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When you open up your Bibles and
turn with me to the letter of 

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first John, Letter First John. 
We were into that letter quite 

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extensively during the summer, 
if you remember, and we are back

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into it just for today. 
We are carrying on in our series

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Words to Live By. 
And just a brief warning to you,

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particularly to your parents, to
the parents, some of the 

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material going to be covering in
this message will be sensitive 

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to young years. 
And so it anyway just just a 

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little, just just a caution to 
you. 

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I'll be very careful with my 
language, but the same time it 

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is a very sensitive topic. 
So I want to give you a heads up

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about that. 
We are looking at words to live 

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by. 
So pithy sayings, slogans that 

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have become popular in our 
culture, that have gained some 

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traction and in fact have have 
such an emotional punch that 

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they can have quite an impact in
the way that we think, not just 

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in the world in general, society
in general, but as Christians as

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well. 
And as we looked at last Week, 2

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Corinthians chapter 10, the 
apostle Paul tells us how 

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important it is for us to take 
captive every thought and make 

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it obedient to Christ. 
He's talking about the arguments

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that we hear. 
He's using military imagery, and

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he's saying we need to tear down
strongholds. 

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And what he means is we need to 
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He defines strongholds as 
arguments, claims that are made 

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in our culture that may or may 
not necessarily line up with the

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Word of God. 
And what we need to do is we 

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need to take captive those 
thoughts that we have and bring 

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them into conformity with the 
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And so that's what we're doing 
in this particular series. 

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And today we're looking at one 
sane, a popular sane. 

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And it's this Love is love. 
Love is love. 

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I remember the very first time 
that I saw those 3 words put 

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together. 
It had quite, quite an impact on

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me, actually. 
It was in a Starbucks cafe, and 

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it was on a chalkboard. 
Love is love, right there on the

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counter with a little rainbow 
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And I realized, you know what? 
That's a powerful saying. 

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That is a very, very powerful 
scene and so we want to take a 

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look at it. 
This has become really the 

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flagship slogan or argument for 
Front front that has arisen from

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the LGBTQ plus community. 
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what it's trying to communicate.
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equally valid and beautiful, 
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regardless of your orientation 
of the people that are involved.

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That same sex love is just as 
legitimate as heterosexual love,

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and it should be accepted and 
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In other words, if you were to 
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love. 
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personally in the sense that 
there's some good intentions 

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behind this statement. 
There is a universal human 

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experience that we all have of 
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Who does not want to be loved? 
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all want to experience the joy 
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another person. 
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In this statement, there's a 
recognition that love is 

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powerful. 
It's one of the most powerful 

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and beautiful forces on this 
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desire to want to protect it, to
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How could it ever be wrong for 
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I mean, think about that. 
How can we be against love, 

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especially as Christians? 
So I think it's good for us to 

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kind of ponder this for a bit. 
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anybody stand in the way of two 
people that simply want to love 

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one another? 
You know, this brings up a lot 

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of theological issues for us as 
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relate to the character of God. 
Because if we were to ask the 

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question, why would God make 
someone gay and then deny them 

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the right to follow through on 
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Why would he do that? 
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Why would God create someone who
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allowed to fulfill? 
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It does. 
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It almost makes more sense 
theologically to just admit love

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is love, right? 
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followers of Jesus Christ, to 
take captive every thought and 

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look at these ideas and to see 
how do they line up with the 

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Word of God. 
Now we're back into the letter 

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of first John, and we're going 
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verses, chapter 4, starting in 
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So we're going to look at 7:00 
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And the reason why we're in 
first John, is this letter, this

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little letter, letter leather, 
little, little, little leather, 

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better 46 times the word love is
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And then just these verses, 
verses 7 to 12, the word love 

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shows up 13 times. 
This is the most concentrated, 

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concentrated passage of love in 
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And that's why we're going to 
take a look at this to help us 

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to formulate our thoughts and to
approach this particular saying.

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So if you remember, John wrote 
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couple of things. 1 he wanted to
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of God's love. 
The God is love and he loves 

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each one of us. 
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give us criteria to evaluate 
what Love Actually is and what 

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it means to actually be a 
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authentic follower of Jesus 
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So, Father, we pray that as we 
approach Your word that you 

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would meet us this morning, that
you would visit us, that You 

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would open our eyes to see 
wonderful things from Your law. 

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Help us to love You more and 
more through Jesus Christ, we 

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pray. 
Amen. 

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First John chapter 4, starting 
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Dear friends, let us love one 
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God. 
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of God and knows God. 
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know God, because God is love. 
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John is talking about where love
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love, and it comes from God. 
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love one another. 
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We should be doing that. 
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For love comes from God. 
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it's a sign that we are 
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We're connected to that, to 
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that love. 
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loves, it's a sign that we're 
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outside of relationship with 
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As continue on verse 9. 
This is how God showed his love 

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among us. 
He sent his one and only Son 

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into the world that we might 
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Love is not something that is 
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God just does, doesn't just say 
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He actually shows us that He 
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And how did He show us? 
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into the world, that we might 
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He sees that apart from him we 
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Apart from him we are headed 
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But He sends his one and only 
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we might live, that we might 
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OK, verse 10. 
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matter. 
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You ready? 
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He loved us and sent his Son as 
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sins. 
This is love, not that we love 

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God. 
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to look at where love comes from
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don't define love. 
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own behavior, what we how we 
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love is. 
It's saying no, no, it's not how

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we love. 
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That's how we know what love is,
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He sent his son as an atoning 
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If we were to look at what love 
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denial. 
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behalf of another person, and 
not just any person, but this is

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a sacrifice on behalf of someone
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undesirable. 
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standard, this is the Plumb 
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This is what we're looking at 
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pure love is. 
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why if we were to jump back into
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about what the standard is, it 
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know what love is. 
Jesus Christ laid down his life 

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for us. 
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This is how we know what love 
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Jesus laid down his life. 
It's the ultimate demonstration,

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ultimate picture that God gives 
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This is what love is. 
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says, and we ought to lay down 
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sisters. 
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Actually, if we're back to to 
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dear friends, since God so loved
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another. 
So what John is saying is that 

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this is how God loves. 
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we're following him, we're gonna
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Now, none of us love exactly how
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standard that he sets. 
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me and let's love as Jesus, as 
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And then in verse 12, he 
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ever seen God. 
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lives in us, and his love is 
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In other words, though we don't 
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loves, somehow He's revealed in 
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Christ, that God's design for 
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tangible expressions of him. 
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our world simply by the way that
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Because the way that we're 
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loves, but this is the love that
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God himself. 
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through our acts of love. 
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And John says that his love is 
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US, that that that how he has 
loved us is meant to be spread 

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through the whole world through 
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deny ourselves and to care for 
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undesirable and unlovable. 
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He wants to spread His glory, 
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character throughout the whole 
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love as His people. 
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this, what we're saying is, is 
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love. 
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Love Is All about. 
Our Love Is All about how God 

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loves us. 
And this begins, if we were to 

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think about it, to unveil what I
call the grand deception behind 

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a saying like this. 
Love is love because we have 

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taken. 
We have taken something that God

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has created and redefined it. 
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happened. 
We are taking something that God

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has created that has boundary 
lines based on how He has 

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defined it. 
And we've said there's no 

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boundaries on this. 
We're lifting the boundaries 

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off. 
We don't want any restrictions 

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on love. 
Now, I don't know about you, but

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there's some of that that's very
appealing. 

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I would even say something very 
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No constraints, just laugh. 
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That was the original deception 
that took place in the garden is

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why I call it the grand 
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It's connected to that original 
lie that came when Eve was 

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looking at that fruit, if you 
remember, in the garden, and it 

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looked desirable and she knew 
that she was not supposed to eat

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of it. 
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Defying God's authority, kind of
stepping on his goodness and 

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basically saying, hey, you know 
what, this look, you have a 

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desire for this, and because you
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it. 
That was the great lie. 

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And so that deception is being 
played out even here and now. 

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You know, we think about the 
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essentially a turn away from 
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At its core, it was a turn away 
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What God says about sex and 
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We got something better. 
Alfred Kinsey, known as the 

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father of the sexual revolution.
He was trying to liberate sex 

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from morality. 
That was his primary, He's a 

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sexologist primary goal, 
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And this is and he taught that 
sex is a normal biological 

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function, acceptable in whatever
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That was his main point. 
Now to do this, he had to do 

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something. 
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of sex, reducing it right down 
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saying, claiming that all 
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equal, no matter where it 
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people of the opposite sex or 
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children, between strangers or 
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All are equally acceptable. 
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And that might seem radical to, 
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kind of the movement we see a 
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our culture. 
Most of you will know Woody 

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Allen, writer and filmmaker. 
He had a family with Mia Farrow.

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intimate relations with his 
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separating Mia and marrying that
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Great social outcry took place. 
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outcry. 
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enough, you know how what what 
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This is, this is how he put it. 
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wants. 
There's no logic to these 

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things. 
You meet someone and you fall in

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love, and that's that. 
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Love is love. 
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that I've meant to fulfill that 
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Now, biblically speaking, 
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we know, as our text says, that 
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isn't true. 
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God created love, any designed 
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in order for our flourishing. 
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ultimate, when it becomes God to
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unravel and fall apart. 
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Love in some forms can be 
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That's really the point. 
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crossed, and I think it's 
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about where that line is. 
This kind of love is acceptable.

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Where does love feel to be love?
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Where would you draw the line? 
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wild, but when God is sidelined 
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whole discussion, we begin to 
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We're returning back to our 
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actually see this happening in 
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It is becoming harder and harder
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defend. 
Why pedophilia and BE and 

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bestiality should remain 
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were now deemed out of bounds. 
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without God, without the word of
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That's part of the problem. 
You know, if we if we draw the 

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line at consenting adults, then 
is adultery OK or is pornography

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OK? 
Like where do we draw that line?

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That's why we have to continue 
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gives us that standard that 
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really all about. 
If we were to pop back to 

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chapter 2, verse 15 and 16, John
says this, do not love the world

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or anything in the world. 
If anyone loves the world's love

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for the Father is not in them. 
For everything in the world. 

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The lust of the flesh, the lust 
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life comes not from the Father, 
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The world and its desires pass 
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of God lives forever. 
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certain things that we should 
not love, do not love the world.

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And when he talks about do not 
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world is actually in in John's 
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ways. 
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terms of the physical world, you
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that in scripture we are to love
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So that's, that's not what he's 
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Also, world can refer to the 
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ourselves, or even to love our 
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So we know that that's not what 
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world. 
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John's referring to, and that is
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that have gone off the rails 
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evil 1. 
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This is where we draw the line. 
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against or are confronted by the
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desires are inappropriate. 
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Apostle Paul speaks about in 
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He says there are dishonorable 
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dishonorable passions, and we 
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as such, those desires, those 
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point, don't come from God. 
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They come from the world. 
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distinguish what those what 
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So let's go back to the 
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someone gay if they cannot 
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Why would he do that? 
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be asked. 
Why would God make someone 

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selfish if they're unable, if 
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to follow through on their 
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You see where I'm getting at? 
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something doesn't mean that 
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should be acted on. 
In fact, God never made anybody 

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gay. 
God doesn't make anybody 

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selfish. 
All of the brokenness that we 

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experience in this life can be 
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took place in the garden. 
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We're collectively responsible. 
God isn't responsible for that. 

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It's not responsible for our 
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grace who wants to meet us in 
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And This is why I just want, I 
want to just just talk about the

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grace of God for us who are 
broken. 

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And we are all broken in so many
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The reason why there there is a 
reason why God is against 

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certain forms of love, and His 
primary reason is because He 

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loves us. 
He loves you and This is why 

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he's against certain forms of 
love. 

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Contrary to popular belief, God 
is not trying to hold good stuff

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back from us. 
That is not his intention. 

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That's what the Evil 1 convinced
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The God's holding out on you, 
God, God, what God is doing is 

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he. 
There are certain things that 

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may look good to us and things 
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His great love and mercy and 
grace, wants to keep us from 

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those things because He knows to
embrace them means that we're 

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going to perish out of His deep,
great love for us. 

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He knows the boundaries. 
He knows what's going to bring 

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us life and what's going to 
bring us to death. 

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There are always consequences 
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Always consequences. 
His design for sex is for a man 

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and a woman within a covenant 
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That's his design, so let's just
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Pornography. 
What are the consequences of 

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pornography? 
I mean, we, we can go into a lot

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of details. 
I'm just kind of skimming the 

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surface here. 
It decreases our capacity for 

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emotional and physical intimacy.
It leads to greater social 

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isolation and self centred 
behaviors. 

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These are the consequences God's
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What about premarital sex That 
can lead to feelings of 

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insecurity, mistrust, comparison
with others, and a higher 

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likelihood of divorce? 
If we do marry, what about 

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adultery? 
It divides human hearts and 

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brings untold sorrows to our 
deepest relationships. 

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What about marriage, A Christian
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That's also a boundary line that
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yoked. 
So he says when when a Christian

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marries a non Christian, this is
going to bring a significant 

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amount of tension into that 
relationship and it's going to 

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lead to a compromise either of 
our love for our spouse or our 

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love for God. 
Something's going to lose out. 

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God's trying to protect us from 
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And what about same sex sexual 
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You know, statistics show that 
LGBTQ plus individuals are two 

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to three times more likely to 
experience depression, anxiety, 

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and substance abuse compared to 
heterosexual individuals, and 

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they face significantly higher 
risk of suicide attempts even in

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the most tolerant and affirming 
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the Nordic countries. 
Do you know who reports the 

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highest levels of happiness and 
satisfaction? 

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People in traditional covenant 
marriages who have a shared 

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Christian faith and are involved
in the community. 

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God knows us and we're just 
talking about the consequences 

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on the on you know, the in the 
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We're not even talking about the
consequences of Scripture refers

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to that have the eternal 
consequences of being outside of

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his Kingdom. 
Love is love is not just wrong, 

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it's it's dangerous. 
It's dangerous talk. 

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It needs to be defined in and of
itself. 

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It stands the way that it stands
is dangerous. 

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So when we're being told to not 
just tolerate but to celebrate, 

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we need to be very, very 
careful. 

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We need to be careful. 
We want to love, love, love, but

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love in the way that God calls 
us to love. 

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And that's why Jesus has a 
church on this planet, the 

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Church of Jesus Christ. 
We were meant to be a beacon of 

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that love. 
So the church is meant to be a 

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place where everyone would want 
to be. 

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How do we do that? 
How do we do that? 

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How do we love as God loves? 
I want to just give you a couple

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of things as we close this 
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Number one, we need to make so 
when when we look at people 

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outside of the church, we want 
to be very, very careful not to 

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impose our Christian morality on
other people. 

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That is not what the church is 
about. 

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We are to love them with the 
love of Jesus Christ. 

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Their behavior is secondary. 
That's not even an issue we need

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to be dealing with. 
You just think about it. 

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If you if you, if you're a 
parent and you have a child and 

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you lose your child in a, in a, 
you know, a highly populated 

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event, what do you do? 
What are the first things that 

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come through your mind? 
All you wanna do is to make sure

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that your child is OK. 
You want a restoration between 

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that child. 
You. 

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You. 
You and you and your child. 

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You're not concerned, right? 
I hope you're not concerned. 

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Maybe you are. 
Maybe we need to talk about 

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this. 
But that OK. 

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I want to make sure that while 
they're lost among all these 

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people, that they're going to be
polite, that they're gonna 

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follow the rules, they're gonna 
be really nice to people, and 

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they're gonna do the right 
thing. 

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Are you thinking about, you're 
not even thinking about that? 

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All you want to happen is for 
that child to be restored to 

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you. 
And it's the same thing when it 

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comes to people outside of the 
church who are not followers of 

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Jesus Christ. 
God's heart for them is that 

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they be restored back to Him as 
their heavenly Father. 

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How they live that's that's 
secondary. 

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Once they receive receive God's 
love and embrace the way of 

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Jesus Christ, then we'll talk 
about what a life, what, what 

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living for Christ looks like. 
But an initially that's not our 

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that's not even actually not 
even our business. 

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That's her her heart orientation
toward people outside the 

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church. 
Now, what about inside? 

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So much that could be said here,
but we as a people, we need to 

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continue to encourage one 
another to live faithfully to 

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God's Word, to to, to, to be, to
be mutually encouraging one 

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another to be faithful, to 
remain faithful. 

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What does that mean? 
That means that we need to be 

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honest. 
We need to we need to confess 

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our sins to one another. 
We need to be real with one 

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another. 
We we need to not be shocked 

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when someone shares the 
challenge that they have with 

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their own wayward desires. 
Why? 

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Because we should be able to 
fully identify with any other 

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individual. 
Because we ourselves, we got, we

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got. 
Our desires may not be the same 

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as theirs, but we were 
nonetheless. 

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And so we're fellow strugglers. 
We're fellow sinners. 

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If you're if you're here today 
and you would, you would see 

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yourself as part of the LGBTQ 
plus community. 

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I wanna just assure you 
something. 

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You are most welcome here. 
You are most welcome here, and 

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while we cannot affirm anything 
that God does not affirm, we do 

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affirm you. 
We will affirm you God loves 

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you. 
He cares about you and He has 

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offering grace to you to each 
one of us in order to live in a 

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way where God becomes more 
important than our desires, that

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he becomes our number one 
desire. 

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That is the kind of support that
each one of us needs no matter 

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what struggle we might have. 
And all of us have those 

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struggles. 
So if you're here today and you 

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and you are you're experience 
that pull that that struggle, I 

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I've got nothing but good news 
for you. 

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God loves you and cares for you 
and His grace is ready to meet 

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you Today is it is a community 
of faith. 

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We cannot buckle under the 
pressure of the society. 

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That is not going to be helpful.
We can't go soft. 

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We need to uphold what it means 
to be faithful, but at the same 

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time, we do it with a tremendous
amount of humility and respect 

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and love for our brothers and 
sisters in Christ. 

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We don't want to redefine love. 
That's not helpful. 

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But what we do want to we want 
to uphold what Love Actually is 

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and to encourage one another in 
that way. 

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Jesus Christ is the one we're 
following. 

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And I want to, I just want to 
close this message by talking 

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about Jesus for a moment, 
because he is the one who 

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actually, if you think about it,
he's God in the flesh, God who 

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who who clothed himself in flesh
and came and humbled himself as 

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a man to walk among us, but he 
came to serve us. 

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Think about that. 
The God of the universe, he 

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created all things. 
He's come now to serve us. 

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It's just the most mind blowing 
thing. 

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And He lived that life and bore 
our sins in His flesh on the 

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cross. 
Everyone of our wayward desires 

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had been asleep like they've 
been nailed to the cross and 

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brought to the grave. 
And when He rose from the dead, 

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He was conquering every single 
one of them on our behalf. 

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In other words, there is nothing
that cannot be forgiven in him. 

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Not a thing. 
And we can stand before him 

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00:31:44,900 --> 00:31:48,790
wholly and righteous, even when 
our desires are screaming and 

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going the other direction. 
He's got us covered. 

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Like seriously, Hallelujah. 
And and this is a beautiful 

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thing. 
He has sent His Holy Spirit to 

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dwell within us, to give us the 
strength day by day to choose 

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00:32:00,960 --> 00:32:04,750
God over our desires that are 
contrary to His will. 

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And that grace is real. 
It is real. 

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Grace is God's unmerited favor. 
But it's more than that. 

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It's power. 
It is power. 

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And that power is accessed when 
we receive His grace by faith. 

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00:32:19,340 --> 00:32:21,790
You know, we were saved by grace
through faith. 

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00:32:22,080 --> 00:32:24,210
We were healed by grace through 
faith. 

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We were directed by grace 
through faith. 

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Our faith activates that grace 
in our lives. 

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And if we will believe, yes, 
this is what's true. 

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00:32:34,480 --> 00:32:37,890
And I'm choosing you, God, even 
though I feel like I'm powerless

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00:32:37,900 --> 00:32:41,150
to do differently. 
He's gonna meet you and he's 

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gonna meet me in the midst of 
that. 

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So I just wanna, I just wanna 
close. 

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I just wanna encourage you to 
just, to just to close your 

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eyes. 
Just have a moment with God 

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right now. 
And if you're currently in the 

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midst of an intense struggle 
with sexual brokenness, I just 

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want to say the Lord sees you. 
He knows you, He loves you, He 

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00:33:01,620 --> 00:33:04,360
cares for you, and He wants you 
to come to Him now. 

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If you are the victim of sexual 
abuse, the Lord wants you to 

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00:33:13,870 --> 00:33:17,370
know that He sees you, He knows 
you, He loves you. 

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He wants to bring healing to 
you. 

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If you have a loved one who you 
know is struggling in any of 

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00:33:26,470 --> 00:33:31,780
these areas and it pains you to 
see it, the Lord wants you to 

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00:33:31,790 --> 00:33:36,080
know that He sees you, that He 
knows you, that He loves you. 

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00:33:36,970 --> 00:33:39,280
He's saying He's inviting you. 
Come to me. 

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00:33:39,630 --> 00:33:42,120
Come to me, all you who are 
weary and burdened, and I will 

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00:33:42,130 --> 00:33:46,290
give you rest. 
Take my yoke upon you and learn 

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00:33:46,300 --> 00:33:49,910
from me, for I am gentle and 
humble and heart, and you will 

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00:33:49,920 --> 00:33:53,880
receive rest for your souls. 
My yoke is easy and my burden is

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light. 
Just receive it. 

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Lord, I pray. 
We pray that You would pour out 

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00:33:58,140 --> 00:34:02,220
your grace upon us where we need
it the most, Lord, where there 

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00:34:02,230 --> 00:34:04,640
is hurt, where there is 
temptation, where there is 

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00:34:04,650 --> 00:34:07,460
struggle, Lord, where there is 
confusion. 

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00:34:07,590 --> 00:34:12,020
We pray that you'd meet us in 
that place and reveal the God 

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that you are through Jesus 
Christ. 

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00:34:17,920 --> 00:34:21,989
Bring healing, bring wholeness, 
Bring hope, bring encouragement,

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00:34:23,070 --> 00:34:27,110
bring your strength to us as we 
follow Jesus. 

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00:34:27,870 --> 00:34:30,350
It's in His name we pray. 
Amen.

