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What up, crossing family? 
I am so excited to be with you 

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today. 
If no one told you last week or 

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so far this week, I want you to 
know this. 

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I love you. 
I look forward to spending time 

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with you each and every single 
week. 

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Last week I had the opportunity 
to go and visit one of our 

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locations and I am just amazed 
at what God is allowing us to do

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and be part of all across this 
region. 

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Jerry and Allison were 
celebrating 25 years at this 

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church and if you don't know 
that, that's a big deal. 

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Everything we have come to know 
and appreciate at this church 

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started in their hearts and it 
came about because of their 

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faith that God would make away. 
I want to welcome all of you 

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joining from our different 
locations, those of you joining 

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online and those of you part of 
our inside family. 

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I also want to wish a special 
welcome to those of you joining 

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us for the first time or the 
first time in a long time. 

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We are so incredibly glad that 
you are here, and our hope is 

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that our time together today 
will either point you to want to

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start or maybe start again an 
intimate personal relationship 

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with Jesus Christ. 
My story is very similar to many

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of the people that are sitting 
in the row with you right now, 

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that starting a relationship 
with Jesus Christ is the single 

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greatest decision that I ever 
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And my biggest regret is that I 
didn't start it earlier. 

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And if you want more information
about our church or how to take 

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those next steps in your 
relationship with Jesus Christ, 

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I would encourage you to take 
advantage of the QR code in 

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front of you. 
A staff member at one of our 

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locations will obviously point 
to that later on at the end of 

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service. 
But I want you to know that that

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is a resource that we update on 
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In fact, I want to point out two
things on the QR code real 

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quick. 
If you guys want to throw it up 

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there, the first one is we have 
a marriage retreat going on this

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fall. 
I think we have three or four of

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them. 
When you click on there, I was 

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talking with someone this week. 
You're not signing up for all 

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five, you just are picking the 
weekend that you want to go the 

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overnight. 
Now let me tell you why you 

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should think about a marriage 
retreat. 1 marriages are one of 

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the biggest factors on your 
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and success. 
And depending on who you 

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married, sometimes your marriage
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And kind of like your vehicle, 
it needs routine maintenance. 

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And if you put it off for a 
really long time and then the 

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wheels fall off, you're stranded
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And you're like, so you don't 
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to fall apart before you make 
some strategic investments in 

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it. 
And I've never met somebody who 

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goes, you know what, We were 
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trying to make our marriage 
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Okay. 
I've never, I've never met that 

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person. 
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This is not for people who, I 
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can go, but if you're going, you
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I just love this girl and I want
to have a better relationship 

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with her. 
Sign up. 

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Second thing that I want to 
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RISE, our women's Conference. 
This is going to be a great day 

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for you ladies to focus on your 
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Let me tell you the truth. 
Your husband, your future 

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husband, your exhusband needs a 
more godly version of you. 

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So bring your friends, your 
daughters, bring them back from 

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college, bring your high school 
girls, and I want you to go on a

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spiritual journey together. 
We prioritize sending our kids 

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to camp because we know that 
time away dedicated to the Lord 

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is good for the soul. 
We just came off of our men's 

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conference and the men will 
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realigning our lives to God is a
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And ladies, it will be a benefit
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Sign up early so that way we can
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and leading well through that 
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For those of you who are hanging
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who are here for the first time,
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of our study in the Book of 
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I told you at the very beginning
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Romans into three big chunks. 
Pillars of Truth In chapters one

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through 8, God can be trusted. 
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chapters 9 through 11. 
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As a Christian, you are going to
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you have to trust God and the 
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And then we're in this final 
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neighbors now. 
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a faith that nobody ever 
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make a difference, that doesn't 
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kind of response that our God 
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response that God accepts. 
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a watching and waiting world to 
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The world we are living in right
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true, is tearing itself apart 
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together. 
And he does this through people 

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like you and people like me, 
living for him and being 

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transformed by him. 
I'm going to say something that 

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might frustrate you. 
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If following Jesus isn't 
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following Jesus because he's 
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And if you're hanging out with 
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and you're going, I'm pretty 
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I don't see anything that needs 
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Whoever you're hanging out with 
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Because anytime you interact 
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interacting with somebody who's 
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at loving, sacrificing. 
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standard on you constantly. 
And so if you're going, you know

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what? 
I'm kind of plateaued. 

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I really don't have any stories 
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I don't have any stories of me 
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The person you're following 
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There are two images that Jesus 
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He talks about Christians are 
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and a city on a hill. 
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stand out as being different. 
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waypoint. 
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manage, the way we lead, the 
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forgive, the way we navigate 
hardships all point to the hope 

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and the healing of Jesus. 
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there was a saying that when you
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them sad, mad or glad. 
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feel like he you get more than 
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Well, I have good news for this 
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My hope is to make you mad, 
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And if you're still awake at the
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make you glad okay. 
So I'm just telling you upfront,

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you know, we're just going to 
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I believe it has a good word for
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You're like, I don't. 
I don't know what you're talking

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about. 
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Couple of verses. 
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one through 5. 
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governing authorities for which 
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that which God has established. 
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been established by God. 
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against the authority is 
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instituted. 
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judgment on themselves. 
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for those who do right, or hold 
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but for those who do wrong. 
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fear of the one in authority? 
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will be commended. 
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God's servant for good. 
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for rulers do not bear the sword
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They are God's servants, agents 
of wrath to bring to bring 

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punishment on the wrongdoer. 
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everybody. 
I'm not going to make you say 

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the word. 
Let's just get through these 

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couple verses. 
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not only because of possible 
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of conscience. 
I promise you, I would make you 

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mad. 
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it. 
God's Word is good from 

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beginning to end. 
There's a good thing inside of 

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you, But let's just deal with 
the fact that we're a little 

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sad. 
Some of you may have seen people

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post these very verses right 
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And you know, our world is such 
a better place when people post 

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their political hot takes. 
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that. 
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And I know it's interesting to 
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post this after Republican wins 
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after a Democrat wins. 
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posted after a Democrat wins, 
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posted after a Republican wins. 
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this verse when it's our 
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When Trump ascended to the 
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authorities, everybody. 
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got to play by. 
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office, this guy's an evildoer. 
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OK, that's crazy. 
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Here is what he's going after. 
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punishment. 
I'll just tell you up the front.

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Next year I'm going to do a 
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Christians response to politics.
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left here, I hope you guys, my 
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I hope. 
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It'll probably be a small group,
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worship. 
And we'll have worship guys at 

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all of our locations. 
Some of you might be going, how 

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could God allow Trump to be 
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I'm. 
I'm worried about how does this 

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verse play into what I've seen 
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What about the genocidal and 
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Did God really establish Hitler 
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Union, Kim Jong Un of President 
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Cambodia, or the massacres that 
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Hold on a second. 
What is happening here? 

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How could God establish these 
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submit to them? 
I want to remind you, Paul is 

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writing this to a church where 
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systematically persecuting 
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Jesus Christ, whom we serve and 
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Roman emperors earned master's 
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It is important here to 
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saying and what Paul is not 
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Paul is not saying submit no 
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He is saying that as long as 
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is not a violation of God's word
and purposes, you should obey. 

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I should obey. 
There are a lot of examples in 

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scripture of people disobeying 
political rulers governing 

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authorities for the sake of 
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Let me give you some examples to
those of you who've read your 

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Bible. 
There's the midwives who are 

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instructed by Pharaoh to kill 
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They refused to do so. 
Daniel and his comrades asked 

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politely to not partake in the 
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When they were captured, they 
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a chance? 
They are respectful, but they 

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asked to disobey when they were 
told that they needed to bow 

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down to the idol in the desert. 
They refused to do so when they 

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made it illegal for the people 
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Daniel still went to the window 
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There are certain times when a 
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sand and says it doesn't matter 
what the government says, I'm 

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not going to violate God's word.
However, before you guys turn 

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this into a rally, most of the 
times that we want to pick a 

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fight with the government about 
what the Bible says, it's out of

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biblical ignorance. 
The Bible's never told that. 

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Our country's never told you not
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Most of the time our issues with
our government are about things 

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we just don't like, not about 
things that are biblical and not

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Peter and John give us a clear 

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example of what to do when the 
authorities try to put the 

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screws to you. 
They just healed a man and they 

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were told by the authorities, 
don't speak about God anymore. 

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But look what it says in Acts 
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Then he called them in again and
commanded them not to speak or 

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teach at all in the name of 
Jesus. 

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But Peter and John replied, 
which is right in God's eyes, to

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listen to you or to listen to 
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You be the judges. 
As for us, we cannot help 

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speaking about what we have seen
and heard. 

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If you're going to tell me I 
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help you there because in light 
of everything I've seen Jesus 

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do, and in light of everything 
that Jesus done in me, I can't 

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keep my mouth quiet about him. 
Or how about this one? 

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In Acts chapter 5, it happens 
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The apostles were brought in and
made to appear before the same 

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hedron to be questioned by the 
high priest. 

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This is what they said to them. 
We gave you strict orders not to

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teach in his name, he said. 
Yet you have filled Jerusalem 

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with your teaching and are 
determined to make us guilty of 

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this man's blood. 
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replied, we must obey God rather
than human beings. 

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So there's a time and a place 
where you go, you know what, 

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this is the line in the sand, 
and you're telling me not to 

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fulfill the Great Commission. 
You're telling me not to fulfill

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the Greatest Commandment. 
And I can't. 

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Whatever you got to do to me, do
to me because my duty is to God.

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But most of the times when we 
are frustrated with the 

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government, it is not over a 
Great Commission issue. 

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I mean we we caught all kinds of
Flack on whichever side you were

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during the pandemic. 
The bottom line is, is the 

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churches in China have never met
corporately, and they can't stop

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growing. 
You could have had church in 

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your home if you knew how to 
disciple people. 

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So we took more of a stand on 
this constitution than we did on

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the biblical practice of making 
disciples. 

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Because if we actually knew how 
to disciple people, even if they

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closed the church tomorrow, 
boarded this place up, there are

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some of you who are capable and 
qualified to point other people 

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to Jesus, but a lot of us would 
rather show up and watch other 

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people point people to Jesus 
than actually have to point 

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people to Jesus ourselves. 
I haven't even got to the matter

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yet. 
That was just the mad. 

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OK, everybody still breathing? 
OK, we got shots for you on your

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way out to make you go. 
At least church was fun. 

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OK, hear me? 
Paul is saying that 

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organizational authority is one 
of God's gifts to mankind. 

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Leadership matters. 
Submission matters. 

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Parents, you know this. 
When it comes to raising your 

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kids, parenting matters. 
Moms matter. 

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Dads matter. 
Authority matters. 

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Submission to authority matters.
This week one of my kids called 

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me and said can you turn the air
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It's hot up here. 
And I'm, I'm like, looking at 

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the, you know, temperature. 
I'm like, it's 72, you know, 

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you're fine. 
And he's like, it's just really 

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hot. 
And I go, are you underneath 

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your blankets or are you going 
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He goes, yeah, OK, OK, well, 
hold on a second. 

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Here, take the comforter off and
just sleep with the sheet. 

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And he goes, what about my other
blanket? 

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So my kid called me from 
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and two blankets and his 
solution. 

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Turn the turn the air down, Dad.
OK, parenting matters. 

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There needs to be order and 
there needs to be consequences 

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for the violation of those 
orders. 

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There needs to be level 
objectivity and consistency in 

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how justice is carried out. 
If there were no laws, no 

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standard, no adherence to laws, 
no consequences for disregarding

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the laws, we would be in an even
greater mess. 

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Paul is saying that we should 
obey not just because of the 

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threat of punishment, which is 
how all laws, all laws come with

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a weapon. 
If you don't, you will. 

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If you don't follow the speed 
limit, you will get a ticket. 

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If you get try to run from the 
police, you will get arrested. 

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If you resist arrest, like 
everything they do comes with a 

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sword, because there are rules, 
there are consequences. 

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And if there aren't, if there 
are is no standard, there is no 

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adherence, there is no 
consequences, then the whole 

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world would fall apart, even 
rapidly, than it all all the way

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already is. 
Paul is saying that we should 

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obey not just for the threat of 
punishment, but is part of our 

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check. 
This devotion to Jesus, our 

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obedience, our good citizenship,
should flow from an obligation 

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to God. 
It sends a strong message. 

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Christians are different. 
This doesn't mean that we don't 

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leverage our vote, vocalize our 
opposition, take advantage of 

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moments to bring about changes 
to laws that may or may not 

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violate our Christian 
conscience. 

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However, it does mean that all 
of these positions should be 

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rooted in our understanding of 
God and His Word and the example

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of Jesus Christ. 
Most of the time we are just 

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frustrated with what we see in 
the world. 

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We are not balancing it based on
what do we see in Scripture? 

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Now that you're mad, let's get 
madder. 

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Our struggle is sometimes we 
think God and country. 

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God and country. 
The cross. 

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Red white and blue. 
OK, I'm, you know, I got tattoo 

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on my right arm with Jesus 
Christ. 

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Got tattoo on my left hand. 
OK, this is what the Christian 

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worldview is God and country. 
Let me explain. 

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Think through the Pledge of 
Allegiance. 

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I pledge allegiance to the flag 
of the I wonder how I can pledge

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allegiance if I've already been 
bought and paid for by the cross

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of Jesus Christ. 
Hear me. 

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I am an American, and I am proud
to be an American. 

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But we are way better Americans 
than we are Christians. 

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We are more proud of our 
political party than the Prince 

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of Peace. 
We spend more on fireworks than 

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we do on advancing the Great 
Commission of Jesus Christ. 

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We know every word to the 
National Anthem, America the 

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Beautiful and Lee Greenwood's 
God Bless the USA, which I've 

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seen him in concert when I went 
to see Kenny G Yeah, that's how 

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uncool I am. 
We know all the words to those 

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songs, but we say we have a hard
time memorizing scripture. 

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Some of you are frustrated with 
things that I have just said to 

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you. 
And that is probably because you

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are a better American than you 
are a Christian saying the 

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Pledge of listen, I don't have a
problem saying the Pledge of 

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Allegiance. 
I'm just saying God and all the 

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way down here, like, right here 
is America. 

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Come on. 
Rednecks, lifted, trucks, 

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fireworks. 
Get her done. 

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It's cool, but it's not even 
close to a God who sent his one 

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and only son to die on the cross
for our sins. 

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Amen. 
All right, now let's get sad. 

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This is why you have to pay 
taxes for the authorities or God

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servant to give their full time 
to governing. 

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Give to everyone what you owe 
them. 

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If you owe taxes, pay taxes. 
If revenue, revenue, if respect 

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and respect, if honor, then 
honor. 

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Remember, Paul was telling the 
Christians in Rome to pay taxes 

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to an ungodly, unfriendly, 
dangerous empire. 

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Taxes inside of this verse would
be like your income tax. 

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Revenue in that verse would be 
like your tariffs or property 

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taxes, or sales taxes. 
In short, Christians pay taxes. 

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They even pay taxes to 
governments they don't agree 

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with or approve of. 
Christians pay. 

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If we owe respect, we give 
respect. 

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If we owe honor, we owe honor, 
Christians pay. 

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We're different. 
Other people might have a past 

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due balance, not Christians. 
Our word means something. 

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God is our Savior. 
He bought and purchased us, and 

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we are a reflection of Him. 
So the way we handle our 

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finances, the way we handle 
ourselves around other people, 

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is different. 
Other people are late, but we 

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don't make obligations we can't 
keep. 

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And when we meet people, we 
treat them in a way that 

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acknowledges their position, 
their service, and their 

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accomplishments. 
You can disagree with their 

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actions. 
You can dislike their motives, 

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you can even despise their 
policies. 

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But you should respect them and 
honor them, because Jesus Christ

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died for them and God created 
them. 

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One of the rules we have here on
staff, One of our core values 

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for our staff is we treat people
with a high level of respect. 

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No matter how stupid many stupid
pills somebody takes, they are 

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made in the image of God, 
purchased by the exact same 

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blood that I was purchased by. 
God loves them, and so I need to

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treat them with respect. 
And so you're like, but hold on 

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a second. 
I would much rather overthrow 

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the government. 
I'd much rather lead a 

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rebellion. 
But listen, when we're doing 

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that, we are oftentimes leading 
those on secondary issues, and 

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our primary job is to point 
people to Jesus. 

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If we're going to go to jail, do
so because of your commitment to

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Christ, not your tax returns and
taking too many stupid pills? 

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Sadder this sermon delivers, Let
no debt remain outstanding 

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except the continuing debt. 
To love one another, For whoever

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loves others has fulfilled the 
law. 

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The commandments you shall not 
commit, adultery you shall not 

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murder, you shall not steal, you
shall not covet, and whatever 

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other command there may be are 
summed up in this one command. 

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Love your neighbor as yourself. 
Love does no harm to a neighbor.

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Therefore love is the 
fulfillment of the law. 

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Why is this so sad? 
Because many of us, myself 

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included, would like a little 
more leeway when it comes to 

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loving, In addition to us 
keeping up on our payments, our 

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financial obligations, 
demonstrating that our word is a

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good word, an honorable word, we
are told that we never get out 

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of our love debt. 
Some of you, you've paid off a 

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car note. 
Some of you, you've paid off 

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credit card debt. 
Some of you can't wait till you 

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pay off your mortgage. 
You never get out of love debt. 

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You never pay off the balance. 
It is a bill that comes due 

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every year, every month, every 
week, every day, every hour. 

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There's only one debt. 
We have to love people, and we 

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like to love certain people, 
don't we? 

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Yeah, of course we do. 
We like to love people that like

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our love, appreciate our love, 
have the stuff you like, have 

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power, have something to offer 
you. 

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But what about what about what 
about the people we don't like, 

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Who can't give you anything? 
Who have nothing to offer you? 

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I'm supposed to treat them the 
way I would want to be treated 

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too? 
I got to be honest with you. 

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God, I like loving you. 
And I like loving the people 

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that are nice to me. 
I'm not a big fan of loving some

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of the people I meet in the 
store. 

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There's certain people that I 
don't like having to love that I

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see on TV. 
There's certain people when I'm 

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driving that I want to point to 
Jesus, I have to love them too. 

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Paul gets real specific. 
You can tell that he's writing 

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to people who take stupid pills.
It's hard to say you love 

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someone when you're cheating on 
them, having sex with somebody 

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else's spouse. 
And I love you, man. 

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Actually, consequently, I kind 
of love your wife. 

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OK? 
It's hard to say that. 

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It's hard to say you love 
somebody. 

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It's hard to say that you love 
someone when you're trying to 

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kill them, when you're trying to
steal from them. 

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Then he says, coveting This 
one's a little bit more close to

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home. 
This might be all of our secret 

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sins. 
Because when you and I covet 

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something, we're wishing that we
had what they have. 

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They pull up in a nice truck, 
and I wish I had that truck. 

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Why does that guy have that 
truck? 

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And I have this truck? 
I wish I had that truck. 

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He doesn't deserve that truck. 
I deserve that truck that he 

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has. 
Tell me if this isn't us, we're 

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okay with other people having a 
high salary. 

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As long as ours is higher, we're
okay with other people having a 

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nice house. 
As long as our house is nicer. 

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I don't have a problem with you 
going on nice vacations as long 

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as my vacation is nicer. 
I don't care if you have a good 

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marriage as long as my marriage 
is nicer. 

452
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You can have a hot wife. 
As long as my wife is hotter you

453
00:27:47,080 --> 00:27:52,760
you can have a great retirement.
As long as my retirement is 

454
00:27:53,600 --> 00:27:58,270
nicer and when I find out that 
you have something that I don't 

455
00:27:58,270 --> 00:28:01,990
have, I think you don't deserve 
it and I deserve the things that

456
00:28:01,990 --> 00:28:05,470
you have. 
How can you love somebody when 

457
00:28:05,470 --> 00:28:08,390
you want bad things to happen to
them so that way better things 

458
00:28:08,390 --> 00:28:15,990
happen to you? 
When we do this, we raise 

459
00:28:15,990 --> 00:28:19,670
ourself up on a platform. 
And that is the opposite of 

460
00:28:19,670 --> 00:28:24,340
love. 
Because love wants better things

461
00:28:24,380 --> 00:28:27,620
for others. 
That when they have something 

462
00:28:27,620 --> 00:28:31,420
nice, we rejoice with them, 
we're excited for them. 

463
00:28:31,660 --> 00:28:35,220
Oh, that's great news. 
I'm so happy for you. 

464
00:28:36,260 --> 00:28:39,740
And you get back in your jalopy 
and you drive home. 

465
00:28:41,860 --> 00:28:44,780
Now hear me Because some of you,
you don't ever listen to the 

466
00:28:44,780 --> 00:28:46,500
whole sermon. 
You just listen to the jokes. 

467
00:28:47,620 --> 00:28:52,960
I don't want you to confuse 
this, this kind of love as the 

468
00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:57,560
absence of boundaries, the 
absence of responsibilities, or 

469
00:28:57,560 --> 00:28:59,520
the absence of speaking hard 
truths. 

470
00:29:00,680 --> 00:29:03,800
Love means that we are seeking 
what is in their best interest. 

471
00:29:04,520 --> 00:29:07,520
We are modeling ourselves after 
Jesus Christ. 

472
00:29:07,880 --> 00:29:11,000
We desire for them to grow and 
experience the riches that are 

473
00:29:11,000 --> 00:29:15,520
found in life with Christ, and 
we are willing to sacrifice our 

474
00:29:15,520 --> 00:29:18,600
good for their good. 
Parents. 

475
00:29:18,600 --> 00:29:22,450
You get this. 
We naturally give up things for 

476
00:29:22,450 --> 00:29:26,210
the betterment of our kids. 
What Paul is saying, what God is

477
00:29:26,210 --> 00:29:28,850
trying to get across to us, is 
take that same level of 

478
00:29:28,850 --> 00:29:35,490
sacrifice that you have for your
kids and spread it around God's 

479
00:29:35,490 --> 00:29:39,650
desire. 
Jesus's hope is that his people,

480
00:29:39,890 --> 00:29:42,650
you and me, would be known for 
our love. 

481
00:29:44,280 --> 00:29:48,080
And if you do not have to get 
uncomfortable, sacrifice, give 

482
00:29:48,080 --> 00:29:52,680
up things, push through pain or 
emotions, you may not be loving 

483
00:29:52,680 --> 00:29:55,160
as well as you would like to 
think that you are. 

484
00:29:56,240 --> 00:29:59,240
If the only way you love is the 
way you like it, and when it's 

485
00:29:59,240 --> 00:30:02,240
convenient for you, you might 
not be modeling the way of 

486
00:30:02,280 --> 00:30:04,040
Jesus. 
You've made it. 

487
00:30:04,600 --> 00:30:06,560
Let's at least get glad for a 
little bit. 

488
00:30:08,360 --> 00:30:13,650
Romans 13, verse 11 through 14 
And do this understanding the 

489
00:30:13,650 --> 00:30:16,610
present time. 
The hour has already come for 

490
00:30:16,610 --> 00:30:19,690
you to wake up from your 
slumber, because our salvation 

491
00:30:19,690 --> 00:30:22,050
is near now than when we first 
believed. 

492
00:30:22,610 --> 00:30:26,370
The night is nearly over, the 
day is almost here. 

493
00:30:26,610 --> 00:30:31,330
So let us put aside the deeds of
darkness and put on the armor of

494
00:30:31,330 --> 00:30:34,210
light. 
Let us behave decently as in the

495
00:30:34,210 --> 00:30:38,250
daytime, Not in carousing and 
drunkenness, not in sexual 

496
00:30:38,250 --> 00:30:41,850
morality and debauchery, not in 
dissension and jealousy. 

497
00:30:42,010 --> 00:30:45,770
Rather, clothe yourselves with 
the Lord Jesus Christ and do not

498
00:30:45,770 --> 00:30:49,570
think about how to gratify the 
desires of the flesh. 

499
00:30:50,130 --> 00:30:53,570
Here Paul offers us a better way
to live. 

500
00:30:54,250 --> 00:30:57,210
He urges us to pick the way of 
light instead of dark. 

501
00:30:57,610 --> 00:31:01,170
He calls us to act decently 
instead of acting out. 

502
00:31:01,770 --> 00:31:04,890
He says there's a better way 
than carousing and being driven 

503
00:31:04,890 --> 00:31:07,690
by your appetites. 
There's a better way to live 

504
00:31:07,690 --> 00:31:10,410
than being drunk all the time 
and having sex all the time with

505
00:31:10,410 --> 00:31:12,820
different people. 
There's a better way than 

506
00:31:12,820 --> 00:31:16,660
fighting and rioting and 
quarreling and being jealous. 

507
00:31:16,740 --> 00:31:20,300
There's a better way. 
In all of my life I have never 

508
00:31:20,300 --> 00:31:23,700
met someone who has fully given 
themselves to this kind of 

509
00:31:23,700 --> 00:31:28,060
behavior, who's thankful my life
was just really going downhill. 

510
00:31:28,740 --> 00:31:30,900
Then I started getting drunk all
the time, having sex with all 

511
00:31:30,900 --> 00:31:33,260
kinds of different people and 
getting in fights, and it's been

512
00:31:33,300 --> 00:31:37,100
up and to the right. 
I never met that person that 

513
00:31:37,100 --> 00:31:38,300
once. 
You know what? 

514
00:31:38,300 --> 00:31:41,100
I was just, it was really going 
downhill. 

515
00:31:41,510 --> 00:31:44,670
And then I just moved upstairs 
from a bar and just said I want 

516
00:31:44,670 --> 00:31:46,550
a part of everything that's 
happening. 

517
00:31:46,710 --> 00:31:49,590
Never met that person. 
You know, my marriage was going 

518
00:31:49,670 --> 00:31:52,830
just really downhill. 
And then I just started sleeping

519
00:31:52,830 --> 00:31:55,350
with other people's wives. 
And I'll be honest with you, 

520
00:31:55,350 --> 00:31:57,310
that might be the best thing 
that's ever happened to my 

521
00:31:57,310 --> 00:31:59,830
marriage. 
I've never heard that testimony.

522
00:32:00,750 --> 00:32:04,390
Here Paul is saying there is a 
better way to live, and the 

523
00:32:04,390 --> 00:32:08,910
better way to live is God's way 
of living, that there is a 

524
00:32:08,910 --> 00:32:12,120
better way of living in the 
light and clothing ourselves in 

525
00:32:12,120 --> 00:32:15,400
the Lord Jesus Christ. 
He's saying put on Christ. 

526
00:32:16,160 --> 00:32:18,840
How would he live? 
How would he behave? 

527
00:32:19,120 --> 00:32:22,120
How would he treat others? 
How would he spend his time? 

528
00:32:22,240 --> 00:32:23,960
How would he organize his 
calendar? 

529
00:32:24,120 --> 00:32:26,040
How would he arrange his 
priorities? 

530
00:32:26,120 --> 00:32:31,360
How would he focus his energy? 
I have never met anybody who is 

531
00:32:31,360 --> 00:32:33,800
glad that they stopped following
Jesus's better way. 

532
00:32:35,160 --> 00:32:38,600
Not once. 
And Paul tells us to do this. 

533
00:32:38,960 --> 00:32:42,120
And he leads off by saying 
understanding the present time. 

534
00:32:42,960 --> 00:32:45,520
He is not talking about what 
time it is on the clock. 

535
00:32:46,080 --> 00:32:50,360
He's talking about the 
importance of the hour in light 

536
00:32:50,360 --> 00:32:54,320
of this moment. 
Think of how people behave after

537
00:32:54,320 --> 00:32:58,400
a health scare, in light of 
these recent realities, they 

538
00:32:58,400 --> 00:33:00,640
start turning all kinds of 
things around. 

539
00:33:00,880 --> 00:33:03,320
I'm going to start dieting and 
exercising today. 

540
00:33:03,760 --> 00:33:07,120
It's when they start using the 
word today instead of tomorrow. 

541
00:33:07,900 --> 00:33:09,540
They're going. 
We got to start right now. 

542
00:33:09,580 --> 00:33:12,620
It starts right now. 
Or you meet people who are 

543
00:33:12,620 --> 00:33:15,740
getting ready to graduate from 
college or have a big promotion 

544
00:33:15,740 --> 00:33:19,740
coming up, or or getting ready 
to take a big test in light of 

545
00:33:19,740 --> 00:33:22,260
what's coming, in light of the 
present realities. 

546
00:33:22,460 --> 00:33:25,660
This is the time not to give up.
It's the time to step up and 

547
00:33:25,660 --> 00:33:27,540
press in. 
Have you ever noticed that 

548
00:33:27,540 --> 00:33:30,060
people, everybody starts 
behaving around Christmas bonus 

549
00:33:30,060 --> 00:33:33,100
time, like you get all kinds of 
words of encouragement. 

550
00:33:33,100 --> 00:33:34,300
Oh boy. 
I'll tell you what, I just 

551
00:33:34,300 --> 00:33:35,740
really appreciate the way you 
lead. 

552
00:33:36,060 --> 00:33:37,700
And I'll be Have you lost 
weight? 

553
00:33:37,940 --> 00:33:40,540
My goodness, you're attractive. 
Anyhow, I'm going to go back to 

554
00:33:40,540 --> 00:33:43,060
work, right? 
Everybody starts like, hey, it's

555
00:33:43,060 --> 00:33:45,460
November, we got to start being 
nice to the boss because it's 

556
00:33:45,460 --> 00:33:48,260
Christmas bonus time. 
Or one of my favorites is the 

557
00:33:48,260 --> 00:33:52,100
Midwest Spring Break diet, where
everybody eats their last meal 

558
00:33:52,100 --> 00:33:54,220
on Super Bowl Sunday and then 
starve themselves because 

559
00:33:54,220 --> 00:33:57,300
they're going to Cancun. 
And they think that somehow when

560
00:33:57,300 --> 00:34:00,980
they bring that pasty white body
outside, everybody wants to look

561
00:34:00,980 --> 00:34:04,000
at it, OK? 
They ain't looking at you. 

562
00:34:04,520 --> 00:34:07,280
If they don't look at you all 
year, they ain't looking at you 

563
00:34:07,280 --> 00:34:10,679
there, OK? 
Just the truth is you don't look

564
00:34:10,679 --> 00:34:13,159
better with less on. 
That's just who you are. 

565
00:34:14,280 --> 00:34:17,239
Or for some of you who are young
people, you got the LGN Diet. 

566
00:34:17,520 --> 00:34:19,360
When you're getting ready to go 
on your honeymoon, you got the 

567
00:34:19,360 --> 00:34:21,440
Look Good Naked Diet. 
You're like, you know what? 

568
00:34:21,760 --> 00:34:24,280
We got a big moment coming. 
We got to be ready for it In 

569
00:34:24,280 --> 00:34:25,679
light of these present 
realities. 

570
00:34:25,679 --> 00:34:30,400
I'm going for a run, He's 
saying, in light of these 

571
00:34:30,400 --> 00:34:34,500
present realities of the fact 
that Jesus has died on the 

572
00:34:34,500 --> 00:34:38,020
cross, resurrected from the 
grave, and is one day coming 

573
00:34:38,020 --> 00:34:42,100
back in light of this reality, 
in light of this present time, 

574
00:34:42,219 --> 00:34:46,900
how you and I live matters. 
What we do matters because of 

575
00:34:46,900 --> 00:34:48,699
watching. 
World is watching. 

576
00:34:49,100 --> 00:34:52,620
And they are wanting some help. 
They're wanting some hope. 

577
00:34:52,820 --> 00:34:56,980
They're wanting a North Star. 
And how we respond in this 

578
00:34:56,980 --> 00:35:01,460
present moment matters more than
you could ever know. 

579
00:35:01,780 --> 00:35:02,820
Remove them to a time of 
decision. 

580
00:35:10,420 --> 00:35:15,740
Jon Bon Jovi has a lyric. 
You guys all know it. 

581
00:35:16,700 --> 00:35:18,220
Cut through the heart and you're
to blame. 

582
00:35:18,220 --> 00:35:23,460
Darling, you give love a yeah. 
And to those of you who are in 

583
00:35:23,460 --> 00:35:28,100
here, who started a relationship
with Jesus Christ, we probably 

584
00:35:28,100 --> 00:35:34,420
owe you an apology. 
As Christians, we've given Jesus

585
00:35:34,420 --> 00:35:38,180
a bad name. 
We've hurt you, We've let you 

586
00:35:38,180 --> 00:35:39,860
down. 
We've caused you harm. 

587
00:35:41,260 --> 00:35:44,100
But I want you to know that he 
hasn't. 

588
00:35:45,340 --> 00:35:49,500
He is the one who is responsible
for all of the good in us, and 

589
00:35:49,500 --> 00:35:52,220
we are responsible for all of 
the bad. 

590
00:35:54,380 --> 00:35:58,890
And I can tell you the deep down
inside we all have the desire to

591
00:35:58,890 --> 00:36:02,490
live the life that God purchased
and the God called us to. 

592
00:36:04,610 --> 00:36:08,490
But man, we mess up. 
And I'm just, I tell you that 

593
00:36:08,570 --> 00:36:10,770
not to make an excuse or 
permission slip. 

594
00:36:10,770 --> 00:36:12,650
I'm telling you, those of you 
who don't have a relationship 

595
00:36:12,650 --> 00:36:15,330
with Jesus, when you start 
following Jesus, you're going to

596
00:36:15,330 --> 00:36:16,810
read through the Bible, and 
you're going to realize that 

597
00:36:16,810 --> 00:36:20,250
that's kind of par for the 
course that everybody you're 

598
00:36:20,250 --> 00:36:22,250
going to read about in 
Scripture, with the exception of

599
00:36:22,370 --> 00:36:28,710
Jesus, screwed it up, screwed it
up bad. 

600
00:36:30,390 --> 00:36:33,870
But God has used imperfect 
people to bring Jesus into this 

601
00:36:33,870 --> 00:36:39,070
world, and by God's grace, we're
hoping that he will allow us to 

602
00:36:39,070 --> 00:36:42,990
be a part of your story. 
And if you're here today and 

603
00:36:42,990 --> 00:36:45,390
you've never started an 
intimate, personal relationship 

604
00:36:45,390 --> 00:36:47,910
with Jesus Christ, I can tell 
you there's nothing better. 

605
00:36:47,910 --> 00:36:51,030
And if you have questions about 
what that is, if you've been 

606
00:36:51,030 --> 00:36:53,780
putting it off in just a few 
moments, I at least want to 

607
00:36:53,780 --> 00:36:57,020
encourage you to to ask the 
question whether you're here in 

608
00:36:57,020 --> 00:36:58,220
this room or you're watching 
online. 

609
00:36:58,220 --> 00:37:00,380
If you're watching online, you 
can click on the button that 

610
00:37:00,380 --> 00:37:04,620
just appeared in the chat. 
You don't have to leave here 

611
00:37:04,620 --> 00:37:07,100
without some answers, without 
some clarity about how to move 

612
00:37:07,100 --> 00:37:08,900
forward in your relationship 
with Jesus. 

613
00:37:11,380 --> 00:37:13,500
To those of you who are 
Christians, some of you are 

614
00:37:13,500 --> 00:37:15,540
going Clayton doesn't know the 
lyrics to Jon Bon Jovi. 

615
00:37:17,340 --> 00:37:21,660
It shot through the heart. 
If I had quoted a Bible verse, 

616
00:37:21,660 --> 00:37:23,300
would you have been that? 
Would you have caught me? 

617
00:37:27,660 --> 00:37:29,980
If I had taught bad theology 
this today, would you have 

618
00:37:29,980 --> 00:37:35,220
caught me? 
Maybe we're better Americans 

619
00:37:35,220 --> 00:37:38,460
than we are Christians. 
And maybe the reason it's so 

620
00:37:38,460 --> 00:37:41,820
hard for us to reach the people 
we deeply care about is because 

621
00:37:41,820 --> 00:37:44,860
we're more committed to our 
Constitution than the word of 

622
00:37:44,860 --> 00:37:52,770
God. 
So, Christians, while it is 

623
00:37:52,770 --> 00:37:56,450
inevitable that we will fail, 
maybe we should spend a little 

624
00:37:56,450 --> 00:37:59,450
bit of time owning that. 
There are times when we have not

625
00:37:59,450 --> 00:38:08,250
given Jesus the honor, the 
reputation that he deserves. 

626
00:38:09,370 --> 00:38:12,210
Maybe we've given him a bad 
name. 

627
00:38:13,410 --> 00:38:16,650
So would you join me in spending
a little bit of time on your 

628
00:38:16,650 --> 00:38:20,990
knees in prayer, apologizing to 
him that in light of everything 

629
00:38:20,990 --> 00:38:25,230
that he has done for us, we have
represented him so poorly? 

630
00:38:26,670 --> 00:38:29,110
And I think God loves it when 
his people say they're sorry. 

631
00:38:30,750 --> 00:38:32,790
Don't you like it when you when 
someone tells you they're sorry?

632
00:38:32,790 --> 00:38:37,070
And then maybe we could ask God 
to realign our focus and help us

633
00:38:37,070 --> 00:38:40,670
do better. 
Would you stand with me, God? 

634
00:38:40,670 --> 00:38:45,670
This moment is waiting. 
It's waiting because every 

635
00:38:45,670 --> 00:38:50,520
single one of us is on the edge 
of making a move towards you or 

636
00:38:50,520 --> 00:38:53,680
staying right where we are. 
Every one of us has an 

637
00:38:53,680 --> 00:38:56,400
opportunity to get outside of 
our comfort zone, to take a step

638
00:38:56,440 --> 00:39:00,360
of faith, to ask a question that
we don't know the answer to, to 

639
00:39:00,360 --> 00:39:03,200
push ourself in an area that 
we've kind of given ourself 

640
00:39:03,200 --> 00:39:06,680
permission slips and God, I'm 
praying that you would nudge 

641
00:39:06,720 --> 00:39:09,080
every single one of us. 
Give every single one of us the 

642
00:39:09,080 --> 00:39:10,960
strength and the courage to take
that step. 

643
00:39:11,480 --> 00:39:12,960
And I pray. 
Amen.

