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I ask you to grab your Bible and
open to Matthew Chapter 7 Now. 

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While you're grabbing it, you 
can grab your worship guide. 

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You'll be able to take notes 
there. 

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So I encourage you to do that as
you follow along in the sermon 

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this morning. 
We are actually nearing the end 

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of the Sermon on the Mount 
portion of Matthew's gospel, and

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Jesus has been teaching us 
through this, as we've said each

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week, what life in his Kingdom 
is supposed to look like. 

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Now, Jesus has taught us what 
we're calling Kingdom citizens, 

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right believers. 
Jesus has taught us that Kingdom

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citizens are poor in spirits, 
they're meek, they're merciful, 

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they're pure in hearts, they're 
peacemakers, they're willing to 

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suffer for righteousness sake or
for the name of Christ. 

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He's added to those things a lot
of other teachings, right? 

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Like He, he's taught us that our
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of the scribes and Pharisees, 
the the religious elites of the 

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day. 
He, He's taken us beneath the 

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surface of outward obedience and
has pressed the law into the 

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heart of man. 
We see it this way. 

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Anger is murder in seed form. 
That's where it begins, in the 

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heart with hatred. 
Lust is adultery in the hearts. 

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Truthfulness must mark our 
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Love must extend to our enemies.
Giving, praying, fasting, all of

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these things must be done before
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applause. 
We must lay up treasures in 

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heaven. 
We must seek first the Kingdom 

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of Christ. 
We must not judge with 

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self-righteous hypocrisy. 
And so it's no wonder that every

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week when you guys leave here, 
your toes are all curled up, 

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right? 
It's a lot. 

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Christ has laid out a lot for 
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A lot that causes us to be 
introspective and to wonder, how

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in the world can I do this? 
How can I be a true Kingdom 

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citizen, right? 
How can I live for the glory of 

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the Lord? 
Like if you're listening to 

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those things week in and week 
out, and I know that you are, 

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then we may rightly ask, Lord, 
who is sufficient for these 

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things, right? 
Surely you feel that pressure. 

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How can I, Lord, live this way 
the way that you're laying out? 

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How can I reflect what it means 
to be a Kingdom citizen day in 

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and day out? 
Well, Jesus doesn't leave you 

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with this burden. 
His answer is in our passage 

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today, and his answer is 
wonderfully simple, right? 

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Christ knows that sheep are 
simple. 

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Not dumb, not stupid, just 
simple, right? 

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But it's deeply comforting as 
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Like, like it's a simple truth, 
but it's deep and it's comfort. 

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And here's what he says. 
Here's what he's going to say to

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us. 
Ask your father. 

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Seek your father. 
Knock at your Father's door. 

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The Kingdom alive cannot be 
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And that's really the tension 
you ought to feel after several 

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weeks in the Sermon on the 
Mount, right? 

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I It must be lived in prayerful 
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That's what Jesus wants us to 
see today. 

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So if you're able, would you 
please stand as we read Matthew 

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7, seven through 11. 
When I'm finished reading, I'll 

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say this is the word of the Lord
and you can respond, thanks be 

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to God. 
Chapter 7, verse 7. 

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Jesus is still speaking. 
Ask and it will be given to you.

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Seek and you will find. 
Knock and it will be open to 

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you, for everyone who asked 
receives, and the one who seeks 

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finds, and to the one who knocks
it will be opened. 

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Or which one of you? 
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we'll give him a stone, or if he
asks for a fish, we'll give him 

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a serpent. 
If you then, who are evil, know 

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how to give good gifts to your 
children, how much more will 

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your father who is in heaven 
give good things to those who 

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ask him? 
This is the word of the Lord. 

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But speak to God, let's pray. 
Heavenly Father, we are grateful

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to be in a place of worship this
morning where we can lift high 

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your name. 
And I thank you, Lord, that we 

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have done that already in our 
prayers and our singing, our 

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giving. 
Today, Lord, we want to lift 

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high your name in the preached 
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We're going to lift high your 
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As listeners today, Would you 
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eyes to see? 
Would you grant to us hearts 

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that contain good soil, that 
Your Word is planted in our 

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hearts, that it would bear fruit
in the weeks and months and 

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years ahead? 
Father, I ask that you would 

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turn our attention to this text 
today, that we would hear the 

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words of our King, that we would
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prayer from him today. 
And Lord, would you help us to 

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be a prayerful people as a 
result of having heard your word

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preached and having believed it 
today, it's in the name of 

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Christ to pray. 
Amen. 

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Amen. 
You may be seated. 

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So at first glance, this text 
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encouragement to pray, and it is
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But it's more than that, right? 
Jesus is not giving you in this 

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text a blank check for your 
selfish desires. 

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All right, we know this to be 
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But we are inundated with the 
message of the health, wealth, 

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and prosperity gospel. 
We're inundated with this idea 

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that we can come to God and He 
is like a cosmic Santa Claus who

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will meet every need that we 
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as if he's a genie in a bottle 
doing our bidding, right? 

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But, but Christ is not teaching 
us to treat God like a vending 

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machine today, right? 
In a vending machine, you might 

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put in the right words, you may 
push the right buttons, and you 

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expect your selected option, 
your selected blessing to drop 

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down and you take hold of it. 
And you don't return to the 

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vending machine again until you 
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Right now Jesus is teaching here
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come to God as their heavenly 
Father, right? 

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A vending machine gives you what
you select if you make the right

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payments. 
A father gives what is good 

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because he loves his children, 
right? 

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A vending machine responds 
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You put your money in, you push 
the button, it drops down what 

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you've asked for. 
But a father responds wisely, 

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right? 
A vending machine gives you what

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you choose. 
A father gives you what is good,

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right? 
So the question in this text is 

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not having read ask, seek, 
knock, will God grant me 

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everything I want exactly when I
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We we know that's not true. 
We might approach God that way, 

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but we know that that's not the 
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The the better question for this
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hear me? 
Can I trust my Father to help 

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me? 
Can I trust my Father to give me

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what is good as I seek his 
Kingdom and his righteousness? 

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And Jesus answer is yes, yes you
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The main point, if you're taking
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this. 
Kingdom citizens should pray 

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with confidence because their 
Father is good and he gives what

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is good. 
All right. 

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Kingdom citizens should pray 
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Father is good and he gives what
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Now we're going to see this in 
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The first will be come to the 
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dependence. 
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Father's generous goodness. 
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rest in the Father's greater 
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So let's look at the first truth
now #1 come to the Father with 

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persistent dependence. 
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8. 
Christ says again, ask and it 

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will be given to you. 
Seek and you will find knock and

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it will be open to you. 
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right? 
Ask, seek, knock. 

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These are simple words, to say 
the least, but they're not 

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shallow words, right They they 
describe the posture of a needy 

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disciple before a generous 
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Ask of him, seek him, knock at 
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What? 
To ask is to admit I have a 

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need. 
It's to admit I'm not 

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sufficient. 
It's the language of dependence,

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right? 
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does not have what he needs 
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This is the idea of pursuing, 
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The prophet Jeremiah tells us 
that, and it's God speaking 

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through him. 
He says if they seek me, they 

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will find me. 
So this is the language of 

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active dependence, but it's the 
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So seeking him out, it's the 
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you. 
I, I need your Kingdom, I need 

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your righteousness, your wisdom,
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To knock is to come to the door 
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can open it. 
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It pictures urgency, 
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It's knocking at the door. 
I know you're in there, right? 

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Open the door. 
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All right. 
Knock. 

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Be persistent. 
Ask persistently. 

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Seek persistently. 
Knock persistently, right? 

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Seek him out. 
Knock at his door. 

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Ask him. 
And so Jesus here is calling his

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disciples those Kingdom 
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He's calling them to persistent 
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Prayer. 
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lot for its placement in the 
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We want to consider the context.
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text, we have to understand 
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We're in the middle of the 
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We're in the middle of all of 
those things I described earlier

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in the intro, right? 
All these different commands, 

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all these different ideas that 
Christ is sharing about what 

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Kingdom citizenship looks like 
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And we must have a righteousness
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Pharisees, right? 
I mean, think about it. 

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Jesus has not given us commands 
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strength of our own flesh, has 
He? 

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I mean that there's not one in 
there that I can fulfill just by

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pulling myself up by my 
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But I can't muster the strength 
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He's described A righteousness 
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exterior of the man and into the
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It affects His heart. 
Now you and I don't have the 

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power to transform hearts, not 
even our own, right? 

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We might create some good 
habits, we might build some 

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healthy routines in our lives 
just by matter of strength, 

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right, by matter of discipline, 
but we cannot affect the heart. 

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We need the Father through His 
Son by the Spirit to transform 

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our hearts. 
That's what Christ is saying 

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here is if you're going to be a 
Kingdom citizen, then prayer is 

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not an optional part of your 
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It's not optional. 
You don't pray only when you sit

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down to eat. 
You don't pray only when you go 

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to bed at night, right? 
We need to ask repeatedly. 

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We need to not persistently. 
We need to seek the Lord 

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constantly. 
Prayer is essential to the 

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Kingdom life. 
It's the language of spiritual 

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poverty. 
That's how we express our need 

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for the Lord. 
This is what Kingdom citizens do

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because they know that they 
cannot produce a Kingdom 

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righteousness apart from the 
grace of the God. 

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And so verse 8, verse 7, having 
given us the commands, verse 8 

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reinforces this great promise 
from Christ to us. 

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And it is a promise for everyone
who asked receives and the one 

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who seeks fines and to the one 
who knocks, it will be opened. 

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You see, Jesus is just repeating
the pattern that he's encouraged

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us to do because he's 
encouraging his people with the 

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promise behind the pattern, 
right? 

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If you ask, you'll receive. 
If you seek, you'll find. 

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If you knock, the door will be 
opened. 

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Now you may say, well, not every
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every asking I've brought to the
Lord, not every request, not 

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every seeking, not every knock 
has been answered or so who's 

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wrong? 
Is Christ wrong or am I missing 

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something? 
We can answer it if we ask it 

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that way, right? 
Christ is never wrong. 

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So what Christ is not saying is 
that every prayer is answered 

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exactly as requested. 
The rest of Scripture will not 

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allow us to interpret the 
passage this way. 

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But what Christ is saying is 
that the Father truly hears you.

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The Father truly responds. 
He truly gives what is good to 

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his children. 
And so Jesus is inviting us here

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to pray with confidence, to know
that your Father hears this 

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passage tells us something about
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What it says about us is that we
are, we are needy. 

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We, we are dependent. 
And I don't mean needy in like a

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bad way. 
I mean it is like an encouraging

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way, right? 
We are needy, we're we're 

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dependent, we're weak, we're not
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And what it tells us about God 
is he. 

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He's totally different than all 
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He's the opposite of all of that
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Ask your father. 
Seek your father. 

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Knock at his door. 
He's approachable. 

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He's attentive. 
You don't have to wonder when 

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you pray or when you seek the 
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Is he paying attention? 
Of course he is. 

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He's attentive. 
We read here that he's generous.

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All right, we'll see that 
further in a moment. 

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But he's generous. 
He welcomes the prayers of his 

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children. 
You see, the God of heaven, the 

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God who created all things, the 
God who is so high and so lofty 

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and so above us, is not 
irritated by the cries of his 

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people. 
Do you understand that? 

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He's not irritated when you cry 
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I'm not irritated when one of my
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And I'm an evil father, right? 
According to the text, he's not 

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distance from your cries, he's 
not cold towards you, right? 

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I don't know what your 
experience with an earthly 

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father might be. 
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experience. 
Some of you may have a terrible 

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experience, or times of terrible
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Not sure, but what I want you to
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about a perfect father here, one
who is not cold towards you. 

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He is your heavenly Father. 
And Hebrews 416 tells us that we

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should draw near to Him with 
confidence. 

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We should come to the throne of 
grace with confidence that we 

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might receive mercy and find 
grace in our time of need. 

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So ask. 
Ask the Father. 

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In the book of James we read you
have not because you ask not. 

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We also read you ask and do not 
receive because you ask with 

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selfish ambitions. 
That doesn't. 

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Neither one of those say don't 
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They say ask right, Let the Lord
train your heart, let the Lord 

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redirect your desires, Let the 
Lord answer the prayer right. 

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Ask God big things. 
When's the last time you asked 

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God to make you holy as He is 
holy? 

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When's the last time you asked 
God to grant you wisdom or ask 

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God to help you forgive someone?
Or ask God to strengthen your 

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marriage. 
Ask God to make you patient with

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your children. 
Ask God to help you fight lust 

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or anger or anxiety or 
bitterness or hypocrisy. 

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When's the last time you asked 
God to make you faithful in 

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secret, not merely impressive in
public? 

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When's the last time you ask God
to help you seek first His 

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Kingdom and His righteousness? 
When's the last time you ask God

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to save someone who's lost? 
When's the last time you prayed 

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for God to grow his church or 
ask God to make you more like 

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Christ? 
You see what I'm saying? 

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There's all sorts of big lofty 
prayers and often times we don't

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consider these things that we 
read in the text as 

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opportunities for prayer. 
And so we'll come to the Lord 

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with just really, they're not 
even trivial things, They're 

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things that matter, but they're 
typically always about someone 

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else or some health problem or 
and we really do kind of use 

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prayer like a vending machine, 
but prayer is meant to be a 

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major part of your communion 
with God, your daily fellowship 

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with him. 
But when you pray those big 

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prayers, the encouragement here 
in the text is not to ask once 

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and then stop as though God 
didn't hear it or didn't care or

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didn't want to answer it. 
Well, he says ask, seek, knock. 

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Now the truth of a text like 
this, you know, it's not all not

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painful. 
Anything Christ says is going to

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hit us right between the eyes 
sometimes. 

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So the truth of this at times is
some of us do not pray because 

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we are too self-sufficient, 
right? 

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We're, we're too dependent upon 
our own ability to do things. 

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We, we live as though we can 
manage life on our own. 

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Others of us do not pray because
we are discouraged. 

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We've prayed before and we have 
not seen the answer we wanted, 

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and so we quietly drifted into 
prayerlessness. 

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I want you to know Jesus is 
speaking to both here today. 

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To the self-sufficient, He says 
ask why? 

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Because you are needier than you
think you are. 

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You're not as sufficient as you 
have estimated. 

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Ask your father to the 
discouraged, he says, ask why? 

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Because your father is better 
than you fear. 

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He's a good God. 
But I want you to understand, 

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the confidence of prayer does 
not rest in the strength of our 

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asking right? 
It, it rests in the character of

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the one to whom we pray. 
That's where the confidence of 

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prayer rests in His character. 
And that brings us to point #2 

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trust the Father's generous 
goodness. 

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Trust the Father's generous 
goodness. 

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Or which one of you? 
Verse 9 If his son asked him for

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bread, we'll give him a stone. 
Or if he asked for a fish, we'll

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give him a serpent. 
So Jesus is now just offering an

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illustration from ordinary 
family life. 

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A son asked his father for 
bread, and the father, being 

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kind, does not give him a stone.
A son asked for a fish, and the 

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father doesn't give him a 
serpent. 

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Now Jesus is using something 
pretty obvious here to make 

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something glorious plain to us. 
Even fallen human parents know 

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the difference between a gift 
and a danger. 

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They know the difference between
nourishment and horn. 

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They know the difference between
bread and stone, between a fish 

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and a serpent's. 
A decent father, Not even a good

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father, but just a decent one, 
right? 

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He does not mock his child's 
hunger. 

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He doesn't trick his child. 
He doesn't give something 

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harmful when the child is asking
for something that's necessary 

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to life. 
No, Jesus teaches us here to 

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reason from earthly fatherhood 
to heavenly fatherhood. 

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Now, the contrast is important. 
A small limestone rock, which 

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might look like a loaf of bread,
could not nourish the child. 

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Rather, it would frustrate him. 
Me. 

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Picture it, Dad. 
I'm really hungry. 

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You have some bread? 
Yeah. 

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Here, here's some. 
And he bends down and picks up a

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rock and hands it to the child. 
That would frustrate the kid, 

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right? 
He might hurl it at his dad. 

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A serpent would not nourish the 
child. 

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It would endanger him. 
Dad, do you have some fish? 

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I know we caught some fish the 
other day. 

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You got some left that we could 
eat? 

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Yeah, I do. 
Here. 

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Here's a a serpent, right? 
There's an endangerment there. 

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The the point is not merely that
the father would refuse to give 

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something useless. 
The the point is that a father 

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would not deceive his child by 
giving something harmful instead

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of something good. 
Jesus is using this to say to 

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us, Your Father in heaven is not
cruel. 

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He's not deceptive, He's not 
careless about your needs, and 

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when you come to him, he does 
not toy with you. 

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This point highlights God's 
goodness. 

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When we talk about God's 
goodness, we're, we're saying 

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what what we mean is that he is 
benevolent, He's kind, he's 

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generous, he's wise and all his 
dealings with his people, right?

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He, he's not good in a merely 
sentimental way, right? 

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We can think God's good and we 
can get kind of the warm fuzzies

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about it and we can know that 
it's true and it is sentimental.

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Like it comforts us to know that
God is good, but it's not merely

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sentimental. 
That's not what Christ is 

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explaining here. 
He, he's saying that God is good

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in a sovereign way, right? 
His goodness is joined to all 

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that he is, to His wisdom, His 
Holiness, His power and His 

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love. 
What that means is that he knows

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what is good, right? 
He has the power to give what is

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good. 
He, he has the wisdom to give 

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what is good in the right way. 
He, he has the love to give it 

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for the good of his children. 
And This is why prayer requires 

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a deep trust in God. 
We can trust that he is good. 

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Psalm 100 verse 5 says that he 
is faithful, He's abounding in 

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love, and that he's good to 
every generation. 

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And I don't want you to miss the
point of this. 

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We're we're not praying. 
You're not praying to a weak 

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Father who means well, but he's 
unable to help. 

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We're not praying to a powerful 
ruler above us who can help yet 

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doesn't care. 
We are praying to our Father in 

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heaven who is both sovereign and
good. 

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I think this corrects some 
suspicion we might have about 

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God. 
You think suspicion about God? 

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Well, I think we can be more 
guilty of this than we realize, 

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because it's really subtle. 
Ever since Genesis 3, the the 

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fall of mankind in the garden, 
fallen humanity has been tempted

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to question God's goodness. 
The serpent suggested that God 

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was withholding something good 
from Adam and Eve. 

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If you take that fruit, you will
be like God, and he's trying to 

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keep you from that. 
I think that same suspicion 

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still creeps into our hearts. 
I mean, Satan is, he's a 

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tempter. 
He's the father of lies. 

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He's a deceiver, A murderer from
the beginning. 

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This is one of his oldest 
tricks, and it's one of his most

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useful tricks. 
We, we might say things like 

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this. 
If God is good, why has he not 

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answered my prayer yet? 
If God is good, why did he say 

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no to my prayer? 
If God is good, why is this 

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station in life, the 
circumstance, so hard? 

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If God is good, why did he give 
them that person over there? 

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What I've been asking for if God
is good, why does obedience feel

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so costly? 
If God is good, why are bad 

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things happening in my life? 
And what verses 9 and 10 do is 

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they call us back to the 
Father's heart. 

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Your Father is not handing you 
stones when you need bread. 

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Your father does not hand you a 
serpent when you need fish. 

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Your father is good, now does 
that. 

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That doesn't mean that you will 
always understand his answers, 

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You just might not. 
It It does not mean you will 

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always immediately see how his 
answer is good. 

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But Jesus calls you to trust the
Father's heart when you cannot 

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trace the Father's hand. 
And then Jesus presses this 

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argument even further. 
He does not merely say the 

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Father is good, He goes on to 
say the Father is infinitely 

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better than even the best 
earthly father. 

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Which brings us to .3 verse 11. 
Rest in the Father's greater 

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love. 
Now Jesus presses the lesson 

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home, if you will. 
If you then who are evil know 

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how to give good gifts to your 
children. 

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Now we'll stop there because 
that phrase is quite striking. 

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If you then who are evil, can't 
say Amen, you say Ouch, right? 

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Ouch. 
Now Jesus is not about 

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flattering human nature, right? 
He, he tells, he tells the truth

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about us, even the best earthly 
fathers. 

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What Christ is saying here is 
even the very best earthly 

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fathers are still fallen humans.
We may love our children 

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sincerely, but we are not loving
them perfectly. 

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We we are limited, we're 
inconsistent, we're impatient, 

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we're selfish, and we're sinful.
Yet even fallen fathers know how

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to give good, give good gifts to
their children. 

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So Jesus is not saying that 
earthly fathers are perfect. 

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He is saying that even sinful 
fathers typically understand 

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that a hungry child should 
receive nourishment, not danger.

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Right. 
And then comes this great 

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encouragement. 
How much more will your Father 

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who is in heaven give good 
things to those who ask him? 

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Now the phrase how much more 
really does kind of carry the 

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weight of this verse. 
How much more I like what Jesus 

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is doing here. 
He is arguing His point from the

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lesser to the greater right. 
If fallen fathers know how to 

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give good gifts, how much more 
does your heavenly Father know 

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how to give good gifts? 
If sinful fathers can show 

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genuine care, how much more does
your heavenly Father, who is 

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perfectly holy, wise, generous, 
and loving, care for his 

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children? 
And so the point lands right. 

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You can see it. 
Notice what Jesus says the 

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Father gives good things. 
It doesn't say that the Father 

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will give everything. 
We ask for exactly how we ask. 

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He says the Father gives good 
things to those who ask him. 

455
00:36:02,840 --> 00:36:04,800
Now that is not a smaller 
promise. 

456
00:36:05,120 --> 00:36:09,400
That's a better promise. 
Brothers and sisters, Amen. 

457
00:36:11,040 --> 00:36:15,240
That might be hard to agree with
because again, in our 

458
00:36:15,240 --> 00:36:17,400
self-sufficiency, we think we 
know best. 

459
00:36:17,400 --> 00:36:19,840
We think we know what we need 
better. 

460
00:36:20,920 --> 00:36:22,960
But again, we're talking about 
the Heavenly Father here. 

461
00:36:24,320 --> 00:36:26,800
It's not a smaller promise, it's
a better promise. 

462
00:36:28,120 --> 00:36:31,960
Our desires. 
Here's why it's a better 

463
00:36:31,960 --> 00:36:34,440
promise. 
Our desires are not always wise.

464
00:36:35,920 --> 00:36:41,560
Our vision is limited. 
Our hearts can be mixed. 

465
00:36:41,560 --> 00:36:43,760
We can have two masters at 
times. 

466
00:36:44,640 --> 00:36:48,400
We we can ask for things that 
look like bread to us but would 

467
00:36:48,400 --> 00:36:53,680
become stones in our hands. 
We we can ask for things that 

468
00:36:53,680 --> 00:36:58,160
look like fish to us but would 
become serpents to our souls. 

469
00:37:01,040 --> 00:37:03,920
But your Father in heaven knows 
the difference. 

470
00:37:06,240 --> 00:37:08,120
He he knows what will nourish 
you. 

471
00:37:09,120 --> 00:37:11,960
He knows what will harm you. 
He knows what will make you 

472
00:37:11,960 --> 00:37:13,880
holy. 
He knows what will draw you 

473
00:37:13,880 --> 00:37:17,880
nearer to Christ. 
He knows what will serve his 

474
00:37:17,880 --> 00:37:22,800
Kingdom purposes the best, and 
he knows then what is truly 

475
00:37:23,000 --> 00:37:28,320
good. 
So Jesus isn't promising that 

476
00:37:28,320 --> 00:37:31,760
God will always give us whatever
we would choose if we had his 

477
00:37:31,760 --> 00:37:36,480
power. 
He's promising something far 

478
00:37:36,680 --> 00:37:41,600
better. 
Don't don't miss his points. 

479
00:37:42,080 --> 00:37:46,280
Our Father will always give what
is good according to his wisdom,

480
00:37:46,520 --> 00:37:52,160
his will and his love. 
Now this first teaches us about 

481
00:37:52,160 --> 00:37:57,680
God's fatherly goodness. 
God isn't reluctant to hear his 

482
00:37:57,680 --> 00:38:01,360
children. 
He's not stingy with his mercy, 

483
00:38:01,800 --> 00:38:03,480
right? 
There's a reason we sing his 

484
00:38:03,480 --> 00:38:07,120
mercy is more around here. 
We believe it. 

485
00:38:08,280 --> 00:38:10,640
He's not annoyed by our 
dependence. 

486
00:38:12,480 --> 00:38:15,000
He's not cold toward our needs. 
He's not bothered when his 

487
00:38:15,000 --> 00:38:17,960
children come asking and seeking
and knocking. 

488
00:38:18,640 --> 00:38:21,520
He is our Father in heaven, and 
that means that he's both near 

489
00:38:21,600 --> 00:38:23,840
and sovereign. 
He's near enough to hear. 

490
00:38:23,920 --> 00:38:30,560
He's powerful enough to act, 
He's tender enough to care, and 

491
00:38:30,560 --> 00:38:32,920
He's wise enough to know what is
best. 

492
00:38:34,840 --> 00:38:40,360
He's generous enough to give, 
and he's holy enough to never 

493
00:38:40,480 --> 00:38:49,600
give you what would destroy you.
So we can say rightly from the 

494
00:38:49,600 --> 00:38:55,560
text his yes is good. 
We can say rightly from the text

495
00:38:55,680 --> 00:39:01,400
that his no is good. 
We can say rightly from the text

496
00:39:01,400 --> 00:39:10,960
that his weight is good, his 
redirection is good, his 

497
00:39:10,960 --> 00:39:14,440
discipline is good, his comfort 
is good. 

498
00:39:14,440 --> 00:39:19,160
We could go on and on and on. 
He is good through and through. 

499
00:39:23,120 --> 00:39:25,520
Not because every circumstance 
feels good. 

500
00:39:27,600 --> 00:39:29,640
Many circumstances do not feel 
good. 

501
00:39:33,080 --> 00:39:41,480
Not because every answer is easy
to understand, many are not. 

502
00:39:45,080 --> 00:39:47,160
But because the father himself 
is good. 

503
00:39:48,800 --> 00:39:53,440
He cannot deal with his children
in a way that contradicts his 

504
00:39:53,440 --> 00:39:59,720
character and the greatest proof
of the father's goodness. 

505
00:40:01,040 --> 00:40:04,160
It's not that He gives us 
everything, every earthly thing 

506
00:40:04,160 --> 00:40:10,640
we desire or demand. 
The greatest proof is that He 

507
00:40:10,640 --> 00:40:17,120
has given us His Son. 
He's given us Christ to be the 

508
00:40:17,120 --> 00:40:22,080
sacrifice for sinners. 
He's given His beloved Son to 

509
00:40:22,080 --> 00:40:26,280
live in perfect righteousness, 
to die in the place of his 

510
00:40:26,280 --> 00:40:29,560
people, all who will call upon 
His name, to rise from the grave

511
00:40:29,760 --> 00:40:32,480
to bring us into the family of 
God. 

512
00:40:33,200 --> 00:40:35,480
This is the ultimate test of 
God's goodness. 

513
00:40:37,600 --> 00:40:40,920
When we come to God in prayer, 
we're not trying to convince a 

514
00:40:40,920 --> 00:40:45,560
reluctant God to be kind. 
No, we're we're coming to the 

515
00:40:45,560 --> 00:40:49,320
Father who has already revealed 
his heart at the cross. 

516
00:40:51,880 --> 00:40:53,600
He gives good gifts to His 
children. 

517
00:40:57,600 --> 00:41:00,080
So then you may have the 
question that I have, How then 

518
00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:05,880
should I pray? 
I'm going to walk you through a 

519
00:41:05,880 --> 00:41:07,160
few things. 
First, you should pray 

520
00:41:07,160 --> 00:41:11,400
confidently. 
Jesus invites us to come. 

521
00:41:12,080 --> 00:41:16,840
He says ask, seek, knock. 
Do not hold back because you 

522
00:41:16,840 --> 00:41:21,040
think your needs are too small. 
Do not stay away because you 

523
00:41:21,040 --> 00:41:25,840
think your sins are too great. 
Do not stop praying because the 

524
00:41:25,840 --> 00:41:30,520
answer has not yet come. 
Come to your Father. 

525
00:41:31,120 --> 00:41:35,920
Come confidently. 
Secondly, you should pray 

526
00:41:36,200 --> 00:41:40,040
biblically. 
Now, how do we know we're 

527
00:41:40,040 --> 00:41:44,560
praying according to God's will?
We pray according to God's will 

528
00:41:44,560 --> 00:41:47,000
when our prayers are shaped by 
these three things. 

529
00:41:47,360 --> 00:41:53,920
Number one, God's Kingdom #2 
God's character and #3 God's 

530
00:41:53,920 --> 00:41:58,320
word. 
So we walk through those, pray 

531
00:41:58,320 --> 00:42:00,000
in accordance with God's 
Kingdom. 

532
00:42:01,320 --> 00:42:02,960
Jesus has already taught us how 
to do this. 

533
00:42:02,960 --> 00:42:04,600
He's, he taught us to pray this 
way. 

534
00:42:04,840 --> 00:42:07,720
Your Kingdom come, your will be 
done. 

535
00:42:09,720 --> 00:42:12,360
So when we pray, we should ask 
questions like this. 

536
00:42:12,720 --> 00:42:15,600
Does this prayer seek God's 
glory? 

537
00:42:19,520 --> 00:42:23,200
Does this prayer submit to God's
will, whatever may come? 

538
00:42:25,800 --> 00:42:29,080
Does this prayer align with 
seeking first His Kingdom and 

539
00:42:29,080 --> 00:42:31,480
His righteousness above all 
else? 

540
00:42:37,570 --> 00:42:39,970
Secondly, you should pray in 
accordance with God's character.

541
00:42:41,770 --> 00:42:44,690
Bring your request to Him as 
your heavenly Father. 

542
00:42:45,480 --> 00:42:49,240
Trust that he is holy, that he 
is wise, that He's good, that 

543
00:42:49,240 --> 00:42:52,160
He's sovereign, that He's 
merciful and faithful and 

544
00:42:52,160 --> 00:42:56,760
generous to every generation. 
Pray according to his character.

545
00:42:58,800 --> 00:43:03,720
Pray in accordance with God's 
word #3 the most practical way 

546
00:43:03,720 --> 00:43:08,880
to do this is to simply pray the
Scriptures back to God. 

547
00:43:11,440 --> 00:43:16,520
To pray Scripture is simply to 
take God's words and turn them 

548
00:43:16,520 --> 00:43:21,400
back to Him in faith. 
If you're unfamiliar with this 

549
00:43:21,400 --> 00:43:24,960
idea, there's a great book by 
Donald Whitney called Praying 

550
00:43:24,960 --> 00:43:28,320
the Bible. 
Small little book, very helpful,

551
00:43:29,520 --> 00:43:35,200
Praying the Bible. 
And here's essentially how we do

552
00:43:35,200 --> 00:43:41,360
this. 
You read a command, and then you

553
00:43:41,360 --> 00:43:44,480
pray it back to God, and you ask
for grace to help you obey it. 

554
00:43:46,080 --> 00:43:50,960
You read a promise, you bring it
up before the Lord in prayer, 

555
00:43:50,960 --> 00:43:53,440
and you ask for faith to believe
it. 

556
00:43:55,160 --> 00:43:59,480
You read a warning, you bring it
to God in prayer, and you ask 

557
00:43:59,480 --> 00:44:05,720
for mercy to heed the warning. 
You read about God's character 

558
00:44:06,240 --> 00:44:08,600
and you bring those things 
before the Lord, and you just 

559
00:44:08,600 --> 00:44:12,680
exalt, and you praise Him and 
you magnify His name. 

560
00:44:15,920 --> 00:44:21,440
You read about Christ and you 
cling to Him in prayer. 

561
00:44:23,840 --> 00:44:27,360
So I'll give you a few examples 
from the Sermon on the Mount in 

562
00:44:27,360 --> 00:44:29,400
Matthew 5. 
We read blessed are the poor in 

563
00:44:29,400 --> 00:44:30,960
spirit. 
We read blessed are several 

564
00:44:30,960 --> 00:44:33,160
folks, but blessed are the poor 
in spirit. 

565
00:44:33,160 --> 00:44:37,000
And you can just bring it to the
Lord in prayer like this. 

566
00:44:37,200 --> 00:44:44,240
Heavenly Father, make me poor in
spirit, heal, crucify my pride. 

567
00:44:45,200 --> 00:44:53,880
Teach me to depend upon you. 
In Matthew 6 we read Seek first 

568
00:44:53,880 --> 00:44:56,920
the Kingdom of God and his 
righteousness, and everything 

569
00:44:56,920 --> 00:45:01,400
else will be added unto you so 
you can pray it this way. 

570
00:45:01,400 --> 00:45:05,320
Father, would you reorder my 
desires? 

571
00:45:08,120 --> 00:45:10,320
I've got a lot of anxiety. 
I've got a lot of worry. 

572
00:45:10,320 --> 00:45:12,880
I've got a lot of concern about 
all these varying things going 

573
00:45:12,880 --> 00:45:15,440
on in my life. 
Would you help me now just to 

574
00:45:15,480 --> 00:45:24,240
teach me to seek first Your 
Kingdom in Matthew 7 or text 

575
00:45:24,240 --> 00:45:29,200
today, ask, see, knock. 
You can bring that before the 

576
00:45:29,200 --> 00:45:33,640
Lord in prayer this way. 
Father, I come to you today as a

577
00:45:33,640 --> 00:45:39,160
needy child. 
I'm trusting You to give me what

578
00:45:39,160 --> 00:45:41,600
is good. 
I understand that I don't always

579
00:45:41,600 --> 00:45:45,080
know what's best for me, but you
do, and I'm trusting your hand. 

580
00:45:45,400 --> 00:45:49,880
Help me trust your wisdom when 
your answer differs from what 

581
00:45:49,880 --> 00:45:59,520
I've expected. 
So I think Kingdom citizens hear

582
00:45:59,520 --> 00:46:02,640
the kindness of Christ's 
invitation today. 

583
00:46:03,880 --> 00:46:08,800
At least I want you to. 
He's saying ask, seek, knock. 

584
00:46:11,440 --> 00:46:16,520
What he what he's telling you is
do not try to live as Kingdom 

585
00:46:16,520 --> 00:46:19,000
citizens. 
Do not try to live the Christian

586
00:46:19,000 --> 00:46:25,080
life in your own strength. 
Do not try to obey the Sermon on

587
00:46:25,080 --> 00:46:30,800
the Mount by sheer willpower. 
Do not try to fight sin and 

588
00:46:30,800 --> 00:46:34,240
pursue holiness and love your 
enemies and forgive those who 

589
00:46:34,240 --> 00:46:37,520
wrong you and seek the King. 
Seek first the Kingdom, or 

590
00:46:37,520 --> 00:46:41,280
endure life's burns as though 
you are on your own. 

591
00:46:41,280 --> 00:46:45,520
Because you are not. 
You're not alone. 

592
00:46:46,880 --> 00:46:53,520
Your Father in Heaven is for 
you, and He's good. 

593
00:46:54,800 --> 00:46:57,280
He's better than the best 
earthly father. 

594
00:46:58,040 --> 00:47:01,480
He is wiser than you are. 
He is kinder than you can 

595
00:47:01,480 --> 00:47:03,640
imagine. 
He is more generous than you 

596
00:47:03,640 --> 00:47:09,200
deserve, and he gives good 
things to those who ask him. 

597
00:47:12,560 --> 00:47:15,360
And so I implore, implore you, 
along with Christ this morning, 

598
00:47:15,560 --> 00:47:20,400
come to your Father. 
Come to him needy, Come to him 

599
00:47:20,400 --> 00:47:23,440
honestly. 
Come to him persistently. 

600
00:47:23,600 --> 00:47:28,000
Come to Him submissively. 
Come to Him, trusting His heart 

601
00:47:28,320 --> 00:47:33,960
for your life. 
And if you are not in Christ, 

602
00:47:33,960 --> 00:47:42,440
you are not a believer. 
This invitation begins here. 

603
00:47:44,760 --> 00:47:47,720
You must come to the Father 
through the Son. 

604
00:47:51,480 --> 00:47:55,120
Hebrews 725 says of Christ that 
He is able to save to the 

605
00:47:55,120 --> 00:47:59,680
uttermost all of those who draw 
near to the Father through Him. 

606
00:48:02,000 --> 00:48:04,960
Romans 10 tells us that all who 
call upon the name of the Lord 

607
00:48:05,080 --> 00:48:10,640
will be saved. 
You cannot go know. 

608
00:48:10,640 --> 00:48:16,040
You cannot know God as a 
heavenly Father apart from Jesus

609
00:48:16,040 --> 00:48:22,600
Christ, but through Christ and 
through the cross, through the 

610
00:48:22,600 --> 00:48:29,960
resurrection, sinners are 
forgiven, rebels are adopted as 

611
00:48:29,960 --> 00:48:34,280
sons and daughters, and the 
needy are welcomed home. 

612
00:48:36,400 --> 00:48:39,880
So I urge you, I implore you 
today from this passage, repent 

613
00:48:39,880 --> 00:48:45,360
of your sin and come to Christ 
in faith today. 

614
00:48:47,160 --> 00:48:52,640
Let's pray. 
Heavenly Father, we thank you 

615
00:48:52,640 --> 00:49:00,440
for your word. 
God, I ask that you would help 

616
00:49:00,440 --> 00:49:09,440
us to be the kind of people who 
ask who see Kunak, who pursue 

617
00:49:09,440 --> 00:49:12,560
you with our prayers. 
We pursue you with our lives. 

618
00:49:14,960 --> 00:49:17,960
Help us to be the kind of people
who come confidently to the 

619
00:49:17,960 --> 00:49:23,000
Father in our time of need, that
we might find mercy and grace to

620
00:49:23,000 --> 00:49:28,600
help. 
And Father, would you forgive us

621
00:49:28,600 --> 00:49:32,960
of self-sufficiency? 
Forgive us where we have tried 

622
00:49:32,960 --> 00:49:37,640
to live independent lives. 
It's ingrained deep in our 

623
00:49:37,640 --> 00:49:41,760
souls. 
But Lord, would you help us give

624
00:49:41,760 --> 00:49:46,800
up some independence today. 
Help us to lay that independence

625
00:49:46,800 --> 00:49:50,760
on the cross of Christ, to 
crucify it there, that we might 

626
00:49:50,760 --> 00:49:56,920
be dependent upon our Lord, that
we might come to you, Father, at

627
00:49:56,920 --> 00:50:01,520
all times, in all things, and 
trust Your goodness, Your care 

628
00:50:01,520 --> 00:50:04,640
for us, Your love, Your 
holiness, to trust Your 

629
00:50:04,640 --> 00:50:07,520
decisions and Your will above 
our own. 

630
00:50:12,480 --> 00:50:17,200
Father, I pray for anyone here 
who doesn't know you, who's not 

631
00:50:17,200 --> 00:50:20,000
made Christ the Lord of their 
life, who has not been 

632
00:50:20,000 --> 00:50:22,560
reconciled to You, Father, 
through Him. 

633
00:50:23,920 --> 00:50:28,560
I ask that you would save them 
today, that you would grant them

634
00:50:28,560 --> 00:50:32,560
new life in Christ, that you 
would help them to see that they

635
00:50:32,560 --> 00:50:41,000
are poor, needy, spiritually 
dead sinners who are in need of 

636
00:50:41,000 --> 00:50:44,800
a new life. 
We're in need of a new heart 

637
00:50:44,800 --> 00:50:50,520
with new desires and God. 
May they call upon the name of 

638
00:50:50,520 --> 00:50:53,480
the Lord and receive His 
salvation today. 

639
00:50:53,480 --> 00:51:01,280
I'm going to give you a moment 
there in your seat to pray and 

640
00:51:01,280 --> 00:51:03,920
to seek the Lord. 
Ask him. 

641
00:51:03,920 --> 00:51:06,840
Seek him. 
Knock at his door now for all 

642
00:51:06,840 --> 00:51:09,760
that you need. 
Confess sin to him. 

643
00:51:10,880 --> 00:51:12,640
Be reconciled to God this 
morning. 

644
00:52:04,440 --> 00:52:09,240
Heavenly Father, it's my prayer 
that your people gathered today 

645
00:52:09,240 --> 00:52:12,280
have found mercy and grace as 
they have sought you. 

646
00:52:17,560 --> 00:52:23,320
Lord, would you help us to be 
more dependent, to be more 

647
00:52:23,320 --> 00:52:28,480
deeply trusting in your 
character and in your will in 

648
00:52:28,480 --> 00:52:33,880
every area of our lives. 
In the name of Christ, I pray. 

649
00:52:34,440 --> 00:52:34,880
Amen.
