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I'm Jessica and this is Tabaki 
Rambles where a couple of 

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friends review Korean dramas, 
except it's not two friends 

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today, it's a trio of friends. 
That's right, it is a drama trio

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episode. 
Today I am joined by Caitlin 

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from No sleeper dramas vlog and 
podcast and Liliana from T and 

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Soju podcast. 
How are you guys doing today? 

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Oh yeah, yeah. 
All good. 

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All good here. 
Yeah. 

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We had a double header today, 
this is our second. 

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Recording. 
Of the day. 

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So we've been here pretty much 
the whole day recording with 

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each other and we haven't gotten
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We are going to talk about the 
trunk today and I know that 

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Liliana watched it late last 
year when it aired and you 

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actually, I think you did an 
episode on it. 

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I. 
Did I did. 

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I purposely did not listen to 
your episode because I didn't 

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want to be spoiled on what you 
thought about it, so please 

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forgive me. 
I will be going and listening to

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it after we finish wrap this 
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And. 
If I'm to understand Caitlin, 

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you're maybe 10 minutes removed 
from finishing this show. 

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Yeah, I basically knew. 
I, I mean, we knew we were 

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reviewing this late in January. 
So I was like, I'm just going to

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wait until January to watch it. 
And then I ended up having to 

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binge it in the last two days, 
including 10 minutes ago. 

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Yeah, nice. 
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patrons on there as well. 
All right, we're going to get 

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into the non spoiler section of 
the trunk. 

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Are you guys ready? 
Yeah, Yes, I am. 

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Nice, the My Drama List synopsis
reads. 

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Angie works for a contract 
marriage provider in NM, 

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arranging one year marriages for
clients. 

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After completing her 4th 
contract, she meets Jung Wan, a 

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music producer for her 5th. 
Zhang Wan, still haunted by the 

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pain of his past and missing his
ex-wife Sol Yong, starts his 

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second marriage with Ng. 
As they grow closer, a 

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mysterious trunk is discovered 
in a lake, unraveling dark 

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secrets behind the NM company. 
This show is adapted from the 

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novel Trunk by Kim Ryeong, which
was first published in May 2015.

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It's about 10 years old. 
This show aired in its entirety 

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November 29th, 2024. 
It's 8 episodes long, directed 

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by Kim Kyute, a really prolific 
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So he's directed Worlds within 
Iris, Padam Padam, that winter 

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the wind blows. 
It's all right. 

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This is love, which we know all 
about Liliana because you 

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guessed it on that episode with 
me reviewing it. 

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He's also directed Moon Lover, 
Secret Heart Rio, which is a 

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huge show from 2016, which is 
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streaming pretty soon. 
Coming soon is the tag right now

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on that. 
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episode on the podcast feed for 
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The show is written by or 
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And I really didn't know who she
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And then I was like, oh, right, 
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Romance Full of Life, Housewife,
Detective, The Third Charm, and 

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I have not done my best yet. 
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that she had written the third 
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Then I was like, oh, that makes 
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The trunk and the third charm, I
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of sense. 
That really took a lot of people

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by surprise that show and was 
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expecting. 
It's a little shocking and yeah,

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is it a romance? 
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I don't know if you guys have 
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or the director's other work. 
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I don't think so for that 
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it? 
It's OK That's love. 

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Is that the one he directed? 
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And for the writer who are wrong
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let's not. 
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I think that's the only two 
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lists. 
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moon lovers. 
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I want to say I I mean I I iris,
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I can't remember if I've watched
padam padam. 

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I feel like I have, but I can't 
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I have to remember what it even 
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But anyway, so I've watched a 
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I have watched none of the 
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titles obviously. 
All right, this show stars Kong 

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Yu as Han Zhong Wan. 
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He is a prolific Kalu star in 
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looking damn fine. 
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yet everyone's smiling on this 
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Kim Jong, born 1982. 
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Age of Shadows, 2016, Train to 
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and a woman from 2016. 
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hand with this show. 
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Woman, I highly recommend it. 
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been in squid game season 2 the 
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Of course he's the goblin, the 
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Prince from O seven. 
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would expect when you look it 
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Jin. 
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You might have seen her in Why 
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You are my spring, The beauty 
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Doctor Romantic, another Miss O 
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So what? 
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Sohyunjin and Kongyu? 
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So for Gongye, we all know I 
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from that nothing. 
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cameos in Squid Gains 1 and that
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I had not watched him in 
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why I he does. 
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Like he's done a lot of older 
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go back to older dramas all the 
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So yeah, I know. 
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But look, guys, we're not going 
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As for like Soyo and Jin, she's 
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love, The beauty inside You are 
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I think her acting's fairly 
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projects, even if the drama 
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to appreciate her character and 
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She's one of those actresses 
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out for. 
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think I'll enjoy, I I'll tend to
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Now after watching the trunk, I 
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hype before it. 
I really did. 

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I really didn't get the Gong U 
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I was like, I know, I know, I 
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But to be fair, I hadn't really 
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and the only thing that I had 
partially watched was Goblin and

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that wasn't necessarily him. 
Like to me that's not a him 

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problem, it's a story problem. 
So agree to disagree, agree to 

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disagree. 
All right, all right. 

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I can't. 
I can't help it. 

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But apart from that, I get why 
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gong you now. 
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All right, Caitlin. 
For Gong You, I've pretty much 

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seen everything. 
Like I've seen most of his 

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movies. 
A lot of the movies that you 

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listed I've watched and I pretty
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drama he's done as well for the 
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yes. 
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like bounced around. 
I have not seen a lot of her 

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older dramas except for Beauty 
Inside but most mostly I watch 

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that because I love the movie so
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The movie in my opinion is 
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Which is way different I'm I 
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Right, Yeah, but I I've seen 
Beauty inside, I've seen You are

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May Spring and I've seen why 
her, but a lot of her older 

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dramas I I just have not. 
I did not watch. 

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They also were airing in a time 
I didn't have access to Korean 

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drama, so I didn't really go 
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OK, so between us, we are 
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careers, both of their careers, 
because I've seen a lot of 

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Kungu's movies, I've seen most 
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ones like Big and Biscuit, 
Teacher, Star Candy and all of 

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those. 
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I've also seen let's see two 
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love. 
And then I kind of dropped off 

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and didn't really see myself 
watching why her you're my 

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spraying or the beauty inside, 
mostly because the beauty inside

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the movie is so great. 
I'm like, I don't really see the

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need to watch the show and I see
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I love both of these actors and 
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maybe not Liliana coming into 
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this is a really great leading 
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There's something to be said 
about at least for Kong Yu, he's

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very choosy with his projects 
and he's at a stage in his 

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career where he doesn't have to 
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He just can exist, subsist on 
the CFS, you know, ads. 

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He can sell products and be 
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his money that way rather than 
starring in a show or a movie. 

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But that gives him the ability 
to be really choosy. 

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Every project that he does, 
there is something that he finds

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very unique about it. 
Whether the project is 

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successful or not. 
You know, there's something that

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he saw in it that he a message 
that he wants to convey that he 

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believes in. 
And so I want you to think about

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that when we go into the 
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which I don't feel is going to 
be a particularly long 

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discussion, mostly because I 
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I don't think Caitlin took any 
notes either. 

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But, you know, we'll see. 
What did you guys think of this 

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show? 
I don't know who wants to go 

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first, but. 
Let Caitlin go first 'cause he's

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got fresh mind. 
Caitlin. 

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I, I love this show. 
I think I liked it a lot more 

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than I thought I would. 
And ironically, I did not like 

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the parts I thought I would 
like. 

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I was expecting to like certain 
parts of this show because there

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was a lot of parts that I was 
like, oh, that's something up my

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alley that's speaking my 
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I'm definitely checking this 
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In hindsight though, I actually 
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I'm not giving anything right 
obviously right now, and I liked

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other parts more that I did not 
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So I mean, it wasn't like a 
perfect drama for me, but it was

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definitely something unique in 
my opinion and kind of went 

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against the grain of what I 
normally like and enjoy when I 

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get to the other side of 
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So it's kind of contradictory to
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to like, and the things that 
kept you engaged were things 

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that you didn't realize were 
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Yes. 
OK. 

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All right. 
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Do you want to say what those 
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Is that too spoilery? 
It's too spoilery. 

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I don't want to. 
Liliana. 

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I ended up really enjoying this 
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I have quibbles with it. 
There's a couple of things that 

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I, you know, I have a couple of,
I don't know, quibbles with it. 

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But overall I really, really 
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I almost feel like it's how to 
explain it. 

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It's almost like a combination 
of a Western show with a Korean 

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show mixed together and you kind
of taken the best parts of both 

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things and put it into this 
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That's kind of like what I felt 
and it kind of worked in and I 

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didn't think they would make it 
work, but they did. 

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I, you know, like I said, gonk 
you in. 

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This was great. 
I understood why people enjoy 

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him so much. 
Soya Jin was great in this. 

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The pacing was fairly good. 
I think they did a really good 

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job developing these characters 
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for 8 episodes. 
And I was like, see it can be 

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done. 
It can be done in eight 

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episodes. 
You can give us a full arc story

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and you know, with really good 
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So I think overall I really 
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I did have a couple of quibbles 
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I really liked it. 
Yeah, I would agree with you 

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both that I came into this 
thinking it was going to be a 

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romantic thriller. 
That's what was sold in the 

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trailer for it. 
That's what the marketing was 

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selling. 
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found, my quibbles have to do 
with the thriller part, because 

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honestly, I didn't give a shit 
about the thriller. 

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I think the best parts of the 
show happen very internally and 

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happen with the romance aspect 
of these two very flawed 

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individuals trying to work it 
out, trying to figure each other

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out and this mini healing 
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I thought this show was super 
stylish. 

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The cinematography was super 
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think on my story, when I 
finished watching, it was like I

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didn't see much K drama to this 
story, to the production of it. 

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It felt very western and I could
recast this whole show with 

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Western actors and it would be 
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bothered people. 
I think that was irking a lot of

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watchers that this was not a 
typical K drama in any sense of 

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the word. 
It was, like I said, very 

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stylish. 
It was a very introspective 

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drama. 
It's not average, it's not 

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fast-paced. 
It is very evenly paced within 

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the 8 episodes, but I wouldn't 
say that you know, you have 

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cliffhangers at the end of every
episode and things driving you 

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to watch the next episode. 
There were great depths of 

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emotion and fear throughout the 
show, and it's about two 

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traumatized and flawed and 
broken people inadvertently 

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finding a measure of comfort in 
each other and the courage to 

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heal and the courage to move 
forward instead of staying 

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stagnant. 
And I would say the older you 

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are, the more you'll get out of 
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I don't think that younger 
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onto in the show. 
I think this is for mature 

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audiences only. 
There is a deep. 

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Well of. 
Melancholia in this show and 

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this idea of like choking on 
your own memory, but thinking 

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that that's actually what's 
keeping you going, that that's 

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your oxygen tank versus what's 
holding you down and what's 

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drowning you. 
And that is really nuanced and 

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hard to understand if you 
haven't lived a lot of life, 

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sorry to say. 
It's about unhappy people. 

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It's about codependency. 
It's a bit of a darker 

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psychological drama. 
These characters are not going 

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to be easy to pinpoint. 
They're not black and white, and

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this is very soft and 
understated romance. 

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There's a lot of soft and 
innocent parts to them, but 

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there's also really dark and 
difficult aspects of them that 

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are unlikable. 
And I think a lot of people were

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off put by the sex scenes in 
this show. 

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A lot of people had complaints 
about the characterizations. 

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I mean, we can go into like the 
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complaint has to do with the 
police procedural and the 

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mystery aspect of the show, 
which didn't work at all for me.

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That was not why I was watching 
the show. 

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Yeah, that's what I I also 
disliked that part a lot, which 

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it was unexpected. 
That was the unexpected part is 

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I was assuming I was going to 
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And it wasn't even like my 
normal criticisms of like the 

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tropiness of how bad cops are 
written sometimes in crime Jamas

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or anything. 
But it was just you could take 

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all this out and it would still 
be a great drama. 

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You could take all this out for 
the most part and it would still

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be fine. 
It would still like this doesn't

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add anything to it at all and 
not even the purpose of why it 

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was in there in the 1st place 
really even added to the to the 

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drama in my opinion. 
So that that was the unexpected 

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part for me as I thought I would
like that part better than I 

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did. 
Yeah, because you're you're so 

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into crime and that's your bread
and butter and you're like our 

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expert in that genre. 
But I think also the reason why 

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is even if you did take those 
parts out, there was enough 

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thriller aspects to this that 
probably would have still 

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sustained me without because it 
was like a character thriller 

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than a plot thriller. 
And you can have thriller 

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elements to a drama without it 
having to do with murder or 

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anything like that. 
Yeah, I agree. 

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I agree that it was much more of
a character study than people 

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were expecting. 
I read this, I had a camera 

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froze a review or a summary, but
I think it was a review in Teen 

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Vogue. 
And this sentence, like really 

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brought it together for me. 
They said, adding A twist to the

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contract marriage trope, The 
Trunk tackles the plot device 

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from a film noir perspective. 
And I was like, that's what 

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people didn't like. 
That's what it is. 

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It's a film noir. 
People aren't used to seeing 

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noir in K drama. 
I think it was a little bit too 

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real for people almost because 
it's like it's very flawed 

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characters, isn't it? 
You can almost argue that they 

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are a little bit dislikable for 
the most of it part of the 

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drama, and I think people don't 
like that. 

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I think people were expecting, 
you know, a cohabitation fake 

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marriage trope, you know, they 
were going to fall in love and 

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everything that comes with it. 
And I actually prefer it much 

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better the way it was done 
because like you said, there is 

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a lot of nuances to it and there
is a lot of grown up stuff to 

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it. 
I am. 

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I would rather have a character 
growth and a character arc then,

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you know, have a stagnant 
character for the whole drama, 

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so to speak. 
And I think the way these two 

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actors work together and work to
show their characters really, 

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really worked for me. 
So yeah, I, I like both of you. 

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I also, I wasn't keen on the 
thriller aspect of it, the 

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police work aspect of it. 
I just didn't think it was 

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necessary. 
Like you said, it didn't add to 

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the drama. 
And you could have taken that 

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whole aspect. 
And actually, I feel like the 

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drama could be even better 
without it because it doesn't 

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add to the plots. 
So yeah. 

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I mean on the opposite end too, 
I also saw comments that people,

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and I won't spoil it, we can do 
it later, but like people also 

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didn't like the ending because 
some opinions I saw, right? 

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Like some opinions I saw were 
either it they didn't get the 

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ending they were expecting from 
what they got from the rest of 

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the show and it seemed like a 
cop out because they didn't know

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how to end it. 
Or along those same lines like 

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the ending didn't fit the rest 
of the story and what people 

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assumes the ending would be. 
And like because as Jess was 

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saying this isn't the typical K 
drama, it doesn't fit into the 

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norm of AK drama and people were
like well the ending does. 

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The ending is a classic K drama 
ending which is why I don't like

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it because it doesn't fit the 
rest of the show. 

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That's kind of the opinions I've
heard on the ending. 

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Other people I know loved it too
but like that's just some 

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commentary. 
I mean granted again I finished 

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this 10 minutes ago so it was 
like this is like 2 seconds of 

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Google. 
Search. 

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On an ending because I was 
really trying to remind myself 

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of something I noticed in the 
end, which I'll reveal the 

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spoiler thing but. 
Yeah, the online complaints 

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range, they just ranged. 
And I think the complaints were 

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not quite specific enough for me
to think the writing was 

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particularly bad. 
I think our quibbles are, I feel

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are going to be all the same, 
but they're going to be 

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specific, right? 
But the online things that I 

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were seeing was like, oh, Gong, 
you finally acting with someone 

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in his age group. 
And I'm like, whoa, whoa, whoa, 

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whoa. 
Bitching about age gaps again. 

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Someone else again, people who 
haven't watched Kong Yu in other

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things, likely his movies where 
he is butt naked with people. 

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Someone said I didn't know 
grandpa had it in him. 

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Oh God. 
Which is like 1. 

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Of the best kissers in the game,
people, one of the. 40 What do 

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you mean? 
You wish you look that good at 

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40. 40. 
You wish you look like that at 

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40. 
I was. 

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Living living. 
Look, even before I watched this

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and was like, I actually do 
appreciate his work and I really

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liked this role. 
I have eyes. 

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I could look at him and be like,
he's a fine man. 

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What do you mean I don't 
understand people? 

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I don't understand. 
Someone else said that one 

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really sent me. 
I had to like take a break from 

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social media after I read that 
one that I didn't know grandpa 

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had it in him because put some 
fucking respect on Khongyu's 

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name. 
First, second and third. 

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OK. 
The other thing that I read was 

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thinly developed characters. 
I see confusion running through 

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here. 
I do not I do not agree with 

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that. 
I. 

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Absolutely 100% disagree with 
that statement. 

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Were we watching the same show 
here? 

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Like that Is one of the best 
things about this show is the 

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character development? 
What do you mean? 

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Now, there were some things I 
will say. 

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There's some things I wish they 
had developed more, which we can

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get into. 
But I wouldn't say it's like 

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thinly develop. 
Not even like not one of these 

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characters are thinly developed.
Like, it's not like Gongu's 

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characters, like has a whole 
back story and everybody else is

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just like right here on the same
plane or whatever. 

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I Yeah. 
They said nobody had a clear 

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want. 
Nobody had a clear. 

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Why? 
Again, vastly. 

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Disagree. 
Disagree. 

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I mean, did this person watch 
this show? 

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Someone else, I won't say who it
is, someone said one of the 

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worst K dramas I've ever seen in
my life. 

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She could, whoever it is, 
clearly did watch the police. 

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I was going to say, I was going 
to throw back at Jess and say 

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clearly they. 
Haven't watched them. 

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I was going to say, clearly they
haven't watched The Bride of 

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Habec. 
Bride of Habec and. 

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Then the last thing that I had, 
not a Dirk hole, I paraphrased 

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that the romance was 
overshadowed by their exes and 

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their past traumas. 
I would say that is what made 

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the romance and the progression 
of their courtship, if you can 

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even call it that, was their 
exes. 

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I'm sorry. 
And their past like that thing 

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is too. 
If if you wanted the ending that

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they gave at the end, you needed
to get through that first. 

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Like they needed to come to 
terms with their trauma and or 

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like figure out the secrets that
were going to be revealed in 

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this plot in order to get to the
ending. 

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That was the ending. 
I think these people were just 

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going into this thinking it was 
going to be a romance. 

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I really think people just like.
A straightforward romance. 

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Yeah, like what normal everybody
seems to do is like, they go to 

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drama, right? 
Where did they get that idea? 

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But like. 
The trailers and the posters did

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not give room. 
Like for once, actually for once

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I will stand up and be like, 
look, it didn't give that vibe 

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to me. 
It did not give me like full out

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romance vibe with what they were
putting out. 

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So I don't know what they were 
talking to you. 

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I don't know. 
We all know there's people out 

449
00:28:30,360 --> 00:28:33,560
there who just click play and be
like it's a romance, it's going 

450
00:28:33,560 --> 00:28:36,320
to be a romance and then they 
get mad when there's no romance.

451
00:28:36,320 --> 00:28:38,040
Like I see that countless times 
and crowd. 

452
00:28:38,040 --> 00:28:39,960
But there was like romance in 
this. 

453
00:28:40,000 --> 00:28:44,400
I know but like ROM com when I 
say romance they like they want 

454
00:28:44,560 --> 00:28:49,480
straight up ROM com. 
No darkness romance all the 

455
00:28:49,520 --> 00:28:50,960
time. 
I. 

456
00:28:50,960 --> 00:28:53,840
Think that's what people wanted 
it and yeah. 

457
00:28:54,320 --> 00:28:55,160
I agree with. 
You. 

458
00:28:55,640 --> 00:28:59,080
Yeah, I agree with you, Liliana.
This trailer and these posters 

459
00:28:59,080 --> 00:29:03,840
did not give that whatsoever. 
And maybe people didn't watch 

460
00:29:03,840 --> 00:29:04,960
the trailer. 
Maybe. 

461
00:29:04,960 --> 00:29:07,720
Maybe there are people who don't
watch trailers. 

462
00:29:08,320 --> 00:29:11,200
Fine, you don't watch the 
trailer, but you start at the 

463
00:29:11,200 --> 00:29:15,160
beginning of episode 1 and 
there's literally a dead body 

464
00:29:15,160 --> 00:29:17,320
and a shot. 
What do you expect you're going 

465
00:29:17,320 --> 00:29:21,840
to get like? 
I can't believe we're on the 

466
00:29:21,840 --> 00:29:26,680
same page about this. 
I thought one person would be on

467
00:29:26,800 --> 00:29:30,320
the defense or on the offense 
here, but like we're all on the 

468
00:29:30,320 --> 00:29:32,320
same page. 
I want to reiterate to 

469
00:29:32,320 --> 00:29:37,440
listeners, we did not discuss at
all the trunk for the last two 

470
00:29:37,440 --> 00:29:40,640
months. 
We have not discussed the trunk.

471
00:29:40,840 --> 00:29:44,200
We did not talk about it. 
Caitlin just finished it. 

472
00:29:44,320 --> 00:29:48,720
So it's incredible that we're 
all coming at this and we have 

473
00:29:48,720 --> 00:29:52,040
very similar thoughts. 
Again, if you've listened to 

474
00:29:52,040 --> 00:29:56,200
Drama Trio, we have very 
different taste in drama 

475
00:29:56,200 --> 00:29:59,680
sometimes and I'm just glad 
we're here. 

476
00:29:59,760 --> 00:30:03,600
I'm so glad we're here to talk 
about this because this, as you 

477
00:30:03,600 --> 00:30:06,280
can see, was a very divisive 
show. 

478
00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:10,560
Mixed bag. 
I wanted to talk really fast 

479
00:30:10,560 --> 00:30:15,440
about the book because a few 
people in our circle did buy the

480
00:30:15,440 --> 00:30:18,080
book and read it, read the 
translation of it. 

481
00:30:19,040 --> 00:30:22,600
And one of those people was Naz 
from the Soon Diaries podcast, 

482
00:30:22,680 --> 00:30:26,680
and she posted about it and I 
did talk to her about it, and 

483
00:30:26,840 --> 00:30:31,280
Naz hated the book. 
She thought it was awful. 

484
00:30:31,880 --> 00:30:36,400
This is a quote from her story, 
her Instagram story in December 

485
00:30:36,480 --> 00:30:39,480
of 2024. 
She said it's completely 

486
00:30:39,480 --> 00:30:42,520
different from the show. 
I now understand why the show 

487
00:30:42,520 --> 00:30:45,640
had to take so many liberties 
because absolutely nothing 

488
00:30:45,640 --> 00:30:48,840
happened in this book. 
I'm truly baffled. 

489
00:30:49,480 --> 00:30:53,600
So if you'd like to talk to 
somebody who did read the book 

490
00:30:54,080 --> 00:30:57,400
and saw the show, definitely 
reach out to Naz from Swoon 

491
00:30:57,400 --> 00:30:59,920
Diaries pod. 
I'm sure she's more than willing

492
00:30:59,920 --> 00:31:04,160
to talk about this show and the 
differences between the source 

493
00:31:04,160 --> 00:31:07,360
material and the show. 
We're not going to be talking 

494
00:31:07,360 --> 00:31:10,360
about the differences. 
What I want to point out mostly 

495
00:31:10,920 --> 00:31:18,360
is that the book seems to be 
also divisive, and a lot of 

496
00:31:18,360 --> 00:31:22,200
liberties were taken right. 
What we got in the show is 

497
00:31:22,520 --> 00:31:26,760
loosely based on what the book 
had going in, if that makes any 

498
00:31:26,760 --> 00:31:30,360
sense. 
We got a different thing than 

499
00:31:30,360 --> 00:31:33,960
the book. 
With that being said, we're 

500
00:31:33,960 --> 00:31:37,560
going to spoil the trunk. 
Get into more specifics about it

501
00:31:38,000 --> 00:31:42,560
right after this. 
Excuse me, I can't, you know. 

502
00:31:42,680 --> 00:31:48,800
I have no tingle. 
Oh, sorry, swear. 

503
00:31:49,120 --> 00:31:51,080
Discussing shirts? 
What? 

504
00:31:54,200 --> 00:31:56,080
All right, we're on the other 
side of spoilers. 

505
00:31:56,160 --> 00:31:59,160
During the break we were talking
at length about how insulting 

506
00:31:59,160 --> 00:32:05,720
people were to Cong you and how 
they just don't understand age 

507
00:32:06,200 --> 00:32:12,920
and how time works, and he was 
just so rude of them to say that

508
00:32:13,040 --> 00:32:15,880
about Kung Yu. 
Well, I think also too. 

509
00:32:15,880 --> 00:32:20,000
I mean, you said it earlier, 
Gong Yu is very picky about his 

510
00:32:20,000 --> 00:32:22,760
dramas. 
So there's years he doesn't have

511
00:32:22,760 --> 00:32:25,600
a drama come out. 
And as you've said, people don't

512
00:32:25,600 --> 00:32:29,840
watch movies like they, they, 
they he's a movie, he's a movie 

513
00:32:29,840 --> 00:32:32,560
actor. 
So I think a lot of people do to

514
00:32:32,560 --> 00:32:36,360
K dramas becoming more popular 
over the next last five years or

515
00:32:36,360 --> 00:32:39,360
so. 
There weren't a lot of dramas 

516
00:32:39,960 --> 00:32:43,640
with people of a, of actors and 
actresses of a certain age 

517
00:32:44,400 --> 00:32:47,920
coming out becoming popular. 
I think we've seen a resurgence 

518
00:32:47,920 --> 00:32:49,400
of that. 
But like a lot of these older 

519
00:32:49,400 --> 00:32:53,440
actors and actresses were 
famous, famous in quotes like I,

520
00:32:53,440 --> 00:32:57,360
I assume, I think they're still 
famous, but like their heyday 

521
00:32:57,920 --> 00:33:00,000
was when they're younger. 
And a lot of these newer 

522
00:33:00,040 --> 00:33:06,080
watchers have not gone back and 
watched those and seen these 

523
00:33:06,080 --> 00:33:09,760
when these actors and actresses 
when they were in their 20s and 

524
00:33:09,760 --> 00:33:13,400
30s. 
And so I think there comes a 

525
00:33:13,400 --> 00:33:18,160
they kind of avoid them now 
because they are older. 

526
00:33:18,160 --> 00:33:21,240
They're like, I'm not going to 
like that type of drama because 

527
00:33:21,240 --> 00:33:24,160
the actors are all older too. 
I think there's a, it's AI think

528
00:33:24,160 --> 00:33:27,600
it's a combination of a bunch of
stuff, but I think part of it is

529
00:33:27,600 --> 00:33:31,400
the type of actor or type of 
watchers that are watching them 

530
00:33:31,400 --> 00:33:35,120
nowadays with what the dramas 
have been coming out in the last

531
00:33:35,120 --> 00:33:37,960
five years or so. 
Because even with like Squid 

532
00:33:37,960 --> 00:33:41,600
Game like Squid Game season 1, 
Gongyu had a very small. 

533
00:33:41,600 --> 00:33:43,000
Role Oh yeah, it's. 
Done. 

534
00:33:43,000 --> 00:33:46,600
I, I hear, I hear in like season
2, it's a little bigger role. 

535
00:33:46,600 --> 00:33:49,360
I haven't seen season 2 yet, but
like I've heard it's a bigger 

536
00:33:49,360 --> 00:33:54,400
role and he did get recognition.
He did get recognition more for 

537
00:33:54,400 --> 00:33:56,480
season 2. 
I saw a lot more people talking 

538
00:33:56,480 --> 00:33:59,960
about him per season 2 versus 
season 1. 

539
00:34:00,280 --> 00:34:04,240
All right, so we're going to get
into the trunk and we're going 

540
00:34:04,240 --> 00:34:06,520
to settle down into a little 
rhythm here. 

541
00:34:06,520 --> 00:34:10,040
We're going to talk about it. 
Caitlin, did you have anything 

542
00:34:10,040 --> 00:34:13,040
you wanted to start us off with 
since you are the freshest on 

543
00:34:13,040 --> 00:34:16,679
this? 
Yeah, I'll start off with 

544
00:34:16,679 --> 00:34:18,800
something a little comedic 
because it's going to be really 

545
00:34:18,800 --> 00:34:22,920
quick, but I was not expecting 
the cameo right out of the gate 

546
00:34:23,440 --> 00:34:29,120
in episode 1 of Jung Kung Ho. 
I like, was not expecting it 

547
00:34:29,199 --> 00:34:32,560
whatsoever. 
And then they all of a sudden 

548
00:34:32,719 --> 00:34:35,639
came out with that. 
And then I want to say. 

549
00:34:35,679 --> 00:34:38,400
Wait, there was also a second 
cameo, which you wouldn't know 

550
00:34:38,400 --> 00:34:43,880
it unless you looked up the cast
list, but the other husband that

551
00:34:43,880 --> 00:34:48,080
was on his deathbed and he was 
thanking her, all hooked up to 

552
00:34:48,520 --> 00:34:52,840
the machines and stuff. 
That was also somebody that was 

553
00:34:52,840 --> 00:34:54,560
a male lead from The Greatest 
Love. 

554
00:34:54,600 --> 00:34:58,960
You know that guy? 
Wow, yes. 

555
00:34:58,960 --> 00:35:00,840
I don't remember his name, but I
do. 

556
00:35:00,920 --> 00:35:02,640
I do know who you're talking 
about. 

557
00:35:02,640 --> 00:35:06,440
Oh. 
My God, hold on, Chasung 1. 

558
00:35:07,280 --> 00:35:13,000
Chasung, One who is also a star 
of yesteryear, who audiences 

559
00:35:13,000 --> 00:35:17,960
would recognize in Korea, but 
he's all covered up and you 

560
00:35:17,960 --> 00:35:20,040
would only know it if you looked
at the credits. 

561
00:35:20,040 --> 00:35:24,400
But two cameos. 
All right, So the only notes 

562
00:35:24,400 --> 00:35:28,720
that I have are that the female 
lead shows up at his house with 

563
00:35:28,720 --> 00:35:34,760
her trunk, her own emotional 
baggage, so to speak, and she 

564
00:35:34,760 --> 00:35:37,560
immediately strips down naked 
and takes a shower in his 

565
00:35:37,560 --> 00:35:40,360
shower, which is really shocking
and weird. 

566
00:35:41,280 --> 00:35:43,360
I thought that was very 
invasive. 

567
00:35:43,560 --> 00:35:47,960
I don't know if you guys had any
thoughts about her method and 

568
00:35:47,960 --> 00:35:52,520
how she just sort of walks 
around and inspects the house 

569
00:35:52,520 --> 00:35:55,520
and opens all the closets and 
sees the other trunk in his 

570
00:35:55,520 --> 00:35:57,920
closet. 
And you can tell that she's just

571
00:35:57,920 --> 00:36:01,800
rifling through his life and 
inserting herself. 

572
00:36:01,920 --> 00:36:07,080
And you can see that she is 
working him out, figuring him 

573
00:36:07,080 --> 00:36:11,000
out. 
And also it's figurative, right?

574
00:36:11,000 --> 00:36:13,280
Like she's also doing that 
literally, but she's doing that 

575
00:36:13,280 --> 00:36:19,160
figuratively in his life. 
And this is a little violating. 

576
00:36:20,000 --> 00:36:24,560
I think to me that scene was 
almost like, yes, it was 

577
00:36:24,560 --> 00:36:29,640
invasive, but it's almost like 
her shedding her outside clothes

578
00:36:29,640 --> 00:36:33,280
and kind of almost stepping into
the character of his wife, if 

579
00:36:33,280 --> 00:36:35,720
that makes sense. 
That's what, yeah, that's what I

580
00:36:35,720 --> 00:36:40,480
was going to say too. 
She's like going in, assessing 

581
00:36:40,480 --> 00:36:43,320
the situation, so to speak, so. 
I love that word. 

582
00:36:43,600 --> 00:36:49,880
Step into the role of wife, she 
is like almost evaluating what 

583
00:36:49,880 --> 00:36:54,920
does this role require of me? 
What is he going to require of 

584
00:36:54,920 --> 00:37:00,520
me, so to speak. 
So I think that was a really in 

585
00:37:00,520 --> 00:37:03,160
your face way of doing it 
almost. 

586
00:37:03,160 --> 00:37:08,840
But I, I liked how it was done 
because if you are watching this

587
00:37:08,840 --> 00:37:12,960
and you weren't watching it 
with, you know, I don't know, a 

588
00:37:12,960 --> 00:37:16,960
deeper look or whatever, it can 
just look like she's getting 

589
00:37:16,960 --> 00:37:19,120
there and getting very 
comfortable and going for a 

590
00:37:19,120 --> 00:37:21,800
shower. 
But it's so much more than that,

591
00:37:21,800 --> 00:37:24,160
I think. 
And this show is actually really

592
00:37:24,160 --> 00:37:27,840
good at doing this sort of stuff
where on the surface it seems 

593
00:37:27,840 --> 00:37:33,080
like something, but if you dig, 
it's got a lot of more baggage 

594
00:37:33,080 --> 00:37:37,120
for you to unpack. 
And I I really like that aspect 

595
00:37:37,120 --> 00:37:40,040
of it. 
So compare that with the other 

596
00:37:40,040 --> 00:37:44,400
wife, the ex-wife who I have in 
my notes, she is an emotional 

597
00:37:44,400 --> 00:37:45,320
terrorist. 
She. 

598
00:37:46,120 --> 00:37:49,600
Needs therapy. 
Yeah, yeah, the woman needs some

599
00:37:49,600 --> 00:37:52,720
serious therapy. 
That's basically all I have for 

600
00:37:52,720 --> 00:37:54,760
her. 
So she's an emotional terrorist?

601
00:37:56,640 --> 00:37:59,240
I think some people almost 
commented that she's like a 

602
00:37:59,240 --> 00:38:05,960
sociopath or something because 
everything needs to be her 

603
00:38:06,160 --> 00:38:10,520
control and everything needs to 
be for her and what not. 

604
00:38:10,520 --> 00:38:14,920
And she is actually one of my 
quibbles with this show. 

605
00:38:14,920 --> 00:38:15,520
Her character. 
Oh. 

606
00:38:15,520 --> 00:38:18,600
Yeah, go for it, one. 
Of my quibbles, so it's not 

607
00:38:18,600 --> 00:38:22,000
necessarily throughout the show 
because I actually really 

608
00:38:22,000 --> 00:38:26,000
enjoyed the seeing Gongu's 
character like a break away from

609
00:38:26,000 --> 00:38:30,240
her and it starts happening very
quickly because I think it's 

610
00:38:30,240 --> 00:38:34,520
like episode 2 or something or 
episode 2 or 3. 

611
00:38:34,520 --> 00:38:38,640
It's like the smallest detail, 
but our female lead, she hurts 

612
00:38:38,640 --> 00:38:43,440
herself and he takes her to the 
hospital and he gong you gets a 

613
00:38:43,440 --> 00:38:47,400
call from his ex-wife and he's 
like, I'm really sorry I can't 

614
00:38:47,400 --> 00:38:49,840
talk right now. 
And he puts the phone down and 

615
00:38:49,840 --> 00:38:53,160
it's like it's the smallest 
thing. 

616
00:38:53,480 --> 00:38:57,880
But it's something that before, 
you know, in G came in. 

617
00:38:57,920 --> 00:39:02,640
He wouldn't have done that. 
So I actually really liked 

618
00:39:02,800 --> 00:39:06,920
having such a horrible 
character, her in a sense as the

619
00:39:06,920 --> 00:39:11,360
ex-wife, because watching him 
break away from that was really 

620
00:39:11,360 --> 00:39:15,760
satisfying for me. 
But my quibble is horrending. 

621
00:39:15,880 --> 00:39:22,080
I didn't like it. 
I didn't like how her character 

622
00:39:22,080 --> 00:39:26,120
was just like, yeah, I know I'm 
bad and I'm dealing like I I'm 

623
00:39:26,120 --> 00:39:28,240
going to be that way and I'm 
dealing with it. 

624
00:39:28,560 --> 00:39:33,720
And it's kind of like, yeah, I 
needed a little bit more from. 

625
00:39:35,080 --> 00:39:37,920
Yeah, I saw, I saw that complete
too, just from a couple of 

626
00:39:37,920 --> 00:39:42,080
people that she didn't deserve 
her redemptive arc. 

627
00:39:42,400 --> 00:39:44,760
See I didn't really see it as 
redemptive arc. 

628
00:39:45,200 --> 00:39:47,160
Exactly. 
I don't think she even got one. 

629
00:39:47,440 --> 00:39:50,160
Yeah, that much. 
I mean, I think like she when 

630
00:39:50,160 --> 00:39:54,000
she got rejected and knew she 
couldn't get back with Gong Yu, 

631
00:39:54,960 --> 00:39:59,680
she tried to get back with the 
other dude and he ended it too. 

632
00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:04,320
And then at the very end. 
She was like, I'm going to help 

633
00:40:04,320 --> 00:40:08,800
this dude through his trial and 
get him a lawyer and then we'll 

634
00:40:08,800 --> 00:40:11,800
see what happens. 
Like, I I don't think she 

635
00:40:11,800 --> 00:40:14,720
learned anything. 
I think she wanted the other guy

636
00:40:14,720 --> 00:40:17,080
because she can control him 
again. 

637
00:40:17,080 --> 00:40:20,240
She can. 
He has to do whatever she wanted

638
00:40:20,240 --> 00:40:25,120
to do because of the contract. 
So I yeah, I don't, I don't see 

639
00:40:25,120 --> 00:40:26,400
her. 
I didn't see her having 

640
00:40:26,400 --> 00:40:30,120
redemptive arc whatsoever. 
Yeah, I think because there were

641
00:40:30,120 --> 00:40:34,400
very few consequences for her, 
people thought, oh, redemptive 

642
00:40:34,400 --> 00:40:36,320
arc. 
Yeah, yeah. 

643
00:40:36,640 --> 00:40:40,600
But I don't think she, I mean 
what she got was nobody under 

644
00:40:40,600 --> 00:40:45,040
her thumb, nobody was within her
grasp or control. 

645
00:40:45,520 --> 00:40:49,280
And that is torture for a 
narcissist. 

646
00:40:49,680 --> 00:40:51,440
Right. 
Yeah, absolutely. 

647
00:40:51,640 --> 00:40:54,160
Yeah. 
So yeah, I don't know. 

648
00:40:54,160 --> 00:41:00,320
I, I think she got some a very 
sliver of punishment there where

649
00:41:00,320 --> 00:41:04,000
she basically pushed everyone 
away due to her own antics and 

650
00:41:04,480 --> 00:41:06,680
now she has nobody left to 
control. 

651
00:41:06,760 --> 00:41:10,840
She's just grasping at straws 
and trying to help this guy with

652
00:41:10,840 --> 00:41:14,960
his murder trial. 
But you know, it is what it is. 

653
00:41:15,680 --> 00:41:23,280
She I think I had someone 
question me about the baby and 

654
00:41:23,680 --> 00:41:27,080
the chain of events of the baby.
Yeah. 

655
00:41:27,720 --> 00:41:31,040
So I didn't really think it 
through. 

656
00:41:31,040 --> 00:41:34,480
I mean, I did think it through, 
but I didn't really put a lot of

657
00:41:34,480 --> 00:41:36,120
thought into it, if that makes 
any sense. 

658
00:41:37,600 --> 00:41:41,600
She obviously her and Kong, you 
were going to have a child. 

659
00:41:41,600 --> 00:41:44,840
She was pregnant. 
I think she was somehow in her 

660
00:41:44,840 --> 00:41:47,120
last trimester or something like
that. 

661
00:41:47,640 --> 00:41:52,880
And there was a like a cutaway 
scene of her on the toilet 

662
00:41:52,880 --> 00:41:55,800
struggling. 
I thought it was she was having 

663
00:41:55,800 --> 00:42:01,000
a miscarriage. 
So what I I didn't get that from

664
00:42:01,320 --> 00:42:06,360
the story. 
What I thought was because she 

665
00:42:06,360 --> 00:42:08,640
gets run over while she's 
pregnant. 

666
00:42:09,640 --> 00:42:12,440
Oh no, she doesn't get run over.
She. 

667
00:42:12,440 --> 00:42:15,320
Steps, Yeah, sorry, she steps, 
she steps. 

668
00:42:15,320 --> 00:42:19,000
And I think that would have been
actually something that I would 

669
00:42:19,320 --> 00:42:22,320
like them to explore the little 
bit in her character, because 

670
00:42:22,320 --> 00:42:26,760
they do talk about depression 
and whether she does that for 

671
00:42:26,760 --> 00:42:30,640
attention or not, or whether 
she's depressed in that moment 

672
00:42:30,640 --> 00:42:34,360
because she's losing everything 
and she doesn't want to be a mom

673
00:42:34,360 --> 00:42:37,920
and she's now figuring out that 
she's going to have this baby. 

674
00:42:38,000 --> 00:42:41,000
Yeah, that was something that I 
wanted to pick at more, 

675
00:42:41,080 --> 00:42:46,080
definitely. 
Was her psyche there and how was

676
00:42:46,080 --> 00:42:52,600
it because she was afraid of 
losing her power and identity as

677
00:42:52,760 --> 00:42:57,480
a woman in her control over Kong
you, who really did want to be a

678
00:42:57,480 --> 00:43:00,840
father and was happy that she 
was pregnant and was looking 

679
00:43:00,840 --> 00:43:05,560
forward to the baby. 
And she was like, I've never 

680
00:43:05,560 --> 00:43:08,160
wanted to be a mother. 
I've never thought about this. 

681
00:43:08,160 --> 00:43:11,920
I hate being pregnant, so on and
so forth. 

682
00:43:12,520 --> 00:43:15,960
I truly think she was having a 
miscarriage and then she was 

683
00:43:15,960 --> 00:43:20,880
already kind of hating the idea 
of having a baby, and then she 

684
00:43:20,880 --> 00:43:27,600
just hastened it along, stepped 
in front of the car to, I think,

685
00:43:27,600 --> 00:43:31,440
just kill herself because, like,
yeah, she was deeply unhappy. 

686
00:43:31,440 --> 00:43:34,360
It could have been, I don't 
know, hormones. 

687
00:43:34,360 --> 00:43:36,000
Pregnancy does weird things to 
women. 

688
00:43:36,000 --> 00:43:37,160
I'm just saying. 
It does. 

689
00:43:37,560 --> 00:43:43,080
It does, sorry, it does, and she
survives. 

690
00:43:43,080 --> 00:43:47,360
But there's that dilemma where 
they asked the father, Kong, 

691
00:43:47,360 --> 00:43:52,240
you, what do you want to do? 
Save her or save the baby? 

692
00:43:52,480 --> 00:43:56,920
We can only save one. 
And he says save the baby. 

693
00:43:57,440 --> 00:43:59,760
I don't whatever you do, save 
the baby. 

694
00:44:00,480 --> 00:44:06,880
She overhears this and it does 
horrible things to her mind. 

695
00:44:06,880 --> 00:44:12,320
And heart, actually, that whole 
segment is a very interesting 

696
00:44:12,320 --> 00:44:17,520
segment because who do you save 
in a situation like that? 

697
00:44:17,520 --> 00:44:21,400
There's couples that would argue
save the mother. 

698
00:44:21,560 --> 00:44:24,560
We can try for another baby. 
You know, there's stuff like 

699
00:44:24,560 --> 00:44:27,520
that. 
There's couples that would argue

700
00:44:27,760 --> 00:44:32,880
save the baby, but then you're 
not only a widowed father, but 

701
00:44:32,880 --> 00:44:36,680
you're also having to raise a 
newborn by yourself with, you 

702
00:44:36,680 --> 00:44:39,920
know, no experience. 
And I think that that was a 

703
00:44:39,920 --> 00:44:46,360
really interesting point that we
can understand where Gongu's 

704
00:44:46,360 --> 00:44:50,800
character is coming from. 
But for a character like his 

705
00:44:50,800 --> 00:44:55,920
ex-wife, for somebody else that 
isn't even born to be chosen 

706
00:44:55,920 --> 00:45:00,880
over her from, you know, the 
husband that she thought was 

707
00:45:00,880 --> 00:45:05,600
under her thumb completely, that
must have I. 

708
00:45:06,320 --> 00:45:08,120
Think. 
It broke her. 

709
00:45:08,440 --> 00:45:10,560
Because. 
She was already, yeah, she was 

710
00:45:10,560 --> 00:45:13,680
already unwell. 
And then that on top of it for 

711
00:45:13,680 --> 00:45:16,160
something that was so unwanted 
from her. 

712
00:45:16,560 --> 00:45:20,240
Yeah, that that would have 
broken her, I think. 

713
00:45:20,400 --> 00:45:29,080
Now, I don't know the laws or 
anything in Korea about should 

714
00:45:29,080 --> 00:45:34,640
they just have asked the mother 
if if she's lucid and she's 

715
00:45:34,640 --> 00:45:38,760
there, just ask her. 
She's a steward of her own 

716
00:45:38,760 --> 00:45:42,800
healthcare. 
Do you want us to save the baby 

717
00:45:42,800 --> 00:45:46,440
or not? 
I'm not sure if the husband 

718
00:45:46,440 --> 00:45:48,680
would be the one to make that 
decision. 

719
00:45:48,680 --> 00:45:51,120
I don't know. 
That seems like AK drama ISM. 

720
00:45:51,120 --> 00:45:56,400
But barring that, yeah, that is 
of conundrum that nobody wants 

721
00:45:56,400 --> 00:46:01,320
to answer. 
And the movie and the book are 

722
00:46:01,320 --> 00:46:07,080
both touted as being feminist. 
With that label in mind, what 

723
00:46:07,080 --> 00:46:08,920
how do you feel about her 
character? 

724
00:46:10,440 --> 00:46:15,440
The ex-wife I see, I kind of 
like, there's one specific scene

725
00:46:15,440 --> 00:46:17,640
that I'm thinking about and you 
guys will know straight away 

726
00:46:17,640 --> 00:46:21,360
what scene it is that had a lot 
of people up in arms. 

727
00:46:21,360 --> 00:46:26,640
And it's the scene where her 
current husband is showering and

728
00:46:26,640 --> 00:46:31,240
she comes in and kind of like is
oogling him and whatnot. 

729
00:46:31,440 --> 00:46:34,440
And a lot of people had a lot of
trouble with that scene 

730
00:46:34,480 --> 00:46:39,640
specifically because they 
thought it was done in poor 

731
00:46:39,640 --> 00:46:42,720
taste. 
And, you know, it wasn't 

732
00:46:42,720 --> 00:46:45,800
necessary. 
But I'm like, do you know what 

733
00:46:45,800 --> 00:46:50,400
that kind of like is woman 
forward, so to speak? 

734
00:46:50,640 --> 00:46:55,800
I don't understand why it was 
such badly received because I'm 

735
00:46:55,800 --> 00:46:59,560
like, why can't a woman do that?
Why? 

736
00:46:59,720 --> 00:47:02,280
If it was a man in that 
situation, you probably wouldn't

737
00:47:02,280 --> 00:47:07,000
have argued so much. 
Like why is there why are we 

738
00:47:07,000 --> 00:47:10,480
standing on here and saying, oh,
that was done important. 

739
00:47:10,480 --> 00:47:13,160
No, it wasn't. 
She was looking at a fine man. 

740
00:47:13,160 --> 00:47:15,560
What do you want? 
Like what do you expect? 

741
00:47:15,560 --> 00:47:21,400
I was supposedly my husband that
she's, you know, having lots of 

742
00:47:21,400 --> 00:47:24,200
sex with like what do you 
expect? 

743
00:47:24,840 --> 00:47:27,640
Yes. 
But I think also it, I think it 

744
00:47:27,640 --> 00:47:32,160
also played into her character. 
It wasn't just a woman. 

745
00:47:32,160 --> 00:47:37,040
It wasn't just a woman looking 
at a nice looking man. 

746
00:47:37,440 --> 00:47:44,120
It was a power play. 
It was her being like, I have a 

747
00:47:44,120 --> 00:47:47,080
contract with you, you have to 
do whatever I say. 

748
00:47:48,400 --> 00:47:52,120
And so that means I can you 
can't come over here, you can't 

749
00:47:52,120 --> 00:47:55,600
touch me, but I can look at you 
all I want. 

750
00:47:55,920 --> 00:47:59,800
And I mean, I think that fit her
character to AT like she would. 

751
00:47:59,800 --> 00:48:03,160
It would definitely be something
her character would do. 

752
00:48:03,400 --> 00:48:10,320
Yeah, the sex scenes as well as 
the denial of sex is all part of

753
00:48:10,320 --> 00:48:13,200
her character, and I feel like 
it's very feminist, if that 

754
00:48:13,200 --> 00:48:15,440
makes any sense. 
Like, yeah, why not? 

755
00:48:16,160 --> 00:48:18,200
Why not? 
Why can't you say no? 

756
00:48:18,520 --> 00:48:19,920
It's her body. 
It's her. 

757
00:48:19,920 --> 00:48:23,200
Yeah, like enough said, It's her
body, so. 

758
00:48:24,000 --> 00:48:26,520
Why can't you say no? 
And why can't you do it on the 

759
00:48:26,520 --> 00:48:29,920
couch if you want? 
And The thing is, they are in a 

760
00:48:30,000 --> 00:48:34,360
contract relation, literally a 
contract relationship, and it 

761
00:48:34,360 --> 00:48:39,640
stipulates that she can do 
whatever the heck she wants, so 

762
00:48:39,720 --> 00:48:42,600
she's paying for it, so. 
Yeah. 

763
00:48:42,600 --> 00:48:44,320
So there was, there's a couple 
of things. 

764
00:48:44,320 --> 00:48:48,480
This leads into a couple of 
questions, which is, one, 

765
00:48:48,560 --> 00:48:52,520
thoughts on the sex scenes. 2 
Was it gratuitous? 

766
00:48:52,520 --> 00:48:55,960
Which the overwhelming sense 
that I got online was yes. 

767
00:48:55,960 --> 00:48:58,120
People thought that all the sex 
scenes, especially with her, 

768
00:48:58,120 --> 00:49:00,160
were gratuitous. 
The ex. 

769
00:49:00,920 --> 00:49:04,920
And does it perpetuate the idea 
that all people with sexual 

770
00:49:04,920 --> 00:49:09,720
desire are evil because she is 
so unhinged? 

771
00:49:10,320 --> 00:49:15,200
OK, so again, I watched this 
after it aired, after everybody 

772
00:49:15,200 --> 00:49:16,680
had been talking about it, 
right? 

773
00:49:17,840 --> 00:49:21,840
So the way that people reacted 
about these sex scenes, I 

774
00:49:22,080 --> 00:49:24,960
thought one, I thought it was a 
completely different person 

775
00:49:24,960 --> 00:49:27,080
having sex scenes. 
I didn't understand. 

776
00:49:27,080 --> 00:49:31,240
I because like the ones that I 
read did not name a character in

777
00:49:31,400 --> 00:49:33,280
in name. 
They just were like the sex 

778
00:49:33,280 --> 00:49:35,480
scenes are over the top or 
whatever. 

779
00:49:35,800 --> 00:49:37,880
So I was assuming it was the 
leads. 

780
00:49:37,880 --> 00:49:43,120
I was assuming it was Gong Yu 
and his relationship. 

781
00:49:43,640 --> 00:49:48,200
So I was very surprised when it 
was actually her. 

782
00:49:48,960 --> 00:49:52,160
And again, I think it fit her 
character really well. 

783
00:49:52,160 --> 00:49:54,560
Like, I didn't think it was over
the top. 

784
00:49:54,800 --> 00:49:58,320
I think it was very much along 
with what her character was. 

785
00:49:58,760 --> 00:50:03,120
I mean, she knew she had this 
IUD in her. 

786
00:50:03,120 --> 00:50:05,080
She did not want to get pregnant
again. 

787
00:50:05,440 --> 00:50:09,040
She was like, I'm paying for 
this dude to be my husband, this

788
00:50:09,040 --> 00:50:13,240
nice, younger, very fit, good 
looking guy. 

789
00:50:13,920 --> 00:50:17,200
I'm going to have fun. 
I'm going to control him and 

790
00:50:17,200 --> 00:50:22,800
have a good time and use him. 
And she definitely used him 

791
00:50:23,480 --> 00:50:27,080
because I think there came a 
point in her relationship with 

792
00:50:27,080 --> 00:50:32,640
him where she was not satisfied 
by what she was trying to get 

793
00:50:32,640 --> 00:50:37,280
out of her ex-husband. 
So she went and had sex with him

794
00:50:37,280 --> 00:50:41,280
to have some sort of control in 
her life because if she didn't 

795
00:50:41,280 --> 00:50:44,480
have her current husband, her 
life would fall apart. 

796
00:50:45,000 --> 00:50:48,000
I did not think it was over the 
top. 

797
00:50:48,000 --> 00:50:50,960
I did not think it was like came
out of nowhere. 

798
00:50:50,960 --> 00:50:54,760
Like, yeah, it was a little 
surprising because it's a like 

799
00:50:54,760 --> 00:50:57,440
you walk in and you think it's 
AK drama and then they have 

800
00:50:57,440 --> 00:50:59,400
that. 
But it's not like I was 

801
00:50:59,400 --> 00:51:02,120
expecting. 
I also was expecting with giving

802
00:51:02,120 --> 00:51:04,760
people's reactions that it 
wouldn't be the woman that was 

803
00:51:04,760 --> 00:51:09,240
having a full frontal scene. 
I assumed it was the men, which 

804
00:51:09,240 --> 00:51:13,400
you normally don't even see in 
American television most of the 

805
00:51:13,400 --> 00:51:16,680
time. 
So I assumed I was fully 

806
00:51:16,680 --> 00:51:19,800
expecting to see male genitalia 
in this show. 

807
00:51:20,120 --> 00:51:23,800
And I didn't see anything. 
Like when she went into the 

808
00:51:23,800 --> 00:51:25,880
locker room to look at her 
husband. 

809
00:51:25,880 --> 00:51:28,000
I was like, oh, OK, this is the 
scene that you're going to see 

810
00:51:28,000 --> 00:51:30,480
the male genitalia. 
No, not at all. 

811
00:51:30,480 --> 00:51:34,840
So no, I did not. 
I disagreed with most of what 

812
00:51:34,840 --> 00:51:36,720
people said. 
Also their reaction. 

813
00:51:36,720 --> 00:51:39,360
I assumed there was going to be 
a lot more sex scenes. 

814
00:51:39,440 --> 00:51:40,840
Yeah, there wasn't. 
That bad 'cause there's really 

815
00:51:40,840 --> 00:51:43,600
one, there's like one sex 
scenes, Yeah. 

816
00:51:43,760 --> 00:51:46,720
So yeah. 
I thought the same thing. 

817
00:51:46,720 --> 00:51:50,720
I've honestly, personally, I 
just kind of went, I don't know,

818
00:51:50,720 --> 00:51:55,040
maybe I'm just desensitized or 
maybe I just thought it was 

819
00:51:55,040 --> 00:51:57,800
fitting. 
When they cut to it, I didn't 

820
00:51:57,800 --> 00:51:59,760
even blink. 
I didn't even bat an eye. 

821
00:52:00,200 --> 00:52:03,800
I was like, this is this fits. 
And we kept going. 

822
00:52:03,800 --> 00:52:06,920
Then it was the next couple of 
nights that I looked online and 

823
00:52:06,920 --> 00:52:10,360
I was like, oh shit, people have
not seen ass before. 

824
00:52:10,640 --> 00:52:15,600
People don't know how to act. 
And it was incredible. 

825
00:52:15,680 --> 00:52:21,800
The viral videos that were being
shared about this stupid ass sex

826
00:52:21,800 --> 00:52:25,880
scene that I thought was nothing
to write home about. 

827
00:52:26,080 --> 00:52:27,640
I don't know. 
I don't know. 

828
00:52:28,120 --> 00:52:32,240
Again, maybe this show benefits 
from an older audience and the 

829
00:52:32,240 --> 00:52:35,840
youngins just haven't been here 
long enough to see some of this 

830
00:52:35,840 --> 00:52:39,800
in AK drama or just. 
I mean, I was shocked. 

831
00:52:40,320 --> 00:52:43,720
I was shocked that people were 
clutching pearls over this. 

832
00:52:44,560 --> 00:52:48,600
It was to me, like you both 
said, it fitted her character. 

833
00:52:48,600 --> 00:52:52,160
It's just a woman taking her 
pleasure how she wants it. 

834
00:52:52,160 --> 00:52:56,040
I mean, and it fits with her 
character and her control. 

835
00:52:56,200 --> 00:53:01,400
And also it kind of adds another
layer to because then later on, 

836
00:53:01,400 --> 00:53:06,000
we do have a sex scene between, 
you know, our main couple. 

837
00:53:06,000 --> 00:53:10,640
And you can kind of see the 
differences of, you know, what 

838
00:53:10,640 --> 00:53:14,360
they're building and the type of
relationships in those scenes. 

839
00:53:14,400 --> 00:53:20,640
And you know, you can directly 
compare them and say this is, 

840
00:53:20,640 --> 00:53:24,160
you know what a healthier at 
that point. 

841
00:53:24,160 --> 00:53:26,640
It's not quite healthy yet, but 
you know what I mean? 

842
00:53:26,640 --> 00:53:28,160
They're working on it. 
They care for each other. 

843
00:53:28,160 --> 00:53:33,400
They're working on a situation 
as directly opposed to the 

844
00:53:33,400 --> 00:53:39,080
ex-wife that feels like she's 
using her current husband for 

845
00:53:39,160 --> 00:53:43,960
her needs and to fulfil whatever
black hole she has in her soul, 

846
00:53:43,960 --> 00:53:47,120
so to speak. 
So it didn't bother me. 

847
00:53:47,400 --> 00:53:48,880
It didn't. 
Didn't bother me. 

848
00:53:48,920 --> 00:53:51,640
And bother me, yeah. 
I thought people were going to 

849
00:53:51,640 --> 00:53:57,320
talk more about the fact that 
this show has a weird neutral 

850
00:53:57,320 --> 00:54:03,280
perspective on sex work because 
these contracts. 

851
00:54:03,280 --> 00:54:08,200
Absolutely, Absolutely. 
Are low key sex work and I was 

852
00:54:08,200 --> 00:54:11,720
like, oh, they're prostituting 
themselves in in this marriage, 

853
00:54:11,880 --> 00:54:15,240
in the context of this marriage 
and just slapping the label 

854
00:54:15,240 --> 00:54:19,720
marriage on it. 
Make it better, make it all OK 

855
00:54:19,720 --> 00:54:23,520
or you know what what is is it 
condemning it? 

856
00:54:23,520 --> 00:54:26,720
Is it celebrating it? 
No, the show is very neutral on 

857
00:54:26,720 --> 00:54:29,320
it. 
So I thought people were going 

858
00:54:29,320 --> 00:54:32,240
to talk about that more than 
hey, they're bumping and 

859
00:54:32,240 --> 00:54:36,200
grinding. 
Fuck yeah, they are like that's 

860
00:54:36,200 --> 00:54:37,960
the whole thing. 
Let's move past it. 

861
00:54:38,960 --> 00:54:44,560
But also, I wonder if they could
have just said no, if that makes

862
00:54:44,560 --> 00:54:46,680
sense, because that would make 
the difference. 

863
00:54:46,840 --> 00:54:50,240
Because this freaking manual 
that everybody and their mother 

864
00:54:50,240 --> 00:54:54,480
keeps mentioning never shows up.
So we don't know what the rules 

865
00:54:54,480 --> 00:54:57,760
are for these freaking 
marriages, right? 

866
00:54:58,160 --> 00:55:02,360
Because Angie does say, I think 
they do have a conversation and 

867
00:55:02,520 --> 00:55:06,200
our main couple and they do have
a conversation about, you know, 

868
00:55:06,280 --> 00:55:09,120
sex and whatnot. 
And I think she says if we're 

869
00:55:09,120 --> 00:55:12,520
both wanting it or something 
along those lines. 

870
00:55:12,920 --> 00:55:14,320
Guys, I watch this. 
That's. 

871
00:55:14,840 --> 00:55:17,600
Basically what Yeah, that's 
basically what she did say. 

872
00:55:17,600 --> 00:55:20,960
And it was the same with like if
they ever wanted a divorce, they

873
00:55:20,960 --> 00:55:25,480
both have would have would need 
to say yes, I want this divorce.

874
00:55:25,480 --> 00:55:29,400
So yes, you are correct. 
There is this conversation about

875
00:55:29,800 --> 00:55:32,520
consent because if she feels 
uncomfortable or she doesn't 

876
00:55:32,520 --> 00:55:35,480
want to but they won't, they 
don't. 

877
00:55:35,880 --> 00:55:39,760
So I think for the ex-wife it's 
a little bit different because 

878
00:55:39,760 --> 00:55:41,880
the guy for some reason, 
goodness. 

879
00:55:41,920 --> 00:55:43,520
Oh, he's into her. 
He wants to jump her bumps. 

880
00:55:43,520 --> 00:55:44,720
He's. 
Into her. 

881
00:55:44,960 --> 00:55:50,200
So I think that's why the 
thought of almost prostitution 

882
00:55:50,200 --> 00:55:54,280
didn't even cross my mind in a 
way, because there was kind of 

883
00:55:54,280 --> 00:55:57,600
like for our main couple, there 
was a clear conversation had 

884
00:55:57,600 --> 00:56:01,240
about it and there was consent 
and whatnot. 

885
00:56:01,880 --> 00:56:03,680
I'm not saying that in 
prostitution there isn't 

886
00:56:03,680 --> 00:56:05,440
consent, but you know what I 
mean? 

887
00:56:05,440 --> 00:56:09,200
Like that with the ex-wife as 
well. 

888
00:56:09,200 --> 00:56:12,360
The man wanted to jump her 
bones, like you said. 

889
00:56:13,040 --> 00:56:16,800
So right, right. 
They were all just consenting 

890
00:56:16,840 --> 00:56:20,080
adults. 
I'd like what what do you want? 

891
00:56:20,080 --> 00:56:23,000
There was I, I don't know what 
else to say. 

892
00:56:23,280 --> 00:56:26,640
I think the other thing a lot of
people had problems with though,

893
00:56:26,760 --> 00:56:31,400
which I also liked, like one of 
the things that we said, I am 

894
00:56:31,400 --> 00:56:33,720
switching gears in this dress, 
so it's. 

895
00:56:33,720 --> 00:56:36,520
Not no, it's OK, I'm not. 
I'm not going to be talking 

896
00:56:36,520 --> 00:56:39,360
about the sex scenes anymore. 
I mean, might be, but like in 

897
00:56:39,360 --> 00:56:43,400
the end of the year episode with
Liliana, I said I like I wanted 

898
00:56:43,400 --> 00:56:46,880
more dramas with Gray 
characters, with morally Gray, 

899
00:56:46,880 --> 00:56:51,160
not black and white, that thing.
I got the feeling a lot of 

900
00:56:51,160 --> 00:56:55,680
people were not expecting 
everybody to be flawed in this, 

901
00:56:56,120 --> 00:57:01,360
and I loved that. 
Part of this drama is just like 

902
00:57:01,440 --> 00:57:07,320
everybody had trauma, everybody 
was flawed, Everybody had stuff 

903
00:57:07,320 --> 00:57:09,520
that they were trying to work 
through. 

904
00:57:10,120 --> 00:57:13,040
Whether they did add by the end 
or not, that's a different 

905
00:57:13,040 --> 00:57:16,000
story. 
But like, I loved that part and 

906
00:57:16,000 --> 00:57:18,920
I don't think people were 
expecting that at all. 

907
00:57:20,920 --> 00:57:22,240
Yeah, for whom? 
You. 

908
00:57:22,240 --> 00:57:26,800
I think people definitely had to
rethink his character when you 

909
00:57:26,800 --> 00:57:29,720
find out that he was like, yeah,
kill my wife. 

910
00:57:30,440 --> 00:57:32,000
Right, right. 
Save the baby. 

911
00:57:32,560 --> 00:57:37,200
Yeah, but in I mean, I actually 
did not think that was I'm 

912
00:57:37,200 --> 00:57:40,480
again, I mean, this is a there 
was a horrible situation to put 

913
00:57:40,480 --> 00:57:44,080
him in. 
I would never want to have be in

914
00:57:44,080 --> 00:57:48,760
that situation, but let alone 
watching your own wife step in 

915
00:57:48,760 --> 00:57:52,360
front of a car to get away from 
that situation. 

916
00:57:52,400 --> 00:57:55,640
Like, I can't even. 
Yeah, I can't even imagine. 

917
00:57:56,360 --> 00:57:59,880
So like, on one hand, I could, I
sort of could understand that 

918
00:57:59,880 --> 00:58:03,560
answer because he was probably 
pissed at her. 

919
00:58:03,560 --> 00:58:07,640
He probably was like, I'm so 
happy that you're pregnant. 

920
00:58:07,640 --> 00:58:10,240
I'm going to have this baby. 
I've always wanted to be a 

921
00:58:10,240 --> 00:58:12,440
father. 
Always wanted a family. 

922
00:58:12,720 --> 00:58:16,600
Be the opposite of what my 
family life was and you 

923
00:58:16,880 --> 00:58:20,680
literally took that from me by 
your own selfish. 

924
00:58:21,440 --> 00:58:24,840
And granted, yeah, they didn't 
communicate and he didn't know 

925
00:58:24,880 --> 00:58:30,160
how horribly sad she was and 
whatever, but like, I can't 

926
00:58:30,160 --> 00:58:33,880
really 100% blame him for the 
him saying that either because 

927
00:58:33,920 --> 00:58:39,320
that's got to be trauma within 
himself within itself to see 

928
00:58:39,320 --> 00:58:43,960
your wife intentionally walk out
in the middle of the street to 

929
00:58:44,680 --> 00:58:49,400
kill yourself and your baby. 
You also have to rethink Kung Yu

930
00:58:49,400 --> 00:58:51,480
when he's still living in the 
house. 

931
00:58:52,320 --> 00:58:54,320
Yes, that too. 
That too. 

932
00:58:54,360 --> 00:58:57,400
The entire fact that he's still 
in that house, no matter the 

933
00:58:57,400 --> 00:59:02,440
fact that the ex-wife completely
redid the house, remodeled it, 

934
00:59:02,600 --> 00:59:07,200
whatever, He's still living in 
that house where so much shit 

935
00:59:07,200 --> 00:59:09,840
went down with his father, with 
his mother. 

936
00:59:10,480 --> 00:59:14,560
And I would be the first one to 
sell the shit out of the house 

937
00:59:14,680 --> 00:59:16,640
and get the fuck out of Dodge. 
He's. 

938
00:59:16,960 --> 00:59:18,960
Choosing to stay in that, 
choosing to. 

939
00:59:19,120 --> 00:59:25,000
Stay there, stay in that trauma,
wallow in there and not move on.

940
00:59:25,000 --> 00:59:29,200
And there's something very 
childish about Kong you and even

941
00:59:29,200 --> 00:59:32,080
about his profession that he 
doesn't even have like a grown 

942
00:59:32,080 --> 00:59:34,680
up profession. 
He just like goes to work 

943
00:59:34,680 --> 00:59:38,920
whenever he feels like it and 
he's this vague music producer. 

944
00:59:38,920 --> 00:59:41,960
We never really see who he's 
producing. 

945
00:59:41,960 --> 00:59:45,040
And he doesn't have any issues 
with money. 

946
00:59:45,040 --> 00:59:49,600
He doesn't even care about money
while his business partner in 

947
00:59:49,600 --> 00:59:52,960
the music production business is
struggling financially. 

948
00:59:52,960 --> 00:59:56,040
Over and over we see that he's 
like, we're about to go under. 

949
00:59:56,040 --> 00:59:58,120
He's telling his wife we can't 
do this, we can't do that. 

950
00:59:58,120 --> 01:00:02,040
He's constantly thinking about 
financial troubles and Kong you 

951
01:00:02,400 --> 01:00:06,800
in his own fucking world. 
So Kong you is so removed for 

952
01:00:06,840 --> 01:00:11,960
he's so insulated in this trauma
House of his and you have to 

953
01:00:11,960 --> 01:00:15,560
think he's fucked in the head. 
He needs therapy just like 

954
01:00:15,560 --> 01:00:19,960
everybody else, no matter how 
everybody has needs therapy. 

955
01:00:20,160 --> 01:00:23,840
But Kong you has a lot to work 
through in this show, this 

956
01:00:23,840 --> 01:00:28,520
character and what's her face to
Angie, the female lead. 

957
01:00:28,600 --> 01:00:31,160
Oh my God, boy, does she have 
stuff she has to work through as

958
01:00:31,160 --> 01:00:32,360
well? 
I feel like we haven't touched 

959
01:00:32,360 --> 01:00:36,280
on her and her back story, but 
anything that's happened with 

960
01:00:36,280 --> 01:00:39,240
her mom, I don't really quite 
understand. 

961
01:00:39,240 --> 01:00:42,600
I wish we saw more of what 
happened there in the fallout 

962
01:00:42,600 --> 01:00:47,480
with her and her mom and then 
living in her own trauma house. 

963
01:00:47,840 --> 01:00:52,320
A lot of like pot calling the 
cattle black here because she is

964
01:00:52,320 --> 01:00:56,160
living when she's not on a job 
and in a marriage. 

965
01:00:56,160 --> 01:00:57,760
She's living in her own trauma 
house. 

966
01:00:58,200 --> 01:01:03,920
Keeping this apartment that her 
ex fiance abandoned and ghosted 

967
01:01:03,920 --> 01:01:06,480
her keeping it just as he left 
it. 

968
01:01:06,480 --> 01:01:10,920
Everything in place. 
The neighbor keeps putting fish 

969
01:01:10,920 --> 01:01:13,040
back in the fish tank when they 
die. 

970
01:01:13,320 --> 01:01:20,440
Like it is a pristine shrine to 
this dude and this whole thing 

971
01:01:20,440 --> 01:01:25,880
of he's gay and was had this I 
think was it like an orgy video 

972
01:01:25,880 --> 01:01:27,760
that came out just before their 
wedding. 

973
01:01:27,760 --> 01:01:30,240
I don't even fucking know. 
It was this whole thing, this 

974
01:01:30,240 --> 01:01:30,920
whole. 
Stink. 

975
01:01:31,600 --> 01:01:35,480
He was bisexual. 
Like a bisexual. 

976
01:01:35,480 --> 01:01:38,760
Yeah. 
Basically what happened was the 

977
01:01:38,760 --> 01:01:42,440
stalker guy found out she was 
marrying him. 

978
01:01:43,240 --> 01:01:48,200
He he, he revealed the photos to
her mother. 

979
01:01:48,840 --> 01:01:55,160
Her mother put it all online, 
which caused him to be outed 

980
01:01:55,160 --> 01:02:02,640
basically to everybody in Korea.
And he up and left and left in G

981
01:02:02,640 --> 01:02:04,840
to deal with the fallout. 
Yeah. 

982
01:02:05,400 --> 01:02:08,480
That's a lot. 
Like, that's a lot to be living 

983
01:02:08,480 --> 01:02:13,440
through and grieving because you
can see that she is grieving 

984
01:02:13,520 --> 01:02:18,480
that relationship and she really
hasn't stopped grieving all 

985
01:02:18,480 --> 01:02:21,400
these years. 
There is no closure for her. 

986
01:02:21,800 --> 01:02:24,840
Yeah, I was going to say that. 
There's never been any closure 

987
01:02:24,840 --> 01:02:28,760
for her until he comes back and 
they have that final 

988
01:02:28,760 --> 01:02:32,120
conversation. 
I think that's when she shuts 

989
01:02:32,120 --> 01:02:36,440
the door on that relationship, I
think. 

990
01:02:37,080 --> 01:02:40,120
Yeah, so then too, there's so 
much going on there. 

991
01:02:40,120 --> 01:02:45,160
Of course, the ex-wife who is 
emotionally manhandling Kong Yu,

992
01:02:45,160 --> 01:02:49,560
who has this codependency on 
her, he has relied on her his 

993
01:02:49,560 --> 01:02:54,600
whole life and she has 
manipulated him literally his 

994
01:02:54,600 --> 01:02:55,760
whole life. 
I think they were childhood 

995
01:02:55,760 --> 01:02:58,440
sweethearts. 
At least college sweethearts. 

996
01:02:58,600 --> 01:03:01,080
Maybe not childhood, but college
at least. 

997
01:03:01,640 --> 01:03:05,120
It's just a really bizarre 
relationship. 

998
01:03:05,120 --> 01:03:08,680
I think that he basically 
latched on to whoever was near 

999
01:03:09,040 --> 01:03:14,120
and she was nearby and relished,
you know, the power that she had

1000
01:03:14,120 --> 01:03:16,200
over him. 
And that turned into a really 

1001
01:03:16,200 --> 01:03:20,000
toxic marriage. 
You know, she never wanted to be

1002
01:03:20,840 --> 01:03:24,160
a family, and that's what Kong 
you wanted and needed. 

1003
01:03:24,160 --> 01:03:27,240
And she really imploded that 
one. 

1004
01:03:27,520 --> 01:03:32,840
The thing is, I was just going 
to say on Gongiu's character, it

1005
01:03:32,840 --> 01:03:36,440
would have been actually 
interesting because he said he 

1006
01:03:36,440 --> 01:03:40,560
so wanted to be a dad, but I 
don't think he could have been a

1007
01:03:40,600 --> 01:03:43,840
dad at that point. 
And there's like a much deeper 

1008
01:03:43,840 --> 01:03:48,160
conversation about that because 
he's not mentally stable. 

1009
01:03:48,320 --> 01:03:52,720
No, not at all. 
And to bring a child into that 

1010
01:03:52,720 --> 01:03:56,960
environment, it would have been 
catastrophic, I think. 

1011
01:03:57,400 --> 01:04:02,720
And he doesn't see that because 
obviously when once, if you're 

1012
01:04:02,720 --> 01:04:05,200
in it, you won't be able to see 
it. 

1013
01:04:05,440 --> 01:04:08,720
And I think that's the type of 
nuances that you get in this 

1014
01:04:08,720 --> 01:04:13,040
show that as an outsider, as 
somebody watching the show will 

1015
01:04:13,040 --> 01:04:17,360
be able to pick up on it. 
And some people may watch it and

1016
01:04:17,360 --> 01:04:19,360
be like, but I can see it like 
why? 

1017
01:04:19,600 --> 01:04:21,600
Why? 
But obviously the characters are

1018
01:04:21,600 --> 01:04:24,440
in it. 
They will not have that outside 

1019
01:04:24,440 --> 01:04:29,200
perspective that we are getting.
So I think a lot of people might

1020
01:04:29,200 --> 01:04:33,040
have forgotten that when they 
were watching this show for a 

1021
01:04:33,120 --> 01:04:36,280
bit. 
Yeah, and I mean, even even if 

1022
01:04:36,280 --> 01:04:40,520
he was in the good mindset to 
have a child and be a father, 

1023
01:04:41,160 --> 01:04:45,240
the wife definitely was not. 
So like it would have destroyed,

1024
01:04:45,240 --> 01:04:49,080
it would have destroyed their 
marriage anyway. 

1025
01:04:49,640 --> 01:04:53,000
Because I don't think he, I 
mean, they were both selfish in 

1026
01:04:53,000 --> 01:04:55,280
their own way. 
I don't think he, I mean, I 

1027
01:04:55,280 --> 01:05:00,640
don't think, I know he was not 
thinking of his wife at all 

1028
01:05:00,640 --> 01:05:03,160
during those 910 months that she
was pregnant. 

1029
01:05:03,160 --> 01:05:07,680
He was like, I need this child. 
I'm going to be the father. 

1030
01:05:08,720 --> 01:05:11,200
And then she didn't want the 
child. 

1031
01:05:11,200 --> 01:05:13,600
She probably would have just 
shunned the child and I. 

1032
01:05:13,600 --> 01:05:16,960
Think she was jealous of it? 
Yeah, definitely, definitely 

1033
01:05:16,960 --> 01:05:21,520
jealous of it and definitely did
not like the fact that he was 

1034
01:05:21,520 --> 01:05:26,280
happy for the child and not 
necessarily happy when he was 

1035
01:05:26,280 --> 01:05:30,160
around her at all. 
That the source of his happiness

1036
01:05:30,200 --> 01:05:33,000
was this. 
Child. 

1037
01:05:33,200 --> 01:05:34,280
Yeah. 
Instead of her. 

1038
01:05:35,000 --> 01:05:38,240
Right. 
Yeah, like even that's even the 

1039
01:05:38,240 --> 01:05:43,440
the situation she had when she 
almost had to have a 

1040
01:05:43,440 --> 01:05:45,760
hysterectomy. 
Oh yeah. 

1041
01:05:46,040 --> 01:05:51,040
And she was sad that she hadn't 
gotten to that point that they 

1042
01:05:51,040 --> 01:05:53,680
saved her uterus and saved 
everything. 

1043
01:05:53,680 --> 01:05:57,600
And she was like, it would have 
been so much easier if I had 

1044
01:05:57,600 --> 01:06:01,760
gotten this hysterectomy, like, 
because she did not want to get 

1045
01:06:01,760 --> 01:06:04,840
pregnant again, did not 
absolutely did not want to get 

1046
01:06:04,840 --> 01:06:08,800
pregnant again. 
That was very telling of her 

1047
01:06:08,800 --> 01:06:11,120
character. 
For sure, she should have just 

1048
01:06:11,120 --> 01:06:13,160
had it go on hormones the rest 
of her life. 

1049
01:06:14,360 --> 01:06:17,720
So let's talk about the stalker.
You mentioned the stalker. 

1050
01:06:18,280 --> 01:06:20,520
I think this is a blight on the 
show. 

1051
01:06:21,200 --> 01:06:24,880
I do not care for the stalker. 
The stalker is pretty vague. 

1052
01:06:25,800 --> 01:06:29,160
We do not have a lot of info on 
the stalker. 

1053
01:06:30,000 --> 01:06:34,120
Utterly useless of a character I
have like here in my notes. 

1054
01:06:34,120 --> 01:06:36,920
Stalker took an unhealthy 
obsession with her after she 

1055
01:06:36,920 --> 01:06:40,840
took a cooking class once. 
Do I have that right? 

1056
01:06:41,200 --> 01:06:44,320
Yeah, yeah. 
At first I thought he was an 

1057
01:06:44,320 --> 01:06:48,120
ex-husband of hers, like one of 
the people that she had 

1058
01:06:48,120 --> 01:06:51,560
marriages with. 
But no, it was just a random 

1059
01:06:51,560 --> 01:06:55,280
guy. 
Which I mean, to its credit, 

1060
01:06:55,480 --> 01:06:59,000
that's mostly how that happened.
Like, not mostly, but that that 

1061
01:06:59,000 --> 01:07:03,400
is a common thing that you just 
randomly walk past somebody and 

1062
01:07:03,400 --> 01:07:06,680
all of a sudden it's a stalker. 
Or you take one class of theirs 

1063
01:07:06,680 --> 01:07:07,920
and all of a sudden it's a 
stalker. 

1064
01:07:07,920 --> 01:07:10,800
Whatever. 
But yeah, like he wasn't even 

1065
01:07:10,800 --> 01:07:12,880
like a main character in her 
life. 

1066
01:07:12,880 --> 01:07:17,880
It was just a random passing in 
a class that she took. 

1067
01:07:18,320 --> 01:07:22,800
Didn't he actually used to work 
for the company she worked at as

1068
01:07:22,800 --> 01:07:25,040
like some type of security 
person? 

1069
01:07:25,160 --> 01:07:27,240
If I'm. 
That was, that was the ex. 

1070
01:07:27,360 --> 01:07:32,240
That was the husband of the ex. 
Wife, yeah, but I I think he was

1071
01:07:32,240 --> 01:07:36,440
also because I know we had this 
question on the tea and so like 

1072
01:07:36,440 --> 01:07:40,200
when we did it maybe I'm 
misremembering I'll have to 

1073
01:07:40,200 --> 01:07:45,560
listen back, but either somebody
messaged me this or afterwards 

1074
01:07:45,560 --> 01:07:49,720
because I had the same question 
about how they had met and I 

1075
01:07:49,720 --> 01:07:52,560
think somebody had said that 
she. 

1076
01:07:52,680 --> 01:07:57,400
Took a coping class. 
But he also worked at the same 

1077
01:07:57,400 --> 01:08:00,440
company that and that's where 
they saw each other for the 

1078
01:08:00,440 --> 01:08:03,360
first time was at this company. 
Tiebreaker. 

1079
01:08:04,600 --> 01:08:09,200
I know I, I think, I don't think
he ever worked for the company. 

1080
01:08:10,040 --> 01:08:11,600
I think he worked for the. 
Company. 

1081
01:08:12,160 --> 01:08:17,000
I think he was just a passerby 
who became obsessed with her and

1082
01:08:17,000 --> 01:08:22,399
then followed her everywhere and
disrupted her and got into the 

1083
01:08:22,399 --> 01:08:25,720
company and tried to, I don't 
know, whatever he wanted to do 

1084
01:08:25,720 --> 01:08:28,439
in that lobby of that company 
when he killed the security 

1085
01:08:28,439 --> 01:08:33,479
guard. 
Now this is a very real fear for

1086
01:08:33,560 --> 01:08:38,680
women is that you just get a 
stalker and it escalates and 

1087
01:08:38,680 --> 01:08:40,439
escalates. 
There's really nothing that the 

1088
01:08:40,439 --> 01:08:44,000
police can do. 
They won't take it seriously. 

1089
01:08:44,640 --> 01:08:46,359
They haven't done anything to 
you. 

1090
01:08:46,359 --> 01:08:48,560
They're just making you feel 
uncomfortable. 

1091
01:08:48,960 --> 01:08:53,000
And it becomes a problem when 
the woman loses her life. 

1092
01:08:53,520 --> 01:08:58,800
So Liliana, you are correct, but
he didn't work for the company 

1093
01:08:58,800 --> 01:09:01,920
so apparently Google. 
I don't remember this, I thought

1094
01:09:01,920 --> 01:09:03,439
it was a cooking class or 
something. 

1095
01:09:04,000 --> 01:09:10,760
Apparently the company hired him
to be a self defensive 

1096
01:09:10,800 --> 01:09:16,479
instructor for the girls, for 
the men or the wives or 

1097
01:09:16,479 --> 01:09:20,760
whatever, and he essentially 
became obsessed with her through

1098
01:09:20,760 --> 01:09:24,880
those self-defense classes. 
So we're technically both right?

1099
01:09:25,080 --> 01:09:27,800
Yes, he was employed by the 
company but it was a 

1100
01:09:27,800 --> 01:09:33,680
self-defense contractor class so
they didn't meet in a class and 

1101
01:09:33,680 --> 01:09:36,520
ironically he was hired by the 
company. 

1102
01:09:36,840 --> 01:09:38,479
I thought it was a. 
Cooking class. 

1103
01:09:38,600 --> 01:09:42,880
Because, because, because then 
when they talk about it with 

1104
01:09:42,880 --> 01:09:48,520
like his CEO, the CEO said it 
would look bad on the company if

1105
01:09:48,520 --> 01:09:50,640
we had hired somebody who'd done
this. 

1106
01:09:50,640 --> 01:09:55,480
So we took care of it by sending
him to a psych ward quietly 

1107
01:09:55,480 --> 01:09:59,280
instead. 
So that's why I thought I 

1108
01:09:59,280 --> 01:10:02,560
remembered something along the 
lines that he had done something

1109
01:10:02,560 --> 01:10:04,760
for the company. 
Well, no, it would look bad on 

1110
01:10:04,760 --> 01:10:09,520
the company because he entered 
the premises, killed an employee

1111
01:10:09,520 --> 01:10:13,960
of the company, was stalking an 
employee of the company who was 

1112
01:10:13,960 --> 01:10:16,440
the female lead. 
And then if they went to the 

1113
01:10:16,440 --> 01:10:19,960
police, the police would be 
like, oh, OK, So asking a bunch 

1114
01:10:19,960 --> 01:10:22,200
of questions, what do you do? 
What does this company do? 

1115
01:10:22,200 --> 01:10:25,360
When on what day did he come by 
yada yada. 

1116
01:10:25,840 --> 01:10:30,080
And this whole subdivision of 
this company is under the table.

1117
01:10:30,680 --> 01:10:31,720
This is. 
Illegal. 

1118
01:10:32,000 --> 01:10:33,880
Yeah, right. 
These. 

1119
01:10:33,880 --> 01:10:36,840
Contract marriages are illegal, 
so that's why they're like, we 

1120
01:10:36,840 --> 01:10:41,640
can't let this get out. 
We have to handle this quietly. 

1121
01:10:42,120 --> 01:10:44,160
Right. 
But yeah, you guys are both 

1122
01:10:44,160 --> 01:10:45,640
right. 
We're, we're both right 

1123
01:10:45,720 --> 01:10:49,560
essentially is yes, he did work 
for the company, but not in the 

1124
01:10:49,560 --> 01:10:53,400
capacity that we assumed he'd be
working for the company. 

1125
01:10:53,640 --> 01:10:57,000
OK well I did appreciate that 
one-on-one he had with the 

1126
01:10:57,000 --> 01:11:01,360
ex-wife when he mocked her and 
imitated her. 

1127
01:11:02,120 --> 01:11:04,400
Oh, that was juicy. 
That was great. 

1128
01:11:04,480 --> 01:11:07,160
I think the actor who played him
was phenomenal. 

1129
01:11:07,440 --> 01:11:10,720
Oh yeah, I had never, I had 
never seen him in a drama 

1130
01:11:10,720 --> 01:11:13,360
before. 
And if I I didn't remember him 

1131
01:11:13,600 --> 01:11:16,800
from a drama before. 
Yeah, I but I would say this 

1132
01:11:16,800 --> 01:11:20,520
storyline is a Horror Story in 
real life. 

1133
01:11:21,160 --> 01:11:25,040
So many stories of stalkers very
much like this, and it just 

1134
01:11:25,040 --> 01:11:27,480
escalates and it always ends 
really badly. 

1135
01:11:27,920 --> 01:11:33,480
When Konyu invites him into the 
house, I was like, oh. 

1136
01:11:33,640 --> 01:11:35,280
I was like, what the hell are 
you doing? 

1137
01:11:35,280 --> 01:11:38,360
What the fuck? 
Yeah, that was a wild choice on 

1138
01:11:38,360 --> 01:11:40,640
his part. 
I was like, what are you doing? 

1139
01:11:41,240 --> 01:11:45,280
You are literally bringing his 
stalker into her inner sanctum. 

1140
01:11:45,280 --> 01:11:47,880
What are you doing? 
What are you doing? 

1141
01:11:48,200 --> 01:11:52,520
Also, by the way, the actor who 
played her contract marriage 

1142
01:11:52,520 --> 01:11:56,160
husband, The actor who played 
the husband, the contract 

1143
01:11:56,160 --> 01:11:58,640
husband, this is his first 
acting role. 

1144
01:11:58,840 --> 01:12:02,400
Oh, oh, for the ex-wife. 
For the ex-wife, yes. 

1145
01:12:02,680 --> 01:12:04,280
OK. 
This is his first acting role. 

1146
01:12:05,280 --> 01:12:10,160
Oh. 
My God, apparently he was on a 

1147
01:12:10,160 --> 01:12:13,600
dating show. 
Like a reality dating show. 

1148
01:12:14,000 --> 01:12:19,960
Yeah, he fine the but yeah, so 
Kong Yu again, that character 

1149
01:12:19,960 --> 01:12:24,400
just allowing the stalker into 
the house and being like pretty 

1150
01:12:24,400 --> 01:12:30,280
please stop stalking my wife. 
Yeah, yeah, where's a shotgun? 

1151
01:12:30,280 --> 01:12:34,160
Like get off my property that I 
don't understand that at all. 

1152
01:12:34,160 --> 01:12:40,600
It was a very childish move. 
Again, so sheltered and no St. 

1153
01:12:40,600 --> 01:12:44,320
smarts at all from Kong. 
Yu's character doesn't 

1154
01:12:44,400 --> 01:12:49,680
understand the threat to his 
wife, you know in G at all. 

1155
01:12:50,560 --> 01:12:52,880
Oh God. 
I just didn't understand the 

1156
01:12:53,560 --> 01:13:00,440
stalker and how it just. 
That was the tension of the show

1157
01:13:00,960 --> 01:13:04,440
that I couldn't get behind. 
I agree. 

1158
01:13:04,680 --> 01:13:08,560
Yeah, I it it wasn't needed and 
I wasn't. 

1159
01:13:08,560 --> 01:13:11,000
Needed. 
They could have gone the route 

1160
01:13:11,000 --> 01:13:15,200
of beefing up NM Corporation to 
be more sinister. 

1161
01:13:15,200 --> 01:13:19,720
That's what I wanted them to do.
I wanted to know more about the 

1162
01:13:19,720 --> 01:13:21,880
company. 
I mean, you could do like 

1163
01:13:21,880 --> 01:13:25,120
multiple seasons of this show 
with different couples and 

1164
01:13:25,120 --> 01:13:26,800
different thing. 
Like there's a lot you could do 

1165
01:13:26,800 --> 01:13:29,680
with that. 
You could do multiple seasons. 

1166
01:13:29,680 --> 01:13:32,680
There's like a whole universe 
you could do with this company 

1167
01:13:33,640 --> 01:13:36,600
of like different characters, 
different stories, how they 

1168
01:13:36,600 --> 01:13:39,720
started it in the first place. 
Like the director is very 

1169
01:13:39,720 --> 01:13:43,120
mysterious in general of like, 
why did she start this company 

1170
01:13:43,120 --> 01:13:46,640
in the 1st place when she like 
she had that one liner in like 

1171
01:13:46,640 --> 01:13:49,680
the last episode of oh, in my 
marriage in the first two or 

1172
01:13:49,680 --> 01:13:52,840
three years. 
I wanted to kill him too. 

1173
01:13:53,120 --> 01:13:55,520
I was like, OK, well, did you 
end up killing him? 

1174
01:13:55,560 --> 01:14:01,520
Like what's going on there? 
Prequel But yeah, I think I 

1175
01:14:01,520 --> 01:14:05,160
think it was like, as you said, 
just I think it was there to add

1176
01:14:05,160 --> 01:14:10,400
tension, but there was so much 
tension with the ex-wife and how

1177
01:14:10,400 --> 01:14:14,640
crazy she was and even the 
tension with her contract 

1178
01:14:14,640 --> 01:14:18,200
husband herself. 
Like, one of my favorite scenes 

1179
01:14:18,200 --> 01:14:22,400
is when they were all together 
having that dinner, and there 

1180
01:14:22,400 --> 01:14:27,240
was so much tension between the 
four of them trying to size each

1181
01:14:27,240 --> 01:14:31,080
other up and, like, figure out 
what was going on. 

1182
01:14:31,560 --> 01:14:34,800
That is what was enjoyable about
this drama. 

1183
01:14:36,160 --> 01:14:40,720
And yeah, the stalker murder 
part wasn't really needed. 

1184
01:14:41,080 --> 01:14:43,560
Not at all. 
Talking of scenes that I really 

1185
01:14:43,560 --> 01:14:47,720
liked, the kiss scene between 
our couple calling you is one of

1186
01:14:47,720 --> 01:14:54,920
the best kissers bar none. 
And the scene where his father 

1187
01:14:54,920 --> 01:15:00,240
dies and he has to attend the 
funeral, presumably by himself, 

1188
01:15:00,480 --> 01:15:04,360
and the ex-wife shows up. 
Yeah, yeah. 

1189
01:15:05,080 --> 01:15:10,760
I have, I, I have like literally
the quote from that scene 

1190
01:15:10,760 --> 01:15:15,400
because I love this so much. 
Let me find it. 

1191
01:15:15,400 --> 01:15:17,840
Let me go through it. 
Caitlin, you go ahead and sit 

1192
01:15:17,840 --> 01:15:24,720
like, oh, episode 5, episode 50,
basically she comes back. 

1193
01:15:24,760 --> 01:15:28,440
So basically they have this 
interaction between a female 

1194
01:15:28,440 --> 01:15:32,080
lead and the ex-wife in the 
bathroom where she's like, I'm 

1195
01:15:32,080 --> 01:15:35,920
going to take over now. 
I was going to swear, but you 

1196
01:15:35,920 --> 01:15:38,360
know, basically go walking. 
Swear it's fine. 

1197
01:15:39,720 --> 01:15:45,600
And then she comes back and she 
sits down next to our male lead 

1198
01:15:45,600 --> 01:15:50,280
and she says to him, Miss Ayon 
is gone, I'll accompany you now.

1199
01:15:50,320 --> 01:15:53,240
And he says to her, what about 
the manual? 

1200
01:15:53,240 --> 01:15:58,280
And she says, I think I'll take 
today off because basically what

1201
01:15:58,280 --> 01:16:02,400
they had said about that. 
Then she gives him like her hand

1202
01:16:02,400 --> 01:16:04,640
and holds his hand for comfort 
and whatnot. 

1203
01:16:04,840 --> 01:16:08,480
What she had say was it isn't in
the manual or something along 

1204
01:16:08,480 --> 01:16:12,200
those lines for her not 
attending, you know, the funeral

1205
01:16:12,320 --> 01:16:16,440
and playing his wife. 
So that's what she says in that 

1206
01:16:16,440 --> 01:16:18,400
scene. 
But even like just a 

1207
01:16:18,400 --> 01:16:22,720
conversation between those, it's
just like so simple. 

1208
01:16:22,720 --> 01:16:24,920
All she says is I'll accompany 
you now. 

1209
01:16:24,920 --> 01:16:28,920
Like the other one's gone. 
I'm here now, I'll support you. 

1210
01:16:28,920 --> 01:16:31,960
And she just gives him his hand.
I like her hand for comfort. 

1211
01:16:32,280 --> 01:16:36,800
And it's such a direct 
comparison to his ex-wife when 

1212
01:16:36,800 --> 01:16:41,000
she was standing there and being
like poking at him and like 

1213
01:16:41,000 --> 01:16:43,840
dragging him and whatnot. 
And performative. 

1214
01:16:44,400 --> 01:16:47,560
Exactly, exactly. 
And our female lead comes in and

1215
01:16:47,560 --> 01:16:50,280
she doesn't even care for the 
people that are around. 

1216
01:16:50,520 --> 01:16:53,520
She is like, is there for him, 
solely focused on him. 

1217
01:16:53,760 --> 01:16:55,920
So yeah, I really like that 
scene as well. 

1218
01:16:56,360 --> 01:16:59,560
Wonderful scene. 
The scene so their face off in 

1219
01:16:59,560 --> 01:17:02,960
the bathroom is great and also 
their face off in like the 

1220
01:17:02,960 --> 01:17:05,320
construction site. 
Oh yeah, yeah. 

1221
01:17:05,360 --> 01:17:08,560
They start like throwing hands. 
Oh, love that part. 

1222
01:17:09,440 --> 01:17:13,600
Love that part and any 
interaction between them is so 

1223
01:17:13,600 --> 01:17:15,560
biting. 
I love it. 

1224
01:17:16,160 --> 01:17:23,560
The scene of I think it's the 
scene where Angie finds the 

1225
01:17:23,560 --> 01:17:27,640
camera. 
She has this whole like she says

1226
01:17:27,840 --> 01:17:32,080
to the ex-wife, don't you know 
his father put a camera in that 

1227
01:17:32,080 --> 01:17:35,960
chandelier to spy on his mom and
you're doing the same thing and 

1228
01:17:35,960 --> 01:17:39,560
yada yada. 
I just love how Angie handles it

1229
01:17:39,560 --> 01:17:44,680
because I feel like most people 
would tell Kong Yu's character 

1230
01:17:44,680 --> 01:17:49,120
right away, but she doesn't. 
Why do you think she doesn't 

1231
01:17:49,360 --> 01:17:52,040
tell him? 
I think like she said in the 

1232
01:17:52,040 --> 01:17:56,320
drama, like she didn't know how 
to and I really think I think 

1233
01:17:56,320 --> 01:18:00,440
that was why like, how do you 
tell somebody who knows? 

1234
01:18:00,440 --> 01:18:05,080
And I I'm sort of speaking from 
personal experience on this is 

1235
01:18:05,080 --> 01:18:09,200
like you tell somebody who you 
have been married to who you 

1236
01:18:09,200 --> 01:18:13,000
have built this life with, you 
think you're going to end up 

1237
01:18:13,360 --> 01:18:18,480
together forever and you tell 
them the darkest secrets and the

1238
01:18:18,480 --> 01:18:22,480
things that like the lines they 
cannot cross in their 

1239
01:18:22,480 --> 01:18:24,880
relationship. 
Like everybody has boundaries. 

1240
01:18:24,880 --> 01:18:29,400
Everybody has that line that if 
they cross, it is done. 

1241
01:18:29,600 --> 01:18:32,240
And the cameras was gong use 
line. 

1242
01:18:32,680 --> 01:18:37,480
He told her this in and became 
vulnerable and was like, this is

1243
01:18:37,480 --> 01:18:41,040
my trauma. 
This is what happened to me in 

1244
01:18:41,040 --> 01:18:44,360
this house. 
And she used that against him 

1245
01:18:44,360 --> 01:18:49,720
and she use that for her 
extremely selfish ways of 

1246
01:18:49,720 --> 01:18:54,080
controlling him because she 
realized she was losing that 

1247
01:18:54,080 --> 01:18:58,960
control. 
And that like, I don't know how 

1248
01:18:58,960 --> 01:19:04,600
you tell somebody that, like how
you reveal that this line that 

1249
01:19:04,600 --> 01:19:09,760
you had this boundary that you 
had and trusted that boundary to

1250
01:19:09,800 --> 01:19:13,280
somebody else who you thought 
was going to be your forever 

1251
01:19:13,280 --> 01:19:16,640
partner. 
I found out they crossed that 

1252
01:19:16,640 --> 01:19:19,360
boundary and they basically 
crossed the line. 

1253
01:19:19,360 --> 01:19:22,520
That was your line. 
You don't cross. 

1254
01:19:22,520 --> 01:19:27,520
And I would find that. 
I mean, for me, I don't know. 

1255
01:19:27,520 --> 01:19:29,640
I would be it. 
Would be. 

1256
01:19:29,640 --> 01:19:33,360
Very difficult for me to tell 
somebody that, but at the same 

1257
01:19:33,360 --> 01:19:37,240
time, if I was that person and 
it. 

1258
01:19:37,360 --> 01:19:43,400
It's so like, invasive and so 
voyeuristic, and I had no idea 

1259
01:19:43,400 --> 01:19:45,720
that was happening. 
And then the person who's living

1260
01:19:45,720 --> 01:19:49,280
with me knows. 
I actually was expecting Gong Yu

1261
01:19:49,280 --> 01:19:51,520
to hate her after finding that 
out. 

1262
01:19:52,600 --> 01:19:54,640
Which was this? 
Yeah. 

1263
01:19:54,640 --> 01:19:57,120
Angie. 
And I was surprised by his 

1264
01:19:57,120 --> 01:20:01,560
reaction because he knew she 
knew eventually. 

1265
01:20:02,080 --> 01:20:05,240
So I could kind of understand, I
could definitely understand why 

1266
01:20:05,240 --> 01:20:09,680
she did not know how to tell him
because how do you tell somebody

1267
01:20:09,680 --> 01:20:11,880
that? 
But on the other hand, it's like

1268
01:20:12,120 --> 01:20:14,560
if I was gong you, I would want 
to know that. 

1269
01:20:14,560 --> 01:20:19,240
That's just like, it's really 
complicated, so complicated and.

1270
01:20:20,040 --> 01:20:24,840
I do think what helps is that 
footage that he saw of Ng 

1271
01:20:25,200 --> 01:20:28,120
crying, right? 
At the table, yeah. 

1272
01:20:29,400 --> 01:20:34,320
That I think did wonders for his
softened reaction toward Angie, 

1273
01:20:34,320 --> 01:20:36,920
if there was ever going to be a 
blowout reaction toward her, 

1274
01:20:38,040 --> 01:20:43,280
because you could see that she 
is devastated for him and 

1275
01:20:44,040 --> 01:20:47,840
saddened by the situation and 
doesn't know what to do, how to 

1276
01:20:47,840 --> 01:20:51,920
handle it, how to tell him. 
So her crying there and and 

1277
01:20:51,920 --> 01:20:56,840
sobbing at the kitchen table I 
think was the perfect thing for 

1278
01:20:56,840 --> 01:20:59,280
him to see right when he saw the
cameras. 

1279
01:21:00,200 --> 01:21:03,360
Yeah, that was horrible. 
That was horrendous. 

1280
01:21:03,400 --> 01:21:08,160
And my question was, did who you
tell that to his ex-wife as well

1281
01:21:08,160 --> 01:21:10,520
about the camera situation? 
Because he definitely said that 

1282
01:21:10,560 --> 01:21:12,520
to Ng. 
Oh, she definitely knew. 

1283
01:21:12,720 --> 01:21:14,040
She. 
She definitely. 

1284
01:21:14,040 --> 01:21:17,040
Knew she definitely knew about 
his whole thing with that camera

1285
01:21:17,040 --> 01:21:21,480
stuff because Angie, even Angie 
was like, how could you do that 

1286
01:21:21,480 --> 01:21:23,760
to him? 
She knew she knew though they 

1287
01:21:23,760 --> 01:21:26,280
were there. 
She knew that whole story and 

1288
01:21:26,280 --> 01:21:28,320
that whole background 
definitely. 

1289
01:21:28,600 --> 01:21:30,600
And she stabbed him in the heart
with. 

1290
01:21:30,600 --> 01:21:31,960
It did it anyway. 
Betrayed him. 

1291
01:21:31,960 --> 01:21:35,800
Yeah, yeah. 
For her own like she just could 

1292
01:21:35,800 --> 01:21:40,120
not fathom the idea that she 
would have to live apart from 

1293
01:21:40,120 --> 01:21:42,720
him for a year and not be able 
to control. 

1294
01:21:42,720 --> 01:21:45,840
Him and not be. 
Able and not know what was going

1295
01:21:45,840 --> 01:21:47,080
on in that house. 
Yeah. 

1296
01:21:47,480 --> 01:21:52,640
Especially because she knew they
both recognized her from that 

1297
01:21:52,960 --> 01:21:55,240
graduation scene. 
They both did. 

1298
01:21:55,760 --> 01:21:58,600
And they both knew. 
Like, she specifically chose her

1299
01:21:58,600 --> 01:22:02,040
for that reason. 
She was trying to control even 

1300
01:22:02,040 --> 01:22:05,880
them together. 
So let's switch gears to the 

1301
01:22:05,880 --> 01:22:11,040
mystery thriller aspect and the 
police procedural that was at 

1302
01:22:11,040 --> 01:22:14,960
the front and end of every 
episode. 

1303
01:22:15,120 --> 01:22:17,160
There was a mystery of like, who
got killed? 

1304
01:22:17,160 --> 01:22:19,560
Was it Indie? 
Was it this person? 

1305
01:22:19,880 --> 01:22:24,360
Was it the stalker who got 
murdered halfway through the 

1306
01:22:24,360 --> 01:22:26,320
show? 
Halfway through the show, they 

1307
01:22:26,320 --> 01:22:30,560
tell you it's the stalker. 
And then you're like, OK, so I'm

1308
01:22:30,560 --> 01:22:32,840
not upset. 
Like I don't even care who did 

1309
01:22:32,840 --> 01:22:36,520
it, it just I thought that was 
another blight on the show. 

1310
01:22:36,520 --> 01:22:39,360
I did not give a shit about the 
police procedural. 

1311
01:22:39,360 --> 01:22:41,880
It was very when the Camellia 
blooms to me. 

1312
01:22:44,240 --> 01:22:46,800
Caitlin's laughing. 
So did you guys have thoughts 

1313
01:22:46,800 --> 01:22:49,640
about it? 
I was just going to say I didn't

1314
01:22:49,880 --> 01:22:52,040
care for it. 
I didn't think it added anything

1315
01:22:52,040 --> 01:22:57,080
to the show, but also I think 
the constant switch back and 

1316
01:22:57,080 --> 01:23:04,640
forth was a bit jarring at times
and it wasn't obvious that you 

1317
01:23:04,640 --> 01:23:08,880
were what timeline you were. 
Following I would agree. 

1318
01:23:08,880 --> 01:23:11,960
So I think that made it very 
confusing. 

1319
01:23:12,160 --> 01:23:15,840
They could have done it. 
I don't know gradiate it like 

1320
01:23:15,840 --> 01:23:18,480
with a different colored. 
I don't know, they could have 

1321
01:23:18,480 --> 01:23:20,040
done something. 
They could have changed the 

1322
01:23:20,040 --> 01:23:22,600
cinematography or the color. 
Green, yeah, it's different to 

1323
01:23:22,600 --> 01:23:24,800
me. 
For sure what you were looking 

1324
01:23:24,800 --> 01:23:26,280
at. 
Yeah, exactly. 

1325
01:23:26,280 --> 01:23:29,280
So for the first couple of 
episodes, you're kind of like 

1326
01:23:29,280 --> 01:23:31,960
what is happening, and then you 
kind of have to figure out that 

1327
01:23:31,960 --> 01:23:35,920
everything that is cop related 
is in the future and everything 

1328
01:23:35,920 --> 01:23:38,960
else is in the past. 
But I just felt like that was 

1329
01:23:39,080 --> 01:23:41,400
jarring and I didn't think it 
was needed. 

1330
01:23:41,400 --> 01:23:44,840
I don't think the stalker 
storyline was needed at all. 

1331
01:23:45,080 --> 01:23:49,600
There was plenty for the show to
like sink their teeth into or 

1332
01:23:49,800 --> 01:23:53,720
without having all of that. 
And again, I couldn't care less 

1333
01:23:53,960 --> 01:23:58,880
that the stalker died. 
I didn't think, you know, I 

1334
01:23:59,560 --> 01:24:03,600
thought it was a bit ridiculous 
having the ex wife's current 

1335
01:24:03,600 --> 01:24:06,720
husband kill him. 
I was like, what is he like, 

1336
01:24:06,760 --> 01:24:08,200
why? 
I don't know. 

1337
01:24:08,280 --> 01:24:13,400
This doesn't feel like why, why 
is he even doing that? 

1338
01:24:13,400 --> 01:24:15,960
I didn't quite. 
For me personally, I didn't 

1339
01:24:15,960 --> 01:24:23,040
think his reasons were strong 
enough to warrant that response 

1340
01:24:23,040 --> 01:24:27,480
in a way because from what I 
gather he didn't want him to 

1341
01:24:27,720 --> 01:24:30,200
released the documents because 
that would bring the company 

1342
01:24:30,200 --> 01:24:34,160
down and he didn't want his fake
marriage to end or something 

1343
01:24:34,160 --> 01:24:36,000
along those lines. 
That's kind of like what I. 

1344
01:24:36,000 --> 01:24:39,760
It was also revenge. 
It was revenge because he 

1345
01:24:39,760 --> 01:24:41,400
killed. 
He was a keeper. 

1346
01:24:41,400 --> 01:24:44,200
He was a security guard before 
he became a husband. 

1347
01:24:44,480 --> 01:24:48,680
So he killed his colleague. 
His coworker was killed in front

1348
01:24:48,680 --> 01:24:52,680
of him in the lobby. 
So he killed the serial killer, 

1349
01:24:52,680 --> 01:24:56,240
the stalker guy to get revenge 
for his Co worker? 

1350
01:24:56,240 --> 01:25:00,720
Yeah, that husband. 
That fine fine husband had 

1351
01:25:00,720 --> 01:25:03,520
trauma of his own. 
Yeah, I don't think you're 

1352
01:25:03,520 --> 01:25:06,160
wrong, Liliana. 
I think that also was an aspect 

1353
01:25:06,160 --> 01:25:10,720
that he didn't want the marriage
to end, so getting rid of the 

1354
01:25:10,720 --> 01:25:15,680
stalker would preemptively maybe
not Ngongyu's marriage as well 

1355
01:25:15,680 --> 01:25:18,960
as his own marriage. 
So I think you aren't wrong in 

1356
01:25:18,960 --> 01:25:22,840
your reasoning too. 
But I actually was surprised by 

1357
01:25:22,840 --> 01:25:25,480
that. 
I wasn't expecting him to be the

1358
01:25:25,480 --> 01:25:29,920
person who did it at all. 
So I, because it was so 

1359
01:25:29,920 --> 01:25:33,440
unpredictable, because he never 
really crossed my mind, I didn't

1360
01:25:33,440 --> 01:25:38,560
expect him to be a security 
guard or a keeper of the 

1361
01:25:38,560 --> 01:25:40,840
company. 
I always assumed he was just the

1362
01:25:40,840 --> 01:25:44,200
husband, whatever. 
So that was surprising. 

1363
01:25:44,560 --> 01:25:47,400
But then the also the other 
thing that, and this was like my

1364
01:25:47,400 --> 01:25:50,480
own imagination, which I wish 
they kind of did, but they 

1365
01:25:50,480 --> 01:25:53,680
didn't. 
When she goes into the field to 

1366
01:25:53,680 --> 01:25:57,520
get this trunk right and to open
this trunk and she realized she 

1367
01:25:57,520 --> 01:26:00,360
couldn't open it because it's 
the wrong trunk. 

1368
01:26:00,960 --> 01:26:03,000
Yeah. 
Before they, and this was before

1369
01:26:03,000 --> 01:26:05,640
they revealed what was actually 
in the trunk. 

1370
01:26:06,000 --> 01:26:09,280
Right. 
I immediately was like OK who in

1371
01:26:09,280 --> 01:26:13,640
the house also works for this 
for this company who also is a 

1372
01:26:13,640 --> 01:26:18,400
contract wifer, her husband. 
I was like is gong you also a 

1373
01:26:18,400 --> 01:26:20,480
contract husband? 
Like what is going on? 

1374
01:26:21,920 --> 01:26:24,400
Or was the ex-wife also a 
contract wife? 

1375
01:26:24,400 --> 01:26:27,480
What is going on? 
Of course that didn't happen, 

1376
01:26:27,480 --> 01:26:30,760
but that was where my mind went 
when the second trunk was 

1377
01:26:31,960 --> 01:26:36,920
because like, what are the odds 
that the same trunk exists twice

1378
01:26:36,920 --> 01:26:39,160
in the house? 
Granted, she found it when she 

1379
01:26:39,160 --> 01:26:42,640
was first unpacking in episode 
1, but still it's. 

1380
01:26:42,680 --> 01:26:47,960
Because she made it, the ex-wife
made it so because the ex-wife. 

1381
01:26:48,200 --> 01:26:53,360
So there's a flashback that 
Angie is buying that specific 

1382
01:26:53,360 --> 01:26:58,160
trunk and gong, you and the 
ex-wife are in the shop and she 

1383
01:26:58,160 --> 01:27:04,480
says I want that trunk as well. 
So she made it that way because.

1384
01:27:04,960 --> 01:27:06,880
She's crazy. 
Right, right, right. 

1385
01:27:07,120 --> 01:27:08,920
I forgot. 
I forgot about that scene. 

1386
01:27:08,960 --> 01:27:11,000
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. 
Yeah. 

1387
01:27:11,680 --> 01:27:13,200
What did you think? 
I was think of what was inside 

1388
01:27:13,200 --> 01:27:15,720
the trunk. 
That was the other bit of this 

1389
01:27:15,720 --> 01:27:19,680
mystery was what could possibly 
be inside this trunk. 

1390
01:27:20,760 --> 01:27:25,040
We find out that it's baby 
clothes and baby paraphernalia 

1391
01:27:25,600 --> 01:27:29,560
from the child that they lost 
for what the Kong Yu and his 

1392
01:27:29,560 --> 01:27:33,240
ex-wife lost. 
What did you guys think of that 

1393
01:27:33,480 --> 01:27:36,240
being the, I guess that twist or
whatever? 

1394
01:27:36,960 --> 01:27:41,480
So like the wife cried over it, 
which I don't think she was 

1395
01:27:41,480 --> 01:27:44,840
mourning the kid. 
Like, I don't I really do not 

1396
01:27:44,840 --> 01:27:48,120
think she wanted this baby and I
don't think she had any 

1397
01:27:48,680 --> 01:27:52,360
connection to it. 
I think the crying when she 

1398
01:27:52,360 --> 01:27:55,800
actually did open it was 
basically her. 

1399
01:27:56,400 --> 01:28:00,040
And I don't know if it's 
mourning the marriage, but like 

1400
01:28:00,680 --> 01:28:05,560
sort of accepting the fact that 
she's never going to have gong 

1401
01:28:05,560 --> 01:28:08,560
you. 
Like she's never going to be 

1402
01:28:08,560 --> 01:28:12,560
with Gong you just because like 
I don't if she was crying over 

1403
01:28:12,560 --> 01:28:16,600
the baby, I that would not make 
sense to me because like her 

1404
01:28:16,600 --> 01:28:21,720
whole character of this drama up
to that point gave no inkling 

1405
01:28:21,720 --> 01:28:24,960
that she cared for having this 
baby at all and didn't want to 

1406
01:28:24,960 --> 01:28:27,040
get pregnant and didn't want 
this child at all. 

1407
01:28:27,040 --> 01:28:31,680
So to her all of a sudden try 
over baby clothes and mourn this

1408
01:28:31,680 --> 01:28:33,800
child. 
Who put the baby not making 

1409
01:28:33,800 --> 01:28:35,440
sense to me? 
Who bought the baby clothes? 

1410
01:28:36,480 --> 01:28:38,720
I want to say it was gong you 
like. 

1411
01:28:38,720 --> 01:28:44,040
I want to say it was either them
two together or CI. 

1412
01:28:44,760 --> 01:28:45,720
Think it was her. 
Yeah. 

1413
01:28:46,960 --> 01:28:48,520
Because it's so. 
You think it was Gong you? 

1414
01:28:50,360 --> 01:28:52,200
Or like them together. 
I didn't. 

1415
01:28:52,240 --> 01:28:53,360
Yeah. 
I didn't really say. 

1416
01:28:53,440 --> 01:28:58,200
I didn't think it was her, no. 
But The thing is, Gong Yu would 

1417
01:28:58,200 --> 01:29:02,000
have wanted, I think from my 
read of his character, he would 

1418
01:29:02,000 --> 01:29:05,000
have wanted no reminders of that
baby. 

1419
01:29:05,200 --> 01:29:07,960
I don't think he would have 
wanted anything around. 

1420
01:29:08,320 --> 01:29:12,320
Whereas for her. 
And even if he had stored, why 

1421
01:29:12,320 --> 01:29:15,000
would he have stored it inside 
her trunk? 

1422
01:29:15,640 --> 01:29:18,040
It doesn't necessarily make 
sense. 

1423
01:29:18,320 --> 01:29:23,120
So to me, what makes more sense 
is that she stored those clothes

1424
01:29:23,120 --> 01:29:27,040
away and she put them in her own
trunk. 

1425
01:29:27,040 --> 01:29:30,440
Like she's surprisedly the only 
one with the combination to open

1426
01:29:30,440 --> 01:29:34,640
that thing up. 
So she would have put them away,

1427
01:29:34,640 --> 01:29:35,640
I think. 
It's her. 

1428
01:29:35,880 --> 01:29:42,160
I agree with Liliana. 
I think that deep down she 

1429
01:29:42,160 --> 01:29:43,840
doesn't necessarily want the 
baby. 

1430
01:29:43,840 --> 01:29:45,840
I'm not saying she wants the 
baby. 

1431
01:29:45,840 --> 01:29:49,400
I'm thinking she might be 
mourning the life she should 

1432
01:29:49,400 --> 01:29:52,880
have had even if that baby had 
come. 

1433
01:29:52,920 --> 01:29:56,120
I don't know. 
That might be a little inkling 

1434
01:29:56,120 --> 01:29:59,480
in her towards that baby. 
I don't know. 

1435
01:29:59,720 --> 01:30:07,360
But I think there is some 
emotion there from her for that.

1436
01:30:07,360 --> 01:30:07,840
I. 
Think so too. 

1437
01:30:07,960 --> 01:30:11,560
Why was she crying after she was
having the miscarriage before 

1438
01:30:11,560 --> 01:30:14,560
she jumped in front of the car 
in the street? 

1439
01:30:15,200 --> 01:30:20,120
I think that's there's a 
contradictory aspect to her that

1440
01:30:20,160 --> 01:30:25,120
is hard to pin down. 
And I think that it has to do 

1441
01:30:25,120 --> 01:30:30,280
with her deepest desire, which 
is maybe she did want the baby 

1442
01:30:30,280 --> 01:30:33,680
secretly. 
See, I didn't even see her 

1443
01:30:33,680 --> 01:30:37,400
crying during the miscarriage. 
I didn't see her crying for the 

1444
01:30:37,400 --> 01:30:42,160
kid, I saw her crying for the 
fact that Dong you would blame 

1445
01:30:42,160 --> 01:30:46,560
her if she had the miscarriage 
because he was so happy of 

1446
01:30:46,560 --> 01:30:49,440
having this child. 
I don't think we're wrong. 

1447
01:30:49,480 --> 01:30:50,840
I don't think any of us are 
wrong. 

1448
01:30:52,200 --> 01:30:54,400
Right. 
I think it's a confluence of 

1449
01:30:54,400 --> 01:31:00,160
things and the surprise of 
seeing the baby clothes in her 

1450
01:31:00,160 --> 01:31:04,440
trunk, which is only she has the
combination for she bought it. 

1451
01:31:05,120 --> 01:31:08,720
It really is symbolic, right? 
It's a metaphor for we all have 

1452
01:31:08,720 --> 01:31:11,080
trunks, right? 
That only we have the 

1453
01:31:11,080 --> 01:31:15,000
combinations for. 
And we lug it around from place 

1454
01:31:15,000 --> 01:31:16,720
to place and nobody knows what's
inside. 

1455
01:31:17,800 --> 01:31:25,720
And for her, it was this deep, 
deep desire, maybe connection to

1456
01:31:26,160 --> 01:31:30,360
wanting the baby or or wanting 
to be try it out, be a mom, 

1457
01:31:31,560 --> 01:31:34,320
something that maybe it's just 
contradictory to her nature, 

1458
01:31:34,440 --> 01:31:37,240
right? 
Yeah, I think two things can be 

1459
01:31:37,240 --> 01:31:41,720
true at the same time. 
I think she can feel like she 

1460
01:31:41,720 --> 01:31:44,680
wants the baby and she can also 
feel like she doesn't want the 

1461
01:31:44,680 --> 01:31:47,000
baby. 
I think those two things can 

1462
01:31:47,000 --> 01:31:51,600
coexist at the same time. 1 does
not evaluate the other and I 

1463
01:31:51,600 --> 01:31:55,200
think can hate. 
The baby because of how it 

1464
01:31:55,200 --> 01:31:57,200
changed her relationship. 
Exactly. 

1465
01:31:57,240 --> 01:32:01,680
Exactly, Yeah. 
And even hate herself because 

1466
01:32:01,680 --> 01:32:06,400
deep down she may want this 
baby, so and it may go against 

1467
01:32:06,440 --> 01:32:09,000
everything that she is as a 
character. 

1468
01:32:09,360 --> 01:32:13,360
So I think like I said, I just 
think two things could be true 

1469
01:32:13,360 --> 01:32:17,200
at the same time. 
So I think she might not want 

1470
01:32:17,200 --> 01:32:21,640
the baby and in her mind 
thinking I've never wanted a 

1471
01:32:21,640 --> 01:32:23,760
kid, I don't want it. 
But then deep down. 

1472
01:32:23,760 --> 01:32:25,960
The idea of. 
Wanting it, Yeah. 

1473
01:32:25,960 --> 01:32:30,800
The idea of the baby and then 
hating herself for wanting that 

1474
01:32:30,800 --> 01:32:32,280
baby. 
So. 

1475
01:32:32,360 --> 01:32:35,720
So yeah. 
I think we've come to the same 

1476
01:32:35,720 --> 01:32:40,440
conclusion, Liliana. 
And then for Angie, you know, at

1477
01:32:40,440 --> 01:32:42,960
the end of the show, she had, 
she like, gets rid of the trunk.

1478
01:32:43,800 --> 01:32:45,560
She sells the trunk. 
It's empty. 

1479
01:32:45,600 --> 01:32:48,800
And that's also a pretty 
powerful message as well, where 

1480
01:32:48,800 --> 01:32:51,160
she's like, I have no secrets, 
There's nothing to hide. 

1481
01:32:51,160 --> 01:32:53,840
I'm not going to carry around 
this baggage anymore. 

1482
01:32:53,880 --> 01:32:56,760
This emotional. 
Yeah, she's letting go. 

1483
01:32:57,320 --> 01:33:00,080
So I found that really great. 
The ending. 

1484
01:33:00,080 --> 01:33:02,040
Do you want to run through the 
ending really fast? 

1485
01:33:03,000 --> 01:33:08,560
I really liked the scene of her 
going to his house for the final

1486
01:33:08,560 --> 01:33:13,080
time and he's selling the house 
and he just picks up a mallet 

1487
01:33:13,080 --> 01:33:16,840
and goes to town. 
And it's like he is literally 

1488
01:33:16,840 --> 01:33:21,640
breaking walls, figuratively 
and, you know, directly breaking

1489
01:33:21,640 --> 01:33:24,600
walls. 
And I really liked that imagery 

1490
01:33:24,600 --> 01:33:28,200
and the fact that he's breaking 
the walls that have kept him 

1491
01:33:28,200 --> 01:33:33,120
shackled to this house and, you 
know, breaking away from them. 

1492
01:33:33,120 --> 01:33:41,320
So I loved that last little 
scene and normally I hate the 

1493
01:33:41,320 --> 01:33:44,840
whole separation in the last 
episode type of situation. 

1494
01:33:44,840 --> 01:33:47,000
Oh, they needed it. 
Exactly. 

1495
01:33:47,000 --> 01:33:52,760
This is one of the very, very, 
very few places where I'm like, 

1496
01:33:53,000 --> 01:33:56,440
this is exactly what they needed
because together they started 

1497
01:33:56,440 --> 01:33:58,440
the journey. 
But they need to work on 

1498
01:33:58,440 --> 01:34:02,160
themselves by themselves. 
They need to work on that trauma

1499
01:34:02,160 --> 01:34:06,760
and be happy with themselves as 
people to then be able to give 

1500
01:34:06,760 --> 01:34:11,200
themselves to a relationship. 
And I, you know, they need to 

1501
01:34:11,200 --> 01:34:15,000
walk away from the fact that 
they're almost like trauma 

1502
01:34:15,000 --> 01:34:18,440
bonded because they kind of like
to dumped all of their trauma on

1503
01:34:18,440 --> 01:34:23,880
each other for a little bit. 
So I really liked the ending. 

1504
01:34:23,880 --> 01:34:28,520
I liked the fact that they 
walked away and with no, what's 

1505
01:34:28,520 --> 01:34:32,560
the word with no plan. 
They just said if we meet again,

1506
01:34:32,920 --> 01:34:36,480
if we meet three times. 
They left it in a serendipitous 

1507
01:34:36,480 --> 01:34:38,320
place, which is I. 
Think where people. 

1508
01:34:38,480 --> 01:34:41,240
But that's K drama. 
See. 

1509
01:34:41,360 --> 01:34:44,800
I think that's Western as well. 
That's very Western as well, 

1510
01:34:44,800 --> 01:34:45,840
sorry. 
It is. 

1511
01:34:46,120 --> 01:34:48,360
Have you seen a ROM com in the 
West? 

1512
01:34:48,400 --> 01:34:51,680
And I think, and I think it 
works really well for them as 

1513
01:34:51,680 --> 01:34:54,280
characters. 
I really like that montage of 

1514
01:34:54,280 --> 01:34:57,560
them just him cooking for 
himself, them getting pets for 

1515
01:34:57,560 --> 01:34:59,160
each other. 
Like, you know, but they're. 

1516
01:34:59,160 --> 01:35:02,400
Still like their own person. 
Because. 

1517
01:35:02,400 --> 01:35:04,920
She likes dogs, he likes cats. 
And they have some 

1518
01:35:04,920 --> 01:35:07,840
commonalities. 
They both dislike tomatoes in 

1519
01:35:07,840 --> 01:35:11,080
their cheeseburgers. 
And, you know, it's very 

1520
01:35:11,080 --> 01:35:14,000
realistic. 
You know, these are some things 

1521
01:35:14,000 --> 01:35:19,760
that real grown-ups have to 
contend with as they grow and 

1522
01:35:19,760 --> 01:35:21,720
change. 
It's like, yeah, I kind of 

1523
01:35:21,720 --> 01:35:24,280
figured they're like, I don't 
really like dogs. 

1524
01:35:24,280 --> 01:35:25,520
I like cats. 
Cats are chill. 

1525
01:35:25,720 --> 01:35:27,520
And Kong you. 
I think he's a cat guy as well 

1526
01:35:27,520 --> 01:35:30,480
in real life. 
So it's that it's sort of tracks

1527
01:35:31,120 --> 01:35:36,000
her as well, like her just 
finding her own way and getting 

1528
01:35:36,000 --> 01:35:38,560
out of that bunk. 
And just getting out of that 

1529
01:35:38,560 --> 01:35:44,440
house because she had not lived 
in her own home for a very, very

1530
01:35:44,440 --> 01:35:47,280
long time. 
She either lived at the house 

1531
01:35:47,520 --> 01:35:52,760
that was meant to be her married
house or at, you know, fake 

1532
01:35:52,760 --> 01:35:57,120
husband's houses. 
So for her to have her own space

1533
01:35:57,120 --> 01:36:01,240
and live in her own space. 
I just, I was really happy with 

1534
01:36:01,240 --> 01:36:04,400
like the ending overall. 
I really liked like them getting

1535
01:36:04,400 --> 01:36:09,200
distance and perspective and 
kind of leaving it up to chance.

1536
01:36:09,200 --> 01:36:13,840
If they meet, they meet, you 
know, and it's an open ending. 

1537
01:36:13,840 --> 01:36:17,520
But I think that's reminiscent 
of life itself. 

1538
01:36:17,520 --> 01:36:20,440
Because. 
What is life but an open ending?

1539
01:36:20,440 --> 01:36:23,480
So yeah, you know. 
I liked it. 

1540
01:36:23,640 --> 01:36:25,480
I thought it was really cute and
romantic. 

1541
01:36:25,480 --> 01:36:30,200
Kong You smile at the end. 
I wanted to read something from 

1542
01:36:30,200 --> 01:36:33,960
a follower who really, really 
liked the show and they said 

1543
01:36:33,960 --> 01:36:35,880
this. 
I loved that it felt like Pulp 

1544
01:36:35,880 --> 01:36:38,480
Fiction. 
Everything was connected but not

1545
01:36:38,480 --> 01:36:41,480
in the way I thought. 
I loved that Kong You was able 

1546
01:36:41,480 --> 01:36:45,080
to find love and realize the 
abuse his ex was doing that he 

1547
01:36:45,080 --> 01:36:48,080
wanted to love again. 
Female lead is amazing. 

1548
01:36:48,360 --> 01:36:51,840
Loved her and why her and she 
played understated bitch with 

1549
01:36:51,840 --> 01:36:53,800
class and ES. 
I agree. 

1550
01:36:54,320 --> 01:36:57,920
I loved that the people I 
thought were horrible were and 

1551
01:36:57,920 --> 01:37:00,640
that everyone had their own 
misery to contend with. 

1552
01:37:01,040 --> 01:37:03,480
I love how Kong Yu's character 
just came out and said it. 

1553
01:37:03,680 --> 01:37:05,960
I want to sleep with you. 
You should know that. 

1554
01:37:06,480 --> 01:37:09,240
Then when he said I think I 
could be someone who can't live 

1555
01:37:09,240 --> 01:37:11,720
without you. 
He was just so raw and honest 

1556
01:37:11,720 --> 01:37:15,080
with it, and I love that so 
much. 

1557
01:37:15,080 --> 01:37:18,440
I just thought I'd read verbatim
what they messaged me. 

1558
01:37:18,760 --> 01:37:22,200
I agree completely. 
I thought it was a raw and 

1559
01:37:22,200 --> 01:37:26,040
honest take at very flawed 
individuals. 

1560
01:37:26,040 --> 01:37:28,920
It was a noir. 
And for those who don't know 

1561
01:37:28,920 --> 01:37:31,640
what a noir is, it's a style of 
filmmaking known for its dark 

1562
01:37:31,640 --> 01:37:35,560
and cynical, pessimistic themes.
And that's what this show is. 

1563
01:37:35,720 --> 01:37:39,560
The K drama in it is that it 
ends on a bit of a positive 

1564
01:37:39,560 --> 01:37:42,120
note. 
It ends on like an uptick. 

1565
01:37:42,520 --> 01:37:45,240
That's the K drama in it, that's
the romance in it. 

1566
01:37:45,600 --> 01:37:52,200
I thought it was really thought 
provoking, probing and I don't 

1567
01:37:52,200 --> 01:37:54,480
think it's for everybody, 
unfortunately. 

1568
01:37:55,520 --> 01:37:58,800
Do you guys have any last words?
One thing I noticed watching 

1569
01:37:58,800 --> 01:38:04,520
this was the red and blue 
comparison, which is obviously 

1570
01:38:04,520 --> 01:38:08,520
from the Matrix, like red pill, 
blue pill. 

1571
01:38:08,520 --> 01:38:13,840
And that was A constant theme 
through this entire up until the

1572
01:38:13,840 --> 01:38:17,160
last scene because Gongu was 
wearing red pants and she was 

1573
01:38:17,160 --> 01:38:20,200
wearing blue pants. 
So was he going to take the 

1574
01:38:20,560 --> 01:38:22,040
show? 
Was she going to take the blue 

1575
01:38:22,040 --> 01:38:26,640
pill again and go back into the 
illusion of them getting 

1576
01:38:26,640 --> 01:38:30,080
married? 
I forgot to say that this show 

1577
01:38:30,080 --> 01:38:34,720
had some goblin tie insurance. 
Like they go to the movie 

1578
01:38:34,720 --> 01:38:38,920
theater and watch a scary movie 
and Kong U's character is a 

1579
01:38:38,920 --> 01:38:42,160
scaredy cat. 
That's the same as Goblin. 

1580
01:38:42,520 --> 01:38:44,760
There's a scene just like that 
in Goblin, just a little more 

1581
01:38:44,760 --> 01:38:48,520
played for comedic effect. 
And then she, the female lead, 

1582
01:38:48,520 --> 01:38:54,400
wears a bright red scarf just 
like the female lead in Goblin. 

1583
01:38:55,200 --> 01:38:57,320
And I don't think that's a 
coincidence. 

1584
01:38:57,720 --> 01:39:00,040
None of that to me. 
Is, I don't think, no, I don't 

1585
01:39:00,040 --> 01:39:01,560
think that was a coincidence 
either. 

1586
01:39:03,760 --> 01:39:05,640
Yeah. 
It reminded me when you said the

1587
01:39:05,880 --> 01:39:08,480
blue pill and red pill. 
Yeah. 

1588
01:39:08,480 --> 01:39:12,000
So like if people don't know 
what that like what that whole 

1589
01:39:12,000 --> 01:39:16,960
Matrix thing is, basically it's 
the famous scene where Morpheus 

1590
01:39:17,320 --> 01:39:22,720
hands out the red or blue pill 
and Neo has to make a decision 

1591
01:39:23,120 --> 01:39:25,040
on if he's what he's going to 
take. 

1592
01:39:25,040 --> 01:39:29,400
And like the blue pill is, he's 
going to continue in the Matrix 

1593
01:39:29,680 --> 01:39:32,240
and live out the life that he 
had been living. 

1594
01:39:32,760 --> 01:39:37,360
And then the red pill knocks him
into reality and takes him out 

1595
01:39:37,360 --> 01:39:41,240
of the illusion. 
So that's essentially what it's 

1596
01:39:41,240 --> 01:39:43,560
doing. 
Like with the colors in this 

1597
01:39:43,560 --> 01:39:48,040
drama, a common blue, we see the
ex-wife, the horrible ex-wife 

1598
01:39:48,040 --> 01:39:50,640
wearing a blue necklace the 
entire show. 

1599
01:39:51,200 --> 01:39:56,400
He's taking blue medication. 
Gongu's character, most of the 

1600
01:39:56,400 --> 01:39:59,920
clothing he's wearing when it 
comes to being in that house is 

1601
01:39:59,920 --> 01:40:02,680
a shade of blue or black or like
that. 

1602
01:40:02,760 --> 01:40:07,920
That color scheme and then you 
have her walk in and she's 

1603
01:40:07,920 --> 01:40:11,400
wearing red or color shades of 
red a lot of the time. 

1604
01:40:11,720 --> 01:40:15,840
There's a scene where the 
ex-wife once they've he finds 

1605
01:40:15,840 --> 01:40:19,320
out what he did and she tries to
go and smooth it over. 

1606
01:40:19,640 --> 01:40:23,680
He took out red juice from the 
fridge and was drinking it while

1607
01:40:23,680 --> 01:40:27,120
she was trying to give him her 
case and everything like that. 

1608
01:40:27,160 --> 01:40:28,360
So like. 
It's. 

1609
01:40:29,200 --> 01:40:33,880
It was interesting and they even
like explained the the matrix 

1610
01:40:33,880 --> 01:40:37,800
lingo with these two colors in 
the show like in the drama. 

1611
01:40:38,080 --> 01:40:42,640
So once they said that I was 
like oh OK I should probably 

1612
01:40:42,640 --> 01:40:46,080
watch out for these two colors 
in the entire drama which is why

1613
01:40:46,080 --> 01:40:49,560
I noticed so much. 
But I loved how it worked even 

1614
01:40:49,560 --> 01:40:54,520
to the last episode or last seen
in the last episode because I 

1615
01:40:54,520 --> 01:40:56,680
like, you should have seen me. 
I like watch the last scene. 

1616
01:40:56,680 --> 01:40:59,160
I'm like, oh, Oh my God, Oh my 
God. 

1617
01:40:59,560 --> 01:41:02,320
Because it was like, is he going
to walk away from this 

1618
01:41:02,320 --> 01:41:05,880
relationship and continue down 
the red pill path that he had 

1619
01:41:05,880 --> 01:41:10,480
been living for however many 
months it have been since they 

1620
01:41:10,480 --> 01:41:13,960
last saw each other? 
Or is he going to start over 

1621
01:41:13,960 --> 01:41:17,440
with this new relationship and 
enter this blue illusion with 

1622
01:41:17,440 --> 01:41:22,360
her again? 
So I love that messaging so 

1623
01:41:22,360 --> 01:41:23,680
much. 
Me too. 

1624
01:41:24,320 --> 01:41:26,680
Yeah. 
All right, guys, we've done it. 

1625
01:41:26,680 --> 01:41:32,400
We have traversed the entirety 
of the trunk and if you guys 

1626
01:41:32,400 --> 01:41:35,720
have anything you guys would 
like to say to us about the 

1627
01:41:35,720 --> 01:41:39,160
trunk, we are more than happy to
discuss it with you on the 

1628
01:41:39,160 --> 01:41:41,760
socials. 
You guys want to say where they 

1629
01:41:41,760 --> 01:41:45,880
can find you? 
So for me it's T and Soju pod, 

1630
01:41:45,880 --> 01:41:50,960
all one word on Instagram, 
TikTok and all of those places. 

1631
01:41:51,160 --> 01:41:55,000
I'm no sleep. 
The number 4 dramas on 

1632
01:41:55,000 --> 01:41:58,200
Instagram, TikTok blog, YouTube,
whatever. 

1633
01:41:58,720 --> 01:41:59,680
Yep. 
Hit us up. 

1634
01:41:59,760 --> 01:42:02,600
You know where to find us. 
That's it, That's our show. 

1635
01:42:02,640 --> 01:42:05,880
I'm Jessica and this has been 
the Tibock Here Rambles podcast.

1636
01:42:06,080 --> 01:42:32,320
Bye. 
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