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Crossing Nation, It is so good 
to be able to spend time with 

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you today before I jump into the
sermon last week, I was 

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preaching through our state of 
the church and I was going 

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through our core values. 
And when I was talking about two

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of our core values, in specific 
about our church being outward 

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and our church being downward, I
was talking about how our church

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has a heightened focus on those 
who don't have a relationship 

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with Jesus. 
And our church has a heightened 

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focus on people who are younger 
over those who are older. 

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The way I wrapped that 
terminology and trying to 

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express my passion and 
commitment to those core values 

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was hurtful. 
And I know that because I got an

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incredibly kind e-mail from 
somebody who basically said the 

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way you did that stepped on my 
air hose and it was hurtful. 

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And as I read through it, I was 
like, you're right. 

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And I'm assuming she's not the 
only person who I hurt. 

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And so I owe you guys an apology
because the gospel of Jesus 

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Christ requires me to care 
deeply and love deeply the 

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people of this church and to say
the gospel message in a caring 

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and kind and compassionate way. 
And I'm There's going to be 

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times when I'm going to be 
offensive, because the gospel is

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offensive, but I don't need to 
be needlessly offensive for the 

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purpose of a joke, a jab, or a 
sermon filler. 

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You guys deserve better. 
The gospel deserves better. 

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Jesus deserves better. 
And so I wanted you to know, I'm

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sorry, I will do better. 
Some of you guys will write me a

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permission slip, but I don't 
need one and I don't deserve 

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one. 
I'm a professional communicator,

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and I can figure out ways to 
communicate my passion in a way 

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that isn't hurtful and 
offensive. 

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And so I'm sorry. 
That being said, yeah, I really 

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do. 
I I really do love you guys and 

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I'd hate for anything to get in 
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So I'm going to do a really good
job if I can, of preaching A 

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sermon today where I don't step 
in any mud holes. 

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So a woman had a young child, 
and she wanted him to be 

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mentored by a good teacher. 
And so she said, would you 

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please spend the day with my 
son? 

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And so the teacher showed up and
took the young boy on a walk 

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through the forest. 
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the forest, the teacher pointed 
out a small tree that was barely

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a couple of days old. 
And he said, I want you to pull 

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up that tree. 
And so the boy reached down with

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his finger and his thumb, and he
plucked that small tree out of 

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the ground. 
He goes, good job. 

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They continue walking through 
the forest and he comes across 

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another tree that's several 
weeks old. 

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And he tells the young boy to 
pull that tree out. 

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And the boy reaches down and he 
puts his entire hand around the 

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trunk of the tree and he pulls 
it out of the ground. 

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They keep walking through the 
forest and they go a little bit 

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further and they find a tree 
that's well over six months old.

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And he says, I want you to pull 
up that tree. 

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And so the boy grabs with both 
hands and he squats down and he 

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pulls and he pulls and he pulls 
and eventually he falls back and

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the roots release from the 
ground and he pulls up that tree

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and the teacher goes, good job. 
They keep walking through the 

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forest and they come across a 
full grown tree and he says, I 

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want you to pull that tree up. 
And the boy goes up and he wraps

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his arm around the tree and his 
hands barely touching their 

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side. 
And he pulls and he pulls and he

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pulls and eventually he cries 
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It's impossible to pull up this 
tree and the wise teacher turned

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to the boy and he said, and so 
it is with your habits. 

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When your habits just begin to 
blossom, they are easy to 

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remove. 
But once they are full grown, it

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is impossible to remove them by 
yourself. 

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We know this to be true. 
The good habits that you're 

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trying to form are so easily 
discarded, right? 

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Last night Jennifer said. 
Do you want anything from the 

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store? 
I said whatever you do, don't 

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get any more of those Hy Vee 
cookies because I'm going to try

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and start dialing it in. 
And then today, after first 

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service, I said, are you still 
going to Hy Vee Right after 

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church? 
She goes, yeah, I go pick up 

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some of those cookies because 
there's a Chiefs game today, 

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right? 
You could. 

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It just doesn't take any time at
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Here's what the teacher was 
trying to tell the young boy Get

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control of your habits. 
Before your habits get control 

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of you, I want to welcome those 
of you joining at all of our 

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different locations, those of 
you watching online, and those 

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of you who are hanging out at 
the Crossing for the first time 

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or maybe the first time in a 
long time. 

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I got a special word to those of
you who are gathering at one of 

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our physical locations. 
You have made a great decision 

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for your physical and your 
mental health. 

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Weekly church attendance. 
Weekly church attendance has 

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been scientifically proven to be
good for you. 

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All this time you thought God 
was just being legalistic and 

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all this time you thought 
pastors were just trying to 

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boost their numbers. 
No, no, no, no, no. 

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When God made you, he knew what 
was good for you and he calls 

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you to things that are good for 
you. 

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And when you go to church 
regularly, it is good for you 

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mentally and it is good for you 
physically. 

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It boosts your immune system. 
Did you know that? 

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It's probably because there's 
people who aren't washing their 

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hands when they're coming out of
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Then, like you're just get it 
decreases your blood pressure. 

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It adds much as two to three 
years to your life. 

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How many of you want to live 
longer if you didn't raise your 

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hand? 
You should really get right with

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Jesus today. 
You don't. 

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I don't know how much time you 
got left. 

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Regular church attenders are 
less likely to be depressed and 

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anxious. 
Those who attend church 

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regularly have a greater sense 
of purpose, meaning, and 

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satisfaction. 
The survey also goes to get the 

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same level of satisfaction of 
going to church regularly, you 

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would need between a 17 and 
$25,000 raise. 

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So if you didn't get a $20,000 
raise this year, keep coming to 

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church, OK? 
Because that's the only way 

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you're getting happy. 
At the very least, you being at 

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church is a gift to yourself and
to those you love. 

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It's a habit worth keeping, but 
today we are starting A5 week 

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sermon series called Creatures 
of Habit Breaking the Habits 

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Holding you back from God's 
Best. 

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It's based on a book by Steve 
Poe who's a friend of Jerry and 

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Allison, and he will actually be
here for week 5 of this sermon 

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series. 
He was a pastor of a large 

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church in Indianapolis and he 
has agreed to come and close out

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this sermon series with us. 
Nobel Prize winning writer 

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Albert Camus said this life is a
sum of all your choices, and to 

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be honest with you, it's pretty 
hard to argue with that. 

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It doesn't take a lot of time, 
if you're looking around at your

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life, to realize that you ended 
up where you ended up because of

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the decisions that you've been 
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You made choices to get where 
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Your financial situation more 
than likely is a result of 

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choices that you made. 
The haircut you have right now, 

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most of you weren't kidnapped. 
You made that decision sober. 

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You said, yeah, I want that, 
which is great. 

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Friends you have. 
How many of you have friends 

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that you don't really like? 
The fact that you still have 

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those people in your life, it's 
because you refuse to make the 

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decision to deal with it. 
The clothes you're wearing, you 

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decided that and how tight they 
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You you made that decision too. 
The scary part is that 

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neurobiologists and cognitive 
psychologists indicate, check 

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this out, that from 40 to 95% of
human behavior, that is what we 

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think, what we say, and our 
overall behaviors are based on 

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habits. 
What that means is, if life is 

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based on our decisions, and our 
decisions are largely based on 

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our habits, then there are some 
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The first one is that we are 
creatures of habit, The second 

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truth, Our habits form us. 
But the good news is, if you 

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change your habits, you can 
change your life. 1st we make 

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our habits and then our habits 
make us. 

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And there is one habit, one 
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That is the most destructive 
habit when it comes to your 

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spiritual growth. 
If you're going in 2024, I want 

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to get closer to God than I've 
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This habit will keep you from 
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It is the single biggest 
destroyer of marriages and 

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parenting relationships that you
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If you don't get this one 
figured out, it's going to hurt 

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your marriage. 
It's going to hurt your 

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parenting. 
This one habit limits your 

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ability to be the boss, manager,
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to be. 
It keeps you from having deep 

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and meaningful relationships. 
This one habit is the headwaters

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for so many other sins and vices
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It keeps you from experiencing 
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What is this devastating habit? 
What is this devastating sin? 

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It's the habit. 
It's the sin of pride. 

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Now some of you you might be 
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I have a pride problem? 
Let me give you some 

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descriptions. 
If you are super competitive, 

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you probably have a pride 
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It's not enough for you to just 
bring your very best, you must 

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decimate somebody in the 
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That's why nobody plays Monopoly
with me and my family, because I

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don't stop until they cry and 
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It's one thing to take pride in 
your kids, your appearance, your

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yard, because you want to bring 
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But if the only way you get true
satisfaction is if somebody is 

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defeated, somebody loses, You 
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If you are constantly comparing 
yourself to others, you might 

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have a pride problem. 
Here's what prideful people do. 

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They pick people to compare 
themselves to that they know 

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they will win against. 
They don't pick somebody that 

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will make them get better, 
become a better husband, become 

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a better wife to compare 
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Oh no, no, no, no, no. 
They compare themselves to 

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somebody who's worse than them. 
So they can say, well, at least 

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I'm not as bad as fill in the 
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You might struggle with pride if
when you heard the topic of the 

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sermon, you went, oh, I wish so 
and so was here because they 

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could really use this sermon if 
the first thing that popped in 

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your mind was somebody else, OK,
so far, everybody's surviving. 

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If you are controlling, you have
a pride problem because nobody 

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can do it like you do it. 
No one is as good as you. 

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Your way is the best way to do 
it, and everyone else's way is 

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not as good as your way. 
Ladies, your husband doesn't 

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help fold the towels because 
your way is the only way to fold

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a towel. 
And your kids don't help clean 

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up after dinner and wipe down 
the countertop, because nobody 

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cleans off a countertop as good 
as you. 

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And it's not that your family's 
lazy. 

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It's that you're prideful and 
controlling. 

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Fellas, I I took that one for 
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that, OK? 
I also need a place to stay this

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week. 
If you are threatened by people 

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who are smarter than you, more 
skilled than you, more talented 

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and gifted than you, you might 
have a pride problem as a boss. 

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As a leader, you push those 
people away because you're 

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insecure. 
You don't want them to be better

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than you. 
You don't want to have to 

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compete against people that will
push you and challenge you, and 

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so you push talented people away
from your company, from your 

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business, from your team, 
Charlie Munger, who was kind of 

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the cohort of Warren Buffett, 
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If we only hire people smaller 
than us, we will become a 

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company of dwarves. 
And so your family, your 

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friendships, you push the people
away who challenge you. 

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So that way you can be in 
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If you are always talking and 
rarely listening. 

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I'm just raising my hand. 
So that way, you know, I know 

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that I have a pride problem. 
My wife during first service was

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like speaking so loud at that 
point that we had to pause the 

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sermon. 
You probably have a pride 

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problem. 
If you don't ask for help, you 

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probably have a pride problem. 
It's not that you're 

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self-sufficient, it's that you 
don't want people to know the 

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real you. 
You would rather they like the 

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fake version of you, then love 
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It keeps you from being honest, 
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grow as deep. 
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might struggle with pride 
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trying to figure out how to 
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will please everybody else. 
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to think really good about you. 
You, you, you, you, you. 

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You might have a pride problem. 
You have created a world in 

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which you are the center of the 
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And hear me. 
If unchecked, pride will lead 

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you to dangerous places. 
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Satan became Satan. 
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to your destruction both in this
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Proverbs chapter 16, verse 18 
says this Pride goes before 

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destruction, a haughty spirit 
before a fall. 

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It leads to your eternal 
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person will never recognize 
their need for a savior and will

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continue to sit on the throne of
their lives and their hearts. 

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The good news is it does not 
have to be this way. 

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If we keep reading in verse 20 
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Whoever gives heed to 
instruction prospers and blessed

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is the one who trusts in the 
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This year, 2024, how many of you
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Those of you who didn't raise 
your hand, Prospering is a good 

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thing. 
How many of you would like a 

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good thing this year? 
And you would like to prosper? 

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Oh, there we go. 
We got smart people clued in. 

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How many of you would like God 
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When you are prideful, you 
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pride can't learn anything. 
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instruct you. 
He says he will prosper you and 

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he will bless you. 
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have to get ourselves out of a 
position of pride. 

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A prideful person will never 
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They'll be too busy putting 
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So you might be going, But 
Clayton, how do I deal with 

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pride in my life? 
Well, Peter, one of the people 

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closest to Jesus, tells us in 
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All of you clothe yourselves 
with humility towards one 

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another because God opposes the 
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humble. 
Hold on a second. 

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God opposes prideful people. 
You do not want God as an enemy.

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You're going to have enough 
challenges in your life to have 

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God go. 
Nope. 

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But he shows favor to the 
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God will take a person who walks
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humility, and he will put them 
in a position to prosper. 

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Verse six, humble yourselves 
therefore, under God's mighty 

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hand that he may lift you up in 
due time. 

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If you want to fight pride, we 
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And here is the promise. 
As much as God hates pride, he 

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loves humility. 
If you want to spend all of your

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energy and all of your effort 
trying to put yourself above 

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everybody else, God will oppose 
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But if you humble yourself, God 
gets so excited that when he 

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sees it, he runs to it and He 
lifts it up. 

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Those who humble themselves will
be lifted up. 

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So how do I kill pride and live 
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Paul tells us this in Romans 
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For by the grace given me, I say
to everyone of you, do not think

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of yourself more highly than you
ought, but rather think of 

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yourself with sober judgement, 
in accordance with the faith 

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that God has distributed to each
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Think of yourself with sober 
judgement. 

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Now, I want you to pay close 
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Thinking about yourself with 
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about yourself poorly. 
It is not gone. 

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Boy, I'm just bad at everything.
I'm not good at anything. 

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Everything about me is 
absolutely horrible. 

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There's no way God could ever 
use me. 

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I don't have anything good to 
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I don't have any value. 
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That is stupidity. 
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things about you, you are saying
bad things about God because God

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made you and God makes good 
things. 

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Don't believe me? 
Look what it says right here in 

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Ephesians chapter 2. 
For we, that's you and me are 

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God's handiwork created in 
Christ Jesus to do good works. 

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Which God prepared in advance 
for us to do. 

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God made you, formed you, put 
you together, equipped you, put 

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gifts inside of you to be used. 
You are a gifted, qualified 

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person to accomplish good things
with Christ's help. 

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And when we start going, well, 
I'm just not any good and I 

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can't do anything and I don't 
have anything to offer. 

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You're making a statement about 
something good that God made. 

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Imagine your kid were to make 
you like, you know, you would 

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just came out of the gingerbread
season. 

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Your kid makes a gingerbread 
house and he brings it to you 

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and you go, oh, wow, that's 
trash, right? 

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You would be saying something 
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And when you look at yourself in
the mirror, or when you see 

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minister or opportunities to 
serve and to accomplish God's 

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mission and you go, well, I just
can't. 

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I'm just not. 
You're making a claim about your

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maker. 
This is about having a sober 

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judgment. 
When it comes to you thinking of

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yourself honestly, it means that
you're not perfect. 

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It means that you're not the 
smartest, most gifted person. 

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You're not the most important 
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You recognize that God created 
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Christ, but you are not Christ. 
That's what you're supposed to 

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do. 
CS Lewis said it this way. 

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Humility is not thinking less of
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It is thinking of yourself less.
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yourself as much as you 
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you will be amazed at how much 
time you have to think about God

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and others. 
It moves you into a position to 

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accomplish the 2 greatest 
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Love the Lord your God with all 
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strength. 
And love your neighbor as 

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yourself. 
You were created by God to love 

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Him and accomplish His mission, 
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loving others. 
Humility is not going. 

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I can't do anything right. 
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How can I make the lives of 
people around me better? 

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How can I be used by God and for
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To get an example of what this 
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chapter 10, verse 45. 
For even the Son of Man, that's 

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Jesus did not come to be served 
but to serve and to give his 

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life as a ransom. 
For many, a person who is 

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willing to defeat pride and win 
in humility sees themselves as a

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servant. 
They see themselves as a 

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opportunity to be used by God, 
to make the lives of people 

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around them better. 
Instead of looking for ways to 

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compete and waiting to be 
celebrated, they're looking for 

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ways to help others, celebrate 
others and serve others. 

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A person who is humble is going 
to be asking questions like 

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this. 
How do I take my gifts that God 

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gave me and use them to make the
lives of the people around me 

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better? 
Instead of making myself better,

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how do I use my time, my 
talents, my money, my gifts, and

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leverage them to love God and 
love others? 

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It's super easy to take the gift
that you have and to use it for 

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you, and we see people doing it 
all the time, but we have 

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permission slips when we do it 
ourselves and condemnation when 

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we see it in others. 
A person who's humble takes what

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God has given them and they use 
it to glorify God and to reach 

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and serve people. 
This week I want you to find a 

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way to serve your spouse. 
This week I want you to find a 

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way to serve your kids. 
Look for a way to serve your Co 

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workers. 
See yourself as an agent from 

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God to better their life to 
serve, and point them to Jesus. 

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This week, find a way to 
celebrate something in somebody 

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else. 
Instead of constantly trying to 

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put the spotlight on yourself, 
turn the spotlight on somebody 

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else. 
Man, when you did that, that was

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really good. 
When I saw that, I really 

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appreciated it. 
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it forces us to keep our pride 
in check and live in humility 

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because we are celebrating the 
greatness in others instead of 

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trying to get others to 
celebrate the greatness in US. 

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Jesus is our supreme example 
when it comes to this. 

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Look what it says in Philippians
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Do nothing out of selfish 
ambition or vain conceit. 

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That's pride. 
Rather in humility. 

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Value others above yourselves. 
It's not devalue yourself, but 

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see the value in others, not 
looking to your own interests. 

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That's prideful, but each of you
to the interests of others. 

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How do I make the lives of 
people around me better keep 

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going? 
And your relationships with one 

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another have the same mindset as
Christ Jesus. 

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If Jesus was married to my 
spouse, what would his mindset 

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be? 
If Jesus had my job, my 

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responsibilities, my 
relationships, how? 

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What would his mindset be? 
Instead of having a mindset that

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is trying to worship yourself, 
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How did he live this out? 
Who being a very nature God, did

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not consider equality with God 
something to be used to his own 

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advantage? 
Rather, he made himself nothing 

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by taking the very nature of a 
servant, being made in human 

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likeness, and being found in 
appearance as a man, he humbled 

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himself by becoming obedient to 
death, even death. 

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On a cross. 
Therefore God exalted him to the

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highest place and gave him the 
name that is above every name, 

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that at the name of Jesus every 
knee should bow in heaven and on

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earth and under the earth, and 
every tongue acknowledge that 

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Jesus Christ is Lord to the 
glory of God the Father. 

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You see what happens? 
Jesus humbles himself and God 

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lifts him up and draws people to
him. 

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That's why Jesus said if I be 
lifted up, I will draw all men 

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unto myself. 
If anybody has a right to be 

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prideful, don't you think it's 
Jesus? 

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Like, what's the thing that 
you're better at than him? 

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So you're like, I'm a pretty 
good counselor. 

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You think you're better than 
him. 

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So I mean, like, I mean, I'm a 
pretty good friend. 

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Think you're better than him? 
I'm a pretty good doctor. 

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Think you're better than him? 
Like, the only thing I'm better 

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at than Jesus is swimming. 
Because every time he tries to 

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get in the water, he just walks 
on it. 

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Like, I got a way better 
backstroke than he does. 

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What's the thing that you think 
you're better at than Jesus? 

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He shows up at a party. 
They run out of drinks. 

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He's like, I got you. 
He's walking by a funeral. 

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He's like, let's cancel it. 
Like, that's just how he 

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operates. 
You think you're better than 

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him, and Jesus takes all of that
greatness, and what does he do? 

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He lays it all down so that you 
and I could have an intimate, 

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personal relationship with him 
and have the hope of heaven. 

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Jesus didn't come with all of 
that greatness and go serve me. 

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He brought all of that greatness
to bear, to purchase something 

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that you and I could have never 
purchased on our own, our 

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salvation. 
And in doing so, he made a way 

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for you and I. 
We have the hope of heaven in 

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our hearts. 
And maybe, maybe if you and I 

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were to live in humility, God 
could use us to do the same. 

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That when we humble ourselves 
and leverage our lives for the 

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good of God and the good of 
others, maybe, just maybe, he 

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will use us to draw people into 
His Kingdom as well. 

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I hope you'll think about that 
as we move to this time. 

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A decision To those of you in 
here today that have never 

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started an intimate, personal 
relationship with Jesus and 

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those of you who are watching 
online, I'm going to say some 

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hard things. 
So I'm going to poke you for 

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just a little bit, but I'm 
poking you in love. 

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The reason you haven't started a
relationship with Jesus Christ 

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today might be because you have 
a pride problem. 

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You think you don't need him, 
but the Bible clearly says that 

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the way to the Father is through
the Son. 

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That Jesus is the way, the 
truth, the life. 

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You are not in that equation. 
The way to the Father is not 

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through you. 
It's not through your abilities.

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It's not through your good 
works. 

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It's through him. 
And pride might be keeping you 

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thinking, I don't need God to be
my savior. 

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I'll save myself. 
Good luck. 

453
00:30:16,680 --> 00:30:20,480
If you could fix you, God 
wouldn't have sent his son to 

454
00:30:20,480 --> 00:30:24,080
die for you. 
Some of you, you like the idea 

455
00:30:24,400 --> 00:30:27,680
of God being your savior. 
You just don't like the idea of 

456
00:30:27,680 --> 00:30:30,960
him being your Lord, him being 
in control of your life. 

457
00:30:31,480 --> 00:30:34,000
You having to take everything 
that you've amassed for yourself

458
00:30:34,160 --> 00:30:36,960
and turn it over to him. 
And not wanting to turn your 

459
00:30:36,960 --> 00:30:40,480
life over to Jesus is a pride 
problem. 

460
00:30:43,160 --> 00:30:46,240
Some of you, deep down inside 
you, just still feel like you 

461
00:30:46,240 --> 00:30:51,360
got to earn it, that you got to 
fix it, that you got to somehow 

462
00:30:51,360 --> 00:30:56,640
make it happen on your own. 
That's pride. 

463
00:30:58,360 --> 00:31:02,840
The Bible tells us that 
salvation is a gift from God so 

464
00:31:02,840 --> 00:31:07,800
that no one can boast. 
When you and I get to heaven, 

465
00:31:08,720 --> 00:31:12,560
we're not going to be going. 
I'm here because I'm so awesome.

466
00:31:15,800 --> 00:31:17,760
I got in here because I'm so 
good. 

467
00:31:19,440 --> 00:31:21,680
No, Christians don't boast in 
themselves. 

468
00:31:22,160 --> 00:31:27,360
Christians boast in the cross. 
If there's anything good in you 

469
00:31:27,360 --> 00:31:31,600
today, it is not from you. 
It comes from him. 

470
00:31:32,440 --> 00:31:36,400
Who's the one who puts the Holy 
Spirit inside of you, Who 

471
00:31:36,400 --> 00:31:39,640
produces things in you that you 
can never produce on your own? 

472
00:31:40,080 --> 00:31:43,400
If there's anything good in me, 
if I'm making a good parenting 

473
00:31:43,400 --> 00:31:45,360
decision, it's because of the 
cross. 

474
00:31:46,000 --> 00:31:48,760
If I'm navigating a marriage 
thing and I'm doing it the right

475
00:31:48,760 --> 00:31:51,840
way, it's because of the cross. 
If there's anything that I'm 

476
00:31:51,840 --> 00:31:55,160
doing that's having a positive 
effect, it's because of him. 

477
00:31:55,440 --> 00:32:00,040
Christians glory in the cross. 
We don't boast in ourselves, we 

478
00:32:00,040 --> 00:32:03,480
boast in him doing the thing 
that we could never do and 

479
00:32:03,480 --> 00:32:06,920
giving us an opportunity to 
participate in a mission that we

480
00:32:06,920 --> 00:32:11,080
don't deserve to participate in.
Humility goes it's because of 

481
00:32:11,080 --> 00:32:13,520
Jesus. 
If pride goes, I don't need him.

482
00:32:15,960 --> 00:32:20,200
And a prideful person will never
enter into the Kingdom of 

483
00:32:20,200 --> 00:32:23,160
heaven. 
And so for some of you today, 

484
00:32:24,080 --> 00:32:26,840
for some reason, you've been 
putting it off for a really, 

485
00:32:26,840 --> 00:32:31,480
really long time. 
What I can tell you is life 

486
00:32:31,480 --> 00:32:36,520
without Jesus at the center only
hurts you and those you love. 

487
00:32:36,520 --> 00:32:42,960
And maybe today you will answer 
the prayers that people have 

488
00:32:42,960 --> 00:32:47,000
been praying on your behalf for 
a really long time, and you'll 

489
00:32:47,000 --> 00:32:51,800
humble yourself and allow Jesus 
Christ to become Lord and Savior

490
00:32:51,960 --> 00:32:55,600
of your life. 
And if that's where you are, in 

491
00:32:55,600 --> 00:32:57,440
just a few moments, when the 
people around you stand and 

492
00:32:57,680 --> 00:32:59,520
saying, I'm going to encourage 
you to go right over there by 

493
00:32:59,520 --> 00:33:02,320
that baptistry. 
Or maybe talk to somebody who 

494
00:33:02,320 --> 00:33:05,280
brought you about how you can 
start that relationship with 

495
00:33:05,280 --> 00:33:08,200
Jesus Christ. 
To the rest of you in here, the 

496
00:33:08,200 --> 00:33:17,280
Christians, we have a lot of 
work to do if we're going to 

497
00:33:17,280 --> 00:33:24,040
kill pride and live in humility.
Some of you, you need to finally

498
00:33:24,040 --> 00:33:29,680
admit that you have a problem. 
The relationships and the 

499
00:33:29,680 --> 00:33:33,480
blessing of the relationships 
that God wants to give you are 

500
00:33:33,480 --> 00:33:38,160
being hindered by your inability
to be honest about the hurt and 

501
00:33:38,160 --> 00:33:40,240
the heartache and the struggles 
that you have. 

502
00:33:41,280 --> 00:33:46,440
And so you're stuck in shallow 
relationships and God's saying 

503
00:33:46,440 --> 00:33:50,440
if you'd humble yourself, if 
you'd kill the pride, I could 

504
00:33:50,440 --> 00:33:53,880
give you a relational gift that 
you cannot imagine. 

505
00:33:54,520 --> 00:33:58,000
The people around you are way 
more loving and way more caring 

506
00:33:58,000 --> 00:34:01,240
than you ever thought, and I 
have purpose built them and 

507
00:34:01,240 --> 00:34:03,640
equipped them to help you 
navigate the things that you're 

508
00:34:03,640 --> 00:34:06,280
navigating. 
You have no idea what it'll be 

509
00:34:06,280 --> 00:34:10,880
like when you can finally be 
real and known and loved. 

510
00:34:12,000 --> 00:34:14,199
But Satan keeps telling you that
you'll be rejected. 

511
00:34:15,639 --> 00:34:17,800
Satan keeps telling you you 
handle this. 

512
00:34:20,080 --> 00:34:24,760
Some of you, there are people 
that you need to apologize to. 

513
00:34:26,480 --> 00:34:28,679
You've hurt them. 
You know you have. 

514
00:34:29,600 --> 00:34:31,920
But pride keeps you from saying 
you're sorry. 

515
00:34:32,920 --> 00:34:36,840
And so it infects your marriage.
It infects your parenting. 

516
00:34:37,480 --> 00:34:40,800
It infects the relationships 
that you have at work, because 

517
00:34:40,800 --> 00:34:42,639
Pride doesn't want to admit when
it's wrong. 

518
00:34:43,440 --> 00:34:47,400
But in humility, when we go to 
people and offer a genuine 

519
00:34:47,400 --> 00:34:51,280
apology, God can use that to 
open a door to reconciliation 

520
00:34:51,960 --> 00:34:53,400
and to the advancement of his 
mission. 

521
00:34:54,400 --> 00:34:58,160
Some of us, we haven't told some
of our friends about Jesus 

522
00:34:59,280 --> 00:35:03,000
because we're worried about 
rejection, because in Pride 

523
00:35:03,000 --> 00:35:05,680
we're worried about what other 
people think of us more than 

524
00:35:05,680 --> 00:35:10,440
what he thinks of us. 
And pride is keeping us from 

525
00:35:10,440 --> 00:35:13,560
living on mission like he has 
called us to, like he has 

526
00:35:13,760 --> 00:35:18,560
rescued us to. 
And so there are people today 

527
00:35:18,800 --> 00:35:22,560
that don't know Jesus because 
the pride in our lives from 

528
00:35:22,560 --> 00:35:30,720
yesterday, this year, 2024. 
Would you humble yourself, ask 

529
00:35:30,720 --> 00:35:33,440
God to do a work in you that 
only he can do? 

530
00:35:35,320 --> 00:35:38,360
Would you stand with me, 
Heavenly Father? 

531
00:35:43,280 --> 00:35:45,000
I ask. 
That you would just shut out all

532
00:35:45,000 --> 00:35:49,520
of the distractions and allow 
every person in this room and 

533
00:35:49,520 --> 00:35:55,600
online to be able to focus on 
exactly what it is that you want

534
00:35:55,600 --> 00:36:01,320
them to do. 
God creating us a desire to be 

535
00:36:01,320 --> 00:36:08,080
humble, bring about changes in 
our hearts and our lives that 

536
00:36:08,080 --> 00:36:14,800
could be transformative. 
God, Satan is trying to destroy 

537
00:36:14,800 --> 00:36:20,240
us, but you have come that we 
may have life and life to the 

538
00:36:20,240 --> 00:36:24,240
full. 
And God pride wants us to keep 

539
00:36:24,240 --> 00:36:26,840
trusting in our own paths and 
our own ways. 

540
00:36:27,120 --> 00:36:30,280
But humility wants to lean on 
your ways and your understanding

541
00:36:30,480 --> 00:36:32,680
and acknowledge you in all of 
our ways. 

542
00:36:33,880 --> 00:36:37,080
And so God, as we come to this 
moment right now, give us the 

543
00:36:37,080 --> 00:36:43,240
strength to humble ourselves. 
Use us, Lord, to advance your 

544
00:36:43,240 --> 00:36:48,080
mission, to reach the loss, and 
to live the life that you've 

545
00:36:48,080 --> 00:36:49,440
called us to. 
In your name I pray. 

546
00:36:50,160 --> 00:36:50,520
Amen.
