:22:57,720 Herbert, the husband, they're black and he's singing with his 505 00:22:57,720 --> 00:23:01,640 college acapella and there's a very specific vibe, right? 506 00:23:01,640 --> 00:23:03,800 Because a lot of his constituents. 507 00:23:03,800 --> 00:23:06,280 Are more house alums? They're more house alums. 508 00:23:06,280 --> 00:23:07,880 OK, thank you. I thought I heard that in the 509 00:23:07,880 --> 00:23:10,400 song. So there's a very specific vibe 510 00:23:10,400 --> 00:23:12,520 going on and Harry is just ain't getting it. 511 00:23:13,400 --> 00:23:17,040 Harry stands up. He's like Whoo and he's twirling 512 00:23:17,040 --> 00:23:18,600 his. Heart at the right place. 513 00:23:18,880 --> 00:23:21,560 His heart's in the right place. But it's not about him. 514 00:23:21,640 --> 00:23:24,000 So Charlotte. Charlotte makes sure he sits 515 00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:24,960 down. Right. 516 00:23:24,960 --> 00:23:27,800 So I don't know what they're going to do with that. 517 00:23:27,840 --> 00:23:30,800 I just, I love that Lisa was a bitch to Chauncey. 518 00:23:31,080 --> 00:23:33,840 Like, yeah, yeah, I did this with, you know, four days. 519 00:23:34,000 --> 00:23:34,800 Right? Exactly. 520 00:23:34,880 --> 00:23:37,400 She's got this. Too, Because Chauncey really is 521 00:23:37,400 --> 00:23:39,880 like trying to make Lisa like an unpaid intern. 522 00:23:40,000 --> 00:23:41,960 Right. Yeah, exactly. 523 00:23:42,200 --> 00:23:45,440 And here she has this big pitch and she was given four days 524 00:23:45,440 --> 00:23:46,760 notice. Do you not think she has 525 00:23:46,760 --> 00:23:48,240 anything better to do? He doesn't. 526 00:23:48,520 --> 00:23:49,800 Right. This is the wife. 527 00:23:50,120 --> 00:23:52,440 This is what we're saying. She's the wife exactly. 528 00:23:52,680 --> 00:23:54,360 Then we have Charlotte and I don't even know what to say. 529 00:23:55,680 --> 00:23:58,000 Not a lot going on there. Not a lot going on there. 530 00:23:58,000 --> 00:24:01,440 And I couldn't, again, I just couldn't figure out what was the 531 00:24:01,440 --> 00:24:04,600 point of that story, because with everything, there is a, you 532 00:24:04,600 --> 00:24:08,520 know, we've got the alarms and we've got Lisa and the husband. 533 00:24:08,520 --> 00:24:11,040 Like there was a, there was a story there, Miranda and Mary. 534 00:24:11,040 --> 00:24:13,600 And I just felt like, what's the story here? 535 00:24:13,600 --> 00:24:17,520 There really wasn't one, right? I mean, I mean, obviously it it 536 00:24:17,520 --> 00:24:20,120 did make me think of you because of the dog drama. 537 00:24:20,240 --> 00:24:23,400 Right, I thought of me too. Yeah, I mean, it was a very 538 00:24:23,400 --> 00:24:26,680 funny line when Charlotte walked into the doggy daycare and said 539 00:24:26,680 --> 00:24:28,400 my dog Walker doesn't feel trusted. 540 00:24:28,560 --> 00:24:31,120 Because he wasn't right? But did you not think that the 541 00:24:31,120 --> 00:24:34,400 guy at the doggy daycare was the same guy who was at the pet 542 00:24:34,400 --> 00:24:36,760 store when she brought Elizabeth Taylor in? 543 00:24:37,560 --> 00:24:38,760 I didn't. I didn't notice. 544 00:24:39,160 --> 00:24:41,200 It's not, but I was like, is that the same guy? 545 00:24:41,200 --> 00:24:42,840 Because that would have been such a great callback. 546 00:24:42,880 --> 00:24:44,800 Yeah. I didn't understand. 547 00:24:45,000 --> 00:24:47,160 I didn't understand. Wait, wait. 548 00:24:47,160 --> 00:24:50,240 Because we're talking about at the end of that story was vision 549 00:24:50,240 --> 00:24:52,360 like her vision was. She wasn't wearing her glasses. 550 00:24:52,400 --> 00:24:54,840 We have the senses and the sensors and the vision. 551 00:24:54,840 --> 00:24:57,720 And I'm trying, I'm trying to find what was that theme. 552 00:24:57,720 --> 00:24:59,120 Oh wait, we haven't got the Seema. 553 00:24:59,280 --> 00:25:02,200 We have not gotten to Seema. OK, Seema has been dating this 554 00:25:02,200 --> 00:25:04,120 guy. He is a famous director. 555 00:25:04,120 --> 00:25:07,880 He's in Egypt and she's getting ready for, you know, probably a 556 00:25:07,880 --> 00:25:10,360 sexy FaceTime. And she hears the the 557 00:25:10,360 --> 00:25:13,600 notification and she clicks on and she's in this sexy lingerie 558 00:25:13,600 --> 00:25:16,000 and it's his assistant. And she's just like, whatever 559 00:25:16,000 --> 00:25:19,600 click by and she lies back in the bed and she lights up and 560 00:25:19,600 --> 00:25:22,320 I'm thinking, who like we don't, you can't smoke in your 561 00:25:22,320 --> 00:25:23,440 apartment. Well. 562 00:25:24,480 --> 00:25:26,720 And now we know why. Right now we know why. 563 00:25:26,720 --> 00:25:28,280 And I was like, who smokes in bed? 564 00:25:28,280 --> 00:25:29,720 And then the next line was who smokes? 565 00:25:29,720 --> 00:25:31,880 Who still smokes in bed? Yeah, right. 566 00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:34,080 And she burnt her hair, which I didn't get. 567 00:25:34,240 --> 00:25:35,840 Did the actress get a haircut or something? 568 00:25:35,840 --> 00:25:36,400 I don't know. I. 569 00:25:36,400 --> 00:25:38,920 Don't even tell, apparently. I could, I couldn't even tell. 570 00:25:39,080 --> 00:25:42,280 So she demands that the the boyfriend come home to New York 571 00:25:42,280 --> 00:25:45,280 to see her, and he does. And you're feeling so optimistic 572 00:25:45,280 --> 00:25:49,000 and hopeful because compared to Aiden and Carrie, see, this is 573 00:25:49,000 --> 00:25:52,400 what we want, right? Not with Aiden, but in theory, 574 00:25:52,400 --> 00:25:54,400 this is what you want. You want someone who's going to 575 00:25:54,480 --> 00:25:57,040 take that time for you, even though they have this, this 576 00:25:57,200 --> 00:25:59,520 incredible, incredibly big project. 577 00:25:59,640 --> 00:26:01,360 I don't know if this is a hot take or not. 578 00:26:01,400 --> 00:26:05,040 I don't know who that actor is who plays Seema's boyfriend, but 579 00:26:05,160 --> 00:26:07,440 that's the kind of guy who can have sex on a first date. 580 00:26:07,720 --> 00:26:09,080 Right, correct. That guy. 581 00:26:09,320 --> 00:26:11,760 Correct. So he comes home and they're 582 00:26:11,760 --> 00:26:13,600 going to spend however much time together. 583 00:26:13,600 --> 00:26:15,520 He's like, I just have to look at one location. 584 00:26:15,520 --> 00:26:17,920 And so then it clicks with her. He didn't come home to see me. 585 00:26:18,080 --> 00:26:20,200 No, he came home to scout locations. 586 00:26:20,320 --> 00:26:22,880 And so they go scouting locations and he finally finds 587 00:26:22,880 --> 00:26:24,360 one and he's like, this is the one. 588 00:26:24,480 --> 00:26:26,720 This is the apocalyptic whatever. 589 00:26:26,720 --> 00:26:28,400 And it really was. It was. 590 00:26:28,400 --> 00:26:31,040 It really was. And seems like, you know what? 591 00:26:31,040 --> 00:26:34,120 After they missed their lunch reservation, that was dinner. 592 00:26:34,440 --> 00:26:37,440 She'd missed it. And she says something. 593 00:26:37,440 --> 00:26:39,800 Crammed into this one car. Right. 594 00:26:39,800 --> 00:26:42,800 And she says something about losing herself, right? 595 00:26:42,960 --> 00:26:45,680 It was basically the equivalent of I love you but I love me 596 00:26:45,680 --> 00:26:46,680 more. Right. 597 00:26:47,440 --> 00:26:50,320 It was. And she was she was saying no, 598 00:26:50,320 --> 00:26:53,840 no, she wanted somebody who was going to make her a priority and 599 00:26:53,840 --> 00:26:55,400 he wasn't a priority to her, right. 600 00:26:55,720 --> 00:26:57,040 And she wasn't going to stand for it. 601 00:26:57,040 --> 00:26:59,680 And you know, she says this to I don't know how you're being so 602 00:26:59,680 --> 00:27:02,640 calm about this. Well, it's because Carrie is. 603 00:27:02,640 --> 00:27:04,200 Positive was an easy choice. Right. 604 00:27:04,200 --> 00:27:06,920 It was an easy choice for her. It works for her, and she ends 605 00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:08,800 things. And so we see these two 606 00:27:08,800 --> 00:27:10,960 different women and how they're handling these situations. 607 00:27:10,960 --> 00:27:13,640 And obviously, I think a lot of us were more on more. 608 00:27:13,640 --> 00:27:17,040 I think a lot of us were rooting for Seema in in this situation 609 00:27:17,040 --> 00:27:20,520 because she says no. She says she has standards, she 610 00:27:20,520 --> 00:27:24,680 has expectations and she's not afraid to draw that line, which 611 00:27:24,680 --> 00:27:27,280 I think is very encouraging because I think, I don't know, 612 00:27:27,560 --> 00:27:30,800 with the exception of Samantha, I don't think any of them, they 613 00:27:30,800 --> 00:27:33,720 all really lost themselves in their relationships. 614 00:27:33,760 --> 00:27:36,840 Well, J Diaz, we don't even need to talk about, right? 615 00:27:36,920 --> 00:27:38,640 That's that's obvious. Right. 616 00:27:38,760 --> 00:27:42,520 Harry's still a good dude. Harry made him so oh, fish, you 617 00:27:42,560 --> 00:27:43,960 think, oh, he used to be such a great. 618 00:27:43,960 --> 00:27:45,840 He's still a good character, but he. 619 00:27:45,960 --> 00:27:48,560 I mean, in this season, yeah, they're they're really not doing 620 00:27:48,560 --> 00:27:50,040 a lot for him. No. 621 00:27:50,400 --> 00:27:52,160 Well, last. Last season, too, even. 622 00:27:52,520 --> 00:27:55,760 Right, I want to, I want to see this, the Harry from the first 623 00:27:55,760 --> 00:27:57,280 season he was in. Where there? 624 00:27:57,880 --> 00:27:59,640 Was this layered? You know he was. 625 00:27:59,640 --> 00:28:01,800 I can't marry you and that whole thing. 626 00:28:02,040 --> 00:28:04,400 Right. So. 627 00:28:04,400 --> 00:28:08,080 You know what I what I am appreciating already, though, is 628 00:28:08,080 --> 00:28:11,240 they're really working hard to turn Aiden Shaw into one of the 629 00:28:11,240 --> 00:28:15,520 most hated characters, right to to transform him completely from 630 00:28:15,600 --> 00:28:19,280 the one that got away to. Stay the. 631 00:28:19,320 --> 00:28:21,640 Aided villains, right? All TV. 632 00:28:21,800 --> 00:28:25,360 He, he, I mean, he's, they're just not doing him any justice. 633 00:28:25,400 --> 00:28:26,880 Well, but we'll go ahead and end. 634 00:28:26,880 --> 00:28:29,040 Up liking it because I don't like them together. 635 00:28:29,280 --> 00:28:30,600 Right, right. I. 636 00:28:30,640 --> 00:28:33,800 Never really did. Right, but I think as time have 637 00:28:33,800 --> 00:28:37,280 we and now that we have distance, we can see how toxic 638 00:28:37,280 --> 00:28:40,320 their relationship was and how he didn't accept her for who she 639 00:28:40,320 --> 00:28:45,480 was and how it still doesn't, how insecure, how petty he was. 640 00:28:46,720 --> 00:28:49,640 He's still a petty little bitch because that is, he's punishing 641 00:28:49,640 --> 00:28:51,200 her. I firmly believe that. 642 00:28:52,080 --> 00:28:53,880 Well. Kristen, we have to. 643 00:28:54,040 --> 00:28:57,320 We have to talk about that fuck ass hat. 644 00:28:57,400 --> 00:28:59,560 The Strawberry Shortcake hat, that's what everyone's calling 645 00:28:59,560 --> 00:29:00,560 it. Everyone's calling it the 646 00:29:00,560 --> 00:29:02,160 Strawberry Shortcake Hat. Yeah. 647 00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:06,120 In what? Why? 648 00:29:06,160 --> 00:29:11,240 Well, I obviously clocked it, as did everyone who watched the 649 00:29:11,240 --> 00:29:12,840 show. I did not realize it was going 650 00:29:12,840 --> 00:29:16,560 to become a cultural touchstone. My husband came home from work 651 00:29:16,560 --> 00:29:19,440 today and said, are you going to talk about the hat? 652 00:29:19,680 --> 00:29:22,080 And I was like, what hat? He's like, you know, the hat. 653 00:29:22,280 --> 00:29:26,200 And I was like, what hat? He's like you, you know the hat. 654 00:29:26,200 --> 00:29:29,520 I was like, you know the hat. He's like, yeah, we all know the 655 00:29:29,520 --> 00:29:30,560 hat. What is this? 656 00:29:30,560 --> 00:29:33,600 We all know the hat now. Yeah, she's just, I don't know, 657 00:29:33,600 --> 00:29:35,240 I loved her dress in the beginning. 658 00:29:35,240 --> 00:29:37,040 I love that dress, that sheer dress. 659 00:29:37,160 --> 00:29:39,280 Beautiful. I did too, and I really liked 660 00:29:39,280 --> 00:29:42,080 the detail that she was sitting at her desk already wearing 661 00:29:42,080 --> 00:29:44,760 heels and then we see her run down the stairs as though she 662 00:29:44,760 --> 00:29:46,600 wouldn't wipe out. Right. 663 00:29:47,240 --> 00:29:51,600 But then she wipes out in socks. Well, have you ever walked and 664 00:29:51,720 --> 00:29:54,560 listen that that happens all the time when you're in socks on the 665 00:29:54,560 --> 00:29:56,160 hardwood floor here, at least here. 666 00:29:56,400 --> 00:29:59,160 But I love that they maintain that they want her to have that 667 00:29:59,160 --> 00:30:01,800 staircase, right, because they need that shot. 668 00:30:02,480 --> 00:30:05,160 That's sort of an iconic. She comes out, you see the 669 00:30:05,160 --> 00:30:06,880 outfit, she comes down the stairs. 670 00:30:07,040 --> 00:30:10,640 It's still sort of there there. It's still framed very similar, 671 00:30:10,720 --> 00:30:14,800 similarly to her old apartment. I mean the the light in there is 672 00:30:14,800 --> 00:30:15,800 excellent. Right. 673 00:30:16,240 --> 00:30:19,360 Yeah, yes, OK. I just can't wait for the 674 00:30:19,360 --> 00:30:21,840 burglary episode. Hey, it's coming all right 675 00:30:22,000 --> 00:30:24,200 again. If you want to hear our recaps 676 00:30:24,200 --> 00:30:26,880 of and just like that, make sure you're a subscriber to the 677 00:30:26,880 --> 00:30:30,040 Patreon, go to patreon.com/datology coach and 678 00:30:30,040 --> 00:30:33,520 make sure to tune into the Worth the Wait episodes because we 679 00:30:33,520 --> 00:30:35,720 talk about just the weight of being a woman. 680 00:30:35,720 --> 00:30:38,560 And I, I feel like we're getting, we're just uncovering 681 00:30:38,560 --> 00:30:41,040 so much and we're learning so much about each other and 682 00:30:41,040 --> 00:30:45,160 ourselves through this process, through this GLP one process and 683 00:30:45,160 --> 00:30:46,560 how much. Do you think that hat weighed? 684 00:30:46,640 --> 00:30:49,200 I would say at least like 10 lbs. 685 00:30:49,920 --> 00:30:51,960 But I mean, it must have been pulling a little bit. 686 00:30:52,200 --> 00:30:53,400 Yeah, it must have been. I mean, for sure. 687 00:30:54,040 --> 00:30:56,280 All right. Follow us on Instagram at 688 00:30:56,280 --> 00:30:58,800 Datology pod, follow me on Instagram at the Kristen 689 00:30:58,800 --> 00:31:03,520 MTHECHRISTANM, follow me on TikTok and YouTube at datology 690 00:31:03,520 --> 00:31:06,000 Coach and my character analysis and make sure to send your 691 00:31:06,000 --> 00:31:08,920 letters in. Go to datologycoach.com and 692 00:31:08,920 --> 00:31:11,680 click ask a question. And if you're interested in 693 00:31:11,680 --> 00:31:14,240 getting a profile review or if you're interested in getting any 694 00:31:14,240 --> 00:31:17,080 feedback on your current dating life or your current single 695 00:31:17,080 --> 00:31:19,960 life, just work with me and you can book a session. 696 00:31:19,960 --> 00:31:22,600 Sarah, any final thoughts? Can I say one more thing about 697 00:31:22,600 --> 00:31:24,080 the hat? Absolutely. 698 00:31:24,080 --> 00:31:27,760 I really, really loved the hat in the context of the whole 699 00:31:27,760 --> 00:31:31,280 scene because did you notice they were walking around outside 700 00:31:31,280 --> 00:31:34,560 where there had just been a commencement ceremony where 701 00:31:34,560 --> 00:31:37,120 students are in mortar board hats, right? 702 00:31:37,160 --> 00:31:41,800 And, and Carrie of course is in that fuck ass hat because God 703 00:31:41,800 --> 00:31:44,600 forbid anyone receive more attention. 704 00:31:44,960 --> 00:31:47,520 Than Carrie. Yes, All right. 705 00:31:47,680 --> 00:31:50,480 Bog witches, warlocks days. Value your time. 706 00:31:50,680 --> 00:31:53,640 Decenter men, decenter yourself. Anything else? 707 00:31:53,920 --> 00:31:55,480 Wear tasteful hats. Right. 708 00:31:55,560 --> 00:31:56,640 Exactly. All right. 709 00:31:56,920 --> 00:31:57,800 Goodbye.