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Hey there, I'm Diane Brazil, 
also known as silver to speed 

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Ian's and a couple of blog posts
ago. 

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I mentioned that I have had a 
few pink plane. 

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Crashes. 
The fact is, I've had two full 

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clean crashes in one. 
What is called an incident where

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an engine blew in a twin engine 
plane on takeoff. 

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So I consider a three-car ashes 
because the bottom line is we 

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didn't fly away from either 
three. 

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So I think if you crash like 
that, it counts as crash, but 

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you asked for a little 
elaboration on that. 

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So I'm actually going to read 
something I wrote in my book, 

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The Silver dust beans Playbook 
and it's about crashing through 

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fear and put my glasses on so I 
can read a little better. 

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And if you know anything about 
me, you know that I'm like that 

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Burgess Meredith Twilight Zone 
episode. 

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You know at any given point I 
probably have five pairs of 

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glasses in on my desk. 
We're somewhere immediately 

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around me because I'm panicked. 
I will not be able to read, but 

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I do have glasses on and today 
I'm reading crashing through 

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fear. 
I once read that everything you 

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want is on the other side of 
fear. 

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I disagree with the word 
everything in that sentence. 

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It means an almost in front of 
it. 

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Almost everything you want is on
the other side of fear. 

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Fear of failure, fear of 
success, fear of embarrassment, 

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fear of falling fear of 
crashing, fear of mortality. 

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Fear of immortality fear of 
being on stage, fear of being 

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never recognized. 
Fear of what our parents would 

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say, or think at any age. 
Fear of what our children would 

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also say or think at any age. 
Fear of caring. 

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Fear of not caring enough. 
The list is endless. 

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Are we really that afraid? 
Yes. 

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And no, we're not. 
Fear is a dichotomy of self 

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opposing, ideas live within us, 
much like War and Peace. 

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We feel afraid yet. 
We know how great it feels to be

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on the other side of fear 
mostly. 

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I was in a plane crash on 
October 10th 1981. 

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After not flying for a whole 
year, understandably due to fear

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of flying on October 10th 1982, 
I went flying again. 

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And guess what? 
The plane blew an engine on 

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takeoff. 
Now, my point. 

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You can face your fears and you 
can get through them, but it 

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doesn't mean that life comes 
with guarantees. 

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I still crashed. 
In fact, I crashed again, in 

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1987 in a grass, Airfield, in 
washing in Massachusetts. 

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Great Barrington Massachusetts. 
And hopefully I've owned crash 

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again and again. 
But crashing isn't so bad. 

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Assuming we get to live through 
it. 

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We learn a lot from it namely 
that we can survive adversity. 

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Also we learned that through 
life experiences, that no matter

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what is aggravating us, no 
matter what, we're afraid of, no

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matter what we fear, we might 
have to experience. 

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There are no guarantees But odds
favor will probably live through

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whatever. 
The experience it is, excuse me,

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whatever. 
The experience is, will probably

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live through. 
Life actually, inclines itself 

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towards the living and towards 
living, oflife forms, drive for 

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health and existence. 
It's the essence of life life 

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lives. 
Think about the crap that most 

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of us put in our bodies if we 
put the equivalent of soda. 

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In an auto for gas, that would 
be the end of the engine, but 

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bodies, they tolerate a lot of 
abuse, stop the abuse and health

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will do its best to improve our 
overall. 

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Being same goes for our minds. 
Once we challenged our fears, 

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they begin to lose their power. 
We realize we haven't died. 

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We're still alive. 
And you know what we're 

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stronger.