1 00:00:03,200 --> 00:00:15,480 I. Feel like I'm not ready. 2 00:00:15,880 --> 00:00:18,600 That's true. I haven't even, I haven't even 3 00:00:18,840 --> 00:00:22,200 thought about my character. Like, Oh yeah, did you made him? 4 00:00:22,480 --> 00:00:25,720 I made him put. In sheet sheet. 5 00:00:26,000 --> 00:00:29,000 Yeah, did you make the sheet on Star Wars 5E like the rest? 6 00:00:29,000 --> 00:00:31,800 Of us did, yeah, When everyone else did, yeah. 7 00:00:32,119 --> 00:00:34,400 And I sent it to Danny. I can't think of your character. 8 00:00:34,400 --> 00:00:37,160 What was he? Really. 9 00:00:37,720 --> 00:00:40,240 I it's not ringing a bell. I was the Rhodian. 10 00:00:40,840 --> 00:00:41,880 The Rhodian? Yeah. 11 00:00:42,240 --> 00:00:48,120 What's his deal though? He is a like he he assassinates 12 00:00:48,120 --> 00:00:52,040 like noble people, like higher no. 13 00:00:53,440 --> 00:00:58,280 I have to ask that now. OK I play I play 1 gay character 14 00:00:58,280 --> 00:01:00,960 and now every every time that I play a new character they're 15 00:01:00,960 --> 00:01:03,680 like. Yeah, 'cause all your characters 16 00:01:03,680 --> 00:01:05,440 are gay. That's not true. 17 00:01:08,160 --> 00:01:10,760 I mean, what's his name? Felix. 18 00:01:10,960 --> 00:01:13,400 He was gay. Yeah, 1. 19 00:01:13,680 --> 00:01:16,040 All your SO, all your characters are gay. 20 00:01:16,360 --> 00:01:19,840 Name me one one other of my characters that were gay. 21 00:01:20,080 --> 00:01:22,400 So anyway, what you? Got exactly. 22 00:01:26,600 --> 00:01:27,880 I just. Eat my butt. 23 00:01:28,320 --> 00:01:30,120 Wait a minute. Say less. 24 00:01:33,360 --> 00:01:35,120 I don't know what you do this week, Joey. 25 00:01:35,440 --> 00:01:37,120 Yeah, exactly. Not much. 26 00:01:38,160 --> 00:01:40,600 You guys talking crap? Yeah, I am. 27 00:01:40,760 --> 00:01:43,600 Because I I asked you. I asked you the exact same 28 00:01:43,600 --> 00:01:45,480 question you asked. I asked you what you were doing 29 00:01:45,480 --> 00:01:50,640 and you said nothing, Dickhead, He's doing it again. 30 00:01:50,880 --> 00:01:53,320 I'm sorry, stuck away for something. 31 00:01:53,360 --> 00:01:58,200 What'd you say? I'm. 32 00:01:59,320 --> 00:02:04,120 Gooning again. No, there were six people dead 33 00:02:04,120 --> 00:02:06,000 in Michigan because you wrecked into him. 34 00:02:06,240 --> 00:02:08,919 Yeah, what the heck, Joey? Something about going around a a 35 00:02:08,919 --> 00:02:11,640 a school bus stop arm or something I don't know. 36 00:02:11,840 --> 00:02:13,400 I don't know what that has to do with me. 37 00:02:13,720 --> 00:02:16,160 Yeah, you. You crashed into a van carrying 38 00:02:16,160 --> 00:02:18,760 a whole group of Amish people. Dude, that's not cool. 39 00:02:19,280 --> 00:02:21,720 Amish. Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. 40 00:02:21,720 --> 00:02:23,040 This is. Like the one time they were 41 00:02:23,200 --> 00:02:25,040 going through my foot fetish. What? 42 00:02:25,440 --> 00:02:27,880 Wait, Amish people couldn't be in a van, could they? 43 00:02:28,320 --> 00:02:30,040 They could be transported against their will. 44 00:02:30,240 --> 00:02:34,440 It's not a sin. No, no, They're making advances 45 00:02:34,440 --> 00:02:36,040 using more technology these days. 46 00:02:36,080 --> 00:02:38,360 Some of them are the New Agey. Ones like they're kind of, 47 00:02:38,360 --> 00:02:40,800 they're kind of forced to. The ones that are like they're 48 00:02:40,800 --> 00:02:43,880 open to to gay like all like all the Cheddar's characters be 49 00:02:43,880 --> 00:02:44,560 accepted. Let's. 50 00:02:51,320 --> 00:02:53,400 See, I'm going to stick a fishing hook in your nose. 51 00:02:55,000 --> 00:02:57,280 Oh, all your. Characters are gay because it 52 00:02:57,280 --> 00:03:01,240 feels like so good. Even though like canonically at 53 00:03:01,240 --> 00:03:04,720 least three of them have, you know, wives or had a wife. 54 00:03:05,040 --> 00:03:07,840 Yeah, Draven was laying pipe all season. 55 00:03:08,040 --> 00:03:10,560 So I'm I'm pretty sure. Eddie, correct me. 56 00:03:10,960 --> 00:03:14,840 Correct me if I'm wrong, I feel like that just evolved that way 57 00:03:14,880 --> 00:03:16,920 with. I don't think you set out 58 00:03:16,920 --> 00:03:22,120 originally for Felix to be. That way I, I had him, I had the 59 00:03:22,120 --> 00:03:24,840 thought that he was going to be like more reserved, but as soon 60 00:03:24,840 --> 00:03:27,120 as he got that Devil's dust, it kind of like unlocked something 61 00:03:27,120 --> 00:03:28,240 in him. Reserved. 62 00:03:28,280 --> 00:03:32,560 He was gay, OK. Not exactly closeted, but like, 63 00:03:33,720 --> 00:03:35,680 like, he's not all about that, you know? 64 00:03:36,000 --> 00:03:38,000 Yeah. 'Cause it didn't seem like, it 65 00:03:38,000 --> 00:03:41,520 seemed like at some point, like after a couple of episodes, his, 66 00:03:41,800 --> 00:03:43,600 his demeanor changed a little bit. 67 00:03:43,680 --> 00:03:44,680 Shoot. His tracker. 68 00:03:44,880 --> 00:03:46,840 Yeah. Oh, speaking. 69 00:03:46,840 --> 00:03:48,920 I was doing something this week. I actually have an answer for 70 00:03:48,920 --> 00:03:50,800 you, Joey. What answer? 71 00:03:51,480 --> 00:03:54,480 To what I did this week. Oh, that if you're gayer. 72 00:03:54,600 --> 00:03:59,800 I fucking hate you dude. Whoa, why you so defensive? 73 00:04:01,400 --> 00:04:02,480 Anyway be. Confident. 74 00:04:02,480 --> 00:04:06,040 Be confident in your sexuality. I hate you so much anyway, a 75 00:04:06,040 --> 00:04:08,800 little. But I, I, I know I mentioned it 76 00:04:08,800 --> 00:04:11,920 was either last week or two weeks ago that I mentioned that 77 00:04:11,920 --> 00:04:13,880 I got, I was getting new computer parts to upgrade my 78 00:04:13,880 --> 00:04:15,080 computer. You did. 79 00:04:15,080 --> 00:04:19,399 And I got them all sitting right here and I was waiting on my 80 00:04:19,399 --> 00:04:23,240 motherboard to come in on Thursday and I bought it brand 81 00:04:23,240 --> 00:04:27,560 new from Amazon because, you know, they're having a deal on 82 00:04:27,560 --> 00:04:28,840 it. And I was like, cool, this is 83 00:04:28,840 --> 00:04:31,360 actually the one I wanted. I'm going to buy it because it 84 00:04:31,360 --> 00:04:33,280 was like 80 bucks cheaper otherwise. 85 00:04:33,640 --> 00:04:37,120 Otherwise it would be like, I think it was like 260. 86 00:04:37,400 --> 00:04:40,360 So I bought it for about 180 to 200 whatever. 87 00:04:40,360 --> 00:04:43,800 Penis. So I bought it and you know, 88 00:04:43,840 --> 00:04:46,880 it's, it fits everything. It's a actual upgrade to the 89 00:04:46,880 --> 00:04:49,640 motherboard that I have now. It has more m.twoslotsithas, 90 00:04:51,320 --> 00:04:52,960 better fittings and stuff like that. 91 00:04:53,280 --> 00:04:56,200 And I get it on Thursday. I'm like yes I'm so excited to 92 00:04:56,200 --> 00:05:00,200 pair apart my PCI, bring it out to my dining room table because 93 00:05:00,200 --> 00:05:03,960 I have more space, and I opened the box to my new motherboard. 94 00:05:04,200 --> 00:05:06,560 They sent me a broken one. How? 95 00:05:06,640 --> 00:05:10,600 How did that happen? There was no like all the parts 96 00:05:10,600 --> 00:05:13,480 that were broken off, like the CPU socket was completely 97 00:05:13,480 --> 00:05:16,400 snapped off. The there was a couple of PSU 98 00:05:16,400 --> 00:05:19,800 sockets that were missing and there was a bunch of like bent 99 00:05:19,800 --> 00:05:22,040 pins and stuff like that throughout the entire thing. 100 00:05:22,040 --> 00:05:23,720 Geez. It what? 101 00:05:23,760 --> 00:05:27,480 It wasn't like none of the parts that were broken were floating 102 00:05:27,480 --> 00:05:29,800 around in the bag or the box that it came in. 103 00:05:30,200 --> 00:05:33,320 Oh, that means that they sent it to me that way, that it was 104 00:05:33,320 --> 00:05:36,520 planned to be refurbished, but they grabbed it and then sent it 105 00:05:36,520 --> 00:05:40,600 to me, so I returned it. It's gonna take 14 business days 106 00:05:40,600 --> 00:05:42,600 for me to get my refund. Dang. 107 00:05:43,040 --> 00:05:47,560 And I and I have a new one on the way so that like the one 108 00:05:47,560 --> 00:05:50,040 that they set, they don't accidentally set or they don't 109 00:05:50,040 --> 00:05:52,320 send me the one that they sent me the first time do. 110 00:05:52,360 --> 00:05:54,200 You have to. You had to repurchase it. 111 00:05:54,480 --> 00:05:58,120 Yeah, that sucks. But the one that I I'm sending 112 00:05:58,120 --> 00:06:01,080 back, I will get a refund in 14 business days. 113 00:06:01,280 --> 00:06:03,440 Yeah, it's just annoying. You shouldn't have to do that on 114 00:06:03,440 --> 00:06:04,360 there. Right. 115 00:06:04,920 --> 00:06:09,160 And not only that, like I like, I could not talk to anyone about 116 00:06:09,160 --> 00:06:10,520 it. Every time that I brought up 117 00:06:10,520 --> 00:06:13,920 like customer service, they're like self help type of stuff, 118 00:06:13,920 --> 00:06:16,560 you know, to like send it back or like start your own return 119 00:06:16,560 --> 00:06:19,080 thing. I couldn't talk to anyone about 120 00:06:19,080 --> 00:06:20,520 it. You couldn't get a hold of the 121 00:06:20,520 --> 00:06:22,560 seller themselves, huh? No. 122 00:06:22,880 --> 00:06:25,400 How did you then? Through the self help they have 123 00:06:25,400 --> 00:06:30,080 like their own like process on the app like I'm like return 124 00:06:30,080 --> 00:06:31,640 this and then they're like what's wrong with it? 125 00:06:31,640 --> 00:06:36,600 I'm like broken on on arrival. Did you mean you broke it? 126 00:06:36,920 --> 00:06:40,280 Right did. You mean you never received it? 127 00:06:40,720 --> 00:06:42,600 No. Wow, that sucks. 128 00:06:42,880 --> 00:06:45,040 If they, if they pulled that crap on me, I would have 129 00:06:45,040 --> 00:06:47,960 actually like raised hell and called them because that's like 130 00:06:48,880 --> 00:06:52,360 1 unacceptable. Yeah, it's not what I paid for. 131 00:06:52,640 --> 00:06:55,280 Yeah. But I sent that back. 132 00:06:55,280 --> 00:06:57,160 I got a new one coming. It should be coming Monday, 133 00:06:57,160 --> 00:06:59,920 which is surprising because the first one took two weeks to ship 134 00:06:59,920 --> 00:07:01,600 and send. It's stinky. 135 00:07:01,680 --> 00:07:03,840 Yeah, wow. Is that international? 136 00:07:04,720 --> 00:07:06,480 I don't think so. I wonder why it would take so 137 00:07:06,480 --> 00:07:07,640 long. I don't know. 138 00:07:07,640 --> 00:07:09,960 It just took the first one. It just took two weeks. 139 00:07:09,960 --> 00:07:14,080 This one I ordered in Thursday and it's coming in Monday, so. 140 00:07:14,720 --> 00:07:17,920 See, and that's more like, I mean generally what it what it 141 00:07:17,920 --> 00:07:19,560 would take. I mean, I could see it maybe 142 00:07:19,560 --> 00:07:22,000 taking a little longer. But they're not Amazon. 143 00:07:22,000 --> 00:07:25,280 But it shouldn't take two weeks. Generally, no. 144 00:07:25,280 --> 00:07:28,920 There have been a few times. There was one time I, I ordered 145 00:07:28,920 --> 00:07:31,640 it off of Amazon. I don't believe it was coming 146 00:07:31,640 --> 00:07:35,640 from China. It was a Craftsman tire inflator 147 00:07:36,360 --> 00:07:40,720 and it took, I ordered it like a good month. 148 00:07:41,240 --> 00:07:43,200 Yeah, like a good month before Christmas. 149 00:07:43,200 --> 00:07:45,480 I think it was right around Black Friday that I ordered it 150 00:07:45,800 --> 00:07:48,560 from and or a little after. Huh. 151 00:07:48,960 --> 00:07:51,800 From wish cuz it no, they're the only ones that. 152 00:07:52,000 --> 00:07:53,880 From Amazon From Amazon and Wish. 153 00:07:53,880 --> 00:07:55,760 Is the only guys that I know that take that long? 154 00:07:55,960 --> 00:07:59,160 It took a month and 1/2 it was like 2 weeks after Christmas I 155 00:07:59,160 --> 00:08:00,400 finally got it. We. 156 00:08:00,400 --> 00:08:04,320 Forgot. When I ordered it, it said it 157 00:08:04,320 --> 00:08:07,040 was going to take that long, so I didn't know if there was like. 158 00:08:07,320 --> 00:08:09,720 Well, if you ordered it around Christmas time, that's probably 159 00:08:09,720 --> 00:08:11,560 why. It was almost a month before. 160 00:08:11,560 --> 00:08:12,880 Christmas. I know just. 161 00:08:12,920 --> 00:08:15,960 I don't think that was still November. 162 00:08:17,120 --> 00:08:20,560 Amazon ramps up like late October with all these like. 163 00:08:21,440 --> 00:08:23,440 That's Christmas. Presents and stuff. 164 00:08:23,600 --> 00:08:26,040 But that was the only thing. Well, there was one. 165 00:08:26,040 --> 00:08:27,240 There was like one or two other things. 166 00:08:27,360 --> 00:08:30,000 But like a month and a half seems a bit, you know? 167 00:08:30,160 --> 00:08:32,159 That's a lot. Yeah. 168 00:08:32,480 --> 00:08:36,440 So I did have another motherboard in mind before I 169 00:08:36,559 --> 00:08:39,679 ordered the one from Amazon and I bought it from another 170 00:08:39,679 --> 00:08:41,520 website. I use a website called PC Part 171 00:08:41,520 --> 00:08:45,720 Picker and that allows you to. Say that sometimes fast. 172 00:08:46,080 --> 00:08:47,680 PC park picker. PC park picker. 173 00:08:47,680 --> 00:08:49,280 PC Park Picker. PC park Picker. 174 00:08:49,400 --> 00:08:52,560 You got to mess up. Not really, you did pretty well. 175 00:08:52,560 --> 00:08:56,600 It's not that hard. Anyway, are you able to select 176 00:08:56,600 --> 00:09:02,160 like different stores for it and and what they have as the price 177 00:09:02,400 --> 00:09:08,600 for that store like Best Buy, Amazon, Intel directly at the 178 00:09:08,600 --> 00:09:11,600 MSI, you know, the different companies and stuff like that. 179 00:09:11,880 --> 00:09:14,560 So you have different options and it's it's a really good 180 00:09:14,560 --> 00:09:16,480 website and I highly recommended. 181 00:09:17,440 --> 00:09:21,880 And I bought it and I bought 1 motherboard that was different 182 00:09:21,880 --> 00:09:23,440 from the one that I'm ordering from Amazon. 183 00:09:23,520 --> 00:09:26,440 And the reason why I chose different is because the one 184 00:09:26,440 --> 00:09:29,480 that I ordered first time is apparently on back order 185 00:09:29,480 --> 00:09:33,240 nationwide. It's on a nationwide back order 186 00:09:33,440 --> 00:09:35,880 because either so many people ordered it or they just had a 187 00:09:35,880 --> 00:09:37,840 shortage, so. I was like, I'll just, it's 188 00:09:37,840 --> 00:09:41,640 pretty penis. And it took me, it took me two 189 00:09:41,640 --> 00:09:47,800 hours talking to like I don't, it was like a little live chat 190 00:09:47,800 --> 00:09:51,800 room on this website. It was called about or AVT or 191 00:09:51,800 --> 00:09:55,800 something like that. And it took me two hours to tell 192 00:09:55,800 --> 00:09:59,240 the guy that I want to either cancel it or get a refund. 193 00:09:59,240 --> 00:10:01,320 And he was like, oh, it didn't, it didn't go through. 194 00:10:01,320 --> 00:10:03,240 So it's not a refund. I'm like, OK, then cancel the 195 00:10:03,240 --> 00:10:05,120 order. Well, it's you won't be 196 00:10:05,120 --> 00:10:06,600 refunded. I know you said that. 197 00:10:06,840 --> 00:10:08,760 Whatever. I checked my account, it didn't 198 00:10:08,760 --> 00:10:09,920 pull out of it. Cool. 199 00:10:10,280 --> 00:10:12,840 And then it will take him like 20 minutes to respond to me. 200 00:10:12,840 --> 00:10:14,880 And I'm like, cool. Jeez. 201 00:10:14,960 --> 00:10:19,440 So it's customer service these days is starting is starting to 202 00:10:19,760 --> 00:10:21,240 frustrate me, I'm not going to lie. 203 00:10:21,600 --> 00:10:25,480 I remember last year, I think we had another APC versus console 204 00:10:25,480 --> 00:10:28,000 debate and you get a console. All you gotta do is go to 205 00:10:28,000 --> 00:10:30,800 GameStop and pick it up. You don't have to go to PC Part 206 00:10:30,800 --> 00:10:33,880 Picker, PC Part Picker, PC Part Picker and pick your PC. 207 00:10:33,880 --> 00:10:34,800 Part is that a? Great time. 208 00:10:35,200 --> 00:10:37,920 Yeah, I only signed through. It's not that hard, actually. 209 00:10:38,200 --> 00:10:41,080 It sounds harder than it is. But all this stuff, there's a 210 00:10:41,080 --> 00:10:43,240 lot of headache involved and then you got to piece it 211 00:10:43,240 --> 00:10:45,920 together. But you know, PS five, you can 212 00:10:45,920 --> 00:10:48,760 just go and pick it up. I don't have to talk to to 213 00:10:48,880 --> 00:10:52,920 people on the on the Internet. OK, but PCs are more versatile. 214 00:10:53,280 --> 00:10:54,840 Well, we're going through this again. 215 00:10:54,840 --> 00:10:57,720 I'm just saying the ease of use. You're the one that brought it 216 00:10:57,720 --> 00:11:00,160 up. Well, yes I did. 217 00:11:00,720 --> 00:11:02,320 I'm talking even used to getting. 218 00:11:02,320 --> 00:11:05,120 One so you So you decided to bring up an argument that you 219 00:11:05,120 --> 00:11:07,520 lost last year, and you're decided to bring it up now. 220 00:11:07,600 --> 00:11:09,720 We never lost. What are you talking about? 221 00:11:09,720 --> 00:11:11,800 No, you lost. PCs are. 222 00:11:11,800 --> 00:11:17,320 Superior machine wise, yes, but the ease of use and the user 223 00:11:17,320 --> 00:11:19,880 friendliness of the console is why it's still. 224 00:11:19,880 --> 00:11:22,680 Literally the hardest thing and with the PC is set up. 225 00:11:22,680 --> 00:11:26,520 Everything else is fine and. Building it I mean you can buy 226 00:11:26,520 --> 00:11:28,600 pre built. It's literally just adult legos. 227 00:11:28,600 --> 00:11:30,520 It tells you where to put stuff. Really. 228 00:11:30,560 --> 00:11:33,400 Yeah, it really is pretty easy to put stuff like that together. 229 00:11:33,480 --> 00:11:36,160 But Jimmy's grandma is not gonna be able to figure it out. 230 00:11:36,480 --> 00:11:39,040 But Jimmy's grandma can't figure out what a router is. 231 00:11:39,320 --> 00:11:41,520 I mean Jimmy's grammar. Of course, she's able to figure 232 00:11:41,520 --> 00:11:42,920 out the PS. She's gonna think that the. 233 00:11:43,080 --> 00:11:45,040 Xbox is a bread box or something it. 234 00:11:45,560 --> 00:11:49,520 Might be there's the fridge, there's the Xbox fridge, same 235 00:11:49,520 --> 00:11:51,200 thing. Dude she's still brag. 236 00:11:51,280 --> 00:11:53,440 Your grandma still brags about the house that she bought in the 237 00:11:53,440 --> 00:11:57,240 60s for like 1000 bucks. My grandma's dead. 238 00:11:57,680 --> 00:11:59,800 Oh my bad. Yeah, she's dead though. 239 00:11:59,840 --> 00:12:02,680 She's like super dead though. She's like super dead. 240 00:12:03,280 --> 00:12:05,520 I do super miss her, though. She was cool. 241 00:12:06,200 --> 00:12:08,240 Yeah, she would say I'm handsome and no one says that anymore. 242 00:12:08,320 --> 00:12:10,240 We were talking about getting hit on last week. 243 00:12:10,520 --> 00:12:12,680 My grandma hit on me in the best way. 244 00:12:13,040 --> 00:12:14,800 She'd said. You're a handsome young man. 245 00:12:15,120 --> 00:12:16,640 Any girl will be lucky to have you. 246 00:12:17,280 --> 00:12:19,600 I mean, you are a handsome young man. 247 00:12:19,760 --> 00:12:21,240 There's a lot of liars. These days. 248 00:12:22,120 --> 00:12:23,120 Hi. No. 249 00:12:23,120 --> 00:12:25,760 I'm cool, Joe, Hold on. He's going through all these 250 00:12:25,760 --> 00:12:27,480 like different bits. I don't. 251 00:12:27,480 --> 00:12:30,800 Really, I think he's like trying to figure out which one sticks. 252 00:12:31,280 --> 00:12:34,800 I got the spectacles. I'm cool, but that's my grandma. 253 00:12:34,800 --> 00:12:40,840 Are you talking about you bastard? 254 00:12:41,320 --> 00:12:44,520 No, but. And I'm I'm wearing an athletic 255 00:12:44,520 --> 00:12:47,520 headband because I thought it'd be funny and no one said 256 00:12:47,520 --> 00:12:49,160 anything. And then I forgot I was wearing 257 00:12:49,160 --> 00:12:51,080 it. And now I'm still wearing it. 258 00:12:51,280 --> 00:12:53,760 You look like the. Douche pickle ball way too 259 00:12:53,760 --> 00:12:56,760 seriously. I just need a polo with a pops 260 00:12:56,760 --> 00:12:58,440 collar. I think that would complete the 261 00:12:58,440 --> 00:12:59,760 look. I'm working on that. 262 00:13:00,000 --> 00:13:01,600 It's on back order. Got. 263 00:13:01,720 --> 00:13:02,960 It sick. Got it baby. 264 00:13:03,280 --> 00:13:05,200 Bob's got the Star Wars background. 265 00:13:06,280 --> 00:13:07,280 Very fitting. Very fitting. 266 00:13:07,960 --> 00:13:09,480 We're probably not playing tonight, right? 267 00:13:09,840 --> 00:13:11,920 Yeah, probably not. I I I quit. 268 00:13:12,000 --> 00:13:14,800 I can't do this. My forehead looks giant. 269 00:13:15,320 --> 00:13:17,080 Has it always been this big? Yeah. 270 00:13:17,120 --> 00:13:21,920 Does this look receding? Yes, not as bad as mine, but 271 00:13:21,960 --> 00:13:25,680 yes, you have a. Very edges are receding a little 272 00:13:25,680 --> 00:13:27,240 bit. It's not just because of my 273 00:13:27,240 --> 00:13:28,720 widow's peak. I don't. 274 00:13:28,720 --> 00:13:30,760 Know I don't know why they call it a widow's peak. 275 00:13:31,520 --> 00:13:34,280 I don't know, at least yours isn't as bad as mine. 276 00:13:35,080 --> 00:13:37,520 Bob. Bob, no, it's really not that 277 00:13:37,520 --> 00:13:39,040 bad. Have you let it grow out? 278 00:13:39,360 --> 00:13:42,480 I haven't in like a year and a half or two years. 279 00:13:42,760 --> 00:13:44,240 What's like the longest you've had it? 280 00:13:44,240 --> 00:13:47,040 The longest I've like, ever had it, Yeah. 281 00:13:48,200 --> 00:13:51,480 Probably like a couple of years after graduating. 282 00:13:51,480 --> 00:13:55,800 Graduating, not college, high school, I went through this 283 00:13:55,800 --> 00:13:58,800 thing where it's it's it's a phase. 284 00:13:58,880 --> 00:14:02,120 I know it was kind of dumb, but I like cut the side short, but I 285 00:14:02,120 --> 00:14:05,640 let I let this like front part like grow super long. 286 00:14:05,920 --> 00:14:08,440 So I was able to like slick it back and all that. 287 00:14:09,800 --> 00:14:15,480 But if I had it, if I had it unkempt and you know, unstyled, 288 00:14:15,480 --> 00:14:18,040 I was able to like pull it down to like my jaw. 289 00:14:18,680 --> 00:14:21,560 Oh. So you probably hurt somebody 290 00:14:21,560 --> 00:14:23,640 and you were trying to hide. Maybe you were. 291 00:14:23,760 --> 00:14:25,240 You were probably evil during that time. 292 00:14:25,480 --> 00:14:29,120 I did say I had anger issues. It was during, it was during 293 00:14:29,120 --> 00:14:31,400 that time that I was like really working on myself. 294 00:14:31,720 --> 00:14:34,000 I'll take a staff job. No so. 295 00:14:34,280 --> 00:14:38,480 So the reason I say that is because my mom before she before 296 00:14:38,480 --> 00:14:42,600 she passed a year or so before, got it stuck in her head that my 297 00:14:42,600 --> 00:14:48,440 nephew had been molested. And she knew that it had to be 298 00:14:49,480 --> 00:14:53,720 his step sister's boyfriend because he had a similar haircut 299 00:14:53,720 --> 00:14:57,200 as to what you were explaining. And he let his hair kind of hang 300 00:14:57,200 --> 00:14:59,880 off to one side and. That means he's a rapist. 301 00:15:00,240 --> 00:15:02,040 Covered one of his eyes. Yeah, she said. 302 00:15:02,040 --> 00:15:04,280 That meant that he was evil because he was trying to hide. 303 00:15:05,400 --> 00:15:07,320 I'm like, mom, you're you're crazy. 304 00:15:07,320 --> 00:15:10,760 It doesn't mean that at all. That means that's how he wanted 305 00:15:10,760 --> 00:15:12,760 to wear his hair. That's a hairstyle. 306 00:15:14,080 --> 00:15:16,280 Yeah. He had the rapist look. 307 00:15:16,480 --> 00:15:19,800 Yeah, I hope he wasn't the one. No, he didn't get molested. 308 00:15:19,800 --> 00:15:23,320 That was the problem. Maybe, maybe, I don't know. 309 00:15:23,640 --> 00:15:25,200 He didn't. We don't know. 310 00:15:26,000 --> 00:15:29,960 No, we know he didn't. So first she said that he was 311 00:15:29,960 --> 00:15:33,400 molested and then that he was molested by that guy. 312 00:15:34,240 --> 00:15:37,360 Yep, all because all because he scratched himself. 313 00:15:37,560 --> 00:15:40,960 He had an itch and he scratched it in that in the the lower 314 00:15:40,960 --> 00:15:43,440 regions. It feels so good when you get it 315 00:15:43,440 --> 00:15:45,640 in the right spot. Yeah, classic. 316 00:15:45,800 --> 00:15:47,880 But it definitely doesn't mean you got molested. 317 00:15:50,920 --> 00:15:55,040 So it's called a widow's peak. Yeah, because it resembles the 318 00:15:55,040 --> 00:15:58,360 point of a widow's hood, which is the type of headdress worn by 319 00:15:58,360 --> 00:16:01,760 women in mourning during the 16th and 17th centuries. 320 00:16:02,280 --> 00:16:05,200 These hoods, also known as morning caps, had a pointed peak 321 00:16:05,200 --> 00:16:08,040 in the center, which became associated with the hairline 322 00:16:08,040 --> 00:16:10,240 pattern. Interesting. 323 00:16:10,400 --> 00:16:13,600 Very cool. Oh, it says here that it means 324 00:16:13,600 --> 00:16:17,960 that you're prone to, oh, colon cancer. 325 00:16:18,120 --> 00:16:19,720 What if you have if you have a little speak? 326 00:16:19,840 --> 00:16:22,520 Yeah, it's on Web MDI. Don't like that? 327 00:16:23,400 --> 00:16:32,280 Damn it and watch my butt hole now because of my widow's peak. 328 00:16:32,280 --> 00:16:33,960 No, I'm totally joking. I made that up. 329 00:16:35,480 --> 00:16:37,040 It sounds like it's a real thing. 330 00:16:37,040 --> 00:16:40,960 I bet the onion. You know, it could be on web MD 331 00:16:41,000 --> 00:16:43,720 you pretty much whatever you want to find on web MD you. 332 00:16:43,880 --> 00:16:47,000 Can find it's a web MD thing. I'm like, oh man, it's it's 333 00:16:47,000 --> 00:16:47,520 serious. You. 334 00:16:51,400 --> 00:16:53,640 Got me self diagnosis right there. 335 00:16:53,720 --> 00:16:57,120 Yeah. Pleurisy 6 times last week. 336 00:16:57,120 --> 00:17:00,720 I know it. Web MD just says you have cancer 337 00:17:00,720 --> 00:17:02,920 for everything. Well, that's California. 338 00:17:02,920 --> 00:17:04,400 It's probably based in California. 339 00:17:04,880 --> 00:17:09,000 I'm itchy. You probably have lethal cancer. 340 00:17:09,240 --> 00:17:10,680 Probably it's like. No. 341 00:17:12,440 --> 00:17:14,000 Some web MD's you can't trust it. 342 00:17:14,440 --> 00:17:18,720 No, not really. No, no, no, that does look like 343 00:17:18,720 --> 00:17:21,560 a widow's peak if I do say so myself. 344 00:17:21,839 --> 00:17:22,800 What? Your widow's peak. 345 00:17:23,319 --> 00:17:26,960 This is what a 17th century morning cap looks. 346 00:17:26,960 --> 00:17:30,120 Like, oh, OK, gotcha, gotcha. Put it in memes. 347 00:17:30,400 --> 00:17:32,160 See that? I'm trying I'm trying to find a 348 00:17:32,160 --> 00:17:38,480 picture of me 5 or so years ago. Oh, I. 349 00:17:38,920 --> 00:17:39,440 Would. Be I. 350 00:17:39,560 --> 00:17:42,480 See that? So you say, you know, stupid 351 00:17:42,480 --> 00:17:46,280 decision, Derek. So when I was in high school, I 352 00:17:46,280 --> 00:17:48,400 actually had a mullet. I can see it. 353 00:17:48,600 --> 00:17:50,160 So gross. Yeah. 354 00:17:50,160 --> 00:17:52,280 You should bring it back because they're back. 355 00:17:52,280 --> 00:17:54,560 No, they're back, baby. No, if I were going to do 356 00:17:54,560 --> 00:17:56,880 anything, I'd do a Kentucky waterfall. 357 00:17:57,240 --> 00:18:00,640 It's weird, but this, this is an art. 358 00:18:00,880 --> 00:18:03,560 I'm going to show it. You can kind of see that like my 359 00:18:03,560 --> 00:18:06,560 jawline has like let's. Coil this a little bit. 360 00:18:06,840 --> 00:18:10,040 But this was like the longest like that my hair's been. 361 00:18:10,040 --> 00:18:14,320 It was like a waterfall. I just looked up Kentucky 362 00:18:14,320 --> 00:18:16,080 Waterfall. It's that's terrible. 363 00:18:16,360 --> 00:18:18,160 Oh wow. Don't ever do that. 364 00:18:18,240 --> 00:18:22,640 That was different. Don't ever do that Jimmy Neutron 365 00:18:22,640 --> 00:18:23,960 hair. Yeah, for real. 366 00:18:23,960 --> 00:18:25,600 So. That wasn't the one I was. 367 00:18:25,720 --> 00:18:27,360 Thinking of it. Was a different one. 368 00:18:28,840 --> 00:18:31,000 I kind of look like, I kind of look like I have like one of 369 00:18:31,000 --> 00:18:38,120 those like Whoville haircuts. That's I think the only reason 370 00:18:38,120 --> 00:18:40,800 why it was able to stick up like that is because I didn't shower 371 00:18:40,800 --> 00:18:42,240 that day. Nice. 372 00:18:44,240 --> 00:18:48,160 But no like all of that would like droop or I would like bring 373 00:18:48,160 --> 00:18:50,360 it down to the side and let it like curl back. 374 00:18:51,080 --> 00:18:52,960 That's how. That's how I had it before. 375 00:18:52,960 --> 00:18:53,920 Oh, OK. My hair. 376 00:18:54,000 --> 00:18:56,880 My hair looked super super good back then. 377 00:18:57,120 --> 00:19:00,920 My beard and my jawline though, so I traded one off or the 378 00:19:00,920 --> 00:19:04,840 other. What makes a Kentucky waterfall 379 00:19:04,840 --> 00:19:06,840 different than a some? Of these. 380 00:19:09,920 --> 00:19:14,920 I have to look this up now. It's bald but was there in the 381 00:19:14,920 --> 00:19:17,600 back. It took you waterfall. 382 00:19:17,880 --> 00:19:18,440 Oh, seriously? Oh. 383 00:19:18,760 --> 00:19:26,400 Guys, oh guys, this. So you you must be finding the 384 00:19:26,400 --> 00:19:28,840 actual this is. What I'm looking at right now? 385 00:19:32,400 --> 00:19:35,440 Yeah, so. So good. 386 00:19:35,440 --> 00:19:39,600 Who's taking these stock images of these people with these God 387 00:19:39,600 --> 00:19:42,400 awful moments? This is a little more of what I 388 00:19:42,400 --> 00:19:46,560 was thinking of that's. What mine would look like 389 00:19:46,560 --> 00:19:48,920 because I have like that bald spawn on the top of my head. 390 00:19:58,720 --> 00:20:01,920 How do you so? Kentucky Waterfall is literally 391 00:20:01,920 --> 00:20:06,640 just a mullet. Yeah, so with buzz sides, right? 392 00:20:06,880 --> 00:20:09,400 So I I thought, and maybe that's what it is. 393 00:20:09,400 --> 00:20:12,600 I thought that the the Kentucky waterfall was where you had 394 00:20:12,600 --> 00:20:15,640 basically the whole front, like the whole top of your head was 395 00:20:15,640 --> 00:20:17,560 pretty much bald and then you had. 396 00:20:18,400 --> 00:20:20,320 Just like. Shaved, yeah. 397 00:20:21,000 --> 00:20:25,000 No. That's a sweet mullet right 398 00:20:25,080 --> 00:20:27,000 there. And look at that mustache. 399 00:20:27,000 --> 00:20:31,200 He's got to go with it that that dude could beat up Chuck Norris. 400 00:20:32,320 --> 00:20:35,440 No. With that mullet saw. 401 00:20:35,640 --> 00:20:37,200 That a mullet with a bullet. You can't. 402 00:20:40,720 --> 00:20:41,800 You can't have it. He looks. 403 00:20:42,280 --> 00:20:43,640 He looks angry about it. Oh. 404 00:20:47,640 --> 00:20:51,000 My gosh, there's so many of these pictures with the tan 405 00:20:51,000 --> 00:20:53,720 background with mullets. Like somebody's just 406 00:20:53,960 --> 00:20:56,080 photographing people with mullets. 407 00:21:00,440 --> 00:21:02,680 I see what you mean. Yeah, they're bad. 408 00:21:02,920 --> 00:21:06,240 Yeah, a little bit. He's back, you know. 409 00:21:06,560 --> 00:21:09,120 Yeah, there you go. Now see that guy? 410 00:21:09,120 --> 00:21:13,480 Looks like he looks like that. Almost looks like that's the 411 00:21:13,480 --> 00:21:16,720 same haircut that oh man, Danny McBride. 412 00:21:17,200 --> 00:21:19,600 Danny McBride had in the One series. 413 00:21:19,640 --> 00:21:21,120 That he did. When I think of mullet, I 414 00:21:21,120 --> 00:21:23,240 picture Danny McBride wearing a mullet. 415 00:21:23,520 --> 00:21:25,840 Why? Why does that look like a haggis 416 00:21:25,880 --> 00:21:29,000 but with a mullet? Oh my goodness, yes it does. 417 00:21:31,440 --> 00:21:33,480 That's an 80s Haggis right there buddy. 418 00:21:34,560 --> 00:21:37,520 Haggis. Be careful saving that I'm 419 00:21:37,520 --> 00:21:42,160 saving. That I'm saving, that I love all 420 00:21:42,160 --> 00:21:46,000 these. Because that's what they. 421 00:21:46,000 --> 00:21:47,400 Are. Yeah, they are. 422 00:21:47,720 --> 00:21:52,400 Yeah, they are these sensual pictures. 423 00:21:52,880 --> 00:21:58,160 So my hair during like high school and all that, like 424 00:21:58,400 --> 00:22:02,000 growing up, if I were to grow, it would just be like. 425 00:22:02,280 --> 00:22:05,480 Just like a. Mess it would be like a like it 426 00:22:05,480 --> 00:22:08,400 would stay up up on my head like an Afro like it like curls and 427 00:22:08,400 --> 00:22:12,560 everything, but it's just that it it's not like tight at all. 428 00:22:12,560 --> 00:22:16,120 So it just looked terrible. Oh yeah, you guys remember my 429 00:22:16,120 --> 00:22:18,960 top knot? Oh, I wish I would not you. 430 00:22:19,280 --> 00:22:19,720 Whoa. Oh. 431 00:22:20,920 --> 00:22:23,760 Yeah, that's a. Very C&D. 432 00:22:23,760 --> 00:22:25,600 Characters. What do you mean? 433 00:22:26,120 --> 00:22:28,840 Gay. Because we always do that. 434 00:22:29,400 --> 00:22:31,720 Yeah, I don't know why it's so different now. 435 00:22:32,080 --> 00:22:34,480 I play. I play 1 openly gay character. 436 00:22:34,480 --> 00:22:38,040 Danny has played an openly gay character and you don't? 437 00:22:38,440 --> 00:22:39,320 Yeah. Cletus. 438 00:22:39,680 --> 00:22:41,560 What? I feel like he didn't. 439 00:22:41,640 --> 00:22:43,800 He was supposed to be gay. He was just doing it for the. 440 00:22:43,800 --> 00:22:46,480 Chills, Yeah. I didn't get the. 441 00:22:46,520 --> 00:22:48,280 Impression that he's actually gay. 442 00:22:48,640 --> 00:22:51,440 Yeah. Oh, so am I the actually first 443 00:22:51,440 --> 00:22:54,160 gay character then? I don't know. 444 00:22:54,440 --> 00:22:57,080 Have we had one? I don't know before I. 445 00:22:57,400 --> 00:23:00,240 Don't think so, huh? I have to have Jamie look that 446 00:23:00,240 --> 00:23:01,800 up. Yeah, look that up, Jamie. 447 00:23:02,000 --> 00:23:06,160 I was trying to find where I tried to wrap the one time and 448 00:23:06,160 --> 00:23:08,840 failed miserably with as the DJ stone. 449 00:23:08,840 --> 00:23:10,480 I couldn't remember which episode it. 450 00:23:10,480 --> 00:23:12,480 Was hi Cora. Hi Cora. 451 00:23:13,520 --> 00:23:16,840 Hi, Cora. That little thing goes to bed. 452 00:23:18,600 --> 00:23:21,160 I see. I don't think Mr. Master has 453 00:23:21,160 --> 00:23:23,840 played any. I think they've all been like 454 00:23:23,880 --> 00:23:25,920 very much. No, I'm a straight guy. 455 00:23:28,040 --> 00:23:31,200 No, he did. He's had, he's had a couple 456 00:23:31,200 --> 00:23:33,720 characters, a few of those that had. 457 00:23:34,720 --> 00:23:37,760 Desperately. Not gay experiences though, like 458 00:23:37,760 --> 00:23:41,120 the whole Ugg massage. Oh geez, yeah, Rifle. 459 00:23:41,800 --> 00:23:47,760 Melvin getting that prostate exam also during a massage. 460 00:23:47,760 --> 00:23:49,080 I don't. Remember that. 461 00:23:49,560 --> 00:23:51,120 That was the sequel. Oh man. 462 00:23:51,520 --> 00:23:52,440 Yeah, what up, baby? That's not bad. 463 00:23:52,680 --> 00:23:54,080 Yeah, what up, baby? Aw. 464 00:23:54,720 --> 00:23:57,920 So. I don't think. 465 00:23:58,240 --> 00:24:00,120 I don't think Joey. Had any of them? 466 00:24:00,400 --> 00:24:02,960 Well, it was Svetlana preferred women, but. 467 00:24:03,240 --> 00:24:05,760 Yeah, that's lesbian though technically. 468 00:24:06,320 --> 00:24:08,440 Tech. Which is also technically gay, 469 00:24:08,680 --> 00:24:11,040 right? Yeah, I guess if we're talking 470 00:24:11,040 --> 00:24:14,720 about context, first gay male character. 471 00:24:15,480 --> 00:24:17,760 Oh yeah. You don't have good male 472 00:24:17,760 --> 00:24:21,040 characters, they're disgusting. Icky. 473 00:24:21,800 --> 00:24:22,960 Yeah. Listen to that. 474 00:24:23,120 --> 00:24:24,760 Internet of. Course Vellana there was. 475 00:24:25,400 --> 00:24:28,400 A bunch of. Gay female characters. 476 00:24:28,560 --> 00:24:34,560 Sam played Sam played Maggie, but she was by anything with a 477 00:24:34,560 --> 00:24:37,360 pulse. I can relate. 478 00:24:38,000 --> 00:24:44,360 Crystal had a male fiance. I I don't think that anyone else 479 00:24:44,360 --> 00:24:46,960 is. I don't know that. 480 00:24:47,280 --> 00:24:49,760 I don't think so. Yes. 481 00:24:50,480 --> 00:24:51,200 No, not of us. Who? 482 00:24:51,200 --> 00:24:53,000 Play. Gay characters, no. 483 00:24:54,360 --> 00:24:57,600 We're trying to think. If you need to, I mean, is it? 484 00:24:58,040 --> 00:25:01,240 Like bad like. We're just discussing it because 485 00:25:01,920 --> 00:25:06,040 every because I played one gay character, Joey's like, all, all 486 00:25:06,040 --> 00:25:10,480 your characters are gay now. It's a funny bit. 487 00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:13,160 I would say. I would say that that Fritz 488 00:25:13,160 --> 00:25:15,080 wasn't gay, he was just precarious. 489 00:25:15,520 --> 00:25:16,840 You know, no. He liked it. 490 00:25:17,200 --> 00:25:20,200 No, I like no Felix. Like, no, no, no, I know it was 491 00:25:20,200 --> 00:25:21,280 a joke. It was a joke. 492 00:25:21,280 --> 00:25:22,600 I. Knew that Felix was for one. 493 00:25:22,640 --> 00:25:25,960 Day. To be fair to. 494 00:25:25,960 --> 00:25:32,480 Be fair, I would say Moira is. Very pansexual like drinks in 495 00:25:32,760 --> 00:25:36,200 her I guess she is very dominant towards men but. 496 00:25:36,200 --> 00:25:39,120 Give a few drinks in her. And she'd do anything then 497 00:25:39,120 --> 00:25:42,840 we'll. Sue so I feel like was. 498 00:25:42,840 --> 00:25:45,400 Literally one of those just like I'll do whatever I want, 499 00:25:45,400 --> 00:25:48,600 whatever I want. Whether they want to or not, you 500 00:25:48,600 --> 00:25:51,200 know. Kids, Bob, you look like all 501 00:25:51,200 --> 00:26:00,040 your kids at the same time. Pretty much both look shocked at 502 00:26:00,040 --> 00:26:04,240 this picture. RC Cola. 503 00:26:04,280 --> 00:26:06,600 They're drinking RC Cola it. Looks. 504 00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:08,600 Like, oh man, we were. It looks like. 505 00:26:08,600 --> 00:26:12,800 Someone like a picture was taken, said sorry you guys are 506 00:26:12,800 --> 00:26:22,080 now have to vacate the premises. This was the 80s. 507 00:26:22,680 --> 00:26:26,040 Oh man, yeah, it was. No, actually those that was the 508 00:26:26,040 --> 00:26:27,400 90s. Oh yeah. 509 00:26:27,480 --> 00:26:30,880 That was 92. 80s, Nineties. Vietnam in the 90s. 510 00:26:32,520 --> 00:26:34,720 Yeah, every decade seems to take a couple years to. 511 00:26:34,720 --> 00:26:37,280 Go The 90s was just the 80s, too. 512 00:26:37,520 --> 00:26:44,320 Yeah, that's the truth at least. We got rid of the mullet. 513 00:26:45,080 --> 00:26:46,200 Yeah. Oh, I hate the mullet. 514 00:26:46,200 --> 00:26:49,400 I hate the mullet. I see people with mullets and I 515 00:26:49,400 --> 00:26:52,920 lose every bit of respect in high school years now, and they 516 00:26:53,040 --> 00:26:57,520 find that it's like you don't look like a freaking door. 517 00:26:58,120 --> 00:26:59,440 It makes me want to punch them in the. 518 00:26:59,440 --> 00:27:01,320 Face. If I don't want to wipe that 519 00:27:01,320 --> 00:27:06,120 mustache off by accident. Oh my goodness. 520 00:27:08,680 --> 00:27:11,400 You don't get clear. This is the thing. 521 00:27:11,560 --> 00:27:13,480 I don't care what TikTok. Tells you. 522 00:27:13,840 --> 00:27:15,920 It's not. It's not. 523 00:27:16,480 --> 00:27:19,040 Stop. It stop it right? 524 00:27:19,040 --> 00:27:22,280 Now. OK, I'm sorry. 525 00:27:23,080 --> 00:27:24,840 I'm sorry, your mic. Is coming. 526 00:27:24,880 --> 00:27:28,320 In, not the. Greatest copy. 527 00:27:28,720 --> 00:27:29,320 Yeah. That's it. 528 00:27:29,320 --> 00:27:33,000 Sound like is this? Just not good quality. 529 00:27:33,200 --> 00:27:36,720 It sounds like you are a TSA agent talking into their 530 00:27:36,720 --> 00:27:38,600 microphone, giving them an. Announcement. 531 00:27:38,680 --> 00:27:44,480 Ladies and gentlemen, we are boarding just like terror scare, 532 00:27:44,480 --> 00:27:46,040 but it's over now. We're fine. 533 00:27:46,640 --> 00:27:53,760 Everybody check your butt, it's so bad. 534 00:27:57,560 --> 00:28:01,040 Something beyond the. Of my of my panic though. 535 00:28:01,520 --> 00:28:03,480 Yeah, I did. Oh, perfect. 536 00:28:04,240 --> 00:28:09,040 So I don't think we are doing anything because Danny hasn't 537 00:28:09,040 --> 00:28:11,760 even set up the role 20 yet. Do you ask him? 538 00:28:11,920 --> 00:28:14,200 Do you ask him? That accent. 539 00:28:15,120 --> 00:28:18,360 Oh, I just never joined him. Any better? 540 00:28:19,320 --> 00:28:22,600 The mutton chops. Yeah, I figured I should throw 541 00:28:22,600 --> 00:28:26,120 those in there. Mullet with mutton chops. 542 00:28:26,280 --> 00:28:29,720 No better whatsoever. Yes, so much better. 543 00:28:30,640 --> 00:28:32,400 Oh yeah, it's the Jeff Bridges look. 544 00:28:32,600 --> 00:28:35,280 Geez, Abby and Timmy look so much younger. 545 00:28:37,080 --> 00:28:39,840 I think that was Lizzy. Is that Liz? 546 00:28:40,160 --> 00:28:40,960 That's. Lizzy. 547 00:28:41,120 --> 00:28:42,240 Yeah, it is. That's Lizzy. 548 00:28:42,360 --> 00:28:44,680 That's Lizzy. I get your kids confused. 549 00:28:44,680 --> 00:28:45,360 I'm sorry. I. 550 00:28:45,360 --> 00:28:46,680 Really do that. You're funny. 551 00:28:47,280 --> 00:28:48,920 No, you're fine. Quite all right. 552 00:28:52,480 --> 00:28:54,120 They're all the same. They're all the same. 553 00:28:54,480 --> 00:28:56,000 Are you guys in like a gym or something? 554 00:28:56,440 --> 00:29:00,000 Yeah, the at at at my where I work. 555 00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:02,440 Yeah, they built a gym where you work. 556 00:29:02,440 --> 00:29:05,720 It's not fair. A lot of places do that. 557 00:29:05,760 --> 00:29:07,400 It's actually pretty sweet. Yeah. 558 00:29:07,560 --> 00:29:09,720 It's it's a basketball court and everything. 559 00:29:09,920 --> 00:29:12,600 My gym is my work. You you work in a gym. 560 00:29:12,960 --> 00:29:14,000 Yeah, right. Yeah. 561 00:29:14,520 --> 00:29:16,360 Yeah, that worked out a lot better for you. 562 00:29:17,520 --> 00:29:22,240 And I and I looked at, I looked at the roll 20 and no, it's 563 00:29:22,600 --> 00:29:24,960 Danny doesn't have anything. It's just blank. 564 00:29:26,120 --> 00:29:27,120 You're not supposed to look at that. 565 00:29:27,520 --> 00:29:32,000 Oh, OK, it's. Bad luck to see the roll 20 566 00:29:32,040 --> 00:29:34,120 before the campaign. It's true. 567 00:29:34,120 --> 00:29:35,320 That means your character will die. 568 00:29:35,640 --> 00:29:39,800 Wait, so do we can we only look at the roll 20 after he starts 569 00:29:40,160 --> 00:29:41,680 the campaign? Yes. 570 00:29:41,880 --> 00:29:48,920 Okay, so when does the campaign? Rules probably next week, I 571 00:29:48,960 --> 00:29:51,000 don't know. Well that stinks. 572 00:29:51,000 --> 00:29:56,480 I was busy go I watched a bunch of IG88 and Jar Jar Binks 573 00:29:56,480 --> 00:29:58,800 videos. I I still probably need more 574 00:29:58,800 --> 00:30:00,160 time. I don't feel like I'm in. 575 00:30:00,200 --> 00:30:02,720 Yeah, the same the. Mindset, I feel the same way but 576 00:30:02,760 --> 00:30:04,560 I was ready I was going to do it either way. 577 00:30:04,960 --> 00:30:07,680 I could, I could have muscled into it, but yeah, because I got 578 00:30:07,680 --> 00:30:10,520 to do AI, got to do a voice, I got to keep up a pretty tough 579 00:30:10,520 --> 00:30:18,000 voice the whole time. Meets up Meets up pretty easy. 580 00:30:18,400 --> 00:30:20,720 And I decided to do a Rodian even though I don't know what 581 00:30:20,720 --> 00:30:23,920 Greedo sounds like. But he didn't really talk common 582 00:30:23,920 --> 00:30:25,080 ever he. Speaks. 583 00:30:25,240 --> 00:30:28,800 Yeah, he he speaks hoodies. Was it hoodies? 584 00:30:29,160 --> 00:30:33,200 Yeah. Icha Kapucha Bucha Solo I. 585 00:30:33,480 --> 00:30:41,280 Don't like kombucha? How could you not like kombucha? 586 00:30:41,560 --> 00:30:44,040 Who likes kombucha? What's that like about it? 587 00:30:44,720 --> 00:30:45,800 Hey, dude. You have to get. 588 00:30:46,480 --> 00:30:48,840 The right flavor like. You can't just be like. 589 00:30:49,160 --> 00:30:51,880 That's what I was going to say. I was going to say Danny and. 590 00:30:52,880 --> 00:30:54,280 It's back on. You're muted. 591 00:30:55,040 --> 00:30:56,920 Oh, I can't. Hear him look at that hot 592 00:30:56,920 --> 00:30:59,520 looking guy can. You not hear me? 593 00:31:00,320 --> 00:31:02,360 Oh, there you are. I can hear you now and very 594 00:31:02,360 --> 00:31:03,920 quiet. You just get back. 595 00:31:04,160 --> 00:31:05,880 When your pants are on, it's hard to hear you. 596 00:31:06,800 --> 00:31:09,320 Yeah, like 5 minutes ago. Oh my soul. 597 00:31:09,560 --> 00:31:11,880 Boy, actually. Yeah, from what, a 10 hour 598 00:31:11,880 --> 00:31:14,240 drive? 14 hours, 14 1/2. 599 00:31:14,440 --> 00:31:17,320 Dang. And here you are with us. 600 00:31:18,240 --> 00:31:19,840 I feel honored. I got. 601 00:31:19,960 --> 00:31:22,080 The reward? I got my Boost T-shirt on. 602 00:31:22,280 --> 00:31:24,760 Oh man, I want to go. I want to find one of those and 603 00:31:24,760 --> 00:31:27,360 go to it so bad. Looks like you have buggies. 604 00:31:28,040 --> 00:31:32,600 I this morning I had their their monster burrito. 605 00:31:33,000 --> 00:31:35,880 Oh. Sounds like the bathroom 606 00:31:35,880 --> 00:31:38,720 inducer. Sounds perfect. 607 00:31:38,720 --> 00:31:41,480 To eat before a long. Run inducer please. 608 00:31:41,600 --> 00:31:43,160 I did have to use the. Bathroom. 609 00:31:43,520 --> 00:31:45,960 But I don't know if it was because of them or not it. 610 00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:51,080 Goes out the same way it looks going in. 611 00:31:52,800 --> 00:31:56,280 The. Only thing. 612 00:31:57,160 --> 00:31:58,880 You call it the bowel. Plunger. 613 00:31:59,200 --> 00:32:05,760 It tasted great on both ends. I was going to say second hand 614 00:32:05,760 --> 00:32:06,600 or the 1st. Time. 615 00:32:09,800 --> 00:32:13,480 Yeah. Danny I I'm assuming no, no 616 00:32:13,480 --> 00:32:15,520 episode tonight then. Well, I can do. 617 00:32:15,600 --> 00:32:18,360 I can do it. I I was thinking because I got a 618 00:32:18,360 --> 00:32:19,800 lot of time to think in the car, you know? 619 00:32:20,200 --> 00:32:24,080 All that is true, but still. Well, so I could do it. 620 00:32:24,640 --> 00:32:28,520 I don't have a lot or any really of the Rule 20 done. 621 00:32:29,360 --> 00:32:32,040 So we'd we'd roll without a lot of the roll 20 and that's fine. 622 00:32:32,040 --> 00:32:35,560 I'm OK with that. We could get like the Session 0 623 00:32:35,560 --> 00:32:39,200 under our belt. We could use the roll 20 just 624 00:32:39,200 --> 00:32:41,760 for the character sheets and for roles and stuff. 625 00:32:42,040 --> 00:32:44,440 Yeah, I didn't find a way to integrate it. 626 00:32:44,640 --> 00:32:47,880 So I I think the website's. Not we might have to remake our 627 00:32:47,880 --> 00:32:51,160 characters in roll 20 then. I I'm thinking that's probably 628 00:32:51,160 --> 00:32:53,120 what we're going to have to do. I'm fine with doing. 629 00:32:53,120 --> 00:32:53,600 That what? What? 630 00:32:53,960 --> 00:33:04,280 Why? I don't know why we're laughing. 631 00:33:04,280 --> 00:33:05,560 He sounds like that all the time. 632 00:33:09,240 --> 00:33:14,240 Jeez. Sorry you feel that way, Chuck. 633 00:33:16,960 --> 00:33:20,000 You feel that way? Why don't you go and have sex 634 00:33:20,000 --> 00:33:28,400 with a man because you're gay? You're really gay, even Putin. 635 00:33:28,400 --> 00:33:29,960 I was talking to Putin, Putin said. 636 00:33:29,960 --> 00:33:35,520 You're really gay. Why would he say that? 637 00:33:36,280 --> 00:33:39,120 I don't know, but he said it. What's what's with the what's 638 00:33:39,120 --> 00:33:41,880 with the family? What's with the family photos? 639 00:33:42,800 --> 00:33:44,960 We were talking about mullets. Yeah, I. 640 00:33:45,000 --> 00:33:47,720 Was trying to I was trying to find some older pictures. 641 00:33:48,120 --> 00:33:49,720 I'm glad you don't have the chops anymore, Dad. 642 00:33:50,040 --> 00:33:51,840 Yeah. Yeah, I'm glad you 2 in the 643 00:33:51,840 --> 00:33:53,440 chopstick. Yeah, it's scary. 644 00:33:53,440 --> 00:33:55,000 It's. Scary. 645 00:33:56,720 --> 00:33:58,840 I'm surprised that you're not part of the Beard clan, Nah. 646 00:33:59,400 --> 00:34:01,320 Because. You know, it hides a lot of the 647 00:34:01,600 --> 00:34:02,880 the chin. Yeah. 648 00:34:02,880 --> 00:34:04,640 You're self-conscious. That's why, yeah. 649 00:34:05,560 --> 00:34:08,159 You're still, you're still a handsome, still a handsome boy. 650 00:34:10,679 --> 00:34:15,199 Still a handsome boy. Handsome boy, I'll be like my 651 00:34:15,199 --> 00:34:17,040 grandma to all you guys. Oh. 652 00:34:17,239 --> 00:34:19,360 Sucks. Cheddar said he was glad my 653 00:34:19,360 --> 00:34:20,360 grandma's dead. But. 654 00:34:20,679 --> 00:34:23,360 I did not say that. He said that exactly. 655 00:34:23,760 --> 00:34:26,960 It's not at all what I said. How dare you? 656 00:34:27,120 --> 00:34:29,920 Oh yeah, I'm glad your grandma's dead. 657 00:34:30,280 --> 00:34:32,719 I just not at all what I said. Go back in the recording. 658 00:34:33,080 --> 00:34:35,080 That sounds believable, really. I mean. 659 00:34:35,080 --> 00:34:38,800 Yeah, I definitely said it. I don't think you even need to 660 00:34:38,800 --> 00:34:40,400 go back at the recording. I. 661 00:34:40,679 --> 00:34:42,280 Think you just take my word for it. 662 00:34:47,360 --> 00:34:47,920 Oh yeah? Well. 663 00:34:47,920 --> 00:34:51,320 Screw your dead grandmother. He did not say that. 664 00:34:51,639 --> 00:34:54,920 Yeah, no, that's what I thought. That's what I thought. 665 00:34:57,040 --> 00:34:58,520 Cheddar's in the mood, I won't upset him. 666 00:34:58,840 --> 00:35:01,120 Cheddar, what's wrong, buddy? I'm not in the mood. 667 00:35:01,280 --> 00:35:04,560 He's mad at me. Probably because of Joey. 668 00:35:05,400 --> 00:35:08,800 Yeah, it's cussing me. I'm sorry. 669 00:35:09,040 --> 00:35:13,080 I'm sorry. Lightly bullying him. 670 00:35:13,840 --> 00:35:15,360 Yeah, I'll stop. I'll stop. 671 00:35:15,400 --> 00:35:18,120 I'm I'm cool, Joe. Remember, I'm I'm everybody's 672 00:35:18,120 --> 00:35:19,320 friend. You're cool, Joe. 673 00:35:19,400 --> 00:35:22,400 I forgot. Cujo can't be everybody's 674 00:35:22,400 --> 00:35:23,240 friend. Cujo. 675 00:35:23,360 --> 00:35:25,240 Yeah, I'm Cujo. You're mighty Joe Young. 676 00:35:26,840 --> 00:35:29,520 Joe Cool, That's a good one. Joe Dirt. 677 00:35:29,840 --> 00:35:32,360 Joe Dirtay. Joe Mama. 678 00:35:32,640 --> 00:35:35,800 Yeah, that's. What I'm saying, that's what I'm 679 00:35:35,800 --> 00:35:38,520 saying. You literally did, yeah. 680 00:35:40,400 --> 00:35:42,600 All right. This is one of those Utts where 681 00:35:43,240 --> 00:35:47,320 we don't have a subject. It's clear that we're just 682 00:35:47,680 --> 00:35:49,720 shooting from the hip. Pretty much. 683 00:35:50,160 --> 00:35:54,520 I like it. I saw two bears this week. 684 00:35:54,600 --> 00:35:55,640 Two bears. Bears. 685 00:35:56,000 --> 00:35:57,520 Oh, did you see 20? OK. 686 00:35:57,880 --> 00:36:00,600 Were they making out? Yeah, I, well, I made them make 687 00:36:00,600 --> 00:36:02,640 out. Did they have a point with them 688 00:36:02,640 --> 00:36:04,400 or were they just like I was like? 689 00:36:04,760 --> 00:36:07,720 Here's this guy and here's you guys are going to kiss and 690 00:36:07,720 --> 00:36:09,080 they're like, no, I don't want it. 691 00:36:09,080 --> 00:36:10,200 I was like I was. Like. 692 00:36:11,400 --> 00:36:13,320 I didn't ask. I was like, yeah, they're. 693 00:36:14,040 --> 00:36:16,520 Like that? You sure about that? 694 00:36:17,440 --> 00:36:19,240 And then they started kissing. I was like, hey, you guys are 695 00:36:19,240 --> 00:36:20,680 gay. Yeah, that's right. 696 00:36:22,640 --> 00:36:26,640 You like that, don't you? Yeah, I got, I got a semi. 697 00:36:26,760 --> 00:36:31,800 Gay boy, I was wearing Gray sweatpants. 698 00:36:31,800 --> 00:36:33,960 They could. Wear great, it already was 699 00:36:34,160 --> 00:36:38,760 pronounced so it. Was just a dink. 700 00:36:40,080 --> 00:36:45,720 Just a little. Sierra Wells went to Dollywood. 701 00:36:46,200 --> 00:36:49,440 Sweet, yeah. Was that interesting or boring 702 00:36:49,440 --> 00:36:51,320 it? Was pretty cool till the 703 00:36:51,320 --> 00:36:53,840 hurricane hit. What? 704 00:36:54,160 --> 00:36:56,800 So down in. Oh, sorry, they call it. 705 00:36:57,200 --> 00:36:59,400 Offend you? No. 706 00:36:59,440 --> 00:37:03,840 So down in the Gulf of America all there was a bunch of 707 00:37:03,840 --> 00:37:07,280 humidity which was causing, you know, the I have to call it that 708 00:37:07,280 --> 00:37:09,320 because there were hats down there and shirts. 709 00:37:09,320 --> 00:37:12,200 It's a Gulf of America. So hey, gotta do that. 710 00:37:15,280 --> 00:37:18,160 So there was humidity and stuff like rising up and it caused 711 00:37:18,160 --> 00:37:22,080 like a bunch of warm slash hurricane stuff. 712 00:37:22,120 --> 00:37:25,800 But then it went down into the hollow and it blew on through It 713 00:37:25,800 --> 00:37:29,240 was it was rough. Wow, real wet like so. 714 00:37:30,000 --> 00:37:31,920 Sounds like my week it. Was fun. 715 00:37:31,920 --> 00:37:37,720 It was fun. But that's cool. 716 00:37:38,680 --> 00:37:40,400 Cool. It was just a regular week for 717 00:37:40,400 --> 00:37:42,720 me. It was very hot 90s. 718 00:37:43,240 --> 00:37:45,040 OK. And I love it. 719 00:37:45,040 --> 00:37:46,800 I just curse every day that I'm alive. 720 00:37:48,800 --> 00:37:51,000 I'm sorry. I cursed the day I was born. 721 00:37:51,320 --> 00:37:55,520 Oh, and much like Cheddar, I cursed my grandma for conceiving 722 00:37:55,640 --> 00:37:58,760 my mom who conceived me. Oh yeah, yeah. 723 00:37:58,960 --> 00:38:00,360 Cheddar and I both hate my grandma. 724 00:38:01,080 --> 00:38:05,440 Wow. Anyway. 725 00:38:07,720 --> 00:38:09,800 Anyway, I don't. Know how to feel. 726 00:38:09,800 --> 00:38:11,080 I don't know how to feel about this. 727 00:38:11,960 --> 00:38:14,600 Build off of that. So yeah, I don't know. 728 00:38:14,600 --> 00:38:17,040 Do you guys want to record then? Do you want? 729 00:38:18,360 --> 00:38:20,160 Do you want to? Do you want? 730 00:38:20,160 --> 00:38:22,320 To. Do you want to be my lover? 731 00:38:22,600 --> 00:38:29,240 Got to get with my friend. You got to name my friends. 732 00:38:30,600 --> 00:38:33,720 Hey, what up? You want to be your lover? 733 00:38:34,520 --> 00:38:38,880 Call me a baby. Let me sell your lap. 734 00:38:42,520 --> 00:38:45,680 We can do this the the easy way or the fun way. 735 00:38:45,680 --> 00:38:50,680 Fun. Way. 736 00:38:51,440 --> 00:38:54,680 All right, run all. Right, run. 737 00:38:56,520 --> 00:38:58,960 What we want to do? Doesn't sound like we're ready 738 00:38:58,960 --> 00:39:01,600 for Z&D. OK, OK. 739 00:39:01,600 --> 00:39:03,280 OK. OK, OK, OK. 740 00:39:03,280 --> 00:39:08,680 OK, OK, OK, so we all get in Battlefield 6 beta or is that 741 00:39:08,680 --> 00:39:11,120 over? It's going on this weekend as 742 00:39:11,120 --> 00:39:12,120 well. Still going. 743 00:39:13,160 --> 00:39:16,600 And then it ends Sunday night, I believe, or tomorrow night. 744 00:39:16,920 --> 00:39:20,320 And then there won't be another beta until there won't be 745 00:39:20,320 --> 00:39:22,800 another beta. It will be the full game coming 746 00:39:22,800 --> 00:39:26,880 out in October. Sorry for it's going to be 747 00:39:26,880 --> 00:39:28,520 great. Did you play the beta? 748 00:39:29,280 --> 00:39:32,480 Like 10 minutes of it in between doing stuff on vacation. 749 00:39:32,520 --> 00:39:35,360 So the. Joey was not having a good time 750 00:39:35,360 --> 00:39:38,440 with me last week. Is the worst thing ever. 751 00:39:38,680 --> 00:39:40,680 I got sniped like 12 times in a row. 752 00:39:41,000 --> 00:39:46,560 I was getting spawn killed. I was fighting terminators cuz I 753 00:39:46,560 --> 00:39:48,560 did it before donkey did it in his video. 754 00:39:48,560 --> 00:39:51,120 I was trying to shoot people with rocket launchers and they 755 00:39:51,120 --> 00:39:54,320 don't kill people. No, see I was doing the spawn 756 00:39:54,320 --> 00:39:56,720 killing for a while. Must have been really nice. 757 00:39:56,760 --> 00:39:58,560 I wish I could have been doing. That quite a bit of fun. 758 00:40:00,320 --> 00:40:02,960 Nah. And then it popped up was like a 759 00:40:03,000 --> 00:40:05,680 pimps X slash like mowed them down. 760 00:40:06,000 --> 00:40:07,520 What? That was me. 761 00:40:07,760 --> 00:40:10,720 What? You killed me, you said You 762 00:40:10,720 --> 00:40:12,600 loved me. Doesn't mean I can't put a few 763 00:40:12,600 --> 00:40:14,360 extra holes in you. Gross. 764 00:40:15,000 --> 00:40:17,280 True. OK, OK, OK. 765 00:40:17,680 --> 00:40:20,880 OK, OK, OK, OK. All right. 766 00:40:20,880 --> 00:40:22,040 Are we ready for this? For. 767 00:40:22,040 --> 00:40:24,320 What we're? Going to play a little a little 768 00:40:24,320 --> 00:40:27,520 game of. AITA oh. 769 00:40:27,880 --> 00:40:28,520 TA. Oh. 770 00:40:30,520 --> 00:40:33,920 Am I the a hole? Oh. 771 00:40:34,400 --> 00:40:36,560 Classic. This is the old school days. 772 00:40:36,800 --> 00:40:38,920 Yeah, we did The Onion last week, so. 773 00:40:39,360 --> 00:40:41,840 Might as well. I have AI have a really quick 774 00:40:41,840 --> 00:40:43,840 point of debate. 1st. OK. 775 00:40:44,360 --> 00:40:49,840 OK, from my from my limited experience cruising through the 776 00:40:49,840 --> 00:40:53,040 Internet, yeah, that's and I cannot understand that. 777 00:40:55,200 --> 00:40:57,480 OK. No, no, I don't cruise by that 778 00:40:57,920 --> 00:40:59,040 anyway. OK. 779 00:40:59,080 --> 00:40:59,680 Finds. You. 780 00:40:59,680 --> 00:41:05,480 For a for $100 million, which animal would you pick to survive 781 00:41:05,480 --> 00:41:08,720 against for 20 minutes? Silverback Gorilla. 782 00:41:09,120 --> 00:41:12,760 Oh yeah, it's a tiger. Yep, Silverback gorilla. 783 00:41:13,160 --> 00:41:17,280 Not the tiger. Tiger, a grizzly bear, or a 784 00:41:17,280 --> 00:41:19,760 hippopotamus. How? 785 00:41:19,800 --> 00:41:22,000 Recently dead? Were any of them? 786 00:41:23,360 --> 00:41:24,320 What? What you say? 787 00:41:24,960 --> 00:41:26,840 Are. They are they really hungry or 788 00:41:26,840 --> 00:41:28,320 were they fed like 5 minutes ago? 789 00:41:29,160 --> 00:41:31,800 With the question, I'm going to put this out there the way the 790 00:41:31,800 --> 00:41:34,040 question. They're going to try to kill you 791 00:41:34,040 --> 00:41:35,680 for 20 minutes. Huh. 792 00:41:36,280 --> 00:41:37,800 Instinct you're trying. To kill me first. 793 00:41:37,960 --> 00:41:40,640 Of all, first of all. There's all, to be fair. 794 00:41:41,560 --> 00:41:47,160 Well hippopotamuses don't meet, but also if you pick the hippo, 795 00:41:47,240 --> 00:41:50,160 are you going to be then teleported to the hippos domain 796 00:41:50,520 --> 00:41:51,600 where there are no. Trees. 797 00:41:52,160 --> 00:41:53,440 Doesn't matter what domain you're in. 798 00:41:53,440 --> 00:41:55,800 The hippos are killer, right? They're more. 799 00:41:55,880 --> 00:41:56,920 Dangerous the. Hippos. 800 00:41:57,720 --> 00:41:58,960 They're the most dangerous animal. 801 00:41:59,760 --> 00:42:03,480 No, no, everything, every. Nothing messes with hippos. 802 00:42:03,680 --> 00:42:05,600 Nothing. Nothing. 803 00:42:05,960 --> 00:42:09,880 So me personally, me personally, I'm going to play with the Kitty 804 00:42:09,880 --> 00:42:11,240 cat. The Tiger. 805 00:42:11,720 --> 00:42:14,920 Yeah, I ain't doing no grizzly. That grizzly outweighs me by 806 00:42:14,920 --> 00:42:17,400 like. Boy, oh boy. £800. 807 00:42:18,080 --> 00:42:21,200 OK, can I help you? Can I help you with the tiger? 808 00:42:21,440 --> 00:42:24,840 Can I? No, no, movie tigers are not the 809 00:42:24,840 --> 00:42:26,920 tigers. This I'm assuming full grown 810 00:42:26,920 --> 00:42:29,360 tiger. I went to Thailand where I was 811 00:42:29,360 --> 00:42:31,640 allowed to pet tigers in the cage. 812 00:42:32,200 --> 00:42:34,040 I was allowed to pet tigers in the cage. 813 00:42:34,320 --> 00:42:37,560 The largest I petted. I pet the medium sized tiger, 814 00:42:37,560 --> 00:42:41,320 the one you usually see in the movies weighs about £800. 815 00:42:41,320 --> 00:42:46,280 Not huge, it seems smaller. The full grown tigers weighed 816 00:42:46,280 --> 00:42:49,040 like 1200 lbs. They were big. 817 00:42:49,440 --> 00:42:52,200 I'm talking when they stood on all four paws. 818 00:42:52,480 --> 00:42:54,680 They were taller than me like I like. 819 00:42:55,160 --> 00:42:56,920 They were big. They were big. 820 00:42:57,040 --> 00:42:58,720 They're fast. Forward back gorilla. 821 00:42:59,080 --> 00:43:01,560 No, not the gorilla. Here's the answer. 822 00:43:01,560 --> 00:43:04,360 Who wants the answer? There is no correct answer. 823 00:43:04,600 --> 00:43:06,280 I would think there wouldn't be there. 824 00:43:06,280 --> 00:43:08,440 Is there? Is there is one correct answer, 825 00:43:08,800 --> 00:43:12,760 and it is. I'm only going by scientific. 826 00:43:12,760 --> 00:43:15,840 You run into this animal, This is what you do, all right? 827 00:43:15,840 --> 00:43:19,280 If you run into a grizzly bear in the wild, they tell you to 828 00:43:19,280 --> 00:43:21,000 play dead. You play dead. 829 00:43:21,440 --> 00:43:24,880 Now obviously if this is a raging rabies infested bear, 830 00:43:24,880 --> 00:43:26,440 then you're dead, but that's for all of these. 831 00:43:26,680 --> 00:43:29,000 If you were going by instinctually, what are you 832 00:43:29,000 --> 00:43:31,280 supposed to do? I'd pick the grizzly bear and 833 00:43:31,280 --> 00:43:33,400 I'd take a 20 minute nap. I watched the. 834 00:43:33,440 --> 00:43:35,480 Revenue obviously not sleeping. He humps you. 835 00:43:35,480 --> 00:43:36,280 Yeah, he didn't. Lay. 836 00:43:36,920 --> 00:43:38,360 Down. That's the scene. 837 00:43:38,440 --> 00:43:43,240 I was sitting there screaming and he wouldn't like pulling out 838 00:43:43,240 --> 00:43:45,560 his knife and trying to shoot it in the back. 839 00:43:45,560 --> 00:43:46,960 I'm like. Yeah, it doesn't work. 840 00:43:48,440 --> 00:43:50,280 So I think. I could feasibly sleep. 841 00:43:50,520 --> 00:43:52,680 So if we're in a place where you're. 842 00:43:52,680 --> 00:43:56,000 Like no, you put it. If it's just if it's just a flat 843 00:43:56,000 --> 00:44:01,960 place, maybe some trees around whatever and not in the water, I 844 00:44:01,960 --> 00:44:03,920 would say hippo because you could just put yourself in 845 00:44:03,920 --> 00:44:07,840 between that tree or they're not good at turning, they're good at 846 00:44:07,840 --> 00:44:09,680 charging, but they're not good at turning. 847 00:44:10,120 --> 00:44:13,200 So you can just like run circles around it for 20 minutes and 848 00:44:13,200 --> 00:44:14,720 you. Think you'd like to think that, 849 00:44:14,760 --> 00:44:18,080 but. 20 minutes. Hippos, dude. 850 00:44:18,200 --> 00:44:19,400 Hippos. Are big, but I'm pretty. 851 00:44:20,000 --> 00:44:21,720 Sure, they ended up like 5 minutes. 852 00:44:21,960 --> 00:44:24,120 Yeah. No, they run fast, but they 853 00:44:24,120 --> 00:44:25,760 some. Minutes are a long time. 854 00:44:25,960 --> 00:44:29,160 That's what you're that's what you're supposed to be, right? 855 00:44:29,640 --> 00:44:30,720 Yeah, that's what they. Tell you stuff. 856 00:44:31,440 --> 00:44:33,200 Like alligators? You dive out of the way. 857 00:44:33,320 --> 00:44:35,480 You're running zigzags away from it. 858 00:44:35,800 --> 00:44:39,040 Yeah. So I, I could survive, I'd let 859 00:44:39,040 --> 00:44:41,520 you guys pick because I could survive all four of those if. 860 00:44:43,800 --> 00:44:46,000 You guys check out, if you guys check out memes, that's how I'm 861 00:44:46,000 --> 00:44:47,880 going to survive against the grizzly bear, OK? 862 00:44:49,240 --> 00:44:54,080 I was pecker out. So hey, so the top speed of a 863 00:44:54,080 --> 00:44:59,000 hippo ever recorded is 19 mph. Oh yeah, that one I'd love. 864 00:44:59,000 --> 00:45:01,600 It What's the running speed of a human? 865 00:45:03,080 --> 00:45:07,120 Usain Usain Bolt ran 26 miles an hour during the Olympics. 866 00:45:07,120 --> 00:45:10,000 Once are you, Usain Bolt? I'm fast. 867 00:45:10,280 --> 00:45:12,400 I think not. I don't think you're not that 868 00:45:12,440 --> 00:45:14,440 fast I. Don't think you're used to. 869 00:45:14,720 --> 00:45:17,640 I don't know if I still could, but I used to be able to outrun 870 00:45:17,640 --> 00:45:20,400 our forklifts and they could do. 13 miles an hour. 871 00:45:20,920 --> 00:45:23,360 Never mind they they could do the. 30. 30. 872 00:45:26,160 --> 00:45:32,080 On that 1313 Bob, you may be a big Bob's like the. 873 00:45:32,080 --> 00:45:34,640 Hippopotamus, I'm like, you should be racing Hussein. 874 00:45:34,680 --> 00:45:38,840 Vote for the Olympics, man. You know, like he's. 875 00:45:38,840 --> 00:45:41,840 All there eating his chicken Nuggets in China and Bob's like 876 00:45:41,840 --> 00:45:43,720 I just had a lasagna and two steaks. 877 00:45:43,880 --> 00:45:46,120 Let's do this, Hussein. You ain't ready. 878 00:45:46,320 --> 00:45:49,440 And then he outruns. Him and then he throws up. 879 00:45:49,440 --> 00:45:51,560 At the end because he ran 30 miles an hour. 880 00:45:52,680 --> 00:45:54,920 He wins, but he throws. Up. 881 00:45:54,920 --> 00:45:59,240 Yeah, everything. If we are honestly going by the 882 00:45:59,240 --> 00:46:03,200 way to survive hippopotamus, maybe dodging, but for 20 883 00:46:03,200 --> 00:46:07,280 minutes I don't know if I could. My big thing is I could lay down 884 00:46:07,280 --> 00:46:11,080 and play dead for 20 minutes. Not that hard, not that hard. 885 00:46:11,080 --> 00:46:13,240 I'm still probably going to. Die with with the hippopotamus. 886 00:46:13,240 --> 00:46:17,320 I'm not saying you will not get injured, I'm saying you will 887 00:46:17,320 --> 00:46:19,800 survive. They lose interest so. 888 00:46:19,800 --> 00:46:22,360 Quickly. Because usually grizzly bears 889 00:46:22,360 --> 00:46:26,000 are attack humans not because of a food source, but because they 890 00:46:26,000 --> 00:46:30,480 are in their way and. Bro with the hippopotamus you 891 00:46:30,480 --> 00:46:33,360 just coach yourself in vegetable oil and if he does catch you 892 00:46:33,360 --> 00:46:35,080 every time he tries to bite you, you just slip. 893 00:46:35,080 --> 00:46:39,360 Right out. Yeah, and you play play Dead 894 00:46:39,360 --> 00:46:42,040 with the Bear, right? Is don't have any pocket bacon 895 00:46:42,040 --> 00:46:44,480 at that moment because that would be bad, right? 896 00:46:44,480 --> 00:46:47,720 I can't ever guarantee that. With the tiger, I know I could 897 00:46:47,720 --> 00:46:51,320 survive the tiger because I got the pet one and put my arm 898 00:46:51,320 --> 00:46:55,000 around it and hug it. Yeah, So I know how to. 899 00:46:55,000 --> 00:46:57,160 I know it would. It would smell that tiger on me 900 00:46:57,160 --> 00:46:58,880 and I'd be fine. Bob's. 901 00:46:58,960 --> 00:47:02,280 Bob's Native American name is Bob, friend of Tiger. 902 00:47:02,600 --> 00:47:05,800 Yes, and that's true with the silverback gorilla. 903 00:47:05,800 --> 00:47:08,120 That one's even that. That's, well, that was probably 904 00:47:08,120 --> 00:47:11,040 the most hard one of all. Lenny taught me how to take care 905 00:47:11,040 --> 00:47:13,640 of that one. You just take all your clothes 906 00:47:13,640 --> 00:47:16,400 off and just take your clothes off and tell it you're a power 907 00:47:16,400 --> 00:47:18,000 bottom. There you go, check out that 908 00:47:18,040 --> 00:47:19,360 one. That's that's also how I'll 909 00:47:19,360 --> 00:47:20,840 survive. OK, I'll do this. 910 00:47:20,840 --> 00:47:22,320 One, that's also how I'll survive. 911 00:47:23,720 --> 00:47:27,320 I think I've seen this. Where is it memes? 912 00:47:27,640 --> 00:47:28,720 Yep, that's quite us again. I'll. 913 00:47:29,360 --> 00:47:31,280 Punch you in the face to study, then choke it with your thighs, 914 00:47:32,920 --> 00:47:34,560 bringing elbows down onto the bed. 915 00:47:34,680 --> 00:47:39,440 It's embarrassing capacity. You might die perfect. 916 00:47:41,280 --> 00:47:43,280 Hell, he's totally right. You choke it out with your 917 00:47:43,280 --> 00:47:43,640 thighs. I'll. 918 00:47:44,320 --> 00:47:46,480 I'll play what'll happen? Guys will be watching. 919 00:47:46,480 --> 00:47:48,360 I'll play dead. It'll come up to me and start 920 00:47:48,360 --> 00:47:49,680 sniffing me. I'll punch it and then I'll get 921 00:47:49,680 --> 00:47:53,160 eat. So there is. 922 00:47:53,360 --> 00:47:55,480 Nothing that we want. There is one. 923 00:47:55,480 --> 00:47:56,880 Cheddar. Cheddar is right. 924 00:47:57,400 --> 00:47:59,760 So there is one thing that we all agree on and that's we would 925 00:47:59,760 --> 00:48:03,000 not survive A1V1 versus a gorilla, no. 926 00:48:03,240 --> 00:48:06,080 I didn't say that, but yeah, you're probably right. 927 00:48:06,320 --> 00:48:07,640 Maybe they're friendly, I don't know. 928 00:48:07,640 --> 00:48:10,080 I'm not gonna find out. Though, well, the question. 929 00:48:10,080 --> 00:48:10,480 Was. They. 930 00:48:10,800 --> 00:48:13,560 Are actually trying to kill you. I'll call. 931 00:48:13,640 --> 00:48:14,640 I want you. To. 932 00:48:14,840 --> 00:48:18,800 Silverback gorilla attacks and tell me how friendly silverback 933 00:48:18,800 --> 00:48:19,760 gorillas are, right? Right. 934 00:48:20,440 --> 00:48:22,520 They're not. I'll call myself in vegetable 935 00:48:22,520 --> 00:48:24,160 oil and hope that he makes me his new wife. 936 00:48:25,000 --> 00:48:27,120 So. I'm saying just tell him. 937 00:48:27,160 --> 00:48:29,400 Tell him your power bottom to. Be. 938 00:48:29,400 --> 00:48:32,800 Fair ammunition to throw. To be fair, Cheddar was right. 939 00:48:33,280 --> 00:48:37,040 There is only one answer to this question, and the answer is $100 940 00:48:37,040 --> 00:48:40,640 million is not enough to try any of them 100. 941 00:48:40,760 --> 00:48:42,960 I know that's a lot of money. It's not enough. 942 00:48:43,360 --> 00:48:45,040 It's not enough. It might be. 943 00:48:45,320 --> 00:48:47,880 If you die. You get nothing, your wife gets 944 00:48:47,880 --> 00:48:49,440 nothing, your family gets nothing. 945 00:48:49,560 --> 00:48:52,160 We get a really bad YouTube video and we. 946 00:48:52,920 --> 00:48:54,360 Make a lot of. Money on. 947 00:48:55,200 --> 00:48:56,400 It if you. Leave. 948 00:48:56,520 --> 00:48:59,760 Sure, you get $100 million. Most of those things will make 949 00:48:59,760 --> 00:49:03,160 you paraplegic so you can buy your nice house and then try to 950 00:49:03,160 --> 00:49:05,760 drown yourself in the pool by blowing into your wheelchair. 951 00:49:06,080 --> 00:49:09,160 You do you, $100 million is not enough. 952 00:49:09,440 --> 00:49:12,040 It's not enough. I'll do a little capuchin monkey 953 00:49:12,040 --> 00:49:13,400 that can do all my chores for me. 954 00:49:16,360 --> 00:49:17,960 But he can't give you happiness you. 955 00:49:18,240 --> 00:49:20,080 Want to bet you got a little? Hand, I think so. 956 00:49:20,440 --> 00:49:22,600 Got little bands I feel huge you. 957 00:49:23,200 --> 00:49:26,720 Know. Yeah, all gigantic like. 958 00:49:31,560 --> 00:49:33,480 Oh, wow. All right. 959 00:49:34,400 --> 00:49:37,000 So there's a little segment we used to do back in the day 960 00:49:37,320 --> 00:49:39,680 called Am I the A hole? Yes. 961 00:49:39,720 --> 00:49:40,320 Where? Yes. 962 00:49:40,520 --> 00:49:43,320 One of the read off the. Story and then we'll debate over 963 00:49:43,600 --> 00:49:46,080 who is the A hole starting off first. 964 00:49:46,240 --> 00:49:49,920 Am I the A hole for now? Last time we did this no one 965 00:49:50,200 --> 00:49:53,160 thought the person was or everyone thought the person was 966 00:49:53,160 --> 00:49:54,920 the A hole. Yeah, there's something like 967 00:49:54,920 --> 00:49:55,720 that. We all agreed. 968 00:49:56,520 --> 00:49:57,520 OK, sorry. Continue. 969 00:49:57,920 --> 00:50:00,920 No, you're right. So am I the a hole for not 970 00:50:00,920 --> 00:50:03,080 waking up a tourist who overslept and missed the day 971 00:50:03,080 --> 00:50:06,000 trip she paid for? Is it your job to wake her up? 972 00:50:06,360 --> 00:50:10,440 I'm a 21 year old female, a Bulgarian tour guide who 973 00:50:10,440 --> 00:50:13,320 accompanies groups to Sicily and on a recent trip one woman who 974 00:50:13,320 --> 00:50:17,040 was travelling alone in mid 30s was constantly oversleeping. 975 00:50:17,320 --> 00:50:22,120 The first day after we arrived we had a day trip to and Aetna 976 00:50:22,360 --> 00:50:26,320 and I'm butchering this Italian taromania. 977 00:50:26,600 --> 00:50:29,760 Grazi. Which we departed, yeah, at 8:00 978 00:50:29,760 --> 00:50:33,920 AM As we do all the other other day tours, I'm making sure that 979 00:50:33,920 --> 00:50:36,680 all tourists are informed of the departure times on the bus the 980 00:50:36,680 --> 00:50:38,800 day before. We also have they also have my 981 00:50:38,800 --> 00:50:40,960 phone number to call in case they forget so I can remind 982 00:50:40,960 --> 00:50:43,040 them. They also have it printed out on 983 00:50:43,040 --> 00:50:46,640 pamphlets with the schedules made by the travel agency that I 984 00:50:46,640 --> 00:50:50,360 hand out to them for the times, for the departures, all the 985 00:50:50,360 --> 00:50:52,160 groups. All the group was on time except 986 00:50:52,160 --> 00:50:53,760 for one moment. She was late by 10 minutes, 987 00:50:53,760 --> 00:50:56,240 which okay, maybe she got caught up in something and was a little 988 00:50:56,240 --> 00:50:58,400 late. I excused it, then mentioned of 989 00:50:58,400 --> 00:51:01,320 the whole bus on the mic that I do not tolerate lateness beyond 990 00:51:01,320 --> 00:51:04,240 15 minutes at most in case of emergency, like forgotten 991 00:51:04,240 --> 00:51:07,600 possessions and then I am always being called informed in case 992 00:51:07,600 --> 00:51:10,720 someone is running late. Trip went OK otherwise. 993 00:51:10,880 --> 00:51:14,360 The next day the same tourist was late again by 25 minutes, 994 00:51:15,240 --> 00:51:18,640 almost an entire half hour. I called her twice to no answer 995 00:51:18,640 --> 00:51:19,960 and we're just going to leave without her. 996 00:51:19,960 --> 00:51:22,640 When she came running out to the bus, she got lucky as the 997 00:51:22,640 --> 00:51:26,160 receptionist, the hotel asked me about a missing piece of info on 998 00:51:26,160 --> 00:51:28,000 the rooming list and I earned her. 999 00:51:28,000 --> 00:51:31,480 That earned her some time. I reminded everyone again that I 1000 00:51:31,480 --> 00:51:34,680 will not be waiting anymore for late tourists in the morning and 1001 00:51:34,680 --> 00:51:37,240 waking up on time was their responsibility. 1002 00:51:37,440 --> 00:51:40,120 When we came back that evening, she asked me if she could make 1003 00:51:40,360 --> 00:51:43,120 if I could make sure to wake her up on time. 1004 00:51:43,400 --> 00:51:46,560 I reminded her a third time that I am not responsible for waking 1005 00:51:46,560 --> 00:51:49,080 people up, everyone gets a printed itinerary with the 1006 00:51:49,080 --> 00:51:51,920 departure times and that I announced everything the day 1007 00:51:51,920 --> 00:51:53,560 before. She kept saying no, no, no, just 1008 00:51:53,560 --> 00:51:57,360 knock on my door if not by 8:15 when I kept repeating I really 1009 00:51:57,360 --> 00:51:59,640 can't do that for everyone, please just set an alarm. 1010 00:52:00,040 --> 00:52:03,120 On the day we were visiting Syracuse, she didn't show up. 1011 00:52:03,520 --> 00:52:06,440 I waited 15 minutes after the supposedly departure time, 1012 00:52:06,680 --> 00:52:09,800 called her twice to no response, then left with the bus with the 1013 00:52:09,800 --> 00:52:11,800 rest of the group. She called me in a panic about 1014 00:52:11,800 --> 00:52:13,440 an hour later asking where we were. 1015 00:52:13,760 --> 00:52:15,040 I explained the situation calmly. 1016 00:52:15,040 --> 00:52:18,320 She got angry and said that I had one, I had one job, and then 1017 00:52:18,320 --> 00:52:20,480 I cheated her out of the money that she paid to go on that day 1018 00:52:20,480 --> 00:52:22,200 trip. She missed the whole day trip 1019 00:52:22,200 --> 00:52:24,640 and was furious the next day. Later she told the rest of the 1020 00:52:24,640 --> 00:52:27,080 group that I had banned her and also called my agency, leaving a 1021 00:52:27,080 --> 00:52:29,600 bad review about me. Am I the a hole for not 1022 00:52:29,600 --> 00:52:32,600 personally waking up a grown woman despite my warning her 1023 00:52:32,600 --> 00:52:35,480 multiple times that I. Unless she's got the condition 1024 00:52:35,480 --> 00:52:37,920 or something, but I don't know what kind of condition that 1025 00:52:38,200 --> 00:52:40,480 would be. You know what usually works fine 1026 00:52:40,480 --> 00:52:41,880 is an. Alarm block. 1027 00:52:41,960 --> 00:52:45,560 Get your get your fat ass out of bed. 1028 00:52:45,760 --> 00:52:47,640 Forgive my language, thank. You. 1029 00:52:53,240 --> 00:52:55,440 She. May not listeners listeners, she 1030 00:52:55,440 --> 00:52:58,000 may not be fat, and if she's not, I apologize. 1031 00:52:58,440 --> 00:53:04,000 Take your lazy ass out of bed. Yes, out of bed. 1032 00:53:04,400 --> 00:53:07,600 Don't get me wrong, I struggle with this sometimes. 1033 00:53:07,600 --> 00:53:09,960 You know what happens when I mess up my own plans? 1034 00:53:10,200 --> 00:53:11,400 Nothing. It's my. 1035 00:53:11,680 --> 00:53:14,240 Fault. I need to get my lazy ass out 1036 00:53:14,240 --> 00:53:19,360 of. Bed Welcome to the. 1037 00:53:19,360 --> 00:53:21,240 World, I'm sick of coddling people. 1038 00:53:21,920 --> 00:53:25,240 Yeah, 100%. No, it's not if he would have 1039 00:53:25,280 --> 00:53:27,520 now. So here's the here's how. 1040 00:53:27,600 --> 00:53:30,320 Here's how you tell. He told her multiple times. 1041 00:53:30,320 --> 00:53:33,280 He even called her several times, you know. 1042 00:53:33,280 --> 00:53:37,280 No, he didn't go and knock on her door, but he clearly stated 1043 00:53:37,280 --> 00:53:40,680 to her, I'm not going to do that because if I do it for you and 1044 00:53:40,680 --> 00:53:44,200 if everybody asks me to do that or several people ask me to do 1045 00:53:44,200 --> 00:53:47,600 that, I can't do that. So it's just better policy if I 1046 00:53:47,600 --> 00:53:50,440 don't do that. He did everything that he said 1047 00:53:50,440 --> 00:53:53,440 he would do and she did not follow instruction. 1048 00:53:53,680 --> 00:53:56,800 Doesn't matter if you paid for it or not, it's honestly it's on 1049 00:53:56,800 --> 00:53:59,240 you. I want to play devil's advocate. 1050 00:54:00,120 --> 00:54:03,520 So from a business standpoint, yes, because technically the 1051 00:54:03,520 --> 00:54:06,880 woman did pay for it. Now if if it was, if it was in 1052 00:54:06,880 --> 00:54:10,280 the pamphlet that it was their responsibility to be on time, 1053 00:54:10,520 --> 00:54:12,360 sure, that's what they signed up for. 1054 00:54:12,360 --> 00:54:15,000 If there was like a waiver or something like that, sure. 1055 00:54:15,280 --> 00:54:20,080 But if there if there wasn't anything that specifies that it 1056 00:54:20,080 --> 00:54:23,800 wasn't the the tour guide's responsibility to wake them up, 1057 00:54:24,120 --> 00:54:27,560 then I would think that the the business would look at her and 1058 00:54:27,560 --> 00:54:29,920 saying that she maybe she did abandoned her. 1059 00:54:30,240 --> 00:54:34,120 And so now she wants like that refund for that time or 1060 00:54:34,120 --> 00:54:36,320 something like that that she missed out on and then that 1061 00:54:36,320 --> 00:54:39,280 would go back on the tour guide. So she does say. 1062 00:54:39,560 --> 00:54:41,160 The. Only problem I have with that is 1063 00:54:41,160 --> 00:54:46,240 the tour guide said to all of them spoke what the what that 1064 00:54:46,240 --> 00:54:47,480 was. Yeah, no. 1065 00:54:47,680 --> 00:54:49,240 In front of every. Standpoint. 1066 00:54:49,560 --> 00:54:51,200 Is he supposed to wake up everybody? 1067 00:54:51,200 --> 00:54:53,280 Like if ever like if five people were. 1068 00:54:53,560 --> 00:54:54,840 So from a business. Statement. 1069 00:54:54,840 --> 00:54:56,520 Would he have to go and wake them all up? 1070 00:54:56,840 --> 00:55:00,040 Mentions she mentions in this several times that they have a 1071 00:55:00,040 --> 00:55:03,040 pamphlet with all the times of the departure on there it's 1072 00:55:03,040 --> 00:55:06,560 listed and that they they that they're not responsible for you 1073 00:55:06,560 --> 00:55:09,080 being there you paid to be there you're. 1074 00:55:09,080 --> 00:55:11,800 Yeah. So it's like, it's like if, if I 1075 00:55:11,800 --> 00:55:16,240 make a reservation, right, And I say Cheddar, you and I are gonna 1076 00:55:16,240 --> 00:55:18,760 go to dinner at this really fancy Italian. 1077 00:55:18,760 --> 00:55:21,760 I wanna go. Right, you gotta be there at 1078 00:55:21,920 --> 00:55:24,200 8:00 sharp, okay? You got it buddy. 1079 00:55:24,400 --> 00:55:28,840 And then so I'm there at 8:00 sharp cuz I'm a big bag and. 1080 00:55:30,080 --> 00:55:32,640 I'm also foodie too. I would be there 15 minutes 1081 00:55:32,640 --> 00:55:34,080 early. Well, yeah, no, me too. 1082 00:55:34,600 --> 00:55:36,080 But so we're sitting there, right? 1083 00:55:36,160 --> 00:55:38,240 And I I'm waiting. I'm waiting 15 minutes. 1084 00:55:38,280 --> 00:55:39,680 And I'm. I'm about ready to order. 1085 00:55:39,760 --> 00:55:41,520 And then you show up and you're like, oh, sorry, my bad. 1086 00:55:41,800 --> 00:55:44,640 Well, all right, that's fine. And then we do it again in the 1087 00:55:44,640 --> 00:55:46,840 next week. And then you're 25 minutes late. 1088 00:55:47,120 --> 00:55:49,320 And now I've got Joe with us and he's hungry. 1089 00:55:49,320 --> 00:55:50,840 You're right. He's gnawing on my arm because 1090 00:55:50,840 --> 00:55:53,080 of how he's like, I wanna I wanna eat. 1091 00:55:53,080 --> 00:55:54,760 I'm here to eat. I'm here to do my stuff. 1092 00:55:55,040 --> 00:55:57,000 And you're interfering. At the end of the apocalypse. 1093 00:55:57,280 --> 00:55:58,760 Yeah, right. And then the. 1094 00:55:58,760 --> 00:56:02,480 Next I'm gonna eat is like. All of us are here and we sit 1095 00:56:02,480 --> 00:56:04,200 there and we wait for you for 20 minutes. 1096 00:56:04,360 --> 00:56:06,040 We try calling you. You don't answer. 1097 00:56:06,360 --> 00:56:08,040 And you're like, look, Dan, sorry. 1098 00:56:08,040 --> 00:56:09,840 You're gonna have to. You're gonna have to come wake 1099 00:56:09,840 --> 00:56:12,520 me up. Make sure so that you can make 1100 00:56:12,520 --> 00:56:14,800 sure that I'm where I'm supposed to be. 1101 00:56:15,040 --> 00:56:16,720 I'm sorry. You're an adult. 1102 00:56:16,920 --> 00:56:19,600 Figure it out yourself. No, yeah, that's here. 1103 00:56:20,080 --> 00:56:21,360 I get. That's another thing he said 1104 00:56:21,360 --> 00:56:24,400 too. Once I get it, it's gonna happen 1105 00:56:24,400 --> 00:56:27,800 multiple times, though if it was once I might be nice and go 1106 00:56:27,800 --> 00:56:30,440 knock on your door and be like, hey, you paid for this, Are you 1107 00:56:30,440 --> 00:56:32,360 sure you don't want to show up to this there? 1108 00:56:32,640 --> 00:56:33,280 Was clearly. A. 1109 00:56:33,280 --> 00:56:35,560 Once you get one time, you get one time. 1110 00:56:35,880 --> 00:56:39,200 Well, even for the 15 minutes. Maybe your alarm clock didn't 1111 00:56:39,200 --> 00:56:40,520 work. Benefit of the doubt. 1112 00:56:40,520 --> 00:56:43,160 You get 1, you get 1. With me I got later every day 1113 00:56:43,200 --> 00:56:43,920 though last. Night. 1114 00:56:44,360 --> 00:56:47,000 I'm not doing that again. Yeah, Yeah, no. 1115 00:56:47,360 --> 00:56:49,760 And yeah, to me, that's just a character issue. 1116 00:56:49,800 --> 00:56:53,000 That's that's a character flaw. Maybe she hadn't learned, like 1117 00:56:53,000 --> 00:56:55,600 everybody has to learn how to wake up to an alarm because 1118 00:56:56,080 --> 00:56:58,120 nobody wants to. Nobody really wants to get out 1119 00:56:58,120 --> 00:57:00,800 of bed in the morning. For the most part, I never do. 1120 00:57:01,000 --> 00:57:03,640 But like, you know, maybe she just hadn't learned how to do 1121 00:57:03,640 --> 00:57:05,520 that yet. But it got progressively later 1122 00:57:05,600 --> 00:57:08,560 every. Time I got it, I got to imagine 1123 00:57:08,560 --> 00:57:14,720 how either Chrissy or entitled this woman is for someone maybe 1124 00:57:14,760 --> 00:57:19,400 probably used to it, for her not being excited enough to get 1125 00:57:19,400 --> 00:57:24,160 herself out of bed to go on this like tour guide in another 1126 00:57:24,160 --> 00:57:25,280 country. Yeah. 1127 00:57:25,560 --> 00:57:28,720 A responsible adult would say I probably shouldn't stay up till 1128 00:57:28,720 --> 00:57:31,440 two or three in the morning, you know, drinking or something, 1129 00:57:31,440 --> 00:57:33,920 because I got to get up early the next day to go on this tour. 1130 00:57:34,240 --> 00:57:37,440 I wasn't, well, I wasn't going with that, but like. 1131 00:57:37,480 --> 00:57:39,120 Right. No, that's not necessarily. 1132 00:57:39,120 --> 00:57:41,800 The case, they're like used to it, you know, like, you know, 1133 00:57:41,800 --> 00:57:44,600 all the I I've seen, I've been on this tour a couple times. 1134 00:57:44,600 --> 00:57:47,840 My last two husbands sent me, sent me on this exact trip. 1135 00:57:47,840 --> 00:57:50,720 I know what's coming. Right. 1136 00:57:51,640 --> 00:57:53,920 You're, you're talking to somebody that's not like used to 1137 00:57:53,920 --> 00:57:56,840 getting up and used to fall on the schedule, right? 1138 00:57:56,840 --> 00:57:58,960 Or they're used to having somebody wake them up. 1139 00:57:58,960 --> 00:58:00,960 No, I get that right. And that that very well could be 1140 00:58:00,960 --> 00:58:02,720 too. She's an AO. 1141 00:58:02,840 --> 00:58:04,920 For sure. They they did put this in there 1142 00:58:04,920 --> 00:58:08,520 and they said hey update. I talked to my manager today. 1143 00:58:08,880 --> 00:58:11,640 I was nervous first because I was tired of this whole of this 1144 00:58:11,640 --> 00:58:14,000 whole shenanigan and I didn't want to spend ages defending 1145 00:58:14,000 --> 00:58:15,360 myself. So I went to him first and 1146 00:58:15,360 --> 00:58:18,240 explained the situation before he approached me. 1147 00:58:18,440 --> 00:58:21,280 He told me word for word. Hun, I deleted that BS from my 1148 00:58:21,280 --> 00:58:24,280 e-mail as soon as I read it. There you go. 1149 00:58:24,640 --> 00:58:26,560 That's good when you got a manager to stand up for you. 1150 00:58:27,160 --> 00:58:31,000 Yeah, not all of them will. Trust me, I know that true. 1151 00:58:32,240 --> 00:58:33,600 That's true. So. 1152 00:58:33,600 --> 00:58:36,240 So we all say no. I wouldn't stand up for me 1153 00:58:36,240 --> 00:58:37,920 either. I'd I'd throw myself under the 1154 00:58:37,920 --> 00:58:41,280 bus because I'd be the manager and the and the tour guide. 1155 00:58:41,400 --> 00:58:42,760 I'd be like. He did that. 1156 00:58:43,160 --> 00:58:46,320 What a douchebag. I will severely punish him. 1157 00:58:46,640 --> 00:58:49,240 In fact, I'm going to take some of his pay and put it in my 1158 00:58:49,240 --> 00:58:50,840 account just to teach him a lesson. 1159 00:58:51,040 --> 00:58:54,360 Thank you, ma'am. Perfect. 1160 00:58:55,040 --> 00:58:58,040 So I'm guessing we all agree that they are not the asshole 1161 00:58:58,040 --> 00:58:58,640 for doing that. I. 1162 00:58:58,920 --> 00:59:00,960 Think it sounds like. It they are not the a hole. 1163 00:59:00,960 --> 00:59:03,520 Yeah, it's it's the lady. They're the B hole. 1164 00:59:03,520 --> 00:59:08,280 No, I'm kidding. The Council has spoken. 1165 00:59:09,200 --> 00:59:12,200 I have spoken. Oh man, you imagine if we were a 1166 00:59:12,200 --> 00:59:14,440 council. We often would get done. 1167 00:59:15,800 --> 00:59:18,760 All of our decisions would be so ambiguous. 1168 00:59:20,240 --> 00:59:27,320 Polarity would ensue. All right, am I the a hole for 1169 00:59:27,320 --> 00:59:30,160 letting my girlfriend stop coming over in the mornings 1170 00:59:30,160 --> 00:59:32,480 after my momma's friend complained about her showering? 1171 00:59:33,200 --> 00:59:35,080 So my girlfriend. Works. 1172 00:59:35,880 --> 00:59:37,400 Reread that part. I'm so sorry. 1173 00:59:37,600 --> 00:59:39,520 I'm I'm sorry. Will you start that over? 1174 00:59:40,040 --> 00:59:43,720 Am I the a hole for letting my girlfriend stop? 1175 00:59:43,760 --> 00:59:46,240 For letting my girlfriend stop coming over in the mornings 1176 00:59:46,440 --> 00:59:48,840 after my mom's friend complained about her showering? 1177 00:59:49,120 --> 00:59:51,520 I'm very confused. So the girlfriend doesn't shower 1178 00:59:51,520 --> 00:59:53,120 right correctly. Or. 1179 00:59:54,000 --> 00:59:54,960 Something she showers annoyingly. 1180 00:59:54,960 --> 00:59:57,880 No context. I I without context, I would 1181 00:59:57,880 --> 00:59:59,200 think that she sings in the shower. 1182 01:00:01,600 --> 01:00:05,480 It's gonna be. My girlfriend works 12 hour 1183 01:00:05,480 --> 01:00:07,720 overnight shift, 7:00 PM to 7:00 AM. 1184 01:00:07,920 --> 01:00:11,000 After work she sometimes comes to my place to shower and sleep. 1185 01:00:11,280 --> 01:00:15,040 She usually arrives around 8:15 AM, takes a quick shower, and by 1186 01:00:15,040 --> 01:00:17,720 8:30 crashes for the day. Here's where the issue comes in. 1187 01:00:17,960 --> 01:00:20,880 My mom's long term friend who rents out the basement 1188 01:00:21,160 --> 01:00:24,800 complained that the sound of a shower at 8:30 AM woke him up. 1189 01:00:25,120 --> 01:00:27,640 My mom passed that complaint along to me and asked if my 1190 01:00:27,640 --> 01:00:30,680 girlfriend could avoid showering until everyone is awake. 1191 01:00:30,960 --> 01:00:33,800 I told my girlfriend and she felt uncomfortable continuing to 1192 01:00:33,800 --> 01:00:36,240 come over. Understandably in my opinion, 1193 01:00:36,840 --> 01:00:39,280 after working all night, the last thing she wants to do is 1194 01:00:39,280 --> 01:00:42,160 feel like she's disturbing people just by taking a basic 1195 01:00:42,160 --> 01:00:44,720 shower before bed. So she decided to not come over 1196 01:00:44,720 --> 01:00:47,040 in the mornings anymore. And she does because she doesn't 1197 01:00:47,040 --> 01:00:50,200 want to cause drama or make a scene, just quietly adjusted. 1198 01:00:50,360 --> 01:00:53,240 I later told my mom that my girlfriend decided that she and 1199 01:00:53,240 --> 01:00:55,920 she got upset not because of the shower, but because my 1200 01:00:55,920 --> 01:00:57,960 girlfriend chose to stop coming over in the mornings. 1201 01:00:58,160 --> 01:01:00,240 My mom insisted that wasn't her intention. 1202 01:01:00,600 --> 01:01:03,640 And from our perspective, asking someone to not shower after a 1203 01:01:03,640 --> 01:01:05,920 night shift is pretty clearly sends a message to their 1204 01:01:05,920 --> 01:01:06,920 presence. It's disruptive. 1205 01:01:07,080 --> 01:01:09,080 For context, I also pay rent in this house. 1206 01:01:09,080 --> 01:01:11,600 My mom friend has lived here for years and pays rent too. 1207 01:01:11,840 --> 01:01:13,720 We all share the space. It's not like my girlfriend is 1208 01:01:13,720 --> 01:01:16,600 being loud or unreasonable, just taking a 5 to 10 minute shower 1209 01:01:16,680 --> 01:01:18,360 hour in the morning, which seems pretty standard. 1210 01:01:18,600 --> 01:01:21,560 Now my mom is upset with me and I feel like I handled it fairly. 1211 01:01:21,800 --> 01:01:24,000 I just passed the message along, my girlfriend made a call and 1212 01:01:24,000 --> 01:01:26,320 mature decision and I'm somehow caught in the middle. 1213 01:01:27,160 --> 01:01:28,960 I. Think his mom's taking it too 1214 01:01:28,960 --> 01:01:30,960 personally. He's not the AOL. 1215 01:01:31,000 --> 01:01:32,440 Is this his? Girlfriend's not the A. 1216 01:01:32,480 --> 01:01:35,520 Hole Mom's friend. I think the mom's friend's kind 1217 01:01:35,520 --> 01:01:37,160 of the A hole. It's 8:30 in the morning. 1218 01:01:37,160 --> 01:01:38,320 Agreed. Yeah. 1219 01:01:38,520 --> 01:01:40,800 Yeah, it's not that early. No, it was 3 in the morning. 1220 01:01:40,920 --> 01:01:44,000 That's one thing. Right if it was. 8:30 It's not 1221 01:01:44,000 --> 01:01:46,120 that bad. I mean technically you should be 1222 01:01:46,120 --> 01:01:50,080 able to take a shower in your apartment or where your living 1223 01:01:50,080 --> 01:01:52,600 space anytime you feel like it. Doesn't matter, yeah. 1224 01:01:53,040 --> 01:01:54,000 Well, how long? When would? 1225 01:01:54,040 --> 01:01:57,480 You as long as you're not being crazy, she's just taking basic. 1226 01:01:57,480 --> 01:01:59,400 At night, you know, supposed to wait all day. 1227 01:01:59,760 --> 01:02:03,080 Yeah, no. So if it was me, if I was the 1228 01:02:03,080 --> 01:02:06,880 boyfriend and and my mom says, oh, my friend was annoyed, you 1229 01:02:06,880 --> 01:02:10,720 know, I would have said well, you know, I'm sorry, that's too 1230 01:02:10,720 --> 01:02:12,720 bad. The hours that my girlfriend is 1231 01:02:12,720 --> 01:02:15,640 taking a shower is not unreasonable. 1232 01:02:15,680 --> 01:02:17,920 And I'm not gonna. I would not have passed that 1233 01:02:17,920 --> 01:02:21,560 along to my girlfriend because I would have thought, you know, as 1234 01:02:21,560 --> 01:02:24,920 her boyfriend, I would know, OK, You know, she's that's this is 1235 01:02:24,920 --> 01:02:27,040 gonna frustrate her and she's probably gonna do something that 1236 01:02:27,280 --> 01:02:29,240 I'm not gonna like. Oh, it was that. 1237 01:02:29,240 --> 01:02:31,160 Tested along to her. No, yeah. 1238 01:02:31,160 --> 01:02:33,840 I mean, like, you know what, It's it's 8:30 in the morning. 1239 01:02:34,080 --> 01:02:35,280 Like, yeah. That's your. 1240 01:02:35,280 --> 01:02:37,080 It's completely reasonable. Yeah. 1241 01:02:37,560 --> 01:02:42,240 Well, unless the, the, the mom's best friend also works like 1242 01:02:42,240 --> 01:02:44,400 weird hours, like the graveyard shift or something. 1243 01:02:44,800 --> 01:02:48,680 Like they work like, I don't know, like 10 to like 4 and then 1244 01:02:48,680 --> 01:02:52,240 they're like asleep by 6 and then 830 comes around there and 1245 01:02:52,280 --> 01:02:53,360 they get. Woke up, Yeah. 1246 01:02:53,680 --> 01:02:56,240 And they get woke up. I would understand that, but it 1247 01:02:56,240 --> 01:03:00,000 doesn't say anything about that. In that in that case, the adult 1248 01:03:00,000 --> 01:03:04,840 thing to do if if that's the case is to nowadays you can use 1249 01:03:04,840 --> 01:03:06,760 you can have an app on your phone. 1250 01:03:07,080 --> 01:03:09,240 There are are noisemaker, you know noise. 1251 01:03:09,280 --> 01:03:12,840 What do you call not noise, white noise, but white noise 1252 01:03:12,920 --> 01:03:16,120 yeah generators. You can get ear plugs. 1253 01:03:16,240 --> 01:03:19,920 I work third shift for a lot of years and I found pretty 1254 01:03:19,920 --> 01:03:22,360 creative ways sometimes to stay awake because, you know, we had 1255 01:03:22,360 --> 01:03:24,520 five kids and sometimes they are noisy. 1256 01:03:24,520 --> 01:03:27,120 And I certainly, I mean, there were a few times I stepped out, 1257 01:03:27,120 --> 01:03:29,800 I know, and said something. But like, for the most part, I 1258 01:03:29,800 --> 01:03:32,280 don't want to have to disrupt their lives just because I'm 1259 01:03:32,280 --> 01:03:35,920 trying to sleep, you know. So I found I tried to find ways 1260 01:03:35,920 --> 01:03:38,040 to deal with it didn't bother them or me. 1261 01:03:38,200 --> 01:03:40,920 I think that's the adult way to handle it but not complain. 1262 01:03:41,600 --> 01:03:45,160 She woke me up picking a shower. That's just me. 1263 01:03:45,720 --> 01:03:50,880 So a loud, loud shower. So when I lived with, So when I 1264 01:03:50,880 --> 01:03:56,400 lived with my former roommate Cole, he would, he used to work 1265 01:03:56,400 --> 01:04:03,480 like, like I worked like 7 AM, 8:00 AM to whatever 5:30 and I'm 1266 01:04:03,480 --> 01:04:07,640 leaving when he's asleep. And I, and I feel bad because 1267 01:04:07,640 --> 01:04:09,520 sometimes the door was very loud. 1268 01:04:09,880 --> 01:04:12,480 It was like one of those like sheer wooden doors. 1269 01:04:12,480 --> 01:04:14,680 And then it had like a huge glass panel. 1270 01:04:14,920 --> 01:04:17,240 So times, times when you close that, you know, it makes like a 1271 01:04:17,680 --> 01:04:19,400 bang when you're not even trying. 1272 01:04:19,800 --> 01:04:21,200 Yeah. And he's talked to me about that 1273 01:04:21,200 --> 01:04:25,840 and I was like, OK, that's fine. But so I when he gets home from 1274 01:04:25,840 --> 01:04:28,480 work, because he went to work at noon, he didn't get home until 1275 01:04:28,480 --> 01:04:31,720 like 11/11/30. So I'm already asleep by then. 1276 01:04:31,720 --> 01:04:36,840 He comes home, bang the door and then does whatever I got to, I 1277 01:04:36,840 --> 01:04:39,000 didn't talk to him about it. I know that he's just getting 1278 01:04:39,000 --> 01:04:41,760 home and all that. So I bought from Amazon these 1279 01:04:41,760 --> 01:04:47,440 like in ear earplugs, like they rested into the crevice of your 1280 01:04:47,440 --> 01:04:48,920 ear right here. Yeah. 1281 01:04:49,720 --> 01:04:52,440 And they were made for sleeping and they're very soft and all 1282 01:04:52,440 --> 01:04:53,720 that and. Awesome. 1283 01:04:53,960 --> 01:04:56,880 I got to say waking up sometimes and not hearing a thing I'm like 1284 01:04:58,200 --> 01:05:00,080 but. Sound sleep if you don't hear 1285 01:05:00,080 --> 01:05:02,840 anything sometimes like some. Really sound sleep or sometimes 1286 01:05:02,840 --> 01:05:04,360 your voices in your head are louder. 1287 01:05:04,680 --> 01:05:07,320 This is true. Anyway. 1288 01:05:08,200 --> 01:05:10,760 So not a hole, right? I say. 1289 01:05:11,000 --> 01:05:11,880 With a hole. Right. 1290 01:05:11,960 --> 01:05:13,520 Yeah, definitely the mom's friend, kind of. 1291 01:05:16,000 --> 01:05:18,680 All right. So we have this one here. 1292 01:05:19,000 --> 01:05:21,360 Am I the a hole for staying in a hotel while visiting? 1293 01:05:23,840 --> 01:05:26,280 Background. My mother and brother normally 1294 01:05:26,280 --> 01:05:28,360 visit me from out of state during Christmas. 1295 01:05:28,480 --> 01:05:30,520 However, this year I wanted to come back to my hometown 1296 01:05:30,520 --> 01:05:32,520 instead. I'd like to of course see them 1297 01:05:32,520 --> 01:05:34,640 but also visit other family members and friends. 1298 01:05:34,840 --> 01:05:38,880 My mother's house is extremely small and either me or my 1299 01:05:38,880 --> 01:05:41,560 brother will be sleeping on twin mattresses along with the other 1300 01:05:41,560 --> 01:05:45,520 rooms are very cramped. I would prefer I stay in a hotel 1301 01:05:45,520 --> 01:05:48,480 because I want to have more space to decompress after a long 1302 01:05:48,480 --> 01:05:50,760 day. The mother is calling me selfish 1303 01:05:50,760 --> 01:05:53,400 and a narcissist for wanting to stay in a hotel room that I 1304 01:05:53,400 --> 01:05:55,200 would only be there just to sleep in. 1305 01:05:55,480 --> 01:06:00,360 Am I the a hole? No, on a real note, no bro, I 1306 01:06:00,360 --> 01:06:03,680 don't care who I'm visiting, I prefer a hotel room. 1307 01:06:03,880 --> 01:06:06,840 Yes, Amen. Always you can't. 1308 01:06:07,040 --> 01:06:11,240 You cannot pay enough for privacy. 1309 01:06:11,480 --> 01:06:14,640 You can't. I'm I agree with that. 1310 01:06:14,720 --> 01:06:16,960 I'm already, I'm already weird enough. 1311 01:06:17,280 --> 01:06:20,360 When I travel, I don't sleep. What little sleep I do get at 1312 01:06:20,360 --> 01:06:23,080 home, I don't get it. Even in a hotel room, strange 1313 01:06:23,080 --> 01:06:25,720 places. If I'm in your house, it's not 1314 01:06:25,720 --> 01:06:29,240 that I'm not sleeping, it's that I'm not laying in bed because 1315 01:06:29,240 --> 01:06:32,120 every single noise in your house that I'm unfamiliar. 1316 01:06:32,120 --> 01:06:34,240 With. Sets off panic mode. 1317 01:06:34,440 --> 01:06:37,280 Sets off panic mode. I have a rough enough time with 1318 01:06:37,280 --> 01:06:40,000 this in my own, let alone at your house. 1319 01:06:40,280 --> 01:06:43,920 Tiny clamped full of people. The moment my mom if she called 1320 01:06:43,920 --> 01:06:46,760 me a narcissist for that I'd be like you're right mom, I'm super 1321 01:06:46,760 --> 01:06:48,520 selfish. I will not bother you with my 1322 01:06:48,520 --> 01:06:50,800 presence ever again. It would be the last time I it. 1323 01:06:51,400 --> 01:06:53,480 Would be the last time. I don't want to bother you. 1324 01:06:53,480 --> 01:06:54,840 You're a. Narcissist. 1325 01:06:55,120 --> 01:06:58,360 OK, I'm sorry to bother you. Crappy thing to say. 1326 01:06:59,000 --> 01:07:02,600 And I would leave that day. That day I'd leave like I'm out. 1327 01:07:03,040 --> 01:07:04,800 Cool. Wow, have a good one. 1328 01:07:05,240 --> 01:07:07,280 Yeah. So I'm one of those that I would 1329 01:07:07,280 --> 01:07:10,520 rather prefer to stay in the House of the family that I'm 1330 01:07:10,520 --> 01:07:14,760 living at or visiting. Yes, because every time that I 1331 01:07:14,760 --> 01:07:18,360 visit my brother or or my cousin or something in Des Moines, I 1332 01:07:18,360 --> 01:07:21,560 always just crash on his couch. Or if my brother, I always 1333 01:07:21,560 --> 01:07:23,760 either crash on the couch or one of the guest beds that don't 1334 01:07:23,760 --> 01:07:27,320 have a sheet on it, because I'd rather I'd rather I'm fine and I 1335 01:07:27,320 --> 01:07:31,360 can deal with like sharing a bathroom and all that because, 1336 01:07:31,360 --> 01:07:33,080 you know, I've had roommates and stuff like that. 1337 01:07:34,320 --> 01:07:39,320 Obviously when there was 4, so it was me and my brother and 1338 01:07:39,320 --> 01:07:43,280 then four, three of our cousins all staying in one house at one 1339 01:07:43,280 --> 01:07:45,840 point and there's only two bedrooms so that you know, 1340 01:07:45,880 --> 01:07:49,080 there's all of us like cramped the other, but I didn't mind it. 1341 01:07:50,320 --> 01:07:53,720 My brother's also my. Brother's also one of those is 1342 01:07:53,720 --> 01:07:56,440 like, if you're staying with me, you're not paying for a hotel 1343 01:07:56,800 --> 01:07:58,360 type of thing. I'll make room for you. 1344 01:07:58,360 --> 01:07:59,240 That's. Nice get. 1345 01:07:59,400 --> 01:08:02,680 It but I I prefer. Like I should. 1346 01:08:03,400 --> 01:08:07,080 Like like Alex said, I I prefer H1 because it's privacy. 1347 01:08:07,200 --> 01:08:08,960 I don't care who it is at the end of the day. 1348 01:08:09,480 --> 01:08:13,680 I, I, I need, I need privacy. I need to be able to poop and 1349 01:08:13,680 --> 01:08:16,880 not care about what it smells like when I open up the door. 1350 01:08:18,600 --> 01:08:20,279 There's that too. There is that. 1351 01:08:20,279 --> 01:08:24,000 So, and, and then just just the ability to be like, hey, I'm, 1352 01:08:24,200 --> 01:08:26,920 I'm going to stay up a little later than everybody else and 1353 01:08:26,920 --> 01:08:30,319 just relax, you know, and not have to worry about who I'm 1354 01:08:30,319 --> 01:08:34,000 keeping up or like there's just little things, little things. 1355 01:08:35,520 --> 01:08:38,399 Yeah, I don't think, I don't know. 1356 01:08:38,399 --> 01:08:41,720 So I see the mom's side, you know, where she obviously wanted 1357 01:08:41,720 --> 01:08:43,240 her. I, I believe it was a, a girl, 1358 01:08:43,240 --> 01:08:45,120 right? Her daughter, her daughter, you 1359 01:08:45,160 --> 01:08:48,720 know, Yeah. So I can see the mom's side that 1360 01:08:48,720 --> 01:08:53,319 she would rather her daughter to be there in the house at all 1361 01:08:53,319 --> 01:08:55,640 times because she doesn't see her often enough. 1362 01:08:55,960 --> 01:08:58,040 I get that. And I and I see that. 1363 01:08:58,920 --> 01:09:02,080 However, I don't, I don't think that's, I don't think it's right 1364 01:09:02,080 --> 01:09:05,600 to call somebody a narcissist because they want their space or 1365 01:09:05,600 --> 01:09:08,240 privacy or you know, all of those. 1366 01:09:08,240 --> 01:09:10,600 So like I guess? Both sides. 1367 01:09:10,960 --> 01:09:12,680 But yeah, I was a little over the top, yeah. 1368 01:09:12,960 --> 01:09:16,040 I I think a little bit so but like, does that make her an A 1369 01:09:16,040 --> 01:09:18,359 hole because she wants a hotel room, you know? 1370 01:09:19,319 --> 01:09:22,160 I don't think. So personally, but her mom did. 1371 01:09:23,080 --> 01:09:24,479 Clearly, Yeah. OK. 1372 01:09:25,479 --> 01:09:31,080 Joe, what's your take on this? It's I like space too, but my 1373 01:09:31,080 --> 01:09:37,640 family is my in laws are Hispanic so my house is your SU 1374 01:09:37,640 --> 01:09:41,279 Casa MI Casa kind of thing. Casa SU Casa. 1375 01:09:42,720 --> 01:09:46,880 I'm so I'm used to that so I've never gotten a motel or a hotel 1376 01:09:46,880 --> 01:09:50,920 like when visiting family. I'm always uncomfortable when 1377 01:09:50,920 --> 01:09:53,960 I'm out of my fishbowl though. That's fair but that. 1378 01:09:54,279 --> 01:09:57,400 But that being said, she wants a hotel. 1379 01:09:57,680 --> 01:10:00,440 Let me get a hotel. Yeah, I have to be here. 1380 01:10:00,880 --> 01:10:01,960 You're being. Yeah, she want. 1381 01:10:01,960 --> 01:10:03,880 She's. So you, as the mom, think that 1382 01:10:03,880 --> 01:10:05,480 your daughter's a little weird. That's fine. 1383 01:10:05,840 --> 01:10:07,560 Let it be. Weird, I don't even see it. 1384 01:10:07,560 --> 01:10:10,520 Explain. Yeah, just explain to her. 1385 01:10:10,520 --> 01:10:13,720 Just be like, I never see you, I wish you would just stay here 1386 01:10:13,720 --> 01:10:15,960 and you're saving money. She says no. 1387 01:10:16,320 --> 01:10:18,560 OK, I. Mean some people would. 1388 01:10:18,560 --> 01:10:21,600 Have been the name call. You're an well, you know what? 1389 01:10:21,600 --> 01:10:23,400 You know what it is. You're a narcissist. 1390 01:10:23,440 --> 01:10:27,440 You're an A hole, Danny. Does the Danny does the post say 1391 01:10:27,440 --> 01:10:31,520 anything about the the daughter having like a significant other 1392 01:10:31,560 --> 01:10:33,560 with her or is it was it just her? 1393 01:10:33,760 --> 01:10:35,840 That's. That's a factor too. 1394 01:10:36,200 --> 01:10:39,640 Yeah, dude, that's a factor too. Because if it's a significant. 1395 01:10:39,720 --> 01:10:41,600 Other hotel. Hotel, Yeah. 1396 01:10:42,120 --> 01:10:44,320 I've never had the luxury. Now I'll. 1397 01:10:44,560 --> 01:10:48,640 Tell you, I'll tell you a really good way to handle it. 1398 01:10:48,640 --> 01:10:51,720 If you really want to play both sides, if you're going to be 1399 01:10:51,720 --> 01:10:54,680 there more than one night, stay one or two nights with your 1400 01:10:54,680 --> 01:10:57,040 family, stay one or two nights in a hotel. 1401 01:10:57,840 --> 01:11:00,400 Kind of split it up. Because then because now you've 1402 01:11:00,400 --> 01:11:04,320 placated her, she feels better. She doesn't feel you're a total 1403 01:11:04,320 --> 01:11:07,720 jerk and you get your privacy or whatever for half the time you 1404 01:11:07,720 --> 01:11:12,000 know or whatever. Just. 1405 01:11:12,000 --> 01:11:15,280 Staying just staying in one one night in the hotel. 1406 01:11:15,280 --> 01:11:21,120 You're an A hole. Sorry guys, I knew it. 1407 01:11:21,480 --> 01:11:24,880 All right, am I the A? Not the A holes. 1408 01:11:25,160 --> 01:11:29,240 Yeah, this one, this one feels I don't know. 1409 01:11:30,040 --> 01:11:32,240 So am I the a hole for forgetting my girlfriend's 1410 01:11:32,240 --> 01:11:34,560 birthday? Yeah. 1411 01:11:38,720 --> 01:11:43,240 Old. Male just forgot my girlfriend's 1412 01:11:43,240 --> 01:11:46,160 19 year old female's birthday and I really don't know if it's 1413 01:11:46,160 --> 01:11:48,560 actually my if it's actually fully my fault. 1414 01:11:48,800 --> 01:11:52,080 Over a year ago we had a conversation where she got kind 1415 01:11:52,080 --> 01:11:54,760 of messed where she kind of messed with me over her birthday 1416 01:11:54,760 --> 01:11:57,200 being August 14th or August 16th. 1417 01:11:58,320 --> 01:12:01,000 Tell me. So I got super confused it it is 1418 01:12:01,000 --> 01:12:03,960 August 14th but ever since then I had trouble remembering if 1419 01:12:03,960 --> 01:12:05,920 it's if it's the 14th or the 16th. 1420 01:12:06,360 --> 01:12:09,120 Is that conversation? Come this summer I went away for 1421 01:12:09,120 --> 01:12:12,360 an internship and at the very beginning of the summer I said I 1422 01:12:12,360 --> 01:12:15,720 was planning on returning home on August 15th so I could spend 1423 01:12:15,720 --> 01:12:18,600 her birthday with her. Obviously I made this mistake 1424 01:12:18,640 --> 01:12:22,480 again thinking it was the 16th. Come today, months later, she 1425 01:12:22,480 --> 01:12:25,840 barely speaks to me all day and at the end of the day text me 1426 01:12:26,200 --> 01:12:28,040 it's my birthday. Passive aggressive. 1427 01:12:28,040 --> 01:12:31,080 She's my favorite I could have. Known her birthday. 1428 01:12:31,520 --> 01:12:34,320 But I mentioned many times this summer being excited to come 1429 01:12:34,320 --> 01:12:37,880 home and spend the 16th with her for her birthday. 1430 01:12:38,240 --> 01:12:41,360 So she had many opportunities to say that it was the wrong, that 1431 01:12:41,360 --> 01:12:43,840 I had the wrong day. And in my opinion I feel like 1432 01:12:43,840 --> 01:12:46,120 she kind of trapped me. It's just one of your reason to 1433 01:12:46,120 --> 01:12:49,160 be upset about something and it's being very pretty immature 1434 01:12:49,560 --> 01:12:52,440 for her to go all summer knowing I had the wrong day and then get 1435 01:12:52,440 --> 01:12:54,800 mad at me on her birthday. Maybe I'm wrong for not 1436 01:12:54,800 --> 01:12:57,760 remembering her birthday to begin with, but am I the a hole 1437 01:12:57,760 --> 01:12:59,280 or should she just have reminded me? 1438 01:12:59,680 --> 01:13:03,080 All right. Do we want 50 sitcom answer or 1439 01:13:03,080 --> 01:13:05,560 do we want actual answer? I think we want actually. 1440 01:13:05,680 --> 01:13:10,200 I want the sitcom answer, Whatever that, whatever that. 1441 01:13:10,320 --> 01:13:12,640 Means I'll keep it. I'll keep it simple for Joe all. 1442 01:13:13,360 --> 01:13:17,720 Right. You're wrong, she's right. 1443 01:13:17,960 --> 01:13:20,880 Suck it up, get over it. There's a 50 sitcom answer. 1444 01:13:21,880 --> 01:13:25,680 The real answer. OK, the real answer. 1445 01:13:25,960 --> 01:13:29,280 She's so she's so upset about a two day difference. 1446 01:13:29,480 --> 01:13:32,000 I'm not even going to say she didn't correct him anything like 1447 01:13:32,000 --> 01:13:33,480 that. She's like, you're not with me 1448 01:13:33,480 --> 01:13:35,080 on my birthday. And she's been like that. 1449 01:13:35,080 --> 01:13:38,120 Like it's. 2 days. He's going to celebrate your 1450 01:13:38,120 --> 01:13:40,600 birthday two days later. Not. 1451 01:13:40,600 --> 01:13:43,600 That big a deal? Most of us don't. 1452 01:13:43,680 --> 01:13:45,000 Really. Care that much about our 1453 01:13:45,000 --> 01:13:47,120 birthdays because we're these things called adults. 1454 01:13:47,440 --> 01:13:50,560 We're adults. I know adults who make massively 1455 01:13:50,560 --> 01:13:53,800 big deals about their birthday, whether men or women. 1456 01:13:54,160 --> 01:13:57,160 Massively big deals and they get butt hurt when you don't make a 1457 01:13:57,160 --> 01:14:00,640 big deal, bro. That's child stuff. 1458 01:14:00,640 --> 01:14:04,080 That is the thing of children. I'm not perfect. 1459 01:14:04,360 --> 01:14:07,560 I act like a child far too much. I have my moments where I'm 1460 01:14:07,560 --> 01:14:10,480 stupid and ridiculous. You all can all attest to that. 1461 01:14:10,800 --> 01:14:12,440 Trust me, nobody hates me more than me. 1462 01:14:12,760 --> 01:14:15,120 Let's get that I. Think we all have something 1463 01:14:15,120 --> 01:14:17,440 similar thinking about ourselves like that, but. 1464 01:14:17,720 --> 01:14:20,800 I'm never immature, no, but please keep talking. 1465 01:14:20,800 --> 01:14:25,840 Dude, I cannot abide with you and people, listen, you want to 1466 01:14:25,840 --> 01:14:27,640 make a big deal out of your birthday, make a big deal out of 1467 01:14:27,640 --> 01:14:29,440 it. Make it the party to last all 1468 01:14:29,440 --> 01:14:30,920 parties. The grandest Granger. 1469 01:14:31,240 --> 01:14:33,800 Do not get butt hurt when somebody does not treat your 1470 01:14:33,800 --> 01:14:35,520 birthday the way you think they should treat it. 1471 01:14:35,760 --> 01:14:37,000 That's bull crap. Don't do it. 1472 01:14:37,000 --> 01:14:39,400 Don't ever do it. I have people in my life that 1473 01:14:39,400 --> 01:14:42,720 try to force me into that. It makes me so angry that 1474 01:14:43,000 --> 01:14:46,200 homicide is on the table or suicide on the table. 1475 01:14:46,200 --> 01:14:48,480 I don't know. I don't know which one I'm going 1476 01:14:48,480 --> 01:14:51,360 to go for first, but. I'm telling somebody and at this 1477 01:14:51,400 --> 01:14:55,400 point it's a coin flip. It's never me. 1478 01:14:55,800 --> 01:15:00,160 With my gun. Heads or tails and I got the two 1479 01:15:00,240 --> 01:15:01,600 faces double. It's going. 1480 01:15:02,160 --> 01:15:04,760 God damn it, I'm going to play Russian roulette with the semi. 1481 01:15:08,080 --> 01:15:10,960 But this is my thing. Stop making heat. 1482 01:15:11,440 --> 01:15:14,080 And he was making a big deal. He went out of his way to be 1483 01:15:14,080 --> 01:15:15,600 like, I'm going to celebrate your birthday. 1484 01:15:15,800 --> 01:15:17,120 I'm so excited. That's true. 1485 01:15:17,120 --> 01:15:18,720 It's the 16th. Get over. 1486 01:15:18,760 --> 01:15:23,320 Get over self. He he obviously wanted to have 1487 01:15:23,320 --> 01:15:26,960 the right day. Yeah, that all by itself makes 1488 01:15:26,960 --> 01:15:28,560 him not the A hole. This is. 1. 1489 01:15:29,520 --> 01:15:31,040 Of the thought really does count. 1490 01:15:31,240 --> 01:15:34,000 Now now I. Think it's 8020. 1491 01:15:34,320 --> 01:15:41,280 I think he's 20% an asshole. OK, it depends on how long him 1492 01:15:41,280 --> 01:15:42,720 and his girlfriend have been together. 1493 01:15:43,040 --> 01:15:45,560 Like if they've been together since she was five years old. 1494 01:15:45,560 --> 01:15:48,040 It doesn't sound that way. Yeah, they should know. 1495 01:15:48,720 --> 01:15:50,720 But it sounds like they just got together. 1496 01:15:50,720 --> 01:15:53,080 From the sounds of it, they've only been together a year. 1497 01:15:53,360 --> 01:15:55,520 I personally have maybe two dates. 1498 01:15:55,880 --> 01:15:58,080 Yeah, right. She's doing this thing. 1499 01:15:58,440 --> 01:16:01,160 First of all, sorry, I don't know if you're done yet. 1500 01:16:01,440 --> 01:16:04,320 No, I I'm just I personally have a hard time with dates. 1501 01:16:04,480 --> 01:16:05,680 That's. That's I get, I get. 1502 01:16:05,800 --> 01:16:07,960 The same. Definitely a lot and a lot of 1503 01:16:07,960 --> 01:16:10,600 guys are right. I'm still trying to get all my 1504 01:16:10,600 --> 01:16:14,520 grandkids birthdays down. You know what's funny? 1505 01:16:14,840 --> 01:16:19,800 I I've known my brother for 28 years, 27 years I I still 1506 01:16:19,800 --> 01:16:21,480 question when his birthday is you. 1507 01:16:23,120 --> 01:16:26,920 Should probably know by now. I forget back. 1508 01:16:27,000 --> 01:16:31,040 With birthdays. I forget my own birthday. 1509 01:16:31,640 --> 01:16:35,560 Last year Google reminded me it was my own birthday. 1510 01:16:35,680 --> 01:16:38,520 Like oh crap that's today. Did you? 1511 01:16:38,560 --> 01:16:41,360 Not Google reminded me I didn't know. 1512 01:16:42,080 --> 01:16:45,920 Who cares? When they pulled it to a high 1513 01:16:45,960 --> 01:16:52,600 regard, she the the the trigger Here is the passive aggressive 1514 01:16:52,600 --> 01:16:55,520 thing with the text that you said in the beginning of the 1515 01:16:55,520 --> 01:16:58,280 story. She was being extremely passive 1516 01:16:58,280 --> 01:17:00,840 aggressive and that tells me what kind of person you are. 1517 01:17:01,120 --> 01:17:04,040 She wanted him to forget or to get it wrong. 1518 01:17:04,040 --> 01:17:07,040 She was waiting for it. She so she could have ammo to 1519 01:17:07,040 --> 01:17:09,920 use against them later. The old Dayton switch. 1520 01:17:10,160 --> 01:17:13,920 Classic a hole. See, I'm saying 6040. 1521 01:17:14,080 --> 01:17:15,120 OK. Did he? 1522 01:17:15,880 --> 01:17:22,520 604040. So she's definitely more of the 1523 01:17:22,520 --> 01:17:25,240 anal, right? First off, by playing with him 1524 01:17:25,320 --> 01:17:28,360 and being like, I don't know, is it the 14th or the 16th? 1525 01:17:28,640 --> 01:17:31,040 Yeah. And then going all summer long 1526 01:17:31,280 --> 01:17:33,480 with just not telling him. And then like you said, Joe, the 1527 01:17:33,480 --> 01:17:35,720 password aggressive. I'm gonna say 40 on his. 1528 01:17:35,960 --> 01:17:38,920 I wanna say 40 on his part because as a boyfriend he should 1529 01:17:38,920 --> 01:17:42,520 have been like, it's the is it the 14th or the 16th? 1530 01:17:42,640 --> 01:17:43,560 Because you. Should catch. 1531 01:17:43,800 --> 01:17:46,440 My girlfriend, yeah. Right, Which one is it? 1532 01:17:46,440 --> 01:17:49,080 Because I want to make sure I'm trying to do this thing where I 1533 01:17:49,080 --> 01:17:52,120 come back and and that's why I'm back, you know, to celebrate 1534 01:17:52,120 --> 01:17:53,600 your birthday after this internship. 1535 01:17:53,680 --> 01:17:55,680 Yeah, he wants a surprise her though. 1536 01:17:56,120 --> 01:17:58,760 Well, no, because he was talking about it all all summer long. 1537 01:17:58,880 --> 01:18:02,520 Yeah, he's excited to sell it. If it were me, I would have been 1538 01:18:02,520 --> 01:18:04,400 like, hey, you were messing with me in the beginning. 1539 01:18:04,440 --> 01:18:05,160 I get it. It was. 1540 01:18:05,440 --> 01:18:07,800 Funny haha. Which one is it? 1541 01:18:07,880 --> 01:18:12,080 Because I want to be back. Yeah, I'm seriously confused. 1542 01:18:12,480 --> 01:18:14,000 I'm kind of kind of build off of that. 1543 01:18:14,000 --> 01:18:18,000 Like if I don't think he didn't do enough to try to learn, he 1544 01:18:18,000 --> 01:18:20,400 could have looked at like her social media, she has it on 1545 01:18:20,520 --> 01:18:22,560 there. He could have asked her parents. 1546 01:18:22,880 --> 01:18:24,920 I know they would have given him a straight answer. 1547 01:18:25,400 --> 01:18:27,520 Her friends. Her friends. 1548 01:18:27,520 --> 01:18:29,640 I see what you're saying. I have to agree with you. 1549 01:18:29,880 --> 01:18:32,080 Yeah. I feel like he said 80 or. 1550 01:18:32,120 --> 01:18:33,200 More. Yeah. 1551 01:18:33,480 --> 01:18:35,320 I think he's just more dumb than an A hole. 1552 01:18:35,600 --> 01:18:40,160 Well, he's 19, so. That can translate into being 1553 01:18:40,320 --> 01:18:44,920 dumb, can definitely translate into you're you're an A hole. 1554 01:18:45,200 --> 01:18:48,960 It really it's not that. It's a very fine line between 1555 01:18:48,960 --> 01:18:52,400 you're an idiot and you're an asshole, and a lot of idiots 1556 01:18:52,480 --> 01:18:57,400 really jump rope with that one. I, I honestly think that she 1557 01:18:57,400 --> 01:19:02,200 should have given him like like that first year pass, you know, 1558 01:19:02,200 --> 01:19:05,640 it's the 1st birthday that she's had since you guys been 1559 01:19:05,640 --> 01:19:08,520 together. You know, it's hardwood dates, 1560 01:19:08,520 --> 01:19:11,240 fine, but make sure that next year you remember or something 1561 01:19:11,240 --> 01:19:12,840 like that if we're still together. 1562 01:19:13,120 --> 01:19:15,800 You can be a little hard, but don't blame the guy for that 1563 01:19:15,800 --> 01:19:17,000 much. But whatever. 1564 01:19:17,200 --> 01:19:21,680 Green Next. After discussing, I say 5050. 1565 01:19:21,680 --> 01:19:25,840 It could be either way. Yeah, I I have to agree with 1566 01:19:25,840 --> 01:19:26,960 you. He definitely bears some 1567 01:19:26,960 --> 01:19:29,160 responsibility. I think everybody's kind of the 1568 01:19:29,160 --> 01:19:31,600 a hole in that one so. Yeah, yeah. 1569 01:19:31,920 --> 01:19:34,280 All right, I can agree. So am I the A hole? 1570 01:19:34,520 --> 01:19:37,840 The guy used to date sent me money and I lied about it. 1571 01:19:38,080 --> 01:19:41,960 What sounds like an A hole. Guy used to date sent me money 1572 01:19:41,960 --> 01:19:43,160 and lied about it. OK. 1573 01:19:43,680 --> 01:19:48,400 Aw. Sorry, so IA 22 year old female 1574 01:19:48,400 --> 01:19:52,000 broke up with, we'll call him Ron who was a 23 year old male. 1575 01:19:52,040 --> 01:19:55,440 Three years ago we had a dog together and after we broke up I 1576 01:19:55,440 --> 01:19:57,600 took the dog because he said he didn't want her. 1577 01:19:57,760 --> 01:20:00,880 Well she needed to go to the vet and I was taking a talk to my 1578 01:20:00,880 --> 01:20:03,920 mom about it and and I was telling my mom I really didn't 1579 01:20:03,920 --> 01:20:07,000 have any money at the time to take care of the vet bill 1580 01:20:07,200 --> 01:20:10,120 because I lost my job recently. Well, she took that as an 1581 01:20:10,120 --> 01:20:13,280 invitation to message Ron, and he broke no contact. 1582 01:20:14,280 --> 01:20:18,280 Now I have no want to speak to him at all and I want anything 1583 01:20:18,280 --> 01:20:21,000 to do with him. I moved on and I love my partner 1584 01:20:21,160 --> 01:20:23,720 but he was concerned about the dog and I can't have an adult 1585 01:20:23,720 --> 01:20:25,680 conversation but he was concerned about. 1586 01:20:26,000 --> 01:20:29,240 They wrote this terribly but he was concerned about the dog and 1587 01:20:29,240 --> 01:20:33,640 I have an adult conversation. However, Ron ended up sending me 1588 01:20:33,640 --> 01:20:36,880 money after I told him that I would most likely not be able to 1589 01:20:36,880 --> 01:20:39,800 afford the very visit and it had to wait. 1590 01:20:40,040 --> 01:20:42,680 I told him I did not want his money but he sends it anyways. 1591 01:20:42,800 --> 01:20:46,400 But now I have two issues. One, I just talked to a guy who 1592 01:20:46,400 --> 01:20:48,880 I should have never talked to because of the circumstances of 1593 01:20:48,880 --> 01:20:51,640 my current relationship and I feel guilty for taking the money 1594 01:20:51,640 --> 01:20:54,800 because he sent it digitally. So what should I do or what 1595 01:20:55,080 --> 01:20:57,080 should I do? Should I tell my partner about 1596 01:20:57,080 --> 01:20:59,760 this and send the money back? Or should I take care of my dog 1597 01:20:59,760 --> 01:21:01,600 and try to forget about all of this? 1598 01:21:01,640 --> 01:21:03,080 I hope it doesn't bite me in the butt. 1599 01:21:03,360 --> 01:21:05,560 Please help, I'm going to lose my mind if I don't get any 1600 01:21:05,560 --> 01:21:07,280 advice. First of all, talk to your 1601 01:21:07,280 --> 01:21:10,080 partner regardless if you want to send the money you're back or 1602 01:21:10,080 --> 01:21:11,800 not. Agreed. 1603 01:21:12,280 --> 01:21:13,920 Agreed. Yeah. 1604 01:21:15,640 --> 01:21:18,280 Like think about it like child support or something like that, 1605 01:21:18,280 --> 01:21:19,800 I don't know. Yeah. 1606 01:21:19,960 --> 01:21:21,480 But it's not even. It's just a dog I. 1607 01:21:21,480 --> 01:21:24,400 Feel like she's, I feel like she's making it more difficult 1608 01:21:24,400 --> 01:21:27,080 than what it really is. Yeah, yeah, I think that's rule 1609 01:21:27,080 --> 01:21:29,760 #1 talk to your partner. So I think she's kind of being 1610 01:21:29,760 --> 01:21:32,760 in the a hole here because yeah, one, Why is that even a question 1611 01:21:32,760 --> 01:21:34,240 in your mind? Should I talk to my partner? 1612 01:21:34,560 --> 01:21:36,640 Yeah. You're you're 22 years old, 1613 01:21:36,680 --> 01:21:38,160 you're not 14. OK. 1614 01:21:38,160 --> 01:21:39,880 Yeah. If you can't afford something 1615 01:21:40,000 --> 01:21:43,040 and this and this this dog that you decided to purchase with 1616 01:21:43,040 --> 01:21:46,560 your for your former partner, yeah he's in need of the vet and 1617 01:21:46,560 --> 01:21:49,120 he is stepping up and being like hey, I want to help take care of 1618 01:21:49,120 --> 01:21:52,040 this thing that we got together even though we're. 1619 01:21:52,040 --> 01:21:53,840 Not one of it. That doesn't mean I don't care 1620 01:21:53,840 --> 01:21:56,680 about it type of thing. You know, I'm still an adult 1621 01:21:56,680 --> 01:21:59,320 that will step up and be like, hey, we said that we were going 1622 01:21:59,320 --> 01:22:00,440 to take care of this thing together. 1623 01:22:00,440 --> 01:22:02,480 Just because we're not together anymore doesn't mean I'm going 1624 01:22:02,480 --> 01:22:04,200 to stop taking care of it. Yeah, not. 1625 01:22:04,200 --> 01:22:05,720 He could have just been like. I can. 1626 01:22:06,160 --> 01:22:08,960 There's no guilt in him offering money to take care of the dog. 1627 01:22:09,360 --> 01:22:13,240 We'll throw that out there. If you are feeling guilty, it is 1628 01:22:13,240 --> 01:22:15,440 your own guilt for whatever reason. 1629 01:22:15,840 --> 01:22:17,560 Not. To get off psychology, not. 1630 01:22:17,880 --> 01:22:19,240 Talk to your ex. That's. 1631 01:22:19,840 --> 01:22:23,120 AI don't like, I don't like how she said like no contact like he 1632 01:22:23,120 --> 01:22:26,800 had like a restraining order. So one of two things with that, 1633 01:22:27,120 --> 01:22:32,360 either her current boyfriend is extremely possessive, which 1634 01:22:32,360 --> 01:22:35,040 would be a reason that she would question whether or not she 1635 01:22:35,040 --> 01:22:38,520 should talk to him and possessive and jealous, maybe 1636 01:22:38,520 --> 01:22:43,400 maybe borderline or abusive. The other reason would be that 1637 01:22:43,440 --> 01:22:48,680 yeah, he the her, her previous boyfriend was abusive and she 1638 01:22:48,680 --> 01:22:52,400 had no contact order with him. So I I could see her, but she 1639 01:22:52,400 --> 01:22:54,000 really didn't explain herself very well. 1640 01:22:54,280 --> 01:22:56,880 So I think that. When she means like no contact, 1641 01:22:56,960 --> 01:22:59,920 she means like, look, I moved on, I don't want to talk to you 1642 01:22:59,920 --> 01:23:02,440 anymore. Yeah, I think so, yeah. 1643 01:23:02,800 --> 01:23:06,560 From the way she described it, it sounds like because I still 1644 01:23:06,560 --> 01:23:08,840 have feelings is the way that I kind of interpreted. 1645 01:23:08,880 --> 01:23:11,640 It and that's what I wanted to ask, do you think people, do you 1646 01:23:11,640 --> 01:23:13,960 think people lie and alter details on these things? 1647 01:23:14,640 --> 01:23:17,080 Maybe a little bit. Because I would say. 1648 01:23:17,960 --> 01:23:22,000 I don't actually buy that her mom contacted her ex. 1649 01:23:22,120 --> 01:23:24,520 I think she did that. Hey, why else would you feel? 1650 01:23:24,720 --> 01:23:28,080 Good, I can't pay for this. I don't believe that. 1651 01:23:28,240 --> 01:23:31,560 Like I'm suspicious that the mom texted. 1652 01:23:31,560 --> 01:23:36,040 The ex that she was like typing, I think as she was typing it out 1653 01:23:36,040 --> 01:23:39,080 and like asking, she probably figured out that she is the 1654 01:23:39,120 --> 01:23:42,960 asshole. And we typed it that very 1655 01:23:43,400 --> 01:23:46,920 suspect I think. She. 1656 01:23:46,920 --> 01:23:49,800 Reached out to. So I reached out. 1657 01:23:49,800 --> 01:23:54,120 Now that makes me the A hole. My mom. 1658 01:23:55,000 --> 01:23:58,280 Why would your mom? Yeah, why would your mom jump 1659 01:23:58,280 --> 01:24:01,520 over you and have his number? And that's so weird. 1660 01:24:02,440 --> 01:24:06,440 I'm going to call Sean. She sounds really like she's 1661 01:24:06,440 --> 01:24:08,600 typing fast. So why does her? 1662 01:24:08,600 --> 01:24:11,080 I also still have his ex. Her ex. 1663 01:24:11,080 --> 01:24:14,080 I don't know. I'm I don't believe that. 1664 01:24:14,680 --> 01:24:16,600 I'm suspecting that. I don't think. 1665 01:24:16,600 --> 01:24:18,320 That is, that is a bit suspicious. 1666 01:24:18,320 --> 01:24:20,000 Why else would you stand? Guilty. 1667 01:24:20,160 --> 01:24:23,280 She feels extremely guilty. Maybe the mom's in love with the 1668 01:24:23,360 --> 01:24:24,240 ex. Maybe. 1669 01:24:26,360 --> 01:24:29,960 Wait, wait. Wait, wait, He was like. 1670 01:24:29,960 --> 01:24:32,640 Maybe. Maybe her and the ex are 1671 01:24:32,640 --> 01:24:33,680 actually together. Oh. 1672 01:24:34,200 --> 01:24:36,520 That's why they broke up. That's why they broke up. 1673 01:24:37,240 --> 01:24:39,000 God, how did the writer not? See this? 1674 01:24:39,000 --> 01:24:45,120 How did we see this? We just uncovered. 1675 01:24:45,240 --> 01:24:47,320 She came home one day. You're actually sleeping. 1676 01:24:47,560 --> 01:24:49,280 What are you doing? Sleeping with my mom? 1677 01:24:49,440 --> 01:24:51,080 That's gross. We're done. 1678 01:24:51,080 --> 01:24:53,840 I also don't. I also don't think that. 1679 01:24:54,800 --> 01:25:00,160 I also don't think that the ex-boyfriend just relinquished 1680 01:25:00,160 --> 01:25:02,320 the dog because he didn't want it. 1681 01:25:02,560 --> 01:25:04,760 I think she just took it. I think so. 1682 01:25:04,760 --> 01:25:06,720 That's what. I because the guys if. 1683 01:25:06,880 --> 01:25:08,640 He. Didn't want it if. 1684 01:25:08,760 --> 01:25:10,800 He didn't want it. He wouldn't pay for it later. 1685 01:25:11,920 --> 01:25:14,720 OK, so like. Yeah, like why did she still 1686 01:25:14,720 --> 01:25:17,960 feel obligated to that? Yeah, I agree with you guys. 1687 01:25:17,960 --> 01:25:19,880 I there's something fishy about all that. 1688 01:25:19,920 --> 01:25:22,880 I don't normally think why she feels so guilty. 1689 01:25:22,880 --> 01:25:24,480 Like why? So. 1690 01:25:24,880 --> 01:25:27,320 My mom. Go with my ex, we had a, we had 1691 01:25:27,320 --> 01:25:31,200 a cat. We had a cat together and cuz 1692 01:25:31,200 --> 01:25:36,200 she and she got it for me, like cuz she, she knew that I like 1693 01:25:36,200 --> 01:25:37,440 cats. That's fine. 1694 01:25:37,560 --> 01:25:40,280 Cool. Got a cat and we broke up later 1695 01:25:40,280 --> 01:25:42,480 and I was like, OK, well, I'm taking care of this cat. 1696 01:25:42,480 --> 01:25:46,160 You know, all this and that. And I, when I go to, when I 1697 01:25:46,160 --> 01:25:49,240 start thinking about going to college, I realized that they 1698 01:25:49,240 --> 01:25:52,200 don't have, they don't allow pets. 1699 01:25:52,560 --> 01:25:56,480 I'm like, well, crap. And I'm really, really wanting 1700 01:25:56,480 --> 01:25:59,080 to go to college, you know, stay in the dorms and all that. 1701 01:25:59,320 --> 01:26:02,560 Yeah. So through tears and like many 1702 01:26:02,560 --> 01:26:07,880 nights contemplating it, I, I texted her saying, look, I'm 1703 01:26:07,880 --> 01:26:10,480 going to college. I can't bring the cat with me. 1704 01:26:10,560 --> 01:26:13,160 And I don't want it to just go to like some random person, then 1705 01:26:13,160 --> 01:26:16,160 they will go on a farm. So I texted her and I brought 1706 01:26:16,160 --> 01:26:18,320 her the cat. But like I said, it was through 1707 01:26:18,320 --> 01:26:21,080 tears I did not want to get rid of, but I had to. 1708 01:26:21,480 --> 01:26:22,760 You got to do what you got to do. 1709 01:26:23,080 --> 01:26:26,040 Right, we've I've had to do that and it sucks. 1710 01:26:26,160 --> 01:26:28,720 Not with a cat, but. That's that's weird with pets. 1711 01:26:29,080 --> 01:26:31,920 Yeah, we had a we had a dog. We had a dog. 1712 01:26:31,920 --> 01:26:35,360 We couldn't take to the next apartment we were going to and 1713 01:26:35,600 --> 01:26:37,280 or we didn't think we were going to be able to. 1714 01:26:37,280 --> 01:26:40,480 I think that's what it was. And so no, we weren't able to. 1715 01:26:40,560 --> 01:26:44,640 And so we let a friend ask a friend to keep her for a little 1716 01:26:44,640 --> 01:26:46,320 while and it was a couple. It was a year. 1717 01:26:46,320 --> 01:26:47,600 It was longer than I anticipated. 1718 01:26:47,680 --> 01:26:49,080 I thought it was only going to be a year or two. 1719 01:26:49,080 --> 01:26:53,840 It ended up being more she grew attached to the dog and when we 1720 01:26:53,840 --> 01:26:57,840 were going to move to, you know, where we could have a dog again, 1721 01:26:58,000 --> 01:27:00,320 and she said, no, I'm not giving, I'm not giving. 1722 01:27:01,520 --> 01:27:04,200 Yeah, I was ticked. But I but I sort of understood 1723 01:27:04,200 --> 01:27:06,960 because she'd really bonded with her, you know, So. 1724 01:27:07,240 --> 01:27:08,000 Yeah. Bold. 1725 01:27:08,280 --> 01:27:12,080 Yeah, it was I, I felt like she was kind of a hole, but. 1726 01:27:13,200 --> 01:27:15,800 Yeah. The dog was happy, and that was. 1727 01:27:16,200 --> 01:27:19,360 It might be a hole for getting rid of my dog and then bring it 1728 01:27:19,360 --> 01:27:22,560 back, right? No, not the a hole. 1729 01:27:22,920 --> 01:27:23,960 All right. Can I? 1730 01:27:23,960 --> 01:27:26,040 But this girl was. Can I play that whole thing with 1731 01:27:26,040 --> 01:27:27,120 it? Yeah, of course. 1732 01:27:27,920 --> 01:27:28,560 Sure. Good. 1733 01:27:29,040 --> 01:27:32,760 OK, not in way of saying that she's not. 1734 01:27:32,760 --> 01:27:34,320 She's the a hole in this situation. 1735 01:27:35,240 --> 01:27:37,320 Throwing that out there. I definitely I agree with you. 1736 01:27:37,720 --> 01:27:40,920 I agree with you guys. I honestly believe she reached 1737 01:27:40,920 --> 01:27:43,400 out to her ex, not her mother. That's what I think. 1738 01:27:44,560 --> 01:27:48,960 I agree with that, but I will say this knowing mothers who 1739 01:27:48,960 --> 01:27:52,320 would keep an ex's phone number and then text the ex your 1740 01:27:52,320 --> 01:27:54,520 problem. I know these people. 1741 01:27:54,800 --> 01:27:59,080 I know I know I know I know them. 1742 01:27:59,080 --> 01:28:00,800 I will. They will not be named on the 1743 01:28:00,800 --> 01:28:03,120 Internet. My name to the. 1744 01:28:03,120 --> 01:28:05,160 Lord, they will not be named. I know them. 1745 01:28:07,400 --> 01:28:08,160 I. Really. 1746 01:28:08,680 --> 01:28:12,240 So for her to say that I have, I have. 1747 01:28:12,560 --> 01:28:14,760 I do believe that there are moms out there who wouldn't. 1748 01:28:15,640 --> 01:28:17,200 I told my mom and she touched my. 1749 01:28:17,240 --> 01:28:19,520 Accent. Not that hard to believe, but 1750 01:28:19,520 --> 01:28:21,960 the way she wrote, like you said, the way she wrote it 1751 01:28:21,960 --> 01:28:23,040 seemed. Quick and the guilt that. 1752 01:28:23,160 --> 01:28:25,000 She like she would find a backtrack. 1753 01:28:25,040 --> 01:28:29,920 It's just like, OK, so you know, go through a very strenuous 1754 01:28:29,920 --> 01:28:31,560 time. Yes, your dog is sick. 1755 01:28:31,760 --> 01:28:37,280 You really, you really took the excuse to say I can reach out to 1756 01:28:37,280 --> 01:28:41,440 them, which was not a good mindset and now you got to live 1757 01:28:41,440 --> 01:28:43,400 with that. Talk to your, talk to your 1758 01:28:43,400 --> 01:28:46,360 boyfriend now. Be honest about it. 1759 01:28:46,360 --> 01:28:48,120 Don't lie like you did on the Internet. 1760 01:28:48,440 --> 01:28:51,960 Hopefully it works out, move on. First of all, delete. 1761 01:28:52,120 --> 01:28:54,480 Your exit number. Block it. 1762 01:28:54,480 --> 01:28:56,680 Delete it. I don't care what you do if your 1763 01:28:56,680 --> 01:29:01,720 mom actually has if your mom actually has your ex's number, 1764 01:29:02,120 --> 01:29:03,560 look your mom dad in the face and. 1765 01:29:03,560 --> 01:29:07,200 Say. Talk to my ex about my problems. 1766 01:29:07,360 --> 01:29:09,280 I will block and delete your number. 1767 01:29:09,320 --> 01:29:13,240 We won't talk for a while. Mothers like that need that. 1768 01:29:13,520 --> 01:29:15,160 They're overbearing. They need that. 1769 01:29:15,160 --> 01:29:16,920 If that was actually truly the case. 1770 01:29:17,120 --> 01:29:20,200 Just say a silver line about this. 1771 01:29:20,440 --> 01:29:24,400 Yeah, a silver lining. It's it's great actually seeing 1772 01:29:24,400 --> 01:29:29,080 this because this is like a 22 year old's problem that would be 1773 01:29:29,080 --> 01:29:32,400 like such a non problem for me. Yeah, like. 1774 01:29:33,000 --> 01:29:34,560 Yeah. What do you mean it's? 1775 01:29:34,800 --> 01:29:37,440 True. Like if I had the situation 1776 01:29:37,560 --> 01:29:40,560 reach out to the person directly, be respectful, be 1777 01:29:40,600 --> 01:29:44,160 adult about it being like hey I'm low on money we got this dog 1778 01:29:44,680 --> 01:29:48,280 I can't pay the bill would you be willing to help or I could 1779 01:29:48,280 --> 01:29:49,800 get a loan. Like I could do so many 1780 01:29:49,800 --> 01:29:52,440 different things before going to Reddit about it. 1781 01:29:52,440 --> 01:29:55,720 It's such a non issue for. Me I. 1782 01:29:55,760 --> 01:29:59,160 Almost figured out in an hour. Like like I said. 1783 01:29:59,400 --> 01:30:01,320 The very first. Thing I said after Danny got 1784 01:30:01,320 --> 01:30:05,600 reading she whether she wants to keep the money or not talk to 1785 01:30:05,600 --> 01:30:09,560 your partner correct tell him the situation and why that's. 1786 01:30:09,560 --> 01:30:12,480 Such a non, non issue. Yeah, it's just no brainer. 1787 01:30:12,480 --> 01:30:13,600 Not even. A thought to my. 1788 01:30:14,280 --> 01:30:16,400 Head I'm. Single and I know this. 1789 01:30:19,120 --> 01:30:22,320 Yeah, yeah, it's so funny. You are not ready, Grasshopper, 1790 01:30:22,320 --> 01:30:24,720 to know I. Love that that's like a big deal 1791 01:30:24,720 --> 01:30:26,040 for her, I think. I think that's. 1792 01:30:26,040 --> 01:30:29,880 Cute, yeah. Like I like Joey said, I 1793 01:30:29,880 --> 01:30:32,920 honestly think this is a no issue or a non problem. 1794 01:30:32,920 --> 01:30:34,200 Yeah. You've made. 1795 01:30:34,200 --> 01:30:37,760 A problem out of nothing and I like that. 1796 01:30:38,040 --> 01:30:40,080 All righty, I say. A hole. 1797 01:30:40,600 --> 01:30:43,760 I'm going to say a hole as well. Immature. 1798 01:30:43,760 --> 01:30:46,600 Got this one human. We might we might make this the 1799 01:30:46,600 --> 01:30:49,680 last one. Am I the a hole for advising my 1800 01:30:49,680 --> 01:30:53,960 sister to only enter plus size beauty pageant and or become A 1801 01:30:53,960 --> 01:30:56,840 plus size model? I. 1802 01:30:59,840 --> 01:31:05,560 Love, I love these titles. Hey yo, this you fat as hell. 1803 01:31:08,520 --> 01:31:11,160 Hey, they got this competition, but it's for fatties like. 1804 01:31:12,880 --> 01:31:20,200 You. Look, plus size women are on the 1805 01:31:20,200 --> 01:31:21,480 rise. I think you would do good in 1806 01:31:21,480 --> 01:31:26,480 this competition. Have you tried the fat? 1807 01:31:30,120 --> 01:31:41,600 Oh man. IA 31 year old female have a 1808 01:31:41,600 --> 01:31:45,080 sister all right 27 year old female who has done beauty 1809 01:31:45,080 --> 01:31:48,800 pageants all her life. Losing effect her more. 1810 01:31:49,040 --> 01:31:53,720 Wow, losing effects her more. The oldest she gets at 22 she 1811 01:31:53,720 --> 01:31:55,280 gained weight and became plus size. 1812 01:31:55,280 --> 01:31:58,440 As a plus size woman she had won every plus size beauty pageant 1813 01:31:58,440 --> 01:32:01,880 she's ever entered. But as a plus size woman she has 1814 01:32:01,880 --> 01:32:04,480 yet to win a beauty pageant that's not specifically for plus 1815 01:32:04,480 --> 01:32:07,160 size women. She has done plus size modeling 1816 01:32:07,160 --> 01:32:08,760 but treats it like a stepping stone. 1817 01:32:09,080 --> 01:32:12,560 Recently she did extremely well for a plus size 27 year old and 1818 01:32:12,560 --> 01:32:15,080 a beauty pageant allowing available to all women. 1819 01:32:15,440 --> 01:32:18,160 She got runner up. The winner was a thin 19 year 1820 01:32:18,160 --> 01:32:20,360 old woman. Afterwards she was crying and 1821 01:32:20,360 --> 01:32:22,920 asked what she'll do now. I gave her this advice and she 1822 01:32:22,920 --> 01:32:24,800 accused me of being jealous. Am I the able? 1823 01:32:24,800 --> 01:32:28,480 Have you tried the fat 1? Have you have you tried the 1824 01:32:28,640 --> 01:32:31,880 border plus pounds one? OK, I get it. 1825 01:32:32,160 --> 01:32:35,880 So she's saying maybe you, maybe you don't want to go up against 1826 01:32:35,880 --> 01:32:38,320 skinnier girls. Right, sounds like she's just 1827 01:32:38,320 --> 01:32:39,200 plus size. I'm. 1828 01:32:39,400 --> 01:32:42,080 Sorry I. Mean get honestly. 1829 01:32:42,840 --> 01:32:45,360 She got second place, you like? Yeah. 1830 01:32:46,240 --> 01:32:47,800 So I mean. It sounds like she knows. 1831 01:32:48,400 --> 01:32:52,040 You as a plus size woman you got we're assuming she's plus size, 1832 01:32:52,360 --> 01:32:55,800 maybe not full blown plus size. She might be curvy. 1833 01:32:56,000 --> 01:32:58,920 That is a thing that's not you're not fat, but you've got. 1834 01:32:58,920 --> 01:33:01,360 Curves okay. Here's my thing. 1835 01:33:03,600 --> 01:33:08,120 You got runner up in a normal pity pageant open to all women 1836 01:33:08,480 --> 01:33:12,120 when you got beat by a by a thin, fit 19 year old. 1837 01:33:12,280 --> 01:33:14,360 You have nothing to be sorry about. 1838 01:33:14,360 --> 01:33:16,960 That's incredible. That's crazy. 1839 01:33:17,240 --> 01:33:18,800 That's good. That's a good thing. 1840 01:33:19,000 --> 01:33:20,280 Oh, I don't know what I'm going to do now. 1841 01:33:21,800 --> 01:33:23,120 If you're. That OK. 1842 01:33:23,640 --> 01:33:26,120 I'm going to tell you this. Whenever my friends complain to 1843 01:33:26,120 --> 01:33:30,400 me about being fat, the fat ones that complain, either you 1844 01:33:30,400 --> 01:33:34,440 complain and you're being an idiot, you're not fat, or oh I'm 1845 01:33:34,440 --> 01:33:36,360 so fat. Go. 1846 01:33:36,360 --> 01:33:38,480 To the gym and watch what you eat. 1847 01:33:40,760 --> 01:33:43,800 Such insensitive. No like. 1848 01:33:43,920 --> 01:33:46,240 If that is your problem, do that again. 1849 01:33:46,440 --> 01:33:50,160 Again, she may not be fat, she could be curvy. 1850 01:33:50,160 --> 01:33:53,000 Different body type. Women have different body types. 1851 01:33:53,000 --> 01:33:56,240 I understand it if you're not, if you're not fat, but you're 1852 01:33:56,240 --> 01:33:59,080 curvy. And in the world of beauty, 1853 01:33:59,560 --> 01:34:02,560 slender is king. World of beauty, slender is 1854 01:34:02,560 --> 01:34:03,560 king. You can't. 1855 01:34:03,960 --> 01:34:06,200 You try to fight it. Fight the power. 1856 01:34:06,320 --> 01:34:08,920 You got second place. Fighting the power in an open 1857 01:34:08,920 --> 01:34:10,080 beauty. That's incredible. 1858 01:34:10,400 --> 01:34:13,800 But in the world of beauty, slender is king. 1859 01:34:14,080 --> 01:34:15,800 Sorry. I'm sorry. 1860 01:34:16,280 --> 01:34:18,680 I kind of feel like they're both the a hole for. 1861 01:34:19,320 --> 01:34:20,840 A couple of reasons. Yeah, well. 1862 01:34:21,880 --> 01:34:24,840 She, she is doing good, right? Fine, whatever, but she's 27 1863 01:34:24,960 --> 01:34:25,400 years. Old. 1864 01:34:25,960 --> 01:34:28,240 And she's doing beauty pageants still, like. 1865 01:34:29,720 --> 01:34:31,160 Yeah, that's. Really. 1866 01:34:31,600 --> 01:34:33,520 And if you're gonna be doing, if you're gonna be. 1867 01:34:33,520 --> 01:34:36,720 Doing she's like 50. Well, if you're gonna be doing 1868 01:34:36,720 --> 01:34:38,720 beauty pageants in modeling, that's. 1869 01:34:38,920 --> 01:34:41,800 Fine, Heidi Queens a model, though she's not beauty 1870 01:34:41,800 --> 01:34:42,800 pageants. It's just money. 1871 01:34:43,120 --> 01:34:45,480 Yeah, but. I see them both doing the same 1872 01:34:45,480 --> 01:34:47,960 thing. Have thicker skin because you're 1873 01:34:47,960 --> 01:34:50,560 you're literally being braided and judged. 1874 01:34:50,600 --> 01:34:54,280 You don't like smoke, so have. Have thicker skin, you know, 1875 01:34:54,480 --> 01:34:55,160 right. You would. 1876 01:34:55,280 --> 01:34:57,080 That's sounds like you've been doing it all your life. 1877 01:34:57,280 --> 01:35:00,160 Like maybe if somebody says, hey, why don't you stick to the 1878 01:35:00,160 --> 01:35:02,320 plus size ones? Be like yeah that could be an 1879 01:35:02,320 --> 01:35:04,680 option for sure, but I want to keep trying this. 1880 01:35:04,800 --> 01:35:06,520 Yeah, she took it really personal. 1881 01:35:06,640 --> 01:35:10,200 I think that the the way that the writer, I couldn't 1882 01:35:10,200 --> 01:35:11,720 understand where she's coming from. 1883 01:35:11,880 --> 01:35:14,320 She doesn't want to see her see her sister cry and you know, 1884 01:35:14,560 --> 01:35:15,920 feel less confident and all that. 1885 01:35:16,160 --> 01:35:20,160 From where her from the post, she said that she has won a ton 1886 01:35:20,560 --> 01:35:24,640 of plus size pageants and so, you know, that makes her feel 1887 01:35:24,640 --> 01:35:26,200 good and feel confident and all that. 1888 01:35:26,200 --> 01:35:29,640 You know, she's winning And the sister was like, well, I didn't 1889 01:35:29,800 --> 01:35:33,360 I saw how bad you took this loss at this all women's beauty 1890 01:35:33,360 --> 01:35:35,000 pageant, even though you got second. 1891 01:35:35,520 --> 01:35:37,760 I wanted to I want to see you win as well. 1892 01:35:37,760 --> 01:35:41,560 So I'll send, I want to suggest, suggest you just doing the plus 1893 01:35:41,560 --> 01:35:44,240 size ones cuz you were doing very good in those. 1894 01:35:45,080 --> 01:35:48,360 Yeah, that's how I'm taking it. Yeah, the younger sister 1895 01:35:48,760 --> 01:35:52,520 actually she was, she gave her a compliment, you know, cuz here's 1896 01:35:52,520 --> 01:35:54,920 her. The older sister's law in her 1897 01:35:54,920 --> 01:35:56,480 opinion, lost. I agree. 1898 01:35:56,480 --> 01:36:01,520 I totally agree with Alex that like that's phenomenal that so 1899 01:36:01,520 --> 01:36:05,840 she's eight years older than this 19 year old and she's she's 1900 01:36:06,080 --> 01:36:10,760 thicker, if you will, which is also right in beauty, thin is 1901 01:36:10,760 --> 01:36:13,040 king. So like amazing. 1902 01:36:13,040 --> 01:36:15,400 She must be gorgeous and she must be talented. 1903 01:36:15,400 --> 01:36:17,320 She must be an all around amazing. 1904 01:36:17,320 --> 01:36:19,640 She must have, like, curves in the right places too. 1905 01:36:19,680 --> 01:36:22,000 Yeah. So then other than like plus 1906 01:36:22,040 --> 01:36:24,040 size where their gut is wider than their hips? 1907 01:36:24,040 --> 01:36:27,080 Like I said, she's 100. I bet I'd be willing to stake my 1908 01:36:27,080 --> 01:36:29,320 life on that. She's 190 lbs. 1909 01:36:29,320 --> 01:36:30,440 She's she's. Yeah, she's. 1910 01:36:30,440 --> 01:36:31,800 Probably. Yeah. 1911 01:36:31,800 --> 01:36:34,800 She's yeah, exactly. You're not even 200, honey. 1912 01:36:34,840 --> 01:36:40,040 So her sister as as a, you know, as a suggestion, Hey, why don't 1913 01:36:40,040 --> 01:36:42,920 you just go ahead and enter, you know, with all the other plus 1914 01:36:42,920 --> 01:36:46,280 size women, Not because what's going to happen is because 1915 01:36:46,280 --> 01:36:49,280 what's going to happen is you're going to totally dominate and 1916 01:36:49,280 --> 01:36:51,320 then you're not going to, you know, because you're obviously 1917 01:36:51,320 --> 01:36:53,760 gorgeous, you're obviously very high caliber. 1918 01:36:53,800 --> 01:36:56,520 You have a modeling career already? 1919 01:36:56,720 --> 01:36:59,280 She. Is a plus size model as well. 1920 01:36:59,440 --> 01:37:02,240 She has a modeling career already that's solid. 1921 01:37:02,520 --> 01:37:07,080 Now if you want to get out of there, I'm sorry. 1922 01:37:07,480 --> 01:37:10,320 OK. So I do agree with Danny to be. 1923 01:37:10,320 --> 01:37:11,840 Fair. First of all, younger. 1924 01:37:11,840 --> 01:37:14,880 Sister should have came up and said stop crying. 1925 01:37:15,240 --> 01:37:17,640 You did incredible. She should be. 1926 01:37:17,640 --> 01:37:20,520 Saying what we're saying, hey, she's like, I don't know what 1927 01:37:20,520 --> 01:37:22,080 I'm going to do now. It's like, first of all, you've 1928 01:37:22,080 --> 01:37:25,480 got a modeling career. Second of all, you get second to 1929 01:37:25,520 --> 01:37:28,400 a 19 year old in a beauty pageant. 1930 01:37:28,800 --> 01:37:30,400 A slender. 19 year old and a beauty. 1931 01:37:30,480 --> 01:37:31,880 She's almost. Good. 1932 01:37:32,000 --> 01:37:34,040 She's almost 30. She's 27. 1933 01:37:34,240 --> 01:37:34,800 Yeah. That's. 1934 01:37:35,320 --> 01:37:37,000 Insane. There is nothing to cry about 1935 01:37:37,000 --> 01:37:39,400 here. You did so well. 1936 01:37:39,720 --> 01:37:42,640 Any barrier you're trying to break down, you did it today. 1937 01:37:43,000 --> 01:37:44,920 Keep working with your modeling career. 1938 01:37:45,240 --> 01:37:49,040 If you want to win, more beauty pageants. 1939 01:37:49,040 --> 01:37:51,120 If you actually want to win. Guess what? 1940 01:37:51,960 --> 01:37:54,880 Slender is king. And that's something some women 1941 01:37:54,880 --> 01:37:57,120 cannot change. I'm talking slender. 1942 01:37:57,120 --> 01:38:01,040 Like thin framed slender. If you were born not thin 1943 01:38:01,040 --> 01:38:04,640 framed, you're never gonna be. You could be anorexic, 1944 01:38:04,920 --> 01:38:07,480 unhealthily thin and not be thin framed. 1945 01:38:07,760 --> 01:38:09,240 Sorry, I don't know what you want. 1946 01:38:09,680 --> 01:38:11,120 You want the beauty standard to change. 1947 01:38:11,200 --> 01:38:14,480 Everyone does have a curvy girl looks better than a slender 1948 01:38:14,480 --> 01:38:16,520 girl, in my opinion. That's why I married my. 1949 01:38:16,640 --> 01:38:20,000 Website on this. One perfect curves perfect but. 1950 01:38:20,960 --> 01:38:23,320 I go ahead. My aunt is a is a model. 1951 01:38:23,800 --> 01:38:27,400 She was a model and she got her daughter, my cousin. 1952 01:38:27,680 --> 01:38:31,680 And I remember she was older than me, but when I was a kid, I 1953 01:38:31,680 --> 01:38:35,720 remember seeing her at Christmas and her talking about her 1954 01:38:35,720 --> 01:38:38,000 modeling career. My cousin, you know, because her 1955 01:38:38,000 --> 01:38:40,360 mom was into it. My cousin is a rail. 1956 01:38:40,360 --> 01:38:43,760 She's very, very thin. And she's like, we're all like, 1957 01:38:43,760 --> 01:38:46,320 hey, did you get the, did you get the modeling thing? 1958 01:38:46,560 --> 01:38:49,240 And she's like, no, they told me I was too obese. 1959 01:38:49,680 --> 01:38:50,760 She was a. Rail. 1960 01:38:50,760 --> 01:38:51,840 Yep. Good man. 1961 01:38:51,840 --> 01:38:54,320 Like that's what that's what the industry is so. 1962 01:38:54,560 --> 01:38:59,120 Fatty, you can't say that. She was so skinny she was 1963 01:38:59,120 --> 01:39:02,440 nowhere even in the book you're. 5 foot 820 lbs. 1964 01:39:02,760 --> 01:39:06,320 They call their OB, come back when you're. 8 Come back when 1965 01:39:06,320 --> 01:39:07,200 you're 8. Pounds. 1966 01:39:08,880 --> 01:39:12,800 My advice for the 27 year old is rock what you got. 1967 01:39:13,120 --> 01:39:14,840 Sounds like you're flaunting it right. 1968 01:39:14,840 --> 01:39:16,760 Keep keep on with the modeling career. 1969 01:39:16,760 --> 01:39:20,040 Don't worry about having to run up against 19 year. 1970 01:39:20,040 --> 01:39:22,720 Old impossible beauty standard dude. 1971 01:39:23,040 --> 01:39:25,800 Don't worry about impossible beauty standards you. 1972 01:39:25,840 --> 01:39:27,960 Are. A beauty standard in your own 1973 01:39:27,960 --> 01:39:30,040 right. Live it, live it. 1974 01:39:30,360 --> 01:39:33,280 Yeah, So I I agree with Alex. Yeah. 1975 01:39:33,280 --> 01:39:35,160 And Danny, she's got to have thicker skin. 1976 01:39:35,400 --> 01:39:37,320 I don't think the sister's an A hole. 1977 01:39:37,640 --> 01:39:40,200 Nah, not really. I I can kind of see. 1978 01:39:40,240 --> 01:39:43,560 I mean, if her sister walked up and said you're a cow, she. 1979 01:39:43,920 --> 01:39:45,440 She. Said the the sister said the 1980 01:39:45,440 --> 01:39:47,480 wrong thing. Stick with the plus size. 1981 01:39:47,920 --> 01:39:49,640 Don't lead with, stick with the plus. 1982 01:39:49,640 --> 01:39:51,880 Size. Don't leave a stick with the 1983 01:39:51,880 --> 01:39:53,600 plus size. That was stupid. 1984 01:39:54,240 --> 01:39:58,360 With the a hole I again, there's that that thin line between dumb 1985 01:39:58,360 --> 01:40:00,240 and a hole. That was really dumb. 1986 01:40:00,280 --> 01:40:01,880 She might have jumped. A little bit. 1987 01:40:02,720 --> 01:40:07,560 Again, lead with hey, you're incredible. 1988 01:40:07,880 --> 01:40:09,800 You have nothing to cry about right now. 1989 01:40:10,160 --> 01:40:14,760 And guess what, if you want some you she also could say in a way 1990 01:40:14,760 --> 01:40:17,960 of if you want to guarantee a win, go to the plus sizes. 1991 01:40:17,960 --> 01:40:20,760 If you're trying to win here, let's work harder at it. 1992 01:40:20,760 --> 01:40:23,880 Let's develop your talent. Let's get you in the gym. 1993 01:40:23,880 --> 01:40:26,480 If you're not already in the gym, she might already be in the 1994 01:40:26,480 --> 01:40:29,000 gym working out and doing stuff. Whatever I. 1995 01:40:29,000 --> 01:40:30,200 Would think. Just let's. 1996 01:40:30,200 --> 01:40:33,240 Think on it she does this well at like plus size beauty 1997 01:40:33,240 --> 01:40:35,960 pageants that. She has to be in all that. 1998 01:40:36,320 --> 01:40:38,960 There has to be like an agent that like, comes and sees her 1999 01:40:39,240 --> 01:40:42,040 and then sees her record. She has so many she wins. 2000 01:40:42,200 --> 01:40:45,040 She would get hired for a model or for a pulse size model, no? 2001 01:40:45,480 --> 01:40:47,080 She's probably almost there. Question. 2002 01:40:47,360 --> 01:40:49,160 She's. Already a plus size. 2003 01:40:49,160 --> 01:40:51,120 Model. She's already won seven like 2004 01:40:51,120 --> 01:40:53,160 she's had gigs. At 27, yeah. 2005 01:40:53,480 --> 01:40:57,400 Why do you wanna compete and why do you wanna compete with the 85 2006 01:40:57,400 --> 01:40:59,760 pounders? Why do you want that? 2007 01:41:00,040 --> 01:41:02,200 Why does it matter? Yeah, that's a whole different 2008 01:41:02,520 --> 01:41:05,240 part of like different beauty standards and stuff like that 2009 01:41:05,240 --> 01:41:09,560 weigh. £85 you throw them across the stage. 2010 01:41:10,280 --> 01:41:11,600 Why? Why are you? 2011 01:41:11,600 --> 01:41:15,640 Why are you wanting to scare? People who are literally who are 2012 01:41:15,640 --> 01:41:17,320 literally. Half your size. 2013 01:41:17,440 --> 01:41:21,520 So it's like, yeah, yeah. That's a bad goal to have. 2014 01:41:22,040 --> 01:41:25,040 Yeah, whatever. I think sister is the youngest. 2015 01:41:25,040 --> 01:41:28,520 Sister is definitely an A hole I think. 2016 01:41:28,680 --> 01:41:32,480 Really, I think it's 5050 on the on the sister giving the advice 2017 01:41:32,520 --> 01:41:34,840 who wrote it, I think. It's 5050, yeah. 2018 01:41:35,160 --> 01:41:36,560 I think she could have worded it better. 2019 01:41:36,800 --> 01:41:38,720 I don't think it makes her the. I think that's all the issue. 2020 01:41:38,720 --> 01:41:39,920 I think she could have worded it better. 2021 01:41:40,240 --> 01:41:41,800 I don't think anyone's an A hole here. 2022 01:41:42,080 --> 01:41:45,800 Yeah, the older sister has has unrealistic expectations. 2023 01:41:45,960 --> 01:41:49,040 I think she's trying to be something that she she isn't at 2024 01:41:49,040 --> 01:41:51,680 that moment. The older sister is the one who 2025 01:41:51,680 --> 01:41:53,040 wrote this. Yeah. 2026 01:41:53,440 --> 01:41:54,600 Oh yeah. Yeah. 2027 01:41:55,040 --> 01:41:57,200 Plot twist. She's 30 something plot twist. 2028 01:41:58,440 --> 01:42:01,400 Oh, she's OK, Forgive me. For some reason I had. 2029 01:42:01,400 --> 01:42:03,400 The model I had in my sister's 27. 2030 01:42:03,880 --> 01:42:06,480 OK, I thought she OK. OK, my bad. 2031 01:42:06,840 --> 01:42:08,280 You're OK. I think the 19 year old. 2032 01:42:08,320 --> 01:42:10,360 Threw me off. I'll get her right there. 2033 01:42:10,480 --> 01:42:13,760 OK, OK, OK. OK. 2034 01:42:16,400 --> 01:42:21,000 Makes me giggle every time. Looky. 2035 01:42:21,000 --> 01:42:24,280 All right. Cool, are we doing another or is 2036 01:42:24,280 --> 01:42:26,480 that the last one? I can do another one if you want 2037 01:42:26,480 --> 01:42:27,920 me to. I mean, I'm down for another. 2038 01:42:28,080 --> 01:42:30,600 Am I the a hole for asking for another one? 2039 01:42:31,760 --> 01:42:34,920 Am I am I the a hole for asking for another MI the? 2040 01:42:35,800 --> 01:42:37,400 A. So. 2041 01:42:38,360 --> 01:42:42,400 Yes. Am I the a hole for pretending 2042 01:42:42,480 --> 01:42:46,080 to be to be a Christian? Hi everyone, so my boyfriend and 2043 01:42:46,080 --> 01:42:49,280 I got into a fight last weekend. He's a devout Christian and he 2044 01:42:49,280 --> 01:42:51,040 made this clear to me when we started dating. 2045 01:42:51,280 --> 01:42:53,000 I told him pretty much that it's fine with. 2046 01:42:53,000 --> 01:42:55,480 Me and that he. Shouldn't expect me to convert 2047 01:42:55,480 --> 01:42:57,600 for him. Obviously I will respect any 2048 01:42:57,600 --> 01:43:01,120 traditions he wishes to follow as long as he respects me with 2049 01:43:01,120 --> 01:43:04,920 my me and my authority. For a couple months. 2050 01:43:05,240 --> 01:43:06,480 I don't know what that means by that. 2051 01:43:06,480 --> 01:43:10,640 A couple months he's been a bit more pushy about it. 2052 01:43:11,480 --> 01:43:14,520 We had a conversation at the time and he told me that if he 2053 01:43:14,520 --> 01:43:17,680 believes that, he believes it is his responsibility to at least 2054 01:43:17,680 --> 01:43:19,400 try to get me into the Lords light. 2055 01:43:19,680 --> 01:43:23,120 I put an ultimatum then if he was going to respect if he that 2056 01:43:23,480 --> 01:43:27,400 wow that he was going to respect my views on religion or we'd be 2057 01:43:27,400 --> 01:43:29,480 done. Things were a bit awkward after 2058 01:43:29,480 --> 01:43:33,240 this since I didn't like joining him for church anymore after 2059 01:43:33,240 --> 01:43:35,200 this. Before I went with him to once 2060 01:43:35,200 --> 01:43:36,320 in a while to show that I got him. 2061 01:43:36,560 --> 01:43:39,520 Now this last weekend we were invited by his mom for a dinner 2062 01:43:39,520 --> 01:43:42,120 party. Like she has been a very devout 2063 01:43:42,120 --> 01:43:44,120 and sweet lady. So before dinner she likes to 2064 01:43:44,120 --> 01:43:47,360 pray and read a Bible passage. No big deal, I'm holding hands 2065 01:43:47,360 --> 01:43:48,960 and waiting patiently until the food comes out. 2066 01:43:49,280 --> 01:43:51,600 While eating she asked me what I thought about the passage she 2067 01:43:51,600 --> 01:43:53,360 read. It was a passage where a King 2068 01:43:53,360 --> 01:43:56,880 Solomon offers to cut the baby in half to appease 2 claimed 2069 01:43:56,880 --> 01:44:00,000 mothers. The real mother was baby up to 2070 01:44:00,000 --> 01:44:02,720 avoid harming it and thus providing that. 2071 01:44:02,720 --> 01:44:09,840 She was one before dinner. Right, How a beautiful passage 2072 01:44:09,840 --> 01:44:14,360 and she showed. So sometimes people can cause a 2073 01:44:14,360 --> 01:44:16,960 lot of harm by pretending and claiming things that isn't 2074 01:44:16,960 --> 01:44:18,520 theirs. She was happy and smiled and 2075 01:44:18,520 --> 01:44:21,080 praised me for being wise beyond my years as I am. 2076 01:44:21,240 --> 01:44:23,680 So a boyfriend just kind of snickered and said that it was 2077 01:44:23,680 --> 01:44:26,280 funny since this was all an act for me. 2078 01:44:26,280 --> 01:44:29,640 He exposed me as not being a Christian and that I didn't even 2079 01:44:29,640 --> 01:44:32,600 allow him to try to convert me. His mom just kind of looked sad 2080 01:44:32,920 --> 01:44:35,520 and said something like everyone gets to choose their own path. 2081 01:44:35,520 --> 01:44:36,960 But dinner was very awkward after that. 2082 01:44:37,040 --> 01:44:40,800 So obviously I confronted him after this and then he did not 2083 01:44:40,800 --> 01:44:43,400 think that that was cool. I'm fine standing and still and 2084 01:44:43,400 --> 01:44:45,320 praying. I'm fine listening to Bible 2085 01:44:45,320 --> 01:44:48,720 texts and discussing it. I find being asked to convert 2086 01:44:48,720 --> 01:44:51,560 and do these things everyday. Or I'm just not fine with being 2087 01:44:51,560 --> 01:44:53,000 asked to convert and do these things everyday. 2088 01:44:53,320 --> 01:44:56,040 I'm certainly not fine with being exposed for something as 2089 01:44:56,040 --> 01:44:58,200 silly as that. But he told me that leading his 2090 01:44:58,200 --> 01:45:01,160 mom on is this honest and I should not have. 2091 01:45:01,640 --> 01:45:03,440 I should have made the same thing clear to her. 2092 01:45:03,520 --> 01:45:06,000 And his words pretend to be a Christian is much worse than 2093 01:45:06,000 --> 01:45:08,560 just not being a Christian. So in my opinion I was just 2094 01:45:08,560 --> 01:45:11,080 participating in family in family tradition with good 2095 01:45:11,080 --> 01:45:13,160 intentions. In his opinion I was deceiving 2096 01:45:13,160 --> 01:45:15,160 his family. Am I really the a hole? 2097 01:45:15,640 --> 01:45:17,560 We're not making it clear that I did not believe in it. 2098 01:45:17,680 --> 01:45:19,920 Can I go first on this one? This is a good one. 2099 01:45:19,920 --> 01:45:24,720 Now this is a good one. I think you got, you got to 2100 01:45:24,720 --> 01:45:27,120 preface everything with if you're going to go out with 2101 01:45:27,120 --> 01:45:30,760 somebody, yeah, there's two things, OK, that you got it. 2102 01:45:30,760 --> 01:45:32,920 You got to be aligned on. It's got to be religion and 2103 01:45:32,920 --> 01:45:35,560 politics. You can't differ on any one of 2104 01:45:35,560 --> 01:45:37,800 those things. It never really works out well. 2105 01:45:38,800 --> 01:45:41,560 I don't know why you're pretending it's you're 2106 01:45:41,560 --> 01:45:44,760 postponing the inevitable. It's not going to work out. 2107 01:45:45,040 --> 01:45:48,480 You don't agree with his views. He doesn't agree with your 2108 01:45:48,480 --> 01:45:51,040 views. What's what's the end game? 2109 01:45:51,040 --> 01:45:53,280 There's no end game as. Much as she doesn't. 2110 01:45:53,320 --> 01:45:55,000 Get married. I don't. 2111 01:45:55,000 --> 01:45:57,040 I don't think it's that she doesn't agree. 2112 01:45:57,040 --> 01:45:59,200 It's just that she's like, it's not for me. 2113 01:45:59,360 --> 01:46:01,640 You do your thing, that's fine. Respect that. 2114 01:46:01,960 --> 01:46:03,160 I don't do that. Thing well. 2115 01:46:03,280 --> 01:46:04,920 And we'll be on for. And the. 2116 01:46:04,920 --> 01:46:07,520 Christian, she says. She's like, it's a big deal. 2117 01:46:08,080 --> 01:46:09,760 I'll go to church with you every once in a while. 2118 01:46:09,760 --> 01:46:12,320 Like I'll I'll go and show support for you. 2119 01:46:12,520 --> 01:46:15,160 It's not something that I truly like that that I believe in or 2120 01:46:15,160 --> 01:46:18,560 that I want to practice, but I will do this for you because I 2121 01:46:18,560 --> 01:46:21,480 care about you. You got to just find someone 2122 01:46:21,480 --> 01:46:23,200 else. If that's a big deal. 2123 01:46:23,440 --> 01:46:27,800 If if I just find someone else, why do you need to be with them? 2124 01:46:27,960 --> 01:46:31,040 So this is this is the same as in. 2125 01:46:31,360 --> 01:46:35,440 Honestly, it's a lot the same as any other issue you that's why 2126 01:46:35,440 --> 01:46:38,720 you get to know a person and you find somebody that you match 2127 01:46:38,720 --> 01:46:41,640 with. You each decide what kind of 2128 01:46:42,680 --> 01:46:45,760 negative, negative things in the other person's life you're 2129 01:46:45,760 --> 01:46:50,400 willing to put up with to to get with somebody as a Christian, to 2130 01:46:50,400 --> 01:46:53,920 get with somebody that you know isn't and you know that they 2131 01:46:53,920 --> 01:46:56,440 don't really agree with it. It's not. 2132 01:46:56,600 --> 01:46:59,880 Going to work out. It doesn't it, it can, but it 2133 01:46:59,920 --> 01:47:04,640 generally will not because you want them to be a Christian, 2134 01:47:04,640 --> 01:47:08,840 because you believe it to be the most beneficial thing, you know, 2135 01:47:08,840 --> 01:47:12,480 in anybody's life. But that being said, you can't 2136 01:47:12,480 --> 01:47:14,400 force anybody and you shouldn't try to. 2137 01:47:14,480 --> 01:47:19,400 And you're kind of an A hole for someone, you know, just because 2138 01:47:19,600 --> 01:47:21,640 you, you like them. I mean, I get it. 2139 01:47:21,640 --> 01:47:24,480 I wish I could force everybody to become a Christian too, but 2140 01:47:24,760 --> 01:47:28,520 you can't, and that's why it's set up that way. 2141 01:47:28,520 --> 01:47:31,920 It's a free choice kind of a thing, because it's not love if 2142 01:47:31,920 --> 01:47:33,520 you're forcing somebody to love you. 2143 01:47:33,520 --> 01:47:35,160 I don't. Know Stockholm syndrome feels 2144 01:47:35,160 --> 01:47:37,880 pretty real to me. Not up in there. 2145 01:47:40,160 --> 01:47:41,880 Not up in there. I knew that was coming. 2146 01:47:44,280 --> 01:47:49,120 I love you. I say This is a good one for me 2147 01:47:49,120 --> 01:47:54,280 personally because I have personally been not this exact 2148 01:47:54,280 --> 01:47:59,160 scenario, but me going through high school and me and my mom 2149 01:47:59,160 --> 01:48:02,120 like butting heads. A lot of it came down was 2150 01:48:02,120 --> 01:48:05,840 because she kept challenging me and trying to force me to like 2151 01:48:07,040 --> 01:48:11,280 become Catholic like she is. And I out of all the research 2152 01:48:11,280 --> 01:48:13,480 that I've done that I don't really care. 2153 01:48:13,760 --> 01:48:16,960 I I'm agnostic, like something could be there something could 2154 01:48:16,960 --> 01:48:19,160 not. And either way, I'm doing me 2155 01:48:19,240 --> 01:48:21,680 type of thing. And I tried to get I tried to 2156 01:48:21,680 --> 01:48:23,920 convey that to her and I said, I don't care. 2157 01:48:24,040 --> 01:48:26,280 I don't want to go to church. I gained nothing out of it. 2158 01:48:26,520 --> 01:48:29,280 Maybe some life values. OK, sure, you got me. 2159 01:48:30,480 --> 01:48:32,800 But it's boring. It was boring to me. 2160 01:48:32,800 --> 01:48:34,640 I couldn't I couldn't sit through it. 2161 01:48:35,080 --> 01:48:40,040 My ADHD like would not allow me to like focus on like what's 2162 01:48:40,160 --> 01:48:42,080 what the priest or the pastor was talking about. 2163 01:48:42,400 --> 01:48:46,040 And this after I graduated high school just became like a big 2164 01:48:46,040 --> 01:48:50,880 thing when she married her new husband, her now husband, who is 2165 01:48:50,960 --> 01:48:55,360 very much a devout Christian. And they as soon as he like got 2166 01:48:55,360 --> 01:48:58,600 married to her. He was forcing me to try to try 2167 01:48:58,600 --> 01:49:03,480 to force me to go to not college church every single Sunday. 2168 01:49:03,840 --> 01:49:07,480 And me and him like legitimately almost got in fistfights about 2169 01:49:07,480 --> 01:49:08,960 it because I was like, I don't want to go. 2170 01:49:09,280 --> 01:49:13,640 And then there they're also trying to get me to talk to my 2171 01:49:13,640 --> 01:49:15,880 job to let me because I worked at McDonald's. 2172 01:49:16,040 --> 01:49:18,560 They tried to make me work or get my. 2173 01:49:18,600 --> 01:49:21,800 Oh, not work Sunday on the. Phone to not work Sunday so I 2174 01:49:21,800 --> 01:49:24,200 can go to church. And because they don't, they 2175 01:49:24,200 --> 01:49:27,000 didn't want me to work nights so I can come home and wake them 2176 01:49:27,000 --> 01:49:29,800 up. So I was working mornings and 2177 01:49:29,800 --> 01:49:33,400 they told me that they wanted me to not work Sundays so that I 2178 01:49:33,400 --> 01:49:35,080 can go to church. And I was like, that's not 2179 01:49:35,320 --> 01:49:37,120 that's not happening. I'm getting my money. 2180 01:49:37,520 --> 01:49:41,840 So it I don't think that she is personally, but I have bias 2181 01:49:41,840 --> 01:49:46,280 because I I connect to this like on a deeper level, yeah. 2182 01:49:46,360 --> 01:49:48,160 I'm sorry, these are. Ground 5 minutes. 2183 01:49:48,280 --> 01:49:50,440 These are it's OK. No, no, it's a. 2184 01:49:50,680 --> 01:49:53,600 These are Ground Zero values though when you're trying to 2185 01:49:53,600 --> 01:49:56,760 date somebody. I mean, if you're trying to date 2186 01:49:56,760 --> 01:50:00,760 with an end game courting as the kids say otherwise what's the 2187 01:50:00,760 --> 01:50:02,760 point? It's not going to work. 2188 01:50:03,040 --> 01:50:05,200 You want the same religion you don't like? 2189 01:50:05,960 --> 01:50:07,920 Who knows what their political views. 2190 01:50:08,360 --> 01:50:10,000 Those two things are kind of important. 2191 01:50:10,000 --> 01:50:12,480 They need to be aligned. If you if, if you're, if you're 2192 01:50:12,480 --> 01:50:14,560 not aligned on those, it's just going to be hard. 2193 01:50:14,640 --> 01:50:17,240 And then where's it going to go? It's not going to go anywhere. 2194 01:50:18,240 --> 01:50:21,200 I mean, you can, you can learn to get past some things, but 2195 01:50:21,280 --> 01:50:22,960 those are, I mean, I agree those are. 2196 01:50:22,960 --> 01:50:24,000 Different. Those are big ones. 2197 01:50:24,200 --> 01:50:26,920 A couple of pretty big topics, yeah. 2198 01:50:27,120 --> 01:50:30,440 But there's a lot of it depends on, you know, what's important 2199 01:50:30,440 --> 01:50:33,080 to you because you know, for some, like for this guy, 2200 01:50:33,080 --> 01:50:36,760 obviously he for for him going to church and all that is is an 2201 01:50:36,760 --> 01:50:39,400 important thing and you know, that's great. 2202 01:50:39,720 --> 01:50:42,200 But if it's not to her, then, you know, agreed. 2203 01:50:42,200 --> 01:50:44,600 Maybe you should probably look for somebody else and settle. 2204 01:50:44,600 --> 01:50:47,400 Move on. Force her into something that 2205 01:50:47,440 --> 01:50:51,480 you enjoy because it it doesn't matter what it is, you name it. 2206 01:50:51,680 --> 01:50:54,280 You can't force somebody to enjoy something that you that 2207 01:50:54,280 --> 01:50:55,720 you do. You know, they've got to come to 2208 01:50:55,720 --> 01:50:56,240 that on their. Own. 2209 01:50:56,240 --> 01:50:58,000 No, you can that. You can never force it. 2210 01:50:58,200 --> 01:51:00,960 Yeah, but that's always what happens when he tries to force 2211 01:51:01,000 --> 01:51:03,880 the other one and it's contention and it's not fun. 2212 01:51:04,160 --> 01:51:07,520 But good on her for for trying to, you know, be a good 2213 01:51:07,520 --> 01:51:09,600 girlfriend, you know, going to church and stuff. 2214 01:51:09,600 --> 01:51:11,360 Right. That was, that's why I said, 2215 01:51:11,440 --> 01:51:14,240 yeah, I don't think she is because she made it clear to 2216 01:51:14,240 --> 01:51:16,600 tell us that, you know, she would go like everyone to 2217 01:51:16,600 --> 01:51:18,160 support him, you know, and all that. 2218 01:51:18,640 --> 01:51:19,360 And that's awesome. I don't. 2219 01:51:19,360 --> 01:51:22,240 Think that I don't think that she was trying to like pull the 2220 01:51:22,240 --> 01:51:25,800 wool over his mom's eyes or she was just like, this is what you 2221 01:51:25,800 --> 01:51:28,480 guys do and this, I'm gonna be respectful and I'm gonna 2222 01:51:28,480 --> 01:51:30,120 participate in it. Right. 2223 01:51:30,240 --> 01:51:31,760 Yeah. So yeah, whenever I go to my 2224 01:51:31,760 --> 01:51:34,040 mom's and step dad's place, we go to eat. 2225 01:51:34,040 --> 01:51:35,960 They always say prayer. That's fine. 2226 01:51:36,040 --> 01:51:37,680 Like. That's fine, I. 2227 01:51:38,920 --> 01:51:42,120 When I'm by myself, I never do. But you know, I mean, your 2228 01:51:42,120 --> 01:51:45,280 house, you made this food. I'll, I'll respect what you 2229 01:51:45,280 --> 01:51:47,440 know. That's how I kind of see it. 2230 01:51:47,640 --> 01:51:50,240 It's like a whole respect thing. I mean, you know, if you're at 2231 01:51:50,240 --> 01:51:52,000 my house, we have to do a 12 minute prayer. 2232 01:51:52,000 --> 01:51:52,520 What's the? Rule. 2233 01:51:52,800 --> 01:51:55,680 So you got to get a sermon from Brother Bailey. 12 Oh really? 2234 01:51:56,480 --> 01:51:59,560 Well, Brother Bailey, actually so. 2235 01:52:01,200 --> 01:52:04,840 OK, if it if it's 12 minutes, I'm already done with my half of 2236 01:52:04,840 --> 01:52:10,320 my plate, so. Alex. 2237 01:52:11,880 --> 01:52:13,560 Our brother Bailey's a Southern Baptist. 2238 01:52:14,040 --> 01:52:16,240 I'll drink half a 12 pack in that 12 minutes. 2239 01:52:17,600 --> 01:52:20,960 All that. Alex, do you have anything to on 2240 01:52:21,480 --> 01:52:26,520 this or Alex's cat? Yeah, I want to hear from Alex's 2241 01:52:26,560 --> 01:52:26,880 cat. Oh. 2242 01:52:31,800 --> 01:52:37,160 Thank you. So what say you, Alex? 2243 01:52:37,160 --> 01:52:39,600 Yeah, it's kind of summed it up. You guys kind of summed it up. 2244 01:52:39,680 --> 01:52:44,040 I agree with Joe in a relationship I and this is she's 2245 01:52:44,040 --> 01:52:48,840 not the a hole the I would say if I was going to give any any 2246 01:52:48,840 --> 01:52:52,440 number of percentage very it'd be very light percentage, any 2247 01:52:52,440 --> 01:52:55,040 number of percentage a wholeness to her. 2248 01:52:55,040 --> 01:52:56,960 It's for continuing the relationship. 2249 01:52:57,160 --> 01:53:00,520 She has to know it's not working and it's not going to work. 2250 01:53:00,760 --> 01:53:03,120 You should. She has to know, maybe she 2251 01:53:03,120 --> 01:53:04,120 doesn't. I'll give her that. 2252 01:53:04,320 --> 01:53:07,120 But that again, that is for such a low percentage, like not even 2253 01:53:07,120 --> 01:53:10,000 maybe less than 1% a hole if at all. 2254 01:53:10,320 --> 01:53:14,200 Now she has been trying to placate that, not placate it in 2255 01:53:14,200 --> 01:53:17,280 like up tricking anybody, but like, hey, I care about you. 2256 01:53:18,040 --> 01:53:20,840 This young man is a devout Christian. 2257 01:53:21,200 --> 01:53:24,560 If he is such a devout Christian, he will read in his 2258 01:53:24,560 --> 01:53:29,680 Bible that his Bible says he should not be unequally yoked 2259 01:53:29,680 --> 01:53:32,800 with an unbeliever. Listen, and I don't say that as 2260 01:53:32,800 --> 01:53:34,480 unbelievers are less than Christians. 2261 01:53:34,480 --> 01:53:37,200 I don't say that. But they are wearing different 2262 01:53:37,200 --> 01:53:38,600 yokes. They're different. 2263 01:53:38,720 --> 01:53:41,560 They're different. And in this, even beyond 2264 01:53:41,560 --> 01:53:45,560 politics, as a devout Christian, you will not survive a 2265 01:53:45,560 --> 01:53:48,720 relationship with someone who is not you won't. 2266 01:53:49,000 --> 01:53:50,440 You won't. You could say, well, you have to 2267 01:53:50,440 --> 01:53:52,440 make. You have to make. 2268 01:53:53,480 --> 01:53:55,200 What sort? Compromises. 2269 01:53:55,360 --> 01:53:58,440 Yes, relationship compromises have to happen. 2270 01:53:58,760 --> 01:54:00,880 Are they compromises you are willing to make? 2271 01:54:01,040 --> 01:54:03,720 A lot of times devout Christians are not willing to make those 2272 01:54:03,720 --> 01:54:06,840 compromises that they would have to make to gate someone who is 2273 01:54:06,840 --> 01:54:10,160 not just and I'm not Downing her at all. 2274 01:54:10,320 --> 01:54:13,160 By no means he from day one should have been like, I'm a 2275 01:54:13,160 --> 01:54:15,880 devout Christian and she could have been like, well, I don't 2276 01:54:15,880 --> 01:54:17,920 really believe in God. I would honestly look her in the 2277 01:54:17,920 --> 01:54:22,040 eye day one first date respectfully and say, OK, you 2278 01:54:22,040 --> 01:54:24,360 can believe whatever you like. This is what I would say. 2279 01:54:24,360 --> 01:54:25,400 You can believe whatever you like. 2280 01:54:25,640 --> 01:54:27,400 I'm not going to. I cannot force anything. 2281 01:54:27,760 --> 01:54:29,560 I cannot continue this relationship. 2282 01:54:30,000 --> 01:54:31,720 We will fight. We will be unhappy. 2283 01:54:32,120 --> 01:54:34,840 It won't it won't work. Thank you so much for your time. 2284 01:54:35,200 --> 01:54:39,240 I will pay for your meal and then we can part friends that it 2285 01:54:39,240 --> 01:54:41,520 is that much. That's where it should have 2286 01:54:41,520 --> 01:54:44,600 happened. And he is the a hole. 2287 01:54:44,600 --> 01:54:48,560 He is the a hole for letting it continue with unrealistic 2288 01:54:48,560 --> 01:54:50,960 expectations. Unrealistic. 2289 01:54:51,440 --> 01:54:54,560 He thought he was going to convert her Funny fact. 2290 01:54:54,800 --> 01:54:57,720 I go out and I tell. People about the Bible and how 2291 01:54:57,720 --> 01:54:59,160 to. Go to heaven and all of that 2292 01:54:59,160 --> 01:55:02,760 according to the Bible. Never once in my life I have led 2293 01:55:02,760 --> 01:55:06,400 people to the Lord the way we say it, which is I've told them 2294 01:55:06,400 --> 01:55:08,240 what the Bible says and they go, oh, I believe that. 2295 01:55:08,240 --> 01:55:10,080 OK, Yeah, but do you believe that? 2296 01:55:10,080 --> 01:55:13,160 Yes, I do all right. Well, which means they were 2297 01:55:13,160 --> 01:55:15,360 converted. Not one single one of those 2298 01:55:15,360 --> 01:55:16,920 people I converted. I didn't. 2299 01:55:17,160 --> 01:55:20,520 I can't. I honestly believe that Jesus 2300 01:55:20,520 --> 01:55:26,160 God himself works through me and to show them they choose to 2301 01:55:26,160 --> 01:55:28,760 believe in that moment, not me. I'm like, hey, if you say no, 2302 01:55:28,760 --> 01:55:30,960 I'm out of here, cool. No hard feelings. 2303 01:55:31,200 --> 01:55:33,640 I do that all the time. Oh yeah, I'm not interested. 2304 01:55:33,680 --> 01:55:36,680 OK, Have a wonderful day. Thank you for letting me talk to 2305 01:55:36,680 --> 01:55:39,160 you for 5 minutes. I do not believe I have ever. 2306 01:55:39,160 --> 01:55:41,920 Converted one single person to. Christianity, I've never done 2307 01:55:41,920 --> 01:55:44,720 it. I can't he can't him going into 2308 01:55:44,720 --> 01:55:49,160 that relationship hoping that he could was wrong, wrong, wrong. 2309 01:55:49,320 --> 01:55:50,960 He's the a hole. He is I. 2310 01:55:51,440 --> 01:55:56,760 Want to throw a hypothetical because I hate to say this like 2311 01:55:56,760 --> 01:56:02,800 I'm assuming, but I know Mr. Masters and Alex are definitely 2312 01:56:02,960 --> 01:56:07,680 Christians or Catholics, or sorry but I'm not. 2313 01:56:08,880 --> 01:56:10,680 I'm not, I'm not, I'm not a Catholic. 2314 01:56:10,760 --> 01:56:13,240 I'm a Christian and I am a Baptist by. 2315 01:56:13,440 --> 01:56:15,440 Joe is a Christian, right? Yeah. 2316 01:56:15,960 --> 01:56:19,280 And Danny, I, I, I don't think you've ever talked about it 2317 01:56:19,480 --> 01:56:21,480 before. No, I am. 2318 01:56:21,520 --> 01:56:24,720 Yeah, yeah. OK, so I'm the asshole in this 2319 01:56:24,720 --> 01:56:25,680 situation. No, no. 2320 01:56:26,200 --> 01:56:29,000 No, no, no. I. 2321 01:56:29,080 --> 01:56:31,680 Don't care anything remotely. No, no, no, no. 2322 01:56:31,760 --> 01:56:35,680 You are loved, Sir, Loved. Here is the real thing. 2323 01:56:35,880 --> 01:56:38,760 There is a difference between having a friendship having a 2324 01:56:38,760 --> 01:56:40,680 friendship. You can be friends. 2325 01:56:42,080 --> 01:56:43,600 Are you my friend? Are we? 2326 01:56:43,600 --> 01:56:45,720 Super close. Honestly, Shannon, we're not 2327 01:56:45,720 --> 01:56:49,640 super close, but to that level we are friends. 2328 01:56:49,920 --> 01:56:51,480 That's what it is. That's okay. 2329 01:56:52,200 --> 01:56:54,760 I'm not dating you. First of all, I won't date you. 2330 01:56:55,080 --> 01:56:57,280 You don't have the genitalia that I like. 2331 01:57:11,240 --> 01:57:14,880 We're not dating. Would we ever possibly be able 2332 01:57:14,880 --> 01:57:17,000 to be best friends? I don't know. 2333 01:57:17,360 --> 01:57:21,560 But honestly, I can definitely say, I can definitely say I love 2334 01:57:21,560 --> 01:57:24,280 you and not Christian. I'm a Christian, so I have to 2335 01:57:24,280 --> 01:57:27,240 love everybody, but also as a friend, I love you. 2336 01:57:27,320 --> 01:57:30,720 I care about. Do I hope that one day you will 2337 01:57:30,720 --> 01:57:32,800 believe on Jesus? Yes. 2338 01:57:32,960 --> 01:57:35,880 Do I know that you have to make that decision and come to that 2339 01:57:35,880 --> 01:57:39,600 realization, right? I can't, I can't force you and 2340 01:57:39,600 --> 01:57:41,560 I'm never going to try to. I'm never going to Cheddar. 2341 01:57:42,360 --> 01:57:44,600 But. That's what if you did it begin. 2342 01:57:44,920 --> 01:57:47,480 To. Would it be a different scenario 2343 01:57:47,480 --> 01:57:50,480 if this girl that was writing the post, you know, she's 2344 01:57:50,480 --> 01:57:53,720 agnostic or we'll just say non religious. 2345 01:57:55,480 --> 01:57:58,240 You know, she's dating this Christian guy and she loves and 2346 01:57:58,240 --> 01:58:00,960 supports him, but you know, she's not religious. 2347 01:58:01,120 --> 01:58:06,440 Would would she be more or less of an asshole if she was going 2348 01:58:06,440 --> 01:58:08,360 to church with him every Sunday? I don't. 2349 01:58:08,680 --> 01:58:11,000 Think it matters? It's it's still never going to 2350 01:58:11,000 --> 01:58:12,880 work. It won't work. 2351 01:58:13,080 --> 01:58:14,880 It won't work if she is honest. Why? 2352 01:58:14,880 --> 01:58:16,280 She's like, I love you, I support you. 2353 01:58:16,280 --> 01:58:17,720 I'm going to go to church because you like going to 2354 01:58:17,720 --> 01:58:19,720 church. No, no, right. 2355 01:58:19,720 --> 01:58:21,920 She's not the A hole. If she can tell I'm a Christian 2356 01:58:21,920 --> 01:58:25,360 now, but she's not you're lying. Don't lie if you want to boil. 2357 01:58:25,360 --> 01:58:27,880 It down, it, it's two people. That I would see the. 2358 01:58:27,880 --> 01:58:31,040 Universe in completely different ways, like. 2359 01:58:31,040 --> 01:58:33,880 Because if she goes to the. Way that I envision this 2360 01:58:33,920 --> 01:58:36,600 hypothetical, she's like, you know, she goes to church every 2361 01:58:36,600 --> 01:58:38,800 day. You know, some people like 2362 01:58:38,800 --> 01:58:41,160 notice that she goes to church every day or not every day, but 2363 01:58:41,160 --> 01:58:44,600 every Sunday and she and some people come up to her. 2364 01:58:44,600 --> 01:58:46,320 She's like, oh, how long have you been a Christian? 2365 01:58:46,320 --> 01:58:48,520 She's oh, I'm not. I'm just here to support my 2366 01:58:48,520 --> 01:58:50,120 husband or boyfriend or whatever. 2367 01:58:50,440 --> 01:58:53,000 Yeah. That does not make her an A 2368 01:58:53,040 --> 01:58:54,680 hole. She's on it about it. 2369 01:58:55,480 --> 01:58:57,280 Yeah, she's. Everyone is welcome in. 2370 01:58:57,280 --> 01:58:58,640 Church, she wouldn't be an. Alien. 2371 01:58:58,720 --> 01:59:00,880 Yeah, you are. Respectful. 2372 01:59:00,920 --> 01:59:03,320 It's always going to be a. Point ending up during the 2373 01:59:03,320 --> 01:59:05,360 sermon and going this is nonsense. 2374 01:59:05,840 --> 01:59:08,040 She's fine. Everyone should. 2375 01:59:08,040 --> 01:59:08,960 Go to. Church. 2376 01:59:09,440 --> 01:59:11,720 Everyone should go to church. Everyone. 2377 01:59:11,960 --> 01:59:13,680 If you decide not to, that is your choice. 2378 01:59:13,800 --> 01:59:16,280 Again, I'm not going to down. I'm not going to think less of 2379 01:59:16,280 --> 01:59:18,280 you because you don't. I won't, I can't. 2380 01:59:18,880 --> 01:59:20,480 I'm in the same boat as everyone else. 2381 01:59:20,640 --> 01:59:21,800 I don't care if you're a Christian or not. 2382 01:59:21,800 --> 01:59:24,880 I'm in the boat with you. We're all sinners under God's 2383 01:59:24,880 --> 01:59:27,760 blue sky. That's the way it is. 2384 01:59:27,760 --> 01:59:30,880 I'm not better. I just a lifeline was thrown to 2385 01:59:30,880 --> 01:59:33,600 me and I took it. That's the only you can say I 2386 01:59:33,600 --> 01:59:36,840 don't want the lifeline or there is no lifeline, whatever. 2387 01:59:37,120 --> 01:59:39,080 Again, I made a choice. You made a choice. 2388 01:59:39,080 --> 01:59:40,920 We're the same people. I made a different choice. 2389 01:59:41,200 --> 01:59:43,880 That's literally what differentiates and he needs to 2390 01:59:43,880 --> 01:59:46,680 realize that. But the problem is he's going 2391 01:59:46,880 --> 01:59:48,520 relationship. I need to change. 2392 01:59:48,520 --> 01:59:51,440 You do this, do this. It's like it does not work. 2393 01:59:51,720 --> 01:59:55,720 It does not work. The only thing that will come of 2394 01:59:55,720 --> 01:59:58,840 that relationship is her lying to him and saying I'm a 2395 01:59:58,840 --> 02:00:00,800 Christian now and pretending to be a Christian. 2396 02:00:01,560 --> 02:00:04,080 To her own demise. Don't do it. 2397 02:00:04,080 --> 02:00:05,240 Don't do it. Don't do it. 2398 02:00:05,360 --> 02:00:07,560 Run. Just break it off like I love 2399 02:00:07,560 --> 02:00:10,680 you, I respect you. And because of that, this is the 2400 02:00:10,680 --> 02:00:13,400 only same decision that we can make because we love each other. 2401 02:00:13,680 --> 02:00:15,480 We need to break up and we need to go. 2402 02:00:15,880 --> 02:00:18,120 Have a good. One that's literally the only. 2403 02:00:18,160 --> 02:00:20,760 Both of them need to come come to that. 2404 02:00:21,000 --> 02:00:23,080 Danny, what's your view on? Because that's the only way 2405 02:00:23,360 --> 02:00:29,640 like. Everybody sucks and then you die 2406 02:00:29,640 --> 02:00:30,800 at the end of it. Oh. 2407 02:00:31,200 --> 02:00:32,520 Well, that's that is true. Yeah. 2408 02:00:32,640 --> 02:00:34,600 Wait, We die. When did we? 2409 02:00:34,720 --> 02:00:37,720 When was that discussed? We died. 2410 02:00:38,440 --> 02:00:41,200 I need Denji to eat the Death devil so we never die. 2411 02:00:41,800 --> 02:00:45,480 That's a Chainsaw Man reference. I didn't get. 2412 02:00:46,800 --> 02:00:48,720 It that's fine, it's a manga. Well. 2413 02:00:49,320 --> 02:00:53,480 I don't think that she's the I'll at all for a lot of 2414 02:00:53,480 --> 02:00:59,440 different reasons. Hey, mostly because, like I 2415 02:00:59,440 --> 02:01:01,200 said, she's she's going out of her way to do. 2416 02:01:01,200 --> 02:01:04,240 She's like, yes, I don't believe in this thing, but I'm still 2417 02:01:04,240 --> 02:01:06,320 going to encourage you because it means something. 2418 02:01:06,520 --> 02:01:09,760 So I'm going to go out of my way and support you in this. 2419 02:01:09,880 --> 02:01:13,840 Yeah, I think that her significant other kind of is the 2420 02:01:13,840 --> 02:01:16,000 a hole in this situation. Yeah. 2421 02:01:16,880 --> 02:01:20,000 Because he's not, he's well, because of a couple of things. 2422 02:01:20,320 --> 02:01:24,560 Because one, he's like, it seems like he's very pushy about this. 2423 02:01:24,560 --> 02:01:27,360 Like you need to convert. You need to convert if you want 2424 02:01:27,360 --> 02:01:28,600 to stay together. You got, you got to. 2425 02:01:28,800 --> 02:01:30,800 That's kind of what I'm getting in the in the inner tones. 2426 02:01:30,960 --> 02:01:32,880 Yeah. Didn't she say ultimatum? 2427 02:01:33,320 --> 02:01:35,400 Yeah. She gave him an old Yeah, he's 2428 02:01:36,080 --> 02:01:36,960 like. You. 2429 02:01:37,080 --> 02:01:40,040 Just drop it because it sounds like he kept doing like kept 2430 02:01:40,040 --> 02:01:41,600 bringing up, kept bringing up and she's like. 2431 02:01:41,600 --> 02:01:43,000 Just. Stop it or I'll leave. 2432 02:01:43,240 --> 02:01:47,320 Like like that's it. And then like it sounds like she 2433 02:01:47,320 --> 02:01:51,240 has a pretty good relationship with with his mom and for him to 2434 02:01:51,240 --> 02:01:53,120 just be like, well, you're just faking this. 2435 02:01:53,120 --> 02:01:56,000 So why are you even acting like? That's what. 2436 02:01:56,520 --> 02:01:58,560 That's what needs for him to say that like. 2437 02:01:58,720 --> 02:01:59,520 Yeah, it is. That's. 2438 02:01:59,560 --> 02:02:01,080 Rude. Like she. 2439 02:02:01,880 --> 02:02:03,760 And his mom was even like, look like. 2440 02:02:04,000 --> 02:02:05,840 Life has different paths for different people. 2441 02:02:05,840 --> 02:02:08,800 It's OK. And he outed her in front of his 2442 02:02:08,800 --> 02:02:11,040 mom like. Like the whole family. 2443 02:02:11,040 --> 02:02:13,400 Had to get them to fight like. And they dare. 2444 02:02:13,440 --> 02:02:17,080 Awkward it was. No point in doing that. 2445 02:02:17,880 --> 02:02:18,640 She's. Got a Christian? 2446 02:02:18,640 --> 02:02:19,840 I'll get her to. That's weird. 2447 02:02:20,120 --> 02:02:22,000 I'll get her to convert to Christianity. 2448 02:02:22,000 --> 02:02:24,360 Watch me start this fight between her and my mom. 2449 02:02:24,360 --> 02:02:26,920 That'll get. Her yeah works every. 2450 02:02:26,920 --> 02:02:29,360 Time. Well, I don't even think, I 2451 02:02:29,360 --> 02:02:31,800 don't even think the mom really has a problem with it. 2452 02:02:32,240 --> 02:02:33,560 I think it was just the boyfriend. 2453 02:02:33,600 --> 02:02:35,720 No, Yeah, she's like, you made it worse. 2454 02:02:35,720 --> 02:02:37,800 Look. You're fine cuz she's like, 2455 02:02:38,560 --> 02:02:42,960 she's like, yeah, I don't necessarily this isn't for me, 2456 02:02:43,280 --> 02:02:46,000 but when I'm at your house, I'm gonna do the prayer and I'll 2457 02:02:46,000 --> 02:02:49,320 listen to you read the Bible and I'll have an opinion on what 2458 02:02:49,560 --> 02:02:53,280 super respectful you're reading. And yeah, that's, that's very 2459 02:02:53,280 --> 02:02:54,920 respectful. So I don't, I don't. 2460 02:02:55,400 --> 02:02:57,240 He's definitely the a hole in this situation. 2461 02:02:57,680 --> 02:02:58,280 It sounds like. He's. 2462 02:02:58,440 --> 02:02:59,520 Instigating. A lot of this. 2463 02:02:59,760 --> 02:03:02,640 She she's doing her part and the ball's in his court and he's 2464 02:03:02,640 --> 02:03:03,960 messing it up. He's like. 2465 02:03:05,680 --> 02:03:08,920 Honestly, like he's, he's gonna leave a bad taste in her mouth 2466 02:03:08,920 --> 02:03:11,680 for for Christians. And that's that's even worse. 2467 02:03:12,120 --> 02:03:12,880 Right. Yeah. 2468 02:03:13,440 --> 02:03:17,840 Yeah, yeah. I will say with going through 2469 02:03:17,840 --> 02:03:20,880 that with my mom, like I explained earlier, it's gonna be 2470 02:03:20,880 --> 02:03:27,280 very hard for me to not to open my eyes to it but adapt to it 2471 02:03:27,400 --> 02:03:31,640 and accept it. Yeah, but it's not like I 2472 02:03:31,640 --> 02:03:33,240 disagree. It's just, I know. 2473 02:03:33,280 --> 02:03:34,320 What you mean though? Yeah. 2474 02:03:34,840 --> 02:03:37,000 Your first impression was not a great one, right? 2475 02:03:37,280 --> 02:03:40,040 Yeah, and I'll tell you, get it? We're not Catholic. 2476 02:03:40,200 --> 02:03:42,320 That's right. Catholic is a whole different 2477 02:03:42,320 --> 02:03:44,840 ball game. Yeah, to be fair. 2478 02:03:45,120 --> 02:03:47,880 If I can technically. Technically I'm baptized as a 2479 02:03:47,880 --> 02:03:51,880 Methodist, but I think I was against my will. 2480 02:03:52,320 --> 02:03:55,560 Because I was only like. I think I was only only 5. 2481 02:03:55,920 --> 02:03:57,400 There were some Baptists baptized. 2482 02:03:57,480 --> 02:04:01,320 Your wills, your uncle trying to frown you in a Baptist was not a 2483 02:04:01,320 --> 02:04:02,080 Baptist. I'm. 2484 02:04:02,320 --> 02:04:06,080 Sorry no me me and my sister got baptized on the same me and my 2485 02:04:06,080 --> 02:04:08,680 mom got or not my mom. Me and my sister got baptized on 2486 02:04:08,680 --> 02:04:11,760 the same day. My sister was like 3 months old 2487 02:04:11,760 --> 02:04:13,440 or something like that and I was like. 2488 02:04:13,440 --> 02:04:15,280 OK. I was like, yeah, yeah. 2489 02:04:15,600 --> 02:04:17,000 So I didn't know what was going on there. 2490 02:04:17,000 --> 02:04:18,600 It is like, yeah, you're going to get baptized today. 2491 02:04:19,160 --> 02:04:20,960 Hey, what does that mean? OK. 2492 02:04:21,600 --> 02:04:23,080 Who couldn't have dunk it? Underwater. 2493 02:04:23,680 --> 02:04:26,400 No, they just they. Just for me, they just, they 2494 02:04:26,400 --> 02:04:28,360 just took like a cup and just poured it on my head. 2495 02:04:28,600 --> 02:04:28,960 Yeah, OK. Yeah. 2496 02:04:29,360 --> 02:04:30,760 They didn't even really baptize kids in. 2497 02:04:30,760 --> 02:04:32,680 It yeah, maybe that's why that's. 2498 02:04:33,000 --> 02:04:34,840 Right, that's. Gonna have dunk it like. 2499 02:04:34,880 --> 02:04:36,720 Something they would have done about basketball. 2500 02:04:37,280 --> 02:04:40,680 They forced me to get baptized. Where's the money? 2501 02:04:40,680 --> 02:04:43,080 A little housekeep. You guys ever seen that video of 2502 02:04:43,080 --> 02:04:45,760 like that rabbi having my baby? And he was. 2503 02:04:46,320 --> 02:04:54,080 Like, dunk that thing. I'll see if I can find her real 2504 02:04:54,120 --> 02:04:55,200 quick. Dying boy. 2505 02:04:56,960 --> 02:05:01,880 I would even say at the risk of offending any religious people 2506 02:05:01,880 --> 02:05:04,720 on our podcast we make listen also if you listen. 2507 02:05:04,760 --> 02:05:07,640 Why? No, I'm kidding, but Catholic. 2508 02:05:08,040 --> 02:05:10,680 Catholics technically aren't Christians. 2509 02:05:10,800 --> 02:05:14,560 Fun fact, Catholics are cults. Fight me. 2510 02:05:14,600 --> 02:05:19,000 That's fine history. Julius Caesar looked in the sky 2511 02:05:19,000 --> 02:05:21,680 and saw a cross and he said we're Christians now. 2512 02:05:21,880 --> 02:05:25,840 And then he did what the smart Roman emperor would do because 2513 02:05:25,840 --> 02:05:28,480 he saw persecution was not killing the Christians off. 2514 02:05:28,480 --> 02:05:32,360 He said Christianity, paganism, boom. 2515 02:05:32,560 --> 02:05:36,360 That's why we have Mary the Queen of Heaven in the Catholic 2516 02:05:36,360 --> 02:05:38,120 Church. That's why the Catholic Church 2517 02:05:38,120 --> 02:05:42,480 also has Saints that you pray to like other minor deities. 2518 02:05:42,720 --> 02:05:46,360 That's why it lines up with Roman paganism so well. 2519 02:05:47,000 --> 02:05:50,400 Saint Patty is is pretty cool, OK? 2520 02:05:54,240 --> 02:05:56,080 Who you want? Yeah. 2521 02:05:56,240 --> 02:05:58,120 Actually it was they probably and it's. 2522 02:05:58,920 --> 02:06:02,640 It's OK that, you know, hey, you know, Michael, look after me, 2523 02:06:02,640 --> 02:06:06,000 dude. Saint Andrew. 2524 02:06:06,000 --> 02:06:08,240 Finds you. I sent the video and it's in 2525 02:06:08,240 --> 02:06:10,320 memes right now what I was talking about. 2526 02:06:10,640 --> 02:06:12,880 Michael's the one that protects you in battle. 2527 02:06:13,240 --> 02:06:15,840 Say. I never got a battle. 2528 02:06:16,160 --> 02:06:18,680 Saint Andrew has the worst job by far. 2529 02:06:18,960 --> 02:06:21,440 He helps you find your lost your lost items. 2530 02:06:21,440 --> 02:06:28,240 That's funny. Where's the money? 2531 02:06:28,920 --> 02:06:30,920 That's a worth the dog. Classic. 2532 02:06:31,680 --> 02:06:34,160 Yeah. The baby looks. 2533 02:06:34,160 --> 02:06:40,400 Where's the money? Jeez. 2534 02:06:46,840 --> 02:06:49,920 Oh, it's so good, I can watch. That for for a long time. 2535 02:06:57,880 --> 02:07:02,120 Well, that one definitely needs to go in the the show links. 2536 02:07:03,280 --> 02:07:05,280 The Emgar or something the. Emgar. 2537 02:07:06,880 --> 02:07:14,320 Or I got a lot of like a or Joey putting a like just a direct 2538 02:07:14,320 --> 02:07:18,920 link like he did for that one UTT where I absolutely lost my 2539 02:07:18,920 --> 02:07:22,920 mind laughing out the King Astra for animation. 2540 02:07:27,200 --> 02:07:29,680 Classic. A lot I I think I laughed for 2541 02:07:29,680 --> 02:07:31,960 legit 2 minutes straight. Without like. 2542 02:07:32,960 --> 02:07:36,320 Saying anything or breathing. That was good. 2543 02:07:36,440 --> 02:07:40,520 That was pretty good. This was productive. 2544 02:07:40,840 --> 02:07:42,640 Yeah, these were good. Yeah, it was fun. 2545 02:07:43,000 --> 02:07:45,000 Thank you, Daniel. And and I learned a little bit 2546 02:07:45,000 --> 02:07:46,960 more about all of you. So cool. 2547 02:07:47,720 --> 02:07:48,920 Oh crap. What about you? 2548 02:07:48,920 --> 02:07:53,040 Oh. Crap, Alex says. 2549 02:07:55,400 --> 02:08:00,960 I thought my life was so secret. So Star Wars next week, maybe? 2550 02:08:01,520 --> 02:08:03,000 Star Wars Next. Week maybe?