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You're listening to the 
Bridgetown Church Podcast with 

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Pastor Casey Kendall, where our 
vision is Jesus, our mission is 

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people, and our cause is love. 
Thanks for tuning in. 

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Let's dive in. 
First Samuel chapter 31, the 

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title of the series has been 
heart. 

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We've been dealing with the 
heart of the matter, which is 

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the matter of the heart of the 
title of this message. 

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If you're sitting next to 
someone, this is the bend of the

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story. 
The bend of the story. 

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Notice this for Samuel chapter 
31. 

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We're just going to look at 
verse 6 and we're going to end 

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here. 
Pray and go into worship now. 

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I'm just kidding. 
That would be a very dark verse 

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to end. 
So Saul, his three sons, his 

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armor bearer, and all his men 
died together that same day. 

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Can you read this with me again 
in your Bible? 

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So Saul, his three sons, his 
armor bearer, and all his men 

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died together that same day. 
What a great Christmas message. 

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I just want to read this verse 
one more time. 

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So Saul, his three sons, his 
armor bearer, and all his men 

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died together that same day. 
If we were just to end here, 

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it'd be very dark and dreary 
story. 

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But I want to talk to you today.
If you have someone sitting next

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to you, just say neighbor, my 
neighbor. 

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This is the bend of the story. 
Yep, this is the bend of the 

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story. 
It was an amazing Marvel movie. 

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We go on Tuesday nights. 
If you ever want a cheat code 

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for going to the movies, it's 
used to be 5 bucks, but now it's

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$8 on Tuesday nights at AMC. 
So I was taking most of my 

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children to see Spider Man and 
it was spectacular. 

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No one on the movie knew who he 
was except us. 

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We knew who the real Spider Man 
was, and it was something of a 

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movie where we laughed, we 
cried, we cheered, we all 

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rallied together for Spider Man.
And guess what the ending was? 

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He caught the villain. 
He got the villain. 

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All of the sudden the credits 
popped up on the screen with the

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music in the background. 
Names and what they did were 

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spreckled across all of the 
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And we, as the credits came up, 
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As I went home, one of my boys 
said, Dad, did you stay for the 

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end of the movie? 
I said yes, we stayed for the 

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end of the movie. 
The credits hit, the story was 

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done and we left the theater. 
He said no, Dad, did you stay 

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for the end of the story? 
I said, what do you mean? 

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He said the the story after the 
credits were over, did you wait?

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I said no, the movie was already
done. 

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He said, Dad, that wasn't the 
end of the story. 

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That was just the the bend of 
the story. 

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Then that was for us, the bend. 
There was more to be told. 

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If we would have waited a little
bit longer, the bend of the 

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story, then there was more to 
see. 

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If we would have endured through
who actually got the credit. 

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That's the bend of the story. 
We would have been better 

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prepared for what was next in 
Marvel world if we weren't so 

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panicked to exit out of that 
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That was the bend of the story, 
and could it be what you thought

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was the end of your story today 
was actually just the bend in 

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your story today? 
Could it be for you and for me 

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that the temptation is that we 
begin to see the struggle as the

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final scene in our life? 
We actually begin to take the 

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pain that we are in as if God 
has used His pin as the final 

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page of our life, the story in 
our life. 

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Often times when we are in this 
place that seems dark and it 

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seems like it is the end, we 
whisper to ourselves the lie 

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that we can't do this anymore 
and we fail to realize that 

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Jesus our Lord is still writing 
our story. 

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The bend of the story. 
The marriage that you fought 

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for, the relationships that 
you've actually longed for. 

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The bend of the story of the 
person that you're hurting for, 

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the job that you sought for. 
The bend of the story. 

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The plans you have made for 
yourself but haven't come to 

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pass. 
Could that be not the end of 

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your story? 
But maybe it's just the bend of 

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your story. 
All throughout Scripture it is 

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given to us the story the 
theological preference and 

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proximity that Jesus Christ in 
Philippians chapter one verse 6 

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that he who began a good work in
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until the day of Christ Jesus. 
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the book of Revel Genesis into 
the Book of Revelation, we start

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in a garden and God ends 
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What we thought was the end of 
death was actually just the bend

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in the story. 
When we see this in Joseph's 

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life, Joseph was thrown into the
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of the story. 
We we see this in Moses. 

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Moses was sent to the desert, 
but that wasn't the end of his 

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story. 
That was just the bend in his 

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story. 
We see this with Esther in the 

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palace and it looks like Haman 
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And that is not the end of 
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That is just the bend of the 
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We see this in Elijah in a cave 
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facing emotional distressing 
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That wasn't the end of Elijah's 
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That was just the bend. 
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Jeremiah throwing into a 
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That wasn't the end of Jeremiah.
That was just the bend of the 

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story. 
We see Jesus, our Lord, our 

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Savior, hanging on a cross. 
That wasn't the end of the 

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story. 
Although he cried out, it is 

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finished. 
He wasn't finished and he lives 

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to make intercession for you and
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He is faithful to do what he is 
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And this is something that we 
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Although we come to the end of 
First Samuel, I want you to get 

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something profound. 
I want you to take this 

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theologically with you. 
Are you ready? 

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First Samuel is followed by 
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That was deep. 
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Second Samuel. 
First Samuel is not the end of 

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the story, it's just the bend in
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Chapter 31 bleeds into Second 
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But if we were just to take this
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it as something that is 
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Saw dies Saul's three sons die 
in that three sons is David's 

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best friend by the name of 
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Not only does Saul die in for 
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see that the Philistines get 
this cut his head off, strip him

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of his armor and they decorate 
their wall with his lifeless 

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body. 
That is a very dark ending to 

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the story. 
We we shall see ourselves that 

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we, if we stop here, we're going
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So we don't stop here. 
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writes. 
They said these words, breathe. 

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This is a chapter, not the 
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And I want to challenge you this
morning in your life to breathe,

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to breathe in your 
relationships. 

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It's not the end of your story. 
It's just a chapter in the book.

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I want you to breathe at the job
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It's not the end of your story. 
It's just a chapter of the 

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story. 
I want you to breathe. 

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When you go into Christmas time 
and you can't find a parking 

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spot at the mall or at Walmart 
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breathe. 
It's not the end of the story. 

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It's just the bend in the story.
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I think it's important that 
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in grace and exhale some mercy. 
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understand that God is faithful 
to meet you in the bend of your 

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story. 
And I always want to backtrack a

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little bit. 
If you're at my age, I want to 

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hit the VCR and I just want to 
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And I want to hit rewind because
I want you to see that God's 

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bend of your story could be at 
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It could be at your transforming
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ending point of your story. 
And I want you to get this out 

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of David's life because God 
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So if you would just rewind with
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in Chapter 30, you remember last
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had gone back to Ziklag, forced 
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And he goes back into Ziklag and
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family and all the families, all
the children have been 

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kidnapped. 
Now what would you do as a 

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parent if your children were 
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This is what the Bible says 
David did, and notice what it 

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says in verse 4 of chapter 30. 
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were with him lifted up their 
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no power to weep. 
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David's life at this point in 
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everyone's been kidnapped, 
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taken. 
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people who were with them, they 
lifted up their voices and they 

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did two things. 
They wept, the Bible says, until

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they had no more power to weep. 
Now, I don't know if you've ever

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cried so much that you stopped 
crying because you were crying 

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so much. 
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Scripture that it is OK to 
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don't have to be led by your 
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Sometimes in Christianity we get
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thing you could do and the most 
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is to bury how you're feeling. 
Don't bury it, bring it and then

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let God lead you in it. 
That was a good spot for an 

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Amen. 
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The Bible says that they lifted 
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actually wept. 
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This, this was the point of of 
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sobbing. 
This is it. 

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If we were to get a little bit 
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crying so hard that you can't 
stop the snot from coming out of

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your nose. 
It is you look like messy as you

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are mourning. 
This is the spot that David's AT

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and he's crying out with all of 
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But it gets worse for David. 
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The Bible tells us in verse 6, 
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He weeps so much that he cannot 
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And then the Bible says it. 
David was greatly distressed. 

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The word greatly there in your 
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He has an abundance of what? 
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distressing emotion. 
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Bible means afflicted and 
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David's crying to the point he 
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abundantly afflicted and 
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Anyone ever felt like that? 
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David's path at this point in 
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And the Bible says for the speak
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Let's get a little bit deeper. 
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Now David comes to a point in 
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Now everyone is against him. 
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together. 
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them and they want to get rid of
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Now notice what happens in 
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The Bible tells us that the 
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because the soul of all the 
people were noticed this they 

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were grieved and then the Bible 
says every man for his sons and 

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his daughters, but David 
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Lord. 
Now check this out if you would.

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The lowest point, David's 
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don't weep anymore. 
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Then people are speaking about 
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Merry Christmas David, this is a
horrible season of David's life.

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Notice this David was now facing
that the Amalekites had stolen 

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the wives and the sons and the 
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The Amalekites had kidnapped 
their family and it as everybody

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is mourning. 
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This chapter in David's life 
could have left David resentful,

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angry, cynical, due to this 
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This is so low that notice this 
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This negative outlook normally 
could have led to the difficulty

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of forgiving, led to holding 
grudges, and LED David to only 

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seeing the negative side of the 
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And here's the problem with the 
low points is that it creates 

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lemon people. 
Low points have the possibility 

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to create lemon people. 
They just become completely sour

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and you probably have met them 
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I'm sure no one in here is one 
of them. 

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No one has faced so much in 
their life that it has left you 

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sour. 
But maybe you have met someone 

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who has gone through their 
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become this lemon person. 
I mean, everything about their 

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life is they've had a bad 
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taste in everyone's mouth 
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I wonder no one probably here 
the married couple who is 

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struggling, the married couple 
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Your lowest point of your 
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aren't always on high notes. 
That was a good spot for an 

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Amen. 
Marriages have low points, but 

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sometimes in those low points, 
married couples become lemon 

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people. 
This is how we become lemon 

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people. 
Listen, you speak to singles 

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around you. 
Oh, you just wait till you get 

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married like it's payment and 
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Or maybe it's this. 
You thought being a single was a

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struggle. 
Wait till you get married. 

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And this is how married couples 
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the engagement ring, they find 
the wedding ring, and then they 

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face the suffering and they live
in the suffering of a struggling

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marriage. 
Have you ever met a single 

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person who's a lemon person? 
You ever meet a single person or

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maybe someone who's just been 
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month, but maybe like a year. 
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lemon person normally says 
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God, you promised, but you're 
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Relationships, you might say are
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I'd rather have my freedom. 
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who is sour at their job? 
That's a good spot for the 

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church to respond. 
You ever you ever met a lemon 

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person at their job? 
This is the job they prayed for.

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This is the job they asked for 
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And this is what a lemon person 
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They make me work so much. 
This is what you actually prayed

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for. 
Your answered prayer is now your

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complaint to God. 
You ever faced a lemon person at

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church? 
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This is normally what happens 
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churches. 
The pastor isn't meeting my 

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needs anymore. 
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I've heard this one a lot. 
I'm not being spiritually fed 

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here. 
The worship Why would we ever 

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have a violin? 
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Why, why why do we even have 
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Casey? 
Why are we still in this 

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building? 
Why do we have to set up and 

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tear down every Sunday? 
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There is a danger of staying 
somewhere and you park where 

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it's just simply become the 
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Here's here's the here's the 
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We park in the pain rather than 
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Here's here's the problem. 
We park in the pain rather than 

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driving through the process. 
You weren't supposed to pitch 

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your tent there. 
You were supposed to keep moving

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there. 
You weren't supposed to just 

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park in the pain there. 
But but now what happens in life

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is the lowest point becomes my 
only point in life at your 

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lowest point. 
It is the bend in your story, 

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not the end of your story. 
Listen to what God allowed for 

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David in the context of the 
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God allowed David to feel 
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frustration, threats. 
But what he allows does not mean

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it's the final authority over 
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And I think it's important that 
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of us are facing things in our 
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lives that David going into 
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happen like that. 
You didn't expect for it to look

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like that. 
But what happens is it is the 

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low points have the potential to
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behind in life and God is not 
really building your life 

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anymore. 
But I want to encourage you 

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today, if I could, to do some 
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the low, lowest point, or maybe 
write these down because at some

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point in your life you will find
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And that is this. 
Can you just write these things 

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down if you're at your lowest 
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It's the bend of your story. 
So write this down. 

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Focus on the now. 
Focus on the now. 

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Focus on the now. 
God's Word to you is not a 

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spotlight into the future 
necessarily. 

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It's a lamp unto your feet and a
light unto your path. 

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Focus on the now. 
Concentrate on your current 

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God-given goals and the very 
next thing that God asked you to

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do rather than on the lost time 
that you've experienced. 

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Philippians chapter 3, verse 14.
Just as a side note, you can 

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write that down. 
Can can you write this down? 

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Also, if you're at the lowest 
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the past. 
Someone once said the only thing

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that we've learned from history 
is that we really haven't 

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learned from our history. 
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Next time, David, don't go to 
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Philistines. 
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Next time, don't pitch your tent
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that you do not belong. 
Don't go back to the enemy's 

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camp. 
Just because it's familiar, it 

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doesn't mean that it's free. 
Learn from your past that the 

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drugs didn't really satisfy you,
that the relationship that you 

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got into outside of Jesus really
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thought it would mean. 
Learn from the past that the the

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the situation you are facing 
maybe at your job is not 

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necessarily because there are 
bad people, but maybe you made 

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some bad decisions. 
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Don't go with the Philistines 
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budding up with the enemy means 
that they won't steal something 

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from your family. 
Listen, I want us to learn from 

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our past. 
If you would just write this 

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down, do the next thing, do the 
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I had a friend I was meeting 
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He looked at me and he said, 
Casey, He said, what does 

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obedience look like in this 
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And I want to ask you the same 
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What does obedience look like 
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Obey the word of God. 
Obey the word of God. 

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Can I just say it again? 
Obey the word of God. 

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If you're at your lowest point, 
I want you to focus on now. 

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I want you to learn from the 
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I want you to do the next thing 
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do. 
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His lowest point turns into his 
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No notice this if you would that
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himself in verse 6. 
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the Lord. 
Excuse me, his God. 

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David strengthened himself in 
the Lord his God. 

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Lord his God. 
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encouraged himself in the Lord 
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Notice the turning point, if you
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the bend of his story. 
So not just your lowest point, 

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but your turning point in your 
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The bend of the story is David 
did not stay, he stepped out and

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he owned not just just mourned 
about his situation and he takes

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responsibility and 
accountability for himself. 

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Notice this, he doesn't blame, 
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God in this situation. 
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he takes initiative in the Lord 
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He encourages himself in the 
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Then the Bible says that he in 
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Lord, he encourages himself self
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Then he inquires of the Lord and
he went for the Lord and then he

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recovered for the Lord and then 
he moved closer to his family 

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because he was willing not to 
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mourning. 
He actually got up and he moved 

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forward towards the Lord. 
This is what I want to encourage

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you to do today. 
If you're taking note, stop 

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waiting for people to turn your 
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Stop waiting for people to turn 
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This is for you at this point in
time that we encourage ourselves

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in the Lord. 
The Lord strengthens and the 

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Lord transforms his people and 
it's all part of the story. 

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But you're responsible for your 
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You're responsible for your own 
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I love that David was not a 
victim to what he had been taken

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from. 
David did not live with this 

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victim mentality. 
There are a lot of people that 

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are getting involved in the 
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They live in this victimhood 
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Can I just define that for you 
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If you have a victim mentality, 
you will see your life entirely 

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through a perspective that 
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Victimization is thus a 
combination of seeing most 

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things in life as negative, 
beyond your control, and is 

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something you should been given 
sympathy for experiencing as you

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deserve better. 
At its heart, a victim mentality

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is actually a way to avoid 
taking any responsibility for 

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yourself or your life. 
By believing you have no power, 

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then you don't have to take any 
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Now there's a difference between
a victim mentality and someone 

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who is a victim. 
And there's some of you that 

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you've been a victim to very 
horrible and hard experiences, 

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abuse. 
You've been victim to things 

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that have happened in your life.
There are innocent victims that 

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it is condemned by God. 
If you want to read about it in 

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Zechariah Chapter 7 verses 9 
through 10 and in James chapter 

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2 verse 6, people can be 
innocent victims, but we can 

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suffer unjust evil at the hands 
of others. 

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But this is what I want you to 
be aware of, of moving from 

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being an innocent victim to 
adopting a victim mentality, the

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victim mentality. 
In the case of other victims, we

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should affirm the reality of 
their suffering, but there is 

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healing for what has happened 
and we can, much like David, 

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move forward in the light of 
everything that we have faced. 

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So what does it do when you live
in this victim mentality and you

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are stuck in a certain spot? 
Listen, I want you to write this

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down. 
This is important. 

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The Bible doesn't encourage A 
victim mentality. 

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The Bible doesn't encourage it. 
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reality, see the reality of 
innocent victims, it stops short

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of affirming A victim mentality.
We see this in the life of Jesus

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himself. 
If anyone had a right to adopt A

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victim mentality, blaming other 
people for their own unjust 

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suffering, it was Jesus. 
And yet, according to Scripture,

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Jesus didn't adopt any behavior 
consistent with a victim 

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mentality. 
Instead, in response to his 

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suffering, he had the mindset of
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Listen to this He endured 
faithfully as he saw the joy 

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that waited for him on the other
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And he actively trusted God 
throughout the ordeal, knowing 

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there was a purpose behind His 
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Furthermore, he lovingly 
suffered and bled for those who 

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victimized him. 
Even in the midst of His 

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suffering, he prayed the words 
of forgiveness. 

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In Luke 23, verse 34, the 
foremost victim of human 

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history, Jesus never adopted the
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Can you write this down? 
The victim mentality distorts 

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our view of reality. 
The victim mentality distorts 

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the view of reality. 
The victim mentality distorts 

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our view of reality. 
When we adopt A victim 

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mentality, we tend to see things
always through a negative lens. 

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We magnify the bad things that 
happened to us and attribute 

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them exclusively to people and 
forces outside of our control. 

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And we lose the perspective of 
our own reality of our life #3 

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the victim mentality. 
It binds us to our own sin, in 

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our own need of a savior #4A 
victim mentality will disempower

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you, and then it sucks the joy 
right out of your life. 

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And then the victim mentality 
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It damages relationships around 
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So notice what David does. 
David gets up from where he's 

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at. 
He inquires of the Lord. 

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The Lord says go, and David 
goes. 

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He lands himself, finding one of
the servants of the Amalekites. 

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That servant takes David and his
men to the Amalekites. 

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David recovers everything. 
Would David have recovered 

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everything if he still sat in 
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He moves forward in this 
process, and notice what happens

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in verse 21 of chapter 30. 
Now David came to the 200 men 

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who had been so weary that they 
could not follow David, whom 

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they also made to stay at the 
brook of bazaar. 

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So they went out to meet David 
and to meet the people who were 

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with him. 
And when David came near the 

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people, he greeted them. 
Then all the wicked and 

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00:32:21,800 --> 00:32:25,000
worthless men of those who went 
with David answered and said, 

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Because they did not go with us,
we will not give them any of the

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spoil that we have recovered, 
except for every man's wife and 

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children, that they may lead 
them away and depart. 

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00:32:37,560 --> 00:32:41,360
But David said, My brethren, you
shall not do so with what the 

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00:32:41,360 --> 00:32:44,840
Lord has given us, who has 
preserved us and delivered into 

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our hands the troop that came 
against us. 

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For who will heed you in this 
matter? 

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00:32:50,520 --> 00:32:55,000
But as his part is who goes down
to the battle, so shall his part

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00:32:55,000 --> 00:32:58,640
be who stays by the supplies 
they shall share alike. 

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00:32:58,840 --> 00:33:02,320
And so it was from that day 
forward he made it a statute in 

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an ordinance of Israel to this 
day. 

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Now when David came to Ziklag, 
he sent some of the spoil to the

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elders of Judah, to his friend, 
saying, here is a present for 

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you. 
From the spoil oil of the of the

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enemies of the Lord to those who
were in Bethel, those who were 

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in Ramoth of the South, those 
who were in Jatar, those who 

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were in AR, those who were in 
Sif Moth, those who were in 

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00:33:27,600 --> 00:33:31,640
Eshtimoa, those who were in 
Rakal, those who were in the 

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cities of the Jahamalites, those
who were in the cities of the 

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Canaanites and the flashlights 
and the parasites. 

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No, that's not in there. 
Those who were in Horma, those 

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00:33:41,080 --> 00:33:46,160
who were in Core Rashan, those 
who were in A, those who were in

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Hebron, into all the places 
where David himself and his men 

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were accustomed to Roe. 
What happened in David's 

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00:33:53,640 --> 00:34:01,160
transforming place of his life? 
This place of healing LED David 

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00:34:01,160 --> 00:34:05,840
to a place of generosity. 
And that's what happens when you

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00:34:05,840 --> 00:34:09,719
heal at the end you feel is the 
end of your story. 

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00:34:09,719 --> 00:34:14,120
It's just the bend is God takes 
what you have been clinching 

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00:34:14,120 --> 00:34:16,480
onto and he calls you to release
it. 

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00:34:16,719 --> 00:34:21,120
And he uses what you release to 
bless others around you. 

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00:34:22,360 --> 00:34:24,440
Notice David's at his lowest 
point. 

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00:34:24,800 --> 00:34:28,920
No, David is at his transforming
point. 

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00:34:29,120 --> 00:34:33,679
But notice this, The bend of the
story is even at the ending 

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point. 
Look at chapter 31. 

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So the Philistines fought 
against Israel, and the men of 

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Israel fled from before the 
Philistines and fell slain on 

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00:34:42,800 --> 00:34:45,400
Mount Gilboa. 
Then the Philistines followed 

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00:34:45,400 --> 00:34:49,239
hard after Saul and his sons, 
and the Philistines killed 

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00:34:49,960 --> 00:35:02,360
Jonathan Abinadab Malkaishua, 
Saul's sons, heartbroken, weary.

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00:35:03,200 --> 00:35:07,360
The battle in verse 3 became 
intense against Saul and The 

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00:35:07,360 --> 00:35:11,720
Archers hit him and he was 
severely wounded by The Archers.

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00:35:12,640 --> 00:35:15,800
Saul gets hit by an arrow. 
Then Saul said to his armor 

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00:35:15,800 --> 00:35:20,000
bearer, Draw your sword and 
thrust me through with it, lest 

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00:35:20,000 --> 00:35:24,280
these uncircumcised men come and
thrust me through and abuse me. 

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00:35:24,280 --> 00:35:27,320
But his armor bearer would not, 
for he was greatly afraid. 

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00:35:27,640 --> 00:35:30,960
Therefore, Saul took a sword and
he fell on it himself. 

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00:35:32,480 --> 00:35:36,120
Let's just end there. 
Is that horrible? 

505
00:35:37,200 --> 00:35:41,640
This is suicide. 
This is suicide. 

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00:35:42,720 --> 00:35:46,320
Saul gives up his life and ends 
his own life. 

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00:35:47,000 --> 00:35:49,880
And when his armor bearer saw 
that Saul was dead, he also fell

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00:35:49,880 --> 00:35:57,760
on his sword and died with him. 
So Saul has three sons, his 

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00:35:57,760 --> 00:36:00,240
armor bearer, and all his men 
died together that same day. 

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00:36:00,240 --> 00:36:02,600
And when the men of Israel who 
were on the other side of the 

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valley, and those who were on 
the other side of the Jordan, 

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00:36:05,200 --> 00:36:08,720
saw that the men of Israel had 
fled, that Saul and his sons 

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00:36:08,720 --> 00:36:11,280
were dead, they forsook the 
cities and fled. 

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00:36:11,560 --> 00:36:13,840
And the Philistines came and 
dwelt in them. 

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00:36:15,000 --> 00:36:18,360
Now the Philistines are 
inhabiting the same places that 

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00:36:18,360 --> 00:36:19,880
the children of Israel should be
living. 

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00:36:19,880 --> 00:36:23,720
So it came to pass the next day 
that when the Philistines came 

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00:36:24,560 --> 00:36:27,760
to strip the slain, that they 
found Saul and his three sons 

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00:36:27,760 --> 00:36:31,480
fallen on Mount Gilboa. 
And they cut off his head and 

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00:36:31,480 --> 00:36:34,800
stripped off his armor, and sent
word throughout the land of the 

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00:36:34,800 --> 00:36:38,120
Philistines to proclaim it in 
the temple of their idols and 

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00:36:38,120 --> 00:36:42,280
among the people. 
Then they put his armor in the 

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00:36:42,280 --> 00:36:46,320
temple of the Asterisks, and 
they fastened his body to the 

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00:36:46,320 --> 00:36:50,240
wall of Beth Shan. 
And when the inhabitants of 

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00:36:50,240 --> 00:36:54,600
Jabesh Ghalid heard what the 
Philistines had done to Saul, 

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00:36:54,600 --> 00:36:58,840
all the valiant men arose, 
traveled all night, and they 

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00:36:58,840 --> 00:37:03,160
took the body of Saul and the 
bodies of his sons from the wall

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00:37:03,160 --> 00:37:07,120
of Beth Shen, and they became or
they came to Jabesh and burned 

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00:37:07,120 --> 00:37:09,920
them there. 
And then they took their bones 

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00:37:09,920 --> 00:37:14,720
and buried them under the 
tamarisk tree at Jabesh and 

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00:37:14,720 --> 00:37:24,200
fasted 7 days. 
What a story, what a story. 

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00:37:24,880 --> 00:37:26,840
But this is where some of you 
are at today. 

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00:37:28,240 --> 00:37:32,840
They took the bones and they 
buried them under the tamarisk 

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00:37:33,040 --> 00:37:36,880
tree. 
All the things you've dreamed 

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00:37:36,880 --> 00:37:42,760
about are dead and now buried. 
Everything that you hoped for is

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00:37:42,760 --> 00:37:46,880
now dead and buried. 
Everything that you would plan 

537
00:37:46,880 --> 00:37:51,480
for in this Christmas is dead 
and buried. 

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00:37:52,240 --> 00:37:57,280
Every hurt that you're harboring
is now led to a life that seems 

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00:37:57,280 --> 00:38:01,640
to be dead and buried. 
Everything that you'd hope for, 

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00:38:01,640 --> 00:38:06,400
for work, seems like it's dead 
and buried. 

541
00:38:06,880 --> 00:38:08,840
But this is not the end of the 
story. 

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00:38:11,200 --> 00:38:14,840
It's not the end. 
This is not the end of the 

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00:38:14,840 --> 00:38:21,080
story. 
If you remember, Saul was the 

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00:38:21,880 --> 00:38:30,120
first king of Israel, but he 
wasn't the only king in Israel. 

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00:38:30,880 --> 00:38:37,600
You remember it was Saul then. 
OK, let me read it to you. 

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00:38:40,000 --> 00:38:46,200
King Saul leads into now if we 
get a little technical, a 

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00:38:46,200 --> 00:38:51,680
Shibasheth David and David 
bleeds into Solomon. 

548
00:38:51,680 --> 00:38:53,280
But this isn't the end of the 
story. 

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00:38:54,520 --> 00:39:01,080
King Rehoboam, King Abayaham, 
King ASA, King Jehoshaphat, King

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00:39:01,080 --> 00:39:07,920
Jehoram, King Azahiah, King 
Athaliah, King Joash, King Azah,

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00:39:08,200 --> 00:39:11,960
King Uzziah. 
You might remember him, the 

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00:39:11,960 --> 00:39:16,920
cousin to the prophet Isaiah, 
King Jotham, King Ahaz, King 

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00:39:16,920 --> 00:39:23,000
Hezekiah, King Manasseh, King 
Ammon, King Josiah, King Jehoaz,

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00:39:23,000 --> 00:39:30,240
King Johiah, Kim, Johiah Chin, 
and Zedekiah from the tribe of 

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00:39:30,240 --> 00:39:33,560
Judah. 
But there's another king coming 

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00:39:33,560 --> 00:39:40,440
from the line of Judah. 
There's another king coming from

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00:39:40,440 --> 00:39:45,320
the line of Judah. 
There was another king coming 

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00:39:45,320 --> 00:39:50,160
from the line of Judah. 
From the tribe of Judah, out 

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00:39:50,160 --> 00:39:54,000
would come one who would rule 
and reign with a scepter of 

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00:39:54,000 --> 00:39:58,280
righteousness. 
And although the serpent's head 

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00:39:58,280 --> 00:40:02,800
was crushed and the heel was 
bruised, out of Judah would come

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00:40:02,800 --> 00:40:05,680
one who would reign forever 
more. 

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00:40:06,440 --> 00:40:08,840
You see, this wasn't the end of 
the story. 

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00:40:08,840 --> 00:40:10,960
This was just the bend in the 
story. 

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00:40:11,560 --> 00:40:17,080
There's a king who is coming. 
Greater than David, has a 

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00:40:17,080 --> 00:40:20,120
greater word than the prophets, 
who is more majestic than the 

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00:40:20,120 --> 00:40:23,240
angels. 
He is the Word, and the Word 

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00:40:23,240 --> 00:40:27,400
became flesh and dwelt among us,
and we beheld His glory. 

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00:40:28,000 --> 00:40:30,560
The glory is the only begotten 
from the Father, full of grace 

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00:40:30,560 --> 00:40:34,320
and truth. 
There's a king who's coming and 

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00:40:34,320 --> 00:40:37,600
you might be looking at in your 
life just the end of your 

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00:40:37,600 --> 00:40:42,440
situation, but the end of your 
situation does not mean that the

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00:40:42,600 --> 00:40:50,200
this is the end of your story. 
There's a bend, and the bend led

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00:40:50,200 --> 00:40:56,760
me to rule or to the rule and 
bending my knee to Jesus Christ,

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00:40:57,240 --> 00:41:00,800
the King of kings, and he is the
Lord of Lords. 

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00:41:01,480 --> 00:41:04,320
So what does all this mean? 
What does all this mean? 

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00:41:05,040 --> 00:41:08,320
That means this. 
The story's not over. 

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00:41:09,640 --> 00:41:11,880
Let's validate some things. 
The story is hard. 

579
00:41:13,080 --> 00:41:14,440
Let's kind of validate some 
things. 

580
00:41:14,440 --> 00:41:17,680
You're angry in your story, 
you're hurt in your story, 

581
00:41:17,880 --> 00:41:22,960
you're frustrated in your story,
you're still in agony in your 

582
00:41:22,960 --> 00:41:25,680
story. 
But that does not mean that 

583
00:41:25,720 --> 00:41:29,960
Jesus does not rule over your 
story. 

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00:41:30,240 --> 00:41:36,480
And as First Samuel ends in 
chapter 31, I want to challenge 

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00:41:36,480 --> 00:41:42,480
you on this December the 7th to 
come and bring all of that to 

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00:41:42,480 --> 00:41:44,240
the King of Kings and the Lord 
of Lords. 

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00:41:47,080 --> 00:41:52,160
I want you to come and ask that 
the Lord would work and your 

588
00:41:52,160 --> 00:41:56,360
eyes would be open to see the 
beauty of Jesus. 

589
00:41:56,960 --> 00:42:01,600
Your ears would be attentive to 
the voice of Jesus, and your 

590
00:42:01,600 --> 00:42:04,200
heart would be aligned with the 
will of Jesus. 

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00:42:04,400 --> 00:42:07,640
He is king. 
It's not the end of your story. 

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00:42:08,800 --> 00:42:10,320
And can I just speak this over 
you? 

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00:42:10,720 --> 00:42:15,400
God is not finished with you, He
is faithful to you. 

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00:42:17,120 --> 00:42:19,720
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00:42:19,720 --> 00:42:21,880
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00:42:22,280 --> 00:42:24,280
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00:42:24,280 --> 00:42:26,920
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