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Welcome back or to the grace 
church members podcast, I'm your

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host Chris rivers and I'm 
excited to be joining you today.

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You know, Easter is fast 
approaching and for many 

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Christians, this is an important
holiday tradition. 

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But how important is, it is 
Easter, just a cultural event 

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that Christians, like, in the 
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I mean how does our preparation 
for this Holy Week? 

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Help us maximize the 
opportunity. 

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We have spiritually to grow our 
devotion to God and others. 

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Oh, well, in this interview, 
Scott Mozingo and I speak with 

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Chris McGowan and Brian Darnell.
Chris serves as the pastor of 

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Creative Communications for 
Grace Church, and Brian serves. 

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As the worship Minister for 
Grace Church poem campus and we 

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have a great conversation about 
preparing for Holy Week. 

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What members can look forward to
about Good Friday services and 

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how we can think about this 
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Easter. 
Okay, let's listen in on this 

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discussion. 
Let's just jump right into this 

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compared to The Christmas Easter
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And so, why is that? 
And how do you guys think we 

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should be thinking about Holy 
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Yeah, Christmas does get a lot 
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interesting. 
I don't fully enter understand 

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why other than the culture has 
really adopted Christmas as its 

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own. 
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Christianity standpoint we want 
to recapture Christmas and you 

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know, the whole Advent season, 
we put a lot of effort to it and

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it is interesting. 
How Easter doesn't quite get the

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same energy? 
A lot of times we don't all 

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decorate our house for Easter 
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You might put some fun colors 
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and maybe doing Easter Erik 
hunt, but for the week or really

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for the season of Lent, however,
you celebrate or however you 

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reflect upon this season, 
leading up into Holy Week, it's 

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an opportunity for us to slow 
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ourselves as we walk into this 
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Yeah, walk us through just some 
ways that we need to be thinking

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again about Holy Week. 
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I'll quote this. 
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really this about all of Lent 
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Season of self-examination, 
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And in a way leading into the 
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to mourn or even lament our 
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death on the cross. 
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Conquering of sin death, that we
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resurrection. 
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actually gives us the 
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slow down and remember, and I 
like that idea of just our 

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complicity in all of it and 
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That with the intent that it 
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because of what Jesus has done. 
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me personally to be reminded of 
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How can we take some of the like
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week of Jesus life? 
Think sometimes that's referred 

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to as the passion. 
So how do we take some of those 

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events and tap into this 
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And that's a pretty that's a 
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from complicity. 
T2 celebration. 

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Yeah, I mean nothing like the 
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It's right, which is why it's 
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it doesn't get as much publicity
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birthday party, right? 
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maybe, you know, we have Palm 
Sunday, some different elements 

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of the week just to kind of help
us just Orient us to one word 

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for someone who's like holy 
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I'm not really it's called 
Easter and help us think about 

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the week. 
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That's great. 
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Sunday, which would be this 
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is triumphal entry. 
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branches? 
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Jesus came through Messiah and 
that leads all the way into 

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Sunday, which is the 
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So ways you can do this. 
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starting the really beginning 
with that Sunday, getting into 

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the scriptures, getting into the
story, whatever, gospel that you

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May choose like we've been in 
the Gospel of John I've actually

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been reading through March some 
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personally and absorbing what 
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Daily, we have a reading plan 
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prepare us emotionally. 
Prepare us mentally for what all

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is happening and then we have 
intentional events throughout 

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the week that let's talk about 
that many of you have attended 

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over the years that actually 
give really set you up and stack

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the cards in your favor 
personally for you to engage 

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this way. 
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our children's ministry, does 
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if y'all know more about that. 
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Something that that, our kids 
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time and it's really a Jewish 
tradition and getting to partake

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of the meal and from a Jewish 
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mill represents something 
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And there's, there's a whole 
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through what those represent. 
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No Grace kids sends resources 
related to that. 

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That as a parent, you can know 
and talk with them about and 

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walk them through that. 
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And I think for all of us but 
especially kids, having some 

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something tactile something to 
shrink it to participate. 

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In helps your heart and head 
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Yeah, and I know as, as a 
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Let's take, let's take a step 
away from being a dad and having

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a family, having tangible things
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Variances in our faith are a lot
of times hard to come by, right?

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We, we talk theoretically, we're
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apply it to have something 
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week gives us. 
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And then as a dad, as a father, 
as a husband to have something 

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like a Seder dinner or a good 
Friday experience that will talk

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about just a moment to help lead
me but then help me to even be 

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set up to lead my family. 
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scriptures to do that and then 
as a church we want to Create 

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experiences and opportunities 
for for our parents and for our 

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individuals to be able to engage
with God, in a very tangible 

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again. 
Visceral way. 

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Yeah. 
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advantage of the Lesser. 
I is to engage in something, 

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that's abnormal and So Good. 
Friday, Chris tell us a little 

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bit about kind of the tradition 
of Good Friday if you will at 

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Grace Church. 
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So for me, it was a new 
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I grew up in a small Baptist 
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our A typical practices or 
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were less often. 
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and baptism maybe a couple times
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I had heard things like lint or 
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tradition I was coming from 
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utilized, I think primarily 
because a lot of that came from 

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a Catholic tradition and you 
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differing thoughts on Salvation 
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And so then the baby gets thrown
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So when Matt Kelly, I believe 
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Good Friday service, it was kind
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oh, I've heard of that, I guess,
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Let's think on that. 
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on partnering with another local
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every other year. 
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responsibility of putting on a 
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I'd forgotten about that. 
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talking about Nancy. 
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When we first started downtown, 
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Branch Baptist Church. 
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Baptist Church. 
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They came to downtown the next 
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and sharing in that event with 
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Yeah, so I mean, it was a neat 
opportunity to Unity between 

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churches, but it was also 
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trying to figure out this new 
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our members would come to it and
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come to it. 
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Why don't we just share this? 
But it really quickly for us, it

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became a very important 
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had to stop doing it together 
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we at some point pretty soon. 
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being less of a service and more
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drop in time of reflection. 
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used to it now as a church, 
like, having meditation moments 

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or reflection, moments is just 
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But when we We started doing 
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It felt very novel, it felt like
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Wow, this is this is different. 
But really all we were doing was

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creating a space that provide an
opportunity to reflect we would 

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put some scriptures on the 
screen, we would, you know, get 

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the lights low and turn on some 
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And that was it, that was Good 
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meaningful. 
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the years. 
Doing different special versions

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of that from like, words from 
the Maybe 2019 to last year if 

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we did something like promises 
was it different promises in 

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scripture? 
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So it's a neat opportunity to 
engage people's minds and hearts

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and in a visceral experience. 
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recognizing your need for a 
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But what Jesus did to reach us. 
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trying to internalize and And 
worship Jesus Through 

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acknowledging the suffering, 
through acknowledging your need 

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for what he did. 
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Resurrection, you stopped just 
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celebration comes Sunday and all
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right? 
To happy ending, and So Good. 

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Friday is a tuffet. 
It's a tough practice for us 

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where we have to say, no, let's 
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don't want to be morbid or, you 
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the whole time I recognize, 
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Creations in Christ, but to look
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This is what it took for me to 
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canceled, it took Jesus is life 
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the whole point of Good Friday. 
And so we do it in different 

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ways but that's so helpful 
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what we're celebrating. 
I think is we're quick to jump 

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to the resurrection for good 
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Really good reason because it's 
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It's so fundamental to our faith
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pause to say. 
Okay, let me acknowledge how 

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terrible this was how let me 
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the payment that what Jesus had 
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what you're celebrating is the 
whole idea of just, you've got 

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to understand your need for 
Jesus for us to fully appreciate

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what he's done. 
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they've Grace now. 
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good. 
Friday without Easter, you know,

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then it's not good but you know,
we call it good because of what 

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happens on Sunday. 
And so Chris before we talk 

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about this year take us behind 
the scenes of how you were 

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constantly trying to keep it, 
keep it new and remind us what 

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we did what we did last year on 
the, the tactile piece, 

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specifically? 
A sure. 

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become wrote. 
We don't want to become just 

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just another thing that we do 
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Yeah, it's It's it's pretty 
intentional balance of not 

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trying to be over-the-top or 
just doing something new just to

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do it or topping last year 
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and creatives you can get into 
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we're very intentional every 
year to think okay what is our 

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church need? 
What would it look like with the

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goal being people recognizing 
their sin reflecting on it 

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repenting and preparing for 
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What do we need to do this year?
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different for different people 
but it is good to change, things

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up to give people a new way to 
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So last year was promises and we
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promises and how Jesus was the 
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this like to Rattle them off but
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that you can touch and anointing
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broken body. 
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remember what Jesus did. 
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having communion on that day, 
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pray together. 
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two-part experience, and we're 
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of the crucifixion of Holy Week 
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be the room that's open for you 
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pray to maybe lead your family 
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conversation and they'll be kind
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getting off work early. 
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remembering what Jesus has done,
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our sin. 
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before Sunday, what it could do 
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How should we think about Easter
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whole, it's a unique weekend. 
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faith, right? 
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Day creating some moments during
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Sunday, you've really done some 
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can Embrace, what we have, or 
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baptism such a great symbol of 
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you'll see folks getting 
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That's not your favorite, not 
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your favorite room, but it's a 
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both choosing a service but 
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To not just be in the room 
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nice tidy, clean Easter Sunday 
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your Easter baskets and doing 
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morning to be. 
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people today. 
There's new folks in this room 

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us, Again, Mission Ali to be 
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the folks that are in the room 
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the sitting at this table right 
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teaching is usually around one 
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fun really would coming off a 
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about and so just to come with 
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indicate that a first-time guest
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experience. 
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ask how you can help and you 
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decisions they make. 
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They have to park somewhere. 

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your door and you don't know 
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You just like hey can I help 
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guest in your house, what do you
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you probably feed them. 
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that the people that are coming 
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coming here for a long time. 
This is your Opportunity to be 

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hospitable and kind and just 
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Just somebody did it for us. 
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Each one of us, someone went out
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you to be engaged that way now, 
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So it's a good point, good 
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And this is when we want to take

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advantage of any cultural 
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going to call people to life. 
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We're going to do what we do and
we're just asking our members to

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just not take that for granted 
and to really not get distracted

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because there is there's a lot 
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there's family that might not 
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worshipping together with your 
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be a part of a bigger church 
family and so that's really the 

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whole point of this podcast. 
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granted and how not to neglect 
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component that Easter brings 
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important day in our Christian 
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Yeah, that's good. 
Chris what resources are 

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available to members to embrace 
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discipleship opportunity? 
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SC dot org slash Easter and 
we'll put that in the show 

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notes, right? 
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So, they're on our Easter page, 
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now, it's live and you can see 
reading plans and even some of 

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the The ways that we've worship 
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are available there online. 
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additional ways to meditate 
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there for you. 
So we just pray that you would 

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be intentional with the season 
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That's right. 
I have one last concluding salt 

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from my perspective. 
I know that for me. 

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I grew up in a more maybe 
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structured and nice and clean 
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in some ways for me, spiritual 
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But also I was a high school 
student, right? 

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So, not quite as engaged on that
front, that being said, we're 

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not necessarily asking for all 
of us to strictly. 

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Adopt an approach towards lent 
and Holy Week that's rigid. 

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And over least, that's not 
necessarily what we're saying. 

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Wherever you find yourself on 
this Continuum, I would just 

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Ask, can you take a step with 
more intentionality towards 

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engaging, what this week means 
for us? 

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Personally, so, again, not 
completely adopt the whole 

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season necessarily unless you 
want to let your, you know, you 

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have your overachiever. 
But for you personally just take

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a step. 
What would it look like for you 

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for your family for your 
community group? 

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Whatever that looks like to take
a step towards engaging this 

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week, with a little bit more 
intentionality for your on 

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discipleship and maybe for 
others. 

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You're engaged with that, just 
sets us up well to worship. 

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Well on the weekend and get to 
celebrate, that's the big thing 

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I'd want to emphasize, is I 
really would love for us to all 

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show up, ready to celebrate 
excited and joyful because we 

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have a reason to be that's 
great. 

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Well, this is has been a great 
interview and just to learn more

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about what this week looks like.
I feel like I've gotten a lot 

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out of this and the idea of 
being intentional, really 

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appreciate all the work that you
guys have done to build this 

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momentum for us and the work 
that you guys have done. 

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Done in previous Easter's weeks.
So thanks so much guys. 

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Is there anything else we need 
to share? 

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Happy Easter Happy Easter. 
Well, as we wrap up today's 

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conversation, we want to thank 
you for joining us. 

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We realized that listening to a 
podcast episode. 

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Like this can really be an 
individual experience which we 

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believe is only enhanced by 
talking through it and applying 

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it to life. 
And this is something that we 

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believe lots of people don't 
naturally seek out or have built

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into their lives. 
So we want to encourage you to 

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share this episode with someone 
else and ask them to share with 

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you any takeaways. 
They receive from listening. 

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Be prepared to do the same and 
approach their feedback with a 

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posture to learn and apply. 
Why? 

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This is a great way to move 
towards this discipleship issue.

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If you have questions or want 
access to additional resources, 

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be sure to check out our podcast
page located in the show notes. 

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All right? 
Thanks for joining us today and 

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we look forward to joining you 
on the next episode. 

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Why? 
This is a great way to move 

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towards this discipleship issue.
If you have questions or want 

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access to additional resources, 
be sure to check out our podcast

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page located in the show notes. 
All right? 

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Thanks for joining us today and 
we look forward to joining you 

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on the next episode.
