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Oh man, crossing family. 
I am so glad to be with you 

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today. 
I just have to say this on the 

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front end. 
My heart is incredibly full. 25 

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years ago, my best friend in 
high school, I would start 

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periodically praying for him to 
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Christ and those prayers for him
to find. 

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What I found in Jesus have 
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of years. 
And I got a text message from my

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mom last Sunday, and we just 
celebrated the baptism of my 

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friend on the baptism video 25 
years after I started praying. 

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And there's a couple things I 
need to tell you about that one.

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My heart is just so full at the 
goodness of God. 

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And I know there's some of you 
you've been praying for a 

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really, really long time. 
And you have people that you 

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care about deeply, that you want
to find an intimate, personal 

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relationship with Jesus Christ. 
And I just want you to know that

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God is your ally. 
He's not your enemy when it 

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comes to the salvation of the 
people you love, that he is 

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predisposed to rescue and 
redeem. 

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The Bible says that he is not 
slow as some understand 

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slowness, but he is patient, 
wanting everybody to come to 

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eternal life. 
And when you are praying for 

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someone to come to faith, 
remember there's three parts. 

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There's your part, there's God's
part, and there's their part. 

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And hear me, you can't do God's 
part, and you can't do their 

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part. 
You can only do your part. 

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But you need to know that God 
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His part. 
And don't give up praying, don't

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give up believing, don't give up
sharing the good news. 

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And I need to also just say 
thank you because to those, 

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specifically to those of you who
serve and to those of you who 

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give here at the crossing, you 
made it possible and you 

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participated in answering a 25 
year old prayer. 

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Because my friend Kurt didn't 
find his relationship with Jesus

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at the 48th Street campus where 
I I am preaching. 

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He found it at our Keokuk 
location that you guys help 

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support. 
And I just need you to know I 

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am. 
I'm just very, very thankful to 

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you, and my heart is very full 
because we serve a really good 

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God and I am so thankful to be 
in ministry alongside each and 

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every single one of you. 
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you joining at our different 
locations, those of you watching

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online and those of you who are 
a part of The Crossing inside, 

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and specifically those of you 
who are here for the first time 

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or the first time in a long 
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This is my personal belief that 
you are surrounded by some of 

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the best people on planet Earth,
and our hope here at The 

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Crossing is very simple. 
We want everyone to find an 

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intimate, personal relationship 
with Jesus Christ. 

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And if you are at one of our 
physical locations or you're 

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watching online, I want to 
encourage you take advantage of 

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the QR code on the seat in front
of you. 

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We change it every single week. 
You might be going, yeah, six 

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months ago, I did it. 
Well, just so you know, there's 

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been a lot that's happened in 
the last six months and we are 

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regularly updating it. 
So that way you can have the 

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tools you need to take your next
step, get connected and make a 

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difference. 
In fact, if you were to hop on 

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there right now, you'd see this 
thing for the frigid 5K. 

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And I've signed my entire family
up because we had so much fun 

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last year making a difference 
and we're looking forward to the

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opportunity to make a difference
with you this year. 

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We had over 700 people in 
participate in the 5K last year 

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and here's what we do as a 
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We take all the profits from the
your registration and your 

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T-shirt sales and we take all of
that money and we give it to 

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ministries that specifically 
help men and women, boys and 

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girls, be rescued and 
rehabilitated from sex 

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trafficking. 
So we picked a cold day, we go 

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on a long walk and then we take 
all the money and we send it to 

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make a difference. 
And I'm telling you, whatever 

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you had planned on that Saturday
probably isn't as important as 

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that. 
So I hope you guys will join us 

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because it'll be a great day 
with a lot of fun. 

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Now to get in the message, I got
a confession to make. 

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And this is always hard for me 
because I don't like bragging 

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about how wealthy I am, but I 
don't want to hide it from you 

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either. 
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kind of told you guys that 
Jennifer and I were 100 heirs 

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and and you know, then we became
1000 heirs. 

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And the way we, you know, we 
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bought electric toothbrushes. 
OK, I'm just we're so wealthy 

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that we now have robots brushing
our teeth and we got them. 

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We're a part of a exclusive 
club, and you can go in there. 

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And because of your status, you 
get insider savings and deals 

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that aren't available to the 
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And so I was at Sam's and I saw 
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on electric toothbrushes. 
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And well, let me pause for a 
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The first 2-3 days after we had 
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driving around the car going, 
man, this stuff is incredible. 

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Like, I it made me wonder if I 
owed everybody I've ever hung 

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out with before. 
I got an electric toothbrush, an

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apology because my teeth have 
never felt better. 

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I mean, it's it's fantastic. 
And it's got the little timer 

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built in that lets you know how 
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there and just let the robot do 
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But since we've been going 
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habits, I've been trying to 
notice that there's certain 

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things I do and I've been trying
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it. 
And I didn't know this before I 

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had an electric toothbrush, but 
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Think for a second because 
you're like, I didn't know those

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existed, but now you know 
whether or not you are one. 

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OK How many of you guys are 
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Yeah. 
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I'm trying to make the switch to
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we're in this series on 
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Yeah. 
So the problem is, is when you 

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have an electric toothbrush and 
it's got all those settings. 

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It's got like, you know, baby. 
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to like Briggs and Stratton, you
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in your head and when you catch 
yourself bottom brushing and you

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go to make the switch, you got 
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otherwise you start rattling the
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you'll chip a tooth. 
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toothbrush going and I go to 
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You guys all brush your tongues 
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You brush your tongue. 
We don't brush, we don't brush 

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both of them. 
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Well, it's what happened. 
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electric toothbrush and I go to 
brush my tongue and I mean it 

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really started moving my tongue 
around and it it pseudo tickled 

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and then I sneezed. 
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sensodyne through your nostrils,
that'll clear you right up, you 

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know, spackling with some cold 
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I'm awake and so you just got to
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But I've been trying to notice 
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and I've been trying to change 
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habit. 
In fact, we've learned this 

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between 40 and 95% of human 
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How we think, what we say, what 
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If your life is based on the 
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your decisions are largely based
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some uncomfortable truths. 
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We've been talking about it. 
We are creatures of habit, which

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means that our habits form us. 
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change your habits, you can 
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And what we've been noticing is 
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series, is that our habits and 
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and a horizontal component. 
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impact our relationship with 
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Horizontally, it hurts our 
relationships with the people we

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love and the people we're trying
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Which is why it is so important 
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at all of our locations to get 
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your habits get control of you. 
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habits, one of the sins that 
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idolatry. 
God made it super clear when he 

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was giving the 10 commandments 
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him and our relationship with 
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It shows up in Exodus chapter 
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And God spoke all these words. 
I am the Lord your God, who 

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brought you out of Egypt out of 
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You shall have no other gods 
before me. 

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You shall not make for yourself 
an image in the form of anything

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in heaven above, or on the earth
beneath, or in the waters below.

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You shall not bow down to them 
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For I, the Lord your God, am a 
jealous God, punishing the 

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children for the sins of the 
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generation of those who hate me,
but showing love to 1000 

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generations of those who love me
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The irony is those of you who 
know while Moses is on a 

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physical mountain getting the 10
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people of Israel are down in a 
physical valley and they're 

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frustrated with God. 
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bring their jewelry, their gold 
together and they make for 

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themselves an idol in the image 
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So while God is on the mountain 
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commandments, and the first two 
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worship any other gods and 
you're not supposed to make any 

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image, guess what the people of 
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the valley doing that very 
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Most of you probably have heard 
the story of Shadrach, Meshach 

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and Abednego, that they were 
taking his captives out of 

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Jerusalem to Babylon. 
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supposed to worship an image 90 
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was made of gold. 
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when the band played, that they 
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And they said you can play your 
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but we're not. 
And so they played the music and

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everybody around them bow down. 
But these three guys said, yeah,

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not going to do that. 
So then they brought him forward

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and said, look guys, we're going
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more time and you're going to 
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And if you don't bow down, we're
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furnace and Shadrach, Meshach 
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Appreciate you telling me that. 
I love hearing your truth. 

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What you need to know is you can
play the music one more time and

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you can talk about the furnace, 
but we're not bowing down. 

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And if you throw us in the fire,
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But if he doesn't save us, we're
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And you might be thinking to 
yourself, I love this sermon 

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because, Clayton, when you're 
talking about pride, I was 

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guilty and we were talking about
complaining. 

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I realized how much I hate this 
church, right? 

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OK. 
But today you're like, this is 

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awesome. 
This is a free day because 

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idolatry. 
And you're looking at your life 

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and going, I don't think I've 
bowed down to anything recently.

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And me and my spouse and my 
family, we haven't, like, pulled

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together all of the jewelry we 
don't wear anymore and melted it

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down and made it into a graven 
image. 

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But idolatry. 
Idolatry shows up in different 

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forms. 
For us, we're devious forms. 

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Jesus gives us insight into 
this. 

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Look what he says in Mark 
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One of the teachers of the law 
came and heard them debating. 

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Noticing that Jesus had given 
them a good answer. 

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He asked him of all the 
commandments, which is the most 

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important, the most important. 
One answer. 

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Jesus is this. 
Hear, O Israel, the Lord our 

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God, The Lord is 1. 
Love the Lord your God with all 

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your heart and with all your 
soul, and with all your mind and

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with all your strength. 
And the 2nd is this Love your 

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neighbor as yourself. 
There is no commandment greater 

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than these. 
Now you need to know this. 

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We're going to be doing a much 
deeper dive on these two chunks 

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of scripture and the Great 
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weekend. 
And I want you to start thinking

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now, who is a person that you 
can bring with you on Super Bowl

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weekend to one of our services 
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Because we are going to be 
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that those who go on it, I 
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And so I want you to be a part 

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of it. 
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we're unpacked this even deeper,
I just want you to realize that 

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when Jesus is talking about 
idolatry, he would say anything 

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that gets first place in your 
life that's not him. 

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He would say anything that 
directs your heart, your mind, 

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your soul, your strength is 
worship. 

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And when you are worshiping a 
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idolatry. 
Kim Tim Keller says it this way.

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The human heart is an idol 
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It is anything more important to
you than God. 

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Anything that absorbs your 
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anything that you seek to give 
you what only God can give you. 

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The easiest way to look at this 
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when two things are competing 
for your time, your energy, your

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effort, who wins? 
Let me put it this way, You guys

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know that I'm married to 
Jennifer and she's awesome. 

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You know that? 
She obviously puts up with a 

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lot. 
I mean, yeah, a lot. 

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And God bless you and God bless 
her for it. 

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And let's just say my wife goes,
Clayton, we're going to go on a 

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date night on Friday. 
And I go, that sounds awesome. 

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I love date nights with you. 
And then Cassie, a girl I hung 

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out with on high school, reaches
out to me and she goes, Clayton,

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what are you doing Friday? 
I want to hang out. 

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Somebody going, Where is this 
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Oh yeah, I'll be careful. 
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boy, I sure have great memories 
with Cassie. 

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And so I call it my wife. 
Say, babe, can we pick a 

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different night to go on a date 
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Because I'd like to go for a 
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You've met her. 
I bet she would handle that 

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really well, right? 
That's like the intro to a docu 

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series about how I died. 
That's what that is now. 

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OK then let's say a couple weeks
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lunch with Jennifer, and Cassie 
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There's this new salad place in 
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Do you want to go and eat some 
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And knowing how much I love 
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up and I go, Jenny, you're not 
going to believe this. 

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And you know how much I love 
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Poopsie. 
Whoopsie. 

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You know I'm not using my pet 
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I don't trust you. 
We have them and I go snookums. 

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Can we reschedule? 
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And I say it is leafy green 
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town. 
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You know what that is? 
I am on a path towards adultery.

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That's what that is. 
I am prioritizing somebody who 

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is not my wife in my life. 
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image that God uses in the Old 
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When he talks about idolatry in 
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to Him, he says you are 
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Jennifer would be fully right to
say, am I your first priority 

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relationally? 
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anytime there's a conflict, I 
choose somebody else, I choose 

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something else. 
Idolatry is not necessarily you 

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bowing down and worshipping bad 
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Idolatry can happen when you put
good things in the wrong place. 

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This is the part of the sermon 
when you're going to go. 

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Why did we come to The Crossing 
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OK, so but just for the next 5 
minutes, just suffer through 

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this with me because I'm on the 
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Idolatry is when you put 
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place. 
So let's just pick a couple 

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sports. 
Sports aren't bad. 

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However, when sports take 
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the Lord, it becomes idolatry. 
I'll talk to pastors of churches

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that in that are in large 
communities where they have an 

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NFL team and they can tell you 
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impacted by what time the game 
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And I'm thinking to myself, when
most churches offer multiple 

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service times on multiple days, 
how in the world can you not 

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make church happen and still get
to the game? 

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What that means is, is that when
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church and a Bengals game and 
the Bengals win that conflict, 

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you know what that is? 
It's a Dollar Tree. 

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How come is it that you can have
an NFL game and they can be 

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cold, rainy, snowy and people 
will navigate the roads, the 

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traffic and the weather to show 
up, pay a high price for 

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tickets, get absolutely pillaged
when they try to buy a hot dog, 

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a piece of pizza, a couple of 
beers and some cheese curds And 

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they'll be happy that they went 
there. 

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And then those same people will 
show up at a church for free and

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or they won't show up because 
it's a little cold outside. 

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Or if they do show up, they'll 
come up with a boy. 

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All the church cares about is 
money. 

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You know what that is? 
That's idolatry, just so you 

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guys know. 
People on staff at The Crossing 

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We love sports and we love our 
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heavily invested in developing 
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But I love the example that our 
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that the spiritual development 
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Here's another one. 
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Sex is not bad. 
However, when we start using sex

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to gratify our own selfish 
desires, when we use sex to 

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engage in activity with somebody
who's not our wife, so that 

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means somebody I'm dating, 
somebody that I'm engaged to, or

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somebody that I'm while I'm 
married, I'm engaging in sex 

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with somebody that I'm not 
married to. 

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You know what the Bible calls 
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Not just adultery. 
The Bible calls it idolatry 

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because you are worshipping you 
and you're trying to convince 

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somebody else to worship you 
too, and you take God's plan and

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you prioritize your flesh over 
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Money. 
Money is not bad. 

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Money is a good thing, a 
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However, when we start living on
100 and 500 and 10120% of our 

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income, we keep buying things 
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And we never stop working 
because we need to keep the 

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financial plates spinning. 
Do you know what the Bible says?

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That's idolatry. 
Government. 

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Well, I'm just making all kinds 
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Government is actually good. 
However, every time we have an 

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election, we find out that 
people all across the world, or 

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at least across the country, are
way better Republicans and way 

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better Democrats than they are 
Christians, because we have to 

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deal with people who are basing 
the future salvation of the 

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world on the next election 
cycle. 

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They're more concerned with 
elephants and donkeys than they 

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are with the Lion of the Tribe 
of Judah and the lame of God. 

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The same people who say they get
nervous about sharing their 

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faith have no problem at all 
telling everybody else who to 

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vote for and telling them that 
they're going to hell if they 

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don't vote for their candidate. 
In fact, this year, in the late 

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spring, we're going to do an 
entire sermon series on politics

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and the church. 
Why? 

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Because I'm psycho, that's why. 
All right? 

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And we're going to address these
issues. 

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And I know right now there are 
some of you who are already 

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frustrated that our church is 
going to be talking about 

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politics and you don't even know
what we're going to say. 

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You know what that means? 
You might have an idolatry 

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problem. 
Family is a good thing, but if 

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you put your family in the wrong
place, it becomes idolatry. 

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And it sounds super cute when 
people say this. 

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You guys have probably heard it.
Maybe you can set it yourself. 

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You'll hear somebody say my kids
are the most important thing in 

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the world to me, and when 
someone says that to me, this is

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what goes through my head. 
That is a really cute way of 

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saying I'm committing idolatry 
because your kids should never 

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be the first place in your life.
Think of everything that God's 

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done for you and then your kids.
Enough said. 

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Like, look at the cross and then
pull. 

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Go home today and just remove 
one couch cushion. 

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I'm not worshipping this kid, 
right? 

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And hear me, Some of you, you're
trying to worship your spouse 

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and you're trying to spend your 
whole life trying to make them 

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happy. 
Them whole. 

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Them complete. 
And you know what? 

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They make a lousy God. 
There is no way, there is no way

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that you can be the person that 
God created you to be as a 

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spouse, as a parent, if you're 
not a godly parent or a spouse. 

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And there's no way you can be a 
godly parent or a godly spouse 

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unless God is first in your 
life. 

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Working out is good, I've been 
told. 

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However, when it takes place of 
time with the Lord, it becomes 

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idolatry. 
That's why I stay like this. 

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So you know that I am poring 
over the word of God. 

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Actually, we're going to get 
into a cool series later on 

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about that. 
Hear me, people with 6 packs who

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say that they don't have time 
for the Lord have an idolatry 

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problem. 
People will say to me, man, the 

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Bible is just too hard to 
understand. 

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But those same people know 
everything they need to know 

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about super sets tracking their 
macros. 

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Level 2 Cardio, Water Intake 
Minimums, Which supplements will

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help maximize your effort. 
You you can figure it out. 

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I could just as easily, when 
we're talking about idolatry, 

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talk about our screen time. 
It's Sunday. 

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If you have an iPhone, you've 
already got your notification. 

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Did you know that the average 
American could read through the 

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Bible every month in the amount 
of time that they spend on their

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phone? 
Not, man. 

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I'm going to try and read the 
Bible this year saying like you 

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could have read the Bible this 
month if you'd have just said no

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to the scroll. 
And just so you know, hear me 

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OK, tough part's over. 
I'm not yelling at you about 

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this. 
I'm in this with you. 

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I'm wrestling through this with 
you because all of us struggle 

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to keep God first in our lives. 
But idolatry has a way of 

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separating us from God and God's
best. 

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Look what it says in Galatians 
chapter 5. 

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The acts of the flesh are 
obvious sexual immorality, 

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impurity and debauchery, 
idolatry and witchcraft, Hatred,

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discord, jealousy, fits of rage,
selfish ambition, dissensions, 

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factions and envy, drunkenness, 
orgies, and the like. 

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I warn you, as I did before, 
that those who live like this 

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will not inherit the Kingdom of 
God. 

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If you were to be put on trial 
today for being a Christian, and

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the only evidence that you could
bring was the areas of your life

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where God is first, could you be
convicted? 

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What's the first thing you do in
the morning? 

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Is it prayer? 
What's the first thing you read?

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Is it the Bible? 
What's the first thing you do 

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with the money you make? 
Is it to honor God with the 

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tithe and be obedient? 
What do you do with the first 

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day of the week? 
Is it Go to church? 

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Where is God first in your life 
and where is he not? 

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Wherever God is not first is 
idolatry. 

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I'll go a step further. 
When there's conflict about 

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which thing to do, that's 
idolatry because it shouldn't be

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a conflict. 
Now I'm just going to give you 4

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reasons why I believe you should
put God first. 

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And these are for me personally,
so you don't have to do anything

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with them, but I just want you 
to know where I'm at. 

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First thing is he created me and
he knows what's best for me. 

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That's why he should be first. 
He put me together, he knows 

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exactly what I need and he knows
that life lived on my terms or 

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somebody else's terms is not the
best life for me. 

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But if I live my life on his 
terms, it's what's best for me. 

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Second reason I do it is no one 
has done as much for me. 

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He sent his son Jesus to die on 
the cross on my behalf. 

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No one and no thing has ever 
done as much for me as he's done

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for me. 
And if he wants first place in 

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my life, he's earned it. 
Third reason I belong to him. 

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The Bible says that I was 
rescued, redeemed, and ransomed.

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I'm no longer mine. 
I'm supposed to belong to him. 

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You. 
If you're in an intimate, 

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personal relationship with 
Jesus, he has rescued, redeemed,

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and ransomed you. 
You don't belong to you anymore.

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You belong to him. #4 The people
I love need me to be a Jesus 

447
00:29:30,480 --> 00:29:34,600
first person. 
If you're wanting to be a really

448
00:29:34,600 --> 00:29:39,520
good husband, if you're wanting 
to be a really Good Wife, if 

449
00:29:39,520 --> 00:29:42,320
you're wanting to be a really 
good dad, a really good mom, 

450
00:29:42,840 --> 00:29:49,600
they need you to be a Jesus 
first person so you can be 

451
00:29:49,600 --> 00:29:52,120
everything that they need you to
be. 

452
00:29:52,360 --> 00:29:55,320
Because I cannot possibly be 
what they need me to be on my 

453
00:29:55,320 --> 00:30:00,480
own, but I can be everything 
that God wants me to be with His

454
00:30:00,480 --> 00:30:06,080
power and His strength. 
To illustrate this idolatry 

455
00:30:06,080 --> 00:30:08,600
issue, I want to I want to take 
you to the store or to the Book 

456
00:30:08,600 --> 00:30:10,440
of Judges. 
Now for those of you who aren't 

457
00:30:10,440 --> 00:30:14,080
familiar with the Book of 
Judges, the people of Israel 

458
00:30:14,320 --> 00:30:17,120
have come out of Egypt and 
they've entered into the 

459
00:30:17,120 --> 00:30:23,160
Promised Land. 
And then after Joshua is gone, 

460
00:30:23,440 --> 00:30:26,520
the people have no leader. 
And the Book of Judges kind of 

461
00:30:26,520 --> 00:30:28,520
underlines the challenge that 
they're facing. 

462
00:30:28,840 --> 00:30:32,560
And they it simply just says 
this, that in those days Israel 

463
00:30:32,560 --> 00:30:36,520
had no king and everyone did 
what was right in their own 

464
00:30:36,520 --> 00:30:40,280
eyes, which is kind of a not 
true statement because they did 

465
00:30:40,280 --> 00:30:42,280
have a king. 
They had God who was their 

466
00:30:42,280 --> 00:30:45,560
leader, but what they would do 
is they would reject him and 

467
00:30:45,560 --> 00:30:48,480
they would neglect him. 
And so here's what would happen 

468
00:30:48,680 --> 00:30:50,560
to the Israelites. 
Tell me if this sounds familiar,

469
00:30:51,240 --> 00:30:56,160
the Israelites would follow God 
for a while, and then they would

470
00:30:56,160 --> 00:30:59,840
stop following God for a while 
and they would start worshipping

471
00:30:59,840 --> 00:31:03,680
other gods. 
And then God would remove his 

472
00:31:03,680 --> 00:31:07,800
blessing because God's blessing 
only flows in the direction of 

473
00:31:07,800 --> 00:31:10,240
obedience. 
And so God would remove his 

474
00:31:10,240 --> 00:31:13,160
blessing from them and they 
would begin to suffer. 

475
00:31:13,800 --> 00:31:16,040
And then when they started to 
suffer, it would get really, 

476
00:31:16,040 --> 00:31:19,120
really bad. 
And then they would go, God, we 

477
00:31:19,120 --> 00:31:23,240
really need your help. 
Turn this thing around and guess

478
00:31:23,240 --> 00:31:26,880
what God would do. 
God would raise up a judge who 

479
00:31:26,880 --> 00:31:30,000
would lead the people and would 
turn their affections back to 

480
00:31:30,000 --> 00:31:34,480
him, and he would restore them. 
And the people would do really 

481
00:31:34,480 --> 00:31:38,640
good for a while. 
And then they'd stop worshipping

482
00:31:38,640 --> 00:31:40,880
God, and they'd start 
worshipping other gods. 

483
00:31:41,840 --> 00:31:44,120
And God would remove his 
blessing, because God's blessing

484
00:31:44,120 --> 00:31:45,680
only moves in the direction of 
obedience. 

485
00:31:46,280 --> 00:31:47,640
The people would begin to 
suffer. 

486
00:31:48,400 --> 00:31:50,120
And then eventually they'd cry 
out to God. 

487
00:31:50,800 --> 00:31:54,600
Hey, we're in a pretty bad mess.
We need your help. 

488
00:31:55,120 --> 00:31:57,640
And God would raise somebody up 
to turn. 

489
00:31:57,960 --> 00:32:01,400
You know what? 
These people sound like idiots. 

490
00:32:03,640 --> 00:32:04,760
You know who else they sound 
like? 

491
00:32:06,920 --> 00:32:09,160
Us. 
Isn't this us? 

492
00:32:10,640 --> 00:32:13,480
I've been in ministry so long, 
I've looked at my own life for 

493
00:32:13,480 --> 00:32:15,960
so long. 
People get fired up about Jesus.

494
00:32:16,160 --> 00:32:17,960
Woo. 
I'm doing the God thing. 

495
00:32:17,960 --> 00:32:19,600
This is fantastic. 
I love it. 

496
00:32:20,160 --> 00:32:22,560
I think I want to do this for a 
little while. 

497
00:32:23,000 --> 00:32:26,400
I'm tired of all the rules. 
I'm just going to kind of do my 

498
00:32:26,400 --> 00:32:31,160
own thing. 
My life is completely falling 

499
00:32:31,160 --> 00:32:33,400
apart because I've been doing my
own thing. 

500
00:32:33,680 --> 00:32:36,240
And now my life stinks. 
And then I go, you know what I 

501
00:32:36,240 --> 00:32:37,720
got to do? 
I got to get back to church. 

502
00:32:38,280 --> 00:32:40,640
I got to start following after 
Jesus and God. 

503
00:32:40,640 --> 00:32:41,920
I need you to turn my life 
around. 

504
00:32:41,920 --> 00:32:45,440
And God hears us and he starts 
to turn our life around. 

505
00:32:47,120 --> 00:32:48,360
Man, I'm loving this Jesus 
thing. 

506
00:32:48,360 --> 00:32:49,720
I've been reading my Bible all 
the time. 

507
00:32:49,720 --> 00:32:53,280
Things are going fantastic. 
I think I want to have an 

508
00:32:53,280 --> 00:32:56,160
affair. 
That sounds fantastic. 

509
00:32:56,800 --> 00:32:58,720
I'd like to have two different 
families. 

510
00:32:59,360 --> 00:33:01,760
I'd like to have no money, no 
free time. 

511
00:33:02,240 --> 00:33:07,480
I'd like to just destroy lives. 
I can't believe I did this. 

512
00:33:10,200 --> 00:33:13,080
God, you got to help me. 
Help me get things right. 

513
00:33:13,080 --> 00:33:18,080
Help me. 
God's so good, man. 

514
00:33:18,080 --> 00:33:20,000
He's great. 
He's always there for you. 

515
00:33:20,000 --> 00:33:21,480
I'll tell you what, he's 
fantastic. 

516
00:33:21,800 --> 00:33:24,400
I'm going to just be a crazy 
person. 

517
00:33:25,080 --> 00:33:28,240
This Is Us, right? 
This is not just other people. 

518
00:33:28,240 --> 00:33:33,800
This Is Us. 
And I just want you to know that

519
00:33:33,800 --> 00:33:36,160
every. 
I mean, I love God and he's 

520
00:33:36,160 --> 00:33:38,680
fantastic. 
And we always talk about how God

521
00:33:38,680 --> 00:33:41,200
loves us, and he does. 
But I just want you to know that

522
00:33:41,200 --> 00:33:44,520
God sometimes claps back. 
Look what he says in Judges 

523
00:33:44,520 --> 00:33:47,640
Chapter 10. 
Go and cry out to the gods 

524
00:33:47,640 --> 00:33:51,040
you've chosen. 
Let them save you when you're in

525
00:33:51,040 --> 00:33:55,520
trouble in Judges 10. 
God's kind of like, Oh yeah, 

526
00:33:55,520 --> 00:33:57,600
you're here. 
Oh, let me guess. 

527
00:33:57,600 --> 00:34:00,080
Let me see if I can predict the 
future. 

528
00:34:00,480 --> 00:34:03,000
You're going to cry out and ask 
me to help you out of the 

529
00:34:03,000 --> 00:34:06,280
situation that you got yourself 
into because you rejected me as 

530
00:34:06,280 --> 00:34:08,719
your God. 
You know what? 

531
00:34:08,719 --> 00:34:10,320
He says. 
How about you cry out to the 

532
00:34:10,320 --> 00:34:16,560
gods that you've been serving? 
See, if they rescue you, it 

533
00:34:16,560 --> 00:34:20,719
impacts God. 
It hurts God when we put 

534
00:34:20,719 --> 00:34:24,840
something else in first place. 
One time the Israelites cried 

535
00:34:24,840 --> 00:34:29,320
out to God, and God appeared to 
a young man named Gideon. 

536
00:34:29,600 --> 00:34:32,520
And he says the Lord is with 
you, mighty warrior, and I'm 

537
00:34:32,520 --> 00:34:35,440
going to deliver you from what's
happened to you. 

538
00:34:35,440 --> 00:34:38,199
And look at what Gideon says to 
him. 

539
00:34:39,400 --> 00:34:42,360
Pardon me, my Lord, Gideon 
replied. 

540
00:34:42,679 --> 00:34:47,400
But if the Lord is with us, why 
has all this happened to us? 

541
00:34:48,000 --> 00:34:51,560
Where are all his wonders that 
our ancestors told us about when

542
00:34:51,560 --> 00:34:54,080
they said, did not the Lord 
bring us out of Egypt? 

543
00:34:54,080 --> 00:34:58,160
But now the Lord has abandoned 
us and given us into the hand of

544
00:34:58,160 --> 00:35:02,320
Midian. 
Gideon is wondering where God 

545
00:35:02,320 --> 00:35:08,360
is, but the people of Israel 
have been serving another God. 

546
00:35:10,320 --> 00:35:16,720
I need you to hear me. 
Our idolatry leads the next 

547
00:35:16,720 --> 00:35:23,840
generation to doubt. 
When God is not first in your 

548
00:35:23,840 --> 00:35:29,960
life, it will sow seeds of doubt
in the generation that will come

549
00:35:29,960 --> 00:35:33,720
after you. 
Gideon's going Where is this God

550
00:35:34,160 --> 00:35:36,120
who performs all these marvelous
acts? 

551
00:35:36,320 --> 00:35:39,720
The reason he hasn't seen the 
power of God is the people 

552
00:35:39,720 --> 00:35:43,600
stopped following God, and the 
power of God and the blessings 

553
00:35:43,600 --> 00:35:47,480
of God only flow in the 
direction of obedience. 

554
00:35:48,960 --> 00:35:53,000
So Gideon's family tree has 
story after story of how good 

555
00:35:53,000 --> 00:35:59,240
God is, but Gideon has none 
because he's never seen the 

556
00:35:59,240 --> 00:36:03,000
power of God because he's 
generation hasn't been obedient 

557
00:36:03,000 --> 00:36:07,680
to God. 
In your life, the areas where 

558
00:36:07,680 --> 00:36:13,240
God is not first will lead the 
people coming after you to doubt

559
00:36:13,240 --> 00:36:19,080
his existence. 
God says I'm going to save you, 

560
00:36:20,520 --> 00:36:23,880
I'm going to rescue you, but 
there's something you need to do

561
00:36:24,480 --> 00:36:26,800
first. 
Judges Chapter 6. 

562
00:36:28,040 --> 00:36:31,240
That same night the Lord said to
him, take the second bull from 

563
00:36:31,240 --> 00:36:33,880
your father's herd, the one 
seven years old. 

564
00:36:34,080 --> 00:36:38,520
Tear down your father's altar to
bail, and cut down the Eshera 

565
00:36:38,520 --> 00:36:42,520
pole beside it. 
Then build a proper kind of 

566
00:36:42,520 --> 00:36:46,120
altar to the Lord your God on 
the top of its height, using the

567
00:36:46,120 --> 00:36:49,760
wood of the Eshera pole that you
cut down off of the second bull 

568
00:36:49,760 --> 00:36:53,560
as a burnt offering. 
So Gideon took ten of his 

569
00:36:53,560 --> 00:36:55,960
servants and did as the Lord 
told him. 

570
00:36:56,160 --> 00:36:59,240
But because he was afraid of his
family and the townspeople, he 

571
00:36:59,240 --> 00:37:02,160
did it at night rather than in 
the daytime. 

572
00:37:02,800 --> 00:37:06,040
Crossing family. 
Serious question. 

573
00:37:07,800 --> 00:37:14,000
What idol needs to be torn down 
in your life today? 

574
00:37:15,680 --> 00:37:20,280
What is the idol that is going 
to lead your kids to doubt the 

575
00:37:20,280 --> 00:37:23,800
goodness of God? 
What is the idol that's going to

576
00:37:23,800 --> 00:37:27,040
veer you off track, take you 
down a road you never wanted to 

577
00:37:27,040 --> 00:37:29,440
go and take you to a place you 
never wanted to be? 

578
00:37:30,800 --> 00:37:34,400
Today, every single one of us 
have an opportunity to remove 

579
00:37:34,400 --> 00:37:38,480
that idol and put God first in 
your life. 

580
00:37:40,000 --> 00:37:43,080
Some of you, you might be going,
man, there's just no way that I 

581
00:37:43,080 --> 00:37:44,960
can take this idol down by 
myself. 

582
00:37:45,720 --> 00:37:50,000
I've tried time and time again. 
I want you to know you don't 

583
00:37:50,000 --> 00:37:55,000
have to tear it down alone. 
You can grab the hand or you can

584
00:37:55,000 --> 00:37:57,400
tap the shoulder of somebody who
brought you to church or comes 

585
00:37:57,400 --> 00:37:59,600
to you with church. 
You can go find one of our staff

586
00:37:59,600 --> 00:38:02,000
people, somebody who's going to 
be standing by the baptistry and

587
00:38:02,000 --> 00:38:05,600
we'll come alongside of you and 
help you tear it down so you can

588
00:38:05,600 --> 00:38:08,200
put God first in your life. 
And I hope you'll do that. 

589
00:38:08,200 --> 00:38:09,640
We're moving to a time, a 
decision. 

590
00:38:16,280 --> 00:38:19,920
I want to say this softly, but 
some of you here today you've 

591
00:38:19,920 --> 00:38:22,080
never started or intimate 
personal relationship with 

592
00:38:22,120 --> 00:38:25,080
Jesus. 
And I want to suggest that 

593
00:38:25,080 --> 00:38:27,640
possibly the reason why you 
haven't started that 

594
00:38:27,640 --> 00:38:31,040
relationship with Jesus might be
because of idolatry. 

595
00:38:32,160 --> 00:38:36,360
It might be you thinking you 
just want to keep doing you and 

596
00:38:36,360 --> 00:38:38,800
you don't want to make God the 
center of your life. 

597
00:38:40,240 --> 00:38:42,800
You want to be around it. 
You just don't want to be 

598
00:38:42,800 --> 00:38:46,600
committed to it. 
And it shows up in subtle ways. 

599
00:38:48,040 --> 00:38:50,760
It might even show up in ways 
that sound good from the 

600
00:38:50,760 --> 00:38:53,400
outside. 
Like, I want to get serious 

601
00:38:53,400 --> 00:38:57,160
about Jesus. 
I just need to fix some things 

602
00:38:57,360 --> 00:38:59,440
first. 
Hear me. 

603
00:39:00,040 --> 00:39:05,520
If you could fix you, God 
wouldn't have sent Jesus to die 

604
00:39:05,520 --> 00:39:09,520
for you. 
If you could put it together, if

605
00:39:09,520 --> 00:39:13,200
you could turn it around, if you
could make it right, He wouldn't

606
00:39:13,200 --> 00:39:16,520
have sent Jesus. 
The fact that Jesus came and 

607
00:39:16,520 --> 00:39:20,280
died on the cross proves to us, 
we can't fix us. 

608
00:39:20,280 --> 00:39:23,920
We can't get us right. 
It's something that God does on 

609
00:39:23,920 --> 00:39:27,760
our behalf, and our job is to 
receive what he has done. 

610
00:39:28,880 --> 00:39:30,640
And so if you're here today and 
you've never started a 

611
00:39:30,640 --> 00:39:33,240
relationship with Jesus and 
you're putting it off because 

612
00:39:33,240 --> 00:39:35,680
you're trying to put it together
first, I'm just telling you, 

613
00:39:35,680 --> 00:39:39,280
that's just not going to work. 
That's not how it works. 

614
00:39:41,560 --> 00:39:47,480
The good news is, no matter how 
much we've messed up, no matter 

615
00:39:47,480 --> 00:39:51,680
how far we've gone in the wrong 
direction, God is ready to heal 

616
00:39:52,160 --> 00:40:00,080
and restore what's been broken. 
The Bible says this Lean not on 

617
00:40:00,080 --> 00:40:03,720
your own understanding, which is
what a person does who doesn't 

618
00:40:03,720 --> 00:40:05,760
have an intimate, personal 
relationship with Jesus. 

619
00:40:06,760 --> 00:40:08,240
You're doing what seems right to
you. 

620
00:40:08,720 --> 00:40:11,840
You're leaning on your own 
understanding, Boss says. 

621
00:40:11,840 --> 00:40:14,840
Lean not on your own 
understanding in all your ways. 

622
00:40:14,840 --> 00:40:16,840
Acknowledge him. 
That's God. 

623
00:40:17,080 --> 00:40:20,360
Put him first in every area. 
And then what does he do? 

624
00:40:20,800 --> 00:40:25,720
He blesses your obedience, and 
he will make your path straight.

625
00:40:27,280 --> 00:40:29,320
Some of you you're trying to 
figure out, man, I've got all 

626
00:40:29,320 --> 00:40:32,400
this going on in my life. 
I just don't know quite yet how 

627
00:40:32,400 --> 00:40:37,440
I'm going to fit God in. 
I just want you to know God 

628
00:40:37,440 --> 00:40:41,600
doesn't plan on fitting in. 
God plans on taking over. 

629
00:40:42,680 --> 00:40:44,640
You're going. 
I mean, it's kind of like me at 

630
00:40:44,640 --> 00:40:49,040
Thanksgiving. 
Like you get your plate and 

631
00:40:49,040 --> 00:40:54,280
you're looking at like how long 
the the line is of food and 

632
00:40:54,280 --> 00:40:57,800
you're trying to figure out how 
much of everything you can put 

633
00:40:57,800 --> 00:41:00,720
on the plate. 
And then you know at the very 

634
00:41:00,720 --> 00:41:07,320
end is the Oreo fluff, and Oreo 
fluff is different. 

635
00:41:08,240 --> 00:41:12,400
Like Oreo fluff, it can't touch 
gravy. 

636
00:41:14,280 --> 00:41:17,240
They can't touch Turkey. 
They can't touch. 

637
00:41:17,760 --> 00:41:20,080
What's the what's the weird 
potatoes. 

638
00:41:20,080 --> 00:41:21,960
What are those called? 
Sweet potatoes. 

639
00:41:21,960 --> 00:41:22,960
Thank you. 
God bless you. 

640
00:41:23,000 --> 00:41:26,640
You can come back. 
Yeah, those right. 

641
00:41:28,080 --> 00:41:29,960
And you're sitting here going, 
how you get all. 

642
00:41:29,960 --> 00:41:33,160
You got your plate done and you 
got all this stuff and you're 

643
00:41:33,160 --> 00:41:35,440
going, how am I going to get the
Oreo? 

644
00:41:35,600 --> 00:41:38,000
That's why I'm here. 
That's the only reason I came to

645
00:41:38,000 --> 00:41:40,200
this Thanksgiving. 
It's because there's Oreo fluff.

646
00:41:40,880 --> 00:41:42,240
I'll give you guys the recipe 
next year. 

647
00:41:42,240 --> 00:41:45,080
I'll bless you. 
And so you know what you're 

648
00:41:45,080 --> 00:41:46,600
trying to figure out? 
How do I put this on there? 

649
00:41:46,600 --> 00:41:49,520
And that's what a rookie does. 
That's what a person doesn't 

650
00:41:49,520 --> 00:41:51,520
know any better. 
That's what a non Christian 

651
00:41:51,520 --> 00:41:53,760
does. 
You know what a saved person 

652
00:41:53,760 --> 00:41:55,520
who's been to a Thanksgiving 
before does? 

653
00:41:56,240 --> 00:41:59,920
You don't try to fit cookies and
cream on an old plate. 

654
00:42:00,680 --> 00:42:03,600
Oh no, no, no, no. 
You go back to the front of the 

655
00:42:03,600 --> 00:42:07,600
line and you grab a new plate 
the platter size and you 

656
00:42:07,600 --> 00:42:09,520
designated as holy under the 
Lord. 

657
00:42:09,760 --> 00:42:12,480
You keep the small plate that 
keeps your mom and your wife off

658
00:42:12,480 --> 00:42:15,640
your back about your heart 
disease issues, and you set that

659
00:42:15,640 --> 00:42:20,040
plate down, and then you 
dedicate yourself wholly to the 

660
00:42:20,040 --> 00:42:24,440
Oreo fluff, and you put all the 
Oreo fluff you want on its own 

661
00:42:24,640 --> 00:42:33,280
plate like Simba. 
You carry it back and you got 

662
00:42:33,280 --> 00:42:36,920
one plate for all the Oreo 
fluff. 

663
00:42:38,160 --> 00:42:43,720
And then you got another plate, 
a secondary plate that if you 

664
00:42:43,720 --> 00:42:48,720
get through with the Oreo fluff 
and you're still hungry, then 

665
00:42:48,720 --> 00:42:51,000
you'll eat the, what's it 
called, sweet potatoes. 

666
00:42:51,360 --> 00:42:55,720
Then you eat the sweet potatoes.
The Bible actually says this, 

667
00:42:56,000 --> 00:42:57,800
that you don't try to fit God 
in. 

668
00:42:57,920 --> 00:43:01,920
He comes to take over. 
He comes to make you new. 

669
00:43:02,120 --> 00:43:04,800
And when he makes you new, he 
gives you a new plight. 

670
00:43:05,440 --> 00:43:11,080
And he says this Seek first the 
Kingdom of God, and then what 

671
00:43:11,080 --> 00:43:14,480
happens? 
And his righteousness and all 

672
00:43:14,480 --> 00:43:19,720
these other things will be added
to you as well. 

673
00:43:20,920 --> 00:43:25,000
He's saying, come after me 
first, and it will take care of 

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the rest. 
And if you're here today, you've

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never started a relationship 
with Jesus. 

676
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Don't put it off to the rest of 
you who already have a 

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relationship with Jesus. 
You will never be the wife you 

678
00:43:38,000 --> 00:43:41,120
were supposed to be, never be 
the husband you were supposed to

679
00:43:41,120 --> 00:43:42,560
be. 
Never be the parent that you're 

680
00:43:42,560 --> 00:43:46,360
supposed to be. 
Unless God is 1st and there is 

681
00:43:46,360 --> 00:43:48,840
an idol in your life, because 
there's an idol in mind. 

682
00:43:49,800 --> 00:43:53,480
And if we don't tear down that 
idol, it will lead to doubt in 

683
00:43:53,480 --> 00:43:56,400
the people that are going to 
come behind us, and we need to 

684
00:43:56,400 --> 00:43:58,440
tear it down. 
Maybe you're going to come to 

685
00:43:58,440 --> 00:44:00,760
the steps and pray. 
Maybe you need to bring somebody

686
00:44:00,760 --> 00:44:02,440
with you. 
Maybe you need to come over and 

687
00:44:02,440 --> 00:44:05,120
borrow a staff member and we'll 
pray alongside of you. 

688
00:44:05,680 --> 00:44:08,320
But you and I have an 
opportunity right now to put God

689
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where He belongs, and I hope you
don't miss it. 

690
00:44:11,360 --> 00:44:13,920
Would you stand with me, 
Heavenly Father? 

691
00:44:14,280 --> 00:44:19,200
Do a work in this church? 
Do something that only you can 

692
00:44:19,200 --> 00:44:24,080
do, in ways that only you can do
it give us the courage to walk 

693
00:44:24,080 --> 00:44:27,640
after you and to chase after you
and to put you first. 

694
00:44:28,600 --> 00:44:31,840
God, our lives belong to you, 
and they are better when they 

695
00:44:31,840 --> 00:44:35,720
are hidden in you and God. 
I pray that today you'd give 

696
00:44:35,720 --> 00:44:38,520
every person in here not just 
the clarity of what they're 

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00:44:38,520 --> 00:44:41,240
supposed to do, but the courage 
to walk it out. 

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00:44:41,560 --> 00:44:42,840
And you know my pray. 
Amen.

