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I'm Jessica and this is Tiba K 
Rambles, where a couple of 

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friends review Korean dramas and
welcome back to another episode.

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We are going to review our Blues
today and for this episode I am 

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joined by Curtis from 
Infatuation Podcast. 

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Hey, Curtis, how are you? 
Hey, Jess, how's it going? 

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It's going well. 
Welcome back. 

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Welcome. 
Back, yeah. 

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And I also have Brandon from the
Poacher Playlist podcast. 

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How are you, Brandon? 
I'm doing well, thank you for 

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the invitation. 
It's my first time on here. 

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You did an episode with Jenny 
from Poach a Playlist a few 

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episodes back, maybe one or two 
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I think that was on Goblin, 
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Yeah, we did Goblin and then she
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beautiful that throwback and 
that was a lot of fun. 

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So I am so glad that you were 
keen to join for Our Blues 

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because I'm told that you really
love Our Blues. 

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And the same goes for you, 
Curtis, that you are both fans 

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of this show and could bring a 
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context. 
And just we're glad to talk 

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through this show. 
And this was my first time 

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watching this show. 
So I was like, I need people 

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who, you know, have been kind of
simmering in this already and 

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I'm super excited to get to get 
going on this really quick. 

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What are you guys watching 
recently and what are you guys 

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enjoying in the Asian drama 
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If if you guys don't mind just 
kind of sharing what's on your 

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plate right now? 
Poach a playlist just finished 

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reviewing Midnight romance in 
Haguan that has we ha Jun in his

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first leading role in a romance 
that was great and we are going 

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to be wrapping up a typical 
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That's a drama that me and my Co
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We really like that drama for 
this year. 

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I think we're going to rank it 
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Yeah, same. 
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a or an atypical family. 
I loved it as well and actually 

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currently, for better or for 
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and Nights. 
Miss day and nights. 

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Some actors from yeah, from our 
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There's a couple actors from our
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give any opinions on that one 
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We got a couple more weeks on 
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OK yeah, I did a big poll the 
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stories to see what people were 
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We are just past the halfway 
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See what people are feeling 
about the best dramas of 2024. 

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And overwhelmingly people were 
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their favorite drama. 
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followed by Lovely No no lovely 
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Lovely runner, yeah. 
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of the year. 
Pocha Pocha approved that one. 

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Yeah, I know, I know. 
So this is exciting. 

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OK, so we are going to get going
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This is actually going to be 
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there are so many people in this
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There are so many storylines 
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We are going to do our best to 
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within a reasonable time frame 
because we don't we're we don't,

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we're not made of time. 
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Comfortable people. 
Yeah, so here we go then. 

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I put together this like 
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Wikipedia synopsis and here it 
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Romance is sweet and bitter and 
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in multiple stories about people
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Cheju Island. 
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sweet and bitter lives of people
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of life and depicts their 
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which is basically telling 
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that are somewhat interconnected
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So Our Blues aired from April to
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international K drama audience, 
this show was underrated, flew 

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under the radar for everybody. 
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reeling from 2521, which had 
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on that show. 
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finished airing, it was preceded
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international audience ate up 
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those shows have episodes on the
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scroll back and listen to those.
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Our Blues, especially when it 
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internationally, because I don't
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to really get there, you know? 
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little longer than I think 
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especially new arcade drama fans
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traditional format, 20 episodes 
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Directed by Kim Kitay, he's 
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including A Love to Kill from O 
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That's with Shimina, Worlds 
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Gun. 
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like, oh. 
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Iris Bro Padam Padam, which is 
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All of these actors are in our 
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The wind blows with Choin Song 
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He won best director at the 49th
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He directed It's all right, This
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of my favorite dramas. 
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Secret love, moon lovers, 
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covered at the end of last 
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If you want to go back and 
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directed Liv and he will be 
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Netflix show airing sometime 
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star. 
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very, very decorated and well 
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He's been around for a minute or
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top talent. 
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stuff, to be honest. 
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list, I don't think I've watched
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through. 
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Besides, besides our Blues, 
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but I do know that like Moon 
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super popular so that's always 
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I might have to check it out. 
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The show Our Blues was the show 
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Kyung. 
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the 90s, so this is just a few 
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written. 
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this stars Koh Duchim. 
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actresses in our Blues world's 
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the wind blows. 
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This is this is love. 
Four of the same dramas that the

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director has directed. 
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director basically five times 
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And then Dear My friends from 
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which is the terminal mom in our
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This show won best screenplay at
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So really, really decorated and 
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for a while. 
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watched Padam Padam, or at least
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or whatever. 
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out of like I watched something 
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to it. 
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intentional drop, you know what 
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Like there's a difference 
between a life happened and I 

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watched something else. 
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necessarily hate it. 
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spiritually, very similar to our
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Not that it's the same format, 
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different interconnected 
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character is very similar to the
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So when I heard, when I saw that
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both of the director and writer 
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I was like, oh, that makes too 
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So if you want something along 
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And then we're going to get into
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So here we go. 
We're only going to we're going 

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to talk about a handful of 
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and then. 
We're because there's like 50 of

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them. 
I want to get this out there. 

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This is an All Star cast. 
This is a well regarded 

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decorated cast. 
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Every one of these people has 
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with each other as well as the 
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and it's all intertwined and 
there's a lot of history coming 

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into the show and putting 
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This is like Avengers Assemble 
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making this spreadsheet, I would
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making before End Game. 
It was like, Oh my God, we had 

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to have watched all this stuff 
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gravity of this movie. 
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this. 
My sister called it flash cards 

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when she saw what this looked 
like in here, 'cause it's like 

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their photo, the name of the 
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everything. 
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Eviogan plays Idung Sok, a truck
merchant who was born in Chechu.

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He has been in about 36 movies, 
including most recently Concrete

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Utopia. 
He's been in an emergency 

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declaration, the Fortress. 
He played the T1000 in 

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Terminator Genesis. 
Matt, you're already laughing 

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Memories of the Sword from 2015,
which I really liked that movie 

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for some reason. 
I watched it and was like, whoa,

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this is mind blowing. 
And I tried to get it like in my

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own personal collection of Blu 
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which is an excellent, excellent
movie. 

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It is the inspiration for the 
show The Crowned Clown. 

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Again, excellent show. 
So a lot of movies here going 

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even further back, I saw the 
Devil from 2010. 

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I recently saw this movie. 
And then I did experience a 

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little bit of Satan in this 
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He won the Day Song the grand 
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Awards for his role in I Saw the
Devil. 

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Totally deserved. 
He was in Iris the movie. 

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This is back when the Cage 
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If they were so successful, they
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They made a sequel. 
Rare. 

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Then they would do another 
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So this was where this was like 
the High School Musical 

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blueprint where it was like High
School Musical, High School 

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Musical two and then High School
Musical three was in theaters of

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theatrical release. 
That's Iris the movie. 

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So other movies like Joint 
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the weird, tons of things. 
He's got nearly 26 credits from 

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television. 
Squid Game is most recent. 

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I think he was frontman Mr. 
Sunshine. 

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Iris again. 
I bring up Iris because he won 

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Best actor at the 2010 Beck Song
Awards for his role in Iris. 

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I have to be honest, I did not 
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I. 
Haven't seen it either. 

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Yeah, but yeah. 
Love Mr. Sunshine. 

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Love Squid Game. 
Yeah, he's he's classic. 

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Yeah, he's great. 
Classic classic K drama and film

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actor. 
He I kind of consider him more 

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of a film actor, but how do you 
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I I just love him but. 
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film actor and I saw The Devil 
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movies. 
And I have a great memory. 

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My my mom and I were visiting 
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there's a new young movie do you
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we got to go watch it. 
But she doesn't. 

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She didn't know what it was 
going to be about you. 

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Were like 12? 
How old were you? 

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You saw this with your mom. 
Yeah, I was around that age. 

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Yeah, but she, she didn't know 
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well. 
He plays the the villain in the 

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movie, but her, her, her, you 
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the entire time. 
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I thought it was great. 
Oh God it's so concerning like 

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the whole movie is. 
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Pins and needles. 
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definitely highly recommend it. 
And actually I have a a poll up 

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on the on the Patreon feed 
because there's a bunch of 

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movies that I've I'm looking to 
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them all for spooky season, 
which is coming up really fast. 

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And that's one of the movies 
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I don't know if people realize 
like what it is. 

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And I'm really terrified to 
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I'll do it for the pod. 
You know what I'm saying? 

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Like I'll brave it again. 
I'll do it for the pod. 

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So his mother in the show is 
played by Kim. 

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Hey JA, she plays Kangok Thong 
is the name of her character. 

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This woman is prolific. 
She's the first and only person 

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to have won the Tea Song four 
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Awards in 7989, 2009 and 20/19. 
She was on a recurring Almost 

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Like Days of Our Lives, but the 
show was called Country Diaries 

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in which she appeared for 22 
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made her a household name and it

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cemented her image among the 
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iconic, unconditionally loving 
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Which comes into play because 
Our Blues that is called into 

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question that whole persona that
she has built over the course of

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her career playing amazing 
strong mothers. 

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She's been in five move only 5 
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from 2009. 
This is a very famous Bong Joon 

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Ho movie that Bong Joon Ho like 
famously was like I wouldn't 

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have created like I went after 
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it took years for her to agree 
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And I wouldn't have done it if 
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character. 
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this movie. 
She was the first actress to be 

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named best actress by the LA 
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It was so impactful I'd highly 
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Plus one bin plays her son in 
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She's been in 90 plus TV dramas.
If you if you look online I 

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think Wikipedia has it all. 
Asian Wiki doesn't have it all, 

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but she's been acting since the 
60s and some things I know her 

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from are Princess Hours is the 
number one thing that I know her

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from. 
She's the Queen Mother. 

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That's 2006. 
I loved her in that. 

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I thought she was so precious 
and she's been in things like 

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Dear My Friends from 2016 and 
then she was in The Light in 

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Your Eyes in 2019 with Hanji 
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Also in our Blues. 
She won the grand prize, the 

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song for this role that she did 
in The Light in Your Eyes at the

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55th Bexhang Awards. 
So she is really, really 

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decorated, really well known and
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audiences necessarily get the 
the big thing of putting her in 

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this role opposite Ebiogan. 
Yeah, definitely not in this 

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role. 
Definitely not Mom of the Year. 

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For this. 
Character that she's playing, 

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but yeah, she's great in this, 
you know, you feel for her. 

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Yeah, she does a lot to you in 
this in this one. 

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She does a lot to you exactly 
like she manhandles us. 

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She, she will make you feel, 
yeah. 

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She will make you feel 
something, yeah. 

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Yeah, So following her up, we 
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She plays Min so Na, a single 
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Jeju and works with Yi Dong Sok.
I don't think that's necessarily

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right. 
That's one like Wikipedia, but 

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let's keep it vague. 
That's fine. 

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That's fine, fine. 
She's been in 15 movies, 

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including A Bittersweet Life 
from 2005. 

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This is a reunion for her and EB
Yungun because EB Yungun and her

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starred in A Bittersweet Life 
together. 

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Yes, so very famously. 
And then she's also been in 15 

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TV shows. 
Everyone knows her from hometown

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Cha Cha Cha. 
In 2021, that was a beloved 

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pandemic show. 
She's in chief of staff seasons 

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1:00 and 2:00 Tomorrow with You,
Oh my Venus Arang and the 

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Magistrate. 
My girlfriend is a Kumio, so on 

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and so forth, but she's had a 
very long career. 

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She's household name as well, 
and she famously has also dated 

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chemo bin for I don't know how 
long. 

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I really don't know how long 
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been a really long time. 
A long time. 

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Yeah, maybe close to a decade 
that they've been dating. 

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So what do you guys feel about 
Shimena? 

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Have you guys seen Bittersweet 
Life? 

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That was one of the first EB on 
the movies I've ever seen, no? 

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Kidding. 
At the time, I didn't know who 

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she was. 
I knew who, you know, I was just

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discovering him. 
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was like, oh, that's Shimena. 
Yeah. 

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Yeah, she's great. 
You know, I think she's 

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fantastic. 
She's great in this role too. 

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We'll talk about it, but yeah, 
she stole this drama for me. 

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Like she really cared. 
Really. 

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Oh, that's so nice to hear. 
So we're going to follow her 

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with E Chungun, who plays 
Chunguni, the owner of a fish 

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store who has bubbly charm. 
I didn't write that part. 

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So she's been in 34 movies, 
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was in Mother 2009 with, yeah, 
the same Fung Jun Ho movie. 

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She was I Chung's relative. 
I don't know, some bit part in 

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there, I guess. 
And then she's been in the 

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wailing from 2016. 
She plays talkies wife. 

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Listen, the wailing. 
I had to like sit down and like 

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practice meditative breathing 
after that. 

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Like that movie put me in a 
state. 

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I don't know why I decided to 
watch horror movies at like 

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midnight when I'm trying to fall
asleep. 

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I'm like, yeah, I can press 
play. 

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I'm like, these are really scary
movies and think I'm going to 

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sleep well tonight. 
And I don't know what possesses 

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me to do this, but I'm not. 
It's not just once or twice that

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I've done this. 
And this one I think I did in 

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December. 
I watched The Wailing and I had 

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I, I was wrecked. 
I mean crazy eyes wrecked after 

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that one I watched. 
So then she's also been in Okja 

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from 2017. 
Do you guys remember Okja? 

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Of course, Bung Jung Ho, right? 
Yeah, yeah. 

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She's in Battleship Island in 
from 2017, a taxi driver and of 

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course, Parasite from 2019. 
They did her dirty with a Peach,

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Peach fuzz in that movie. 
She's been. 

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Yeah, she's been in 43 TV shows.
I can't tell you what they all 

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are. 
We'd be here all day. 

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But some of them include 
Weightlifting Ferry Kimbukchu 

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from 20/16/2017 with Jong Nani 
from the Swag crew. 

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They are both in our Blues. 
She was in Tomorrow with you 

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alongside She Nina Fight for My 
way while You Were sleeping. 

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Mr. Sunshine alongside Yves 
Yungun. 

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She's been in familiar wife the 
light in your eyes both with Han

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Ji Min and Kim Kim Hijab when 
the camellia blooms with Kole 

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Duchim. 
Like all these all these people 

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have worked together or have 
like been in the same shows 

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together. 
Juvenile justice from 2022. 

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She's been in daily dose of 
sunshine and most recently 

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Curtis Miss Night and day from 
this year, which I think is 

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currently airing. 
Yeah, yes. 

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So she's had a very illustrious,
long, long life, as you know, 

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people's mothers, people's 
aunts. 

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And I think she's finally 
getting the the roles that I 

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would love to see her in that 
I'm really satisfied seeing her 

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in. 
And I love her as an actress. 

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I always perk up when I see her 
in a project. 

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Yeah, she's, she's got a 
toughness to her, but a warmth 

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and silliness. 
Yeah, she's she's got a really 

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wide range. 
She's fantastic in this one too.

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Yes. 
So one person we wanted to shout

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out as well was Chasungun, who 
plays Hansu, and he's related to

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her story. 
He returns to the hometown early

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on in the show. 
He's like in the first three 

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episodes, basically, and he 
masquerades as a perfect urban 

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man. 
And he is then his first love. 

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He's been in like 30 movies and 
14 TV shows, including A Korean 

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Odyssey and The Greatest Love. 
I remember seeing him in The 

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Greatest Love and I was like, Oh
my God, it's that ridiculous guy

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from The Greatest Love when I 
saw him in our Blues. 

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He's quite famous in Korea. 
So how do you guys feel about 

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this guy? 
Did you have have you guys seen 

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him in other things? 
Oh, yeah, he's, he's really 

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famous in Korea 'cause he also 
is a model. 

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I mean, if you just, I mean, 
just clearly look at him see 

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like Holly is. 
Yeah. 

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But I, some of my favorite 
movies recently have him. 

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So Night in Paradise, he plays 
an amazing gangster in that a 

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really fun action series called 
Tokjun, also known as Believer. 

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He was in the first and second 
of those. 

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And then there was another movie
recently called Sinkhole, where 

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he plays a great character in 
that movie as well. 

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So he is. 
He's a bona fide movie star. 

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He's a movie star. 
Yeah, Yeah. 

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So to follow him up, we got Kimo
Bin. 

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This was oh, he plays PAC Jung 
Joon, a captain with a direct 

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and warm nature. 
This is this is his comeback 

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descriptions. 
I know these descriptions. 

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His comeback show since he was 
diagnosed with nasopharyngeal 

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cancer sometime in 2017, which 
was a bombshell back after 

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uncontrollably fond in 2016 came
out. 

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Then it was revealed that he was
struggling, had been diagnosed 

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with cancer and he was going to 
be taking a prolonged break from

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acting. 
So this is his comeback. 

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This was he hadn't done anything
since 2016, so this was a big 

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deal for Kim Woobin to reappear 
and be healthy and look great 

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and everyone was happy to see 
him in a show with Shin Min now,

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which was is his long time love.
They were not playing lovers in 

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our Blues and you might 
recognize him as well from the 

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airs in 2013. 
We have an episode on the airs 

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as well on the Timber Feed if 
you want to scroll back and 

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listen. 
So that that was fun. 

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He's been in Gentlemen's Dignity
and most recently he was in 

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Black Knight on Netflix show 
from 2023. 

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So Kimo Bin, I think everyone 
loves Kimo Bin, but he doesn't 

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have a long resume like other 
actors and actresses on that 

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we've discussed so far that 
we've covered so far, Yeah, 

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yeah. 
Shoulders for days though, like 

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shoulders from it was coast to 
coast on this guy. 

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Yeah, he's pretty tall looking 
and got a good smile on him. 

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And yeah, people seem to really 
enjoy Kimovin, but. 

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Why not? 
Yeah. 

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Why not Sure. 
Sure, I think it. 

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Wait, is he the last one? 
I think. 

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He's yeah. 
I think we better. 

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The audience out there was like,
Oh my gosh. 

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That we have agreed to discuss 
at length. 

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OK. 
There are many, many more. 

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No, there's way more where that 
came from everybody, but we're 

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just. 
Don't mention them. 

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Yeah. 
What did you guys think of our 

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Blues when you first watched it?
And if you rewatched it, how did

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you guys feel after the rewatch 
this time around? 

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Yeah, I agree with you, Jess, 
that this flew under the radar 

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from me. 
I didn't pick it up as it aired.

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I picked it up maybe a year 
later, I think cuz Brandon 

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recommended it to me. 
He Brandon said that he really 

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loved this one and I should 
check it out. 

448
00:26:34,560 --> 00:26:37,120
And I was like, well, if Brandon
says I should check it out, I 

449
00:26:37,120 --> 00:26:40,400
should watch it. 
And so I started it and yeah, I 

450
00:26:40,400 --> 00:26:43,240
love this kind of drama. 
I love ensemble casts. 

451
00:26:43,680 --> 00:26:48,480
I love intertwined stories. 
I think it may be like we just 

452
00:26:48,480 --> 00:26:50,720
talked about the cast and 
there's a lot of stars in it, 

453
00:26:50,720 --> 00:26:55,440
but the stars are solid and 
they're prolific, but they're 

454
00:26:55,440 --> 00:26:59,440
not necessarily the kind of 
stars that you say, oh, I have 

455
00:26:59,440 --> 00:27:02,480
to watch that drama because so 
and so is in it. 

456
00:27:02,480 --> 00:27:07,600
Like, I don't think for me at 
least, there's that person for 

457
00:27:07,600 --> 00:27:10,560
me that makes me say, oh, I have
to watch that drama because so 

458
00:27:10,560 --> 00:27:13,960
and so is in it. 
But once you get started it, it 

459
00:27:13,960 --> 00:27:16,360
just sucks you in. 
The storytelling is fantastic. 

460
00:27:16,360 --> 00:27:18,800
Yeah. 
So I, I, I didn't notice it 

461
00:27:18,800 --> 00:27:20,320
right away, but yeah, I picked 
it up. 

462
00:27:20,440 --> 00:27:24,120
It's kind of later after, after 
hearing other people talk about 

463
00:27:24,120 --> 00:27:25,040
it. 
So it's kind of one of those 

464
00:27:25,040 --> 00:27:26,840
dramas, I think. 
And you liked it? 

465
00:27:27,400 --> 00:27:28,280
Absolutely. 
I liked it. 

466
00:27:28,280 --> 00:27:29,280
Yeah. 
OK. 

467
00:27:29,600 --> 00:27:31,360
I'll talk to you more when we 
get to the ratings. 

468
00:27:31,360 --> 00:27:33,440
I'll talk to you more when we. 
Get to OK, OK, OK. 

469
00:27:33,600 --> 00:27:36,880
So, Brandon, let me know what do
you think of the show? 

470
00:27:37,400 --> 00:27:41,600
Yeah, so for poach a playlist, 
we we actually picked this title

471
00:27:41,600 --> 00:27:43,120
up. 
So we watched it from the first 

472
00:27:43,120 --> 00:27:45,920
day that it came out. 
And for me, you know, IB young 

473
00:27:45,920 --> 00:27:48,400
Hon is one of the greatest 
actors. 

474
00:27:48,400 --> 00:27:51,440
So there was no way that we 
weren't going to pick this up. 

475
00:27:51,440 --> 00:27:55,440
I mean, this was his venture 
back into another K drama and 

476
00:27:55,440 --> 00:27:58,720
the ensemble cast, as Curtis 
mentioned, really drew me in. 

477
00:27:59,200 --> 00:28:05,600
I loved the format where it's a 
it's set in Chejo and you have 

478
00:28:05,600 --> 00:28:08,120
different vignettes, like every 
two episodes is set on a 

479
00:28:08,120 --> 00:28:10,640
different relationship and it's 
all intertwined. 

480
00:28:10,880 --> 00:28:15,200
It's kind of like a anthology 
and it all kind of ends 

481
00:28:15,200 --> 00:28:19,680
perfectly and it just tells this
phenomenal story of all of these

482
00:28:19,680 --> 00:28:23,240
great characters played by 
wonderful actors and actresses. 

483
00:28:23,240 --> 00:28:25,600
I mean, what's not to like for a
drama like this? 

484
00:28:25,800 --> 00:28:28,600
It made me laugh. 
It made Jenny cry. 

485
00:28:28,600 --> 00:28:31,880
There's I don't want to 
misspeak, but I think this might

486
00:28:31,880 --> 00:28:34,800
be one of the dramas that Jenny 
and I go back to the most. 

487
00:28:34,800 --> 00:28:39,000
And it's for specific scenes. 
Jenny and I will say, Oh my God,

488
00:28:39,000 --> 00:28:40,640
remember that one scene from our
Blues off? 

489
00:28:40,640 --> 00:28:42,280
We have to go turn it on. 
And we'll just like, Fast 

490
00:28:42,280 --> 00:28:44,560
forward to that one scene and 
we're like, oh, this is an 

491
00:28:44,560 --> 00:28:46,440
amazing, amazing. 
This is a masterpiece. 

492
00:28:46,840 --> 00:28:49,320
And we'll just cycle through 
that every once in a while. 

493
00:28:49,600 --> 00:28:56,120
Yeah, I so I didn't pick it up 
in 2022 when it aired and it 

494
00:28:56,120 --> 00:28:57,960
really had nothing to do with 
anything. 

495
00:28:58,040 --> 00:29:02,440
Like I was just watching other 
things and watching things for 

496
00:29:02,440 --> 00:29:06,280
the podcast as well. 
So, and I have to say, slice of 

497
00:29:06,280 --> 00:29:11,280
life is not my bag. 
It takes a lot for me to think, 

498
00:29:11,280 --> 00:29:13,640
oh, I need to watch this slice 
of life show and I need to watch

499
00:29:13,640 --> 00:29:16,520
it right now. 
Slice of live shows have a long 

500
00:29:16,520 --> 00:29:21,400
shelf life and so to me, it's 
never, there's never a sense of 

501
00:29:21,400 --> 00:29:28,200
urgency to watch it. 
And for some reason, like I just

502
00:29:29,280 --> 00:29:31,760
never gravitate towards slice of
live shows. 

503
00:29:31,760 --> 00:29:36,280
It's takes something really 
special to drag me in and hold 

504
00:29:36,280 --> 00:29:41,120
my attention. 
And for some I really enjoy it 

505
00:29:41,120 --> 00:29:45,520
and for others I I don't like 
for famous ones too. 

506
00:29:46,600 --> 00:29:47,720
What's a famous slice of life 
like? 

507
00:29:47,720 --> 00:29:52,680
The Reply series is a really 
famous slice of life set of trio

508
00:29:52,680 --> 00:29:56,560
of shows and for those I only 
like one of them. 

509
00:29:57,000 --> 00:30:00,040
And the most famous one that 
everyone raves about. 

510
00:30:00,040 --> 00:30:02,920
I don't really enjoy it that 
much. 

511
00:30:02,920 --> 00:30:04,960
It was not an enjoyable 
experience to watch it. 

512
00:30:05,680 --> 00:30:09,320
So if there was any hype around 
our Blues I didn't hear it. 

513
00:30:09,320 --> 00:30:13,320
And if if there was anybody 
speaking nice things about it, I

514
00:30:13,320 --> 00:30:16,440
was like, OK, another good show 
that I have to put on my 

515
00:30:16,440 --> 00:30:21,520
extensive watch list of like, 
hundreds of shows at this point.

516
00:30:21,600 --> 00:30:23,560
Like, it's take a number. 
You know what I'm saying? 

517
00:30:23,560 --> 00:30:24,400
Yeah. 
Yeah. 

518
00:30:25,120 --> 00:30:29,600
So it wasn't until this, you 
know, late last year when I was 

519
00:30:29,600 --> 00:30:31,880
putting together the lineup that
I was like, you know what, I 

520
00:30:31,880 --> 00:30:35,640
kind of do want to press play on
our Blues 'cause I took a closer

521
00:30:36,160 --> 00:30:40,680
look at the cast and I was like,
you know what, I kind of I'm 

522
00:30:40,680 --> 00:30:42,560
feeling it. 
I was in the mood. 

523
00:30:42,560 --> 00:30:44,400
I've said this before, I'm a 
mood watcher. 

524
00:30:45,120 --> 00:30:49,160
And later on, after I had 
already put it on the docket for

525
00:30:49,160 --> 00:30:56,200
season five of Tabak, I saw a 
scene of Shimena in the show and

526
00:30:56,200 --> 00:30:59,240
I was like, Oh my God, thank 
God. 

527
00:30:59,240 --> 00:31:03,800
I'm already planning on watching
this show because this scene is 

528
00:31:03,800 --> 00:31:06,440
tremendous. 
And I won't say what it is. 

529
00:31:06,920 --> 00:31:10,480
I will, I'll say what it is in 
spoilers, but I was like taken 

530
00:31:10,480 --> 00:31:15,760
aback by the incredible depth of
the scene and the way it was 

531
00:31:15,760 --> 00:31:21,280
acted and the incredible cruelty
from some of the character, the 

532
00:31:21,280 --> 00:31:23,520
other character that was 
playing, playing the scene with 

533
00:31:23,520 --> 00:31:29,440
her and the subject matter of 
what the character was, what her

534
00:31:29,440 --> 00:31:32,960
character was going through. 
And I was like, well, shit, if 

535
00:31:32,960 --> 00:31:37,840
that's one character and there's
a whole plethora of characters 

536
00:31:37,840 --> 00:31:42,320
that the show is about, then 
absolutely like, sign me up. 

537
00:31:42,680 --> 00:31:46,640
Because I run the risk of 
getting bored when there's so 

538
00:31:46,640 --> 00:31:48,360
many characters and it's an 
ensemble cast. 

539
00:31:48,360 --> 00:31:50,960
I don't want to be in it for 
like one or two people. 

540
00:31:51,360 --> 00:31:53,960
And then the rest I'm kind of 
like, oh, OK, whatever, that's a

541
00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:58,720
fine story. 
I felt like every story had 

542
00:31:58,720 --> 00:32:02,320
merit. 
Every story was important, every

543
00:32:02,320 --> 00:32:07,920
storyline was interesting. 
And even though some are more 

544
00:32:08,280 --> 00:32:13,520
like favorites definitely and 
maybe some made me cry and 

545
00:32:13,520 --> 00:32:18,080
others didn't, but overall I 
felt like the stories and the 

546
00:32:18,080 --> 00:32:22,240
show was super well done. 
I thought it was brilliant and I

547
00:32:22,240 --> 00:32:26,760
had a wonderful time. 
I appreciated getting to know 

548
00:32:26,760 --> 00:32:28,320
the characters like I was at the
end of the show. 

549
00:32:28,320 --> 00:32:31,920
I was like, it was an honor to 
like watch this show and 

550
00:32:31,920 --> 00:32:38,160
experience this little corner of
Teju and, you know, be in this 

551
00:32:38,240 --> 00:32:41,240
in their little slice of life, 
you know, and I think that's the

552
00:32:41,240 --> 00:32:44,400
goal of slice of life. 
And maybe I'm like, I have too 

553
00:32:44,400 --> 00:32:49,160
high of a standard for a slice 
of life where I like want to be 

554
00:32:49,440 --> 00:32:55,640
so immersed and so honored and 
in love with every character. 

555
00:32:56,240 --> 00:32:59,040
Even if I don't like the 
character, I'm like, I'm happy 

556
00:32:59,040 --> 00:33:00,840
to be here and watching your 
story. 

557
00:33:00,840 --> 00:33:05,160
You know what I'm saying? 
That so many don't meet my 

558
00:33:05,160 --> 00:33:10,240
standard and I just get bored or
I check out at some point and 

559
00:33:10,240 --> 00:33:12,960
this one exceeded my 
expectations. 

560
00:33:13,560 --> 00:33:17,280
So from everything like from the
way it was shot, it was 

561
00:33:17,280 --> 00:33:20,160
stunning. 
The location, the vistas, 

562
00:33:20,160 --> 00:33:25,600
everything about Cheju was so 
beautifully captured. 

563
00:33:26,040 --> 00:33:30,240
The music was great, even the 
stuff that wasn't OST, it was 

564
00:33:30,240 --> 00:33:37,040
very ratatouille, French music, 
cooking, playlist type music 

565
00:33:37,040 --> 00:33:39,440
that was playing and I was like,
this is right up my frickin 

566
00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:43,000
alley. 
The way it was shot again, like 

567
00:33:43,000 --> 00:33:45,440
cool handheld shots. 
They were kind of taking some 

568
00:33:45,440 --> 00:33:51,400
risks, like they were shots of 
being in the passenger seat POV 

569
00:33:51,600 --> 00:33:55,800
alongside characters. 
Someone opens a door and the 

570
00:33:55,800 --> 00:33:59,680
camera follows them through the 
door and stuff like that is 

571
00:33:59,680 --> 00:34:02,680
really immersive and makes you 
feel like you're just a family 

572
00:34:02,680 --> 00:34:08,480
on the wall versus stuff that's 
a little more static or, you 

573
00:34:08,480 --> 00:34:12,280
know, immovable things that feel
a little more staged. 

574
00:34:12,760 --> 00:34:17,000
And this felt like you were in 
it in the action with them and 

575
00:34:17,000 --> 00:34:19,639
walking through the door with 
them, going into their house 

576
00:34:19,639 --> 00:34:23,000
with them, getting in the car 
with them and things like that. 

577
00:34:23,000 --> 00:34:26,679
Really, you know, if you're not 
paying attention, you you just 

578
00:34:26,679 --> 00:34:29,480
feel the effects of it. 
But that is really difficult to 

579
00:34:29,480 --> 00:34:33,239
do, right? 
Like technically difficult to do

580
00:34:33,239 --> 00:34:37,560
over and over again for 20 
episodes over so many different 

581
00:34:37,560 --> 00:34:40,360
stories. 
So really appreciated that 

582
00:34:40,360 --> 00:34:46,239
attention to detail in the 
cinematography and I the acting 

583
00:34:46,280 --> 00:34:49,639
was so top notch. 
You know, we have already gone 

584
00:34:49,639 --> 00:34:53,440
through a handful of actors, but
there's even more that we didn't

585
00:34:53,840 --> 00:34:58,080
go through their phommography 
and discuss them at length. 

586
00:34:58,080 --> 00:35:02,720
But like, honestly, it is a feat
just to assemble this amount of 

587
00:35:02,720 --> 00:35:04,680
talent. 
Yeah, no weak links at all. 

588
00:35:04,720 --> 00:35:09,120
No weak links and it's all good.
Everyone is solid. 

589
00:35:09,520 --> 00:35:14,920
Everyone is solid and they 
covered a lot of themes that K 

590
00:35:14,920 --> 00:35:18,240
dramas just don't tend to do 
things. 

591
00:35:18,440 --> 00:35:25,040
Themes about, you know, 
disability, themes about mental 

592
00:35:25,240 --> 00:35:31,880
illness, mental health, 
fractured relationships between 

593
00:35:32,960 --> 00:35:38,600
elderly parents, you know, 
mother and son and teen 

594
00:35:38,600 --> 00:35:41,040
pregnancy. 
Like, you name it, it's in this 

595
00:35:41,040 --> 00:35:43,920
show and they handle it with 
care. 

596
00:35:44,600 --> 00:35:50,600
So all that just to say it was a
great experience and they they 

597
00:35:50,600 --> 00:35:54,480
exceeded my expectation. 
It was really good, really good.

598
00:35:54,600 --> 00:35:56,000
Held my attention. 
Do you recommend this to 

599
00:35:56,000 --> 00:35:59,360
everyone? 
Yeah, yeah, I think I would. 

600
00:35:59,880 --> 00:36:04,280
I mean, caveat not if you're not
a slice of life person, if you 

601
00:36:04,840 --> 00:36:08,680
maybe don't like small town 
shows, if you've watched a few 

602
00:36:08,680 --> 00:36:10,240
and you're like, I'm not a small
town person. 

603
00:36:10,240 --> 00:36:13,280
Like take me back to Seoul, 
maybe don't watch the show. 

604
00:36:13,600 --> 00:36:16,840
Like sorry to say, like this is 
not said in the big city. 

605
00:36:16,840 --> 00:36:22,440
Let me see, if you're not a fan 
of anthologies and that sort of 

606
00:36:22,440 --> 00:36:26,200
storytelling, perhaps this isn't
the show for you. 

607
00:36:26,800 --> 00:36:31,360
And especially this one set up 
per episode. 

608
00:36:31,360 --> 00:36:36,440
So each episode is focused on a 
different character and their 

609
00:36:36,440 --> 00:36:40,440
journey and it pushes their 
story forward a little more each

610
00:36:40,720 --> 00:36:43,800
episode. 
You'll know who it is the story 

611
00:36:43,800 --> 00:36:47,440
is about because it is named. 
This episode title is the 

612
00:36:47,440 --> 00:36:52,440
characters names. 
If that's not your bag, perhaps 

613
00:36:52,440 --> 00:36:54,440
don't watch. 
So these are very specific, like

614
00:36:54,440 --> 00:36:56,640
caveats. 
Don't watch if you don't like 

615
00:36:56,640 --> 00:37:02,120
this sort of thing. 
But overall I think that it's a 

616
00:37:02,120 --> 00:37:06,400
lovely show, really relaxing at 
a lot of points and a really 

617
00:37:06,400 --> 00:37:10,640
stressful in a lot of points. 
So something for everybody. 

618
00:37:11,200 --> 00:37:15,160
Yeah, not a light watch. 
Definitely one that you have to 

619
00:37:15,160 --> 00:37:18,920
kind of be in the in the mood 
for and ready for. 

620
00:37:19,080 --> 00:37:24,680
There's not that one romances 
several love story arcs, but 

621
00:37:24,680 --> 00:37:27,560
some of them are messy and 
there's a lot of messiness, a 

622
00:37:27,960 --> 00:37:32,760
lot of sadness in this. 
There's a lot of sad, the themes

623
00:37:32,760 --> 00:37:37,840
of loss. 
And you know, if you're a person

624
00:37:37,840 --> 00:37:41,920
that wants instant gratification
in your K dramas, this isn't the

625
00:37:41,920 --> 00:37:45,600
K drama for you because you're 
not going to get the perfect 

626
00:37:45,600 --> 00:37:50,920
love story that's A to B to C 
You're going to get A to C, 

627
00:37:52,920 --> 00:37:54,680
maybe to D. 
To gamma you. 

628
00:37:55,000 --> 00:37:58,320
Know what I'm saying? 
Like it like skips around and 

629
00:37:58,320 --> 00:38:04,200
that's how life is like. 
You don't get easily digestible 

630
00:38:04,560 --> 00:38:06,760
content in this. 
Yeah. 

631
00:38:07,800 --> 00:38:13,560
So in that case, if you're if 
you're looking for that and you 

632
00:38:13,560 --> 00:38:17,800
want that in this Seaside K 
drama, then no, like that's not 

633
00:38:17,800 --> 00:38:21,640
what this is. 
Yeah, I mean, it's intimidating 

634
00:38:21,640 --> 00:38:23,840
too. 
Like if you look at 20 episodes,

635
00:38:24,880 --> 00:38:27,840
like I don't think if I saw it, 
I don't know if I would turn it 

636
00:38:27,840 --> 00:38:29,840
on right away. 
Like, oh, twenty episodes, 

637
00:38:29,840 --> 00:38:31,680
that's a lot. 
But there are no wasted 

638
00:38:31,680 --> 00:38:34,400
episodes. 
How long did it take you guys to

639
00:38:34,400 --> 00:38:38,480
get through the 20 episodes? 
Was it easy to binge or did you 

640
00:38:38,480 --> 00:38:41,440
find yourself needing to just 
take some breaks and pauses 

641
00:38:41,440 --> 00:38:43,880
because of how heavy some of the
subject matter was? 

642
00:38:44,840 --> 00:38:46,560
Good question. 
I think my wife and I did in 

643
00:38:46,560 --> 00:38:49,360
about two weeks, I think. 
So we didn't power through it. 

644
00:38:49,360 --> 00:38:53,480
We, we moved pretty steadily. 
But you know, one a day, maybe 

645
00:38:53,480 --> 00:38:55,120
two a day. 
I'm not going to do six in a 

646
00:38:55,120 --> 00:38:56,680
row, you know, something like 
that. 

647
00:38:57,200 --> 00:39:00,840
Yeah, I did the same thing. 
And that was mostly because I 

648
00:39:00,840 --> 00:39:04,800
was working through holiday 
weekends, family visits, and I 

649
00:39:04,800 --> 00:39:09,520
could do two to three a day. 
And then I would do no episodes 

650
00:39:09,520 --> 00:39:13,160
for like 3 days and then I would
come in and do one episode and 

651
00:39:13,160 --> 00:39:16,200
then two episodes and so on and 
so forth. 

652
00:39:16,200 --> 00:39:20,400
So it was really herky jerky my 
watching, but theoretically, I 

653
00:39:20,400 --> 00:39:24,160
could get through multiple 
episodes before I got really 

654
00:39:24,160 --> 00:39:27,640
sleepy and then had to like, 
actually go to sleep. 

655
00:39:29,360 --> 00:39:32,880
But yeah, I think it was really 
easy for me to watch the 

656
00:39:32,880 --> 00:39:34,840
episodes. 
I didn't feel like any of them 

657
00:39:34,840 --> 00:39:39,040
were a chore at all. 
And even when I got through a 

658
00:39:39,040 --> 00:39:42,480
few episodes that were about a 
favorite character, I really 

659
00:39:42,480 --> 00:39:45,480
resonated with that storyline. 
And then the next episode is 

660
00:39:45,480 --> 00:39:49,120
something new, a new storyline, 
and we're pushing something else

661
00:39:49,120 --> 00:39:51,480
forward. 
I was like, oh, let's let's look

662
00:39:51,480 --> 00:39:53,400
at this, let's see this new 
thing now. 

663
00:39:53,400 --> 00:39:57,280
And I was very open to the other
stories. 

664
00:39:57,640 --> 00:40:01,160
And that's something that I 
think is a testament to the 

665
00:40:01,160 --> 00:40:02,920
writing. 
It's a testament to the the 

666
00:40:02,920 --> 00:40:07,040
acting and the way that the 
ensemble cast has so much 

667
00:40:07,040 --> 00:40:10,920
chemistry. 
And even if you're seeing this 

668
00:40:10,920 --> 00:40:13,960
character's story, you've 
already seen that character, 

669
00:40:13,960 --> 00:40:15,960
like throughout the other 
episodes. 

670
00:40:16,640 --> 00:40:18,640
And now you're focusing on like,
what's their beef? 

671
00:40:18,640 --> 00:40:19,880
What is their deal? 
Why? 

672
00:40:19,880 --> 00:40:21,640
Why are they mad? 
Why are they sad? 

673
00:40:21,640 --> 00:40:24,440
Why are they whatever? 
Why are they the way they are? 

674
00:40:24,520 --> 00:40:29,880
And it just goes to show that I 
think in my mind, you have to 

675
00:40:29,880 --> 00:40:34,320
have good writing, then a good 
cast, and then everything flows 

676
00:40:34,320 --> 00:40:37,200
from there. 
Yeah, yeah, I agree. 

677
00:40:38,400 --> 00:40:42,120
This drama was nominated for a 
Three Pics Song Awards Best 

678
00:40:42,120 --> 00:40:45,160
drama, Best director and best 
Actor for EB Young. 

679
00:40:45,880 --> 00:40:51,160
I was taken aback that he didn't
win, but I know. 

680
00:40:51,800 --> 00:40:54,520
Yeah, but it's OK. 
This OST. 

681
00:40:54,640 --> 00:40:56,040
What did you guys think of this 
OST? 

682
00:40:57,080 --> 00:41:00,800
I mean, as a big BTS fan, I had 
to support Chimin, who has a 

683
00:41:00,800 --> 00:41:04,160
great song on here. 
I feel bad. 

684
00:41:04,160 --> 00:41:06,840
I always forget the other singer
on that song because it's it's 

685
00:41:06,840 --> 00:41:08,200
like a duet. 
Oh yeah. 

686
00:41:08,320 --> 00:41:11,560
But I I do know. 
That Chimin is on there Ha Song 

687
00:41:11,600 --> 00:41:15,720
Moon is the other singer on the 
song which is called With You. 

688
00:41:18,000 --> 00:41:23,200
Yep, and I think some of the 
Espa girls did a song on this as

689
00:41:23,200 --> 00:41:25,000
well. 
But overall the soundtrack 

690
00:41:25,000 --> 00:41:30,600
really fits this Teju vibe and 
it's out of some of the dramas 

691
00:41:30,600 --> 00:41:33,320
that we've seen in the past. 
I listened to this OST. 

692
00:41:33,320 --> 00:41:37,400
Maybe top three, Top five most 
listen. 

693
00:41:38,360 --> 00:41:44,360
Oh my gosh, that's so cool. 
So I forgot that Chimin was on 

694
00:41:44,480 --> 00:41:47,480
the OST because I had in the 
back of mine, I was like, there 

695
00:41:47,480 --> 00:41:51,080
was an OST that Chimin was on 
and everyone was really excited 

696
00:41:51,080 --> 00:41:55,440
about it. 
And then the first time I heard 

697
00:41:56,000 --> 00:41:58,000
the actual song was in the 
context of the show. 

698
00:41:58,000 --> 00:42:00,400
And I'm watching it and I hear 
Chimin's voice and I'm like, 

699
00:42:01,160 --> 00:42:04,400
holy shit. 
I think this is the show that he

700
00:42:04,400 --> 00:42:07,080
did the OST on. 
And it was like making 

701
00:42:07,080 --> 00:42:09,800
connections, but it was like 
really delayed connect 

702
00:42:09,800 --> 00:42:11,000
connections, you know what I'm 
saying? 

703
00:42:11,400 --> 00:42:16,040
Like, if I was a true BTS fan, I
would know exactly like which 

704
00:42:16,120 --> 00:42:20,640
show he was doing this for and 
what the song was. 

705
00:42:20,640 --> 00:42:23,280
I would have already heard the 
song in its entirety and all 

706
00:42:23,280 --> 00:42:26,040
this stuff. 
But yeah, I really enjoyed this 

707
00:42:26,040 --> 00:42:28,840
OSC as well. 
All the songs are really good. 

708
00:42:28,840 --> 00:42:33,680
You have familiar, like, faces, 
so to speak, on the OSC. 

709
00:42:33,680 --> 00:42:37,880
You have like Davici is on here 
at the Yon Mellow Man Stacy 

710
00:42:37,880 --> 00:42:43,920
Punch Highs is on here. 
Some of the if you look up these

711
00:42:43,920 --> 00:42:47,120
artists, you'll be like, Oh my 
God, I love this OSC from XYZ 

712
00:42:47,120 --> 00:42:51,600
other show. 
So these are really comforting 

713
00:42:51,840 --> 00:42:57,880
sort of artists that provided a 
wonderful soundtrack to art 

714
00:42:57,880 --> 00:43:02,360
Blues and I thought kept kept 
thinking over and over, this is 

715
00:43:02,360 --> 00:43:04,520
a really good OSD. 
Like I got to add some of these 

716
00:43:04,520 --> 00:43:07,560
songs when I get done with this.
I got to circle back on this OSD

717
00:43:07,560 --> 00:43:09,760
and add these songs to my 
playlist for sure. 

718
00:43:09,800 --> 00:43:11,480
Yeah. 
Is there anything else you guys 

719
00:43:11,480 --> 00:43:13,880
wanted to talk about before we 
get into the spoiler section 

720
00:43:14,400 --> 00:43:17,440
'cause we're going to give our 
scores and then spoiler section 

721
00:43:17,840 --> 00:43:19,480
but. 
I'm ready to rock'n'roll. 

722
00:43:20,080 --> 00:43:21,280
OK, let's do it. 
Let's do it. 

723
00:43:21,280 --> 00:43:25,560
OK, so before we get into the 
spoiler section, what would you 

724
00:43:25,560 --> 00:43:28,440
give our Blues out of fives? 
Hold your bottles. 

725
00:43:28,840 --> 00:43:32,760
Five being the best and one or 
zero being like terrible. 

726
00:43:34,200 --> 00:43:40,400
I would give it like 4.5 out of 
five, yeah, 4.5 out of five. 

727
00:43:40,680 --> 00:43:42,960
Yeah. 
All right, Curtis. 

728
00:43:43,240 --> 00:43:45,760
All right, You know, I'm. 
I'm going to give it. 

729
00:43:45,760 --> 00:43:47,440
I'm going to give it five out of
five. 

730
00:43:48,080 --> 00:43:50,000
It's on my it's on my Mount 
Rushmore. 

731
00:43:50,000 --> 00:43:52,080
Wait, wait, wait. 
It's on my downplay because I 

732
00:43:52,080 --> 00:43:54,360
asked you earlier, you didn't 
say if you liked it. 

733
00:43:54,360 --> 00:43:55,840
And then I asked you, did you 
like it? 

734
00:43:55,840 --> 00:43:59,240
And you were like, yeah, yeah. 
And then you come in hot with a 

735
00:43:59,240 --> 00:44:02,080
5 out of five soldier bottles 
like you like. 

736
00:44:02,480 --> 00:44:05,880
To you got to add some dramas. 
We need some tension. 

737
00:44:05,880 --> 00:44:08,560
We need some tension here. 
No, I I would put it on my Mount

738
00:44:08,560 --> 00:44:10,120
Rushmore. 
I would say, you know, top five,

739
00:44:10,120 --> 00:44:14,600
top four, top five drama for me.
Like I really, I, I liked it. 

740
00:44:14,600 --> 00:44:17,440
I liked everything about it. 
So I would put it up there. 

741
00:44:17,480 --> 00:44:19,600
Definitely. 
I've only watched it twice. 

742
00:44:19,600 --> 00:44:21,240
I could I could watch it a few 
more times. 

743
00:44:21,240 --> 00:44:25,640
There's so much going on. 
So I would again, I don't know, 

744
00:44:25,960 --> 00:44:28,240
like it took me a while to 
recommend it to my wife, but we 

745
00:44:28,240 --> 00:44:31,360
sat down and we started watching
it and, and she loved it as 

746
00:44:31,360 --> 00:44:35,040
well. 
It's, it's a slow burn, but it's

747
00:44:35,040 --> 00:44:41,440
such a good burn, you know, so 
it's so like heartwarming isn't 

748
00:44:41,440 --> 00:44:43,800
the right, it's just, it just 
hits you, you know, hits you in 

749
00:44:43,880 --> 00:44:46,240
in some good places. 
So I I would give it a high 

750
00:44:46,240 --> 00:44:49,440
rating. 
I think my .5 deduction is just 

751
00:44:49,440 --> 00:44:53,200
for some of the storylines that 
I didn't care that much for, but

752
00:44:53,320 --> 00:44:57,840
others I absolutely loved. 
And so I think that's why I gave

753
00:44:57,840 --> 00:45:00,560
it a .5 deduction. 
But Curtis, I'm happy that a 

754
00:45:00,560 --> 00:45:02,960
wreck that I gave you made it to
your Mount Rushmore. 

755
00:45:02,960 --> 00:45:06,040
That makes me very happy. 
Yeah, this is full circle 

756
00:45:06,080 --> 00:45:10,400
because Brandon recommended our 
Blues to you, Curtis, and then I

757
00:45:10,400 --> 00:45:13,520
think at some point you 
recommended it to me and then it

758
00:45:13,520 --> 00:45:16,120
was floating in the ether. 
And then I'm sure that that 

759
00:45:16,120 --> 00:45:18,480
played into my decision. 
She'll be finally like, hey, I 

760
00:45:18,480 --> 00:45:23,040
need to watch our Blues. 
So wow, we're just influencing 

761
00:45:23,040 --> 00:45:26,040
each other is what I'm saying. 
Well, where do you put it? 

762
00:45:26,040 --> 00:45:27,400
You haven't given us your number
yet. 

763
00:45:27,720 --> 00:45:34,720
I think my number is 4.5, maybe 
five out of five because I loved

764
00:45:34,720 --> 00:45:37,920
it. 
It was, it was really a solid 

765
00:45:37,920 --> 00:45:40,080
show. 
I had almost nothing. 

766
00:45:40,560 --> 00:45:43,400
There's I can't think of 
anything bad to say about it. 

767
00:45:43,400 --> 00:45:49,000
It's not, it's not, it's not 
worth like deducting anything. 

768
00:45:49,040 --> 00:45:52,560
Like, I don't know. 
There are some storylines that 

769
00:45:54,040 --> 00:45:57,200
after seeing the whole body of 
work, I'm like, OK, that wasn't 

770
00:45:57,200 --> 00:46:00,080
my favorite. 
But still in the moment I was 

771
00:46:00,080 --> 00:46:05,000
like, oh, this is really hitting
me like in I don't know. 

772
00:46:05,000 --> 00:46:08,160
I was still like, it's deep and 
it's real when I was in it and 

773
00:46:08,160 --> 00:46:12,360
now after seeing it and I was 
like, all right, that's so good.

774
00:46:12,600 --> 00:46:15,000
It's up. 
Worth deducting anything. 

775
00:46:15,000 --> 00:46:16,160
I don't know. 
I don't know. 

776
00:46:16,240 --> 00:46:18,320
Five out of five. 
We'll just give it five out of 

777
00:46:18,320 --> 00:46:21,400
five, four and a half, five and 
five and a five out of five 

778
00:46:21,560 --> 00:46:24,160
soldier bottles. 
We are going to get into 

779
00:46:24,160 --> 00:46:29,120
spoilers right after this. 
Excuse me, I can't try. 

780
00:46:29,720 --> 00:46:34,080
I can't try, you know. 
I have no tingles. 

781
00:46:34,520 --> 00:46:37,480
Oh, sorry. 
This crossing shit. 

782
00:46:38,320 --> 00:46:42,920
What? 
All right, we're on the other 

783
00:46:42,920 --> 00:46:44,760
side of spoilers, so anything 
goes. 

784
00:46:44,760 --> 00:46:48,520
We are going to spoil the 
storylines in our Blues. 

785
00:46:48,520 --> 00:46:52,040
If you want to preserve your 
first watch of our Blues, then 

786
00:46:52,240 --> 00:46:54,440
stop listening. 
Watch our Blues and come back. 

787
00:46:55,360 --> 00:46:56,880
But if you don't care, they keep
listening. 

788
00:46:57,520 --> 00:47:02,520
I think the storyline that 
nobody particularly likes, for 

789
00:47:02,520 --> 00:47:05,640
lack of a better word, is the 
first one, the first three 

790
00:47:05,640 --> 00:47:07,800
episodes. 
Am I correct in thinking that 

791
00:47:08,400 --> 00:47:13,240
that's Unni and Hansu's story? 
Is that right? 

792
00:47:13,240 --> 00:47:15,600
I mean, you need it. 
You need it there to set up the 

793
00:47:15,600 --> 00:47:18,760
relationships between the other 
townsfolk. 

794
00:47:20,000 --> 00:47:22,200
Yeah, yeah. 
Don't love the actual story. 

795
00:47:22,200 --> 00:47:25,640
You need all the periphery 
things and how she interacts 

796
00:47:25,640 --> 00:47:28,400
with everybody and how she's 
sort of like the backbone of the

797
00:47:28,400 --> 00:47:33,440
town financially because she 
owns this very successful 

798
00:47:33,440 --> 00:47:36,560
business. 
She owns buildings, and she's a 

799
00:47:36,560 --> 00:47:40,120
very wealthy woman who is still 
on that grind, you know what I'm

800
00:47:40,120 --> 00:47:41,600
saying? 
Like, it also sets up her 

801
00:47:41,960 --> 00:47:46,760
character, her persona. 
But it is a reunion of first 

802
00:47:46,760 --> 00:47:50,520
loves. 
And you get Han Soo, who's back 

803
00:47:50,520 --> 00:47:52,520
in the mix. 
And I for sure thought he was 

804
00:47:52,520 --> 00:47:55,200
going to be a bigger part of the
show, like he was going to 

805
00:47:55,200 --> 00:48:00,480
continue living in church. 
Didn't happen, no. 

806
00:48:00,680 --> 00:48:03,120
He makes 15 minute appearance at
the end. 

807
00:48:03,320 --> 00:48:06,920
Yeah, they like brought him back
for the final lap and I was 

808
00:48:06,920 --> 00:48:09,600
like, oh, just leave him where 
he was. 

809
00:48:09,600 --> 00:48:12,320
Like, he didn't even need to be 
back here in the episode. 20 He 

810
00:48:12,320 --> 00:48:19,080
didn't need that, Yeah. 
But I did like the old, like 

811
00:48:19,080 --> 00:48:22,600
he's an old banker, burned out, 
exhausted with life. 

812
00:48:23,160 --> 00:48:25,680
And they had the scene on the 
beach where he's reminiscing on 

813
00:48:25,680 --> 00:48:30,000
their golden youth, and he's 
overwhelmed with nostalgia. 

814
00:48:30,520 --> 00:48:35,560
And he runs into the water and 
floats next to his teenage self,

815
00:48:36,120 --> 00:48:41,240
who is so young and carefree. 
And that visual and the the 

816
00:48:41,280 --> 00:48:46,400
juxtaposition of his younger 
self to his current self was 

817
00:48:46,640 --> 00:48:49,360
something like, I was like, 
there's something in that. 

818
00:48:49,360 --> 00:48:54,840
And I really felt that where 
maybe people can relate to that,

819
00:48:54,840 --> 00:48:57,920
where you feel like life has 
just beat you down. 

820
00:48:58,400 --> 00:49:01,640
And if you look back on your 
life and you look back on your 

821
00:49:01,640 --> 00:49:06,600
youth, you, you miss who you 
used to be, that naive person 

822
00:49:06,600 --> 00:49:09,800
who wasn't concerned with 
working, wasn't concerned with 

823
00:49:09,800 --> 00:49:14,320
responsibilities, wasn't 
exhausted all the time, wasn't 

824
00:49:14,320 --> 00:49:16,640
in debt, so on and so forth. 
The list goes on. 

825
00:49:17,640 --> 00:49:23,000
So that part of their story 
resonated with me. 

826
00:49:23,600 --> 00:49:26,240
And of course, like the way that
it plays out was really 

827
00:49:26,240 --> 00:49:29,160
heartbreaking. 
Did you guys like feel any type 

828
00:49:29,160 --> 00:49:31,680
of way about it or was it just 
me that it was like kind of in 

829
00:49:31,680 --> 00:49:33,160
my fields the first three 
episodes? 

830
00:49:33,360 --> 00:49:36,880
I thought it was an important 
story to set the stage for the 

831
00:49:36,880 --> 00:49:39,880
village and all the characters. 
I was just bummed because I 

832
00:49:39,880 --> 00:49:42,720
really like that actor and I 
thought it would be interesting 

833
00:49:42,720 --> 00:49:46,360
if he was a recurring member 
across the other episodes. 

834
00:49:46,360 --> 00:49:49,840
We really don't see him after 
Episode 3 until the the last 

835
00:49:49,840 --> 00:49:51,280
episode. 
I think when they're playing the

836
00:49:52,000 --> 00:49:54,200
friendly soccer game. 
I think it was a soccer game. 

837
00:49:54,200 --> 00:49:56,640
It was like a field day that 
they had. 

838
00:49:56,960 --> 00:49:59,200
I, I don't even know where 
they're playing against, like 

839
00:49:59,200 --> 00:50:02,240
other village people that 
weren't in the in the ensemble 

840
00:50:02,240 --> 00:50:02,600
cast. 
Yeah. 

841
00:50:02,600 --> 00:50:05,760
Yeah, yeah, yeah. 
But. 

842
00:50:06,320 --> 00:50:09,960
I grew to love when he's 
character across the the 

843
00:50:09,960 --> 00:50:15,040
episodes and I really wanted her
to have some type of love line 

844
00:50:15,400 --> 00:50:18,520
later on and I was shocked that 
they didn't give her one. 

845
00:50:18,520 --> 00:50:21,000
So then I think back and I'm 
like, oh, it would have been 

846
00:50:21,000 --> 00:50:25,480
great if she could kind of have 
some relationship with her first

847
00:50:25,480 --> 00:50:27,400
love, but obviously it doesn't 
work out like that. 

848
00:50:27,400 --> 00:50:29,160
But I was kind of bummed for in 
here as well. 

849
00:50:29,760 --> 00:50:33,000
Yeah, I was so bummed for her. 
I was so bummed for her, 

850
00:50:33,960 --> 00:50:38,880
especially when she's talking to
him like her first love Han SU 

851
00:50:39,160 --> 00:50:42,840
about how she's really hesitant 
to go on 1st dates and stuff 

852
00:50:42,840 --> 00:50:44,240
like that. 
She says I think I'm turning 

853
00:50:44,240 --> 00:50:47,400
into an awful person. 
I measure the pros and cons even

854
00:50:47,400 --> 00:50:49,640
when it comes to love. 
I'm a horrible person who only 

855
00:50:49,640 --> 00:50:52,360
cares about my interests. 
I I think I'll die alone like 

856
00:50:52,360 --> 00:50:58,880
she's she's so hurt by the fact 
that she might die alone because

857
00:50:59,520 --> 00:51:02,400
she has all of these conditions 
right? 

858
00:51:02,400 --> 00:51:06,360
Like for falling in love that 
she says to him, she rejects 

859
00:51:06,360 --> 00:51:10,440
people because maybe the guy is 
sick or he's taking care of 

860
00:51:10,440 --> 00:51:14,120
someone who's sick and that 
means that he wants a caregiver 

861
00:51:14,120 --> 00:51:17,800
wife or he's just interested in 
me because I'm rich, he's after 

862
00:51:17,800 --> 00:51:21,760
my wealth or he's the eldest son
who has to care for his aging 

863
00:51:21,760 --> 00:51:23,560
parents. 
That'll def she'll definitely 

864
00:51:23,560 --> 00:51:26,760
rejected because that 
responsibility and burden as she

865
00:51:26,760 --> 00:51:30,160
sees it would likely fall on her
and put a strain on her and 

866
00:51:30,160 --> 00:51:34,640
their brand new marriage. 
So all of these things, the, the

867
00:51:34,640 --> 00:51:39,360
responsibility and exhaustion of
life and the, all of these 

868
00:51:39,360 --> 00:51:45,080
societal expectations of women 
especially, she's like, I don't 

869
00:51:45,080 --> 00:51:46,200
know. 
I don't want to fucking deal 

870
00:51:46,200 --> 00:51:47,920
with that. 
Like I'm an independent lady. 

871
00:51:47,920 --> 00:51:50,120
I have my own income, I'm 
wealthy. 

872
00:51:50,840 --> 00:51:55,400
I don't need a man. 
And like, how's he going to make

873
00:51:55,400 --> 00:51:56,920
my life better? 
Basically? 

874
00:51:56,920 --> 00:51:58,680
I don't want him to make my life
worse. 

875
00:52:00,280 --> 00:52:03,520
And it's like a I'm like, this 
is serious. 

876
00:52:03,520 --> 00:52:05,600
Like I don't know how you guys 
felt about it, but I was like, 

877
00:52:05,600 --> 00:52:09,080
she's she's preaching something 
good right now. 

878
00:52:09,240 --> 00:52:13,440
Like, I don't know. 
It was, it was a very real 

879
00:52:13,440 --> 00:52:17,720
lament, I think for her because 
she she was feeling like she was

880
00:52:17,720 --> 00:52:20,440
too picky. 
But I'm like, you can afford to 

881
00:52:20,440 --> 00:52:22,760
be picky. 
You know what I'm saying? 

882
00:52:23,520 --> 00:52:27,840
Anyway, it was heartbreaking to 
to see that little story play 

883
00:52:27,840 --> 00:52:35,600
out, but then we get to, I think
it's no, we don't get to Shin 

884
00:52:35,600 --> 00:52:40,240
Mina yet, it's Yong Oak and Jong
UN story do what did you guys 

885
00:52:40,240 --> 00:52:42,640
think of this story? 
Wait, refresh my memory on. 

886
00:52:42,680 --> 00:52:48,040
This So Yong Oak is Hanjiman. 
She is the Oh yeah, OK, younger 

887
00:52:48,320 --> 00:52:50,920
hanyo. 
Yeah, let's give her a nickname.

888
00:52:51,080 --> 00:52:54,680
So like she has the sister with 
the with Down syndrome. 

889
00:52:54,800 --> 00:52:56,760
I don't know a nickname, 
Brandon, you got a nickname, 

890
00:52:56,840 --> 00:52:58,480
but. 
Just call her Hanyo. 

891
00:52:59,240 --> 00:53:01,840
Hanyo. 
Hanyo, OK, the young hanyo. 

892
00:53:02,200 --> 00:53:05,760
So it's her and Chong Joon 
Kimobin's character. 

893
00:53:06,280 --> 00:53:08,760
OK, yeah, it's a it's a cute 
love story. 

894
00:53:08,760 --> 00:53:13,120
I mean, it's again, there's it's
what I love about this drama is 

895
00:53:13,120 --> 00:53:14,960
that none of this is super 
clean. 

896
00:53:15,560 --> 00:53:19,480
Everyone's, everyone's got some 
stuff, you know, everyone's got 

897
00:53:19,480 --> 00:53:24,760
some history, some baggage, 
secrets. 

898
00:53:25,400 --> 00:53:29,720
And and yet there's this, 
there's a love story brewing 

899
00:53:29,760 --> 00:53:31,800
throughout the whole drama 
between these two. 

900
00:53:32,160 --> 00:53:36,320
And you know, he comes through 
and he's as solid as you can be,

901
00:53:36,320 --> 00:53:40,960
you know, basically loving her 
even through her warts and her 

902
00:53:41,160 --> 00:53:43,840
flaws. 
And she's a great character. 

903
00:53:43,840 --> 00:53:47,240
You know, like she I think she 
shows some depth in her acting 

904
00:53:47,240 --> 00:53:49,160
ability as well as the way they 
wrote her. 

905
00:53:49,160 --> 00:53:50,720
Like she's got some real depth 
to her. 

906
00:53:51,200 --> 00:53:55,760
And I just, yeah, I like this is
my second favorite love story in

907
00:53:55,760 --> 00:53:59,160
this draw. 
Second favorite, OK, so we'll 

908
00:53:59,480 --> 00:54:02,240
well, I'm sure we'll get to the 
your first favorite at some. 

909
00:54:02,240 --> 00:54:06,200
Point. 
So this story was difficult for 

910
00:54:06,200 --> 00:54:09,080
me, I think because I wanted 
them to get together. 

911
00:54:09,080 --> 00:54:12,520
Obviously, I really loved their 
romance especially. 

912
00:54:13,080 --> 00:54:16,680
There was such such an 
effortlessness when they showed 

913
00:54:16,680 --> 00:54:20,720
them together, like especially 
after like they got together and

914
00:54:20,720 --> 00:54:23,520
started their relationship. 
Their little vignettes and 

915
00:54:23,520 --> 00:54:28,480
montages of them spending time 
together and watching TV and, 

916
00:54:28,600 --> 00:54:31,160
you know, laughing together and 
things like that, that I was 

917
00:54:31,160 --> 00:54:32,720
like, that's a real 
relationship. 

918
00:54:32,720 --> 00:54:37,080
Like what is where is Shimena? 
Because that looks real. 

919
00:54:37,080 --> 00:54:41,280
I was convinced acting is is 
incredible in this. 

920
00:54:41,280 --> 00:54:48,080
So I was like taken aback 
completely because they sold me 

921
00:54:48,080 --> 00:54:50,960
on this relationship and their 
their love, right? 

922
00:54:51,360 --> 00:54:55,120
That she's catching feelings and
he was had already caught 

923
00:54:55,120 --> 00:55:00,920
feelings like a long time ago. 
But he like initially this was 

924
00:55:00,920 --> 00:55:02,880
funny to me initially. 
He's concerned about her body 

925
00:55:02,880 --> 00:55:08,960
count and he writes down in his 
in his bus. 

926
00:55:09,200 --> 00:55:12,280
Can I date a woman who's already
been in so many relationships 

927
00:55:12,680 --> 00:55:17,280
and all she had shared with him 
was that she had two past 

928
00:55:17,280 --> 00:55:19,280
relationships. 
At this point she just says that

929
00:55:19,280 --> 00:55:24,000
there's two past, she has two 
exes, that he's as tall as one 

930
00:55:24,000 --> 00:55:32,240
of her exes, and then there's 
another ex in the mix. 2 guys 

931
00:55:32,760 --> 00:55:37,760
and I go, my guy, it's two exes.
What are you talking so many 

932
00:55:38,040 --> 00:55:42,800
Like he has made this story up 
in his mind that she's got like 

933
00:55:42,800 --> 00:55:44,160
all of these. 
Guys, they kind of made her. 

934
00:55:45,240 --> 00:55:47,240
Right, right. 
They kind of made her out to be 

935
00:55:47,240 --> 00:55:50,200
a tease though, you know, like 
she was teasing with that other 

936
00:55:50,200 --> 00:55:52,880
captain and yes. 
I wanted to get your. 

937
00:55:52,880 --> 00:55:53,840
Perspective. 
It made him wonder. 

938
00:55:53,840 --> 00:55:55,760
It made him wonder. 
Right. 

939
00:55:55,800 --> 00:55:57,640
I wanted to get your perspective
on this. 

940
00:55:57,640 --> 00:56:02,520
Because the other captain, who 
was problematic by the way, she 

941
00:56:02,520 --> 00:56:05,200
goes out with him when she goes 
dancing or something with him. 

942
00:56:05,760 --> 00:56:11,560
And that escalates, 'cause that 
guy thinks he has some sort of 

943
00:56:11,640 --> 00:56:14,760
claim like to her because she 
went out with him. 

944
00:56:16,280 --> 00:56:19,680
They have a drunk night out. 
I have in my notes as the ugly 

945
00:56:19,680 --> 00:56:24,920
captain, That's my nickname for 
that guy, the ugly captain. 

946
00:56:26,000 --> 00:56:29,440
And he starts, he's drunk and he
starts demanding they go to a 

947
00:56:29,640 --> 00:56:34,240
motel and they she won't, he 
won't take no for an answer. 

948
00:56:35,720 --> 00:56:37,360
What do you guys think about 
this whole situation? 

949
00:56:37,360 --> 00:56:44,480
Because she is just, she's like 
deflecting, deflecting the whole

950
00:56:44,480 --> 00:56:50,720
time and trying to defuse the 
situation versus outright 

951
00:56:50,720 --> 00:56:54,600
telling him, no, we're never 
going to go out. 

952
00:56:55,280 --> 00:57:00,280
And I think she reads that drunk
captain way better than anybody 

953
00:57:00,280 --> 00:57:02,080
else in the cap in the town 
does. 

954
00:57:02,480 --> 00:57:05,800
And she's like, he's good for a 
good time, but not for anything 

955
00:57:05,800 --> 00:57:07,800
else. 
And I want to do what I want to 

956
00:57:07,800 --> 00:57:12,680
do. 
And you know, that's that I saw 

957
00:57:14,640 --> 00:57:18,920
there's I have a hiccup here 
with like calling her a tease 

958
00:57:18,920 --> 00:57:23,520
necessarily because the show 
wants us to think she's a tease,

959
00:57:24,920 --> 00:57:28,400
you know what I'm saying? 
But like, all she did was go 

960
00:57:28,400 --> 00:57:30,800
dancing with him. 
Maybe it's my Western lens. 

961
00:57:31,360 --> 00:57:34,440
I think it's a bit of the, I 
think it's a bit of the Western 

962
00:57:34,440 --> 00:57:37,080
lens as well. 
But you know, Korea is obviously

963
00:57:37,080 --> 00:57:39,960
more conservative. 
But when I was watching the 

964
00:57:39,960 --> 00:57:44,440
show, in my head, I was thinking
Yongl could have been a little 

965
00:57:44,440 --> 00:57:47,600
bit more clear and a little bit 
more transparent on certain 

966
00:57:47,600 --> 00:57:49,000
things. 
Obviously, she doesn't have to 

967
00:57:49,000 --> 00:57:51,480
reveal anything she doesn't want
to reveal, especially about her 

968
00:57:51,480 --> 00:57:54,600
younger sister. 
But I just felt like she could 

969
00:57:54,600 --> 00:57:58,720
have always kind of put some of 
the rumors down easily if she 

970
00:57:58,720 --> 00:58:01,160
chose to. 
But she would always stay quiet.

971
00:58:01,400 --> 00:58:04,240
She would always act alone. 
I think if I'm remembering 

972
00:58:04,240 --> 00:58:08,800
correctly, she she acts alone in
one scene, which then puts some 

973
00:58:08,800 --> 00:58:12,320
of the other hanyas in jeopardy 
I think if I'm remembering that 

974
00:58:12,320 --> 00:58:15,160
correctly. 
Yeah, yeah. 

975
00:58:15,160 --> 00:58:18,320
She starts harvesting. 
What is it? 

976
00:58:18,320 --> 00:58:21,280
She starts. 
They're supposed to resurface 

977
00:58:21,280 --> 00:58:24,560
every time they get something. 
They've harvest something. 

978
00:58:25,040 --> 00:58:28,880
They get one thing and they're 
supposed to come up for for air.

979
00:58:29,320 --> 00:58:30,800
And The thing is, they're 
diving. 

980
00:58:30,840 --> 00:58:36,680
They're not diving like 10 feet,
they're diving 60 plus feet in 

981
00:58:36,680 --> 00:58:39,160
the water. 
That's six stories down. 

982
00:58:39,680 --> 00:58:42,840
So when they're telling her, 
hey, you need to do this, this 

983
00:58:42,840 --> 00:58:45,320
is our procedure. 
This is our workflow, so to 

984
00:58:45,320 --> 00:58:48,720
speak. 
And you're staying down longer 

985
00:58:49,400 --> 00:58:54,240
just to grab more mollusks and, 
and, and sea creatures down 

986
00:58:54,240 --> 00:58:56,840
there. 
You're harvesting more than one 

987
00:58:56,840 --> 00:58:59,520
thing at a time. 
It's putting you at risk because

988
00:58:59,520 --> 00:59:00,880
we're supposed to do this 
together. 

989
00:59:01,400 --> 00:59:05,200
We're in it all together. 
And your partner and you are 

990
00:59:05,200 --> 00:59:06,720
supposed to keep an eye on each 
other. 

991
00:59:07,080 --> 00:59:11,680
And if one person is 60 
something plus feet above you 

992
00:59:12,680 --> 00:59:17,280
catching a breath, she can't 
save you if anything goes wrong 

993
00:59:18,040 --> 00:59:20,720
on the bottom of the ocean 
floor, is what they're saying. 

994
00:59:22,120 --> 00:59:25,080
And so they're saying, they kept
saying she was greedy. 

995
00:59:25,240 --> 00:59:29,680
Right, so I think I think some 
of her actions definitely made 

996
00:59:29,680 --> 00:59:35,200
her image in the village kind of
worse than it really needed to 

997
00:59:35,200 --> 00:59:38,000
be. 
I also don't mind her 

998
00:59:38,000 --> 00:59:41,360
relationship with the The Ugly 
Captain as you call him because 

999
00:59:41,360 --> 00:59:45,600
the scenes with Ki Mubin's 
character POC Jung Jun and the 

1000
00:59:45,600 --> 00:59:49,880
Ugly Captain were some comedic 
gold scenes so I didn't mind it.

1001
00:59:51,120 --> 00:59:55,360
Yeah, like, you kind of want 
them to butt heads if only to 

1002
00:59:55,400 --> 01:00:00,200
see Kimu Bin, like stand tall 
next to this dude who thinks 

1003
01:00:00,200 --> 01:00:06,480
he's hot shit and it's funny, 
like just anyway. 

1004
01:00:06,880 --> 01:00:08,960
And then he like, busts him for 
drunk driving. 

1005
01:00:08,960 --> 01:00:13,680
Like he's a mess. 
Like, guy is a mess anyway. 

1006
01:00:13,680 --> 01:00:17,720
But the T the tease thing, I had
a real hiccup with that. 

1007
01:00:17,960 --> 01:00:22,680
It was everything else. 
About her, that she was really 

1008
01:00:22,680 --> 01:00:26,040
mysterious and kept up that 
mystery and didn't set any 

1009
01:00:26,040 --> 01:00:31,520
record straight, was content to 
like not clear any error when 

1010
01:00:31,520 --> 01:00:35,360
people were bad mouthing her and
spreading rumors about her. 

1011
01:00:36,040 --> 01:00:40,000
And even though she was telling 
the truth about her parents, 

1012
01:00:40,000 --> 01:00:43,360
yes, they were artists, yes, 
they lived here, yes they did 

1013
01:00:43,360 --> 01:00:45,160
this as they own some sort of 
thing. 

1014
01:00:45,680 --> 01:00:49,600
All of these individual things 
were true at one point in her 

1015
01:00:49,600 --> 01:00:53,560
life. 
Everyone took it to mean she's 

1016
01:00:53,560 --> 01:00:55,360
telling three different separate
stories. 

1017
01:00:55,400 --> 01:00:59,200
She's lying to all of us because
all of these three things can be

1018
01:00:59,200 --> 01:01:01,760
true. 
And I also thought the villagers

1019
01:01:01,760 --> 01:01:04,120
were just. 
So I guess this goes into like 

1020
01:01:04,120 --> 01:01:09,200
the village as a whole was so 
simple minded, right? 

1021
01:01:09,200 --> 01:01:14,800
Like they can't think to 
themselves, hey, she just wants 

1022
01:01:14,800 --> 01:01:18,720
her privacy like she's entitled 
to. 

1023
01:01:18,720 --> 01:01:22,040
Like she doesn't have to share 
who her parents are, what her 

1024
01:01:22,040 --> 01:01:26,120
parents do, who keeps calling 
her all the time while she's out

1025
01:01:26,120 --> 01:01:29,720
at sea harvesting. 
Like it's not your business, you

1026
01:01:29,720 --> 01:01:32,520
know what I'm saying? 
Yeah, I mean, well, they set 

1027
01:01:32,520 --> 01:01:33,840
her. 
They, like you said, they, they 

1028
01:01:33,840 --> 01:01:36,880
wrote her a certain way, 'cause 
there's that one scene, I think 

1029
01:01:36,880 --> 01:01:40,760
the first time we see her, 
they're heading out to sea on 

1030
01:01:40,760 --> 01:01:44,520
Wubin's boat, you know, and 
she's waving to ugly captain and

1031
01:01:44,520 --> 01:01:47,160
like, I love you, you know, like
she's yelling to his boat and 

1032
01:01:47,160 --> 01:01:48,960
waving to. 
She's just waving. 

1033
01:01:49,000 --> 01:01:50,280
And super. 
They meet up and sit to. 

1034
01:01:50,440 --> 01:01:54,800
See him and everyone's like. 
Yeah, looking at her like, what 

1035
01:01:54,800 --> 01:01:57,640
is she doing? 
What is she doing? 

1036
01:01:57,640 --> 01:02:01,240
And then at the bar, I mean, at,
at the, at the little restaurant

1037
01:02:01,240 --> 01:02:04,120
that she helps out at too, you 
know, he comes in there and 

1038
01:02:04,120 --> 01:02:08,480
she's, she's a little friendly, 
you know, not not being 

1039
01:02:08,480 --> 01:02:10,520
scandalous or anything. 
That's what I need. 

1040
01:02:10,880 --> 01:02:12,760
I know I. 
Know but but you know, in a 

1041
01:02:12,760 --> 01:02:15,960
small town where everyone's in 
everyone's business they're kind

1042
01:02:15,960 --> 01:02:19,280
of setting this up you know this
is her this is her role of in. 

1043
01:02:19,360 --> 01:02:23,800
The town yeah. 
So, yeah, so we get this girl 

1044
01:02:24,080 --> 01:02:30,040
and I think I was on her side, 
even though like she has a very 

1045
01:02:30,040 --> 01:02:36,800
and I have to preface this by 
saying this actress, I I like 

1046
01:02:36,800 --> 01:02:39,240
her, but I don't like her, if 
that makes any sense. 

1047
01:02:41,360 --> 01:02:46,160
Handyman ever since 1 spring 
night, I'm kind of like about 

1048
01:02:46,160 --> 01:02:50,760
her because she was mean to a 
single dad who's a very 

1049
01:02:50,760 --> 01:02:55,800
precious, like kind soft hearted
person and she's being really 

1050
01:02:56,040 --> 01:02:58,840
wishy washy with that with that 
character. 

1051
01:02:58,840 --> 01:03:02,440
And I was like, why? 
Why is she giving this guy the 

1052
01:03:02,440 --> 01:03:05,080
run around? 
And so I dropped that show 

1053
01:03:05,080 --> 01:03:07,880
because of her, the way she 
played that that character in 

1054
01:03:07,880 --> 01:03:13,520
particular was so grinding. 
And I've never recovered from 

1055
01:03:13,960 --> 01:03:18,560
from that character. 
And this character that she 

1056
01:03:18,560 --> 01:03:23,480
plays in our Blues is more of 
that side of Hunji Min, right, 

1057
01:03:23,760 --> 01:03:27,760
where she is a slippery 
character, right? 

1058
01:03:28,160 --> 01:03:31,080
You kind of can't get a read on 
her sometimes. 

1059
01:03:32,280 --> 01:03:39,320
And that that aspect of her, it 
kind of spirals into this 

1060
01:03:39,320 --> 01:03:42,520
relationship that she this 
really fraught relationship that

1061
01:03:42,520 --> 01:03:47,360
she has with her twin sister, 
the sister with Down syndrome. 

1062
01:03:49,400 --> 01:03:54,280
And it was at this point that I 
thought this story got way more 

1063
01:03:54,280 --> 01:04:00,200
complex in a way that no other K
drama I've seen has done, where 

1064
01:04:00,200 --> 01:04:04,600
you have a, first of all, an 
actress with downs. 

1065
01:04:05,120 --> 01:04:08,080
Yeah. 
And even the younger version, 

1066
01:04:08,280 --> 01:04:09,760
like, they had some flashbacks 
and stuff. 

1067
01:04:09,760 --> 01:04:15,040
And even the younger version of 
that sister was another actress,

1068
01:04:15,040 --> 01:04:17,480
a younger actress with Downs. 
And I was like, this is amazing.

1069
01:04:17,480 --> 01:04:24,040
This is so great. 
Very unique and groundbreaking 

1070
01:04:24,040 --> 01:04:28,680
to me. 
And this relationship is so 

1071
01:04:28,680 --> 01:04:32,120
complicated. 
I don't know if you guys have 

1072
01:04:32,120 --> 01:04:38,400
ever done any caregiving for 
someone who's sickly or or 

1073
01:04:38,400 --> 01:04:43,200
mentally incapacitated in any 
way, but I have. 

1074
01:04:43,200 --> 01:04:49,000
And so this relationship, I was 
like, it was like 2 halves of me

1075
01:04:49,080 --> 01:04:50,840
pulling at each other like 
taffy. 

1076
01:04:51,360 --> 01:04:54,920
Did you guys like feel this way 
at all with this relationship? 

1077
01:04:55,840 --> 01:04:59,720
Yeah, it, I've done a little 
caregiving and it it's tough. 

1078
01:04:59,720 --> 01:05:01,800
It takes a toll on you in so 
many ways, you know, 

1079
01:05:01,800 --> 01:05:06,160
financially, physically, 
especially emotionally. 

1080
01:05:06,160 --> 01:05:12,120
And, you know, the idea of her 
being out of town, you know, 

1081
01:05:12,120 --> 01:05:17,880
while her sister is on, on the 
mainland is, is complicated, 

1082
01:05:17,880 --> 01:05:19,360
right? 
Like she needs her space, she 

1083
01:05:19,360 --> 01:05:23,800
needs to live her life. 
But there's this constant drain 

1084
01:05:23,800 --> 01:05:27,240
on her coming from the mainland.
And yeah, it's tough. 

1085
01:05:27,240 --> 01:05:29,440
That was, it was rough. 
It's so well done. 

1086
01:05:29,440 --> 01:05:31,120
Like, I don't, I didn't think I 
would like it. 

1087
01:05:31,120 --> 01:05:33,960
You know, when they first 
revealed it, I was like, I don't

1088
01:05:33,960 --> 01:05:38,080
know if this is going to go over
well because you have a real 

1089
01:05:38,080 --> 01:05:40,440
act. 
You have a real person who's not

1090
01:05:40,440 --> 01:05:44,400
acting necessarily in some of 
the things that she was going 

1091
01:05:44,400 --> 01:05:47,720
through, you know, and, and she 
was, she was great. 

1092
01:05:47,720 --> 01:05:52,000
And that the way they handled it
was beautiful and heartbreaking 

1093
01:05:52,000 --> 01:05:54,400
and but endearing at the same 
time. 

1094
01:05:55,080 --> 01:05:57,000
So yeah, I got super 
complicated. 

1095
01:05:57,400 --> 01:06:01,000
You really felt for her at that 
point and it was really good. 

1096
01:06:01,720 --> 01:06:03,040
Yeah. 
How did you feel about it, 

1097
01:06:03,040 --> 01:06:06,040
Brandon? 
I thought it was, I think you 

1098
01:06:06,040 --> 01:06:08,280
mentioned it in the beginning. 
The, the, the story was 

1099
01:06:08,280 --> 01:06:12,320
delicately told. 
And you know, I can't say that I

1100
01:06:12,320 --> 01:06:15,120
have experience being a 
caregiver, but I just can only 

1101
01:06:15,120 --> 01:06:18,440
imagine the amount of stress 
that it must weigh on you. 

1102
01:06:18,960 --> 01:06:23,640
And it kind of goes to show why 
Young Oak was so focused on 

1103
01:06:23,640 --> 01:06:28,280
trying to, I don't know, make as
much money as she could, even 

1104
01:06:28,280 --> 01:06:30,680
though that meant she wouldn't 
get along with the other hanyas.

1105
01:06:30,680 --> 01:06:33,680
It's because she has to care for
her younger sister. 

1106
01:06:34,200 --> 01:06:38,080
And I thought that it was a 
great love story between Young 

1107
01:06:38,080 --> 01:06:42,640
Oak and Chung Jun. 
And one thing that I can't get 

1108
01:06:42,640 --> 01:06:46,160
out of my head was this innocent
scene. 

1109
01:06:46,160 --> 01:06:50,160
I think when Chung Jun first 
meets her sister, I don't even 

1110
01:06:50,160 --> 01:06:54,960
think he realizes what Down 
syndrome even is. 

1111
01:06:54,960 --> 01:06:58,200
And so it was like a learning 
experience for him in a very 

1112
01:06:58,200 --> 01:06:59,960
innocent way. 
I thought that was great. 

1113
01:06:59,960 --> 01:07:01,840
So it was very educational as 
well. 

1114
01:07:02,480 --> 01:07:04,800
So overall, I thought it was a 
great segment. 

1115
01:07:05,120 --> 01:07:08,560
Yeah, I thought they really went
there. 

1116
01:07:08,640 --> 01:07:13,720
It was really hard to watch in a
lot of places, especially when 

1117
01:07:13,720 --> 01:07:18,160
she is being super harsh to her 
sister and you can tell that she

1118
01:07:18,160 --> 01:07:19,480
just doesn't want to be around 
her. 

1119
01:07:19,480 --> 01:07:22,080
She wants almost nothing to do 
with her. 

1120
01:07:22,480 --> 01:07:26,240
And there is this resentment, 
this deep resentment there, and 

1121
01:07:26,240 --> 01:07:28,000
there's also this deep love 
there. 

1122
01:07:28,240 --> 01:07:32,240
And these things, these duality 
that's within this character was

1123
01:07:32,240 --> 01:07:35,120
really addicting to see them 
unpack. 

1124
01:07:35,480 --> 01:07:38,520
She says in this I think 
voiceover, she says Yong Hui is 

1125
01:07:38,520 --> 01:07:40,640
special. 
She's especially weird. 

1126
01:07:40,680 --> 01:07:43,920
She's especially ugly and she 
especially makes my life 

1127
01:07:43,960 --> 01:07:48,320
miserable. 
And I was like, we can stop 

1128
01:07:48,320 --> 01:07:53,120
right now. 
Like that's it is really cruel. 

1129
01:07:53,120 --> 01:07:58,120
I think the the storyline plays 
out really in terms of cruelty. 

1130
01:07:58,120 --> 01:08:01,600
And do you understand the 
cruelty? 

1131
01:08:01,600 --> 01:08:04,080
Like, can you understand where 
she's coming from? 

1132
01:08:04,080 --> 01:08:05,640
Yeah. 
And. 

1133
01:08:05,640 --> 01:08:06,960
Yeah, there's no winners in 
this. 

1134
01:08:07,200 --> 01:08:09,560
There's no it's like a serial 
sum game. 

1135
01:08:09,880 --> 01:08:14,360
This storyline especially, well,
all of them like true, truly. 

1136
01:08:15,040 --> 01:08:18,920
She's tries to break up with Kim
Woobin. 

1137
01:08:19,120 --> 01:08:22,680
He won't have it. 
He's taken aback by the by the 

1138
01:08:22,680 --> 01:08:27,279
twin with downs. 
He says yes, no hesitation when 

1139
01:08:27,279 --> 01:08:28,920
she reveals that they're 
orphans. 

1140
01:08:29,359 --> 01:08:31,439
They lost their parents when 
they were 12 years old. 

1141
01:08:31,439 --> 01:08:34,439
That's a strike against them in 
Korean society. 

1142
01:08:34,760 --> 01:08:40,560
There's a stigma around orphans.
And then she throws it in his 

1143
01:08:40,560 --> 01:08:42,439
face. 
She'll have to care for her, for

1144
01:08:42,439 --> 01:08:43,840
her sister for the rest of her 
life. 

1145
01:08:44,960 --> 01:08:50,479
And that is a really sad, brutal
reality that she has this person

1146
01:08:50,479 --> 01:08:52,319
that has to, she has to care for
them. 

1147
01:08:53,399 --> 01:08:55,560
They're family, They're all they
have. 

1148
01:08:56,640 --> 01:08:59,680
And it's super sweet of him. 
But I understand where she's 

1149
01:08:59,680 --> 01:09:02,200
coming from when she tries to 
break up with him, when she's 

1150
01:09:02,200 --> 01:09:03,920
like, why don't you just save 
yourself? 

1151
01:09:03,920 --> 01:09:08,560
Like you don't understand what 
the gravity of it is. 

1152
01:09:08,640 --> 01:09:11,479
This is a lifelong commitment. 
You're not just committing to 

1153
01:09:11,479 --> 01:09:14,720
me, you're committing to the 
both of us. 

1154
01:09:14,720 --> 01:09:20,520
Like you, we are a package deal.
And I think the show really gets

1155
01:09:20,520 --> 01:09:24,840
across the burden of being a 
caregiver, the sacrifice of 

1156
01:09:24,840 --> 01:09:29,319
giving up your life, the expense
of living for someone else. 

1157
01:09:29,520 --> 01:09:34,760
That is not just monetary. 
It's time, it's energy, it's 

1158
01:09:34,760 --> 01:09:38,720
mental load, and in this case, 
the threat of becoming a social 

1159
01:09:38,720 --> 01:09:42,560
pariah because they start going 
in public, the three of them, 

1160
01:09:43,000 --> 01:09:46,160
and it is a shit show. 
They get stares, there's 

1161
01:09:46,160 --> 01:09:49,080
rudeness, people are 
inconsiderate, and society at 

1162
01:09:49,080 --> 01:09:51,439
large is cruel. 
You have a child that's like 

1163
01:09:51,439 --> 01:09:55,360
actively making fun of the 
sister in public and the parents

1164
01:09:55,360 --> 01:10:01,040
are unconcerned about correcting
that behavior and apologizing 

1165
01:10:01,040 --> 01:10:08,880
for on behalf of their child. 
And that is really jarring to 

1166
01:10:08,880 --> 01:10:12,040
see in the show. 
And I don't think that it's 

1167
01:10:12,040 --> 01:10:15,040
necessarily far off the mark, 
you know what I'm saying? 

1168
01:10:15,040 --> 01:10:16,880
For. 
It's realistic. 

1169
01:10:16,960 --> 01:10:18,840
Yeah, yeah, yeah. 
Korea society. 

1170
01:10:18,840 --> 01:10:21,720
So that was really tough. 
It's a tough. 

1171
01:10:22,440 --> 01:10:25,880
They're holding up a big mirror 
to Korean society and they're 

1172
01:10:25,880 --> 01:10:31,040
saying look at what what this is
and it's provocative. 

1173
01:10:31,600 --> 01:10:35,280
Later on. 
I think the sister of the Peno 

1174
01:10:36,120 --> 01:10:41,760
has, like, a little hissy fit at
the house later when the sister 

1175
01:10:41,760 --> 01:10:46,120
is outside drawing in the cold, 
It's freezing outside, and she's

1176
01:10:46,120 --> 01:10:50,240
drawing outside. 
No one knows how to act around 

1177
01:10:50,240 --> 01:10:53,640
people with disabilities, how to
treat them with dignity because 

1178
01:10:53,640 --> 01:10:56,000
they are so removed from 
society. 

1179
01:10:56,320 --> 01:10:59,000
And she says this, they're sent 
to care facilities instead of 

1180
01:10:59,000 --> 01:11:01,040
being cared for at home. 
And if they're with family, 

1181
01:11:01,040 --> 01:11:05,120
they're clearly a burden. 
And any public outbursts are a 

1182
01:11:05,120 --> 01:11:08,000
shameful embarrassment that 
draws the attention of a society

1183
01:11:08,000 --> 01:11:11,320
that has no compassion. 
There is no ADA compliance in 

1184
01:11:11,320 --> 01:11:16,360
Korea. 
There is, you know, no laws 

1185
01:11:16,360 --> 01:11:20,800
prohibiting discrimination of 
people with disabilities in 

1186
01:11:20,800 --> 01:11:24,040
Korea. 
This is a serious thing. 

1187
01:11:24,560 --> 01:11:28,120
You know what I'm saying? 
Almost feeling like it's 

1188
01:11:28,120 --> 01:11:32,240
sanctioned. 
And she is devastated and at the

1189
01:11:32,240 --> 01:11:36,080
same time really angry at the 
whole situation. 

1190
01:11:36,640 --> 01:11:41,360
And despite people with downs 
having developmental delays and 

1191
01:11:41,440 --> 01:11:44,600
and intellectual disability, 
they have high emotional 

1192
01:11:44,600 --> 01:11:46,720
intelligence. 
And so the sister is outside and

1193
01:11:46,720 --> 01:11:53,280
she understands everything. 
She is crying because she knows 

1194
01:11:53,280 --> 01:11:57,480
what the sister is saying. 
She hears her and she completely

1195
01:11:57,480 --> 01:12:01,000
understands that her sister 
borderline hates her. 

1196
01:12:01,240 --> 01:12:05,280
And this whole thing, I mean, 
it's rough, man. 

1197
01:12:05,280 --> 01:12:10,960
It's so rough, that whole thing,
unbelievable, unbelievable. 

1198
01:12:11,360 --> 01:12:14,760
The end of that storyline when 
she sees all of the hand drawn 

1199
01:12:14,760 --> 01:12:18,400
portraits, the whole thing of 
the sister saying like, you 

1200
01:12:18,400 --> 01:12:20,440
can't draw, you're not an 
artist, I don't know why you're 

1201
01:12:20,440 --> 01:12:23,800
doing this. 
And then she sees the obscene 

1202
01:12:23,800 --> 01:12:29,320
amount of of art that she has 
created while she was in Cheju 

1203
01:12:29,640 --> 01:12:33,160
for that week and she. 
They did it really well, you 

1204
01:12:33,160 --> 01:12:36,320
know, like she doesn't, she 
doesn't come across as like, you

1205
01:12:36,320 --> 01:12:39,000
know, an amazing, amazing 
artist. 

1206
01:12:39,000 --> 01:12:45,520
But the drawings she did are so 
endearing and you know, they're 

1207
01:12:45,520 --> 01:12:48,920
they're beautiful and they they 
capture more than just the 

1208
01:12:48,920 --> 01:12:51,520
accuracy of of what these people
look like. 

1209
01:12:51,880 --> 01:12:54,240
She captures the heart. 
And I thought they did that 

1210
01:12:54,240 --> 01:12:56,800
really good. 
Like whoever was the actual 

1211
01:12:56,800 --> 01:12:59,480
artist who did all these, like 
they did a really good. 

1212
01:12:59,480 --> 01:13:01,280
Job, I can tell you who the 
actual artist was. 

1213
01:13:01,280 --> 01:13:05,880
It was the actress Jungle who 
plays the sister with dance Yung

1214
01:13:05,880 --> 01:13:07,160
Hui. 
Oh, really? 

1215
01:13:07,160 --> 01:13:10,160
Yeah, all hand drawn portraits 
that were displayed in episode 

1216
01:13:10,160 --> 01:13:13,160
15 were sketched by Jung. 
Oh wow. 

1217
01:13:13,680 --> 01:13:16,320
Her Wow. 
Yeah, the actual artist. 

1218
01:13:16,640 --> 01:13:18,440
The actual actress, I should 
say. 

1219
01:13:18,680 --> 01:13:21,400
Yeah, no, I mean, 'cause it 
can't, it came out across as 

1220
01:13:21,400 --> 01:13:24,440
really good, you know, 'cause I 
was like, I was wondering, you 

1221
01:13:24,440 --> 01:13:27,720
know, was she gonna be super 
amazing, you know, like, like. 

1222
01:13:27,720 --> 01:13:30,760
Really. 
Detailed, but they the way they 

1223
01:13:30,760 --> 01:13:33,960
did it, they were simple. 
But yeah, so that's perfect. 

1224
01:13:33,960 --> 01:13:38,120
That's perfect. 
So that was another storyline. 

1225
01:13:38,480 --> 01:13:41,840
What were other storylines that 
you guys wanted to bring up? 

1226
01:13:42,080 --> 01:13:46,240
I think we maybe want to leave 
the Ibiungun one for the one 

1227
01:13:46,240 --> 01:13:48,920
with him and his mom, I guess 
for last maybe. 

1228
01:13:48,920 --> 01:13:52,200
But what were the other other 
ones that you guys want to bring

1229
01:13:52,200 --> 01:13:55,560
up? 
Some some that I really 

1230
01:13:55,560 --> 01:14:00,200
appreciated. 
So the little girl and I, I, I, 

1231
01:14:00,400 --> 01:14:02,920
I'm blinking on her name. 
Maybe I can find it. 

1232
01:14:02,920 --> 01:14:08,440
Oh, Ungi her her father is a 
childhood friend to the village 

1233
01:14:08,440 --> 01:14:12,560
and he is getting surgery. 
And so they all climb to the top

1234
01:14:12,560 --> 01:14:15,960
of the mountain the the 1000 
moons and they get all the 

1235
01:14:15,960 --> 01:14:18,160
sailors. 
I thought that was one of the 

1236
01:14:18,160 --> 01:14:19,640
most. 
Oh my God. 

1237
01:14:19,840 --> 01:14:23,680
Heartwarming scenes ever. 
It made Jenny cry so much. 

1238
01:14:24,080 --> 01:14:27,920
And then my personal favorite 
storyline for this show is the 

1239
01:14:27,920 --> 01:14:32,120
the not just the teen pregnancy,
but then also their father's 

1240
01:14:32,120 --> 01:14:35,640
relationship. 
So then for I that that was my 

1241
01:14:35,680 --> 01:14:37,160
my favorite storyline of the 
show. 

1242
01:14:38,160 --> 01:14:39,880
Mm hmm. 
What was What made it your 

1243
01:14:39,880 --> 01:14:43,040
favorite? 
Well, it's definitely a topic 

1244
01:14:43,040 --> 01:14:46,720
that we casually don't see teen 
pregnancy in in Kane dramas. 

1245
01:14:46,760 --> 01:14:51,880
And I just thought they truly 
captured how realistic and how 

1246
01:14:54,240 --> 01:14:57,600
how accurate they depicted how 
people would make decisions in 

1247
01:14:57,600 --> 01:15:02,480
those in that situation. 
So do we, do we try to get the 

1248
01:15:02,480 --> 01:15:05,520
abortion or, or I can, or hey, 
we can do it. 

1249
01:15:05,520 --> 01:15:07,520
We can raise the kid or can we? 
Can we? 

1250
01:15:07,520 --> 01:15:12,600
Not them telling their parents. 
I thought like those two scenes 

1251
01:15:12,600 --> 01:15:14,560
in that night. 
It was amazing. 

1252
01:15:15,320 --> 01:15:19,880
Amazing in the sense that that 
is exactly how most Korean 

1253
01:15:19,880 --> 01:15:23,120
parents would react. 
If I told my father, I'm sure it

1254
01:15:23,120 --> 01:15:27,680
would have been the exact same 
situation as that young kid. 

1255
01:15:28,440 --> 01:15:32,920
Same for the daughter. 
And so I just felt like this was

1256
01:15:32,920 --> 01:15:35,600
the realist depiction for such a
harsh topic. 

1257
01:15:35,600 --> 01:15:38,720
And they did it on AK drama. 
They weren't afraid to really go

1258
01:15:38,720 --> 01:15:40,320
there. 
And I appreciated that. 

1259
01:15:40,720 --> 01:15:45,200
And not to like generalize, but 
I remember like me, my mom, all 

1260
01:15:45,200 --> 01:15:49,080
all my friends who are Korean, 
we're watching this show. 

1261
01:15:49,200 --> 01:15:54,240
When we got to this segment of 
episodes, everyone was like, Oh 

1262
01:15:54,240 --> 01:15:56,920
my God, these episodes were 
amazing. 

1263
01:15:56,920 --> 01:16:00,240
Like everyone has to go watch 
our Blues like the storyline 

1264
01:16:00,240 --> 01:16:02,000
before. 
And we already mentioned like 

1265
01:16:02,360 --> 01:16:04,960
the first three episodes and 
then kind of the love line was 

1266
01:16:04,960 --> 01:16:07,040
building. 
So up until that point, it was a

1267
01:16:07,080 --> 01:16:09,880
decent show. 
We weren't sure how crazy it was

1268
01:16:09,880 --> 01:16:11,280
going to go, but when it got 
then you. 

1269
01:16:11,400 --> 01:16:16,400
Hit like episode 5 and that's 
when you hit the teen teen 

1270
01:16:16,400 --> 01:16:19,320
pregnancy and you're like, yeah,
you don't know where to look. 

1271
01:16:19,320 --> 01:16:21,480
You're just like, Oh my God. 
Right. 

1272
01:16:21,680 --> 01:16:25,240
And so Curtis, you mentioned 
your, I think you mentioned that

1273
01:16:25,240 --> 01:16:29,320
Kimubin's love line was your 
second favorite, is that right? 

1274
01:16:29,840 --> 01:16:33,440
Yeah, yeah. 
So my favorite love line was the

1275
01:16:33,480 --> 01:16:35,880
two kids. 
OK, OK. 

1276
01:16:35,960 --> 01:16:37,920
Oh. 
That's so cute. 

1277
01:16:38,160 --> 01:16:39,280
Oh. 
Yeah. 

1278
01:16:40,720 --> 01:16:42,760
I love. 
Them, the dads are amazing, the 

1279
01:16:42,760 --> 01:16:46,400
dads, you know, the, the 
characterizations of the dads, 

1280
01:16:47,000 --> 01:16:49,720
they just went with it. 
They're so committed to who they

1281
01:16:49,720 --> 01:16:54,720
are playing, the actors and the 
you just the, when the kids are 

1282
01:16:54,720 --> 01:16:57,800
like, well, if I tell my dad, 
he's going to cry for days. 

1283
01:16:57,800 --> 01:17:00,000
And if I tell my dad, he's going
to break a lot of things, you 

1284
01:17:00,080 --> 01:17:03,480
know, and, and then it exactly 
plays out exactly that way they 

1285
01:17:03,480 --> 01:17:06,440
thought it would because they 
knew their their dads so well 

1286
01:17:06,440 --> 01:17:08,960
and their dads are well known in
the community for being those 

1287
01:17:08,960 --> 01:17:12,080
things too. 
And it's just the whole town was

1288
01:17:12,080 --> 01:17:15,720
feeling what they were feeling 
and it and then just their beef 

1289
01:17:15,720 --> 01:17:20,600
that goes back 20 years. 
It was it was so well done. 

1290
01:17:20,760 --> 01:17:22,600
Yeah. 
The beef. 

1291
01:17:23,920 --> 01:17:27,680
The beef killed me. 
So I agree completely that the 

1292
01:17:27,680 --> 01:17:32,000
teen pregnancy was surprising 
and well done. 

1293
01:17:32,000 --> 01:17:36,280
And again, another taboo 
subject, right? 

1294
01:17:36,280 --> 01:17:42,000
It was very emotional cheese. 
I I was caught up from the very 

1295
01:17:42,200 --> 01:17:47,200
like she goes to the an OBGYN 
who was awful and condescending 

1296
01:17:47,200 --> 01:17:49,240
to her. 
He tells her it's your fault for

1297
01:17:49,240 --> 01:17:52,880
not using contraception and like
they're the condom failed or 

1298
01:17:52,880 --> 01:17:54,760
something like that. 
And so they did use 

1299
01:17:54,760 --> 01:17:57,920
contraception. 
It was like she she was gagged 

1300
01:17:57,920 --> 01:18:04,640
like by this doctor and it's 
super frustrating to see her in 

1301
01:18:04,640 --> 01:18:06,880
that environment. 
I don't know if you ever you've 

1302
01:18:06,880 --> 01:18:09,840
ever had someone in your life 
tell you horror stories about an

1303
01:18:09,840 --> 01:18:12,480
OBGYN and they're like, I don't 
never want to see that person 

1304
01:18:12,480 --> 01:18:15,040
again. 
But like, honestly, I, I've 

1305
01:18:15,880 --> 01:18:18,920
experienced something similar to
this, not with a pregnancy, 

1306
01:18:18,920 --> 01:18:23,120
thank God, but like with, you 
know, just a regular visit where

1307
01:18:23,120 --> 01:18:26,280
I'm like, I hate that doctor. 
I need to report that doctor to 

1308
01:18:26,280 --> 01:18:31,400
look bored. 
And this was tough to watch, 

1309
01:18:31,440 --> 01:18:33,240
especially because it's a 
teenager. 

1310
01:18:33,680 --> 01:18:35,360
They're helpless. 
She's helpless, right? 

1311
01:18:35,360 --> 01:18:36,880
Like she doesn't have a guardian
with her. 

1312
01:18:36,880 --> 01:18:39,880
She doesn't have any person to 
advocate for her. 

1313
01:18:40,160 --> 01:18:44,560
She's never gone to an OBGYN 
before and he's out here telling

1314
01:18:44,560 --> 01:18:47,640
her telling her things like all 
you teenagers are the same. 

1315
01:18:47,960 --> 01:18:50,360
When she suspects she's she 
tells the doctor, I think I'm 

1316
01:18:50,360 --> 01:18:53,520
three weeks, 3 months pregnant 
and she's actually 22 weeks 

1317
01:18:53,520 --> 01:18:57,240
pregnant, which is 6 months. 
So she's been pregnant for six 

1318
01:18:57,240 --> 01:18:59,360
months, twice the amount of time
she thought she was. 

1319
01:19:00,000 --> 01:19:03,880
He demands that she get parental
consent and they, I think I've 

1320
01:19:03,880 --> 01:19:08,480
misread the subtitles, but she 
was, I think she said earlier 

1321
01:19:08,480 --> 01:19:11,480
that it's not needed by law 
anymore, but the doctor was 

1322
01:19:11,480 --> 01:19:13,960
being a Dick basically and 
saying like, you know, you need 

1323
01:19:13,960 --> 01:19:17,360
parental consent or whatever. 
It was like this whole like shit

1324
01:19:17,360 --> 01:19:20,840
show. 
So ever since that doctor's 

1325
01:19:20,840 --> 01:19:25,000
visit, I was like, this is going
downhill fast, you know what I'm

1326
01:19:25,000 --> 01:19:27,920
saying? 
And then we get the beef between

1327
01:19:27,920 --> 01:19:33,920
the dads and I mean, it was bad 
like the IT culminates in this 

1328
01:19:33,920 --> 01:19:36,480
jail cell. 
To me it culminates when they 

1329
01:19:36,480 --> 01:19:40,640
get arrested together. 
For fighting each other, it's. 

1330
01:19:40,640 --> 01:19:45,440
For fighting, Yeah. 
And he said her dad tells his 

1331
01:19:45,440 --> 01:19:48,480
dad, how did it feel to get 
beaten by her son? 

1332
01:19:49,120 --> 01:19:53,400
He says that's how he felt the 
night that he went to him in 

1333
01:19:53,480 --> 01:19:58,160
desperate need and said I need, 
I need money. 

1334
01:19:58,160 --> 01:20:01,040
Like my child is hungry. 
My wife has left me. 

1335
01:20:01,720 --> 01:20:05,000
And he called him a dirt poor 
loser. 

1336
01:20:05,840 --> 01:20:08,600
Yeah, and and he said that 
that's fine. 

1337
01:20:08,600 --> 01:20:10,720
He goes. 
Yeah, I know I was, but you just

1338
01:20:10,720 --> 01:20:12,080
don't do that in front of my 
daughter. 

1339
01:20:12,160 --> 01:20:13,320
You. 
Know you don't do that in front 

1340
01:20:13,320 --> 01:20:16,440
of my daughter. 
And he called him a dirt poor 

1341
01:20:16,440 --> 01:20:18,680
loser and made his daughter beg 
for money. 

1342
01:20:19,960 --> 01:20:23,160
Yeah. 
And he was cruel and degrading 

1343
01:20:23,360 --> 01:20:27,920
when he was most vulnerable. 
And he went to him because he 

1344
01:20:27,920 --> 01:20:29,280
was the only friend he could 
rely on. 

1345
01:20:29,280 --> 01:20:34,040
He was all he had and that is to
go to someone with all of your 

1346
01:20:34,040 --> 01:20:37,160
heart and for them to like to 
humiliate you. 

1347
01:20:38,560 --> 01:20:42,480
That is what stuck that that is 
the beef that stuck. 

1348
01:20:43,640 --> 01:20:49,560
And so to see that play out and 
to see how the kids were just 

1349
01:20:49,560 --> 01:20:54,320
pummeled by the the two dads in 
various ways, emotionally and 

1350
01:20:54,320 --> 01:20:56,720
physically. 
I mean, it was bad. 

1351
01:20:56,720 --> 01:21:02,800
But then the reconciliation was 
was like sad and beautiful. 

1352
01:21:03,360 --> 01:21:07,880
Yeah, and realistic to a point. 
You know, where it didn't, it 

1353
01:21:07,880 --> 01:21:10,400
didn't happen over one, one 
episode. 

1354
01:21:10,400 --> 01:21:15,320
You know, it did took some time.
And yeah, there, there needed to

1355
01:21:15,320 --> 01:21:17,920
there, there needed to be a lot 
of steps in between. 

1356
01:21:17,920 --> 01:21:19,600
But the the arc was great. 
Yeah. 

1357
01:21:19,600 --> 01:21:20,840
I thought the arc was really 
great. 

1358
01:21:22,000 --> 01:21:26,120
Demanding apologies for things 
like he like he said shit about 

1359
01:21:26,120 --> 01:21:30,600
his daughter that she was 
sleeping around and she was like

1360
01:21:30,680 --> 01:21:34,200
he dragged her out of the hotel,
the motel room at one point and.

1361
01:21:35,080 --> 01:21:37,160
Yeah, that's. 
Literally take her to the 

1362
01:21:37,160 --> 01:21:40,760
hospital to get an abortion. 
It was like wildness, wildness. 

1363
01:21:42,600 --> 01:21:44,840
So that whole thing was was 
great. 

1364
01:21:44,840 --> 01:21:50,360
I had this moment ingrained into
my brain was episode 6 when the 

1365
01:21:50,640 --> 01:21:56,520
the two kids decide to keep the 
baby and they said promise. 

1366
01:21:56,520 --> 01:21:58,360
She said, promise me you won't 
change. 

1367
01:21:58,400 --> 01:22:04,000
And it starts raining on them. 
She covers her, her tummy like 

1368
01:22:04,000 --> 01:22:06,600
it starts to rain and she's like
this covering her forehead. 

1369
01:22:06,600 --> 01:22:10,240
And then she's changes and 
covers her little tummy. 

1370
01:22:11,400 --> 01:22:14,520
And then he comes over and like 
covers her and I Oh my God, it 

1371
01:22:14,520 --> 01:22:18,280
was so adorable. 
Do you remember this moment? 

1372
01:22:19,440 --> 01:22:21,080
No. 
I don't actually. 

1373
01:22:21,240 --> 01:22:24,800
No, then they start kissing in 
the street and that's when Ani 

1374
01:22:24,880 --> 01:22:28,080
drives by in her truck and she 
sees them and she's like, what 

1375
01:22:28,160 --> 01:22:31,600
the fuck is going on? 
Like she's like, didn't know 

1376
01:22:31,600 --> 01:22:36,480
they were dating. 
Anyway, all this stuff, these 

1377
01:22:36,480 --> 01:22:40,280
set of episodes were really, 
again, super powerful. 

1378
01:22:40,640 --> 01:22:42,000
Curtis, what was your number 
one? 

1379
01:22:42,000 --> 01:22:46,200
Then what was your number one? 
OK, so my number one was the 

1380
01:22:46,200 --> 01:22:50,840
Shimena. 
I I thought, you know the Dong 

1381
01:22:50,840 --> 01:22:57,360
suck and sauna that one, it 
spans what at least 1520 years 

1382
01:22:57,880 --> 01:23:01,000
goes back to when they were kids
and they had nothing but each 

1383
01:23:01,000 --> 01:23:04,240
other and they were just 
drowning in misery. 

1384
01:23:04,240 --> 01:23:07,120
But they had each other for a 
week or two. 

1385
01:23:07,120 --> 01:23:08,720
It wasn't even that long of a 
time. 

1386
01:23:09,160 --> 01:23:13,160
But it just, they, the, IT 
started there where they of 

1387
01:23:13,160 --> 01:23:15,600
course they loved each other, 
but they kind of got separated 

1388
01:23:15,600 --> 01:23:18,720
and didn't see each other for 15
years or something like that. 

1389
01:23:18,720 --> 01:23:23,080
And they met randomly on Seoul, 
at Seoul or in Seoul. 

1390
01:23:23,560 --> 01:23:28,280
And then that lasted a month or 
so and they were just hanging 

1391
01:23:28,280 --> 01:23:30,960
out and having fun. 
But then she, she dumps them on 

1392
01:23:30,960 --> 01:23:33,080
the beach when he tries to kiss.
He's the worst. 

1393
01:23:33,160 --> 01:23:37,880
He has the worst timing ever of 
when to kiss someone, but he 

1394
01:23:37,960 --> 01:23:41,000
tries to kiss her on the beach 
and she's like, OK, Take Me 

1395
01:23:41,000 --> 01:23:41,760
Home. 
I'm done. 

1396
01:23:42,320 --> 01:23:45,200
And he's like, well, what what I
do, what I do. 

1397
01:23:45,200 --> 01:23:48,400
And then they meet up later in 
life and he's super mad about 

1398
01:23:48,400 --> 01:23:51,440
everything, but mad about her 
too. 

1399
01:23:51,440 --> 01:23:56,040
And then they slowly and then so
in your notes, you have, you 

1400
01:23:56,040 --> 01:23:57,440
know, what's your favorite 
scene? 

1401
01:23:57,880 --> 01:24:03,160
The, the way they portrayed her 
depression of just symbolically,

1402
01:24:03,240 --> 01:24:08,080
everything gets dark for her and
she's drowning, you know, in 

1403
01:24:08,080 --> 01:24:13,120
those moments, just covered in 
water and, and emotionally 

1404
01:24:13,120 --> 01:24:16,480
drowning, maybe even physically 
drowning and dying. 

1405
01:24:16,480 --> 01:24:19,760
She's literally dying or 
figuratively dying. 

1406
01:24:20,480 --> 01:24:24,080
And he gives her a little light.
You know, like that, that stupid

1407
01:24:24,080 --> 01:24:27,400
little soundtrack he does on the
island that that's my favorite 

1408
01:24:27,400 --> 01:24:29,880
scene where he said, here's 
something to, to make you laugh.

1409
01:24:30,520 --> 01:24:34,880
And he sends it to her and, and 
it's not again, it's not like 

1410
01:24:34,880 --> 01:24:37,560
fairy tale where it's like, oh, 
everything's, everything's 

1411
01:24:37,560 --> 01:24:39,080
cured. 
He sent me this crazy little 

1412
01:24:39,080 --> 01:24:41,400
tape and now I'm cured from 
depression. 

1413
01:24:41,400 --> 01:24:45,120
But it wasn't like that. 
It was a slow burn where she's 

1414
01:24:45,120 --> 01:24:50,040
coming out of it and it's just 
the and and it didn't even end 

1415
01:24:50,040 --> 01:24:53,440
where it was, you know, wedding 
bells or anything necessarily. 

1416
01:24:53,440 --> 01:24:56,880
Like she's still digging herself
out of her hole, right. 

1417
01:24:56,880 --> 01:25:00,200
And he's, he's got some issues 
too, got a ton of issues too to 

1418
01:25:00,200 --> 01:25:03,440
dig out from. 
But they, they've had each other

1419
01:25:03,440 --> 01:25:08,520
for a couple decades and then 
they kind of meet up again when 

1420
01:25:08,520 --> 01:25:11,880
they need each other most. 
And it kind of works for me. 

1421
01:25:11,880 --> 01:25:14,920
I, I really like that I picked 
that as my number one romance 

1422
01:25:14,920 --> 01:25:16,320
when we did our Valentine's 
show. 

1423
01:25:16,320 --> 01:25:20,200
Jess, where you, you submitted 
your answer to that was mine, 

1424
01:25:20,200 --> 01:25:23,760
that I picked this, this romance
as the Oh yeah, Brandon, you 

1425
01:25:23,760 --> 01:25:27,560
were on that episode too. 
But yeah, this is the one I 

1426
01:25:27,560 --> 01:25:31,200
picked for my it. 
It's it's a really ugly, messy 

1427
01:25:31,200 --> 01:25:33,800
relationship, but I I really 
like the way they did it. 

1428
01:25:34,200 --> 01:25:39,640
Yeah, this relationship is 
pretty different than a standard

1429
01:25:39,640 --> 01:25:44,560
romance, right, where you have a
lot of time in between when they

1430
01:25:44,560 --> 01:25:47,520
were kids and they were each 
other's first loves. 

1431
01:25:47,520 --> 01:25:50,800
And she has a really bad home 
life. 

1432
01:25:50,800 --> 01:25:53,280
He has a horrible home life as 
well. 

1433
01:25:53,280 --> 01:25:59,840
And they kind of find each other
in the madness and they are each

1434
01:25:59,840 --> 01:26:02,400
other's safe haven. 
And then she leaves. 

1435
01:26:02,400 --> 01:26:04,840
Like she just, it's just the one
that got away, you know what I'm

1436
01:26:04,840 --> 01:26:09,360
saying? 
And the moment that I remember 

1437
01:26:09,360 --> 01:26:12,160
seeing on TikTok after I had 
already decided to watch Our 

1438
01:26:12,160 --> 01:26:17,560
Blues was in episode 4. 
The episode starts, it's not 

1439
01:26:17,560 --> 01:26:21,040
about the episode is not about 
Dong Sok or Shin Mina's 

1440
01:26:21,040 --> 01:26:23,720
character, but it starts with 
Shin Mina. 

1441
01:26:24,600 --> 01:26:29,760
And I was like whoa, this scene 
of her and intro ING her 

1442
01:26:29,760 --> 01:26:36,560
depression and her husband being
completely over it. 

1443
01:26:37,120 --> 01:26:39,800
Exasperated with her. 
He screams at her to go to the 

1444
01:26:39,800 --> 01:26:44,400
hospital to get treatment and 
they say depression can be 

1445
01:26:44,440 --> 01:26:47,360
cured. 
He complaints about the laundry 

1446
01:26:47,360 --> 01:26:49,840
and the cleaning of the state of
the house. 

1447
01:26:50,360 --> 01:26:53,360
She counters why doesn't he do 
it himself? 

1448
01:26:53,520 --> 01:26:55,720
Why does she have to do all the 
household chores? 

1449
01:26:55,720 --> 01:26:58,840
He fires back. 
She wants him to work and do all

1450
01:26:58,840 --> 01:27:02,920
the housework. 
My blood was boiling like this 

1451
01:27:02,920 --> 01:27:08,240
scene and then particularly the 
part where he says she reeks, 

1452
01:27:08,760 --> 01:27:14,080
that she stinks. 
And the passage of time thing, 

1453
01:27:14,080 --> 01:27:17,360
we're just time is this 
amorphous thing to her. 

1454
01:27:17,360 --> 01:27:19,520
She's unreachable and she 
didn't. 

1455
01:27:20,160 --> 01:27:24,000
She thinks that it's still the 
morning and it's actually the 

1456
01:27:24,000 --> 01:27:26,960
evening and she didn't pick up 
her kid from preschool. 

1457
01:27:26,960 --> 01:27:31,840
It's the middle of the night. 
It is a sucker punch, this 

1458
01:27:31,920 --> 01:27:36,520
introduction to Shimena, and 
then poof, we don't see her or 

1459
01:27:36,520 --> 01:27:40,440
hear from her for several 
episodes as we go into other 

1460
01:27:40,440 --> 01:27:44,120
storylines and the pregnancy, 
the teen pregnancy and things 

1461
01:27:44,120 --> 01:27:49,680
like that crop up. 
Shimena did an incredible job, I

1462
01:27:49,680 --> 01:27:56,280
thought, playing this character 
and playing a character who 

1463
01:27:57,640 --> 01:28:00,960
loves her son. 
Right, like the Depression, she 

1464
01:28:00,960 --> 01:28:06,200
doesn't take away the fact that 
she loves her son and wants to 

1465
01:28:06,200 --> 01:28:09,440
provide for her son and be 
there. 

1466
01:28:09,440 --> 01:28:13,440
It is impeding her ability to do
that. 

1467
01:28:14,400 --> 01:28:17,760
And her husband is like the 
worst. 

1468
01:28:20,360 --> 01:28:28,520
I, like, couldn't get over the 
fact that he was so, so cold 

1469
01:28:29,040 --> 01:28:33,960
toward her and almost, like, 
wouldn't pick up the slack, you 

1470
01:28:33,960 --> 01:28:36,400
know what I'm saying? 
Like, if she's struggling and 

1471
01:28:36,400 --> 01:28:41,600
she's at 10%, OK, you got to do 
90, you know what I'm saying? 

1472
01:28:41,600 --> 01:28:44,760
Like, that's all there is to it.
Yeah. 

1473
01:28:45,480 --> 01:28:47,080
But, you know, it's pretty 
realistic, though. 

1474
01:28:47,280 --> 01:28:51,120
Honestly, I-20 you got to do 80 
like I sorry, like that's how 

1475
01:28:51,120 --> 01:28:55,880
life works. 
So he just was not willing to, I

1476
01:28:55,880 --> 01:28:56,800
don't know how. 
How did you? 

1477
01:28:57,320 --> 01:29:01,160
If I was to play devil's 
advocate, because Jenny and I 

1478
01:29:01,160 --> 01:29:04,280
talked about this a lot and we 
have some experience with 

1479
01:29:04,280 --> 01:29:09,200
depression and anxiety disorder,
one thing that the show doesn't 

1480
01:29:09,200 --> 01:29:13,280
clarify for us is how long she 
has been in that state of 

1481
01:29:13,280 --> 01:29:17,520
depression. 
And so I want to be, I, I try to

1482
01:29:17,520 --> 01:29:22,120
be sympathetic to the husband's 
character if this had happened, 

1483
01:29:22,120 --> 01:29:25,800
you know, initially and he just 
wasn't willing to pitch in. 

1484
01:29:25,880 --> 01:29:28,200
Totally understand he's being 
unhelpful. 

1485
01:29:28,480 --> 01:29:32,320
But they're obviously parents to
this young child. 

1486
01:29:32,320 --> 01:29:35,520
And what happens when it goes 
six months, one year, you know, 

1487
01:29:35,520 --> 01:29:37,720
two years? 
And he does make the comment, 

1488
01:29:37,720 --> 01:29:39,880
like, can you at least go get 
treatment? 

1489
01:29:39,880 --> 01:29:43,280
So it seems like she wasn't 
taking the necessary steps to 

1490
01:29:43,640 --> 01:29:46,160
get better, at least how that's 
how I took it. 

1491
01:29:46,520 --> 01:29:50,760
And so I kind of understood his 
frustrations. 

1492
01:29:51,160 --> 01:29:53,720
If you're not going to pick up, 
if you told me you're going to 

1493
01:29:53,720 --> 01:29:57,240
pick up the kid and you did it, 
like now you're putting our son 

1494
01:29:57,240 --> 01:30:00,720
in danger. 
And I'm obviously happy that she

1495
01:30:00,720 --> 01:30:03,400
goes on her mental health 
journey and she goes to the 

1496
01:30:03,400 --> 01:30:07,840
countryside and, and finds her 
shine her her light, as you 

1497
01:30:07,840 --> 01:30:09,240
mentioned, Curtis and Yi Byung 
on. 

1498
01:30:09,920 --> 01:30:15,120
But you know, she also had to 
have been a, a, a parent to her 

1499
01:30:15,120 --> 01:30:17,560
son. 
And I think the dad was thinking

1500
01:30:17,560 --> 01:30:22,680
for the sun's safety first, so I
I wanted to just give him a 

1501
01:30:22,680 --> 01:30:25,320
little bit of slack when I 
watched the. 

1502
01:30:25,400 --> 01:30:28,400
Show and I think there were two 
things that didn't let me take 

1503
01:30:28,400 --> 01:30:32,000
my foot off his neck. 
So the one thing was he knew. 

1504
01:30:33,040 --> 01:30:34,680
Sorry, maybe there's a better 
way to say that. 

1505
01:30:34,680 --> 01:30:39,080
But one thing was he knew about 
her depression from the jump 

1506
01:30:40,440 --> 01:30:44,600
before he even married her when 
they were dating, he knew knew 

1507
01:30:44,600 --> 01:30:46,120
about her depression. 
That's true. 

1508
01:30:46,120 --> 01:30:50,320
And I don't know if that played 
into their breakup initially, 

1509
01:30:50,320 --> 01:30:54,480
because when he she met Ebogan's
character however many years ago

1510
01:30:54,480 --> 01:30:58,120
and they went joyriding, they 
were on the outs. 

1511
01:30:58,200 --> 01:31:00,560
They had broken up. 
So who knows? 

1512
01:31:00,560 --> 01:31:05,840
They don't say like why they 
broke up, but to me that says, 

1513
01:31:05,920 --> 01:31:11,760
OK, I'm signing up. 
You know, I'm for better, for 

1514
01:31:11,760 --> 01:31:16,880
worse, You know what I'm saying?
Like, that is a promise and he 

1515
01:31:16,880 --> 01:31:20,840
knew it's not like it this 
cropped up later and he's got 

1516
01:31:20,840 --> 01:31:26,640
to, you know, adjust. 
And second of all, I think that 

1517
01:31:26,640 --> 01:31:32,080
what played into her losing 
custody was the accident, the 

1518
01:31:32,080 --> 01:31:34,400
traffic, the car accident that 
happened. 

1519
01:31:34,920 --> 01:31:36,440
And he blamed her for that 
accident. 

1520
01:31:36,520 --> 01:31:40,120
When I watch it back, I don't 
think she was at fault at all. 

1521
01:31:40,600 --> 01:31:46,680
Like she got cut off and ran 
into the car and I was like, how

1522
01:31:46,680 --> 01:31:50,600
is that her fault that she got 
cut off in traffic? 

1523
01:31:51,240 --> 01:31:53,480
Like, you know what I'm saying? 
Like I'm like, where's where's 

1524
01:31:53,480 --> 01:31:57,800
the fault that she was like, how
is this playing into like she 

1525
01:31:57,800 --> 01:32:02,400
was depressed and like ran into 
a car that didn't scream. 

1526
01:32:02,680 --> 01:32:05,000
She needs to lose custody 
because she picked up the kid. 

1527
01:32:05,000 --> 01:32:08,480
She was being responsible. 
The kid was strapped into the 

1528
01:32:08,480 --> 01:32:09,640
sea. 
If there were other 

1529
01:32:09,640 --> 01:32:14,000
circumstances, like it was a 
different kind of accident and 

1530
01:32:14,000 --> 01:32:17,960
she was at fault where the kid 
wasn't in a seat belt or 

1531
01:32:17,960 --> 01:32:22,160
something like that, like that 
would have signaled to me, yeah,

1532
01:32:22,160 --> 01:32:26,160
the kid is unsafe with her. 
But for all intents and 

1533
01:32:26,160 --> 01:32:30,000
purposes, this was a pretty bad 
traffic accident that she was 

1534
01:32:30,000 --> 01:32:33,240
not at fault for. 
And then he takes it upon 

1535
01:32:33,240 --> 01:32:36,480
himself to initiate this really 
ugly custody battle. 

1536
01:32:36,920 --> 01:32:40,560
Jess, did you rewatch the 
episodes recently 'cause I, I, I

1537
01:32:40,560 --> 01:32:42,240
didn't. 
So your memory might be better 

1538
01:32:42,240 --> 01:32:44,800
than mine on the show. 
So I just watched them. 

1539
01:32:45,400 --> 01:32:50,480
Wasn't there a scene where they 
ask the son like his opinion on 

1540
01:32:50,480 --> 01:32:53,920
the mom and the dad and I forget
the answers he gives and I 

1541
01:32:53,920 --> 01:32:56,240
forget what he says about the? 
Mom, do you remember? 

1542
01:32:56,240 --> 01:32:59,880
He says he calls his dad. 
Oh, my dad's like a friend. 

1543
01:32:59,880 --> 01:33:05,760
He calls him friend and then 
he's they ask him his opinion on

1544
01:33:05,760 --> 01:33:08,480
the mom and he says, oh, mom is 
sick. 

1545
01:33:10,160 --> 01:33:15,680
So he just thinks that she is 
sick, not that she is, you know,

1546
01:33:15,680 --> 01:33:17,560
mom, she's great. 
Whatever. 

1547
01:33:17,760 --> 01:33:22,120
Some other verbiage that would 
have passed in the courts for 

1548
01:33:22,120 --> 01:33:26,240
her to get custody. 
Just him knowing that she was 

1549
01:33:26,240 --> 01:33:30,040
struggling was I guess a strike 
against her. 

1550
01:33:31,480 --> 01:33:35,960
So and what was terrible again, 
was during that custody battle, 

1551
01:33:35,960 --> 01:33:40,560
she the husband was bringing up.
It was like us mini microcosm of

1552
01:33:40,560 --> 01:33:44,400
marriage story. 
Have you seen that movie story 

1553
01:33:44,400 --> 01:33:47,640
with that ugly custody battle 
between Scarlett Johansson and 

1554
01:33:47,680 --> 01:33:50,880
No No. 
I haven't seen it about the 

1555
01:33:50,880 --> 01:33:53,680
other story, yeah. 
There's the other one too. 

1556
01:33:54,520 --> 01:33:57,840
Kramer versus Kramer. 
Yeah, so good. 

1557
01:33:57,840 --> 01:34:00,440
Right, the original. 
Yeah, so it's the same thing 

1558
01:34:00,440 --> 01:34:04,800
basically where it all comes 
out, but it's not the whole 

1559
01:34:04,800 --> 01:34:07,280
truth. 
So the husband and saying, oh, 

1560
01:34:07,280 --> 01:34:09,360
she didn't pick up the kid, she 
didn't do this, she didn't do 

1561
01:34:09,360 --> 01:34:11,280
that. 
And she's like, OK, I didn't 

1562
01:34:11,280 --> 01:34:15,920
pick up the kid on one day, but 
I pick him up 364 other days out

1563
01:34:15,920 --> 01:34:20,160
of the year. 
Like I'm doing well all the 

1564
01:34:20,160 --> 01:34:22,920
other times. 
And I didn't play with him maybe

1565
01:34:23,200 --> 01:34:26,360
three or four times out of the 
month, but I play with him all 

1566
01:34:26,360 --> 01:34:30,120
the other days, like out of the 
month and so on and so forth. 

1567
01:34:30,120 --> 01:34:34,960
Like all of these strikes 
against her are like a small 

1568
01:34:34,960 --> 01:34:39,520
percentage of the time that she 
is full time caregiving for her 

1569
01:34:39,520 --> 01:34:43,920
son that she is out of 
Commission or unable to care for

1570
01:34:44,000 --> 01:34:46,160
him. 
So it was enough. 

1571
01:34:46,720 --> 01:34:51,520
Well, you know, honestly, 
though, I, I, I think the courts

1572
01:34:51,520 --> 01:34:55,720
probably made the right call in 
this case, like just purely 

1573
01:34:55,720 --> 01:35:01,080
speaking, safety of the child. 
I, I think they probably made 

1574
01:35:01,080 --> 01:35:03,040
the right choice. 
Even though we like Shima, you 

1575
01:35:03,040 --> 01:35:04,760
know, we, we know she's going 
through a lot. 

1576
01:35:05,080 --> 01:35:07,680
We like her, you know, we like 
her character. 

1577
01:35:07,840 --> 01:35:12,040
There's obviously some room for 
compassion, but the bottom line 

1578
01:35:12,040 --> 01:35:14,720
is like, which parent? 
Which would he be more safe 

1579
01:35:14,720 --> 01:35:17,600
with? 
And it isn't about emotion. 

1580
01:35:17,600 --> 01:35:19,800
At that point. 
The court has to make a decision

1581
01:35:19,800 --> 01:35:24,080
on the welfare of the child 
physically, you know, just keep 

1582
01:35:24,080 --> 01:35:27,720
the kid alive. 
And so they probably made the 

1583
01:35:27,720 --> 01:35:31,640
right choice, though we could 
all see that in the long run, 

1584
01:35:31,640 --> 01:35:33,360
you know, who's who's going to 
love him more? 

1585
01:35:33,360 --> 01:35:36,960
We know the mom would, but. 
I also thought it was funny that

1586
01:35:36,960 --> 01:35:40,120
they were asking the dad like, 
OK, who's going to do this? 

1587
01:35:40,120 --> 01:35:41,960
Who's going to cure a gift while
you're at work? 

1588
01:35:42,160 --> 01:35:43,680
And he's like, oh, my parents 
are. 

1589
01:35:43,680 --> 01:35:46,120
And they're, So she's like, OK, 
so you're not going to cure a 

1590
01:35:46,120 --> 01:35:48,480
gift for him. 
Your parent, your elderly 

1591
01:35:48,480 --> 01:35:52,880
parents are going to be raising 
him while you're working and 

1592
01:35:52,880 --> 01:35:54,600
who's going to pick him up from 
school and all this stuff. 

1593
01:35:54,640 --> 01:35:58,400
And it was never him. 
It was always his parents. 

1594
01:35:58,640 --> 01:36:01,480
No. 
But in Korean culture, that's in

1595
01:36:01,480 --> 01:36:06,400
Korean culture, that's very, 
that's the standard, almost like

1596
01:36:06,840 --> 01:36:10,040
my generation of kids, like 
there's AI have a lot of friends

1597
01:36:10,040 --> 01:36:11,920
who are closer to their 
grandparents than their parents 

1598
01:36:11,920 --> 01:36:15,040
just because that was the all 
families live together and the 

1599
01:36:15,040 --> 01:36:17,920
parents help out. 
So I I didn't think that was 

1600
01:36:17,920 --> 01:36:20,080
that weird. 
That's pretty common in Korea. 

1601
01:36:20,240 --> 01:36:23,000
And and shame and I had no one. 
You know, she has no parents. 

1602
01:36:23,160 --> 01:36:25,280
I'm not. 
Saying it's weird because I got 

1603
01:36:25,280 --> 01:36:28,280
picked up every day after school
for my with my grandparents. 

1604
01:36:28,680 --> 01:36:33,320
What I'm saying is if it's 
between aging grandparents or 

1605
01:36:33,560 --> 01:36:36,200
his mother, like you know what 
I'm saying? 

1606
01:36:36,200 --> 01:36:38,840
Like they were asking questions.
Have to work full time though. 

1607
01:36:38,960 --> 01:36:42,080
Pointed questions about like, 
who is going to raise him, who 

1608
01:36:42,080 --> 01:36:44,960
is going to be caregiving? 
And it was not him. 

1609
01:36:46,400 --> 01:36:48,960
Yeah. 
So it it was hard. 

1610
01:36:49,080 --> 01:36:51,600
But they asked her too and and 
she didn't have anyone. 

1611
01:36:51,640 --> 01:36:53,680
She was like, I was going to. 
She's going to have to work full

1612
01:36:53,680 --> 01:36:56,680
time, so someone else. 
I can do this and pick him up 

1613
01:36:56,680 --> 01:36:59,080
and all this stuff. 
So yeah, it was going to she was

1614
01:36:59,080 --> 01:37:03,120
going to be single mom in it. 
Anyway, Long story short, this 

1615
01:37:03,120 --> 01:37:09,000
storyline was harsh. 
And then you add in the love 

1616
01:37:09,000 --> 01:37:14,800
story that she like, doesn't 
love him Ebiungun's character at

1617
01:37:14,800 --> 01:37:21,080
first, but she grows to love him
and need him. 

1618
01:37:21,400 --> 01:37:24,760
So I really like that. 
And her meeting his mom at the 

1619
01:37:24,760 --> 01:37:28,120
end, I was like, like, I was 
like in tears. 

1620
01:37:29,440 --> 01:37:31,960
Yeah, they just, it is written 
so well, you know, like it just 

1621
01:37:32,320 --> 01:37:35,560
at that moment, he has to make 
up with his mom just in time, 

1622
01:37:36,000 --> 01:37:38,600
just within a day, right. 
To to make it. 

1623
01:37:38,600 --> 01:37:42,400
Work what I liked about their 
relationship and especially when

1624
01:37:42,760 --> 01:37:46,240
Thong Suk is there for when she 
loses custody, right? 

1625
01:37:46,240 --> 01:37:48,720
Which is devastating for any 
parent, I'm sure. 

1626
01:37:49,120 --> 01:37:52,080
Yeah. 
She sobs uncontrollably for 

1627
01:37:52,080 --> 01:37:55,680
hours, she won't eat or drink 
and she and he gets fed up. 

1628
01:37:55,680 --> 01:38:00,400
Like he tells her she should do 
her best to gird up, prepare 

1629
01:38:00,400 --> 01:38:04,480
herself for the appeal and not 
wallow in self pity. 

1630
01:38:05,200 --> 01:38:10,680
And she's devastated at the this
horrible thought that her son 

1631
01:38:10,680 --> 01:38:14,760
might hate her and probably 
doesn't want to be around her 

1632
01:38:14,760 --> 01:38:17,120
etcetera. 
And she basically says that she 

1633
01:38:17,120 --> 01:38:19,880
just can't help it. 
It's how she is. 

1634
01:38:19,880 --> 01:38:23,480
And instead of criticizing her 
like her husband did, just leave

1635
01:38:23,480 --> 01:38:27,440
her be, leave her to her own 
devices and how she processes 

1636
01:38:27,440 --> 01:38:31,720
things. 
He ends up asking her questions 

1637
01:38:31,720 --> 01:38:34,560
about her depression. 
What does it feel like? 

1638
01:38:34,560 --> 01:38:37,440
And he starts consoling her. 
When did it start? 

1639
01:38:37,440 --> 01:38:41,320
And she says it started when her
dad committed suicide by driving

1640
01:38:41,320 --> 01:38:45,800
himself into the ocean. 
Like wildness, more wildness for

1641
01:38:45,800 --> 01:38:48,240
these back stories. 
It's trauma upon trauma. 

1642
01:38:49,480 --> 01:38:51,240
You could say it's generational 
trauma. 

1643
01:38:52,320 --> 01:38:59,160
And the next morning, he ponders
more about his own circumstances

1644
01:38:59,160 --> 01:39:03,120
and his own relationship with 
his mom, meaning he's wondering 

1645
01:39:03,120 --> 01:39:05,040
if his mother struggled with 
depression. 

1646
01:39:06,040 --> 01:39:09,680
He wonders if she ever loved him
because she neglected him. 

1647
01:39:10,480 --> 01:39:14,880
And just as he told Shimena's 
character to just call up her 

1648
01:39:14,880 --> 01:39:18,320
son and ask him how he feels 
about her, Shimena tells him he 

1649
01:39:18,320 --> 01:39:22,760
should ask his mom outright. 
Instead of avoiding the problem 

1650
01:39:23,400 --> 01:39:28,120
and burying your worries by 
ignoring the person scared of 

1651
01:39:28,120 --> 01:39:30,960
what they'll say, he should talk
to her. 

1652
01:39:31,720 --> 01:39:34,920
And she says she went through a 
whole crisis of hating her 

1653
01:39:34,920 --> 01:39:38,920
father, wondering why he never 
said that he was having a hard 

1654
01:39:38,920 --> 01:39:41,880
time, wondering if he loved her 
at all. 

1655
01:39:41,880 --> 01:39:47,920
And she concluded that he did 
love her, but life is just 

1656
01:39:47,960 --> 01:39:51,720
terrible and it beat him down. 
And then she felt guilty for 

1657
01:39:51,720 --> 01:39:55,320
seeing him Rage Against life, 
being a violent alcoholic and 

1658
01:39:55,320 --> 01:40:01,040
never asking him what was wrong,
why was he so mad or sad. 

1659
01:40:01,600 --> 01:40:05,200
And she tells him to talk to his
mom or risk living in regret. 

1660
01:40:05,200 --> 01:40:09,000
That you could have done more, 
said more, probed more so. 

1661
01:40:10,360 --> 01:40:13,120
That circles back. 
That's like an earlier episode. 

1662
01:40:13,360 --> 01:40:19,080
Then we hit episodes like 
18/19/20 and this circles back 

1663
01:40:19,080 --> 01:40:23,840
around right with his 
relationship with his mom and 

1664
01:40:23,840 --> 01:40:27,720
him finally asking some tough 
questions to her. 

1665
01:40:29,480 --> 01:40:33,840
And I guess we can wrap, we can 
wrap up with this story. 

1666
01:40:34,360 --> 01:40:36,520
Is that does that sound good? 
I think so. 

1667
01:40:37,120 --> 01:40:39,720
The last storyline that we're 
going to talk about is Thong 

1668
01:40:39,720 --> 01:40:44,840
suck with his mother. 
And I mean, this relationship 

1669
01:40:44,840 --> 01:40:50,120
and these set of episodes is 
tough because you, I mean, I 

1670
01:40:50,120 --> 01:40:53,200
keep saying it's tough, but I 
felt. 

1671
01:40:53,520 --> 01:40:58,320
Look the mom. 
Is so freaking detached and 

1672
01:40:58,320 --> 01:41:00,920
disassociated like she's just 
spaced out. 

1673
01:41:01,640 --> 01:41:04,240
And I thought I kept thinking 
like maybe she has something 

1674
01:41:04,240 --> 01:41:06,720
like maybe he's right like maybe
she has some sort of mental 

1675
01:41:06,720 --> 01:41:08,440
illness that she's struggling 
with. 

1676
01:41:09,000 --> 01:41:12,240
And I could never like put my 
finger on it. 

1677
01:41:12,240 --> 01:41:18,760
I was like, she's the way she is
looking around like I was, I was

1678
01:41:18,760 --> 01:41:20,840
like, where is she? 
She's not there. 

1679
01:41:20,840 --> 01:41:25,600
Like I couldn't figure it out, 
couldn't get past it because the

1680
01:41:25,600 --> 01:41:31,280
flashbacks were so visceral. 
We're super visceral of her 

1681
01:41:31,280 --> 01:41:34,240
slapping him multiple times 
because she needs she he he 

1682
01:41:34,240 --> 01:41:36,680
needs to call her aunt instead 
of mother and her getting 

1683
01:41:36,680 --> 01:41:41,280
married within a month of the 
husband dying and all this stuff

1684
01:41:41,280 --> 01:41:43,680
like it's. 
Or not even married, right? 

1685
01:41:43,760 --> 01:41:45,920
Just. 
Becoming a YEAH and taking care 

1686
01:41:45,920 --> 01:41:51,200
of care of a sickly woman for 
515 years, the wife for 15 

1687
01:41:51,920 --> 01:41:55,440
years. 
I was livid for him and I could 

1688
01:41:55,440 --> 01:41:59,320
see why he was so angry. 
Yeah. 

1689
01:41:59,440 --> 01:42:02,640
No, it's it's. 
So rough, it's so rough. 

1690
01:42:03,400 --> 01:42:06,960
So how did you guys feel about 
this and did you guys have 

1691
01:42:06,960 --> 01:42:12,600
thoughts on the mom and his 
reaction to her and the final 

1692
01:42:12,600 --> 01:42:15,600
moments with him and the trip 
that they take? 

1693
01:42:15,760 --> 01:42:19,640
Well, yeah, I mean, she, she 
comes across as so frail and so 

1694
01:42:19,640 --> 01:42:20,880
weak. 
And everyone's like, why are 

1695
01:42:20,880 --> 01:42:22,480
you? 
Why are you so mean to her? 

1696
01:42:22,480 --> 01:42:24,520
You know, why don't you take 
care of her? 

1697
01:42:24,520 --> 01:42:25,920
She look at her, she's so 
little. 

1698
01:42:26,400 --> 01:42:31,320
And then you find out why. 
And it's like, oh, it's, it's, 

1699
01:42:31,320 --> 01:42:34,040
it's, yeah, there's layers upon 
layers in this drama. 

1700
01:42:34,040 --> 01:42:37,280
And they do a good job of. 
And like, again, there's no 

1701
01:42:37,280 --> 01:42:39,880
winners. 
You know, it's just like, yeah, 

1702
01:42:39,920 --> 01:42:43,480
you're not totally wrong to hate
this person, but you know, you 

1703
01:42:43,480 --> 01:42:47,360
gotta do what you need to do 
sometimes to, to mend these 

1704
01:42:47,360 --> 01:42:48,880
relationships. 
So. 

1705
01:42:49,120 --> 01:42:51,920
There's a shit show that happens
in Mokpo because they go to the 

1706
01:42:51,920 --> 01:42:56,840
step dads memorial service. 
I was like going like this, like

1707
01:42:57,560 --> 01:43:02,240
I wanted to flip a table and I 
wanted to not go to that 

1708
01:43:02,240 --> 01:43:05,840
memorial service as much as he 
did or did not want to go 

1709
01:43:05,840 --> 01:43:09,520
because why the fuck would he? 
Would you want to go to that 

1710
01:43:09,520 --> 01:43:12,280
guy's memorial service and see 
the brothers again? 

1711
01:43:12,760 --> 01:43:16,840
And it ended up being even let 
like only one brother was there 

1712
01:43:16,840 --> 01:43:20,240
was that brother was there. 
None of the grandkids, step 

1713
01:43:20,240 --> 01:43:25,400
grandkids were there even. 
And yeah, EB Young's character 

1714
01:43:25,400 --> 01:43:27,240
is indignant. 
He's crass. 

1715
01:43:27,240 --> 01:43:30,640
It ignites this fight between 
him and the abusive stepbrother 

1716
01:43:30,640 --> 01:43:33,480
who beat him to bits when they 
were younger. 

1717
01:43:33,880 --> 01:43:36,560
And the and the mom comes 
through. 

1718
01:43:36,880 --> 01:43:38,720
Actually says. 
Shame him. 

1719
01:43:38,720 --> 01:43:41,160
Finally. 
Finally. 

1720
01:43:41,160 --> 01:43:46,080
Finally that he because the 
stepbrother starts blaming him 

1721
01:43:46,080 --> 01:43:48,440
for the death of the dad. 
And I was like, whoa, whoa, 

1722
01:43:48,440 --> 01:43:50,520
whoa, whoa. 
Then the mom comes through. 

1723
01:43:51,240 --> 01:43:54,080
Yeah, the dad was a knuck. 30 
years too late. 

1724
01:43:54,160 --> 01:43:59,240
She's defending him and saying 
no, your dad was an alcoholic 

1725
01:43:59,240 --> 01:44:03,720
who got drunk and hurt himself 
after you sold off his boats and

1726
01:44:03,720 --> 01:44:07,400
basically lost his fortune. 
Wasn't we're in the process of 

1727
01:44:07,400 --> 01:44:13,360
losing his fortune? 
Not that measly $20,000 that my 

1728
01:44:13,360 --> 01:44:18,720
son stole that had nothing to do
with why he ended up basically 

1729
01:44:18,720 --> 01:44:21,720
bedridden for the rest of his 
life or something and died. 

1730
01:44:22,680 --> 01:44:26,880
So the mom sticks up for him and
sets things straight with facts 

1731
01:44:26,880 --> 01:44:29,920
and tells the fan that there's 
nothing her son should be 

1732
01:44:29,920 --> 01:44:33,200
apologizing for. 
And she's super agitated all of 

1733
01:44:33,200 --> 01:44:36,920
a sudden because she's so 
passive the rest of the show. 

1734
01:44:37,480 --> 01:44:40,040
And you're so surprised. 
You're thinking at this point 

1735
01:44:40,040 --> 01:44:42,320
you're thinking we're going to 
get some more When he confronts 

1736
01:44:42,320 --> 01:44:46,480
her and our starts asking her 
shit, she's going to apologize 

1737
01:44:46,480 --> 01:44:48,600
or she's going to say something 
really profound. 

1738
01:44:50,360 --> 01:44:56,080
Brandon and Curtis when he asked
her why didn't you ever 

1739
01:44:56,080 --> 01:44:59,720
apologize to me? 
It seemed like you were aware of

1740
01:44:59,720 --> 01:45:02,000
how difficult my life was 
because of you. 

1741
01:45:02,000 --> 01:45:06,640
Do you even feel sorry? 
Do you really feel sorry about 

1742
01:45:06,640 --> 01:45:08,560
how you mistreated me and hurt 
me? 

1743
01:45:09,680 --> 01:45:15,440
She says Why should I feel sorry
about you? 

1744
01:45:16,680 --> 01:45:20,000
And I nearly shut off the TVI 
was like, Oh no, no, no, no, no,

1745
01:45:21,160 --> 01:45:23,160
we're back to square one. 
We're back to square one. 

1746
01:45:23,640 --> 01:45:28,800
Because I genuinely still can't 
understand why she wouldn't 

1747
01:45:29,160 --> 01:45:32,360
apologize. 
He's asking for it. 

1748
01:45:32,760 --> 01:45:38,560
He's confronting her directly 
and she's still like, I can't 

1749
01:45:38,560 --> 01:45:40,720
think of anything I need to 
apologize for. 

1750
01:45:40,720 --> 01:45:44,720
She just said all that shit in 
front of those people. 

1751
01:45:45,760 --> 01:45:49,160
It was mind boggling. 
It was mind boggling to me. 

1752
01:45:49,840 --> 01:45:54,440
It was bothering me. 
I think maybe, maybe in her mind

1753
01:45:54,800 --> 01:45:56,760
she's like, well, I kept you 
alive. 

1754
01:45:56,760 --> 01:46:00,120
Look, you're still alive. 
You know, a bare minimum of 

1755
01:46:00,120 --> 01:46:03,040
mothering is keep your kid from 
dying. 

1756
01:46:03,040 --> 01:46:07,480
And she did that. 
I think that's right, Curtis. 

1757
01:46:07,480 --> 01:46:10,840
And, you know, not everyone 
becomes a mother by because they

1758
01:46:10,840 --> 01:46:15,240
want to for some people it it 
that that's the the cards that 

1759
01:46:15,240 --> 01:46:18,040
they're dealt. 
And she, I think you mentioned 

1760
01:46:18,040 --> 01:46:22,480
this earlier, Curtis, she did 
what she had to do to get 

1761
01:46:22,480 --> 01:46:27,200
herself by and make sure that 
her son had a roof over his 

1762
01:46:27,200 --> 01:46:29,680
head. 
Yes, I'm sure it hurt her. 

1763
01:46:29,680 --> 01:46:33,800
Maybe, maybe not seeing her kid 
get beat, but at least he got 

1764
01:46:33,800 --> 01:46:39,280
some meals, you know, had a 
house and and she is not 

1765
01:46:39,280 --> 01:46:42,480
educated, right. 
I don't think she even went to 

1766
01:46:42,480 --> 01:46:46,320
school. 
So honestly, how can you really,

1767
01:46:46,320 --> 01:46:48,120
you know, she she did what she 
could. 

1768
01:46:48,120 --> 01:46:50,880
I think. 
I, I thought that was a really 

1769
01:46:50,880 --> 01:46:55,120
raw moment because between IB 
Young on and the mom, they're 

1770
01:46:55,120 --> 01:46:58,080
saying, I don't owe you any 
apologies. 

1771
01:46:58,840 --> 01:47:02,360
But externally she still 
defended him against the 

1772
01:47:02,360 --> 01:47:03,800
brothers, which I thought was 
nice. 

1773
01:47:04,520 --> 01:47:10,680
I was confused because she still
has this feels this pull toward 

1774
01:47:10,680 --> 01:47:15,360
this family that did not 
appreciate her, did not love 

1775
01:47:15,360 --> 01:47:19,200
her, treated her like shit, 
treated her son even worse. 

1776
01:47:19,600 --> 01:47:23,000
And she's still like, let me go 
over there and run this memorial

1777
01:47:23,000 --> 01:47:27,600
service and bring them food and 
go to their weddings and and I 

1778
01:47:27,600 --> 01:47:31,520
was like, she treated that 
family so well. 

1779
01:47:32,320 --> 01:47:35,240
And in my mind, I'm like for 
what? 

1780
01:47:35,240 --> 01:47:39,200
Like to what end? 
Like there was nothing there, no

1781
01:47:39,200 --> 01:47:42,080
blood like there, You know what 
I'm saying? 

1782
01:47:42,080 --> 01:47:47,600
Like I was confused about their 
sure loyalty to them and her 

1783
01:47:47,840 --> 01:47:54,880
lack of loyalty to her son. 
And absolutely I felt way less 

1784
01:47:54,880 --> 01:47:58,560
angry at her when you put it in 
perspective that she was a 

1785
01:47:58,560 --> 01:48:00,680
simpleton. 
She had no education, she was 

1786
01:48:00,680 --> 01:48:04,920
illiterate, literally into her. 
She was imminently dying of 

1787
01:48:04,920 --> 01:48:08,240
cancer and she was still 
learning her AB CS, very 

1788
01:48:08,240 --> 01:48:11,880
infantile of a personality. 
And she had this survivalist 

1789
01:48:11,880 --> 01:48:15,120
mentality where she was just 
like, I just need to eat. 

1790
01:48:15,320 --> 01:48:17,840
I just need a roof over my head.
I just need this. 

1791
01:48:17,840 --> 01:48:21,800
I just need that. 
And despite all that, I was 

1792
01:48:21,800 --> 01:48:26,000
like, OK, but now he's an adult.
You don't need to do shit for 

1793
01:48:26,000 --> 01:48:27,880
him. 
And he is. 

1794
01:48:28,000 --> 01:48:32,440
You know he's hurt. 
He went no contact for years. 

1795
01:48:32,960 --> 01:48:36,480
You know he's hurt. 
That's your blood, Sun. 

1796
01:48:37,200 --> 01:48:43,800
Why would you not say I'm sorry 
like I did the best I could? 

1797
01:48:43,800 --> 01:48:45,760
Yeah. 
I know. 

1798
01:48:46,160 --> 01:48:50,960
She's just said why would I feel
like it was such the wording as 

1799
01:48:50,960 --> 01:48:52,040
well? 
Like I'm sure it was a 

1800
01:48:52,040 --> 01:48:55,560
translation but I was like, this
is the worst thing you could 

1801
01:48:55,560 --> 01:48:56,880
possibly say. 
Yeah. 

1802
01:48:57,720 --> 01:49:01,720
As well, so it was a lot of 
things at play. 

1803
01:49:02,480 --> 01:49:06,240
Yeah, unless there, unless her, 
her unless her long game was OK,

1804
01:49:06,240 --> 01:49:08,640
let me show up at this memorial 
service and finally tell these 

1805
01:49:08,640 --> 01:49:11,680
people off in front of my son. 
Unless that was her long game, 

1806
01:49:11,680 --> 01:49:15,200
which I don't know if that was. 
I mean, it worked out that 

1807
01:49:15,200 --> 01:49:18,160
that's how it turned out. 
But yeah, I don't know why she 

1808
01:49:18,160 --> 01:49:20,120
would it. 
Literally made no sense to me. 

1809
01:49:20,920 --> 01:49:24,320
OK, anyway, well. 
I think Korea is just very big 

1810
01:49:24,440 --> 01:49:31,240
on tradition, especially when 
it, you know, there is the the 

1811
01:49:31,240 --> 01:49:34,240
mothers doing air quotes, you 
know, responsibilities. 

1812
01:49:34,240 --> 01:49:38,280
And I think there's also a 
concept in Korea called Chung. 

1813
01:49:38,640 --> 01:49:42,480
It just means that when you've 
spent enough time with someone, 

1814
01:49:42,480 --> 01:49:46,080
even if you're not related, you 
just develop some type of bond. 

1815
01:49:46,600 --> 01:49:50,920
And so my thought was she just 
spent so many years with this 

1816
01:49:50,920 --> 01:49:57,360
family and she was technically 
the, the matriarch, I guess of 

1817
01:49:57,360 --> 01:49:59,920
that immediate family. 
You know, she still needed to do

1818
01:49:59,920 --> 01:50:05,000
her, her duties every year. 
And so I, I didn't think too 

1819
01:50:05,000 --> 01:50:09,160
much of that to be honest. 
OK, Yeah, I don't think I've 

1820
01:50:09,160 --> 01:50:12,480
spoken about Chung. 
Maybe in the My Mr. episode 

1821
01:50:12,480 --> 01:50:19,240
Chung came up, but yeah, I 
again, this is the level one of 

1822
01:50:19,240 --> 01:50:24,440
Chung versus level 10. 
Maybe because there I they hated

1823
01:50:24,440 --> 01:50:26,720
her like they they were like, 
why are you here? 

1824
01:50:27,080 --> 01:50:31,000
Why did you call like, Oh my 
God, it was the worst. 

1825
01:50:31,280 --> 01:50:35,600
It was the worst. 
I she was so unloved and then 

1826
01:50:35,600 --> 01:50:38,600
she still went back to it was 
like bad habit. 

1827
01:50:38,600 --> 01:50:41,920
It was like a bad habit. 
Anyway, she dies. 

1828
01:50:42,000 --> 01:50:46,160
It is awful. 
The no music when she passes was

1829
01:50:46,640 --> 01:50:50,400
a powerful choice to me. 
And then he decides to lie next 

1830
01:50:50,400 --> 01:50:53,920
to her and hugs her body and 
cries and calls her mom over and

1831
01:50:53,920 --> 01:50:55,960
over again. 
Something that he refused to do 

1832
01:50:55,960 --> 01:50:58,600
throughout the show was call her
mom. 

1833
01:51:00,120 --> 01:51:03,600
And the voiceover just like is 
like a nice little bow. 

1834
01:51:04,360 --> 01:51:07,120
Wraps it up real nicely. 
She never said she loved me or 

1835
01:51:07,120 --> 01:51:10,760
that she was sorry. 
My mom, Kangak Song, made a bowl

1836
01:51:10,760 --> 01:51:14,920
of my favorite food, Donjiang 
soup, a Sue. 

1837
01:51:14,920 --> 01:51:16,920
Then she returned to where she 
used to be. 

1838
01:51:16,920 --> 01:51:19,440
I hugged my dead mom's body and 
cried. 

1839
01:51:19,440 --> 01:51:20,840
That's when I realized 
something. 

1840
01:51:21,000 --> 01:51:23,720
I had never resented her my 
entire life. 

1841
01:51:23,720 --> 01:51:26,480
I just wanted to embrace and 
reconcile with her. 

1842
01:51:26,840 --> 01:51:30,800
I just wanted to hug her for a 
very long time and cry as much 

1843
01:51:30,840 --> 01:51:33,120
as I wanted. 
And I was like, he just wanted 

1844
01:51:33,120 --> 01:51:35,760
his mom. 
And she was always like, I'm not

1845
01:51:35,760 --> 01:51:36,720
your mom. 
I'm your aunt. 

1846
01:51:36,720 --> 01:51:40,160
And I'm like, we're not going to
unpack this like this. 

1847
01:51:40,200 --> 01:51:41,760
You know what I'm saying? 
Like. 

1848
01:51:42,720 --> 01:51:45,200
She. 
Wanted it, but didn't want it. 

1849
01:51:45,200 --> 01:51:49,520
Yeah, well, so he's got, he's 
got time. 

1850
01:51:49,520 --> 01:51:52,080
He was. 
He's heartbreaking faggot. 

1851
01:51:52,080 --> 01:51:57,120
The next heartbreaking 70 years.
Anyway, I love the show and I'm 

1852
01:51:57,160 --> 01:52:01,040
so glad that both of you love 
the show and we're into doing 

1853
01:52:01,040 --> 01:52:05,160
this episode with me and 
covering, I think most of the 

1854
01:52:05,160 --> 01:52:08,120
storylines, if not, no, I think 
a couple of them were left off, 

1855
01:52:08,120 --> 01:52:10,200
but that's fine. 
We did pretty. 

1856
01:52:10,280 --> 01:52:11,880
Good. 
I think we did pretty good. 

1857
01:52:12,040 --> 01:52:14,800
Yeah, we did most of that. 
Two hours later, but. 

1858
01:52:15,240 --> 01:52:17,240
That's fine. 
Thanks, Lee. 

1859
01:52:17,240 --> 01:52:19,320
If listeners, if you're still 
listening, thanks for sticking 

1860
01:52:19,320 --> 01:52:20,960
it out man. 
We appreciate it. 

1861
01:52:21,520 --> 01:52:23,960
Do you guys? 
So real quick the storyline that

1862
01:52:23,960 --> 01:52:28,360
I hate, I've not hated, but that
I disliked the most was actually

1863
01:52:28,360 --> 01:52:31,800
the umjong and unis storyline. 
I thought that one was the 

1864
01:52:31,800 --> 01:52:34,320
weakest but I'm curious like 
which one did you guys like the 

1865
01:52:34,320 --> 01:52:37,480
least? 
So that one hit me like a ton of

1866
01:52:37,480 --> 01:52:41,840
bricks because I was the unni in
a relationship when I was 

1867
01:52:41,840 --> 01:52:47,160
growing up and I had a friend 
who looked like Pocahontas and 

1868
01:52:47,160 --> 01:52:53,920
she was the in the relationship 
and it it hit me like a ton of 

1869
01:52:53,920 --> 01:52:56,360
bricks. 
I I felt deeply for that 

1870
01:52:56,360 --> 01:52:58,160
relationship. 
So it's personal to you. 

1871
01:52:58,800 --> 01:53:02,160
Yeah, so I. 
I mean, it wasn't bad, but it 

1872
01:53:02,160 --> 01:53:04,280
yeah, it wasn't this, no. 
Compared to everything, you're 

1873
01:53:04,280 --> 01:53:06,800
kind of like, but yeah, it's 
deep. 

1874
01:53:06,800 --> 01:53:09,760
It was deep and it's real for 
for me, maybe for a lot of 

1875
01:53:09,760 --> 01:53:11,240
people. 
But yeah. 

1876
01:53:11,560 --> 01:53:15,600
So thank you guys again for 
coming on and for coming on for 

1877
01:53:15,600 --> 01:53:17,400
a really long time to talk about
this show. 

1878
01:53:17,440 --> 01:53:19,600
Thank you for having us. 
Before we get out of here, where

1879
01:53:19,600 --> 01:53:23,520
can we find you guys online? 
Probably Instagram is best for 

1880
01:53:23,520 --> 01:53:26,680
me at Infatuation podcast. 
You'll see updates there. 

1881
01:53:27,840 --> 01:53:31,840
And you can find us at Poach a 
Playlist across all of social 

1882
01:53:31,840 --> 01:53:35,240
media and anywhere that you like
to listen to your podcasts. 

1883
01:53:35,360 --> 01:53:37,880
Awesome. 
Well, that's been our show. 

1884
01:53:38,200 --> 01:53:41,480
I'm Jessica and this has been 
the Teba K Rambles podcast. 

1885
01:53:44,640 --> 01:53:50,880
And just take it off and nothing
without your love. 

1886
01:53:52,760 --> 01:53:56,920
I promise I'll never leave your 
love. 

1887
01:53:57,120 --> 01:54:00,520
My heart is beating because of 
you. 

1888
01:54:02,560 --> 01:54:10,680
Forever and ever and ever. 
Holy, you can't take my heart, 

1889
01:54:12,280 --> 01:54:19,440
dear. 
My love, love, love, I want a 

1890
01:54:19,480 --> 01:54:24,360
thing with you.
