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Crossing Church, I want to 
welcome you joining from all of 

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our different locations, those 
of you watching online and of 

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course, those of you who are 
part of the crossing inside 

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family. 
And I also want to welcome those

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of you who are new here, whether
it's your first time or your 

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first time in a long time, we 
believe that you being here 

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today is no accident. 
Why do we believe this? 

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Well, because Jesus actually has
some words that were recorded by

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John in chapter 6, verse 44. 
And this what Jesus said, No one

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can come to me, that's Jesus, 
unless the Father who sent me 

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draws them, and I will raise 
them up at the last day. 

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Why am I telling you this? 
You are here today on purpose 

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and you are here today for a 
purpose. 

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For some of you, it might be 
your routine. 

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This is just what you do. 
Great. 

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For others of you, you might be 
here today because you are going

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through something and you're 
looking for some help and maybe 

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you're looking for some hope. 
Others of you, you might be 

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looking for something new, 
something different. 

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You're just checking things out.
No matter what brought you in 

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today, I know who drew you in 
today. 

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And that is the fact that God 
wants every single one of you to

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find an intimate personal 
relationship with him. 

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And my hope today is really, 
really simple is that every 

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single one of you today would 
leave with the desire to connect

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more with God. 
In prayer. 

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We talk a lot about the 
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We'll put that up on the wall. 
So here's the spiritual 

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spectrum. 
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spiritual spectrum to talk about
prayer, where would you put 

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yourself on the spectrum if you 
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Let me give you some context. 
Let's say a -, 5 is I don't ever

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pray. 
I don't see the need. 

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Let's say a - 3 is somebody. 
I'm I pray, but I'm hurt. 

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I pray, but I'm frustrated. 
I pray, but there's some 

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baggage. 
I pray and there's a lot of 

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frustration because I've been 
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doesn't seem to be doing a bit 
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You're -3 let's say A0. 
If somebody's like, yeah, I, I 

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want to pray. 
I just don't know how. 

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Like, I'm just taking baby 
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I don't know enough to get mad 
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I'm just at a zero. 
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Love to have you. 
Let's say a + 1 is you pray 

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before meals and to get out of 
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OK, You're like, you know, I 
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when I see those sirens, I'm 
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give this cop diarrhea like 
Jesus, please. 

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I need AI need a special move of
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OK, A+ Those of you OK, all 
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threes or you're going. 
You know what? 

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My prayer life could use some 
improvement. 

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I'm praying more than maybe I've
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But I got to be honest with you.
There's there's a gap between 

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where I'm praying and what kind 
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And let's say you're a + 5. 
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fives out there. 
My prayer life has never been 

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better. 
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I want you to think, where would
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And I'm going to ask you do 
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You don't have to say it out 
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if you came with somebody on 
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Hey, I just want to, I just want
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where the number I would give 
myself now, I'm OK with whatever

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number you give as long as it's 
an honest answer. 

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Now that you think about what 
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what number you would give 
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you what my goal is, is that 
this year would be the best year

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of prayer for you. 
That your number would not stay 

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that number that you would take 
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right. 
As you guys have heard me say 

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100 times. 
Our mission is to help people 

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find an intimate personal 
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And we have a big audacious goal
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where we do life and ministry 
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earth to get to hell from. 
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as we're trying to help people 
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this region the hardest place on
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from. 
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And I think that place is here. 
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and I think it's with us. 
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gives people time to hear about 
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There has to be a place that 
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hear about God for the very 
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And there has to be a place that
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points people to the peace that 
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And there has to be a place that
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made new in Christ. 
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that's committed to reaching 
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But here is an uncomfortable 
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We cannot create the place we 
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createspace to become the people
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Last week I talked about how we 
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for spending time in the Word of
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How on earth can we tell people 
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him? 
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who they can become in Christ if
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Christ? 
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to people? 
How can we create a space, how a

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place for people to find Jesus 
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word? 
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need a place to read the Bible. 
We need a time to read our Bible

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and then we need to do something
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We actually need to do what the 
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spend time reading the Bible, 
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And we don't want to be 
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People. 
These aren't my words. 

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These are the words of the 
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Look what it says in James. 
This is Jesus brother James 1/22

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Do not merely listen to the word
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Do what it says. 
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rather you read your Bible. 
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But what God is after is not you
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doing what the Bible says. 
You do not get fit having a 

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Planet Fitness membership. 
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be a super skinny guy. 
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And the way we move from left to
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the way we go from a -, 5 to a 
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faith and obedience. 
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are connected. 
Your faith will never outrun 

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your obedience. 
Your obedience will never outrun

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your faith. 
They are connected, they move at

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the same speed. 
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the people that God created us 
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createspace in our lives for 
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Many of you guys know about 
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Billy Graham is the most 
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history. 
He preached to over 215 million 

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people in 185 countries across 
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From his humble beginnings on a 
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travels around the world 
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capacity, he pursued 1 singular 
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Jesus Christ with anybody who 
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And Billy Graham's message never
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It's a super simple message. 
You've heard me talk about it 

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all the time, but it came 
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Here was his message for God's 
love, the world that he gave His

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one and only Son, that whoever 
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perish out of John, chapter 3, 
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And when it comes to prayer, 
Billy Graham had a lot of really

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great insights about prayer. 
So I just wanted to give you a 

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chance to kind of hear from him.
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People would ask him, how do you
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outreach? 
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prayer, prayer and prayer. 
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If we're going, we want to make 
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planet earth to get the help 
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Billy Graham would tell us best 
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prayer. 
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Have you ever said, well, all we
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Well, when we come to the end of
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beginning of God. 
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We try all kinds of human things
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well, that none of those worked 
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Let me start with God. 
What if we just started with God

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1st? 
Instead of making God like our 

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last choice, we made him our 
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He also said this, We are to 
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we become faithless and 
unbelieving. 

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We are to pray in times of 
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boastful and proud. 
We are to pray in times of 

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danger lest we become fearful 
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We are to pray in times of 
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self-sufficient. 
We are to use our prayers to 

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create a dependency on God. 
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heaven is full of answers to 
prayers which people never 

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bothered to pray. 
Now I'm going to tell you about 

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another famous evangelist. 
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He was a traveling preacher that
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4000 miles by horse in the 
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It is said that during his 
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the globe 10 times by horse. 
It is also said that he preached

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over 40 1000 sermons and at his 
death he left almost nothing 

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behind other than the group of 
four that he started with in the

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Holy Club numbered 135,000 
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He had raised up 541 preachers 
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Methodist Church. 
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He said prayer is where the 
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He also said God does nothing 
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in prayer. 
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much prayer, your way will be 
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made clear. 
This is the one that got me the 

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most though. 
I have so much to do that I 

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spend hours in prayer before I 
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Too many of us, we're going. 
I am just way too busy to pray. 

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And John Wesley said I have so 
much to do, there is no way I'm 

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going to get it done unless I 
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God. 
If you and I are going to be 

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going to be a part of creating 
the place that we desperately 

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want to see happen in our 
region, then you and I must 

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createspace in our lives for 
prayer. 

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So today I want to do something 
really simple. 

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I want to give you some tips to 
improve your prayer life. 

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First thing I want to give you, 
first tip is start your day in 

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prayer. 
The very first thing you do. 

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I've been trying to do this for 
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And the weird part is I totally 
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So I kind of like I had to do 
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I was like, are you kidding me? 
I already wrote this in my 

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sermon. 
And I was like, how did this 

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happen? 
But listen, we all fail. 

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OK, Here's what I've been trying
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When my alarm goes off, before I
do anything, before I hit 

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snooze, before I tell Jennifer 
stop giving me a kiss, before 

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any of that stuff happens, the 
very first thing is I want to 

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spend a little bit of time in 
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And here's my prayer. 
It's not like a crazy long 

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prayer because I'll go right 
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Sometimes that's OK. 
If you were to like just pray 

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until your alarm goes back off 
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that'd be a great start to a 
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Here's what I pray for. 
God, give me wisdom and 

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direction for the day. 
I don't want to do anything you 

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don't want me to do. 
I don't want to say anything you

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don't want me to say. 
Now do I still fail fall short 

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of that prayer all the time, 
100%, but I'm starting my very 

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day in reverence, submission to 
God, saying I want to be your 

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man. 
I'm going to do what you want me

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to do. 
I want to say what you want me 

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to say before I start doing 
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the kids, before I'm letting the
dog outside, before I'm whatever

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I'm I just want to start there. 
Second thing I want to encourage

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you to do is I want you to have 
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I want you to have a place in 
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special time. 
I am in prayer for me. 

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I do this at my desk after I get
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So I will pray in bed and then 
I'll go when I spend time in the

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Word, I'll spend a little bit of
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in prayer and I'm making a list 
of the things I'm praying for. 

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I've never done this before 
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my prayers, but I know that 
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frustrated and let's, well, 
let's just do this. 

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How many of you have ever been 
frustrated that God has not 

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answered a prayer the way you 
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Just so you know, I got both 

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hands up and both feet there. 
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doing. 
OK, I got, I got this little, 

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you know, whatever you call it. 
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this year, I am writing down my 
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And what I'm doing is, is I'm 
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our track record of all the 
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And so while I am still 
struggling over the some of the 

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prayers that he hasn't answered 
the way that I wanted him to 

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answer, I'm also going to have a
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that he has come through in ways
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Can I let you in on some of my 
prayers? 

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I've been praying for Weaver to 
be a Church of 300. 

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I've been praying since my boys 
were born for them to be 

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baptized. 
I remember praying for my for 

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Jennifer, who was not my wife, 
and I was just praying for her 

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to be baptized. 
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campus started, a lady who was a
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me a message and she said I'm 
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to church on your opening 
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Would you start praying for 
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And so I was praying for a lady 
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Jennifer. 
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Jennifer would become a prayer 
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her to get baptized. 
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eventually she'd be the one that
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And little did I know that she'd
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been praying for, that they 
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I remember when the Macomb 
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request. 
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things. 
But this year, I'm going to keep

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track of all of the things that 
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God has been moving and how God 
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Because if you get discouraged 
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give up sometimes on your prayer
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But if I can see where God has 
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see possible, it's going to keep
me motivated to pray for the 

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things that I have not yet seen 
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Make a habit. 
Here's tip #3 Make a habit of 

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praying before you step into new
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Here's what I mean by praying 
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How many of you don't like all 
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If you came with your coworker, 
OK, we've got something to talk 

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about. 
What if before you went into 

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work you said, Hey God, I can't.
I don't know everything that's 

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going to happen today, but I 
want to be a light in my 

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workplace today. 
How would that change how you 

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entered into the workplace? 
I'm getting ready to step into a

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new thing. 
Before you get into a meeting, 

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just stopping yourself and 
saying, you know what? 

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I'm just going to pray that in 
this meeting I behave the way 

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you'd want me to behave. 
I add value in the areas where 

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you want me to add value. 
I keep my mouth shut in all the 

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places you want me to keep my 
mouth shut before taking a phone

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call. 
God help this phone call for me 

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to leave being an encouragement 
to this particular person Before

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I step into a new thing, I'm 
praying. 

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Here's a great one for dads or 
for for women too, if you have a

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what I would call a stressful 
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That's a high octane job and it 
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Sometimes we give our very best 
in the workplace and we give our

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leftovers at home. 
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that out loud that you are 
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your kids already know that you 
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What would happen if before you 
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driveway and you gave yourself 
like a couple minutes and said, 

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God, I'm about to go in and it's
530 and the kids are going to 

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bed at 8:30. 
I need your strength and I need 

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your power to be the very best 
dad that somebody can be. 

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For the next three hours, things
have been tense at home with you

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and your spouse. 
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said, listen, I want to go in 
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much value as I possibly can to 
my spouse. 

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And I'm relying on your strength
and your wisdom. 

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God, you know I'm zapped. 
You know that my patience is 

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running thin. 
I'm going to need you to be my 

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patients before I step into the 
home. 

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What if you prayed before you 
had a difficult conversation? 

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God, I'm about ready to step 
into some waters that I'd be 

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honest with you. 
I don't want to walk in. 

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And I'm going to ask that you 
just give me the confidence that

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your words will be the words 
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Praying in faith and being 
obedient. 

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Praying before reacting to a 
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How many of you? 
Everything's gone really great 

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when you've been reactive. 
Yeah, me neither. 

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So what if instead of before we 
react like your kids do 

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something stupid, They went to 
the bathroom, they took all the 

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stupid pills and before you like
flew off the handle, you went 

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God, I'm about to I'm about to 
act like a parent here and 

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they're going to get their view 
of God by the way that I handle 

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this. 
And God, you're the most perfect

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parent that ever lived. 
Could you give me some wisdom, 

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insight, quick prayer that could
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What if you were to start 
praying that you'd be a Jesus 

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person? 
What would you, what would 

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happen if you started praying 
for God to open up doors for 

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Jesus to take crown or take 
ground in your sphere of 

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influence? 
What if you were to pray for 

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opportunities to talk to people 
about Jesus? 

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I was golfing with a guy and it 
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we were playing with different 
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And this guy named Eric who goes
where church, great guy. 

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He just said let's just start 
praying for him. 

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So while we're driving to the 
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us to get to where we're going 
because my yeah, God has not 

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answered the prayer that I've 
become a better golfer yet. 

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And while we are praying, we are
praying for the different people

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that we're going to golf with. 
I remember praying with for for 

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all the families before a 
basketball team that was getting

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started with my boys. 
Like, I want to be the kind of 

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coach. 
I want to be the kind of person 

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that helps people find a 
relationship with you. 

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What would happen if you started
praying for wisdom and boldness?

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What if you started praying for 
you to do your part before you 

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prayed for other people to do 
their part? 

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God, would you just make my wife
less cantankerous and would you 

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make her sweeter? 
What if you stop praying that 

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prayer and said, God help me to 
endure any situation and any 

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circumstance, Help me to repay 
hardship with kindness and 

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sweetness. 
What if we were to start praying

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for like for God to do a serious
work in us before we were 

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begging him to do a work in 
somebody else? 

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Recently I was I had an old 
friend from from elementary 

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school and junior high and high 
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It was actually a person that 
had baptized me at a youth event

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and for the last period of 
years, like I've just not seen 

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any movement in his life 
spiritually and had a broken 

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heart. 
And I'm thinking, man, how do I 

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engage in this conversation? 
So before I go into the 

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restaurant, I was like, God, I'm
going to open my mouth about 

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this. 
I've pre decided I'm talking to 

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you or talking to him about you 
today. 

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When I get ready to do that, I'm
just asking that every word that

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comes out is the right word so I
don't have to spend any time 

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going, did I do it right? 
Did I do it wrong? 

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I'm just in faith and in 
obedience. 

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I'm just asking for you to show 
up, and even when things aren't 

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going your way, I want us to 
keep praying because God's 

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timeline is not our timeline. 
Here's a perfect example of 

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this. 
For years it was a goal for 

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there to one day be a church in 
Burlington and a church in Fort 

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Madison. 
Just wanted that desperately. 

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I had it on a little postcard 
that I wrote all the names of 

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like towns where there are 
people that I knew that I wanted

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to reach and I want our church 
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And lots of people in our church
were wanting those things to 

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happen. 
And people from our Kia Cook 

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location were going who, who 
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Madison and go, would you 
please? 

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But in God's timing, he gives us
a building that we don't have to

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buy in the middle of both of 
those areas. 

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Well, we don't have the staff 
for two campus pastors. 

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We don't have the staff for two 
worship people, but we can 

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actually have a building given 
to us. 

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And then he raises up the right 
person and the right team. 

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So we just have to have one team
that can minister to both 

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communities. 
If God had answered the prayer 

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10 years ago, we'd have had a 
dumpster fire on our hands. 

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But in his timing, He creates 
something that we wouldn't have 

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even thought being possible. 
I'd also tell you don't stop 

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praying just because you don't 
understand. 

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Sometimes our prayers are 
personal and hard and we don't 

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understand why this is 
happening. 

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And hear me, when things are not
going your way, in prayer, in 

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faith, and in obedience, we keep
praying. 

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In fact, you might be exercising
the most faith and the most 

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obedience when you are praying 
and it looks like nothing is 

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going your way. 
The most faithful person might 

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not be the person who has every 
prayer being answered the way 

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they want it answered. 
The most faithful prayer is 

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going God, I don't see you doing
any of the things that are on my

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heart, but your word says to 
pray. 

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And so I'm going to keep 
praying. 

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And when you're praying, here is
that here is the the attitude I 

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want you to have that when 
you're praying, you're praying 

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in submission to God because at 
the end of the day, you only 

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want what he wants. 
If you could have any choice, a 

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lot of us would go God, I'll be 
honest with you. 

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I want my will more than I want 
your will. 

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But I'll be honest with you, 
even though your will might be a

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good idea, it's not nearly as 
good as his. 

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And Jesus, he's like the best 
Christian who ever lived. 

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When he was praying in the 
garden, God didn't answer his 

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prayer the way he wanted. 
And Jesus ends his prayer and he

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goes, not my will but yours be 
done. 

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If Jesus knows that God's will 
is better than his own, then we 

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should know that too. 
We want God's will to be done in

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our lives. 
At the end of the day, we don't 

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want anything that was 
manufactured by us. 

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We only want the things that are
from Him. 

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And the idea of you and I living
to the fullest without our lives

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being covered in prayer is 
absolutely foreign to scripture.

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For you and I to live the life 
that Jesus called us to live, 

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that God designed us to live, 
and not having it covered and 

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bathed and saturated in prayer 
is completely foreign to 

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scripture. 
So we will never become the 

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people we want to become and we 
will never create the place that

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we desperately want to create 
unless we are deeply committed 

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to prayer. 
In fact, prayer shows up 165 

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times in the New Testament in 
all 27 books. 

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There's only four books of the, 
I said 3-4 books of the Bible 

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that don't specifically mention 
prayer. 

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That's Galatians, Titus, second 
Peter, and 2nd John. 

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But when you start reading 
through the New Testament, what 

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you're going to realize is God 
has a lot to say about prayers. 

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How many of you have people that
don't like you? 

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Raise your hand. 
OK, great. 

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How many of you have people that
you don't like? 

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Matthew 544 says love your 
enemies and pray for those who 

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persecute you. 
How many of us are prayer list 

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is dominated by the people we 
don't like and that don't like 

450
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us? 
Jesus says pray for those 

451
00:23:13,160 --> 00:23:16,320
people. 
How many of you you'd like to 

452
00:23:16,320 --> 00:23:19,200
sin less this year? 
Those of you who didn't raise 

453
00:23:19,200 --> 00:23:20,840
your hand, you're like, listen, 
I'm, I'm getting a master's 

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00:23:20,840 --> 00:23:23,440
degree in sin this year. 
Watch out, OK? 

455
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If you want to sin less, look 
what it says in Matthew chapter 

456
00:23:27,000 --> 00:23:30,640
or Mark chapter 14. 
Watch and pray so that you will 

457
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not fall into temptation. 
The Spirit is willing, but the 

458
00:23:35,480 --> 00:23:37,960
flesh is weak. 
If you're asked people what do 

459
00:23:37,960 --> 00:23:39,560
you want to do? 
Like in their heart, they want 

460
00:23:39,560 --> 00:23:42,080
to do great things for God. 
The problem is the flesh gets in

461
00:23:42,080 --> 00:23:44,240
the way. 
Jesus says if you want to sin 

462
00:23:44,240 --> 00:23:46,800
less, you're going to you're 
every time before you sin, there

463
00:23:46,800 --> 00:23:48,600
is a temptation to step into 
that sin. 

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How do we guard ourselves 
against the temptation which 

465
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leads us into the sin that Jesus
tells us? 

466
00:23:53,040 --> 00:23:56,040
Prayer, God, I don't want to be 
a person who's unfaithful to my 

467
00:23:56,040 --> 00:23:57,000
wife. 
I don't want to be a person 

468
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who's caught in sin. 
God, would you guard me? 

469
00:23:58,720 --> 00:24:00,400
Would you watch over me? 
Would you protect me? 

470
00:24:02,960 --> 00:24:07,000
Jesus told his disciples in Luke
chapter 18 to keep praying and 

471
00:24:07,000 --> 00:24:12,680
to never give up. 
In John 17 verses 15 it says 

472
00:24:12,720 --> 00:24:14,800
Jesus says this. 
My prayer is not that you would 

473
00:24:14,800 --> 00:24:17,640
take them out of the world, but 
that you would protect him, 

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00:24:17,680 --> 00:24:20,360
protect them from the evil. 1 
How many of us want to be 

475
00:24:20,360 --> 00:24:23,560
removed from every painful and 
sticky situation that we're in? 

476
00:24:24,680 --> 00:24:27,400
And Jesus says, I'm not praying 
to take you out them or to take 

477
00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:30,200
us out of the situation. 
I'm praying that they would 

478
00:24:30,200 --> 00:24:33,120
remain in the situation and be a
difference maker. 

479
00:24:33,920 --> 00:24:36,720
Acts chapter 4, verse 29. 
This is what these people were 

480
00:24:36,720 --> 00:24:38,920
praying in the book of Acts, 
which if you want to read about 

481
00:24:38,920 --> 00:24:41,400
the explosive power of the Holy 
Spirit in the book of Acts or in

482
00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:42,840
the Bible, you read the book of 
Acts. 

483
00:24:42,840 --> 00:24:46,800
That's what it says in Acts 429.
Now, Lord, consider their 

484
00:24:46,800 --> 00:24:53,360
threats and enable Your servants
to speak Your Word with great 

485
00:24:53,800 --> 00:24:56,440
boldness. 
That was their prayer. 

486
00:24:56,880 --> 00:25:00,040
Not that the persecutions would 
stop, not that God would make it

487
00:25:00,040 --> 00:25:04,440
easy, but God give us boldness. 
And You know what happened next.

488
00:25:05,240 --> 00:25:09,360
The place was shaken, they were 
filled with the Holy Spirit, and

489
00:25:09,360 --> 00:25:11,680
they spoke the Word of God 
boldly. 

490
00:25:12,360 --> 00:25:15,640
Romans chapter 8 verse 26 has 
this to say about prayer. 

491
00:25:16,360 --> 00:25:19,840
In the same way, the Spirit, 
this is the Holy Spirit helps us

492
00:25:19,840 --> 00:25:22,760
in our weakness. 
We don't know what we ought to 

493
00:25:22,760 --> 00:25:25,600
pray for, but the Spirit himself
intercedes for us. 

494
00:25:25,760 --> 00:25:27,840
This is a completely acceptable 
prayer. 

495
00:25:28,160 --> 00:25:29,840
God, I have no clue what to 
pray. 

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00:25:31,240 --> 00:25:37,160
Holy Spirit, pray on my behalf. 
If the I were to make AI got I 

497
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do I got time. 
Imagine this is a really long 

498
00:25:39,400 --> 00:25:40,800
table. 
I've done this teaching before. 

499
00:25:40,920 --> 00:25:43,680
Imagine this is a really, really
long table and this really, 

500
00:25:43,680 --> 00:25:47,520
really long table was my prayer 
life and I were to lift, trying 

501
00:25:47,520 --> 00:25:50,000
to lift this table. 
Well, if I'm, if I can only lift

502
00:25:50,000 --> 00:25:52,320
on this side, I can't lift my 
prayer. 

503
00:25:52,320 --> 00:25:55,200
I can't do it on my own. 
The Bible uses the word, the 

504
00:25:55,200 --> 00:25:57,240
spirit helps. 
The Greek word is synthol, 

505
00:25:57,400 --> 00:26:01,120
syntholombonomy. 
It is a long side opposite of. 

506
00:26:01,680 --> 00:26:03,880
So the Holy Spirit when it comes
to your prayer life comes 

507
00:26:03,880 --> 00:26:06,640
alongside of you on the opposite
side. 

508
00:26:07,560 --> 00:26:10,160
And so if this hand is Clayton 
and this hand is the Holy 

509
00:26:10,160 --> 00:26:13,120
Spirit, now I can lift the 
prayer. 

510
00:26:13,320 --> 00:26:15,200
The Holy Spirit helps us and our
weakness. 

511
00:26:15,360 --> 00:26:18,080
When I have a prayer that I 
can't pray on my own, when I got

512
00:26:18,080 --> 00:26:20,240
to pray, that's too hard. 
God, I have a hard time praying 

513
00:26:20,240 --> 00:26:22,240
for my enemies. 
Holy Spirit, would you pray on 

514
00:26:22,240 --> 00:26:24,760
my behalf? 
That's the only person that 

515
00:26:24,760 --> 00:26:27,360
we're actually directed or 
allowed to actually participate 

516
00:26:27,360 --> 00:26:29,000
in our prayers. 
You don't when you're praying, 

517
00:26:29,000 --> 00:26:32,600
you don't go. 
You know, you just allow the 

518
00:26:32,600 --> 00:26:34,600
Holy Spirit to pray. 
First Corinthians Chapter 7 says

519
00:26:34,880 --> 00:26:38,440
at times that we should abstain 
from sex to be devoted in 

520
00:26:38,440 --> 00:26:39,760
prayer. 
Some of you are like we're doing

521
00:26:39,760 --> 00:26:41,680
a great job at the abstaining, 
but we haven't been doing the 

522
00:26:41,680 --> 00:26:43,360
praying. 
But it also says this don't 

523
00:26:43,360 --> 00:26:45,840
abstain for too long, otherwise 
Satan may tempt you. 

524
00:26:45,960 --> 00:26:47,720
But there was a group of people 
that were going listen, we want 

525
00:26:47,720 --> 00:26:51,000
to be so, so devoted in prayer 
that we're going to say no to 

526
00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:52,920
sex for a while just so we can 
focus on the Lord. 

527
00:26:54,520 --> 00:26:56,760
Is that us? 
How many people have that to 

528
00:26:56,760 --> 00:26:58,360
marriage? 
My wife and my husband, my 

529
00:26:58,360 --> 00:27:01,520
husband's just been just been 
seeking the Lord so long in 

530
00:27:01,520 --> 00:27:02,760
prayer. 
We just haven't had sex. 

531
00:27:03,240 --> 00:27:05,600
But the people in First 
Corinthians he was writing to 

532
00:27:05,600 --> 00:27:07,640
them. 
He says, listen, how serious is 

533
00:27:07,640 --> 00:27:09,120
prayer? 
It's serious enough that 

534
00:27:09,120 --> 00:27:11,040
sometimes you could just say no 
to sex, that we could pray 

535
00:27:11,040 --> 00:27:13,880
Second Corinthians. 
He says that you help people 

536
00:27:13,880 --> 00:27:16,080
with your prayers. 
In Ephesians. 

537
00:27:16,360 --> 00:27:18,800
He says that people that we were
to pray that people would be 

538
00:27:18,800 --> 00:27:21,360
strengthened and that they'd 
experienced the power of the 

539
00:27:21,360 --> 00:27:25,560
Holy Spirit in our inner being. 
In Philippians chapter one, 

540
00:27:25,560 --> 00:27:29,760
verse 9, it says we are to spend
time in prayer so that our love 

541
00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:32,360
may abound. 
How many of you ever feel like 

542
00:27:32,360 --> 00:27:37,280
your love tank is running low? 
In prayer we get our love to 

543
00:27:37,280 --> 00:27:41,480
abound and our knowledge and 
insight of the Lord increases. 

544
00:27:41,560 --> 00:27:46,480
How in prayer? 
Philippians 4 verse 6 has this 

545
00:27:46,480 --> 00:27:50,320
to say about prayer. 
Do not be anxious about anything

546
00:27:50,720 --> 00:27:54,440
but in every situation. 
Remember earlier I was talking 

547
00:27:54,440 --> 00:27:56,760
about all the different things 
you're going to step into in 

548
00:27:56,840 --> 00:28:03,120
every situation by prayer and 
petition with Thanksgiving, 

549
00:28:03,400 --> 00:28:08,080
present your requests to God. 
This is what Paul is telling the

550
00:28:08,080 --> 00:28:09,840
Philippians. 
There is not a single instance 

551
00:28:09,840 --> 00:28:12,600
that you are getting ready to 
step into that you should not 

552
00:28:12,600 --> 00:28:17,000
cover in prayer. 
And when you pray, you're 

553
00:28:17,000 --> 00:28:19,360
operating in faith and in 
obedience. 

554
00:28:19,880 --> 00:28:23,120
In Colossians chapter 4, we're 
told that prayer opens doors for

555
00:28:23,120 --> 00:28:25,400
ministry. 
God, today as I step into my 

556
00:28:25,400 --> 00:28:27,400
workplace, would you open doors 
for ministry? 

557
00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:30,440
First Thessalonians chapter 3 
tells us to pray earnestly. 

558
00:28:30,640 --> 00:28:33,040
First Thessalonians chapter 5 
says that we're supposed to pray

559
00:28:33,040 --> 00:28:35,320
continually. 
Second Thessalonians says that 

560
00:28:35,320 --> 00:28:38,760
pray that the name of Jesus 
would be glorified in your life.

561
00:28:39,000 --> 00:28:41,160
That after people get done 
interacting with you, they would

562
00:28:41,160 --> 00:28:43,000
go, man, Jesus is up to 
something. 

563
00:28:43,800 --> 00:28:48,120
I can see it in their life. 2nd 
Thessalonians chapter 3 says 

564
00:28:48,120 --> 00:28:50,320
that we were supposed to pray 
that the message of God would 

565
00:28:50,320 --> 00:28:52,800
spread rapidly. 
What would happen if the people 

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00:28:52,800 --> 00:28:55,160
who called the crossing home 
were to just pray the prayer 

567
00:28:55,160 --> 00:28:57,960
that the message of Jesus Christ
would spread rapidly in our 

568
00:28:57,960 --> 00:29:00,240
homes and our communities and in
our region? 

569
00:29:00,640 --> 00:29:03,880
First Timothy chapter 2 says we 
are to pray for all people. 

570
00:29:04,280 --> 00:29:07,200
There's not a single person who 
is not worthy of your prayers. 

571
00:29:07,440 --> 00:29:10,360
Second Timothy chapter one, 
verse 3 says that we are to pray

572
00:29:10,360 --> 00:29:13,760
that God would raise up fellow 
laborers in the gospel. 

573
00:29:14,160 --> 00:29:17,400
Finally, in chapter 1, verse 6 
says that effective ministry and

574
00:29:17,400 --> 00:29:21,680
a deepening of understanding 
take place when we spend time in

575
00:29:21,680 --> 00:29:24,880
prayer and that we endure the 
good thing or we endure the 

576
00:29:24,880 --> 00:29:26,520
hardships that come with the 
gospel. 

577
00:29:27,080 --> 00:29:32,080
In Hebrews chapter 5, it says 
that Jesus's prayers were heard 

578
00:29:32,360 --> 00:29:34,240
because of his reverence 
submission. 

579
00:29:34,800 --> 00:29:37,080
I wonder sometimes if our 
prayers are not heard because we

580
00:29:37,080 --> 00:29:39,360
are not willing to submit to 
God's plan. 

581
00:29:40,120 --> 00:29:43,960
But James 5 verse 16 has this to
say about prayer, that the 

582
00:29:43,960 --> 00:29:49,680
prayer of a righteous person is 
powerful and effective, that God

583
00:29:49,680 --> 00:29:54,080
moves when a person who is 
committed to Him and committed 

584
00:29:54,080 --> 00:29:56,880
to His cause go to their knees 
in prayer. 

585
00:29:56,880 --> 00:30:00,560
First, Peter chapter 3 says the 
ears of the Lord are attentive 

586
00:30:00,560 --> 00:30:06,560
to a righteous person. 
First, John 5 verse 16 says that

587
00:30:06,560 --> 00:30:09,600
we are to pray for brothers and 
sisters who are struggling in 

588
00:30:09,600 --> 00:30:11,640
sin. 
What if instead of gossiping 

589
00:30:11,640 --> 00:30:14,200
about the stupid thing that 
they're doing, what about 

590
00:30:14,200 --> 00:30:16,440
telling everybody else about the
sin that they've committed? 

591
00:30:16,920 --> 00:30:18,800
What about instead of watching 
passively? 

592
00:30:18,800 --> 00:30:22,600
When we saw somebody struggling 
in sin, our first thought was 

593
00:30:22,600 --> 00:30:25,040
not to shame them, but to pray 
for them. 

594
00:30:26,680 --> 00:30:29,840
Third, John says pray that we 
would enjoy good health so we 

595
00:30:29,840 --> 00:30:32,880
can expand the ministry. 
Jude 120 tells us to pray in the

596
00:30:32,880 --> 00:30:36,200
Spirit, and then Revelation 
chapter 8 says that when we 

597
00:30:36,200 --> 00:30:41,360
pray, our prayers rise like an 
incense, like smoke from a fire,

598
00:30:41,360 --> 00:30:45,200
like a fine perfume to the noses
of those in heaven. 

599
00:30:48,040 --> 00:30:53,000
In the 1940s, Doctor Orr took a 
group of his students on a field

600
00:30:53,000 --> 00:30:57,200
trip to see the famous religious
historical sites that dotted 

601
00:30:57,480 --> 00:31:00,360
England. 
And one of the stops was the 

602
00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:03,280
place where John Wesley had 
lived. 

603
00:31:05,040 --> 00:31:07,120
And they walked around the house
and eventually they made their 

604
00:31:07,120 --> 00:31:11,360
way up to the bedroom where the 
students noticed that beside the

605
00:31:11,360 --> 00:31:17,080
bed were two worn spots in the 
carpet where John Wesley spent 

606
00:31:17,080 --> 00:31:21,040
those hours in prayer. 
And the students were all 

607
00:31:21,040 --> 00:31:26,560
impacted as they observed it. 
Once they were done, they left 

608
00:31:26,560 --> 00:31:30,200
to go get in the bus. 
And Doctor Orr hopped on the bus

609
00:31:30,200 --> 00:31:32,480
and he started to take 
attendance and he noticed that 

610
00:31:32,480 --> 00:31:37,280
one of the students was missing.
So he went back into the house, 

611
00:31:37,280 --> 00:31:44,280
and he found a student on his 
knees praying in the spot where 

612
00:31:44,280 --> 00:31:49,120
John Wesley had spent hours in 
prayer, and he heard the student

613
00:31:49,120 --> 00:31:51,880
praying. 
Do it again, Lord. 

614
00:31:53,760 --> 00:32:00,520
Lord, would you do it again, and
would you do it again in me? 

615
00:32:03,640 --> 00:32:08,200
Doctor Orr touched the student 
on the shoulder and indicated 

616
00:32:08,200 --> 00:32:14,040
that was time to go. 
And with that, Billy Graham 

617
00:32:14,040 --> 00:32:19,400
stood up and join the rest of 
the students on the bus. 

618
00:32:20,440 --> 00:32:27,720
And the rest is history. 
Heavenly Father, would you do it

619
00:32:27,720 --> 00:32:32,440
again? 
Would you do it again in US? 

620
00:32:34,000 --> 00:32:40,440
Would you do it again here? 
Would you, for your glory and 

621
00:32:40,440 --> 00:32:45,520
for your name, do a mighty thing
in our midst? 

622
00:32:48,240 --> 00:32:53,360
Would you make Your name great? 
Would you help us to seek and 

623
00:32:53,360 --> 00:32:56,160
save the lost? 
Would you help us make this 

624
00:32:56,160 --> 00:32:59,360
region the hardest place on 
planet Earth to get to hell 

625
00:32:59,360 --> 00:33:01,960
from? 
And am I praying? 

626
00:33:02,120 --> 00:33:04,200
Amen. 
We're moving to a time of 

627
00:33:04,200 --> 00:33:11,720
decision. 
To those of you who don't have 

628
00:33:11,720 --> 00:33:14,120
an intimate, personal 
relationship with Jesus Christ, 

629
00:33:14,480 --> 00:33:16,400
this church has been praying for
you. 

630
00:33:18,720 --> 00:33:24,120
You've been the subject of many 
prayers, and right now heaven is

631
00:33:24,120 --> 00:33:27,680
peering down from the clouds 
wondering if today will be the 

632
00:33:27,680 --> 00:33:30,720
day you're finally obedient to 
Him. 

633
00:33:31,840 --> 00:33:34,280
Satan has been trying to keep 
you from this moment. 

634
00:33:34,440 --> 00:33:37,000
He's been trying to keep you 
from moving in the direction of 

635
00:33:37,080 --> 00:33:40,400
Jesus. 
Don't let him win today. 

636
00:33:41,000 --> 00:33:43,720
Romans chapter 10, verse 13 says
this. 

637
00:33:43,960 --> 00:33:49,200
Everyone who calls on the name 
of the Lord will be saved. 

638
00:33:49,360 --> 00:33:53,360
And today you can call on him. 
And in just a few moments, the 

639
00:33:53,360 --> 00:33:56,240
people around the room, they're 
going to start singing where 

640
00:33:56,240 --> 00:33:58,160
they're at and standing and 
others that are going to come to

641
00:33:58,160 --> 00:34:01,200
the steps and pray. 
And I want to encourage you to 

642
00:34:01,200 --> 00:34:03,640
cry out to him. 
And then would you come over 

643
00:34:03,640 --> 00:34:06,320
there underneath that screen 
next to the baptistry and talk 

644
00:34:06,320 --> 00:34:08,920
to somebody about how to start a
relationship with you or with 

645
00:34:08,920 --> 00:34:10,560
him? 
If you're watching online, would

646
00:34:10,560 --> 00:34:13,360
you click on that box that gives
you an opportunity to go into a 

647
00:34:13,360 --> 00:34:16,080
private chat to be able to start
talking to people about how to 

648
00:34:16,080 --> 00:34:18,719
begin your intimate, personal 
relationship with Jesus? 

649
00:34:19,480 --> 00:34:23,840
Don't put it off any longer. 
And to those of you in this room

650
00:34:24,120 --> 00:34:27,040
that do you have an intimate 
personal relationship with Jesus

651
00:34:27,040 --> 00:34:32,320
Christ, I want to be very 
careful that I don't script your

652
00:34:32,320 --> 00:34:37,480
prayers. 
But would you please spend a 

653
00:34:37,480 --> 00:34:44,560
little bit of time on your knees
begging God to do it again and 

654
00:34:44,560 --> 00:34:51,400
to do it again in us, To do 
something that only He can do in

655
00:34:51,400 --> 00:34:55,320
ways that only He can do it? 
Would you stand with me? 

656
00:35:03,920 --> 00:35:08,000
God, you know every hurt and 
hang up when it that we have 

657
00:35:08,000 --> 00:35:12,640
when it comes to prayer. 
You know the number we said and 

658
00:35:12,640 --> 00:35:18,280
the number we really are. 
You know how often we do it and 

659
00:35:18,280 --> 00:35:21,040
you know how often we mean it 
and you know how serious we are 

660
00:35:21,040 --> 00:35:29,080
about it. 
Nothing is hidden from you but 

661
00:35:29,080 --> 00:35:30,880
God. 
Would you stir our hearts? 

662
00:35:33,760 --> 00:35:39,120
Stir our hearts to have a 
reverent submission to you where

663
00:35:39,120 --> 00:35:42,640
we only want what you're willing
to give us? 

664
00:35:43,760 --> 00:35:47,880
That we only want to do the 
things that you direct and that 

665
00:35:47,880 --> 00:35:52,720
you empower? 
That we would develop a 

666
00:35:52,720 --> 00:35:58,200
reputation of being Jesus, 
people who yearn to spend time 

667
00:35:58,200 --> 00:36:04,680
with you and God in our flesh. 
We have such a hard time doing 

668
00:36:04,680 --> 00:36:07,160
it, but in our spirit we want 
that. 

669
00:36:08,360 --> 00:36:14,400
So God, would you allow your 
spirit in us to win over our 

670
00:36:14,400 --> 00:36:17,240
weak flesh? 
In your name I pray. 

671
00:36:17,680 --> 00:36:18,040
Amen.
