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Hi. 
I'm Diane gracel also known as 

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silver disputants. 
And I dressed up a little 

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differently today. 
I've got my parachute Sudan, 

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which is vintage Norma, Kamali, 
and I put on my green eyeshadow.

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Because really right now thinks 
I'm seem kind of Otherworldly. 

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So this is my best Martian 
invitation, but I'm going to 

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read to you from my book, The 
Silver disputing his Playbook. 

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And what I want to read about is
trying, To positively accept 

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things. 
That's what my class son. 

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Which were also is slightly 
Greenland's to match my green 

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and green. 
Okay. 

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So positively accepting Most 
emotional and ish, most 

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emotional issues arise from the 
fact that there's something 

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within us that we cannot accept.
We resent our limitations and 

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want to be someone else or 
somewhere else. 

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We daydream about what we would 
do. 

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If we had another chance or if 
we could change something about 

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our bodies, our relationship or 
life as it currently is. 

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As a result though, we disregard
our own possibilities and those 

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that are in the moment and we 
stopped doing, or don't do what 

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we can do, get what we want or 
become who we'd like to be in 

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the process. 
We can all find plenty of 

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reasons to dislike our current 
life, whatever state it's in, 

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but that really isn't 
beneficial. 

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It's not beneficial to ourselves
or Those whom we live with. 

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Some of the most stimulating 
examples of success have come 

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from people who have faced some 
kind of challenge. 

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Yet opted to play the game of 
life splendidly. 

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As soon as we begin to accept 
that, we might perceive our 

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limit. 
What we might perceive as 

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limitations. 
They can be viewed as 

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fascinating challenging 
opportunities, instead, 

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Rebelling against our 
limitations gets us nowhere. 

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Instead we must summon our most 
adventurous daring cells to 

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accept ourselves and the 
situation as a bundle of 

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possibilities. 
Even if we have to look really 

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deeply to find those 
possibilities. 

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Sometimes the likes of which, 
which might be what's happening 

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now. 
Have never been assembled in any

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other body in the past, nor will
they be in again in the future? 

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Now, if you can accept yourself 
as a bundle of possibilities 

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that has never existed, because 
it never has think about the 

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potential ready to come forth. 
By viewing ourselves as a bundle

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of possibilities. 
This lets us undertake the most 

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interesting game in the world, 
making the most of ourselves 

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Thank you very much for joining 
me. 

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I'm Diane gracel also known as 
silver disputants. 

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I just read to you an excerpt 
from my book. 

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The Silver to speed Ian's, 
Playbook. 

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Thanks for joining me.