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Good morning. 
Good morning. 

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For those who don't know me, my 
name is Justin. 

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I'm on the pastors here for 
rights. 

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And for those who are new, we 
have been working through the 

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book of Luke, the Gospel of 
Luke. 

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We've been doing it slowly and 
deliberately, allowing us to get

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the broader sense of all that's 
happening in this entire book, 

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but also looking at a very micro
level at each passage and what 

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God is saying through each of 
these sections. 

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Now, if you participated in our 
community Bible study this past 

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week, we had a pretty intense 
passage to go through. 

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You would have had you would 
have had a chance to process the

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complexities of a passage like 
this. 

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It's simple, but it's also very 
difficult. 

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It's easy to understand, but 
it's perhaps perhaps the hardest

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passage in the entirety of 
Scripture to actually live out. 

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And we get to talk about that 
today. 

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So I'm excited. 
I'm going to pray and then we're

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going to read the passage 
together. 

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So, gracious God, as we turn to 
Your Word for us, may the Spirit

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of God rest upon us in this 
place. 

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Help us to be steadfast in our 
hearing, in our speaking, in our

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believing, and in our living. 
Amen. 

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So Luke chapter 6 starting at 
verse 27. 

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But to those who are listening I
say love your enemies, do good 

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to those who hate you, bless 
those who curse you, and pray 

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for those who mistreat you. 
If someone slaps you on one 

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cheek, turn to them the other. 
Also if someone takes your coat,

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do not withhold your shirt from 
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Give to everyone who asks you 
and if anyone takes what belongs

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to you, do not demand it back. 
Do to others as you would have 

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them do to you. 
If you love those who love you, 

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what credit is that to you? 
Even sinners love who love them.

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And if you do good to those who 
do good to, who are good to you,

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what credit is that to you? 
Even sinners do that. 

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And if you lend to those from 
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credit is that to you? 
Even sinners lend to sinners, 

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expecting to be repaid in full. 
But love your enemies, do good 

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to them, and lend to them 
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anything back. 
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and you will be children of the 
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the ungrateful and the wicked. 
Be merciful just as your Father 

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is merciful. 
Friends, this is the word of the

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Lord. 
Thanks be to God. 

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So like I said, this is simple 
to understand. 

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There are lots of passages where
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bit opaque, a little hard to 
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Not this one. 
We should all walk away with a 

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pretty clear understanding of 
what Jesus intends for us. 

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But if the history of my life, 
of your life, and the history of

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Christianity more broadly is 
true, is any indication, the 

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simple command given here is the
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And he writes, says it this way.
He says there are two 

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particularly astonishing things 
about these instructions. 

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First, their simplicity. 
As we've said, they are obvious,

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clear, direct, and memorable. 
Second, there's scarcity. 

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How many people do you know who 
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How many communities do you know
where these guidelines are, the 

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rules of life? 
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Has God changed or have we 
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That stung when I first read 
that and still does so well. 

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There are some questions from 
some important questions that we

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raised at our community Bible 
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Curiosity is about some of the 
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thing. 
The most important thing that we

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can do with this text is ask 
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How do we actually live this 
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So as we do that, we are going 
to walk through the text to make

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sure we have a good 
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particulars because there are 
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bit of context for a fuller 
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So the first section here, it 
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So if you notice, love your 
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hate you, bless those who curse 
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cheek, turn to them the other. 
If someone takes your coats, do.

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I can't really circle that whole
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Do not withhold your shirt from 
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Give to everyone who asks you, 
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to you, do not demand it back. 
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them do to you. 
Like it. 

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The amount of action that's 
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The amount of the amount of 
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indicates that this is something
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practice. 
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metaphor. 
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work out how to actually do in 
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Well, one of the things that can
be a little confusing is that we

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talked about this on Wednesday 
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little bit not the best when it 
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We talk about how we love our 
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also we love our spouse. 
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Whereas in the Greek there's 
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word love. 
There's storage, which is a 

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familial parental love. 
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love, passionate love. 
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between friends. 
But we're not talking about this

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kind of when we say love your 
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any of those. 
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having to love our enemies as we
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friends or even, or even yeah, a
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It's nothing like that. 
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agape. 
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love. 
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selfless, it's transcendence. 
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feeling or even merit. 
It's often categorized as as the

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type of love that God has for 
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And here we see it as the type 
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his followers of Jesus to live 
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Jesus is calling us to a love 
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I don't know of anyone who has 
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to someone who hates them based 
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It just won't happen. 
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This is an act of the will. 
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that as we go into this because 
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that this love is the same love 
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family. 
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It is actually freeing for us to
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we're talking about is does not 
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and affection for those who 
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intent toward you. 
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it to be effectual. 
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your enemies do good to those 
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we are actively seeking their 
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We're actively seeking and 
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That's how we should understand 
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talking about here. 
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because it's what Jesus calls us
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do regardless of how we feel. 
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important question. 
Who is my enemy? 

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It's not language we use often 
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Who is my enemy? 
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lot. 
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works of fiction, films, shows, 
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is a very clear, very obvious 
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They're the ones doing the bad 
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And sometimes, you know, 
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bit and the bad guy ends up 
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ends up being the bad guy. 
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always an obvious enemy by the 
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and the Kingdom is restored to 
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That's not most of our reality 
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In Jesus's day though. 
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present threat to the people 
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When they heard Jesus say Love 
your enemies, they would have 

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likely heard love your Roman 
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That's what they would have 
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Love the people that are 
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oppress them. 
Love the people that are 

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exorbitantly taxing and 
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Love the people that are causing
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This was not theoretical for 
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Sometimes it feels a little 
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for them. 
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certainly been factions within 
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there would have been maybe some
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There was, you know, groups like
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Essenes. 
There was no shortage of people 

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to have disagreement with, even 
hate filled and violent 

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disagreements. 
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explosive for his followers. 
Explosive. 

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Their minds were being filled 
automatically with people who 

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had actively seeked to harm and 
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And depending on the life you've
lived, that may not be your 

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reality. 
And depending on the life you've

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lived, maybe that is your 
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reality. 
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it pretty good here in Guelph. 
It's not perfect. 

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Cost of living has become an 
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There are challenges that we all
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imminent threat of occupation at
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To clarify that, we may have 
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have political disagreements, 
policy disagreements, but I have

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never looked at an average 
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some disagreements with and said
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Hasn't happened, but when we 
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the Jewish community who have 
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anti-Semitic thought and action?
Even for those who have nothing 

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to do with what's happening in 
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What about the Palestinian 
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face violence and starvation at 
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Or what about our black siblings
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racial injustice? 
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world where they face 
persecution and violence and the

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threat of death and imprisonment
just simply for reading the 

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Scriptures. 
If I were to create an 

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exhaustive list, we would not be
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So if I had to not say the thing
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when I talked about that, just 
forgive me. 

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I can only say so many things. 
The fact that there is so much 

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of this only strengthens Jesus's
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Countless people groups around 
the world face genuine hatred 

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and violence on a daily basis. 
They are enemies in the same 

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sense that Jesus is hears, would
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But I go back to the question, 
do I have enemies? 

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Do you have enemies? 
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I have people in my life that 
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I also have people in my life 
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I've been affected by people 
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enemy. 
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where arguably I was the enemy, 
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I just think it's worth taking a
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about what that looks like for 
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terminology. 
What do we mean when we say the 

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word love? 
What do we mean when we say 

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enemy? 
The terms can be a little bit 

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nonspecific, a little bit 
nebulous until we put a little 

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bit of skin on them. 
So I I've worked on sort of 

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defining this a little bit. 
This is not perfect, but it's 

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sort of like I'm workshopping 
this definition a little bit. 

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It's this unconditionally love 
and actively seek good for those

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who seek to work against you. 
Bless them, pray for them, and 

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then Jesus gets very, very 
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Look at these examples. 
So at first one, if someone 

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slaps you on one cheek, turn to 
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Now this is a back of the hand 
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OK, not inherently violent, like
you're not going to kill or 

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knock someone out that way, but 
there's obviously some 

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physicality to it. 
The intent was to send a 

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message. 
This would have been understood 

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as more of an insult. 
Now the Bible project, they call

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it the severest public affront 
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So this was meant to be a public
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were backhandedly slapped you 
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insulted. 
It was meant to demean and 

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humiliate and Jesus says give 
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A couple of things here that I 
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see and understand this and the 
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Jesus is calling his followers 
to confound the person to 

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subvert their expectations. 
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the person is actually 
reclaiming their agency by 

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outright rejecting their 
insults. 

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And I want to visualize this, so
I'm going to invite someone up 

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and slap them Anderson. 
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actually going to do it. 
I so, but I actually, I'm a 

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visual person. 
I needed like a little bit of a 

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visualization for what this 
looks like. 

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So if I were to backhandedly 
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that, right? 
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give me his other cheek, his 
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And what I would be forced to do
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have to use the front of my hand
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hand. 
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question in that culture. 
So I would have to use the palm 

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of my hand on that side. 
Thank you, Anderson. 

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So I primed him for that. 
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that was coming, texted him 
yesterday and said, hey, can I 

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slap you tomorrow at church? 
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was actually a symbolic thing 
that would suggest I am actually

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your equal. 
So if you're going to slap me 

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with your palm, it tells you. 
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that person and telling the 
people around that I if you're 

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going to stop me again, do it. 
But that makes me an equal. 

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I am on equal footing with you. 
So again, is this is this idea 

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of the person reclaiming what 
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They're not just sitting down 
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They're saying I will not play 
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the level, offer the other 
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asks, and even if they take 
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weight over you. 
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control over you. 
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giving the coats. 
Says if someone gives If someone

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takes your coats, do not 
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This would have likely led to a 
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I'm not going to use a visual 
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It's kind of like the person 
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unjustly take my coat, why don't
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You know, how about you just 
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It's an exceptionally vulnerable
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considering that those articles 
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keep them warm at night as well.
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say it this way. 
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vulnerability forces an 
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his callous greed in literally 
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other person's back. 
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generosity would have would 
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against their opponents. 
Tight fisted, grasping. 

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This person was confronted with 
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the reality is more often than 
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or the cloak as a collateral for
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The person was extorting them. 
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That's what it was. 
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power, a Roman centurion or 
soldier, they would go to your 

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average citizen and they would 
say, hey, I saw you do that 

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thing over there. 
I need you to I want to arrest 

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you, but I need your cloak. 
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shakedown. 
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subversive, creative, nonviolent
resistance that is 

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simultaneously generous, loving,
but also confronts the 

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perpetrator. 
In both of these examples, Jesus

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is not suggesting that we become
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He's not suggesting that we 
Simply put up with coercion and 

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violence. 
He's not suggesting that we 

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remain in an abusive 
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I want to make that abundantly 
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This is not about refusing to 
defend yourself if someone comes

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at you with a baseball bat. 
And it isn't about being devoid 

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of boundaries. 
That's not what Jesus is saying 

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here, and to excuse that would 
be abuse and coercion in of 

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itself. 
Jesus is showing us a different 

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way in the life of the Kingdom, 
that violence and greed will 

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only be. 
Get more violence and more greed

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and that we don't have to play 
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reciprocate. 
We can choose a better path. 

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And then Jesus says at the very 
bottom here, Oh, I gotta go back

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here, says do to others as you 
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What do we call that? 
Golden rule? 

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Golden rule so. 
Some of you may know that this 

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is basically a codified 
universal law. 

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Nearly every belief system, 
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has some version of this rule. 
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when he says the Golden Rule, it
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It would have been common 
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In some ways, people of all 
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and loving, but as we'll see in 
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and do something different as he
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Jesus is doing what he does best
and what he's doing all the way 

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along here. 
He is subverting expectations. 

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He's taking this well known 
principle and he expands upon it

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in a way that's challenging to 
even the most moral and even the

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most ethical person you could 
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Think about the best person you 
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Think about the most like 
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Jesus is going to be challenging
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One commentator, they say it 
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They say the Christian ethic is 
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It's based on the extra thing. 
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principle and in some ways he 
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Now this second section, it sort
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want us to draw our attention 
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So if you love those who love 
you, what credit is that to you?

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So what credit is that to you? 
Repeat that. 

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And then he says, even sinners, 
even sinners love, love those 

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who love them. 
And if you do good to those who 

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are good to you again, what 
credit is that to them? 

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What crate is that to you? 
Again, even sinners do that. 

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again what credit is that to 
you? 

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And again, even sinners land to 
sinners expecting to be paid in 

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full. 
In the Kingdom of God, we don't 

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just look after one another. 
We don't just love people who we

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get along with in our affinity 
group, we don't just do nice 

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things for those who can 
reciprocate, and we don't just 

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lend to those who we know can 
give it back. 

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We are not a bank that needs 
collateral. 

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Yes, everyone does that, St. 
Sinner alike. 

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This is nothing new. 
Jesus, however, is doing 

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something new. 
This is what he's doing. 

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To love only those who love us, 
to do good to only those who can

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do that do good to us, to lend 
to only those who can repay. 

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That is common. 
It's easy. 

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It requires no extra grace on 
our behalf. 

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Three times, he says. 
What credit is that to you? 

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That was a question we asked on 
Wednesday night because we were 

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kind of curious about that. 
It's curious with the language 

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of it. 
It, it seems almost economical. 

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But what's interesting is that 
word credits. 

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I don't know what I just did. 
Grandma need to come and help 

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me. 
Nope, Nope. 

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Grants coming. 
I'll just, I'll just keep going 

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of that word credit. 
It's one word that I did not 

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expect. 
It's the word grace. 

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It's the word chorus. 
Thank. 

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Thank you, Sir. 
I'm not So another way to say 

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this. 
So again, credits equals grace, 

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which is the Greek word chorus. 
Another way to say this might be

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this. 
When you're only doing what is 

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common to everyone, how is that 
extending grace? 

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How is that showcasing 
generosity? 

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Even even sinners do that. 
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This is common. 
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uncommon because again, Jesus is
talking about love that is not 

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love that is just common love. 
It is agape love, transcendence,

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unconditional, unmerited love. 
And the implication is that the 

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stakes are greater and higher 
and wider with this sort of 

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love. 
It's not a love that is 

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contained to those who just 
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It's a love that is not. 
It's not a love that is merely 

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reciprocal or transactional. 
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He says, But love your enemies, 
do good to them and lend to them

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without expecting to get 
anything back. 

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It almost kind of feels like 
this is like his, like, summary 

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statement. 
He's like, OK folks, let's just 

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recap real quick, you know, love
your enemies, do good, lend. 

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Just making sure we got the 
points. 

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I will notice that that last 
little bit here, lending to them

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without expecting anything in 
return. 

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That to me brings back memories 
of all the way back in Luke 

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chapter 4 when Jesus begins his 
ministry, he opens the scroll 

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from Isaiah and he reads about 
the Kingdom being enacted and 

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the year of the Lord's favor 
favor or the year of Jubilee, 

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which would have erased debts. 
Kind of has that vibe to it. 

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A little bit of saying lend 
knowing that you won't get it 

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back, but he ends this section 
by saying then your reward will 

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be great. 
You will be children of the Most

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High because he is kind to the 
ungrateful and the wicked. 

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Be merciful, just as your Father
is merciful. 

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Now we might read this so the 
word and might trip us up a 

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little bit and can mean a bunch 
of things. 

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It could also be read as that 
is. 

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So imagine this. 
Then your reward will be great, 

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that is you will be children of 
the Most High. 

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So it's cause and effect. 
But wait, aren't we supposed to 

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be doing all of this as Jesus 
was saying earlier, not 

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expecting anything? 
Return yes. 

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And isn't all of us not supposed
to be transactional? 

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Yes, what Jesus is doing here is
he is simply stating a reality. 

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He is stating a fact that when 
we live in this way, we live as 

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children of God. 
We live as recipients and heirs 

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of grace, as citizens of the 
Kingdom, even when we don't 

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deserve it. 
And he calls us to treat others 

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in this same way, to be 
merciful, to give unmerited, 

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unwarranted love and grace to 
those who do not deserve it. 

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You're all good. 
It's a lot like it feels 

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weighty. 
It feels really difficult. 

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This sort of agape love is not 
difficult to comprehend or 

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understand, but it is difficult 
to do. 

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It is scarce. 
It's one thing to understand, 

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it's another thing to do, 
someone at my table group 

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actually said. 
And I agree with them in some 

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ways, they said. 
Doesn't it feel impossible? 

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Like, yeah, it kind of does. 
I wouldn't blame you if you felt

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like that. 
But what I would not want is for

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us walking away from today 
feeling like it's all futile. 

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We just put our hands up and 
walk away. 

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Like I just, I can't do it, 
can't do it. 

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We shouldn't even try. 
We can't do that. 

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The stakes are too high. 
If there's anything that 

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followers of Jesus have been 
accused of over the years, it's 

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that we are not living out this 
very command right. 

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We've become well known to many 
over the generations as 

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hypocrites and fraudulence and 
worse, so we can't just afford 

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to ignore this because it's 
hard. 

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If we are Jesus's 
representatives on earth, this 

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is mission critical. 
So with the time we have left, I

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want to get us thinking a little
bit, a little bit about how we 

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actually do this work. 
I wanna get return to that 

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question. 
Who is my enemy? 

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It matters as we think about how
to live this out. 

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So who are the people who have 
caused you harm, whether 

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emotional or physical? 
Who are the people over the 

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years that have insulted you in 
some way or another? 

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Who are the people who seem bent
on making your life miserable? 

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Does anyone have anyone in their
life that they just? 

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It seems like maybe it's a 
coworker or something like that.

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Don't raise your hands that just
they make your life miserable. 

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Now, it's kind of a light 
version of this, I recognize, 

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but I just want to, I want, I 
want to. 

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If we can't do it in the small 
things, we're going to start 

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doing the bigger things, right? 
Chances are you could probably 

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think of a situation or two. 
So here are a few ways in which 

454
00:30:14,230 --> 00:30:17,420
we can embody what Jesus is 
challenging us with here. 

455
00:30:19,340 --> 00:30:25,190
Firstly, is this resist the 
temptation to fight back, as we 

456
00:30:25,200 --> 00:30:28,290
saw in the example of the slap 
and the cloak. 

457
00:30:30,240 --> 00:30:34,990
There is a season in my life 
where I used to be pretty feisty

458
00:30:35,040 --> 00:30:38,430
online and on social media. 
I occasionally get myself in 

459
00:30:38,440 --> 00:30:40,230
trouble where I'd get a friend 
texting me. 

460
00:30:40,240 --> 00:30:43,830
But like, that was a little bit 
a little bit too much, buddy. 

461
00:30:45,490 --> 00:30:48,330
I wanted to win the argument. 
I was often fighting with other 

462
00:30:48,340 --> 00:30:51,330
Christians, by the way, not just
like anybody, which I know that 

463
00:30:51,340 --> 00:30:55,420
makes it better or worse, but I 
wanted to the bare minimum. 

464
00:30:55,430 --> 00:30:57,600
I wanted them to concede my 
points. 

465
00:30:58,210 --> 00:31:03,220
I generally wouldn't insult, but
I was pretty snarky sometimes. 

466
00:31:05,710 --> 00:31:09,400
Sometimes, even when I was being
totally earnest, though, I would

467
00:31:09,410 --> 00:31:13,890
receive the most like, just 
bonkers responses from often 

468
00:31:13,900 --> 00:31:17,520
Christians. 
One time they insulted my hair. 

469
00:31:20,080 --> 00:31:22,270
That was the line for me. 
That was just that was that was 

470
00:31:22,280 --> 00:31:25,150
too much like, look, I got one 
good feature and it's my hair. 

471
00:31:25,160 --> 00:31:29,670
OK. 
Now, to be fair, it was like a 

472
00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:31,450
COVID cut that I had to do by 
myself. 

473
00:31:31,460 --> 00:31:33,490
So like maybe that was 
justified. 

474
00:31:33,500 --> 00:31:37,720
I don't know. 
So this would happen as I was 

475
00:31:37,730 --> 00:31:40,900
having like genuine discourse 
with someone and they would, I 

476
00:31:40,910 --> 00:31:42,950
would try to be like, I would 
like, you know, sit there for a 

477
00:31:42,960 --> 00:31:44,240
second. 
I would like do some deep 

478
00:31:44,250 --> 00:31:46,160
breathing. 
I'd pray, I'd be like, OK, I 

479
00:31:46,170 --> 00:31:48,260
want to engage in in a healthy 
way here. 

480
00:31:48,330 --> 00:31:52,510
And then still they would come 
at me and insult me. 

481
00:31:52,850 --> 00:31:58,480
Not just the hair, I think some 
people just thrive on conflict 

482
00:31:58,630 --> 00:32:03,490
and even cruelty at times. 
But as I have attempted to love 

483
00:32:03,500 --> 00:32:08,130
as Christ calls me to, I've 
learned to just start responding

484
00:32:08,140 --> 00:32:10,730
in a different way with people 
who seem bent on 

485
00:32:10,740 --> 00:32:14,930
misunderstanding you. 
I try to respond with some 

486
00:32:14,940 --> 00:32:16,620
version of the following, and 
you can try this. 

487
00:32:16,630 --> 00:32:19,540
You can try this in real life, 
you can try it online. 

488
00:32:19,550 --> 00:32:25,060
Whatever I just said, be well. 
I hope you have a really good 

489
00:32:25,070 --> 00:32:27,130
day. 
And I try to really mean it. 

490
00:32:27,210 --> 00:32:29,080
Again, this is not about 
feelings, right? 

491
00:32:29,150 --> 00:32:31,740
We can't always muster up a 
feeling in that moment. 

492
00:32:31,810 --> 00:32:35,180
But I can choose to say I don't 
want to play this game anymore. 

493
00:32:35,310 --> 00:32:38,000
I don't think it's healthy for 
me to engage in this way. 

494
00:32:38,050 --> 00:32:41,720
I'm going to wish you well and 
truly try to meet it with all my

495
00:32:41,730 --> 00:32:44,630
heart. 
I hope you have a great day. 

496
00:32:49,430 --> 00:32:53,400
It's a hard exercise for me to 
be able to let go, to follow 

497
00:32:53,410 --> 00:32:57,720
Jesus's call, to choose to love 
that person regardless of 

498
00:32:57,730 --> 00:33:01,010
whether they deserve it. 
After insulting my hair. 

499
00:33:04,580 --> 00:33:09,750
Also, this is interesting. 
It often makes them really upset

500
00:33:10,120 --> 00:33:13,070
when you don't play the game. 
That's not the intention. 

501
00:33:13,080 --> 00:33:16,310
That's that's just a byproduct. 
And that says more about them 

502
00:33:16,360 --> 00:33:18,550
than it does about anything else
that's happening there. 

503
00:33:18,780 --> 00:33:20,610
It says something about what's 
happening in their hearts. 

504
00:33:22,050 --> 00:33:24,860
I know this is a little bit of a
silly example, but honestly, 

505
00:33:24,870 --> 00:33:29,680
it's a significant way that we 
can maintain our dignity and not

506
00:33:29,690 --> 00:33:31,580
play the game that they would 
have us play. 

507
00:33:31,590 --> 00:33:33,880
We don't need to play it. 
We can be different. 

508
00:33:33,890 --> 00:33:38,360
We can be uncommon. 
We'll often face fights that 

509
00:33:38,370 --> 00:33:41,220
were never gonna be able to win.
So instead of winning, try to 

510
00:33:41,230 --> 00:33:43,430
play their game. 
So stop trying to play the game 

511
00:33:43,440 --> 00:33:48,220
and play a different game now. 
I give one example here, but 

512
00:33:48,230 --> 00:33:50,500
your situation in context may be
very different. 

513
00:33:51,540 --> 00:33:54,290
How you respond may need to be 
very different. 

514
00:33:54,300 --> 00:33:59,950
And to do this well over the 
long haul, we need Holy Spirit 

515
00:33:59,960 --> 00:34:06,700
inspired creativity and we need 
to be reflective rather than 

516
00:34:06,710 --> 00:34:11,210
reactive. 
Here's another way we can live 

517
00:34:11,219 --> 00:34:17,510
this out. 
Be gracious and generous even to

518
00:34:17,520 --> 00:34:20,300
the undeserving. 
Now I put undeserving in 

519
00:34:20,310 --> 00:34:23,590
quotation marks because I think 
that's a highly subjective word.

520
00:34:24,270 --> 00:34:27,560
Who made me? 
Who made you the arbiters of who

521
00:34:27,570 --> 00:34:30,580
is worthy or unworthy of 
generosity and grace? 

522
00:34:30,750 --> 00:34:33,310
The whole point is that we are 
all undeserving. 

523
00:34:34,969 --> 00:34:39,000
At my previous church, we were 
in a high traffic area downtown 

524
00:34:39,010 --> 00:34:42,770
Guelph, and despite our best 
efforts to keep things locked 

525
00:34:42,780 --> 00:34:45,170
down, things would often go 
missing. 

526
00:34:47,320 --> 00:34:53,030
Yeah, Kendra knows. 
Kendra knows one day we had we 

527
00:34:53,040 --> 00:34:55,190
had a computer go missing. 
It was like our computer that 

528
00:34:55,199 --> 00:34:58,110
double does all like the screens
for worship on Sundays and our 

529
00:34:58,120 --> 00:35:01,390
live stream and videos etcetera.
It was gone. 

530
00:35:02,330 --> 00:35:04,320
So I looked up the security 
camera. 

531
00:35:05,130 --> 00:35:08,900
We had one kind of like just 
facing kind of the exterior door

532
00:35:08,910 --> 00:35:12,580
out of the sanctuary and I see 
two teenagers now. 

533
00:35:12,590 --> 00:35:15,100
We had a program that was 
running in the IT was a upper 

534
00:35:15,110 --> 00:35:17,430
grand district school board 
program that was running out of 

535
00:35:17,440 --> 00:35:18,890
the school. 
And I kind of looked and said, 

536
00:35:18,900 --> 00:35:21,270
OK, it's none of them. 
I asked. 

537
00:35:21,280 --> 00:35:23,220
The teacher said, no, it's none 
of them. 

538
00:35:23,770 --> 00:35:26,240
So I called up the downtown beat
cop. 

539
00:35:26,250 --> 00:35:28,960
He was, he was well known and 
actually very well loved among 

540
00:35:28,970 --> 00:35:32,840
the people. 
He came over and I, I showed him

541
00:35:32,850 --> 00:35:35,120
the footage and he said I know 
who those people are. 

542
00:35:35,520 --> 00:35:37,960
I know their names here, their 
names and so and so and so and 

543
00:35:37,970 --> 00:35:39,750
so. 
And actually I was just chatting

544
00:35:39,760 --> 00:35:41,870
with them a few minutes ago at 
one of the drop in centres. 

545
00:35:42,040 --> 00:35:44,950
I said this is great. 
So, so he said let me know, I'll

546
00:35:44,960 --> 00:35:48,190
go talk to them. 
Let me know if you want to press

547
00:35:48,200 --> 00:35:51,960
charges. 
I didn't feel good about that. 

548
00:35:52,270 --> 00:35:54,840
I I did not feel right about 
that. 

549
00:35:56,080 --> 00:35:59,530
I was sure, and I was correct in
that assumption that the 

550
00:35:59,540 --> 00:36:02,140
computer was long gone. 
This is what happens, right? 

551
00:36:02,150 --> 00:36:05,470
You you know someone grabs 
something and what could have 

552
00:36:05,480 --> 00:36:10,080
gone on Facebook marketplace for
600 bucks, you sell for 100 or 

553
00:36:10,090 --> 00:36:15,650
$200 for whatever you need. 
I knew it was long gone, but I 

554
00:36:15,660 --> 00:36:18,620
wanted to meet with them. 
So we actually ended up meeting 

555
00:36:18,630 --> 00:36:21,250
a few times. 
I, I, he gave me their name and 

556
00:36:21,260 --> 00:36:24,270
I and I like, I found, I went on
Facebook and I found them and I 

557
00:36:24,280 --> 00:36:26,580
said, hey, I'm just gonna shoot 
the messages until they respond.

558
00:36:26,660 --> 00:36:30,300
And so I was persistent. 
So, but eventually they did. 

559
00:36:30,310 --> 00:36:33,030
And they're like, yeah, yeah, 
I'll, I'll come, we'll come. 

560
00:36:33,040 --> 00:36:34,730
And I met with them a couple 
times. 

561
00:36:35,800 --> 00:36:37,330
We had some really interesting 
chats. 

562
00:36:37,990 --> 00:36:41,380
I got to share a little bit of 
my story with them, my faith 

563
00:36:41,390 --> 00:36:43,810
journey. 
I got to hear some of their 

564
00:36:43,820 --> 00:36:47,760
story. 
As you can imagine, their story 

565
00:36:47,770 --> 00:36:51,900
was filled with some difficults 
and hard, hard things. 

566
00:36:55,290 --> 00:36:59,940
In some small way, I think I got
to speak life into them in some 

567
00:36:59,950 --> 00:37:02,760
way. 
That was almost 10 years ago and

568
00:37:02,770 --> 00:37:05,690
I still often think about where 
they've landed now. 

569
00:37:07,120 --> 00:37:10,430
I wish I could have kept in 
touch in some way, but I I hope 

570
00:37:10,480 --> 00:37:12,460
that I made a difference in 
their life in some way. 

571
00:37:14,760 --> 00:37:17,850
Now I can't claim that that has 
always been the case for me. 

572
00:37:18,880 --> 00:37:22,650
There have been times where I 
have sought retribution and 

573
00:37:22,660 --> 00:37:27,080
taken justice into my own hands,
but I'm grateful for situations 

574
00:37:27,090 --> 00:37:31,970
like this where we get a very 
tangible opportunity to be 

575
00:37:31,980 --> 00:37:35,480
merciful as God is merciful. 
Yeah. 

576
00:37:39,200 --> 00:37:46,340
Do you know someone in your life
that is in need of that kind of 

577
00:37:46,350 --> 00:37:51,150
mercy, that kind of grace, that 
kind of forgiveness? 

578
00:37:55,690 --> 00:37:59,390
Now, if you're someone who's 
very justice oriented, you're 

579
00:37:59,400 --> 00:38:02,010
probably like getting a little 
bit amped up right now. 

580
00:38:02,020 --> 00:38:04,820
You're like, but that's not 
fair. 

581
00:38:06,650 --> 00:38:10,550
These situations can be a pretty
tough pill to swallow for some 

582
00:38:10,560 --> 00:38:13,090
of us who are not prone to act 
this way, which I think is 

583
00:38:13,100 --> 00:38:17,590
probably a lot of us. 
This is about stepping out in 

584
00:38:17,600 --> 00:38:22,850
faith, trusting God that our 
hearts will be transformed when 

585
00:38:22,860 --> 00:38:27,840
we choose to love this agape 
love, when we choose to forgive 

586
00:38:27,880 --> 00:38:32,970
and when we choose mercy. 
When Jesus told His followers to

587
00:38:32,980 --> 00:38:36,360
love their enemies, I have to 
think he knows what he was 

588
00:38:36,370 --> 00:38:39,880
doing. 
That he was asking something 

589
00:38:39,930 --> 00:38:44,190
hard, that he was asking 
something unprecedented even. 

590
00:38:45,800 --> 00:38:51,270
But Jesus is inviting us to 
participate in his Kingdom. 

591
00:38:51,310 --> 00:38:56,820
That's what he's inviting us to.
It's his Kingdom. 

592
00:38:57,270 --> 00:39:02,140
And because it's Jesus's 
Kingdom, He will not ask us to 

593
00:39:02,150 --> 00:39:06,400
do something that He himself is 
not willing and in fact did not 

594
00:39:06,410 --> 00:39:07,930
do. 
Merciful as. 

595
00:39:07,940 --> 00:39:12,120
God is merciful because Jesus 
went before us and He showed us 

596
00:39:12,240 --> 00:39:17,140
what that mercy looks like. 
He did this with his healing of 

597
00:39:17,150 --> 00:39:19,750
the sick. 
He did this with the forgiving 

598
00:39:19,760 --> 00:39:23,000
of the tax collectors. 
He did this by associating with 

599
00:39:23,080 --> 00:39:27,310
lowlifes and nobodies as well as
the least of these. 

600
00:39:28,240 --> 00:39:30,010
And most of all, he did. 
This at the cross. 

601
00:39:31,620 --> 00:39:33,270
At the. 
Cross, he cried. 

602
00:39:33,280 --> 00:39:37,050
Out in front of the people who 
were literally murdering him, he

603
00:39:37,060 --> 00:39:40,130
said. 
Father forgive them, for they do

604
00:39:40,140 --> 00:39:44,350
not know what they are doing 
extending. 

605
00:39:44,360 --> 00:39:47,370
Mercy. 
Toward. 

606
00:39:47,380 --> 00:39:52,050
Those who were killing him with 
Jesus as our. 

607
00:39:52,060 --> 00:39:57,020
Forerunner, as the one who 
extend that same mercy to me and

608
00:39:57,030 --> 00:40:04,510
to you, We have our mandates. 
We have our example and by the 

609
00:40:04,520 --> 00:40:05,850
strength. 
And power of the Holy. 

610
00:40:05,860 --> 00:40:11,040
Spirits, we can go out to our 
families, to our neighborhoods, 

611
00:40:12,130 --> 00:40:13,720
to our schools. 
To our. 

612
00:40:13,730 --> 00:40:18,230
Places of work wherever we find 
ourselves. 

613
00:40:19,810 --> 00:40:26,120
And we can, unconditionally. 
Love and actively seek the good 

614
00:40:26,170 --> 00:40:29,810
for everyone, even those who are
working against us. 

615
00:40:31,600 --> 00:40:38,650
Let's pray. 
God, this is a. 

616
00:40:38,700 --> 00:40:46,210
Difficult word. 
It's not something that we. 

617
00:40:46,220 --> 00:40:52,940
Can do on our own strength. 
Or through just mustering. 

618
00:40:52,950 --> 00:40:56,770
Up the right feelings. 
God, it's. 

619
00:40:56,830 --> 00:40:59,860
Something that we. 
Need your help. 

620
00:41:06,910 --> 00:41:09,940
As we take a moment. 
Here, in the quiet of this 

621
00:41:09,950 --> 00:41:15,360
space, to think upon the ways in
which we may need to have this 

622
00:41:15,370 --> 00:41:17,620
agape love for someone in our 
world. 

623
00:41:20,060 --> 00:41:22,960
Would you? 
Empower. 

624
00:41:22,970 --> 00:41:29,760
Us by your spirits. 
Would you allow us to experience

625
00:41:29,830 --> 00:41:34,300
all that you have for us, the 
fullness of your love, which is 

626
00:41:34,310 --> 00:41:48,130
even love for the undeserving? 
God, we pray that you would. 

627
00:41:49,330 --> 00:41:51,130
Speak to. 
US this week. 

628
00:41:52,500 --> 00:41:54,130
As we. 
Consider how to do. 

629
00:41:54,140 --> 00:41:58,070
This it feels impossible 
sometimes. 

630
00:41:59,910 --> 00:42:01,720
But God where where with things 
that. 

631
00:42:01,730 --> 00:42:05,240
Seem impossible for us. 
We know that you can make these 

632
00:42:05,250 --> 00:42:08,280
things possible. 
Would you help us now? 

633
00:42:08,290 --> 00:42:11,720
As we. 
Seek to live out all of what you

634
00:42:11,730 --> 00:42:15,700
ask of us in the Scriptures by 
your spirits. 

635
00:42:17,670 --> 00:42:20,980
Amen. 
Invite Christian. 

636
00:42:20,990 --> 00:42:21,910
Now it'll be us in the. 
Prayers.

