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Hi there. 
I'm Diane Russo and I am also 

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known as silver to speak against
and I'm the author of this book.

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The Silver dust begins Playbook 
365 Inspirations for living and 

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loving ages sleep. 
And tonight I am going to read 

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to you from my bunk one of my 
little Inspirations called no 

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normal. 
For much of my life if I was 

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asked, how's it going? 
My wrote response was an 

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automatic fine. 
It was my go-to answer for two 

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reasons. 
One because I thought 

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complaining was weak, ugly. 
And to I was always afraid to 

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admit that anything in my life 
might be going anything other 

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than fine. 
The problem with insisting on 

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what we think is normality or 
that all is fine. 

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When it might be otherwise is 
that somehow this means really 

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deep down. 
Inside of us, we're 

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dissatisfied. 
I got to repeat that because I 

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stumbled a little we are 
dissatisfied with accepting life

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as it is. 
Which is problem full because 

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problems happen. 
Having problems doesn't mean 

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we're weak. 
Unlucky less than or otherwise. 

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if you believe others including 
me to be Problem free, it's 

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probably because your compare 
comparing, your inner feelings 

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to the facade of normalcy, that 
we also often, try to present In

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reality believing that you 
should never have a problem or 

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the problems are a sign of 
weakness. 

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Wow, that's painfully isolating.
You can't really have any 

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conversations whatsoever in 
depth, if you are free to 

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acknowledge that sometimes life 
bites. 

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Sometimes by tard, but it is 
what it is, and isn't always 

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fun. 
In fact, sometimes it can be 

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immensely painful. 
At those times when life is 

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normal or full of Trials and 
challenges because trials and 

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challenges are what make up a 
normal life. 

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When we realize that, we hold 
the potential to reach whole new

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understandings of our personal 
capabilities. 

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We can embrace our personal 
challenges and asked for the 

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Embrace and support from others.
This isn't weak. 

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It's how humans actually show 
their strength and fortitude for

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living. 
I'm Diane Purcell. 

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Thanks for tuning in again, on 
the author of the silver 

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dispute, Ian's Playbook, and you
can pick up a copy on Amazon, 

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have a great night. 
You turn off him.