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Verse 25 of Hebrews, Chapter 10 
Let us not neglect meaning that 

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we are going to make a choice as
we do life together. 

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We're going to commit to 
actually be together in time and

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space, Not through our phones, 
not infrequently, but 

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frequently. 
We're going to do that. 

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The average of Christian 
American goes to church one to 

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two times a month. 
Let me just say it we don't want

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to be average. 
Welcome back to the Grace Church

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Podcast 2024 Edition. 
My name is Scott Mazingo. 

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I'm your host today, and our 
goal here is to equip, 

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encourage, and inspire you in 
your devotion to God and others.

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Today we have Tanner Corley and 
Blake Payne with us. 

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Hello friends, how are we? 
Pretty good. 

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How about you? 
We're doing good. 

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Good, good. 
Hey, why don't you guys 

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introduce yourselves? 
Tell us a little bit about what 

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you do here at the church and 
maybe a little bit about your 

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family. 
Yeah, I'm Tanner. 

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I lead worship over at the 
Powdersville campus and I'm the 

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video director, my wife and 
three kids. 

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We've been here for almost eight
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And new addition just had a 
third child. 

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Yep #3. 
Congratulations. 

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Thanks for making time out of 
your busy schedule to be with 

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here. 
Be with us here. 

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Blake. 
What about you? 

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My name is Blake. 
I lost my voice this week, so 

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I'm going to sound amazing this 
whole time. 

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So it's probably not the podcast
cutting out. 

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It's probably just my voice. 
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But I work here at Pelham and 
I've been on staff for about 8 

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years and I also have three 
kids. 

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We have three daughters, as many
of you know, that's what. 

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Girl dad. 
Girl dad. 

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That's what we do. 
One thing is certain, we met 

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girls. 
Well, I I'm really excited for 

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this conversation. 
Our topic, I didn't mention that

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earlier, but we are discussing 
faithfully gathered which is a a

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reworking of a core value. 
You would have heard this from 

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the stage recently in a vision 
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And so we want to just tell you 
a little bit more about how that

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language came to be. 
And yeah, just kind of catch you

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up on some some thoughts and 
further some thoughts on that. 

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So Tanner, why don't you take 
the lead and just tell us a 

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little bit about how we got 
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Yeah, so about a year ago, 
there's a group of us that were 

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going through a class, Blake, 
Blake included. 

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And we were tasked with a 
ministry project kind of look 

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around at the church and see 
where we could put some energy 

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and maybe some time and and so 
this is not necessarily a new 

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idea but something that's kind 
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time. 
But just the kind of got started

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thinking about worship, how does
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values is it is, it is value for
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about in foundations. 
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there and Scott, me and you, we 
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early, early on and just trying 
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going to intersect our core 
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So you're, you guys are in a 
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kind of a training class to 
cover in a lot of different 

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topics. 
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an area of our church that you 
feel like needs to be addressed 

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or some additional work done or 
just just some thoughts, 

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something that you care about. 
And so with your background in 

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worship, you're like, OK, where 
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How do we communicate this is a 
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Is that kind of Fair to say? 
And then where did that journey,

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Where did that take you? 
Where did it lead you? 

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Yeah, a lot of a lot of 
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With a lot of different. 
People just trying to ask that 

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question of how to how do you 
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our core values and so as we 
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couple years COVID was a a big 
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start what what all this was 
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What was, what was that? 
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So I know we're tired of talking
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has been four years since it 
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really was a big changer for for
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included. 
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coming back a couple years ago 
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informing the way you were 
thinking about what our 

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gatherings look like? 
We were starting to see that the

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value of gathering started to 
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technology started to increase 
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good to use that technology to 
consume on our own terms, to get

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sermons and quote UN quote, be 
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of something without actually 
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Couple things that we noticed 
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had spent a bunch of money on 
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outside and have a safe, safe 
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actually deterring some people 
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service on their own terms and 
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be in service with other 
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And then one other thing is all 
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Sunday, we have groups of people
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communities and bringing 
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gathering is way more than just 
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actually lacked some language 
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This is already a core value for
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This is always already something
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And so that was what part of why
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So as you begin to connect the 
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language start to form Tanner? 
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to the leadership team was to 
add a core value, add faithfully

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gathered to the six core values 
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And as I was kind of explaining 
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And he said he's like, how does 
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connected? 
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conversation started happening 
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how that might play into even 
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not just meeting together on a 
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what relationally connected was 
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Yeah, 'cause I think Bill made 
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know, the Bible doesn't really 
differentiate between large 

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gatherings, medium sized 
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It's talking about the the 
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And yeah, the relationally 
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of helping shape some of that. 
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I'll speak as the only person 
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the room 20 years ago. 
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Could just say old. 
No, no, I'm just trying to help.

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You out the language would save 
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No, no. 
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same idea that we were, we just 
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individualism. 
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was I don't need other people. 
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God and my quiet time and my 
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That's all I need. 
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church where there's some good 
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to really grow spiritually. 
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think, no God put relationships 
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God brought together the 
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You know, God called a people 
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to form a nation. 
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Testament, God's talking to 
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primarily letters individually, 
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That's our misreading that God 
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people and that the Spirit has a
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have all these different gifted 
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and they gather together. 
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hard to reclaim that 20 years 
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wasn't just icing on the cake, 
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cake, it was a big part of how 
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And so Fast forward doesn't seem
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anymore. 
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connected, maybe we're over 
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helpful, but you know we have 
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connections and all types of 
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And so it just felt like that 
language maybe had run, run its 

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course a little bit. 
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to let's take the faithfully 
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bit of replacement language with
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Yeah, 'cause it's almost assumed
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connected at a church. 
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It is. 
It is. 

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That's what a lot. 
That's what drives a lot of 

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people, honestly, to church. 
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singing, which we have great 
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They might enjoy the teaching. 
But a lot of folks are in need 

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or they notice the need that 
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So they come to the church 
looking for those relationships,

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and we're defining what kind of 
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Not just friendships, but 
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But yes, to your point, it's all
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it mean to come and be 
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Yeah, I I get a chance to work 
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are coming in and it's 
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I mean just the last discovery 
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probably had fifty, I think we 
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interesting 71%, about 70 to 71%
of the folks in there were from 

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out of state, not even from not 
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not even from South Carolina. 
So that's interesting. 

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The other thing that's 
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that comes in here, the first 
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initial desire, which I think 
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is, hey, I want to be connected,
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And so it's funny like and then 
they say we want to be in Group 

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and I'm like, well, how do y'all
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Like it's just to your point, 
it's just this, this assumption 

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that this is what y'all do and 
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that's what I want to do. 
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people knowing each other, doing
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But the other thing I would add 
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of the language is that we also,
we also had some people that 

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would have told you they were 
relationally connected, right? 

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But we're actually missing some 
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gathering and actually what it 
really means to be connected, 

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right. 
And whether that meant reducing 

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relationally connected to 
friendships or relationships 

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that produce certain outcomes, 
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business or I go to church with 
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whatever that meant. 
We also thought that people that

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had that language in there, 
we're still missing something. 

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Sure, that's right. 
So let's spend a little bit of 

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time just talking about that. 
Like when we say faithfully 

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gathered, what do we mean? 
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You know, when I think about 
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perspective, before I even jump 
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let the Scriptures really speak 
to this, I think about Hebrews 

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10 and it says, let us hold 
tightly without wavering to the 

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hope we affirm. 
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his promise was the first half. 
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says, let us think of ways to 
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of love and good works. 
And let us not neglect our 

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meeting together, as some people
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especially now that the day of 
his return is drawing near. 

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And so when I think about it 
from a biblical perspective, it 

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seems like the authors of the 
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earlier, as they're writing to 
these local churches have to 

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continually remind people, hey, 
don't neglect, hey, don't 

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neglect, whatever you're doing, 
don't neglect. 

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Which is interesting. 
It means that even back then. 

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So COVID highlighted it for us. 
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But it didn't create the 
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The problem has been around for 
a long time, and even in this 

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church, whoever this writer of 
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saying don't forget, don't 
neglect, which teaches me this. 

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It teaches me that even back 
then they would have had 

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reasons, whether legitimate or 
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with. 
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gathering, I think I start 
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things that give us reasons to 
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suffering. 
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about suffering, like suffering 
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can create doubt and fear and 
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been happening for them, 
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with difficult things. 
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on, keep your hope, right. 
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like we got to still be 
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people away from gathering. 
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opportunity comes, weekend 
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Good things, right? 
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often times from Him, but 
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distraction and distance from 
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life, like we have to make sure 
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coming back to the middle and 
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faithfully gathering, I think 
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prioritize something that would 
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We want to conform our lives to 
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And so Tanner, what are a couple
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together this language that that
informed so the so the folks can

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go and even do some study on 
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fellowship and the breaking of 
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Christ in all its richness fill 
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each other with all wisdom that 
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and spiritual songs to God with 
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Jesus, giving thanks through him
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singing alone. 
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said, talking to a group of 
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encouraging them, hey, get 
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another, encourage one another. 
Give wisdom, sing together. 

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being baptized, Communion and 
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done in the context of the body.
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grounds for eating together, 
being together. 

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I love it. 
Love it. 

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word. 
It's one of the biggest problems

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with language is when you assume
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So what we mean when we say 
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layers of it that I think can 
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kind of the full framework of 
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One layer would be committed and
that word's pretty 

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self-explanatory, right? 
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Chapter 10, let us not neglect 
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make a choice as we do life 
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We're going to commit to 
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space, not through our phones, 
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frequently. 
We're going to do that. 

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The average of Christian 
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two times a month. 
Let me just say it We don't want

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We have bigger sites than that. 
We have bigger vision than that.

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So we would not consider that to
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No, once, no, we would not say 
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We would say that that is 
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Yeah. 
And probably not enough for you 

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to experience the blessings of 
this cause. 

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Here's what I would say. 
You might hear faithfully 

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gathered and think, man, they 
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But the reason we expect a lot 
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and brings blessing in our life.
We don't care about our numbers.

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We're not trying to check boxes.
We're not trying to track you as

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you walk in. 
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what does it take for you to 
experience the benefit of being 

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in God's Kingdom and faithful 
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means probably more than once a 
month, right? 

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Yeah, it means you're putting a 
value on it. 

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It means that you're backing 
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You know, I think about 
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I think about sports. 
You know, if you have a child 

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playing a sport and they went to
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2 out of every four practices, 1
they'd be missing out on a lot 

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and and two, they probably 
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this skill in the sport that you
have designated as important for

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them. 
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like five years ago. 
My team, they didn't miss any 

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practice. 
It was fascinating. 

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I had a kid drive 2 hours every 
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practiced. 
He never missed. 

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To be a part of a team. 
That's right. 

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folks, I mean, what more, how 
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spiritually minded with brothers
and sisters in Christ doing life

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together, being conformed to the
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easy. 
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have for each other, seeing this
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purpose. 
I mean, that's not just church 

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talk, folks. 
I mean, that is really what 

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we're trying to do as we devote 
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another and and we're just 
calling out what's obvious is 

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that we need each other. 
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If you just strip it all back, 
just the notion that I can give 

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3 hours a month to my church 
experience and it'd be 

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beneficial, it's just not a 
great notion to start with, you 

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know. 
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relational level, like I heard 
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Matt said it just there's no 
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You can't ensure that the time 
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night to trapdoor to get that. 
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it's almost guaranteed quality 
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But like, you know, I mean, who 
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The date night might have taken 
everything you had just to get 

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out of the door and you got in a
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So it's going to take an hour 
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each other's good side, you 
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And then the date's over because
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anymore. 
So the idea of quality time is 

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just it's a little bit of a 
facade. 

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It's a misnomer. 
What you can ensure though, is 

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that the more accurate way to 
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just quantity time over time. 
When you do it and do it again, 

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one of the dates is going to 
work. 

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Yeah, we need reps. 
We need reps and I think the way

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that we treat people and 
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you never know the Sunday that 
God has something for you that's

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going to that's going to move 
the needle. 

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You never know when the Spirit's
going to show up or you're you 

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never know the the the time 
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lobby and meet the person that 
just moved here from Atlanta 

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with a special needs daughter 
and guess what you have a 

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special needs daughter and 
that's going to start a 

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relationship that leads to 1020 
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Here's I mean you just never 
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happen. 
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being committed, it just gives 
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this whole experiment a better 
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and then it creates space for 
God to show up. 

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So that would be layer one 
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faithful would be engaged. 
And so verse 24 let us think of 

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ways to motivate one another to 
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So we don't want to just assume 
we just we just said a whole lot

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about committed. 
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that I think is worth saying. 
We don't just want to assume 

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that by you coming that it all 
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happen. 
It's got to be more than just 

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being here and being faithful. 
Being and being committed is no 

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doubt half of the equation, but 
this idea of engagement is the 

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other half. 
And we're not making this up 

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like the New Testament is just 
littered with the House of what 

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it means to be together, of what
it looks like to engage. 

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It doesn't just say show up, 
right. 

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There's fifty, there's 59 one 
another's in the Bible, and the 

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phrase occurs about 100 times in
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Say that one more time, how many
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59 One another's meaning. 
There are 59 different commands 

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of ways that we need to actually
engage each other, and that idea

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of one another comes up about 
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So God doesn't just care about 
us gathering. 

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He cares about how we gather. 
Yeah. 

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So let me give you a couple 
this. 

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I think that'll help frame this 
out. 

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When we, when we say faithful, 
here's what we mean. 

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We mean that we are, we're 
committing. 

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And when we are, when we're 
here, we're confessing sin to 

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each other, we're praying for 
each other, we're serving one 

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another, we're loving one 
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other's burdens. 
And I mean, there's a ton more. 

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Let me just pick on that last 
one for a second. 

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Like if you were committed, but 
you're not bearing anybody's 

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burdens, then I would say you're
missing out. 

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And the same is true if you're 
committed and you're coming, but

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you've not really opened up your
life in any way for somebody to 

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bear your burdens and your 
shoulders are heavier than they 

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need to be. 
And so being faithful is about 

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far more than just coming. 
It's about doing life with God's

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people while we follow Jesus 
together. 

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And I think that idea of being 
committed and engaged if we can 

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if we can strive for that, I 
think it will unlock a new 

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version of church which is why I
think the language is great good

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work Tanner And if you're 
wondering man that sounds like a

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productive ministry project. 
All the other ministry projects,

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they all failed in comparison to
Tanners because he. 

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He took. 
Over a core value. 

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So I'm not even going to tell 
you about mine because it was, 

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you know, it was humiliating, 
but good for him. 

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But that language, like that, 
faithfully gathering it, will 

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unlock for us new potentials. 
Well, and I love what you're 

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talking about because you're 
you're you're talking about 

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raising the level of expectation
and anticipation of what God 

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wants to do when his people come
together. 

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And I think we just have really 
really low kind of individual, 

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consumeristic standards and we 
have to be able to match God's 

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desires with our own desires. 
So that means we have to take on

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the mind of Christ, see other 
people the way he sees them as 

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image bearers. 
We have to be willing to see our

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need that that can be met by 
other folks and we have to be 

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able to give and receive. 
And for a lot of us, it's a lot 

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00:26:13,600 --> 00:26:15,960
easier to give than it is to 
receive. 

454
00:26:16,840 --> 00:26:19,840
However, a lot of times we're 
giving on our own terms and 

455
00:26:19,840 --> 00:26:21,560
we're not really giving in 
abundance. 

456
00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:24,440
And that's because I don't think
we're really good at receiving. 

457
00:26:25,160 --> 00:26:27,440
And if we were better at 
receiving, then I think we would

458
00:26:27,440 --> 00:26:32,480
be more likely to give in in 
abundance and not just give a 

459
00:26:32,480 --> 00:26:34,520
percentage that we feel good to 
give. 

460
00:26:34,520 --> 00:26:35,960
And I'm not talking financially 
at all. 

461
00:26:35,960 --> 00:26:39,600
I'm talking about our time. 
I'm talking about our influence.

462
00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:43,000
I'm talking about our expertise.
I'm talking about just sitting 

463
00:26:43,000 --> 00:26:46,400
with people that that just need 
love and care. 

464
00:26:46,760 --> 00:26:48,840
I'm talking about having your 
schedule disrupted. 

465
00:26:49,320 --> 00:26:52,920
And so all of that is, is part 
of what it means to, I think, to

466
00:26:52,920 --> 00:26:59,600
be faithful and to to have the 
same expectations for our 

467
00:26:59,600 --> 00:27:01,840
gatherings that that God has 
when we gather. 

468
00:27:01,840 --> 00:27:03,200
No doubt. 
No doubt. 

469
00:27:03,360 --> 00:27:05,120
Yeah. 
And the other piece is that. 

470
00:27:06,480 --> 00:27:08,280
But I think you have to think 
about that. 

471
00:27:08,280 --> 00:27:09,720
I was talking about worship 
earlier. 

472
00:27:09,880 --> 00:27:15,320
I think in my experience, 
responding to what God has for 

473
00:27:15,320 --> 00:27:19,240
you is always incremental. 
And I think that's one of the 

474
00:27:19,600 --> 00:27:23,080
pitfalls of, I don't know, let's
just say modern American 

475
00:27:23,080 --> 00:27:26,200
churches that we can come and 
create this unbelievable 

476
00:27:26,200 --> 00:27:29,760
experience where my whole life 
gets uprooted and I'm on fire 

477
00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:34,560
for Jesus. 
And you know, I just, I do 

478
00:27:34,560 --> 00:27:36,960
services all the time. 
They just don't normally work 

479
00:27:36,960 --> 00:27:38,880
that way. 
Maybe for one person out there 

480
00:27:38,880 --> 00:27:41,200
or two people out there. 
But usually what happens is we 

481
00:27:41,200 --> 00:27:43,520
start a series in the book of 
James, and by the end of the 

482
00:27:43,520 --> 00:27:47,840
series I got two things that 
God's not letting me let go of. 

483
00:27:48,760 --> 00:27:51,200
And so it's just, it's slow, 
it's incremental. 

484
00:27:51,520 --> 00:27:53,680
And that's where I think the 
faithfully gathering piece is so

485
00:27:53,680 --> 00:27:58,520
important is because it's just 
going to be hard to hear if 

486
00:27:58,520 --> 00:28:00,960
we're not here. 
And it's going to be hard to 

487
00:28:00,960 --> 00:28:06,680
move if we're trying to go at at
a super expedited pace because 

488
00:28:06,680 --> 00:28:08,680
movement just doesn't normally 
happen like that. 

489
00:28:08,680 --> 00:28:10,160
It's slower and it's more 
incremental. 

490
00:28:12,120 --> 00:28:16,520
Yeah, I mean, I think it's it's 
why it's important that the New 

491
00:28:16,520 --> 00:28:20,160
Testament calls us to to baptism
and communion there. 

492
00:28:20,200 --> 00:28:23,400
Those think both of those things
are done within a community of 

493
00:28:23,400 --> 00:28:25,640
people. 
They're done with one another. 

494
00:28:25,840 --> 00:28:27,960
And you're witnessing A baptism.
That's what it is. 

495
00:28:27,960 --> 00:28:31,840
It's a public confession. 
Going, dying, coming back up, I 

496
00:28:31,840 --> 00:28:35,800
mean, and then communion, 
getting around the table with 

497
00:28:35,800 --> 00:28:37,880
other believers. 
It's a meal together, 

498
00:28:38,440 --> 00:28:39,960
fellowship. 
It's all of that. 

499
00:28:40,040 --> 00:28:42,720
And so those are those both of 
those things that God has given 

500
00:28:42,720 --> 00:28:46,040
us are to be done together with 
one another. 

501
00:28:46,520 --> 00:28:48,600
To your point, like. 
Yeah. 

502
00:28:48,600 --> 00:28:51,400
So when we when we're eating a 
meal, we're not eating alone, 

503
00:28:52,040 --> 00:28:55,560
reading with a spiritual family.
When we are being baptized, 

504
00:28:55,560 --> 00:28:58,920
we're not exclaiming our 
individual relationship with 

505
00:28:58,920 --> 00:29:01,720
God. 
We're also being baptized into a

506
00:29:01,720 --> 00:29:04,840
community of faith. 
That's why it's public. 

507
00:29:04,840 --> 00:29:06,120
That's why it was a public 
witness. 

508
00:29:06,440 --> 00:29:08,000
Yeah. 
No, I think this is great, 

509
00:29:08,000 --> 00:29:10,720
'cause you're seeing hopefully 
all these pieces come together 

510
00:29:11,200 --> 00:29:15,560
of it's it's things that we're 
already doing, but we're trying 

511
00:29:15,560 --> 00:29:19,080
to put some language that what's
the importance of language? 

512
00:29:19,480 --> 00:29:22,080
One is it it gives you 
confidence. 

513
00:29:23,040 --> 00:29:25,920
It it gives, it gives an 
explanation, but it really gives

514
00:29:25,920 --> 00:29:27,840
you confidence. 
And then when you see it 

515
00:29:27,840 --> 00:29:31,120
happening on a week after week 
basis, you're like, yes, that is

516
00:29:31,120 --> 00:29:35,200
what we are striving to do. 
Striving to be is a faithfully 

517
00:29:35,200 --> 00:29:39,160
gathered group of folks. 
Yeah, when I think about this is

518
00:29:39,160 --> 00:29:42,160
not my definition. 
I stole it a couple years ago. 

519
00:29:42,720 --> 00:29:45,400
Just the idea of culture. 
Who are we? 

520
00:29:46,480 --> 00:29:49,880
And the definition for culture 
was people like us do things 

521
00:29:49,880 --> 00:29:54,560
like this. 
And I would. 

522
00:29:54,680 --> 00:29:57,360
I want us to be a church where 
we could say people like us 

523
00:29:57,720 --> 00:30:01,160
faithfully gather. 
Yeah, yeah, that's great. 

524
00:30:02,320 --> 00:30:06,320
Anything else guys, as we seek 
to close this? 

525
00:30:07,360 --> 00:30:12,800
Yeah, I would just say, you know
one thing about this idea of us 

526
00:30:14,640 --> 00:30:17,480
even reworking, updating core 
value. 

527
00:30:17,600 --> 00:30:23,600
I mean, we're just trying to be 
faithful to Jesus and whatever 

528
00:30:23,600 --> 00:30:28,440
that takes from now and to 
eternity. 

529
00:30:28,440 --> 00:30:32,200
Like, as long as Grace Church 
exists, I am excited to be a 

530
00:30:32,200 --> 00:30:35,840
part of a place where we are 
willing to key in on the right 

531
00:30:35,840 --> 00:30:38,600
things, make the appropriate 
changes so that we can call 

532
00:30:38,600 --> 00:30:40,480
ourselves to the right things. 
You know? 

533
00:30:40,840 --> 00:30:43,880
And one day we'll be old like 
you, Scott, and we'll probably 

534
00:30:43,880 --> 00:30:46,120
come back and change faithfully 
gathered in 15 years because 

535
00:30:46,240 --> 00:30:49,320
it'll need to be changed. 
But until then, it's just that 

536
00:30:49,320 --> 00:30:51,720
it really represents the fact 
that we're trying to pay 

537
00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:56,080
attention and we're trying to 
follow God right now, and we're 

538
00:30:56,080 --> 00:30:59,240
trying to fight against the 
temptations that we have right 

539
00:30:59,240 --> 00:31:01,600
now so that we can be faithful 
right now. 

540
00:31:01,600 --> 00:31:05,000
And then we'll just trust God to
to take that and bless us and do

541
00:31:05,000 --> 00:31:07,760
with it what he wants. 
Yeah, yeah, that's good. 

542
00:31:08,360 --> 00:31:10,360
Well, thanks guys. 
Enjoyed this discussion. 

543
00:31:10,360 --> 00:31:15,120
Hopefully you guys see a little 
bit of how decisions are made 

544
00:31:15,120 --> 00:31:18,840
and how language is formed. 
And really it's it's the desire 

545
00:31:18,840 --> 00:31:23,360
to all of our core values are 
really built around the idea of 

546
00:31:23,360 --> 00:31:27,040
what is faithful expression of 
following Jesus. 

547
00:31:27,040 --> 00:31:31,800
What does that look like? 
And so we are firmly saying that

548
00:31:32,120 --> 00:31:34,760
you can't follow Jesus well 
unless you're committed to 

549
00:31:34,760 --> 00:31:37,320
faithfully gathering. 
And so hopefully that'll be an 

550
00:31:37,320 --> 00:31:40,840
encouragement to you as we look 
at our own schedules, as we look

551
00:31:40,840 --> 00:31:44,080
at our own priorities, as we 
look at our own lives and maybe 

552
00:31:44,080 --> 00:31:45,640
we all be better at doing that 
this year. 

553
00:31:45,800 --> 00:31:47,920
So thanks, gentlemen. 
Appreciate it. 

554
00:31:48,080 --> 00:31:49,080
Thank you. 
Good work, Tanner.

