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Well, hey everybody, welcome to 
STRONGER Weekly, brought to you 

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by Purest Nutrition. 
I'm your host, Jesse Carajet. 

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Thanks for joining us today. 
I've got a great episode lined 

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up for you. 
Kaylin Pete, the program 

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specialist and spokesperson for 
the Family Online Safety 

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Institute, joins us to talk all 
things technology, social media,

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AI through the lens of 
parenting. 

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How do we make sure we're 
communicating and educating our 

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kids around this technology, 
putting up guard rails to make 

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sure that they're using them 
safely, and having ongoing 

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conversations to ensure that 
we're keeping our kids safe 

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online. 
This is a continuation from last

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week's episode where we unpacked
the massive lawsuit that 

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actually found tech platforms 
liable for creating addictive 

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platforms that hook people and 
eventually could harm them, 

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especially kids. 
So it was a great conversation. 

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I think you're going to learn a 
lot about the big picture of 

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what's happening, but also get 
some practical tools and steps 

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as a parent or anyone really, to
make sure that everyone is using

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this technology safely. 
It is a very important topic 

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right now, and I'm so glad that 
Caitlin joined the show. 

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So she's going to join us here. 
But as we always do, we're first

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going to jump into the health 
and fitness headlines. 

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Of the week. 
Let's dive in. 

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First up folks, What? 
If a few minutes of harder 

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exercise could be even more 
impactful than longer durations 

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of easy and moderate exercise, 
well, a new study says that it 

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just might. 
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Published in the European Heart 
Journal, researchers tracked 

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nearly 96,000 people using wrist
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And they compare the total 
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of which was what is called 
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And the results, People who did 
more vigorous activity, even 

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just shorter bursts like running
for the bus, had substantially 

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lower risks of heart disease, 
stroke, type 2 diabetes, 

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dementia, arthritis, chronic 
kidney disease, liver disease 

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and respiratory disease. 
So basically all the worst 

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things in the world that you 
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And the key finding, it's not 
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total, it's about how hard you 
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So intensity does matters. 
So take away if you're currently

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walking, try to throw in some 
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If you're cycling, throw in some
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If you're not doing anything 
rigorous at all, start to do it 

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because quality of the work is 
more important than the quantity

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of the work. 
Next up, if you've ever felt 

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like your BMI, your body mass 
index does not tell the whole 

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story of your health, new 
research says you might be 

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right. 
And this is something that I've 

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always noticed. 
My BMI, I don't know, it's like 

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2324. 
I'm supposed to be obese and I 

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am not, doesn't make sense to 
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So a new study to be presented 
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Obesity used DXA. 
DEXA scans, the gold standard 

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for measuring body fat, to 
compare actual body composition 

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with BMI classification. 
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They found that more than 1/3 of
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weight category based on those 
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So amongst those labeled obese 
by BMI standards, 34% should 

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have been classified as 
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Amongst those labeled 
overweight, more than half were 

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reclassified, most of them to 
normal weight and in the 

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underweight category, nearly 70%
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So lead author Professor Marwyn 
L Goach put it simply quote a 

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large proportion of individuals 
are misclassified when relying 

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on the traditional BMI 
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So the take away BMI is a rough 
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It is not a diagnosis. 
Measures like waist 

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circumference or body fat 
percentage give a more complete 

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picture of your health. 
Guys, let's talk about 

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supplements real quick. 
There's so many options out 

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there. 
It is so important to find a 

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supplement company that focuses 
on quality ingredients. 

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They give you what you need and 
none of the junk that you don't.

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Which is why Purest Nutrition is
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their pre workout supplement. 
Guys, you got to try this. 

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I've taken every pre workout 
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that I've been lifting. 
I've taken junk. 

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I never really cared about the 
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Sometimes that leaves me feeling
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That's why purist pre workout is
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Not only does it have the things
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workout, things like caffeine, 
things like B vitamins, but it's

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also got nootropics, things like
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help counterbalance the up so 
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You have a great workout, but 
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nonsense, none of the artificial
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And I pair that with their 
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flavor and I love that. 
I love the Peach mango flavor. 

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I can put them both together, 10
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strength and the nootropic 
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got an awesome workout. 
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creatine and their pre workout. 
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purestnutrition.com. 
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nutrition.com to shop all of 
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I couldn't recommend it more. 
Again, that's Purest 

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nutrition.com. 
You got to try their pre workout

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and their creatine. 
Next up, got some news on 

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peptides. 
If you follow fitness or 

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longevity circles or news, 
you've probably heard of 

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peptides. 
They are compounds like BPC 157,

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IPA, Morolin and Motcs. 
Don't worry, you don't have to 

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know what that is that people 
are using for things like tissue

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repair, fat loss and anti aging.
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mental health I've heard as 
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Well, right now most of them are
not FDA approved and compounding

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pharmacies aren't allowed to 
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soon. 
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Junior said in February, he 
expected the FDA to reclassify 

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about 14 peptides within just 
weeks, opening the door for 

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compounding pharmacies to 
produce them legally a month 

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later. 
From then, no action had been 

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taking. 
The Wellness world is watching 

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clearly. 
And if you're an investor, you 

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should probably be watching 
clearly as well. 

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So the case for the change, why 
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Right now? 
People are buying peptides from 

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overseas or Gray market websites
selling quote, UN quote, 

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research grade products that 
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And the black market and the 
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That's a quote, said Scott 
Brunner of the Alliance for 

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Pharmacy Compounding. 
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Most of these compounds haven't 
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humans. 
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trials, we don't even know if 
they can cause terrible things 

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like liver damage, immune 
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literally like disease, physical
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So for now, it's something to 
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If you're currently using 
peptides, please make sure you 

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are doing that under the 
guidance of a doctor. 

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You're fully vetting where 
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justice be careful until our FDA
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chance to kind of vet put a 
process in place to make it safe

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and accessible for everybody. 
Next up, added to the rando file

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here. 
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diagnostic testing for more than
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including things like rabies, 
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infections. 
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a routine quality review and 
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the coming weeks. 
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significant staffing cuts. 
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25% of its entire workforce over
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The pox virus and rabies labs 
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staff, so it could be a 
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So some of the pause tests are 
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labs, but others, especially for
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expertise. 
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Association of Public Health 
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quote concerning only if it's 
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State labs in New York and 
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the slack, but not every state 
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So interesting move here by the 
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And last up, folks, let's talk 
about fraud, particularly in the

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state of California and perhaps 
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Federal officials have arrested 
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California this week in a $50 
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most of it involving fake 
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So more on that. 
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facilities in the Los Angeles 
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patients who are not terminally 
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Hospice services in the 1st 
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One pair of providers allegedly 
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patients $300 a month to sign up
for Hospice care that they don't

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even need. 
In other words, they're not 

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expected to die anytime soon. 
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for reimbursement. 
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One facility had a survival rate
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almost no one died. 
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context, in legitimate Hospice 
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typically closer to about 80%. 
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said the agency has already 
suspended 221 hospices in the 

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state of California in the last 
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every Hospice in the state. 
Get em. 

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It's a reminder fraud in 
healthcare does not just waste 

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taxpayer money. 
It undermines care for the 

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people who actually need it. 
I, I hate this stuff when I hear

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the people who are doing this, 
this is taxpayer dollars and 

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people need it. 
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need the support. 
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financial predators that are out
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jump in and take advantage of 
that system, diverting the 

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actual care from people who need
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And it's disgusting. 
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It does real harm. 
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is focusing on this in 
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it throughout the country. 
So power to them. 

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All right, folks. 
And that's it for our Health and

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Fitness News of the WEEK. 
Caitlin, welcome to the show. 

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Thanks for coming. 
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Excited to speak with you. 

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Yeah, the pleasure is all mine. 
Very, very timely topic we're 

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going to discuss here. 
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like all over the country, given
the news lately in the world of 

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social media and AI, are just 
kind of like looking for tips 

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and guidance on how to kind of 
manage this thing, especially 

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with their kids. 
But let's start here. 

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For people who don't know the 
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AKA FOCI, can you just give an 
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So here if OC, we're A5O1C3, so 
we're a non profit and our goal 

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is just to make the world safer 
for kids and their families. 

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So what's really special about 
our work is we kind of have 

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three PS in which we do this, 
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parenting. 
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of sit at the intersection of 
parents, educators, tech 

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companies, industry and policy 
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do we tackle these issues. 
You know that as you spoke to 

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earlier, everyone's kind of 
struggling with at the moment. 

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Yeah, and how long has Fosi been
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Fosi's been around for 20 years,
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going to have our 20th kind of 
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celebrate 20 years of online 
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Wow, congratulations. 
How did it start and who started

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it? 
Yeah, it. 

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Was started by Steven Bolcombe 
If you were kind of in the 

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online safety space or have 
heard about it, he is kind of 

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one of The Pioneers. 
He in the early 2000s at the 

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start of, you know, the web one 
point O realized that this web 

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world as we know it is 
progressing and there's a big 

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gap for kids specifically and 
how to make sure that they're 

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safe and supported. 
And so he created the family 

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online Safety Institute. 
We've been growing ever since. 

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Wow, shout out to him. 
He saw he saw a need a long time

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ago and we're starting to 
realize now like, whoa, we, we 

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need some help guidance here. 
You mentioned partner with tech 

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companies. 
I know from doing some research,

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Apple, Google, TikTok, Roblox, I
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is, but what is what is that 
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How does foci kind of lean in 
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they're putting in some 
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Yeah. 
Absolutely. 

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I think just to kind of before I
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that, you know, sometimes when 
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kind of working with tech, you 
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alarm. 
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important to note that, you 
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the ones that are making these 
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that children use. 
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figuring out when we're working 
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these gaps and how can they make
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support younger kids. 
And, you know, how can we do 

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product testing to make sure 
that before a new piece of 

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technology comes out that it's 
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gaps that could potentially hurt
younger kids, teens or families.

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So definitely, definitely a big 
and good collaboration. 

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Got it. 
Now, does Fosi reach out to them

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or do they reach out to you for 
that guidance? 

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Usually it's both. 
So when, for example, if a tech 

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company is releasing best 
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usually reach out to us and 
we'll proactively work with them

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to figure out, OK, you know, 
what are the goals here? 

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What are we missing? 
How can we make this better? 

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Reversely, if if they don't 
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something and we're like, you 
know, you guys can do better, 

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right? 
Then we're kind of proactively 

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going to them and figuring out, 
you know, let's take this back a

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step and figure out how can we 
improve this so that families 

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are better supported. 
Got it, got it. 

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And then kind of like back to 
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mechanically like So what does 
that partnership look like once 

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you're engaged with them? 
Do you have team members that 

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kind of consult, embed 
themselves, meet with them 

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regularly? 
Just kind of unpack that if you 

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could, Yeah. 
Absolutely. 

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So kind of going back to our 
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that Foci are parenting, which I
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then we have our practice team. 
And so each of us do regular 

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check insurance with members to 
support them on each of these 

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pillars, depending where they 
need help. 

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You know, recently there's been 
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kind of in federal legislative 
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support members. 
But conversely, you know, if if 

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a member is creating, you know, 
a new resource for parents or 

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maybe they want to do a webinar,
then, you know, I would reach 

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out and figure out how we can 
best support them. 

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So we try to make it very 
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high level, but it's very niche 
and stuff that can be kind of 

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directly inputted into their 
work. 

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Yeah. 
And you mentioned you mentioned 

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policy lately. 
So let's let's move there. 

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Of course, there was this, 
they're calling it watershed, 

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you know, trial in California. 
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me here as I try to summarize 
for the audience if they're 

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they're not aware, but for a 
while now, and these are this is

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how I would phrase it, social 
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towards the the issue of kids 
getting addicted. 

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People get addicted is, hey, 
look, we made the platform. 

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We're not responsible for what's
on it and what happens. 

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And you jump in and correct me 
if, if I'm miscategorizing 

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anything, right? 
But this, this so far, so good. 

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So the trial last week, 
essentially the a jury found 

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that the platforms are 
responsible in that they've 

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designed it in such a way that 
the platform itself uses 

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addictive features that then 
hook the people on the contents.

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Am I still accurate? 
Yeah, which which people are 

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thinking is going to unlock now 
that they were found guilty of 

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that many, many copycat lawsuits
and in fact over 2000 are 

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already kind of pending. 
Little diatribe here, but I've 

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noticed I'm getting served ads 
on my own Instagram from legal 

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firms who are like kind of 
looking for people to bring 

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those cases. 
I know that Met in particular 

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has laid off and fired hundreds 
and hundreds of employees in 

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anticipation of more lawsuits. 
And that's all context to kind 

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of just ask you if you can just 
give your thoughts or unpack 

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like what happened last week and
what we might expect going 

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forward, especially in the world
of social media specifically. 

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Yeah. 
Absolutely. 

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You know, it's funny that you 
mentioned those ads because 

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since last week I've also 
started to get those on my book 

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and Instagram. 
So, you know, maybe they're 

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talking everywhere. 
Yeah, but to be just very 

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specific. 
So Meta and YouTube were found 

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liable for addictive product 
designs that specifically caused

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emotional distress to a user. 
And so this is really important 

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because from a legal 
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happened before. 
It it's important to give it 

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context that this is just one 
trial on behalf of one person. 

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But like you said it, it kind of
represents a shift and that, you

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know, social media companies and
just tech industry in general 

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can start to be legally liable 
for, you know, the harms that 

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are potentially caused to their 
users. 

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So prior to this, you know, we 
didn't see this because there 

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are certain pieces of 
legislation in the US that 

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sometimes protect industry from 
what's on their platforms. 

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As you spoke to earlier, that's 
kind of the position of, you 

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know, we created this, but we're
there's a disconnect on kind of 

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the direct impacts of what 
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created. 
And now there's kind of more of 

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a connect and what a user 
experiences and how that impacts

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their health specifically, you 
know, mental health, physical 

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health, and, you know, anything 
along the lines of that. 

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Yeah, and my, my guess here is 
now more than ever, those tech 

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companies are going to need the 
help of Foci and others. 

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I've got 3 kids and two jobs. 

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And I, I also know that there 

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are some countries across the 
world who are kind of ahead of 

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us addressing the issue of what 
to do with this social media 

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thing. 
Countries like Australia that 

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have actually they have social 
media bands. 

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I, I, I think for Australia it 
might be 16 and younger. 

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There's other countries up to 
18. 

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Do you, in your opinion, if you 
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that that's where we're heading 
in America I. 

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Don't believe so. 
I think that there's a lot of 

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moving pieces in the US 
specifically. 

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So it's kind of a unique case 
study where we see a bit of a 

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patchwork in terms of what 
states are doing versus what's 

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happening at the federal level. 
So the federal level, of course,

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is moving very, very slowly, and
states are kind of creating 

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different laws and pieces of 
legislation to make sure that 

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users are more protected. 
But there's nothing signaling a 

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nationwide ban that would pass 
in the US kind of anytime soon. 

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You know, from Fosi's 
perspective, we think that bans 

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in some circumstances can be a 
bit harmful because a blanket 

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ban doesn't take into account, 
you know, the individual needs 

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of kids or the families or even 
kind of the state. 

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We think that have targeted and 
thoughtful restrictions are more

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balanced way to approach that 
instead of just, you know, 

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slapping a ban on something and 
kind of moving on. 

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Two follow up questions there. 
We'll start with the you said 

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targeted and thoughtful is. 
It possible? 

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Let's. 
Just say hypothetically US did 

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want to ban access to social 
media. 

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Is it? 
Possible. 

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Do we have the technology to 
target it in such a way that we 

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can prevent kiddos and teenagers
from getting on platforms? 

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Yeah. 
I mean, I think that that opens 

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the door to another larger 
question, which is age 

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assurance, right? 
And so I think even in Australia

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and some of the EU countries 
that have thought about bans and

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have enacted them, you know, age
assurance by definition is how 

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technology companies figure out 
how old a user is. 

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And so some of these ways can 
be, you know, you just 

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inputting, you know, I was born 
in 1970, right? 

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So they kind of take that at 
face value. 

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And you were, you know, 50 years
old. 

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Other forms of age assurance are
they're sometimes facial 

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indicators. 
So you know when you use an 

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iPhone, you have kind of the 
face Idi don't know if you've 

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ever used that before. 
And in this instance it would 

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use your face and estimate your 
age. 

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There's also Google has a kind 
of a cool thing where you self 

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declare so you input your age 
manually and based off of your 

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Google searches and your habits,
it makes a further indication if

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that age is accurate. 
So back to your question, I I 

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think that countries are 
struggling to figure out which 

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form of age assurance would be 
the best while also balancing 

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those kind of privacy concerns 
because users aren't jumping at 

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the opportunity to provide more 
information about themselves to 

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tech companies and not 
necessarily knowing where their 

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data is going. 
So that makes it a bit hard to 

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do it to do a ban. 
Got it. 

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And then my other, my other 
follow up question is that when 

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you in your answer there, you 
said it could be harmful to, to 

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ban kids or, you know, teenagers
from social media. 

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What would be harmful about 
that? 

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What, what, what? 
What about Removing that access 

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could negatively impact their 
life. 

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Yeah, absolutely. 
You know, I think that sometimes

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we don't give kids enough 
credit. 

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You know, I think that there is 
an implication that sometimes 

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kids go on social media and 
they're just kind of doom 

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scrolling and it's a completely 
negative experience. 

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But we actually did some 
research that was released in 

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December that said a majority of
kids use social media for 

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connection. 
There's also a large portion of 

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children that use social media 
to explore identities. 

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So, you know, those belonging to
the LGBTQ plus community. 

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So when you're removing this 
kind of digital world that 

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they've grown up in, it kind of 
makes them not only lose 

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connections, it prevents them 
from learning more about 

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themselves as they develop. 
And they kind of are hit with a 

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brick wall. 
So you take this away and 

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there's nothing to replace it. 
So, So what? 

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What do kids do you know? 
Yeah, yeah. 

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I mean, I, I suppose for that 
population, what would they do? 

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They would probably feel more 
isolated and alone in the world 

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with what they're dealing with. 
And I get that. 

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I totally get that. 
I think what it would probably 

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come down to is a is a cost 
benefit analysis, right? 

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If you remove something which is
more important, right, What you 

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lose or, or what not. 
And, and I'm focusing a lot here

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on like the social media that I 
think most people are accustomed

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to. 
But I know that you work with 

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other types of tech companies. 
I mentioned Google, I mentioned 

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Apple and Roblox. 
What kind of work are you doing 

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with those types of 
organizations? 

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So. 
Google, for example, we have 

457
00:22:56,120 --> 00:22:59,840
been working with them a lot on 
AI, which is as you spoke to 

458
00:22:59,840 --> 00:23:02,760
earlier, kind of the new buzz 
worthy thing that everyone is 

459
00:23:02,760 --> 00:23:05,600
trying to deal with. 
So just figuring out how them 

460
00:23:05,600 --> 00:23:08,560
and some of our other members 
like Entropic, making sure that 

461
00:23:08,560 --> 00:23:12,840
their rental controls and that 
their AI is is safe for someone 

462
00:23:12,840 --> 00:23:14,680
like Roblox. 
You know, that's a bit of a 

463
00:23:14,680 --> 00:23:17,400
unique example because that's 
kind of a gaming platform where 

464
00:23:17,400 --> 00:23:21,520
you see a high use percentage 
for kids as well as a high use 

465
00:23:21,520 --> 00:23:24,760
percentage for adults. 
So making sure that those two 

466
00:23:24,760 --> 00:23:28,560
distinct groups stay distinct 
and there's not no potential for

467
00:23:28,560 --> 00:23:31,680
overlap that would lead to harm.
Got it, got it. 

468
00:23:31,680 --> 00:23:34,800
And on the topic of like the 
Robloxes of the world and even 

469
00:23:34,800 --> 00:23:38,720
maybe back to social media, when
we talk about harm, I, I know 

470
00:23:38,720 --> 00:23:43,480
just for me being a consumer of 
news that some of that harm is 

471
00:23:43,480 --> 00:23:47,480
actually these platforms give 
access to these kids. 

472
00:23:47,480 --> 00:23:50,400
I don't know if I'm phrasing 
this right, but by predators, 

473
00:23:50,920 --> 00:23:55,120
people who want to engage, lure 
and do physical harm and 

474
00:23:55,120 --> 00:23:57,960
sometimes mentally, emotionally 
harm, especially with, with 

475
00:23:57,960 --> 00:24:00,560
Roblox, I've listed, I've I've 
heard some podcasts that talk 

476
00:24:00,560 --> 00:24:03,160
about that as a platform where 
predators are just kind of 

477
00:24:03,160 --> 00:24:05,480
waiting. 
Is that something that your 

478
00:24:05,480 --> 00:24:09,400
organization is is focusing on 
and even considering when you're

479
00:24:09,400 --> 00:24:11,200
when you're thinking about the 
big picture with these 

480
00:24:11,200 --> 00:24:13,680
platforms, access to kids and 
how they might be harmed? 

481
00:24:14,320 --> 00:24:15,120
Yeah. 
Absolutely. 

482
00:24:15,120 --> 00:24:18,480
And and I think that goes back 
to what I was saying about age 

483
00:24:18,480 --> 00:24:20,200
assurance. 
And so for a lot of these 

484
00:24:20,200 --> 00:24:23,280
platforms, when you have a 
younger demographic and an older

485
00:24:23,280 --> 00:24:27,920
demographic, sometimes the 
younger, younger demographic is 

486
00:24:28,240 --> 00:24:31,960
finding ways to get on parts of 
the platform or parts of an app 

487
00:24:31,960 --> 00:24:34,280
that are meant for older people.
And that's when a lot of these 

488
00:24:34,280 --> 00:24:35,800
negative interactions are 
happening. 

489
00:24:35,960 --> 00:24:39,240
To text credit, a lot of these 
companies that we work with have

490
00:24:39,240 --> 00:24:43,040
wonderful trust and safety teams
and their rental controls, if 

491
00:24:43,040 --> 00:24:47,200
used correctly, are, are very, 
very good at setting a baseline 

492
00:24:47,200 --> 00:24:50,280
to make sure that your child is 
foundationally safe. 

493
00:24:50,320 --> 00:24:53,080
Again, these aren't waterproof 
solutions, but you know, it's a 

494
00:24:53,080 --> 00:24:55,920
very good baseline to for 
parents to use. 

495
00:24:56,240 --> 00:24:59,160
I think some of these those 
issues come up when parents are 

496
00:24:59,160 --> 00:25:00,800
busy and parents are 
overwhelmed. 

497
00:25:00,800 --> 00:25:03,440
But you know, when if a child 
downloads roadblocks and you 

498
00:25:03,440 --> 00:25:07,360
just kind of give them the app 
and they run off and play with 

499
00:25:07,360 --> 00:25:11,880
it as they will instead of a 
parent looking into the app, 

500
00:25:11,880 --> 00:25:14,400
what are the risks? 
What are the parental controls? 

501
00:25:14,680 --> 00:25:17,800
Have I used the parental 
controls correctly to make sure 

502
00:25:17,800 --> 00:25:20,680
it's kind of a guided process 
instead of just diving into the 

503
00:25:20,680 --> 00:25:23,400
deep end, you know? 
Yeah, you mentioned parental 

504
00:25:23,400 --> 00:25:26,640
controls if used correctly. 
That's the question, right? 

505
00:25:27,040 --> 00:25:30,600
Last week on our episode, we, I,
I kind of asked the rhetorical 

506
00:25:30,600 --> 00:25:34,400
question of, you know, when it 
comes to kids safety online or 

507
00:25:34,400 --> 00:25:37,320
on social media, how much 
responsibility goes to the 

508
00:25:37,320 --> 00:25:39,520
parents? 
And let's just make an 

509
00:25:39,520 --> 00:25:41,920
assumption here, assuming, 
assuming they have parents who 

510
00:25:41,920 --> 00:25:44,160
are engaged, right? 
And how much of the 

511
00:25:44,160 --> 00:25:47,480
responsibility goes to the tech 
companies themselves? 

512
00:25:47,480 --> 00:25:50,600
And I'll just kind of pitch you 
that that question like where, 

513
00:25:50,600 --> 00:25:52,160
where does that responsibility 
lie? 

514
00:25:52,440 --> 00:25:53,560
That's. 
A tough question. 

515
00:25:54,800 --> 00:25:57,080
You know, I think everyone's 
really struggling with this, but

516
00:25:57,120 --> 00:26:00,720
but I think, you know, like it's
assigning a specific percentage 

517
00:26:01,280 --> 00:26:04,720
is a bit harmful. 
I think that it to to look at it

518
00:26:04,720 --> 00:26:08,840
more as a communal effort is, is
pretty essential because, you 

519
00:26:08,840 --> 00:26:10,920
know, everyone has a role to 
play or a role to play. 

520
00:26:10,920 --> 00:26:13,480
You know, parents, they're kind 
of the first line of defense, 

521
00:26:13,480 --> 00:26:15,320
right? 
So what you're teaching your 

522
00:26:15,320 --> 00:26:17,400
children, even outside of the 
digital world is going to 

523
00:26:17,400 --> 00:26:19,760
reflect how they behave inside 
of the digital world. 

524
00:26:20,040 --> 00:26:22,560
You know, tech obviously needs 
to be held accountable and they 

525
00:26:22,560 --> 00:26:25,040
need to make sure that their 
platforms are safe for kids. 

526
00:26:25,720 --> 00:26:28,520
And then another dynamic, which 
I think sometimes people miss is

527
00:26:28,520 --> 00:26:31,640
just from, you know, an 
education perspective, are 

528
00:26:31,640 --> 00:26:35,880
children in schools getting the 
tools that they need to learn 

529
00:26:35,880 --> 00:26:37,720
these basic skills to use 
online? 

530
00:26:37,720 --> 00:26:39,680
You know, sometimes I think we 
look at the online world and we 

531
00:26:39,680 --> 00:26:43,040
just assume that kids know how 
to act and how not to act, but 

532
00:26:43,040 --> 00:26:45,680
that's not necessarily the case.
So, you know, are we providing 

533
00:26:45,680 --> 00:26:47,440
them as educators the tools that
they need? 

534
00:26:47,440 --> 00:26:49,720
So it's really everyone does 
play a part. 

535
00:26:49,720 --> 00:26:52,040
I wouldn't say it's, you know, 
specifically 30%, thirty 

536
00:26:52,040 --> 00:26:54,920
percent, 30%, but you know, 
it's, it's, it's, it's important

537
00:26:55,160 --> 00:26:57,840
for everyone. 
Well put, and I and I know that 

538
00:26:57,840 --> 00:27:01,600
Fosi has. 
Seven steps to good digital 

539
00:27:01,600 --> 00:27:03,560
parenting. 
Which kind of a framework to 

540
00:27:03,560 --> 00:27:05,600
help parents to learn? 
How to be? 

541
00:27:05,600 --> 00:27:07,840
Better parents with this stuff 
and we're going to kind of land 

542
00:27:07,840 --> 00:27:11,680
this plane there. 
But because we we started on AIA

543
00:27:11,680 --> 00:27:15,520
little bit, if I'm not mistaken,
Foci just released research on 

544
00:27:15,520 --> 00:27:19,040
how teens are using generative 
AII Would love to hear. 

545
00:27:19,200 --> 00:27:21,200
I think I know what that is. 
I want to hear your explanation.

546
00:27:21,200 --> 00:27:22,560
But like, what are they doing 
with it? 

547
00:27:22,560 --> 00:27:25,200
Should parents be concerned 
about this generative AI? 

548
00:27:25,200 --> 00:27:26,560
Can you unpack that a little 
bit? 

549
00:27:26,960 --> 00:27:27,680
Yeah. 
Absolutely. 

550
00:27:27,680 --> 00:27:30,320
So just to provide kind of a 
foundation and Gen. 

551
00:27:30,320 --> 00:27:34,320
AI is the tools that you see 
like ChatGPT or claws. 

552
00:27:34,360 --> 00:27:38,400
These are tools that you kind of
input a prompt and then it gives

553
00:27:38,400 --> 00:27:41,360
you a response back. 
And so we released a research 

554
00:27:41,360 --> 00:27:44,960
report, I believe in November 
called Generative AI and 

555
00:27:44,960 --> 00:27:48,280
uncertain times. 
And the the goal of this was 

556
00:27:48,280 --> 00:27:51,240
really to see not only how kids 
were using Gen. 

557
00:27:51,240 --> 00:27:54,920
AI, but to figure out how their 
parents also thought they were 

558
00:27:54,920 --> 00:27:57,520
using it because sometimes there
can be, you know, a bit of a 

559
00:27:57,520 --> 00:28:00,200
disconnect there. 
And so we found that more than 

560
00:28:00,200 --> 00:28:02,920
half of teens were using this 
more than once a week, which is 

561
00:28:02,920 --> 00:28:07,280
pretty significant. 
We also found that nearly 60% of

562
00:28:07,280 --> 00:28:09,720
parents didn't have rules around
Gen. 

563
00:28:09,720 --> 00:28:11,680
AI. 
So we have this majority of 

564
00:28:11,680 --> 00:28:14,720
teens that are using this almost
daily, but the majority of 

565
00:28:14,720 --> 00:28:18,440
parents don't really know one, 
what this technology may be and 

566
00:28:18,440 --> 00:28:20,600
to kind of any use rules around 
it. 

567
00:28:20,720 --> 00:28:23,920
And so we really kind of figured
out that this is embedded into 

568
00:28:23,920 --> 00:28:27,880
teens everyday life, but there's
a gap that exists that, you 

569
00:28:27,880 --> 00:28:32,760
know, we, we need to to close. 
Any any research or any stats 

570
00:28:32,760 --> 00:28:35,600
around at what age kids are 
picking this stuff up? 

571
00:28:35,920 --> 00:28:38,800
Yeah. 
So our study measured teens as 

572
00:28:38,800 --> 00:28:43,040
well as the parents of the 
teens, but I would say important

573
00:28:43,040 --> 00:28:46,080
distinction here. 
So sometimes kids can be 

574
00:28:46,080 --> 00:28:49,480
introduced to AI as young as two
or three years old. 

575
00:28:49,800 --> 00:28:53,040
And this is not in the ChatGPT 
sense that that you would kind 

576
00:28:53,040 --> 00:28:56,240
of think, But you know, when a 
child is engaging, for example, 

577
00:28:56,240 --> 00:28:59,480
with an Alexa, so kind of that 
speaker that they can have a 

578
00:28:59,480 --> 00:29:02,440
conversation with or prompt to 
play a song or even a lullaby, 

579
00:29:02,760 --> 00:29:05,800
that is Gin AI. 
So again, different forms of Gin

580
00:29:05,800 --> 00:29:07,240
AI. 
But you know, the the 

581
00:29:07,240 --> 00:29:09,800
introduction can happen very, 
very young and kind of 

582
00:29:09,800 --> 00:29:11,880
progresses all the way to the 
teen years. 

583
00:29:12,120 --> 00:29:14,600
Wow, different forms. 
Very important to note. 

584
00:29:14,920 --> 00:29:17,840
I didn't even think about that. 
And I, and we have Alexa and, 

585
00:29:17,840 --> 00:29:20,080
and there's times where like 
we're sitting around the dinner 

586
00:29:20,080 --> 00:29:24,080
table and let's just say my, my 
second grader ask a question 

587
00:29:24,080 --> 00:29:28,000
like, you know, Daddy, you know 
who, who is the 20th president 

588
00:29:28,000 --> 00:29:30,640
of the United States? 
And I've actually had this 

589
00:29:30,640 --> 00:29:32,960
instinct that I'm not modeling 
something that's healthy. 

590
00:29:32,960 --> 00:29:36,200
And you can tell me, but I'll 
turn and go Alexa, who is the 

591
00:29:36,200 --> 00:29:39,640
20th president. 
And she's picking up that if she

592
00:29:39,640 --> 00:29:42,560
doesn't know an answer, she can 
walk across the room and do it. 

593
00:29:42,560 --> 00:29:45,640
And there was 1 moment where she
asked me if she can take Alexa 

594
00:29:45,640 --> 00:29:48,120
into her room and listen to 
music. 

595
00:29:48,680 --> 00:29:51,120
And I said sure because I 
thought that's what she was 

596
00:29:51,120 --> 00:29:52,960
going to do. 
And then I walked by her room 

597
00:29:53,200 --> 00:29:56,680
and she was having a 
conversation with Alexa. 

598
00:29:56,720 --> 00:30:01,880
Would you say that's a pink, 
red, yellow flag for me to make 

599
00:30:01,880 --> 00:30:03,240
sure I'm putting guardrails 
around that? 

600
00:30:03,520 --> 00:30:05,480
You know I. 
Never like to assign specific 

601
00:30:05,480 --> 00:30:08,760
labels, but I would say I, I 
would hope that the Alexa had 

602
00:30:08,760 --> 00:30:12,360
parental controls because, you 
know, if your child has Alexa in

603
00:30:12,360 --> 00:30:14,400
her room without parental 
controls, I mean, the 

604
00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:18,120
conversations and information 
that she could access could be 

605
00:30:18,640 --> 00:30:20,880
very much not appropriate for 
her age. 

606
00:30:20,880 --> 00:30:23,760
And you know, in some 
circumstances, very harmful 

607
00:30:23,760 --> 00:30:25,640
information that she could have 
access to. 

608
00:30:25,640 --> 00:30:28,800
So I wouldn't say maybe an Alexa
in in a bedroom is the best 

609
00:30:28,800 --> 00:30:31,000
idea. 
But again, you know, parenting 

610
00:30:31,000 --> 00:30:32,760
is a journey, so it's not wrong 
or right. 

611
00:30:32,760 --> 00:30:35,160
It's next time making sure that 
you know you change that 

612
00:30:35,160 --> 00:30:38,080
behavior a little bit. 
Yeah, and it was probably, I 

613
00:30:38,080 --> 00:30:40,560
just overlooked, I thought, I 
think, hey, this is the speaker,

614
00:30:40,560 --> 00:30:43,640
it's music and she knows how to 
ask for play the Zombies 

615
00:30:43,640 --> 00:30:45,880
soundtrack, right? 
And I wasn't thinking that she'd

616
00:30:45,880 --> 00:30:49,240
be engaging with AI and look at 
that lesson for me right off the

617
00:30:49,240 --> 00:30:52,000
bat. 
A quick anecdote, if if there's 

618
00:30:52,000 --> 00:30:54,560
been I've been doing this 
podcast for over 2 years and 

619
00:30:54,560 --> 00:30:58,160
covering the news for about a 
year and if there's a if there's

620
00:30:58,240 --> 00:31:01,720
if I had to choose one news 
article or story that just 

621
00:31:01,720 --> 00:31:05,840
really made me angry. 
I just I thought emotions was 

622
00:31:05,840 --> 00:31:10,120
somewhat recently on Capitol 
Hill, a committee on this very 

623
00:31:10,120 --> 00:31:14,720
topic invited parents whose 
children were groomed. 

624
00:31:15,000 --> 00:31:20,400
That's the word they used toward
suicide in private conversations

625
00:31:20,560 --> 00:31:23,240
with these generative AIS or 
Gen. 

626
00:31:23,240 --> 00:31:25,800
AIS. 
I'm sure you were watching the 

627
00:31:25,800 --> 00:31:27,600
news. 
How did that land with you and 

628
00:31:27,600 --> 00:31:29,880
your, your organization? 
And, and what are what are those

629
00:31:29,880 --> 00:31:33,640
companies doing about that? 
So I, I think the core problem 

630
00:31:33,640 --> 00:31:38,160
here is that when AI was 
created, it was kind of a rush 

631
00:31:38,160 --> 00:31:40,640
to the finish line and, you 
know, more innovation, more 

632
00:31:40,640 --> 00:31:42,320
innovation making it better and 
faster. 

633
00:31:42,320 --> 00:31:46,560
And so it was largely rolled 
out, but with no kind of 

634
00:31:46,560 --> 00:31:50,520
parental controls or no ability 
to see how it could be used in 

635
00:31:50,520 --> 00:31:53,440
the worst cases. 
And so we've seen in our 

636
00:31:53,440 --> 00:31:56,960
research as well that there is a
portion of teens that rely on 

637
00:31:57,200 --> 00:31:59,800
Gen. 
AI and chat bots for emotional 

638
00:31:59,800 --> 00:32:01,280
support. 
You know, maybe they're not 

639
00:32:01,280 --> 00:32:04,840
getting the support at home. 
Some have said that it's easier 

640
00:32:04,840 --> 00:32:07,400
to talk to a chat bot than a 
human because it's free of shame

641
00:32:07,400 --> 00:32:09,800
and judgement. 
And so when you have some of 

642
00:32:09,800 --> 00:32:13,800
these platforms that have no 
mental health training and no 

643
00:32:13,800 --> 00:32:17,120
medical background responding to
kids who are in mental health 

644
00:32:17,120 --> 00:32:20,320
crisis, that's when you end up 
with situations like you saw on 

645
00:32:20,320 --> 00:32:23,160
the Hill where you know, they're
not given the appropriate 

646
00:32:23,160 --> 00:32:26,000
supports and a chat bot says 
something that's completely 

647
00:32:26,000 --> 00:32:29,040
inappropriate or not supportive 
enough and that causes no 

648
00:32:29,040 --> 00:32:31,720
physical harm to the child. 
So that's that's definitely 

649
00:32:31,720 --> 00:32:33,040
something that we've been 
working on. 

650
00:32:33,920 --> 00:32:36,240
Is there a potential for them to
put guardrails on that where 

651
00:32:36,240 --> 00:32:38,320
they can, they can get to a 
point where like, hey, there's 

652
00:32:38,320 --> 00:32:41,240
a, there's a boundary here. 
If, if a kids asking basic 

653
00:32:41,240 --> 00:32:44,960
questions like what is anxiety, 
what is panic disorder, 

654
00:32:44,960 --> 00:32:47,280
whatever. 
But then at a certain point they

655
00:32:47,280 --> 00:32:50,760
they stop that conversation and 
just train those models to be 

656
00:32:51,000 --> 00:32:53,520
more responsible. 
Yeah, absolutely. 

657
00:32:53,520 --> 00:32:58,960
Some of the the more recent 
models like Claws, Anthropic and

658
00:32:58,960 --> 00:33:03,600
ChatGPT, now, when they sense a 
conversation going in a certain 

659
00:33:03,600 --> 00:33:05,960
way, they'll stop the 
conversation and they'll 

660
00:33:05,960 --> 00:33:09,240
provide, for example, you know, 
the resource to the National 

661
00:33:09,240 --> 00:33:11,960
Suicide Prevention Hotline. 
So instead of taking these 

662
00:33:11,960 --> 00:33:14,880
conversations all the way to the
end like they previously did, 

663
00:33:15,320 --> 00:33:18,560
without these guardrails, 
there's more guardrails, right? 

664
00:33:18,560 --> 00:33:21,160
So these conversations don't end
up somewhere that's very 

665
00:33:21,160 --> 00:33:23,480
dangerous. 
But users have support. 

666
00:33:23,520 --> 00:33:26,520
They're still able to have these
conversations, but not to the 

667
00:33:26,520 --> 00:33:28,640
extent they were prior. 
Yeah. 

668
00:33:28,640 --> 00:33:30,880
And and do you think in the 
future, or maybe they're already

669
00:33:30,880 --> 00:33:35,200
doing this, but are there like 
versions of these platforms, 

670
00:33:35,200 --> 00:33:40,360
ChatGPT, Anthropic that are more
custom made in specific for 

671
00:33:40,360 --> 00:33:42,040
teens? 
In other words, some of the 

672
00:33:42,040 --> 00:33:44,560
features are cut off and parents
can like help them set it up on 

673
00:33:44,560 --> 00:33:46,880
their kids phone and just know 
and have the Peace of Mind that 

674
00:33:46,880 --> 00:33:49,680
it has limitations versus the 
adult version we have. 

675
00:33:49,680 --> 00:33:54,600
Seen a number of startups, some 
of these AI companies targeted 

676
00:33:54,600 --> 00:33:59,160
at, you know, kids below 13, 
above 8, which allow them to 

677
00:33:59,160 --> 00:34:03,000
have, you know, simple help with
homework or ask simple questions

678
00:34:03,000 --> 00:34:04,960
similar to what you did with 
your daughter, you know, who was

679
00:34:04,960 --> 00:34:08,159
the 34th president. 
Or they can have very surface 

680
00:34:08,159 --> 00:34:11,120
level conversations that provide
them with information instead of

681
00:34:11,120 --> 00:34:15,920
deeper conversations. 
We've also seen some targeted at

682
00:34:15,920 --> 00:34:18,360
teens. 
These are a little more 

683
00:34:18,360 --> 00:34:22,719
questionable I would say, but 
there is a want in the industry 

684
00:34:22,719 --> 00:34:28,440
for more specific apps for under
thirteens and above thirteens 

685
00:34:28,639 --> 00:34:30,880
that aren't these ones, I 
thought. 

686
00:34:30,880 --> 00:34:35,679
I saw recently that I think Meta
may have like rolled out a teen 

687
00:34:35,679 --> 00:34:37,920
version of Instagram or 
something like that. 

688
00:34:37,920 --> 00:34:39,400
Is that ring true? 
Yeah. 

689
00:34:39,480 --> 00:34:42,120
That's Meta's teen accounts. 
Teen accounts they've. 

690
00:34:42,400 --> 00:34:44,400
Been doing a. 
Big marketing push, Yeah, I've 

691
00:34:44,440 --> 00:34:46,080
seen that as well. 
I saw that. 

692
00:34:46,080 --> 00:34:46,800
As well. 
Yeah. 

693
00:34:46,800 --> 00:34:49,679
Talk a little bit about that. 
Is that new or is that has that 

694
00:34:49,679 --> 00:34:51,760
been around and now they're just
promoting it more so it's. 

695
00:34:51,760 --> 00:34:56,480
Interesting because Instagram 
has always had parental controls

696
00:34:56,800 --> 00:35:00,640
where a parent can implement 
screen time restrictions or 

697
00:35:00,640 --> 00:35:04,360
content restrictions for teens. 
So I think this is more of a 

698
00:35:04,360 --> 00:35:06,960
marketing strategy where now 
there's something called a teen 

699
00:35:06,960 --> 00:35:11,320
account where a parent can 
create this account for someone 

700
00:35:11,440 --> 00:35:14,840
under the age of 18 and they 
have more insight into what the 

701
00:35:14,840 --> 00:35:16,960
teen is doing. 
So they can see the pages that 

702
00:35:16,960 --> 00:35:19,160
they're liking. 
They can see to some degree the 

703
00:35:19,160 --> 00:35:23,480
people that they may be DM ING 
as well as general. 

704
00:35:24,160 --> 00:35:27,320
I believe it gives overview as 
to what type of content the teen

705
00:35:27,320 --> 00:35:30,240
saw that day. 
So it's kind of a more of an 

706
00:35:30,240 --> 00:35:33,520
open door into what your teen is
doing instead of just kind of 

707
00:35:33,520 --> 00:35:38,320
baseline 2 hours a day on the on
the app or the app turns off at 

708
00:35:38,440 --> 00:35:41,520
10:00 for bedtime. 
It's it's more descriptive of 

709
00:35:41,520 --> 00:35:44,320
the behavior. 
I, I sense that you might, you 

710
00:35:44,320 --> 00:35:46,680
might not like what I'm about to
say, but as it relates to like 

711
00:35:46,680 --> 00:35:50,600
privacy for like my own kids, 
there is none like. 

712
00:35:50,640 --> 00:35:54,280
So what I, what I would want is 
like if I, let's just say, let 

713
00:35:54,280 --> 00:35:56,400
hypothetically my, my kids are 
young, right? 

714
00:35:56,400 --> 00:35:57,760
Eight. 
My oldest kid is 8. 

715
00:35:57,760 --> 00:36:01,040
But when she gets to this age 
where she's asking to use these 

716
00:36:01,040 --> 00:36:04,680
technologies, if there's a 
version that is called safe teen

717
00:36:04,680 --> 00:36:07,480
safe for her. 
Let's go back to ChatGPT. 

718
00:36:07,480 --> 00:36:09,920
What I would hope for, what I 
would want is if there's certain

719
00:36:09,920 --> 00:36:14,080
keywords, like if she, if she 
types in the word suicide into 

720
00:36:14,080 --> 00:36:17,320
this platform, I want to push 
notification with an alarm bell 

721
00:36:17,320 --> 00:36:18,680
and I want her phone to turn 
off. 

722
00:36:18,680 --> 00:36:21,600
But I don't know if I don't know
if there's any potential for 

723
00:36:21,600 --> 00:36:23,720
that level. 
So yeah. 

724
00:36:24,520 --> 00:36:26,720
I think you and a parent, you 
and a lot of parents want the 

725
00:36:26,720 --> 00:36:29,160
same thing, to be honest. 
Yeah, there are there, there are

726
00:36:29,160 --> 00:36:32,440
several applications that I 
think are at the device level 

727
00:36:32,440 --> 00:36:35,920
that's similar to what you're 
saying, kind of read a child's 

728
00:36:35,920 --> 00:36:37,920
activity throughout a phone or 
an app. 

729
00:36:38,120 --> 00:36:41,600
And when they get those, you 
know, keywords like harm, you 

730
00:36:41,600 --> 00:36:45,000
know, suicide, eating disorder, 
those triggers, I think 

731
00:36:45,640 --> 00:36:47,400
notifications get sent to the 
parents. 

732
00:36:47,560 --> 00:36:50,800
So there are apps like that out 
there, one of which is called 

733
00:36:50,800 --> 00:36:54,080
Bark. 
But there is that idea of the 

734
00:36:54,080 --> 00:36:57,360
intrusiveness versus the privacy
of, you know, a child or a teen.

735
00:36:57,640 --> 00:37:00,040
Those, those are very much a 
balance and it's hard to find 

736
00:37:00,040 --> 00:37:01,160
that balance. 
Yeah, I. 

737
00:37:01,160 --> 00:37:02,720
Know I'm I'm tracking. 
I'm with you. 

738
00:37:04,080 --> 00:37:06,200
All right, let's be honest, 
you're probably not a 

739
00:37:06,200 --> 00:37:09,200
professional athlete with a 
personal chef and unlimited 

740
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recovery time. 
If you're like me, you're 

741
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hitting the gym at 5:00 AM 
before work or squeezing in 

742
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training between meetings, just 
trying to stay consistent while 

743
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curveballs. 

744
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More question on AI and then I 

761
00:38:18,200 --> 00:38:21,200
want to move towards practical 
advice that you would give 

762
00:38:21,200 --> 00:38:24,320
parents that are listening. 
But I know that there's AI 

763
00:38:24,320 --> 00:38:26,960
powered toys. 
I know that they are those 

764
00:38:26,960 --> 00:38:28,200
things. 
I don't know what they are. 

765
00:38:28,200 --> 00:38:31,480
I know there's AI tutors, AI 
companions. 

766
00:38:31,480 --> 00:38:34,360
Can you talk a little bit about 
those types of features that 

767
00:38:34,360 --> 00:38:37,040
could be really helpful for from
an educational standpoint, I 

768
00:38:37,040 --> 00:38:39,240
guess? 
One of the main AI toys that's 

769
00:38:39,240 --> 00:38:41,080
hit the market recently is 
called Grok. 

770
00:38:41,080 --> 00:38:42,720
I'm not sure if you've heard 
Grok before. 

771
00:38:42,720 --> 00:38:44,520
I've heard. 
Of it, yes, yes. 

772
00:38:45,040 --> 00:38:49,280
So this is an AI kind of plushy.
Our our CEO Stephen Balcom 

773
00:38:49,280 --> 00:38:51,880
actually has one that sits in 
his desk right behind him. 

774
00:38:52,080 --> 00:38:55,760
But a toy like this is 
specifically marketed towards 

775
00:38:55,760 --> 00:38:58,480
children, and it has some of 
those parental controls that we 

776
00:38:58,480 --> 00:39:01,280
were talking about. 
And so a child can have very 

777
00:39:01,280 --> 00:39:04,760
simple conversations with this 
plush to develop some of its 

778
00:39:04,760 --> 00:39:06,800
social emotional speaking 
skills. 

779
00:39:07,120 --> 00:39:09,480
But when, for example, the child
is finished speaking with the 

780
00:39:09,480 --> 00:39:13,240
plush, a parent would get a 
written overview of the entire 

781
00:39:13,240 --> 00:39:16,040
discussion. 
So again, there's still a 

782
00:39:16,040 --> 00:39:19,200
question of, you know, should a 
child be speaking to a plush in 

783
00:39:19,200 --> 00:39:21,680
general or would these social 
emotional skills be better 

784
00:39:21,680 --> 00:39:25,200
developed with, you know, a 
human, a parent, a teacher, 

785
00:39:25,640 --> 00:39:27,920
which I tend to to learn more to
that side. 

786
00:39:27,920 --> 00:39:30,440
But nonetheless, there are 
products that are starting to be

787
00:39:30,440 --> 00:39:34,400
marketed for those developmental
aspects and those educational 

788
00:39:34,400 --> 00:39:36,320
aspects. 
Is there any risk? 

789
00:39:36,320 --> 00:39:38,960
This is my goofy mind at work 
here, but when I think about 

790
00:39:38,960 --> 00:39:43,080
like an AI powered toy talking 
to my kid, is there any risk 

791
00:39:43,080 --> 00:39:45,640
that someone's going to like, 
hack that thing and turn it into

792
00:39:45,640 --> 00:39:47,920
like, Chucky from Child's Play 
and it's going to start saying 

793
00:39:47,920 --> 00:39:49,920
all these evil things to my 
child? 

794
00:39:50,320 --> 00:39:52,160
Yeah. 
You know, that's a great 

795
00:39:52,160 --> 00:39:54,280
question. 
You know, I'm not too into the 

796
00:39:54,280 --> 00:39:58,000
the technical side of hacking 
and those things, but these toys

797
00:39:58,000 --> 00:39:59,560
are connected to the Internet, 
right? 

798
00:39:59,560 --> 00:40:01,280
That's how they're generating 
these responses. 

799
00:40:01,280 --> 00:40:04,040
But I would assume they're 
they're pretty kind of locked in

800
00:40:04,040 --> 00:40:08,200
terms of, you know, any Chucky 
style people kind of taking it 

801
00:40:08,200 --> 00:40:10,640
and, you know, heading South. 
So I hope so that would. 

802
00:40:10,920 --> 00:40:15,200
Be horrifying if I look across 
the room and all of a sudden 

803
00:40:15,200 --> 00:40:20,560
just look in its eyes around. 
Thanks for humoring my sense of 

804
00:40:20,560 --> 00:40:22,440
humor. 
Alright, let's if it's OK with 

805
00:40:22,440 --> 00:40:24,800
you, let's go to some practical 
steps. 

806
00:40:24,800 --> 00:40:27,720
So what if if you could, why 
don't you walk us through either

807
00:40:27,720 --> 00:40:29,600
the seven steps to good digital 
parenting. 

808
00:40:29,600 --> 00:40:32,760
However, you want to speak to my
listeners to give them some 

809
00:40:32,760 --> 00:40:34,760
practical advice, yeah. 
Absolutely. 

810
00:40:34,760 --> 00:40:37,160
So I think maybe a high level of
our, our seven steps would be 

811
00:40:37,160 --> 00:40:39,080
really great. 
You know, we created these seven

812
00:40:39,080 --> 00:40:42,640
steps because as I've spoken to 
before, parents are, are just 

813
00:40:42,640 --> 00:40:44,920
overwhelmed, right? 
There's so many applications, 

814
00:40:44,920 --> 00:40:47,560
there's so many devices and 
parents don't really know kind 

815
00:40:47,560 --> 00:40:50,080
of where to start. 
And in some cases parents, 

816
00:40:50,120 --> 00:40:52,680
right, are working several jobs,
maybe they're a single parent. 

817
00:40:52,680 --> 00:40:56,760
So we created the several 7 
steps to give a concrete on a 

818
00:40:56,760 --> 00:40:59,720
road map into what parents 
should do to create a healthy 

819
00:40:59,720 --> 00:41:01,360
digital foundation for their 
kids. 

820
00:41:02,160 --> 00:41:04,960
And so at its core, the most 
important thing that we stress 

821
00:41:04,960 --> 00:41:07,720
to parents, you know, every 
event that we do is 

822
00:41:07,720 --> 00:41:10,120
communication. 
And so that's talking with your 

823
00:41:10,120 --> 00:41:14,960
child early and often and even 
more than that, creating a space

824
00:41:14,960 --> 00:41:16,720
where they feel comfortable, 
right? 

825
00:41:16,720 --> 00:41:19,080
So if something doesn't feel 
right, you know, if something 

826
00:41:19,080 --> 00:41:22,440
has happened on one of these 
online platforms, they don't go 

827
00:41:22,440 --> 00:41:25,240
back and reclude, but they come 
to you and they, they are 

828
00:41:25,240 --> 00:41:28,640
comfortable discussing it. 
So open conversations is always 

829
00:41:28,640 --> 00:41:31,240
our number one. 
From there, a really important 

830
00:41:31,240 --> 00:41:35,320
part is just staying informed. 
Again, I know that there is a 

831
00:41:35,320 --> 00:41:37,080
lot going on in the digital 
world. 

832
00:41:37,080 --> 00:41:40,520
But you know, to your point, 
without the Roblox earlier, you 

833
00:41:40,520 --> 00:41:43,440
know, if you have an 8 or 9 year
old child that wants to download

834
00:41:43,440 --> 00:41:46,320
an app like that, just making 
sure that you do the research 

835
00:41:46,320 --> 00:41:49,280
before you download it and just 
hand kind of the iPad over to 

836
00:41:49,280 --> 00:41:52,280
your to your child to 
understand, OK, what are the 

837
00:41:52,280 --> 00:41:54,640
mechanics of this? 
What are the risks and what are 

838
00:41:54,640 --> 00:41:57,400
the benefits, right. 
Because not all technology is 

839
00:41:57,400 --> 00:41:59,840
just a negative, which I think 
we sometimes get a little stuck 

840
00:41:59,840 --> 00:42:02,000
in, especially in today's, you 
know, world. 

841
00:42:02,000 --> 00:42:06,200
And I and I think that the next 
step is just also building on 

842
00:42:06,200 --> 00:42:08,840
with that, just making sure that
you're using parental controls. 

843
00:42:09,200 --> 00:42:13,000
And so these are kind of the 
first defense of being able to 

844
00:42:13,440 --> 00:42:16,120
make sure that there's some 
foundation of safety. 

845
00:42:16,400 --> 00:42:20,200
And so every app, mostly every 
app, mostly every device has 

846
00:42:20,200 --> 00:42:23,560
some set of parental controls. 
And so just finding the one that

847
00:42:23,560 --> 00:42:26,360
works best for you and your 
family and that aligns with the 

848
00:42:26,360 --> 00:42:29,480
maturity of your child because 
there's different and some may 

849
00:42:29,480 --> 00:42:31,160
work better and some may not 
work at all. 

850
00:42:31,520 --> 00:42:35,560
I guess kind of one of the last 
things is we like to have 

851
00:42:35,560 --> 00:42:39,000
parents model positive behavior.
And this one's really, really 

852
00:42:39,000 --> 00:42:40,840
important. 
And I think it's sometimes a bit

853
00:42:40,840 --> 00:42:43,240
difficult for parents, but I'll 
just give you an example. 

854
00:42:43,240 --> 00:42:46,360
You know, if you have the 
expectation that your child 

855
00:42:46,600 --> 00:42:49,440
shouldn't be on their phone at 
the dinner table, but you're on 

856
00:42:49,440 --> 00:42:51,800
your phone, you know, most of 
the day or even at the dinner 

857
00:42:51,800 --> 00:42:54,480
table, it's kind of hard for you
to implement that boundary when 

858
00:42:54,480 --> 00:42:56,640
your child is seeing that you 
don't do that yourself. 

859
00:42:56,920 --> 00:42:59,200
So just making sure that you 
have a tech balance, that you're

860
00:42:59,200 --> 00:43:02,280
following these kind of safe 
practices and then kind of 

861
00:43:02,280 --> 00:43:05,160
expecting your child to do that 
as well because modeling is 

862
00:43:05,160 --> 00:43:06,680
important. 
Children are always kind of 

863
00:43:06,680 --> 00:43:08,840
watching us, looking to us to 
see how they should behave. 

864
00:43:09,680 --> 00:43:11,200
Yeah, walk the walk. 
Yeah. 

865
00:43:11,200 --> 00:43:14,400
What's your thoughts on this? 
I've already had conversations 

866
00:43:14,400 --> 00:43:18,440
with my 8 year old where she's 
asking for access to something, 

867
00:43:18,480 --> 00:43:19,920
right? 
Like she wants to, she wants to 

868
00:43:19,920 --> 00:43:23,360
go on see this thing, she wants 
to maybe have YouTube on where 

869
00:43:23,360 --> 00:43:25,800
she can just kind of like browse
a different short or something 

870
00:43:25,800 --> 00:43:29,280
to watch. 
And when I try to explain to her

871
00:43:29,280 --> 00:43:33,480
or think through how to explain 
to her why she can't, one of the

872
00:43:33,480 --> 00:43:36,240
things in the back of my mind is
I don't want to plant the seed 

873
00:43:36,240 --> 00:43:38,280
that this is a dangerous world, 
right? 

874
00:43:38,280 --> 00:43:41,080
Like you don't want to put so 
much fear in them that they 

875
00:43:41,080 --> 00:43:44,600
start to see the world around 
them as a dangerous place. 

876
00:43:45,000 --> 00:43:48,600
But I kind of do want her to 
have that awareness, right? 

877
00:43:48,600 --> 00:43:51,800
Like to any any thoughts or even
just kind of like respond to 

878
00:43:51,800 --> 00:43:53,120
that. 
But like, how do parents 

879
00:43:53,120 --> 00:43:57,720
communicate to kids why they 
can't have access to these 

880
00:43:57,720 --> 00:44:00,920
platforms, but doing it in such 
a way that you're also not 

881
00:44:00,920 --> 00:44:04,400
creating this fear or anxiety 
about the world around them, I. 

882
00:44:04,400 --> 00:44:09,160
Think that what we really like 
to lean into is not putting a 

883
00:44:09,160 --> 00:44:12,880
hard boundary of you can't have 
this app, but we like to say not

884
00:44:12,880 --> 00:44:16,040
right now. 
And so instead of them kind of 

885
00:44:16,040 --> 00:44:18,120
creating this image that they're
never going to get it, that 

886
00:44:18,120 --> 00:44:20,280
they're never going to have it 
right in the conversation goes 

887
00:44:20,280 --> 00:44:22,760
left there. 
You know, if you, you frame it 

888
00:44:22,760 --> 00:44:25,640
as a delay, Well, this, these 
are the reasons why this app may

889
00:44:25,640 --> 00:44:28,240
not be right for us right now, 
but let's revisit this in a 

890
00:44:28,240 --> 00:44:30,840
month or let's revisit this when
you're, you're 10. 

891
00:44:30,840 --> 00:44:34,000
And so it opens the door, you 
know, in a child's mind to, 

892
00:44:34,000 --> 00:44:36,720
okay, you know, I can eventually
get there because if you give 

893
00:44:36,720 --> 00:44:39,880
them a hard boundary and you say
it's unsafe, you know, it, it 

894
00:44:39,880 --> 00:44:42,560
goes in one ear, not the other. 
And especially if a child goes 

895
00:44:42,560 --> 00:44:44,880
into their, you know, classroom 
and they see that their, their 

896
00:44:44,880 --> 00:44:48,120
friends have it and they don't, 
it's it's going to create a 

897
00:44:48,120 --> 00:44:51,040
constant back and forth and. 
That on that last point, that 

898
00:44:51,040 --> 00:44:55,040
that can be frustrating for me 
when the the parents of the kids

899
00:44:55,040 --> 00:44:58,240
that my kids are friends with 
are not aligned with my wife and

900
00:44:58,240 --> 00:45:00,800
I on our own boundaries in 
education. 

901
00:45:00,800 --> 00:45:03,480
And then they come back into the
house and of course they're 

902
00:45:03,480 --> 00:45:05,800
citing their other friends that 
are using these things. 

903
00:45:05,800 --> 00:45:09,560
And I have to try to explain. 
So people listening, please get 

904
00:45:09,560 --> 00:45:12,240
get, get, get. 
Better with this stuff. 

905
00:45:13,560 --> 00:45:15,440
You mentioned screen time 
earlier. 

906
00:45:15,640 --> 00:45:18,680
I'm sensing that maybe there's 
not a hard and fast rule, but as

907
00:45:18,680 --> 00:45:22,080
best you could, do you have any 
guidelines or recommendations, 

908
00:45:22,080 --> 00:45:24,760
maybe by age for kids, like how 
much time they should be 

909
00:45:24,760 --> 00:45:27,000
spending in these platforms or 
with technology in general? 

910
00:45:27,120 --> 00:45:28,720
I think. 
That it's important to note that

911
00:45:28,720 --> 00:45:31,640
not all screen time is created 
equal, right? 

912
00:45:31,640 --> 00:45:34,640
And so I think when we a few 
years ago there was these the 

913
00:45:34,640 --> 00:45:37,280
kind of hard guidelines of, you 
know, no more than two hours a 

914
00:45:37,280 --> 00:45:38,840
day or no more than three hours 
a day. 

915
00:45:38,840 --> 00:45:43,480
Well, you know, now that kids 
are 2026 and in classrooms, kids

916
00:45:43,480 --> 00:45:46,000
are mostly relying on laptops or
different forms of, you know, 

917
00:45:46,520 --> 00:45:49,200
digital technology. 
So that in and of itself, they 

918
00:45:49,200 --> 00:45:51,840
could leave school one day and 
have, you know, 5 or 6 hours 

919
00:45:51,840 --> 00:45:54,600
worth of screen time. 
But this is, you know, educated 

920
00:45:54,600 --> 00:45:57,560
screen time. 
And so we really like to say 

921
00:45:57,560 --> 00:46:01,640
that, you know, when kids are 
younger, the screen time should 

922
00:46:02,080 --> 00:46:04,040
mostly always be monitored, 
right? 

923
00:46:04,040 --> 00:46:07,040
So when they're at their toddler
age, And this is because, you 

924
00:46:07,040 --> 00:46:10,600
know, a child's mind is still 
forming and you can't just give 

925
00:46:10,600 --> 00:46:13,120
them an iPad and, you know, let 
them go off and do what they 

926
00:46:13,120 --> 00:46:15,840
want, right. 
When you set these boundaries 

927
00:46:15,840 --> 00:46:18,640
earlier, a child is going to 
carry them into adulthood. 

928
00:46:19,320 --> 00:46:21,960
We like to say that, you know, 
starting around 7:00 or 8:00, 

929
00:46:22,160 --> 00:46:25,760
that's kind of when a child gets
their their training wheels. 

930
00:46:25,760 --> 00:46:29,160
And so, you know, maybe you have
conversations with them about 

931
00:46:29,160 --> 00:46:31,840
letting them have some of these 
gaming apps, but making sure 

932
00:46:31,840 --> 00:46:34,640
again, they're using parental 
controls and that screen time 

933
00:46:34,640 --> 00:46:37,080
doesn't become something that 
replaces other activities. 

934
00:46:37,320 --> 00:46:39,080
That's one of the most important
things that we like to tell 

935
00:46:39,080 --> 00:46:42,040
people because if a child, child
uses their iPad instead of, you 

936
00:46:42,040 --> 00:46:44,640
know, going out to play or doing
some type of sport, you know, 

937
00:46:44,640 --> 00:46:47,040
that's when screen time starts 
to become detrimental. 

938
00:46:47,080 --> 00:46:50,680
And then I think for teens, 
screen time is really something 

939
00:46:50,680 --> 00:46:54,880
that you have to monitor their 
emotional state and their 

940
00:46:54,880 --> 00:46:57,120
emotional behavior. 
And so if you see that screen 

941
00:46:57,120 --> 00:47:00,760
time or, you know, being on 
TikTok or, you know, Instagram 

942
00:47:00,920 --> 00:47:03,400
is starting to have a negative 
impact, you know, maybe they're 

943
00:47:03,400 --> 00:47:07,320
leaning more into comparison or 
they're seeing content that's 

944
00:47:07,320 --> 00:47:09,800
making them feel angry or hyper 
political. 

945
00:47:10,000 --> 00:47:12,240
That's when the screen time 
discussion needs to be had 

946
00:47:12,240 --> 00:47:15,000
because clearly it's not 
providing them with a positive, 

947
00:47:15,240 --> 00:47:18,560
it's it's landing in a negative.
Yeah, and it sounds like it all 

948
00:47:18,560 --> 00:47:21,440
comes back to parents being 
intentional and aware and 

949
00:47:21,440 --> 00:47:24,440
attuned with their kid in order 
to even pick up on those things.

950
00:47:24,760 --> 00:47:27,480
I'm going to have some fun here 
with you now, if you're willing.

951
00:47:28,560 --> 00:47:29,640
It's funny. 
Yeah. 

952
00:47:29,640 --> 00:47:32,000
It's funny in that I just love 
to see my guests kind of think 

953
00:47:32,000 --> 00:47:34,760
they're these things. 
But I always love to before I go

954
00:47:34,760 --> 00:47:37,760
into a little bit more on like 
where parents can get involved 

955
00:47:37,760 --> 00:47:39,760
with and learn from foci. 
I'd love to close with a rapid 

956
00:47:39,760 --> 00:47:43,680
fire, if that's OK. 
So as you can and and getting to

957
00:47:43,680 --> 00:47:46,000
know you here over the last hour
I I'm. 

958
00:47:46,000 --> 00:47:48,840
Sensing that some of these 
questions you may answer 

959
00:47:48,840 --> 00:47:50,440
broadly, but we'll. 
See how it goes. 

960
00:47:50,440 --> 00:47:53,080
But here's rapid fire for 
Kaylin, right? 

961
00:47:53,080 --> 00:47:56,640
So first one, should kids have 
smartphones before high school? 

962
00:47:57,040 --> 00:47:58,560
It. 
Depends on the circumstance of 

963
00:47:58,560 --> 00:48:00,240
the family and the maturity of 
the child. 

964
00:48:00,640 --> 00:48:02,200
So I can't give a hard answer to
that one. 

965
00:48:02,200 --> 00:48:03,800
But if it works for your family,
yes. 

966
00:48:03,800 --> 00:48:05,400
If it doesn't, then no. 
OK. 

967
00:48:05,400 --> 00:48:07,080
Fair enough. 
Next one. 

968
00:48:07,280 --> 00:48:10,880
At what age should kids get 
social media? 

969
00:48:10,880 --> 00:48:12,360
Is it going to be? 
It depends, you know. 

970
00:48:12,360 --> 00:48:18,600
I would say it should be minimum
13 but no younger than 13 

971
00:48:18,920 --> 00:48:21,280
because that's the baseline 
where a lot of these social 

972
00:48:21,280 --> 00:48:23,400
platforms have team specific 
accounts. 

973
00:48:23,400 --> 00:48:25,440
So anything younger is 
inappropriate. 

974
00:48:25,440 --> 00:48:27,880
I would say what is? 
That fifth grade, 6th grade, 

975
00:48:27,920 --> 00:48:30,760
typically in America, I think 
it's a little. 

976
00:48:31,080 --> 00:48:32,920
I think it's like 7th, 7th. 
Grade. 

977
00:48:33,080 --> 00:48:36,320
OK, I think it's a. 
Little Yeah, so. 13 love it. 

978
00:48:37,240 --> 00:48:41,600
One thing you wish every parent 
knew about online safety. 

979
00:48:41,640 --> 00:48:44,360
If you had to pick one, I. 
Would say that open 

980
00:48:44,360 --> 00:48:47,560
communication and conversations 
are the most important part of 

981
00:48:47,560 --> 00:48:51,280
online safety and that what 
reflects in the reality real 

982
00:48:51,280 --> 00:48:53,080
world is going to reflect in the
digital world. 

983
00:48:53,480 --> 00:48:55,600
Got. 
It and last one, what is the 

984
00:48:55,600 --> 00:48:59,080
biggest mistakes that you 
commonly see parents make when 

985
00:48:59,080 --> 00:49:00,720
it comes to technology for their
kids? 

986
00:49:00,840 --> 00:49:05,160
Paris. 
Provide their kids with devices 

987
00:49:05,160 --> 00:49:08,360
and apps without doing the 
research beforehand and then 

988
00:49:08,360 --> 00:49:12,200
that leads to not positive 
consequences. 

989
00:49:12,280 --> 00:49:14,160
Yeah. 
A little bit of laziness or 

990
00:49:14,160 --> 00:49:16,560
ignorance or whatever it is 
awesome. 

991
00:49:16,560 --> 00:49:18,960
Thanks for humoring me there. 
Great answers there, I really 

992
00:49:18,960 --> 00:49:22,080
appreciate it. 
This has been this has been 

993
00:49:22,080 --> 00:49:23,360
awesome. 
I've learned a lot. 

994
00:49:23,440 --> 00:49:25,360
I hope everyone listening has 
learned a lot. 

995
00:49:25,560 --> 00:49:29,960
Where can people learn more from
foci and are there any 

996
00:49:29,960 --> 00:49:32,880
particular resources that you 
would want to point parents or 

997
00:49:32,880 --> 00:49:35,120
anyone really that wants to 
learn more toward? 

998
00:49:36,000 --> 00:49:38,680
Absolutely. 
So we have a website which is 

999
00:49:38,680 --> 00:49:42,560
kind of home to all of our 
resources at foci.org and I 

1000
00:49:42,560 --> 00:49:44,440
would recommend two places on 
our website. 

1001
00:49:44,560 --> 00:49:46,800
I know that throughout this 
conversation, I've noted a 

1002
00:49:46,880 --> 00:49:49,320
little bit of our research. 
So if you go to our website and 

1003
00:49:49,320 --> 00:49:52,040
click the research tab, you can 
have access to all of our recent

1004
00:49:52,360 --> 00:49:55,000
research on GIN, AI and phone 
bands if you'd like to learn 

1005
00:49:55,000 --> 00:49:57,880
more. 
And then under our parenting 

1006
00:49:57,880 --> 00:50:01,040
tab, I would suggest the Seven 
steps to go digital parenting 

1007
00:50:01,560 --> 00:50:04,160
because it's a great foundation.
If you're new to online safety 

1008
00:50:04,160 --> 00:50:06,280
or just looking to learn a 
little bit more about it, those 

1009
00:50:06,280 --> 00:50:07,840
are great places to start. 
Awesome. 

1010
00:50:07,840 --> 00:50:10,080
And you have you have an 
Instagram account yourself or is

1011
00:50:10,080 --> 00:50:12,760
fosi on social media Fosi? 
Is on social media. 

1012
00:50:12,760 --> 00:50:16,440
Yep, we're on all platforms, 
either FOSI or family online 

1013
00:50:16,440 --> 00:50:19,880
Safety Institute so you can find
us on LinkedIn and scram TikTok 

1014
00:50:20,360 --> 00:50:21,880
threads and all those good 
thoughts. 

1015
00:50:21,880 --> 00:50:24,280
Awesome. 
And I will grab all of the links

1016
00:50:24,280 --> 00:50:26,080
here that Caitlin mentioned. 
I'll put them in the episode 

1017
00:50:26,080 --> 00:50:27,240
description for people 
listening. 

1018
00:50:27,240 --> 00:50:29,240
You can just Scroll down and 
click on them and make it easier

1019
00:50:29,640 --> 00:50:32,640
for you. 
Caitlin, this is a exactly what 

1020
00:50:32,640 --> 00:50:35,200
I hoped it would be and more and
I'm so grateful that you came on

1021
00:50:35,200 --> 00:50:36,600
the show. 
Thank you. 

1022
00:50:36,600 --> 00:50:38,120
It was so great speaking with 
you. 

1023
00:50:38,160 --> 00:50:41,120
I hope I was ever able to teach 
everyone a little bit about 

1024
00:50:41,120 --> 00:50:42,560
online safety. 
I know it's not the most 

1025
00:50:42,560 --> 00:50:44,600
glamorous topic, but it's been 
great. 

1026
00:50:45,080 --> 00:50:46,800
Yeah, really. 
You certainly did. 

1027
00:50:46,800 --> 00:50:49,320
Thank you so much, Kaylin, Pete,
everybody. 

1028
00:50:52,000 --> 00:50:54,920
Well, thanks for listening to 
that conversation with Kaylin. 

1029
00:50:54,920 --> 00:50:58,680
I certainly hope it was helpful 
and informative and inspired 

1030
00:50:58,680 --> 00:51:00,080
you, especially if you're a 
parent. 

1031
00:51:00,520 --> 00:51:02,400
To take a. 
More active role, being 

1032
00:51:02,400 --> 00:51:05,520
attentional and attuned with 
your children, especially if you

1033
00:51:05,520 --> 00:51:09,280
are giving them this technology.
Just some of my, I think most 

1034
00:51:09,280 --> 00:51:11,920
important takeaways there that I
learned with her. 

1035
00:51:11,920 --> 00:51:15,240
Number one is that it all comes 
down to the parents. 

1036
00:51:15,840 --> 00:51:18,360
I asked her that question in the
episode How much of the 

1037
00:51:18,360 --> 00:51:20,280
responsibility goes to the 
parents versus the tech 

1038
00:51:20,280 --> 00:51:22,680
platforms? 
And she didn't give an exact 

1039
00:51:22,760 --> 00:51:25,480
percentage, but she kept coming 
back to the fact that as 

1040
00:51:25,480 --> 00:51:29,000
parents, if we are going to 
introduce the technology, we 

1041
00:51:29,000 --> 00:51:31,600
have to be informed and we have 
to monitor the usage to keep 

1042
00:51:31,600 --> 00:51:34,280
them safe. 
So I think parental involvement 

1043
00:51:34,280 --> 00:51:38,040
was probably the number one take
away that I had from that 

1044
00:51:38,040 --> 00:51:40,520
episode. 
I think if I had to pick another

1045
00:51:40,520 --> 00:51:42,600
one, it would be that. 
And and this was something that 

1046
00:51:42,600 --> 00:51:44,120
I kind of wrestled with within 
the interview. 

1047
00:51:44,120 --> 00:51:47,120
But there are benefits to these 
technologies, right? 

1048
00:51:47,120 --> 00:51:49,560
I'm as a parent, I quickly 
jumped to like, the worst case 

1049
00:51:49,560 --> 00:51:52,560
scenario, is my child going to 
become isolated, depressed? 

1050
00:51:52,560 --> 00:51:55,640
Am I giving access to my child 
to people who would do her harm?

1051
00:51:55,920 --> 00:51:58,280
And I think there's potential 
benefits in these technologies. 

1052
00:51:58,280 --> 00:52:01,560
And I think another take away is
that I was really appreciative 

1053
00:52:01,560 --> 00:52:05,160
that Caitlin gave sort of a hard
and fast answer when I asked 

1054
00:52:05,160 --> 00:52:08,600
her, you know, at what age 
should kids be on social media? 

1055
00:52:08,600 --> 00:52:12,640
And she said quickly, 13, right?
Like no younger than 13. 

1056
00:52:12,640 --> 00:52:14,240
I love the black and white 
answer. 

1057
00:52:14,440 --> 00:52:15,960
Of course, that could be case by
case. 

1058
00:52:15,960 --> 00:52:19,040
You may delay it even further. 
Personally, I'm not letting my 

1059
00:52:19,040 --> 00:52:21,680
kids touch social media until 
they're 18. 

1060
00:52:21,960 --> 00:52:24,920
That's just my personal stance. 
But I love that she she gave 

1061
00:52:24,920 --> 00:52:28,880
that answer of 13. 
And then lastly, I just think 

1062
00:52:28,880 --> 00:52:32,400
that, you know, it's pretty 
clear that not every tech 

1063
00:52:32,400 --> 00:52:34,560
company is taking this. 
As. 

1064
00:52:34,560 --> 00:52:37,520
Seriously. 
Meaning that there are some tech

1065
00:52:37,520 --> 00:52:40,280
companies that are leaning in 
with foci, taking their 

1066
00:52:40,280 --> 00:52:43,960
consultation and implementing 
those, you know, suggestions to 

1067
00:52:43,960 --> 00:52:46,400
keep their platform safe and 
then others are not. 

1068
00:52:46,600 --> 00:52:49,880
So again, it comes down to the 
parent to do that research and 

1069
00:52:49,880 --> 00:52:53,480
figure out what is what. 
So again, just an awesome 

1070
00:52:53,480 --> 00:52:55,880
conversation with Kaylin. 
You can Scroll down and I'm 

1071
00:52:55,880 --> 00:52:58,640
going to link to all of the 
resources that she mentioned. 

1072
00:52:58,880 --> 00:53:03,600
And before we part ways, I have 
to ask if you could, if you're 

1073
00:53:03,760 --> 00:53:06,560
listening to this right now and 
you haven't followed us yet. 

1074
00:53:06,560 --> 00:53:08,800
Wherever you found us, we would 
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1075
00:53:08,800 --> 00:53:11,320
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We love seeing ratings and 

1076
00:53:11,320 --> 00:53:13,480
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If you want to get in touch with

1077
00:53:13,480 --> 00:53:16,960
us, you can always e-mail us at 
contact@strongerweekly.com. 

1078
00:53:17,200 --> 00:53:21,840
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We love hearing from our fans 

1079
00:53:21,840 --> 00:53:23,920
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You can ask us a question which 

1080
00:53:23,920 --> 00:53:27,080
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1081
00:53:27,080 --> 00:53:28,760
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Just give us feedback. 

1082
00:53:28,760 --> 00:53:30,920
Tell us you hate us. 
You love us, whatever it is. 

1083
00:53:30,920 --> 00:53:34,920
We just love hearing from MU. 
And lastly, if you think that 

1084
00:53:34,920 --> 00:53:38,320
this show or this episode could 
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1085
00:53:38,320 --> 00:53:40,560
would just love it if you could 
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1086
00:53:40,560 --> 00:53:43,760
you do those things, it just 
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1087
00:53:43,760 --> 00:53:47,840
more people so that we can help 
them grow stronger weekly. 

1088
00:53:47,840 --> 00:53:50,160
So thanks so much for Kaylin 
joining the show. 

1089
00:53:50,160 --> 00:53:51,960
Thanks for Foci for the work 
that you're doing. 

1090
00:53:51,960 --> 00:53:53,200
Thanks for everybody that tuned 
in. 

1091
00:53:53,200 --> 00:53:56,200
We really appreciate you 
spending some time with us and 

1092
00:53:56,200 --> 00:53:59,000
we will see you next week. 
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