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Hello everyone, and welcome back
to people you want to know 

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podcast. 
In this episode of our go you 

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will enjoy season, you are 
literally seeing me talk to one 

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of my dream guests, Brianna Wu. 
Brianna Wu is a video game 

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developer, political commentator
and former congressional 

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candidate known for her 
outspoken advocacy on 

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technology, online culture and 
free expression. 

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She Co founded the indie game 
studio Giant Space Cat and 

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became nationally known after 
being targeted during the 

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Gamergate controversy, which 
propelled her to broader 

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conversations around Internet 
harassment, media and politics. 

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In recent years, Wu has become a
prominent centrist voice in 

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debates around progressive 
politics, gender, online 

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discourse, including appearances
and commentary connected to the 

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Free Press. 
She's also run for Congress in 

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Massachusetts, and she remains 
active across tech, journalism 

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and political media. 
Brianna is a voice of reason in 

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this crazy time and such an 
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Back when the Free Press hosted 
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eagerly awaited the debates 
between Brianna and Bhatia Anger

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Sargon because it was so useful 
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the world. 
We are going to see Brianna 

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accomplish so much. 
I really feel like she's just 

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starting. 
I have so much respect and 

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admiration for her, and I told 
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I really, really admire her and 
her communication style is just 

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exceptional. 
You'll hear me ask a bunch of 

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different things. 
In this episode we learn about 

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Brianna's story, her take on the
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combating anti-Semitism. 
I mean we cover so much terrain.

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Truly one of my favorite 
episodes I've ever done. 

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Please enjoy. 
Hello Brianna, Welcome to PEOPLE

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Jew Want to Know podcast. 
Thanks so much for being here. 

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It's really my honor. 
You know, I'm always so 

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thrilled, you know, when people 
reach out and want to talk to me

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about my favorite subject, which
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being increasingly unsafe and 
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So thank you so much. 
How crazy is that? 

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I imagine that, you know, you 
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way that your career kind of 
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I will say it wasn't really the 
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the last few years, no one in 
politics has really been doing 

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what we expected to be doing. 
You know, I grew up in 

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Mississippi, and, yeah, I feel 
like I've been kind of swimming 

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in, you know, the waters of 
hatred my entire life. 

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I remember seeing how, you know,
black people and gay people were

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treated in that state growing up
and, you know, I certainly saw 

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anti-Semitism there. 
What I couldn't have expected is

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for the rest of the country to 
follow suit on that, which is 

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incredibly disturbing. 
So yeah, love that for everyone 

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in America. 
It's great. 

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I was actually curious if you 
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to us as America. 
I think there's an emotional 

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answer and there's a technical 
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I'll give you the technical 
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know, there's been a long term 
project to turn the Democratic 

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Party against you and it has 
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I say this as a Democratic 
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You know, they've been placing 
pro Islamist operatives within 

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our party working for free for 
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I've been here, and I assume for
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basically introducing a 
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history of Israel and what the 
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And for whatever reason people 
aren't willing to check it out 

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and see if it's true. 
And we are seeing the effects of

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both political parties 
essentially having an organized 

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information warfare campaign 
against Jews is when the 

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shorter, more emotional answer 
is America has decided to betray

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our Jews, like many countries 
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And, you know, there's something
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the human character that I don't
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first in line when society falls
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You're the first up against the 
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And I didn't really understand 
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And I think you can feel, Yeah, 
I'm not a woo woo spiritual gal.

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There's something there. 
There's forces of light in this 

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world and there's forces of 
darkness and for reasons I don't

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understand as a Christian, Jews 
just sit really close to that 

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light. 
I don't know why, but it's it's 

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clearly the thrust of history in
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It's interesting that you talk 
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of history in terms of Israel. 
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know, 10-15 years, American 
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The values that average 
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rewritten to the point where the
average person supposed to be 

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not proud to be American, when 
the reality is that I I come 

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from Ukraine, right? 
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a developing nation. 
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America for someone like me to 
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And even our poorest people live
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the world. 
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I'm curious, you talk about, you
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Democratic Party. 
Do you think the Democrats, and 

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this is a very broad stroke 
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honest about this happening? 
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this is happening or is your 
opinion considered like off the 

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beaten path if you will? 
So, you know, this doesn't make 

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me proud to say that I'm going 
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And the truth is the elites in 
the Democratic Party know 

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better. 
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We know this is bullshit. 
And I have conversations every 

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single week about it. 
But the truth is they've made a 

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political calculus to betray. 
They don't understand how dire 

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the situation is. 
And look, I say this as a proud 

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Democrat. 
I I'm deeply proud of our party 

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and our healthcare policy. 
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the way we stood behind our 
national security strategy when 

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it really mattered and the chips
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But there is something that is 
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Democratic Party and unwilling 
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because no one wants to be the 
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What I'm about to say to you is 
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transitioned over 22 years ago. 
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You know, what is happening to 
people like they in this country

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really disturbs me. 
But I think this is an excellent

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example of what is going wrong 
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20 years ago, people like me got
our rights because we went 

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through a medical process. 
We had surgeries, we had 

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clinicians diagnosing this. 
And if we were changing our, you

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know, sex legally, there's a 
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through. 
Democrats helped get us those 

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rights. 
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You literally have a process in 
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declare your gender and you know
predators are ending up in 

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women's faces. 
This is a horrible public 

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policy. 
No one I talked to behind the 

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scenes can defend it. 
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willingness to stand up and say,
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We screwed up. 
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putting women in danger and 
trans women in danger because 

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it's driving a project to take 
away, you know, everyone's civil

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rights. 
That same issue is happening 

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with Jews because this genocide 
slur has proven to have so much 

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salience. 
And there's this Death Star out 

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there that's prepared to 
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that stands with Israel, and no 
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call this what it is, which is 
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It's just a lack of moral 
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I I can't explain it or justify 
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Something that I really admire 
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career, you have always been 
first to call on some of the 

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kind of Canaries in the coal 
mine, if you will, that are 

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happening in society. 
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honest, even if it's not pretty,
even if it's not serving 

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somebody'd interests. 
Because you want what's best, 

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you know, in the long term, even
if that means some pain in the 

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immediate. 
I think about that when I think 

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about how you spoken up for 
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Obviously, I remember, you know,
Barry's show. 

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I would wait for that 
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with Bot Young or Sargon every 
week or every other week to 

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hear, you know, a voice of 
reason on the Internet and with 

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the gamer community. 
This was your philosophy as 

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well. 
You were talking about 

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harassment online years before 
anybody took what's happening 

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within, you know, the gamer 
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How do you think we can inspire 
others to be willing to speak 

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Think I would be really honest 
to say there's no incentive 

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structure to speaking up. 
You know, if I put a dollar 

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amount on the amount of money 
I've lost standing up for Israel

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as well into the six figures at 
this point, you know, and don't 

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get me wrong, I went and found 
other work. 

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I'm doing fine. 
But you know, there is a 

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financial cost and there's a 
social cost for me as a trans 

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woman, I get called a man 
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day by Free Palestine and the 
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It's, it's a very deep cost. 
I think for me personally, you 

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know, when I was the first 
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the University of Mississippi 20
years ago, integrity had a very 

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high price for me to stand up in
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say, this is who I am, this is 
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I'm going to live my life. 
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have that integrity. 
And there's just nothing I care 

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about more than that integrity. 
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sit by and say nothing as I see 
this really organized project to

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expel y'all from not just 
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We're seeing what's happening in
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It is terrifying. 
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frustrated with the lack of 
integrity with people that I 

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know for a fact know better 
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the scenes. 
Congress people, senators, 

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elected officials in 
Massachusetts, school board 

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people over and over. 
They know they're blowing it, 

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but the price of of speaking up 
is just not something they're 

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willing to pay. 
Now that the dust has settled in

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some part on Gamergate, if you 
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with the gamer community at all?
How are you feeling about it? 

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It's. 
A complicated question I just to

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let people know Gamergate was at
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women were treated in the game 
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Now, there was a lot of crazy 
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then, myself included things 
like really second guessing, 

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like sexualized character 
designs in video games, which, 

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you know, on second thought, 
that's free speech issue, you 

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know, let people make the art 
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The lack of like the difficulty 
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through their career, the 
maternity leave policies, you 

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review games, which certainly 
like effects how the work is 

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perceived if it has gameplay 
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women. 
There were some really salient 

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important issues there. 
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I don't think women are given a 
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to this day. 
That said, a deep extreme 

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regrets about supercharging this
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So when we're watching the LA 
mayor's race have ADSA candidate

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in there up against Spencer 
Pratt. 

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Yeah, I am giving you an honest 
man called. 

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I am one of the people back then
that turned the Democratic Party

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from a a smart vehicle to pursue
civil rights into something 

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obsessed with culture war and 
morality and cancelling anyone 

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that dared disagree with it and 
and I helped turn our party into

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them and deeply regret it. 
What I can say is it doesn't 

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work when you morally invert the
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You turn organizations into 
something incredibly brittle 

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because it's never about how you
ship a game or how you got 

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public policy passed. 
It becomes about this bitter in 

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fighting behind the scenes, 
about who's actually the most 

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depressed, who deserves a voice.
It's not about treating everyone

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working on a problem equally. 
It's about this kabuki theater, 

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about who's up this imaginary 
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So, you know, there's the stat 
parts of I stand by, but I think

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directionally I empowered 
something that is destroying our

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country. 
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Was thinking about it recently 
because I was in college, you 

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know, 2015 to 2018 and back then
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down the hill so quickly so it 
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discern what was going on. 
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who genuinely cared about 
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opportunity and success for as 
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We were feeling, you know, 
healthcare system needed to 

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reform, more diversity in the 
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These are conceptually wonderful
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was like, oh, shit, I cannot 
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2020 after the murder of George 
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I'm originally from Minneapolis.
I went to the University of 

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Minnesota. 
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pretty much. 
I had moved to New York, but I 

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came back to Minneapolis because
of Covad and when I saw people 

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on air saying, well, rather than
criticizing us for looting the 

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Apple Store, you should be 
thinking about what conditions 

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drove us to loot the Apple Store
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Something felt wrong to me about
that. 

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That's when the line had been 
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You know, seeing the mayor cry 
and pray in front of George 

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Floyd's golden coffin, the we 
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bracket of reason. 
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change of heart for me. 
And it means a lot to to hear 

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you say what you say because it 
gives me hope that the 

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Democratic Party can come around
and it's people. 

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It's going to take people like 
you as hard as it is. 

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Going back to your upbringing in
Mississippi and your story, how 

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did you what were your first 
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Well, the the first time I heard
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our block and we're sitting at 
Thanksgiving dinner and, you 

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know, all our relatives are over
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them. 
It was the exact same way I'd 

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heard them talk about black 
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and hate. 
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about this weird religion. 
We're like, I don't believe this

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to be clear, I'm just saying 
what they said of the, the 

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people that killed Christ that 
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And I remember sitting there 
looking at my, my parents and, 

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and just thinking like, I know 
y'all don't believe this. 

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I hope you don't believe this. 
Why don't they speak up like I 

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was, I was like 8 at the time. 
I'm not going to speak up to 

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like, all my my relatives. 
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impression that, you know, when 
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don't speak up and say what they
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And I think what was so 
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to think that was just 
Mississippi. 

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It's not. 
It's the rest of the country. 

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You know, on a more personal 
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the University of Mississippi, I
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Jews were some of the only 
people that stood up to the 

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therapist that, you know, got me
a diagnosis of gender identity 

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dysphoria. 
This was 22 years ago, back when

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we had actual tough clinical 
standards to get through. 

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Yeah. 
He was a Jew in Mississippi. 

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He didn't have to specialize in 
this and go read books to 

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understand like the diagnosis 
for people like me. 

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They took the time to do that. 
He wrote a letter to my parents 

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asking them not to disown me, 
which was my fear. 

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They did. 
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the people that really had my 
back for the most difficult 

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thing I ever went through were 
Jews that, you know, if people 

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are watching the video and they 
think I, I look reasonably good.

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It was a Jewish plastic surgeon,
Doctor Spiegel, that did this 

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for me. 
He's worked with me for over a 

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decade on trans healthcare. 
So, yeah, when October 7th 

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rolled around, I really 
realized, yeah, due to those 

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experiences, I had a 
responsibility to pause and make

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sure I got this right because I 
didn't know as much about the 

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conflict back then. 
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few other, you know, non Jews 
seem to be interested in that. 

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You know, we seem to be really 
interested in just bleeding this

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propaganda narrative that we got
from social media. 

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And just one more thing, you 
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And I find this so confusing 
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speaking is able to identify 
this Russian disinformation on 

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Ukraine and all these false 
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And I don't understand why we 
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Islamists are doing the exact 
same to us. 

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Why are we so smart on one form 
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susceptible to another? 
Are we just that eager to 

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believe anti-Semitic narratives?
I don't get. 

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Thanks. 
For calling that out, I think 

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you can imagine my dissonance 
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especially because some of my 
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So it's just a weird spot to be 
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anti-Semitic resume that Ukraine
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But I think they're coming 
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Both the Prime Minister and the 
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They don't necessarily identify 
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They identify as Ukrainians 
ethnically, but they are Jews 

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and they're part of the tribe 
regardless. 

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We're two, 2 1/2 years in. 
What do you think are things 

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that the Jewish community can do
to make your life easier? 

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My life easier I'm. 
Not worried about me, I'm 

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worried about y'all. 
You know, I think the stats 

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coming out for violence against 
Jews, that's terrifying. 

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I think, you know, what would 
help is seeing Jews fight in a 

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smarter way. 
You know, I do believe y'all are

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the Canary in the coal mine. 
I used to think that was just 

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hyperbolic bullshit that you 
told yourselves. 

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It's not. 
Go read a history book. 

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Like the way it works is they 
target y'all, they get a 

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foothold and they go after 
everyone else. 

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That's happened over and over 
again. 

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So what I need is for the Jewish
organizations to wake up and 

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understand you're not fighting 
with a war you can win with 

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respectability politics. 
And yeah, you said you 

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appreciate me telling you the 
truth, so I'm going to tell you 

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the truth right now. 
I need these Jewish groups to 

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stop doing conferences where you
talk to yourselves. 

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I need people to stop worrying 
about whose name is on what and 

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who gets credit for it. 
It does not fucking matter. 

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The mission matters. 
The information warfare matters.

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And this isn't a time to feel 
special. 

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This is a time to fight for 
survival. 

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You can read about Israel in 
1948 and, you know, stockpiling 

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weapons because you knew you 
were going to be under attack. 

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Your top mission is to stop 
doing the stuff that doesn't 

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make sense and feels good and 
start doing stuff that is 

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effective. 
I mean, full on information and 

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warfare back and we have the 
advantage of actually telling 

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the truth. 
We need to invest in influencers

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that can actually put a 
narrative out there to push back

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on all this horseshit the 
Islamists are selling. 

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We need to, you know, create an 
incentive structure for 

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politicians with the guts to 
stand up to this. 

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It's not just a check from 
AIPAC. 

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You know, it's got to be deeper 
than that. 

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You know, we need to start 
putting constituencies together 

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to understand the threat of 
Islamism. 

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And that means sane LGBT people 
working with Christian 

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conservatives, working with 
people, they're capitalists and 

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see the threat that this DSA 
mindset is bringing to our 

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economy and our country. 
We've got to do the hard work of

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putting together a sane 
coalition in the middle to stand

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up for American values. 
Because just being entirely 

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honest, I'm not sure Britain is 
going to make. 

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And I think there's still enough
time for us to save ourselves. 

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But we've got to understand like
we are frog in a pot and it is 

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boiling. 
Thank you for saying that. 

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It's it's so interesting to hear
you say that because I subscribe

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to newsletters of all sorts of 
people and I read things in the 

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Jewish community. 
They're like, should we 

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redefine, you know, Zionism? 
Should we focus on changing, you

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know, what language and call it 
Jew hatred and whatever. 

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And I'm not going to say who it 
was, but I had a guest on the 

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show that off the record was 
like, I don't understand these 

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Jewish organizations. 
They are concerned with all 

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these things around Zionism and 
vocabulary and whatever. 

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If you want to stop 
anti-Semitism, you should be 

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lobbying to stop letting in 
Islamists into the country. 

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That's a foolproof way to ensure
that there is no anti-Semitism. 

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Like go to the root cause of the
problem. 

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Stop patching up the ship that's
sinking and it sounds like anti 

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PC, you know, but he's he's 
right. 

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Unfortunately, we. 
Had in, you know, the days of 

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the Cold War, we were thoughtful
about who we let into the 

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country and if they were, you 
know, working with the enemy 

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there, you know, this is just 
the truth. 

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You know, we've been ever since 
9:11. 

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There's a very dangerous 
ideology that struck us on 9/11.

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And they continue to want to 
hurt us. 

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We have a very porous southern 
border. 

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I'm sorry. 
I'm a Democrat, but that's still

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the truth. 
You know, Israel's closer, so 

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they get attacked more. 
They're just as happy to kill 

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us. 
Of course, it makes sense to 

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update our immigration policy 
and be more thoughtful about who

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we're letting in. 
You know, we'd literally just 

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had our Jewish brothers and 
sisters set on fire a few months

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ago. 
We have, you know, this is such 

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an obvious move. 
And, you know, I do always feel 

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compelled to say, you know, 
religious freedom is part of 

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this country. 
I have no issue if someone wants

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to practice Islam that is 
different than this theocratic, 

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you know, political project to 
dismantle the state and 

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institute religious law. 
And instead, yeah, I think we 

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need to be willing to say that. 
I don't get it. 

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Like I say this all the time 
about, you know, the Christian 

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right that wants to take away my
rights as a trans, as a 

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transsexual woman. 
It's the same thing. 

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Like, why can't we be thoughtful
about this? 

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Like they objectively want to 
kill us. 

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Even Hillary Clinton is over 
there looking at what the 

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effects of in mass migration on 
Europe have been. 

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She will tell you it's gone too 
far. 

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So you know it's I don't wake up
every day asking myself how to 

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side with President Trump. 
He's dead on with this. 

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I've had a couple of different 
trans guests on my show, some 

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that would identify, you know, 
right of center, some would 

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identify left of center. 
And I can't get a good pulse on 

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what is actually happening in 
the trans community. 

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So, you know, I asked my friend 
who's right wing, like, are you 

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concerned about what are what is
happening under the Trump 

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administration to the trans 
community? 

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And she's like, no, because if I
care about my protections as a 

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Jew versus a trans person, I'm 
going to prefer and I have to 

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pick one. 
I'm going to prioritize Jew. 

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And then I asked my friend 
who's, you know, on the left, 

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how concerned are you about 
Trump's policies? 

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And she's telling me it's to the
point where I'm scared to renew 

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my passport because I'm afraid 
they will force my passport to 

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say male instead of female. 
And it's very self-evident to 

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anyone who meets her that she is
not a male after all the work 

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and investment she's made to 
feel comfortable in her skin. 

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What is actually happening to 
the trans community right now? 

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And how can we help so as? 
I sit here, I wish this the 

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stakes were just an M on my 
passport. 

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It is so far beyond that. 
And you know, the Trump 

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administration is getting more 
and more extreme on this. 

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You know, just a few weeks ago, 
Idaho passed a ban if I use the 

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bathroom there. 
As someone who has had 

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vaginoplasty, I'm legally 
female. 

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I've not even held a girl's hand
romantically since 

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transitioning. 
I've got no interest in in 

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women. 
I've been married to a man for 

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18 years, for God's sakes. 
Even someone like me who I think

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I'd pass reasonably well, you 
know, if I use women's bathroom 

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in Idaho, it's a felony and I go
to jail for five years. 

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This is extreme public policy 
and I think y'all don't 

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understand what happens if I 
just merely go around, you know,

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my life, outing myself. 
People look at you differently. 

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They it's a risk of violence. 
Men get weird when they're 

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00:25:30,080 --> 00:25:33,680
attracted to you and you're 
trans Y'all have no idea. 

454
00:25:34,320 --> 00:25:38,200
Then you take a step further. 
It's incredibly degrading. 

455
00:25:38,920 --> 00:25:42,040
Yeah. 
I really am unsure if in five 

456
00:25:42,040 --> 00:25:46,440
years insurance is going to pay 
for any of the treatment that 

457
00:25:46,440 --> 00:25:49,600
made my life livable. 
And to be clear, I paid for it 

458
00:25:49,600 --> 00:25:52,560
myself. 
You know, this new generation of

459
00:25:52,560 --> 00:25:56,840
girls, thank God, had coverage 
for all this surgery, which is 

460
00:25:57,320 --> 00:26:00,160
objectively so helpful. 
I think this is going to 

461
00:26:00,160 --> 00:26:03,360
disappear. 
And to be clear, I do blame the 

462
00:26:03,360 --> 00:26:06,480
Trump administration and the 
right wingers, but I also blame 

463
00:26:06,960 --> 00:26:11,320
this extremist political project
by progressives that has put not

464
00:26:11,320 --> 00:26:14,520
just the right wing against us, 
but normal sane people in the 

465
00:26:14,520 --> 00:26:18,720
middle that are looking at 
policies like they can clearly 

466
00:26:18,720 --> 00:26:21,960
see these identities are being 
marketed to their children that 

467
00:26:21,960 --> 00:26:25,360
don't have gender dysphoria and 
they want to push back. 

468
00:26:25,880 --> 00:26:30,640
So, you know, I am desperately 
scared if trans people are going

469
00:26:30,640 --> 00:26:32,160
to have any future in this 
country. 

470
00:26:32,680 --> 00:26:37,480
And I have had discussions with 
people like, would you like, can

471
00:26:37,480 --> 00:26:40,600
I stay at your place in Israel 
if we keep going down this path?

472
00:26:40,840 --> 00:26:44,560
I'm not sure I'm going to have 
access to HRT at all in 10 

473
00:26:44,560 --> 00:26:46,880
years. 
I'm really worried about that. 

474
00:26:47,320 --> 00:26:49,960
And I think respectfully, I 
would tell your right wing trans

475
00:26:49,960 --> 00:26:54,120
friend that came on your show to
wake up because they just don't 

476
00:26:54,120 --> 00:26:55,960
have a good appraisal of this 
situation. 

477
00:26:56,120 --> 00:26:59,240
Is there? 
Anything that we can do, is it 

478
00:26:59,520 --> 00:27:01,480
voted out? 
Is it something else? 

479
00:27:02,920 --> 00:27:05,640
I think we need good people to 
stand up in the middle and 

480
00:27:05,640 --> 00:27:07,560
develop a constituency in the 
middle. 

481
00:27:07,560 --> 00:27:11,360
Because, you know, this is 
really the problem, isn't it, on

482
00:27:11,360 --> 00:27:14,560
trans public policy? 
The way to push back on this 

483
00:27:14,560 --> 00:27:16,680
traditionally has been to vote 
for Democrats. 

484
00:27:16,800 --> 00:27:19,920
I can't blame a Jew for not 
voting for this version of the 

485
00:27:19,920 --> 00:27:22,040
Democratic Party. 
Look at what we're doing with 

486
00:27:22,040 --> 00:27:25,040
this Iran policy. 
It's so clearly International 

487
00:27:25,040 --> 00:27:27,680
Security interest, and we're 
trying to undermine our 

488
00:27:27,680 --> 00:27:29,200
president. 
It's absurd. 

489
00:27:29,880 --> 00:27:32,680
So, you know, I would love to 
tell you that to vote harder 

490
00:27:32,680 --> 00:27:34,120
from the Democrats would solve 
it. 

491
00:27:34,120 --> 00:27:38,240
But we're so far beyond that. 
Like both of us have got to 

492
00:27:38,240 --> 00:27:43,560
start carving out this same, you
know, public policy pathway in 

493
00:27:43,560 --> 00:27:48,000
the middle and start rewarding 
people on both sides that have 

494
00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:51,920
same policy. 
Like it's so the stakes are so 

495
00:27:51,920 --> 00:27:54,880
much bigger. 
I, I want to be honest to say I 

496
00:27:54,880 --> 00:27:57,360
don't think Jews are going to be
safe from the Republican Party 

497
00:27:57,400 --> 00:27:59,800
long term either. 
I think right now it's a better 

498
00:27:59,800 --> 00:28:01,800
home for you than the Democratic
Party. 

499
00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:06,360
But like, unless all of you are 
planning on moving to Israel at 

500
00:28:06,360 --> 00:28:09,680
some point, we're going to have 
to do this hard work carving out

501
00:28:09,680 --> 00:28:14,120
a senator again for my public 
policy and yours in supporting 

502
00:28:14,120 --> 00:28:18,080
Israel one. 
Of the themes of the season is 

503
00:28:18,480 --> 00:28:22,600
the understanding that when it 
comes to teaching about, you 

504
00:28:22,600 --> 00:28:26,280
know, anti-Semitism or Israel, 
it is a lot more effective when 

505
00:28:26,280 --> 00:28:29,680
done by non Jew. 
The non Jews are reliable 

506
00:28:29,680 --> 00:28:33,160
narrator in the way that the Jew
apparently is not right. 

507
00:28:33,240 --> 00:28:37,600
And I'm curious, what do you 
think is most effective and 

508
00:28:37,600 --> 00:28:42,640
compelling non Jews to 
understand how things kind of 

509
00:28:42,640 --> 00:28:46,680
really are and to get them to 
walk back from this extreme 

510
00:28:46,680 --> 00:28:49,200
position they may have taken? 
Again, I'm going to tell. 

511
00:28:49,200 --> 00:28:51,280
You the truth. 
I'm not trying to be offensive 

512
00:28:51,400 --> 00:28:56,440
but I think when Jews talk about
your history to non Jews, I'm 

513
00:28:56,440 --> 00:29:00,560
sorry it's a history lesson or 
ramping it up in the Holocaust. 

514
00:29:00,560 --> 00:29:03,840
Or it's assuming like I know 
about the six day fucking war 

515
00:29:04,360 --> 00:29:07,120
and all this stuff is assumed. 
So much knowledge. 

516
00:29:08,440 --> 00:29:12,640
You gotta set the stakes better.
It's like look these Islamist 

517
00:29:12,640 --> 00:29:17,520
nut jobs fired 10s of thousands 
of missiles at civilians in the 

518
00:29:17,520 --> 00:29:21,160
last few years. 
You've got to be able to tell 

519
00:29:21,160 --> 00:29:25,360
this story more plainly and more
emotional terms. 

520
00:29:25,800 --> 00:29:28,920
And you know, this is something 
I really wish y'all would do. 

521
00:29:29,200 --> 00:29:34,440
This show Israel kicking more 
ass like this is America we are 

522
00:29:34,440 --> 00:29:37,320
the country. 
The main Top Gun for one movie 

523
00:29:37,320 --> 00:29:41,080
in multiple decades. 
Yeah people going and defeating 

524
00:29:41,080 --> 00:29:45,720
evil by kicking some ass is a 
very American like storyline. 

525
00:29:46,040 --> 00:29:49,640
I don't understand why images in
the IDF, y'all don't just 

526
00:29:49,640 --> 00:29:53,200
blanket the media with it. 
That beeper attack, you know, 

527
00:29:53,200 --> 00:29:56,080
against, you know, Hezbollah. 
That was one of the finest 

528
00:29:56,080 --> 00:29:58,160
operations like in human 
history. 

529
00:29:58,400 --> 00:30:01,200
Why are there not 8 movies being
made about that? 

530
00:30:01,600 --> 00:30:05,640
You've got to be willing to to 
be less apologetic about who you

531
00:30:05,640 --> 00:30:09,200
are and you've got to be able to
tell a quicker, more emotional 

532
00:30:09,200 --> 00:30:11,400
story. 
It's it's just, it's so 

533
00:30:11,400 --> 00:30:13,800
convoluted. 
Normal people cannot make heads 

534
00:30:13,800 --> 00:30:16,840
or tails to it. 
I completely agree with what 

535
00:30:16,840 --> 00:30:19,760
you're saying and at the same 
time I'm worried it will 

536
00:30:19,760 --> 00:30:23,080
backfire so bad. 
Because if you look at some of 

537
00:30:23,080 --> 00:30:27,080
the reporting that the ADL has 
put out, for example, anytime 

538
00:30:27,080 --> 00:30:29,680
the Jew is portrayed as strong 
and Israel is portrayed as 

539
00:30:29,680 --> 00:30:34,560
strong, it only kind of 
backfires because then it's food

540
00:30:34,560 --> 00:30:38,680
as like, Oh well of course you 
know those sneaky Jews are 

541
00:30:38,680 --> 00:30:43,240
getting America to invest and so
they can be strong and bomb the 

542
00:30:43,240 --> 00:30:46,440
poor Palestinians. 
Like that becomes the talking 

543
00:30:46,440 --> 00:30:48,480
point I think. 
That's a fairpoint. 

544
00:30:49,320 --> 00:30:51,240
I I think it's actually very 
well said. 

545
00:30:51,240 --> 00:30:53,000
There's certainly a storyline 
out there. 

546
00:30:53,000 --> 00:30:56,360
The Jews are the impressors 
rather than someone you know, 

547
00:30:56,360 --> 00:30:58,640
some point 1,000,000, you know, 
Jews. 

548
00:30:58,640 --> 00:31:02,600
And then with the 2.3 million 
Arabs being targeted by the 400 

549
00:31:02,640 --> 00:31:06,800
million Muslim in the Muslims 
majority country in that era 

550
00:31:07,200 --> 00:31:08,840
region. 
I mean, I certainly agree with 

551
00:31:08,840 --> 00:31:09,920
you. 
That's the storyline. 

552
00:31:10,280 --> 00:31:14,000
But he's trying to like is 
portraying yourselves as weak 

553
00:31:14,600 --> 00:31:17,280
and the victim. 
Is that really working either? 

554
00:31:17,720 --> 00:31:20,520
It's like you're screwed either 
way so why not just tell the 

555
00:31:20,520 --> 00:31:22,920
truth? 
I think the problem here is no 

556
00:31:22,920 --> 00:31:24,560
one's just willing to say the 
truth. 

557
00:31:25,240 --> 00:31:27,200
And the truth is these 
Islamists. 

558
00:31:27,200 --> 00:31:31,040
I saw the secret October 7th 
video in an IDF paste. 

559
00:31:31,240 --> 00:31:34,160
They fucking loved dismembering 
y'all. 

560
00:31:34,360 --> 00:31:38,200
Like I remember this clip of an 
IDF soldier king like ripped to 

561
00:31:38,200 --> 00:31:43,080
pieces by a mom and this person 
like rips up the body part and 

562
00:31:43,080 --> 00:31:46,800
holds it over his head with the 
biggest was gleaming smile I've 

563
00:31:46,800 --> 00:31:48,880
ever seen. 
Lies covered in his blood. 

564
00:31:49,240 --> 00:31:52,400
They they fucking loved it. 
They weren't a great time. 

565
00:31:52,840 --> 00:31:56,200
It's disgusting and I don't know
what we just can't say. 

566
00:31:56,200 --> 00:31:59,240
These are some people that are 
obsessed with killing Jews. 

567
00:31:59,360 --> 00:32:00,880
It's the truth. 
Do you? 

568
00:32:00,880 --> 00:32:04,240
Feel there are any Jewish 
organizations today or maybe 

569
00:32:04,240 --> 00:32:08,160
even non Jewish that are doing a
good job in telling the story in

570
00:32:08,160 --> 00:32:12,160
a way that's compelling and 
taking actions in a way that's 

571
00:32:12,160 --> 00:32:15,160
prudent Is there anything you've
seen I. 

572
00:32:15,160 --> 00:32:19,560
Have friends at the ADL that 
work on, you know, say they're 

573
00:32:20,040 --> 00:32:22,400
digital extremist Group. 
They're doing great work. 

574
00:32:22,840 --> 00:32:25,520
And I'm not trying to blanket 
the ADL as a blanket 

575
00:32:25,520 --> 00:32:27,400
organization. 
They do a lot of good work. 

576
00:32:27,400 --> 00:32:30,080
It's controversial. 
I think J Street does some good 

577
00:32:30,080 --> 00:32:32,280
work in certain areas that I 
agree with. 

578
00:32:32,760 --> 00:32:36,480
I think the Jewish Federation 
does good work in like local 

579
00:32:36,480 --> 00:32:40,080
organizing. 
Like all these groups do some 

580
00:32:40,080 --> 00:32:43,200
good work directionally. 
And I would never like there's a

581
00:32:43,200 --> 00:32:45,480
frustration. 
So I would never like put a 

582
00:32:45,480 --> 00:32:50,000
blanket attack on them. 
But I would respectfully say to 

583
00:32:50,000 --> 00:32:53,960
the ADL, here's a really good 
example that despite all the the

584
00:32:54,480 --> 00:32:58,200
courting of Elon Musk that they 
did and pulling their punches on

585
00:32:58,200 --> 00:33:02,320
him, he was blasting the ADL to 
hear him back on Twitter just 

586
00:33:02,320 --> 00:33:04,640
last week and none of it 
mattered. 

587
00:33:05,120 --> 00:33:08,920
I think that there needs to be a
real awareness that this is not 

588
00:33:08,920 --> 00:33:12,320
the 1980s anymore. 
You are not going to win the 

589
00:33:12,320 --> 00:33:15,120
public hearts and minds by 
putting out a press conference 

590
00:33:15,120 --> 00:33:18,160
for CNN and going and doing some
television hits with no 

591
00:33:18,160 --> 00:33:21,040
attrition. 
Respectful this is full on 

592
00:33:21,040 --> 00:33:25,080
information warfare need to be 
developing stars that can work 

593
00:33:25,080 --> 00:33:28,600
in that format my friend. 
You know like I don't understand

594
00:33:28,600 --> 00:33:32,400
why Emily Schrader does not have
her own Piers Morgan debate ship

595
00:33:32,720 --> 00:33:36,400
that would cost what a few 
$100,000 a year to produce. 

596
00:33:37,120 --> 00:33:40,880
Like why don't you have here her
over there producing viral clips

597
00:33:40,880 --> 00:33:44,720
every week of her destroying 
this miss on these facts my 

598
00:33:44,720 --> 00:33:50,840
friend Elon left like why is he 
not blanketed on the airwaves 

599
00:33:50,840 --> 00:33:54,640
with a team of people mind he's 
attractive, he's smart, he's 

600
00:33:54,640 --> 00:33:57,200
well spoken. 
He appeals to both signs. 

601
00:33:57,600 --> 00:34:00,400
I just don't understand why 
you're not funding this 

602
00:34:00,400 --> 00:34:03,720
information warfare. 
That's got to be a top priority 

603
00:34:04,080 --> 00:34:06,360
of these leaks. 
So that's my view. 

604
00:34:06,680 --> 00:34:08,960
It's. 
Interesting because if only it 

605
00:34:09,360 --> 00:34:13,280
it seems like they're only doing
the reverse, which is, you know,

606
00:34:14,600 --> 00:34:18,040
Jewish specific streaming 
platforms and Jewish specific 

607
00:34:18,040 --> 00:34:21,880
publications. 
But this is a non Jews issue. 

608
00:34:22,520 --> 00:34:24,560
No, which you? 
Need to be. 

609
00:34:24,560 --> 00:34:26,400
Talking to people like me. 
Yeah. 

610
00:34:27,600 --> 00:34:29,800
I'm sorry. 
Like, I think your, your 

611
00:34:29,800 --> 00:34:32,159
greatest strength is your 
greatest weakness here. 

612
00:34:32,239 --> 00:34:35,560
Like, I, as a trans woman, 
really respect how Jews stick 

613
00:34:35,560 --> 00:34:37,360
together. 
And you have your own culture 

614
00:34:37,360 --> 00:34:38,800
and you have your Shabbat 
dinners. 

615
00:34:38,800 --> 00:34:41,760
We hang out with each other. 
Like you truly have each other's

616
00:34:41,760 --> 00:34:44,639
backs in a way I deeply envy as 
a trans woman. 

617
00:34:44,960 --> 00:34:47,080
The problem is you'd love to 
talk to yourselves. 

618
00:34:47,360 --> 00:34:51,000
And you are low trust right now 
with the Goya, which I 

619
00:34:51,000 --> 00:34:52,440
understand. 
I get it. 

620
00:34:52,440 --> 00:34:55,679
We've betrayed you, but we're 
still the majority of this 

621
00:34:55,679 --> 00:34:57,760
country. 
You got to make some allies up 

622
00:34:58,120 --> 00:35:00,360
there. 
So, you know, like invest in the

623
00:35:00,360 --> 00:35:03,600
Brianna Woos, invest in Emily. 
Like you've just got to move 

624
00:35:03,600 --> 00:35:07,880
beyond having conversations with
yourself at glorious conferences

625
00:35:07,880 --> 00:35:11,960
where you preach to the choir. 
You've got to get in the mix and

626
00:35:11,960 --> 00:35:15,520
it's going to be dirty and it's 
not going to be dignified. 

627
00:35:15,520 --> 00:35:17,480
Like there's nothing dignified 
but going on. 

628
00:35:17,480 --> 00:35:20,920
Pierce Morgan I've done it 
multiple times, but you know, it

629
00:35:20,920 --> 00:35:24,960
is unfortunately the way 
politics works in 2026, this is.

630
00:35:24,960 --> 00:35:28,400
Super insightful and I'm 
grateful for your candor. 

631
00:35:28,400 --> 00:35:30,320
I'm grateful that I get to hear 
it from you. 

632
00:35:30,400 --> 00:35:34,560
It confirms some of the things 
that I think so that I feel I am

633
00:35:34,560 --> 00:35:39,880
not a crazy person. 
As part of the segment Every boy

634
00:35:39,920 --> 00:35:43,080
You Will enjoy it gets to ask me
as you a question about anything

635
00:35:43,080 --> 00:35:45,840
you've been wondering. 
You know your big thing is 

636
00:35:45,840 --> 00:35:47,640
integrity and honesty and so is 
mine. 

637
00:35:47,640 --> 00:35:51,760
So you can literally ask 
anything you would like and I 

638
00:35:51,760 --> 00:35:53,880
will tell you straight and if I 
don't know, I'll tell you too. 

639
00:35:53,960 --> 00:35:56,400
So I was wondering if there's 
any question you have for me. 

640
00:35:56,440 --> 00:35:59,680
I do. 
So, you know, I recently did 

641
00:35:59,720 --> 00:36:04,200
ADNA test and I want to ask you,
how many generations back do you

642
00:36:04,200 --> 00:36:08,280
have to have a Jewish ancestor 
that you're considered Jewish? 

643
00:36:08,600 --> 00:36:12,400
Oh. 
Did your DNA test said some 

644
00:36:12,400 --> 00:36:15,440
percentage Jewish? 
I I don't we get into that 

645
00:36:15,840 --> 00:36:18,160
publicly, but I will say it's a 
question on my. 

646
00:36:19,520 --> 00:36:24,800
Well, I think the halahic answer
would be it's not about how many

647
00:36:24,800 --> 00:36:28,640
generations, it's whether 
you're, I guess, one of your 

648
00:36:28,640 --> 00:36:32,200
grandparents for, well, this is 
where it gets really 

649
00:36:32,240 --> 00:36:34,360
complicated. 
How long you would say if your 

650
00:36:34,360 --> 00:36:36,600
mother's Jewish, right? 
I don't support that. 

651
00:36:36,600 --> 00:36:39,480
I support anybody who has, for 
example, a Jewish parent. 

652
00:36:39,480 --> 00:36:41,440
I'm a very big supporter of 
patrilineal Jews. 

653
00:36:41,680 --> 00:36:45,240
Birthright would say is if you 
have a Jewish grandparent and 

654
00:36:45,240 --> 00:36:47,400
that could be on the mother's or
father's side. 

655
00:36:48,520 --> 00:36:53,480
I believe that it's not so much 
about how many generations, but 

656
00:36:53,480 --> 00:36:56,920
whether you feel you want to be 
part of a tribe and be part of a

657
00:36:56,920 --> 00:36:59,280
community. 
And for everybody, that's a 

658
00:36:59,280 --> 00:37:01,520
different choice and that's a 
different comfort level. 

659
00:37:01,880 --> 00:37:04,600
I struggle with this because 
it's not like a person can wake 

660
00:37:04,600 --> 00:37:06,520
up and say, well, I'm Jewish 
now, right? 

661
00:37:06,520 --> 00:37:10,040
I feel like there should be some
kind of either graduation 

662
00:37:10,040 --> 00:37:12,400
ceremony or there should be a 
process, just like there would 

663
00:37:12,400 --> 00:37:14,440
be a process for most 
commitments that you make in 

664
00:37:14,440 --> 00:37:18,080
life. 
So that I don't know from a 

665
00:37:18,560 --> 00:37:21,960
genetic standpoint that there is
a clear numerical cut off. 

666
00:37:21,960 --> 00:37:23,920
I think it's more of a 
philosophical one. 

667
00:37:24,160 --> 00:37:25,360
It makes a. 
Lot of sense to me. 

668
00:37:25,640 --> 00:37:27,440
Yeah. 
I just want to say letting 

669
00:37:27,440 --> 00:37:30,560
anyone in the gate has not 
worked out super well for trans 

670
00:37:30,560 --> 00:37:32,960
people. 
So I support Jews in keeping 

671
00:37:32,960 --> 00:37:37,120
that bar very high. 
Have a very difficult process to

672
00:37:37,120 --> 00:37:39,280
get in. 
It doesn't work out well if you 

673
00:37:39,280 --> 00:37:41,360
don't. 
But let me ask you this. 

674
00:37:41,360 --> 00:37:45,520
Like as I understand it, there's
some reform people that let 

675
00:37:45,520 --> 00:37:50,280
trans people in, but Orthodox 
people would not allow someone 

676
00:37:50,280 --> 00:37:52,960
like me to convert to Judaism. 
Is that correct? 

677
00:37:53,280 --> 00:37:54,840
I. 
Believe that orthodox people 

678
00:37:54,840 --> 00:37:58,320
would not let you convert not 
because of your genetics, but 

679
00:37:58,320 --> 00:38:00,880
because you're trans and they 
don't support trans people, 

680
00:38:01,040 --> 00:38:03,280
which is a different issue. 
Reforms. 

681
00:38:03,560 --> 00:38:05,720
And they would also not 
recognize a reform conversion 

682
00:38:05,760 --> 00:38:08,040
either. 
So let's imagine a hypothetical 

683
00:38:08,040 --> 00:38:10,840
scenario. 
You're like, hello, I want to 

684
00:38:10,840 --> 00:38:13,440
become Orthodox. 
I commit to living my life for 

685
00:38:13,440 --> 00:38:15,680
the rest of my time as an 
Orthodox person. 

686
00:38:16,040 --> 00:38:19,360
They would be like, yes, that's 
fine, your conversion counts. 

687
00:38:19,560 --> 00:38:22,880
Now you come to them and you say
all the same stuff, and you say,

688
00:38:23,040 --> 00:38:26,880
and I'm trans. 
They're like then never mind, 

689
00:38:27,360 --> 00:38:29,760
OK. 
Is that how long is that in your

690
00:38:29,760 --> 00:38:32,600
book? 
Like what's the reasoning behind

691
00:38:32,600 --> 00:38:33,360
that? 
I. 

692
00:38:33,480 --> 00:38:36,120
Don't know that trans people are
in the book at all, which is why

693
00:38:36,120 --> 00:38:39,920
I have so much concern with, you
know, the Orthodox understanding

694
00:38:40,040 --> 00:38:42,720
of gender identity. 
I don't agree with it. 

695
00:38:44,000 --> 00:38:47,080
I would have to ask because I 
myself am not Orthodox. 

696
00:38:47,240 --> 00:38:50,480
So I have no idea because these 
things seem quite 

697
00:38:50,480 --> 00:38:53,000
straightforward to me as and for
me. 

698
00:38:53,000 --> 00:38:56,960
Like if the more people there 
are that want to commit to a 

699
00:38:56,960 --> 00:39:01,160
Jewish life that are serious and
intentional about it, the better

700
00:39:01,160 --> 00:39:04,080
it is for us and the longevity 
of our community. 

701
00:39:04,400 --> 00:39:07,800
There is a component of this of 
wanting to maintain the Jewish 

702
00:39:07,800 --> 00:39:11,640
ethnic kind of DNA based 
lineage, but we also need to 

703
00:39:11,640 --> 00:39:14,440
raise Jewish children. 
So if that comes through 

704
00:39:14,440 --> 00:39:17,600
partnerships where one partner 
is not Jewish, but the next 

705
00:39:17,600 --> 00:39:21,280
generation will be Jewish, 
that's still a win because the 

706
00:39:21,280 --> 00:39:25,600
alternative is fully, quote UN 
quote, kosher Jewish kids that 

707
00:39:25,600 --> 00:39:28,680
do nothing Jewish and don't 
raise their own kids as Jewish. 

708
00:39:28,960 --> 00:39:31,440
And it's never an either or. 
But this matters. 

709
00:39:31,600 --> 00:39:33,520
It matters to raise Jewish 
children. 

710
00:39:33,520 --> 00:39:35,840
So if there are people out there
that want to be part of the 

711
00:39:35,840 --> 00:39:39,080
tribe and are committed to 
ensuring the the next generation

712
00:39:39,080 --> 00:39:42,840
is Jewish, that should be 
considered, you know, a green 

713
00:39:42,840 --> 00:39:45,760
light, all hands on deck. 
Those are the kinds of people we

714
00:39:45,760 --> 00:39:47,400
want in our community. 
Well. 

715
00:39:47,440 --> 00:39:50,880
As much as estrogen and 
progesterone make me think about

716
00:39:50,960 --> 00:39:52,760
about being pregnant, 
unfortunately I would not be 

717
00:39:52,760 --> 00:39:56,880
able to help with that much. 
But let me ask you this and this

718
00:39:56,880 --> 00:40:01,880
is a super politically incorrect
question so I apologize in 

719
00:40:01,880 --> 00:40:03,640
advance if I'm going to get 
cancelled. 

720
00:40:04,000 --> 00:40:09,640
But is I have been doing my work
it is really hard for me not to 

721
00:40:09,640 --> 00:40:14,480
notice a pattern and that is 
people. 

722
00:40:14,720 --> 00:40:18,760
That have a tie to Jewish life 
and are actively involved in, 

723
00:40:18,760 --> 00:40:20,200
you know, their synagogue, their
temple. 

724
00:40:20,200 --> 00:40:25,640
Like involved locally all share 
an opinion on Israel and share 

725
00:40:25,640 --> 00:40:29,960
concern about anti-Semitism. 
And it's really hard for me not 

726
00:40:29,960 --> 00:40:35,440
to notice that people that may 
have a Jewish parrot but don't 

727
00:40:35,440 --> 00:40:39,880
actively practice or live in the
aspect of Judaism are the first 

728
00:40:39,880 --> 00:40:45,000
people to be out here saying as 
a Jew it's a genocide, Israel is

729
00:40:45,000 --> 00:40:49,160
evil, blah blah blah. 
Is a is that assessment correct 

730
00:40:49,600 --> 00:40:53,080
and B is it OK for me to call 
that out? 

731
00:40:53,080 --> 00:40:56,600
Like, am I being anti-Semitic if
I were to call that out in the 

732
00:40:56,600 --> 00:40:58,080
course of doing my work? 
Which? 

733
00:40:58,080 --> 00:41:00,960
Part What are you calling out 
about them that they're Jewish 

734
00:41:00,960 --> 00:41:03,680
and saying is? 
Look, you don't have any ties to

735
00:41:03,760 --> 00:41:05,840
like, Jewish life. 
What are you doing here? 

736
00:41:06,000 --> 00:41:08,280
Like people that actually do 
seem to have a different 

737
00:41:08,280 --> 00:41:11,560
community. 
So does your kind of expertise 

738
00:41:11,560 --> 00:41:15,840
on Jewish life permit you to 
critique the community or let if

739
00:41:15,840 --> 00:41:19,040
you have none at all, does that 
make you once again a reliable 

740
00:41:19,040 --> 00:41:20,600
narrator on behalf of the Jewish
people? 

741
00:41:20,680 --> 00:41:22,760
I agree with you. 
I think if you're just happened 

742
00:41:22,760 --> 00:41:26,000
to be born Jewish and you know 
nothing about Jewish life, never

743
00:41:26,000 --> 00:41:30,480
engaged, you are not a voice of 
authority on this matters. 

744
00:41:30,680 --> 00:41:34,680
You would say the same for 
anyone who claims to know art or

745
00:41:34,680 --> 00:41:37,520
science or whatever. 
We all know how to paint. 

746
00:41:37,520 --> 00:41:41,320
It doesn't make us an artist. 
It should be evaluated on merit,

747
00:41:41,320 --> 00:41:47,120
not by identity politics alone. 
So this whole like as a Jew is 

748
00:41:47,120 --> 00:41:51,640
not actually a qualification for
a thoughtful opinion at all. 

749
00:41:51,800 --> 00:41:54,840
Doesn't matter what the opinion 
is or where it comes from. 

750
00:41:54,840 --> 00:42:00,440
That's why actually it like this
is a on PC take from my side. 

751
00:42:00,800 --> 00:42:06,160
I was super against affirmative 
action when it came out because 

752
00:42:06,160 --> 00:42:07,920
I thought that the one where 
there would be like a 

753
00:42:07,920 --> 00:42:11,920
rudimentary quota because in the
workplace, for example, or in a 

754
00:42:11,920 --> 00:42:16,200
college campus, your identity 
alone does not make you 

755
00:42:16,560 --> 00:42:19,000
qualified or more or less 
qualified. 

756
00:42:19,200 --> 00:42:22,120
Your application should be 
reviewed, your resume should be 

757
00:42:22,120 --> 00:42:25,360
reviewed, your experience at the
same time, because there is 

758
00:42:25,360 --> 00:42:28,320
implicit bias. 
I believed in things like your 

759
00:42:28,320 --> 00:42:32,120
name shouldn't be on your resume
so that people cannot infer your

760
00:42:32,120 --> 00:42:34,680
gender or your race and make an 
assumption. 

761
00:42:34,680 --> 00:42:38,040
That's why those blind auditions
for musicians into an orchestra 

762
00:42:38,240 --> 00:42:41,400
were so successful at getting 
women through the door, because 

763
00:42:41,400 --> 00:42:46,160
the implicit bias was removed. 
We should be evaluating opinions

764
00:42:46,160 --> 00:42:49,320
and thoughts, philosophies on 
the merit of the idea, the 

765
00:42:49,320 --> 00:42:51,840
substance of the idea, not who 
it comes from. 

766
00:42:52,160 --> 00:42:55,960
The thing about like the as a 
Jew movement is it's very much a

767
00:42:55,960 --> 00:42:59,840
product of this kind of backward
inverted morality that you 

768
00:42:59,840 --> 00:43:04,560
talked about earlier of identity
politics and somebody feeling 

769
00:43:04,560 --> 00:43:08,520
entitled just because they're a 
Jew or just because they're a 

770
00:43:08,520 --> 00:43:10,640
minority, just because they're 
oppressed. 

771
00:43:10,640 --> 00:43:14,760
And this contest of oppression, 
that population is increasingly 

772
00:43:14,760 --> 00:43:17,440
growing. 
And there's not a clear, you 

773
00:43:17,440 --> 00:43:19,720
know, there's not a neat answer 
as to why. 

774
00:43:19,720 --> 00:43:22,040
And more importantly, there's 
not a neat answer as to what to 

775
00:43:22,040 --> 00:43:25,960
do about it. 
So the one correlation that's 

776
00:43:25,960 --> 00:43:29,160
been made a parent is that kids 
that go to Jewish sleepaway camp

777
00:43:29,200 --> 00:43:33,200
tend to not become as a Jew. 
So what I've seen Jewish 

778
00:43:33,200 --> 00:43:35,880
organizations say is you don't 
want to have an as a Jew kid, 

779
00:43:35,880 --> 00:43:37,960
send them to summer camp, Jewish
summer camp. 

780
00:43:38,840 --> 00:43:43,160
I mean, yeah, no, I see. 
So many parallels here because 

781
00:43:43,800 --> 00:43:47,440
there's so many trans women that
try to escape structural 

782
00:43:47,440 --> 00:43:50,720
oppression by just going stealth
and never admitting it. 

783
00:43:50,840 --> 00:43:54,280
And I'm I'm so, you know, I 
didn't come out publicly as 

784
00:43:54,280 --> 00:43:57,280
trans until two years ago 
because I thought we needed some

785
00:43:57,280 --> 00:43:59,240
sane leadership in this 
movement. 

786
00:43:59,720 --> 00:44:02,760
Something I've seen, and this is
even with friends, but that 

787
00:44:02,760 --> 00:44:07,000
dearly respect is the way that 
they've navigated anti-Semitism 

788
00:44:07,000 --> 00:44:11,040
is to really de emphasize that 
Jewishness and to not practice 

789
00:44:11,040 --> 00:44:13,600
Jewish life and just move it 
into the background. 

790
00:44:13,600 --> 00:44:16,960
Yeah, they marry non Jews. 
They don't go to, you know, they

791
00:44:16,960 --> 00:44:20,440
don't go to temple. 
And I get it, I really do. 

792
00:44:20,480 --> 00:44:24,200
I lived my life for 20 years, 
which is not thinking about 

793
00:44:24,200 --> 00:44:26,640
transsexuality as much as I I 
could. 

794
00:44:27,320 --> 00:44:30,680
But I think it's, it's different
because there's no upside to 

795
00:44:30,680 --> 00:44:33,640
being transsexual. 
Like it's a, it's essentially a 

796
00:44:33,640 --> 00:44:37,040
disability in my view. 
And Jewish life just seems so 

797
00:44:37,040 --> 00:44:40,040
rich and interesting 
philosophically. 

798
00:44:40,680 --> 00:44:44,080
I don't know, there's just, it 
just seems sad to me to see 

799
00:44:44,080 --> 00:44:47,720
people I respect like denying 
parts of who they are to 

800
00:44:48,320 --> 00:44:51,360
basically to assimilate into the
rest of the American project. 

801
00:44:51,360 --> 00:44:52,920
I just don't get it. 
They'll have. 

802
00:44:52,920 --> 00:44:55,480
The honor, I always say this, 
and this is so mean, I said. 

803
00:44:55,960 --> 00:44:58,120
They'll have the special honor 
of being on the last train to 

804
00:44:58,120 --> 00:45:00,440
Auschwitz when their time comes.
Yeah. 

805
00:45:01,360 --> 00:45:04,240
That's what I. 
Say, this has been incredible. 

806
00:45:04,280 --> 00:45:07,200
Tell me, how can people connect 
with you and keep up with your 

807
00:45:07,200 --> 00:45:08,360
work? 
Yeah, look. 

808
00:45:08,360 --> 00:45:11,760
For me, on social, I'm on 
Instagram, I'm on Facebook, I'm 

809
00:45:11,760 --> 00:45:16,160
on Twitter too much. 
I've got a big project coming up

810
00:45:16,160 --> 00:45:19,400
that I'm sure people are going 
to hear about soon on 

811
00:45:19,400 --> 00:45:21,000
information warfare. 
Great. 

812
00:45:21,000 --> 00:45:24,280
So when that comes around to 
you, maybe pay some attention to

813
00:45:24,320 --> 00:45:24,880
it. 
Are you going? 

814
00:45:25,000 --> 00:45:27,240
To run for something I would 
like to vote for you. 

815
00:45:27,480 --> 00:45:29,720
I I've. 
Thought about it, I don't think 

816
00:45:29,720 --> 00:45:32,920
my voice is at a point where I 
could do that for the 8 hours a 

817
00:45:32,920 --> 00:45:34,680
day. 
Yeah, but you know, I'm going to

818
00:45:34,800 --> 00:45:39,120
do another session of another 
surgery on my vocal folds in the

819
00:45:39,120 --> 00:45:42,120
next few months and we'll see if
that keeps improving it. 

820
00:45:42,120 --> 00:45:43,840
So fingers crossed on that. 
I'm so. 

821
00:45:43,840 --> 00:45:46,240
Excited for you thank you for 
the privilege of having this 

822
00:45:46,240 --> 00:45:49,320
conversation. 
I'm team always meet your idols,

823
00:45:49,360 --> 00:45:50,800
you know, or always meet your 
heroes. 

824
00:45:50,800 --> 00:45:52,160
People say never meet your 
heroes. 

825
00:45:52,160 --> 00:45:55,320
I always meet my heroes and I 
always have the best experience 

826
00:45:55,320 --> 00:45:57,400
ever and it's a privilege to add
you to the list. 

827
00:45:57,400 --> 00:45:58,880
Thank you so much. 
I have to. 

828
00:45:58,880 --> 00:46:01,160
Push back on that. 
It makes me so uncomfortable 

829
00:46:01,160 --> 00:46:04,520
when anyone thanks me for for 
standing with y'all. 

830
00:46:04,520 --> 00:46:08,000
I don't think I I came back 
later and told some of the Jews 

831
00:46:08,000 --> 00:46:10,720
that helped me transition. 
That was meaningful to me. 

832
00:46:11,280 --> 00:46:13,760
But I don't think, you know, I 
never told my therapist, my 

833
00:46:13,760 --> 00:46:15,480
Jewish therapist, he was my 
hero. 

834
00:46:15,480 --> 00:46:20,560
He was just someone, a human 
doing a decent thing for me when

835
00:46:20,560 --> 00:46:23,080
he saw that I needed it. 
It's all I'm doing for you. 

836
00:46:23,240 --> 00:46:27,400
Like I see my humanity reflected
back in y'all. 

837
00:46:27,400 --> 00:46:29,920
And I'm so honored to stand with
you and I. 

838
00:46:30,040 --> 00:46:33,200
I have to say one more thing. 
I have worked on countless 

839
00:46:33,200 --> 00:46:35,960
political initiatives. 
I got famous during Gamergate. 

840
00:46:35,960 --> 00:46:39,080
I've worked in Democratic Party.
Me too. 

841
00:46:39,160 --> 00:46:41,440
You know, I've been in some of 
the biggest fights in this 

842
00:46:41,440 --> 00:46:44,480
country and I, I genuinely mean 
this. 

843
00:46:44,520 --> 00:46:49,920
I have never worked with a 
people whose humanity is 

844
00:46:49,920 --> 00:46:55,720
brighter, who are willing to 
sacrifice themselves for a 

845
00:46:55,720 --> 00:47:00,320
greater cause and just are as 
decent as the Jewish community. 

846
00:47:00,920 --> 00:47:03,880
And I think part of why I feel 
so strongly about this issue is 

847
00:47:03,920 --> 00:47:07,920
y'all are just fun to work with.
So I'm I'm genuinely awkward to 

848
00:47:07,920 --> 00:47:09,480
be in this fight with you. 
Thanks. 

849
00:47:09,480 --> 00:47:10,000
So. 
Much. 

850
00:47:10,200 --> 00:47:12,160
This has been incredible. 
Yeah, Thank you. 

851
00:47:12,160 --> 00:47:12,760
Very. 
Much. 

852
00:47:13,520 --> 00:47:16,560
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