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Good morning. 
Morning if hey, I wanna I wanna 

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say welcome to all of you. 
If you're new, if you're 

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visiting with U.S. special 
welcome to you. 

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My name is Grant and I'm one of 
the pastors here at the church. 

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And it is it's good to worship 
together. 

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So whether this feels like 
something you've been doing for 

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the entirety of your life or 
whether it's something that is 

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that's kind of brand new, I'm 
I'm glad that you're here. 

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It's good. 
It's good to be together. 

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Thanks guys. 
Perfect. 

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If so, we're going to be in Luke
Chapter 11, and Luke Chapter 11 

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is most of the way through your 
Bibles. 

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And so I just want to say we're 
going to work our way through 

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it. 
I'm not going to read it at the 

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beginning, but we're going to 
land in Luke. 

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We've been working our way 
through the entirety of the 

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Gospel of Luke and we're reading
every single line, every single 

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verse, every single word, and 
really trying to wrestle it out 

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for our own lives, both 
individually, maybe in your 

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household as a family, as a 
church, for us, as a community. 

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What does this mean? 
What does it challenge us into 

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and toward? 
And we're almost halfway 

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through. 
So if you've been here since the

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beginning, you can do a little 
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We're almost halfway through. 
But I think the best thing for 

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you to do is to get in front of 
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I love as we gather, as we're 
able to worship together, to 

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read together. 
And so I'd encourage you to do 

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it. 
I'm going to have it up on the 

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slides here. 
And if you would like a Bible, 

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though, if you want like a real 
physical Bible, we do have those

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hanging at the back of the 
sanctuary over here. 

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And I feel more than welcome to 
get up and go grab one. 

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If you write all over it and 
want to take it home at the end 

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of the day, that's fantastic. 
That's yours, our gift to you. 

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Take it, please. 
I would love to one day realize 

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that we need to buy more Bibles 
because all of our Bibles just 

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walked out the door and that we 
had no more left on that 

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trolley. 
So we love that for you. 

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But Luke Chapter 11, find it on 
your phones, find it on a tablet

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or read along with us on the 
screens. 

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But let me pray as we begin. 
God, thanks for your love. 

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Thanks for your grace. 
Thank you that you're with us. 

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Yeah, I'm grateful. 
I'm grateful that you in your 

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wisdom, choose to call us into 
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not into loneliness. 
We got into meaningful 

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relationship. 
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relationship is with you and 
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So, yeah, as we look 
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and how it might change our 
relationship to you and our 

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relationship with others, God, I
do pray that you would challenge

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us, kind of break down anything 
inside of us that needs to be 

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broken down, build up and 
encourage us in the places where

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we need to be encouraged. 
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you're gonna do this today as we
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it means for our lives. 
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what you're going to do, what 
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Jesus name, Amen. 
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prayer and I've shared this 
story a couple of times in 

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different places and spaces. 
And so it may not be a new story

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for you and I think that's OK. 
But a few years ago, this was 

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years, this was a few years 
before I landed here, I was 

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asked by someone to meet and 
this is how that e-mail went. 

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It usually how these emails go 
said, hey, Grant, can we meet? 

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I need to talk to you about 
something period. 

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And it gave a few times and 
suggestions about when we could 

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meet and you know, location 
coffee shops that we could go, 

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but that was it. 
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you receive those emails, you 
know what that like that could 

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be anything, right? 
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like, what is this about? 
What are we going to talk about?

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What we need to like, what did I
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What do we need to meet about? 
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had this request. 
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at a local coffee shop and we 
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small talk thing, like, how's it
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How's your family? 
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And then we got to the point in 
the conversation where I said, I

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still don't know why we're here,
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And I just simply said, hey, 
what is it that you want to talk

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about? 
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conversation, you just have to 
name the thing, why are we here?

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thing. 
Let's not talk about the surface

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level things. 
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matters. 
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meeting with, he paused. 
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said to me, after a few seconds 
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think I know how to pray. 
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sharing that super vulnerable, 
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And you gotta keep in mind like 
this is somebody who was active 

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in the church, like he was a 
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the church, spent many, many 
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alongside other faithful members
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praying together, praying out 
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And still got to a point in his 
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and thought about it and 
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that I know how to pray. 
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pray in the way I feel I should 
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Or I am called to or would like 
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And maybe that's not dissimilar 
to how you feel in certain 

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seasons, maybe even in this 
season, like you don't know how 

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to do the thing that you want to
do that you feel you ought to 

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need to are led and called to 
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Like you might not know how to 
pray prayer when you get to 

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simply like the base value heart
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That's it. 
Prayer is talking with God and 

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we all do it or need to do it at
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life. 
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prayers of the grandma who rises
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every single day. 
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unfamiliar kind of awkward 
prayers of the father whose kid 

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is sick in the hospital. 
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the thing that he knows he needs
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Whether it's doubt filled, angry
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you've lost somebody significant
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When a relationship goes 
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now navigate and figure out, all
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need to pray and where we do 
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I think the problem is that for 
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long. 
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contemplative life, this slowed 
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really wrestling with the deep 
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and our soul and our body and 
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with others. 
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that it takes a moment of crisis
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where we then need to pray. 
Something has to happen in order

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to push us into a place of 
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Because I don't know about you, 
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were really good at running from
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with others. 
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that are so busy or so numbed, 
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that it takes something 
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place of prayer. 
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Ronald Rolheiser writes, we end 
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who are not very deep, he says. 
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Not lacking in soul, just 
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Not disdaining depth, just 
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And prayer takes practice. 
So I Thomas Merton says if you 

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want a life of prayer, the way 
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There's there's no magic 
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this, then not say these words 
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Absolutely you will understand 
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The only way to do it is simply 
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Jesus we see all throughout the 
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We've seen it already in the 
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He lives a life of prayer. 
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out of these moments. 
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with Jesus moving into quiet 
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And at the beginning of every 
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see happening in Jesus's life 
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see him moving into a time of 
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He prays and then he goes 
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heard one person say Jesus gets 
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Prayer keeps him close to the 
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Prayer for Jesus is where he 
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It's where his own identity was 
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It's where he steps into all of 
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the Father, and that's how he 
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the will of God all throughout 
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And so it's not surprising to me
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prayer as rising out of his own 
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It says now Jesus was praying in
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finished praying, so the ciples 
wait, one of his disciples said 

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to him, Lord, teach us to pray 
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It's out of Jesus's own prayer 
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own life of examining himself 
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go, Hey Jesus, can you teach us 
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Can you teach us to pray like 
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There's something about the way 
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For starters, the disciples see 
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They're witness to it. 
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one of his disciples then says, 
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Give us the same language, 
Jesus, that you have. 

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Give us the same posture that 
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Whatever it is, whatever this is
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witnessed, God would you give us
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I tried buying my shirts Blue 
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girls Blue Jays shirts this week
and that wasn't possible or easy

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at all. 
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Yeah, World Series. 
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not the right time to go out and
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your kids. 
I looked online, I looked in 

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stores. 
There were shirts available, but

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I wasn't willing to price there 
to pay the price that they that 

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they cost. 
I couldn't, I couldn't find them

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for starters. 
I just couldn't find anything 

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anywhere. 
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shirts, they were just, I wasn't
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them. 
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wear a shirt or a jersey. 
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you go out to buy a shirt. 
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shirt for your kids because at 
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is meant to identify you with 
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As a fan of the team, with the 
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Like, so there's something about
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know why we do this, but we say 
when the sports team wins, like,

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well, we just, we did it. 
We did it. 

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Like what? 
We, I wasn't involved. 

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I'd like that's not the wheel 
I'm talking about, but the 

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listen, the jersey identifies 
you with the team and, and 

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really like at the end of the 
day, that's what Jesus is 

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disciples are asking him for. 
That's what I want us to see 

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here. 
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Christian, a person becomes a 
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life has changed. 
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and it's not just on some days. 
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All of life has changed all of 
the time, and so this request, 

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Lord teach us to pray is a very 
specific request because I hope 

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you notice this. 
He says teach us to pray as John

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taught his disciples. 
So it's a very specific ask. 

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They're not asking Jesus just to
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They're asking for something 
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Teach us to pray as John taught 
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They're asking for a team 
jersey. 

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They're asking Jesus to give 
them a prayer that would 

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identify them uniquely and 
specifically as Jesus's 

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followers. 
They're not just asking for some

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generic prayer that will maybe 
get them to a place that they're

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not already at. 
They are asking for Jesus to 

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give them very specifically his 
prayer as their rabbi, as their 

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teacher that they could then 
live into, and a prayer that 

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would form them and shape them 
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Jewish rabbis would teach their 
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it was common. 
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disciple belonged to based on 
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And so John taught his disciples
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People would know who's John 
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They would know who they were 
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this prayer that John taught 
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Specific prayers that linked 
students, disciples to rabbis, 

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teachers. 
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they prayed and the words that 
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disciple, who their teacher was.
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they're really asking for is for
Jesus to teach them to pray in a

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way that would identify them 
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They're not asking Jesus to 
teach them to pray like John 

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taught his disciples to pray, as
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disciples. 
They're saying, Jesus give us a 

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unique voice and a unique prayer
that will show people that we 

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belong to you, that we are 
yours. 

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That's what their ask is. 
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Jesus Christians. 
You, Christian, are those who 

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are formed by prayer. 
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identified in the way they pray 
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a community. 
We are a community that is and 

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needs to continually be shaped 
and formed by the way Jesus 

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prayed and how he taught us to 
pray. 

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Because it's through repetition 
of the prayer and its messages, 

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they get ahold of our hearts and
our minds and they shape the 

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decisions we make and the lives 
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themselves on us as a community.
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taught his disciples to pray and
the prayer that Christians have 

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said now for centuries, the 
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as followers of Jesus, we become
more of that prayer as we pray 

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it. 
Henry Nowen calls prayer the 

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breadth of your life. 
It is what gives you life. 

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Again, I want us to notice that 
the entire conversation rises 

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out of not Jesus deciding to 
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Jesus is praying life. 
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question to ask yourself is 
simply, is prayer the breath of 

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my life? 
Like what gives me life? 

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Jesus was praying in a certain 
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Prayer is where God challenges 
you and where God convicts you. 

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Prayer is where God heals and 
restores you. 

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Prayer is where God longs to 
meet you in the midst of your 

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hurt and your healing. 
It's where you can work out the 

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deepest things of your heart and
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It's where you workout the loss 
that you've experienced and the 

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ongoing pain of sadness and 
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It's where you work out and 
wrestle with the relationship 

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that is sideways and you don't 
quite know how it got there or 

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how to move forward. 
It's where you can wrestle out 

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and experience forgiveness that 
you need to receive, and it's 

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where you are challenged to give
the forgiveness that you need to

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go and hand out and live into. 
It's where we wrestle with. 

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It's where we face the false 
sense of self that twists our 

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understanding of who you are, 
who I am, and who God is. 

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That's how we understand who we 
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And the wonderful thing about 
prayer is that Jesus gives us a 

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pattern to follow. 
Anyone can do it. 

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Anyone can pray at any moment 
and Jesus gives you words to 

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utter when you don't know what 
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Jesus says start here. 
Pray these words, and so he said

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to them. 
When you pray, say, Father 

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hallowed, be your name, your 
Kingdom come give us each day 

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Our Daily Bread, and forgive us 
our sins, for we ourselves 

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forgive everyone who is indebted
to us, and lead us not into 

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temptation. 
Now that prayer might be a 

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little bit different then the 
prayer that you are used to 

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saying. 
Matthew's version is longer. 

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If Matthew's version is like 
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this is like the Ted Talk 
version where it's like right to

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the point. 
He's gotta stay on time and he's

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quick, but I want us to see 
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Father hallowed be your name, 
she says. 

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Halo, make Holy Honor the name 
of God to how something simply 

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means to declare that it is 
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Now, I don't know about you, but
God definitely doesn't need me 

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to declare him holy. 
There's nothing like there's 

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nothing changing about God when 
I decide to declare that Jesus 

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is holy. 
I like, I'm not that great. 

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What happens, though, when we 
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forced to speak for myself when 
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When I make God's name holy, I 
am forced to face the ways and 

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places and times in my own life 
when I have not made God's name 

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holy or when I have profaned the
name of God. 

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My declaration changes nothing 
about who God is, but it does 

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change how I approach God to 
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This prayer requires me to 
confront what is going on in my 

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heart and my mind and and the 
ways in my life that have not 

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honored God in His Holiness. 
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God, make me aware of your 
holiness. 

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Keep me open to your presence, 
which is all around me. 

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Give me eyes to see you at work 
in the world. 

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Help me to remember the 
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who you are. 
And help me to forget a little 

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bit the greatness I think I can 
claim to have and hold on to, he

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says. 
Father, hallowed be your name, 

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your Kingdom come. 
To declare God's Kingdom come is

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to declare that my own Kingdom 
has to die, right? 

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This is a prayer of surrender. 
This is a part of surrender into

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the hands of God and His coming 
Kingdom is to say I'm not gonna 

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build my own little Kingdom. 
It's to say I'm not gonna pursue

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my own greatness in little ways.
It's to say, God, your Kingdom 

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come, I'm all in on your 
Kingdom. 

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Help me to forget the ways I 
still try to claim and take hold

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of and put stake in my own 
little ways of brokenness in an 

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attempt to make myself greater 
than I am or ought to be. 

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Your Kingdom come, we pray. 
God, allow what I do today to be

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in line with your Kingdom and 
not mine. 

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Allow people to experience more 
of who you are and how I am. 

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Would people see me act not out 
of selfish ambition, but with 

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humility and grace, like we pray
God your Kingdom come give us 

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this day, Our Daily Bread. 
Jesus continues. 

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He says listen as you learn to 
surrender, you also learn what 

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it means to depend on another. 
Jesus's prayer reminds his 

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followers not to take an extra 
shirt or spare change for the 

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road, but to go with urgency and
to trust that God will provide 

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what you need. 
This prayer prays every single 

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day in words that I love. 
God, give me today what I need 

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for today. 
Help me to stay present to 

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myself and to others and to you.
God. 

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Would you give me what I need? 
Yes, like physically bred for my

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body but also for my soul. 
How would you speak to me? 

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Would you meet me in the moment 
of this day and would you give 

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me just what I need for today? 
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Forgive us our sins as we 
forgive everyone who is indebted

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to us and we pray. 
God, remind me of my need. 

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Remind me of my need to be 
forgiven. 

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Help me not to just keep 
forgiveness at arms length out 

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there with everybody who I need 
to go and forgive because 

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they've wronged me. 
Helped me to 1st recognize that 

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I need to be forgiven and then 
help me to experience Your grace

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and Your Mercy. 
Remind me of my forgiveness so 

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that I can live out of that same
place of grace and mercy and 

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forgive others. 
Help the way I am to be rooted 

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in Your grace and not my own. 
Doling out of forgiveness over 

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here but not over here and 
holding on to grudge here and 

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then offering grace here. 
How would you remind me of how 

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badly I need to be forgiven? 
And then you concludes here, and

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lead us not into temptation. 
Finally, says God, keep me in 

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step with your spirit, Keep me 
in step with your will, Keep me 

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in step with your life and your 
love and not my own desire. 

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Help me not to slip mindlessly 
into evil. 

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Help me to be freed from fear. 
Help me to live released. 

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Jesus says when you pray, when 
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And I gotta tell you, on the one
hand, I I say, if you don't know

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where to pray or how to pray or 
where to start, pray these words

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verbatim. 
Start by reading them every 

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single day. 
Try to do it today and then 

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tomorrow try to do it today and 
the next day try to do it today.

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And she says pray this pattern. 
Live into this pattern of prayer

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and then eventually find your 
own words. 

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Eventually make it such a part 
of who you are and how you are 

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and how you are before God that 
your own words flow out of this 

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same prayer. 
When you pray, pray this 

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pattern, pray like this. 
Follow these words. 

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Allow them to define you and to 
change you. 

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And one of the things that I 
don't ever want you or us to 

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forgive is this, he says. 
Give us. 

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Forgive us for we ourselves. 
Forgive everyone who's in debt. 

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Lead us not. 
This is a prayer that will 

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forever link you and bind you 
and shape you and form you 

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inside of community. 
And it's a prayer that you pray 

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alongside and with every other 
follower of Jesus who has ever 

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prayed it. 
Give us, Forgive us. 

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Jesus says when you pray, pray 
like this, follow this pattern, 

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use these words. 
But then he continues because he

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doesn't just give the disciples 
words to memorize and recite. 

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It's not just a + b = C equation
for Jesus. 

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It's not just when you get to 
the end. 

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Lead us not into temptation. 
Period. 

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You will be a master of prayer. 
He gives them a posture with 

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which to pray. 
He challenges them how they 

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ought to be as they approach 
God. 

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When the disciples asked Jesus 
to teach them to pray, they're 

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also asking them to teach them 
how to pray like Jesus prayed. 

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As in, they see something in him
that is different. 

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And we have to remember the 
disciples weren't rookies at 

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prayer. 
They're not like, this isn't 

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like, oh, well, Jesus, we've 
been seeing you do this thing 

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and you call that prayer for a 
little while now. 

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Like, would you, could you just 
teach us how to do that? 

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Like the disciples have 
memorized Jewish prayers since 

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their childhood, and they have 
been reciting those prayers 

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since their childhood. 
They were in their own rights, 

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masters of prayer, and yet they 
still see something in Jesus 

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that is so different that they 
say, Jesus, teach us to pray 

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like that. 
Give us that same posture, that 

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same heart that you have, 
whatever that is. 

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Would you show us that? 
And so maybe like you, maybe you

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feel to some sense like you've 
plateaued in your prayer life or

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that like you've peaked or that 
you've hit a rut or that you're,

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you know, you're doing the same 
thing, but it all just feels 

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rote or like maybe at worst, you
feel like you've mastered prayer

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and you're not quite sure what 
to do next. 

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Jesus continues. 
He says to them this Which of 

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you who has a friend will go to 
him at midnight and say to him, 

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Friend, lend ME3 loaves. 
For a friend of mine has arrived

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on a journey and I have nothing 
to set before him and he will 

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answer from within. 
Do not bother me. 

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The door is now shut and my 
children are with me in bed. 

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I cannot get up and give you 
anything. 

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I tell you though, he will not 
get up and give him anything 

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because he is a friend. 
Yet because of your shameless 

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audacity, he will rise and give 
him whatever he needs. 

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And I tell you, ask and it will 
be given to you. 

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Seek and you will find knock and
it will be open to you. 

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For everyone who asks receives, 
and the one who seeks fines, and

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to the one who knocks, it will 
be opened. 

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Jesus says more than a pattern, 
more than words to pray. 

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The posture of prayer that we 
are to live into is 1 of 

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boldness and persistent prayer. 
Jesus says pray boldly, and he 

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says pray persistently. 
Shameless audacity. 

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Now I've got to admit that I 
come to this line and I hear 2 

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very different things echoing in
my ears. 

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I feel attention when I read 
this and when I really ask 

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myself whether or not I pray in 
this way. 

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And in the one year I hear 
echoing people like Kierkegaard 

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who said the function of prayer 
is not to influence God, but 

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rather to change the nature of 
the one who prays. 

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And so I say thank you. 
It's not about influencing God. 

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It's about changing me. 
OK, God change me. 

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But then on the other side, in 
my other ear, I hear people like

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Karl Bart, who writes God is not
Deaf, He listens. 

448
00:29:39,480 --> 00:29:42,930
More than that, he acts. 
He does not act in the same way.

449
00:29:42,940 --> 00:29:46,840
Whether we pray or not, prayer 
exerts an influence upon God's 

450
00:29:46,850 --> 00:29:50,350
action, even upon his existence.
That is what the word answer 

451
00:29:50,400 --> 00:29:55,940
means. 
And so I sit here and I go, 

452
00:29:55,950 --> 00:29:59,970
Which is it? 
Is prayer about God exerting 

453
00:29:59,980 --> 00:30:03,170
influence on me? 
Or when I pray, am I actually 

454
00:30:03,180 --> 00:30:07,950
changing what God would do? 
Sometimes my prayers are 

455
00:30:07,960 --> 00:30:11,700
answered. 
Sometimes my prayers aren't 

456
00:30:11,710 --> 00:30:15,670
answered, at least not in the 
way that I would have liked or 

457
00:30:15,680 --> 00:30:21,240
hoped or longed for. 
And I know that I don't need to 

458
00:30:21,250 --> 00:30:24,030
ask you if you've ever had a 
prayer feel like it's gone 

459
00:30:24,040 --> 00:30:28,520
unanswered or if you know the 
pain of a prayer that's answered

460
00:30:28,530 --> 00:30:34,140
in the way that you didn't want.
And so maybe you feel a little 

461
00:30:34,150 --> 00:30:36,960
bit like me and you come back to
this verse and you struggle to 

462
00:30:36,970 --> 00:30:39,340
read this line. 
Ask and it will be given to you.

463
00:30:39,350 --> 00:30:42,320
Seek and you will find knock and
it will be open to you because 

464
00:30:42,330 --> 00:30:48,240
you say in your own prayer, God,
you said, and I gotta tell you 

465
00:30:48,250 --> 00:30:52,680
like I've prayed these spurs got
you said that you give good 

466
00:30:52,690 --> 00:30:57,110
things and good gifts like you. 
You're the one who does. 

467
00:30:58,200 --> 00:31:00,530
You said seek. 
You said breed persistent. 

468
00:31:00,540 --> 00:31:03,330
You said that we will find. 
You said that doors were gonna 

469
00:31:03,340 --> 00:31:07,880
be opened. 
God, you said ask and you'll 

470
00:31:07,890 --> 00:31:14,050
receive and I'm asking over and 
over again and it feels like 

471
00:31:14,060 --> 00:31:17,450
you're not answering it in the 
way that in the way that I'm 

472
00:31:17,460 --> 00:31:24,660
hoping for. 
You said everyone does my 

473
00:31:24,670 --> 00:31:26,290
prayer. 
Maybe this thought has gone 

474
00:31:26,300 --> 00:31:28,460
through your mind. 
Does my prayer even matter to 

475
00:31:28,470 --> 00:31:33,820
God? 
Like, why am I gonna pray if 

476
00:31:33,830 --> 00:31:36,640
you're just gonna disappoint me 
and let me down anyway? 

477
00:31:39,610 --> 00:31:44,860
And, and in some beautiful and 
complex way that I can't ever 

478
00:31:44,870 --> 00:31:50,860
hope to explain to you, the 
answer to those questions are 

479
00:31:50,870 --> 00:31:55,910
both yes. 
Does our prayer influence God? 

480
00:31:57,480 --> 00:32:01,510
Yeah, sometimes. 
Does it change me? 

481
00:32:02,240 --> 00:32:06,060
Hopefully all the time. 
Yeah, it does. 

482
00:32:07,670 --> 00:32:12,720
And that's the tension that we 
are challenged to live into. 

483
00:32:14,740 --> 00:32:17,550
That's what I need prayer to do 
in my life. 

484
00:32:19,040 --> 00:32:24,800
I need prayer to challenge me. 
I I need prayer to be the place 

485
00:32:24,810 --> 00:32:28,170
where I surrender my will in 
favour of God's will. 

486
00:32:28,240 --> 00:32:30,940
I need prayer to be the place 
where I commit to building God's

487
00:32:30,950 --> 00:32:34,070
Kingdom and not my Kingdom, 
where I'm brought out of 

488
00:32:34,080 --> 00:32:38,250
alignment with my own desires 
and into alignment with God's 

489
00:32:38,260 --> 00:32:40,420
heart for compassion and 
humanity. 

490
00:32:40,460 --> 00:32:43,380
Humility. 
Like I need prayer to change me.

491
00:32:43,390 --> 00:32:46,650
And you need prayer to be the 
place where God confronts you 

492
00:32:46,720 --> 00:32:51,320
and changes you, and where you 
wrestle out the deepest things 

493
00:32:51,330 --> 00:32:59,710
of your heart and your soul. 
And God's design is also that 

494
00:32:59,720 --> 00:33:01,490
you would be a coworker with 
him. 

495
00:33:02,890 --> 00:33:09,080
God likes to be asked. 
God doesn't need our wisdom or 

496
00:33:09,090 --> 00:33:12,040
knowledge or even the 
information that we bring to 

497
00:33:12,050 --> 00:33:15,960
prayer as we pray, But God 
invites us into relationship. 

498
00:33:15,970 --> 00:33:20,100
And that's the beautiful thing 
about prayer is God is inviting 

499
00:33:20,110 --> 00:33:23,180
you into relationship. 
He's not waiting for you to ask.

500
00:33:23,190 --> 00:33:25,700
I'm like, well, I'm just gonna 
hold off and see what they do. 

501
00:33:25,810 --> 00:33:30,560
God longs to have you drawn into
a relationship of intimacy with 

502
00:33:30,570 --> 00:33:35,240
Him, where you're known and 
where you know God. 

503
00:33:36,800 --> 00:33:39,540
And it's there. 
It's inside of that partnership 

504
00:33:39,550 --> 00:33:43,570
that God draws you into, that he
involves you in the coming of 

505
00:33:43,580 --> 00:33:49,970
His Kingdom. 
And so we pray we watched a 

506
00:33:49,980 --> 00:33:52,890
video about Alpha, which I would
highly recommend anybody and 

507
00:33:52,900 --> 00:33:55,610
everybody who can come out for 
those life groups. 

508
00:33:55,620 --> 00:33:59,800
But Nikki Gumbel, I once heard 
say, and we were talking about 

509
00:33:59,810 --> 00:34:03,730
this this week, say that 
essentially we we listen 

510
00:34:03,740 --> 00:34:06,770
sometimes. 
Sometimes God answers our 

511
00:34:06,780 --> 00:34:10,840
prayers in the way that we want,
and sometimes He doesn't. 

512
00:34:11,650 --> 00:34:13,860
Sometimes people are healed, 
sometimes they're not. 

513
00:34:15,100 --> 00:34:17,690
Sometimes people are restored to
life, sometimes they die. 

514
00:34:18,590 --> 00:34:21,800
Sometimes God shows up exactly 
how you were longing for, and 

515
00:34:21,810 --> 00:34:23,670
sometimes it feels like he's 
absent. 

516
00:34:24,969 --> 00:34:28,400
But sometimes he does. 
And so we're gonna keep on 

517
00:34:28,409 --> 00:34:30,940
asking. 
That's his line. 

518
00:34:31,489 --> 00:34:36,489
Sometimes he does, and so we're 
gonna keep on asking. 

519
00:34:37,500 --> 00:34:41,980
See a better translation of this
line for the Everyone who asks 

520
00:34:41,989 --> 00:34:44,670
receives and the one who seeks 
finds the one who knocks, it 

521
00:34:44,679 --> 00:34:48,530
will be opened. 
And this I tell you, Ask, seek 

522
00:34:48,630 --> 00:34:52,400
and knock. 
A better translation would 

523
00:34:52,409 --> 00:34:57,430
actually be keep on asking, and 
there's a whole lot of great 

524
00:34:57,440 --> 00:34:59,740
reasons why that's the case, and
I'm not going to get into them 

525
00:34:59,750 --> 00:35:05,520
because they're boring. 
But each of these verbs were 

526
00:35:05,530 --> 00:35:10,420
meant to see not as a past 
action, not as something that is

527
00:35:10,430 --> 00:35:15,470
completed, not as a A + B = C K 
and you will find period. 

528
00:35:16,150 --> 00:35:20,330
What Jesus is saying is keep on 
asking. 

529
00:35:20,680 --> 00:35:24,670
It's a present action that 
continues forever until 

530
00:35:24,740 --> 00:35:26,850
Infinity. 
Keep on asking. 

531
00:35:27,220 --> 00:35:30,000
Keep on seeking. 
Keep on knocking. 

532
00:35:30,980 --> 00:35:33,700
God's not asking for you to say 
the right words and then you 

533
00:35:33,710 --> 00:35:35,900
know, so that you can finally 
dole out the answer that you've 

534
00:35:35,910 --> 00:35:39,550
been waiting for. 
God is inviting you to pursue a 

535
00:35:39,560 --> 00:35:44,110
relationship with Jesus, to 
continue to wrestle things out 

536
00:35:44,120 --> 00:35:46,940
in prayer, to do what Paul says 
when he writes pray without 

537
00:35:46,950 --> 00:35:49,420
ceasing. 
To be persistent and to be bold,

538
00:35:49,490 --> 00:35:52,860
and to approach God and to 
continue to do it over and over 

539
00:35:52,870 --> 00:35:54,940
and over again. 
And in the rhythms of life. 

540
00:35:54,950 --> 00:35:58,640
As you are persistent and as you
are bold and as you are asking 

541
00:35:58,650 --> 00:36:01,490
and as you are seeking and as 
you are knocking. 

542
00:36:01,670 --> 00:36:04,440
To determine whether God is 
changing you or whether God is 

543
00:36:04,450 --> 00:36:06,700
answering your prayer. 
And in it to explore, to find 

544
00:36:06,710 --> 00:36:10,260
out what you're being invited 
into and to see how God will 

545
00:36:10,270 --> 00:36:14,870
change you and how God will 
answer your prayer. 

546
00:36:16,950 --> 00:36:21,640
Last point, I promise as we wrap
up Jesus ends like this. 

547
00:36:21,650 --> 00:36:25,020
He says what father among you, 
if his son asks for a fish, will

548
00:36:25,030 --> 00:36:27,380
instead of a fish give him a 
serpent or snake? 

549
00:36:27,390 --> 00:36:30,300
In some translations, if you ask
for an egg, will you give him a 

550
00:36:30,310 --> 00:36:33,260
scorpion? 
If you then, who are evil, know 

551
00:36:33,270 --> 00:36:37,930
how to give good gifts to your 
children, how much more will the

552
00:36:37,940 --> 00:36:44,040
Heavenly Father give the Holy 
Spirit to those who ask Him? 

553
00:36:45,610 --> 00:36:50,280
How much more? 
How much more will God? 

554
00:36:51,720 --> 00:36:54,330
So what Jesus wants you to see 
is that the heart of God is 1 of

555
00:36:54,340 --> 00:36:59,120
generosity toward you. 
God is generous with you and 

556
00:36:59,130 --> 00:37:04,080
longs to be and to continue to 
be generous with you. 

557
00:37:04,470 --> 00:37:08,610
These sorts of thought 
experiments in the Bible, and 

558
00:37:08,620 --> 00:37:10,580
especially when Jesus is playing
with them. 

559
00:37:10,590 --> 00:37:13,140
What Father among you? 
If a son asks for a fish like, 

560
00:37:13,150 --> 00:37:15,040
of course not. 
That's the implication here. 

561
00:37:15,050 --> 00:37:17,870
Of course not. 
Of course you would never do 

562
00:37:17,880 --> 00:37:20,380
that. 
Of course the father's never 

563
00:37:20,390 --> 00:37:25,040
gonna give a hungry kid a 
serpent instead of a fish like, 

564
00:37:25,050 --> 00:37:27,890
or a scorpion instead of an egg 
like. 

565
00:37:27,900 --> 00:37:33,830
Of course they're gonna give 
what the kid needs, and the turn

566
00:37:33,840 --> 00:37:41,420
is for you to wrestle with. 
How much more will God give you 

567
00:37:41,510 --> 00:37:48,280
the Holy Spirit as you seek, as 
you ask, as you knock, as you 

568
00:37:48,290 --> 00:37:51,180
pursue intimate intimacy with 
Jesus? 

569
00:37:52,420 --> 00:37:55,760
The gift of the Holy Spirit is 
what connects us to Jesus. 

570
00:37:56,780 --> 00:38:00,110
It's the Holy Spirit that leads 
and empowers Jesus in his 

571
00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:01,750
ministry. 
And it's the Holy Spirit that 

572
00:38:01,760 --> 00:38:05,590
leads and empowers you. 
And it takes us all the way back

573
00:38:05,600 --> 00:38:07,170
to the beginning with the 
disciples. 

574
00:38:07,180 --> 00:38:10,800
First, ask Jesus. 
Teach us to pray because they 

575
00:38:10,810 --> 00:38:13,970
see Jesus praying in the power 
of the Holy Spirit. 

576
00:38:15,910 --> 00:38:18,550
What is going to allow you to 
pray like Jesus? 

577
00:38:19,650 --> 00:38:20,980
It's the gift of the Holy 
Spirit. 

578
00:38:21,840 --> 00:38:24,630
What should you ask of God in 
prayer and pursue? 

579
00:38:24,640 --> 00:38:26,310
It's the gift of the Holy 
Spirit. 

580
00:38:26,320 --> 00:38:29,530
And what is God gracious to 
give? 

581
00:38:29,800 --> 00:38:34,020
How much more will God give the 
Holy Spirit? 

582
00:38:36,410 --> 00:38:41,450
Fred Craddock says Without the 
Holy Spirit there was not there 

583
00:38:41,460 --> 00:38:48,100
is not the Church. 
And so God is gracious, and he 

584
00:38:48,110 --> 00:38:52,250
gives the Holy Spirit to those 
who ask him. 

585
00:38:54,260 --> 00:38:56,910
We're going to do something 
different than we've done in my 

586
00:38:56,920 --> 00:39:01,560
time here, and we're gonna pray 
together at the end of this 

587
00:39:01,570 --> 00:39:07,870
sermon, the Lord's Prayer. 
Only here's the awkwardness for 

588
00:39:07,880 --> 00:39:12,110
you, you who has been in the 
church for many, many, many, 

589
00:39:12,120 --> 00:39:15,270
many, many a year and has prayed
the Lord's Prayer many, many, 

590
00:39:15,280 --> 00:39:18,640
many times. 
We're gonna pray Luke's version 

591
00:39:18,810 --> 00:39:21,680
of the Lord's Prayer. 
And so whether this is the first

592
00:39:21,690 --> 00:39:24,700
time you're speaking these words
out loud or wrestling them out 

593
00:39:24,710 --> 00:39:27,380
in your heart and in your mind, 
or whether you have prayed this 

594
00:39:27,450 --> 00:39:33,660
for many years in community and 
alone before God, I want us to 

595
00:39:33,670 --> 00:39:36,590
just slow down and read these 
words together. 

596
00:39:37,550 --> 00:39:40,730
And you're going to have to 
resist the the urge to continue 

597
00:39:41,470 --> 00:39:45,140
and to finish it and to make it 
tidy like Matthew does. 

598
00:39:45,210 --> 00:39:51,020
It hangs and it lingers, and 
that's OK because actually what 

599
00:39:51,030 --> 00:39:53,840
I want it to do is hang and 
linger with you as you leave 

600
00:39:53,850 --> 00:39:58,880
today and as you continue into 
tomorrow and the days ahead. 

601
00:39:59,310 --> 00:40:03,680
My prayer is actually that it 
would feel so unfinished that 

602
00:40:03,690 --> 00:40:07,720
you would continue to pray it. 
Over and over and over again. 

603
00:40:08,500 --> 00:40:11,660
And so I'm gonna pray. 
And then during the prayer, I'm 

604
00:40:11,670 --> 00:40:13,610
going to make it abundantly 
clear, we're going to pray this 

605
00:40:13,620 --> 00:40:16,890
together and invite you to open 
your eyes, look at the screen. 

606
00:40:16,900 --> 00:40:19,430
Please read this as we pray 
together. 

607
00:40:19,500 --> 00:40:21,750
God, thank you for your love and
your grace. 

608
00:40:22,200 --> 00:40:24,370
Thank you that you are gracious 
and generous with us. 

609
00:40:24,380 --> 00:40:27,410
God, thanks that you have so 
much more for us than we could 

610
00:40:27,420 --> 00:40:28,590
hope for. 
Imagine. 

611
00:40:28,600 --> 00:40:30,920
And yet we need to wrestle out 
exactly what that is. 

612
00:40:31,920 --> 00:40:37,950
And so God in prayer, I, I do 
pray for us as a community and 

613
00:40:37,960 --> 00:40:42,120
for each person here, that we 
would find ourselves drawn to a 

614
00:40:42,130 --> 00:40:45,980
place of prayer. 
And in that place, we would find

615
00:40:45,990 --> 00:40:51,030
more of who you are and more of 
who you've called us to be. 

616
00:40:52,850 --> 00:40:58,110
And so God, as we prayed these 
words, I pray, God, challenge 

617
00:40:58,120 --> 00:41:01,770
us, encourage us, convict us, 
change us, shape us, make us 

618
00:41:01,780 --> 00:41:10,660
yours for your namesake. 
And so we pray together these 

619
00:41:10,670 --> 00:41:18,330
words, Father hallowed, be your 
name, your Kingdom come, give us

620
00:41:18,400 --> 00:41:24,430
each day Our Daily Bread, and 
forgive us our sins, for we 

621
00:41:24,490 --> 00:41:30,050
ourselves forgive everyone who 
is indebted to us, and lead us 

622
00:41:30,060 --> 00:41:33,250
not into temptation. 
Amen. 

623
00:41:33,960 --> 00:41:34,320
Amen.
