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God is good. 
I just want to give honor to God

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tonight. 
He's brought me a long way. 

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A lot of patience with me, from 
the difficulty of me as a child 

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to the difficulty of me as a 
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I'm very grateful for the love 
and grace of God. 

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I give honor to our ministry 
team and all that they do behind

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the pulpit. 
That's just a small fraction. 

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There's so much that they do 
outside of this and I want to 

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thank them for all of that. 
And I just want to say Pastor 

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and Brother Mason did amazing 
jobs on Sunday, the start of 

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ministry madness, of March, 
ministry madness. 

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It was great and really enjoyed 
the word. 

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I'm looking forward to hearing 
Doctor Mason and Bishop this 

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coming Sunday. 
So please be sure not to miss 

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that. 
You're going to absolutely love 

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it. 
I'm going to turn to the Book of

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Psalms, Chapter 19, just one 
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If you're there, say Amen. 
All right, Psalms, Psalms 19 and

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14. 
Let the words of my mouth and 

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the meditation of my heart be 
acceptable in Thy sight, O Lord,

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my strength and my Redeemer. 
Now before we pray, before we 

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see that, just to preface 
everything here, God's working 

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on me. 
Because in just the messiness of

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life, there's sometimes you do 
things without being aware of 

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it. 
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the world around us all the 
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But God can work on us so that 
we start to become aware and we 

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can start praying for God's 
help, even as David did in this 

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Psalms. 
And so the Lord started working 

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on my heart a while back. 
And when pastor asked me if I 

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could minister this Wednesday 
night, I knew exactly what to 

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speak on. 
My sermon title is just going to

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be one word, words, words. 
If you would help me pray. 

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God, I thank you for everything 
you've already done. 

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God, thank you for your presence
in this place. 

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God, thank you for how you've 
been working on my heart. 

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And God, I pray you to anoint my
mind and my lips. 

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Lord, open our hearts, open our 
ears to hear what you would have

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us here, God, to hear your word 
this evening. 

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God, we give you all the glory 
and the praise because you are 

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worthy forever. 
God, blessed be the name of the 

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Lord Most High in Jesus name, 
Amen. 

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You may be seated now if you 
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imagination caps. 
Hopefully. 

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Hopefully you can imagine things
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If not, do the best you can. 
So imagine this with me. 

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It'll be silly. 
A Penguin dressed in a sharp 

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business suit, confidently 
shaking hands with a Flamingo as

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he sells him a brand new car. 
You see it? 

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Now shift the scene. 
Now imagine you're outside. 

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It's a full moon. 
It's a beautiful night. 

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You can see all the stars, every
constellation just bright and 

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shining. 
There's just a piece in the 

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atmosphere is that everything is
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And you see a shooting star over
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Pink Elephant. 
The Empire State Building 

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sailboat going along the ocean. 
The feeling of finally paying 

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that last bill and being debt 
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Winning a marathon Mount 
Everest. 

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With just words, you can lead a 
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really silly, something 
ridiculous, something 

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frustrating, really anything you
want just by choosing certain 

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words to say are words, whether 
we speak them, we sign them, or 

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we write them down, we type them
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They carry the power to shape 
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view the world around us. 
The pen is mightier than the 

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sword because we're The sword 
has the power to end life. 

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The pen has the power to change 
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The sword may win a battle, but 
the pen is what signs the treaty

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to end the war. 
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It's strength comes from the 
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that awaken and stir our 
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Music is able to calm us, 
energize us for some physical 

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challenge, guide us towards an 
altar of repentance, persuade us

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that the party lifestyle is the 
ultimate way to live, or move us

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in countless other directions 
depending on the message carried

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in the words. 
That's why we'll we'll teach to 

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be very careful with the music 
you listen to motivational 

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speeches. 
They are so effective because 

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they blend A carefully chosen 
words and a powerful delivery 

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with the ability to ignite a 
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belief that we are capable of 
achieving something meaningful 

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enough to justify whatever the 
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Actually, it's I've seen people 
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speech by Optimus Prime from a 
Transformers movie of all 

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things. 
But it inspired them. 

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They were ready to take up arms 
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And it's a movie. 
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all things, and as silly as it 
sounds, it makes perfect sense 

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because words carry weight and 
power. 

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With words alone, God brought 
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We look at Genesis 1/3 and God 
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there was light and the rest of 
the verses continue that 

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pattern. 
God spoke into the void and to 

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nothingness and each day 
creation sprang forth at the 

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sound of His command. 
He didn't use any tools, He 

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didn't have an assistant to do 
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pre-existing materials to use. 
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creation came into existence 
except for us when she 

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handcrafted personally. 
But His words shaped everything.

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Can you imagine the power of 
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For just a moment, I tried to 
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To think of nothing is really, 
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We cannot really fathom that. 
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is when you try to imagine what 
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Who really, who was like, born 
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You don't actually see anything.
It's like, well, don't you see 

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black? 
It's like, no, you're still 

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thinking of seeing something. 
What do you see out of your 

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elbow? 
You don't. 

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You don't see black, You don't 
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You just don't. 
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not that there was just nothing 
like a blackness, it just 

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wasn't. 
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even airwaves to carry the 
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But using the Word alone, 
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The power of words lie in their 
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of what they address. 
For God, that change was 

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physical and immediately visible
as creation itself responded to 

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His voice. 
And because we are made in His 

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image, our words carry a 
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Not that we can speak to 
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physically, but we can reshape 
minds and hearts with just the 

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words that we say. 
A single word or sentence can 

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shift someone's entire day or 
even the direction of their life

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without lifting a hand. 
Our speech alone can draw a soul

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nearer to God or push them 
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We can choose to speak in a way 
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strength and courage when they 
feel overwhelmed, reminding them

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that their life has value and 
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Or we can speak carelessly and 
wound deeply, dimming hope where

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it was already fragile. 
A handful of words has the power

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to save or end a life. 
A single word from a nation's 

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leader can alter the course of 
thousands of lives in an 

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instant, which we're seeing 
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A teacher's simple expression of
belief in a student can inspire 

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them become the greatest artist 
of their generation with just 

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one word. 
Yes, my girlfriend became my 

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fiance and now my wife and the 
mother of our almost three 

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children. 
Now the word No2 little letters 

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is a complete sentence because 
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needs to by itself. 
It's small, yet it can carry the

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weight of an entire world. 
If Melinda had said no when I 

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proposed to her, my life would 
be unrecognizably different 

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today and three entire souls, 
our children, would have never 

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come into existence. 
One single word had the power to

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change the course of several 
lives, because words are more 

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than just mere vibrations 
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They are power, conveying 
meaning and intent with the 

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ability to reshape lives, 
relationships, your thought 

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processes, your beliefs. 
The words we choose are a 

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reflection of what is in our 
hearts and whether we realize it

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or not, whether we acknowledge 
it or not, they carry weight and

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impact. 
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Death and life are in the power 
of the tongue, and they that 

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love it shall eat the fruit 
thereof regardless of what 

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people or current science would 
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We are not a simulation, we are 
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random chance. 
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We are handcrafted by God 
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entrusted with the authority and
power to be able to speak both 

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life and death into the lives of
our own self and those around 

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us. 
How we choose to speak becomes 

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the fruit we eat and the life we
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It's not usually the grand or 
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life or death. 
A proposal was a pretty big 

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moment. 
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always those though, where you 
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the time. 
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spiritually or emotional. 
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the ordinary and the mundane. 
It's just the everyday ebbs and 

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flows of life. 
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cry, argue, fight, cheer, 
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It's in these everyday 
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fruit of our words become clear,
shaping the world around us in 

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subtle yet powerful ways. 
It's not going to take long to 

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see what kind of fruit a person 
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speak. 
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come off, over time their nature
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people are going to just speak 
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Gossipers, they're going to 
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Joyful people are going to share
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Motivated people are going to 
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determination. 
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going to be found Speaking of 
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You get the picture. 
The nature of our thoughts will 

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become the words that we speak 
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we live. 
Our words become our witness. 

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The book of Job tells the story 
of the man Job who lost 

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everything. 
And then so in the midst of his 

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suffering, not only was he 
fighting the grief and pain of 

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all his losses, the physical 
assault from the from the devil 

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himself, but also the words of 
his friends who kept insisting 

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that everything that was 
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I respect that they showed up to
be there, but the words they 

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brought were like poison. 
And then the words of his wife 

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was urging him to curse God and 
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I'm sure he already felt like 
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He was doing all he could to 
hang on. 

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But through it all, Job chose to
lift his voice in praise and 

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trust in God. 
He may not have been absolutely 

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perfect and everything he said, 
I know God rebuked him a little 

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bit towards the end, but he 
never once cursed God. 

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He never once put the wrong 
blame on God. 

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He made sure that his words, his
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Regardless of what was going on.
He had every reason to surrender

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to the despair, the frustration 
and the pressure of those 

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speaking wrong into his life. 
But instead the fruit of his 

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faith was revealed and what he 
said and how he refused to curse

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God or admit to something wrong 
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His words reflected trust in God
rather than bitterness. 

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Just like the tube of toothpaste
when pressure is applied, what 

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is in comes out the pressure the
test was applied heavily, but 

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what came out was a praise to 
God was continuous trust and 

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God, you know that didn't those 
habits and those types of words 

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and the those choices didn't 
start when the trouble happened.

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He always lived faithfully. 
He always gave honor to God. 

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He always spoke well. 
So when the pressure came, what 

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was in just continue to come out
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The Bible tells us that out of 
the abundance of our hearts, our

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mouths speak if we are born 
again and we carry the Spirit of

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God within us. 
And yet our speech is filled 

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with cursing or lies or gossip 
or provocative words or any 

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other negative thing you can 
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What does that actually say 
about the state of our hearts 

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and what we're entertaining in 
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Our words reflect the condition 
of our inner self and reveal if 

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we are really full of Christ in 
entertaining His presence or if 

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we're just full of our self and 
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When we are born again, we are 
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its desires and passions, to let
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away, and to become new. 
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we had before salvation are not 
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life in Christ. 
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the high calling and God, which 
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guard our minds, to choose our 
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words that align with the 
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US, And I'm purposely saying, 
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because habits don't go away 
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And again, the influence of the 
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Now I don't go around cussing. 
It's just not my thing and I 

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never have. 
But I hear it all the time. 

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I work in a factory. 
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We hear it constantly. 
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time some of those thoughts just
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my head and I'm like wow, wait. 
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it to make sure nothing slips. 
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but it's a constant weight of 
something pushing down on me to 

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constantly be mindful of it and 
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say something that dishonors 
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What you say is it's, I'm not. 
It's not easy to control 

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everything we say, because even 
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verses 7 through 12, for every 
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of serpents and of things in the
sea is tamed and hath been tamed

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to mankind, but the tongue can 
no maintain. 

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It is an unruly evil full of 
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We have to really, really watch 
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There with blessed we God, even 
the Father, and there with curse

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we men, which are made after the
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no matter what type of person 
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as He loves you. 
He died for them as much as He 

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died for you. 
He will save them as much as He 

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saved you. 
We have no right to be cursing 

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somebody else, no matter what 
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Out of the same mouth proceedeth
blessing and cursing, my 

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brethren, these things ought not
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Doth a fountain send forth at 
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bitter. 
Can the fig tree, my brethren, 

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bear olive berries either a vine
figs, So can no fountain, both 

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the old saltwater and fresh. 
You can't claim to be one thing 

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and then be another. 
You can claim to be an olive 

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tree all you want to. 
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going to be really obvious 
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The tongue is a powerful and 
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Left to our own might, we don't 
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it. 
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Holy Ghost, we find the strength
and guidance to speak with grace

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and righteousness. 
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convicting us when our words go 
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And as we grow in Christ, our 
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seasoned with grace. 
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with God, we should notice our 
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longer filled with gossip or 
cursing, lies, tearing others 

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down, or perverted jokes or 
constant negativity. 

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Instead, we should see see it 
filled with what we see. 

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I like Philippians four and 
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I think it's a good filter for 
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Finally, brethren, whatsoever 
things are true, whatsoever 

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things are honest, whatsoever 
things are just, whatsoever 

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things are pure, whatsoever 
things are lovely, whatsoever 

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things are of good report, If 
there be any virtue and if there

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be any praise, think on these 
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Because again, what you 
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words you speak. 
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how we talk to our own self, 
because it's not just about the 

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people around you, it's about 
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Because you do matter. 
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reflect truth, honesty, justice,
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reputation. 
Our speech should carry virtue 

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and be trustworthy to those 
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Foul language, gossip, lies, 
negative talking, perverted 

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jokes, all of it should feel out
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And it should sound out of place
coming from our lips to draw a 

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clear and obvious line in the 
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Because I know some people, and 
I'm not saying anybody here, I 

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just know people in general. 
We want to see how close we can 

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get to something. 
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black and white. 
So I'm going to go ahead and do 

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whatever. 
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wrong. 
I remember thinking as a kid, 

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it's just words. 
What does it matter? 

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It's just, it's just words, you 
know, you could say anything. 

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It's not just words. 
It is words. 

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It is heavy. 
The weight of the word is in its

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meaning and the cultural 
relevance and the words that 

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carry the purpose of cussing or 
cursing do not belong on the 

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lips or in the mind of a 
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It is foul. 
It is dirty. 

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It is meant for one purpose, to 
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And if we're called to be a 
spring of freshwater work, we're

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called to bear holy fruit. 
That kind of language should not

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be coming out of our mouths. 
Gossip is also wrong. 

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As I said, I like the tea, spill
the tea says I love it. 

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It's great. 
But it's wrong because it does 

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nothing but harm both lives and 
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And it's the opposite of what 
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because we are to provoke one 
another to love and to good 

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works and to pray for one 
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prayer. 
It is very very very very 

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difficult to gossip about 
someone that you've been praying

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affectionately and fervently 
for. 

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When someone irks us, we take it
to God in prayer. 

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Not to my Co worker, not to my 
wife, not to my friends, 

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directly to God. 
Sexual jokes are wrong and 

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inappropriate for a follower of 
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Sex is something that is holy 
and wonderful. 

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It's not something to turn into 
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Human culture has always tried 
to make sex casual. 

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However far you want to go back 
into history, you're going to 

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find it. 
It's always the same types of 

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jokes, the same drawings on the 
wall, always the same that 

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doesn't belong in our mind, on 
our lips, or in our habits. 

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Because it's something that has 
been blessed by God for a 

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specific time and place, not 
something to be taken so 

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lightly. 
Speaking negatively contradicts 

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the way God calls us to use our 
words. 

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We have the joy of the Lord 
inside of us. 

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So why do we want to be a Debbie
Downer or a Negative Nancy and 

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mar the image of the joy of 
salvation that we claim to have?

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How can we win souls or 
encourage one another or make a 

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positive impact if they never 
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Lying with the intent to deceive
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White lie, big lies, sin, wrong,
white lies or small lies, have 

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you want to call them, may have 
less impact than a big lie, but 

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it doesn't take away from the 
fact that it's wrong. 

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God is truth and He cannot lie. 
If we have His spirit inside of 

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us, why would we want to 
entertain that thing? 

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He is not now if you have 
recently been saved and God is 

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still working on you continue to
grow. 

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You don't have to be perfect 
right now. 

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Even after all these years, I 
still like I said at the very 

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start, sometimes God catches me 
and I'm like whoa, I've been 

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speaking a way that needs 
corrected. 

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So if you're new at this, 
continue to grow, continue to to

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do better and be encouraged in 
the Lord and let your words and 

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your thoughts continue and 
increasingly glorify him. 

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And if you have been saved for 
some time and you had developed 

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a habit of profane speech, 
Saints, it's time to self 

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reflect and to pray for God's 
help in transforming our words 

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and our heart. 
We live in a culture of vulgar 

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words and casual speaking, Not 
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It's the culture of a lost and 
dying world without a Savior. 

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It's impossible to go through 
life unaffected by it. 

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Yet it is still our 
responsibility to be aware of 

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what we are saying and the 
thoughts we are entertaining and

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to repent when we start to go 
astray. 

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It's easy to get comfortable and
to not realize our words have 

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slipped from holy to profane. 
But now that we are being made 

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aware, we can start to do 
better. 

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Our musicians can go ahead and 
come as I draw to a close. 

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Every single word we speak 
carries power and influence both

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directly and indirectly. 
What we say is I heard only by 

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those we are directly having a 
conversation with. 

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Words have a way of traveling 
the ears that were never close 

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and were never meant to hear 
them. 

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So my question that I've been 
asking myself will my words be a

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weight that drags others down or
further from Christ, or will 

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they be a reflection of Christ 
shining as a light to those who 

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hear me speak? 
When in doubt, we need to ask 

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ourselves and take it seriously,
not as a cliche. 

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What would Jesus say we can 
hear? 

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What would Jesus do? 
All the time? 

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And we kind of think it's silly,
but if we take that seriously, 

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what would he do? 
What would he say? 

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What would he say? 
Would he say these words I'm 

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saying right now? 
Would he make this joke? 

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No. 
I need correction. 

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What? 
What are people going to think 

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if I suddenly stop? 
What are they going to think? 

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If you suddenly start cussing, 
you're not so concerned when you

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start. 
Don't let the fear hold you back

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from correcting yourself. 
You know, I've been a I've done 

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a couple workouts with sister 
Ray. 

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She's very strong, by the way, 
very impressive. 

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And yeah, we were, we were 
finishing up a workout with the 

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AB wheel. 
I'm not good at it. 

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OK. 
Like, it's the strength is 

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there, the endurance is not. 
And it's weird to go from, I'm 

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very confident most exercise. 
I'm lifting hundreds of pounds. 

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I'm dead lifting 550 lbs more 
than once. 

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I'm a very strong dude. 
I'm very confident at the gym 

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and I get to that. 
I will. 

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I'm like, I'm not familiar with 
it. 

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I'm not comfortable with it. 
And I'm going to look ridiculous

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in front of everybody because I 
can't do a full motion with it. 

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I'm just going to have to do 
like little half reps and look 

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pathetic and maybe even sound 
pathetic if I'm grunting from 

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it, you know? 
But I'm not going to get better 

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by avoiding it. 
And Even so, we're not going to 

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improve our speech or our words 
or anything else. 

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If we're so worried about other 
people going to think when we 

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start to change for the better. 
It's OK if people wonder why we 

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changed. 
It's an opportunity because they

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might see that change, whether 
it's changing for the first time

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because you just got saved or 
you're starting a course 

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correction. 
That's a witness because people 

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heard you go from one way and 
now to like, I don't hear you 

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joke like he used to joke, 
whatever. 

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Like what happened? 
Like, well, you know, God's been

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doing a work in me and I just 
want to honor him. 

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And even through that, through 
what was our mistakes, souls can

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be saved. 
Don't be afraid to start over 

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and try to do better. 
I just want God to be glorified 

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in my speech and in my thoughts.
Life isn't about me. 

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What I want, what habits I 
picked up. 

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It's about Him and glorifying 
Him. 

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He saved my soul and changed my 
life. 

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It's my reasonable service to 
let my words honor Him, even 

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when I had to fight old habits. 
As always, this altar is open, 

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open to any who would wish to 
come. 

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If you don't wish to want to 
come, if you want to stay in 

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your seat, that's fine, but I 
encourage you to pray for God to

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help. 
When I think of who He is and 

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all He has done for me, I just 
want to speak and think in a way

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that gives Him all the glory in 
the big moments and the mundane.

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So my prayer is our first verse.
Psalms 1914. 

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God, let the words of my mouth 
and the meditation of my heart 

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be acceptable in thy sight. 
O Lord, my strength when I'm too

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weak to do it myself, and my 
Redeemer who saved my life.

