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You're listening to the 
Bridgetown Church Podcast with 

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Pastor Casey Kendall, where our 
vision is Jesus, our mission is 

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people, and our cause is love. 
Thanks for tuning in. 

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Let's dive in. 
First Samuel chapter 28, great 

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to see all of you in the front 
row that normally aren't there. 

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Just want to say welcome to you 
and thank you for being here 

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this morning and First Samuel 
chapter 28 We had an amazing 

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time on Friday night at the 
Glendora Holiday Stroll. 

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We strolled around with the 
gospel of Jesus Christ. 

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I think we've talked to over 200
people with the gospel and about

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the gospel. 
We got to pray over people. 

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I know Dave was telling me 
stories of praying for healing 

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with some ladies that had 
cancer. 

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And man, it was such a sweet 
night. 

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And thank you for being involved
with that. 

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Make sure that you guys come to 
our parade. 

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We're going to be passing out 
more Flyers, more candy. 

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I know some of you've been 
coming up to me wondering like 

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on the flyer it looks like it's 
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that that's. 
So just know that on the flyer, 

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it's December 23rd. 
We're meeting for Christmas and 

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so with all that being said, 
just to clarify that as we reach

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out to people, invite your 
friends and family members to 

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this will be in first Samuel 
chapter 28 today. 

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If you have your Bible handy, 
and if you would follow along 

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with me in verse 6. 
And when Saul inquired of the 

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Lord, the Lord did not answer 
him, either by dreams or by Urim

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or by the prophets. 
And then Saul said to his 

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servant, Find me a woman who is 
a medium, that I may go to her 

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and inquire of her. 
And his servant said to him, in 

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fact, there is a woman who is a 
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This is not Star Wars. 
This is actually from the 

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Scripture and the title of the 
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If you have a neighbor sitting 
next to you, just say neighbor. 

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My neighbor. 
Call on me brother. 

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Yep, just say call on me brother
or call on your brother. 

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I don't know if you remember 
that song. 

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Just call on me, brother, when 
you need a hand. 

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We all need somebody to lean on.
I just might have a problem that

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you'd understand. 
We all need somebody to lean on.

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Lean on me. 
You remember that song, Some of 

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you don't. 
You're like, where's that coming

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from? 
Pastor Casey? 

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You were a little bit younger in
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I, I know the song, but I didn't
know the story of the song. 

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Written and released by Paul 
Withers in 1972. 

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Any 70s babies out there? 
All right, A few of us are still

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left in the, the, the crowd. 
I I as it was recorded on the 

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radio and as it was being sung, 
I I was reading the story behind

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this song and why Bill Withers 
actually wrote it. 

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He says that the story behind 
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the song, however, comes from 
the Deep South, he writes. 

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Withers said in this interview 
that he was driving through 

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rural Alabama in a car with 
tread worn tires when one of the

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tires blew. 
He was in the middle of nowhere 

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and he didn't have a spare. 
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stranded in the state where 
George Wallace was governor, Jim

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Crow laws and the attitudes were
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clashes were increasing in 
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He saw a large white man 
approaching him on the dusty Rd.

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The man look like someone right 
out of the movie Deliverance. 

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Naturally, Bill felt uneasy as 
the man lumbered toward him 

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closer and closer. 
And when he finally arrived, the

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conversation was brief as the 
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And then he said he would be 
right back without explanation. 

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Bill Withers didn't know the 
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expect next. 
He could do little but wait for 

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the man's return. 
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He was stuck. 
He was helpless. 

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After an anxious time, he saw 
the man trudging back over the 

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hill, and in his arms he was 
carrying a tire. 

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The man helped the singer put 
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Few words were spoken, but the 
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The generosity and kindness of a
strange man in the middle of 

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nowhere. 
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An act of love and kindness can 
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This experience inspired Bill 
Withers to pin these legendary 

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words. 
Just call on me, brother, when 

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you need a hand. 
In this moment, I think that the

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issue that we're in is not 
necessarily are we asking for 

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help, but what I want to get to 
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the help that is given. 
Because sometimes we are asking 

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for help that eventually hurts 
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a place where we run and we 
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hurry along. 
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answer to our questions is going
to be found in the anxiety that 

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we have. 
We often think that we're going 

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to work it out with all of this 
worry and what you are seeking 

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to lean on won't last long in 
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And I think many times what 
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to escalate in our own hearts. 
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panic we can produce a pathway 
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find that if we seek it that 
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is to pay. 
I think many times we can find 

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help in people, but also I think
there's many times when we're 

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calling on the wrong person or 
the wrong thing while we're 

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waiting for the right answer. 
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found yourself there where 
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waiting and it seems as if 
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yet from the Lord, and so you're
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your life to bring you an answer
that only God can bring you in 

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this moment. 
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people have done this. 
They've chosen their own pathway

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to peace. 
Eve did this with the fruit when

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she picked up the tree and she 
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said not to eat of. 
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he struck the rock because he 
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the Israelites to a halt. 
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he in his stubbornness, he ran 
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Peter did this even with his own
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that he would not deny him. 
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going to look at today, Saul 
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an answer. 
He calls on the wrong person to 

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bring him direction. 
Did you see this is the moment 

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that we looked at last week 
where we remember that David had

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made his way to the Philistines.
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to the Philistines, but now 
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Philistines against the 
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So all excuse me, all of the 
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surrounding the Israelites and 
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in a time where Saul the Bible 
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afraid and his heart trembled 
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Now normally what happens in 
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become greatly afraid and our 
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we begin to live like Mark 
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He said when we take things into
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take God out of the equation. 
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Jesus never said take control, 
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Solomon put it this way, trust 
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heart. 
Lean not on your own 

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understanding in all of your 
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Acknowledge Him and He will make
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I believe as we acknowledge the 
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protects, and He provides and He
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called to. 
But maybe for some of you today,

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you've been going through a 
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find yourself a lot like Saul. 
You find yourself waiting for an

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answer from God, but you are 
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the wrong places. 
Can I just walk you through the 

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process of how this oftentimes 
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Can I just walk you through the 
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happens? 
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If you're taking note, it begins
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Just put a number one and the 
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It begins with silence. 
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Saul in verse 6. 
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notice this, the Lord did not 
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Now what I want you to do is 
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Bible. 
The name Saul there means to ask

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for the nation of Israel. 
It's exactly what they're asking

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for now. 
The one who was asked for now 

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inquires of the Lord. 
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would the the word there inquire
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counsel. 
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he's begging the Lord Yahweh, 
the one who has absolute 

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authority, the one who has 
supreme strength and complete 

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control. 
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answer him. 
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Notice this, this word answer 
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Now notice the Lord did not 
answer or respond then the Urim.

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They would use stones to 
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That didn't direct Saul in that 
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And the prophets had no direct 
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It was as if the situation was a
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But I want to submit this to you
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Don't seek the hidden things in 
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not willing to obey the revealed
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Some of us are asking God to 
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Should we go to this college? 
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Should we take this job? 
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obey the will of God That's 
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How can we expect God to answer 
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unwilling to take what God has 
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of the prophet and obey fully 
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That the Lord did not respond in
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He didn't respond in the Urim, 
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priest, and he didn't respond 
through the prophets. 

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Sometimes in our lives, it's as 
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Saints on earth. 
Sometimes it feels as if your 

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prayers are hitting the ceiling 
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at you and this is what happens.
I think a lot like the King Saul

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is, is we seek to escape and 
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that which will bring an 
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Did you see it just starts by 
silence, But I want you to write

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this down. 
If you take note, God's silence 

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doesn't equal his absence. 
God is still on the throne. 

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God is still ruling. 
He's still reigning. 

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Here is the issue. 
The issue is often times because

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we cannot see Him or we cannot 
fully view what He is doing, we 

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begin to seek the control of 
what we think will best work in 

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the moment. 
Do you see there are moments 

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where earth feels like it's 
chaotic this morning and heaven 

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seems silent? 
And it's in these we can catch 

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ourselves running into the 
future where fear is the main 

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focus and our impending doom. 
And then we try to make choices 

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that would steer us away from 
the future because we're 

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obsessing about the future. 
We don't even live in the 

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present moment of today, but we 
cannot control tomorrow. 

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All we can control is the moment
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And the silence for Saul was a 
result of his sin. 

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But that's not always the case 
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Sometimes God seems silent, not 
because your sin, but because of

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the storm and the struggle. 
And sometimes in this moment we 

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have to pay attention to what 
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I don't know if you've ever been
to the Midwest, but in the 

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Midwest they send out these 
sirens when the sky begins to 

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get a little bit black, grey. 
There's certain moments when we 

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were in Missouri with our 
friends years ago and we were 

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speaking at a camp there and my 
wife was with the other wife, 

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the pastor's wife, and, and they
were on the dock, the kids were 

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swimming. 
And then all of the sudden she 

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said the wife said, we need to 
go and we need to go now. 

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We're from California. 
We're like, we've been through 

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earthquakes and she's all, no, 
we need to go now. 

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And I think there's moments 
where God is saying this is the 

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time now and we delay in our 
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think that our timeline is 
better than the Lord's timeline.

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But here's what Saul would 
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Is it delayed obedience is 
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The silence came because he was 
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But maybe for you, it's coming 
because of the storm that you're

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in and the struggle that you're 
battling, and you just feel like

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it is silence. 
Silent. 

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Can I just give you some things 
to hold on to in this moment 

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where it just feels silent? 
The back row, OK, anybody in the

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front row would receive this 
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Listen, here we go. 
You ready? 

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If you feel like heaven is 
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to realize. 
God does not always reveal his 

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plan. 
He reveals himself. 

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God does not always reveal the 
plan, but He does reveal 

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Himself. 
Can you write this down if 

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you're taking note today? 
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Except mystery without anxiety. 
Except the mystery without the 

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anxiety. 
So we're going to understand 

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that God doesn't always reveal 
His plan, but He does reveal 

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Himself. 
We're going to accept mystery 

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that we don't have all the 
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are going to understand that we 
could do this waiting without 

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anxiety. 
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If you would trust in the dark 
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the light. 
So trust in the darkness what 

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God has already spoken to you in
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This will help you take the word
of God and apply it to the way 

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of God. 
That will keep you from worrying

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about if God's really in it. 
OK, we're not. 

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We're a little tired. 
We haven't even had Turkey this 

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morning. 
That this is silence. 

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Silence has filled the air. 
In the silence, the process goes

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down till we begin to settle. 
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silent. 
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Now notice what happens with 
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Then Saul said to his servants, 
find me a woman. 

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Find me a woman who is a medium.
Now. 

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Now, if you could just write 
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Stop settling for a medium when 
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look at this. 
Look at this. 

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This is so important. 
Did you guys get that? 

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OK that I may go to her and 
inquire of her now. 

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A medium with someone who would 
do seances. 

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A seance they say is someone who
can bring up the dead. 

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Seances are demonic. 
Tarot cards are demonic. 

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Ouija boards are demonic. 
You should not be fooling around

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with that stuff as a Christian. 
You shouldn't be going to your 

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friends and putting your hand on
the thing saying OK direct me to

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this answer that that is 
demonic. 

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You are entering into a realm as
a Christian that you should not 

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enter into. 
Demons are real, angels are 

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real, Satan is real, God is 
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real, and there are demonic 
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emulate what God does. 
God directs, God brings the 

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answer. 
But now Saul is seeking a woman 

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who is a medium and he says, I 
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her. 
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fact there is a woman who is a 
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happens. 
He settles for AI when God is 

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given his image, He settles for 
that which would bring the 

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immediate answer. 
It is the quick way to get it. 

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And and in this time it's 
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Saul in previous chapters and 
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mediums, but now in the moment 
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one. 
You see what happens, what 

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happens is this often times in 
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we go back to what is familiar 
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We go back to that which is 
familiar rather than that which 

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is free. 
So you're single in here. 

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And you're thinking to yourself,
well, I know what I actually, I 

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need to do. 
I actually, I need to find a 

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boyfriend. 
I need to find a girlfriend. 

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Now I'm new in Jesus. 
I'm following Jesus, I'm born 

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again. 
I'm filled with the Spirit of 

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God. 
I have the fruit of the Spirit, 

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I have the gifts of the Spirit. 
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We've looked and looked and 
looked and looked and because we

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can't find that girl or that guy
now, we go back to Tinder. 

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You go back to Hinge, you go 
back to the club, you're like 30

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something. 
You're still dropping it like 

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it's hot. 
It's like, come on, We go back 

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to the drug. 
That would calm our hearts down.

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This is what I hear from 
Christians a lot. 

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Well, I got to have that drink 
to actually calm me down. 

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It's interesting. 
When it comes to the things that

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are familiar to us, we often 
choose what's familiar rather 

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than what is freeing us because 
we go back to old ways of 

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escaping the experience that we 
find ourselves in. 

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And we settle. 
We settle for what we call in 

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our lives, a liberty. 
But it doesn't bring any freedom

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at all to you. 
It actually still binds you to 

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the one thing that you feel like
you're depending on over and 

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over again. 
We go back to these old pathways

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to bring new peace and it just 
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And so we have the silence and 
then we begin to settle in our 

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lives and in the is settling. 
The emphasis is on escaping 

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rather than entering into what 
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And so this is what we often 
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We are looking for comfort and 
we find ourselves in a comfort 

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trap. 
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quick for us, a lot like Saul, 
we're going to the medium to 

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find the answer. 
Now we're not, I don't think you

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are going to mediums right now. 
But let me ask you a question. 

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If we were to leave that blank, 
find a woman who is a what do 

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you go back to to find some 
source of peace in your life and

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in your heart? 
Listen please, if you would. 

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We find ourselves in this 
comfort trap and we settle for 

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cheap, quick comfort that 
doesn't last long. 

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Can you write this down that 
what's familiar is not better, 

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it often times becomes a 
barrier. 

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What's familiar is not better. 
It often becomes a barrier 

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between you and God. 
And this is what happens is that

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God's best always requires 
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And that becomes something in my
life that becomes uncomfortable.

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Now, if you're in a play, a 
place where you're waiting for 

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something to happen and you have
silence and you feel like you're

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settling, can I just remind you 
and encourage you today that the

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love of God wants what's best 
for you. 

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The love of God wants what's 
best for you. 

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Praise God, you didn't get that 
girl if you saw her 30 years 

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from now, praise God. 
You didn't get that guy if you 

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knew who he was 30 years from 
now, God's actually protecting 

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you. 
Praise God. 

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You didn't get that job. 
Praise God, you didn't go in 

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that direction. 
God is actually protecting you. 

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Can you write this down that the
wisdom of God knows what's best 

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for you? 
If the love of God wants what's 

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best for you, the wisdom of God 
knows what's best for you. 

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And write this down. 
The power of God will accomplish

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what's best for you. 
This is true of your life. 

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It's true of Saul's life. 
I love what AW Tozer once said. 

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He said outside of the will of 
God, there's nothing I want. 

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Inside the will of God, there's 
nothing I fear, there's silence.

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Then we begin to settle in our 
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notice. 
Notice this about Saul, if you 

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would follow the story, Saul 
disguised himself and put on 

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other clothes. 
So he comes into church like or 

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he comes into the medium like. 
We come into church, we disguise

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ourselves. 
We're not real, not really 

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hurting. 
I'm not really broken. 

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I'm not. 
We cover. 

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He put on other clothes and he 
went and two men with him and 

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they came to the woman by night 
and he said please conduct A 

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seance for me. 
Chosen by God, empowered by God,

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anointed by God. 
Now he says, can you do a seance

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for me? 
We're one step away from evil, 

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and bring up for me the one I 
shall name to you. 

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Then the woman said to him, 
Look, you know what Saul has 

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done, how he has cut off the 
mediums, and the Spirit is from 

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the land. 
Why then do you lay a snare for 

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my life to cause me to die? 
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Lord, saying, As the Lord lives,
no punishment shall come upon 

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you for this thing. 
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shall I bring up for you? 
And he said, Bring up Samuel. 

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Samuel was his mentor. 
Samuel anointed him. 

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Samuel was called by God to 
choose him. 

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I want that guy back in my life.
The woman saw Samuel and she 

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cried out with a loud voice. 
And the woman spoke to Saul 

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saying, why have you deceived 
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For you are Saul. 
Interesting. 

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That woman who is calling up 
demonic forces calls Saul out 

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and Saul doesn't call her out. 
And the king said to her, do not

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be afraid, what did you see? 
And the woman said to Saul, I 

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saw a spirit ascending out of 
the earth. 

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And so he said to her, what is 
his form? 

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And he said, an old man is 
coming up and he is covered with

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a mantle. 
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Samuel, and he stooped with his 
face to the ground, and he bowed

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down. 
Now what Saul does is he has 

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silence. 
They're settling now. 

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He's beginning to seek the 
answer himself, seeking the 

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answer himself. 
He begins to in this moment, he 

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disguises himself. 
He gives this woman an empty 

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promise, and then they bring 
back the dead and he's left 

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distressed. 
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There are different commentators
that say different things about 

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this portion of Scripture. 
Some people say that this was a 

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demon. 
Some people actually say this 

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was Samuel. 
Whatever it is, it's demonic. 

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It's demonic. 
And Saul begins to seek this out

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in his own way with his own 
answer. 

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And this is what happens in 
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Now Samuel said to Saul, why 
have you disturbed me by 

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bringing me up? 
And Saul answered, I'm deeply 

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distressed, for the Philistines 
make war against me, and God has

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departed from me and does not 
answer me anymore, neither by 

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prophets nor by dreams. 
Therefore I have called you that

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you may reveal to me what I 
should do. 

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And then Samuel said, Why then 
do you ask me, seeing the Lord 

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has departed from you and has 
become your enemy, and the Lord 

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has done for himself as he spoke
by me? 

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For the Lord has torn the 
Kingdom out of your hand and 

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given it to your neighbor, 
namely David. 

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So whether this is Samuel or 
not, it is either a great 

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imitation or the Lord again 
speaks through Samuel even 

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though he is dead on earth. 
Wild story. 

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Saul disobeys God's law, he's 
desperate in fear, he rejects 

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God's will, and he seeks to use 
God and not really live for God.

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And I think sometimes in our 
lives, when we feel like we're 

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waiting for something to happen,
at some point, the silence leads

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to settling and the settling 
leads to seeking things in our 

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own way, and we begin to use God
instead of living for God. 

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And this is what ultimately 
happens in your life. 

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You lose all of the strength of 
your life. 

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And he says this in verse 19. 
Moreover, the Lord will also 

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deliver Israel with you into the
hand of the Philistines. 

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And tomorrow you and your sons 
will be with me, and the Lord 

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will also deliver the army of 
Israel into the hand of the 

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Philistines. 
Then immediately Saul fell full 

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length on the ground and was 
dreadfully afraid because the 

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words of Samuel, and there was 
no strength in him, for he had 

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eaten no food all day or all 
night. 

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And the woman came to saw, and 
saw that he was severely 

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troubled, and said to him, Look,
your maidservant has obeyed your

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voice, and I've put my life in 
my hands and heeded the words 

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which you spoke to me. 
Now therefore, please heed also 

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the voice of your maidservant, 
and let me set a piece of bread 

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before you notice Saul cannot 
even get up. 

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He's on the ground laying down. 
And the medium comes to Saul and

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says, here is some bread. 
She begins to feed him. 

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But he refused in verse 23 and 
said, I will not eat. 

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But his servants together with a
woman urged him, and he heeded 

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their voice. 
So he arose from the ground and 

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sat on the bed. 
Now the woman had a fatted calf 

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in the house, and she hastened 
to kill it, And she took flour 

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and eated it, and baked 
unleavened bread from it. 

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And so she brought it before 
Saul and his servants, and they 

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ate, and they arose and went 
away that night. 

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Not only does Saul seek it in 
his own answers, but he has no 

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strength, and he sits at the 
enemy's table. 

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I wonder this morning who you 
might be calling on in the 

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moment that you are in. 
And here's what I want to ask 

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you as you as we close and wrap 
this up together as the worship 

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team comes up and that is this. 
I want you to answer some 

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questions and the questions 
you're not going to answer out 

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loud. 
I don't want you to. 

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You don't have to in your circle
at this Friendsgiving, go. 

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Hey, Pastor Casey asked this 
question. 

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I want to tell you my answer 
unless you really want to. 

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No pressure. 
How long have you been waiting 

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for God to answer that prayer? 
How long have you been waiting 

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for God to answer that prayer? 
How long have you been waiting 

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for God to answer that prayer? 
Second, a question that I want 

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to pose to you today and that is
this not just how long do you 

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believe that God can answer that
prayer in His timing? 

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3rd question, you ready? 
Third question, Where do you 

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find your peace while you wait? 
Where do you find your peace 

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while you wait? 
Where do you find your peace 

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while you wait? 
Last question, Are you willing 

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to wait God's way? 
Are you willing to wait God's 

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way? 
Here's waiting. 

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Waiting on God is not laziness, 
G Campbell Morgan wrote. 

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Waiting on God is not the 
abandonment of effort. 

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Waiting on God is, G Campbell 
Morgan wrote. 

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Activity under command. 
He goes on to say that waiting 

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on God is the ability to do 
nothing until the command is 

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given. 
And in that God will always 

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provide a way. 
And I just want to challenge and

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encourage you today that in that
way, maybe you've been waiting 

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for this to happen at some time 
that heaven feels silent, that 

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you've begin to settle, you've 
begin to seek things in your own

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way, and you've lost strength. 
Let's just come back to the 

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Lord. 
Let's just ask Him to strengthen

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us for what is ahead and what He
desires to do. 

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We hope you enjoyed this message
and we'd love for you to join us

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AM. 

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updates, visit 

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Thanks for tuning in and we'll 

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see you next week.
